Focusing on your near future is one of the most efficient methods to bring a relationship to a close. This entails creating new personal goals and timelines for achieving them. Make a list of sensible personal objectives and strive to push yourself beyond of your comfort zone. Closure is synonymous with ending. Obviously, the families will not stop searching for their loved ones until they have discovered their family, whether alive or dead. So offering them closure is giving them something (specific facts or relatives themselves, most likely deceased) to end their quest.