Loving Him Without Losing You shows women how to have a healthy, intimate relationship with a man without giving up your power. When women fall in love (even strong, independent women), they have a tendency to over-attach and over-give in their relationships. <br> <br>Loving Him Without Losing You shows you how to develop a strong sense of self that won’t allow any man to ever take your identity away from “you.” Learn to develop such a strong sense of self that all your relationships become healthy, no more addictive relationships. <br> <br>8 Steps to Loving Without Losing Yourself <br> 1. Admit your Past Emotional Dependence and Commit to Change <br> 2. Develop Your Own Identity <br> 3. Stop the “Shoulds” and Forgive Your self for Not Being Perfect <br> 4. Understand Why You Are the Way You Are <br> 5. Express Your Feelings to Get What You Want <br> 6. Confront Those Who Taught You the Bad Behavior <br> 7. Take Risks and Experiment with New Behaviors <br> 8. Control (and be Responsible for) Every Area of Your Life <br> <br>