In the context of narcissism, an "enabler" refers to a person who indirectly allows or supports the narcissist's toxic behavior, often without intending to do so. Narcissists often view their mothers (or other close family members) as extensions of themselves. This means they expect their mothers to reflect and support their grandiose sense of self-importance, aligning with their exaggerated self-image and desires. When the mother (or another family member) complies with these expectations, even if it's out of love, fear, or a sense of obligation, she becomes an "enabler." This means she is indirectly supporting or facilitating the narcissist's behavior by not challenging or confronting it. The enabler-mother might continually praise the child, fulfill unreasonable demands, or overlook disrespectful behavior. This reinforcement can further entrench the narcissist's beliefs and behaviors, making it more challenging to address or correct them in the long run.