When you break off a codependent relationship with another person, you leave them with their own room to grow. While this process might be painful at first, it’s a very important step in breaking the codependent nature of the relationship. Not only will this allow them to grow as a person, but it will also provide you with plenty of space to grow as well. It’s important to remember that no matter what happens once this relationship ends, the other person is not your responsibility.