Discuss the possibility of being evaluated by an addictionologist which is not committing to treatment. Attend Al-anon or Nar-anon (meetings and locations can be found at www.al-anon.org and www.nar-anon.org) to gain support from other family members of addicts. Understand that the addict cannot be forced into treatment. (Possibly having some clients’ family members give a testimonial. I know of 2 that would probably do that.)