We often hear that clients are hesitant to seek counseling because they are concerned it will make them look like there is something “wrong” with them. That is simply not true. Most courts look at the marriage as being a partnership that is sick and needs help. Marriage counselors or individual counseling is the best place to go to get help for the marriage. The partner who is willing to look at his or her part and work on the changes necessary to make the relationship better for the sake of the children will be favored.