The best dating site depends on what you're looking for, but Match and eharmony are our top picks for most people. Both of these apps offer a large over-40 user base and detailed profiles. You may also want to consider Elite Singles, which caters to professionals seeking serious relationships. While Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble are popular with younger folks, success is still possible for the over-40 singles. OkCupid has a higher percentage of 40+ users (compared to its competitors) and is a great option for the liberal and LGBTQ+ communities, offering a space to be your most authentic self sans judgment.