The negative impact component of sex addiction is a very importance aspect of the addiction. What is important to acknowledge here is whether or not you are engaging in sexual or romantic behavior that has a negative impact associated with it. This impact can be currently present or future oriented. The impact is on your life. If you immediately understand and feel this negative impact from the result of a pattern of sexual behavior, don't waste time wondering whether you should label yourself a "sex addict", or whether or not if your behavior fully qualifies and meets the criteria for a "sexually addictive behavior". If you are currently struggling with repeated sexual or romantic behaviors, you have the opportunity to change. You have the responsibility for making your life better. This is true no matter how small these sexually addictive behaviors may seem. You must do something about it.