A. James acknowledged that he is unmarried and wants to be in a relationship in a video discussing grooming allegations. “I’ve always hoped to be in a relationship with someone my age or older who can relate to me and make me laugh,” he explained. “Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to locate that individual yet.” He states that he had been ignoring “red flags” and not completing the work necessary to check people’s ages because he so desperately wanted to be in a relationship.