Ans: It is only natural to feel helpless and anxious. Days may go by without a change in the patient's condition. There may be nothing you can do but sit next to their bed and wait. But even that is a good offering. Studies have shown that patients show better results, including lowering blood pressure and heart rate when visiting a loved one. By simply sitting next to the patient's bed and holding his or her hand, you will provide much-needed comfort to the patient and you. Just hearing your voice can be helpful. Keeping a conversation to one side may be difficult, but talking about happy memories and happy times can make you feel better too. You might also try reading a book or a newspaper. However, a word of caution. Too many visitors, long visits, and too many incentives do not benefit the patient during this critical stage of his or her illness. This is especially important for patients with a brain injury. Rest is as part of a patient's treatment as any other medical or nursing procedure. You must inquire about the most appropriate strategy for visiting your loved one. This strategy can change as the patient's condition improves.