A cat’s gender doesn’t really seem to affect how affectionate they are. In fact, the owner’s gender has a much more significant impact on the cat-human bond. While this is widely believed, some studies suggest that male cats tend to be more affectionate and social with their owners and other cats in their homes. They are more likely to form strong bonds with the other cats, even if they are from a different litter.  The rare moments when female cats are affectionate will likely be during heat. This is when you’ll see them rub against almost anything, and they tend to be more vocal as well.