Your mother can absolutely be your doula! In fact, many people choose to have their mothers serve as their doulas because of the special bond and relationship that already exists. Having your mother present during one of the most intimate and intense moments of your life can be incredibly comforting, reassuring, and empowering. And while she may not have professional experience as a doula, she likely has plenty of wisdom, love, and support to offer you during labor and childbirth.
That said, it’s important to remember that ultimately this is YOUR birth experience—not your mother’s. So even though she may be offering suggestions or advice (which you are free to take or leave), it’s important that you make the final decisions about what happens during your labor and delivery. If at any point you feel like you need space from your mom (or anyone else in the room), don’t hesitate to speak up and ask for some time alone with your partner or doula.
Having a supportive person by your side during labor is invaluable, so if having your mom there feels right for you, then go for it!