The ladies of this country are very polite. And it’s impossible for them to say the categorical “No” to another person. In order not to offend you she will make up different excuses. She can say that she is busy, ill or something else. But if she postpones your meeting more than several times in a row and never writes or calls you but only answers your calls or messages, it means that she doesn’t want to see you, but she is to polite to refuse directly.