Mediation can be an effective tool for couples who are divorcing. It gives them the opportunity to work through any major conflicts and disagreements with a neutral facilitator. While it is a great option for many, it is not always the most ideal choice. Relationships that involve any type of abuse, including physical, mental, and emotional, will likely not find success in mediation. Also, if one spouse is particularly combative or difficult, mediation may not be the right choice. For mediation to work correctly, it is vital to approach the process with an open mind.