Done right, anal sex can be a fantastic and pleasurable experience for all involved, but it's important to do your research in advance. Before attempting some anal action, it's advisable to be clean - most people tend to use an anal douche to clean and flush out the anal passage. An anal douche can be bought quite easily from most pharmacies, shops or online. Overall, spend plenty of time for relaxation - which can be difficult to master at the beginning. Experiment playing with your sphincter using your fingers or with a dildo (using plenty of lube) to help everything go a little more smoothly.