149711-when-i-get-to-pass-level-50

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Will I be interested?
 
I really dont know, right now my highest level character is 32, I have 4 characters in total, each one different from each other,
 
I like the game, I am the type of player who never gets invited to a dungeon because I like to kill anything and everything that moves, I like to collect everything, I love to explore everything and seems that after level 50 is a mad dash to collect what you need to whatever is you need to finish.
 
I dunno, I am maybe in the wrong game, but I love to explore, I love to climb to the top of the hills trying to find out what lies beyond this or that point and many players dont like that.
 
I like to be in a guild which is active but not demanding. Right now it is hard to do that because every guild has its own drama or want to conduct a lying detection test before you can even join them.
 
I just joined a new one but it is hard to get anyone to talk to the new guy except the polite "welcome", never again you hear anyone talking to you, even when you ask questions.
 
I dunno maybe I am getting to old for this type of game, everything now is just like in High school, this little click controls everything and if you are not part of it, you just a number in the guild to help them unlock stuff.
 
So I am not rushing into getting to level 50, maybe I will never get there, dunno yet.
 
Oh well, just a small rant from an older player. Not about the game itself, just about life in the new era of MMOs? Who knows?	
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From my impression it doesn't seem like Wildstar is a game full of youngsters, quite the opposite actually.
So I don't think it has anything to do with your age, seems like you just had bad luck with guilds. Keep on looking and if you are lucky perhaps you can get invite to some guild people in this forum are in. 	
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			Thank you, appreciate it.	
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It can take some time to find the right group of people, but the search is worth it. I doubt anyone would consider me a younger player and I have had no problem finding drama free, grown ups like myself to play with.
 
The thing about guilds that ask questions about you or have actual applications is that they care enough to put in the effort to maintain their "vibe".
It may seem like a lot of work just to join a group playing a game but those are usually the groups with less drama and good structure. Find a guild that wants to chat or talk to you for a minute before just throwing invites to everyone under the sun and you will most likely find a place with a good atmosphere and a purpose. Remember you are interviewing them too, ask them some questions about their goals as a guild and obviously don't join a hardcore raiding guild if you want to be a casual player.
 
Good Luck !
			
				
	Edited February 16, 2016 by Rampaige	
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Sometimes, when you join a guild it takes a bit of time to get into the flow of things. This isn't WS, it's just people. It takes time to form connections, and the nature of the guild changes as people come and go, which happens even in the most stable of guilds (it's a video game, not an obligation, and people will always be moving on). We've seen people in TCO join up and make connections, and also some people who never really fit and just moved on. To which I always wish them well- we can't be all things to everyone.
 
Of course, the larger the guild is, the more there will be cliques, the smaller it is, the more likely it is there won't be many people on all at once (especially non prime time). If it's a raiding guild, a lot of the players will be on for raids, and sparsely throughout the rest of the week. So you have to try things out and find a guild that meets your needs. Also, there are various circles that might help you meet folks.
 
I don't think it's fair to say that all (or even most) guilds have drama. Unless you classify drama as "a disagreement from time to time". That's going to happen most any time you get a sizable group of people together. But most of the guilds I'm familiar with seem to chug along nicely, and people enjoy one another.	
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			You have to be willing to compromise with the group/guild on your gameplay if you commit to a group activity.  Hey, nothing wrong with exploring, collecting, and killing everything in sight, I do that too.  But you also have to know when, and be willing, to curb that impulse.  People in the group you are with are most likely doing the same thing with compromising on their gameplay, they are doing things to benefit the group that may not be how they usually like to play, but it's something we as adult players need to learn to do and accept.  	
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You have to be willing to compromise with the group/guild on your gameplay if you commit to a group activity.  Hey, nothing wrong with exploring, collecting, and killing everything in sight, I do that too.  But you also have to know when, and be willing, to curb that impulse.  People in the group you are with are most likely doing the same thing with compromising on their gameplay, they are doing things to benefit the group that may not be how they usually like to play, but it's something we as adult players need to learn to do and accept.  
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			Thank you guys, I think I just needed a pet talk. I really thank you for the encouragement.	
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			i would also add that with your level of characters your best fit would probably be a leveling guild of some type.  this would probably solve the talkative issue you are facing as you would have plenty of other members in a similar situation as yourself with similar in game activities to do.  as you get to 50 you may want to switch to a guild doing the type of endgame activities you are interested in.  Whether it be raiding, pvp, dungeons, rp, housing etc.  finding a guild with like minded people who are interested in doing the same things as yourself will make things better.  Once you hit 50 and start running some group content you will meet other people from guilds that you may get along with and could join.  I find that going into pug content is a great way to meet new people.  we even use this for guild recruitment when it comes to raiding.	
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