To incorporate sex whips into your love making, start by discussing your interest in impact play with your partner and that you’d like to try it. Once your partner is on board, or willing to try it out, discuss a safe word to use for if things get too intense and you’d like them to slow down or stop. Then, we recommend starting with some light spanking using just the hand. You want to avoid any areas in which you risk damaging organs, such as the lower back, stomach, chest and head. Stick with fleshier and fattier parts of the body such as the buttocks, backs of the thighs and front of the thighs. Spank lightly and in an upward motion to get a feel for the sensation, then slowly work your way up to incorporate sex toy whips, canes, and crops.