the  Haft Awrang  of  Jami , in the story  A Father Advises his Son About Love. Courtship. Tondo of an  Ancient Greek Attic  red-figure   kylix , ca. 480 BC, from  Vulci . Louvre  Museum, Paris. Courting,  Tacuinum Sanitatis (XIV century) While the date is fairly casual in most European-influenced cultures,