Under the laws of all states in this country there is a process that if a person designated to be served with court papers cannot be personally served with them an adult residing in the same household can be served with the papers on behalf of the other person intended to be (called sub-service) and when done the papers are then mailed as well to the person residing at the location to perfect the process.I suggest that you consult with a registered process service to get the service done for you of the legal paper work that you are writing about.