This is bound to happen. Not everyone has the same taste, so you may not like a wedding gift. “You will, of course, send a gracious thank-you note,” Jodi said. “Then, depending on the person, you can return or donate the gift.” Family drama is almost inevitable when it comes to weddings. The wedding isn’t just about two people joining their lives — it’s also about families bringing a new person into the fold, and some family members have strong opinions or ideas about that. “Your interactions with the families in planning your wedding actually sets the foundation for your relationship with these people going forward,” Jodi said. “Pay careful attention to feelings and conversations. Your families want to be included in your big day, that is great news.” Weddings are great opportunities to share a lovely experience with your family. Jodi recommends that couples respond to suggestions from family members by saying they’ll consider it and let them know what their decision is. In some cases, it may be best to assign a specific job to an involved family member.