Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.

You've been working lots of overtime at your job.


Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.

You have too many other serious responsibilities to attend to .


Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.

Having fun helps you to release tension and ease stress.


Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.

You are poor and can't afford not to work.


Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.


Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.

You are broke and cannot afford to have fun.


Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.

you've been working extra hard and need a break


telling my sister Im not going to put my phone on vibrate at work

It's inconsiderate to be unavailable for family emergencies.


telling my co-worker "don't talk to me" early in the morning

Hypothesis: It is okay not to be a morning person.


Hypothesis: It is okay not to be a morning person.


Hypothesis: It is okay not to be a morning person.

You have a very important job early in the mornings.


Hypothesis: It is okay not to be a morning person.

Your job requires you to get up at 5:00 AM.


Hypothesis: It is okay not to be a morning person.

You have to take your kids to school in the morning.


It's acceptable not to do something that you're not comfortable with doing.

you need to push yourself outside of your comfort zone.


it is something that could save someone's life.


The task is something that will save your life.


The task is something being requested of you by a friend.


being to pretend to be religious if my girlfriend was religious

It's wrong to lie about things to your partner.

It will destroy your relationship with your partner.


it's about something important, like a communicable disease


You are planning a surprise for them and you have to deceive them to get them somewhere.


you have agreed that you should always be honest with each other.


You are just trying to get your partner's attention away from the cellphone.


Your partner has total confidence in you.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


telling family member (BIL of sister I don't really speak to) not to come back to work after he called out sick on his third day

When someone's sick, they shouldn't go to work and spread their germs.

They have been on antibiotics for 24 hours.


There are immune compromised people there.


the work is time-sensitive and requires immediate attention


the germs are strong enough to be a threat.


They have an important project to turn in that is due.


they are a nurse working with sick people


Calling another person fat is rude and disrespectful.

you are telling them so that can make changes to save their lives.


you are in a public place surrounded by people.


The person isn't offended by the word fat and accepts it as a simple adjective.


The person is insecure about their weight and appearance.


You are a doctor and you are trying to get them to realize their health is in danger.


You are intending to body shame a complete stranger.


ending a relationship/conspiring to cheat because she wouldn't have sex

It is wrong to expect sexual relations from someone.

You've paid for the relations to occur already.


You've only just met the person you want to have relations with.


having old pictures of an ex on my facebook

It's wrong to keep old pictures of your ex.


The photos are not safe for work style images.


they are pictures of you having fun together in public


You parted on good terms and remain friends.


there are no ill feelings that the memories bring.


yelling at my dad about him not telling me about an airbag recall on my car

Hypothesis: Recalls are expected to be respected.


Hypothesis: Recalls are expected to be respected.


Hypothesis: Recalls are expected to be respected.

The recalls were found to be unnecessary


Hypothesis: Recalls are expected to be respected.

The recalls were for health and safety purposes.


Hypothesis: Recalls are expected to be respected.

The item isn't worth the time and effort of being sent back for recall servicing.


Hypothesis: Recalls are expected to be respected.

Human health or lives are put at risk if the product isn't repaired.


It's okay to want to be back home after you have been away.

You left home because the situation there was intolerable.


You are young and have failed to make many friends.


You haven't seen the people at home for a long time.


You abandoned your family without saying a word.


You really love your family and miss them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore other people.

They are trying to goad you into an argument.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore other people.

They are injured and asking for your help.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore other people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore other people.

The baby is crying and doesn't understand why no one is tending to it.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore other people.

You have a restraining order against them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore other people.

they are your own children and they are hungry.


not seeing my friend in person for important conversation on girlfriends birthday

It's wrong to avoid having important conversations with friends.


The longer you wait, the worse the situation gets.


You know your friends will dissuade you from doing what's right


Your friends will be affected by the outcome


Your friend is recovering from a severe accident and cannot take any kind of shock to his system at this time.


You and your friend are also business partners and you need to talk about some decisions that will impact your company.


Your friends do not want to talk to you.


You need to give them important medical advice.


telling my parents about my younger brothers binge drinking

It's good to tell someone's parent about your concern for them.


they need advice on how to take care of themself


The person is an adult who specifically told you to never contact their parents.


The person is a child who is thinking of harming themself.


They have asked you not to be concerned.


You see that they are not taking good care of themselves.


Hypothesis: You should support your friends.

They are testifying against your spouse.


Hypothesis: You should support your friends.

Your friends just drove three hours to pick you up from the airport.


Hypothesis: You should support your friends.

they never do anything to help themselves.


Hypothesis: You should support your friends.


Hypothesis: You should support your friends.

They are taking part in illegal activities.


telling my girlfriend she needs to calm down and not lose her temper

Hypothesis: You can't control how people react.


Hypothesis: You can't control how people react.

You do something they've never seen before.


Hypothesis: You can't control how people react.

You've emotionally abused them to the point that they're terrified to defy you.


Hypothesis: You can't control how people react.


Hypothesis: You can't control how people react.

Respect their right to freedom of choice.


Hypothesis: You can't control how people react.

you know how they have reacted in the past so you change the circumstance.


telling someone I wouldn't go to a dance and then going with someone else

It's okay to be attracted to some people and not others.

You won't date them for superficial or bigoted reasons.


You're basing attraction on something discriminatory.


You know your orientation and you know you're not attracted to some people.


You mingle with diverse groups of people.


It is good to be loyal to your best friend even if they do something you don't agree with.


Your friend supported you when you married and then divorced your sleazy ex-husband.


The agreement is to cheat you out of your life savings.


The agreement is over something small and insignificant.


The issues of dependability and honesty are brought into question.


Your friend's impulsiveness is what you find appealing.


They did something morally reprehensible


Your friend is killing or torturing people.


Your friend is tolerant of your views when the two of you disagree.


Hypothesis: It's good to be punctual.


Hypothesis: It's good to be punctual.

You need to stop to help someone in trouble.


Hypothesis: It's good to be punctual.

You're wasting others' time by being late.


Hypothesis: It's good to be punctual.

You encounter a terrible accident on the way and need to stop to call 911.


not looking for the original owners of a lost cat

It's expected that if you lose a pet, the finder will at least try to let you know they have found it.

They are dishonest and decide to stay with the pet.


The know where you live and have your phone number.


The person takes the pet to the animal shelter.


The pet was wearing an ID tag when it was found.


You have put up flyers about losing the pet.


spanking ex-gf or for telling her that I thought she dealt with problems badly

Hypothesis: You shouldn't spank people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spank people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spank people.

The person being spanked did not give consent


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spank people.

They are choking and spanking worked in the past to dislodge the food.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spank people.

You are on a first date with them and are in a public place.


refusing to do a request for a friend because I had no time and no details for his request

It's fine to not do a favor for a friend if you have other obligations.

The other obligations are illegal and harmful.


You friend has done many favors for you in the past.


You were already paid for your help before doing.


Your friend's favor isn't time sensitive.


Breaking the other obligations would cause you to lose your job.


Your friend is in desperate need and has no one else to help them.


You just started making friends with that person.


asking a friend to stop giving me sweets

Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.

They specifically asked for donations to a charity rather than personal gifts this year.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.

You are attending a birthday party of theirs.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.

They have very little money and would feel obligated to give you something in return.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.

You want to express your appreciation for their friendship.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.

You are considering ending the friendship.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.

It is forbidden by their religion to accept gifts.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your friends gifts.

They just graduated from a prestigious university.


not getting involved in my fiances sister and mothers fight over her troubled son

Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.

The child is a baby and doesnt understand.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.

You are in the middle of a custody battle.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.

You are married and live in the same house.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.

Your ex-husband is letting your kids do drugs when they visit his house.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.

One of your kids is gravely ill and the other one has to deal with divorcing parents and a sick sibling.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fight over children.

You're fighting for their freedom in a war torn country.


not wanting to be friends with someone with BPD

Wanting the best for your friends is a good thing.

Your friends are content with what they are.


They are going after the best dishonestly.


Your friends are mean and unkind people.


cutting someone off after they broke my tv while drunk and refused to pay for it

It's bad to lose control of your behavior while intoxicated.


You need to defend yourself against an attacker.


You are part of a scientific experiment.


driving in the left lane of the interstate, and briefly using my brights

You shouldn't use your bright lights when other cars are around.


you are joining them to light up an area.


it isn't that dark and they aren't needed.


It is important to research before a big purchase.

You are not paying for the item, but are going to use it.


You know that you can get it cheaper somewhere else.


You don't have enough time due to a deadline.


You're purchasing a new car and you want to make sure it's reliable.


You are wealthy and profligate spending won't harm your fiances.


You're in debt and don't need the purchase.


You don't have the time or resources and want to take advantage of a quick sale.


The purchase will not be able to be returned.


The sale must be accepted immediately or lost.


You can save money by comparing different stores and prices.


saying a holocaust joke that made its way to a jewish girl

It's appropriate to deal with horrific events with humor.

you use humor in an attempt to not move forward.


using humor has been an effective coping strategy in the past.


Humor is your coping mechanism for everything.


you are completely avoiding dealing with your true emotions.


it gets you through the hardest time after it happens.


You are making jokes at the expense of someone who is hurting.


asking the employee in the fast food drive thru to remake my soda because it was filled with ice when I asked for easy ice

Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for proper service.


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for proper service.


installing a plastic cage over the thermostat

A high thermostat setting uses a lot of energy.


Your heating system is based on solar power.


The thermostat is broken and won't connect to the heating system.


it has its own dedicated electrical circuit.


not helping an "anxious" friend research her university offers

It's wrong to not help someone out when they really need you.


The person wants you to help him rob a gas station.


The other person is about to give birth.


pretending to be a lesbian to get a guy hitting on me to go away

If you're not interested in someone, you should let them know.


You want to lead them on to get free things out of them.


You fear for your safety if they find out you don't feel the same.


They just had a breakdown from being rejected for a promotion today.


The prom is coming up and they will have limited time to find another date.


not wanting to help out my older classmate

Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

One classmate asks the other to help them cheat


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

They have been assigned to a group project


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

They are in the middle of taking an exam.


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

Their teacher has instructed them to work independently.


wanting to report a teacher after he hit me

You should report a teacher if they abused you.


You'd rather just forget about what happened and move on with your life.


You think they might be abusing other students as well.


You did something abusive to them first.


You want to prevent it from happening to other people.


not wanting to date a girl because I don't find her attractive but doing Friends with Benefits anyway

It's OK to not date someone because you're not attracted to them.


You want to have a long term relationship.


You are not attracted to them because of the color of their skin.


not tipping for food I ordered for pickup at Denny's

It's wrong not to tip people who work in the service industry.

You're in a country without a tipping system.


You're in a restaurant that uses a tip-based payment system.


You received terrible service from start to finish.


It was the back of the house's fault you had a bad meal.


The tip is included as part of your bill.


You made a lot of special requests and your server went out of her way to accommodate you.


telling an okd guy off fkr saying my friend shouldnt/couldnt use a store wheelchair

It's good to be upset with someone that disrespects disabled people.

the disabled people are being very disrespectful


they disabled people did nothing to them.


that person is a medical doctor for the disabled.


The disabled person is a really rude person.


The person being disrespectful is in a position of power.


The disabled people disrespected them first.


They are mocking the disabled just to be mean.


kicking someone out of our D&D group because he refuses to learn the rules

People in groups should work together to solve them when they have issues with one another.


You need to work well together to succeed.


They have no contact orders out against each other.


They are trying to resolve a custody issue.


You are competing against others in sports.


The people in the group are family members.


It's important that they get along with each other.


fighting with a woman who wanted to invade my family's privacy

Hypothesis: People should protect their family.


Hypothesis: People should protect their family.


Hypothesis: People should protect their family.

their family hurt them without reconciling


Hypothesis: People should protect their family.

Their family is toxic and shouldn't be protected.


Hypothesis: People should protect their family.

There are small children in the family who need to be cared for.


Hypothesis: People should protect their family.

They are being falsely accused of a crime.


Hypothesis: People should protect their family.

Someone is trying to break into their house.


wanting my bf to move on with job offer that's taking forever

You shouldn't force people to do things you want them to do.


They are your child and it's something that's for their own good.


They are an adult and have made their decision clear.


You are the boss in a company and need your employees to complete tasks.


The person does not want to due to safety concerns.


You are their boss and it's part of their job.


It's hurtful to leave your fiancée for someone else.


You leave your fiancee for their sibling


They are depressed and you might send them over the edge.


Your fiancee is the one who is cheating on you.


The wedding is supposed to take place tomorrow.


blocking a girl who I dated a couple weeks ago, because she said that she was going to overdose

If someone threatens to hurt themselves, it's expected that you help them


The person is in a crowd of people and capable of hurting others.


You are a teacher and they are your student


leaving my girlfriend because of her drinking and smoking

Hypothesis: It's good to take care of yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to take care of yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to take care of yourself.

You over do it and neglect those around you.


Hypothesis: It's good to take care of yourself.

You have no one else looking out for your own best interests.


Hypothesis: It's good to take care of yourself.

You are spending all your time and money on yourself and not your family.


asking my friend to cover the cost of my hotel room

It's nice to take a friend out to eat when you know they are struggling.


You know they are trying there best to earn money


What they are struggling with is food-related and dining out would make them feel worse.


You know they have a favorite restaurant that always cheers them up.


They are struggling with food poisoning.


not wanting my MIL to move in with us to get weight loss surgery she got denied for in Puerto Rico

It is rude to deny family a place to stay.

They are known to be disrespectful of other's property.


They have let you stay with them before.


there's plenty of room in your dwelling.


It's rude to say something to someone that could potentially be embarrassing.

You're roasting them at their party and they asked you to do it.


They know things about you that they could use to embarrass you.


Their pants zipper is open and they are in a public place.


You are in a public place and you don't know the person.


You are in a court of law and ordered to do so.


calling the city in to enforce code on my neighbor? without talking to them first

It's expected that you try to sort issues out yourself before involving the authorities.


It involves serious issues like sexual assault.


It's a trivial issue like your neighbors playing loud music.


The issues are something you can't handle and require the authorities.


The issues are between you and someone else and can be worked out between you.


The issues are matter of criminal activity.


There is violence or some threat of violence.


All the people contending are reasonable and can talk things out.


You should talk to your boss about what is bothering you about work.

Your boss is the thing that is bothering you at work.


Whatever is bothering you is hurting your work performance.


The last time you brought up a work issue your boss just happened to refuse you overtime for the next month.


Your job is meant to be inclusive, but doesn't feel that way at all.


Your boss is part of the problem at work.


Your boss has a lot of experience in navigating workplace issues.


It's acceptable to rehome your pet when it's in the best interest of the animal.


You rely on your service animal for day to day life.


You've reached the point where you can't care for that animal.


the pet is very old and sick and would be unlikely to adjust to the new environment.


you are no longer able to care for your pet due to your own serious personal illness.


You rehome your animal in an irresponsible way.


You find a home for your animal with someone you trust.


You know their new home would be horrible conditions for them to be in.


You're unable to take care of them like they deserve to be treated.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not tip someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not tip someone.

They have done everything they can to serve you well.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not tip someone.

You're in a country where tipping isn't customary.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not tip someone.

You're in a state where restaurants are allowed to pay servers less than minimum wage.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not tip someone.

They dropped all your food on the floor and never replaced it.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not tip someone.

They went out of your way to bring you an extra dessert.


People should respect others boundaries, especially when it comes to privacy.

Their job is to review high school students' internet use at school.


They accidentally blocked you and have mentioned that type of thing happens.


You have been blocked by someone on social media.


you think someone may be at risk of harming themself.


Someone is trying to have a private moment with their loved one.


They have asked you to mind your business


The cops are trying to find out information about criminals and have to use bugs.


The people in question are common good citizens who have done nothing wrong.


reporting my brother to child protective services

It is expected to turn in family if they commit a crime.

They will be executed for minor offenses.


Turning themselves in would help their case.


The police have already been building a case against them and are still collecting evidence.


It's against someone else in the family.


they commited a crime against another member of the family


telling my ex to never speak to me again

Hypothesis: It is good to set boundaries.


Hypothesis: It is good to set boundaries.


Hypothesis: It is good to set boundaries.

Your boundaries overlap someone else's boundaries.


Hypothesis: It is good to set boundaries.

You need to show others what belongs to you.


Hypothesis: It is good to set boundaries.

You've shut everybody out of your life with the boundaries.


Hypothesis: It is good to set boundaries.

People have been crossing the line regularly.


It's okay to sit out of games you are uncomfortable with.

You are the star player on an professional athletic team.


You are a young child on a recreational league.


You promised to play even though you don't like it.


It might cause an injury to you or another payer.


You are playing war games in the military.


There aren't enough players without you.


telling my close friend that I'm getting an abortion

It is okay to share personal secrets with friends.


You need to get something off your chest.


The friends have a history of spreading rumors or gossiping.


not babysitting a family member's toddler on my vacation

You shouldn't bother family with favors when they are on vacation.


They told you they do not want to be bothered while vacationing.


You're asking them to bring you something from the vacation spot.


You misplaced the code to the security camera and it could help solve a crime.


Your landlord lives next door and has a similar skill set to your family.


Hypothesis: You should respect your family more.


Hypothesis: You should respect your family more.

They fundamentally don't accept who you are.


Hypothesis: You should respect your family more.

You have friends that treat you better than your family does.


Hypothesis: You should respect your family more.

They won't admit that you are gay and in love with the same woman for the past 20 years.


Hypothesis: You should respect your family more.

They have supported you through your addiction days and helped you get clean


not wanting to quit smoking even though my girlfriend really wants me to

You should do what your partner asks you to do.


They're asking you to do something painful.


They can't do that particular thing for themselves.


Your partner is pressuring you into doing something you're uncomfortable with


Your partner asked you for help with your baby


hooking up with a girl when me and my girlfriend were on a break

It's okay to see other people if you are taking a break from someone.


You made an agreement not to date anyone else during the break.


Your partner is also dating other people during the break.


You're on lunch break and need to get back to your client.


You've agreed with your partner to remain faithful during your break.


It's not okay for manager to have their employees so scare of their reactions they can't tell them something.

They can't control how their employees feel.


The employees are hired to follow orders without question.


A safety issue needs to be brought to light.


The employees are the kind who only do good work when they are fearful, otherwise they are irresponsible.


The managers need to communicate on an ongoing basis and want to develop a rapport with their employees.


They are trying to punish employees that do a bad job.


The employees are teenagers that are new to working.


having dinners with my ex and son without including my current girlfriend

Parents should spend time with their children.


they need to wok to provide an income for the family.


The parents don't have visitation rights with their children.


Unless your presence is a strain on their marriage.


Especially if they work outside the home and don't see them often.


getting upset at my boyfriend for not being there for me after a family member's funeral

You should support your loved ones through the hard times.


Your loved ones rely on you for housing and food.


They don't have anyone else to help them.


You recently lost your job and can't afford helping them.


They paid for your surgery when you were struggling.


Your loved ones have mental health issues


thinking nobody cares about my engagement

You shouldn't assume that nobody cares about you.


The only calls on your cellphone are wrong numbers.


You constantly receive personal messages on your cellphone.


It is rude not to do something for your mother.

Your mother has been abusive towards you.


She asked you to confess to a crime that she committed.


She asks you to do something for her on Mother's Day.


Your father asked you to do something and he is ailing.


She is too weak to carry heavy furniture up the stairs.


telling my dad that I do not want my stepmother to be involved in my baby's life

It's wrong not to involve your step-parents in your child's life.

They are abusive or don't like children.


Your child has an interest in a relationship.


Your step parents were unkind to you as a child.


Your step parents embraced you as their own growing up.


the step-parent is loving and kind and raised you well


refusing to help my school with an investigation into a leaked naked video

Making sexy videos is a basic human need and right.


Especially if it's between two consenting adults.


You find it degrading to yourself and others


It's not okay to give someone the impression you are interested in them when you are not.


They are showing lots of signs that they are falling in love with you.


You are trying to get out of a situation as easily as possible.


You are already involved with someone else.


You should volunteer and help the community.

You work multiple jobs to support your children.


You're retired or independently wealthy.


you don't have enough time to meet your own responsibilities


you have a lot of extra time and are looking for a service project


You are a busy person and not able to help out.


You want to be seen a a helpful, nice neighbor.


You want to make your neighborhood safe.


not paying my parents back for a crashed car

You should take responsibility for your actions.

You do something very good and don't want to take credit.


You have done something wrong that carries a punishment with it.


You were forced to make the actions by another.


You were forced to take those actions against your will.


You were not competent during the particular time in question.


getting my aspergers diagnosed ex-roomate evicted before finals week

You shouldn't evict someone who is mentally disabled.


They frequently cause issues around the house


They have a guardian who is with them at all times.


The person has causded serious damage to your property.


The person has been trying to improve their health and finances.


They would be much better off living somewhere else.


breaking up with my girlfriend for her best friend

Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.

They just got diagnosed with chlamydia from cheating on you.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.

You really love them and it's a very petty reason.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.

You are rude when you break up with them.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.

You know the relationship isn't going to work out.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.

They were just diagnosed with a terrible disease.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.

You are fighting more than enjoying each other.


Hypothesis: It's fine to break up with someone.

You're just doing it date their best friend.


moving on fast after a 2 year relationship

You should give yourself some time after a break-up before getting into another serious relationship.


You still care for the one you broke up with.


You were only serious with that person for a short period of time.


You were in your previous relationship for more than 5 years.


playing more games than my friend and leveling/ranking up faster than him

It is good to keep the playing field leveled when competing


There are not enough players of the same age.


The people are playing war games and need place to hide.


The players need to run without tripping.


not wanting to be friends with my girlfriends roommate/best friend

It's unreasonable to expect the person you're with will like all the people you do.

You only like one or two people, who are very kind and accepting.


You have dozens of friends, some of whom are rather ornery.


You only like their family that they are very close to.


Your friends made fun of them the last time you all were together.


All the people you like are really good people.


Some of the people you like aren't very good people.


You have different political orientations.


getting mad at my dad for calling me out as gay in front of the entire extended family and friends

It's wrong to reveal personal information without someone's permission.


They are part of a marginalized community.


The information could be medically necessary and a doctor is asking.


You don't know the person you are revealing it to.


being upset that my friend didn't tell me about his serious relationship

It's expected that friends will tell each other about important developments in their lives.

They have a big fight and no longer trust each other.


They depend on each other for support when things are tough.


They want to maintain a supportive relationship with them.


Unless it's something that would put your friend in danger.


Especially if your friends will be happy for you.


They don't want to hurt a friend's feelings.


They want to maintain their friendships.


not being happy for my boyfriend getting a job

You should be happy for other people's successes.

you are sad you didn't get the promotion they got.


The person who is successful is someone who hurt you.


You contributed to that person's success.


The other person harmed you for their successes.


Those people undermined you to get where they are


comforting my brother rather than taking my, then, girlfriend out in a date

It's expected of siblings to comfort each other in hard times.


One of the siblings has severe brain damage.


Your siblings were adopted by other people


They have been separated and do not know how to contact each other.


Their parents are no longer with them and all they have is each other.


coming home late when the whole family has to wake up early tomorrow, but my dad said that I could be out as late as I want

It's inconsiderate to only think about yourself when in a family.


Nobody else is ever concerned with your needs either.


Everyone in your family is considerate of your needs.


You're the oldest one and children depend on you


Unless your family is grown and doesn't need you anymore.


Especially if your children are all very young yet.


being upset that my best friend decided to cancel

It's wrong to be rude to someone for your own personal needs.

The person has mistreated you in the past.


The person is someone who has always supported you.


That person is consistently rude to you.


You are a comedian trying to make people laugh.


You are in trouble and your need is to get help.


The other person is just trying to do their job to help you.


not wanting to date someone because of their weight/body size

It's wrong to criticize someone's body size.

You are the professional they hired to help them improve their body.


You're a judge at a body building competition.


Especially if they are trying to lose weight.


You are a personal trainer hired to get someone in shape.


You are a doctor and worried about your patient's health.


not wanting to sit with my dad in the car

Just because someone is your parent does not mean you are supposed to enjoy time with them.

You have similar hobbies they're very encouraging about.


They end up yelling at you every time you spend time together.


They're taking you to a theme park you begged them to take you to.


All they do is berate you and tell you about your faults.


They have taken you on an amazing vacation.


They tell you that you are the bad child.


telling my RA about my roommates pissing problem

It is rude to report someone for a problem they cannot control.

The problem presents a danger to them or society.


It is the only way to get help for them.


They are harming someone with their problem.


getting mad at my friend for defending guys who send perverted messages

You shouldn't defend people who do inappropriate things.


It is something trivial like a small lie.


They are not infringing on anybody's freedoms.


You are defending your young child who doesnt know any better.


Hypothesis: It's bad to hold grudges for too long.


Hypothesis: It's bad to hold grudges for too long.

The grudge is over something very small.


Hypothesis: It's bad to hold grudges for too long.

You get high blood pressure when you think of your grudges


Hypothesis: It's bad to hold grudges for too long.

The person has begged you for forgiveness.


Hypothesis: It's bad to hold grudges for too long.

The person hurt you very badly and continues to hurt other people in the same way.


Hypothesis: It's bad to hold grudges for too long.

The person never meant to offend you in the first place.


It's good to expose one's children to religion.


One participates in a religion that is hateful or hurtful.


One's child is curious about what religion is.


You are giving them a balanced portrayal of all religions.


You forbid them from deciding for themselves if they agree with aspects of the religion.


You don't try to influence their opinion about religion.


You should call your doctor if you need help.


Unless your doctor is on vacation in Bermuda.


Especially if you're in the middle of a health crisis.


It's something that can easily be addressed with first aid supplies.


It's OK to pursue multiple women when you are single.

Any of the women are under the impression that you are a couple.


The women are also pursuing other relationships.


You lie and tell them you're monogamous.


You're open about wanting a casual relationship.


Unless it is interfering with your grades.


You are having unprotected sex with all of them.


you haven't met someone you really like yet


reneging on a compromise made with my wife

Hypothesis: You should always keep your promises.

You fall on hard times and just can't be expected to.


Hypothesis: You should always keep your promises.

You know how important it is for someone's future.


Hypothesis: You should always keep your promises.

Those promises were coerced from you with the threat of violence.


Hypothesis: You should always keep your promises.

You made the promise to someone you really care about.


Hypothesis: You should always keep your promises.


Hypothesis: It is okay to conserve electricity.


Hypothesis: It is okay to conserve electricity.

There is a heatwave that is putting stress on the grid.


Hypothesis: It is okay to conserve electricity.

Your life depends on medical equipment that requires a lot of electricity.


Hypothesis: It is okay to conserve electricity.

You're concerned about your impact on the environment.


It is rude to take someone else's thing.


You are their teacher and are confiscating it until the end of class.


The thing was very important to the person you took it from.


It's bad to make your family members cry.

You are telling them a funny story and they are crying from laughter


You do something very nice and they cry tears of happiness.


You have done something intentional and cruel.


It's fine to refuse to do something for someone.

You've already been paid to do the thing.


You don't know how to do what they're asking for.


They're incapacitated and you promised them you would do it.


It is part of your job responsibilities.


You would be causing them a lot of hardship.


wanting the father of the child of whom we have custody to just go away

It is hurtful to exclude a parent from their children's life.


Especially if he or she is an excellent parent.


The parent would be a bad influence on the child.


The custodial parent is raising the child alone.


asking my friend not bring his gf to social gatherings

It is okay to express your dislike for someone.


You are required to work with them on a daily basis.


They personally attacked you on social media.


The person you dislike is your own small child.


This person is about to cheat your elderly parents out of their life savings.


You are at someone's special occasion and it would cause problems.


Your friend wants to set you up with the person you dislike.


cutting someone out of my life for being racist

It's hurtful to cut someone out of your life.


The person was a big part of your upbringing.


You have a restraining order against them.


They are a toxic presence that is bringing you down.


You still love the person you have to cut out.


exploiting a loophole my university created

It's expected that you make rules for your organization that can't be exploited.


You want your organization to have integrity.


You are in a country which doesn't allow for rules to protect you.


You are using other people's money to build the organization.


You're working with the FBI to try to capture white collar criminals.


People have taken advantage of previous loopholes.


It's a technology company where data must be kept safe.


Hypothesis: It's good to hang out with others.


Hypothesis: It's good to hang out with others.

You are stressed out and drained from being around others.


Hypothesis: It's good to hang out with others.

You have a good time when hanging out with them.


Hypothesis: It's good to hang out with others.

You've had a rough week and need to blow off steam.


wanting to go on holiday with my boyfriend

It's wrong to want someone to do something they don't want to do.

You want a toddler to go to sleep at bedtime.


You are waiting in line to cast your vote.


They are your kid and you don’t want them to quit something early


not defending my dad while he yelled at A Bank Employee "for me"

You shouldn't yell at customer service people


they are just trying to do what they are told by their boss.


You have been cut off several times after holding for thirty minutes.


You want the matter handled and resolved your way.


They are too hard of hearing to hear you.


The customer service person began yellingat you first.


The customer service person has a nametag that says they're in training.


using the warranty on a product that I broke by accident

It's fine to use a warranty that covers the cost of a product if you accidentally broke it.


The product was not supposed to be able to break.


Unless you bought the warranty after breaking the product.


Especially if you bought the warranty when you bought the product.


The warranty specifies that it doesn't cover accidents.


You paid extra for coverage for accidents.


It's the only way you can afford to replace it.


you are lying about how the product was used.


People should respect other people's space boundaries.


They're nurses who need to perform medical procedures on the patient.


They don't know the other person very well.


They have specifically asked you to give them space.


Someone is in danger to themselves and needs help.


They've been asked to stop getting in other people's business.


You're in a crowded subway where there's no room to move.


You want them to distance whenever you've asked to be left alone.


It's good to share things with your coworkers.


They gossip to the boss on a weekly basis.


They always bring in donuts for you every week.


Especially if you have enough for everyone.


You want to get on your coworkers' good side.


You are on a limited budget and have community office supplies.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.

They have not paid their rent in a few months.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.

They have helped you out and always pay the rent on time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.

You have a new tenant in mind who will pay rent on time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.

You have not filled out the proper eviction paperwork.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.

They keep refusing to pay their share of rent.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.

They are paying their share of rent on time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick out your roommate.

You're jealous your roommate gets guys to come home with her and you can't


It's rude to get offended over a simple game.


The game is meant to make people look silly.


Your opponent personally insulted you in the game.


Your opponent has played a completely fair game.


Unless it is your significant other playing strip poker without you.


Family members are expected to be a part of events.

The events are happening far from where the family members live.


The events are happening nearby to where the family members live.


They have not been invited to the event.


Every other family member is taking part.


You are having the event in their honor.


If it is a holiday or an immediate family member's birthday.


getting fed up with one or two of my roommates

You should try to respect your roommates more.


Especially if he is an excellent roommate.


Your roommates go out of their way to mock you.


Your roommates try to be very accommodating.


They are loud, obnoxious, and always late with the rent.


They are polite, courteous, and always pay the rent on time.


You want to get along with your roommates.


being annoyed that I texted my boyfriend "happy birthday eve" with a smiley face and he totally ignored me and has been online ever since then

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

you're planning on breaking up with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

You have an important obligation that you can't take your attention off of.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

your partner is telling you to do something stupid or dangerous


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

You want your relationship to remain close.


trying to stretch out my legs on an airplane

It is ok to be irritated if someone on an airplane next to you is stretching into your area.


They stretch their bare feet into your leg room.


there is a lot of space between you and the other person.


Your items are taking up some of their space.


Their belongings are also in your space.


not wanting to give up my job? because GF is depressed

It is not okay to expect someone to give up their job.

They have to choose between resignation and being terminated.


They have been with the same company for 20 years.


You are married and moving to another country together.


they have been performing their work well


Someone has offered to quit their job for you.


telling a girl she put weight on but looks good

It is OK to tell a woman she gained weight if you are being honest.


She wants you to tell her because she wants to lose weight


You know it will severely affect her self-esteem.


You know she's happy with her body the way it is.


leaving my GF home alone after she got a kidney stone removed, to go to a party

It's understandable to not want to miss a party you've been invited to.


You're attending your own birthday party.


The party is the first time you'll be able to see your friends in a long while


You know there will be illegal activity at the party.


yelling back at a stranger who upset my gf

It is expected that you protect your significant other

You and your SO no longer love each other.


They got into a legal entanglement that you are morally outraged about.


They have always had your back throughout the marriage.


they are willingly putting themselves in harm's way.


Your significant other lives far away from you.


Your significant other lives in your house.


You are stranded at sea and there is only room for one person on the boat.


They are smaller and more delicate than you.


kicking a friend out of my house when she needed a place to stay

A person needs to maintain a place to stay for themselves.

They are mentally ill and can’t fend for themselves


They make enough money to have nice things and a nice place


They live at their parent's house to care for them in their old age.


Unless they are married and it's a secret place.


Especially if they have a high stress job.


telling my roommate she can't have sex in our dorm room

You should give roommates personal space.


Your roommate is at risk of hurting someone or themself.


Your roommate is trying to have their girlfriend over.


They are on suicide watch and can't be left alone.


It's wrong to be too tough on your children.

Your child suffers from addiction and needs firmness.


They continuously misbehave and get in trouble at school.


Your children are well behaved and try their best.


you are trying to teach them compassion.


It's ok to have a lazy day every now and then.


You have an important project that is due.


You have an assignment due and the deadline is tomorrow.


Especially if you only have to answer to yourself.


wanting marry my girlfriend but not act as a traditional "step dad"

You should step up and be a step-parent to your partner's kids.

Your partner and your step kids don't need another parent/mother.


Your step-kids no longer have a biological mother.


They are grown and no longer live at home.


Your partner's kids are teenagers who don't like you.


The other parent is not involved in your partner's kids lives.


their children are already familiar with you.


It's ok to end friendships that aren't working for you.


Your friend is suffering from depression due to a recent breakup.


You're not putting any effort into the friendship.


It is a family friend that you will always have to see.


It's understandable that you not want to do a specific thing with your friend.

You promised you would do something specific with a friend.


You have a phobia of that specific thing.


You were the one who suggested the idea.


You're afraid of the thing your friend wants to do.


The activity involves doing illegal drugs.


Your friend absolutely needs your support during it and has no one else.


Your friend can do the thing perfectly well without you.


It is understandable to be upset at someone who takes in your lost pet.

They put up 'found pet' flyers to try to find the pet's real owner.


They try to resist you taking the pet home.


They were planning on selling it on the black market.


They have taken good care of it and brought it to the vet to make sure it was okay.


You never bothered to look for your pet.


It's rude to read messages that aren't directed to you.

It's part of your job as the moderator of a forum.


You illegally stole someone's mail to do so.


You are looking over a stranger's shoulders


You suspect your partner is cheating on you.


They were medical messages sent in error.


You're snooping through your significant other's phones.


sticking up for my dad and telling our family friend to "knock it off" in a stern manner

A dad should have the courage to stick up for themselves.


They want to stick up for their right to not vaccinate their kids.


They want to stick up for their right to spend more time with their children.


You should not set your standards too high.


you know that realistically you will never marry an NHL superstar.


You don't want to be disappointed when you never realize your goal of losing 300 pounds.


You have a realistic plan to achieve your goals.


You're not willing to follow through on the work needed to meet those standards.


pausing my little brothers connection to WiFi as punishment

Family members are expected to be kind to each other.

The family members don't know each other well.


They hold grudges and have not spoken in years.


You should do everything you can to support your local community.

Unless your local community doesn't support you.


Especially if your local community supports you.


Your local community is prejudiced against your religion or race.


Your local community helps take care of your basic needs.


You want your community to thrive and last a long time.


Your local community is run by corrupt politicians


You know everyone in your community by name


They keep calling code enforcement and making nuisance calls to the police trying to run you out of town.


You and your family actively participate in the perks offered by your community.


saying asshole when a guy killed himself

Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone an asshole.

They intentionally harmed you or another.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone an asshole.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone an asshole.

They called you an asshole first, for no reason.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone an asshole.

The person is really being rude and you don't want to use harsher language.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone an asshole.

You are speaking to an authority figure.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone an asshole.

They just finished climbing a tree to save your cat.


being annoyed at my friends for not telling me about my ex

You shouldn't be thinking about your ex and their problems.

Their problems have directly affected your own life.


You still love them and they are in a happy relationship


You are co-parenting and it effects the children.


You are in a new relationship with someone else.


pointing out to my boyfriend he went back on what he said

Hypothesis: It is wrong to break a promise.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break a promise.

Your promises were made on your wedding day.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break a promise.

There was a true emergency that conflicted with the promise.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break a promise.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break a promise.

Breaking the promise is essential to someone's safety.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break a promise.

Breaking the promise will ruin someone's surprise.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break a promise.

You crossed your fingers behind your back when you made it.


It's not okay to do things that the company you work for would frown on.


You're refusing to follow a corporate policy that's unethical and clearly illegal.


What you're doing is being racist to customers.


That company is cheating on its taxes and you report it.


The company is a nonprofit benefitting your community.


threatening legal actions for unfinished work

It's good to let your boss know if there is a barrier to meeting your workload.

You are already overdue on delivering on time.


He has trained you to keep production flowing through communication.


You overpromised and it is your own fault.


You have a good working relationship with your boss.


Other's work depends on your getting finished


You need extra time to complete the assignment


An important client is waiting for the work.


turning a really nice guy down for a second date because of my own insecurities

It's acceptable to say no when someone asks you on a date.


It should always be acceptable to say no to someone asking you out.


You have told this person no multiple times before.


You work for an escort service and have already been paid.


being super annoyed with people that give Christmas cards

If you ask people not to send you Christmas cards and they still do then it is reasonable to be annoyed with them.


They are sending them to you because you are in the hospital.


You are going to see them for Christmas.


They did it on purpose just because you asked.


Your elderly aunt really enjoys writing a note to you each Christmas.


You've explained that you share a mailbox with roommates who never give you your mail.


they never received notification you didn't want cards


requesting a different server at the bar for weekly trivia

It's okay to request someone else to serve you


There is no one else available to serve you.


The person serving you is doing a bad job.


they are not an employee at a restaurant you are at.


the current server is being rude to you.


telling my boyfriends parents he used an egg donor

You shouldn't reveal sensitive information to others about your partner.

Your partner conseted to you sharing their story.


This is necessary for helping them survive a drug addiction


not wanting my brother to come back home

It's wrong to not want a family member to come back home.

That family member has been hateful and abusive to you.


That family member is getting out of the hospital.


That family member is currently have a great time on vacation.


You should always text back when someone texts you.


It's an automated text from the pizza delivery place.


cold ghosting a "girlfriend" even when I made it clear this wasn't an exclusive relationship and she decides to blur the line

It's okay to end relationships if they are not healthy for you.

The relationship is with your court ordered probation officer.


You are scared that your partner will harm you for leaving.


You know deep down that leaving is the only option.


not wanting my mom to plan a wedding party for us

It's nice to allow your parents to participate in your important life events.

Your parents disapprove of everything you do.


Your parents are always supportive and love participating.


Your parents never come around because you are gay


Your parents supported you your whole life


You work covertly for the Central Intelligence Agency.


They have always given you steadfast advice.


Your parents helped you achieve your goals.


wanting my boyfriend to get me a birthday present

It's expected that you will give your significant other a gift on their birthday.

You are completely lacking the means to.


they are having a massive birthday party.


You are hosting a surprise party for them.


They told you they do not want a birthday gift.


It's okay if you aren't comfortable with doing a sexual favor for someone.


It's always okay to not be comfortable doing sexual favors


You have made it clear that you are not comfortable.


They are someone other than your partner.


saying that my parents should have gotten divorced

It's rude to tell people to get divorced.

They can't stop fighting with each other.


It is your sister and it is the day of her wedding anniversary.


One of the partners is a consistently cheating, abusive loser.


They are not having any relationship problems.


You don't know the details of their relationship.


telling my girlfriend to stop talking to a girl

It's okay to want to protect people we care about from other people.


You have tried to protect your sister from her abusive husband for so many years, but she won't accept the help.


Your sister is finally ready to accept your help and has asked for a place to stay.


They are being held accountable for criminal actions by a judge.


ending a friendship with an autistic kid

It's not okay to be disrespectful to people who consider you a friend.

That person is trying to pressure you into doing something you feel uncomfortable with.


That person always treats you courteously.


You find out that they are talking about you behind your back.


They have the flu and you don't want them to visit in case you get sick.


Your friend is stressed and may have said something they didn't mean


You are knowingly joking with one another sarcastically.


being upset my friend is ditching me for her boyfriend

It's ok to upset with friend who doesn't include you in their plans.


They went on their honeymoon with their new spouse.


They went to a concert of your favorite band.


They're going SCUBA diving and you're afraid of the water.


The plans were unable to include anyone else


They are not including you due to them choosing somebody else to go


falling out with my partner because they made me cancel my plans

Hypothesis: It is rude to mess up someone's plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to mess up someone's plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to mess up someone's plans.

They asked you to help them get out of their date.


Hypothesis: It is rude to mess up someone's plans.

They told you they were looking forward to their plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to mess up someone's plans.

The plans are illegal and could get them in trouble


not wanting to pay rent for something my friend uses too

You should talk with your friend if you disagree with the way you are paying for or using something you are sharing.

You are okay with the relationship the way it is.


You would like the relationship to improve.


They are having a hard time financially.


Your friend doesn’t take care of anything and you always take care of it


not wanting to pay my sister a full month's rent if I left after a week

It's acceptable to think you don't owe a full share of rent, if you only live there for a week.

You signed a contract agreeing to pay rent one month ahead of time.


You were told you would have prorated rent.


Your roommate said you wouldn't have to pay until next month.


You signed a contract saying you'd pay for the whole month.


You were told you wouldn't have to pay for the whole month.


You paid for the week you were there already.


It's okay to not want your partner to talk to their ex.


Their ex wants to rekindle their relationship.


Unless they are sharing parenting responsibilities.


Especially if they are being manipulated by them.


You are trying to control everything your partner does and don't trust them at all.


Your partner and their ex were very close for awhile and your relationship is just beginning.


Your partner has a child with their ex and needs to talk to them.


Their ex is trying to tell your partner bad things about you.


It's rude to not talk to older people with respect.


You've been treated badly by those older people.


Those old people are trying to help you.


It's okay to tell someone to stop doing something that makes you uncomfortable.


You would expect the right to do the same thing around them.


The judge in court is making you uncomfortable.


You have asked them before, and they keep doing it.


You're in a dentists' office and they're fixing your teeth for you.


The person has no right to do it to you and is hurting you.


charging a rapper for a beat after giving one for free

You shouldn't expect favors from others.


You've done many things to help them in the past.


You've demanded they help you many times in the past.


Others have promised to do favors for you.


You haven't ever done anything to help others.


It's wrong to get into fights with your family.

Your family says negative things about you


Your family wants nothing but the best for you


It's about a serious issue that needs to be addressed.


It's about something really petty like who gets the TV controller.


Your family members are hurting innocent people.


denying a customer one of our last boxes

It is your business, and can deny who you want.

You are breaking federal discrimination laws.


They are being disruptive to your other customers.


You are discriminating against certain groups.


You're acting in a way that violates anti-discrimination law.


There are rude people who want to use your business.


telling you "I am talking behind your back"

It is rude to be critical of someone when they aren't present to defend themselves.

They are dead and cannot ever defend themselves.


They have been critical of you behind your back.


The person being critical is a book reviewer.


The person being criticized isn't present during her trial.


You are meeting with other managers to assess an employee's performance confidentially.


You are making personal criticisms of the person.


The person being criticized is a dictator.


The person being criticized is a newcomer to the group.


not wanting to search a dog that isn't mine? HELP

It's good to assist others in finding their lost dog.


You know they would do the same if you lost your dog.


reporting my flatmate to the housing agency that she lives here with her boyfriend, when its forbidden

Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.

You need to break rules to save someone’s life


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.

You are running a business heavily monitored by the IRS


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.

The rules are don't kill anyone or hurt anyone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.

You need to do so to prevent injury or danger to someone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.

The rules are in place to keep you safe.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to break the rules.

You know breaking the rules could cause harm to others.


It is not good to want a pet to not have a loving home

The pet is a simple animal, or slime mold, which wouldn't care if it was loved or not.


It's a dog which really needs a loving pack, or family, in order to be happy.


The pet recently bit several small children.


You are a PETA member who opposes pet ownership


not wanting to help my father do certain mechanical work

Children are expected to help their parents when they are needed.

Their parents are lazy and use their children for labor


The children need to learn responsibility


The children are paid allowance for general chores


The children are mentally challenged or physically handicapped.


The parents are aging and need at home care.


They're still an infant and haven't learned to talk yet.


They're receiving a weekly allowance for helping out.


They are too young to understand that yet.


Parents should be kind to their children.


Their children are acting out in a way that requires discipline.


They are teaching them patience and understanding.


Their child is an adult who can live on their own.


sleeping with my coworker and telling another coworker about it

You should never tell other people about you misdeeds.


They are strangers and are looking to bring you down.


You are confessing a crime to the police.


You don't want rumors spread on social media.


You are in a confessional and the priest asks.


You don't want them to be afraid of you or label you.


It could cause you to get into trouble with the law


You shouldn't expect your ex to help you after you break up.


You stay friends and often hang out together.


The last thing your ex said to you was, 'I hope you drop dead.'


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your family.

You are writing a tell-all autobiography.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your family.

Your family doesn't tease you about your faults.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your family.

You have their permission to include them in your stand up act.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your family.

They've disowned you and they constantly belittle you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your family.

You're living with them and want to get along with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your family.

They are good people who deserve respect.


not wanting to go camping for my friends 21st birthday

It is rude to not attend a friend's birthday celebration.


You are home keeping your germs to yourself.


being mad at my buddy whos staying with me for taking off all weekend and leaving his dog behind without checking to see if it was okay

It is rude to expect your friend to look after your pet.

You have previously looked after their pet.


They have already agreed to watch your pet.


You are paying them to take care of your pet.


wanting to be physically intimate with my gf

It's bad to pressure people into intimacy.


You're trying to create a loving relationship.


they are very shy and need encouragement


They were once sexually assaulted and have PTSD


You are a therapist in a controlled environment doing an intimacy exercise.


Hypothesis: It's good to establish rules.

You are playing a drinking game with drunk people


Hypothesis: It's good to establish rules.


Hypothesis: It's good to establish rules.

Your rules contribute to more chaos than organization.


Hypothesis: It's good to establish rules.

Your rules contribute to things running smoothly.


Hypothesis: It's good to establish rules.

You are in a brand new relationship and want to see how things go naturally.


Hypothesis: It's good to establish rules.

You're ex-husband cheated on you regularly and you want to make sure your new partner understands the importance of not cheating.


wanting to have my graduation party 3 weeks before my sister's wedding

It's not okay to steal the show from someone else's big event.


You do so on purpose and actively sabotage them.


ordering a sandwich from a deli with the expectation that I can use their restroom

It's wrong to deny people to use your restroom when they need it.


They are your family members or friends.


They need it so badly they might pee all over your store.


It's wrong to kick your family out of your car.

You are dropping the kids off at school.


You are in the middle of nowhere at night.


You promised to give them a ride to the hospital


One of them has a gun and is threatening you.


You are going 55 miles per hour on the highway.


Especially if you a quite a ways from home.


Hypothesis: You should help those that are injured.


Hypothesis: You should help those that are injured.

Your lack of training will do more harm than good.


throwing scalding coffee on customer who threw lager can at me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't throw things at people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't throw things at people.


having my own schedule and ignoring conflicting events

Hypothesis: It's okay to have a life of your own.


Hypothesis: It's okay to have a life of your own.


Hypothesis: It's okay to have a life of your own.

You are taking care of your ten children and are a single parent.


Hypothesis: It's okay to have a life of your own.

You've been convicted of a serious crime.


Hypothesis: It's okay to have a life of your own.

You are neglecting your other responsibilities.


Hypothesis: It's okay to have a life of your own.

You spend a lot of time working and have very little free time.


It's good to hang out with your coworkers.

Your coworkers slack off on the job a lot.


You are trying to get to know them better.


They are drinking heavily and you aren't drinking.


You are all working on a project together.


continuing to emotionally favor my father over my abusive mother, years down the road

You shouldn't favor one parent over the other.

One  parents is abusive to the parent you favor.


They both are  trying their best to be good


There is too much tension between you and your father.


One of your parents always supports you and the other always criticizes you.


Both your parents are equally supportive.


They've raised you with love and kindness.


It's normal to have trust in your friends.


They have been your best friends your whole life.


Your friends have often stolen from you.


Your friends have helped you through difficult times.


Your friends cannot be counted on to keep your secrets


Your friends are really your enemies that you are keeping close to keep an eye on them.


You have known them all your life and they have never failed you.


Hypothesis: It's OK to have personal time.


Hypothesis: It's OK to have personal time.

You have started feeling burn-out and need a break to be more efficient.


Hypothesis: It's OK to have personal time.

You are a single working mom of an infant.


Hypothesis: It's OK to have personal time.

You neglect your work and family over it.


Hypothesis: It's OK to have personal time.

You have a very busy schedule and forget to take care of yourself.


Hypothesis: It's OK to have personal time.

You take your personal time while on the clock.


Hypothesis: It's OK to have personal time.

You take your personal time using vacation hours.


You should be discreet in financial matters.

You work in the finance industry as an analyst.


You don't want people to know your net worth.


You are sharing examples to teach a class in investing.


Someone else's private information is involved.


you're around people who don't have a lot.


The matters are important to specific stakeholders who need to know the details about them.


being happy that my best friend has broken up

It is wrong to be happy at someone else's misfortune.


They are suffering from a fatal disease.


You are watching a Three Stooges marathon.


That person cheated on you and karma is getting them now


Their misfortune helps others they were hurting.


The affected individual is a child molester


not wanting to be around my boyfriend's bestfriends/roommates ever again

You should tell your partner that you don't like their friends.


You only met them one time and they were drunk


You met them many times and they are always obnoxious


Your partner would become angry and hit you.


Your partner is loving and understanding.


Their friends are very supportive of them.


Their friends are rude and disrespectful to you.


asking my girlfriend to have an abortion

It is rude to ask your significant other to have an abortion.

The two of you agree on this issue and have discussed it thoroughly and lovingly.


You know that she feels strongly against it and would be mad.


You have twelve other children together and are struggling to feed them.


Your spouse had a miscarriage the year before.


you understand that a woman's body is a woman's choice.


You have been extremely pro-life your whole life.


Having the abortion would save their life, while having  the child might kill them.


being annoyed at my friend for not wanting to go to the gym together

It's okay to not want to do something that makes one uncomfortable

Your phobia crosses over into medical needs.


it would help them get over stagefright.


You are refusing to do part of your job.


You're trying to break out of your comfort zone more often.


Doing that uncomfortable thing is part of your job duties.


The thing that makes you uncomfortable is also illegal.


wanting to spend spring break away from my parents and with my boyfriend instead

It is important to be honest with your parents about your plans for going away with your boyfriend.

You are going to be at a surprise party for your parent's anniversary.


You have just started dating your boyfriend and can't be sure he is on the up and up.


You have already been living on your own.


You are currently living in their household.


You are an adult and living on your own.


Unless you're an adult who doesn't live with your parents.


Especially if you are still living at home.


getting my girlfriend in trouble from her curfew

You should not try to get other people in trouble.


You're fabricating evidence to incriminate them.


They are hurting people and need to stopped.


They are a danger to themselves or others.


You should discuss problems with people.


You are constantly discussing your problems with people.


You cannot figure out a solution to the problem.


Discussing the problems might trigger a panic attack.


the problems are causing you to lose sleep.


They may be able to help you figure something out.


trying to forcefully share something with my brother

You should try to show interest in things that are important to family members.

The things that are important to your family members hurt you.


Your family members are trying to improve their relationship with you.


You don't care for your family members at all or they are abusive.


You want to grow closer to them and make them feel loved.


Your family members don't want you to be interested in those things.


Your family members have shown interest in things that are important to you.


You want to improve your relationship with your family.


not being okay with my boyfriend being alone in a house with two girls

It's understandable if you're not comfortable with your significant other being around others of the opposite sex.


You are being an immature, jealous control-freak.


The significant other has cheated on you repeatedly.


Your significant other is around their siblings.


Your significant other has cheated in the past.


The person of the opposite sex is your significant other's sibling


Your significant other wants to sleep at the homes of others


They end up going for drinks after work.


hooking up with my best friend while she was in a committed relationship

It is okay to find romance in a friendship.

It is only a fleeting once in a while feeling and you know deep down you're not really into the person.


You really feel the friendship can blossom into something more.


Unless your friend is already in a relationship.


Friendships are the base for lasting relationships.


Your friend is already seeing someone in a monogamous relationship.


You're friends with people you trust deeply.


not wanting to change my opinion on sex with my boyfriend

It's okay not to want to change your opinion.


Nearly 99% of scientists agree with you.


You arrived at your opinion after long and careful study.


telling my mom that I don't want to help her with her volunteer projects at her church anymore because it makes me uncomfortable

When you sign up to volunteer it should be for a project that you are passionate about.

You are trying to fulfill a requirement for school.


You are doing this in your free time and not just for school.


There was a recent earthquake and people are desperate for help.


You only have limited free time due to school commitments.


People are in need of a specific thing you can help with.


You are trained and experienced at the project.


You are volunteering just to make someone else happy.


You don't really have much time to spare.


The project is important and you can make a good contribution without being that passionate.


Your passion will spur you to contribute more to the project.


You should decorate for holidays if you have children.

They are a newborn and are too young to remember.


You are divorced and the other parent can't afford to decorate their house.


Your children love decorations and want to help put them up.


You children get excited about the holidays.


You spent all of your money on presents.


It's wrong to go through someone's private things.

They have asked you to look for a lost item.


There are signs around warning about trespassing.


You stumbled upon your friends diary and they didn't give you permission to read it.


They are missing and you are trying to find them.


They ask you to find something for them.


You have evidence that they committed a crime and need even more proof.


not wanting a relationship with my mother even if she has cancer

It's expected that you'll support a parent that has cancer.


That parent has a living will that prohibits your care.


Your parent cannot take care of themselves.


not wanting to talk to my depressed friend

You should be there for people with mental issues.

They take advantage of the kindness of others


Your disability makes it hard for you to support others.


You have mentally ill people in your family.


Their mental issues cause them to act violently.


You are not trained to take care of them.


not taking a dog that I was lied to about into my home

Hypothesis: Kindness to homeless animals is good.

You attract too many animals to your home.


Hypothesis: Kindness to homeless animals is good.

You provide medical care to the animals.


Hypothesis: Kindness to homeless animals is good.


leaving a meeting when the conversation derails into banter

It is okay not to encourage unproductive behavior

It is a dedicated play time or evening off.


You're trying to inspire someone to be more fit.


You are trying to get your students parents mad


being mad at my future stepmom not letting me use her and my dads bathroom when I had a broken foot

No one is obligated to provide you with aid, no matter how much you require it.


they are complete strangers you haven't met.


You are experiencing a medical emergency.


You will die if you don't recieve the aid


You are living in a war torn country devastated by battle.


You refuse to work unless you can be the boss.


using curtain rod mounting hardware instead of command strips to hold up a heavy curtain

It's expected that you use specific items to hold up curtains.


Your apartment came with curtain rods built in.


You want to do something original and creative.


There are no windows in the house at all


You have a very nice house and use an interior decorator


having a sleepover with one friend but not the other

You do not have to include all of your friends in all of your activities.

They go out of their way to include you in their activities.


They leave you out of some of their activities.


Some of those friends are toxic to the rest of the group.


Your only friends are your siblings, because you live on an isolated farm.


Some of them live hundreds of miles away and you mostly talk online.


They are all in town staying at your house.


You are all interested in different things.


It's understandable sometimes to not tell the whole truth if doing so would put you at an unfair disadvantage.


Not telling the truth would put someone in danger.


Someone is asking about their Christmas present.


You are sworn in court to tell the truth.


The truth will harm you and your family.


You are withholding illegal information.


The minimum amount of information is all that is required in some situations.


telling my girlfriend I don't know what I would do if she was pregnant

It's expected that people be honest with those they love.


Your therapist recommended you be honest


Doing so will cause them to have a break down.


You have personally found that honesty isn't always the best policy.


collecting my neighbor's unpicked dog shit and putting in on their car or doorstep

People are expected to clean up after their pets.


They let their dog go to the bathroom on the street.


They have trainer monkeys who clean up after the people.


still being close to my dad even though he cheated on my mom

It is good to help someone do better after they make a mistake.

They keep making mistakes time and again even after you help them


They only made one big mistake and are sorry for it


They show no willingness to learn from their mistake.


They really want to learn from their mistake.


getting angry at my mother who refuses to accept my brother who recently came out

You should accept your children for who they are and whoever they love.


Who they are causes them to hurt other people


They lead normal lives and are successful


They are in love with an imaginary friend.


You missed the last decade of their life.


They love someone who murdered their previous lover.


They have a happy and supportive relationship.


refusing to do what my SO asks/tells me to do

You should explain why you don't want to do as your SO asks.

You work while they sit at home all day.


They're asking for something very important.


You'd previously promised them you'd do something for them.


You already promised them that you'd do it.


Your SO really needs help with the task.


not paying a New "friend" to watch our Puppy

It's expected that you pay people to watch your pet.


Your friend offered to pet sit for free.


they are professional sitters for peoples pets.


They offer to take care of them for no pay.


getting annoyed at my roommate's untrained dog

You should not be angry at your roommate's dog.


throwing my step-moms work clothes in the garage

It is immature to trash the property of others.


the property that you are trashing is unsafe or unsanitary and needs to be discarded.


those people are your friends and have faith and trust in you.


They gave you permission to trash it for a video shoot.


They allowed you to stay with them rent free.


wanting to rehome my little sisters aggressive dog

It's wrong to keep pets that could constitute a danger to other people or animals.

You keep them in a cage that they can't get out of.


You want a pet that you can safely hold.


They are safely kept away from other people or animals.


You have special training to house those types of animals.


You have no training in how to care for those types of animals.


You are a breeder and have taken the proper safety precautions.


It's rude to hang up in the middle of a phone conversation.

There's an emergency and you need to call the police.


You were asking them how to do something and they were still explaining it to you.


You are trying to give someone directions.


The person you're speaking with has bad service.


The person you're speaking with is a family member.


telling an unprepared kid to screw off on exam day

Hypothesis: It is rude to tell someone off.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell someone off.

They have been polite in speaking with you


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell someone off.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell someone off.

The person insulted you or your family member.


telling a kid in our friend group to "find new friends"

You shouldn't tell other people to find new friends.


their current friends are abusive people.


You want your friends to increase their interests and opportunities.


They have been complaining about getting tired of their current friends.


They have been a close and good friend to you.


adding stipulations to how I'd pay for my children's colleges

It is understandable to be upset if your parents change an agreement with you.

The agreement is about something minor, like going to McDonalds instead of Burger King.


It will have a major, lasting impact on your life, like backing out of a promise to pay for college.


You are a child and have no say in the plans that they make.


You have honored your side of the agreeement.


The agreement changes result in you losing something.


You did something to cause them to change the agreement.


They change the agreement without notifying you.


telling parents of a dead daughter that it was gods plan

It is rude to make light of someone's mourning.


Someone is mourning for their 100 year old parent who lived a great life.


Someone is mourning the loss of their child.


They are your best friend and are in on the joke.


they have asked you to take their mind off of it


they are very sad an need you to support them


telling my wife I wanted to travel Europe without her

It is good to bring your wife when you travel so that you can do it together as a couple.


You are going on a short business trip with a lot of meetings.


You are going to be gone on an extended trip.


You are traveling for business purposes.


you are on a business trip without families.


People are expected to provide your own food.

The people are attending a dinner party.


The people are attending a pot luck dinner.


The message on the invitation says ‘potluck dinner’


Hypothesis: It is okay to end toxic relationships

You have a parental custodial agreement with a person and are required by the court to swap your kid.


Hypothesis: It is okay to end toxic relationships


Hypothesis: It is okay to end toxic relationships

You are both responsible and seeing a counselor.


Hypothesis: It is okay to end toxic relationships

It is doing emotional or physical harm to you.


Hypothesis: It is okay to end toxic relationships

you think your partner will kill you if you leave


Hypothesis: It is okay to end toxic relationships

Ending the relationship could put you in immediate danger.


Hypothesis: It is okay to end toxic relationships

you have supportive friends to help you end the relationship.


It is expected that sometimes people will not like each other and need to cut off communication.

They are coworkers who have to work side by side on a daily basis.


They are coworkers who have to work together to finish a group project.


They meet for the first time off a dating site and do not hit it off.


They work together and it's critical that they discuss their joint project.


It's counterproductive to try and talk things out.


contacting my ex to check in on her after she promised she wouldn't ghost

Hypothesis: It is rude to abandon people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to abandon people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to abandon people.

You need to get yourself out of an unsafe situation.


Hypothesis: It is rude to abandon people.

Your mom makes you come home in the middle of a game.


Hypothesis: It is rude to abandon people.

These people have committed serious crimes


Hypothesis: It is rude to abandon people.

These people are your family and love you


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

You want them to trust you in the future.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

They are gullible and tend to believe everyone


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

You are a police detective questioning a suspect


wanting my roommate to clean during his turn even though I got some help during my turn

You should do your chores regardless of how someone else did theirs.

Your chores must be done according to the rules of the house.


Your chores are very different from other people's chores.


You alternate doing the same chores and it was their turn this time.


Your allowance depends on doing chores properly.


You are expected to do them in the same way as everyone else.


You are at work and they are giving you more work to do.


you have more important and urgent matters.


breaking up with my girlfriend over her extreme love of K-Pop

It is OK to break up with someone you are not compatible with.

You are in an arranged marriage and want to give it a fair shot.


You would be doing them a favor in the long run.


You're stranded in a remote desert island and don't know when you might be rescued.


They're driving you insane with their constant complaining.


being upset that my parents took $8500 without asking

Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.

You have enough money to buy what you're stealing.


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.

You're stealing expensive medication your child needs to survive.


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.

You're stealing from people who are on the verge of starving to death.


Hypothesis: It's okay to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's okay to stand up for yourself.

You stand up for yourself by beating the person annoying you to a pulp.


Hypothesis: It's okay to stand up for yourself.

You've always had trouble being assertive.


Hypothesis: It's okay to stand up for yourself.

The judge has told you to sit down and be quiet.


Sharing what you have with others is polite.


they have nothing of their own and you have plenty


You share food with children on restricted diets and you don't ask their guardian first.


You have guests at dinner time and are going to eat dinner.


You have extra food and someone you know is hungry.


It is an expensive item and you don't want them to break it.


It is a classmate that needs to borrow your notes because they missed class.


You are expected to pay for your own gas in your own car.


a friend is accompanying you on a road trip and has offered to pay their share of the expenses.


you are traveling back and forth to work.


Your car was given to you by your employer.


It is expected that parents take care of their children and not the other way around.

The parents are elderly and have difficulty caring for themselves.


The children are not old enough to care for themselves.


The children are starting their own adult lives.


honking and flashing my lights at people doing 45 in a 65 in the far left lane of the highway

It's wrong to drive in an aggressive manner.

Unless you are driving someone to the hospital in an emergency.


Especially if you are endangering other drivers.


You're a race car driver and you're currently in a race.


You don't want to be pulled over by the police.


You're a racer in a Nascar race and are trying to win.


You share the roadway with other cars and want to avoid accidents.


A passenger is having a heart attack and you have to get to the hospital.


You are a police officer chasing a fleeing suspect.


freaking out because I didn't have a seatbelt on in a cab

It is bad not to wear a seatbelt in a cab.


The driver is going over the speed limit


It's fine to break up with someone even if they just came back from somewhere.

They came back to bring you an expensive gift


you're going to beat around the bush about it.


They just came back from their aunt's funeral.


They just came back from a date with someone else.


They just came back from getting a terminal diagnosis.


They just came back from cheating on you.


not wanting my abusive ex to change or be happy

Hypothesis: You shouldn't be abusive towards other.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be abusive towards other.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be abusive towards other.

You are wanting to maintain a relationship.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be abusive towards other.

You are fighting back against an abuser.


It is normal to not provide a gift to a wedding if you had to travel out of state to get attend the wedding.

You promised to get some thing from the registry.


The bride and groom know you don't have much money.


You only had to travel a few miles over a state line


You don’t know the people getting married that well


You are struggling to afford the trip expense.


You are direct family to the bride or groom.


wanting to give up on an out-of-job-role project after being told my employment is being terminated

It is wrong to back out of an obligation.


You already forgot your wife's birthday.


You don't give any notice to the people involved.


The rules of the event completely change.


"breaking up" the family over a lottery ticket

You shouldn't break up your family over money.


The family will not speak again to each other


They have a history of stealing money from you.


It makes better financial sense on paper to split.


It is wrong to abandon your partner at a social event.

You are called into work and have to leave early.


You are their date and also their ride home.


The only person they know at the event is you.


leaving my boyfriend after he got belligerently drunk and pissed in the floor

It's wrong to leave your partner when they need you the most.


You have a strong and mutually commited relationship.


You are being called in to work for an emergency.


You know harm will come to your partner if you leave.


Especially if they have nobody else to turn to.


being angry at my boyfriend for claiming to be italian

You should try to believe your partner if they claim something.


Your partner has never lied to you before.


You have evidence that suggests otherwise.


They provide evidence that supports their claim.


They have a history of lying about this particular issue.


They're talking about an event that was clearly traumatic.


They are beginning to show signs that they make things up.


They have always been completely honest with you.


telling my friend of 30 years that he can't come to my wedding with his girlfriend because she's a girl I used to be involved with

It's bad to date someone a friend has dated.

That someone is truly your soulmate and your friend has given you the okay.


Your friend hates the person and you don't want to piss them off.


Your friend ended it with them on bad terms.


Your friend no longer has any feelings for that person.


Your friend only broke up with them yesterday.


refusing to makeout with my boyfriend because he has pink eye

It is okay to stay away from sick people.


They have the flu and your immune system is trashed.


calling my girlfriend on a seemingly rude comment that she made

It's fine to get upset with your partner if they did something rude.


Your partner was not aware how they were coming off and is very sensitive.


Your partner hurt you in some way and you want to iron things out with them before moving on.


telling an acquaintance's mom on her for drinking and driving

It's rude to call the police on people our friends or acquaintance's care about


They haven't done anything illegal in the first place.


If you caught the people stealing something.


They have done something to break the law.


The police are here to stop a suicide attempt


not hanging out with my friend on her actual birthday

It is expected to be there for a friend on their special day.

You find yourself really sick in a hospital bed and can't go anywhere.


That friend has been there for you on your special days.


You're expected to bring all of the alcohol.


You play a central role in your friend's day.


the distance between you two is too great to travel


You live down the road from your friend.


breaking up with my girlfriend 3 days before her birthday

It's inconsiderate to crush someone's hopes right before a big day.

You need them to know what they're getting into.


You know you need to or they will get embarrassed


The truth is something they need to know immediately.


The information is something that can be told at a later time.


By doing so you'll save them a lot of time or money.


talking too much about my parents' divorce

It is expected that you talk about important events in your life.

You are a baby and still haven't learned how to speak yet.


They are confidential government events.


Those events are very painful to remember.


putting a small blob of ketchup on my friends £30 hoodie

It is wrong to damage other people's property.

The people are requesting a demolition of their home.


The people are expecting you to upgrade their home.


You need to break something to help someone escape from a fire or other disaster.


They are in danger and you have to break their things to get to them so you can save them.


It is something very expensive and precious to the person.


you are doing it without their permission.


You are knocking down their door to save them from a house fire.


You don't have permission to be on their property.


friend accusing me of stabbing them in the back

Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.

You have them doing what you are accusing them of on camera.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.

They have never given you any reason to distrust them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.

You saw them stealing your money on camera


Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.

You have no evidence and just want to lash out


Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.

Your friends would never do anything to hurt you


Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.

You know one of your friends betrayed you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to accuse your friends.

You have solid evidence supporting your accusations.


telling someone I don't want to hear about their rape

It's understandable to not want to hear about someone's sexual assault.

You are the police officer investigating it.


It is something you are still dealing with yourself.


You're on a jury and you have to listen to to everything the witness says.


You don't want to have recurring nightmares about it later.


It brings up unpleasant memories for you


You are a police officer filing a report.


You have been sexually assaulted before.