The Four of Cups shows a man walking away from a cup or a chalice. He is walking away from his ability to choose between good and evil, right and wrong. If you pull this card, it's time to actively start making choices. It's time to commit to the future before you rather than living in past regrets. Four of Cups can represent that you are feeling disillusioned with love. This is because the cups are very much associated with emotions, feelings, passion, and deep connection. The Four of Cups can sometimes show us that we are emotionally detached from our love relationship. It may be that there is a hidden distance or quiet separation between you and your lover leaving you feeling less connected to them. Sometimes the Four of Cups indicates boredom in love The Four of Cups signifies a period of restlessness; you're looking for something different, exciting, and new. You'll be pondering over your love situation and re-evaluating your feelings and needs. You want someone to give you advice and direction, but unfortunately, everyone seems to be closed off to you – so they can't help. In a love reading, this card foretells indecision in love, and maybe an overall feeling of discontentment with one's current relationship. A couple might be going through a period of reevaluation. The thinking part of their relationship reigns supreme in these times, with less emphasis on emotion and the heart. Be careful that a deadlock doesn't result from endless discussions from all perspectives about what needs to change to better the relationship.