Picking the song for your first dance is a really big deal. When choosing the song for your first dance, it's always best to settle on one that best describes your relationship or resonates with your identity as a couple.  Start by listing out love songs that you both love. Next, you should carefully go through their lyrics taking note of songs that best describe your relationship or journey as a couple. Next, narrow it down by picking a song whose beat you can comfortably dance to.