Here are some ways you might be able to avoid paying alimony and how Hornberger Verbitsky, P.C. can help. Sign a Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement. ... Negotiate Giving Your Spouse Assets Instead of Paying Alimony. ... Prove That Your Spouse Doesn't Need Spousal Support. ... Live Within Reduced Means. ... Consider Filing a Fault Divorce. More items...