Until we can’t hear Anhad Shabad (Unstruck Sound), we are not in Giaan Khand (Realm of Wisdom). We must try to reform and start to walk this path of morality and spirituality to be able to control our minds and actions. We are still at Dharam Khand (Realm of Righteousness) until we know self-control and have patience. Maybe we are not even in Dharam Khand, and we have to work up to get there. Guru Sahib has given many indications of what it takes to be in a specific Khand in the Bani (Guru’s Words).
Please watch Panj Khand Katha or Jap Ji Sahib English Katha Series  By Bhai Jagraj Singh Ji to get more information on Five Khands (Spiritual Stages).