Collaborative divorce can provide benefits to children that are often unavailable if parents choose a more adversarial approach. There is no question that divorces can be difficult on children and can have long-lasting impacts well into adulthood.  The Collaborative process can promote a healthier family transition. Family relationships can be reshaped instead of destroyed.
By signing the collaborative agreement at the forefront of their divorce, parties mutually agree to:
Act quickly to resolve differences related to their children;
Promote a caring, loving, and involved relationship between the children and each parent;
Work for the best interests of the family as a whole;
Not to involve the children in their differences; and
Acknowledge that inappropriate communications regarding the divorce can be harmful to the children.  Communication with the children regarding the divorce will occur only if it is appropriate and done by mutual agreement or with the advice of a child specialist.