People who have experienced true love did not become paralyzed by fear, believing they would never find love. Rather, they recall the importance of trusting in divine time. Negative, scared ideas only serve to heighten worry, and an anxious mind never speaks pleasantly to itself. Love is not some magical spell that can be broken; it is a choice that can be made every day. Love is not just a feeling but a decision you make every day. You can choose to love yourself and others even when you do not feel like it. When you make this choice, you are honoring your feelings while still taking action on what you know to be right. This is how you grow love inside yourself and with others. When you trust in divine time, you don't rush into relationships. You allow yourself to be ready when the right person comes along. And when he or she does, you're able to give love back to him or her freely without fear of losing them forever. The way to find out if someone loves you is to trust them enough to let go and allow them to love you back. If they can do this, then they truly love you.