A motion arresting and dampening device, comprising: a. a damper dimensioned to fit a predetermined tubular dimension of a tubular, the damper comprising an inflatable restorative inflation device; b. a lifting spreader bar deployment assembly, comprising: i. a lifting spreader bar; ii. a set of object connector connection receivers (15a, 15b); iii. a set of lifting connector receivers (21a, 21b) disposed about the lifting spreader bar at a first offset from a center of the lifting spreader bar; iv. a set of lifting connectors (11a, 11b) operatively connected to the set of lifting connector receivers (21a, 21b); v. a set of restraining connector receivers (22a, 22b) disposed about the lifting spreader bar at a second offset from the center of the lifting spreader bar; and vi. a set of adjustable restraining connectors (12a, 12b) operatively connected to the set of restraining connector receivers (22a, 22b); c. a lift, comprising: i. a crane; ii. a lifting connector operatively connected to the set of adjustable restraining connectors (12a, 12b); and iii. a lifting winch operatively connected to the lifting connector and to the crane; d. a damper support, comprising: i. a deployment connector operatively connected to the damper; and ii. a bar mounted winch disposed about a predetermined portion of the lifting spreader bar and operatively connected to the deployment connector; e. a predetermined set of winch and bladder activation hoses operatively in communication with the winches and bladders; and f. a controller disposed proximate the lift and operatively in communication with the predetermined set of winch and bladder activation hoses. a. a damper dimensioned to fit a predetermined tubular dimension of a tubular, the damper comprising an inflatable restorative inflation device; b. a lifting spreader bar deployment assembly, comprising: i. a lifting spreader bar; ii. a set of object connector connection receivers (15a, 15b); iii. a set of lifting connector receivers (21a, 21b) disposed about the lifting spreader bar at a first offset from a center of the lifting spreader bar; iv. a set of lifting connectors (11a, 11b) operatively connected to the set of lifting connector receivers (21a, 21b); v. a set of restraining connector receivers (22a, 22b) disposed about the lifting spreader bar at a second offset from the center of the lifting spreader bar; and vi. a set of adjustable restraining connectors (12a, 12b) operatively connected to the set of restraining connector receivers (22a, 22b); i. a lifting spreader bar; ii. a set of object connector connection receivers (15a, 15b); iii. a set of lifting connector receivers (21a, 21b) disposed about the lifting spreader bar at a first offset from a center of the lifting spreader bar; iv. a set of lifting connectors (11a, 11b) operatively connected to the set of lifting connector receivers (21a, 21b); v. a set of restraining connector receivers (22a, 22b) disposed about the lifting spreader bar at a second offset from the center of the lifting spreader bar; and vi. a set of adjustable restraining connectors (12a, 12b) operatively connected to the set of restraining connector receivers (22a, 22b); c. a lift, comprising: i. a crane; ii. a lifting connector operatively connected to the set of adjustable restraining connectors (12a, 12b); and iii. a lifting winch operatively connected to the lifting connector and to the crane; i. a crane; ii. a lifting connector operatively connected to the set of adjustable restraining connectors (12a, 12b); and iii. a lifting winch operatively connected to the lifting connector and to the crane; d. a damper support, comprising: i. a deployment connector operatively connected to the damper; and ii. a bar mounted winch disposed about a predetermined portion of the lifting spreader bar and operatively connected to the deployment connector; i. a deployment connector operatively connected to the damper; and ii. a bar mounted winch disposed about a predetermined portion of the lifting spreader bar and operatively connected to the deployment connector; e. a predetermined set of winch and bladder activation hoses operatively in communication with the winches and bladders; and f. a controller disposed proximate the lift and operatively in communication with the predetermined set of winch and bladder activation hoses.