When a child has an illness, whether mental or physical, their caregivers’ relationship often becomes strained. It’s not unusual for partners to see things differently and to disagree about treatment plans or family strategies. Try to openly discuss your differences and establish a plan to work together. Sometimes attending information sessions or training programs together can help you to get on the same page. Don’t be afraid to get couples counselling – a child’s mental illness can be a real challenge for you as a couple, and often professional support can be very helpful. Your child needs both of you, and you and your partner need each other to help you get through this difficult time.