Do your research: Before you start looking for a same-sex partner, it's important to do some research into the local LGBT+ community and events in your area. This will help you find out what places are the best for meeting potential partners and which events may be of interest to you. 2. Set realistic expectations: Don't expect your first romantic connection with someone from the same sex to be perfect or even easy, as there can be social and cultural barriers that can make it more challenging than anticipated.