If there’s an active restraining order, don’t respond to the communications. Instead, make sure you document or save all of the communications so you can share them with your attorney. Often these communications, along with other statements or social media posts, can form the basis of your defense.
At the same time, it’s important that you not do anything that could jeopardize your case. That includes contacting the alleged victim or making statements about the case, either directly to other people or through social media. It is common practice for police officers to “friend” your social media accounts so they can monitor any statements you make. And as discussed in the homepage FAQ’s, any statements you make about a case will be used against you.