A healthy relationship should involve a couple who contributes equally to the development of the relationship. Both partners should equally be responsible for framing their bonds and connections. Maybe it is time to call it quits if you keep putting effort into the relationship. Here are some possible ways you can conclude that your partner is not interested in bonding with you: Your partner is not there for you in the same way you care for them. You are the only one who contributes to forming the relationship. You are insecure and believe you are not good enough. You keep on making excuses to cover your partner’s mess. But your partner does not care about it. Talking to your partner always turns into a quarrel match. Sudden lack of communication between you and your partner.