Don't date a man who is cheating on his girlfriend because he will ultimately cheat on you. You should not be more than friends with him if you do not trust him with your money or things. If he is cheating on his girlfriend or lying to his parents, he will cheat on and lie to you. He may tell you that he loves you but doesn't want a relationship because he knows he won't be able to give you everything you need in a boyfriend. He may say that he wants to be just friends because he doesn't want to get too invested in you. Don't believe him. If you're not sure if a guy is going to be there for you, then don't be more than friends with him. Investing your time and energy into someone who isn't willing to do the same back can cause you pain down the road. Have faith in yourself and others. If a guy isn't right for you, then he'll come along eventually. There are plenty of men out there who are ready and willing to be loved by you. Don't settle for anything less than you deserve, especially when it comes to dating. Be careful who you allow into your heart. Some people go through their lives being taken advantage of by those they love most. They break each other's hearts in the name of love. If you find yourself in this situation, then it's okay to end the relationship.