It's possible, if—and sure, that's a fairly big “if”—you sincerely and prayerfully follow steps such as these: 1) Identify what you can control—and what you can't. ... 2) Address what you can control. ... 3) Surrender what you can't control. ... 4) Meditate on the promises of your faithful God. ... 5) Choose a “letting go” motto. More items...