You have options because there are two distinct types of divorce proceedings. Uncontested Divorce: As the name suggests, an uncontested divorce is ideal for divorce proceedings - this is the type of divorce where both parties agree to the terms outlined in the divorce paperwork and move on. Contested Divorce: A contested divorce occurs when your spouse refuses to sign the paperwork or outright ignores the request. While this can complicate things, this is when you will be able to bring the issue before a court and petition a judge to grant the divorce. So, while it is within their rights to not sign the presented paperwork, it does not necessarily prevent you from successfully divorcing your spouse.