Men can prevent rejection by avoiding situations where it is possible. This anxiety might prevent a man from connecting with a woman unless he notices definite and apparent indicators of her interest. For example, if a man senses that a woman is interested in him, he will approach her out of curiosity rather than desperation. Otherwise, he would not know to try to make himself more attractive. The most common reasons for this behavior are fear of commitment and fear of being hurt. A man may believe that if he interacts with every woman who shows an interest in him, then he will have no time for other relationships. He may also worry that if she rejects him once, she will do so again and again if given the chance. Some men may simply not want to put themselves through the pain of rejection. These behaviors are very normal for men. They are meant to keep them safe and happy. Men should never be afraid to take risks or to commit to someone because of these fears. However, women need to understand that this is not how most men behave/think. Most men want to feel loved and needed, just like women do. All they require is a little push in the right direction!