Yes, the answer is yes. You are free to propose in whatever style, shape, or form that you think best represents your unique love story. A ring, for some, is a tangible representation of the emotional commitment their spouse is prepared to make for them. For others, it is not necessary at all. You can ask someone to marry you by writing them a letter or email, giving them gifts, taking them out on a date, and so on. As long as you communicate your intentions clearly and honestly, then you can ask them to marry you any way that works for you both. Marriage is a big deal and should be treated as such. If you haven't planned ahead and done your research, then you might be surprised by what kind of response you get when you ask someone to marry you. If you aren't ready to get married yet, then don't ask someone to marry you. Start planning your wedding now, set up a meeting with an attorney, and do your research before you ask someone to marry you. People have been marrying one another since the beginning of time, so there are many ways that could have happened. Some people prefer writing letters or emails instead asking someone to marry them; this is perfectly fine too. Just make sure that you are comfortable with how you plan to propose and that it's something that both of you want to do.