Many couples who use strap-ons and dildos have found that starting small, working their way up, and using what’s called “O-rings” is the most efficient way to get into the action.
A strap-on set typically includes the harness and the dildo. Alternatively, you can purchase both a harness and a dildo separately to mix and match your preferences.
Once you’re inside your partner, it’s nearly impossible to stop until your partner is completely satisfied.