Accept people without passing judgment. A person is not their history, even though it may have brought them to this time and meeting you. Do not diminish someone else's sense of self-worth in order to boost your own. What makes someone special is not the same as what makes you special. Genuine affection can never be given up, because it is essential for one's emotional survival. It is only natural that we look for signs of affection wherever we can find them, because lack of love is how many people grow up and live their lives. People often quote others in order to feel important or validated. This is especially common with celebrities. If someone quotes something that you like or agree with, there's a good chance that they're trying to make themselves look smart by associating with you. Always check who's name is being used and if it's someone famous, ask yourself why they'd want to associate with you. Some people's quotes are simple words or expressions that anyone can say. Other people's quotes require context and understanding of both the speaker and the audience. If someone quotes someone else accurately and honestly, then they've honored the original message. Finally, some people's quotes are just jokes. They're usually silly things that most people wouldn't take seriously, but which give the speaker/writer pleasure to think of or say.