Every woman has unique circumstances that influence her decision, but below are the most common reasons. Father of the baby- If the father is no longer in the picture, this can make parenting twice as difficult. Finances- life is expensive, but taking care of a baby adds a lot of responsibility, especially if you are wanting to provide a better life for your baby. Not ready to parent- You may be in college or just at a place that you know you aren’t able to raise a child emotionally. Parenting is rough and exhausting, understanding the challenges is important.