Taking on a new city with someone is a major commitment, especially if you're still in the early stages of your relationship. You don't want to make a large move for someone else and then not receive your happily ever after; it's much worse if the city doesn't help you. Before you take this step, be sure that you are both ready for this type of commitment. It's important to understand that moving across country with someone else will change your relationship forever. There won't be any more first dates or trips home for the holidays, so be sure that you aren't just looking for "company while I drink myself to death alone in my apartment." If you are planning on staying together long-term, start thinking about where you might live. It's not easy finding good jobs in cities all over the United States, so if you aren't able to find something close to each other's homes or schools, it might be best to stay separate. Finally, be sure that you love one another before you take this huge step forward. Moving away from family and friends is hard enough without adding pain through misunderstandings or disagreements. Life in a new city may cause these problems to arise even sooner than expected, so be sure that you can handle them when they do. After deciding that moving together is what you want, contact employers to see who has openings and apply accordingly.