When we talk about sexual orientation, it’s important to remember that there is no one “right” way to be. People can be attracted to different genders at different times in their lives, and this is perfectly normal! This type of attraction is called fluidity.
Someone who identifies as LGBTQIA+ can experience fluidity within their own orientation. For example, a person who identifies as a lesbian might find themselves attracted to a man at some point in their life. This doesn’t mean that they are no longer a lesbian, it just means that their attractions are fluid.
Fluidity is not the same as bisexuality, which is when someone is attracted to more than one gender. Bisexuality is a fixed orientation, whereas fluidity refers to changing attractions over time. It’s important to remember that everyone experiences sexuality differently, so if you feel like your attractions are changing, that’s OK! There is no wrong way to experience sexuality.