Choose a side. A fascinator must always be worn to the sides. Although recently, some are wearing them in from of their heads, it’s harder to pull off. Unless you’re a seasoned hat wearer, stick with the side. Balance the proportions. If you have straight sleek hair, go for a smaller fascinator. If your hair is in an up and loose style, pair it with a medium-sized fascinator. If you are letting your hair down, go for the bigger fascinators. Get rid of the elastic. If ever your fascinator has an elastic strap, never wear it on your chin. It’s not a children’s party and you’re not wearing a party hat. This is a major faux pas. You can wear the strap at the nape of your neck, behind your ears, and secure it with a pin.