Introduction. It is easy to complain about the negative circumstances at our work or in our personal life. Stolen Ideas. Conflict Resolution Guide to Positive Outcomes. One‐upmanship. Lesson. Lack of Follow Through. In‐group. Lesson. If you're ever in a situation where you feel like you're not in control, or you're feeling frustrated or uncomfortable, take a step back and ask yourself what you can learn. A bad experience can be a teaching moment. It can help you identify your own personal boundaries, and it can give you a better idea of how to handle similar situations in the future. By learning from a bad experience, you can avoid making the same mistakes again, and you can build a better foundation for future success.