This is an excellent question because veterans benefits are severely underused. Contact your local VA to learn more about the Aid and Attendance program. There are also several nonprofits that work with veterans to process their claims. VA benefits are not automatically given; they must be applied for, and recipients must meet specific requirements. Veterans with spouses could receive a certain amount annually toward personal home care services, assisted living or nursing home care. Spouses of deceased veterans may be eligible for a separate amount annually.