Mediation is an excellent choice for most couples. Those who have made the decision to divorce, those who simply wish to only separate, and those with issues that occur after the separation or after the divorce is final are all candidates for mediation. Mediation is great for couples who are agreeable, but it can offer tremendous advantages to those who are in disagreement. A little hurt and anger can actually help the process along because in many cases it causes the participants to empower themselves and stand up for what they believe. Many couples who have poor communication skills and are in high conflict are amazed at the success they have had at the negotiating table. Remember that your mediator is trained in helping you settle your disputes, so success amid anger is very common. Lastly, remember that you never, ever, forfeit your right to seek satisfaction in the courts if you are unable to resolve your issues in mediation.
Mediation is not for those engaged in any type of physical abuse. You are encouraged to seek immediate protection and legal advice before entering into any type of negotiating with a physically abusive partner.