Depending on how old your child is, you could ask them how they'd like to cope with the hospital stay. Maybe they want to bring a few books, or maybe they'll want a handheld gaming system. When it comes to processing the stay, I'd ask your child if they want to talk about what they're going through. If they want to discuss the medical problem, let them open up. If they want to just stay distracted, don't push them on it. Also, try to plan some fun activities you can do as a family. Even if it's just a board game or cards, it will really help your child feel like things are normal.