There's never a perfect time to bring up the subject of a prenup. But having this uncomfortable conversation with your significant other before getting married could potentially save financial and emotional stress for both of you should you decide to divorce. Plan to have this conversation early in the engagement instead of a few weeks before the wedding. Couples who have significant individual assets or debts, dependents, and small businesses should definitely discuss a prenup as soon as marriage is on the table. Here are some ways to navigate the initial prenup discussions:
Weave the conversation into a broader topic surrounding your wedding or marriage.
Don't make a prenup sound like a demand.
Be cognizant about timing. Don't, for example, do it a week before the wedding.
Emphasize the idea of fairness.