A kit for attaching and disconnecting an item comprising: a. an assembly comprising: a chamber having a top wall with an opening, a bottom wall, and at least one side wall (14a - 14d), wherein the side wall is connected to the top wall and the bottom wall; a magnetically attractable inner plate fixed within the chamber adjacent the bottom wall; a magnet with a first magnet flat side and a second magnet flat side opposite the first magnet flat side, wherein the magnet is slidably disposed in the chamber for moving between the magnetically attractable inner plate and the top wall, the magnet providing a magnetic field; and a magnetically attractable outer plate secured to the side wall opposite the bottom wall having a thickness and magnetic attraction strong enough to hold the magnet adjacent the first magnetically attractable outer plate; and b. an accessory (30; 75) for attaching and disconnecting the item, the accessory comprising: a stem having a diameter small enough to slidably move inside the chamber through the opening in the top wall, the stem comprising a magnetically attractable material capable of moving the magnet from a position adjacent the magnetically attractable inner plate to a position adjacent the magnetically attractable outer plate. a. an assembly comprising: a chamber having a top wall with an opening, a bottom wall, and at least one side wall (14a - 14d), wherein the side wall is connected to the top wall and the bottom wall; a magnetically attractable inner plate fixed within the chamber adjacent the bottom wall; a magnet with a first magnet flat side and a second magnet flat side opposite the first magnet flat side, wherein the magnet is slidably disposed in the chamber for moving between the magnetically attractable inner plate and the top wall, the magnet providing a magnetic field; and a magnetically attractable outer plate secured to the side wall opposite the bottom wall having a thickness and magnetic attraction strong enough to hold the magnet adjacent the first magnetically attractable outer plate; and a chamber having a top wall with an opening, a bottom wall, and at least one side wall (14a - 14d), wherein the side wall is connected to the top wall and the bottom wall; a magnetically attractable inner plate fixed within the chamber adjacent the bottom wall; a magnet with a first magnet flat side and a second magnet flat side opposite the first magnet flat side, wherein the magnet is slidably disposed in the chamber for moving between the magnetically attractable inner plate and the top wall, the magnet providing a magnetic field; and a magnetically attractable outer plate secured to the side wall opposite the bottom wall having a thickness and magnetic attraction strong enough to hold the magnet adjacent the first magnetically attractable outer plate; and b. an accessory (30; 75) for attaching and disconnecting the item, the accessory comprising: a stem having a diameter small enough to slidably move inside the chamber through the opening in the top wall, the stem comprising a magnetically attractable material capable of moving the magnet from a position adjacent the magnetically attractable inner plate to a position adjacent the magnetically attractable outer plate. a stem having a diameter small enough to slidably move inside the chamber through the opening in the top wall, the stem comprising a magnetically attractable material capable of moving the magnet from a position adjacent the magnetically attractable inner plate to a position adjacent the magnetically attractable outer plate.