You need to stop making decisions or controlling your partner.n2. Try to understand your relationship pattern.n3. Try to work on your relationship together and realise what a healthy relationship looks like.n4. Set personal boundaries like learning to say no, ask questions to yourself, don't get swayed by sympathy.n5. Offer nutritional support to your partner.n6. Make efforts to improve your self-worth and self-esteem.n7. Understand your personal needs.n8. Go for therapy for assistance in getting rid of codependency.