Connector for releasably attaching two fluid transfer lines, comprising a flow connector with first and second connector assemblies (3, 6) each having a fluid passage, a valve assembly comprising a valve rotatably seated in the passage for opening or closing off the fluid passage, the flow connector also comprising a normal connection/disconnection system and an emergency disconnection system both located at the same interface and each one having its own dedicated actuating system wherein the flow connector is combined with a structural disconnectable load diverter (11, 4, 59) diverting the loads and moments created by the transfer line, away from the valves and the flow connector, characterized by the structural disconnectable load diverter (11, 4, 59) comprising a structural normal connection/disconnection system and a structural emergency disconnection system, the first connector assembly being combined with the structural disconnectable load diverter in that the first connector assembly comprises a conical male structure (4,11) connected to a transfer line and provided with an integrated independent fluid path comprising the respective valve assembly and a valve actuating system, the second connector assembly being combined with the structural disconnectable load diverter in that the second connector assembly comprises a number of clamps (9a-9c) connected to a carrier, the respective valve assembly and a valve actuating system, each clamp (9a-9c) comprising: - a body, hingingly connected to the carrier via a hinge between a connect/disconnect position and an emergency release position, - a slot extending in a longitudinal direction in the body, having at a lower end a section at an angle with the longitudinal direction, - a first hydraulic jack, part of the structural normal connection/disconnection system, mounted on the body, having a rod slidable in the slot, a hook being attached to an end part of the rod in a pivoting junction, - a second jack, part of the structural emergency connection/disconnection system with one end attached to the carrier and with another end attached to the body via a cam system, for hinging the body from the connect/disconnect position to the emergency release position, wherein - in the connect/disconnect position of the body, the hook is locked in engagement with the conical male structure (4,11) by displacement of the rod into the lower section of the slot, the hook being releasable from the conical male structure (4,11) by operation of the second jack pivoting the body around the hinge to the emergency release position. - a body, hingingly connected to the carrier via a hinge between a connect/disconnect position and an emergency release position, - a slot extending in a longitudinal direction in the body, having at a lower end a section at an angle with the longitudinal direction, - a first hydraulic jack, part of the structural normal connection/disconnection system, mounted on the body, having a rod slidable in the slot, a hook being attached to an end part of the rod in a pivoting junction, - a second jack, part of the structural emergency connection/disconnection system with one end attached to the carrier and with another end attached to the body via a cam system, for hinging the body from the connect/disconnect position to the emergency release position, wherein - in the connect/disconnect position of the body, the hook is locked in engagement with the conical male structure (4,11) by displacement of the rod into the lower section of the slot, the hook being releasable from the conical male structure (4,11) by operation of the second jack pivoting the body around the hinge to the emergency release position.