The best way to become stronger and more independent is to be pleased with yourself and to stop caring what other people think. As women, we're trained to please others, but it's OK not to care what others think, even if they're unhappy. You don't need to keep everyone around you happy; it's not good for you or them. There are a few things a girl can do to be independent. Some things that may help include getting a job, being savvy with finances, and being able to take care of herself. Additionally, it is important for a girl to be supportive of herself and to feel confident in her own skin.