The very first thing that you need to do is to ask the child whether or not they want to go. It is never a good idea to force a child to attend a service, since this can harm them instead of help them. Once the child expresses the desire to attend the service, you will want to explain what it will be like. Explain what they will hear and see so that they are not worried. Allow them to also ask questions and be as honest as you can with the answers. Learn more.