I am so sorry for your loss and for your situation.  All the beneficiaries have equal rights in the estate but the executors have a right to do what is necessary to protect estate assets.  I know that this guidance, so to speak, may not be very clear.  But you are in a very difficult position here as a family member and the executor. You can not do anything out of spite or anger andit may very well be hard not to feel that here.  I would strongly suggest that you and your brother obtain legal counsel to help.  The attorney for the estate is obligated to protect your back and to make sure that everything is done on the up and up.  Getting one may also calm the unfounded fears of your siblings.  Good luck to you.