Our body language is one of the major ways we communicate our feelings and who we are to others. It can be even more powerful than what we say with our words. Gaining awareness about your body language will be useful in determining if you are putting out intimidating vibes. If you are unsure how others perceive your body language, ask a male friend to see what he thinks. A smart and respectful man who is interested will look for encouragement from you to determine if he should approach you or hold back. If you find yourself prone to crossing your arms, looking down or avoiding eye contact, it is likely men feel it is not in their best interest to meet you. Use open body language and smile to create openings for a man to approach you. Embrace your inner confidence and smile to project a friendly and open vibe.