We are people just like you, just a normal D/s married couple living and working in the lifestyle.  Just like many of our customers, we live between the two worlds of the 'lifestyle' and the 'vanilla' world.  This gives us a tremendous insight and experience in what we do.  We are also consumers just like you.  We have kids, a home, pets and a mortgage etc...  We want the best quality for our hard earned money and expect nothing more than the best customer service.  This is the business philosophy we run ToBeHis on.  We strive to use the best quality materials, have the best workmanship, and give our honored customers the Superior Customer Service they deserve.  With ToBeHis you can always expect the best of everything.
We started ToBeHis almost 10 years ago and are one of the first BDSM Day Collar stores to ever exist.  During this time we have worked so very hard to bring you the most beautiful, unique and Best Day Collars and locks in the world.  We take pride in what we do and strive for perfection with each custom piece we make.
We are YOU and we know what you want and need...  Remember, not all similar things are the same...  We have many competitors who have copied our items and use inferior materials and workmanship.  When you purchase from ToBeHis you can be assured you are getting the best product for your money.  Remember, you get what you pay for... Not all Day Collar stores uphold such a high standard.
WELCOME TO TOBEHIS!!
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