Good question! It definitely helps parents to try to understand if their child could have any vulnerabilities they want to think about when they send them out there into the world. Children can be at higher risk to be bullied if:
They are seen as “different.” Maybe by being labeled as “gifted” or “overweight” or “underweight.” It is often a difference that is picked out, and bullies use it against them.
They are seen as weaker or unable to defend themselves, either personally or because they do not have a strong peer group ready to jump in.
They may be depressed, anxious, or deal with other concerns that inhibits social engagement.
They are negative toward others.
Parents often think about ways to talk to their kids about their strengths, like by pushing them to engage in sports or academics that suit their talents. But part of being a well-rounded person is to understand how others can perceive us, both positively and negatively. So it can be helpful to teach kids how to appropriately respond to both compliments and criticisms in ways that are effective and build the child’s comfort level that it is OK to be who they are.