Mediation is one of the most common ways to reach a resolution. Mediation involves hiring a trained third party to review the case, who helps the parties resolve their disputes without going to trial. Mediation is used when an agreement cannot be reached by the attorneys alone. Typically, mediations occur in a law office with the parties separated, and the mediator going back and forth addressing issues with each side until resolution is reached. The benefits of using a mediator are clear – it is much cheaper than going to trial. It also often results in better results for the parties, as it takes the decision out of the hands of a judge, who may not have time to understand all the issues relevant to your situation. Mediation is so useful, in fact, that most judges require the parties to at least attempt it prior to proceeding to trial. Mediation may be waived if there is a history of domestic violence or it is clear there is no likelihood of resolving the disputes.