Unfortunately, I can't guarantee that I can help you save your relationship. What I can do is assist you and your partner in identifying the negative patterns that have become entrenched between you and facilitate honest and open communication about your hopes, dreams, and aspirations for the relationship and we can see what is possible from there. Some couples come into relationship counselling at a point where there has been significant hurt and pain carried over a long period of time, and sometimes it's not possible for the relationship to recover from this. Other couples are able to work through past pain and hurt and create a stronger and more resilient relationship. If your partner is ambivalent about saving the relationship and you're determined to save it, I recommend you have time-limited Discernment Counselling. If you really want to save your relationship, couples therapy may be your only hope for saving it. And if saving your relationship is not possible, we can work together to ease the pain and challenges involved in separating.