You lack tenacity. People lacking in perseverance believe that everything should be simple. This is especially true for individuals who are raised with all they require. They will give up if a simple aim becomes too tough for them. From a distance, whatever someone else is doing to succeed may appear simple. But when you get up close, it's not so clear how they're able to do it. You also think too highly of others. If you expect everyone to be like you then you'll always be disappointed. We're all different which means we have different strengths and weaknesses. The only person who can help you is you yourself. No one else can do it for you. You believe failure is inevitable. You don't see any value in trying because you assume you'll fail anyway. Failure is normal; it's part of life. Some things are just going to fail regardless of what you do. It's better to know early on rather than later after investing time and energy. You think most people are out to harm you. Because of this, you hesitate to trust anyone. You also avoid situations where you might be exposed to this kind of behavior. That's why most people aren't given a chance by you. Even if they were to do something wrong, you wouldn't be able to let go because of your fear. You believe love means giving without getting anything in return. This isn't true love.