And then, when you start dating and falling in love and find a partnership, or even in your close friendships or your family relationships, the question is, how do I love myself in a relationship The tendency is to turn off our self-love in proximity to someone who has expectations of us. And it’s a renegotiation to say, “Hey, I know that’s how I used to do it in the past, but what I’m learning is to do it this way, and it’s uncomfortable for you, and it’s uncomfortable for me. This feels awkward, and you don’t like it, and I don’t like it. But if women practice it long enough, it will become familiar and eventually easy.” Loving ourselves inside of our relationship is a process that takes practice. Saying, “This doesn’t feel good.” And that’s OK. And a lot of times, when women just acknowledge how it feels, it lets the pressure out, it lets the air out, and it feels better immediately.