Whether the trustee's can expect a face to face meeting with your daughter who is a beneficiary under a trust depends upon what the trust as written states. As such, you should carefully read the trust's provisions since it should deal with the issue of need for school of your daughter.Whether the trustee's can refuse to distribute trust money for your daughter's education due to your daughter's refusal to meet with them depends upon what the trust states. I suggest that you and your daughter consult with a Wills and trust attorney after you read the trust if you have any additional questions.