We believe that every family should create house rules that are consistent with their individual values. However, we’re often asked for suggestions for house rules by families who are new to Goodtimer.  Here are a few ideas we hope will inspire you to create house rules that work for your family:For young children, it’s best to keep things simple and start out with just a few (3-5) house rules. Be kind and gentleUse your wordsInside voicesBe a first time listenerMake healthy choices (this can apply to picky eaters and kids who struggle with bath time and brushing teeth)For school-age kids your rules can evolve as they are ready to take on more responsibilityPatience is waiting without complainingGet yourself ready for school on timeGet yourself ready for bed on timeKeep your room clean and tidyContribute to the family before exchanging tokensWe recommend your house rules include desired behaviors rather than “don’t” statements. For example: “Use your words” is recommended over “no hitting” because it puts the emphasis on the desired behavior.  Make sure everyone in the family understands what is expected of them and display the list of rules where everyone can see it.  If your children are too young to read you can include simple pictures to help them remember. Setting clear expectations is the first step to forming good habits that last.