Hypothesis: It's bad to be too noisy.

Your roommates have said if you don't keep it down you'll have to move.


It's bad to be ungrateful for what you have.


telling my boss to fire my homophobic coworker

It's good to fire someone for being hateful.


They say racist things to their coworkers.


They have not violated any company policies.


They have behaved badly or used profanity in the workplace.


complaining about my husband's travel job

It is rude to complain about your spouses work obligations.


They volunteer for work projects after committing to a family activity.


They are in a profession like a doctor and are required to be on call.


They get called in to work on your birthday.


The work pays a lot and for your lifestyle.


not believing a Friend's Reason for IG Drop

You should always try to understand the reasoning your friends.

They are currently suffering from a mental illness.


your friends are trying to justify why they did something illegal.


you are working with your friends on a joint project to achieve a common goal.


They've been your friend for a long time.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get evicted

The eviction notice will help you get financial assistance.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get evicted


Hypothesis: It is not good to get evicted

You were trying to because the landlord wouldn’t end your lease early


Hypothesis: It is not good to get evicted

You don't care about your credit and plan to fight.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get evicted

You want to be able to rent another apartment again at some point.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get evicted

you want to try to rent another apartment


getting upset that my bf wiped boogers on something in my car

It's understandable to be upset when someone makes a mess in your car.


The person got shot and you are taking them to the hospital.


You ask them not to eat in your car but they do anyway.


The mess was made because you carelessly left a paint can on the seat.


The mess was made because they didn't wipe their boots off


not giving my Husband some of my birthday money

It's understandable to want to keep a birthday gift for yourself.

The gift is a certificate to a toy store.


The gift is a certificate to your favorite hair salon.


you know of someone who needs the gift a lot more than you.


you and the birthday person have the same taste.


trying to get my wife to confront my sister-in-laws manipulative behavior

It's okay to encourage someone to confront family even though it might be difficult.


They need to resolve an issue and they both live in the same house.


Their family is abusive and this might put the person in danger.


This person is completely in the right and needs to stand up for themselves.


They might be putting themselves in danger.


They don't have any other sources of support.


you don't know of all the facts in the situation


you know their family is full of helpful people the will work with them


breaking up with a girl who just had a medical incident

It is most important to be honest with the girl


You're trying to surprise her with a gift.


the truth would really hurt their feelings


your integrity is her most valued aspect of yours


she will be more crushed by the truth than a lie.


she can be injured if she doesn't know the truth.


refusing to give my friend the answers because she won't get the textbook

Hypothesis: It is rude not to help a friend.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help a friend.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help a friend.

your friend is just trying to get some attention.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help a friend.

The friend wants you to pay back a favor.


Family members are expected to support each other.


Your family is all very toxic to each other


The live on opposite sides of the country and rarely speak.


They are trying to distance themselves from each other.


They have remained close over the years.


being upset about Slow and Poor Service on Black Friday

It is expected to get good service at a store.


all of your friends have been raving about how good the store is


You are being rude to the service workers.


The store is run by professional business men


The store is a local owned small business.


It is ok to be upset if your husband has kept a huge secret from you about themselves.


They were cheating on you with their secretary.


The secret involves them cheating on you.


The secret was about something that private that happened to them as a child.


That secret has to do with their sexuality.


not giving my little brother my state ID so he can get into bars at college

Hypothesis: It is bad to steal someones identity.


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal someones identity.


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal someones identity.

They lose thousands of dollars from fraud.


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal someones identity.

You are an FBI agent and need to take down criminals


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal someones identity.

The person is alive and will be affected.


getting upset at my gf's parents for locking us out of the house

You shouldn't get upset at your partner's parents.

They were berating your partner for no good reason.


They are trying to turn your partner against you.


They are buying you and your partner a house.


People are expected to care about things.


Unless they suffer from clinical depression.


They have been hurt by everyone in their life


Those things are none of their business.


People are expected to make big announcements in person.


They can get the message across faster on social media.


They announce to immediate family before posting on social media.


It is understandable to be upset if someone you live with wants to move out.

They gave you practically no notice to find another roommate.


They graduated high school and will be going away to college.


The person was someone you didn't like much already.


You were best friends with the person who is moving.


they have to be a caretaker for an elderly parent


You cannot pay all of the rent on your own.


Hypothesis: You should trust family.


Hypothesis: You should trust family.

Your cousin stole your bingo winnings the last time she visited.


Hypothesis: You should trust family.

They have never given you reason not to trust them


Hypothesis: You should trust family.

They always have your back no matter what


It is expected that employment sometimes takes you away from home.


You work as a work-from-home representative


getting upset that new roommate brought her bf and bf's brother over at 4:30 am

Hypothesis: It is okay to want quiet at night.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want quiet at night.


telling my parents they are shit parents

It's hurtful to tell your parents that they are bad parents.

They kept you locked in the basement as punishment.


They need to know why you turned out the way you did and your psychologist can confirm this.


You are telling them that because they won't loan you money.


You are only saying it because you are angry at them.


not talking to my friend who has anxiety and did self-harm

Not communicating with a friend that has anxiety can let them be more separated and potentially cause harm.

They have social anxiety and avoid people.


They have been told by their counselor to create space during anxiety attacks.


you've been told by others that your behavior makes your friend's anxiety worse.


you are one of their only friends and they depend on your support.


not wanting to go to church with my mother

Hypothesis: Going to church is a good thing to do.


Hypothesis: Going to church is a good thing to do.


going on my partners dream holiday without her

It is rude to exclude someone from plans.


you originally invited them to help you with your plans


Especially if you want them to come with you.


It's understandable to find others irritating sometimes.


You are an introvert forced into social situations.


You are one of the queen's guard who can't show emotion.


calling the police on my suicidal friend

You should do more to support your friends when they are in trouble.

They also keep getting you into trouble.


You're partially responsible for the trouble.


You live too far from your friends to help much.


They are in a gang that could potentially cause you harm.


Your friends are always getting into trouble.


You can steer your friends toward more positive activities.


they could possibly not be able to pay the rent that month.


getting punched in the face for talking about nazis

You shouldn't speak about nazi's around other people since it might offend others.


People had relatives who died by their hands.


You are in a classroom that is being taught about the topic.


going off on my gf when she called me a bad pet owner

You shouldn't accuse your partner of bad behavior.


You have concrete proof of their bad behavior.


You have only heard rumors about their bad behavior and have no evidence.


You have video evidence they actually did what you're accusing them of.


You've accidentally falsely accused them before.


Your partner has a history of bad behavior.


Your partner has never given you any reason to suspect anything.


always thinking I could possibly do better

Hypothesis: It's good to think you can do better.


Hypothesis: It's good to think you can do better.


Hypothesis: It's good to think you can do better.

You know you did not give it your best shot.


wanting to change my last name to a different family name than the one of my birth mother and step father

It is understandable to be sad if your child wants to no longer have the family name.

Your child is going to be someone's wife.


They are changing their name to a married name.


someone in the family committed a horrible act


being miffed at my friend for not showing up on time

You should tell your friend when you will be late.

The time it took to tell them would be more time than it would take for you to get there.


It involves a time sensitive activity that required a reservation.


breaking up with someone because they told me they have felonies

If you're a felon, it's expected that you'll tell the person you're dating quickly.


your going to take her home to meet the family


They told you they'd never date a felon.


you are expecting the charges to be expunged.


you are hoping to make a life with them.


thinking my girlfriend would be less attractive with a different color hair

It's okay to have preferences about the looks of a loved one.

Your preference is in regard to their race or skincolor.


Your preference is in regard to your partner's wedding look.


You're only attracted to a small number of people.


Certain types you have already dated before


telling the fandom newcomer their headcanon idea isn't new

You should be nice to others even if you don't agree with their ideas.


They are being racist and verbally assaulting someone in public.


You should pick up your date when they ask you.

An emergency caused you to be late on accident


They want you to pick them up before you even get off work.


You need to make a detour to save an injured animal.


you want to make a good first impression.


asking when my boyfriend is sexually ready

It's okay to not be ready to have sex with your partner yet.


You only dated them for a few weeks so far


asking someone not to drink from a glass bottle in the hot tub

It's expected that you follow others' rules when you are in their home.


Their rules involve illegal or immoral acts.


You are a police officer with a search warrant.


They are letting you stay with them while you look for a new place.


being my upset my gf of three years keeps our relationship secret

You shouldn't be upset if someone's not ready to introduce you to their family yet.


You have been dating them for a long time.


Buying a partner a new car is a way to make them happy.


You buy them a style of car that they hate.


They have never had their own car before.


being mad that my boyfriend lied about resubscribing to NSFW subreddits

It's not nice to lie to people, especially loved ones.

You are trying not to hurt their feelings.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


It's a little white lie meant to protect their feelings.


The lie might destroy your relationship.


You need to keep a secret from them for a while


They think they can trust you all the time


not volunteering to be the designated driver

It's okay to not volunteer to be designated driver, if a different friend has volunteered less.

Your friends are going to go drinking even if they don't have a designated driver.


No one else is going to volunteer and you don't want to ride with a drunk driver.


You plan to take a taxi if no one is designated driver.


asking for help from my mother in law when I was scared to take care of my daughter alone

It's expected that you will take care of your own child.


you sign your parental rights over to someone else.


Hypothesis: You should try to respect your ex more.


Hypothesis: You should try to respect your ex more.

He has put you in the hospital and scarred you for life.


Hypothesis: You should try to respect your ex more.

They have continued to be supportive and respectful toward you.


Hypothesis: You should try to respect your ex more.

You have a child with them and want your them to have a stable life


It's polite to go outside if you need to pass gas.


It's ok to separate yourself from toxic people.

you are all in a quarantine zone together.


they are causing you to suffer mentally.


they are infecting you with their toxicity


you are the one causing them to be that way.


calling out my friend for poor shaming and bullying

It's a good thing to do to call someone out when they act in an abusive manner


You are speaking out for some one who can't defend themselves.


expressing my feelings to long time friend/fwb

It's fine to have a sexual relationship with someone if you both agree to it.


You plan on staying together for a long time.


telling my family to find her their own house

Helping your family member find a new place to live can lead to independence for both of you.

You guilt trip your family to move to the house next door.


You believe that absence makes the heart grow fonder


The new place to live is in a mother in law unit on your property.


The two of you have been in a codependent relationship.


they are coming closer to you geographically


You are moving in to the new place to live with them.


You two have been roommate your whole adult lives.


telling the hosts of our D&D game that their baby is an issue

With practice and effort, you can often ignore a noisy baby.


They are suffering from serious health conditions.


They are teething and it is nothing serious.


The baby is just fussing itself to sleep.


The baby is making noise because they are sick.


It's your partner's turn to tend to the baby.


The baby keep getting louder and louder.


You have good powers of concentration and focus.


constantly antagonizing one of my classmates

Sometimes a little light-hearted fun makes class easier.


It's so distracting no teaching gets done.


Everyone is feeling stressed about exams.


The teacher doesn't allow any fun in the class.


using my "privileges" to find out information on my girlfriend

Hypothesis: It is wrong to invade others' privacy


Hypothesis: It is wrong to invade others' privacy

You're looking for something to blackmail them with


Hypothesis: It is wrong to invade others' privacy

You are a police officer with a search warrant for their home.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to invade others' privacy


Hypothesis: It is wrong to invade others' privacy

You are a detective investigating someone.


breaking up with my bf and not telling him I was doubting our relationship

Doubting a relationship is a sign of insecurity.


The other person is being iffy about their feelings for you.


You and you partner are having a great time together.


You have evidence from people you trust that you should doubt the relationship.


People you trust have told you there's no reason to doubt your relationship.


the relationship has been on the rocks for awhile


your partner has given you no reason to doubt them


not eating cake at my mom's birthday party? ft. r/entitledparents

It is okay to turn down something you don't want


It's from a judge that's handing-down your sentence for your crimes you were found guilty of.


You'd just throw it away as soon as you got home.


It is a gift from your small child for your birthday.


It is a gift from your dying grandmother.


not wanting to get my wife's DOB tattooed on me along with our daughters and my parents

Not everyone is comfortable with certain signs of public demonstration of commitment.

This is a simple statement of fact, which can't really be undermined.


They have been raised to think it's wrong.


The people in question are white heterosexual people.


The people in question happen to be queer people of color.


They are from a religion that frowns on personal expression in public.


It is part of a wedding ceremony that they agree to get married with.


You should not try to embarrass your friends.

Unless you are embarrassing yourself as well.


They are jokesters who would get a kick out of it.


Your friends are trying to win a competition


They don't have a problem embarrassing you.


confronting my friend selling stuff I gave her for free

It's rude to sell something a friend gave you for free.

They told you to sell it and to keep the profits.


It had sentimental significance between the two of you.


That friend doesn't care what you do with the item.


The friend worked a long time to make the item by hand.


the friend is aware of the situation and wanted to help you out.


the friend took a lot of time choosing the gift for you.


The friend put a lot of thought into the gift.


blasting a loud alarm noise to get the cashier's attention

Making loud noises to get people's attention is considered rude.


You are trying to stop them from stepping in a pot hole.


telling my teacher that he's wrong and he should not teach us incorrect things

Telling someone else how to do their job is rude.


The person you're giving instructions to is your boss.


telling my younger son that his older brother will take over my business one day, not him

It is wrong to favor one child over another.


You want to keep everyone in the household happy.


not wanting my wife to book a hotel by herself for a night away

It is wrong not to trust your wife to stay alone in a hotel.

The hotel is in a dangerous part of town.


You've been married for years and love each other.


accepting casino cashier paying me extra $25 after warning her she gave me too much

Hypothesis: You shouldn't overpay others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overpay others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overpay others.

It's to show your gratitude for a job that was very well done.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overpay others.

You don't want them to always try to take advantage of you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overpay others.

You are including the over payment as a gratuity.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overpay others.

you want to raise their standard of living


It is okay to not buy groceries and cook.


You buy all of your meals at restaurants.


You have enough money to splurge on take out.


You can only either afford that or non-nutritious fast food and have children.


wanting my sister to pay half of the household bills not half of the rent

It's okay to want someone who isn't to pay their fair share.


they expect an equal portion of the share


You invited them and offered to pay when you did.


Doesn't make sense.  It's okay to want someone who isn't to pay their fair share.


It's rude to pretend to be interested in someone in order to get something from them.


You are negotiating a better salary or raise.


You are a spy from another competing company


The person thinks you actually want to date them


You are a news reporter trying to get a scoop.


subletting my rent controlled apartment to a new roommate instead of an ex who moved out 2+ years ago

It's reasonable to sublet an apartment to a new roommate, rather than an ex.


You feel uncomfortable about renting to people you don't know that well.


you have children with your ex and want to coparent.


The ex is willing to pay double the price.


The new roommate is a very quiet person.


forgetting to bring our garbage cans back from the curb

If you do not bring your empty trash cans back from the curb they could blow away and get damaged.


You have someone who wheels the dumpster out and back again.


The cans are hit by passing cars causing accidents.


It is someone else’s responsibility to pick them up


telling my parents I won't come to their house unless my brother leaves or gets help

Children are not supposed to demand things from their parents.


They don't want to be disciplined for it.


The children aren't being given food or water.


The children are being given all of their essentials.


They are demanding food when they are hungry.


They are demanding money when they just got an allowance.


forgetting to defrost shrimp and being considered "on spectrum" because of it

It's wrong to try to diagnose people if you aren't a professional.


You can then convince them to seek professional help.


You don't understand their medical history or allergies.


There are no medical professionals in the area.


You don't know much about the body at all


being very privatley disdainful towards my mother for our current situation

Hypothesis: It is unhealthy to bottle up emotions.

You feel unsafe talking to your husband about his temper.


Hypothesis: It is unhealthy to bottle up emotions.

You are trying to express yourself better this year.


Hypothesis: It is unhealthy to bottle up emotions.

you have to get through something stressful.


Hypothesis: It is unhealthy to bottle up emotions.


Hypothesis: It is unhealthy to bottle up emotions.

Unless letting them out would hurt someone.


Hypothesis: It is unhealthy to bottle up emotions.

You are trying to get through a public speech.


Hypothesis: It is unhealthy to bottle up emotions.

You are trying to work through your problems.


wanting my mom to delete an audio recording she took of me coming out

It's rude to take a recording of someone if they don't ask you to.


You are a cop in an undercover situation.


Especially if it is during intimate relations with the person.


wanting a breakup with my girlfriend because she is not religious

It is okay to leave a relationship when you are not compatible.


One of you wants children and the other does not.


You are just using it for an excuse because you met someone else.


You're completely dependant on the other person to take care of you.


Your mental health would suffer by staying with them.


They are threatening your life if you do


being close with my girlfriend's sister even though she hates it

When you are in a relationship you are expected to be close to your significant others family.


You want to be close to your partner's family.


They are the black sheep and don't have anything to do with them.


It is wrong to come between a friendship.


You are interfering for selfish reasons.


you can that one person is taking advantage of the other one.


The friends knew each other before they knew you.


not wanting to drink any alcohol, ever? even on my 21st birthday

Just because you are 21 doesn't mean you have to drink.

You are taking a wine tasting class in college.


it's during communion and you're devote.


you decided to have your first drink on your 21st birthday.


you are worried you might become an alcoholic.


being jealous of my friend's relationship before he passed

You should not be envious of others' relationships.


you have good relationships with everyone.


you're already good in a good relationship


They had the guts to ask someone out and you didn't.


You are divorced from a painful relationship.


You are in a decent relationship yourself.


Your spouse is hanging out with an old friend.


getting pissed at someone not allowing me to follow their car into a gated community

It's bad to expect someone to break the rules for you.


You've been a stickler for holding them to the letter of the rules.


being hurt about my ex hanging out with her ex in my house

You shouldn't hang out with your ex in your ex's house.


You are single and they are just your friend now


deleting a girl I've been speaking to for half a year after seeing how she snapchats while driving

It's bad to use your phone while driving.

You are calling 911 to report an accident or drunk driver.


You're listening to hands-free directions to your destination.


Your hands are off the wheel or your eyes are off the road.


It is good to discuss this issue before separating.


The reason you are separating is because of physical abuse.


There are minor children who will be affected by the separation.


You have no interest in ever seeing your former partner again.


The issue is difference in interior design taste.


going to a party instead of hanging out with my girlfriend

It's ok to have a life separate from your significantother.


The two of you agreed to do everything together.


You are always together and need alone time.


You are both feeling smothered in the relationship.


having little emotion to my grandmother dying

It's not okay to not sympathize with others we were close to.

The person asked you to leave them lone.


You want to console them during a rough time.


You shut yourself off from others so you won’t feel pain


They have started embracing white supremacy.


People are expected to be together for holidays.

They haven't made plans to be together yet.


They spend the holidays together every year as a tradition.


You have a loving family who live close by


They know that grandma might not be around next year.


yelling at my older cousin because of his autistic son

It is expected to not judge people for their disabilities.

You're making a judgment for a disability review.


You are volunteering at the Special Olympics.


The person is faking a disability to get attention.


They are a child and do not understand why they are being judged.


They are competing in the Special Olympics.


Their disability causes them to be violent.


There's nothing they can do to reduce the degree to which they're disabled.


It's annoying when your spouse doesn't get along with your parents.


You don't get along with your parents either.


Your spouse isn't making an effort in the relationship.


refusing to apologize to my sister after saying hurtful things to her

You are expected to apologize for saying hurtful things.

The person you said the things to is dead.


The person you said the things to is your partner.


You care about the people you're talking to.


You only said hurtful things because the other person is a jerk


You are a psychopath who feels no remorse.


You immediately feel bad and regret what you said.


being mad at my girlfriend for asking me if I'm gay again

It is rude to question someone's sexuality.


You are in a relationship with that person.


You need to know that for part of a research project.


You want to ask them out and want to make sure that would not be insulting to them.


You plan to use the information in a negative way.


being pissed off with my boss for going back on a promise

It's bad to go back on your word after making a promise.

You find out you were coerced into the promise under false pretenses.


You're doing it because you're mad at your friend.


keeping the promise will cause harm to a child.


breaking a promise will hurt someone you love.


coming out to family members at my grandfather's birthday party

It is rude to make someone else's event about you.


You are taking back an event that was supposed to be about you to begin with.


The person has done charitable and self less acts of giving.


blocking somebody on social media who needed to feed her kids

It's selfish to hide someone who needs your help from social media.

The person has wronged you and you want no contact.


The person isn't aware of the loss of privacy.


The person can use the help to promote a small business online.


Helping them will put you in great danger.


You know you can provide the help they need.


you're not in a position to help them now.


you could really make a difference to someone.


You should be kind to people, even if you don't like them anymore.


You can choose to not interact with them at all.


It is rude to get physically violent with someone who has done you wrong.


You are an abused wife who is finally fighting back.


You are defending yourself from during a physical attack.


You go out of your way to confront them.


That person physically harmed your child.


That person only wronged you by accident.


not tipping delivery drivers if my food was made wrong/ruined in some way

It's expected that you tip delivery drivers.


They delivered the food extremely quickly.


The driver is leaving the package on your porch.


They work in a country that doesn't tip.


telling my partners family about his substance abuse/addiction

Its wrong to get people involved with private matters someone didn't want involved with them.


The matters involve people messing with your family


The issue is with people not related to you


You have to involve the police to settle the matter.


You don't want everyone to know about your private affairs.


You are mocking someone in front of strangers.


convincing my husband to move an hour away from his parents

Partners are expected to make mutual decisions about important life events.

They come from a culture where the man makes all the decisions.


It concerns getting married or having children.


The decision is about wills or end of life.


The decision has to be made in a split-second.


They have plenty of time to discuss the decision.


One of the parents loses parental rights.


one of the partners has a terminal illness.


It is normal to be angry about losing your dog.


You know you were not taking good care of it.


You cared a lot about your dog and thought of it like your child.


The dog was too sick and old to continue.


not wanting to live with my parents after they decide to shift to the same city as mine

It's a wise financial decision to move back in with one's parents if they offer.

Your parents treat you as a naughty child again.


You are able to save and eventually get a place of your own.


you're not able to work from your parents house


your parents are willing to foot your bills


They live in a mall apartment and have no room.


They have the space and need your help around the house.


being pissed both sides of my family never really invite me on vacation

You shouldn't be mad at others for not including you in their plans.


The plans were for something you don't like.


You were the one that suggested that you all should go somewhere together.


They're going bungee jumping and you're afraid of heights.


getting child support after saying I wouldn't

Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You are complimenting a new outfit someone loves


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

your doing it so you dont upset a persons feelings.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You are lying to your girlfriend or boyfriend.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You are planning a surprise party for someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

Your spouse asked you to tell them the truth.


expressing an ultimatum: go to therapy, or this relationship is over

Couples in relationships are expected to have frank and direct communication with each other.


The couple have been together for a long time


they never get time because of other things they are doing instead.


they have an important decision to choose.


wanting to visit my grandma on Christmas

It's expected for families to get together on special occasions.


Doing so would cause a hardship on some members that live very far away.


Especially if you live in the same city.


telling my son about my ex wife's infidelity

You should not get children involved in adult situations.

They are testifying about where they want to live.


you want to teach them important life lessons.


The child is looked after and is given special consideration.


It will emotionally scar the kids for life


being selfish for choosing for myself over his life

It's acceptable to put your needs over the needs of others.

You have an infant who needs to be fed every two hours.


A person has been working all day and needs a rest.


you are dealing with a loss in your life.


You're a parent putting your needs over that of your child.


making my girlfriend choose me or her Housemate

You shouldn't put up with a partner that forces you to choose between two people.

Those two people are their drug dealer and themselves


Those two people are your partner and another lover.


The two people are your partner and your child.


They are trying to force you to choose between themselves and your lover.


One of those two people is consistently abusing you.


You feel that your partner is being manipulative.


Hypothesis: Adoption doesn't justify abuse.


Hypothesis: Adoption doesn't justify abuse.

The person adopted could hurt themselves if they acted that way again.


Hypothesis: Adoption doesn't justify abuse.

They are young and can't help themselves.


using a legal loophole to get stuff for cheap

Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole

You are rich and avoiding your tax bill.


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole

It keeps someone innocent from going to jail.


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole

It keeps someone guilty from paying a penalty.


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole

You are doing so in order to help an innocent person get out of prison.


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole

You are doing it for your own personal gain.


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole

The law the loophole lets you out of is unfair.


Hypothesis: It is immoral to abuse a legal loophole

It always a violent offender to go free.


being immediately skeptical of people with emotional support animals

It's okay to question the use of emotional support animals since they aren't true service animals.

You can sense that a person is feeling better being around them.


The person with the animal has no ailments at all.


you know that they have been prescribed by a therapist to help the owner reduce anxiety and depression.


the animal is poorly behaved and unruly in public.


the person using the emotional support animal doesn't actually need it


A doctor has written a prescription citing the need for one.


The animal in question is dangerous to others.


It's expected that you support your significant other's career.

their career conflicts with your religious beliefs


your significant other has worked really hard to build up their career


Their devotion to their career is undermining the relationship.


Your partner has been trying to get into this career for a long time.


your significant other is a career criminal.


want your significant other to be happy.


being mad at my ex for making a bumble profile at least two days before we broke up

It is wrong to seek outside affection on the internet when in a relationship.


your spouse thinks they're in a monogamous relationship


Your significant other has been in a coma for several years with no hope of ever waking up again.


Unless your relationship is lacking in any affection.


You are in an open relationship and have permission.


You are cheating on your partner by doing so.


being upset with husband for telling me he has it worse when I'm upset

It's understandable to be upset when someone is unkind.


You know that the person doesn't know any better.


You are paying for that person's time and service.


Unless they are a young child who doesn't know any better.


They were unkind for an important reason.


Trying to adopt someone who doesn't want to be adopted is wrong.

They are suffering from a disorder and do not now what is best for them.


You do not have the money to take care of them.


there's no one else who wants to adopt them


You are trying to get them away from someone dangerous.


They need to be put in a home right away.


getting angry at my angry dad due to me not going to school to do a project

It is reasonable to want whats best for your children.


You have worked hard to give it to them.


You want them to be better than you when they grow up.


being pissed at my friend for her actions in a psych ward

It's understandable to be upset with a friend when they do something you don't agree with.

The decision has to do with their own personal relationship.


You are afraid it will put them in danger.


You don't agree with their reproductive health choices.


The choice affects you too, like cheating off a test.


You understand that it might be what is right for them.


being for being unsure of my marriage and letting my fiance know about it pretty late

It's ok to end a relationship that you aren't sure about.


There's something about them that doesn't seem quite right.


You promised to take the person to prom.


People are expected to support and encourage those they care about.

You are too sick to get out of bed and show support.


They recently got into an argument with them.


They supported you when you needed them.


they don't approve of what they are doing


You should clean food to make sure it isn't contaminated.


The food is served to you in a restaurant.


It's a meat product and any contaminants will be killed-off by cooking it to the proper temperature.


It's raw produce since it could have listeria.


not wanting my mom to bring her dog to my house

It is acceptable to set boundaries around what can be brought into your home.


You are not the only one who lives there.


You've had problems with said thing in the past.


You try to include your partners young children in those boundaries.


Your roommates bring home questionable people and items.


potentially causing a girl to fail university

It is wrong to hurt someone's academic career.


That person never did anything to hurt you


You are retaliating over a perceived slight.


You should stay out of other peoples relationships.


You're considering flirting with one of the people.


wanting to avoid conflict with my mother's boyfriend

It's good to avoid conflict with others.


Someone else is in trouble and you can help.


You are not in a position to defend yourself.


There is another way to solve the problem.


You play one of the lawyers in a mock trial.


It's not okay to hold grudges against people we no longer are involved with.


They apologized for every wrong thing they did to you.


You want to move on and live a drama free life.


Those people made you suffer emotionally


not giving my ex a chance to be in our daughters life

You should not punish your child for the other parent's mistakes.


the other parent is physically abusing the child.


Unless you are trying to correct bad behavior.


Especially if the other parent is unaware of their mistake.


telling my mother to stay out of my finances

It is okay to want financial independence.


you've been living in your parents house for some of your adult life


You are dependent on people who mistreat you.


You are an adult and can make your own decisions


Hypothesis: It's good to support your friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your friends.

They don't support you and your business endeavors.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your friends.

They always support you in a time of need.


It's wrong to be intimate with another person's partner.


You're supposed to be friends with that person.


the three of you are poly and everyone knows and has consented.


the partner is your partner's best friend.


That person doesn't know you're sleeping with their partner.


hating the bridesmaid dress my Dad wants me to wear

It is not normal for a father to choose a bridesmaid dress.

His daughter has asked him to choose her bridesmaids' dresses.


He wants all dresses to be camouflage which doesn't match your teal and gray color scheme


He has not been invited to the brides dress store.


He is helping his daughter with her wedding.


She is planning to elope and doesn't have any bridesmaids.


putting a sign on a 12 pack of soda asking others to not drink it

You have a right to own your belongings and not let anyone else use it

You are a child and your parent tells you to share with your sibling.


Those belongings are hand me downs from your parents


You paid a lot of money for certain items


You are expected to act professionally in a group.

Your group is your family and you're all on vacation.


Unless you are a clown hired to entertain them.


not telling my mother that my brother took some of my weed

It is expected to tell your family members important things.


You are sickly and rely on their advice.


you value an open and honest relationship with them


It's something they need to be aware of.


getting my coworker written up for continually condescending to me

It is wrong to talk down to other people.


You're trying to get them to leave as soon as possible.


getting angry when my partner checks in all day asking what's up

It's understandable to be mad at a partner if they won't give you some space

You're both sleeping on the same twin size bed.


The both of you are squeezed in a small area trying to fix a pipe.


You are setting healthy boundaries and they are not respecting them.


It is appropriate to contact child services if you know of a child being mentally, physically, or sexually abused.


You want to help the child before it's too late


They've already been placed in another home by CPS while they investigate the parents.


The child doesn't realize they're a victim of abuse.


It's impolite to sell clothes that were given to you.


You sell them when you are with the gift giver.


The clothes were given to you by a family member.


The clothes have sentimental value in your family.


wan'ting to leave my bf because I'm not attracted to him anymore

It is wrong to stay in a relationship where there is no longer attraction.

There is still love and trust and commitment.


Both of you are unhappy and agree to the separation.


The other person doesn't have long to live.


The other person would be happier without the relationship.


You are staying together for the sake of your kids


You are no longer in love with the person as well.


wanting contact with my dad and his new family

It's understandable to want to know your relatives.


You just met them and want to catch up and what you have missed.


Your parents were only children and passed away when you were a baby.


You were adopted and are looking for your birth parents.


It's good to stay in touch with your siblings.


not wanting my girlfriend to get a second tattoo

It's good to get more than one tattoo if you want it.


You are allergic to the ink when you get your first one.


It makes you feel good to express  yourself in that way.


It's OK to avoid a wedding of someone if you aren't in good relationship terms.


You don’t want to be in a big fight at a wedding


you made a promise to them that you'd go


not wanting to cuddle with my husband at bedtime

It's okay to want your own personal space.


Your partner never gets attention from you


you spend more of your waking hours dealing with people


everyone else has their own personal office


not wanting to go to class 30 minutes early

It's understandable to want to follow a normal schedule.


You don't want to disrupt your sleep cycle.


You willingly accept shifts that are when you're asleep usually.


Your schedule is altered by your illness or disability.


Random circumstances don’t allow for it to happen


It's bad to pretend to be something you are not.


You are trying to fit in with the wrong crowd


There's serious ramifications if you're caught doing it.


You are manipulating someone into a relationship.


asking my professor when the exam date is

It's good to keep informed about important dates.

It's someone's birthday that you don't like.


There are so many they become overwhelming.


You are a person;s secretary/personal assistant.


The dates are birthdays and anniversaries that are important to loved ones.


not immediately telling online contacts I'm a woman

It's wrong to lie about yourself online.


you do not want people to find out who you are


your going to try to get new friends with that identity.


sending a video of a bus driver running a stop sign

It's rude to try to get someone in trouble without hearing their side of the story first.

You saw video of them doing something wrong.


There's concrete video evidence that they're an arsonist.


You suspect they probably didn't actually do it.


You saw what happened with your own eyes.


You have no idea what actually happened.


yelling at my roommate for asking my girlfriend about her sexual preferences

It's wrong to ask the partner of a roommate about their sexual preferences.

You are doing a research study for class.


You all are in a mutually open relationship.


It is sad to pretend you care for someone.

You are trying to help a dementia patient who is confused about who you are.


pretending you care makes the other person feel good


You are trying to take advantage of someone


You are trying to negotiate a better salary.


you are trying to manipulate yourself out of a life threatening situation.


the person has hopes of an even closer relationship.


rejecting a friend and then ghosting our friendship

It's wrong to turn your back on your friends.

You are showing the graphic on the back of your jacket.


You can make a difference by helping them.


Your friends are only with you for your money


they are doing something you think is wrong.


they have never turned their backs on you.


putting a note on a guy's windshield? while's he's in the car. tailgaiting

It is typical to be upset when someone tailgates you.


It is an old person and they can’t see well


It is a young kid doing it and being stupid


They are creating dangerous road conditions.


telling my parents my little brother will never get better

It's OK to express your opinion about a family matter.


The matter has already been discussed and handled.


your opinion will just make the situation worse.


you think your opinion could be helpful.


removing a 'friend' off all my social media because they've completely ghosted me

It is expected that not all friendships will last.

Unless you put a lot of time and effort into all of them.


Especially if you make personal decisions they don't agree with.


playing a harmless joke on someone who forgot to log out of a school computer

It is important to practice cyber security.

You're a security expert and you're setting-up a honeypot server to catch cyber criminals.


You don't want your identity to be stolen.


You leave some vulnerabilities in order to do research on how to deal with them.


You have lots of sensitive information you need to protect.


you spend a lot of time on the internet.


telling some Contractor to fuck off and mind his own business

Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

What's going on seems to be becoming violent.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

What's going on seems to be a small dispute.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

The situation doesn't concern you at all.


You shouldn't laugh at inappropriate things.


The person you are laughing at is laughing along with you


you are laughing at your wife who is embarrassed and uncomfortable


you are alone where nobody else can hear.


it will hurt the feelings of people around you.


It's okay to look at a friend's skype account if they left it opened on the computer and walked away.

that private is private about their online business


they've let you use their Skype account before


They told you that you could look at their account.


They were clearly wanting to chat in private.


Your friend was talking to her doctor in a virtual visit.


The other person on Skype recognizes you and asks how things are going.


You think they are having an affair with your partner


telling my co-worker "don't talk to me" early in the morning

It is rude to tell someone not to talk to you.


They are trying to help you with your work.


You feel it is in the best interest for both of you to not speak.


They just called you to say happy birthday


You are doing something important that requires your full attention.


You are supposed to be available to the person for information.


Hypothesis: It's greedy to hoard food.


Hypothesis: It's greedy to hoard food.

You're taking food away from your family.


Hypothesis: It's greedy to hoard food.

You're preparing for an end of the world situation.


Hypothesis: It's greedy to hoard food.

You are stockpiling for a natural disaster.


Hypothesis: It's greedy to hoard food.

Others are going hungry and you won't share.


wearing headphones around talkative coworkers

Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.

They need your input to get their job done.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.

You are a doctor concentrating on saving a patients life.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.

You are all working on  team project together.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.

You are trying to get work finished for a deadline.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.

They are depending on you for your workflow.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.

Unless you are deeply involved in your work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.

Especially if you are unfamiliar with their work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your coworkers.


hanging out with my friend over my girlfriend

You should make time for your girlfriend.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


fact checking my bosses false claims of inadequate productivty

It's good to fact-check others if you suspect them lying.


They have a reputation for being truthful.


Their claims have a significant effect on you.


They're lying about something that doesn't matter anyway.


You think they might be lying on a job application to be a first responder.


You know it won't matter what the truth is they will still keep lying.


They are a politician you may be voting for.


They have never given you a reason to think they might lie.


not going to two weddings the same weekend

It's wrong not to go to a wedding if you were invited.

You cannot afford to go, as it is a destination wedding


You're either sick or were in a traffic accident while driving to the wedding.


You're also part of the ceremony, like a groomsman or bridesmaid.


Especially if you're in the wedding party.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be cautious of strangers.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be cautious of strangers.

The strangers are in positions of authority and are there to help and/or care for you.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be cautious of strangers.

You are in a rough neighborhood, alone, at night.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be cautious of strangers.

Unless you are in need of medical attention.


pulling out my phone at a customs checkpoint

You should be careful at custom's checkpoints so you don't get into trouble.


You are carrying drugs into another country


asking my sister to shut her door at night

You should try to respect your family's wishes

You're an adult and don't live with your family.


Your family wants you to do something illegal.


Your family's wishes are all for your prosperity and wellbeing.


your family has always tried to respect your wishes.


being reluctant to buy more booze during my own birthday party

You shouldn't be greedy when it comes to booze.

You paid for it and nobody else is around anyway.


You know someone is driving themselves home.


Hypothesis: It's okay to express your sexuality.


Hypothesis: It's okay to express your sexuality.

You're in your own home with your partner(s).


Hypothesis: It's okay to express your sexuality.

You might be harassed for your preference.


Hypothesis: It's okay to express your sexuality.

You've had to hide who you were in the past.


Hypothesis: It's okay to express your sexuality.

you're with someone you care about sexually


calling out people arguing on reddit as both being assholes, then subsequently Karma Whoring it here

Hypothesis: It's wrong to be mean to people online.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be mean to people online.

You don't want to start a flame war with them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be mean to people online.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be mean to people online.

You are on a "coping with depression" message board.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be mean to people online.

you are worried about getting in trouble.


being in a bad mood after grandpa was diagnosed with prostate cancer

It is typical to be in a bad mood when someone you love receives a bad health diagnosis.

You were told ahead of time that your upbeat attitude could make all the difference in your loved ones recovery.


You finally know what is wrong with the person after a lot of non diagnosis.


Unless you really want to cheer them up.


Especially if you are afraid of losing them.


You have to be positive for them to give them hope.


being in an poly relationship, but not allowing my girlfriends to have sex with other guys

If you're in an open relationship, you shouldn't expect your partner not to have sex with other people.


The two of you have an agreement that they will not sleep with anyone else.


telling my friend she wasn't sexually assaulted

You shouldn't judge someone's opinion as to whether they were sexually assaulted.

They are accusing someone who has a solid aliby.


They are still traumatized by the event.


You weren't there when the assault happened.


It's wrong to cut off a friend for several months.


You were in regular contact prior to that.


You're entering a long term rehab program.


Your friend is going through a difficult time in their life.


You're a sailor on a submarine that is cut off from communications for long periods of time.


The friend is toxic and you had to set healthy boundaries for yourself.


You never told them why you were cutting them off.


It's wrong to coerce your friends into doing unhealthy activities.


Your friends are all clean cut and don’t do bad things


They have done the same to you in the past.


Your friend has made it clear that they are against drinking and you keep offering them booze


They are on a diet and you're making them break it.


Hypothesis: You should be nice to your spouse.


Hypothesis: You should be nice to your spouse.

They trashed your car because you burned dinner.


Hypothesis: You should be nice to your spouse.

They cooked you a gourmet meal after a rough day at work.


Splitting Bills with my gf even though I earn way more than her

It's common for men to pay for the meal when out on a date.

The woman has offered to pay half to be fair.


The man is the one who asked the woman out.


You agree that you are splitting the meal


staying with a girl I don't see a future with

Hypothesis: Leading someone on is wrong

You are an undercover officer who is trying to catch sex traffickers.


Hypothesis: Leading someone on is wrong


Hypothesis: Leading someone on is wrong

You secretly want to be with that person.


Hypothesis: Leading someone on is wrong

You don't want to be with that person and others know it.


Hypothesis: Leading someone on is wrong

You're trying to negotiate a better salary or job.


Hypothesis: Leading someone on is wrong

The person wants to have children in the future.


Hypothesis: Leading someone on is wrong

It is preventing the other person from finding a true relationship


not shoveling the snow and telling my landlord it's his responsibility

It is expected that you will take care of the property exterior that you are renting.


You are told to leave that to the owners.


Your contract states you will do necessary repairs.


The landlord has hired a landscaping company to do it.


Your lease specifies that the landlord is responsible for all maintenance, interior and exterior.


You agree to handle maintenance in exchange for a reduction in your rent.


inadvertently making my friend loose his job

You should be careful so that an accident doesn't cause someone to lose a job.

Unless the person is a psychopath that has everyone convinced it is you and there is no other way to get rid of them.


The person is the sole support of a large family.


As long as you do not say anything hateful it is ok to be insensitive on social media.

You are talking to someone who is expressing suicidal thoughts or behaviors.


Others in the group are being insensitive to you as well.


Certain people are triggered by what you say


you are using racial slurs and bullying people.


You are talking to someone that suffers from a serious disease.


You are dealing with a person that is a member of a hate group.


breaking up with my actively suicidal girlfriend after she admitted she was underage to me

It is okay to want to date people over a certain age.


That age begins below the age of consent.


You are a minor and want to date people over 30.


You are in your 50's and only want to date those over 40.


you are still a minor and they are adults.


That age means they are as old as your parents


not getting a friend stay with me even though I already said they could

When you make a promise to a friend, you should keep it.

That promise was made when you were teenagers and you now realize how much things have changed.


They are counting on your to hold your end of the bargain


They are your best friend and you trust them


Circumstances change so that a better alternative appears.


Your friend is really depending on your assistance.


Your friend is counting on you to come through.


speaking Spanish to spanish lawn care workers

It's polite to speak to people in their native tongue if you're able to.


They have asked to speak in your language because they're trying to learn it.


Their culture would consider it an affront.


You want to make sure they understand what you are telling them.


You should not borrow money from someone if you do not intend to pay them back.


You need the money to pay for your rent.


they will have financial troubles with your repayment.


trying to stop my friend from putting more money into a trading business that seems like a scam

It's wrong to invest your money into possible scams.


You lost a fortune at the casino the night before.


not allowing a toxic girl to sit next to me for 24 hours on a school bus

It's wrong to not allow someone to sit next to you.


the only empty seat on a bus is next to you


You are saving the seat for your friend.


You can see there's no place else for someone to sit.


refusing to make my uncle anf uncle's girlfriend scarves

It is wrong to be unkind to family members


They are rude and try to manipulate you.


buying an item absurdly cheap because the person doesn't understand it's value

It's OK for a person to sell something cheaper than it's worth if they no longer have any use for it.


they barely have enough money to pay their bills


telling a "friend" to "shut his fucking plague-ridden mouth"

It's understandable that we get irritated with other people sometimes.


Everyone has been very nice to you today.


Everyone has been annoyingly loud all day.


They always need favors and never pay them back


asking my maid of honor to start taking care of herself more

It isn't unusual for a bride to ask a favor of their maid of honor.


She is in a hurry and doesn't need any favors.


She expects her to throw her a bridal shower.


There is no one else who can do the favor.


The maid of honor is too busy with other things.


The maid of honor has asked if there is anything that she needs.


texting my friend about a passenger on my flight

It's rude to talk about others behind their back.

You are planning a surprise party or a care package.


You pretend to be friends to their face.


accidentally outing someone to their friends

It is wrong to tell someone else's secret.


That secret will help someone else figure out if they are being cheated on


They have never told your secrets to anyone


that person confided in you not to tell anyone else


Keeping will result in the death and/or injury of someone.


It could someone's feelings for no good reason.


not wanting my mom in my room during the only free time of my day

It's okay to want to be alone during your free time.


You have children who hardly ever get to see you.


Your partner is asking for more time together.


You haven't had any time to yourself due to working longer hours.


keeping £500 of my college fund, which is meant for paying off my debt

You shouldn't take money from a fund that's meant for education.


You are using the money to buy something frivolous


It's for an educational experience for your children.


You don't want to have to pay for student loans until you're 50 years old.


forcing my brother to follow an established system

Sometimes it's good to give family a push in the right direction.

They are better at learning for themselves.


They are having difficulties and need time to gather themselves.


They have a great opportunity right in front of them.


commenting on my girlfriends breakfast choice

It's okay to offer a comment about someone's behavior that seems odd.


you are concerned about their mental state


They have a neurological disorder like Tourette syndrome since they can't control it.


They want to fit-in with the rest of society without being ridiculed.


The person looks like they are creeping on kids


raising my voice at my husband whom walked in on me making his Christmas gifts

It's understandable if a person gets upset at the potential spoiling of a surprise.

They weren't very good at keeping the secret.


They've spent a lot of time and money trying to plan it.


The surprise is something they have wanted for a long time


They spoiled something for someone else.


They've been looking forward to something for a long time.


going behind my closest friend's back to warn his girlfriend about some red flags I saw

You should make sure you are right about what you are thinking before approaching your friend about a possible problem with their girlfriend.


You suspect their girlfriend is cheating.


It could cause the end of their only relationship in their life.


you have irrefutable proof of a problem.  Like pictures.


You think their girlfriend is going to do something wrong that night.


You want your friend to take you seriously and not ruin your friendship


It is hurtful not to ask your boyfriend for advice first.


Advice about what? That's not true in most cases.


You are asking advice on how to get back at your boyfriend for cheating on you


Your boyfriend has expertise in the issue.


possibly overreacting and reporting this to the police

It is good to report crimes and wrong doing to the proper authorities

You're reporting children for lemonade stands.


you are repeatedly reporting petty things.


you are helping take bad people off the streets.


not wanting my roommates baby mama to live with us

It is okay to only want to live with people you are comfortable with.


It is not your home to make that decision.


You are in prison for doing something horrible.


It's expected that family will want to know more about you.


you've already told them everything about you


The family doesn't want anything to do with you.


being concerned with how much my girlfriend and best friend talk

You shouldn't be envious about your girlfriend having a friendship with one of your friends.

Unless you know your friend is interested in her.


Especially if your friend respects your relationship.


Your girlfriend has cheated on you in the past.


Your friend doesn't respect your relationship.


Your girlfriend has given you a reason not to trust her in the past.


It is your best friend you have known your whole life.


You know she loves you and you trust her.


It is nice to offer to get tea for your coworker sometimes.


They have gotten tea for you in the past.


Your coworker is always bringing you tea.


You are the boss and this could be seen as preferential treatment.


Your coworker is older or has physical issues.


inviting someone who my friend doesn't like to the boxing

Some friends don't get along, and it's considerate to be mindful of that when inviting them.

It is an important occasion like your wedding and you expect them to suck it for a few hours.


Those friends tend to get violent with each other.


You know they can suck it up and be adults in a room together.


They have had a physical fight in the past.


You want them to start fighting at your function.


There's a chance they'll likely start a fight if they get together.


It is bad to hold on to old relationships when you are in a new one

Your previous relationship gave you ptsd.


Your previous relationship ended many years ago.


You don’t really have strong feelings for the new person


The ex is trying to get back with you and causing problems with your current lover.


wanting my Gf to not have side conversations while on the phone with me

It's understandable to want someone's undivided attention during a conversation.


You are telling them something very important.


telling an awkward coworker he's coming on too strong

It's okay to point out to a coworker if he is acting bold.

It is your boss and he is giving a speech


He is in a position of higher authority.


His attitude is negatively affecting his coworkers.


You want the coworker to get in trouble.


You like your coworker and don't want them to get in trouble.


Your coworker is the CEO of the corporation you work for.


encouraging my girlfriend's art when I don't think it's that good

It's expected that you will be honest with your partner.


You are going to counseling to fix your marriage.


You're planning a surprise party for them.


They are getting a risky medical procedure.


You're trying to manipulate your partner.


You're trying to form a happy relationship together.


wanting my friend to stop being friends with another person

It is expected that people can pick and choose their own friends.

There are very few people in the immediate area.


There are many people who live in the same area.


You are underage and live with your parents still.


A child wants to be adults with an unknown stranger


It's understandable to want the people who live with you to chip in with finances.


You're working and make more than everyone else.


They're a child and they're still in school.


asking my sister to stop playing her Jesus songs so loud

It is anticipated that people will ask you to turn down the music if you are playing it too loud.


Your roommate is in the next room over, studying.


it is later and people are trying to sleep.


getting after my boyfriend about his driving

Your partner might resent you for pointing out their lack of driving skills.


They routinely almost get into accidents


You're trying to teach them how to drive so they can pass the driver license test.


It's good to share Netflix accounts with your family.


They share the account with others as well.


They share other streaming services with you.


getting my friend something she didn't want even though I owed her money

You should pay what you owe before giving gifts.


The place you owe money to will be aware of your gift giving.


punching a gay person for staring at my so

Hypothesis: You shouldn't punch people.

Those people are trying to commit a mass shooting.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't punch people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't punch people.

You are protecting yourself or someone else.


It's understandable to expect others to treat your things with respect.

they are small children who don't know any better.


you have explained that they should be respectful.


you have not shown any respect for the other people's things by borrowing their things and breaking/not returning them.


those people are your friends and understand how important your things are to you.


They are small children who don't know about respect.


You have treated their things with respect in the past.


not caring about my friend who got sexually harassed after she made everyone think I was a liar

Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about others.

You're trying to present them in a much better light to someone else.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about others.

You don't want someone to tell lies about you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about others.

You are trying to keep them out of trouble.


being disappointed with my girlfriend offering sex as a birthday present

You shouldn't use sex as a substitute for real affection.


You're not currently at a place in your life where you want a long-term relationship.


You don't have a lot of friends or a close relationship with your family, either.


you're trying to build a deep relationship with someone


thinking a guy in my community needs immediate and impactful intervention

It's good to want to take action to help a person caught self destruction.


the person is a child with a bright future


Interfering will make the situation worse.


that person could become a danger to you.


Calling someone something nasty makes you look aggressive and mean.

You are responding to being hurt by their actions


You are retaliating after staying silent for a long time.


It's good to lock your doors to keep intruders out.


It would also prevent help from getting to you and have a medical condition that you go to emergency to often.


There have been a lot of robberies in the neighborhood recently.


You just noticed your spouse in the driveway and they're bringing the pizza.


being straightforward with one of my closest friends

Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

You are using the truth as an excuse to be hurtful.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

You want to gain and keep a person's trust in you.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

You're telling the truth about someone's outfit in an unkind way.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

You're telling the truth to your partner about your feelings.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

It may threaten the welfare of your family.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

You may save a friend from making a mistake.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

An innocent person is in prison right now.


Hypothesis: It is okay to tell the truth.

It will lead to the capture of a dangerous criminal.


changing my name legally? I hate my name

It is okay to make changes in your life.


You see your life is not going how you want.


You have been living a self destructive lifestyle.


It's wrong to have your partner over when you are house sitting.

The owner of the house gave you permission to invite them over.


Your partner wants to have a big party at their house.


It's your mutual friend's house and they know.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

They are doing or saying inappropriate things.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

You are supposed to be assisting them as part of your job.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

You are on an airplane and a man won't stop showing you pictures of his kids.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

Your wife is nervous and chattering useless information to kill time while waiting for a medical test


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

that person is trying to help you with something


It's okay to get upset with your boyfriend, if you have a reason.

It is the anniversary of his sister's death.


He embarrassed you in front of your boss.


Your reason is based on misunderstandings.


Your reason is based on evidence of cheating.


He has apologized and tried to make it up to you.


You express your feelings in a calm constructive way.


You always blow things out of proportion


not wanting anything to do with my girlfriend's new friends that she made during the time my mum died

You should support your partner when their family member passes away.


Their family member was a bitter and abusive person.


Your partner loses their parent and they were really close to them.


They're happy that awful person is dead.


They were extremely close to that family member.


They weren't there for you when your father passed.


not telling my ex that I was hooking up with again that I slept with someone else

You should be honest about your past partners with a current partner.


You plan to have an open and honest relationship.


You both agreed to not talk about past partners.


The past partner is still involved in your life.


Your partner is your current partners sister


Your past relationships trigger your trauma.


You're past partners are related to your current partner.


You should be content with what you have.


You're better off than most people financially.


Your boss pays everyone else a lot more for the same job.


It's expected that you work with people you don't want to.


not wanting to go to a pride event with my gf

It's rude to not be there to support your significant other at an event that is important to them.


You don't have anything going on that day.


You have to work or can't find a babysitter.


You are out of town on a business trip for your work.


Your significant other is receiving a prestigious award.


not wanting my living space to be designed like a unicorn's 'flower power' puke

It's okay if you don't like certain designs.


You are paying an interior designer to improve your home


You're nitpicking due to wanting something you saw on TV.


You are picking out artwork for a museum that the general population is fond of.


You are picking out artwork for your own home.


not cooking for my family when they all left

It's okay to not want to do something that makes you uncomfortable

it is a required important medical procedure


It is medically necessary to save your life.


You are learning to say no and set boundaries.


you work in an emergency medical profession.


someone is making unwanted sexual advances.


thinking my best friend needs to grow up

It's ok to dislike some aspects of your best friend.


You use those things to tear them down and ruin their self esteem.


you're just doing it because you're jealous of them.


you're an honest friend that wants to see them grow.


Hypothesis: It is good to control your emotions.

You have been bottling it up for a long time.


Hypothesis: It is good to control your emotions.

You might say something you will regret.


Hypothesis: It is good to control your emotions.


Hypothesis: It is good to control your emotions.

You are confronting a coworker about something


not wanting to pay money for the damaged floor

It is okay to want to conserve one's money


You already have a huge trust fund and your neighbors are going to be homeless.


You need to pay the bills that are due now.


You want to have enough money for emergencies.


losing interest in my girlfriend for not having any romantic interactions

It's okay to lose interest in your significant other if they're not meeting your expectations.

They are hospitalized for a terminal illness.


You have been through couples counseling.


Your expectations are so high no one could meet them.


You have very basic expectations any adult should be able to meet.


You also aren’t attracted to them anymore


not investing enough time into my relationship

You should always invest time into your relationships.

Others in the relationships never invest time for you.


Your relationships are with your children.


You feel the relationship isn't working out.


It is understandable to be angry when someone lies to you.


They lied about things they did behind your back.


They are lying about being faithful to you.


You have made them so afraid of you that they didn't feel they could tell you.


It is your significant other doing the lying.


quitting a band with my longtime friend who struggles with depression and anxiety

It's normal to have difficulty meeting responsibilities if you are having psychological difficulties.


You don’t have a support system in place


you are on medication that helps you to think better.


you have not been taking medication that helps you.


those difficulties don't affect your ability to do so.


The responsibilities were set with your difficulties in consideration.


You are choosing not to address your issues.


publicly calling out a coworker on Slack for clipping their nails in the office

You should be upset with someone for talking bad about you publicly.

They obviously have no idea what they're talking about.


The try to turn your friends against you.


They are roasting you at an honorary event.


the bad things are so outrageous that they only make that person look stupid.


they are telling secrets they promised to keep.


What they're saying is true and you feel ashamed of it.


Especially if they reveal things you told them even though it was very emotionally painful.


breaking up with my girlfriend while at her family's house

It is disrespectful to cause drama while at your girlfriends family's house.


You're just making trouble to make trouble.


it is your first time meeting her family.


Your girlfriend's family is abusing her.


Your girlfriend's family was very inviting to you.


her family treats you in a racist manner.


You should understand that you will probably lose your job if you do not do it.


you have been slacking on your other work.


Your work on an assembly line will hold up everyone else.


Someone else had been fired for the same thing.


not wanting friend to crash in hotel room

It's wrong to just crash at someone's place.

That person said you could stay there any time you wanted.


agreeing with my friends that my wife is fat

It is rude to insult the spouse of a friend.


You are insulting them because of their appearance.


refusing to take pics of my daughter during dance class and keeping my mom away from class time

It's understandable that not everyone is a good audience member.


Some of those audience members are babies.


The audience is well behaved and courteous.


The audience is made up of your friends and family.


It's a comedy show and heckling is encouraged.


leading a double life and tricking my family

Hypothesis: It is wrong to deceive others


Hypothesis: It is wrong to deceive others


Hypothesis: It is wrong to deceive others

you're planning a surprise party for them


wanting to revoke my attendance at this bachelorette party completely

It's wrong to not attend an event you were invited to.


You don’t care about the people who invited you


yelling at my sons teacher and tell him to leave my son tf alone in front of his classmates

You shouldn't start arguments with others in public.

It is part of the entertainment at a themed event or place.


there is a possibility they are carrying a weapon.


Starting an argument in private could put you in danger.


You want to be respectful of your partner.


Not helping people at school can make you look antisocial.


You are only helping people by giving them your homework


You insult people for not understanding as quickly as you do.


being not sure if I should stay friends with somebody

When you are friends with someone it is expected that you will remain friends.

The person does something to betray you.


they do something that breaks your trust in them


you have been friends for a really long time


lying and trying to hide a boy from my best friend

Relationships are expected to not be secretive.


Everyone is supportive of you no matter what


you and your partner respect each other.


You need to protect them from the truth because you work for the CIA.


answering the Door for the Pizza Guy in my boxers

It is appropriate to get fully dressed before answering the door.

The person is being chased and needs to enter immediately.


you are trying to surprise your partner.


You know that it's just your partner at the door.


You know that it's a repairman at the door.


You hear your minor child screaming in pain on the other side.


You're not expecting anyone and you just got out of the shower.


No one can see that you aren't wearing pants.


refusing to even speak to my father anymore

It's expected that families maintain close relationships.


The family is loving and supportive of everyone.


Those families have abusive family members.


the family wants to have healthy relationships


dropping a friend after she treated me more like a therapist than a friend

Hypothesis: It is hurtful to drop a friend.


Hypothesis: It is hurtful to drop a friend.


Hypothesis: It is hurtful to drop a friend.

That friend is a criminal with no feelings.


telling my gay aquaintence that a person is not a homophobe if they use the word "fag" once

It's bad form to discuss your opinion on sensitive topics with acquaintances.


You are in a seminar on current social problems and how to resolve them.


You have polar opposite beliefs but want to remain friendly.


Your acquaintances brought the topic up.


You don't know where your acquaintances stand on the topics.


You're under a non disclosure agreement.


making my friend feel like shit after he told me I would be his "ideal girlfriend" but then in the same breath telling he's not attracted to girls who don't work out

It can confuse a partner when you tell them things which seem to be contradictory.


Your partner knows how to interpret your cautiousness into determination.


You say you want to start a family but then say this is not the right time.


you don't offer explanation for your points of view.


You're debating by playing the advocate.


It is good when you have good friends who will always be honest with you,

The friend is brutally honest in discussing flaws in your appearance.


You are relying on friends for advice in a difficult decision.


Their honesty includes telling you what they don't like about the way you dress and act.


Those friends are enabling toxic behaviors.


Those friends are enabling healthy behaviors.


no longer wanting to drive my boyfriend to the airport

It's good to help out a significant other when they need it.


asking my husband to stop looking at Instagram while I'm around

It's rude to browse social media when you're spending time with your partner.


You are looking for things to read to them.


You are checking what the weather will be like the next day


You are waiting for your partner to get out of the bathroom.


The two of you are watching a movie together.


getting mad about the recurring "when can we get a dog?" conversation

It's good to discuss things over with your family.


Especially if it's going to affect their lives.


not wanting my husbands to be BFF with his ex

It is okay to be uncomfortable with a partners past relationship.


You are letting it interfere with your current relationship.


His past relationship is with your friend.


asking my gf of 11 months to see her birthcontrol

It is important to discuss birth control.


Especially if you don't want to get pregnant.


You shouldn't call your friend bad names.


Your friend is trying to be courteous to you


not attending any future family (religious) events

Hypothesis: It's wrong not to attend family events.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to attend family events.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to attend family events.

Doing so would cause a potentially violent disruption.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to attend family events.

Aging relatives want to see you for possibly the last time.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to attend family events.

You don't like spending time with family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to attend family events.

you aren't going just because you are lazy.


telling my girlfriend that I don't want her sister to come over to our apartment

You should let your partner's family over to your house sometimes.


your partner's family always makes a mess of it


you don't get a lot of opportunities to see them


wanting my boyfriend to take off his shirt

It's wrong to demand things of your partner.


you don't want your partner to do the same to you.


Your partner has stolen something of yours.


You're demanding intimacy from your partner.


Your partner doesn't do anything for the relationship.


Hypothesis: It's good to get plenty of sleep.

You need to be up often to feed a new born.


Hypothesis: It's good to get plenty of sleep.


Hypothesis: It's good to get plenty of sleep.

You have a mentally demanding test tomorrow


Hypothesis: It's good to get plenty of sleep.

You have to perform surgery in the morning.


Hypothesis: It's good to get plenty of sleep.

You need to plan for a tight work deadline.


Hypothesis: It's good to get plenty of sleep.

You have to perform surgery on a patient the next day.


trying to prove my friend that he's contradicting himself in an argument

It's okay to want someone to see things the same way you do.


You want them to become more peaceful and kind.


You are not doing your research and have no idea what you are talking about.


voicing my displeasure towards a "Cop" rather aggressively

It's okay to stick up for what you believe even to those who are considered authority figures.

You physically assault a police officer in the process.


Especially if the authority figures are corrupt.


You're in a repressive country and that could get you killed or jailed.


cussing out my in-laws for going through my luggage

It's okay to be angry if someone violates your privacy.

You're an inmate in prison and that is to be expected.


You're in your own house bedroom all alone.


You asked them not to go through your things.


it's the police and you've brought it on yourself by committing a crime


it's someone you trusted to give you privacy


still playing music moderately loud after my neighbor complained about my noise level

If someone asks you to do something, you should oblige.

they are asking you to do something you are not comfortable with doing.


you asked them if there is anything you can do to help.


They are your parent and you're a child.


What the person is asking you to do is immoral.


they are asking you to do something illegal.


Hypothesis: It's rude to honk at strangers.

The stranger is paying no attention to where he is going and is about to wander into traffic.


Hypothesis: It's rude to honk at strangers.

The strangers are a group of teenagers and you are a lot older than they are.


Hypothesis: It's rude to honk at strangers.


Hypothesis: It's rude to honk at strangers.

They can't even move yet because the car in front of them hasn't moved yet.


Hypothesis: It's rude to honk at strangers.

The strangers are holding a sign encouraging you to honk.


Hypothesis: It's rude to honk at strangers.

You're honking because you're attracted to the stranger.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fart on people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fart on people.

You are sitting on someone's lap and accidentally pass gas.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fart on people.

you are unable to stop the fart from coming out.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fart on people.

you are meeting them for the first time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fart on people.

They are your pastor and you are in church.


feeling no remorse or sympathy towards a depressed and (maybe) suicidal girl who cheated on my best friend three times

People are expected to be supportive of their friends.

their friends are playing a sport that they don't like.


Their friends are undermining themselves


Their friends tried to push them out a window.


they are doing something illegal or immoral


the friends are going through a hard time


expecting my roommate to do her own dishes

Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.

You are being bullied into doing something you don't want to.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.

you're being treated poorly by your boss


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.

Someone accuses you of something you didn’t do


Hypothesis: It is important to discuss sex issues.


Hypothesis: It is important to discuss sex issues.

You're discussing them with your partner.


Hypothesis: It is important to discuss sex issues.

You are discussing this with someone who is not mature


telling my parents not to go to a grandmother's funeral because the place is unsafe

You should offer suggestions to your parents, not tell them what to do.

Your parents are refusing to leave your home.


they have asked you what they should do and will respect your opinion.


they didn't ask for your advice in the first place.


They are baking a cake using your recipe.


They have more experience than you.= in a certain field.


They have asked you to inform them of what to do.


telling my friend that he might not be able to make a living off of his art

It is wrong to crush another persons dream.

The dream is about creating a drug empire.


you are protecting them from being hurt.


it is impossible to achieve and you want them to realize that.


they are slowly working towards it and can achieve it.


They want to be a football star and are afraid of getting hit.


telling my cousin I don't want to go on a last minute trip because her friend is coming

Hypothesis: It is bad to let someone down

Their expectations of you are unreasonable.


Hypothesis: It is bad to let someone down

Their expectations of you are reasonable.


Hypothesis: It is bad to let someone down


Hypothesis: It is bad to let someone down

you have an emergency and can't help it.


Hypothesis: It is bad to let someone down

They were counting on you to be somewhere and you promised.


Hypothesis: It is bad to let someone down

You are lowering them from a cliff on a rope.


Hypothesis: It is bad to let someone down

They count on you to put food on the table.


Not going to a funeral might make your loved ones think you don't care.


You are serving in the military overseas on the date of the funeral.


You live near where the funeral is taking place.


they know you are very scared of funerals.


you don't tell anyone why you aren't going.


Hypothesis: It is OK to get mad at people.

You're getting mad at something reasonable.


Hypothesis: It is OK to get mad at people.

You're getting mad at something unreasonable.


Hypothesis: It is OK to get mad at people.


Hypothesis: It is OK to get mad at people.

they have done nothing wrong to deserve it.


trying to change the date of a Bachelor Party

You should always consider that you're not the only one attending a party.

You are throwing yourself a birthday party.


You're having it and you didn't invite anyone.


Someone rented a large ballroom to host it.


you were told you were going to be the only one there


giving my ex wife a large amount of money I won despite the anger of my gf

It's wrong to disrespect your partner's wishes.

their wishes go against your religious beliefs


Your partner has made a major health decision.


it is something they feel very strongly about.


Your partner is making unreasonable demands.


Your partner is making reasonable demands.


It's acceptable to drink on your night off.


You are neglecting other responsibilities.


You don't have anything to do the next morning.


You are a parent and need to watch the kids.


You are an adult and have had a stressful week.


denying emotional labour to an ex in the throes of drug abuse

It is wrong to turn your back on someone in trouble.

they're robbing a store but you do not want to be a part of it


They are a fugitive running from the cops.


Their car stalled out on a deserted road.


shouting at a woman for taking a week off every month

You shouldn't raise your voice to people even if you're upset.

You are trying to alert them about a fire.


There is an emergency that requires immediate attention


You are trying to find a resolution to a problem


you are trying to be heard at a loud sporting event.


you are in the audience watching a play.


It is the only way to get their attention.


You want them to actually listen to you.


lying to my girlfriend about my previous history

You don't have to tell anyone about your past if you don't want to do so.

You are interviewing at a place with a background check.


It is required for a job or job clearance.


You have turned over a new leaf and don't want others to know you were in prison.


They are a lawyer trying to represent you the best they can in a case


You are surrounded by casual acquaintances


just going for world travel (undefined timeline) and stopping taking care of all the admin/financial aspects of my mom

Children should always be willing to help their parents.

They are abusive and are afraid of them.


The parents are not able to perform certain tasks themselves.


Their parents are trying to use child labor.


Their parents are asking for trivial things.


They took care if you when you were little


You should listen to other people about potential dates.


You are content being single and not seeking a relationship.


You have a history of poor taste in partners.


Your friend has never been on a date but is giving you advice.


Their criteria for potential dates is antithetical to yours.


You have a habit of dating married people.


They have no dating experience themselves.


telling a friend that our mutual friend doesn't like him

It's bad to start gossip about one friend to another friend.

The gossip is about planning their upcoming birthday.


They have trusted you with secrets in the past.


You are trying to build up their reputation.


You are just concerned about them and looking for your friend's opinion on the gossip.


putting my former sexual abuser on blast on the internet

It's not nice to expose online someone, even if they are a horrible person.


You will be considered the horrible person.


It's important to do so to protect others from being harmed.


They don't pose any threat to anyone else and all that will result is their embarrassment.


They are a pedophile who is trying to victimize small children on the internet.


The horrible person is a child pornographer.


Your problem with them is strictly personal and they did not commit a crime against you.


recommending a new employee iron her clothes

It's hurtful to point out problems with a coworker's attire.


They're losing the company sales because customers are upset.


Your coworker can't afford many clothes.


wanting a night off before a meeting and long day

It is lazy to take time off when you have a lot of work to do.


there is no good reason to take time off.


You need to recharge your batteries before you can tackle it all.


You're already been procrastinating for a long time and are just pushing the work out again.


You are reaching stress overload and are becoming less productive because of it.


There is no one who can fill in for them.


You have been working for so many hour that your brain needs a break


You have to pay rent in a few days and were offered overtime.


possibly betraying both my friends feelings

It is wrong to take actions that cause harm to others


By harming them you will save their life.


you are fighting a mugger in self defense


you love the people you harm and don't want them to leave you


you are protecting your home and family.


asking my girlfriend to show a prospective buyer my couch when I wasn't home

It is rude to try and make someone else sell your things for you.


you are not compensating them for their time.


you want them to do it but also for free


Especially if you don't offer them an incentive.


You are not expected to date someone you do not like.


The person makes you feel uncomfortable to be around them.


you have committed to an arranged marriage


Hypothesis: You shouldn't touch your coworkers.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't touch your coworkers.

You and your coworkers are actors in a romantic film.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't touch your coworkers.

You are an adult and you work in a store with a bunch of teenagers.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't touch your coworkers.

you are shaking their hands in congratulations


Hypothesis: You shouldn't touch your coworkers.

Your job involves demonstrations of ballroom dancing.


feeling uncomfortable and not hugging an autistic person at a convention

You are right to refuse physical contact with anyone who you do not want it with.


They are performing the Heimlich Maneuver to save your life.


The person is a police officer detaining you.


that physical contact is during a football game and they are trying to tackle you during a play.


the person trying to touch you is a stranger.


getting upset with my fiancé's parents for being overly accommodating

It is okay to express your frustrations with situations.


There is a problem with the buses and subways.


You are in private with a trusted friend or partner


You are a student and in the middle of taking an exam.


You express frustration by talking about it.


excluding my coworker from lunch break activities

It can be okay to want some personal space when at work.

you are in the middle of a team project and the deadline is tomorrow.


The team needs a meeting about a deadline.


You boss says that you have to work in a group


You want to have quiet time to finish a project


You work with the public in a retail setting.


It's OK to not like a gift you received during the holidays.


Especially if no thought went into it at all.


The gift comes from your small child who made it themselves.


it was something very expensive you asked for.


no longer wanting to drive my boyfriend to the airport

It's understandable to not want to do too many favors for someone.


They refuse to do anything for you in return.


that someone always does favors for you when you need them


that person is your child and you're worried about spoiling them


They are truly in a desperate situation and you love them dearly.


You fear that you'll be enabling their dependence on you and not helping them in the long run.


they are ungrateful for the things you do for them