Your question leaves me a bit confused, since in the heading you say her lawyer wants the financial affidavit, but later you say it's your insurance company.  And in either case, I can't figure out from what you've said why this would have anything to do with anything, because ordinarily that sort of thing only is required after a lawsuit has been started and finished, judgment is entered and the winner of the lawsuit is looking for assets to get paid from.Please get your own attorney right away.  You will have to give him or her much more detailed information, for advice that you can rely on.  One place to find a qualified attorney near you is our website, http://attorneypages.com