What Men Secretly Want is not a how-to-do guide that you want to manipulate and change your partner for the short term. This program is meant to correct how women are approaching men and make them aware that the things they do are wrong and need correction. All you have to know is that you will change doing things from the usual methods you have followed your entire life. It is a matter of accepting the fact that your method was wrong. Just try this simple program and I bet you will see the difference.