Don't write down what you want in a relationship, but instead focus on only what you need. You might want a partner who makes a lot of money, but that might not be what you need. Go through the list and see if your current relationship has what you need.
If you don't have what you need with your partner, determine whether you can make changes in the relationship. If the answer is no, then be honest with yourself about what you need to do next, even if that is leaving them.
Be careful with what you ask your partner for because you are also accountable for finding what you need. If you unfairly ask for too much from your partner, you might damage an otherwise excellent relationship.