Men are drawn to things they have little control or predictability over. They are obsessed with women who flirt, pay attention to them, and then don't feel the need to converse the next day. Neediness and desperation are two of the most powerful attraction destroyers for a man. The more a woman denies her needs, the more men will want her because she's easy to get along with. She'll be docile and compliant as long as he treats her well. But once he starts treating her bad, she'll definitely go out of her way to make his life miserable. The reason why men are attracted to needy women is because it shows that they can be taken care of. A man wants a woman to look after him because he's not sure if he can take care of himself. If a man feels like he can't survive without you, then that's how much he needs you. Attraction is all about mutual feelings. If a man doesn't feel your interest, he won't be interested either. The only way for a man to know if he's attracted to you is by showing it. Give a man opportunities to show how he feels about you. Let him see how you react when he talks to you, touches you, etc. This will give him clues as to what you want from him and also what he can expect from you.