A frequent misunderstanding is that a gift list provides guests with a hyperlink to a retailer's online store, where they can choose whatever they like for the happy couple. Many folks are put off by the prospect of receiving a worthless novelty appliance or home decor items that aren't their style. The orderliness of the real world is surprisingly impressive. Both partners contribute to the list by selecting goods they feel they need or would like to have. The couple will have confidence in the quality of the gifts they receive. Everyone aspires to be a present thoughtful giver.