A valve arrangement for controlling a main flow of damping medium in a shock absorber from a first chamber (DC2 Pr) to a second chamber (DC1 Pc) during a first stroke and from the second chamber to the first chamber during a second stroke, the valve arrangement comprising: a first actuator having a first actuator chamber communicating with said first chamber and said second chamber, said first actuator, during said first stroke, being arranged to actuate on said main flow of damping medium in response to a first actuating pressure in the first actuator chamber; characterised by a pilot valve being arranged to control the first actuating pressure, the pilot valve having a pilot chamber being in fluid communication with the first actuator chamber; a first restriction arrangement for restricting a flow of damping medium from the first actuator chamber to the pilot chamber, said first restriction arrangement being arranged to provide a first flow path (26, 26'; 126, 127; 226, 227; 326, 326') restricted by a first flow restriction area (126, 127) during a first stroke and to provide a second flow path restricted by a second flow restriction area (26, 126, 226, 326) during the second stroke; and a first sub valve arrangement comprising a first valve member (124', 224', 324'), said first valve member is in a first end position during the first stroke and being in a second end position during the second stroke, wherein said first valve member being arranged to co-operate with said first restriction arrangement such that the flow of damping medium from the first actuator chamber to the pilot chamber flows via said first flow path (26, 26'; 126, 127; 226, 227; 326, 326') when said first valve member is in the first end position and flows via said second flow path (26, 126, 226, 326) when said first valve member is in the second end position. a first actuator having a first actuator chamber communicating with said first chamber and said second chamber, said first actuator, during said first stroke, being arranged to actuate on said main flow of damping medium in response to a first actuating pressure in the first actuator chamber; characterised by a pilot valve being arranged to control the first actuating pressure, the pilot valve having a pilot chamber being in fluid communication with the first actuator chamber; a first restriction arrangement for restricting a flow of damping medium from the first actuator chamber to the pilot chamber, said first restriction arrangement being arranged to provide a first flow path (26, 26'; 126, 127; 226, 227; 326, 326') restricted by a first flow restriction area (126, 127) during a first stroke and to provide a second flow path restricted by a second flow restriction area (26, 126, 226, 326) during the second stroke; and a first sub valve arrangement comprising a first valve member (124', 224', 324'), said first valve member is in a first end position during the first stroke and being in a second end position during the second stroke, wherein said first valve member being arranged to co-operate with said first restriction arrangement such that the flow of damping medium from the first actuator chamber to the pilot chamber flows via said first flow path (26, 26'; 126, 127; 226, 227; 326, 326') when said first valve member is in the first end position and flows via said second flow path (26, 126, 226, 326) when said first valve member is in the second end position.