There's no one sign that is a dead giveaway, but there's several signs that when found in conjunction typically mean you're her beta orbiter. One major sign however, is that she always flakes on dates and plans with you. This usually means you're her orbiter. Another big sign is that she never wants to be anywhere alone with you, or that she keeps acting like she's going to hang out with you, but never does. If a girl in your life is doing all three of these things, you are 100% her beta orbiter. Read more