If a loved one is suffering from OCD, there are a few important steps to take—and a few important steps to avoid. Do not help the person carry out compulsions even if it seems reassuring, and do not tell them to “just stop it” or suggest that they’re lazy or lack willpower—these are a few of the myths about OCD. Instead, research the condition and recognize that OCD is treatable with therapy and medication, and there are secondary options if the first attempt at treatment isn’t effective. You can then gently but firmly begin a discussion about seeking help.