The birth control pill has a lot of side effects including several that directly impact your love life - it’s been shown to literally eliminate any sex drive you may have. Antidepressants have also been shown to negatively affect a woman’s fertility. The good news is there are alternatives - talk to your doc about switching your birth control pills for the copper IUD, and explore dietary and lifestyle changes to address your mental well-being in hopes of allowing you to eventually get off antidepressants and other drugs.