There is nothing as life changing as having a child but nothing prepare you for the questions and the challenges; the biggest one arises when you and the child are of the same gender. You’re forced to seek answers on how to be a better version of yourself. I took some time to speak to the men in my life, friends, family & anyone willing to speak. I asked them to define themselves and to share what it takes to be a man. These are the lessons they learnt.