If you have concerns with the developer concerning the grading issues that you have written about concerning the home that is being built for you, I suggest that you first sit down face to face with the developer to try and address your concerns and then get something in writing from the developer that may allay the problem that you are writing about.If the suggested meeting that you have does not resolve the grading issues for the home being built for you, I suggest that you consult with an attorney that practices in the area of construction law to assist you.You need to be aware that the construction of your home must receive final permit approval from the governmental entity or entities overseeing its building process.Your possible recourse if you are not happy with the backyard of the home that you are having built is not to close escrow on it. I suggest that you consult with the attorney suggested in the answer to this question.