Neither the Scalp Rescue Smoothing Balm or Styling Gel should be drying your hair.
If your hair is getting dry then the first thing to look at is what you are washing your hair with. If this isn't our Shampoo then we recommend using it.
Also you may need to use (more of) the Scalp Rescue Conditioner.
The best thing to do is to use the contact us feature, telling us a little bit about your natural hair state, and your washing and styling routine, and what you would like to achieve, and we'll see what our product gurus recommend.