In most states a minor child cannot choose which parent they want to live with.Ã¯Â¿Â½That having beens said, while a child cannot outright choose where they want to live, if they overÃ¯Â¿Â½the age of 12,Ã¯Â¿Â½their preference is given consideration by the court. And the older the child, the more weight it is given.However, it should also be noted thatÃ¯Â¿Â½a court will look to many factors - the child's relationship with each parent, reason for wanting the change, income and education of the parents, etc.Ã¯Â¿Â½At this point, you should consult directly with an attorney who specializes in custody cases; they can best advise as to specific state law.