Better still, restrict the length of any verbal contact to avoid loose speaking. Speak in a nice and succinct manner to entice others to seek and hear more from you. In fact, quiet is more powerful than a provocative response. Avoid commenting on other people's appearance or behavior. Even negative remarks can be perceived as comments. If you are asked about it later, say that you were not commenting, but rather asking about their story. This will show that you are interested in others and want to learn about them. It also shows respect for their experience and knowledge. Never use loose language. This includes using foul language, obscenities, or slang words. If someone else uses such language, rebuke them immediately. Explain that such language is not appropriate and should not be used in public. If necessary, leave the place where they used these words. Do not gossip about others. Gossiping is talking about someone else's affairs without their permission. It is not acceptable at work and should never be done around colleagues or customers. If you have a problem with someone's behavior, speak with them directly. Do not spread rumors about others. This includes saying things like "She thinks she's better than everyone else," or "He says women are inferior to men." Gossiping and spreading rumors are very bad manners.