Scripting is the process of writing out in detail what you want to see in your life, as if it had already occurred. That's correct. You write it as if you've just found your love, married them, gone on vacation with them, or whatever it is you want to see. Then you work backwards from there and imagine how you could make this happen. The basic idea behind scripting is that our lives are not random. There is a pattern to how we meet people and fall in love. We get attracted to certain traits in others and try to replicate those qualities inside ourselves so we can be more comfortable in relationships. For example, if you were to script a perfect man, you would describe him as being sensitive, caring, romantic, adventurous, and so on. The more you think about it, the more you'll come up with different ways to describe your dream guy. Writing down all these attributes allows you to see the common themes running through them. You're now able to use your imagination to combine different people together into one person. For example, you might imagine how you could give your husband some of your own traits (such as sensitivity) to make him more compatible with you. As you can see, scripting helps you create a blueprint for your future love life. It gives you an idea of what you should look for in a partner and also what they should look like.