Writing a wedding speech can feel daunting, but with the right approach, it can become a highlight of the wedding. Whether you're the best man, maid-of-honour or a parent these pointers will help you write the best speech possible. Understanding your audience is crucial. A wedding reception typically includes family, friends and possibly even colleagues of varying ages. That is why you should keep your speech appropriate for all ears. Avoid controversial topics, inside jokes that few will understand and overly sentimental stories that might embarrass the happy couple. A well-structured speech has a clear beginning, middle and end. Start with an engaging opening, perhaps a personal anecdote or a quote about love. The middle should then focus on stories or experiences with the couple, highlighting their qualities and journey together. Conclude with heartfelt wishes for their future. While it's tempting to share every memory, it's important to remember that less is more in this situation. Aim for a speech that lasts no longer than five minutes. This ensures you maintain the audience's attention and keep the event moving smoothly. Reading your speech out loud will help you gauge its length and adjust it as needed. A bit of humour can go a long way towards keeping your speech lively and enjoyable. Gentle teasing is fine, but steer clear of jokes that could be misinterpreted and might offend the couple or any of their guests. The goal is to celebrate the couple, not to roast them. Take a moment to acknowledge and thank key individuals, such as the couple's parents, the wedding party and anyone who played a significant role in the wedding. This adds a gracious touch to your speech while recognising the efforts of those who contributed to the special day. Rehearse your speech multiple times. Practice helps you become familiar with your content, which will help you deliver your speech smoothly. Consider practicing in front of a friend or family member who can provide constructive feedback. Raise your glass and invite the guests to join you in wishing the couple a lifetime of happiness.