Moving from one house to another can be stressful, but the following tips can make the process easier:nnFinalize the divorce. Never move out before the divorce is finalized. Even if it is tempting to leave, your spouse can use this against you and accuse you of abandoning your family.nDetermine what belongs to you. Start to take an inventory of what belongs to you and what you want to take. If there are items that your ex-spouse does not want you to take, refer to the court’s decision on ownership.