Boundaries

She also shares an equation I have found very helpful for me when im emotionally overwhelmed and confused about what decision to make regarding interpersonal issues.
The equation is:
Positive feelings you get in the situation + negative feelings you get in the situation = Your decision.
0 means there is no positive gain or positive loss, although 0 is still draining.
Positive gain means the positive out ways the negative so it’s up to us to go/participate if we want to.
Any negative count means the relationship dynamics actually are harmful and to be selectively avoided.
As a person who chronically feels guilty for abandoning people (the story I was scapegoated by my family with), this equation gives me permission to as objectively as possible make a decision with my needs as the priority.----
I delete your comments because (1) you're pretty good at sophistry that can attract others, (2) you don't respect my interpersonal boundaries — and (3) number two makes me feel you're boring af.
 "Boundaries," is a phrase uttered to remind someone of relevant or projected boundaries. (G. Eiríks. 2020.) 
Boundaries between disciplines are artificial [Schumaker 95] ; how they connect remains to be discovered. 
See particularly: Disciplines
"These are over-determined boundaries causing procedural inefficiencies." (G. Eiríksson, 2020.)
== Media ==
=== Books ===
* At The Interface Of Boundaries SeriesAt the Interface / Probing the Boundaries seeks to encourage and promote cutting edge inter-disciplinary and multi-disciplinary projects and inquiry. By bringing people together from differing contexts, disciplines, professions, and vocations, the aim is to engage in conversations that are innovative, imaginative, and creatively interactive.
Inter-disciplinary dialogue enables people to go beyond the boundaries of what they usually encounter and share in perspectives that are new, challenging, and richly rewarding. This kind of dialogue often illuminates one's own area of work, is suggestive of new possibilities for development, and creates exciting horizons for future conversations with persons from a wide variety of national and international settings.
By sharing cross-disciplinary insights and perspectives, ATI/PTB publications are designed to be both exploratory examinations of particular areas and issues, and rigorous inquiries into specific subjects. Books in the series are enabling resources which will encourage sustained and creative dialogue, and become the future resource for further inquiries and research.
Also see www.inter-disciplinary.net for further information on ATI and PTB projects.See Less
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: 1570-7113
== Rhizomata ==
* Barrier; Respect; Disrespect; Trespassing; Transgressing; Evil
* Over-determined boundaries
* State; Terminus; Determined; Border; Escape; Exit; Line of flight; Terminology (the study of boundaries).
* Determinism; Security; Protection; No borders; Borderless; Boundariless; Boundless; Bondless
* Share; Over-sharing; Terminus; Hamartia
=== Etymonline, r. 9 Jan, 2020 ===
boundary (n.) "that which indicates the limits of anything," 1620s, from bound (n.1) + -ary. Strictly, a visible mark indicating a dividing line, a bound being the limit or furthest point of extension of any one thing.