Marriage ( Final Fantasy XI ) In " Final Fantasy XI " , players may choose to marry a member of the opposite gender , racial differences are irrelevant and interracial couples are not uncommon . In order to be married the bride and groom must have at least one job at level 20 and contact one of the Wedding Masters in the three nations ; Pompi - Rompi in Windurst , Cloud Walker in Bastok , and Rambard in San d ' Oria . A wedding may have 3 to 36 invited witnesses , maybe more depending on the venue . Wedding Services . Expenses . Wedding service fees vary with the size of the ceremony . Windurstian Wedding Ceremony Procedures Styles . Windurstian weddings are based on a traditional Tarutaru ceremony created by the first Star Sibyl . A Sibyl Celebrant presides over the ceremony in the Star Sibyl ' s place . This is an excellent choice for those who want a cheerful ceremony . The bride and groom must each prepare an offering of food beforehand . San d ’ Orian Wedding Ceremony Procedures In a traditional San d ' Orian wedding , the bride and groom swear lifelong loyalty to each other before the Goddess Altana . A Temple Knight presides over this solemn ceremony . The bride and groom must bring their weapons to the ceremony for their vows . Bastokan Wedding Ceremony Procedures Registrars from the Department of Industry preside over these informal and relaxed ceremonies . The bride , groom , and chaperone join in a toast with drinks provided by the President . Items . Weddings Items The first location is the pride of Bastok and the birthplace of much of our advanced technology , the Metalworks . Chief Engineer Cid has generously allowed the small room enshrined with a statue of the Goddess to be used for wedding ceremonies . Venues . Bastok . While certainly not the most spacious location for your special day , for a small ceremony with only those closest to you , it is unsurpassed . The memories created in the flickering candlelight of the altar will last a lifetime . This corner of the wharf faces the Dalha River where it empties into the sea . Airships and the drawbridge provide a continuous change of scenery that will keep wedding guests entertained . This old lighthouse was built on a cliff overlooking the Sea of Zafmlug . It offers a marvelous view of the sea below . The widow of Count Caffaule , the pious Hinaree , has generously offered her mansion for the celebration of nuptials . The main hall of the manor is available for a small , dignified ceremony with only the dearest of friends in attendance . Should you desire the presence of many compatriots and allies , you can request to hold your ceremony in the spacious front garden of the estate . One location that meets all of the church ' s requirements is the Central Garden of Chateau d ' Oraguille . While the garden is in principle closed even to our own citizens , adventurers are permitted entrance . To have your holy wedding ceremony here is among the highest and most enduring of honors . You must have the royal family ' s permission to hold a ceremony here . San d ' Orians must have a minimum rank of 2 , and others must have a minimum rank of 3 . The Orastery is the largest of Windurst ' s five ministries . From its balcony , one can see the ocean stretching away to the horizon , making it a prime spot for pictures . The Rhinostery is one of the five ministries of Windurst . A platform extends from the building out into a lake . The fluoro flora growing around the lake bring a mystical glow to weddings here . This is the residence of the apprentice mages who will be entrusted with the future of Windurst . Offering a wonderful view of the Great Star Tree , it makes an excellent wedding location for anyone who doesn ' t mind the noise of the students . This secluded spot is high atop a cliff overlooking the Pamtam Straits . No one can disturb a ceremony here . This beautiful temple stands upon Jeuno ' s Artisan Bridge . Its solemn atmosphere is highly regarded by the devout worshipers who visit .