make sure to disable gradients for integer tensor
Author: winglian
Pull request: yes

# What does this PR do?

When doing 8bit lora's with deepspeed zero3, the Int8Params should have requires_grad=False otherwise the following error occurs:

```
[rank0]:   File "/root/miniconda3/envs/py3.11/lib/python3.11/site-packages/bitsandbytes/nn/modules.py", line 574, in __new__
[rank0]:     obj = torch.Tensor._make_subclass(cls, data, requires_grad)
[rank0]:           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
[rank0]: RuntimeError: Only Tensors of floating point and complex dtype can require gradients
```
this used to work several months ago


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Comments:
cc @ArthurZucker for final :) 

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@ArthurZucker @muellerzr I rebased this against latest transformers and tested on my end