It can be intimidating at first for a young guy to pursue and woo an older woman, but it just takes confidence and practice to find success in this arena. Young guys who know who they are and what they have to offer can often sweep mature women off their feet and make them feel as if they’re 22 again. As a young man, you can use your body, your athleticism, and your carefree lifestyle to entice a cougar woman of a certain age. Just make sure not to come off as foolish or naive because that will quickly lose you her respect (and possibly her affection). A younger woman may have patience for male antics, but older ladies do not! You don’t have to act over-the-top mature or anything to win over a MILF or cougar, but you do need to have some substance underneath all those youthful good looks, or she’s going to get bored with you and move on to more elite singles in her league. One last tip: Invite that sexy MILF to do something fun on your first dates. Don’t just stick to dinner and drinks. Go zip-lining. Set up a picnic in the park or on the beach. Sign up for a painting class or a dancing lesson. Take her to an outdoor concert or a rave. Plan some activity that an older man may not have the time, energy, or inclination to do, and you’ll really impress her by going the extra mile.