The decision of whether to pay for your daughter's wedding ultimately depends on your personal circumstances and preferences. Traditionally, it was common for the bride's parents to cover the costs, but nowadays, couples often contribute or fund their own weddings. It is essential to have an open and honest conversation with your daughter and future son-in-law about their expectations and budget for the wedding. Consider factors like your financial situation, willingness to contribute, and any agreements or arrangements made between the couple and their families.