People experiencing dementia are in the “3-second now.” They are losing a sense of the past and the future, but are very much in the present. If they are enjoying their cup of coffee, they may not want to get up and get ready for a doctor’s appointment. Because of this, it’s important for caregivers to change their expectations of what can be accomplished each day. Also, remember not to frown if you’re running late. Your companion with dementia will take that personally.