Sadly, the life of a Gay Bottom comes with a raft of judgments. Even sadder still, many of these come from within the gay male community.
A Gay Bottom is often viewed as being feminine. And indeed inferior in the sexual hierarchy.
But remember that appearances can be deceptive. That slim, cropped-topped twink wearing more makeup than a RuPaul drag queen may give you the most magnificent gut-punching in living memory. Even if proceedings are conducted to a medley of Ariana Grande hits. A small price to pay for such rewards.
Too often there's not enough respect from Tops for a Gay Bottom. It's time we acknowledged that being a great Gay Bottom takes significant effort and preparation. Not to mention expertise.