This is something that is very trial & error for everyone. More often than not, you will ask someone what ingredients they use to make their lube and it will be entirely and completely different from the last person you asked including the actual process of making it. However, we can say that a lot of powder and cream-based lubricants are staple ingredients in most community members’ ingredients. We encourage you to keep asking around or even taking a trip to your local novelty store and seeing what they have in stock. As you engage in play sessions, you may even encounter a lube mix you fancy and use that mix recipe.