You can expect your therapist to be attentive to your needs as a couple, tailoring your sessions around your unique concerns and goals. In addition, your therapist will: Ensure sessions take place at a regular time, in a setting that is completely confidential Never take sides on any point of contention and manage conflict where required Indicate issues you may not be aware of that may be making your relationship less satisfying Help you understand how depression affects you both, and how it is impacting your relationship Make links between yours and your partner’s childhood experiences and your expectations from your relationship Guide you to build on the strengths that you already share as a couple