Once a divorce is finalized, both parties receive orders regarding custody and support of their children, such as child support and parenting schedules. Those orders should be respected, and there are usually consequences for the party that chooses to ignore a court order. For example, failing to make timely child support payments can result in a variety of penalties, ranging from wage garnishments to criminal charges. If your ex-spouse is not respecting court orders, you may request the court for help enforcing the orders, and your ex-spouse could be considered to be in contempt of court. Each case is unique, so the best strategy is to speak to a Suffolk county divorce attorney to find out how you should proceed.