To become a fine dining server, gain experience in the restaurant industry by starting in a casual or mid-range restaurant and learning about customer service, food and drink knowledge, and table service. Study the art of fine dining and obtain a food service or wine certification to demonstrate your knowledge and commitment. Network with other servers, practice and refine your skills, apply for fine dining positions, and be flexible and adaptable to changes in the fast-paced fine dining environment. With these steps, you can develop the experience, knowledge, and skills required for success in this role.