Get your sweat on. Break a sweat and it could help lift your spirits. Give some compliments. Put a smile on. Give yourself a pep talk. Don't self-sabotage. Assess your relationships with others. Have a sense of humor. Have sex. There is no one answer to this question as everyone has different preferences when it comes to their attractiveness. However, some things that may make a woman feel more attractive to herself may include feeling confident and owning her own body. Additionally, being happy and enjoying life is also key to feeling attractive. It is important for women to find what makes them happy and to surround themselves with people and things that make them happy.