There are many alternative options for incontinence pads that you can discuss with your physician. Options for men include: Drip collector: This highly absorbent padded sheath fits over the penis. It's helpful for light incontinence and occasional leaking. Condom catheter: These external catheters are worn like a condom. They have a tube on the end that collects urine in drainage bags worn on the thigh. This device can handle small or large amounts of urine.  For women: Pessaries: These flexible devices are inserted into your vagina. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Some pessaries can be worn for weeks at a time. Urethral insert: This device is inserted into your urethra like a tampon. When inserted, it pushes against the vaginal wall to block urine from coming out. You must remove the insert to urinate.