Impact on myself and others:
I will monitor the impact of my words and actions, remembering that the impact may be different than my intent. I will remember that the impact of my words and actions will be affected by variations in attitudes, aims, worldviews, and/or spiritual paths. I will listen carefully when told of negative impacts of my words and actions. I will apologize when I negatively impact others rather than defending my intent.
Attitude toward myself and others:
I will use empathy, not judgement in trying to understand others. I will recognize the worth and dignity of each person.  I will hold myself and others as wise, caring, and capable.  I will hold myself and others as full of complexity and experiences I will never fully know.  I will hold myself and others as capable of discovery and growth.  I will notice, appreciate and acknowledge the positive contributions that I and others make.