It’s difficult for adult children to adjust to the changes in their parents as they age. Prior to your visit, take a break from your mental “to do” list and focus on enjoying time with Mom or Dad. When you arrive, suggest an activity you can do together such as going for a short walk or a drive to get some fresh air and a change of environment, playing a game, or just visiting. Encourage your loved one to visit the salon or provide your own manicure while visiting. Offer to go to a meal with Mom or Dad and meet their friends or help them make new ones if they are so inclined. Encourage the grandchildren to visit as well. Ask them to send cards and drawings or teach Grandpa or Grandma how to use Facebook or Skype. Just remember that your parent may be just as content to sit quietly with you without saying much, and sometimes that is the most enjoyable time of all.