No, you can't be excused for the rest of your life. However, you can stop making excuses and start taking action. Life is enjoyable if you take action and want to enjoy your time. No matter what you achieve, no matter what other people say about you - you are in charge of your life. Making excuses is a negative way of thinking that needs to stop. You're only hurting yourself by making excuses. It's time for you to stop making excuses and start taking action.