He wants a lady who will never, ever confront him or give him pain, even as a joke. If she does, he'll go for her vulnerabilities with a hacksaw, bringing her down to his level and making him feel better about himself in contrast. The Career Obsessive: Guys aren't very good at multitasking, but The Career Obsessive is the worst of the bunch. His only purpose in life is to climb to the top, and he won't be emotionally available until he gets there.