Yes, I am sure these girls exist but I never actually met one in person: most of my friends are overachievers to say the least.    There is nothing wrong with moving to Europe as long as you are doing it for the right reason.  You are way too young to put someone else's needs ahead of yours - there will be plenty of time for that. Guys come a dime a dozen but you may not be able to follow your dream later on in life.  Finally, if he was the one, you would not be asking the question to begin with.   By the way, is the dude really Polish? and if so, his name is not Andrew, is it?