The best beginners sex toys are typically small and gentle, but that doesn't mean that they're totally incapable of giving you great pleasure. If you really know how to use that toy, you'll be able to angle it inside of you to hit all the right and best spots. The same goes for butt plugs.
These little toys might be mainly for penetration, but if you really learn how to use this thing, it can be much more than that. Just remember always to use lube. That makes everything better and don't think that more friction is better and wilder because it's not. That'll only hurt your ass.