It is not uncommon for one spouse to be reluctant to get marriage guidance. Many times, couples have had previous experiences in marriage counseling where one spouse did not feel heard. Perhaps that spouse even felt blamed by the therapist as the sole cause of the couple’s problems. If your spouse has these worries, it’s important to know that I work for both of you. My goal is to hear and understand each of your concerns and perspectives and to advocate for what you need and want to your partner when necessary. I strive to create a balanced experience in marriage coaching where both partners feel equally represented. This allows us to see the whole picture and determine more accurately what you each need to help you move your relationship forward.