Having supportive individuals around you is the single most significant aspect in recovering from sorrow and loss. You may help the children in your care recover by asking them about their feelings, spending time with them just being there, and listening when they want to communicate. Social workers can also help by providing support and guidance during this difficult time. Foster parents often feel guilty for losing a child, but it is normal to experience grief over the loss of a loved one. It is important not to compare your foster child to her/his biological siblings or other children in your care. They may have had different experiences than others, but that doesn't mean they weren't equally as valuable in your eyes. If you are experiencing depression or anxiety due to the loss, it is important to seek professional help. Your mental health is important so don't hesitate to ask for what you need. Many organizations provide resources for foster parents who have lost a child. You may want to contact these groups for support: American Foster Care Association (www.afca.org) Association of Family & Children's Placement Services (AFCPS) Child Welfare League of America (CWLA)