Success in online dating can be redefined by shifting the focus from solely finding a partner to other meaningful outcomes and experiences. Instead of measuring success based solely on whether or not you find "the one," consider defining success as personal growth, self-discovery, building new connections and friendships, improving communication skills, or simply enjoying the process without placing excessive pressure on outcomes. By broadening our definition of success in online dating, we open ourselves up to diverse opportunities for learning and fulfillment beyond romantic relationships alone.