The INFJ gaze is a deliberate, focused gaze. You look at the world with intent and focus. At the same time, the INFJs eyes are pensive and zen. You have a daydreaming quality to your gaze, and while your eyes wander, or stop to focus on one point, it can look as if you are not really present in the world or in the conversation. However, when an INFJ looks at another person, they look with a deliberate, hunter-like quality. To look so directly, and so intently at another person, with such an understanding, kind smile, is going to either make the other person melt or run away. People can feel uncomfortable by the INFJ gaze, as it makes a person feel truly seen, and not everyone wants to let you in on that level.