One of the more concerning things about loneliness is that the more lonely we become, the more difficult it can be to engage in behaviors that may help us feel less lonely.
Loneliness and depression are similar in this sense, and this is why it becomes even more important to treat loneliness before it becomes severe.
Hesitancy to engage in deep relationships:
As we become more lonely, self-doubt and social anxiety can make it difficult for us to engage in more meaningful relationships. These surface relationships can leave us feeling more empty with little energy to be vulnerable and bond with others.
An overwhelming feeling of loneliness even when surrounded by others:
Close connected relationships are what make us happy, emotionally full, and healthy all around. Yet, when we struggle to connect with others, the mear presence of others can make us feel even more alone, empty, and exhausted.
Low self-esteem:
Much of our healthy self-esteem comes from healthy relationships with others. When we lack quality bonds with others, it becomes all too easy to be self-critical and see little value in ourselves.
Burnout and chronic exhaustion:
It takes energy to engage with others in a fulfilling and meaningful way. With little energy, social interactions can leave people feeling more and more empty as it can take the little energy the person has left without giving much of the beneficial rewards of deep relationships.