Here are 7 powerful ways to overcome the victim mindset that have helped me and many of the students we work with: 1 – Recognize Martyrdom in Yourself. ... 2 – Forgive Others. ... 3 – Forgive Yourself. ... 4 – Meditate or Pray. ... 5 – Manage your Mood. ... 6 – Find a Victor's Mantra. ... 7 – Take Action.