Yes, it's difficult to remember that, and yes, it's difficult not to retreat to one's darkest anxieties, but if there was ever a moment to be the greatest version of oneself, it's now—and I'm not just talking sartorially. In some ways, dressing like your ex can be a good thing. If they liked simple styles with lots of color, go for it! If they were into trendy things, stick with what worked for them then too. The point is, don't worry about copying someone else's style exactly; instead, use this as an opportunity to express yourself through your clothing. Of course, there are other factors at work here than just wanting to look like your ex. Dressing the way you feel can help heal old wounds from past relationships or simply allow you to move on. If you admire someone's style, you could try to copy it (but only if you like their clothes)! The most important thing is that you're feeling comfortable in what you're wearing. If you want to send a message with your outfit, go for it! But first, trust your instincts; sometimes we forget how our own feelings affect others, but knowing these feelings even just a little bit can give you great power when choosing what to wear.