The laws behind restraining orders are vague for a reason. Whether or not the order of protection is approved, there are a few things a judge will look at:
Substantial Evidence
The Respondent’s History of Violence
Threats (Physical and Digital)
Case History
Neglect to Respond
It’s also important for anyone filing an order of protection to abide by rules. For example, don’t text, call, or communicate with the defendant under any circumstances unless the court or your criminal defense lawyer says it’s OK to do so – usually, this would be for coordinating child care or other unique circumstances.