We usually look around on your wedding day to find a private location with great light. But if there’s a specific spot at your venue that you just love, we’ll do it there. If you’re both getting ready at the same location (on site at the venue, same hotel, family farm) we suggest doing it there. It’s much easier to orchestrate getting you into to position without seeing one another if you started in the same spot. If you’re getting ready at separate locations, then you should have a first look at your ceremony site. The groom should typically arrive first and hide away while the bride arrives. You’d hate to go through all this trouble only to have your first look through a car window.