Men and the Abortion Debate

Alabama and other states have started taking some very large steps in the right direction on the topic of murdering babies, verbally sanitized to the clinical term "abortion". As the debate rages, the emotional pleading runs rampant and in our ever more progressive nation, men (especially white ones) are one of the primary targets. In this case, a straw one.
There are three parts to this argument and I will address them separately: Before Pregnancy, During Pregnancy, and After Birth.
This argument in favor of abortion goes something like this: 
* Men aren't women. Men can get hundreds of women pregnant then don't have to deal with any consequences since they don't have to carry the child and don't have to raise the child after they are born. Men don't understand or can't empathize with women on this issue so they have no say in this matter. We should focus more on men and stopping them from getting women pregnant than worry so much about a woman's health after it happens. Men should be more involved, supportive, and responsible after birth then maybe there would be less reason to have an abortion.
== Before Pregnancy ==
It is agreed that it takes two to get pregnant, a male and a female. Generally speaking, the act that results in pregnancy is a choice both made and so both are equally responsible.
Now, the easiest way to not get pregnant is don't have sex. It's 100% effective in preventing pregnancy.
I'm not getting into the moral aspect here, just the logical, practical ones.
Beyond that, there are many methods available to avoid pregnancy if you choose to have sex without the intent to get pregnant. They are not 100% so if you do have sex, you do so with the understanding that pregnancy is a potential consequence. This is an informed choice. No one who chooses to have sex is clueless as to what the ultimate consequence could be. Because of this, it is a risk that you, as an informed adult, also accept.
Should men be held equally responsible to take all necessary precautions to not get the woman pregnant? Absolutely! There is no question about this.
It's also irrelevant to the abortion question.
"Well, the man didn't wear a condom and the woman got pregnant so the woman should kill the baby."
"Well, the man didn't pull out and the woman got pregnant so the woman should kill the baby."
"Well, the condom broke and the woman got pregnant so the woman should kill the baby."
"Well the man did or did not do X and the woman got pregnant so the woman should kill the baby."
No. This is not logical in any way. If a mistake or irresponsibility or even accident on the man's part happens and a baby results, it does not logically follow that you have the right to kill the baby. It was not the baby's responsibility and so killing the baby is unjust. At most, if it can be proved that the unintended pregnancy was the man's fault, he can be held financially responsible for the child.
== After Birth ==
Once the child is born, the same logical points apply. It took two to conceive the child. It is both persons' responsibility to take care of the child until they can care for themselves.