A good couples therapist is trained and experienced in working with couples and understands the complexities of relationships. They should be able to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where both partners feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings. A good couples therapist should also have excellent communication and listening skills and be able to effectively mediate and guide the conversation without taking sides or being biased. Empathy and compassion are also essential qualities for a good couples therapist, as they need to understand and relate to both partners’ perspectives. Additionally, a good couples therapist should be able to customize their approach to meet each couple’s unique needs and goals and adapt their techniques as needed throughout the therapy process. A good couples therapist should be committed to helping the couple build a stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationship.