Ну, я скорее за романтиццкие отношения, а если хотеть этой "романтики" с мужчиной, то лучше работает принцип "always say less than necessary", чем наоборот. Это я так, шучу, вот тебе для завершения шутки:When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control.  Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike.  Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less.  The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.