If you put in place a regular care routine for your hands, you will find when you dress there will only be minor adjustments and additions needed to get those mtf hands when you are going out en femme. Not only will you cultivate softer and more feminine hands, but over time you will make your hands look younger as well as less masculine. A manicure, or better yet, a manicure with the addition of fake nails, whether that's acrylic or gel will also help to make your hands look more feminine.