You have already stated the answer to your own question.Gonna lay down some tough love here. I can sympathize with both of you, have been on both sides of this particular fence. However, you have some work to do.First, understand that he cares enough to tell you that youu2019re not meeting his needs. *This is a good thing!*. It means that he acknowledges the problem, has thought through it enough to express it, and feels that the situation can be corrected.Do for him what you obviously expect him to do for you: acknowledge his feelings, acknowledge that he is feeling frustrated, discuss what you can do to make things easier for him, then commit to doing those things.I get it, I really do. It can be really hard to empathize with someone when youu2019re struggling. Been there. HOWEVER, you are in a relationship. His feelings are valid too, and his emotional needs are every bit as important as yours. Demanding support, space, and understanding from your partner without giving the same in return spells doom for your relationship. Itu2019s easy to fix. So fix it.