First, get over your shyness and start a conversation. You should be a pleasant conversationalist and not a shy bore. Find common topics for conversation with egirl, find out what games, comics, and heroes she likes. Agree with her more often and learn more about her interests. Also, when you date a gamer girl, try to create a pleasant atmosphere for her. Go to her favorite cafe, go to the cinema with a movie from her favorite franchise, etc. Be who she dreams of - so you will be able to win her heart.