We think the best way is to learn about who some of his male role models are–such as historical or political figures, figures in sports or in the media. Try to pick the most positive one, then direct him towards the values of that male figure. Also, introduce him to some of your own heroes from your childhood or adolescence. Focus on some of the core positive male attributes, then once that’s in place, hand him one of the books! The one by Sean Covey should be particularly inspirational since in his own life he has gone from being a pro athlete to a businessman and now an author and motivational speaker. All of this speaks of a positive core male attribute, in this case, perseverance, and adaptation.