You can choose between multiple messaging options, so it's all up to you how you'd like to contact another user.
Free members can send five messages and use those to contact anybody they would like.
Female users can reply to messages for free and do not require an account upgrade to do so.
Premium subscribers have no messaging limited, so they can send as many or as little as they wish!
Winks are free for everybody and are great digital icebreakers if you're unsure how to introduce yourself or want a quick messaging option.
Private messages for premium users also provide the functionality to send photos and videos to each other.