A mediator is a specially trained expert in guiding discussions so that:
each of you gets a chance to speak openly;
everyone is heard;
the issues are identified; and
ways of resolving those issues are identified and considered.
And hopefully, agreement will be reached so that you don’t have to go to court.
You can search on-line for mediators with the specialist expertise you need. For some cases – perhaps those involving complex issues around the children – you might need someone with a therapeutic background. However, if your case is about money, you should consider appointing a legally qualified mediator.
A mediator can’t tell either of you what to agree or give you legal advice, but our mediators are settling divorce disputes day in day out and so they know what works and what doesn’t and will enable you to create an outcome which meets your needs and those of your family.