When you have made all the choices and found the right combination, you want to get started! A strap on is not very difficult to use, but it is useful to keep a number of steps in mind.
Approach the use of a strap on with sensitivity to your partner's comfort level
Select a suitable model of strap on together, if needed
Enjoy some foreplay or regular sexual activity with your partner before using the strap on
Put on the harness, adjust it for comfort, and attach your desired dildo
Warm up your partner with appropriate stimulation and lube before penetration
Proceed with penetration only when both partners feel comfortable, ensuring proper attachment of the dildo
Experiment with different positions, such as on your back or doggy style, making sure your partner is comfortable before using the strap on
When finished, remove the dildo from the harness and clean it properly with warm water or toy cleaner. Depending on the material of the harness, use appropriate maintenance products for cleaning and upkeep.