Instead of fighting with each other about every issue in a New Jersey divorce through the court system, which is time consuming and very costly, the couple instead meets with a trained accredited divorce mediator and over the course of several sessions the divorce mediator working closely with the divorcing couple identifies their concerns and pinpoints those important issues affecting their family. The New Jersey divorce mediator is there as a neutral person who guides the couple through the mediation process and assists the couple in communicating their points of view concerning their assets, liabilities, future support and co-parenting issues. The experienced divorce mediator also provides the couple with multiple options for resolving those issues. The divorce mediator will enable discussions in a non-threatening, non-judgmental environment in order to achieve the divorcing couples' goals and arrive at a divorce settlement agreement that both parties feel is reasonable and fair.