Please go to the website www.csa.org.in. They have a list of resource people in different places and support groups in different States of India. The Adoption Coordinating Agencies in different States have provision for counselling services. The list of ACAs is on the CARA website www.adoptionindia.nic.in.Adoption is a lifelong relationship. We work on keeping all our relationships - adoptive ones are the same. They too need unconditional love, time and energy. The age of the child is only one of several factors that influence bonding. You should both take pre-adoption counselling and join an adoption support group to get more clarity. After that, make an informed choice about adoption.