There are major signs to look for if your loved one is using drugs and alcohol.  An addiction can stop you from working, make you miss family events, and even cost you your job. But sometimes, it can be so hidden that you and your family miss the entire thing until it is too late. Some signs of addiction include: Missing Work or losing your job Missing family events, including graduations, school functions, and more. Hiding drugs/alcohol or your phone (social media, shopping, and sex addiction) Sleeping more than normal Red eyes, bloodshot eyes (depending on progression teeth and gum issues) Not eating/ overeating Disappearing for days at a time Asking for money or financial help