You can find love as a healer, but you must be careful because healing energy can attract a lot of broken birds. It’s very common amongst healers to hear that they have gone through something traumatic or have been the victim of a narcissistic relationship. So, I recommend being conscious of the partners you choose.
It’s also common for healers to feel off or not themselves after being with an energy vampire or in an abusive relationship. This can happen because you can remain stuck with fragmented pieces of your partner’s energy if you don’t clear it out after intimate exchanges.