Step 11 is crucial because it’s where the 12 Steps’ themes of humility and faith come together. There are a few reasons why those who are living “the program” see Step 11 as being a crucial part of the process:
“Trust the Program”
Many long-time AA members don’t just put faith in the spiritual aspects of AA; they trust the program itself. They see that they’ve come too far to stop now or lose faith, and even those uncomfortable with prayer ought to give Step 11 a shot.
It Puts Us in Perspective
No matter what you believe in, humility is a major part of recovery. After all, the first step to being successful in quitting your addiction to drugs or alcohol is to admit you have a problem. Admitting something that you recognize as a flaw in yourself can be a humbling experience.
When you have the inner strength to accept that you aren’t the most important thing in your life and put credence in a higher power, you keep focused on the bigger picture. It helps you understand the importance of your goal, without getting wrapped up in excuses and pity for yourself.
“Pray Without Ceasing”
Many people associate Step 11 with a Bible verse found in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18:
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Of course, “pray without ceasing” shouldn’t be taken so literally as to think you should never get off of your knees. What this verse means is that you should keep God, or your chosen higher power in mind at all times. Live in a way that is in constant reflection of this meditation. In the context of Step 11, this verse reminds those in recovery to maintain humility and focus on their goal, no matter what challenges they may come up against.