Couples often do not agree on whether to have an open marriage or engage in polyamory. In order to create safety and security in your relationship, it is very important to resolve this issue so you can make a clear agreement one way or another. Couples can only truly move forward with polyamory if both of them agree. Anything less will create suffering for both of you. With the right support, partners can be remarkably creative at finding solutions to their problems. Therapy is an excellent place to get help resolving your disagreements and figuring out the best choice for you as a couple.