[EncoderDecoder] Make tests more aggressive
Author: patrickvonplaten
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Before merging #9183, we should make sure that the EncoderDecoder and caching tests are aggressive enough to be sure everything works as expected.

In addition, this PR refactors the `_expand_mask` function in Bart making it cleaner and move the responsibility correctly to the `attention_mask` creation.


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