This can happen a lot in chance encounters with a stranger on the street, in a coffee shop, or elsewhere. Someone might address you as “sir” when you currently use she/her pronouns, or “ma’am” when you use he/him pronouns, or even refer to you with they/them pronouns in the third person! Reflect on how those encounters made you feel. If there is something in those memories that makes you experience any number of emotions- euphoria, longing, conflict, comfort, etc., take some time to unpack that. Ask yourself why you felt that way, and if there is more to explore in that experience.