Assume you obtain a new job, get engaged, or go on a fantastic honeymoon-style vacation to Thailand with your lover. When you tell your friends about you, you want them to be thrilled for you, not attempt to outdo you, shift the topic of the discussion, or say anything backhanded and rude. If they do this, it means they're true friends. The most effective way to show your friends how much they mean to you is by telling them how happy you are with your life, getting a new job, getting engaged, or going on a fantastic trip. Tell them everything about your day, from the simple things like what you had for breakfast to more serious matters such as why you think this job is the right fit for you. Let them know what challenges you face at work and explain any changes you may have to make during your first few months at this place of employment. Also let them know what activities you're involved in outside of work. If you can, invite them over for dinner or a lunch date and give them time to talk about them. This shows that you care about their opinions and you'd like to keep friendship strong even though you have different schedules and lives now that you're working and studying, respectively. Finally, don't forget to express your gratitude. Thank your friend for being there when you need him/her. Tell them how much you value our relationship and how much it means to you that they support you.