No, you can simply identify as a man or woman in your dating profile and choose to explain in your bio or in a chat. Just know that most people will assume you’re a cisgender man or cisgender woman as you get to know each other. You’re under no obligation to tell a person within the first message or even the first date that you’re transgender — but singles should note that withholding that information can damage the trust in a relationship. It could lead to feelings of anger, which could potentially be dangerous. Coming out is a tough issue that each transgender individual must grapple with and find the right timing and forum where they feel safe and comfortable. “I am who I choose to become.” — an anonymous trans person My friend said coming out as a trans woman on Facebook was a liberating experience for her. She was lucky to have the support of her longtime girlfriend throughout her transition — but not every trans person has the backing of friends, family members, and other loved ones, so that can make things very challenging and emotionally taxing.