Newbies to fucking worry about the pain of taking a substantial rear delivery. And yes, getting fucked can hurt. But this is the prelude to frequently exquisite pleasure.
It’s about finding the balance. And you do this by selecting the right positions. These will be different for everyone.
The key for a bottom is getting to know your hole. Probe with fingers. Or a dildo. Take your time. Have fun.
The shape and size of your partner may dictate the position you choose. And we’re not just talking about the dimensions of his schlong. Angles and flexibility are always key when fucking.
The trusted missionary position may sound tedious. But it’s often the most comfortable for both the top and bottom. To start with anyway.
You can then experiment. Get on top of him and ride like a raging bronco. Or go full Helium Heels. Get on your back. Let him hold your legs apart. Or pull them further apart yourself for maximum entry. There are few hotter positions.
But always communicate. Not just before fucking. But crucially during it. Guys love a tight gash to rummage around in. But when the anal sphincter muscle tightens things can get painful. So relax. Breathe. And don’t spare the lube.