Daisey , in Norman, Oklahoma, USA , home of the University of Oklahoma .   Daughter and son-in-law, Carri and Dustin , live nearby in Oklahoma City .   o    These sites have information about Chuck:   members.cox.net/chuxstuff , myspace.com/prof.oates , facebook.com/prof.oates ,   picasaweb.google.com/CLOates , ProfOates.blogspot.com and , of course