Under no conditions should your grandson plead guilty (unless his attorney instructs him to).  You are right on both counts - this could ruin his life and this is harsh punishment.  A skilled defense attorney may be able to get the charge reduced (or possibility dismissed due to a technicality, although at this point that's not probable).  Find an attorney in the area where all of this occurred; they will have local contacts at the courthouse which they will be able to use to your grandson's best advantage. If money is an issue, a PD will be appointed.  Otherwise try Legal Aid or see if they can recommend someone to help.  Additionally, check to see if there is a law school nearby; they typically run free/low cost clinics that handle these type cases.  Finally, contact the local Bar Association in the county; they may have a list of attorneys who will take his case "pro bono" (for free) or at least for a reduced fee based on his income/circumstances. Whatever you do, do it ASAP.