Do not neglect to get a strong divorce attorney as quickly as possible once disputed issues are a reality. They will ensure that your interests are protected throughout the divorce and that your voice will be heard. Do not neglect your finances and begin putting money away to pay for your legal fees associated with the divorce. Also, begin to collect as many documents as possible that will help strengthen your case and ensure that all the facts of the case are heard. The biggest issues is not to use your children as pawns in the divorce as it will cause your children serious issues in the future and may make them hate you or your partner.