If you are not granted a restraining order, you can still take steps to stay safe by reaching out to local domestic violence resource organizations for help, support, and advice. They can assist in developing a safety plan and connecting you to the necessary resources.  If your relationship with the abuser does not qualify for a restraining order, you might seek protection in criminal court. You can also reapply for a restraining order if a new incident occurs.  If you believe the judge made a legal error, consult a lawyer about the possibility of an appeal, which can be complex and typically requires legal assistance.