According to the AARP, over 65 percent of gray divorces are initiated by women, 39 percent by men and only 15 percent of couples jointly decide to pursue a divorce. Whether you or your spouse initiated the divorce, you may wonder how to move on after the divorce has been finalized. The following tips will help you prepare for the divorce and transition to life after divorce:nSocialize with friends and family and avoid spending too much time alone.nConsider taking on a new hobby or participating in new activities. This will keep you busy and engaged, which means you will have less time to think about the divorce.