Some may argue that "happily ever after" is merely a fairytale, but these couples demonstrate that with the correct mentality and character, marriage can endure any cyclone. Here are a few pointers to help you maintain your marriage strong as you grow older together. 1. Express your emotions. If something bothers you or makes you unhappy in some way, tell your spouse how you feel about it. This might not be easy at first, but with time, it will get easier. The more you express yourself, the more you will understand what matters most to your spouse and the better you will be able to communicate with each other. 2. Don't take your spouse for granted. Spouses are an important part of our lives; they should be cherished by both parties. Make sure you don't take your partner for granted by showing them how much they mean to you through physical gestures such as kissing, hugging, and taking time out for yourself so you can spend time with them. 3. Have fun together. Have fun activities together. Go on trips, visit museums, try new foods - enjoy each other's company. The more you have fun together, the more you will want to do it again and again. 4. Communicate.