Gay men should take the same safety measures when meeting someone they met online as anyone else. It is important to meet in a public place, let your friends and family know who you are meeting and where, and trust your instincts. It is important to ensure that any personal information shared online remains private; never share contact details or sensitive information until you feel comfortable with the person you are meeting. If possible, take your own transportation to and from the date in order to maintain control over the situation. If at any time you feel unsafe or uncomfortable with the person you are meeting, leave immediately.