Find a therapist or a counselor that has a good deal of experience in this type of counseling. You can ask them about their credentials or read through some of the testimonials on their website. You’ll also want to ensure you feel comfortable with your therapist, and that you have a good connection with them. Divorce is psychologically draining enough as it is – it’s imperative that you find a therapist that you connect with on an emotional level and that you feel you can trust inexplicably with your thoughts and emotions.