Abuser

Some abusers will train you, brainwash you. You'll get addicted to them. You'll have to hide who you are, because you
have to (according to their program) be someone for them. They may make you become stuck. Actually, if you stick
by a loser (abusers are losers) you have become stuck. Doesn't matter if it's an institution or a person. 
That kind of person or place or institution is like an anchor. They'll keep you stuck. A dark anchor. 
-- Guidon