For the housing costs it depends on the place where you will be located. In the rural areas housing is less expensive than in the urban area. For a room the costs are roughly between 400 and 600 euros per month. Again, if you arrange it yourself you can get housing better suited for your needs and/or cheaper housing.
Food costs depend on what you eat and where you buy it. If you chose the discounter supermarkets it will be a lot cheaper. A general idea of the cost of living you can get here.
For having a car there are several costs including tax, insurance and fuel, the amount of tax is dependent on the type of car, the weight, the fuel and the place you live. There is calculator where you can calculate this here.
Insurance costs depend on the type of insurance you want and other variables like the type of car, your age, number of claim–free years etc. In The Netherlands it is mandatory for all cars to have at least a third party liability car insurance. This insurance is called WA (Wettelijke Aansprakelijkheid in Dutch) which covers damages inflicted with your own car to other people and their property. You can also choose more comprehensive coverage, which is called WA Plus or All Risk coverage.You can get an idea of the premiums on websites such as independer.nl.
The premium for the health insurance (as of 2020) option we can arrange for you is € 108 per month.The premium applies to every person obliged to be insured aged 18 or over.