If God, the creator of the universe, regards you as worthy and wishes a connection with you, you should regard yourself as at least equal to and deserving of your boyfriend's affection. Even if you aren't aware of it right now, you have just as many beautiful characteristics as your partner. You just need to learn to see them. The more you focus on what you don't have rather than what you do, the less satisfied you will be with your life. Look at the things you love about your boyfriend/girlfriend and let that guide you in deciding how much they are worth to you. If you feel like you can't live without them, then they must be important to you! Don't expect your boyfriend/girlfriend to fulfill all of your needs, only yours. If you try to make him/her complete you will drive him/her away. They want to be appreciated for who they are instead of fixed. Try not to compare your boyfriend/girlfriend to other people; this will only cause you pain in the end. Don't take your boyfriend/girlfriend's liking or disliking towards you as a sign of their indifference toward you. It may seem like they are pushing you away when they act like that, but that isn't their intention. They just don't know how to show it differently because they care about you too much to hurt your feelings.