Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You The number one indication that your spouse may be cheating is an sudden need for privacy. If your spouse has always been a “private” person, even with you, this may not indicate an affair. But if your spouse was previously open with you, and suddenly is withdrawn and is keeping things from you that he or she previously shared, this could indicate an affair. Asks about your schedule more often than usual Significantly less, or more, or different sex in your relationship Begins to use new or free e-mail account Periods where your significant other is unreachable Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration Changing previously shared passwords and not sharing the new password Clearing internet history every time the computer is used Clothes smell of perfume or cologne Creating new personal email addresses, or using a secret email address Deleting call and text history Deleting e-mail messages Gets his / her laundry done independently Has a second phone, especially one he or she didn’t tell you about Has more cash on hand without accountability Has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse Leaving the room to take phone calls Mileage on car is high yet he/she reports only short distance errands Minimizing computer screens when you enter the room Now has a phone card but never used one before Password protecting phones or computers when they never did before Unexplained payments on bank statements or credit card bills Uses computer alone and secretly Your partner is hostile toward you and your relationship