If you have had a restraining order filed against you, there are ways to fight it, but you must do so in a legally responsible way that does not damage your case or lead to serious consequences. First, obey the instructions of the restraining order carefully and thoroughly. Even if this means moving out of your house and being away from your children for a time, you must obey the order. Failing to do this can have serious consequences, including fines and jail time.
The next thing you should do is contact an experienced California defense lawyer immediately. At the Law Office of Michael L. Guisti, we have experience dealing with restraining orders and can help you understand your rights and how to move forward. You can file an answer to the order that explains your side of the story and better illustrates a situation. Finally, you absolutely must go to the court hearing indicated on the restraining order to discuss the situation in court. Failure to appear at court leaves yourself unrepresented and the judge can still rule on the case even if you are not there and provide no answer to the order.