The process of getting a divorce in Connecticut is similar to the process in other states. The first step is to file a petition for divorce with the clerk of the Superior Court in the town where either spouse lives. Once the petition is filed, it must be served on the other spouse. The spouse who files for divorce is known as the petitioner and the other spouse is known as the respondent.
If you have minor children, you must also file a parenting plan with your petition. Once your petition and parenting plan are filed, you will need to attend a pretrial conference. At the pretrial conference, you will meet with a judge or family relations officer to discuss your case and try to reach an agreement on all issues related to your divorce. If you cannot reach an agreement at the pretrial conference, your case will go to trial.
It does not typically matter who files for divorce first in Connecticut, although there are some benefits to being the petitioner. For example, if you are worried about your safety or believe that your spouse may try to hide assets, it may be best to file first. You should speak with an experienced divorce attorney before taking any action so that you can understand all of your options and make sure that you are taking advantage of any benefits that may apply in your particular situation