It's no secret that many men fantasize about having a wife or girlfriend who is more aggressive in bed. And while there are a number of ways to help make this happen, it ultimately comes down to communication.
One of the best ways to get your wife or girlfriend to be more aggressive in bed is to simply ask her about it. Talk about what you're both interested in and what you'd like to try. Be open and honest about your desires, and be sure to listen to hers as well.
In addition to talking about it, you can also try leading by example. If you're interested in trying something new, take the initiative and be the one to initiate it. This can help your partner feel more comfortable about being more aggressive herself.
Of course, it's also important to make sure that you're providing the right environment for your partner to feel comfortable being more aggressive. This means being respectful, understanding and supportive. If she feels like she can trust you and that you're truly interested in her pleasure, she'll be more likely to let loose and be more aggressive in bed.
Ultimately, how aggressive your wife or girlfriend is in bed is up to her. But by communicating openly, being supportive and leading by example, you can help create an environment where she feels comfortable letting her wild side out.