Even though Jim and Pam never dated in real life, look at how lovely Krasinski and Blunt are! We would not have seen Krasinski's wonderful relationship with his wife if he had been dating Fisher. Theirs is a genuine relationship, not an on-screen affair, and it's the greatest sort. You know you're lucky to have someone who cares about you even after all this time and doesn't feel the need to prove themselves to you. Pam also has a great relationship with her husband, Andy, and they have been married for several years now.