When we forgive someone who has wronged us, we are being obedient to the Word of God. Additionally, we are exhibiting Christ-like virtues. Above all, it is important that we obey the Commands of the Lord even if we don’t understand why God wants us to do something, or even if we don’t necessarily agree emotionally. 1 Samuel 15:22 says, in essence, that to obey God is better than any sacrifice we could offer. Being obedient to Him shows that we love and trust Him and His Word. Forgiveness is not optional. God Commands us to forgive others just as He has forgiven us and we are wise to heed the divine exhortation. Forgive and trust God with the rest.