Start with the numbers in your birthdate and add them up in a specific way. For instance, if you are born Feb. 14, 1990, in numerology that is 2 + 14 + 1990 = 2006. Further add 2 + 6 = 8, to get your life path number of 8. The only time you don't reduce the final number is if it is an 11, 22 or 33, which are master numbers. You can also use a similar technique with your full name to find your destiny number.