Some of the ways to deal with an irrationally angry husband are given below: Listen: Most often, people want to be heard, and they start yelling out of frustration and helplessness. Get some fresh air: As much important is it to provide a safe environment to the husband, it is equally important for you to ground yourself. Get some fresh air and try to give him space. Think empathetically: Try to see his point of view and respond empathetically rather than from a defensive end. Discuss it: communication is key to healthy conflict management. Discuss with your husband what is bothering him and how you both can come to a resolution.