There are a number of ways to use essential oils for erectile dysfunction:  Mix a few drops of essential oil into a carrier oil (e.g., olive oil, avocado oil) and massage it onto your back and abdomen. Combine a few drops of essential oil with water and spray it on your bedding. Use a diffuser in the bedroom to spread the scent. Use a hot/cold compress to massage onto your abdomen and lower back. Add a few drops to your bathwater. Do not ingest essential oils, and always dilute them in a carrier oil before applying to the skin.