There is one key thing every bride, including you, should remember when choosing her bridal party. It’s your day and you should only choose people to be in your wedding party because you want them to be in it — not because you feel obligated to do so. You don’t owe anyone a spot in your bridal lineup just because you were in their wedding party or because you’ve known someone for a long time. Choose attendants that will not only love and support you both before and on your big day, but who won’t add drama or stress to your happy event. If you have a friend or loved one that doesn’t meet that criteria, it is your prerogative to leave them out of your bridal party. If you’re worried about hurting someone you care about, see our tips on how you can honor ladies you haven’t chosen for your wedding party.