If your girlfriend wants to quit the relationship, the key to altering her mind is to instill in her a renewed sense of respect and desire for you. You may rekindle her respect and attraction to you by demonstrating to her that your connection with her is improving on a daily basis. To persuade your ex to reconsider the split, you must first discover what caused the breakup in the first place. However, this may be complicated and occasionally deceptive, especially if your ex-boyfriend does not want to explain his behavior. Most of the time, your ex-boyfriend does not mean what he says. When something doesn't seem right, you take a break. When you sense that something in the relationship is broken, you take a break. When things are going well, you don't take a vacation. I'd like you to do something kind for me. I want you to substitute the term "break" with "break up" whenever you think of this "break."