Yes, a stay-at-home mom can collect social security disability. You can avail of benefits equivalent to half the value of your spouse's disability benefits.  While it is necessary to have a work history of at least ten years which is equivalent to 40 quarters with a minimum earring of $1300 every quarter, you will be surprised to know that even if you have chosen to stay at home and take care of your kids and have never worked before, you can still get disability benefits.