A first dance song at a wedding does not have to be a slow love song. While many couples choose a love song to first dance to at their wedding, there are no rules that state the first dance song must be a love song. Some couples choose first dance songs that are special to them, such as the song that was playing when they first met or the first song they danced to together. Others choose first dance songs that reflect their personalities or have a fun and festive vibe. Ultimately, the decision of what first dance song to choose is up to the couple and what will make them feel most special on their wedding day.