Crumbs are the girlfriend who is always chasing other women but keeps you on the hook. You wait for her, hoping for the day she’ll change. That’s barely a crumb, and no one changes for anyone else. I’ve been there and hung on hoping my lover would change for me. It didn’t happen. Promises screamed from the rooftops have nothing on a woman taking action, showing up and keeping promises. Crumbs are the woman who promises to call and make plans with you, but she is always canceling out. You’re still hanging on because she at least got in touch to tell you she was canceling out on you – again and again and again. Your weekends become merry-go-rounds of pity parties, stomachaches and numbing yourself out with food, drinking, drugging and getting lost in TV. You’re not living. You’re wasting your magnificent self for someone’s crumbs. Crumbs are the woman who rebounds with you from a breakup and then you discover she’s still talking, texting and seeing her ex. Then she announces she’s still in love with her ex but she loves you too but she’s got to go back to her ex. CRUMB!