Well... BDSM is not for anyone... You must understand that a connection needs to be created between the Mistress and the slave. So it is more to it than you can imagine. As I already said, it is mainly about mutual trust. So, as a starting advice I can tell you that you should do your research. Don't go into BDSM blindly... search for information or get in contact with a mistress like myself. I will gladly introduce you to this magical world!