Stage one
You will each have an individual meeting to have an explanation about mediation and to decide whether it is suitable for you. If you both wish to go forward with mediation, and it is a suitable process for you, with no safeguarding issues we then move to stage two.
Stage two
There will be a number of joint sessions where the mediator will help you, in financial cases, to make full disclosure to each other of all of the background finances. The mediator will assist in the negotiations and will work through a variety of options with you on the flipcharts so that you can decide which is the best fit for you and your family. You will remain in control of the agenda and outcome. The mediator’s role is to assist you to negotiate in an even-handed way.
Stage three
Once agreement is reached your mediator will draw the proposals up into a document setting out the background information and why you have reached your decision along with a set of proposals which can then be taken to independent solicitors to draw up into a court document.