It is not ok for parents to be disrespectful. Disrespectful behaviour includes name calling, putdowns, Yelling, Threats, and swearing. These behaviours are harmful and can damage the parent-child relationship. Additionally, this type of behaviour can model poor behaviour for children, who may then act out in a similar way with their peers.
If you are struggling to control your anger or frustration, it is important to seek help. There are many resources available to parents, including counselling and parenting classes. These can help you to develop positive parenting techniques and better manage your stress.