There is no single answer to this question as it depends on the individual and their personality. However, some tips on how to pick a calm puppy include:-Checking to see if the dog is crate-trained. If the dog is crate-trained, they will likely be calm and obedient when left alone, which will make it easier to handle when they are living with someone else.-Checking to see if the dog is potty trained. If the dog is potty trained, they will likely be calm and obedient when left alone, which will make it easier to handle when they are living with someone else.-Checking to see if the dog is housebroken. If the dog is housebroken, they will likely be calm and obedient when left alone, which will make it easier to handle when they are living with someone else.