context: This year , after 10 years of marriage , she announces to all her relatives in the kitchen " My how nicely you are fitting in ! " as if I was some abominable creature for the past 10 years . I am a professional , in charge of mentoring a lot of folks at work .
question: Why might you be upset about your wife's announcement ?
reference: She implied that I didn't mesh with her family .
candidate: She is confirming a strong commitment that she has no intention of leaving.