Start by asking your child to turn their Goodtimer upside down. If they refuse, it is okay for you to turn it over for them, but always give them the chance to do it first. A critical element of the Goodtimer experience is that your child takes responsibility for their own behavior, so keeping them involved in the whole process as much as possible helps them learn. Once Good Time is paused, if they need to take a few moments to calm down, give them that time. When they are calm, discuss why Good Time had to be paused and ask them what they think they should do to make amends for their behavior. Making amends can include, stating what they did, saying or acting out what they should have done instead, apologizing, and then offering an act of kindness to the other person involved. A kindness could be a hug, sharing a toy or treat, doing a good deed, etc. Once they have made amends, give them permission to turn their Goodtimer rightside up again. Sometimes it may only be paused for a couple minutes, other times it may take a lot longer, it really depends on the child's emotional state and how quickly they turn their behavior around.