This is actually a fairly common scenario. It is not ideal if your partner is reluctant or refusing to even consider therapy and it may well be a sign that the relationship is in serious trouble. However, sometimes your partner may just need more time to come round to the idea. You could therefore consider beginning therapy on your own - even just a handful sessions could help you to decide what you need to do. Just please remember that nobody should ever be pressured into starting therapy. A patient is unlikely to fully engage with the therapy if they feel they are doing it up under some form of duress or coercion