Almost all venues work on a first come - first served basis, so deciding on rustic, modern, industrial, etc. is key to having the most choices for your special day. Then you need to determine if you are having your ceremony, cocktail hour and reception at the same location. In most cases, venues offer to handle all three events which reduces your stress and allows your guest to travel to one location versus two or more when having the ceremony at a separate venue. TIP: Most venues capitalize on the main wedding day of the week, which is Saturday, so be prepared to pay more if Saturday is the only option for you. If you are flexible or watching your budget, making Friday or Sunday a possibility could save you thousands of dollars. Always ask the venue if they offer discounts for off season or non-peak days of the week.