Так девочки, я не понимаю почему разговор перешел от двух мужиков, к мужу. Вы насмотрелись кино со слежкой и т.д. Мы уже почти 2 года не живем вместе. Трудности были вообще еще дольше. Легально, в Канаде (по крайней мере в Бр Колумбии) когда один из спаузов изменяет (на что вы все и намекаете) это по отношению к детям и разводу не имеет вообще ничего. И я не изменяю, я живу, как и написано в separation agreement: "...The parties intend to continue to live separate and apart according to the terms and conditions described in this agreement.  Each shall be free from interference, authority and control by the other as if each were unmarried. " AS IF EACH WERE UNMARRIED!!! Here's some more:http://www.bcfamilylawresource.com/08/0803body.htmIn Canada, all divorces proceed on a no-fault basis, regardless of the ground of divorce relied upon. "No-fault," in this context, means that the ground of divorce has nothing at all to do with the court's consideration of issues like custody, guardianship, access, child support, spousal support and the division of the family assets. No matter how upset someone is by her spouse's adultery, for example, she will not receive more spousal support or a greater share of the assets because of it. The Supreme Court of Canada's 2006 decision in Leskun v. Leskun confirmed this general rule.