Once you've created your own profile, other members can start contacting you. We'll let you know that you have a new message by sending a notification to your personal email address. To read the message, simply login to the site and go to your Inbox in the Messages drop-down menu. If you decide to write back, click Reply, write your own message and send away. Your message will go straight into the member's Inbox, and we'll notify them that it's there. All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.