Yes, it is common to feel like you're behind in life and pressured to find a partner in your 30s. The average age for first marriage is now in the early 30s for both men and women, and more and more people are dating for the first time in their 30s due to various reasons, such as prioritizing their careers or going through a divorce. However, it's important to remember that you are not alone, and there is no need to feel 'behind' in life. There is no set blueprint for life, and the dating landscape is constantly changing.