Look at what you know you could have done better, and change any beliefs, habits, and actions that don't support this change. 2. Get rid of any toxic friends, and surround yourself with a supportive community. 3. Create a clear vision of what you want this change to look like. Maybe make a vision board. 4. Start writing out goals, and the steps needed to achieve them. 5. Look at all of your comfort zones, make a list of them, and push yourself to get out of them (even if it's just a little bit). 6. Counseling can also be a great way to help you move forward!