If you’re using a silicone toy, it’s best to warm it up with your hands—any extreme temperatures could damage the toy. However, you can experiment with temperature play with glass toys or metal toys. You can use a bowl with warm water to take the chill off safely. Never use the microwave, boiling water, or freezing temps when adding the elements into your bedroom happenings. You can also indulge on a lube warmer, like this one from Pulse.