How to Find True Love Step 1: Research. "Real Love: The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love and Fulfilling a Lifetime Dream" is a book that you may read or listen to. Step 2: Pay attention. Watch hundreds of hours of Greg's recorded video conversations in which he answers questions from Step 3: Talk. You will discover that you are not (You will not be bumped!) Please, yes! Please be patient while your findings are created! Human connection is something we all desire, which is why many of us spend our lives looking for our true love, soulmate, or one and only.