After you’ve signed up to our online site, you can choose whether to immediately take the plunge or bide your time and look around first. The choice is yours, so take it as slow and steady as you need, without any pressure. You can either join in one of our chat rooms to hang out with other members online or you can browse through our gallery to look for men or women that you think you’d be compatible with. You can get started by just sending a cheeky wink. That is a great ice-breaker and perfect for testing the water. Alternatively, you can send a private message that the other person won’t be able to resist!