If you love your partner and want to save your relationship, you must listen to her carefully and understand her concerns. Still, if you cannot get some positive results, follow these listed steps to take over this crisis.  1. Act as though you will move forward with confidence 2. Allow her to share her concern about why she wants to separate 3. Be your best self to care for her and love her 4. Behave respectfully towards your wife so that her heart melts for you 5. Don't be arrogant  6. Get her opinions in different situations 7. Give her space to think about her decisions