If any “non-parent” wants to spend time with your child (and you do not agree) they will have to apply to the court for a child arrangements order. What arrangements, if any, for your donor to spend time with your child are appropriate will depend on your individual circumstances and what is in your child’s best interests. In some cases courts refuse to allow donors to have any involvement in a child’s life whereas in others a court may decide it is in your child’s best interests to know who their donor is and spend some time with them. Even if you have reached an agreement before conception that a donor will not have any involvement it is still possible for them to make a court application after your child is born.