Sober socialising is a lot of fun once you get the hang of it. Firstly, you need to commit to being sober and not allow yourself to sit on the fence. Then you must change your mindset from 'socialising is only fun with alcohol' to 'it's fun anyway' because whatever you believe will be true for you, and alcohol often unfairly gets the credit for most of the fun that's had at social occasions. You might have to go to a few social events, feel a little bit awkward, and then realize that you can have fun and in fact, can even have more fun than when drinking. And make sure you plan ahead what you’re drinking, your escape plan if you need one and what you are going to tell people who ask why you’re not drinking. You can never be over prepared. Read more here.