Common characteristics of an alcohol-dependent person include (but are not limited to): Prioritizing alcohol and drinking  Being unable or unwilling to restrict the number of drinks Feeling strong cravings to drink Failing to fulfill major obligations at home or work because of drinking Experiencing physical withdrawals from drinking Continuing to drink despite its negative consequences on your relationships and health Developing a tolerance so that you must drink more to experience the same effects Making excuses and blaming others for things Engaging in risky behavior  Using alcohol in situations where it isn't safe Experiencing financial hardships due to drinking Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/alcohol-use-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20369243