After a split, feelings may be strong on both sides, making it tough to negotiate. Remember that this approach must be done with respect for all parties and that any contact should be done in a courteous manner without blaming or shaming anyone. Providing counseling or community support groups, if accessible, is also helpful during this period. Supporting them is also helpful. In conclusion, avoid drama and conflict during this period because they could complicate the problem and potentially have legal repercussions, depending on your local domestic dispute rules.