Buddygays lets the users talk in many ways. You can chat with someone, send Flirtcasts and private messages. You can talk to people online with the chatting option since the messages will not be saved if they are offline. If you want to send a private message, it will be left for the user to open later. The Flirtcasts are aimed at reaching as many people as possible and getting their attention. There is an option to put like on someone’s profile and, in that way, stimulate them to text you first.