Gravestone

An urn or gravestone appears on a lot when a Sim dies. An urn can be placed on the floor or on tables and counters. A gravestone can also be placed on the ground outside. In The Sims, The Sims 2, The Sims 3, and The Sims 4, whether a grave appears as an urn or a gravestone will depend on whether it is inside or outside; an urn will become a gravestone if it is moved outside, and a gravestone will become an urn if it is moved inside. Sims can "Mourn" over graves or urns. Beginning with The Sims 2: Nightlife, they can be moved to a community lot. With The Sims 4: Life & Death, Sims can for the first time have customizable gravestones and choose urns as an alternate.
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==The Sims==
In The Sims, different gravestones are available, but players have no control over which one appears after a Sim dies. Pets and famous Sims have their own urns and gravestones.
Graves cannot be placed on community lots. "The Gothic Quarter" in Old Town, and "Vernon's Vault" and "A Spooktacular Spot" in Magic Town all contain gravestones, but they are simply decorative and are not linked to any Sim's ghost.
===Gallery===
TS1_Graves.png|The default graves in The Sims
TS1_PetGraves.png |Pet graves in The Sims: Unleashed
TS1_StarGraves.png|Star graves in The Sims: Superstar
==The Sims 2==
If a Sim had gold or platinum aspiration when they died of old age, a gold gravestone/urn will appear with the dead Sim's aspiration symbol on it. Otherwise, the Sim will get the average, grey gravestone/urn.
If Nightlife or later is installed, players have the option to click on an urn or gravestone and select "Move grave(s)". This moves the grave to a community lot of the player's choice, where it will appear near the telephone. When this is done, the shade of the Sim will appear and wave goodbye, then the grave will disappear, and the player will be notified that the Sim has died on another lot and will return in spirit to the place of their death. It appears that this may refresh the tendency of family members to cry over the death, even if that had largely passed. Another way to move a grave is to place the urn or gravestone in a Sim's inventory, and send that Sim to a community lot. If the player clicks on the ground and selects "Place NAME's Grave Here", the Sim will go to that spot, and the grave will appear there. Regardless of which method is used, the player will be able to select that lot from the neighborhood view, and use the hand tool in Buy or Build mode to place the graves where they wish.
It is a good idea for players who plan to move graves to make a cemetery, but there is a pre-made cemetery, "Gothier Green Lawns", found Downtown next to the House of Fallen Trees.
In The Sims 2: Pets, pets get gravestones/urns that are marked with a pawprint, and the owner(s) of the pet will get a special memory. A pet's urn is grey, and a pet's gravestone is brownish.
With The Sims 2: Seasons installed, a grave can be struck by lightning during a storm. This will cause the ghost to appear (even during the day.) Additionally, in Seasons or later, Sims cannot give graves as gifts.
===The Sims: Castaway Stories===
Graves function similarly in The Sims: Castaway Stories, except the urn has a different visual appearance. There are no tombstones; placing an urn outside simply attaches a stone altar underneath it. Moving the grave back indoors will remove the altar. 
Due to an oversight, the golden gravestone model is missing. Therefore, Sims who are outside and die of old age while having gold or platinum aspiration level will have an invisible grave.
A slightly different style of urn appears during the story, in which the main character is tasked with placing them on altars in a small graveyard at The Forbidden Village.
===Notes===
Gravestones and urns can be deleted in Buy Mode. However, this unlinks the Sim's character file and will make the Sim un-resurrectable. It is not recommended to delete gravestones or urns unless the nounlinkondelete mod from More Awesome Than You is installed to enable you to resurrect the sim at a later time. 
==The Sims 3==
In The Sims 3, there are at least 3 different types of gravestones; a flat plaque-like one, a grey one that's similar to the ones in The Sims 2, and a tall obelisk-type one. A Sim can obtain these different gravestones by:
;Small Plaque
:Dying before earning 75,000 lifetime happiness points.
;Medium Gravestone w/ Plaque
:Dying after earning 75,000 - 149,999 lifetime happiness points.
;Large Gravestone w/ Plaque engraved
:Dying after earning +150,000 lifetime happiness points.
Note: The gravestone a Sim receives following their death is based on the total lifetime happiness points that Sim has received overall, not the number of points that are available when the Sim dies. This means that points spent on lifetime rewards do not affect this number. To see the total number of lifetime happiness points a Sim has earned, hover the cursor over the chest icon in the Lifetime Rewards panel.
A gravestone will have a plaque which shows the cause of the Sim's death:
Plaque - Starvation.png|Starvation and Cowplant
Plaque - Fire.png|Fire
Plaque - Drowning.png|Drowning, running out of air, watery grave and pit monster
Plaque - Electrocution.png|Electrocution
Plaque - Old Age.png|Old age
Plaque - Mummy's Curse.png|Mummy's curse
Plaque - Meteor.png|Meteor
Plaque - Old Age SimBot.png|SimBot death
Plaque - Thirst.png|Thirst
Plaque - Human Statue.png|Human statue
Plaque - Jelly Bean.png|Jelly bean
Plaque - Haunting Curse.png|Haunting curse
Plaque - Transmutation.png|Transmutation
Plaque - Freezing.png|Freezing
Plaque - Blunt Force Trauma.png|Blunt force trauma
Plaque - Ranting.png|Ranting
Plaque - Dehydration.png|Dehydration
Plaque - Shark Attack.png|Shark attack
Plaque - Jetpack Crash.png|Jetpack crash
Plaque - Time Anomaly.png|Time anomaly
Pets , Sims that died in the future and Plumbots have their own urns and gravestones.
===Gallery===
LolitaGoth.png|A small gravestone
PrudenceCrumplebottom.png|A medium gravestone
VictorGoth.png|A large gravestone
UrnsFuture.jpg|Futuristic urns
Graves.jpg|Futuristic gravestones
File:Sims-3-basic-urns.jpg|The base-game urns
==The Sims 4==
In The Sims 4, normal Sims only have one type of gravestone and urn, with unique designs added for cats, dogs, horses and various occult types. A normal urn that is placed over the ocean or a pool will float and appear to be in a life preserver. However, this does not work for occult or pet urns, and they cannot be placed over water as a result.
As auto age is switched on (by default) for all played households, all played Sims will eventually succumb to death by old age if nothing else. However, only Sims who die on-screen will get a tombstone or urn (the Sim does not need to die in their own lot or be a member of the active household). Sims who die of old age off-screen do not. To ensure that all played Sims get a tombstone or urn, you will need to edit auto age to only be applied to active households.
Like in previous games, Sims can be made to mourn dead Sims (although Sims who have a significantly negative relationship with a dead Sim will be given the option to laugh at that Sims grave instead.) Mourning a tombstone or urn will produce a sad Moodlet that lasts for four hours.
Each tombstone has an option to 'Release Spirit to Netherworld'. Once this option has been selected, the dead Sim's remains, ghost, profile, etc. will be permanently removed from the game.
Sims who have died will by default have their spirit gradually lose connection to the physical world, and their spirit will automatically be released after a certain amount of time has passed. This can be halted by selecting the option to 'Strengthen Connection to Physical World' on the tombstone or urn. If this is not done, a notification will appear after a few days stating that the Sim's spirit is fading away, and suggests to the player to attempt to "Strengthen His/Her Connection to the Physical World." Ghosts can also be prevented from disappearing by adding them to a playable household, either by inviting them to move in or by using testing cheats.
===Gravestone Galleries===
====Gravestone gallery====
Gravestone-Sim.png|Normal gravestone
TS4 Cat gravestone.png|Cat gravestone
TS4 Dog gravestone.png|Dog gravestone
Gravestone-Alien.png|Alien gravestone
Gravestone-Vampire.png|Vampire gravestone
Gravestone-Spellcaster.png|Spellcaster gravestone
Servo Gravestone.png|Servo gravestone
Gravestone-Werewolf.png|Werewolf gravestone
Horse gravestone.png|Horse gravestone
TS4 Mermaid gravestone.png|Mermaid gravestoneAdded in patch 170.
=====Choosing Gravestones=====
With Patch 170, players are able to select the appearance for gravestones and urns as well as being able to stick the gravestone inside or urns outside by disabling the auto-switch. Players have added gravestones based on the pack they have.
The Sims 4: Life & Death adds an array of new gravestones and urns for Sims to have.
Gravestone-Sim L&D 1.png
Gravestone-Sim L&D 2.png
Gravestone-Sim.png
Gravestone-Sim L&D 3.png
Gravestone-Sim L&D 4.png
Gravestone-Sim L&D 5.png
Gravestone-Sim L&D 6.png
Gravestone-Sim L&D 7.png
====Urn gallery====
Urn-Sim.png|Normal urn
TS4 Cat urn.png|Cat urn
TS4 Dog urn.png|Dog urn
Urn-Alien.png|Alien urn
Urn-Vampire.png|Vampire urn
Urn-Spellcaster.png|Spellcaster urn
TS4 Servo urn.png|Servo urn
Urn-Werewolf.png|Werewolf urn
Horse urn.png|Horse urn
TS4 Mermaid urn.png|Mermaid urn
Urn-Sim L&D.png|L&D urn option
=====Urns floating in water=====
Urn-Sim Water.png
Urn-Spellcaster Water.png
Urn-Werewolf Water.png
==Trivia==
*In The Sims 2, moving a gravestone to a community lot may change the type of death of Sims (from any kind of death) to starvation. This is also true vice versa.
*In The Sims 2, moving a table with a tombstone/urn on it will prevent the grave's appearance from being switched between urn or tombstone. However, if the grave is taken off of the table and placed elsewhere, it will retain it's accurate appearance (urn if inside, tombstone if outside.)
*In The Sims 3, when a Sim dies, the player has the option of whether to keep the grave on the Sim's home lot or to put it into a cemetery.
*In The Sims 3, having a playable ghost with the same name appearing on another gravestone may cause the "Return to Netherworld" option to appear if the player clicks on it, even if the gravestone doesn't belong to the ghost.
*The player can get gravestones and urns with the BuyDebug cheat on known as "Remains", however, they will not contain ghosts.
*In The Sims 3: Showtime, when a Sim dies as a human statue, the gravestone has a plaque implying the Sim died by fire prior to Patch 38, where it is changed to two crossed shovels. This is also the default for remains (graves without ghosts;) however, it can be changed by using cheats.
*In The Sims 3: Island Paradise, when a Sim dies by running out of air, the gravestone has a plaque implying the Sim died by drowning.
*In The Sims 3: Ambitions, when a SimBot dies in any way, the plaque on the gravestone will be a SimBot's hand holding up an hourglass.
*In The Sims 3: Into the Future, Sims who die in Oasis Landing will get a futuristic holographic gravestone. However, these gravestones can be accessed by purchasing them using the BuyDebug cheat.
**Also, ghosts - who were created in Create-A-Sim - will get a holographic gravestone, if their deaths were set to be Jetpack crash or Time anomaly.
**The holographic plaque of death by shark attack and dehydration from Island Paradise erroneously has the plaque of death by old age.
*In The Sims 3: Into the Future, Plumbots have their own gravestone and urn. The gravestone has a holographic plaque of spinning gears.
*In The Sims 4, mermaids originally did not have unique gravestone and urn designs when The Sims 4: Island Living released; they simply used the designs for normal Sims. Patch 170 corrected this oversight and gave them their own designs.
*In The Sims 4, if one takes a look at the Grim Reaper's tablet, one can see the large gravestone from The Sims 3 
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