Divorcing couples, even in hotly contested divorces, should try to settle all or as many of their issues as possible outside of the courtroom. The cost of a trial is a factor in the push towards a settlement; however, it is not the most crucial reason to resolve issues without the judge’s intervention.
Settling a contested divorce permits a couple to make their own decisions and design an agreement that gives to and takes from each spouse in a manner in which they can live. Making one’s arrangements is especially helpful when deciding child-rearing schedules.
Otherwise, the court will settle all matters left undecided, and the court does not know the couple or their families. This could leave both spouses discontented in the end.