I don't know how old you are but I'm going to tell you right now if you have to beg somebody to be with you then they're not worth being together you are going to be so stressed out that your baby is going to be kicking and screaming when they come out and they will continue to do that for the rest of your life everything that you go through during your pregnancy effects that baby and they become like that figure out what you want to do and where you want to go you don't need him there plenty of agencies that offer you help and he's not going to be any kind of support to you if he's abandoned you now what are you thinking you'll end up going out on you you'll mess around you'll never treat you with any respect and you'll be alone all the time because he'll be out drinking with his buddies or doing whatever he wants to do and you'll be sitting home he will on the other hand have to pay child support and he will have to be responsible if he cannot get his s*** together then you can make it so he cannot see the child but he still has to pay child support but never lower yourself to beg somebody to be with you it's the loneliest place in the world seek help from your friends and help from other places you can get help with rent through DHS office you can go to Planned Parenthood and they're not just for abortions but they can help you as well if you have to if you are desperate go to your nearest shelter they work directly with the DHS and can help you get first and last months rent or deposit so they can get you into an apartment they can also give you some counseling because sweetie you surely need it you need to distance yourself from this person that way you will have a good relationship with your baby you know if you got a tie a man up to keep him around is that what you really want I hope not but the only way that you are going to have a good relationship with your child and have any peace of mind and not be tearing your hair out or crying all the time is if you get rid of this guy please do not subject yourself to any more of this you're a big girl now and you need to act like it and you need to take responsibility and do what's good for you and your baby play some music have something refreshing to drink read a book sing to your baby talk to your baby they can hear you and when they come out all you got to do is reach over and say hey you don't need to cry mommy's right here the minute that they hear your voice you will have the connection and it will stop crying because they will know you're there but do not put this man before your baby ever I will be highly disappointed in you if you do don't crawl there anyone have pride keep your head up and never never let them see you hurt they'll use it against you and then I'll make them feel more powerful good luck and if you need anything