When it comes to discussing boundaries and expectations in a sexual dating context, I prefer open, honest communication. It is important to talk about the level of commitment the two of us are comfortable with, what kind of contact we both want or don’t want (e.g., frequency and type), how much intimacy we are comfortable with, and what our plans for contraception will be. Communication is key for setting clear expectations that both parties can agree upon so that everyone feels safe and respected.