Courting is when a man gives flowers and chocolates to a woman in an attempt to woo her. When two individuals are seriously dating and may eventually marry, this is an example of a courting situation. Women often gave items such as jewelry or clothes instead of money. Flowers are usually the first thing that men send women. They may also bring her candy or take her out for dinner. In return, a woman will give a man advice about his career or help him with his problems. Men must be careful not to rush women into marriage. Take your time and know what you're looking for before you ask someone to marry you. Women should also be sure that they aren't just being taken advantage of when a man sends gifts. If she doesn't want them then she should say so nicely. Don't feel like you have to take offense at anything a man sends you. There are many other ways that people show love and respect to each other during their early dates. It's important that you try new things and don't get bored during these early stages of a relationship.