In a trauma-bonded narcissistic relationship, the narcissist may use the following tactics on their victim partner: Love Bombing: Showering the victim with affection, gifts, and attention to make them feel special and valued. This initial phase can create a strong emotional connection and trust. Playing the Victim: Portraying themselves as misunderstood or victimized to gain sympathy and trust, making the victim feel responsible for their well-being. Promises of Change: Making false promises to change or improve, giving the victim hope that things will get better, only to revert to abusive behavior. Isolation: Gradually cutting the victim off from friends and family, making them more reliant on the abuser for social interaction and support. Gaslighting: Making the victim question their memories, feelings, and perceptions, leading to confusion and a reliance on the abuser for their understanding of reality. Exploiting Vulnerabilities: Identifying and using the victim's weaknesses to create dependency. Inconsistent Reinforcement: Alternating between kindness and cruelty to keep the victim on edge. Control Over Finances: Taking over financial resources to increase financial dependency. Withholding Affection: Controlling the victim by withholding love and approval. Threats and Intimidation: Creating fear and compliance through threats or violence. Monitoring and Surveillance: Keeping tabs on the victim's activities to create a sense of control. Emotional Blackmail: Using guilt and emotional manipulation to control behavior and decisions.