He has two children and an ex-wife to whom he was married for less than a year but was with for seven years. I had a hard time getting used to the notion of him having children, but it no longer bothers me as much. I'm starting to like his kids, and I think I'll be able to get over it. He does, however, have a terrible ex-wife. She's extremely controlling and abusive toward him. He only stayed with her for a short time before leaving for college. During that time, they did not sleep together because she would go into hysterics if he ever touched her without permission. She'd call him every name in the book and hit him with anything she could get her hands on. He has told me many times that he doesn't know what he'd do without these kids. They mean the world to him. And he should know, since they are his kids too. His situation may not be ideal, but it's not my problem to fix. I just want him to be happy.