Thoughtfulness and consideration are the keys to keeping the romance alive in any relationship. People love to be recognized even if it is with such insignificant things as a note on the desk or a card mailed to them while away on a business trip. Letting the other person know he or she is special secures the bond between two people. Breaking routine is also romantic. You may consider spending a weekend in a downtown hotel, or a surprise trip to a country inn or the beach. Showing both concern and creativity in giving to the other person is a reflection of love. Write a poem. Prepare a special dinner. Throw a surprise party. Romance is based upon an active fantasy life. Try various roles and themes in your social life and your sexual activities.