Most sex toy companies know that people don’t necessarily want to announce they’re using a vibrator every time they turn it on. So most will be fairly discreet, especially the vibrating strokers that use bullet vibe which is notoriously quiet. But that’s not a universal thing. If noise is an issue, look for a toy that advertises that it’s quiet and discreet. And if you get a stroker that attaches to an existing vibrator, remember that it will be as loud as the toy you choose. Pro tip: Original Magic Wands sound like a jackhammer. If you don’t want anyone to know what you’re up to, don’t use a stroker attachment with that vibrator. But if you want the most intense vibrations you can stand and don’t care about the noise, that’s one to try.