There is no denying the fact that lots of things are under the process of change in our society, which is in a transition phase. Adapting to these changes can be difficult for all involved. However, it is important to avoid fanaticism and a very rigid or judgemental attitude towards these changes, freedom of choice should be extended to all. I think you should not be judging all women you meet based on their outward behaviour. Since you are going to be married soon, it would be helpful to keep an open mind so that you give each other enough time and space. This would help in forging a good understanding in your relationship. It is important to be equipped with the fact that trials and tribulations are part of any relationship and the bottom line is to start on this beautiful journey with trust, respect and consistency in order to work through a relationship. Take each day as a discovery in the relationship. You will feel enriched and content.