How Identifying Issues Can Benefit Your Marriage Sometimes merely admitting a problem is the most important step toward finding a solution. Couples who arrange their first therapy session frequently report changes in their marriage even before their first meeting. Changes that occur before therapy starts include an increase in trust and openness between the husband and wife, as well as a decrease in conflict between them. During your session, we will discuss ways to improve communication, understanding, and affection between you and your spouse. We will also work on reducing any tension or anxiety that may be causing or contributing to your identified issue(s). By acknowledging and dealing with issues before they become problems, you are taking a proactive approach to keeping your relationship healthy and happy.