If you're wondering if men prefer blondes or brunettes, trust me when I say that all guys are different. My boyfriend prefers brunettes, but I've met men who are also into blondes. That's why it's best to know what looks good on you. Most people say lighter-skinned women look best with lighter hair. However, I'm naturally very pale with dark brown hair. Blonde hair washes me out. If you're not sure which color to choose, try on wigs or use hair filter apps.