It’s never easy to help a loved one from a distance, but before you make any drastic decisions, the best thing you can do is research. Whether you live an hour away, in another state or on separate coasts, finding resources, arranging services, and coordinating your visits can be challenging but not impossible. Educate yourself on the resources and services available in the community where your family member lives. Although every city is unique, similar services are found throughout the U.S., such as adult day services, in-home care, and nursing homes. Care managers or social workers may be available through a local department on aging. While Medicare will not pay for in-home services, Medicaid covers limited in-home care or chore services for those who qualify.