For years people have referred to sexual identifiers as sexual orientation, preference or choice and, in terms of gender, forcing individuals to accept their assigned gender at birth, regardless of how that individual feels. However, each of those terms indicates that the individual is making a choice or decision around who they are, who they love, or who they are attracted to physically. The reality is that nearly all are born the way they are, and the only choice they have to make is whether they accept and come to terms with who they are or do not accept and live within society conforming to the norms, pretending to be something that is not their true self. The terms gender or sexual identifier are more around how a person identifies themselves and that these identifiers are only part of who they are, not the only defining factor.