Splitting the cremains among multiple urns and in many cases,
cremation jewelry as well, is a very common practice, especially when the
deceased has many family members that all want to remember and honor their
loved one in their own way. You do not have to get the same urn or jewelry
piece as your other family members. You can freely mix and match memorial
products as you see fit among the loved ones and family members that will each
be receiving some of the ashes. In most cases, the funeral home is more than
willing to do the transfer of the ashes for you into the multiple different
vessels, but check with them ahead of time to be sure.