Don’t handle him at all. I am sure you were not looking cheap when he met you. I am also sure being cheap did not get you to be this amazing woman that caught his attention. You were a full-blown sizzling babe even before he met you, and the only way to keep the sizzling going is to add more sizzles.  You have no business wasting your time with Mr. cheapskate. However, it’s wise to also be aware that his lack of spending might be due to money issues. This is something to keep in mind.