Relationship breakdowns can be very stressful. It is important to try and stay neutral and not get drawn into taking sides. Be there for your grandchildren by providing them with reassurance and stability. If you are not able to see as much of them face to face, use phone and video calls to stay in touch. Let them share with you what they want when they are ready to and be prepared to be flexible (for example around special occasions such as birthdays or Christmas) as the family works out their new normal.