Absolutely not! We are not here to play the ‘blame game’ with you and will never take a side. In fact, this is one area that your counsellor will work to help you both stop destructively blaming and criticizing each other. All Vida Relationship counsellors have been through this same process and know what it’s like to be in your shoes. We know that you will be coming in in distress and need compassion, support and nurturing so you can feel more comfortable tackling the issues that have been keeping you both stuck. We do not judge our clients for struggling in relationships because we know that relationships are hard and view relationship issues as a subconscious nudging to grow and deepen connection.