Depending on the age of the child, it can be helpful to communicate to them something like this: “I know we’ve all been struggling a lot as a family. Sometimes it can be helpful for families to talk with a therapist who can provide a safe place for everyone to share how they feel and get support. I believe this is going to help us feel happier again.” Choosing a family therapist is an important decision. Unless they are very young, it’s best that all members of the family have a voice in the selection process. From the first moment you set foot in our office, we strive to make clients of every age feel welcome. Our style is direct, upbeat and playful. We believe it helps to have a sense of humor about the human condition! Almost without exception, our experience is that kids seem to get the hang of therapy quickly and buy into the process.