Answer honestly. Then, ball is in her court. If she flakes, great, neither of you have waisted another second of each other's time. If she doesn't mind, even greater. If you lie and she goes on the date expecting a 5'7 dude and gets a 5'3 dude, whether or not she would have gone for you otherwise becomes irrelevent, because now you look like an insecure asshat. Read more