If yur marital dissolution agreement states that you are to receive the escrow refund from your former spouse but have not, then you should do as follows:1. write him a letter stating that you need to receive it by a certain date. keep a copy of the letter for future use and need.2. if not received by the due date, consult with a family law attorney and file a petition for an order to show cause for violation of the court order against your "ex".