In rare situations, a troublesome neighbor may be someone who builds a home with the intent of getting under your skin. These are referred to be spite homes, and their owners are not pleasant neighbors. How to deal with them: "What I do is maintain a solid rapport," Susan Nelson, a landscape designer in Tampa, Florida, explains. Living next to a disagreeable neighbor is a nightmare on several levels. It might have a financial impact on the value of your home (think unkempt lawn and shrubs, old cars everywhere). It might jeopardize your emotional well-being and safety. When dealing with a neighbor, it is preferable to address the matter calmly and politely. After all, patience and tolerance may go a long way toward averting unpleasant encounters. And, whether the problem is noise, garbage, parking, property lines, or any other frequent aggravation, it's always better to give peace a chance.