Read the complaint before making a decision. To make a decision, you must comprehend what your spouse is requesting.  Recognize the deadline. If you disagree with anything your husband is asking for, you must move swiftly. Complete the paperwork. To respond to the case, you must fill out at least one form.  Keep the paperwork. Send your completed paperwork to the Clerk of Court by mail, e-filing, or in person.  Hand over the Plaintiff. A copy of your filed forms must be delivered to the opposing party by mail or e-service.