There are so many ways to wear them But on my girl I usually use it: - I make a half-up ponytail and attach the girl's hair bows close to the elastic tie. - Sometimes the same but to one side (I love this one) - Sometimes I tie the half-up ponytail directly with the girl's hair bows. For myself, I love a half-up ponytail with only french barrettes or grabbing my whole hair in a bun and secure with the French barrette.