Instead of focusing on him, perhaps you might consider how you feel—you have a say in this, too. In other words, don't call him your boyfriend until the following ten things occur: 1. He plans dates. To be honest, it doesn't matter if he prepares a wonderfully romantic night in. Don't do anything that would draw attention to the fact that you're dating, such as acquiring hickeys. Maintain your composure and equilibrium. When you first start dating a guy or girl, you're likely to feel quite enthusiastic and joyful. Most others will notice the difference or "glow" that has occurred in you and will speculate as to what is going on. When he doesn't call for several days, Tell me if you know this scenario: you've been messaging a man and he's giving you the impression that he's very into you. Everything is well until he suddenly stops talking. For several days