Long-term care insurance Some long-term care insurance policies allow family members to get paid as caregivers. Contact your insurance agent and ask for a written confirmation of benefits. Paid family leave Some states require employers to offer family leave programs and some programs pay you to care for a family member. The eligibility requirements, the amount you will receive to provide care, and how long you can take off work varies by state. To learn more, contact your state labor office. Local Area Agencies on Aging If your state does not offer a paid family leave program, an Area Agency on Aging (AAA) may be able to help with: Counseling and care referrals Day care programs for older adults Meal deliveries Learn more about AAAs and search for resources in your area by entering your zip code or city and state.