Idealisation

they ignore how you feel and interact with idealised versions of you--- anon, July 4, 2021discordIdealisation is a natural human process. Idealisation is necessary for narcissistic supply, and national formation. Excessive idealisation is associated with an excessive demand on an individual, such as where someone needy parentifies another adult individual against their will, essentially the thought is "you are so ideal you can act like my parent," the same is seen with national leaders to various degrees --- they are idealised as fathers of nations and even referred to as such; some are tyrants. 
Disabled people tend to get rejected for not meeting an ideal of how the human should be.
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Ideal; Narcissism; Self-image; Idolism; Projection; Psychological Transference
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