A counsellor’s job is to listen to you and guide you toward making the right life decisions. Remember that a counsellor is not supposed to judge you or tell you what to do. Sometimes, they might sum up what you have told them so that you can form a new plan of action. However, they will never pass judgment and tell you how to live your life.
Once the client has fully understood and clarified the problem areas, then the counsellor can work with them at their pace.