Experiment with a slow grin. If you've made eye contact with the man you love, grin slowly at him, allowing the smile to expand across your face. If you have a habit of blushing and glancing down when he looks at you, let it happen after the smile—you'll be irresistible. Maintain constant eye contact. When you look into his eyes, you're showing him that you are interested in him and keeping the flame alive. Idols can only be destroyed from within or without. Either way, your job is done if you get someone else to destroy your idol for you. An idol is a person or thing that people admire and want to be like. It may be a famous person, such as Jesus Christ or Mother Teresa, or it may be a role model such as an athlete or actor. The word "idol" comes from the Arabic idal, which means "to serve," and these people and things were once thought to be a god himself or herself. Today's idols are often human beings who receive attention and praise from those around them for their good deeds. These people are called "idols" because they are used by people to worship God. People all over the world still pray to their idols. They believe that if their idol smiles on them, then they will also be blessed by God. This form of prayer is known as "idolatry."