You can't get in trouble (so long as you don't lie to the court), but the court probably won't--and isn't supposed to--talk to you about this or let you set the date. Only the party herself (your daughter) or her attorney can do anything in court (or with the court, by phone) about her divorce; other people, even parents, cannot. Your daughter should retain an attorney to help her with all aspects of her divorce, including scheduling.