A lot of young people tend to go this route these days because they feel most comfortable behind a screen. But etiquette dictates that couples should have a more in-depth conversation, not a text breakup, if they’ve been together for a significant period of time. Couples in a long-distance relationship may have this dialogue via phone call or video call — or even a text if there are scheduling issues. However, if it’s not too inconvenient to see someone in person for a breakup, that’s generally the polite thing to do. If you’re dead set on breaking up via phone or text, it’s a good idea to rehearse what you’re going to say. Maybe write out a script for the call or send a rough draft of your text to a friend. You should aim to be firm in your intention but gentle with your wording. “Remember to keep the conversation short,” Jodi advises. “You have made your decision, and you should not be swayed or emotionally manipulated by something they would say.” Weddings are steeped in tradition and formalities that can be a lot for engaged couples to deal with, and we’ve frequently gotten questions about how to make that special day the best it can be. Now Jodi weighs in on proper wedding etiquette for the modern couple.