Potentially the "no contact" order that your soon to be "ex" spouse has in effect between your current boyfriend and your children/his children can remain in force even after you and he are divorced. Whether that happens remains to be seen and would be determined by the court based upon evidence presented by your soon to be former spouse and yourself.The court will make the final decision as to the "no contact" order down the road. For further assistance concerning this matter, I suggest that you consult with a family law attorney.