Hi Ollie
There are two U-Bolt kits that could be used with your 1996 Jeep XJ depending on the rear axle that came in your Cherokee. if your Cherokee has the Dana 35 rear with the 2 3/4" axle tubes you will use the EXP50055 U-Bolt kit http://jo.my/7afj5u If your Cherokee has the Chrysler 8 1/4 rear axle with the 3 1/4" axle tubes you will require kit EXP50050 http://jo.my/tgn5n3 Rubicon Express makes the front coil spacer in a polyurethane that deadens road noise for the front http://jo.my/hklepe 4WD makes a nice set of rear shackles with grease able bushings that will provide the 1" rear lift you are requesting http://jo.my/iz247e The Tulsa store only has the rear U-Bolt in stock for the 8 1/4 axle and that is it. you can buy on line and ship to store but that will not get there Friday you could order on the phone and next day ship for Friday home delivery before 1 Texas time Thank you