It’s easier than you might think! Make sure that your Xbox One controller has fresh batteries or a full charge, and then press and release the Connect button on your Xbox One console. The Connect button is below the console’s Power button, next to a trio of curved lines that look like radio waves. Then press and release the Connect button on your controller. The Xbox button in the center of your controller will flash for a few moments, and you’ll know that it has a secure connection to your console when the Xbox button stays illuminated.