1) If did not sign a reaffirmation agreement, you did not reaffirm.2) Not only would the lender not have to give you a coupon book, but they would be entitled to foreclose on your property if you never affirmed and there was a default--though if you in fact paid any arrears and cured the default in the interim, they will be unable to do this and in this case, you should now be able to get a coupon book. (But if you never paid off the arrears and/or never kept current after that, that will not be the case.)3) In the even that you are still in default, either due to never having reaffirmed or because you subsequently fell behind again, then this may impact your ability to sell--particularly if the lender files a lis pendens or institutes a foreclosure action.