Well she has violated a whole bunch of laws here and she has violated the restraining order.  You may want to speak with your attorney on that issue first as it will be the most effective in getting your point across to her quickly if the proof is in place.  She could be thrown in jail if the Judge so chooses.  Besides the obvious theft for which she would be prosecuted we have computer "hacking." Now, computer "hacking" violates various laws on the State and Federal level.  One for instance is the federal Computer Fraud and Abuse Act.  He would be in violation for actually hacking but I am sure that she could be prosecuted as an accessory, as she really gave access to the computer for him to hack.  I would really speak with your lawyer about pursuing all avenues available.  Good luck.