During the mediation session, the neutral mediator plays a pivotal role in guiding the discussions between the divorcing parties. This stage is marked by structured yet flexible sessions where both divorcing spouses are encouraged to openly communicate their needs, concerns, preferences, and unresolved issues. The divorce mediator facilitates these discussions, ensuring that each party has an equal opportunity to voice their opinions and that the conversation remains productive and respectful.  Key issues such as asset division, child custody, child support, and parenting plan arrangements are addressed, with the divorce mediator helping to identify common ground and explore potential compromises. It’s important for both parties to actively engage in the process, listen to each other’s perspectives, and work collaboratively towards mutually beneficial solutions.  The divorce mediator, while neutral, provides insights and options to consider but does not make decisions for the couple. Instead, they assist in steering the conversation towards constructive resolutions. Also, as previously stated, most mediators cannot give legal advice to either party. The ultimate goal during most mediations is to reach a fair divorce settlement agreement that aligns with the interests of both parties, paving the way for a smoother transition into post-divorce life.