There are many ways to resolve family law matters that do not involve going to court. One of the most commonly used alternatives is mediation. Mediation is an informal method of coming to a resolution between parties when wanting to separate or divorce. The same issues can be resolved in mediation as going to court. Although it is not necessary for either or both parties to have a lawyer, it is highly recommended. During the actual mediation the mediator (person conducting the facilitation between the two parties) is not able to provide any legal advice.