It’s not necessary to ask how much money your parents might leave you. 'Start the conversation by asking about their values and what wealth means to them,' suggests Merrill Lynch Wealth Management Advisor Todd Silaika. That can lead to productive conversations about the role an inheritance could play in your financial future and what your parents’ expectations might be. This sort of conversation also provides you with the opportunity to share your preferences and priorities. For instance, if there’s a family business, or even a family vacation home, and you have no interest in owning either, be upfront about that. 'When everyone understands the expectations, the outcomes tend to be better for everyone,' Silaika notes. For tips on how to hold a successful family meeting, read The One Secret to Creating a Smarter Wealth Transfer Plan.