It can be difficult to get your wife to go to counseling, especially if she is resistant to the idea. However, there are some things you can do to encourage her to give it a try. First, explain why you think counseling could be helpful for your relationship. If she is open to the idea, try suggesting a few different counselors or therapy programs that you would be willing to attend together. You can also look into couples' counseling, which may be more appealing to her than individual therapy. Finally, don't push too hard - if she really doesn't want to go, it's likely that nothing you say or do will change her mind.