If you have to relax during a deposition, there are some things you can do to help make the process less stressful. First, remember that the attorney who is questioning you is not your enemy. They are just doing their job. Second, try to take deep breaths and stay calm. It can be helpful to visualization techniques or relaxation exercises. Third, don't hesitate to ask for a break if you need one. Finally, remember that it is okay to ask questions if you don't understand something.