Individuals, they are in love as much you love your friend, they both have got a sweet loving family, both are happily in love with their own spouses and both have adorable children. so yes they love and respect each other as friends, and it is fact that they have given us some outstanding movies, to cherish for a lifetime, many of our childhood romances were inspired by their love chemistry. But in real life, Shahrukh very much loves Gauri and Kajol is head over heels for Ajay.