While in the strictest sense it doesn't really matter who files for divorce
first, there are pros and cons to each side. For example, filing for divorce
first may mean that you have more time to build your case and have a little
more say in where the divorce proceedings take place. On the other hand,
by filing first you may have to pay the initial filing fees. At the end
of the day, there is no right or wrong answer. If filing for divorce is
in your best interests you shouldn't worry too much about who makes the
first move.