If you're wondering if the guy you're dating is interested in a relationship with you, here are some quick tips to help you figure it out. - He doesn't talk about the future. If he wants to keep things casual and not make any plans for the future, he will probably avoid talking about that. - He avoids talking about his feelings. If you ask him how he feels about something and he doesn't have an answer, then it's a sign that he just doesn't want to tell you or that he really doesn't care all that much. - He avoids spending time together outside of your date nights. If he doesn't want to hang out with you outside of your dates, then it's a red flag that he isn't interested in being your boyfriend. - He only talks about work and other people when you're together. Suppose all he does is talk about work and other people when you're together instead of making an effort to talk about personal things or who you are as an individual. In that case, chances are good that he just sees this as an opportunity for a fling or hookup rather than something more severe or long-term. - He never brings up his feelings or emotions when you're together (even if they're negative).