Cornew says there’s no need to stick to traditional wedding themes if you don’t want to. “I believe in 2022, conventional wedding rules are meant to be broken,” she says. The traditional and modern gift guides for anniversaries are meant as just that—guides that can help, but are not necessary. Ultimately, it's best to find something that you know your partner will love and appreciate, whether it falls within the theme or is completely out of the box.