If you have never previously experienced using a dildo, buy something nice, small, and comfortable that you can enjoy before you move on to some different types and the bigger sex toys. All our products are safe and manufactured to the highest quality, but starting with something like a Colours Pleasures Vibrating 5” Dong is a good place to start. But, at the end of the day, it’s all down to personal preference, and if you want 13” Blackout, and you’re comfortable with that, and it gives you the afterglow you’re looking for, then get the lube out and enjoy!