The common myth is that an ‘alpha male’ is a real man. To dispel this myth, you must realize that the term ‘alpha male’ is just a term constructed by society that is extremely shallow and stereotypical.
A label will not define who you are. More importantly, it’s your actions, words, principles, and ambitions that make you a unique individual. There’s no need to live by society’s labels, hierarchy, and standards because these typically breed self-hate, lack of confidence, and unnecessary competition.