Moving from a victim to a survivor mindset can be a difficult and personal journey. First, it is important to note that it is okay if you are in a place where you feel like a victim. You experienced something traumautic and how you choose to define yourself is up to you.  If you are interested in redefining your relationship with your traumatic experience, some steps that may be helpful in making this transition include:
Acknowledging and accepting that a traumatic event has occurred, and recognizing that it has affected you.
Gaining a sense of control over the situation by learning about the trauma and its effects, and identifying ways to cope with them.
Focusing on self-care and taking care of physical, emotional and mental well-being.
Building a support system of family, friends, and professionals who can provide understanding, encouragement, and guidance.
Finding meaning and purpose in the aftermath of the trauma, and moving forward through finding hope.
Keep in mind that everyone's journey is unique and it may take time to find a path that works best for you. It is important to be patient with yourself and to not compare your process to others. You are not alone. Thank you for this question.