For younger children, we recommend that you don’t tell your child anything about the test until a day or so before their appointment so they don’t get nervous.  Avoid saying that it’s a test or mentioning anything about “passing or failing”.  It’s important that you remain calm, too, because your child will know something’s up if you’re anxious. If they ask, tell them these meetingshelp you make important school decisions so that he or she can do their best in class.  That’s it – keep it simple!
Older children realize that they’re struggling in school so it’s best to be upfront with them. Explain these meetings will help you (parents), their teachers, and counselors understand what’s going on academically and get them the help they need so they do their best in school.