If one of you is strongly attached to the idea of an open relationship and your partner isn't, this could be a dealbreaker. For example, some people want kids, some don't — it's the same for open relationships. It comes down to core values and interests.
However, if one of you is not deeply attached to the concept of an open relationship, perhaps there may be a path to the sexual experiences you desire. A key issue here is your mindset: can you enter into a process with your partner and be okay if their ultimate answer is still "no".
If you're looking for more support and advice related to your open relationship, we encourage you to give us a call today to be matched with our LGBTQ+ therapists.