Ha! I’m an over-packer, too, and I’m not ashamed to admit it!
I am more than happy to pay extra fees for my extra luggage.
When shooting a travel TV show, it’s important I have all my necessities… 20 pairs of shoes, 50 dresses, 10 purses. Okay, just kidding, but I am much happier with lots of choices taken from my personal closet from home.
I’m not into the “pack 2 shirts and 2 pants, and wear for 2 weeks 100 different ways”. It’s not me.
On my website here, I do offer packing tips for various trips. It’s up to you what to bring and what not to bring!