Virginity Virginity was the state of not ever having had sex . Virginity was long associated with purity , innocence and cleanliness . ( PROSE : " The Murder Game " , " Virgin Lands " ) Many cultures expected their females to remain virgins until marriage . ( PROSE : " The Adventuress of Henrietta Street " ) In keeping with this viewpoint , a tapestry in the sewer s of a human colony depicted a female virgin in long , white robes with a sleeping dragon at her feet . ( PROSE : " The Menagerie " ) For men , on the other hand , it was a source of embarrassment . ( TV : " The Satan Pit " ) In fact , an early - 19th - century soldier hired a prostitute likely after getting teased by his peers for never having had sex . ( TV : " Greeks Bearing Gifts " ) Invading Mongol s rape d every virgin in the vicinity of their new conquest . ( PROSE : " Bunker Soldiers " ) Erszebet Bathory , also known as the Blood Countess , once brutally murder ed 612 virgin girls , and documented the nature of their deaths in her diary . ( PROSE : " Possum Kingdom " ) In some cultures , female virgins were sacrificed to god s . ( PROSE : " Deadly Reunion " , " " ) It was believed that sometimes Jew s but mainly Muslims sacrificed virgins and slaughtered babies , too . ( PROSE : " Asylum " ) In Roman times , Vestal Virgin s were priest esses vowed to forever remain virgins . It was believed in the 19th century that sex with virgins could cure sexuallly transmitted disease s . Child ren were often taken by hospital s like the Lock for these purposes . ( PROSE : " Empire of Death " ) According to Fitz Kreiner , losing one ' s virginity felt " exciting " and " dangerous " . ( PROSE : " Interference - Book Two " ) In one timeline , Samantha Jones lost her virginity at 15 . ( PROSE : " Alien Bodies " ) When Ace was 16 she lost her virginity to Sabalom Glitz on the floor of his spaceship after being swept there via a time storm . ( PROSE : " Happy Endings " ) Brigadier Alistair Gordon Lethbridge - Stewart lost his virginity to a woman named Vera on the night of his promotion to second lieutenant . ( PROSE : " Deadly Reunion " ) John Benton lost his virginity to a girl named Deborah Phelan . ( PROSE : " The Devil Goblins from Neptune " ) Bev Tyler lost hers to Jake McAuliffe ; Jake later boasted upon this to his friends . ( PROSE : " Damaged Goods " ) Carys Fletcher ' s " first " was Eddie Gwynne , although she was too embarrassed to tell him at the time . ( TV : " Day One " ) Caroline Darnell lost her virginity without consent ; the experience left her sick for years . ( PROSE : " The Sleep of Reason " ) Jude Black held on to her virginity until the age of seventeen , when she " made sure the millenium had ended with a bang " . ( PROSE : " Iceberg " ) Lorris Hunsdon was still virginal at the age of 39 . ( PROSE : " Bernice Summerfield and the Library of Books " ) Toby Zed was still a virgin at the time of his death on Krop Tor . ( TV : " The Satan Pit " ) So was Julian Winmill , even though he somehow had a reputation for getting to " lay " anyone he wanted . ( PROSE : " Legacy " ) Queen Elizabeth I was nicknamed the " Virgin Queen " , although , as both he and Elizabeth X implied , this name was no longer applicable once the Tenth Doctor got to her . ( AUDIO : " The Marian Conspiracy " ; TV : " The End of Time " , " The Beast Below " ) The owner of an Internet café colloquially referred to the Eighth Doctor ' s potential first surf of the Internet as the loss of his " net virginity " . ( PROSE : " The Dying Days " ) The Doctor . According to one account , from a literal standpoint , the Doctor did not have sex until his eighth incarnation . ( PROSE : " The Dying Days " ; AUDIO : " Benny ' s Story " ) Other accounts maintained that he had fathered children biologically and " was a dad " . ( TV : " Fear Her " , " The Doctor ' s Daughter " , " Listen " , " Death in Heaven " )