Unfortunately, this is an answer that only comes from the bad experience of many men who married young and whose partners either left them or they just didn't treat them as well as they deserved. Of course, it is far better if all married couples treat each other with respect. However, in the case of divorce, it often seems like the wives take the brunt of the abuse, as they are the ones most associated with the relationship and therefore, are the ones who end up being hurt the most.