I get it! Being with the same partner for a long time can feel comfortable and safe. But the truth is desire and sex don't need to decrease in long-term relationships. Plenty of people in long-term relationships have super-hot, wonderfully satisfying sex lives years and years into their relationships. In fact, the longer you know each other, the more comfortable you'll become with exploring NEW sexual experiences together. You and your partner can create whatever type of sex life you want, as long as you're both committed to making it happen. Having a happy, healthy sex life doesn’t have an expiration date!