I was told by one of my mentors before I got married that I needed to continue to pursue Martica throughout our entire  marriage. In other words, the same way I pursued her as my girlfriend and fiancé, I needed to continue that throughout our marriage. And that is what I have done. I’m always running after her! I do t time my wife for granted, and neither does she take me for granted. Secondly, I had another mentor to tell me that the man (the husband), is responsible for the spiritual and romantic atmosphere in the home. So if it is cold at home spiritually and romantically, it is a man’sresponsibility to fix it.