When you're trying to surprise a loved one, it's important to not give too much away. If you're asking for help from friends and family, make sure they don't reveal the surprise. Also, if you're trying to keep it a secret from the recipient, don't tell anyone what you're planning. It's best not to leave hints or clues around that might give your plans away. It's also important not to drop hints about what you have planned. If someone asks if there is anything in particular that they can do for you, just say no and don't elaborate on why they shouldn't ask again later or offer suggestions on what they could do instead. This will help keep things under wrap until the big day arrives.