However, that is not always the end. Getting back together after a split is a pretty normal occurrence. According to one survey, over half of couples admitted to reconnecting with their spouse after they had broken up. However, despite the fact that it is done regularly, recreating a relationship after a split is not a simple task. It takes work and dedication from both parties. There are two main types of relationships: positive and negative. A positive relationship gives us feelings of happiness and contentment, whereas in a negative relationship we feel unhappy and unfulfilled. In other words, we are compatible with someone who makes us happy, and we are not compatible with someone who makes us sad. In terms of longevity, there is no difference between a positive relationship and a healthy one-year marriage. It is true that older marriages tend to be more positive than younger ones, but this has nothing to do with how long the partners have known each other. Rather, it has everything to do with how hard they fight. Fighting is normal in any relationship, but in positive ones it is just part of what makes them so special. An argument can make either of you feel bad, but only when you stop fighting does real love begin to bloom. In conclusion, there is no such thing as a toxic relationship. Any relationship can become unhealthy if one or both parties don't work on themselves then it will never be perfect.