We do understand all this might be overwhelming for you. We are here to help, start by looking under our "customized wigs" tab to get familiar with the different style options available.  You then need to measure your head to know which size to choose.  You can do this with a measuring tape and by following the head measurement chart.. Look under Sizing on the bottom of the home page for more help on this. If after your are done you still need more help, send us an email with all your questions. we are more than happy to help. Sales@maneregalia.com