It is one of the most commonly asked questions when it comes to dating a widower. While holding on to old photos and belongings might look like they have not really moved on from the old relationship yet. But honestly, there is no reason to worry. It is a human thing to keep on loving someone even after they are no more in this world. The photos and belongings remain as sweet reminders of the love that once existed. It does not necessarily mean that they are still stuck in the past or are not ready for a new relationship. It can just be their way of honoring the deceased spouse. Also, do not ask him to put the photos and belongings away. He might get offended. If the person is no more in this world, you do not have to feel insecure about his feelings for the deceased wife. She is a distant memory now and you are his present and future. Focus on that part!