How can an adult be forced to marry. You had the choice of protesting to your parents and saying no, approaching the girl or her parents and telling them that you are being forced, going away from the venue of marriage, taking help of your friends and relatives etc. to stop this marriage. Because you did not have the courage to do anything about it you are taking it out on your wife. It is very easy to suppress a woman and deny her rights. Come back to your senses. Take responsibility of your actions and start a normal life with your wife. You may take help of a marriage counsellor along with your wife if you have any problems. Many persons who marry girls of their choice may also not be happy as we all know. Make the best of your decision.