Love is indeed a feeling and an enchanting one at that. However, what we feel is often manipulated by our brains, making us a mere pawn in its hands. If you keep on thinking of finding love, then you are sure to fall for someone easily. Keeping yourself aloof and busy, on the other hand, will stop you from doing so. So yes, you can decide and choose what you want to feel, the joys of singlehood or the jolts of heartaches.