You've stored embarrassing personal items there.


not letting someone in the room we used to share, but no longer do

It's okay to not let someone in your room that they used to use if they don't use it anymore.


they are picking up something that they left behind by accident.


they don't have anything in there that was theirs.


Hypothesis: You should learn how to take a joke.


Hypothesis: You should learn how to take a joke.

The joke is very offensive and hurt your feelings.


Hypothesis: You should learn how to take a joke.

It's a joke other people don't take offense to.


Hypothesis: It is rude to belittle others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to belittle others.

You are a comedian on stage and it's part of the act.


Hypothesis: It is rude to belittle others.

You are working in a professional setting and could get fired for it.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be overly sensitive


Hypothesis: It is bad to be overly sensitive

You are a child and don't know any better.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be overly sensitive

You tend to blow things out of proportion in order to make others feel bad.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be overly sensitive

It provides an opportunity to connect with others.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be overly sensitive

It leads to a stream of negative emotions.


expecting someone to pick me up even though their plans changed

If plans change, you shouldn't expect someone to adhere to what would imply before the change of plans.

Unless they didn't really change that much.


Especially if they changed significantly.


The plans have only been very slightly altered.


I don't know what the generalization means.


wanting my girlfriend to end her friendship because of extreme political beliefs

Your partner's friendships are not your concern.

your partner is friends with people that make you jealous


you have a trusting relationship with your partner


Their friends of the opposite sex are coming onto them.


They have given you no reason to doubt their loyalty.


One of their friends is trying to convince him to join a pyramid scheme.


You don't want him to think you are telling him who to be friends with.


not co-operating with my mom when she refuses to help

It's bad to get back at someone for not helping you by being mean to them.

They promised to help you and refused on purpose.


there is no other way to communicate your unhappiness with them.


Unless you are a small child and don't know any better.


Especially if you want to remain friends.


The person offered to help you get a job and then took the job for herself.


The person offered to help you get a job and then you were not hired after a poor interview.


learning that a girl I've been seeing for 2 months is pregnant and telling her I want an abortion

You should take responsibility if you get someone pregnant.


They ask you to sign over parental rights.


having a hard time respecting my parents when they don't want to show me respect

You have earn people's respect rather than demand it.

People refuse to respect you no matter what.


You have a job that requires you to demand it.


You're trying to make friends with people.


not wanting to celebrate my birthday with my family

Refusing to spend your birthday with your family is hurtful.


Your family wants you to travel internationally to be with them.


You live far away from your family in a different state.


You live in the same house and they had a party planned for you.


you've made plans to travel alone before hand


You're currently living in a very far away country and can't afford a plane ticket home.


People are expected to provide for their offspring.

They became handicapped after they were born.


They receive assistance from the government to do so.


a judge says they don't have to pay child support


they claim them as dependents on their taxes


Their offspring are adults who have moved out on their own.


Their offspring are minor children who live with them.


being irritated with my roommate for banging his girlfriend while I worked from home

Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your roommate.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your roommate.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your roommate.

They are a lawyer preparing for an important case.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your roommate.

There is a fire in the apartment building.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your roommate.

They are sleeping and it's late at night.


It's understandable to want to stay in a relationship

Being in that relationship is toxic for both parties.


You have invested a lot in the relationship over time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spite your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spite your partner.

you're working on making your relationship strong


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spite your partner.

you are trying to solve a problem and not make it worse.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spite your partner.

You're getting ready to break up with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't spite your partner.

You want to stay together for the rest of your life.


causing conflict in my Girlfriend's family

It's wrong to create problems for other people.


they have not done anything bad to you..


They truly deserve it because they did something very bad and it's the only way they'll learn.


They haven't done anything bad to you and are good people.


you're an adult and can do things for yourself


They are breaking the law and endangering people.


you are trying to stop them from doing something harmful.


suggesting that our group use google translate to make it easier to talk with a foreign exchange student while working on a project

Hypothesis: It's good to be resourceful.


Hypothesis: It's good to be resourceful.


Hypothesis: It's good to be resourceful.

The solutions you come up with are against the law.


Hypothesis: It's good to be resourceful.

It helps you solve problems most people can't.


Hypothesis: It's good to be resourceful.

You don't want to overshadow someone else's abilities.


interfering in professor's lecture when he starts telling offensive jokes

It is expected that you respect your professor.


They have made inappropriate advances toward you.


Your professor doesn’t care about teaching anymore


Your professor has inappropriately come onto you.


Your professor is a highly respected doctor.


telling a 28 year old woman she doesn't get a birthday week

Hypothesis: People should be kind to others.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to others.


It is expected that you follow a set schedule.


knowing what you are doing for a day benefits you.


not giving my mom more time to process my sister coming out

It's good to respect and celebrate loved ones' individual life choices.


those life choices are putting other people in harm's way.


wanting to not be friends with my less ambitious friend

It's okay to want more out of life than the people you have as friends.


You act rudely to them or dismiss them or disrespect them in the process.


The people you have as friends aren't going anywhere in life and are holding you back.


expecting my daughter to be the best at something

It is unfair to put pressure on our child to be the best


you know they are already struggling to perform


It has been affecting their self esteem.


The constant support is the attention the child needs to succeed.


The child loses confidence and becomes fearful.


Unless they are trying to get into the Olympics.


You are doing so in a way that allows for failure, too.


It is rude to miss the special day of a family member.


You live down the road from your family.


You have to work under contract that day.


It's understandable to want others to follow game instructions.


Some want the game skewed in your favor through ignorance of the rules.


Everyone wants to play fairly and have a chance to win.


You just don't want to play by house rules.


You are trying to learn people's character by seeing if they play by the rules or cheat.


When you are playing against them and even more so if you are playing for money.


The game is a made up game where there are no rules.


playing videogames with a girl when my gf hates her and has told me not to

It's wrong to do something that can cause a significant other pain.

you are defending yourself when they have attacked you.


they are fragile and might harm themselves.


The thing is necessary to save their life.


You have to break the news that a parent has died.


Your significant other loves and is devoted to you.


Your significant other feels hurt every time you leave for work.


You deliberately meant to cause them pain.


not getting an Uber to pick up my girlfriend and drive her car home because she had been drinking

It's wrong to leave someone you're in a relationship stranded because you don't approve of an activity they're engaged in.

You're afraid your physical safety is in danger where you are.


You're afraid they might get hurt if you leave them alone.


they are simply choosing to help a different church.


you're the only person they can go to about it.


not liking to talk about past sexual relationships

It is okay to keep your personal life confidential.


You're speaking with the police in an investigation.


You made mistakes in your past other people might hold against you.


you do things in your personal life that people would negatively judge you for


You are someone who loves the public eye


not wanting to work with a colleague who was drink driving after a leaving party

Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink and drive.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink and drive.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink and drive.

You are drinking non alcoholic beverages and keeping your eyes on the road.


telling bils wife that our in laws think she's fat and stupid

Families are expected to try to get along.


The family life is abusive and not nurturing.


It's reasonable to decline a birthday invitation.

you're being invited to your best friend's party


you don't know the person who is inviting you


The person celebrating a birthday is counting on you to be there.


You are a great distance away and can't make it.


leaving my current d&d group for another one if they can't agree to be more consistent with scheduling

It's wrong to abandon your group for another one.

Your group wasn't supporting your goals.


Your group has done a lot to support you.


your group is no longer doing anything useful.


Your previous group was into illegal activity


Your group is hardworking and needs you.


not wanting to talk to my father after finding out why he divorced my mother and wasn't there

It is wrong for a parent to abandon their family.


The parent is worried their mental health issues are hurting their family.


They just don't want to deal with their responsibilities anymore.


The parent is harmful towards their children.


The parent is the only provider for the family.


The parent can no longer take care of themselves, no less others.


It's hurtful not to accompany your father on an outing.

Your father has been very abusive to you over the years and you keep a distance from him.


You and your dad have a close bond and he's asked you  to go along.


You and your father do not spend enough time together.


It's wrong to want to be treated better than others just because you have a disability.


you are surrounded by other's with the same disability.


You're just trying to have equal access to the same things as abled people.


You are being given money and prizes that could go to someone else in need.


You are on the verge of finding a cure for cancer.


You live in a community for people with special needs.


It is childish to have an outburst over a required payment.


You have already made the payment and are being asked to do it again.


the amount of the payment is higher than expected.


The payment is small and is barely past due.


wanting to cut my dad out of my life and not was wanting his car

It's wrong to cut your parents out of your life.


They have threatened to try to take custody of your children.


They have financially supported you throughout your adult life.


They didn’t do anything wrong and they love you


putting a note on a guy's windshield? while's he's in the car. tailgaiting

It is better to try to deescalate a road rage incident so all parties can move on.

You're afraid the other person might hurt you very badly if you don't flee.


The person with road rage is brandishing a weapon or trying to run you over.


You do not want to involve the authorities.


You have minor children traveling with you.


The police need to be involved right away.


One should always exhaust all other avenues before contacting child services.


the parents are still involved and trying to fix things


The situation is extremely bad and the child needs to be taken away.


The parents are trying their best to make things work.


their are better options in addressing the problem


This isn't the first time the child has been in danger.


You aren't 100% sure something is wrong.


The threat of imminent terrible harm is present and you have no time for other things.


Other avenues have not been tested yet and there is no imminent danger.


not including my husband into my new friend group

It's wrong to exclude your significant other from meeting your friends.


Your friends have extreme social anxiety.


You spent most nights out with your friends.


You're ashamed of your significant other


You think your friends might react badly and also you need new friends.


You are meeting your friends to plan a surprise party.


considering my alcoholic husband's (sober) lies a separate "choice" from the disease itself

Hypothesis: It is okay to be angry over dishonesty.

the lie was that you look good in that dress.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be angry over dishonesty.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be angry over dishonesty.

Unless the dishonesty is that of a very young child.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be angry over dishonesty.

You had no right to ask the question in the first place.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be angry over dishonesty.

You publicly staked your reputation on that person being honest.


keeping a distant friend blocked after they lost it at me and unfriended me

Hypothesis: It is wrong to ignore your friends


Hypothesis: It is wrong to ignore your friends


Hypothesis: It is wrong to ignore your friends

They are trying to get you involved in criminal activities.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to ignore your friends

They are counting on your help with something you already agreed to help with.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.

They were financially dependent on you one time.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.

You do not do anything to pay them back.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.

You depend on others and do not become independent.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.

You are just being lazy and aren't  getting a job.


not giving my roommate money that would have saved his cat's life

Hypothesis: It's kind to help a roommate in need.


Hypothesis: It's kind to help a roommate in need.


Hypothesis: It's kind to help a roommate in need.

You use the help against your roommate later.


Hypothesis: It's kind to help a roommate in need.

Your roommate is constantly having one crisis after another, all of their own making.


Hypothesis: It's kind to help a roommate in need.

They're normally a very reliable, stable person.


Hypothesis: It's kind to help a roommate in need.

The roommate gambled away all their rent money.


Hypothesis: It's kind to help a roommate in need.

They are short on rent but do extra chores to make up for it.


not wanting my roommates friend living at our house

You should always get permission from your roommates before someone else moves in.


They are going to share your roommate's room.


One of the roommates is the owner of the house.


You are all renting the house and it is the policy of the landlord.


being angry about my boyfriend going on an overseas holiday

It's ok to take trips without your significant other.

it is to a place they have always wanted to go.


your significant other planned on attending.


Hypothesis: Raising your voice at people is rude.

People cannot hear you because you are mumbling.


Hypothesis: Raising your voice at people is rude.

People are strangers with normal hearing.


Hypothesis: Raising your voice at people is rude.


Hypothesis: Raising your voice at people is rude.

They've been shouting at you for several minutes.


Hypothesis: Raising your voice at people is rude.

you are trying to be heard over traffic.


getting angry at my roommate for throwing parties and not notifying me in advance

It's wrong to do things without your roommates consent.

You're cleaning up the house because it's gotten disgusting.


You're taking their things without their consent.


it will be loud when they need to sleep.


The things do not involve the shared living space.


You are having a party or get together at your shared living space.


You are having your boyfriend overnight.


You should stay broken up if you broke up with someone.


You go to counseling and work out your issues.


They drove your car into a ditch with your baby in the car.


You think you can take them back because you love them


there's a chance you two can make it work


you broke up over having opposite opinions on having children


not wanting my brother to come back home

It's okay to not want to see a family member.


they are near death and it might be the last chance to see them.


You promised the family member you would see them.


Your family member was never kind to you.


The family member needs urgent medical help.


Wanting to live in a smoke-free environment is okay.


You are married to a smoker who dislikes going outside.


It's okay not to want to have sex with someone.


telling a Group to shut up during a Movie

Hypothesis: You should be quiet during a movie.


Hypothesis: You should be quiet during a movie.


Hypothesis: You should be quiet during a movie.

It's expected that the audience participates in the dialog, like at a Rocky Horror Picture Show screening.


Hypothesis: You should be quiet during a movie.

The theater is sold out, and every seat is taken.


Hypothesis: You should be quiet during a movie.

You're watching Rocky Horror Picture Show


declining and saying it's offensive to be asked by the bride to drive her bridal car? shes a relative

Relatives should be willing to help each other for important events like a wedding.


They have relevant skills, like being a caterer or florist.


They no longer talk to that family member.


breaking a classmates nose because he called me a "worthless slut"

Hypothesis: You shouldn't retaliate against people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't retaliate against people.

Your toddler is who you want to retaliate against.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't retaliate against people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't retaliate against people.

it's going to be nothing but trouble for you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't retaliate against people.

The people keep hurting you over and over as you do nothing at all.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't retaliate against people.

Doing so would only escalate the problem and create a vicious cycle.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't retaliate against people.

You are an elementary school teacher and they are your student.


You aren't required to remain with family that you don't like.


you are a child living at your parents house


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

You have kids with your partner and are married


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

If you don't pass your classes you'll be drafted to fight in Vietnam.


telling my wife she'd regret not having kids

If your significant other is trying to pressure you into having children, you should end the relationship.

They agree to go to counseling with you to work through your different wants.


You have repeatedly and clearly expressed a desire not to have children.


You've been wanting to have a child too.


They're using manipulation to pressure you.


you are unsure of your feelings and wish to continue discussing the issue.


you are positive you do not want children, and they are positive they do.


intentionally breaking someone Else's Pencil

You should think about what you're really angry about when you do something mean.


You don't want to take your anger out on an innocent person.


you have a clear understanding of what the anger is about


you are not sure what the anger is about


you don't care what is behind your actions.


you want to better understand your behavior.


You tend to regret your actions when you've calmed down.


wanting to move out of my girlfriends apartment

You shouldn't live with your partner if you aren't married.


You're religion prohibits living together.


You are totally committed to each other.


This is a temporary situation for you both for financial reasons.


You should talk to your neighbors first before calling the cops.

your neighbors are the ones committing the crimes


you live in a neighborhood with a lot of people out of status


you are just calling in a noise complaint.


Your neighbor's are the one committing the crime.


calling my older brother out for his behavior

It's good to call people out when they act inappropriately.


It is none of your business to interfere.


You are not their boss and have no power.


They are hurting someone else with the behavior.


What they did was particularly egregious.


shouting at a woman for taking a week off every month

It's wrong for people to take off a lot of time from work.

there is a family emergency or extended illness.


they are sitting around doing nothing instead.


They're very ill in a hospital bed and need time to recover.


They just started their job and are able to work if they want.


They're experiencing serious medical problems.


It's good to discuss your frustrations with others.

You're at work discussing them with customers.


Those others are the cause of the frustrations and you're not ready to talk about it calmly.


You're starting to get tension headaches from suppressing the frustration.


Talking with others will fix the frustration you have with them.


You are discussing your marital problems with your young children.


You are discussing workplace issues with your supervisor.


trying to console my friend and pissing off another friend

Hypothesis: Friends should be understanding.


Hypothesis: Friends should be understanding.

you have always been understanding of your friends.


Hypothesis: Friends should be understanding.


Hypothesis: Friends should be understanding.

You are shoplifting while in their presence.


Hypothesis: Friends should be understanding.

you have done something to deliberately screw them over.


Hypothesis: Friends should be understanding.

They're trying to build trusting relationships.


watching Guardians of the Galaxy with my kids (8,5,5) and neighbor kid

You should get permission before letting someone else's kid watch a more mature movie.

You know their parents frequently let them watch R-rated movies.


You know their parents are very sensitive about violence in media.


You should be there for your friends when they are having mental issues.

they are in the hospital under observation.


you feel grossly unqualified to help them.


The issues your friend is experiencing are triggering for you.


You have resources and time for your friend.


Your friends are so sick they can't be helped or would hurt you if you try.


They ask you for help and you are able to help without harming yourself.


Their mental issues cause them to have violent outbursts and you want to protect yourself.


They have been there for you in the past for the same issues.


telling someone I'm not ready for a relationship and then getting into a relationship

It is dishonest to lie to someone about your relationship desires.


you don't think it's any of their business.


You are just talking to a random stranger.


You want something from that person romantically.


You want to protect them from the truth.


going ballistic on my friend after getting sick of her attitude if she was also being abused

You should be patient to your friends who are being abused.

Unless they seem to like the attention and continue to return when they have other options.


They are trying to find a way out of the situation.


They are putting their children in danger.


They are scared of being killed if they leave.


not having any memories of my grandfather for his funeral and trying to pay my sister to make one up for me

It's expected to share thoughts about someone at their death.

You didn't know the deceased personally.


You were married to the deceased at the time of their passing.


You have only bad things to say about them.


They had a major positive impact on your life.


You are giving a eulogy at their funeral.


getting angry at my mum over a pair of heels

Children shouldn't be cross at their parent.

its only momentarily after a falling out


they're constantly behaving that way and resent their parents


the parent has unfairly punished the child.


They deliberately disobeyed their parent's rules.


not wanting to pay towards the birthday gift

It is bad to not chip in for a group gift

you've just started the job and do not know the person


You purchased the last group gift all by yourself.


It is expected that kids will talk to their parents.


Their parents are always involved in their life.


the parents are busy and don't prompt conversation


they want to have an open relationship with their parents


their parents are helpful and supportive.


It is nice to help and take in a stray animal.


Your apartment doesn't have enough space to keep them in.


not 'saving' my husband from poisonous mushrooms

Hypothesis: You should tell your partner the truth.


Hypothesis: You should tell your partner the truth.

Knowing the truth could change their choices.


Hypothesis: You should tell your partner the truth.


Hypothesis: You should tell your partner the truth.

You want the relationship to last a long time.


Hypothesis: You should tell your partner the truth.

They are depressed and it will hurt them.


wanting my dad to do something about my older brother

You shouldn't expect your family to take care of your problems.

they have a history of looking out for you


You are a small child and you did not cause the problem.


You are a grown adult and the problems are of your own making.


Your family has volunteered to help you.


You are grown enough to move out and get a job


not bringing my nephew with me to his grandparents house

You should do favors for your family when they need you.


You have elderly parents who need help sometimes


your family does favors for you whenever you need them.


kicking a girl who hates me from my Discord server

You are allowed to set boundaries for your spaces.


You are an adult who no longer lives with their parents.


You are waiting in line to get your license.


You like to be able to write on your own.


You live in a one room shared apartment.


getting mad at my boyfriend for saying he'd trade me for $2 million

It's wrong to want to trade your partner for money.


Your partner loves and is dedicated to you.


your children are starving and your partner is willing.


dating my best friends boyfriend when they didn't even go out for a month

It is ok to date a best friends ex if your best friend is the one who encouraged it.


You've all known each other for a long time.


Your best friend's ex is an abusive man.


Your best friend was physically assaulted by that ex.


It's not okay to believe that sometimes people situation isn't to your ideal.


You must understand what people are going through


You want to help out your family and friends.


They are in that situation to help out their parents.


It's not okay to hit or throw things at people.

You are trying to escape a home invader.


They are school children ad you are their bus driver.


you don't want to be arrested for assault.


You are an American-style football player.


You're trying to stop them from beating someone else up.


They're passively resisting instead of hitting back.


talking to my low income friend about being stressed about buying a house

It's wrong to compare your problems to your friends.


you are having the same problems as your friends


your problems pale in comparison to your friends'


they are math problems that you are working on together.


your problems are completely different from theirs.


In doing so you make yourself feel better and less depressed.


Your friends will feel antagonized or think you are jealous of them.


it is to show yourself you are both going through a hard time.


taking back a game system a friend decided to not pay me for

You shouldn't use a game system if you're not planning on paying for it.


a salesman who gets commission has spent a lot of time trying to sell it to you.


getting angry when the group chat I was in and its leader became toxic

It's understandable to become angry when you see injustice and unfairness.

You have to intervene to calm people down as your job.


You are playing a game of hide and seek with your kids.


Your friends or family are involved in the injustice.


you have the power to do something about it.


your anger leads to overreacting to the situation


not deleting nude photos of a girl I legally own the rights to until she paid me back for all the rent she was supposed to pay

It's expected that you honor a contract and pay what you owe.

the other party breaks the contract first


You learned that the contract is unfair.


You have more than enough cash to do so.


The contract was signed in front of witnesses.


not driving over to visit my friend while he is home from college on NYE when I already have plans

Hypothesis: It's expected to make time for friends.

You think all your friends just want to hang with you because you are rich


Hypothesis: It's expected to make time for friends.


Hypothesis: It's expected to make time for friends.

You want to build a stronger bond with your friends.


calling out my boyfriends friends racist jokes

It's okay to call people in your social circle out when they do something wrong.

Your circle believes that discussing issues are more important than finger pointing.


The wrongdoing hurt members of the social circle.


You have done the exact same thing wrong yourself.


They have hurt someone else in the group on purpose.


They have asked to be called out when they mess up.


hitting my girlfriend and breaking up with her because she said I raped someone

It's okay to end a relationship if the person tells damaging lies about you.

They did it to protect your identity as a government agent.


You depend on the other person to support you financially.


You started telling lies about them first.


They have gotten you fired from your job.


The person believes the lies are factual.


You have tried to explain why the lies have no basis in reality.


Hypothesis: It's good to take on new work.


Hypothesis: It's good to take on new work.

You have so much work that you are unable to finish your current projects.


Hypothesis: It's good to take on new work.

You have already taken on too many clients.


Hypothesis: It's good to take on new work.

Especially if you have the time to help others.


not talking to my parents because they are using me... but being ?! maybe I'm the bitch... tell me please

It is expected that family should take care of each other.


Some of the family were separated at birth and don't know what the other family members are going through.


Unless your family is taking advantage of you.


Especially if your family has always taken care of you.


being upset at my mom for not letting me see my sister

Being angry at a family member for keeping you from having a relationship with another family member is OK.


the family member has your best interests in mind


you're being kept from seeing that person because they're homosexual


the family member is trying to keep you away from a dangerous situation.


you have missed significant time with the other family member.


That family member is a parent of yours.


going behind a manager's back at work and speaking to a higher up

It is respectful to talk directly with someone you are having an issue with.

That person does not want to talk to you.


You want to maintain a good relationship with that person.


The other person will not listen to you.


You need to clear the air before taking the next step in a relationship.


They have a no contact order against you.


Your therapist suggests that you should.


You're afraid they'll punch you if you confront them in person.


That person may not be aware you're having an issue.


emailing the Professor that no one is here for the test

Hypothesis: It is important to attend school.

you need to work to support your family.


Hypothesis: It is important to attend school.


Hypothesis: It is important to attend school.

You are homeschooled by parents who can provide you with a better education than the local schools.


breaking up with boyfriend post major operation

It's kind to be gentle when handling break ups and choose the right time.

you are leaving an abusive relationship.


Your partner never went through a breakup before.


Your have simply grown apart from your partner.


You are being abused and need to get out now.


You want the relationship to end on good terms.


your signifigant other is going through a lot.


It's okay to want to stay safe and protect your belongings.


You need to leave them to get away quickly.


You have things that are important to you.


telling off coworkers at work after they equated menstrual cramps to my illness

It is best not to get offended by every little thing.

The little things start piling up everyday.


Someone is proposing to start a Ku Klux Klan chapter at your school.


Everyone around you is trying their best not to be offensive.


You are a medical surgeon performing a risky procedure.


You are a member of a persecuted minority group and you live under a tyrannical regime.


You are dealing with kids who don't really know what they're saying.


telling her I didn't want to talk to her

It is rude to tell someone you don't want to talk to them.


your lawyer told you not to speak to them.


being hurt about my ex hanging out with her ex in my house

Hypothesis: It's rude to take advantage of others.


Hypothesis: It's rude to take advantage of others.

You want to maintain a healthy relationship with them.


Hypothesis: It's rude to take advantage of others.


Hypothesis: It's rude to take advantage of others.

They don't have a lot of money or resources.


being scared by comments people in my class make about my skin

You should learn to ignore other's hateful comments.

You want to confront the person who said the hateful things.


You hear them in a movie you are watching.


you want to show them you aren't bothered.


ending a 24 year friendship with my best friend

It's acceptable to get out a friendship that you don't enjoy anymore.

Your that person's only friend and they badly need emotional support.


You plan on being rude when you end the friendship.


You are trying to set healthy boundaries in your life.


it can be fixed with a little compromise.


You're stranded on a desert island and there's no other people around.


being angry with my girlfriend for wearing her wedding ring

It's hurtful to remind a lover of your past relationships.

It's to illustrate how good you have it now.


They specifically ask you about them themselves out of interest.


They never ask you about them and you compare them to the current one.


you are trying to help them understand your trauma


You are having a casual conversation about your exes.


You have asked them to not speak about past relationships.


not wanting to resolve things with my best friend

You should not engage in anything that may cause a rift in a friendship.


not trusting so due to past relationship

It's understandable to be wary in a relationship due to past experiences.

Your partner has done nothing but exceed expectations.


You have been cheated on by multiple people.


You've been in the relationship for a very long time.


All your past experiences have been positive.


You were severely abused in a previous relationship.


making a sarcastic joke about plastic surgery

It's wrong to poke fun at someone just because they had plastic surgery.

That person has often made fun of other people based on their appearance.


They feel very insecure about their appearance.


they make the joke first and you laugh with them.


they are self-conscious about their surgery.


They had no problem mocking others who have done the same.


They had plastic surgery just to please someone of the opposite sex.


They had plastic surgery to improve their own self esteem.


objecting to my wife's work commitments and the burden they place on me with respect to child care

It's okay to object to your partner's work commitments if they interfere with your life.

you knew how demanding the job was going into the relationship.


They are the only sole earner in the relationship.


They can benefit the both of you in the end.


It's acceptable to call people out when they do or say something wrong.


they're putting someone else in danger with what they say


You think they will become violent if you do.


cancelling my own wedding reception after my parents took complete control of planning it

You should always respect the desires of family members.

The desires contradict with your personal beliefs.


The desires are understandable and can easily be accomplished.


They want you to spend money that you don't have.


They want you to babysit a younger sibling.


asking my so to eat like a normal human being

It's wrong to make fun of your partner's eating habits.

They are trying to be silly while eating.


They are very self conscious about how they eat.


Your partner purposely eats spaghetti without using silverware.


They are on a special diet for medical reasons.


Especially if they are on a special diet.


Your partner can't eat certain foods for health reasons.


not visiting my grandfather who's in ICU

It's not okay to expect someone to drop everything to come to the hospital while you're there.

There is a chance you die due to illness.


you're in the hospital for something not so serious


You are constantly in and out of the hospital.


You are waiting for an X-ray in the emergency room.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe.

The product or service you owe money for is being disputed.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe.

You want your  credit score to remain high.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe.

You feel certain that you were charged way too much to begin with.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe.

You agreed to do so earlier in a contract and it is reasonable.


It's okay to not want to speak with someone even if they want to speak with you.

It is your mom or dad and they are dying


breaking up with my girlfriend because of her unintentional toxicity and incompatibility

You shouldn't be with someone who is not compatible with you.

You rely on them to financially support you.


You constantly fight with each other and put each other down.


The person is caring and lovable toward you.


You are in an arranged marriage in a foreign country.


The incompatibility is on major issues, not trivial ones.


you are looking for a long-term relationship.


not dating someone that shares my beliefs

It's expected that you'll be open to other's beliefs while dating.


You want that person to feel listened to.


Your religion only allows you to date someone with the same beliefs.


You are both of the Christian faith but different denominations.


You have a very rigid religious doctrine you follow


you agree to disagree on certain things in the beginning.


that is a relationship requirement both of you have.


Hypothesis: It is rude to laugh at other people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to laugh at other people.

You are watching a performance of a comedy


Hypothesis: It is rude to laugh at other people.

You are in the audience at a comedy show.


It is nice to give family another chance to made amends.


That family member got treatment for a mental illness.


There's a good chance they'll hit you again.


Each interaction just ends in escalated violence.


Especially when they are truly remorseful.


You have already given them several chances.


not wanting to attend SO's family's Christmas events

It's expected that partners attend each other's family events.


they are important events that are happening.


Both are still very close to their families.


their families are supportive of their partnership.


Both events are scheduled at the same time on the same date.


telling my bf that in case I get pregnant, I get to make the last call on whether we are keeping it or not

It's ok to make your own reproductive choices.

You're underage and you want to get pregnant.


You lie to your partner about your choices.


You tell your partner what your choices are.


not removing beer mugs from my wedding registry

Hypothesis: You should be grateful for a gift.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful for a gift.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful for a gift.

It's something that you said you didn't want.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful for a gift.

it was given to you by someone who doesn't have much to their name


Hypothesis: You should be grateful for a gift.

someone took the time to make the gift by hand.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful for a gift.

it is one that causes financial hardship.


"dumping" a girl who screamed at me on our 3rd date

Hypothesis: It's wrong to scream at someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to scream at someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to scream at someone.

They are about to cross into oncoming traffic.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to scream at someone.

you are doing so in an argument in private


Hypothesis: It's wrong to scream at someone.

you are in a public place like on a train


wanting to raise an issue with my boss over an unfairly judged competition at work

Hypothesis: It is bad to be unfair.

One child needs more help with homework than another child.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be unfair.

Both children are equally needy for your help but you favor one over the other.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be unfair.

that unfairness is done to address a previous unfairness


Hypothesis: It is bad to be unfair.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be unfair.

The bias is based on gender, race, or sexual orientation.


Hypothesis: It is bad to be unfair.

You're helping someone less fortunate over someone who has a lot of money.


spending more time with my girl best friend than my girlfriend

Never spend more time with anyone else other then your partner.


You have babies or young children that need constant attention.


You and your partner work opposite schedules and you spend more time with coworkers.


telling my mom I won't be telling her my university grades

You should ask for help if your grades are poor enough that you want to hide them from your parents.

You can't afford to give up your part-time job


you're planning on dropping out of school to pursue a music career


They are bad because you just didn't do the work.


getting upset at my brother over the way he's treating our pets

Hypothesis: It is important to take care of pets.


Hypothesis: It is important to take care of pets.

They are rescue pets with a history of maltreatment.


Hypothesis: It is important to take care of pets.


Hypothesis: It is important to take care of pets.

The pet is an outdoor cat more than capable of taking care of itself.


Hypothesis: It is important to take care of pets.

Your pet is so domesticated it can't take care of itself.


Hypothesis: It is important to take care of pets.

you are their owner and are responsible for their welfare.


It is okay to expect both partners to contribute financially to a relationship.

One of the people in the relationship is disabled and cannot work.


Both people earn the same amount of the money.


one partner far out earns the other partner


If you do not want to give away money it is acceptable to decline to donate.

You're at an event that requires donation for entry.


You're at an event that is free to enter.


you are a wealthy person and should be giving away money


you don't have the means to donate in any event


You feel others have to make up for your portion.


telling my friend to stop worrying about me

Hypothesis: You should only worry about yourself.


Hypothesis: You should only worry about yourself.


Hypothesis: You should only worry about yourself.

You have a chance to better someone else's life.


Hypothesis: You should only worry about yourself.

No one in your life ever cared about you


It's rude to make yourself comfortable if it makes someone else uncomfortable.


You infringe on someone else's personal space


you're trying to foster a comfortable relationship.


that person has said that they don't mind the discomfort


you do so to your partner or spouse at home


A kind person gives up their seat for you on a bus and you have a broken leg.


You rush ahead and take the last seat in front of an elderly lady.


not being able to communicate in a long distance relationship during competitive exams

When you are in a long distance relationship you are expected to make time for your partner.


You won't be seeing them in person for a long time.


You're not really keen on pursuing the relationship because you  don't think it will work out.


You're not able to see each other in person much and you want the relationship to work in the end.


You don't have much time to spare due to work.


You have not had contact with them for some time.


annoying someone who keeps pissing me off

It's wrong to be be annoying to people regardless of what they done.

You're trying to get someone from doing something bad even though it's annoying them.


You're trying to be friends with people.


You have a disability that you cannot control.


You're being annoying just to annoy them.


They cannot help themselves due to disability.


cutting my mother-in-law out of my sons life? t

It can be okay to not allow relatives to see your children if the situations calls for it.

The child has a bond with a relative and it would give the child abandonment issues to lose the relationship.


They have been abusive to or tried to kidnap the child.


Unless the traveled a long ways to see them.


You made plans and canceled at the last minute.


they are dying and want to see family one last time.


they had harmed your children in the past.


If someone you aren't friends with anymore is being rude, it's okay to get angry at them.


You're at work in a customer service position.


You're in a public place on your free time.


they are screaming at you about something.


giving my friend a reality check on her weight and ego

You should try and get your friend to consider talking to a doctor if you fee there choices are bad for their health.


Doing so would cross boundaries that your friend would be very angry at you about.


It is obvious that your friend may get very sick and doesn't know how to help himself.


They haven't asked for your opinion or help.


They have cancer and want to try holistic remedies instead of chemo or radiation.


Your friend can't afford to go to the doctor.


They have made their position clear to you.


having sex with a girl that was about to end her relationship

It's understandable to want to have sex with an attractive girl


commenting on a customers order so they would tip for once

It is rude if you expect a tip and say something to your customer about it.

You get paid less than minimum wage and depend on tips to survive.


You're demanding and whiny when you ask for it.


You are close friends with the customer.


you think the customer made an honest mistake.


the customer is not American and doesn't understand tipping.


you're explaining a really sad story about your life to them


The restaurant has mandatory tipping on large parties.


It's good to set up some guidelines about house expectations when living with roommates.


You've lived together before without any issues.


You were raised in very different kinds of household.


You are moving in as them doing a favor for you.


Your roommates don't intend to be home often.


not sending money or visiting my brother in prison

It's good to visit relatives who are in prison.


They have been wrongly accused of a crime.


they need support from the outside world


they have lost their visitation privileges.


they don't have any other friends or relatives.


It's polite to visit very sick family members.


they are lonely and would like to have visitors.


not allowing a dude I barely know to put his stuff in my seat on the bus

Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

you have been surrounded by people all day.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

You are in the military with your drill sergeant.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell your friend off.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell your friend off.

Your friend was giving you constructive criticism.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell your friend off.

unless their behavior has been completely unacceptable.


thinking the parent on parental leave should be the one getting up with the baby at night

It's bad to resent your partner for not doing what you haven't asked them to do.

It is something common that they should do like wash their dishes.


It's a basic expectation, like showering.


They promised that they would do what you asked several times.


telling my sisters boyfriend she's had another guy round

It's okay to want someone to know they are being cheated on.


You want the person to be believing in a lie.


You have evidence to prove the cheating happened.


they have an open relationship and you should give them privacy


that information would break their heart.


It's wrong to wake up someone that is sleeping.

They're going to be late for something important.


there's an emergency that requires their help


they have told you that they don't want to be disturbed


refusing to put my dog in the cage for my step father over my dog coughing

It is better to take a pet somewhere they would not need to be caged than to cage them.

They are goldfish that will decimate a habitat.


Your pet is so wild and dangerous that cages would protect others.


They're a bird or some animal that really needs and likes their own space and freedom.


Your only option for your pet while you vacation is a boarding kennel.


A relative volunteers to watch your pet while you vacation.


It's hurtful to be critical of someone you've promised to support.


The promise was made years ago under different circumstances.


Someone made important decisions based on your promise of support.


Unless the criticism is necessary to help better something about themselves so they can  achieve what they want.


They are already being criticized for the same thing by everyone else.


the critique lays in an attempt to be helpful and honest


ending a good relationship although my GF did nothing wrong

It's impolite to terminate a relationship for trivial reasons.


The other person wants the relationship to end also.


You've brought up the issues several times and your partner ignores you.


You haven't talked about the issues with your partner.


They have treated you poorly the entire relationship.


You terminate the relationship because they ordered you the wrong coffee.


you are just going to change your mind in a week.


It's understandable to want to keep part of a deposit someone has made.


They have followed the agreement made for a refund.


They left the apartment they rented from you a complete mess.


You promised to give the whole deposit back.


It is expected to upset people if they don't meet the baby.


the people are ill and can infect the baby.


It is expected that you would be upset if your kid cursed at you.


they are adults and you are joking around.


You have always talked respectful towards them.


You are both adults and it wasn't in anger.


Your kid was repeating something a kid said at school.


accidentally roasting the band Smashmouth

It's good to be careful so that you don't accidentally make fun of someone.


That means you become so anxious you can barely speak at all.


You've been prone to making gaffes in the past.


Especially if they are handicapped in any way.


not wanting to visit my mentally abusing step mother

It is okay to stay away from people who hurt you.


You have a custodial agreement for children with them.


You are afraid they will hurt you again.


You're testifying against them in court for their crimes they've committed.


You don't want to be hurt by them again.


Not liking the smell of weed is acceptable.


thinking it's weird that an 8th grader is dating a 6th grader

It's okay to be uncomfortable with age gaps in relationships

one partner is a minor and another is not


The people are older when they got together.


The couple got together when one person was under age.


not being able to come to a family holiday because I've made my own plans and now I've been cut off and disowned

Hypothesis: It is okay to miss family events.


Hypothesis: It is okay to miss family events.

You live too far away to travel there often.


Hypothesis: It is okay to miss family events.


Hypothesis: It is okay to miss family events.

Your family recently underwent a tragedy.


Hypothesis: It is okay to miss family events.

You were assaulted by one of your cousins.


not giving my colleague a lift to subway

You should try to be supportive of your coworkers and help them when you're able

you're not able to get your own work done.


Unless they are working on something you are not familiar with.


Especially if they help you when you need it.


they could reccomend you for a promotion.


You're trying to build stronger working relationships.


Your coworkers talk badly about you all the time


They helped you out when you were just starting


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue with your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue with your parents.

they are looking out for your best interests.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue with your parents.

Unless they want you to do something bad.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue with your parents.

Especially if they only want the best for you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue with your parents.

They are looking out for your well-being.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue with your parents.

they are on the verge of making a big mistake


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue with your parents.

they are simply trying to teach you something from their perspective


giving my friend advice on how to raise his dog

Hypothesis: It is rude to give unsolicited advice.

you really feel like it will help someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to give unsolicited advice.


Hypothesis: It is rude to give unsolicited advice.

You keep giving the same unhelpful advice over and over again.


Hypothesis: It is rude to give unsolicited advice.

Especially if nobody asked you for your advice.


complaining about the school musical on Instagram

It is mean to put down a school musical in social media.

You are the school journalist writing an op-ed.


It is a school for people with mental and/or physical disabilities.


You are writing a review for the school paper.


you don't want to hurt the kids' feelings.


They are college students in acting school.


wanting my future kids to not believe in mythical stories

It is understandable to want to raise children your own way.


Especially if you didn't like the way you were raised.


You're teaching them how to be a criminal.


You want them to be well behaved in public.


telling a little girl to wash her hands after going to the bathroom

It's helpful to guide young children in the proper way to clean up after using the bathroom.

The child is too young to learn that kind of skill.


The child has expressed a desire to potty train.


Their parents have asked you to leave them alone


They are your children and your responsibility.


bailing on a family vacation because they told me I had to suddenly plan all the logistics a week before we all fly out

It's inconsiderate to ask one person to plan a trip for the whole family.

They are going to be paying for the entire trip.


The person is employed as a travel agent.


Other adults are available to help plan.


the other family members are all children.


everyone wants to be happy with the plans.


Especially if everyone has a different interest.


telling a former friend I didn't want to be friends anymore

It is good to be honest with other people.

They are the police and your honesty would incriminate you or a loved one.


You want a lasting and trusting relation ship with them.


The person has asked you to lie to them.


you are hiding something that is important


Being honest with them would put your safety or freedom at risk.


helping everyone but one kid in the class with homework

It's wrong to help some people and not others.


The people you are not helping are the enemy and it is a time of war.


You are working for a charity that does not have qualifying requirements for aid.


you're doing it because of their gender.


being upset my boyfriend wanted to stay at a mates

Partners should have time apart to spend with friends.


You have not had much time to be together recently.


They need to spend more time together for their relationship.


They enjoy having many friends in their lives.


asking my boyfriend to stop his "no 'poo" hair care temporarily

It is wrong to control what another person does with their body.


It is each persons right to do what they want


Your objections come from a religion they do not follow


unless they are trying to commit suicide and you want to stop them.


what they are doing is none of your business.


that person is your partner or you're their guardian


that person is of age and you're not a relationship with them


telling my parents my little brother will never get better

It's wrong to think badly about your brother.


He was there for you when you were younger.


He confesses he is a serial killer, child molester or other extreme kind of deviant.


wanting to be the one who decides whos invited to my sons christening

It's okay to want events of our families to go the way we think we should.


You're expecting for everyone to enjoy each other's company.


Your expectations are so high Martha Stewart couldn't meet them.


You just want everyone to be nice to each other for one day.


You have malicious intent for the event.


It's ok to call someone out for breaking the law.

It was something very minor like jay walking.


Your own safety is in danger and you can safely call 911.


not giving money to a kid that came up to my car bagging me while I was in the middle of ordering food at a drive through

It's wrong to interrupt others when they're busy.


they are studying for an important test.


There is an important phone call for them.


You are informing them the building is on fire.


They have requested you don't interrupt them.


not giving a business owner his phone number back

It is smart to keep something that someone else wants.


They are willing to pay a lot of money for it.


It is cigarettes and they are trying to quit


experimineting with drugs despite my girlfriend's feelings

It is rude to do things behind others backs.


them finding out what you're doing would put them in danger


they expect loyalty from you in your relationship with them


The things you're doing are to hide a gift for them.


The things you're doing are to embarrass them later.


You are around very nosey people or are planning a surprise party.


The other people are family or close friends or you are doing something nefarious.


not wanting to throw a huge and expensive party for my daughter's first birthday

It's wrong not to spend money on your kids.


You're living in poverty and they want something that's extravagant.


It's for school supplies or clothing or food.


you don't have enough money for simple things like food


your kids have a variety of needs you can afford to cover


not wanting to be in one of my best friend's wedding

You should expect your friends to be there for your wedding.

you're holding your wedding in a foreign country


They live too far away to manage the trip.


You have your wedding on a Tuesday afternoon.


getting mad at my boyfriend for eating my food

You should share with your significant other.


wanting to go to a music festival without my girlfriend

It's okay to want to get away from your significant other every once in a while

You are perfectly happy with them as your sole companion.


Your significant other goes out with his friends often.


You never enjoy spending time with them.


rejecting a friend and then ghosting our friendship

It's not right to give someone the slip without telling them why.

They asked you not to explain it to them.


They're your younger sibling who depends on you for a ride.


they likely know without you having to tell them.


not wanting to share my things with housemate

Hypothesis: Don't be greedy.

Your family is struggling to afford food and clothing.


Hypothesis: Don't be greedy.


Hypothesis: Don't be greedy.

Nobody else is around to take the items.


Hypothesis: Don't be greedy.

There are many people who need the items.


Hypothesis: Don't be greedy.

your greed gets you resources for people who really need them.


Hypothesis: Don't be greedy.

there are people who need things as well.


asking my friend to stop dating our mutuals

It's not fair to tell someone who they can or can't date.


they're children and you're their parents


They are trying to date your significant other.


They are an adult who makes their own decisions.


you are a parent looking after a minor child.


you are not a parent of the person involved.


not wanting to hang out with some people

It's ok to not spend time with people if you're not in the mood.


You're at a party where yo udon't know anyone.


You promised to spend time with them and they'd be really disappointed if you canceled.


You are the guest of honor at a gathering.


They are reaching out because they're lonely.


You haven't had any time to yourself lately.


You need to use the time to work on a project together.


You were going to watch movies together.


thinking my friend should refund fundraising money people contributed to

You should refund money if you owe it to them.


you know the transaction was fraudulent.


You shouldn't buy jewelry for someone who is in a relationship.

You are the other person in the relationship.


You are buying jewelry for your own mother.


You're buying them a friendship bracelet.


being upset that my husband didn't do anything for Valentine's day

It's understandable to be angry if your significant other didn't do something for you on a special day.

Your significant other has been working very hard for you.


They accidently forgot about the special day.


They're a doctor who's working overtime to deal with a natural disaster.


They also forgot your birthday and anniversary.


It's normal to play computer games when you're young.


Your parents' have taken away your computer games for bad grades.


not showering them with praise and gratitude

You should be grateful when people do nice things for you.


the person is doing it to get something from you.


The nice things were supposed to make up for something awful


The nice thing involved illegal activities


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon a family member.

you must in order to save your own child.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon a family member.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a sibling coldly.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a sibling coldly.

the sibling has done something to deserve it.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a sibling coldly.

the sibling has apologized for their behavior.


hosting a party and drinking a bottle of my roommate/ex booze with my friends but replacing it before she had a chance of even opening it

It's okay to make use of what you have at hand in a pinch.


You have a school project due in a few hours.


You do not have time for something better.


You have to improvise a bandage for someone who's bleeding heavily.


thinking of seizing contact with best friend months after she did the same to me. * ed trigger warning

It's petty to act in a juvenile manner towards a friend in retaliation for them previously acting that way.

It's the only way the friend will understand the lesson you're trying to teach them about their behavior.


Your friend has apologized since and the relationship is moving on.


You are immature and seek revenge on them.


You are a mature adult who has forgiven them.


That is the only way you going get something across to them, do unto others goes both ways.


You want to be taken seriously and not lower your standards.


not understanding why my boyfriend is upset

It's not okay to not sympathize with another person when they are in pain.

That other person was attempting to do harm when they were instead harmed.


You've gone through the same pain in the past.


You warned them about doing what led them to injure themselves.


You're close emotionally to that person.


not carrying a suitcase to the 3rd floor

It's fine not to do something that can cause you pain.


You need to give have a shot because of an emergency.


You must jump into freezing cold water to save a drowning child.


You're trying to rescue someone that's trapped in a collapsed building.


You're trying to recover from an injury.


fact checking my bosses false claims of inadequate productivty

You shouldn't lie about productivity at work.

You're only making a joke about it with a co-worker.


You're being paid by each piece that you produce.


The reports the supervisor pulls will reveal the true numbers.


You can meet the productivity within a couple of minutes.


You are lying to get a promotion over more qualified people.


not being excited for my sister-in-law's baby

People generally expect you to be excited for a baby born in the family.


It is your grandparents first grandchild.


your wife is giving birth to another mans child.


you have lost a child or had a miscarriage.


the couple has been trying for a long time.


the baby was born out of wedlock and you're religious


demanding that my husband showers before getting into bed

It's okay to demand a partner bathe before going to bed.


The partner works midnights and goes to bed before work.


The partner just came home from work and is sweaty and dirty.


You do not want them to feel self conscious.


getting mad over my girlfriend doing something before we were dating but I asked her to be exclusive

It's okay to try many different romantic interests before settling on one.


There aren't many eligible single people in your area.


You aren't sure what you're looking for in a partner yet.


You need to pick a man to marry to satisfy your rich family


telling a hookup about someone else sharing their business

Hypothesis: It's good to confide in your partner.

Your partner is abusive and not trustworthy.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in your partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in your partner.

it would make him an accomplice to a crime


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in your partner.

They tell your secrets to their friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in your partner.

You want to build a much stronger bond with them.


You should respect other people's relationships.

Your best friend's new partner is purposely putting a wedge between you two.


They are two strangers in the store next to you.


They are your grandfather who has been lonely for fifty years.


You don't know either of them personally.


breaking up with my girlfriend while she's in the hospital

People are expected to want to stay in a relationship.


They get along really well and love one another.


Their partner never listens to their thoughts or feelings.


They connect with their partner emotionally and sexually.


The relationship becomes toxic or abusive.


Their religion does not allow for divorces.


They are married and are raising children.


cancelling my daughter's visit with her Dad

It's hurtful to cancel your child's visit with her parent.


They haven't seen their child in months.


the other parent is psychologically damaging.


being mad at my boyfriend when he brings up his ex

It is important to listen to other people.


They are lying to you or trying to coerce you into immoral or illegal actions.


They have knowledge and wisdom and your best interests at heart.


They do not speak a language you understand.


They are trying to teach you how to do something.


Important information has come on the news.


They are telling you something important.


being angry at my friends over videogames

It's wrong to be angry with your friends over trivial things.

They continue to make the same mistake over and over.


You don't tell them that you are angered by it.


They keep doing the same thing over and over again to annoy you.


You do more annoying things on a regular basis.


Unless they always do trivial things to upset you.


Especially if you've been good friends for a long time.


telling my boyfriend how to treat something he bought me

You should respect other people's belongings.

They originally stole the belongings from you.


You know they'd press charges if they caught you stealing.


Your friend asks to get something from her bag.


The person abandoned the belongings for more than 30 days.


they are not claimed in the lost and found.


not wanting my stepdad to be in the same room with me while I'm changing

It's acceptable to expect privacy while changing.

You're an inmate in prison for committing a crime.


You're changing in your own home bedroom with the door closed.


telling a gay person that I felt uncomfortable around them in front of my whole class

It's wrong to tell someone something hurtful in public.


giving my friends blanket to an injured woman

Hypothesis: It's good to help out people in need.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out people in need.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out people in need.

You barely make enough money to cover your own needs.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out people in need.

Helping those people would cause you harm.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out people in need.

You have the time and ability to help people.


It's a sign of maturity to be able to be friends with someone who you're not longer intimate with.


you are just trying to become intimate again.


you can still be yourselves around each other.


You're trying to become intimate with them again.


ghosting a guy on a dating app that I had an intense rape dream about

It's okay to not want to talk to someone that says disturbing things to you.

You are in court testifying against them.


You have a restraining order against them.


You are a therapist working with a client.


You are catcalled while walking down the street.


They are your doctor and trying to inform you about your in illness and your options.


You are pregnant and they want to tell you labor horror stories.


you are a policeman investigating a crime.


Hypothesis: It's good to invite others over to eat.


Hypothesis: It's good to invite others over to eat.

you have anxiety eating in front of others.


Hypothesis: It's good to invite others over to eat.

You have a one on one date planned with your partner.


buying a beer for a girl who was dancing with my friends

It is friendly to offer to buy people drinks at a bar.

You are buying drinks for someone's date.


Especially if they are there to celebrate an accomplishment of yours.


you want to strike up a conversation with them


The person doesn't seem to want you to get them anything.


The person seems to be looking for a date.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be extroverted.

You are making other people uncomfortable.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be extroverted.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be extroverted.

You're surrounded by introverts in a very small room.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be extroverted.

You're supposed to appear shy for a play.


moving out because my roommate is self destructive

If someone is going through a rough time, it's rude to abandon them.

They keep screaming abuse every time you call.


That person is your enabler for bad things.


taking on a new job, leaving my boss after they've helped me

Hypothesis: It's OK to change jobs.

You already changed jobs several times the past year


Hypothesis: It's OK to change jobs.


Hypothesis: It's OK to change jobs.

You're trying to avoid being caught for theft.


Hypothesis: It's OK to change jobs.

You're trying to get a higher rate of pay.


Hypothesis: It's OK to change jobs.

You own a business that your whole family works at.


asking a guy on a ski lift to stop smoking and wait until he's off the lift

It's impolite to tell a stranger what to do.

You're a police officer directing traffic.


The stranger has a lot more experiencing at the task they're attempting than you do.


you don't know what you're talking about


You're shouting and yelling at the stranger.


tossing an acquaintance a charity donation

It is good to give a donation to a charity when you can.

Unless it would make you go without something you need.


Especially if the charity helps a lot of people.


The charity doesn't use the donations to help people.


The charity has a great record of helping people.


You are giving money to a fake charity that scams people.


It is a reputable charity that helps sick children.


you have benefited from charities in the past


asking my wife to send my parents pictures of our kid

It's acceptable to want to have pictures of ones kids


you already have so many that it's a burden.


One is in the hospital and can't see their children.


You are Amish and don't believe in taking photographs.


leaving my bf when it's not really his fault but the situation we're in

It's wrong to let someone down because of a situation they are in.

They are a danger to themselves and others sue to mental illness.


They are a criminal and put themselves in the situation.


It is a true emergency and you are able to help.


You are really doing them a favor by not helping.


They are your best friend and were counting on you.


being upset that the girl I'm seeing cancelled a coffee date because of her ex

It's understandable to be upset if a girl you are interested in is still influenced by her ex.

she's made it clear she doesn't like you


there is no way you will hook up with her.


They're trying to get back together with her.


She doesn't want to get into another relationship.


thinking you can't trust someone and be skeptical at the same time

Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust everyone.

You want to appease everyone all the time.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust everyone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust everyone.

your life literally depends on trusting everyone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust everyone.

People have given you a reason to not trust them.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust everyone.

You only deal with immediate family and closest friends.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust everyone.

You deal with a lot of people through social networks.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust everyone.

Your distrust rises to the level of clinical paranoia.


taking my 3yo out to do something fun whilst my partner is at work

It is good to spend time with your child.


Your child loathes spending time with you.


not wanting my roommates girlfriend to be at my house all the time

You should set clear boundaries with your roommate about who and when you can have people over.

You're so easygoing that you don't mind anyone coming and going anytime.


You're a more private person and your roommate is very social.


Your roommate is out of town for a week.


you don't care about people coming over.


falling asleep without texting my mom back

It is important to keep contact with your parents.

Your parents are degrading and toxic people.


They moved to another country to get away from you.


not wanting to wear a suit jacket to my brother's wedding before his fiancé dies

One should respect their family member's wishes.

they interfere with one's personal beliefs


those wishes lead to illegal or dangerous outcomes.


they are a family member's final wishes.


they are hiding something from another person.


repeating that I have asd after a guy makes me uncomfortable

It is polite to repeat yourself if someone does not understand you.


They are asking for directions to the nearest hospital.


They speak another language so repeating will not solve the problem.


the person you're talking to doesn't want to hear what you're saying


not caring to hang out after she cancelled

Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

You just don't feel like dealing with traffic that evening.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

you went to another persons party instead.


asking my husband to stop taking his phone into the bathroom

It's wrong to use your phone in the bathroom.


You are very sick in the bathroom and are calling for help.


You have to flush the toilet while you are speaking to your boss.


you're sure that you won't drop it in the toilet.


not wanting to live in a gated community

Living in a gated community is expected to be a luxury.


it has been taken over by public housing.


there are expensive condos behind the gates.


The houses are mansions with finely manicured lawns.


getting a job done myself when my bil offered to help

It can be very rewarding to complete a job on your own.

the job is raising walls on a new house.


You were supposed to have help on the job.


People doubted that you could do the job.


walking fast like everyone in NYC and bumping into someone

It is okay to walk fast like everyone in NYC if you are in a hurry.


you're walking with someone who can't walk very quickly


everyone else around you is walking quickly too


not wanting to go to a surprise engagement party 8 hours away

Supporting your friends in their important moments is the sign of a true friend.

You disagree with how your friends made it to where they are.


You've helped them throughout the process.


You are busy at work but always make time.


You've been too sick to be in contact with your friend for some time.


You live near your friend and see them often.


You're only supporting the person to get something you want in return.


You don't have the resources to comfortably support your friend.


You are just doing it for selfish reasons.


You have have to sacrifice your time and money to do so.


telling my friend that a mutual friend of ours made out with his ex

It is understandable that your friend will be angry if you tell them that another friend made out with their ex.


your friend still had feelings for their ex.


walking out during service at a busy time

It is rude to walk out in the middle of a service.

you feel that the message is unfair or hateful


you wish to not be seen as disrespectful


You received an important message from work.


cutting my daughter off financially but not my Son

It is wrong when parents do not treat their kids equally.


they do so to reward a child for their good behavior


they want the children to not be competitive


one child needs different rules than the other.


One child is disabled and requires more attention.


The neglect is affecting one child's physical and emotional health.


You should always honor people's requests.


They are your boss and you want to keep the job.


The requests are simple and from a friend.


People will be hurt fulfilling the request.


You are a chef and the request is to prepare food without allergens.


If someone does something nice for you you should do the same.


you are unable to reciprocate the gesture.


The person who did the nice thing is someone you don't like.


The person who did the nice thing is your best f riend.


Hypothesis: It's good not to eat sweet things.

You're at a party or celebration and aren't doing it too often.


Hypothesis: It's good not to eat sweet things.

That's the majority of your diet and you are not getting proper nutrients otherwise.


Hypothesis: It's good not to eat sweet things.


Hypothesis: It's good not to eat sweet things.

Someone baked a special treat just for you


Hypothesis: It's good not to eat sweet things.

You cut down on how much soda you drink.


Hypothesis: It's good not to eat sweet things.

You get sick when you eat too many sweet things.


being annoyed because my girlfriend pees so much

It is unfair to be upset about bodily functions.


someone does them incessantly in front of you


the person doing them does not feel well


The person deliberately urinated on your bed.


The person is sick and can't help vomiting.


you have a medical issue that is not controllable.


not caring if me and my parents don't talk for 20 years

You shouldn't stick your nose into your parent's personal business.

Their business is focused on your college education.


It involves matters that don't concern you.


You can only cause friction between them if you do.


they are seeking privacy in the situation


not wanting to invite more people to my wedding in hopes that a friend may "get lucky"

It's okay to invite only as many people as you want to your wedding.


You are purposely leaving someone out, like a close family member, to hurt them.


You cannot afford to invite a lot of people.


Your spouse would like to invite more people to the wedding.


You can only afford to invite a certain amount of people.


You can afford the cost for that many people.


your parents have a tight budget to host it


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to accuse someone.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to accuse someone.

Especially if that person has done nothing to hurt you.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to accuse someone.

You have evidence from a hidden-camera tape.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to accuse someone.

they have not done what you are accusing them of.


expecting stepson to do his chores still now that he gas a job

It is considerate to do other things to help out the household if you can no longer preform a duty you used to do.


You can no longer do heavy lifting in the garden so you sit in the garden.


You can no longer do heavy lifting in the garden so you care for houseplants.


telling my neighbors who keep feeding my cat and causing my cat to not spend time at home and gain lots of weight to stop feeding him

It is wrong to feed a cat if someone asks you not to and it is not yours.


there is a law against feeding feral cats.


You know it's a stray and they have no more connection to it than you do.


asking her out while she's going through something

It's wrong to go out with someone if you're going through a hard time in your life.


The other person actually wants a relationship and you don’t


The person is going through the same issues as yourself.


You are taking out your problems on them.


You can still give 100%  to your relationship.


you can handle your business and your relationship.


calling bs on my friend who got "molested" at a sleep-over

It's wrong to accuse a friend of something you don't have proof of.


You've had several reliable witnesses tell you they think that particular thing is happening.


Your friend would be very hurt if the accusation isn't true.


The circumstantial evidence is overwhelming.


There are other people who might have done you wrong.


there is nobody else that could have done the thing.


the friend has proof that they didn't do something.


refusing to go to church and as punishment my room gets searched, bong broken and weed flushed

It is wrong to break someone else's belongings.


You have to break their car window to rescue their overheating dog.


They have agreed to let you use them for target practice.


You had no permission to even touch them.


not letting my mum (s) look through my stuff

It's normal to want to go through your child's things.


You think your middle school student is vaping.


You suspect they are talking to strangers on the internet.


You suspect your child is hiding something.


Your child is an adult and doesn't live with you.


You should help other people when you can.

You work overtime often and are having financial difficulty.


You have the spare time and money to do so.


The other person is being very unappreciative.


You are trying to be a helpful member of the community.


you need to take care of yourself first.


cutting off contact with my best friend of four years because she was rude and is a bad listener

It's understandable to want your friends to listen to you.

You've been bugging them or trying to control them and they're sick of it.


You listen to them and respect their opinions and value the friendship.


You keep talking about a topic they find very boring.


Something really infuriating just happened to you.


Your friends are angry because you hurt them.


You complain about the same issues to them daily.


They are your only outlet of social support.


not letting my girlfriends dad in our house

Rejecting your partner's family can make them think less of you.


They already had an extremely low opinion of you.


They don't get along with their family either.


They have accepted your family with open arms.


not being able to accept I am having a step sibling and strongly disliking my stepmom

It is okay to have trouble with a blended family.


They need you in order to function well.


Everyone is making an effort to get along.


No one is making an effort to get along.


Unless you treat each other differently.


Especially if you treat everyone fairly.


You shouldn't make fun of someone's failings.

you are trying a new way to motivate them.


Unless you are a confrontational comedian.


They are always so stuck up about everything


leaving a bad comment on my teacher's video when I was mad at her

Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at people.

You're already in a bad mood and it's not their fault.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at people.

They have done something to deliberately hurt you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at people.

it is over something small and insignificant.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at people.

You have to work with them on a daily basis.


being annoyed that I wasn't invited out by my friend and wanting to talk about it

It's good to talk things over with your friends.

Your friends don't want to hear your side of the story


You want to make sure nothing gets lost in translation


You have been friends with them for years


It's a personal matter between you and your spouse.


You are only going to say angry and hurtful things.


giving my brother an ultimatum with his drinking

It's good to look out for the health of a sibling.


They ask you to be part of their advanced directive.


your sibling doesn't take care of themselves.


The sibling finds your concern intrusive.


Your sibling isn't good about looking after their own health.


that sibling is going through a tough time


being mad at my flatmate, cause she was uppity in my opinion, in an already cold relationship

Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.

people are talking about politics at a family get together and things get heated


Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.


Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.

You are starting a fight in your kids school parking lot


Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.

You are strongly support the Me Too movement


Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.

You are in the audience at a court hearing.


Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.

You are at a work meeting and make a suggestion.


Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.

You are a member of a violent hate group.


Hypothesis: It is okay to voice your opinions.

You can better a situation by speaking up.


being mad at my friend because of their boyfriend

You shouldn't be upset at your friends over their partners.


you respect the choices your friends make


their partners have done something unforgivable.


They allow their partner to steal from you.


They are in a domestic violence situation.


Your friends have partners who harass you.


You dislike your friend's partner because of their race.


wanting to avoid conflict with my mother's boyfriend

It's wrong not to accept your parent's partner.


That person keeps sexually harassing you.


Unless you know they are taking advantage of your parent.


Especially if they make your parent very happy.


your parent is happy and the partner is a good person.


considering breaking up with my girlfriend for considering having sex with others for financial benefit

You're expected to support your significant other's pursuits.

Unless your significant other is a bank robber.


Your significant other is part of Doctors Without Borders.


Unless they want to pursue something illegal.


they want to do something they have no talent for.


wearing a doctors mask to work in the lobby of a social services office

It's OK to take measures to prevent yourself from getting sick.

You are calling out of work to avoid other people's germs.


Those measures involve completely isolating yourself from everyone.


blowing my horn at cars in the intersection

Hypothesis: You should be patient in traffic.

You are driving an ambulance to a car accident.


Hypothesis: You should be patient in traffic.

You are in line to drop a child off at a school.


Hypothesis: You should be patient in traffic.


Hypothesis: You should be patient in traffic.

You have no immediate plans at the moment.


Hypothesis: You should be patient in traffic.

You aren't in a hurry to get to your destination.


being angry at my boyfriend who learned a language behind my back and humiliated me in front of my family

You should not try to humiliate other people.


they did not mean to hurt anyone's feelings


You're exposing a con artist in front of their intended marks.


You're an adult and those people are children.


You care about the mental health of people.


You are taking part in a high stakes rap battle.


getting excited when discussing plans to move away from his ex wifes, home state. hes divorced with kids

It's good to get excited about your plans.

Your plans involve working a 12 hour shift.


you have been looking forward to them for quite some time.


Your plans involve running over your neighbor.


You are finally going on vacation after twenty years.


it is something that you have long wanted to do.


making a joke that could be considered anti-semitic

You should be respectful of other religions.

Certain religions have shunned you and your family for no reason.


You have many friends with various religious beliefs.


A specific sect is severely violating the human rights of its members.


The religion or religious person is not hurting you in any way.


telling my niece off in front of the family and having them turn on her

Hypothesis: You shouldn't take sides.

You know that your teacher is grading a student unfairly and the principal has asked for details.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't take sides.


considering ending a 7 year relationship because he doesn't have his drivers license or a car and works in fast food

It's wrong to judge a person based on  material wealth.


They flaunt it on their social media account.


They give most of their money away to charity.


You are writing a column for Forbes magazine about the wealthiest people alive.


You are only using them for their money.


yelling back at a stranger who upset my gf

It is rude to purposefully upset another person

That person is bullying everyone around them.


You're working at a haunted house attraction.


You are playing a video game and it is part of a quest.


They were already getting upset with you.


It is a political strategy to show weakness.


You just want to bring everyone down to your level.


It is rude to insult a person of authority, even if you think they aren't smart.

The person in authority believes he is smart and will not listen to reason.


The person in authority has a lot of life experience about an issue.


you insult them where they can't hear them.


That person is doing their job correctly.


you are trying to rally public support for overthrowing the authority


the authority has your best interests at heart


wanting to wait for my parents to apologize

It is stubborn to refuse to apologize until someone else does.

You have decided to set a healthy boundary of communication with that person.


You always apologize first are demanding validation of your own feelings this time.


You didn't do anything wrong to the other person.


You did the thing that was the most wrong.


They ran over your cat on purpose after you accidentally overcooked their dinner.


You shattered their knee after they sneezed on your coat.


telling an old lady she shouldn't be driving & to fuck off after she tried to scold me and hit my car for being on my phone while parked

It is reasonable to be angry with someone who hit your car.

they did so because of a medical incident while driving.


you hired them to hit it for insurance money.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad.

You are the one who did something wrong.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad.

Someone broke your cellphone on purpose.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad.

Someone is doing something that you've said not to do, repeatedly.


It's okay that you want to keep your spot in a line.

You want to run home to get your wallet.


You just need to go grab a gallon of milk.


You want to leave the line for a long time.


You want to leave the line to get your child who has wandered away.


"tattling" on my boyfriend to his mother

You should not treat your partner like a child.

Your partner is sick with a cold and wants comfort.


You want your partner to be an equal in the relationship.


they have suffered a brain injury and are childlike.


You want a relationship based on maturity.


You want your partner to treat you with mutual respect


stopping being friends with someone who jokes about my (lack of) relationships

You shouldn't joke about your friend's relationships.


you don't want your friends joking about yours.


Your friend is very sensitive about their relationship.


They love who they are with and want to marry them


It's good to get help when you're pregnant and need assistance.


you need to tie your shoes and can't see them.


The help is from an unqualified faith healer who conducts unsanitary rituals.


The help is from highly trained and empathetic doctors.


that assistance is so overwhelming that it begins to affect your mental health by making you frustrated and angry.


you are unable to do some of the things that you could do before you were pregnant such as lifting heavy objects.


leaving my girlfriend for somebody she hates

You shouldn't leave your partner for someone they don't like.


They have a good reason to not like that person.


You know you can never be happy with your current partner.


You think your partner is the love of your life.


not helping my mother financially after she helped me in the past

It's expected to help your parents financially.


You're struggling to stay above water financially yourself.


You have no money and are not able to help.


They have always been there to help you when you were down.


getting upset someone parked in my assigned spot

It's ok to be upset when someone takes your things.

they are repossessing something that you have failed to pay for


You've agreed to borrow them those things.


They have taken away something that could cause you harm.


They stole a ring your late grandmother had given you.


they're starving so they're in a position where they need to steal


not taking my friends side and living with his ex

It's not okay to ditch a friend when they need you.

you end up in the hospital and can't get out of bed


They only need you because of something bad they did to you.


You told them that you will be there for them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

It's because you are planning a surprise dinner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

You spent money from a joint financial account.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

You want them to trust you in the future.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

Especially if honesty is the most important thing to them.


Hypothesis: it's rude not to tip


Hypothesis: it's rude not to tip

You're in a country that views tipping as rude.


Hypothesis: it's rude not to tip

You ordered an expensive meal at a fancy restaurant.


Hypothesis: it's rude not to tip

You are eating outside of the United States where tipping isn't a custom.


Hypothesis: it's rude not to tip

You're in a country without tipping culture.


not being impressed with a five-generations picture

A picture of many generations of your family should be impressive..


The picture was preserved very well from decades ago.


declining an invitation to my younger brother's graduation

It's expected that you invite your family to your graduation.


you don't feel comfortable with them there.


your family doubted your ability to graduate


proposing on vacation with my fiancee's family

You should be alone with someone if you want to propose to them.

You want approval from their children/family as well.


You both have no family or friends living nearby.


Unless you know they want a public proposal.


Especially if you aren't sure they'll say yes.


Your partner has always wanted a public proposal.


It's bad to be out of control with anger at an ex.

You're expressing that anger in a safe location like a therapist's office.


You often get violent when you're angry.


You're in a contained and safe environment.


They didn’t do anything wrong to deserve it


asking my mom to tone down the incessant chatter

You have to accept that some people just like talking for the sake of talking.


They are a student in the class you are teaching.