The best place to meet a girlfriend is on a reputable dating site like Match.com, Zoosk, and EliteSingles. You can also visit gay clubs or bars and mingle with other singles. Pride parades, lesbian meetups, and pride events are great for meeting like-minded individuals. Joining a softball team sounds cliche but there are high chances of meeting lesbians and prospective partners. One of the easiest ways to find a girlfriend is to join an LGBTQ+ advocacy group and you might run into an interested party. You can also ask your friends to introduce you to other lesbians, especially when you have lesbian friends.