Jodi recommends that couples think about the dynamic of the group before playing favorites. For example, if you have 15 coworkers and are really close friends with three of them, then it can be OK to just invite those three. However, if you’re friends with 10 out of your 15 coworkers, then it’s best to invite all 15 to avoid any hard feelings. “The guideline is once you are inviting half of the group, you should be inviting all. Alternately, if you are going to exclude people, there should be a majority not included,” Jodi said. “Next, you will need to be direct. Don’t leave your coworkers guessing.” Weddings gifts are a token of your well wishes and esteem. A good gift depends on your budget and your relationship with the couple. In most cases, it’s best to stick to the wedding registry because those are things the couple have specifically asked for and want. A good wedding gift doesn’t have to be pricey to show the couple you care. “Use the registry as the starting point,” Jodi recommended. “You can certainly review their registry to gather ideas about their interests and tastes. If there is something from the registry you love and is within your budget, you certainly may gift that.”