We would recommend so. Did you know that warming lubes usually contain capsaicin - the same thing found in peppers! Of course, the amount used in lubricants is so very tiny, that it barely registers in the same way. It's just enough to warm your bits! Women can be more sensitive to this than men, so try out a small amount first to see how your body likes it. Cooling lubricants contain mint or menthol - again in very small quantities. And again, women can be more sensitive to this than men. Try them out to see how your body responds.