People around us might constitute a threat to the stability of our love relationships, whether we are aware of it or not. Some people criticize other people's relationships because they are insecure or feel the need to be "superior," while others do it because they live in an emotional world built on reactive fear. Still others intervene because they want to help; sometimes we see this act of kindness as a way of getting back at someone who has hurt us. Interference can also be an attempt to change another person's mind about their relationship; perhaps they feel threatened by its success or afraid that if they don't stop them they will be forced into a similar situation themselves. Interfering in other people's relationships is a difficult subject for many to talk about. Most people only reveal part of their true feelings about others' relationships, such as feeling jealous or wanting to help. Even when they are being honest, they may feel uncomfortable with the power imbalance that exists between friends or family members who have a relationship problems and need to be helped. As well, people don't like to admit that they are insecure or afraid, so they often hide their true intentions behind what seems like a loving gesture. However, interference does not necessarily mean that you want to hurt others. Often, we try to guide others toward solutions that we believe will help them reach their goals, even if these suggestions aren't what they want to hear.