As a result, the only option for a birth parent to recover custody of an adopted kid is to demonstrate to a court that the choice to sign the relinquishment form was made under duress or deception. When a birth parent's parental rights are terminated, a court will usually immediately refuse custody to that parent. Even if the parent does not have any more children who were born after their rights were terminated, they can still seek custody of their older child if they meet the requirements described above. It is extremely difficult for a birth parent to get their children back after they have been placed for adoption. The majority of states require that you show that you have changed your mind about giving up your child and now want him or her back. Most states also require that you show that it is in your child's best interest to return to you. In other words, you would need to prove to the court that you are a fit parent before any chance of getting your child back could possibly be considered. In addition to showing that you have changed your mind, many courts will also consider whether there was something wrong with the way your child was placed for adoption. For example, if you found out too late that the placement agency had not informed you that your child was being placed in a home with children, then this would be considered negligence on their part and could affect how much time passes before you are able to get your child back.