Therapists' Advice on Finding a Serious Relationship When Dating Over 50 1 internalize "the pineapple idea" 2 check your baggage at the door 3 keep the first date talk light (4) give a possible new partner three dates More... Finding a romantic partner becomes more difficult as you age. But this shouldn't stop you from looking for love! Here are some tips on how to find a serious relationship when dating over 50: Don't be afraid to get help. If you're not doing well with relationships in general, it might be time to seek out some guidance. There are many therapists available who can help you work through any issues that may be preventing you from finding true love. Take things slow. The older you are, the more important it is to avoid rushing into anything serious. You have a better chance of success if you take time to get to know someone else's side of the story before you decide if he or she is right for you. Be patient. It isn't easy finding love when you're over 50. However, these tips will help you find a lasting relationship.