Men have a deep-seated desire to feel needed and irreplaceable in the eyes of their partner. They have a secret obsession with being accepted, appreciated, and cherished for all that they do. The key to unlocking this secret obsession is to share your own needs and wants first. This allows him to feel that he is not just filling a role but actually earning your love over and over again. When a man can consistently experience falling in love with someone, his secret obsession will be triggered and he won't want anyone else but you. This secret obsession exists even in the wake of unresolved relationships or breakups; He may come to his senses realizing that there is no one else who compares to you which sparks an urge to win you back. Your response though is left entirely up to you.