Method for controlling and/or training the driving behavior of a driver when driving a motor vehicle, the motor vehicle having: (i) at least one gaze detection device relating to the driver, (ii) headlight means which are adapted to generate at least one predeterminable light distribution in front of the motor vehicle or at least one front light, and (iii) means for detecting the current traffic situation, the method comprising: continuously detecting at least one gaze parameter of the driver by means of the at least one gaze detection device (eye tracking device), wherein the gaze parameter is selected from the group consisting of a gaze direction, a gaze movement and a gaze duration of the driver as well as a combination of these gaze parameters, and at least one warning signal is triggered for the driver if the recorded gaze parameters and/or the traffic situation exhibit deviations beyond predeterminable limits in comparison with stored normal values relating thereto, the method being characterized in that the advisory signal is transmitted to the driver by means of the "attractive flicker" method, which comprises the following steps: generating, by means of the headlight means or the at least one front light, an alternating light orientation signal which is defined in a predeterminable position in the traffic space in front of the motor vehicle and whose amplitude of light intensity for the driver differs significantly from a local ambient brightness currently located in front of the motor vehicle, maintaining the alternating light orientation signal until a change in at least one gaze parameter of the driver is detected by the gaze detection device, thereby detecting an indication that the driver's attention has been turned to the alternating light orientation signal, and converting the alternating light orientation signal into an alternating light sustain signal by reducing the frequency as well as the amplitude of the alternating light orientation signal to a sustain value detectable by the driver attentive to the orientation light signal. continuously detecting at least one gaze parameter of the driver by means of the at least one gaze detection device (eye tracking device), wherein the gaze parameter is selected from the group consisting of a gaze direction, a gaze movement and a gaze duration of the driver as well as a combination of these gaze parameters, and at least one warning signal is triggered for the driver if the recorded gaze parameters and/or the traffic situation exhibit deviations beyond predeterminable limits in comparison with stored normal values relating thereto, the method being characterized in that the advisory signal is transmitted to the driver by means of the "attractive flicker" method, which comprises the following steps: generating, by means of the headlight means or the at least one front light, an alternating light orientation signal which is defined in a predeterminable position in the traffic space in front of the motor vehicle and whose amplitude of light intensity for the driver differs significantly from a local ambient brightness currently located in front of the motor vehicle, maintaining the alternating light orientation signal until a change in at least one gaze parameter of the driver is detected by the gaze detection device, thereby detecting an indication that the driver's attention has been turned to the alternating light orientation signal, and converting the alternating light orientation signal into an alternating light sustain signal by reducing the frequency as well as the amplitude of the alternating light orientation signal to a sustain value detectable by the driver attentive to the orientation light signal. generating, by means of the headlight means or the at least one front light, an alternating light orientation signal which is defined in a predeterminable position in the traffic space in front of the motor vehicle and whose amplitude of light intensity for the driver differs significantly from a local ambient brightness currently located in front of the motor vehicle, maintaining the alternating light orientation signal until a change in at least one gaze parameter of the driver is detected by the gaze detection device, thereby detecting an indication that the driver's attention has been turned to the alternating light orientation signal, and converting the alternating light orientation signal into an alternating light sustain signal by reducing the frequency as well as the amplitude of the alternating light orientation signal to a sustain value detectable by the driver attentive to the orientation light signal.