I have a Muslim friend who is going through separation and divorce process so, I know how tough it must be. His wife and 2 small children of 3 and 6 yrs are also suffering because of money, wife to work and handle homefront etc. Same story everywhere. She took counsellor help and in Canada, they brainwash the ladies to divorce instead of reconciliation. The other factor is cctb $600 pm which encourages parents to fake separation and divorce but govt is also smart to put detectives after such fake or fraud couple. If your wife doesnu2019t want separation cancelled. You cannot help. The law is Canada law not ontario law. Now you have to attend hearing in court, better to have good lawyer fast. Law support women in Canada. So be very very careful! You have to pay for liking western countries. The court will first grant you custody for 2u20133 hours on Saturday and later on for one full day. One year process. After one year, if children are comfortable and court is convinced you love them and they are safe with you then, they will stay 1u20132 days with you. Enjoy!