#2, if she comes over to speak to you, is the most apparent clue she wants you to ask her out. If you're at a party or a bar and she rushes over to greet you, it's because she wants to spend every second with you. #1, your gut feeling, is just as important if not more so than reading her signals. If you don't feel comfortable asking her out then it's better to find something else to do with your life rather than wasting her time. #3, follows naturally after #2. If she comes over to speak to you, is the most apparent clue she wants you to ask her out. Asking someone out is an important part of dating and getting to know someone new. It shows that you are interested in her and that you are comfortable with her age group. Knowing when to do this can make all the difference between having your date and staying single.