A stalker is someone who gives you undue attention in a way that would make most people nervous. Stalking is unlawful and can be accompanied by harassing or intimidating activities. If you believe you are being stalked or have concerns about someone's conduct toward you, contact the police. Stalking can be either direct or indirect. With direct stalking, the person engages in physical presence with no apparent reason other than to cause fear. Indirect stalking involves some form of communication via email, social networking, phone, etc. between the stalker and victim. This type of stalking can be just as harmful as direct stalking because it continues even after the initial intimidation has been reported. If you are being stalked, here are some things you should do: Report the incident to your local law enforcement agency. Include details about the person/people involved including names, addresses, dates of birth, etc. Going to the police will help them identify those responsible and put an end to further harassment. Contact any friends or family members who may know about the person(s) causing you concern. They may be able to provide additional information about the situation. Change your address/phone numbers with relatives and friends to prevent the harasser from contacting you directly. Consider obtaining a restraining order against the person(s) threatening you. A court order can help protect you from future incidents involving the same person or group.