A Christian can distinguish between constructive criticism and destructive criticism by examining the motives and attitudes behind the criticism. Constructive criticism is motivated by a desire to help the person grow and improve, while destructive criticism is motivated by a desire to tear the person down or make oneself feel superior. Constructive criticism is delivered in a respectful and loving manner, while destructive criticism is often delivered in an angry, sarcastic, or insulting tone. Constructive criticism offers specific suggestions for improvement, while destructive criticism simply attacks the person's character.