It’s true that under New Jersey law, you’ll be considered the parent of a child born to someone you’re married to. That doesn’t mean adoption isn’t an issue. Not every state has the same laws as New Jersey. To make absolutely sure that your parental rights as a non-biological parent are protected, it’s important to formally and legally adopt your child. It’s not fair that you should have to take on this added burden—but it’s the best way to protect your rights as a parent against life’s future uncertainties.