There will be instances when your viewpoint on an issue is so diametrically opposed to your spouse's that you are taken aback. Allow it to be, and agree to disagree. As a pair, you must acknowledge that no one wins when one of you is always correct, according to relationship counselor Lisa Schmidt. Your partnership will experience ups and downs. They are all correct. "True love goes on a dirt road," as Elvis Presley once sang. However, in order to maintain your bond as holy and powerful as it should be, avoid involving others in your relationship troubles.