When dating a crossdresser, it is important to remember that everyone's experience is different. The best way to learn more about your partner’s likes and dislikes is by asking questions and having open conversations. It may be helpful to ask them how they identify and how they want to be addressed in terms of gender. Be understanding if the person you are dating needs time or space for self-expression. Respect their boundaries and make sure that you both feel comfortable discussing any issues or concerns that may arise during the relationship.