When it comes to pricing and features, OkCupid and Plenty of Fish have a lot in common. Both dating sites offer unlimited chatting to all members, and both have advanced search tools to help singles narrow the dating pool to the most desirable few. Both platforms are open to straight, gay, and lesbian singles, and both have search tools for gender and sexual orientation. Overall, we’d give OkCupid an edge over Plenty of Fish — even though it has a smaller user base. It’s a quality versus quantity thing. Plenty of Fish has more concentrated date options, but OkCupid has more curated options for the average gay man. Plus, OkCupid has shown more pronounced support of the LGTBQ community. OkCupid OkCupid is a staunch ally of the LGBTQ+ community. The dating site and app made headlines in 2013 when it introduced 22 gender options and 13 orientation options to dating profiles. Few dating platforms have gone to such lengths to ensure that it represents everyone across the sexuality spectrum, and we give it props for connecting gay, bi, and queer men around the world.