Sexuality

Sexuality was the expression of sexual attraction or desire. This could be for an individual of a different gender or sex, of the same gender or sex, or even of a different species. It was a crucial aspect of the psychological examination of humans. (PROSE: Who Killed Kennedy) Sexuality was in truth the sum of a person's emotions, an amalgamation of their energy. (PROSE: Rags) This sexual passion was usually stemmed in the aesthetic beauty of the subject of desire. Vladimir Garudin regarded Dusha as "a Golden Fleece of womanhood", "so infinitely desirable, so infinitely powerful in her beauty". (PROSE: Emotional Chemistry)
It began as, in the words of the Seventh Doctor, "the urge for the alpha-being to mate with other alpha-beings whenever possible, to fight wherever not." (PROSE: Death and Diplomacy) However, in the heat of sexual pleasure, intention most often became muddled, as behaviour neared incomprehensibility, following only passion's dictate and the edict of one's own desire. (PROSE: Erasing Sherlock)
The buttocks were a common focal point of sexuality. (PROSE: Just War, TV: The Unquiet Dead, End of Days, The Coach with the Dragon Tattoo) Jason Kane in Nights of the Perfumed Tentacle commented that he was in total control of his alien lover, as he knew what she wanted. (PROSE: Beige Planet Mars) Carys Fletcher used her sexuality to get into an exclusive bar; she simply kissed the guard, and he let her through. (TV: Day One) In this fashion, sexuality was power.
thumb|Gwen Cooper's first "alien contact". (TV: Day One)
Sexuality also could serve as power in yet another sense. The Sex Gas belonged to a species that fed off orgasmic energy. It therefore came to 21st century Earth, a culture that could easily satisfy its sexual needs, and took over Carys Fletcher. Under its control, she had sex with many men, killing them and turning them to dust in the process. When Gwen Cooper, attracted to the gaseous entity's increased pheromones, began kissing Carys, though, she pulled away, as "it [had] to be a man". (TV: Day One)
Bernice Summerfield found solace in sexual thoughts and dreams when she was feeling lonely or unloved. (PROSE: Death and Diplomacy)
Bernice noted that her husband Jason Kane had "turned himself into a doll for aliens to pleasure themselves with", and had essentially made himself into a product to be consumed by selling pornographic accounts of his encounters "for random strangers to wank over". (PROSE: Sex Secrets of the Robot Replicants)
An android duplicate of Jason — under the alias of Professor Cockshaft — lectured that "Mr Kane's work treats sex as an erasure of the boundaries between the familiar and the foreign, the self and the not-self." Benny, watching the presentation, concurred — the main source of attraction to Jason for her was how different he was to her. (PROSE: Sex Secrets of the Robot Replicants)
Fitz Kreiner once had a dream in which he rubbed buttocks with the Eighth Doctor. When he queried this dream-state Doctor, he was assured that it was not "[his] subconscious telling [him] anything about [his] sexuality". (PROSE: Halflife)
As the Tenth Doctor suggested to Chris Pirelli, teenagers were often confused about their sexuality. He called this "teenage angsty stuff". (PROSE: Forever Autumn) Bernice Summerfield thought that one must at least have suspicions about their sexual preferences by the age of fifteen. (PROSE: Death and Diplomacy) She was glad she'd never have to be a teenager again after meeting Emile Mars-Smith, obviously gay, though he didn't yet know this himself. In fact, Emile never gave it much thought until Tameka Vito confronted him about it. He was at first shocked his sexuality was so obvious, and only then admitted it to himself. He realised that he'd truly known all along:
Even people who identified as heterosexual have been shown to have occasional same-sex tendencies, proving that sexuality was fluid. (TV: Everything Changes, Greeks Bearing Gifts) David Daniels had reportedly "slept with enough straight men to know that hope never died", and did not take someone's choice of category to mean much of anything. (PROSE: Damaged Goods) As Jack Harkness commented to Toshiko Sato upon viewing heterosexual Gwen Cooper kissing Carys, "You people and your quaint little categories." (TV: Day One)
No matter how one identified, they could still derive sexual pleasure from watching people of another orientation. For instance, Fern "touched himself" while watching pornography that depicted sex between a man and a woman, two women, and two men. (PROSE: A Rose by Any Other Name) Owen Harper recorded Gwen Cooper's kiss with Carys Fletcher for later, calling it a "treat". (TV: Day One)
== History ==
According to the Seventh Doctor, the ancient Greeks and Romans linked war with homosexuality. (PROSE: Death and Diplomacy)
Though many rumours claimed that William Shakespeare was homosexual, the Ninth Doctor assured Rose Tyler that he was "very straight". He was, in the words of Rose, "hitting on [her]", (COMIC: A Groatsworth of Wit) and did the same with Martha Jones. Despite this, Shakespeare still flirted with the Tenth Doctor as well, who commented, " academics just punched the air." (TV: The Shakespeare Code)
The Ninth Doctor also implied that Christopher Marlowe was interested in men; (COMIC: A Groatsworth of Wit) in fact, Marlowe flirted extensively with Steven Taylor. (PROSE: The Empire of Glass)
In the 19th century, the Church in Ireland would not permit Brianna and Roisin, two women, to marry. Nevertheless, they became wives on their own terms. (AUDIO: Feast of Fear)
According to Bernice Summerfield, the 1880s "weren't as enlightened" as her time when it came to sexuality. (PROSE: All-Consuming Fire)
In 1869, Gwyneth called Rose Tyler, who was native to the 21st century, "some kind of wild thing" for expressing the criteria she used in picking boys: "good smile, nice bum." (TV: The Unquiet Dead)
Around the 1890s, Warren Gadd targeted gays, and attempted to blackmail Oscar Wilde by threatening to reveal his secret. (AUDIO: Beautiful Things) Vastra and Jenny Flint, however, were married by Christmas of 1892. This couple was same-sex as well as inter-species — Vastra was a Silurian, while Jenny was human. (TV: The Snowmen) An inspector the two worked with could barely take this in. (TV: Vastra Investigates: A Christmas Prequel) Another same-sex couple around this time were Torchwood Three members Alice Guppy and Emily Holroyd. (TV: Fragments)
In the 1920s, Roger Curbishley was forced to keep his relationship with Davenport secret, (TV: The Unicorn and the Wasp) and Angelo Colasanto was not allowed to join the Three Families because he did not hide his relationship with Jack Harkness. (TV: End of the Road) According to the Seventh Doctor, gays were sent to concentration camps during World War II, along with anyone else even slightly different. (PROSE: Timewyrm: Exodus)
In 1940s Britain, homosexuality was viewed as heavily abnormal. Jack Harkness shocked everyone around him by dancing with and kissing another man at a goodbye dance at The Ritz. Heterosexuals at that dance, though, had no problem even having mild sex in public; there was indeed a "lover's corner" intended for just this. (TV: Captain Jack Harkness) Alan Turing was persecuted for his homosexuality, but strongly believed that it was unalterable and perfectly natural. (PROSE: The Turing Test)
In and around the 1950s, sex in general was somewhat tabooed. Emma-Louise Cowell's mother would tell her that "no man wants to marry soiled goods". By convention, sex was only to be had with one's spouse, though some, like Diane Holmes, who described herself as "not exactly marriage material", had lovers. While Owen Harper was under the impression that the '50s were uptight and sexually repressed, Diane assured him, "You didn't invent it, you know." (TV: Out of Time)
On visiting the 1950s, Andy Davidson was arrested, along with Norton Folgate, for "public indecency", when the two were caught together in a public toilet, a popular spot for sexual encounters between men. They were grossly mistreated by the arresting officers. This was a common occurrence for any gay man living the life of a "recreational bachelor". Such spots were frequently raided. (AUDIO: Goodbye Piccadilly)
The gay minority continued to be persecuted well into the 1960s. (AUDIO: The Cold Equations) Canton Delaware was kicked out of the CIA for wanting to marry a black man, (TV: Day of the Moon) and Oliver Harper was facing arrest by the Metropolitan Police Service for his homosexuality when he first met the First Doctor in 1966. (AUDIO: The Cold Equations) Policewoman Barbara Redworth once saw the corpse of a homosexual, having been murdered by "queer-bashers". (PROSE: The Scales of Injustice) Bob Campbell linked homosexuality with illegal drugs, and called gays' lifestyles impermissible. (PROSE: The Devil Goblins from Neptune)
Helen Sinclair's older brother Albert was disowned by their father and sent to prison when he was caught with another man. Helen and Albie's father destroyed all photographs of him, and turned angry at the mere mention of his name. (AUDIO: UNIT Dating)
In 1968, homosexuality was decriminalised in the United Kingdom. (AUDIO: UNIT Dating)
In the 1990s, one version of Sam Jones identified as the only person in her high school class that didn't think homosexuals "ought to be shot on sight". (PROSE: Alien Bodies)
By the early 21st century, homosexuality was better accepted, and children simply understood that some people had two mothers or two fathers. (TV: Children of Earth: Day One) April MacLean decided to respond "good for you" when she found out Charlie Smith was gay, and no one took any issue with Charlie taking a boy to the prom. (TV: For Tonight We Might Die) Richard, a security guard for MDZ Research, felt comfortable enough to disclose that he had a boyfriend to a complete stranger. (TV: Resolution)
Homophobia survived, however, and people like Rex Matheson maintained the prejudice. (TV: The Categories of Life) When Rex said, "The whole world got screwed because two gay guys had a hissy fit," Gwen Cooper replied, "Rex, get back in your cave." (TV: End of the Road)
In 2016, Matteusz Andrzejewski's deeply religious Polish parents shouted at him and later grounded him for going to the school prom with a boy, Charlie. (TV: For Tonight We Might Die, The Coach with the Dragon Tattoo) Matteusz's parents subsequently kicked him out of the house because of his relationship with Charlie. (TV: Nightvisiting)
Internet chat rooms existed in the 2000s for people craving sexual partners online. DrLuvin entered the channel #areyoulonely, thinking from the title it was a sexual nature. He wanted to know what Shirley1968 was wearing, if it was something cute, hoping it was something tight-fitting and "slinky". (PROSE: Lonely)
By this point, one did not need to be in love to have sex with someone; according to Gwen Cooper, "sex could just be about having a good time together." As Gwen elaborated, "as long as it's safe and between two consenting adults, no one cares." People had casual sex with "f*ck buddies", and pornographic magazines such as Peach were sold to the general public without consideration for children who might see them. (TV: Out of Time) People kissed in public, and sexualised advertisements marked nearly every shop window. (TV: Day One)
When John Ellis, Diane Holmes and Emma-Louise Cowell accidentally travelled from 1953 through the Cardiff Rift more than 50 years in the future, both John and Emma were disgusted by what they saw. Emma expected to just have "a kiss and a cuddle" with a guy she met at a bar, but then found out that he wanted more. Diane, however, was perfectly comfortable with the 21st century attitude towards sex, as she had held much the same attitude in '53. (TV: Out of Time)
Later on, in the 2010s, smart phone apps existed that allowed for gay men to "press a few buttons and then have sex with people". Norton Folgate, coming in from the 1950s, took full advantage of 21st century hookup culture while in Tyler Steele's body. Misunderstanding the fast pace of this century, however, Norton proposed to a sales clerk named Jay, whom he had met and had sex with earlier that same day, and freaked him out. According to Tyler, one did not say "I love you" on a first date, much less propose marriage, and half the men of Cardiff shared a serious fear of commitment or romantic intent. (AUDIO: Another Man's Shoes)
Gay couples could get married in the UK by the 2010s. Andy Davidson went to his Chief Constable's "gay wedding", and thought it a lovely affair. (AUDIO: Goodbye Piccadilly)
Around 2030, Fiona, or "Fee", was indifferent about people's sexual preferences, commenting, "Fine, if that's what turns them on," after being told that two women were lesbians. (PROSE: Warchild) Yuri Kerenski told a story about his brother Mikail and his husband to Maggie Cain in 2059. (TV: The Waters of Mars)
In the 26th century — the home era of Professor Bernice Summerfield — bisexuality was the norm. (PROSE: All-Consuming Fire)
Steven Taylor, who came from sometime between the 22nd and the 41st centuries, (AUDIO: Return of the Rocket Men, TV: The Daleks' Master Plan) told Oliver Harper, from the 1960s, that "In my time, [homosexuality] doesn't matter. No one thinks twice about it." He laughed when he realised that something like sexuality was Oliver's reason for fleeing his world in the TARDIS — "why would it be [illegal]?" he asked rhetorically. (AUDIO: The Cold Equations) Chris Cwej, from the 30th century, noted that his society had many sex-related problems, but only "once in a blue moon" did they involve sexual orientation. (PROSE: Damaged Goods) The taboo simply did not exist. (AUDIO: Damaged Goods)
The people of the 51st century were sexually active with not only multiple genders, but in fact many different non-human species. John Hart even found himself attracted to an Earth poodle. (TV: Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang) As the Ninth Doctor quipped, "So many species, so little time." He explained to Rose Tyler that they were "just a bit more flexible when it [came] to dancing." (TV: The Doctor Dances) Jack Harkness, a native of this century, would "shag anything if it's gorgeous enough" according to Toshiko Sato. (TV: Day One)
In the 52nd century, the Thin One and the Fat One declared proudly that they were the "Thin/Fat Gay Married Anglican Marines". (TV: A Good Man Goes to War)
By the year 5,000,000,053, same-sex couples were just as common as opposite-sex ones, and both were unremarkable, although New Earth Cat Thomas Kincade Brannigan jokingly called partners Alice and May Cassini sisters, claiming to be old-fashioned. (TV: Gridlock)
== Human sexuality ==
=== Heterosexuality ===
Heterosexuality was sexual attraction to people of the opposite gender. Heterosexuals were often known as straights. Such was considered the norm into the 21st century. Bernice Summerfield noted that religious texts made heterosexuality compulsory, something which she found maddening. (PROSE: Beyond the Sun)
Creed McIlveen felt drawn to images of young women who were "limber and tanned", and traced the legs of one with his salivated finger. (PROSE: Warlock) Jack Harkness noted that Gwen Cooper had "all the right curves in all the right places". (TV: Day One)
Gilgamesh, king of Uruk, had a substantial sex drive, and many women reportedly felt "honoured" to sleep with him according to Avram. He could essentially pick whom he wanted, though he knew to stay away when he was not wanted. (PROSE: Timewyrm: Genesys)
When Gwen had to hide together in a storage space with Owen to hide from Lisa Hallett, their closeness drew Owen to kiss her. She later intimated that she could feel his "hard on". (TV: Cyberwoman) They soon began an affair, much to Gwen's guilt. When Toshiko Sato listened in on their thoughts, they had had sex two times already that day, Gwen was considering taking him down to the Vaults for a third, and Owen was getting aroused by the thought of Gwen's tongue running across his teeth. (TV: Greeks Bearing Gifts) After Gwen called their affair off, Owen yelled out, "I was getting bored of your f*ck tricks anyway." (TV: Combat)
Amy Pond did not look away as the newly-regenerated Eleventh Doctor got fully naked and changed into his new outfit at Royal Leadworth Hospital. (TV: The Eleventh Hour) She later attempted to have sex with him. (TV: Flesh and Stone)
A young Blondie programmed a hologram to appear as a ten-centimetre woman named Tinkerbell, whom he kept in his locker. It took him thirty-six hours to complete, but his teenage libido urged him on. (PROSE: Transit)
 married a human woman named Lucy Cole who was in favour of his evil actions, but fell out of love with him when their relationship became abusive. (TV: The Sound of Drums/Last of the Time Lords) He also implied an attraction to his female incarnation. (TV: The Doctor Falls)
=== Homosexuality ===
thumb|right|Captain Jack Harkness kisses Captain Jack Harkness, much to the surprise of their 1940s audience. (TV: Captain Jack Harkness)
Homosexuality was sexual attraction to people of the same gender. According to the Seventh Doctor, some people believed that certain genes lead to homosexuality. (PROSE: Utopia) Alan Turing maintained that homosexuality was an "unalterable and natural, if variant, behaviour... but this axiom [was] in direct conﬂict with that held with equal certainty by others". (PROSE: The Turing Test)
Jack Harkness was perfectly capable of detecting homosexuality in others in order to select his sexual partners "through experience". He expressed to Angelo Colasanto, however, that others would not discover should he choose not to share. (TV: Immortal Sins)
Homosexuals were forced to endure homophobia, something which Bernice Summerfield — and everyone else from her home period of the 26th century — could not understand. (PROSE: Sky Pirates!) Words used to describe and insult homosexuals included gay, queer, poof, fairy, pansy and f*ggot. (TV: Children of Earth: Day Four, PROSE: Endgame, Death and Diplomacy, Timeless, Blue Box, The Forgotten Son; AUDIO: The Unbegotten) Benny referred to her son, Peter Summerfield, as being gay. (PROSE: Big Bang Generation)
Christianity denounced homosexuality, leading Angelo Colasanto to believe that God "[didn't] hear [him]". (TV: Immortal Sins)
In the Starless World, Lancelot fell in love with Rory Williams. (AUDIO: The Last King of Camelot)
In the 1890s, George Litefoot expressed the hope that homosexuals such as Oscar Wilde and Warren Gadd's victims would be able to practice their love freely in a more enlightened time in the future. (AUDIO: Beautiful Things)
In 1960s Britain at least, homosexuality was a crime punishable by law, but Steven Taylor — from centuries later — retorted, "Why would it be [illegal]?" The First Doctor, told Oliver Harper that it was "society's crime, not [his]." (AUDIO: The Cold Equations)
Later on, in the 21st century, Matteusz Andrzejewski's deeply religious Polish parents shouted at him and later grounded him for going to the school prom with a boy, Charlie Smith. (TV: For Tonight We Might Die, The Coach with the Dragon Tattoo)
According to the Nine, the Fifth Doctor would be capable of producing a child with a male partner as co-parent, just as well as through a mother. (AUDIO: Relative Time)
Some heterosexuals found anything resembling homosexuality daunting. Peri Brown was uncomfortable to learn that "Chick" Peters — who identified as male but had a female-typical body — had intimate relationships with his girlfriends. Chick assuaged Peri in saying "relax; you're not my type." (PROSE: Blue Box)
Homosexuality also meant to heterosexuals that the person was unavailable. It was thus, to them, an undesirable trait. Sam Jones complained to Ramadan that "the good‐looking ones [were] always gay." (PROSE: Seeing I) When Donna Noble was brought to a party on 8 December 1926, she was disappointed that both Davenport and Roger Curbishley were gay — "Typical. All the decent men are on the other bus." (TV: The Unicorn and the Wasp) Tallulah mistakenly thought the Tenth Doctor was "[such] a waste" because he was "into musical theatre." (TV: Daleks in Manhattan) When April MacLean found out that Charlie was gay, she remarked, "Of course he is," disappointed. (TV: For Tonight We Might Die)
Some associated certain stereotypes with homosexuality, including being "into musical theatre". (TV: Daleks in Manhattan) During a discussion on Jack Harkness amongst his Torchwood Three colleagues, Owen Harper voiced his belief that he must be gay, saying that "period military is not the dress code of a straight man." (TV: Day One) Grant's choice of costume as superhero alter-ego "The Ghost" - a rubber suit with a big "G" on his chest - led to some speculation among the public that he was gay. (TV: The Return of Doctor Mysterio)
Growing up, Amy Pond believed her best friend Rory Williams was gay, as he never showed any interest in girls. In fact, he had been in love with Amy, and only paid attention to her. (TV: Let's Kill Hitler)
Bill Potts had a crush on a girl who attended the Twelfth Doctor's lectures, giving her extra chips at the university canteen. Her interest seemed to cease when the extra chips unintentionally caused her to become overweight. Bill also developed an interest in another young woman, Heather, (TV: The Pilot) whom she eventually kissed and travelled the universe with, (TV: The Doctor Falls) and ultimately returned to Earth, where she spent the rest of her life with her. (PROSE: Twice Upon a Time) Her virtual self also briefly developed a crush on a woman called Penny. (TV: Extremis) Her real self eventually did the same thing with the real Penny. (TV: The Pyramid at the End of the World)
=== Monosexuality ===
Monosexuality was sexual attraction to only one gender. (PROSE: Head of State) The Roman Lucius saw this as restrictive, but could appreciate a person knew what they liked. (TV: The Eaters of Light)
=== Bisexuality ===
Bisexuality was sexual attraction to men and women. Gwen Cooper thought that being bisexual must be great — "best of both worlds" — but Ianto Jones, who identified as one, said it made him feel insecure, like he belonged nowhere. (PROSE: The Twilight Streets) Ianto once told his sister "It's not men. It's just him", referring to his relationship with Jack. (TV: Children of Earth)
Gwen herself, while predominantly heterosexual, expressed interest in her female hairdresser. (AUDIO: Love Rat) Toshiko Sato, who took little time to fall for Mary, (TV: Greeks Bearing Gifts) was also interested in Owen, another member of the Torchwood team. (TV: Reset, Exit Wounds, et al.)
In the 1970s, Liz Shaw was engaged to Michael, who died. (AUDIO: Primord) She went on to have a son (PROSE: Sherwood Sorceress) and, by 2015, she was in a relationship with Patricia Haggard, the ministry liaison for P.R.o.B.e. The two lived together and moved to Spain, (HOMEVID: When to Die) eventually marrying. (HOMEVID: Goo!)
When Tom Mordley seemed to show interest in her gay flatmate Ray after having flirted with her, Lauren Anderson began to wonder if Tom was bisexual, and potentially interested in a polyamorous relationship with the two of them at once, something with which she thought she would not have been comfortable. However, it became clear that, to Ray's disappointment, his interest lay solely in Lauren, and he simply wanted to spend time with Ray to get more information about her. (PROSE: Cyberon')
Bisexuality was the norm in the 26th century. (PROSE: All-Consuming Fire) It was also the norm for 2nd century Roman soldiers. (TV The Eaters of Light)
As a teacher, Clara Oswald described Jane Austen to a class as a "phenomenal kisser", suggesting that Clara had shared some sort of experience with her. (TV: The Magician's Apprentice) She also expressed a reciprocated interest in Kate Stewart when she misinterpreted her Zygon impersonator's watching her as sexual interest on her part, saying she was considering asking her out for a drink until she realised the truth. (PROSE: The Day of the Doctor) One of her splintered selves who lived in a time period beyond the 21st century, claimed to Rory Williams that the first boy whom she ever fancied was called Rory, but quickly followed with "Actually, she was called Nina. I was going through a phase." (TV: Asylum of the Daleks)
thumb|left|Liz and Patsy holding hands. (HOMEVID: The Zero Imperative)
In an alternate timeline, Adric had a wife and children, and after her death he married a man. (AUDIO: A Full Life)
Though never outright describing himself with the term, Fitz Kreiner rebuffed Carmodi Litian's alteration of his memories by stating that he'd been "engineered to love" Carmodi, then going on to say that "With the Doctor - it's the real thing.", indicating an attraction to the Eighth Doctor. (PROSE: The Book of the Still) Fitz also blushed when the Doctor kissed him on one occasion after discovering he was still alive. (PROSE: Dominion) Fitz would later mull over "his chances of getting laid by Iris… and even of getting laid by the Doctor.", indicating a level of sexual attraction towards both of them. (PROSE: The Blue Angel)
Rachel Edwards was bisexual, (PROSE: Head of State, Rachel Survived) a detail which was included in Head of State, a novel about Rachel which coincidentally existed as fiction in another fiction. Rachel's comfort with her bisexuality was an inspiration as Graelyn Scythes, a devout reader of the book, who eventually adopted the label of pansexual, figured out her own identity. (PROSE: Rachel Survived)
===Pansexuality===
Calypso Jonze was pansexual. They came from the 51st century. (AUDIO: The Lovecraft Invasion) Liv Chenka speculated that Albert Sinclair, who was attracted to men, might have been bi or pan. (AUDIO: UNIT Dating)
In another realty, Graelyn Scythes, who was born in the 25th century, eventually came to identify as pansexual. She struggled with her identity growing up, and related her experience to that of Rachel Edwards, the bisexual main character of her favourite book, Head of State — with Rachel's confidence in the matter being an inspiration to her. (PROSE: Rachel Survived)
===Exosexuality ===
Exosexuality, or xenophilia, was the sexual attraction towards members of other species. While not widely practised, exosexuality was oft thought of, and Jason Kane made a living selling pieces of literary xenopornography such as Nights of the Perfumed Tentacle, based off his own personal experiences. These erotic works were targeted at both humans and "aliens", and included several sex scenes between individuals of different alien species. (PROSE: Sex Secrets of the Robot Replicants, Beige Planet Mars, The Infernal Nexus) On a hen night in the 34th century, Andy Hansen noticed that inter-species couples were very common. (PROSE: The Three Faces of Helena)
Chris Cwej once found a xenopornographic magazine in one of the TARDIS' guest rooms, and was reminded of what he saw inside when he saw a gynoid giving birth. (PROSE: Christmas on a Rational Planet)
Jenny Flint and Vastra were exosexual, the pair being married. (TV: A Good Man Goes to War, The Name of the Doctor, Deep Breath)
===Omnisexuality===
Omnisexuality was the term that Jack Harkness applied to himself. As his boyfriend Ianto Jones explained, "it's the polite way of saying he'll sleep with anything — men, women... cephalopods." (PROSE: The House That Jack Built) Indeed, this was the norm in Jack's native 51st century — having spread out across the galaxy, humans began having sex with not only all genders, but many different alien species — "So many species, so little time." The Ninth Doctor explained to Rose Tyler that they were "just a bit more flexible when it [came] to dancing." (TV: The Doctor Dances) Toshiko Sato had "seen [Jack] in action", and assured her Torchwood Three colleagues that he would "shag anything if it's gorgeous enough". (TV: Day One) John Hart, a contemporary of Jack Harkness, even found himself attracted to a poodle, which he considered "gorgeous". (TV: Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang)
Another word for this was ambisexuality, which Bernice Summerfield applied to her culture, the humans of the 26th century. (PROSE: Sky Pirates!) Jason Kane, though from the 20th century, was also omnisexual, having relations with different genders while on Earth and with many different species after getting whisked away to the planet t'Kao at age fifteen. (PROSE: Death and Diplomacy)
Professor River Song knew the Formidians "intimately", describing them as endangered giant ants. (AUDIO: Time in a Bottle) She was also known to have dated androids, (TV: Silence in the Library) as well as a shapeshifter (PROSE: The Day of the Doctor) and a Nestene duplicate with swappable heads. (TV: The Big Bang) River had several spouses of various genders, (TV: The Husbands of River Song) and considered herself married to each incarnation of the Doctor (AUDIO: My Dinner with Andrew) after marrying "her" Doctor, the eleventh. (TV: The Wedding of River Song)
Like Jack Harkness, (TV: Journey's End) River often dreamed of encounters with two Doctors at once. (AUDIO: The Eye of the Storm) When faced with just this opportunity, she imagined scenarios involving the two of them; "The mind races." (HOMEVID: Last Night)
Vince Cosmos, a musician from the planet Glam brought up on 20th century Earth, also identified as ambisexual. (AUDIO: Vince Cosmos: Glam Rock Detective)
===Asexuality===
Jason Jackson, a companion of Lady Aesculapius, wore a shirt which identified him as "ace". (PROSE: Birthdays are Made for Memories)
===Other ===
According to Kane, Avron Jelks' pieces occasionally went off on useless, sexual rants about "children, chainsaws and excrement". (PROSE: Burning Heart)
Jack, on at least one occasion, felt sexually attracted to a dog, Sheba. (PROSE: Warlock)
==Sexuality in other species==
Not all species experienced sexuality in the same way humans did. Female Rills were sexually attracted to a giant skull, (PROSE: Galaxy Four) while the Delphons found the amputation of limbs sexually alluring. (PROSE: Lucifer Rising)
A Slitheen found that he enjoyed disguising himself as the human Oliver Charles, noting that he had a wife, a mistress and a young farmer. (TV: Aliens of London)
Some of the Sorvix in Cardiff were "xeno-curious", and had sexual relations with the human locals. (AUDIO: Love Rat)
Charlie Smith, prince of the Rhodians, was attracted to men and specifically was interested in Matteusz Andrzejewski. He indicated to April MacLean this interest and that homosexuality was acceptable where he came from. They later kissed. (TV: For Tonight We Might Die) Some time after, the pair began a romantic relationship. (TV: Nightvisiting)
Andrea Quill was attracted to Coach Dawson's buttocks, and said she liked Mr Armitage. She kissed an android called the Inspector, though she was not aware at the time that he was an android. (TV: The Coach with the Dragon Tattoo) She later referred to Dawson as "the really quite hot dragon tattoo guy". (TV: Brave-ish Heart)
A many number of species which did not reproduce sexually, like Sloathes or Sontarans, did not have sexualities at all, and could not understand the human concept. (PROSE: Oblivion, TV: The Time Warrior)
One Sontaran, Stonn, who deviated from his species' usual ways in more ways than one, was involved in a physical and romantic relationship with the 19th century human Tom Foster. (AUDIO: A Photograph to Remember)
==The Doctor==
The Doctor themself was not explicitly prone to sexual attraction until their eighth incarnation. It was only then that he began feeling, not quite an urge, but the desire for more, for "the excitement of being close to someone, the need to exchange ideas on a more personal level, to be able to tell someone what you really believe" — romance. He stressed, though, that he'd only been feeling this urge "since [he] regenerated into this body", and told I.M. Foreman it wouldn't be fair on any of his companions to get involved sexually with them. (PROSE: Interference - Book Two)
Despite the Doctor's discussion about his "newfound" feelings, the Twelfth Doctor recalled that he had a long-time crush on the Master in his first incarnation, while at the Time Lord Academy. The Master was his first friend, and his "man-crush", who he thought was "so fast, so funny" and "always so brilliant". (TV: World Enough and Time) remembered suspecting as much, in their early days together at the Academy. (AUDIO: The Bekdel Test) By the time the First Doctor regenerated, he also claimed to have had "some experience with the fairer sex". (TV: Twice Upon a Time)
At some point in their lifetimes, the Doctor built an android boyfriend and had difficulty getting rid of him. (TV: The Time of the Doctor) He once met an emperor made of algae that fancied him. (TV: Smile)
The Doctor's seventh incarnation, while in his John Smith guise, romanced and proposed to a human woman named Joan Redfern. (PROSE: Human Nature) According to another account, the Tenth Doctor entered a similar human persona with another woman called Joan Redfern, and had no such feelings when his Time Lord consciousness was restored. (TV: Human Nature / The Family of Blood)
The Eighth Doctor kissed Grace Holloway mere hours after his regeneration. (TV: Doctor Who) This incarnation was implied to have had sex with Bernice Summerfield (PROSE: The Dying Days, AUDIO: Benny's Story) and kissed Fitz squarely on the lips after finding out that he was still alive. (PROSE: Dominion) He even actively flirted with Fitz on occasion: "I'll show you my tattoo if you're lucky." (PROSE: Eater of Wasps) The Doctor has a relationship with Karl Sadeghi while staying on the planet Hitchemus. (PROSE: The Year of Intelligent Tigers) The Eighth Doctor eventually married a woman named Scarlette. The marriage was initially intended to bind the Doctor to Earth, but the union had deeper meaning for both individuals. Scarlette, who Sabbath stated was the only woman the Doctor ever got close to, eventually faked her death because she believed the Doctor's feelings for her would keep him on Earth instead of going to people who needed his help. (PROSE: The Adventuress of Henrietta Street, Camera Obscura)
After meeting his tenth and eleventh incarnations, the War Doctor asked if his future held a lot of kissing; the Eleventh Doctor replied, "It does start to happen, yeah." (TV: The Day of the Doctor)
Indeed, although he rejected Jackie Tyler's advances, (TV: Rose) the Ninth Doctor flirtatiously gave Jabe "air from [his] lungs" and suggestively told her he had "more where that came from". (TV: The End of the World) He assured Rose Tyler that, in the 900 years of his life, he had at some point "danced". (TV: The Doctor Dances) He flirted with Jack Harkness too, promising to give him what Rose had with Mickey Smith should Jack buy him a drink. (TV: Boom Town) He also did not protest a goodbye kiss from the man. One of the Ninth Doctor's final actions was saving Rose with a kiss; the excess vortex energy was transferred to him through the contact. (TV: The Parting of the Ways) After getting stranded in the year 200,100 and travelling to the late 19th century, Jack promised, "First I'm gonna kiss him, and then I'm gonna kill him." (TV: Fragments)
The Tenth Doctor told Sally Sparrow that he was rubbish at weddings, especially his own. (TV: Blink) He also shared a kiss with companions Rose Tyler, (PROSE: The Stone Rose) Martha Jones (TV: Smith and Jones) and Donna Noble (TV: The Unicorn and the Wasp) — as well as Jackie Tyler, (TV: Army of Ghosts) Madame de Pompadour, (TV: The Girl in the Fireplace) Astrid Peth, (TV: Voyage of the Damned) Joan Redfern, (TV: Human Nature) Christina de Souza, (TV: Planet of the Dead) Queen Elizabeth I, and a Zygon duplicate of the same Queen. (TV: The Day of the Doctor) Soon after his regeneration, he was glad to find that he "still [had] it" after Cassandra O'Brien, in Rose Tyler's body, kissed him enthusiastically. (TV: New Earth) He gave both Martha and Frank the option of kissing him later, as he was busy at the time trying to defeat the Daleks. (TV: Daleks in Manhattan)
Though Martha fancied him, (TV: Partners in Crime) he did not return the favour. She told John Smith, "[the Doctor] is everything to me, and he doesn't even look at me, but I don't care, because I love him to bits, and I hope to God he won't remember me saying this." (TV: The Family of Blood) She spent all of her travels "pining after him", and ultimately left the TARDIS to "get out" of what she considered a one-way relationship. (TV: Last of the Time Lords)
Near the end of his tenth incarnation, the Doctor accidentally proposed to Elizabeth I, believing her to be a Zygon, and followed through with the proposal by marrying her so he could stop the Zygon invasion. (TV: The Day of the Doctor) He told Ood Sigma that the marriage was a mistake, and stopped just short of telling Sigma that her nickname, "the Virgin Queen", was no longer accurate. (TV: The End of Time)
The Eleventh Doctor fought off Amy Pond's attempts to have sex with him. She did get as far as kissing him, (TV: Flesh and Stone) which he enjoyed; he later expressed to Rory Williams, though, that it was incidental, and it should have been him in his place. (TV: The Vampires of Venice)
While he was married to — and was implied to have an active sexual life with — River Song, (TV: The Wedding of River Song) the Doctor's eleventh incarnation had zero issue with kissing Rory Williams on two occasions, (TV: The Pandorica Opens, Dinosaurs on a Spaceship) and nearly kissing Craig Owens on another. In fact, the Doctor and Craig were mistaken for a married couple by Val, who thought Alfie was their baby. She said, "it's nice for a baby to have two daddies who love each other." (TV: Closing Time)
The original Clara Oswald could not imagine having a sexual relationship with the Eleventh Doctor, (TV: Hide) while her Victorian copy kissed him soon after meeting him. She claimed he blushed. (TV: The Snowmen) After Clara told stories of a non-existent boyfriend to her family, she was forced to invite the Doctor over, who had to pretend to be dating her. The Doctor enthusiastically agreed: "Ding-dong! Okay, brilliant. I'm maybe a bit... rusty in some areas, but I will glance at a manual." He also displayed attraction to her at times, and Clara in turn, under the influence of a Truth Field, admitted she fancied him. (TV: The Time of the Doctor) Following his regeneration, the Twelfth Doctor indicated that his predecessor had seen himself as Clara's boyfriend; he did not want to continue under this misapprehension, seeing it as a mistake. (TV: Deep Breath)
thumb|left|Missy kisses the Twelfth Doctor. (TV: Dark Water)
Upon meeting him, Missy kissed the Twelfth Doctor passionately. His reaction was to ask a fearful "Clara, is it over now?" (TV: Dark Water) He later quickly returned the favour in thanks. (TV: Death in Heaven)
The Twelfth Doctor was not as affectionate as his previous self, objecting early on even to hugs. (TV: Deep Breath, Listen, Death in Heaven) He thought of kissing, "As an activity, it's not hugely varied," asking, "Doesn't it get dull after a while?" (TV: The Husbands of River Song)
Upon meeting the Doctor's twelfth incarnation, River Song told him she'd let him know what she thought of his new body after she'd seen more of it than just his face. (TV: The Husbands of River Song)
On meeting the Thirteenth Doctor, Najia Khan inquired if she was in a relationship with Najia's daughter, Yasmin. The Doctor was unsure, but Yasmin clarified that they were only friends. (TV: ) The Doctor later admitted that she would have been willing to enter a romantic relationship with Yaz if she had felt able to commit to any relationship at all, but did not, by that point, feel capable of "fixing [her]self to anyone", fearing the inevitable hurt that would follow, (TV: ) in part because she had recently been informed that her time in this incarnation was "coming to an end". (TV: )
After encountering Isaac Newton with Donna Noble, the Fourteenth Doctor readily agreed with Donna's assertion about him being "hot"; he was surprised at his own openness about this sentiment, with Donna joking that the underlying inclination had "never been far from the surface". (TV: )
==Behind the scenes==
==="No hanky-panky in the TARDIS"===
Because it was generally considered a children's programme, Doctor Who stayed away from topics like sexuality, from its inception. William Hartnell, who played the First Doctor, specified that the show had "no sex or swearing" in a 1964 interview. (REF: The First Doctor Handbook) In fact, aside from Susan falling in love with David Campbell in The Dalek Invasion of Earth, and Jo Grant marrying Clifford Jones in The Green Death, sexuality and even love were barely themes in the early decades of the show.
The Doctor Who production team often went out of their way to make sure sexuality could not even be construed. An early example of this is the 8 July 1963 decision to make Susan the Doctor's granddaughter, to avoid any possible sexual connotations of a young girl travelling alone with an old man. (REF: The First Doctor Handbook) In the "monochromatic era" of the show, companions were always accompanied by others in the TARDIS, who served as "chaperones" of sorts.
As times progressed, though, the show slipped further and further away from its non-sexual origins. 1980s producer John Nathan-Turner admitted he introduced Nicola Bryant's Peri Brown mainly for her sex appeal in an attempt to compete with other programmes airing at around the same time. (REF: The Companions) Nevertheless, it was JN-T himself who began what Sixth Doctor actor Colin Baker referred to as "the golden rule": "No hanky-panky in the TARDIS." (REF: The Television Companion) The Doctor's female companions were allowed limited physical contact with the Doctor, and were for a time restricted to non-revealing costumes.
With the return of the show in its BBC Wales incarnation, Doctor Who became far more sexualised, there being less taboos surrounding sexuality by the 21st century. Waris Hussein, who directed the programme's first serial in 1963, criticised this, saying it removed much of the Doctor's mystery. Matt Smith, however, disagreed — "For sure, Karen is hot, so too Billie and Jenna, but is that a bad thing? I don't think so. [...] Look at the history of the show; there were women in Tarzanian outfits, were there not, back in the early days?"
===Not quite ready===
In an interview included in the DVD release of The Curse of Fenric, writer Ian Briggs revealed that the story's Dr Judson was intended to be — like the man he was based on, Alan Turing — struggling with his homosexuality, but this was ultimately cut as it was not at the time considered appropriate to discuss such topics in a family programme. Briggs instead transformed Turing's frustration at being unable to express his true sexual identity into Judson's frustration at being disabled. (DOC: Shattering the Chains)
===The "gay agenda"===
thumb|Christel Dee, Bethany Black, Benjamin Cook and Waris Hussein talk about LGBTQ in Doctor Who.
Sexuality was approached fairly often, though, in Doctor Who novels released in the 1990s, and the Doctor received his first televised non-heterosexual companion in 2005, in the form of Captain Jack Harkness. From then on, the programme — not to mention its more adult-oriented spin-off, Torchwood, with Jack in the lead — contained many references to various sexual orientations, and demonstrated the evolution of views towards homosexuality in humanity's future. Some critics have called this show runner Russell T Davies' "gay agenda" — a phrase which Davies himself in an interview called "abhorrent". His intention was not in fact to rally homosexuality, but rather to express that, in his own words, "sexuality is fluid".
Steven Andrew, then Head of Drama and Acquisitions for CBBC, also requested that Davies put a gay character in The Sarah Jane Adventures, in an attempt to introduce a "normal" gay teenager into children's television. Before the show's cancellation, the plan was to have Luke Smith and eventually have a boyfriend, Sanjay. (DCOM: Death of the Doctor)
===The Doctor: asexual?===
The question of the Doctor's sexuality was a controversial one. It was fanon for decades that he was ; fans used the Fourth Doctor's line in City of Death that Countess Scarlioni was "probably" beautiful as proof. Sixth Doctor actor Colin Baker agreed with this theory, saying, "Love is a human emotion and the Doctor isn't human." (REF: The Television Companion) Both Matt Smith and Tom Baker (DOC: Getting Blood from the Stones) have identified that their respective Doctors are asexual and clueless to human sexuality; both exploited this for visual humour.
It was therefore heavily controversial when the Eighth Doctor, in the words of Steven Moffat, "hit puberty" (DOC: The Doctors Revisited - The Eighth Doctor) and shared his first kiss with Grace Holloway in the 1996 tele-film. Moffat was in fact completely against the fan theory of the Doctor's celibacy, saying in an online forum in 1996 that it "flies directly in the face of established continuity", later putting his argument in the Curator's mouth in his Day of the Doctor novelisation that the Doctor could hardly be a virgin since "after all, he had a granddaughter".
From the TV movie on, the Doctor had an active sexual and romantic life in the BBC Eighth Doctor Adventures and the BBC Wales version of Doctor Who.
=== River Song===
Steven Moffat has revealed on Twitter that River Song, coming from the same 51st century as Jack Harkness, is just as omnisexual. Alex Kingston has also described her character as bisexual. (BFX: R&J)
==Footnotes==
 
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