Debt

As much as we may strive, there always remains an uncancellable debt to God, that we can never pay back: He loves us infinitely more than we love Him. And then, as much as we may strive to live according to Christian teachings, in our life there will always be something for which we must ask for forgiveness: let us think of the days spent idly, the moments in which rancour has occupied our hearts and so on.--- Pope Francis. General Audience, 24.04.2019[1]
Conservatives have a weird obsession with controlling their children that approaches a feeling of ownership.
Parents can't be creating children 1. out of an obligation to their own parents to give them grandkids, 2. in order to get grandkids of their own, 3. and to gift their child with existence, all at the same time.
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