By not asking for one. Instead, earn it… attract them to the idea of meeting. Avoid looking like a beggar. The more you ask for what you want, the less you get it. The more you demonstrate how you want the other person the more they push back. Just like in dating. Telling someone “I truly want”… or how important they are… or how you would “love to” hear from or show them is a mistake. Because it lowers your status in the other person’s eyes. We look like a needy, desperate beggar. Here’s an example…