Self-love is meeting your needs in order to take care of yourself best, and provide well-being and happiness for yourself but with being attentive to the needs of others, and without any exploit of others and their well-being or endangering their human and other rights. So ''addressing'' your needs but being responsive to the needs of others, too. Also, self-love is not uniform, which means people can take care of themselves unequally and this can still be considered as self-love.