It may be that you’re not ready yet to take things to the next level, so the best thing you can do is be clear with your partner. Be clear about your intentions, about how you want to take things forward, and what exactly you are seeking. Beginning to make love to someone means being committed toward them and engaging emotionally in your physical relationship – so if you’re not ready for that step, then make your partner aware of this before you are on different pages with each other – that could get difficult.