If the person simply refuses any self guided correction and refuses any church initiated suggestions, then it's time to say something like: Your abusive fear mongering will NOT dictate the actions of this church, it's safety team, will not steal from community resources, and we will not take part in a lie. If you can not stop (especially after the 1st, 2nd, or subsequent event), then we need to take better steps to get you the help you need.