It's never simply a date when a woman goes out with a guy she met on Tinder for a drink, dinner, or both. It's either the start of a new romance, a fun evening, a story to tell her girlfriends, or a massive bore. And sometimes it's a big terror she's relieved to get rid of. The thing is that most women I talk to don't really know what to expect from dating apps like Tinder. They assume that all you do is swipe right for men who are attractive and left for those who aren't. But that's not true at all. Swiping left means you don't want to see this person anymore, even if you're both looking for a casual encounter. It's more than that though - swiping left can also mean that they don't feel comfortable seeing you again after a first date. Even if you both wanted more than just a one-night stand, they might not have felt ready to take your call or meet up again. Swiping right means that you'd like to see where this relationship could go. Most people think that once you've matched with someone on Tinder, there's no turning back, but this isn't always the case. If a girl sees that you're not right for each other, you can always unfollow each other. This way you won't waste time following people who you'll never connect with. Finally, be careful what you say online. A lot can be read into simple comments!