Based on his case studies of historical figures whom he believed to be self-actualized, Maslow found that self-actualizers shared similarities that he listed as the 13 characteristics of self-actualization.
Superior Perception of Reality + Increased Acceptance of Self, of Others and of Nature + Increased Spontaneity + Increase in Problem-Centering + Increased detachment and desire for privacy + Increased Autonomy, and Resistance to Enculturation + Greater Freshness of Appreciation, and Richness of Emotional Reaction + Higher Frequency of Peak Experiences + Increased Identification with The Human Species + Profound Interpersonal Relationships + More Democratic Character Structure + Greatly Increased Creativeness + Certain of Changes in The Value System
Try this for yourself. Self-assess against this list, making a note of those characteristics of self-actualization you honestly feel you lack. Then you can simply use those notes as a blueprint for the qualities to work on in your own version of my personal growth and development plan.