The bride is not typically expected to pay for much – if anything at all – at her own bachelorette party. Of course, she can break with tradition, but the bridesmaids/attendees of the party usually see to it that she doesn’t spend any money. Therefore, if the bride invites you to a destination party, chances are you’re going to have to pay for your own ticket in addition to other items. Talk to the other attendees and see if you can come up with some type of plan on how to split costs!