Condoms are key to a healthy and more enjoyable sex life. You can be more relaxed during sex when you don’t have to worry about STIs or unintended pregnancy. So using condoms can actually help you focus on your partner’s pleasure as well as your own.
It may take a few different tries to find the condom you and your partner(s) like best. Fortunately, there are plenty of options. For example, some folks may prefer a thinner condom, or ones with a particular kind of lube, or with some texture like ribbing or studs. Some people prefer external condoms, while others prefer the feel of internal condoms. Try out a bunch of different options to see what you (and your partner) like!