Learning how to use a wand massager isn't all that complicated. Because the head can flex, they bend with your body and fit your natural contours. The large, long handles make them easy to maneuver all over yourself or your partner. They also don't make your hand vibrate, allowing you to deliver focused tingles to the area of your choice sans fatigue. They're meant for external use only, though, so don't go forcing one where the sun doesn't shine. Before using your massage wand, ensure it's fully charged and ready to go. In the case of a noisy toy, you'll want to ensure you have some privacy. Then, make sure you're ready to go. Placing the head directly on your sensitive areas without first warming them up with a little foreplay can be overwhelming. Once you're nice and hot, it's time to start playing around. Begin by applying gentle pressure to anywhere that feels good — your breasts, inner thighs, neck, etc. If you're especially sensitive, place a piece of fabric between you and the wand, keep your undies on or use a pillow to absorb some of the vibrations. We're not joking when we say these babies are powerful! Lightly move your wand massager around your body. Start with gentle pressure and explore yourself to learn how your body responds. Eventually, you'll make your way to your clit. Try using gentle taps around it before diving into direct contact. Slow and steady wins the race, after all.