You find that you are not compatible based on ethical values.


ghosting a guy because of his taste in films

It's fine to choose not to pursue a relationship with someone, for any reason.

unless the person is a dependent child and you are ignoring them


you have told the person before to leave you alone


telling my ex 'no' to hanging out with friends

You should let your ex hang out with your friends.


your ex has a lot of secrets they're trying to share with people


not telling my roommate what happened to his cat

It's good to be honest with your friends.


They ask you how they look before a date


They are seeking your advice on a problem.


You want to avoid confrontation at all costs.


You want the friendships to last a long time.


You're trying to plan a party for them as a surprise.


You are talking about something serious.


putting a dog poop bag sidewalk and picking it up on my way home

It's good to clean up after your animals.

You are trying to get back at someone by having your dog poop on their lawn.


you use the excrement in your garden outside.


you want to keep your home smelling and looking clean.


They're pooping in the wilderness where no one will see it.


wanting to quit a job where I'm treated like shit and leave crying most days

Hypothesis: It's okay to not like your job.

You continually pass up other job offers to stay there.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like your job.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like your job.

That means you put other people's lives at risk, like not paying attention when you're an air traffic controller.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like your job.

You need the job to be able to pay for basic expenses like rent and food.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like your job.

I cannot think of a circumstance in which a private opinion about one's employment would be invalid.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like your job.

it affects how well you actually do your job.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like your job.

You dislike it because it's not close to home.


sleeping with someone after having a first date with someone else

Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

You are married in a monogamous relationship.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

Getting caught can get you expelled from college.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

it's encouraged by your teacher for a test


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

other people are trying to accomplish the same thing with honest work


Husbands and wives should have an equal distribution of housework

The husband or wife works very long hours


one has a physical, mental, or emotional issue that precludes them from housework.


they want to have a healthy relationship.


they discussed it and reached an agreement on a different distribution.


not lending my friend cash to pay for her tuition fee

You can't expect those close too you to always be taking care of you financially.

You have a severe medical issue where you are bed ridden


You are physically or mentally disabled.


wanting to invite a friend to my birthday that another friend doesn't get along with

You shouldn't invite a friend over at the same time you invite another friend over that they don't like.

You have made sure that it's okay with both of them.


They get in a physical altercating whenever they're around each other.


You are trying to mediate their differences.


A fistfight broke out at your home between them.


You're trying to hash out their disagreement with each other.


You know they're likely to start screaming at each other.


not interacting with my mother in a year

It's understandable that sometimes, people don't want to be close to their parents.

Their parents have been nothing but helpful and kind.


The parents have done everything they could to be good parents.


Their parents have always been loving and supportive.


Their parents were neglectful and abusive.


Their parents treat them with great respect.


Their parents always loved and supported them


It is rude to criticize someone for needing clarification.

they were rude in requesting clarification


they refused to listen to the explanation the first time.


they are trying really hard to understand a subject.


You already provided clarification numerous times previously.


they're only asking for clarification to be disruptive


It's expected that friends should support one another.


One of the friends is taking advantage of the other.


You can see your friend is struggling and has helped you in the past.


One of them is in prison and can't intervene.


They both feel the same way about the issue.


not wanting to look after a drunk friend when going out

It's wrong not to look after your friends when they need help.

They need so much help that looking after them would hurt you way too much and/or they're using you.


You have the ability to help them without hurting yourself and they are honest.


you have your own dire circumstances to attend to.


they have directly asked you to help because of your expertise.


You're in distress too and don't have the ability to help them.


You could easily help them solve their problems.


They have asked for help too many times without appreciating it.


asking my gf to let me sleep alone once to recover health

It's okay to ask your partner to let you have some time alone.

Your partner is recovering from surgery and needs your help.


You work the same shift and are always home at the same time.


You are not feeling well and should rest


You made plans to do something together that evening.


You are going through something difficult.


your partner is sick and needs your support


having the bouncer kick a girl out of the club

You shouldn't get someone else kicked out of a club.


They are just dancing and minding their own business.


That person is going around trying to pick fights.


You lie about what they did that requires kicking them out.


calling everyone in the service industry "sir" or "maam"

People really appreciate it when you show them respect and courtesy.

You're only doing it to be condescending.


They're already having a bad day, and you weren't obligated in any way to show them respect and courtesy.


The people have asked you to stay away from them.


they are from a culture that is different from yours.


getting mad when my friend blocked me cuz she didn't want me in her life

Hypothesis: You shouldn't block your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block your friends.

They are causing problems for you or harming you in  some way.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block your friends.

You want your friends to like you and wish to become closer with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block your friends.

They just went through a bad breakup and need emotional support.


learning that a girl I've been seeing for 2 months is pregnant and telling her I want an abortion

You should always engage in safe sex if you don't want to have children.


You and your partner both decide you don't want to be safe.


you're still deciding about your plans in terms of children


not wanting to pay my roommate five dollars

You're expected to pay back money you owe.


not buying my girlfriend weed during her panic attack

It is wrong not to support your loved ones in need

your loved ones have betrayed you in the past


your loved ones are always there for you


they have not been there for you in the past.


being there for them will help them to recover.


They have supported you when you were in need.


they are just looking for money to support their drug habit.


they are sick or injured and in need of assistance.


not wanting to have anal sex with my boyfriend

Hypothesis: It's bad to pressure people sexually.


Hypothesis: It's bad to pressure people sexually.


Hypothesis: It's bad to pressure people sexually.

its done in role play with prior consent


confronting my gf about telling her 2 friends and 2 sisters about every major and minor event in her life

It's good to have friends and family to lean on.


Your friends and family have been abusive to you.


inadvertently making my friend loose his job

You shouldn't do something that may cause someone to be fired.


They have hurt you and mean to cause you harm.


They have helped you and been there for you.


they didn't show up for work because of a family emergency.


That person is clearly abusing their authority.


That person is doing their job to the best of their abilities.


That person is a menace and should be fired.


The person hasn't done anything to be fired.


using my friend as motivation to be a better person

It's good to be motivated to be a better person.


ignoring my ex-best friends cry for help

Some people are never worth trying to help.

they are actively trying to live a good life.


they are serial killers who don't want to stop.


I honestly can't think of a way to undermine such a definite statement


The person has never improved their behavior


This phrasing is so awkward to anything with.


they have specifically demanded no help.


You know that they're just in a bad place right now.


They have rejected all help out of pride


being highly insulted by the bare minimum refund I was given by a company, and demanding a much bigger one

You should be refunded for what is owed to you.


the time period for the refund has expired


You deliberately misused the product you bought.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want your photo taken.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want your photo taken.

its with random friends you don't know well


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want your photo taken.

Someone is invading your privacy in doing so.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want your photo taken.

It is for something official like your driver's license.


wanting to split up with my so because my physical attraction to her has diminished, and being honest if she asks why? this woman is otherwise perfect (career, stable, caring, etc.) I'm a solid 8/10 overall, I don't think my standards are too high, I know looks fade, etc

It's okay to break up with someone if you no longer find them physically attractive.


you've addressed the issue with them and worked on it


You were just recently married and have children.


You just started seeing that person and have only been together a short period.


It's very unlikely you could attract someone you liked better.


You also don't have much in common with them.


You are no longer physically attractive as well.


Hypothesis: Exchanging a gift is okay.


Hypothesis: Exchanging a gift is okay.

You stick to the agreed amount to spend.


cutting my daughter off financially but not my Son

It is rude to favor one kid over another.


One kid has supported you in a time of need while the other did not.


One kid is yours and the other is a stranger.


being annoyed at my girlfriend pulling faces

You should try to love everything about your significant other.


Their faults and quirks are the reason you're with them.


they have an abusive and dangerous side.


It's understandable to not like eating vegetables.


Unless your parent is an excellent cook who spices and cooks them properly.


not wanting to continue my distance relationship for another 2 years

You're expected to put extra effort into long distance relationships.

you work long hours and can't afford the time to do so


you are deployed on a mission in the military


You are both able to be independent without the other person.


You are freshly long distance and everything is new.


yelling at my mom for lying about getting my Bearded Dragon a bigger tank

It's not okay to lie to people, especially people close to you.


Knowing the truth would cause them great emotional pain.


You're hiding the fact that you did something to hurt them.


You know you can trust the people you care about


refusing to let my drunk friend into my house and threatening to call the cops when she wouldn't leave

You should contact police to help with problems you cannot control.

The police are corrupt and likely to make your problem worse.


The police are professional and reliable.


These problems have nothing to do with the law


it's not a problem that police can help you with.


The problems are trivial and not illegal.


the problems have nothing to do with the law or any sort of crime.


it involves someone committing a criminal act.


telling my so not take a trip to see her sick grandpa

It's bad to control what your partner does.

they have a lot of bad habits that you need help controlling.


Unless your partner has no self control.


Especially if you don't want your partner controlling you.


what they are doing might cause immediate harm to themselves or others.


you want them to grow as a person and learn to make their own decisions.


It's good to want what's best for an animal.


the animal is young and still developing but sick


You are trying to sell your animals as fast as possible


The animal is suffering from abandonment.


not wanting to help pay the monthly family phone bill

It is wrong not to contribute to a utility that you use.

You had agreed on the arrangement beforehand.


You are paying for the other utilities alone.


You are the biggest user of that utility.


You are a child who is too young to work.


You are splitting expenses with a roommate.


not "supporting the developers" of a free game

It's rude to not support someone giving you something for free.


they are happily trying to help you with something you really need.


It is a pamphlet they hand to you on the street.


They are helping you to achieve something.


It is expected that a good friend will tell you if your breathe smells.

It is first thing in the morning and they know you haven't brushed your teeth for the day yet.


Your friend knows it will embarrass you.


telling my friends bf to break up with her and now secretly dating him

You shouldn't do things behind your friend's back.

You are trying to buy them a surprise birthday cake


You have been friends with them since childhood


You are planning a surprise birthday party for them.


You are planning a surprise party for your friend.


You are saying mean things about your friend.


You are throwing them a surprise birthday party.


They would feel betrayed to know what you are up to.


you are planning a surprise birthday party for her.


not waking up my wife and kids when my parents came over

It's okay to want people you care about to get some rest.


there is an important deadline they need to help meet


they work really hard to help you out with things


they can afford some time to take a break


not wanting to be friends with someone anymore over a concert ticket

You shouldn't let a concert ticket get in the way of a friendship.

You don't really enjoy being friends with that person.


You don't even especially like the band.


They owe you money for the ticket and are refusing to pay you back.


It's a concert you aren't even excited about.


your friend is being incredibly petty about the concert


the musician playing the concert will play somewhere else you can attend


You bought it and your friend stole it from you.


calling a song one of my friends likes lame

It's acceptable that you won't share the same song preferences as your friend.

you and your friend are the same person.


You and your friend are in the same band.


You like totally different styles of music.


They're absolutely obsessive about music.


You coordinate a playlist together of your joint favorites.


You each buy and download songs separately.


choosing to spend Christmas with my girlfriend's parents instead of my own

It is important to spend time with both families when you are in a relationship.

one of the families is too far away to spend time with


you want to have a good balance from both sides of the family


one of your family trees has really bad apples in it


Both partners are active members of their families.


One of the families does not approve of the relationship.


You plan to be with your partner for the rest of your life.


The other person's family doesn't approve of you or the relationship.


They both are both in close proximity to each family.


trying and convincing my friends to use contraception

It's good to use contraception so you don't get pregnant.

The other person is allergic to that type of contraception.


The person has had many children and is quite fertile.


You are not financially able to care for a child.


going out on St Paddy's day even though my fiancee is pregnant

Pregnant women shouldn't go to events where there is a lot of drinking.


She can control herself and be sure she won't drink.


They would be tempted to drink the alcohol.


It's for their baby shower or they're very disciplined.


They don't want to be tempted or affect the baby adversely in any way.


There are non alcoholic options available.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your friends


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your friends

They are across a field and couldn't hear you otherwise.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your friends

They can't hear you from where they are at.


suggesting to my boyfriend he not give his parents money every time they ask him for some

You should help your struggling family members when they are in need.


they are never doing anything to help themselves.


you are the parent and they are your child.


they are drug addicts that refuse to get help.


your family members need money for criminal things


your family members would do the same for you


wanting to meet with my friends without my GF when back for a month being in a long distance relationship

You shouldn't expect to hang out all the time with your partner and their friends.


You have to be with your partner for medical reasons.


You have nobody else to hang with and they keep inviting you.


Your partner has expressed a wish to have time alone with his friends.


not revealing that I have a disability before a first date

You should always reveal the truth about you before a first date.

you believe the truth will cause the date to fail.


you suspect your date already knows the truth.


it would not be appropriate to bring up on a first date.


it is something they will find out soon.


you want to avoid misconceptions about yourself


you don't think it's going to go anywhere with the other person


you plan to marry the person you're on a date with


You are only interested in going out with the person one time.


You want the date to lead to a relationship.


doing a sort of silent treatment to my gf

It's good to be aware of appropriate boundaries that you need in a relationship.


You and the other person have agreed not to set any boundaries.


You have been hurt in the past and you are trying to protect yourself.


You want to have a successful relationship


stopping talking to my friend because her boyfriend was a dick to me

It's wrong to be a jerk to your partner's friends.

They are trying to ruin your relationship with your partner.


They have always treated you with respect.


Their friends do not like you for no reason


Their friends are trying to be welcoming to you


It's bad to let insurance coverage lapse.


It's something like a car where the law requires you to have insurance.


You no longer need that type of insurance.


You're at high risk for the type of problem that insurance covers.


you are certain nothing will happen during the lapse.


It's good to move on after a relationship.

You still want to find a way to make the relationship work.


You and your ex have joint custody over a child.


you think that there is still something there.


being annoyed that I was left out of travel plans

You shouldn't leave people out of your plans.


they have already told you they have other plans.


you are doing something you know they really enjoy.


The people aren't nice to you very often.


they don't leave you out of their plans.


These people don't contribute to your well being.


It is bad to be bluntly honest with other people.


A woman asks you how her pants make her look.


You don't know them and they didn't even ask for your opinion.


it is something you know they won't take well.


asking my brother to wait to propose to his GF

It's okay that sometimes we think we know what is best for someone.


we force our opinions on them when they are not wanted.


we have life experience in the same situations.


You don't like the person and only have negative thoughts about them.


You love and support them and only want the best.


You are very responsible in your own life


trying to gently suggest to my boyfriend to eat better and take care of himself

It is good to take care of yourself so you can be healthy.

You are spending too much money on food.


you are a child and need someone to take care of you


you find that physical health is not important to you


you wish to live a long and prosperous life


asking my wife if she's hiding something

It's understandable that people don't always want to tell everyone everything.


They are reality stars who get paid for telling.


People respect privacy and want their privacy maintained.


they don't know the other people all that well


there is something sensitive they are trying to keep to themselves.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore others.

it benefits your mental health to do so.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore others.

They are trying to pick a fight with you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore others.

They are warning you that a car is headed right at you.


being late to come home my girlfriend is a bitch to me so I just dont come home or come later

It's okay not to want to be treated poorly by a partner.


It's good to be honest with friends if you're not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with them.


You want to continue to be friends with them.


Your friends have never seemed to think you were interested in them romantically.


Your friends have been acting in a way that suggests they're interested in you.


They have not indicated a romantic interest in you.


You think they will try to kill you over the rejection.


It's fine to refuse to let anyone drive your car.

There is a medical emergency and someone needs to get to the emergency room.


someone needs to be rushed to the hospital


You are drunk and need someone to drive your car home.


It is part of the fleet at the car rental agency you own.


You have a medical emergency and need driven.


You should be more respectful toward your family.


Your family disowned and kicked you out of the house.


Your family supports you during tough times.


Your family always did their best for you.


They have been rude to you for no specific reason.


be annoying when a friend calls himself a veteran

It's fine to be annoyed with a friend who lies.


They keep doing when when you ask them not to.


They had no real reason to lie about the subject.


That friend tells harmless white lies to spare your feelings.


That friend lied about something really important to you.


They were hiding a surprise party from you.


not wanting to give my boyfriend all my passwords

It is expected that you trust your significant other

They have lied and cheated in the past with no remorse.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


they have been lying to you and you have proof.


they have always been truthful with you before.


They've always been trustworthy in the past.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be lazy.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be lazy.

you are being paid to work and you are on the job.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be lazy.

You have overworked yourself and need a day off.


shit talking a toxic "friend" and not comforting her when she has a problem

It's good considered to be good when a friend comforts others during their times of need.


that person has asked for comfort and understanding


the friend is being comforted after committing a premeditated violent crime


you are hindering them from moving forward.


A friend wants privacy and her immediate family.


A friend needs to talk about her immediate family.


getting mad at work and probably leaving because I wasn't even interviewed for a minor promotion? I had trained for the job for over a year. the new boss hired someone she knew from another location

Working hard doesn't always mean you will get a promotion.

you happen to be in the right place and at the right time


Others have seniority and work just as hard


asking my bf to delete old pictures off his facebook

If someone asks you to delete pictures of them from social media, you must comply.


the person has warrants out against them for their arrest


They signed their rights to the photo to you to publish.


You are putting them on blast for cheating on you


It is your significant other and the pictures are embarrassing


Your computer is broken and you can't access the pictures.


You are the one that posted the pictures.


When your friend starts dating your ex, it's okay to be angry.

Your friend asked your permission first.


You suspect they got together before you officially broke up


not wanting my boyfriend around my friends

It is rude to exclude your boyfriend from your social life.

They are being rude to your circle of friends.


They are well liked by your friends and they want to join.


You're doing it since you're secretly embarrassed of him


He has asked to spend more time with you and your friends.


He picked a fight with your friends at dinner last week.


getting upset at my boyfriend for not being willing to help me unless my brother also helped me

Your partner should be willing to help you with your problems.

They have no experience dealing with them.


your problems center around things that are illegal.


Your problems asre triggering for your partner.


Your problems are something your partner has experience with.


Quitting your job may make you look like you give up too easily.


You have a history of quitting when you are inconvenienced.


You haven't been working there for very long.


you have always bounced from job to job.


"canceling" my party so my friend wouldn't show

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cancel important events.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cancel important events.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cancel important events.

People have already arrived for the event.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cancel important events.

Your sibling calls you and says they are in trouble.


refusing an Ambulance after Doctor insisted on it

You should always respect what a doctor says.


The doctor is telling you bad information.


you have seen the results and know he's got your best interests at heart.


You get a second opinion and the two doctors don't agree with each other.


You have been seeing the doctor for a long time.


They have been practicing medicine for years


the doctor has been sued multiple times for fraud and malpractice


getting upset at my stepmom after she threw away my property that I had an emotional connection to

It is understandable to have an emotional connection to a possession.


the possession was a part of an important part of your life


That possession is brand new and you just bought it.


Someone important gave you the possession.


it belonged to a deceased family member.


not wanting to help my disabled friend anymore

Not helping a friend is a great way to set boundaries.

you don't make it clear why you're not helping


they have helped you out with the same request before.


they tend to take advantage of people in general.


They have taken advantage of you before.


They always expect you to drop everything for them


They do not show you appreciation for helping them.


Having patience with your sibling is expected.

That sibling has broken your trust too many times before.


You have explained something to them 10 times already.


they are making you late for an appointment.


accidentally revealing private information to my boyfriend's roommate's ex

It is rude to reveal other people's secrets.

It is life changing to the person having the secret kept from them.


The secrets are of illegal activity and you are morally obligated to do so.


The secrets are those of your close friends.


It's expected that people be respectful of their neighbors.

The neighbor has loud parties every night.


The neighbor shares their barbecue every time they have a party.


their neighbors are deliberately rude to them


the neighbors show a pattern of incivility.


The neighbor is extremely rude and disrespectful.


Your neighbor sits on his porch yelling slurs at you.


Your neighbor is 84 years old and has no family and just wants to chat.


being wishy-washy when it comes to my crush

It's okay to be a little shy when you're just getting to know someone.


They're an acquaintance of another friend.


being frustrated at my gf for sleeping in calls with someone else every night

You should practice compassion towards others, especially if you're dating them.

The person you are dating is always mistreating you and needs to be dumped.


You are dating someone who has experienced a death in the family.


They lack any other form of kindness towards them.


you should always show compassion to others


they're going through difficult circumstances


refusing to replace a drink that my toddler knocked over because the girl was rude

You should be responsible for your children.


You want to prove you are a responsible parent


Your children are adults who can handle their own consequences.


Your children are too young to think for themselves completely.


They are over eighteen and live in another state.


not sharing my inheritance with my sister

Hypothesis: It is hurtful to exclude your siblings.


Hypothesis: It is hurtful to exclude your siblings.


Hypothesis: It is hurtful to exclude your siblings.

You are at a carnival and they are too young to ride the rides.


Hypothesis: It is hurtful to exclude your siblings.

Your siblings are trying to spend more time with you


Hypothesis: It is hurtful to exclude your siblings.

it's something they've been looking forward to


refusing to allow someone I never met at my wedding

Since its your wedding you should have final say on who is invited.

your spouse has a good reason for not inviting someone.


Unless you are not allowing your fiance a choice.


Especially if your mother is trying to control it.


you would omit certain friends who should be there


Your fiance really wants them to attend.


Both you and your fiance loathe that person.


getting carpool with two female colleagues

It's good to reduce the number of cars on the road by carpooling.


You are trying to cut down on gas expenses


Unless you have too much luggage to carpool.


The people in your carpool are not reliable.


You and your neighbors all work in the same area and have similar schedules.


There are many shady characters living in your town.


Recent roadwork has closed down several lanes.


leaving after waiting to pick up my girlfriend for 30 minutes

You shouldn't leave someone waiting for you.


Unless you need to drive someone to the hospital.


They showed up to your house earlier than you told them to be there by.


Your business meeting runs over and you can't leave.


You're just wasting time gossiping with your friends.


Your phone breaks and you have no way to get in touch.


You are meeting up to complete an important project.


It's wrong to intentionally hurt someone


Your life is in imminent danger from them.


You are a doctor trying to reset a broken bone.


trying to keep the carpool schedule right

It's good to keep a schedule you and others have agreed to.

You need to go to the hospital for an emergency


You are the boss and others depend on you


You are asked to come in to work on your day off.


The schedule helps everyone study for a big test.


an emergency occurs and prevents you from keeping it


you are the person who planned the schedule


You come down with the flu and don't want to risk infecting others.


You are working together on a project with a tight deadline.


being angry at my parents for not rejecting me because of previous actions, despite me seeking help for my mental issues

it's okay to think your parents could of done better for you.

They did the best they could with what they had.


They are selfish and put their own needs before yours.


They are struggling financially right now.


they haven't done anything for you except cause you pain


It is okay to speak up if you are concerned about a friend.


They mentioned they were going to harm themselves.


You speak in a harsh and judgmental way.


You're afraid they're about to get seriously hurt.


your friend doesn't like people talking for them.


your friend is shy and doesn't like to talk.


The friend swore you to secrecy and the issue is non-life threatening.


not buying into my GF's preferred pronouns

Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex

Your birth certificate proves otherwise.


Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex

You have had gender reassignment surgery.


Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex

you are doing so to fool someone and manipulate them.


Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex

that is how you truly feel inside of yourself.


Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex


Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex

it is an expression of your actual indentity.


Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex

You are a transphobe who is trying to harm trans people.


Hypothesis: It is okay to identify as another sex

You're only doing so to manipulate the legal system.


not allowing my friend to stay with me so he can go to school

It's understandable that people don't always want other people to live with them.


they rely on other people to help take care of them.


they are children and they live in their parents house.


the other people are abusive and controlling.


You should only give to causes you support.

you promised a friend you'd give to their cause regardless.


you don't want your money funding things you don't agree with.


Unless it's a cause your partner supports.


Especially when you don't have much money.


you want to create positive change in the world.


You are donating on behalf of someone else.


The cause is one that you believe strongly against.


taking a day of fake sick leave when I could still reasonably work

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get out of work.

you will be fired if you miss work again for being sick.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get out of work.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get out of work.

you have to attend a funeral your boss wont let you attend


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get out of work.

there are other people at work depending on your to be there


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get out of work.

the lie is to cover up embarrassing things such as a medical issue.


reporting my ID client and his mom to DSS

Hypothesis: It is important to protect children.


Hypothesis: It is important to protect children.


Hypothesis: It is important to protect children.

you are a helicopter parent and need to give your child space to make their own decisions.


Hypothesis: It is important to protect children.

you are protecting them from beneficial vaccinations


Hypothesis: It is important to protect children.

they are your children and you are legally responsible for protecting them


asking my brother what my 78 yo Dad's issue is

Hypothesis: It is rude not to respect your elders.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to respect your elders.

They're usually empathetic and understanding.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to respect your elders.

your elders are argumentative and dishonest.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to respect your elders.

your elders have your best interests at heart.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to respect your elders.

the elders are being abusive or harassing


Hypothesis: It is rude not to respect your elders.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to respect your elders.

Your elders do not show the same consideration to you.


telling a girl my close friend is hooking up with that she's just going to end up hurt again

It's expected that we let people make their own mistakes.

Those mistakes will cause life long trouble.


they want to be independent of their own


not wanting to be asked about my love life

Hypothesis: It is okay to want privacy.

You are undergoing a sensitive medical procedure.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want privacy.

You are in the bathroom getting dressed.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want privacy.

You have signed up for a reality TV show.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want privacy.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want privacy.

you've had a tough day and need to unwind


Hypothesis: You should always try to respect art.

You are making your own art and don't like how it turned out.


Hypothesis: You should always try to respect art.


Hypothesis: You should always try to respect art.

It incites people to burn down buildings.


Hypothesis: You should always try to respect art.

You were recently hired to be a curator at a museum.


Hypothesis: You should always try to respect art.

The artist was trying to be as offensive as possible.


telling my friend's mom that the autographed picture she gave me is a fake

Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.


Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.


Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.

You need to tell a friend that they smell before they go on a first date.


Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.

It is of a salacious nature and you work at a school.


Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.

a person needs to hear them said out loud to understand.


Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.

you are trying to not hurt someone's feelings.


Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.

Especially if you're just trying to be right.


Hypothesis: Some things are better left unsaid.

Both parties have come to a silent agreement


not giving my husband's ashes to his relatives that want some

It is mean to withhold sentimental items from family.

You know that it could bring back traumatic memories.


They were assigned that item in your parents' will.


The owner of the items didn't want other family to have them.


One of the family members has a special attachment in particular.


It's something they gave a loved one who passed away.


not wanting to date someone because of their weight/body size

It's wrong not to want to date someone due to their weight.


you're going to be outright mean about it.


Their weight is a big factor in your lack of true chemistry with them.


You are attracted to the rest of them a lot and they like you too.


you are concerned about their long term health.


that is the only thing you don't like about them.


they are very unhealthy and unwilling to get help.


they are doing all they can to get healthy.


calling a local business out for unfollowing me on Instagram

It's okay to call a business out for things they do that are wrong.

You're only complaining because you are angry.


You are an employee without another job lined up and could get fired for it.


The business is clearly violating company policy.


They just started out and are figuring things out


They have been operating for years and never change


it will put the business owner in danger.


the things they are doing are hurting people.


it is only your own personal belief that what they are doing is wrong.


it goes directly against what they say they will do.


not wanting to pay for my girlfriends dogs surgery

It's okay to want your pet to have surgery if it's needed.

Your pet will not have a good quality of life even if the surgery works.


Your pet is young and strong and will be able to recover well.


The surgery would only prolong the pet's life for a few very painful months.


The surgery could give your pet many more years of healthy life.


Their quality of life will go down afterwards.


Their quality of life will go up afterwards.


the surgery wouldn't help and would cause them more suffering.


requesting that my coworker stop using gay slurs

Hypothesis: Bigotry is unacceptable.

You're taking part in a historical reenactment or film.


Hypothesis: Bigotry is unacceptable.


Hypothesis: Bigotry is unacceptable.

The other party has been equal in their bigotry.


Hypothesis: Bigotry is unacceptable.

It is uncalled for and the parties receiving the bigotry have not done anything wrong.


Hypothesis: Bigotry is unacceptable.

one wishes to be a true and honest and kind person


not 'saving' my husband from poisonous mushrooms

You shouldn't let someone consume something that is possibly dangerous.

The person is undergoing legal euthanasia


The person is under the influence of drugs.


The consumption is monitored by a doctor.


that thing happens to be acceptable to consume


that person doesn't know the item is dangerous


They revealed their plans to run over a crowd of people.


they are a murderer wanted by the police.


you care about this person and their health.


not wanting to drive 45 minutes away to pick my girlfriend up unexpectedly

Picking up your partner will always yield good results.


your partner's legs are tired from walking all day


ending it with a girl who didn't find me attractive

The people you date are expected to be attracted to you.

they're still developing feelings for you


it is a blind date and they do not like you upon meeting.


you want to have a long term relationship.


You're both just looking for a marriage of convenience.


You both say you're in love with each other.


you have taken the time to get to know each other well


telling a friend's girlfriend that she's spoiled

It's understandable to not notice a bad quality your significant other has.

they have demonstrated this bad quality to you numerous times.


you love them and want to overlook some of their bad qualities.


your significant other has criminal activities.


you are attracted to your significant other physically.


the bad quality is a red flag signaling abuse


multiple different friends have pointed it out to you


putting my dog's poop bags in other people's trash cans

It's rude to use the garbage can of others for your own waste.

It is public property at an apartment complex


You have permission from the owner to use it.


You can see it's already full and you just put stuff on top.


they've given you permission to use their garbage can


they already have made their garbage can full


not wanting to break up with my girlfriend/stepsister

It's understandable that one would not want to end a good relationship with someone based on extenuating circumstances

Those circumstances were so big they were truly irreconcilable.


The vast majority of the relationship was wonderful and those circumstances could be addressed and dealt with.


The circumstances were leading to ongoing suffering.


The circumstances weren't expected to last very long.


They keep having the same issues over and over with the relationship.


The person thinks it is in the best interest of both if they ended it.


The circumstances are agreed on by both that they don't really matter.


not wanting somebody who has stolen from me to stay with me, even though my girlfriend wants him

It's okay to want to protect yourself from others who hurt you.


You are only perceiving them as hurting you when they are trying to help.


that person is your spouse and did not mean to hurt you


getting mad at my dad for locking me outside

It's okay to be angry at your parents when they behave in antisocial ways

You know they have a condition that makes it hard for them to socialize.


They say ugly things to people to make them go away.


Your parents are at a work social party.


They can't control their behavior due to mental illness.


You get badly hurt because of their choices.


Hypothesis: Asking your friends for money is rude.


Hypothesis: Asking your friends for money is rude.

You have not paid back what you borrowed before.


Hypothesis: Asking your friends for money is rude.

You have already asked for money before.


Hypothesis: Asking your friends for money is rude.

you are terrible about paying them back.


Hypothesis: Asking your friends for money is rude.

You are always asking them and not paying them back.


thinking that parents shouldn't influence their child's views on certain topics

It's understandable that sometimes, parents want to allow their children to form their own opinions so they hesitate to teach their children about some topics.

They are very young and need to learn for their own safety.


The lesson is best learned by trial and error.


They are keeping their child in the dark on things that could endanger them.


They want their child to be more independent.


The topics they're hesitant to teach involve basic hygiene and skills.


The parents don't have solid opinions on politics personally.


Someone else is trying to teach them something incorrectly.


They do not know much about the topic themselves.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to honor the dead.

They committed horrifying crimes while alive.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to honor the dead.

You desecrate their grave in front of their family.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to honor the dead.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to honor the dead.

The dead person badly mistreated you while they are alive.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to honor the dead.

The person who died is a close relative.


telling my brother I cant assist him with calling into work 'sick' anymore

You shouldn't call in sick to work if you're not sick.

You're experiencing poor mental health that day.


You're going somewhere where your boss might see you.


You have a sick parent who needs to see a doctor the same day.


You stayed up late partying after the Super Bowl.


telling my step-father that my mother has been cheating on him right around Christmas

Hypothesis: It's bad to cheat on your partner.

you have agreed to have an open relationship.


Hypothesis: It's bad to cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: It's bad to cheat on your partner.

you and your partner have an understanding about sleeping around


Hypothesis: It's bad to cheat on your partner.

your partner expects your relationship with them to be monogamous


Hypothesis: It's bad to cheat on your partner.

Unless you are in the middle of a divorce.


Hypothesis: It's bad to cheat on your partner.

You know your partner is letting you win at poker.


Hypothesis: It's bad to cheat on your partner.

You are also lying when asked about cheating.


not sharing my passcode with my boyfriend

It's OK to keep your private things private.


The things you have are products that haven’t been released for sale


Your doctor needs to know in order to diagnose you.


It involves things that happened long in the past that don't affect your life now.


It may help another person by sharing them.


It may cause harm to others by sharing them.


You know others will make fun of you if they found out


fucking with a couple families while camping

It's understood that some crimes in the woods go unreported, and that bodies are best buried deep, where critters can't dig up the bones.

The perpetrators of such crimes wish to be caught.


You are deep into a thick, private forest.


The area is extremely remote, with no police covering the area.


demanding my husband not fraternize with my mother

You should be sure your partner is comfortable with your family.

Your family is a group of people that you actively  avoid.


you don't spend time around your family.


You don't talk to your family members anymore.


You have a close family that lives nearby.


your family is racist and your partner is of another race.


they are coming to a family get together with you.


It's bad to always expect help from others.


you have a debilitating medical condition


you never do anything helpful for others


you have a habit of being lazy and selfish


You have asked too many times for help in the past.


expecting my friend to celebrate my birthday like I did hers

You shouldn't expect your friends to celebrate your birthday just like you did with them.


You have extremely similar tastes when it comes to food and entertainment.


You like very different types of restaurants and activities.


They have already told you about your birthday plans.


It is traditional to do so among your peer group.


It is inconsiderate to quit a job without notice.

You have a sudden illness in the family and can't help leaving at once.


The job has been good to you and you know they will have a tough time covering for your absence and be hurt.


You are fleeing the country to save your life.


People depend on your job being completed.


the boss has been sexually harassing you.


there is nobody else that can do your job right away.


You are being relied on to do something.


wanting to attend the party after my company's Dinner and Dance when my girlfriend would like to spend some time with me before I go overseas for a week

It's wrong to let down a significant other when they could really use you.

they know you have to go to work or you will be fired.


they really need your emotional support after their mom died.


You're too far away to help your partner.


You promised your partner you would help them with something.


They were diagnosed with a terminal illness


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want sex.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want sex.

You haven’t made a move on your partner in months


causing me and my gf to break up by arguing with her mom

A smart way to end a relationship is to involve your partners mother in your drama.

your partner is going off the deep end and the mother can help.


you say bad things about your partner and the mother gets angry.


Their mother is already causing drama between you and your partner.


You feel like they might be hostile with you.


Your partners mother is a therapist and able to resolve the issue.


She doesn’t like you and your partner always takes her side.


having an emotional affair with my coworker

It is difficult to work closely with the opposite sex and not develop an attraction.


you aren't attracted to the opposite sex.


The other person has a very unpleasant personality.


you yourself are attracted to the same sex


you are attracted to the opposite sex and find the specific people to be attractive


wanting my bf to participate in family events

It is okay to want your partner involved in events.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


You want them involved in your wedding planning.


You want to make your partner feel included.


not wanting to give my wife surprises anymore

You should try to get surprises for your partner to show them you care.


you are breaking up with your partner anyway


your partner prefers a predictable lifestyle


your partner is having a bad string of days


Your partner throws a surprise party for you.


collecting rent to in laws living in my house

It's rude to take advantage of family members.


they have taken advantage of you in the past


they do nothing but nice things for you all the time


You want to become the black sheep of the family.


Family members are not capable of understanding your motives.


being mad my boyfriend and friends hang out without me because I had a baby

It is expected that friendships will not end just because someone has a baby.

they're too busy to maintain the relationship


The friend absolutely cannot stand children.


Unless one of them is very jealous of the baby.


Especially if they are very supportive friends.


The person with the baby has an abusive husband


the friendship has existed for a very long time.


getting mad at my classmate for wanting to help on the project when she's just making me work more and harder

It is important to explain your expectations to other people.


You're trying to mislead them as to how much work they'll have to do.


You don't want to seem bossy towards them.


You are in a close relationship with them.


causing a kid to have a bad grade in our group project

It's wrong to cause someone to get a bad grade.

You report them for cheating on a test causing them to receive an F.


You intentionally do a bad job on a group project.


not wanting to pitch in for an unnecessarily expensive gift for a friend

You should pitch in when buying gifts for friends.


Your contribution is going to be labor to get it assembling and fully working.


They bought you something really nice for your last birthday.


Your friends are millionaires and you are poor.


pretending to love my bf for a year then dumped him

It's wrong to use people for your own purposes.

They were hired to perform specific tasks like landscaping.


They are your friends doing tasks for you for free.


what you need from them is absolutely necessary.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.

Your work policy is based on transparency.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.

You are entering credit card information.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.

You live in a dorm room with three other people.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.

You can afford an apartment to yourself.


feeling mad at my husband for buying a bow

Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.

You are an adult living on your own and supporting a family.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.

your cheapskate tendencies turn into a compulsion.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.

You shouldn't have control over finances.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.

You're such a cheapskate you neglect your basic needs.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.

You save money for long-term goals and responsibilities.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibly is good.

You're trying to pay off your debts faster.


not attending a child's event with my ex-wife

It is expected that you attend your children's events.

You warned your son that you might miss the first half of his recital because of a meeting.


You don't want bitter and angry remarks from them 20 years later.


You have to work at the time of the event.


You don't have work at the time of the event.


expecting my girlfriend to do certain "naughty" things with me that she did with past lovers even though she says she's outgrown them? more info I can't fit in title

It's ok to change your sexual preferences over time.


You're a sex offender and you should be locked-up.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

Your children are hungry and you don't have enough money to buy them bread.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

You have enough money to pay for the things you want.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

your child is starving to death and you need food.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

you are desperate and your family is starving.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

you believe that you will go to hell for sinning.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

You're about to starve to death if you don't steal food.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

You steal food from someone who's on the brink of starvation.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

you're stealing from someone without much to their name


getting upset that my bf wiped boogers on something in my car

It's rude to wipe your boogers on things.


You're an adult in someone else's house.


The things were made to have boogers wiped on them.


Your nose is stuffed and you can no longer breathe.


You have a bad cold and are still contagious.


refusing to carry a strangers child on my lap for an hour's bus ride

It is rude to expect people to hold your child for you.


holding others children is a social norm.


you are at your wits end with your child


It is acceptable to want to know about your towel

Your towel is a gift for your surprise birthday party.


You have other things on your mind to think about.


There are stains on it that you did not make.


Sometimes it's good to take some time off for yourself.

Doing so causes a child to be neglected.


Stress is starting to make you feel sick.


You take time off during an important meeting at work


You take time off during a vacation period from work.


You haven't taken any vacation in the past few years.


asking my parents to introduce themselves to my boyfriends parents

It is expected for each partner's family to know one another.


They want the partner to become part of the family.


one of the families lives far away in another country.


the families live in the same neighborhood.


The families want to have a nurturing environment for the couple.


The families live very far away from each other


Each partner is very close to their family


One family doesn’t like the other family


wanting some sort of compensation for my roommate using my switch

It's wrong to expect your roommate to share with you without you providing them some compensation.


You have a habit of never repaying the gesture.


They have extra of what you need and can afford to share it.


You share many times with them without compensation from them.


Your roommate has already offered all of their food to you.


Your roommate buys very expensive items.


not wanting to talk to or spend time with my mom

You should always communicate with your family.


Your family scream at you whenever you call them.


you want to remain on good terms with them.


It is expected that there will be disagreements in a relationship.


It is expected that the disagreements will be fairly resolved.


You are going through a rough period of life.


you both do not have things that are in common.


telling my boyfriend to not take a 2 week vacation

You shouldn't let your partner tell you what to do.

You are unclear about a situation and want their advice and guidance.


You asked your partner to help you with a personal training program.


Your partner wants to control every move you make.


They are teaching you how to change a tire.


They are telling you to do something illegal.


Your partner is your boss and you're at work.


It's something that makes you uncomfortable.


hitting on my best friend's gf shortly before their soon-to-be breakup

It''s understandable to be romantically attracted to someone.


they are a minor child and you are an adult.


you enjoy their company and laugh together.


They are the gender you prefer and you think they are physically attractive.


The person someone's attracted to is a child.


It's expected that you attend Thanksgiving.


you've bought the turkey everyone is expecting to eat


You are hosting Thanksgiving at your house.


You've told people you will be attending.


wanting my brother to buy me a new laptop

Hypothesis: It's okay to want a new laptop.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want a new laptop.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want a new laptop.

You just bought a brand new one that works perfectly.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want a new laptop.

You don't have a lot of money and your current laptop still works.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want a new laptop.

the old one you had stopped functioning.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want a new laptop.

Especially if your old laptop is quite outdated.


It's understandable to expect an invitation to a cousin's wedding.


your cousin's spouse cheated on them with you


sitting in the Wheelchair Reserved Area when theres no one disabled waiting

You shouldn't take up spaces meant for disabled people.


You are driving a disabled person around


The spaces won't be in use by disabled people at that time


There are disabled people who need the seats.


You are rushing to the hospital because someone is dying


parking in the handicapped spot for one minute

You shouldn't park in a handicap spot if you're not handicap.


You have handicap plates for someone who is not with you.


Someone riding in your vehicle with you is handicap.


there's nowhere else to park during an emergency


there's a handicap person looking for a parking spot


It is wrong to bring up family troubles to people outside the family without consent.

Someone is abusing someone and you are telling the police.


You don't know the person you are talking to about your problems.


You're bringing it up to a divorce lawyer.


It would embarrass others in the family.


Hypothesis: You should always pay your bills.


Hypothesis: You should always pay your bills.

Especially if you have enough to live on.


Hypothesis: You should always pay your bills.

You can't afford to pay your bills and eat.


It's understandable that sometimes, a situation becomes too much, and people need to go their own ways.


They've been growing more distant for some time.


One person accepts a career opportunity in another state


They're not helpful for each other anymore.


You cannot find a job to support yourself.


sleeping with someone else on my fwbs birthday party

You shouldn't sleep around at a birthday party.


You start making out in front of the kids.


staying friends with a guy my fiancé hates

You should discuss issues with your partner.

You do not feel comfortable talking about something.


You want to resolve the issues together.


Especially if it involves your children.


you have agreed to always talk about problems with them


It is okay to change your living situations.


You are not happy with the size of the house


You are leaving an unhealthy relationship.


You have already signed a long term contract and you don't want to break your landlord's trust.


You really don't like where you  live and would feel happier elsewhere.


You're unhappy where you live currently.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay what you owe


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay what you owe

You just finished eating a meal at a restaurant.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay what you owe

You have been given a repayment extension.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay what you owe

You were misled about the terms of the contract.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay what you owe

You make a habit of not paying your debts.


It's ok to want boundaries from your family as an adult.


they don't agree with your life decisions


You are a drug addict and they are trying to help you


Your boundaries mean you never want to talk to them.


They ask you for favors every time you see them.


trying to get in touch after two years without contact

it's wrong to invade someone's life if it would hurt them or seem creepy.

You're being paid to investigate them for tax fraud.


You're stalking them because you want to date them.


unless you are saving them from a worse hurt,


You work for CPS and you have to investigate the household.


They are a child you gave up for adoption when they were a baby.


You should always give your best effort.


you expect to win an award for something.


You hate your job and you want the boss to fire you.


You are in high school and want to get into a good college.


submitting a piece of work just on my behalf instead of both mine and my partners

When you complete work with a partner you are expected to share the credit between the two of you.

One person doesn’t do as much work as the other


You both do an equally good amount of work


They don't want anyone to know they are as a silent partner.


expecting the customer to pay for both of the beverages after they asked for a remake

It is correct to expect a customer to pay for both items they received.


The store is having a buy one get one free sale.


they knew they would be charged for both.


getting pissed at friends who chose some of their college application essay prompts at random

It's expected that you fill out a college application seriously.

Unless you're not really serious about going to college.


Especially if you're really serious about going to college.


Your parents have paid for submitting it.


You want to get into an Ivy League school.


telling my partners family about his substance abuse/addiction

It's okay to be concerned with someone who is being self destructive.


That person is an adult and can make their own choices.


They have no one to help them better themselves.


letting classmates get excluded from an activity

You shouldn't exclude people from your activities.

The activities are not age appropriate for the people.


They are present and the exclusion is spiteful.


The people you exclude are disruptive and rude.


You're only excluding them because you don't like them.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time to yourself.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time to yourself.

You have an infant baby that needs feeding


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time to yourself.

You're raising a child with help from family.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time to yourself.

You have children that need taken care off


constantly engaging in political arguments, much to the annoyance of the people I care about

Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about politics.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about politics.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about politics.

You don't want to risk upsetting someone.


telling my friend that a dispute with a friend over money isnt the same as a case of domestic violence

It is courteous to let your friend know they are wrong if their wrong belief may hurt them.

You speaking out would hurt your relationship with them.


They have no idea they could be in danger.


Learning is best done through trial and error.


You're truly worried about them being in danger.


Your friend is aware of the potential for being hurt and doesn't want your opinion.


You are aware of things about the belief that your friend is not.


refusing to do the work of a coworker who is picking up lunch for the office

If your coworker is picking up lunch it is nice to do their work while they are gone.


the work to be done is menial and simple


They don't want you interfering with their established processes.


You are not qualified to do the work that they do.


You should always lend things to family.


You have eight siblings and money is tight.


yelling at a guy for parking too close? what is too close

Be considerate of others when parking in public spaces.


Someone takes your space when you signaled first


cutting off my clearly mentally unwell friend

You shouldn't discriminate against mentally unwell people.


They tried to destroy your business for a simple misunderstanding


You need to stay away from someone who is violent.


You are traumatized due to a bad experience.


cutting off my good friend of 3 years, who has admitted his romantic feelings for me, because I've started seeing someone

It's expected that people should only have one romantic interest at a time.

Your and your partner have discussed and agreed to polyamory.


a monogamous relationship is expected or agreed upon.


The person considers themselves a monogamist.


not attending the entirety of my son's 1st birthday

You should be there for your child's birthday.


You child is an adult and lives on the other side of the country.


You child is school aged and you are hosting a birthday party.


refusing to be "just friends" with girls

It is okay to have friends of the opposite sex.


You want to have a diverse group of friends.


You are married and your opposite-sex friend clearly wants to be more than a friend.


One person has a crush on the other person.


You need a different perspective when it comes to dating advice.


You are of the age of majority and single.


not believing a friend about her depression

It's mean to not take depression seriously.

you are trying to make light of someone's depression to help them


the depressed person you're dealing with is on the verge of suicide


You've suffered from depression yourself.


You are using humor because your friend needs it


You think someone can just snap out of it.


the person with depression wants to make light of it


the person with depression is sensitive and uncertain


not talking to my mentally disabled uncle

It is not good to ignore family who needs you.


your family has helped you when you needed it.


You are setting a boundary with a needy family member.


You promised your family member you would help.


refusing to do my workaholic boyfriend a favor due to the way he asked me

You shouldn't be rude when asking your partner to do something for you.

You're very frustrated and are rude accidentally.


You're asking them to do something unpleasant.


you're angry at them for not doing it already.


You have already asked them 5 times and they ignore you.


This is the first time you are requesting the favor.


Unless you are asking them to undo something terrible they have done.


Hypothesis: It's nice to give gifts to people.


Hypothesis: It's nice to give gifts to people.

You want to show them how much you love them.


Hypothesis: It's nice to give gifts to people.

You are giving people pets without asking.


Hypothesis: It's nice to give gifts to people.

They write on their party invitation that they do not want gifts.


Hypothesis: It's nice to give gifts to people.

You give them gifts that you know they won't like.


Hypothesis: It's nice to give gifts to people.

You pick each gift out for the individual people.


calling the police on my cleaning lady who I caught stealing money after it was recorded on my baby monitor

Stealing from someone who lets you into their home to provide a service is criminal and has consequences.

You steal drugs or contraband that they are not going to report to the authorities.


It is an older blind person living on a fixed income.


there is no way that this can be undermined.


walking out of Thanksgiving dinner after my family went out of the way for me. it was a disaster

Hypothesis: You shouldn't walk out on your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't walk out on your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't walk out on your family.

They are suffering from a traumatic experience.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't walk out on your family.

They are setting up an intervention for you


It is understandable to want to be civil after a breakup.

You were traumatizing by your time with your ex and panic whenever you're near them.


You pride yourself on your ability to control your emotions.


There is long-simmering bitterness that will take time to heal.


You both want to go your own ways without negative baggage.


they cheated on you with your best friend


you can still be best friends after the relationship


you want to stay in touch with their family.


Hypothesis: It is bad to keep low wages.


Hypothesis: It is bad to keep low wages.

You pay people big bonuses instead of hourly wages.


not wanting my girl to have buccal fat removal surgery

It's understandable to not want your significant other to change their appearance.


It is ok to avoid your friend if they have been disrespectful towards you.

You have to work with them on a daily basis.


You're working on a project with your friend for school.


throwing my new assistant manager under the bus to our district manager

It is wrong not to take responsibility for your actions.

Someone put a gun to your head and forced you to do them.


People were hurt as a result of your actions and you could help them.


you were incapacitated at the time of the actions.


someone literally forced you to act at gunpoint.


You were tricked into taking those actions.


Your actions caused problems for others.


You want to give the credit to a co-worker


It's good to take up for a partner who is being attacked.


They are being attacked because of their looks.


It's bad to avoid loved ones without an explanation, even if you are anxious.


You are afraid you have a terrible communicable disease.


They have insecurities and wild imaginations.


They have been abusive to you in the past.


You do not want to bother them with your stress.


They are willing to always help you out.


repeatedly turning off the central heater

You shouldn't turn off something if nobody wants you to do it.


the appliance is wasting electricity needlessly


wanting to go for a thru-hike alone, without my girlfriend

It's okay to want some time by yourself every now and then.


You shun everyone out of your life or take time away when someone needs you.


You need alone time to recharge your batteries or meditate.


not wanting to drive my boyfriend to work Everyday

It is a good way for a couple to save money if they can use one vehicle to get to work.


They have trouble saving money in other areas of their lives.


Their work shifts overlap and it's not possible.


They work the same shift at or near the same facility.


not wanting to go to a bar to hear my boyfriend practice his instrument

You should always be there to support your partner.


Your partner isn't supported by anyone else.


Your partner gets nervous when you watch them give a speech.


You know that they would support you if the situation was reverse.


you find out that your partner has been cheating on you.


your partner has always been patient, caring, and supportive with you encouraging your personal growth and development.


They are doing a fashion shoot in a distant land.


They are having problems with their eyesight.


asking my wife to give me some time after our arguments

Leaving a situation unresolved can lead to more conflict.

You will never see the other person again in the situation despite its lack of resolution.


You will still be around the people involved in the situation in some way and have to interact with them.


the people involved are in close quarters.


Both parties have agreed to let the subject drop.


You know you'll obsess over the issue until it is resolved.


You physically leave the area where the other person lives.


It is not your responsibility to return property that was left by others.

you know who it belongs to and where that person is.


people leave their property in strange places all the time.


You would have to go out of your way to return it.


They left it on purpose due to laziness.


You should try it interactions you have with people you do not care for.


Doesn't make sense. You should try it interactions you have with people you do not care for.


You know that the two of you can't be civil to each other.


not helping my coworkers out with every tiny bit of work

Coworkers are expected to help each other.


There is a drop-dead deadline to meet for a client.


they work in completely different departments.


The boss says for everyone to work independently.


Abandoning people can make you seem cold.


you don't have a good reason for doing so.


you are doing it for your own well-being.


their behavior toward you has been unacceptable.


It's okay to have hobbies others aren't particularly interested in.

You feel lonely and alienated from other people because of your lack of shared interests.


You get lots of fulfillment and enjoyment out of your hobbies.


they distract too much from work or school


Your hobbies are harmful to other people.


Hypothesis: It's rude to interrupt others.

They are misinformed and you're correcting them.


Hypothesis: It's rude to interrupt others.


Hypothesis: It's rude to interrupt others.

You need to warn them of something urgent.


It's acceptable to block someone online.

You are a social media coordinator and you block your boss.


You block an online customer that you have accepted payment from, but haven't delivered goods to yet.


you have a professional relationship with them.


They are just trying to play games with you


telling a coworker that someone he considered a friend has been making fun of him behind his back

People have a right to know things that are being said about them


they are things people would benefit from knowing


wanting to return a birthday gift from my father

It's okay if you don't like a gift that a family member gave you.


It was a gift from your dying grandmother


The gift was handmade and from a small child.


not wanting to take out a loan to pay for rent

It is good to not take on too much debt.

You make enough money to pay it all off easily.


You're using it to invest in your business.


You have a good plan on how to pay it back and it's absolutely necessary.


You're not sure if you'll be able to pay it back or your job history is shaky.


using the placebo effect as an analogy for hypno-therapy

It is wrong to trick others by not telling them the whole truth.

You are a police officer using interrogation techniques on a suspect.


You are a child in the principal's office.


You're tricking them to surprise them with a gift.


You're tricking them to make a prank video.


You're thwarting a violent crime by withholding information.


You're trying to lure them into a pyramid scheme.


You plan to gradually tell a child the whole truth as she matures and understands.


You are to personally gain from the trickery.


One should not do rude things to a roommate.


You want to get along with your roommate.


the roommate has done rude things first.


the roommates must live together for a period of time.


You have to live with them for a long time.


not introducing my boyfriend in the middle of a really intense conversation

It's rude to not introduce your boyfriend to people you're talking to.


correcting another kid's behaviour in my home

It's okay to want someone else's child to behave in your home.


Unless you are feeding them lots of sugar.


Especially if they weren't invited in the first place.


The child is too young to know what "no" means.


you don't make your own child behave in your home.


agreeing with my friends that my wife is fat

It is wrong to take sides against your spouse.


You are siding with your young children.


singling out, embarrassing, and causing a coworker to become ostracized because she misused the it service

You shouldn't do anything that would cause embarrassment to someone else.


you're trying to humble them with a prank


getting "caught" having sex by my mom several times

It's against the law to have sexual relations with your mother.


Your mother is adoptive and you are a legal adult.


Your mother is a blood relative and you are a child.


It is your widowed stepmother and you are an adult.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be biased against others.

The other people are part of a dangerous cult.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be biased against others.

They provide valuable services for your community.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be biased against others.

The people you're biased against are murderers.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be biased against others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be biased against others.

someone has given you a reason for bias that isn't associated with race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, ability, or other aspects of personal identity.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be biased against others.

You are educated and should know better.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be biased against others.

They always make fun of your ethnicity first


not wanting to cook more intricate meals

It is okay to keep household chores simple.


You have young children who are learning how to be responsible


It the time of the year for spring cleaning.


The chores are the ones assigned to younger children.


Unless you're being paid to do an exceptional job.


Especially if you only have yourself to please.


You are selling the home and it need to look perfect for selling.


telling my ex and her best friend I don't want them in our prom group

It is acceptable to tell your ex you don't want to go to important events with them.

You and your ex signed a contract promising to work at that event together.


They usually make a big, unpleasant scene at public events.


you aren't comfortable now that they are an ex.


Unless you already promised you would go.


Especially if you are in a new relationship.


telling my boyfriend I don't want him talking to his ex wife

It is rude to tell someone who they can talk to.


You are their boss and they are working.


you are a friend who is controlling another friend.


You are telling your spouse not to talk to their ex.


You are trying to control who a friend talks to.


breaking up w/ my bf of 8 months (now ex) for telling me he is into incest

You should try to get your partner help for their mental issues.


they're a danger to themself and everyone around them


You want to help them maintain there health


Your partner is working through them on their own.


Your partner is struggling to cope with the illness.


not wanting to walk my elderly neighbor's severely overweight dog

You should do what you can to help an animal lose weight.


The animal is experiencing weight related health issues.


You resort to extremes for pet exercise and food reduction.


DIscuss a goal-oriented plan from the veterinarian.


It's okay to want to not take on responsibilities you don't think you can handle.

You are expecting a child you created and have a responsibility to provide for that child.


They will interfere in your personal relationships.


You were just promoted and your new job has more responsibilities.


You are a kid and need to focus on your studies.


It's an emergency and you are the only one who can try.


You are not ready to be a parent at a young age.


Someone who can handle the responsibilities has offered to take them on.


It's expected that you trust your spouse.

You just found out they've been cheating with someone else.


The have never given you a reason not to.


they have given you a reason not to trust them.


they have given you a reason to not trust them.


if they have never given a reason to not trust them.


It is wrong to snoop through someones phone.

you think they might be committing a crime.


It's your child and you're suspicious they might be in trouble.


It belongs to your partner and you haven't learned to trust them.


You think that they may be selling drugs.


asking for repayment for something I bought my brother when I owe him

When you owe someone money, you shouldn't expect them to pay you back before you pay them back.

you have a written agreement stating otherwise.


They hit the lottery for a lot of money.


You owe them substantially more money than they owe you.


They owe you more money than you owe them.


You get your money before they get any money.


moving 6 states away and leaving my husband to pack up the house

It is OK to move without helping your husband pack if you have an important obligation to attend to.

It is to go to a dinner party with friends.


It is to purchase new furniture for the new place.


You told your husband you would help him pack.


He is an abled adult who can pack his own things.


asking for compensation to babysit my own brother

You shouldn't expect money for babysitting your own brother.


You are babysitting him for several hours while your parents go out.


Your parents just went to the store real quick.


you value the time with your niece or nephew


getting frustrated with my sick boyfriend's constant bad mood

You should expect sick people to be in a bad mood.

The sick person is on a lot of pain medication.


The person doesn't have any medication for their illness.


They have been showing signs of improvement.


They are missing important events in their life.


they are treated like second-class citizens.


You should discuss expectations with your partner.

They are in an important business meeting.


You are about to be married in a few weeks.


You don't want your relationship to last.


You want to strengthen your relationship.


Your partner is only going to be with you for one night.


You're planning to have a long term relationship with your partner.


You are expected to be careful with other people's things.


you are moving things from the house to give them to a thrift store.


they do not even function properly anymore


The owner of the things claims they're unbreakable.


The owner says that the things are irreplaceable.


You should always give money to your church.


Your church has many programs to support the poor and sick.


the church has a history of being corrupt


the church is having a fundraiser for someone really needy


You are Catholic and give what you can afford.


telling my neighbor to move his truck off my lawn

It is rude to park on someone else's property.


you have been given permission by the owner.


The property owner gave you a parking pass.


The parking lot says no unauthorized parking.


you have permission from the owner to do so


there are "no parking" signs posted on the property


calling in sick 20 min before my shift at my first job

It is rude not to give ample notice when missing work.


you know there is no one to cover for you.


you get sick right before your shift starts.


you knew for days you would have to miss.


You were in a car accident on the way to work.


There is a meeting or a client waiting for you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

you know that it will hurt their feelings.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

You are a professional comedian and it is part of your job.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

Others cannot control the things you're making fun of, such as appearance.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

You're trying to show them that their bullying is wrong.


installing security cameras pointing directly at a Trap house to make them be quite on weekdays

It is rude to be loud and disturb the neighbors.


They have been loud and disruptive in the past.


There is some sort of emergency going on.


The neighbors said that having a party would be alright.


The neighbors asked you to stop being so noisy recently.


You are retaliating for them being loud first.


telling a dude I've been "talking to" that I am also "talking to" other guys

You would want to know if the person you are seeing is dating other people.


You are married and supposed to be monogamous.


You had a don't ask don't tell dating policy.


you were just starting your relationship.


It's acceptable to want people younger than you to talk to you with respect.


you do not treat them with respect in return.


you are treating younger people disrespectfully


refusing to answer a depressed ex's messages

You shouldn't expect someone you have broken up with to be there for you emotionally.

You stayed friends and often talk to each other.


you have a child together and you still need his support.


you are the one that broke up with them.


That person has said that they want to be your friend still.


That person is still angry about the breakup.


expecting more than one post every 10 minutes when there's 2,000 of you fucks lurking

Hypothesis: You shouldn't swear at others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't swear at others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't swear at others.

The swearing will let off enough steam that you don't try to physically harm them.


It's insensitive to not be supportive of your significant other.

Your significant other wants you to support their efforts to ruin an innocent person's life.


They're having a difficult time with their boss.


Your significant other is a drug dealer.


Your significant other is in jail for committing crimes.


Your significant other is in the hospital having surgery.


Your significant other is doing something self-destructive.


Your support could be really helpful and uplifting to your significant other.


They are relying on your support to keep themselves going.


skipping my two-person department's big event two years in a row

It's rude to miss an event if you are one of only a few attendees.

the event planner told you that you didn't have to come because hardly anyone else was coming.


you promised the event planner that you were going to be there no matter what.


It's due to an illness or some other acceptable excuse.


You have a major role to play in said event.


You had an accident and need medical care.


you're sick in bed on the day of the event


calling my hair "jew hair" when I am ethnically jewish

It's considered inappropriate to equate a hairstyle with a certain ethnicity.

You're talking about dreadlocks which is pretty inclusive of every civilization over the last 3,500 plus years.


It's considered a new kind of style without a history.


You belong to that ethnicity and describe it as part of your culture.


You're appropriating that hairstyle from a different culture.


The hairstyle is a historically traditional hairstyle within one ethnic community.


The person equating the hairstyle is from that specific ethnicity.


making a coworker feel so uncomfortable, he quit his job

It's wrong to be rude or cruel to people.


They've been rude while you've tried to be polite for 15 minutes.


You're supposed to be a professional mediator.


not telling my girlfriend that I'm transgender

It's wrong to keep a secret from your girlfriend.


Her pet has passed away while she was at work.


The secret is a surprise birthday party for her.


The secret is about another relationship.


her not knowing could be dangerous for her health.


breaking up with my long distance girlfriend

Hypothesis: Long distance relationships are tough.


Hypothesis: Long distance relationships are tough.

The bonds grow weaker with less time together.


Hypothesis: Long distance relationships are tough.


Hypothesis: Long distance relationships are tough.

You both prefer a lot of personal space and time alone.


Hypothesis: Long distance relationships are tough.

the couple are very committed to making them work.


Hypothesis: Long distance relationships are tough.

the relationship wasn't strong to begin with.


not being willing to help a girl in class after being rejected

it is wrong to hold a grudge against someone in need.


They are in danger of freezing to death.


they are in need because they refuse to stop doing drugs.


they are trying to get their life together.


The person is a murderer and is in need of a lawyer.


The issue was trivial and the person is homeless and hungry.


One should always trust their significant other.


they have done something very distrustful.


they have never done anything thats distrustful.


they have given you a reason not to trust them.


stepping down as matron of honour in a friends wedding

It is wrong to back out of duties for the special occasion of a friend.

you already have prior obligations scheduled


your friend is relying on your to fulfill your duties


You would lose your job if you don't work an emergency shift that overlaps with their special occasion.


You're considering ditching them to hang out with a more popular friend.


your friend is counting on you and has no backup.


Admitting your sexual preferences is perfectly fine.

You are talking to your religious grandparents


You are having a conversation with a friend


You are talking with a consenting adult.


You live in a supportive, progressive community.


going off on my gf when she called me a bad pet owner

You shouldn't get angry at your partner.

they did something behind your back that you don't approve of


they don't usually make any mistakes in your relationship


You had a bad day at work and are taking it out on them.


You want your partner to feel safe around you.


refusing to throw away perfectly good clothes because the brand is linked to European Neo-nazis

People are expected to care about social responsibility and background of the businesses they support.


They need to purchase from a certain business.


They say they like to support good businesses.


inconveniencing my group of friends by having someone in our social circle blocked

You should be more respectful of your friends.

you want to end the relationship with them


you want to keep the relationship thriving


you wish for your friends to be respectful of you.


You don't feel like they're good friends and want to make new ones.


You want to grow your relationships and become closer over time.


They demean you in front of your other friends.


telling my girlfriend that when we have kids they will have my surname and not be double barrelled

It's OK for children to have hyphenated surnames.

The child's name won't fit on the birth certificate.


The child's name is a combination of both parent's names.


The children will be picked on at school for it or suffer greatly as a result.


Both parents are raising them together and the kids are okay with it.


They have two parents with two different last names.


It is wrong to come to work when you're ill.

You have to meet an absolutely critical deadline.


There's not much work that needs to be done.


you won't be able to eat if you don't work


You're not contagious and can manage the job.


not being into my gfs sexual fantasies even though I used to be

Hypothesis: It's OK to change your mind.

You've already begun the thing you changed your mind about doing.


Hypothesis: It's OK to change your mind.

There is a lot of time before the event in question.


Hypothesis: It's OK to change your mind.

you are contractually committed to an action


Hypothesis: It's OK to change your mind.


Hypothesis: It's OK to change your mind.

you are not comfortable with your first decision.


wanting my uncle to take a lie detector test for what he did to me as a kid to get closure for myself

It's okay to want someone to take a lie detector test.


there is evidence connecting them to the crime.


not buying my girlfriend weed during her panic attack

Hypothesis: It is wrong to buy drugs


Hypothesis: It is wrong to buy drugs


Hypothesis: It is wrong to buy drugs

they'll illegal and you're addicted to them


getting upset my mother keeps wishing/stating that I will have kids even after I told her I won't have any

It is rude to comment on someone else's personal choices.


It's none of your business what they do.


their person choices have an effect on your life


their personal choices are hurting anyone


It is acceptable to chose a child free life.

You already have a child and are abandoning it.


You already had children you now need to raise.


You had raised younger siblings and you now care for your parents who are retired.


you are an only child and you want your parents to have grandchildren.


Your partner is happy not to be a parent.


Academic integrity is expected in schools.

It's a pre-school and the children don't really understand the concept yet.


The school is for dog obedience classes.


The school is a diploma mill and they don't care how your grades are after you pay.


It's a school that cares about it's good standing.


telling my roommate, whose rent I'm currently paying for, that her BF can't come over anymore

It's bad to invite your significant other over too frequently when you have a roommate.


your roommate has asked you not have too many visitors


Your roommate is good friends with your significant other.


You live in a cramped one room apartment.


complaining about my best friends distantness

You should be supportive of your friends.


You don't know them very well because they're mostly friends of friends.


telling my ex's parents about her drug use

You shouldn't reveal someone's drug use to someone's parents.


They are an adult that smokes marijuana on occasion.


It's wrong to get too close to people on a train.

the train is packed with rush hour travellers.


there is plenty of room to leave space for everyone.


It is a full train and you have to squeeze in.


It is an almost empty train and you choose to sit next to the lone woman.


It is really crowded and you need to make room for more people.


not originally inviting the bride's sister-in-law to the bachelorette party? or for thinking she's a bit of a brat

It's okay to not want someone to come to your party.


They are an ex-boyfriend that causes problems.


you think they will ruin your party with their behavior.


not lending my calculator to my brother's friend for his test

Hypothesis: You should share things with others.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

You have a lot of supplies you don't need.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

You've already bitten into the food item.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

Your neighbor never returns the ladder he borrowed 3 years ago.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

You secretly want some of their cheesecake and are open to sharing your chocolate cake.


not going with my gf to her dad's funeral

You should be there for a loved one during difficult times.


The difficult times come from them doing something horrible to hurt you.


They don't have anyone else to be there for them.


You're in another country and you don't have any way of communicating with them.


It is reasonable to be angry with your ex if they date your friend


They were dating while you were still together.


you both made and had an agreement not to do that.


your ex used to date your friend before you


your friend said he would never date them


You told them you would be fine with it.


not wanting my husband to work from home

It is hurtful to want to be away from your significant other

You spend tons of time together and you need some time alone to recharge.


Your partner is always with you every day.


Your significant other has been away from home for a long time.


You like to spend time apart once in a while.


You feel like you're not spending enough time together.


you have been spending all of your time together.


you don't see each other much to begin with.


asking my girlfriend to show a prospective buyer my couch when I wasn't home

Girlfriends are expected to help out with things when you are too busy to do it yourself.


They promised to help when you are busy.


they have expressed a willingness and desire to help.


You support them and they live in your house.


telling the home owner that they can't reserve public curb parking with a cone just because they have a tradesman coming

You shouldn't expect others to just accept your bad behavior.


you want to maintain a long relationship with them


This is a first time experience for you.


It is expected to get a long with co workers.


Unless your co workers are horrible people.


Especially if you have to work closely with them.


The coworker has set you up to be fired and you haven't done anything wrong.


The job requires teamwork to be productive.


not letting someone in the room we used to share, but no longer do

It's okay to not let someone in your room that they used to use if they don't use it anymore.

They are your parent and it is their house.


You live in your parents house and they say so.


They left something of theirs in the room.