Sorry, missed your phone call.  Not too many people to feel happy about. Nevertheless.  Got some enlightment today about the "purpose". It is not "them" who defines it.  It all comes back to us. I can clearly see his happiness depending on the move of my finger (literally). They are weak and pretentiously bossy.  Reality gives us the remote control.  We are not trained to be in control.  Therefore, we are passing ( as always).  One day we will realize the strength of the girls' power.  One day...