Separation is almost always difficult for spouses, regardless of what process they use. However, the collaborative process can avoid some of the aspects of litigation that can be very upsetting. For example, the process can help the parties to avoid having to discuss often very personal and sensitive issues between them or involving their children in court. It also allows parties to make decisions about their own and their children’s futures rather than turning this power over to the Court to make decisions which may not be favourable. The involvement of a family neutral can also provide an outlet for addressing the emotional stresses of separation so that parties can move productively towards a final resolution.