Taming the Mammoth: Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think

Taming the Mammoth: Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think is a blog post on Wait But Why. It is about why humans care so much about what others think for irrational reasons, peer pressure, and how to listen to your authentic self.
== Summary ==
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The blog post argues that many people are too concerned with what other people think of them, and that this prevents them from being their authentic selves and living a fulfilling life. The author uses the metaphor of a mammoth to represent the part of our brain that is obsessed with social approval and conformity, and that evolved to help us survive in ancient times when being part of a tribe was essential. The author suggests that in modern times, the mammoth is often irrational and harmful, and that we should tame it by listening to our authentic voice instead.
The author explains how the mammoth influences our decisions and behaviors in various aspects of our lives, such as our career, our relationships, our hobbies, and our identity. He also identifies some common signs that indicate we are being controlled by the mammoth, such as feeling anxious, insecure, jealous, or resentful; avoiding risks or challenges; following trends or fads; or hiding our true opinions or passions.
The author proposes some steps to tame the mammoth and free ourselves from its tyranny, such as:
* Becoming aware of our own values, goals, and preferences, and how they differ from those of others or society.
* Developing a healthy self-esteem and confidence that are based on our own standards and achievements, not on external validation or comparison.
* Being honest and transparent with ourselves and others, and expressing our authentic voice without fear of judgment or rejection.
* Seeking feedback and criticism from people who respect us and want us to grow, not from people who are insecure or malicious.
* Surrounding ourselves with people who support us and inspire us, not with people who drag us down or pressure us.
* Pursuing our passions and interests, and finding ways to contribute to the world in a meaningful way.
The author concludes by stating that taming the mammoth is not easy or comfortable, but it is worth it because it leads to a happier and more fulfilling life. He also acknowledges that caring what other people think is not always bad, as long as it is balanced with caring what we think. He hopes that his blog post can help readers to tame their own mammoths and discover their authentic selves.
== Full post ==
https://waitbutwhy.com/2014/06/taming-mammoth-let-peoples-opinions-run-life.html
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