There is no scientific proof of any association of rheumatoid arthritis with menopause. Regarding birth control pills and rheumatoid arthritis, there is some soft evidence that those taking pills either get mild disease or get the disease less often. However, these early reports have never been confirmed. Although you have not asked but I consider it my duty to inform you that the last 5 years or so have seen fantastic advances in the drug treatment of rheumatoid arthritis. I am sure your rheumatologist is giving you the benefit of these new and wonderful drugs.