Ok, maybe not THE all-time question, but definitely one of the most important frequently asked questions about eloping. The answer is simple but definitely depends upon your individual circumstances. Here are some suggestions on dealing with that gracefully. -Just explain why you want to elope. If your people don't get it, it may take some gentle reassurance that it isn't necessarily because you don't want to see their faces when you exchange vows. And it may take a little time before you can convince them it's nothing personal. But we'd be willing to bet it won't be too hard. Especially if you... -Document the event thoroughly! If it's within your budget, hire an elopement photographer and/or videographer to give your loved ones a virtual front-row seat and pics of your special day. If not, DIY is always delightful! Word to the wise: Refrain from posting on social media until you've delivered the good news to those closest to you. Think about how you'd feel if you found out someone really close to you got married on Instagram without at least an email or message (or preferably a bona fide paper announcement in the mail) from them in advance! No Bueno. -Have a post-elopement shindig! The people who love you will want to celebrate with you, so throw a party. Whether it's a simple gathering at your fave pub, a backyard celebration, or an intimate dinner - it's sure to be a joyous event.