Usually, a marriage struggling with intimacy has a lot of other underlying problems. The RYM program guides you through 9 other topics before touching on the sensitive issue of intimacy. This allows you to recognize and resolve the other areas that may be contributing to the lack of passion and connection in your marriage. Obviously, every marriage and situation is unique but we can tell you that we had one couple go through our program who hadn't been sexually intimate for months. Later the husband told us that, "by the end of the week, the intimacy day came totally naturally."