Kale is a stubborn green. It needs a little TLC! You'll use your hands to work the greens which renders them tender enough to make for an enjoyable salad. The easiest way to do this in my opinion is to make the dressing first. Then pour a little bit of the dressing over the chopped kale and work the dressing into the kale for ~2 minutes and then let the kale rest while you make the rest of the salad. It can be easier to digest when you massage as well!