Winona Ryder , grunge and  Nirvana , the early 90s pop-cultural opinion on gays changing from punchlines to people, the sarcasm and cynical humor,  Clueless , Daria  (with tiny hints of  Beavis and Butthead  too),  wangsty self-harm , and... well, let's be honest here,  Columbine  is the elephant in the room.  Beyond cultural