Crabby-Meramie Drama

The Crabby-Meramie Drama was a series of arguments between the players BigCrabbyStylz and Meramie, two former in-game mods, that started during September 2022, and ended in November of the same year. Both accused others of doing bad things for several weeks until they were both banned from TGDPS. It was a very serious situation. It is still unclear today who was in the right, and who was in the wrong. Both also made google docs (which will not be shared) about the situation.
== History ==
=== Beginning ===
The history of relations between Crabby and Meramie go back to around July or August 2022. During this time, Crabby was going through a horrible mental state to the point where he was considering ending it all. Meramie, a skilled creator, and a relevant user in the server, decided to help Crabby with his trauma. And for a while, they seemed to get along. However, their relations would soon get worse.
=== Toxicity ===
On August 29th, 2022, BigCrabbyStylz made a very light joke about Lightshades monitor. Meramie thought Crabby was trying to be disrespectful towards Lightshade, even though the joke about the monitor didn’t upset him at all. This made Meramie decided to mention that Crabby was su*cidal, which Crabby did not want being leaked as he preferred it being private information.
Some time in September, Crabby made several jokes about Femboys being cringe. Meramie saw this as “a personal attack” and decided to call Crabby a dumbf*ck. Crabby was offended on being called a dumbf*ck, and asked why Meramie called him that. Meramie said it was a way to “get back at him, giving up on him, and “lying in front of his eyes”. Crabby asked why he brought the private info up, and Meramie said it was because Crabby was being biased, and not knowing why hate speech is a thing. Meramie then made jokes about Xacto being his lover. 
The same day, Meramie decided to make a joke and say that Crabs are cringe as a way to get back at Crabby. Crabby was confused whether or not it was a threat against him. Meramie then said that humans have actual feelings and can understand what people say, but crabs don’t, and they can “care less about hate speech”. Meramie then blocked Crabby after telling him to “go cry”.
=== Google Docs ===
After some time, Crabby was getting sick of Meramie harassing him and all of it going unnoticed. So he decided to make a google doc, showing all of the things Meramie had done.
On September 26, 2022, Crabby finished his Google Doc exposing Meramie. He titled it "Meramie harassment" and sent it in the TGDPS in-game mod discord server. In the doc, Crabby said that Meramie had been constantly harassing him in both the discord server and in DM's. He had mentioned most things already gone over on this article, such as the joke about Lightshades monitor, the "Femboys are cringe" joke, and him being called a d*mbfuck. He also brought many other things. Crabby once got back from a vacation, and Meramie wondered why he was gone for so long. Since Crabby no longer trusted Meramie, he decided to lie. Meramie then found out he was lying a bit later as a moderator told Meramie he had been lying about the vacation thing. Meramie got very aggressive towards Meramie, which caused Crabby to block Meramie. Crabby finally mentioned at the end of the document that Meramie isn't the greatest person, and if you offend them, they will probably harass you.
Two days later, on September 28th, Meramie decided to make a response to Crabby's document, by making his own.
Meramie said that Crabby lying about his vacation gave him a negative look on him. He then said that Crabby "was pleasing him (Meramie) so he wouldn't give up on him (Crabby)". Meramie then brought up when Crabby blocked him, and said Crabby didn't have a reason to block him since he was "helping" him. He admitted to being mean to Crabby because "he had all the reason to". Meramie also said that he was confused why being mean to someone in Dm's is rule-breaking, as according to Meramie, this whole situation had nothing to do with TGDPS, so he shouldn't be demoted for it. Meramie then accused Dark of leaking the whole situation, and that he gave no permission to Dark to do such thing. Meramie said that the situation was "unfair", since he couldn't "explain himself, state reasons why this is not fair, explain everything that happened directly to Dark in Dm's, or mention the fact that the staff was biased towards Crabby".
Meramie started to get sort-of egotistical when writing the doc, and say that he did a lot for TGDPS, and he shouldn't be demoted for a private issue. He then admitted that he did have some wrong-doings in the drama. He then ended the doc by saying he has never done anything wrong "without a reason".
The same day, Crabby made a response to Meramie's document, and said in the title that it would be his final response. Crabby said that cringe isn't "hate speech" and it's just a term people use. Crabby said he had no malicious intent when saying "cringe" or "Femboys or cringe". Crabby said that people have called him cringe, but he doesn't think that it's hate speech, nor does he get offended by it. He then said to Meramie in the doc that Meramie is allowed to have his own feelings, but that doesn't give him the right to call him a dumbf*ck. Crabby brought up when Meramie said that he had reasons to be mean, Crabby said it's not an excuse for Meramie to harass him, and that Meramie chose to be aggressive. He then talked about when Meramie said that the drama has nothing to do with TGDPS, so he shouldn't be demoted. Crabby said "if you show malicious behavior towards people outside a server, I don't think that people would want you to be a staff on a server".
=== Demotion Poll ===
After the docs, Tal made a poll on the TGDPS mod team discord. He said that the situation couldn't continue, and if it does, it would look horrendous. So he made a poll for in-game mods to vote whether they wanted Meramie, Crabby, both, or neither to be demoted. Everyone voted for no one to be demoted, so they both stayed as in-game moderators.
=== Meramie gets (very) upset ===
After the poll ended, Meramie was mad about the fact that he was demoted from being a discord mod (not a in-game mod) despite having valid points. Crabby didn't know what he did wrong since he almost got demoted, Tal told him to just move on from the situation. Meramie told Crabby that Crabby "did a lot". Triblex told the both of them to shut up and get along, he also said that the drama was unecessary. Meramie told Triblex that nobody is arguing, and thhat if he brings it up again he would go insane. Triblex said that he just wants the both of them to let the drama die. 
Meramie started overreacting and said that "he was going to die" and that he allegedly got hate from the previous day. He mentioned that he was crying since "no one wanted to hear his side of the story". He then told people to "shut the f*ck up, and don't bring this up ever again". Triblex said that people didn't care, he still wouldn't be in the server. Meramie told tri that no one didn't care, and that everyone agreed on demoting him without knowing his side of the story, and the only actual reason he was in the server was because Tal let him explain himself. 
Tal told Meramie to stop, which caused Meramie to start getting mad and told everyone to leave him alone, and that he was going insane. Tal told Meramie to shut up. Meramie continued to yell in full caps and say "this is not good for my mental health", and that he harassed no one. TurtleER told Meramie to just get off discord if it wasn't good for his mental health. Tal said that Meramie was making everything harder for everyone, and that maybe he should stop blaming someone for getting information they don't know fully about. Meramie said that no one had any right to make a poll.
=== Doxxing Allegations ===
It's been more than a week after the demotion poll that resulted in neither Crabby or Meramie being demoted. Things were getting calmer, and it looked like the drama was over. Unfortunately Meramie and Crabby just happened to be in TGDPS general chat at the same time.
Crabby was talking with other tgdps discord users such as Catto and Youngs, when Meramie came into the chat and said "can this person just die already" and "can you just leave me the f*ck alone". A user called Alexgamingyz said that was rude, and Meramie responded by saying "idc he deserves to burn in hell". Crabby knew he was talking to him so he made a joke message saying he disagreed. Crabby said Meramie didn't have a point since Meramie tried doxxing him. Meramie made fun of Crabby's saying "will this affect the fishing season" and said "will this affect the tomorrow banning wave". Meramie then wondered why he was still in the server, and why people hated him without knowing anything, and why people praised Crabby who started "doxxing" him, and "doing more wrong things". Crabby then brought up his google doc exposing Meramie for harassing him. Lightshade told them to shut up or general would be ruined for the next hour.
Meramie said that he did not harass Crabby, and that saying "dumbass" isn't harassment, while according to him, he was the one getting harassed, and that Crabby doesn't know anything about getting harassed. Crabby told MEramie that calling Femboys cringe isn't harassing. Meramie said calling femboys cringe isn't harassment, but it's hate speech. He then called Crabby a retard. Shortly after, Meramie left the server. Lightshade then brought up that he lost the verification of a Meramie level. However, shortly after, Jakesnipes (aka Stellarum) banned Lightshade, Alexgaming, Stormiant, and another user called Agent for leaking Meramie's location. Tal was wondering what happened, and Jake showed his Dm's with Meramie. Meramie told him that his town got leaked by Alex, Storm, Crabby, and Lightshade. Crabby told Jake that lightshade never leaked anything. Tal told Crabby that him and Meramie never stop arguing, and that it's better to ban the both of them "for good". Crabby said that a lot of people supported him and that he did nothing wrong. Tal said he didn't care who was right, the matter was that the both of them were creating unnecessary drama.
Later, Jake found out that Lightshade was innocent and never leaked Meramie's location. Stormiant was also innocent, and when he came back he called Tal a "b*tchass mf". He also brought up that Meramie was trying to doxx lazy. Crabby said that someone instantly saying people leaked their address doesn't mean you should ban them instantly.
=== The end of Meramie ===
On October 26th, 2022, Meramie, along with Crabby, were both banned from TGDPS for constantly arguing, and taking said arguing to the TGDPS discord server instead of arguing in private DM's. Tal said that he didn't care who was in the right and who was in the wrong, and they would both stay banned forever. The server then breathed a sigh of relief, as they never had to deal with either of them again. However, Crabby was unbanned a few days later for unknown reasons. That didn't matter though, because Crabby decided to act annoying on purpose to get banned from TGDPS as he "didn't care about it anymore".
=== Crabby and Meramie fight on Twitter ===
During the Crabby-TGDPS Twitter Argument, Meramie decided to take his beef with Crabby onto Twitter. It is not known what Crabby said, as he deleted his replies to Meramie, and said replies were never documented, though according to Meramie's replies, they argued about the Lightshade monitor joke, the femboys are cringe joke, the fish jokes, how Meramie according to himself "had every right to insult him". Meramie also called him an insane person, though Zoner said Meramie was more insane then Crabby
== Trivia ==
- Most of the server had seen Meramie in the wrong when the drama started and concluded. Though after Crabby was proved to be a stalker and a emotional maniupulator, people have been more sympathetic when discussing about Meramie. He has also been unbanned from TGDPS discord because of this, though he has yet to re-join.
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