When parents are unable to agree to a shared parenting schedule on their own, a formal parenting time schedule is typically required. A formal parenting time schedule is when both parents agree to a parenting schedule in writing, whether with or without the help of a family law attorney or mediator of some sort. In BC, formal parenting time may also occur due to a Court Order which outlines the time the child will spend with each parent. A formal parenting time schedule is a legally binding document for both parents. On the other hand, there are situations in which parents or guardians are able to work out a parenting schedule on their own, without the assistance of an attorney or official mediator or counsellor. This sometimes occurs when parents find a routine that works for them and their children – without ever actually agreeing on a specific schedule. Informal parenting time can also be the result of a verbal agreement between the parents. It is important to note that even without a written, formalized agreement in place, the court can enforce an informal parenting time schedule if one parent abandons the arrangement without providing a valid reason.