Asked by user in California. Answered by Enjuris Editors.
Hello, Nicole:
This sounds like a lot going on and I am sorry to hear that your family is going through a tough time. If a family can't agree on the care of a person who has dementia or Alzheimer's, the court can appoint a guardian or conservator. This doesn't happen overnight — it involves court proceedings and testimony with an attorney's assistance. The guardian would make health and financial decisions for the disabled adult in order to ensure their health and safety.
Since you and your aunts are disagreeing on your father's financial needs, and since he also needs representation for his divorce, it sounds like you should probably consult with an attorney who specializes in Elder Law.
You can seek out the guidance of a lawyer who will work with you to help your father get a court-appointed guardian, and that person can assist in handling payments to the previous attorney if necessary. Best wishes.