It’s challenging when one-half becomes silent during an argument; however, it doesn’t always indicate disinterest or disrespect but is a sign of difficulty facing difficult emotions head-on. As a result, they usually allow more rational words to be expressed later after processing them internally during reflection time. Here’s what you can do. 1. Let them know you’re worried about the shutdown. 2. Validate their feelings by acknowledging/partnering with similar experiences 3. Consider taking a break from discussing whatever triggered the reaction In the meantime, let’s wait until individual processing occurs before approaching again.