Ashley used to hang out with her two brothers a lot. Surprisingly they were a massive fan of their hometown team Pittsburgh Steelers. The three siblings decided to meet the star of the team Ben Roethlisberger as he was near their neighborhood. As soon as Harlan and Roethlisberger met for the first time, they could not take their eyes off each other. Eventually, this player asked her to come on a date, and she could not deny it. Therefore they dated for a couple of years before being husband and wife.