Acceptance is not dismissing a feeling, burying your head in the sand, or acting like a doormat. Acceptance does not imply giving up on attempting to improve things. Acceptance is not apathy; it is a point of view. It is a decision. One can be active and aware without being passive or accepting. The ability to accept others as they are instead of trying to change them is a sign of maturity. It is also important for personal growth because knowing what you cannot change helps you focus on what you can change. Passivity comes from being unwilling to make an effort. Passive people often find themselves surrounded by chaos and unable to get anything done. They usually end up blaming other people or things for their problems. Active people tend to generate more progress than passive people. They may not solve all their problems, but they at least try to resolve them. If something is wrong with their environment or their circumstances, they see that it is within their power to change it. People who are passive about their lives are usually angry inside. They hold on to their feelings of resentment and frustration and use them as fuel to create more chaos in their lives or those around them. Active people on the other hand, deal with their emotions by expressing them openly or seeking help from others. There are two types of passivity: external and internal.