Before taking part in any kind of impact play with BDSM paddles, it’s important to understand where you can hit that won’t cause any serious damage to the organs. Keep to more fleshier parts of the body like the buttocks and backs of the upper thighs. Avoid areas such as the stomach, spine, neck, face and head. It’s important to control the intensity of your spanks at first, don’t go too hard too early! And always decide on a safe word before engaging in any form of impact play to easily stop or lighten the spanking. If you’ve already got experience with spanking using your hands, you may have an idea of the intensity you can start off with, remain at this until you’re encouraged to spank harder.