At the time of your registration, you were asked to pick both your gender and your orientation. Based on these decisions, NextLove’s website will only show you users that you may be interested in. If you have accidentally selected an orientation that does not suit you, you can change it by following these simple steps: Go to your profile by selecting your profile avatar photo. Scroll to the basic option ‘Orientation’. Change orientation to what truly suits you (straight, homosexual, bisexual). If you wish to change your own sex/gender, you will only be able to change it by contacting their customer service.