Fifty Shades of Grey didn’t sell 100 million copies because it was politically correct. Rather, it drew on something fundamental about masculinity and femininity. <br> <br>While our culture tries to minimize, or even deny, the difference between the sexes, the most successful and enjoyable intimate relationships continue to celebrate and use that difference. <br> <br>Male and female are real, and they complement each other. Just like male and female bodies, male and female psychologies have co-evolved for sexual intimacy and mutual pleasure. <br> <br>But only if you know how to use them. <br> <br>When a man experiences his masculinity by making his woman feel more like a woman, and a woman experiences her femininity by making her man feel more like a man, intimacy ceases to be a negotiation and becomes an extraordinarily exciting exploration. <br> <br>She Wants You To Make Her is your key to understanding the polarity and complementarity of the sexes, and how to make relationships that are collaborative rather than compromising. <br> <br>Are you a woman in a relationship who would like to feel more intensely desired, chosen and feminine? <br> <br>Are you a man in relationship who would like to feel more affirmed, trusted and masculine? <br> <br>Are you a woman who would like to be with a man who is dominant but not domineering? <br> <br>Are you a man who would like to be with a woman who is grateful but not demanding? <br> <br>Are you a person of either sex who would just like to find a partner who knows what turns you on and enjoys providing it, with you equally excited to do the same for them? <br> <br>If the answer to any of those questions is “yes”, then She Wants You To Make Her may be the most important book you read this year. <br> <br>She Wants You To Make Her is a celebration of masculinity, femininity, and what happens when they come together in the right way. It is a practical guide to male and female sexual expression in dating and relationships, and an antidote to the current politicization of biology, gender and sex. <br> <br>It explains how men and women can turn their sexual relationships into a source of that excitement and intensity that so many of us only experience in diluted form through reading erotica and watching porn. <br> <br>Of course, excitement and intensity are not the only point of an intimate relationship. Fortunately, their pursuit can be the most enjoyable and effective way to develop powerful communication and unbreakable trust. <br> <br>Men, this is a book you need to read. <br> <br>Women, this is a book you need to read – and then give to your man. <br>