FAs are the angels of the airline business—they deal with all kinds of people every day, and usually with a smile on their face. It’s natural to want to show a little appreciation, but there are rules. They can’t take cash or drink with you on the plane, but they can accept small gifts.
Things like chocolates—individually wrapped candies are always a better choice than something homemade or bagged in bulk—or a Starbucks gift card are always appreciated. (Don’t forget to add a note with your seat number so they don’t forget who the generous passenger was!)
Last but not least, if you’re a nervous flyer, a friendly FA is your number one ally. Let one of them know and they may offer some reassurance throughout the flight. Tip: If you do experience turbulence, keep an eye on the FAs. If they aren’t nervous, you shouldn’t be, either.