I can appreciate why you might feel that way. I know I did when I first started learning about living as an elite, elegant woman.   However, let me be very clear:   A certain level of natural “extrovertness” is not a prerequisite for you to learn (and live) elegantly or to be excellent at socializing!.   Not at all!   From my experience,   You naturally start to shine as you learn to live as an elite and elegant woman. All the unique, natural, and beautiful parts of you are uncovered so you can be an even more beautiful version of you. It is very possible to shine as an introvert, and still get experience everything in The A-List.   But you must show up to experience it.