When selecting an online support group for domestic violence, it's important to consider your safety. Even if you are no longer with the person who abused you, there is a chance that they could still be monitoring or stalking you in some way. For this reason, you want to select an online support group that is secure and private. It's best to avoid public forums and social media groups where anyone can see what is being posted. Likewise, you should not use your real name or a nickname that could allow people to identify who you are. Another way to stay safe is to make sure that you are using a secure computer, clearing your history after you visit an online support group, and not giving out personal information like your address, telephone number, or email address. And, if you're using a social media support group, you need to refrain from sending people in the group private messages or allowing them to message you. Many times, these messages will pop up on a phone, tablet, or computer as a notification and could put you or someone else at risk.