Now that you have your little oasis set up, we can move on to how to give the perfect massage on Valentine's Day. If you like, tantalize your partner with a light touch all over first without oil. A clean feather duster can work wonders here.
Apply a generous dollop of oil to your hands and rub them together to warm it up. Use long, gliding strokes to apply it to your partner. Start slowly, and begin somewhere that isn't too sensitive. We like to start with the temples.
Depending on the area you're working on, you can rub, stroke or press. For heightened intimacy, long strokes are best for maintaining skin contact. No need to rush, letting the internal excitement build as your touch progresses all over the body. Just remind your partner that good things come to those who wait...
Don't forget neglected areas like the fingers, wrists, face, back of the neck, inside the elbows and behind the knees. Stimulate the scalp with the tips of your fingers and apply light pressure between the eyes and across the eyebrows. Your loved one will appreciate your attention to detail. If the goal is to give your beloved a happy ending, consider coconut oil, since it can be used as a sexual lubricant.