Speak Up. Calmly repeat what someone has said to you and firmly respond that you simply don't agree with their statements. Be Honest. Tell the person that what they have said is belittling. Be Firm and Patient. Use Humor. Wrapping Up. There are many ways that people can stop belittling others. One way is to be aware of when you are doing it and to try to stop. Another way is to be conscious of the person who is being belittled and to try to understand why they are doing it. Another way is to try to be understanding and compassionate towards the person who is being belittled.