The bullying group phenomenon is a very real and serious issue that plagues our schools. It is estimated that up to 30% of all school children are involved in some form of bullying, whether as the aggressor, the victim, or both. Boys are more likely to be involved in physical bullying, while girls are more likely to engage in relational aggression (such as spreading rumors or excluding someone from a social group).
There are many factors that can contribute to a child being part of a bullying group. Some children may have low self-esteem or be easily influenced by others. Others may come from homes where violence is common and they learn that it is an acceptable way to behave. Still others may simply enjoy the feeling of power and control that comes with being part of a group who terrorizes others.
Whatever the reasons, it is important to remember that no one deserves to be bullied. If you suspect your child is either being bullied or participating in bullying behavior, there are many resources available to help. Talk to your child’s teacher or school counselor for advice on how best to address the situation.