Sometimes couples who go through the complete process receive affirmation that the relationship is beyond repair or simply no longer in the couple's best interest. Knowing this and learning about separating amicably can be beneficial for couples who can't work things out. Separation or divorce will not be suggested, as that is a very personal choice. Still, the topic may come up for your discussion if the situation warrants it. Divorce counseling is available to help you have a smoother divorce.