The gemstone you choose may be the flashy frontman of the piece, but just like in rock’n’roll, a lot of the real work is done by the band. The same stone can look wildly different in different settings, and choosing the right band is key to getting the overall look juuust right.
Back in the Victorian era, it was common for engagement rings to have thicker bands, more like what we would expect from wedding bands today.  Around the turn of the 20th century, the Tiffany’s-style setting took over, seeing brides favor slimmer bands with a diamond set proudly up off the finger.
Thinner bands are fashionable and stack well with wedding rings – however, the thinner they are, the higher the likelihood of warping and even cracks occurring over time.
To compensate, you would have to set the ring in a harder metal, such as platinum.
It’s also worth noting that a straight band isn’t your only option.
Different shapes can add interest and support to your central stone, and you might consider any of these options: