In addition to custody orders, the judge will probably make child support orders. Keep in mind that a child support order is separate from child custody and visitation, so you cannot refuse to let the other parent see the children just because he or she is not making the child support payments that the court ordered. And you cannot refuse to pay child support just because the other parent is not letting you see your children. The proper way to address support issues (besides working it out on your own) is to bring the matter before the court. However, child support and custody are related because the amount of time each parent spends with the children will affect the amount of child support.