Look into the Mystery Method as described in Neil Strauss’s The Game. \r \rYou should approach a group of girls with the same or slightly higher energy level. Approach indirectly; position you’re body so you’re not confronting any of the women face on, try and go in from the side. Don’t hit on the girl you want right away; win over her friends first. Be calm, cool and confident. Ask questions where everybody can offer their opinion and feel validated. Remain the centre of attention for the right reasons: because you’re an attractive and interesting guy that they should be acquainted with. \r \rI’ve only scratched the surface. Do the rest of the digging yourself and I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for. Read more