Foreign ladies, usually in their 20s, 30s, and 40s, who use mail bride services to find a Western husband, are called mail order brides. Dating websites usually cost about $50-$100 per month, the average date in another country (including travel expenses) will cost up to $1,000-$2,000, and the wedding can cost up to $20,000, especially if you want to marry your bride in the United States.