i approached a women who i have known for a while while her back was turned but waited until she turned around so i didnt scare her. When she noticed me she turned to face me with relaxed and open body language and was fully facing me. She put on a big duchenne smile and looked me in the eye and her pupils were soft and dilated yet kind of moist. There was no one around just her and i. I put my hand on her waist and lower back and gently pulled her towards me. She gently resisted and stayed where she was but she was looking me in the eye still and her smile had gotten bigger and her face seemed happy and her pupils got even bigger. She didnt move away and did not try to move my hand from her body which showed no tension. I think she was trying to be playful but i was leaving so i told her i was going home and left. Those were the only words said and the next time i saw her she smiled at me across the room and seemed excited to see me even though i didnt go see her. Analyse the dynamics and give me your honest unfiltered feedback. I should mention that i touch her quite frequently and she almost never resists and the only time she ever pushed my hand off her waist she was still the same. Eye contact, smiling, relaxed body. She is very popular with guys and some have seen the way i touch her and tryed to copy one even hid behind a tree and told a friend of mine. "He had his arm fully around her waist and his hand on her other waist but when i tryed it she got angry". She has seen me talk to other women but i dont touch them and she stares and watches and is definetely not happy. I have noticed she seems to get nervous and tense if i dont see her for a while and can get extremely shy and can talk to others but not me which is fine as i guess thats her wondering if i like her and if i do talk to her she relaxs again and smiles etc. i asked her out a while ago and she rejected me but she was still smiling relaxed etc so i left her alone and didnt talk to her or see her for 3 months and she told a close friend of mine that she made a mistake rejecting me. I actually started seeing someone else not long after and she looked really hurt and was rude and angry when i did talk to her so i didnt want to hurt her more so just stayed away and i would see her watching me. After a year i stopped seeing the other women and she found out and she was back to smiling etc. She gets a lot of attention from guys and has rejected most of them multiple times so i understand that she thought he will ask again everyone does. it has been a year since i stopped seeing the other women and two years since i asked her out and she seems more nervous when i am not around and sometimes looks sad or angry or smiles when she watches me but is still relaxed smiling and i remember i had something she wanted to borrow but she seemed nervous and anxious when she asked for it so i said to her she can use it when she wants and she said she was unsure. I think she was unsure about talking to me but never finished her sentence but when she bought it back she was smiling and seemed extra happy to be near me so i took her hand and pulled her a bit closer and said come here and she relaxed and let me pull her. If we were alone i would have kissed her as her lips were puckering when i pulled her towards me. She also teases me now which she doesnt do with others and some of the other guys hate me because they want her but i dont care. Her friends have also told people that she is into me and one guy i know asked me how long i have been in a relationship with her because her friends told him and i just told him we are not together. i have known her for 12 years we were flirty like this when we meet but i was in a relationship and she was married so we stayed away from each other mostly until two years ago. until this year i never knew her birthday and she still doesnt know mine we just never talk about stuff like that. I always knew i didnt want to pretend to be her friend and i guess she felt the same when we were in relationships because every so often maybe every two years we would slip flirt and touch and then remember our relationships and smile at each other with no words and leave each other alone again. She went through a bad divorce and we still never spoke and some guys were trying to act all friendly and it was obvious they were trying to position themselves falsely as a friend when there intentions were obvious. They used to ask me what i knew about her and i just said nothing because she doesnt talk to me about it which never supprised me but my attitude was if she wanted me to know she would tell me and we have still never spoke about it. In fact we rarely speak about negative things we just seem to not need to know these things because to me it doesnt matter. i see when she is nervous and angry if i dont go talk to her or not see her for a while and dont feel the need to apologise instead i do things like poke tongues at her sometimes she walks away mostly she laughs and when i do go talk to her she is smiling etc again. I think she just wants to know i havent forgotten her or she feels reassured. She is doing things with me and for me and allowing me to do things that are not normal behaviour for her and i know she gets nervous and is still scared of my reaction towards her and that i will have to take the first step because she is terrified of me rejecting her so i wont need much or a big gesture because i believe she is waiting. Sometimes she will wait by the exit when i leave and i know she is waiting for me as she searches the room for me and when she sees me coming she starts smoothing her clothes and her appearance. Next time i do this i am going to take her hand and lead her somewhere quiet and just say we should be together and kiss her but if she seems nervous or overwhelmed i wont kiss her instead i will just smile and say when you are ready if you are. I am not worried about her saying no i am fine with myself so even though i would like her i am fine without her