Let her go. Hot lesbians are everywhere. There’s no benefit to trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t want you. Believe in love. Someone is out there waiting for you. She needs you to believe in her. You block her from finding you as long as you stay hung up on someone who will never love you the way you deserve. The truth is, when someone isn’t giving us what we want, there’s a good chance she doesn’t have it to offer. Lesbians stereotypically bring a U-Haul to their second date. When they don’t bring the U-Haul (and the relationship stays casual more than your gut instinct tells you it should), it’s probably a sign that you’ve chosen the wrong woman. But don’t despair. Love is real, and if you want to be in a loving partnership, you WILL find someone to share that with. The only thing that blocks us from the love we want is either giving up and/or wasting time trying to get it from the wrong women. The five steps outlined above will help you avoid ending up with the wrong woman while also helping you take things deeper if she is, indeed, the right woman.