their behavior is damaging another persons property.


being an asshole ... but in a game where being an asshole is a valid strategy

It's understandable that people do things for fun in the right context that they wouldn't normally do.

they are celebrating a very great victory.


they're trying to lose their inhibitions.


being mad at my sister for telling mom I was "stealing" things from her house

Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.

You're doing it to simply get revenge on them.


Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.


Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.

They did something minor that doesn't threaten someone's safety.


Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.

Their friends are pressuring them to shoplift and they might get arrested.


Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.

They have done something hurtful and mean.


Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.

You think your parents will beat your sibling over what you tell them.


Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.

They would be put in physical danger if you did.


Hypothesis: You should tattle on your sibling.

They are going to do something that could hurt them.


suggesting breaking up with my so who's depressed

It's okay if your in a relationship and think your partner could use some space.

You suspect your partner is cheating on you.


You are interested in setting and maintaining good boundaries.


They are avoiding you to see someone else.


Your partner is disabled and relies on you for everything.


They have told you that you are being too overbearing.


You think this because your partner got physically violent with you.


You think this because your partner is crying.


being pissed after I found out my girlfriend stayed over at her ex-boyfriends house the night before Thanksgiving

It is wrong to stay at someones house without telling the person you are dating.

unless the person you are dating has said this is OK in advance


you promised the person you are dating that you would not do this


You want to keep trust within the relationship


You and the person you date are not in an exclusive relationship.


You and the person you date are in a committed relationship.


The person in the house is single and attractive.


being friends with a girl my girlfriend hates

It is immature for your girlfriend to expect you to dislike people on their behalf.

The other people have done something really wrong.


You are good friends with people she dislikes.


The person is saying bad things about your partner.


The people she wants you to dislike have treated her badly.


The people are behaving inappropriately towards your girlfriend.


The people are making an effort to make your girlfriend feel welcome and accepted.


It is okay to prevent people from moving into your home if it is not something you want.

They have signed a lease agreement to rent from you.


they are your parents and will homeless if you don't take them in.


they are strangers and you have children in the home.


You are honest with them from the start.


writing an open letter telling my fellow club members how I've been badly treated

It's OK to tell others you don't appreciate being mistreated.


You deserve to be mistreated because you are breaking the law.


They mistreat you to teach you a valuable lesson.


You've been being abused for a long time.


You are complaining inappropriately to strangers.


You have decided to stop being a doormat.


calling out a customer when she dumped her basket of groceries in a freezer bin

It is rude not to put things back where they belong in a store.


You have to drop the products to escape an emergency situation.


You are in a hurry and there are plenty of workers in the store.


You have to leave quickly because of an emergency.


They are perishable and belong in the freezer section.


The cashier told you it was okay not to.


Others cannot find the misplace things to purchase.


pretending to be russian to call some judgmental rich ladies out on their rude stereotypes

It's ok to call someone out when they are being rude.

They are being rude to someone who was rude first.


You're supervising elementary school children.


breaking a friendship over a few dollars

Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.


Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.


Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.

Your friends aren't receptive to talking about things.


Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.

Your friends are understanding and like to work through problems.


Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.

They have given you very bad advice in the past.


Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.

They have expertise in the area where you need advice.


Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.

You already know that your friends do not share your feelings about abortion rights.


Hypothesis: You should discuss issues with friends.

You and your friends are all environmentalists and you have found out about a chemical company that is polluting your town.


calling out my gf when she didn't consider inviting me to a trip

You are expected to invite your partner on trips with you.


You are taking a business trip for work.


You've discussed it before that your partner isn't interested in trips.


you know your partner would really enjoy going.


They aren't interested in  where you're going.


They'd enjoy the trip and are free to go with you.


not being happy by being surprised with a non-running, junk yard car for Christmas

It is rude to give someone a broken gift.

It is something hard to find that they can easily repair.


The broken gift was given to you by the person in the first place.


The person is a kind and gentle person who loves you.


They are a professional restoration artist.


You're just being cheap and you knew it was broken.


The package was damaged during delivery and you didn't know it.


They love fixing antiques and you gave them a broken antique.


It's okay to just leave a job if you're angry.


you are the only one working and your work is still open.


you might say something to your boss that you might later regret.


you're asked to do unethical or illegal work.


You depend on the job to support your family.


It's okay to sometimes want some time for yourself.


You have been under alot of stress recently


Time for yourself interferes with someone close to you's important event.


You are always putting others before yourself.


Your spouse has had the kids all by themselves for a week straight while you were on a business trip.


You've been surrounded by people all week and need some personal space.


You work a job with a lot of social interaction.


not wanting to talk to my girlfriend on the phone at night

Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

You are planning a fun surprise that you need to keep secret for a while.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

The truth will cause more pain than is necessary.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

You want to make the relationship closer.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

You have to tell a white lie to not hurt feelings.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

They are putting you in physical danger.


not telling my boyfriend when I would be home

It's okay to not want to have to tell a significant other every little things.

It involves the child you have together.


You both enjoy having your own personal space.


You want them to tell you every little thing.


The want you to tell them your bathroom habits.


You are wanting to keep secrets because you are having an affair.


A significant other bonds with you over the details of your day.


Your significant other is a hearing officer in traffic court.


breaking up with a woman because she told me she has a misdemeanor on her record from 9+ years ago

People should obey the law and not commit crimes.


someone will be hurt if the law is broken


they are put in a situation where they must commit a crime to save themselves or the lives of others.


it is necessary to stop something worse.


being upset at my friend for dating my ex

Refusing to date your friend's ex is definitely a smart decision.


You want to remain on good terms with your friend.


It is clear both parties have moved on and given you their approval.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to joke about the deceased.


being upset at my boyfriend for not being honest about his date in an open relationship

It's okay to be mad at a lying boyfriend.

The lie was about a secret gift for your birthday.


The lie was about sleeping with someone else.


Your boyfriend is cheating with your best friend.


Your boyfriend is respecting someone else's privacy.


The lie is about not having another girlfriend.


you are also lying to him about something.


he has done this before and promised to change.


having enough and storming off? and not inviting them back

Hypothesis: It's wrong to storm off on someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to storm off on someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to storm off on someone.

you're in a relationship with that person.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to storm off on someone.

They were threatening to hurt you if you didn't leave.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to storm off on someone.

you're trying to maintain a healthy relationship with them


Hypothesis: It's wrong to storm off on someone.

The other person is yelling and being rude.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to storm off on someone.

The baby is trying to get your attention.


getting mad when my best friend trys to buy me stuff, even though I tell him not to

It's good to support your friends financially.

Your friends blow all their money on drugs and gambling.


Your friends got laid off and cannot find work.


They are being considered fora high position at the company you work for.


You are struggling with your own finances.


You are broke and struggling to pay your bills.


snapping at and reporting a medical transport driver for listening to a graphic audiobook with clients in the car

You should report people for this misconduct on the job.


The boss already knows what they are doing.


The person doing something wrong is the boss.


reporting them will get them fired and they need the job to support their family.


their misconduct is harmful to the company's success.


The boss is behaving in an even worse manner.


You work at a daycare center and your co-worker is hurting the children.


You want to maintain a civil relationship with them.


They are doing something that can harm others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.

It is your emotions in an abusive relationship.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.

You are helping the FBI determine counterfeits


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.

You're faking being someone's friend to get things.


getting my classmates to skip class for a test

It is irresponsible to encourage other people to skip classes.

It is in protest of inhumane conditions.


You are the teacher and it's your class.


They are already scoring poorly in the class.


They are already Straight A students who can afford to miss class.


breaking up with my girlfriend because she won't spend the night

It's wrong to expect a romantic partner to do things they're not comfortable with.

You try to introduce them to an exciting new activity to try to expand their comfort zone.


The thing you're proposing is objectively dangerous.


They are afraid of needles but have to get a flu shot.


They have been honest and upfront from the start.


They are irrationally uncomfortable with these things and doing them will help them improve as a person.


They have good reason to be uncomfortable with those things.


leaving 3 months early from an apartment that was rented to me as a favor and I didn't have to sign a lease but more so on a good word

Hypothesis: It's bad to break promises.

The promise involved something possibly dangerous.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break promises.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break promises.

you want to maintain a trust between yourself and someone else.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break promises.

You had a death in your family on the same day that you promised to take your friend to the Rolling Stones concert.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break promises.

You promised to be a character witness in court on behalf of a friend who is in a custody battle with her ex.


being mad that my boyfriend wants me to return his birthday present

It's understandable to not want a gift to go to waste if you don't like it.

The gift giver would be hurt if you gave it away to someone else.


The gift is food and will go bad if you don't use it right away.


It would hurt the gift giver's feelings to know you didn't like it.


You know someone who would enjoy it more.


There is something wrong with it and it needs to be disposed.


breaking up with my girlfriend because she was hanging out with someone who liked her more than she was hanging out with me

You shouldn't hang out with someone who has a crush on you when you are dating someone else.


You have been clear with the other person about boundaries.


You tell them upfront you are not interested


Your dating partner has asked you not to.


You work or have class with the person who has a crush on you and you can't avoid them.


They continually make romantic advances toward you.


talking during the credits of Ralph Breaks the internet

You shouldn't disturb others while they are watching a movie.


it is during a critical part of the plot


You are in the middle of a movie theater.


You need to tell them the house is on fire.


They need to watch the movie for a school project.


The lights are down and the movie is at an important part.


limiting my adult brother's internet access

It is okay to be concerned about the habits of your siblings.

You are butting into things that aren't your business.


They are consenting adults who make their own decisions.


They have asked you to leave them alone.


You have a habit of exaggerating and should learn to mind your business.


You know they have been having personal issues.


These habits are ones that will help them succeed in life.


telling a girl I have been seeing that I won't skip the gym one day a week to see her more

Hypothesis: It's wrong to skip exercising.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to skip exercising.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to skip exercising.

Someone else is paying for you to attend aerobics lessons.


wanting to spend 10+ hours a day on improving myself

There's nothing wrong with wanted to improve yourself.


You have been feeling down about yourself.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't chew out other people.

You need to teach them an important life lesson.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't chew out other people.

They are too young to understand what you are saying.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't chew out other people.

chewing them out could get you a promotion.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't chew out other people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't chew out other people.

They've not realized they did anything wrong.


telling my friends to stop taking about their periods

One should never tell another friend not to speak about things in a rude way.


The friend would be publicly embarrassed if you did so.


Your friend accidentally hits her hand with a hammer during a repair.


That person is from a marginalized group and is educating the other person.


not wanting to dress up as Santa and lead Christmas Carols as a Jew

It's wrong to force religion on someone against their will.


The person needs to be deprogrammed from a religious cult.


You are visitors to another country where their religion is different from yours.


The religious sect can offer them protection.


Your religion preaches blind obedience and hate for anyone different from them.


demanding an apology from my boyfriend's mother

It's expected that family should be kind to each other.


The family is open and honest with each other.


asking my co-worker to leave when she's not clocked in

It's expected that leave your workplace if you are not clocked in.


You're only trying to get unapproved overtime.


It's a store and you want to do some shopping there.


You will be in the way of others who are trying to work.


An emergency arises that only you can deal with.


kicking my cheating roommate out of my house

It is wrong kick someone out of the house because of their personal business.

Their personal busies is selling drugs out of the house.


they aren't doing anything wrong and they keep to themselves.


They are doing something which isn't illegal or especially annoying.


they have broken no rules and are harming no one.


walking fast like everyone in NYC and bumping into someone

It is expected that people in NYC should walk fast.


They are walking arm in arm with their romantic pardners.


They are on their too short lunch break.


There is traffic they need to go slowly through.


Everyone is trying to get somewhere fast.


wanting my girlfriend to stop drinking in college

It's understandable to be concerned about your significant other's drinking habits.

They only drink a couple of drinks on occasion.


Your significant other has a high alcohol tolerance.


Your significant other gets sloppy drunk everytime.


your drinking is even more rampant than their's.


his drinking is recommended by a doctor.


lying to my ex-husband about where our kids wanted to go for Christmas, because I didn't want them spending a week with his mistress

It's okay to not want your children around someone you don't like.

they are really good friends with eachother.


The person is a good person and you don't like them because you don't know them.


The person has been known to be harmful for children to be around.


You don't like them because of their skin color.


They promote things you morally object to.


not updating/texting my husband for 3 and a half hours when I was out

You shouldn't be away from the house for hours while your partner is home.


You and your partner work opposite shifts.


Your partner has dementia and shouldn't be left home alone.


telling my gf she is being sexually selfish

It's mean to verbally attack your partner when you want something.


They are belligerent and started the argument first


You are joking around and she knows that


Your partner is a manipulative person who won't let you drive your own car.


Your partner isn't giving you foods that your doctor said you shouldn't eat.


rejecting a girl because she's in a Wheelchair

It's wrong to discriminate against the handicapped.


I can't think of an example when it would be ok to discriminate against the handicapped.


They know you are discriminating against them.


This is something that is just always wrong and I can't think of anything that could strengthen it.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be mad at your roommate.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be mad at your roommate.

Your roommate has apologized for what they did.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be mad at your roommate.

You are unwilling to workout the problems.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be mad at your roommate.

Your roommate caught you in a lie that you told them.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be mad at your roommate.

Your roommate doesn't clean up after themselves.


honking at drivers blocking the right lane

It's rude to honk at people when you're driving.

You are trying to avoid an accident by alerting other drivers.


You are tailgating someone and want them to go faster.


You are warning them because they are in danger.


You are stuck in traffic and there's nothing they can do.


getting mad with my boyfriend for farting on my things

It's okay to expect a significant other to not do things that are rude or gross.

The significant other has poor self-control.


The significant other wants to stay in a relationship with you.


They are in an appropriate context away from you.


they are at a fancy gathering location..


You should always try to see your partners before reacting.


There is a significant development at play


You want to find out what really happened


You are in a long distance relationship.


You are trying to set healthy boundaries.


It's OK to eat whatever you want when working.

eating it will make you less productive.


You do mukbangs for a living on Youtube.


you eat stinky fish and broccoli every day.


you work in a sterile environment like a hospital.


It's good to be open to input on how you can improve yourself from loved ones.


It would be an improvement you are striving for.


You really have no intention of improving.


You are trying to repair your relationships.


Your loved ones are trying to control you


The loved ones are nothing but critical of you.


They have given you good advice in the past.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a shitty neighbor.

The other person keeps letting their dog poop in your yard.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a shitty neighbor.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a shitty neighbor.

generalization uses vulgarity / unclear what a "shitty neighbor" entails


getting a whole bunch of kids suspended and one kids expelled

It is okay to ensure children are punished if they did something wrong.


This isn't the first time they have done it.


They knew what they were doing was wrong.


The child is too young to understand  punishment.


The child is a teenager that needs to learn consequences.


wanting to buy a ps4 while still living with my parents

Your parents might think less of you if you spend too much time playing video games.


You become a professional video game player.


You aren't getting good grades in school.


You are learning computer science this way.


They are the ones who bought you the games.


You don't have a job and that's all you do.


You should not wait until the last minute to cancel a date.

you have a heart attack and need to go to the hospital


The date is scheduled two weeks in advance


You're sick and didn't anticipate cancelling.


You confirmed earlier in the day that you'd be going.


You know you want to cancel it ahead of time.


not liking my boyfriend's baby sister because she's shy

It's fine not to get along with a person that you don't like.


You have to learn from them for your job.


you don't have to deal with them much and can avoid contact.


You are put on a team for an important project at work.


The person you don't like has never tried to be nice to you.


They belittle you whenever they see you.


sending my ex-girlfriends nude that she send unsolicited after our breakup to my friends

You should be careful about who you send nude photos to.

You willingly send them to random people in exchange for money.


You don't want them spreading on social media.


It is your significant other and they approve.


It is good to want to keep negative energy out of your relationship

You need to confront your partner about dangerous behaviors.


You are going through counseling together.


There is a recurring issue that should be addressed rather than ignored.


not being attracted to my girlfriend's body

It is important to be honest in a relationship.

You want the relationship to be toxic and based on fraud.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


You are trying to get out of the relationship.


You are on the jury of a confidential case.


Your partner used to work for the CIA and can tell when people are lying.


The honesty will do more harm than good.


The other person has asked for your honest opinion.


telling someone their problems are their own fault

Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell people off.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell people off.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell people off.

they really need to change their behavior.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell people off.

You were almost injured by someone's carelessness.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell people off.

You've been being bothered by someone for a while.


not helping my brother when he and our dad fight

It's expected that family should support each other.

The family members has a falling out and do not get along.


Everyone helps equally and everyone is happy.


it is financial support and you are a grown adult.


giving my Ex an Honest Tenant Recommendation

Hypothesis: It is good not to play favorites


Hypothesis: It is good not to play favorites


Hypothesis: It is good not to play favorites

A player on the team is way better than the other ones


Hypothesis: It is good not to play favorites

You love everyone in your family equally


Hypothesis: It is good not to play favorites

You need to teach the other one a lesson to be nicer.


Hypothesis: It is good not to play favorites

You are responsible for choosing the best team.


Hypothesis: It is good not to play favorites

You're considering favorites between pets you own.


just starting walking away from my friends

It's okay to walk away from people if they have done something that hurts you.


They physically hurt you or threatened you.


you have also done something to hurt them


You want them to know how you are affected.


expressing "sincere" condolences to the mother of my daughter

Hypothesis: It's wrong to be insincere to others.

You're insincere because you're planning to surprise them with something nice.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be insincere to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be insincere to others.

You have to work with them on an important project.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be insincere to others.

They are calling you names behind your back


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be insincere to others.

They are trusting, credulous sorts of people.


telling my friend that I don't care for pictures/updates/videos of her kid

Friends shouldn't expect you to love looking at pictures of their kids as much as they do

They can see how much you love looking at their pictures.


they can see you tense up every time they bring them out.


You are really good friends with their kids.


They won't even look at pictures of your kids.


You don't show pictures of your children.


you have expressed to them that you like looking at their kids pictures.


You shouldn't let your kids treat you poorly.

They are blowing off steam on an uncustomary bad day.


you asked them to do so if in a specific situation.


you are trying to teach them to respect their elders.


You have be a bad parent and have never been in their life.


If they are young and need to learn how to be respectful to others.


They are adults, and you have abused them their entire lives.


You are a very supportive parent, and do everything for them.


snitching on someone whose vaping in class habits could cause us to lose my favorite class

It's expected that you don't snitch on people.


You are told a secret about someone's crush


Their behavior is minor and didn't cause harm.


You are a paid informant for the police.


It's okay to want to relax during a long journey.


You have walked a long way and your feet are sore.


The train isn't expected to arrive until the morning.


You were hired to chauffeur people between destinations.


You took time off of work so you could vacation somewhere.


It's okay to not want to play games with a friend.

you previously promised the friend that you would play with them


you've promised you would play with them.


those games are hurtful and make you feel bad.


My friend is so bored  while recovering from an accident.


I have to leave for home in the next 5 minutes in order to make the last ferry.


Hypothesis: It's rude to embarrass someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to embarrass someone.

That person is a bully who regularly embarrasses other people.


Hypothesis: It's rude to embarrass someone.

That person goes out of their way to be kind and supportive to everyone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to embarrass someone.

You're joking around with close friends.


Hypothesis: It's rude to embarrass someone.

They are overly self-conscious introverts.


Hypothesis: It's rude to embarrass someone.

They are bullying someone and need to be taken down a notch.


Hypothesis: It's rude to embarrass someone.

They don't know that what they're doing is embarrassing, and their actions are harmless.


regifting something as long as I don't tell the gifter

Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

You can do it in such a way as the original gifter can not find out that the regifting has taken place.


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

You know the giver will ask about how much you like or are using the gift.


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

You don't tell the gift giver you regifted it


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

You're giving it back to the person that gave it to you.


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

The joke gift had been passed around, regifted to our friends, for several years.


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

I accidently forgot who gave me that awful tie and gave it back to them the following year.


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

The person who gave you the gift first doesn't find out.


Hypothesis: Regifting is rude.

you regift the item in front of the person who gave it to you


It's understandable that everyone makes mistakes sometimes.


Your job requires making life-or-death decisions, such as a doctor or surgeon.


The person is still learning a new skill.


secretly getting off that all the popular girls from High School are now all overweight, in jail and/or poor

It's wrong to take delight in the misfortunes of others.


they had it coming to them because of karma.


The other person confessed to being a serial killer.


They are a middle school travel team and their bus was just involved in an accident.


They have done nothing to deserve misfortune.


They are good people and the misfortunes are not deserved.


thinking a classmate was a special education student because of an accent

It's wrong to assume things about others.


they are suffering a medical emergency and a decision must be made.


have only known a person for less than an hour.


telling a woman's husband about her infidelity via an anonymous letter

it's rude to keep secrets from your significant other that will hurt them.


You can help them prevent the same thing from happening twice.


It is something that will ruin your relationship with them.


They are in a fragile state and have been hurt enough already.


those secrets would cost someone their life


not being willing to hold my niece after losing my baby

It is okay to be sad after the loss of a child.

you have other children who need you to be strong for them.


You weren't particularly close to your child.


He passed away right after you gave birth.


not changing my behavior for my girlfriend

It is bad to change the person you are for someone else.


You are gong to trick that person out of money.


what you're changing is fundamental to your personality


You want to bond and relate to that person


You are expected to let the people you care about know when they smell bad.


They just worked out and are about to shower


They cannot help themselves as it is a hormonal disorder.


They've asked you in the past to let them know if they smell.


They are sensitive and get offended easily.


The smell is a distraction in the workplace.


They are already aware but aren't able to do anything about it.


They are about to go into an important meeting.


You shouldn't be friends with someone who cuts you out of their life.


They were forced to do so by an abusive partner.


The person needs help and cannot find others to help them.


The person cheated you out of your life savings.


you know they have to do it temporarily for a good reason.


you were there for them and they weren't there for you.


being angry about my partner's plan to do drugs while I watch our kids

It's OK to be mad at a partner for leaving children with you while they do drugs.

You use the situation as a means to get them into rehab.


The children are particularly ill mannered.


Those drugs are prescribed by a doctor for a medical condition.


Terribly fraught and complex situation, like being mad at someone for having cancer!


Anger does nothing, I'd prefer a first do-no-harm approach.  Addiction is a disease not a character fault.


The alternative was doing drugs in front of your children.


Your partner promised to get sober for your children.


buying stuff and returning them if I dont like them

It's wrong to hold onto things that you don't like.

They are very important to someone close to you.


The things cause you too much stress impacting your quality of life.


You are on a tight budget and can't afford something better yet.


The things have been in your family for generations.


The giving of the gift means so much more to the giver than to the recipient.


Especially if the object represents or reminds you of a person who harmed you repeatedly.


It is ok to not let someone sit in a seat if it belongs to you.


It is an assigned seat that you bought a ticket for.


they didn't even buy a ticket to that event


They are handicapped and there are no other chairs


The person is elderly or has some sort of physical disability.


They are healthier and more able-bodied than you.


being upset that my GF wants to move across the country with her friend

It is wrong to get upset with your significant other.


They have purposely done something they know will upset you.


You can see they are trying hard to please you.


Your significant other made an honest mistake


walking in on my roommate's girlfriend in the bathroom accidentally twice

It is expected to lock the bathroom door.


There are lots of other people in the house.


refusing to re-join the what'sapp group my father create for his side of the family

You should support your family's activities.


their activities push to make you a more well rounded person.


Your family is unsupportive of your activities.


Your family is doing activities that benefit you.


They want you to do things that aren't good for you.


You want them to support your interests.


they are involved in a criminal enterprise.


they have always supported you in your endeavors.


asking my wife to hold the Baby while I Pee

It is good for parents to work together.

They do not get along and need to go through the courts.


The children are watching their every move.


The parents are always arguing with each other.


The parents are caring and supporting the kids.


One of them has a restraining order on the other.


They are married and raising children together.


wortying about my best friend being sexually irresponsible

When your friends are acting irresponsibly, you should have a conversation about your concerns.

They would cut off the friendship if you do so.


The friend is making a fool of themself.


Your friends do not care for your opinion.


Your friends are harming themselves and others.


Your friends are acting in a way that's dangerous to you.


You are a main part of your friend's support system.


You don't think it would be safe to talk about it.


dating my ex's friend among other things

Expecting your friend and ex to not date is acceptable.

You understand that you don't own the people you used to date.


Your ex conned you out of your life's savings and you don't want them to put your friend through the same thing.


You have previously told them that you don't care if they date each other.


Your friend always used to say bad things about your ex.


You told them both that you didn't mind if they dated.


You have asked you friend to stay away from your ex.


not wanting my best friend to remain friends with my ex

It is okay to not like your friend's other friends.


Your friend's other friends are your siblings.


Your friend's other friends don't share your common interests and concerns.


Your friend's other friends recently helped you move into a new apartment.


You constantly pick fights with them that ruin everyone's night.


Your friend's other friends frequently put you down.


not letting an employee with a mental disorder train new hires

It's wrong to discriminate against people with mental disabilities.

The mental disability is a front and not real.


They are doing their best to be independent.


You're hiring for a safety-critical position like air traffic controller.


You get federal funding that's conditional on equal opportunity hiring practices.


It's ok to grow apart from an old friend.

The friend actively tries to maintain the friendship.


You are busy with your own lives and families.


They were an important part of your social life.


you've both changed and are different people


calling out my friend for faking problems

Friends are expected to be honest with each other.

It involves the appearance of the friend's child.


The friend asks for advice about changing jobs.


Information could be highly damaging if known.


they are hiding a surprise and do not want to give it away.


there is a situation which could strongly affect the friends future.


One has a secret they'd rather not reveal.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

You are going on a hayride and your friend is allergic to hay.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

You are going to a concert and it is your friend's favorite band of all time.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

they were really excited to attend an event with you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

You don't have room for any more friends at the event.


hoping my girlfriends mom will pass away sooner rather than later

It is cruel to hope for a parent of a loved one to die.


The parent is a very abusive and hateful person.


The parent is very loving to their kids.


They are in excruciating pain from a terminal disease.


They are just a little bit annoying, but not a completely bad person.


telling my boyfriend's ex to back the fuck off

It is inappropriate for exes to hang out when they are in a new relationship.


they still have feelings for each other.


They still have feelings for each other.


It makes your current partner very jealous.


blocking my ex-girlfriend from social media, even though we have nothing against each other atm

It's good to stay on friendly terms with your past significant others.


One of them has a restraining order against you.


Your past significant others treated you horribly


this bothers your present significant other


you want to get back together with any of them


completely kicking someone out of my life

It is healthy to remove toxic people from your life.


You are planning on writing a memoir and need some drama.


The person is a relative who needs you to take care of them.


they are causing you emotional distress that is affecting other parts of your life.


only wanting to work with talented people

It's good to work with who you need to to further your career.

You have no interest in ever getting a promotion.


You want to make connections and climb the corporate ladder.


they're just using you and won't reciprocate


You know those people are cheating others.


you can see you are in a good place in good company.


That's your only reason to know someone at work.


Your company encourages employee growth and training.


You're being abused by the person with whom you're working.


You've made great connections through networking.


wanting to attend master's graduation ceremony

Hypothesis: It's good to support others.


Hypothesis: It's good to support others.

they just need somebody to listen to them.


Hypothesis: It's good to support others.

You are in a high paying competition and there is only one winner.


Hypothesis: It's good to support others.

You are doing work as a missionary in a foreign land.


Hypothesis: It's good to support others.


Hypothesis: It's good to support others.

They just experienced a death of a loved one.


Hypothesis: It's good to support others.

You don't morally agree with what they are doing.


You should talk to people instead of touch them if you want to get their attention.

You are a police officer breaking up a fight.


A child is about to run into the road and isn't listening to you.


Hypothesis: It's good to get help from friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to get help from friends.

Your friends are doing illegal activities.


Hypothesis: It's good to get help from friends.

You are becoming dependent on their help.


Hypothesis: It's good to get help from friends.

You're trying to throw a surprise party for your friends.


not telling my crush that I'm asexual before the first date

It is unwise to withhold your sexual preferences from a potential date.

They require complete trust between the two of you.


It is something that a lot of people find uncomfortable.


You don't see yourself dating them seriously.


You would be wasting their time by dating them because they do not match your preference.


They are accepting of all genders and preferences.


They think you are straight when you are really bisexual.


It's only coffee and you're not ready for a sexual relationship.


You are hoping for a serious relationship.


wanting my husband and his friend to hang out at his friend's house instead of ours

It's okay to not want your partner's friends over at your house.


your partner is the one that owns the house


Your partner's friends are needing emotional support.


They have been spending too much time at your house lately.


it was for your partner's birthday celebration


They are bringing illicit substances over.


It is wrong to come between a friendship.

One of the friends is abusing the other friend.


The two have been friends their whole lives.


One of the friends is using the other for money.


These people have been best friends since kindergarten.


You are intentionally trying to end the friendship due to jealousy.


The other person has asked for help in ending the friendship.


The friends have known each other for along time.


One of the friends is very hurtful to the other.


The friends have been good friends for a long time.


dumping my cat on my girlfriend's sister

You shouldn't treat pets as possessions.


They are your family pet and you love them a lot.


The pets are working animals that provide required assistance.


refusing to go out in the rain and get carts at my job because they only send me to spare the females having to get wet and cold

You should do the job duties that you're assigned.


You're physically unable to do the job duties.


The job duties are essential for normal operations.


The company is short staffed and you don't have enough time.


the duties involve illegal or dangerous activity


holding a grudge against my girlfriend still in contact with one of her former lover

It's expected to give your significant other space to be friends with whomever they choose.

They show you that you cannot trust them.


Their friend are drug addicts and criminals.


You want to be able to choose your own friends.


Their friends keep offering them hard jobs


You spend most of your time with your friends


your significant other is old enough to make their own decisions


The other person especially needs the support of your spouse.


sleeping with my a guy my friend is interested in

It is expected that you don't get involved sexually with someone that your friend is interested in.


You friend is hooking up with that person already.


Your friend doesn't initiate an attempt to start a relationship after plenty of opportunities.


Your friend is getting ready to make his or her move on the desired person.


You want to continue having a strong relationship with them.


Your friend is the extremely jealous type.


raising my Voice and making everyone uncomfortable at a Party

It's expected that everyone does their best to have a good time and allow others to do the same.


Everyone is watching a game in an arena.


It is known that a person in question is curmudgeon.


They are of a fun-loving, free-spirited disposition.


You are all fighting against each other in a war.


you are a teacher and you want to have a happy classroom.


telling my friend I didn't want to drive her home

You shouldn't always rely on others to get you around.

You are not capable of walking and need others help.


You are perfectly capable of driving yourself.


You're blind and can't legally get a driver's license.


You have a driver's license and a working car.


You have no other means of transportation.


saying I'm "first generation" in front of my parents

Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

Your parents treat you with respect as well.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

Your parents abused you when you were younger.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

Your parents were very supportive, nurturing, and respect you as an adult.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

Your parents have devoted their lives to you.


You should always pay for gifts for others.

They have specifically said that they didn't want any gifts.


you made them something handmade instead.


they always buy you gifts on your special days.


The item is given away for free, and a low monetary limit was agreed on.


stopping being friends with someone, partly because of her depression

You shouldn't let depression cause a rift between two people.


Abuse in the relationship is causing the depression.


Both people care about each other very much.


It is hurting both of them to stay together


The depressed person is trying their hardest.


The two people are married to each other.


still being mad at my dad for giving me an ear condition

It is expected to be upset when you are sick.

Being sick means you get to miss a boring party that you didn't want to go to, anyway.


You are too sick to go to your son's wedding.


You are a teen and wanted to skip your exam.


You are happy you'll be able to stay home from school


You are sick because you caught a cold saving a dog from drowning in an icy pond.


You get sick on the day you are leaving for vacation.


not letting my wife's cousin see my future child because they are not vaccinated

It is smart to keep unvaccinated people away from your children.

They just haven't been vaccinated for HPV, which is only contracted during sex.


Your children are unable to get vaccines due to medical reasons


You do not believe in vaccinations either.


They are immuno-compromised and that's why they aren't vaccinated.


It's okay to refuse to let someone into your house.

The person trying to get in is a police officer with a warrant.


You don't know the person trying to get in.


They also live in the house and aren't hurting you.


Your parent is bringing soup over while you're sick.


they are your child and they also live there.


they are making you nervous or uncomfortable.


telling my wife I think it's weird that she still sits/cuddles on her father's lap when we visit each other

It's okay to be affectionate with your parents.

Your parents feel extremely uncomfortable when you express emotion.


Your parents are very affectionate people.


You have an open and loving relationship.


Your parents are no longer speaking to one another over a significant matter.


You know it is their 50th anniversary party.


It's understandable that sometimes, people don't like what they're given.

it is similar to things they have bought for themselves.


The child is being taught to appreciate what they get.


it is what they asked for, then changed their mind.


you gave them a half eaten box of candy.


The people had little to nothing to begin with.


The people are used to having more options.


absolutely despising MY Girlfriend's only friend

You just have to accept that your just not going to like some people that you still have to deal with.


You can live life as a hermit, isolated from society.


These people are sitting by you on the bus.


These people are coworkers you have to work with daily.


They are family members living with you.


asking my mom to change the decorations in the kitchen

It is offensive to tell your mother you don't like her decorating ideas.


The decor she chooses is offensive to you.


She takes great pride in her decorating instincts.


She is excited to share her ideas with you.


She values your opinion and takes advice.


leaving my bully locked out of her home barefoot and without her keys and phone

It is rude to lock someone out of their house.


It's your parent and they could punish you.


The person needs to go to bed and sleep.


You live there too and they are threatening you


You shouldn't jump on trampolines as you might break something.

You are in a gymnastics class with a trained coach.


You have no previous trampoline experience.


You are in a gym and a coach is there to keep you safe.


if you have a disease that leads to easily broken bones.


Someone shouldn't expect their ex to take care of them.

Your ex left you with six-month-old triplets, a two-year-old, and a four-year-old.


You were the one who threw your ex out of the house.


Your are an invalid and no one is there to take care of you and the kids.


You cheated on them and kicked them out.


They have three children together and rely on that person being healthy and earning income.


Their breakup ended in a messy and expensive divorce.


wanting to go to the same gay night club as my brother when he is asking me not to

It is considerate to follow the wishes of your brother in regards to giving him personal space.

He is in an emergency and needs your help.


He has expressed these wishes before this.


You are supposed to be supervising him for your parents.


You and your brother share a room and he's preventing you from using it


asking a co-worker to stop chewing with their mouth open

It's okay to ask a coworker to stop doing something disgusting.


I hesitated to ask my coworker to stop because they were the company owner's eldest child.


The subject was so disgusting I either asked the coworker to stop or quit my job.


they keep passing gas when they visit your cubicle.


It's bad parenting to get high around children.

You need marijuana for medical reasons and have someone else to care for the children.


You can't control yourself and are alone with the children.


You bear sole responsibility for taking care of your children.


You are using medication prescribed by a doctor, and there is another care giver around to help with the children.


You are using the children's child support payments to buy the drugs.


You have cancer and need to smoke to get an appetite.


screaming at my dad and vowing to never open up to him again

Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.


Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.

You are living in their house for free as an adult


Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.


Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.

Your parents have always been great parents.


Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.

Your parents are emotionally abusive and manipulative.


Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.

Your parents are trying to get you to do something you should already be doing, like homework.


Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.

They make unreasonable religious or moral demands on you.


Hypothesis: It's bad to disrespect your parents.

They only want you to conform your behavior to normal social expectations.


pestering someone to deliver on a promise that they repeatedly insist they're going to do, but haven't done for nearly 3 years

When you make a promise to someone, it's important to follow through.


They coerced you to give that promise at gunpoint.


That person will really suffer if you don't come through.


Fulfilling the promise would harm an innocent person.


It's wrong to lie about your sexuality to a partner.


they are honest about their sexuality with you.


You don't feel like it's safe to be honest with your partner.


Your sexuality involves wanting to see other people.


getting annoyed at my parents for going into my bedroom

You shouldn't go into your children's bedroom without their permission.

You suspect they are hiding drugs and want to investigate.


They have asked you to knock before entering.


They have a surprise present in there for you.


they have given you a reason to question their judgment.


you are trying to learn how to establish boundaries.


cutting ties to a female friend because she didn't reply to any of my messages

It's expected that you stay in touch with your friends.


You get on well with them and they are close by.


You are in a very demanding job that requires travel.


You want them to be there for you in the future.


You've grown apart and now have very different interests.


just going for world travel (undefined timeline) and stopping taking care of all the admin/financial aspects of my mom

It's ok to live your life anyway you want.


Your life would not infringe on other people's rights.


You will help lots of people if you do so.


not wanting to babysit my brother's kid and critiquing his parenting

It's expected that family members will help out with childcare.

Those family members are not allowed by law to be with children.


The parents of the child work full time jobs.


Money is tight and regular daycare cannot be afforded.


The family member is avoiding the law and not paying.


The  family member is a constant presence in the child's life.


Your family members all have their own children


Due to vascular issues, they are limited to how much weight they can pick up.


Both parents frequently have to work to meet financial responsibilities.


asking condo neighbor to ask to keep their dog quiet

It is expected that your pets will not disrupt your neighbors

Your neighbors are trying to hurt your pets.


You train your pets not to bother people.


Your neighbors are afraid of large dogs.


They knew about your rambunctious pets before they moved in.


Your neighbors work nights and have to sleep during the daytime.


Your neighbor wants your dog to bark if there is an intruder in her yard.


Your neighbor works nights and needs to sleep during the day.


your neighbor is fighting in their back yard.


wanting to get married where is best for us

You have a right to choose the arrangements for your wedding that you prefer.

Your wedding is being sponsored by someone else.


You have agreed to let your partner handle the wedding arrangements.


You have always dreamed of arranging your own wedding.


You and your partner agreed to do it together.


You want everything to turn out the way you have dreamed.


telling a complete stranger that someone is posting explicit stories about him and his students online

It's wrong to post things online that aren't yours.

You have permission from the other party to share.


You stole the information without permission.


It's old material that is in the public domain.


You have permission from the original uploader of the images.


You remove the source information for the post.


You have the permission of the person it belongs to.


They are things that are very personal to the person they belong to.


You broke into someone’s house and stole those belongings


not pitching in much on chores while renting a room in landlord's house

You should always help out around the house with chores.


It's wrong to put animals before other people.


thinking my partners relationship with her nieces is inappropriate

It's wrong to tell your partner what to do.

your partner is at risk of severely injuring themselves.


you have never performed the task yourself prior.


They have no interest in your opinion on the matter.


They are disorganized and need direction in life.


They are more successful in running their life then you are.


being interested in one of the closest friends of the girl I've sorta being seeing for a couple months now? and for asking the girl, in the middle of a completely different conversation, if the friend is single

It's ok to end a relationship to pursue someone you are more interested in.

the other person is married and has no interest in you.


the relationship is not working out and you want to break up.


The person you're pursuing consents to your pursuit.


Your interest in the person you want to pursue is a fleeting infatuation.


You and your current partner no longer get along.


They are related to your current partner.


You're unhappy in the current relationship.


The person also wants to end the relationship.


not letting my girlfriend being friend with my classmate

It's rude to try to control who your girlfriend is friends with.


She is trying to become friends with your ex, who you have a restraining order against.


You are friends with people who she doesn't like, yet she never says a thing about it.


She wants to be friends with a criminal.


she's old enough to make her own decisions.


you can be friends with whoever you want.


not wanting to get married but sort of leading my girlfriend on

It is mean to lead someone on with no intention of marrying them.

You are just a child and not ready to get married.


They have said that they want to marry you.


They have already started making wedding arrangements.


they have sacrificed everything to be with you


You have already mentioned to them that you are not interested in marriage.


You know that they are infatuated with you.


considering a break up with my girlfriend of 14 months after she kicked my dog out

You should not demand big changes from your partner.


You and your partner have different interests


What they are doing is ruining your relationship.


Your partner's behavior has been harming you.


You're asking your partner to act like a different person.


Your partner has a gambling addiction and needs to get help now or you will both lose your home.


Your partner has put on a little weight after having a baby.


your partner also has demanded big changes from you and you made them.


feeling a bit upset at my christian friends for not wanting to come to my bday cause of the location

It's considerate to think of all your friend's needs when planning a party.

The party is a wedding shower for someone else.


You are giving a party for a special friend.


Your friends haven't expressed any particular needs.


You have friends with different dietary restrictions.


Not being there for someone that was important to you can be viewed as cold or callous.


You knew in advance about where you needed to be.


you have other obligations and must attend them instead.


you have promised them that you'd be there for them.


You are trying to help them get clean by ignoring them


They have been their for you in the past


You went to a party instead of helping them out.


You live in a different state or country than them.


thinking my friend ITA for just dumping all of his online gaming friends

You should not assume someone ITA for not being around anymore.


They stole thousands from you and took off.


The person is a parent who abandoned their child.


telling my GF listening to audio books does not count as reading

It's ok to give your significant other your honest opinion.


Your honest opinion might be hurtful to them.


The honest opinion will hurt the other person.


The other person needs to change for the better.


It will hurt their feelings for no good reason.


They asked for criticism on something they did so they can improve.


misunderstanding a situation and not being able to explain myself

Hypothesis: It's wrong to not explain yourself.

You will be scolded for not speaking up.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not explain yourself.

You can help someone by elaborating on something.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not explain yourself.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not explain yourself.

You are asking people to invest in your idea.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not explain yourself.

You've already explained several times before.


cutting off my friend because of their mental health issues

It's understandable to want to cut off a friend.

You have not talked to the friend about your issues.


You have been friends for over two decades.


They do dangerous things that could get you into trouble.


The friend needs you because they are suicidal.


Children should be taught proper manners.

they are already very good with manners.


They are toddlers and too young to understand.


The children are severely developmentally delayed.


They're too young to understand what's being asked of them.


The people around them complain about the children being rude.


asking my husband to stop taking his phone into the bathroom

It's okay to ask your partner to not do something you don't like.

They aren't affecting you or anyone else.


it is something that is very meaningful and important to them.


it is directly involving physical contact with your body.


they will reward you for letting them do it.


what they do is dangerous to your health.


being upset at my dad's friend's son for having a sleepover at my house tomorrow

It's not acceptable for adults to show anger to children.

The children know they are provoking the anger.


The children don't know they're doing anything wrong.


They explain to the child afterward why they were angry


The child doesn't know what is going on.


The child is not at fault for the anger to begin with.


You are not good at controlling your anger.


wanting to go to a Concert Wthout my husband

Inviting your husband to come with you to a concert is the nice thing to do.


You only have one ticket to the concert.


You know that he'd feel left out if he wasn't included.


Your husband is not interested in the artist and wants you to go with a friend.


You originally promised your best friend they could go.


not wanting any birthday presents from family and friends

People are expected to want presents for special occasions.

They write on the invitation that they don't want gifts.


They already own too many material things.


They prefer to have cash to donate to preferred charities instead.


They don't live in a gift-giving culture


ghosting my mentally ill mother and grandmother

Families should be willing to help each other in hard times.

Family members aren't really trying to help themselves.


No one has any money or resources to spare.


Family members have money or resources to spare.


Their family has the money to help them.


You have a family member who is a drug addict and helping him equals enabling him.


You have plenty of money and your sister's kids are going hungry.


not wanting my girlfriend to go alone to a convention with a man she met online

It's normal to not want someone you're in a relationship to go places with a stranger.

They regularly meet up with clients for work.


it is a stranger to you, but a close friend of theirs.


it is someone they met online in a chat room.


The stranger is a doctor who will help them.


The stranger is a convicted sex offender.


not wanting to be there when my GF tries MDMA

It's rude to do drugs when your spouse doesn't approve.

You need them to manage a health condition.


You are taking prescription drugs that you need to survive.


Those drugs help treat a sickness you have.


Those drugs cause you to behave in ways that undermine the relationship.


You are doing drugs around your children.


refusing to give up my seat to a pregnant woman on the bus

You should be considerate of others when they are pregnant.

There is a fire and a pregnant woman is stuck in the only exit from the building.


You are married to them and they are carrying your child.


The pregnant person is acting in a way that is violent and disruptive.


The pregnant person is being rude to you.


They are doing something risky with potential harm to their fetus.


If they are having complications with their pregnancy.


sleeping with my married next door neighbour

It is bad to sleep with a married person.


You expect to have a long term relationship with someone.


You sleep with your best friend's spouse


You shouldn't put up with a nosy partner.

They have sleep apnea and can't help it.


They just want to see what you do with your spare time.


They take your phone and go through your messages.


you have broken their trust and they have good reason to be nosy.


there is no reason for them to pry so much.


they are disrupting your life with their intrusions


People should not be forced to be friends wit their ex.


There was a particularly acrimonious breakup.


The have to routinely interact for their children's sake.


going to happy hour while my SO sat at home with a broken ankle

It's uncaring to abandon your partner when they're injured.

you must in order to save your own life.


Visiting hours are over at the hospital.


Your leaving them will cause them to die.


They injured themself while abusing you.


They can't manage by themself due to the injury.


Your partner is only your partner legally and has been abusive to you


looking on tinder for guys when I have a thing with a girl

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on someone.

A healthy relationship requires openness and honesty.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on someone.

You could just break up with the person first.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on someone.

You want to end the relationship with them.


not wanting to reconcile with my previously alcoholic and abusive father

It is good to acknowledge when people change for the better.

Acknowledging the change makes them feel embarrassed they had the problem in the first place.


Acknowledging the change encourages them to keep improving.


They still have some glaring weaknesses they haven't acknowledged.


They have worked hard and have done some very good things.


They are your friend and you care about them.


They have personally harmed you, because you are under no obligation to forgive anyone ever.


They are actively working to improve every day.


it will encourage them to continue the positive change


complaining about the school musical on Instagram

You should complain about a musical with facts.


You are a music critic for a publication.


there was nothing wrong with the musical.


Other people are currently watching the musical.


The musical has put forth false information.


asking my husband (and indirectly) his guests to give me alone time tomorrow

It's fine to want some seclusion every once in a while.


You just got done hosting distant relatives for two weeks.


You have a baby that needs 24 hours of care.


You need to unwind from a stressful job.


It's good to call out someone's arrogance.


The person who is being arrogant is your boss.


The person being arrogant is a close friend of yours.


warning a guy about his terrible girlfriend

If you warn someone about a girlfriend, they may find you disrespectful of their choices.


Their partner isn't doing anything wrong.


they find out you're protecting them from harm


they're about to propose marriage to the girlfriend


They know deep down they are being cheated on.


You won't stop complaining and it's suspicious.


You have solid facts about the girlfriend.


Adults shouldn't have the expectation of a grand birthday celebration.

they have specifically asked for it from those close to them.


They've made plans for a big party themself.


They don't have a lot of friends in their life.


Their friends and relatives can't afford it.


It is a landmark birthday like 30 or 40.


They have young children who deserve the lavish parties more.


they are unable financially to throw one.


reporting three different posts attacking a cloth pad seller on the book of faces

Hypothesis: It's good to report bad behavior.


Hypothesis: It's good to report bad behavior.


Hypothesis: It's good to report bad behavior.

reporting the behavior would put you in serious danger.


Hypothesis: It's good to report bad behavior.

The bad behavior is affecting you a lot.


Hypothesis: It's good to report bad behavior.

It's from a friend and you haven't tried to remedy the situation yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to report bad behavior.

It is told to you during confessional and no one is in danger.


Hypothesis: It's good to report bad behavior.

Someone is threatening to hurt someone else.


It's understandable that sometimes things happen we can't take care of on our own.

You always tell people how you don't want their help and can take care of yourself.


A person is constantly dealing with negative outcomes.


You want to teach a teenager that life isn't easy.


We are independent and know how to handle our business.


We have health issues that keep us from doing better.


not being able to handle my boyfriends 15 year old sons attitude

You should talk things over with your partner about their child.

Talk WHAT over? This all depends on context.


Your partner has run off with another woman and you have no idea where he is.


You and your partner have a joint custody agreement.


The child is a grown adult who lives on their own.


Hypothesis: It's good to post pics.


Hypothesis: It's good to post pics.

You are trying to increase your social media presence.


Hypothesis: It's good to post pics.

They are pictures of someone else and you don't have permission to post them.


Hypothesis: It's good to post pics.

They are your own personal pictures and you are sharing with family.


It's okay to ask questions to be friendly.

The person has asked you not to talk to them.


You are try to make someone feel comfortable.


The person you're talking to doesn't feel social


You can see you're bothering someone with those questions.


you can see the other person is receptive.


You should mind your own business when it comes to the affairs of your neighbors

they have a lot of people coming and going in the middle of the night and it wakes you up.


They have a meth lab, which could cause an explosion.


You see that they are doing something illegal.


browsing through my (now ex) girlfriend discussion board

Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on others.

They know the whereabouts of a missing person.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on others.

They are getting dressed for a fashion shoot in the other room.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on others.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on others.

You expect others to value your privacy.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on others.

You have a restraining order against you.


Relatives are expected to communicate with each other.


They are planning a family get together.


One of those relatives has a restraining order against the other.


They work together at a family business.


They have a restraining order against each other.


They have little kids to take care of and share.


They are small children who can't speak.


they are third cousins and have never met.


trying to get my friend to stop using the term "traps"

It's good to educate people about bigoted language.

You are the more powerful one in the conversation.


You claim to be an ally to certain groups.


They already know and you might be annoying them.


You see by their behavior they don't know what they're saying is wrong.


It seems like they don't really understand what they are saying is wrong.


They are children who need to know that it is not appropriate.


Threatening, bigoted language is directed toward you.


People become aware and are willing to change.


being annoyed with my so for passing out drunk on a weekday

It is socially unacceptable to get super drunk on a weekday


You are driving your kids home from school.


The New Years was on a weekday and you are celebrating at home.


You stay home, don't harm yourself and have no obligations the next day.


You work weekends and get two weekdays off.


accidentally telling my girl churchmate why she's being ghosted/ignored

You shouldn't reveal to someone something that they shouldn't hear.


Someone's well-being depends on you telling them.


It was a secret told to you in confidence.


It is kind to let people know when they are behaving badly.


they are willing to take self-corrective action


They are your boss and are known for their volatility.


They could turn that bad behavior on you.


They don't realize that they are acting poorly.


not wanting to hang out with my wife's friends because of the subject matter? NSFW

It's okay if you don't want to be around people if you are the offended by the subject matter they talk about.


The people bring up topics that upset you often.


You are at work and they are talking about business that needs to be handled.


They are saying discriminatory things against a protected class.


You are a teacher at a training conference on how to handle harassment.


You are the parent of a school age child and they are playing with their toys in the same room.


spending new years with my family instead of my gf on her bday eve

It is hurtful to not spend time with your significant other during a special time in their lives

You have to work to support yourself and them.


Your significant other is having a baby.


You're currently deployed far from home.


You knew the events were important and chose to stay home.


You have to be with another family member who's having a medical emergency.


Your excuse is that you wanted to watch a football game.


being mad at a Bipolar friend Over Someone Else's edgy Joke

It's wrong to be mad a person for something someone else did.


The person defends and agrees with what someone else did.


The person had nothing to do with what someone else did.


Your friend knew that someone was going to cheat you out of your money and didn't warn you.


Your friend has no idea what the other person did, or why you are so upset.


They encourage the other person to do it.


They didn't know what the other person was doing.


It does nothing to change the situation.


quickly leaving the room whenever my family moves conversation to topics that I know will get uncomfortably heated

It's wrong to leave your family when they talk about things you don't like.

They are doing it just to get under your skin.


They are talking about matters in order to upset you.


You're responsible for taking care of your family.


You're only visiting with your family for the day.


kissing him on the cheeks after our date? and for putting him in trouble

It's wrong to do something that can get another person in trouble.


It will stop that person from hurting others.


You're doing something that keeps the other person from harming themselves or others.


It's you who is doing something illegal and you're setting the other person up to take the fall.


That person is always getting you in trouble for things first


You know you were the one who did the wrong thing


getting upset with my so about communicating repeatedly with her ex

It is completely understandable not to want your partner to talk to their ex.


They need to coordinate when they pick up their kids.


Your ex and your partner still hang out alone


They have parenting responsibilities together.


It is OK to choose to remain single and child-free.


You aren't responsible enough to have children.


you are the last female or male alive on Earth.


you have a genetic condition that will kill your child with 100% certainty.


the fate of the human race depends on you having kids.


you want to maintain some autonomy as an adult.


stealing photos of my dad from my mom to copy

Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.

You are stealing food to feed a hungry child.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.

The people you are stealing from are very poor.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.

The theft will cause trouble for someone else.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.

You're stealing your own possessions back


Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.

It's the only cure for your child's disease.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't steal things.

The stealing comes from a place of superficial selfishness.


It's understandable to want to live in a clean home.


You regularly host gatherings at your home.


You are too lazy to do the cleaning yourself and expect someone else to do it all.


it becomes a higher priority than other more important things.


selling my Christmas present my mother brought me, without saying anything

Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to get rid of a gift.

You thoughtfully re-gift it to someone who has better use for it.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to get rid of a gift.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to get rid of a gift.

The gift is a huge ball of stinky cheese.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to get rid of a gift.

The person spent a lot of money on the gift.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to get rid of a gift.

It was given to you by your significant other.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to get rid of a gift.

The gift is broken and can't be repaired.


not letting a family friend in to my apartment wjen she shows up to a party an hour early

It's okay to refuse to let a friend into your home if you are not ready for them.


You friend is experiencing an emergency.


Someone has a contagious illness in the house.


being upset with my ex for bringing her new BF around my kids

It's expected to be upset when someone make a decision that impacts your children badly.

It is reasonable punishment for the children's bad behavoir.


It was your spouse and they were following your advice.


Your children ended up having to go to the doctor as a result.


your child did something they shouldn't.


dropping a girl I was dating (turned friend zone) right as her grandpa died, because I found out she overlapped me with an ex

It's ok to break up with someone when they cheat on you.


They cheated on you with your best friend.


refusing to wear a dress/skirt to my great grandmother's funeral

It's expected that you should dress up for funerals.

The dead person has asked that no one dress up.


Everyone else is wearing the same clothing


The deceased left instructions to have a beach party and a burial at sea instead of a conventional funeral.


not leaving the dog park when my puppy jumped on a toddler

Hypothesis: It's bad to lose control of your pets.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lose control of your pets.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lose control of your pets.

You have let them lose in an enclosed space to play.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lose control of your pets.

Your pets are aggressive towards strangers.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lose control of your pets.

You are the only one in a park and there are fences to keep the pets from getting too far.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lose control of your pets.

There are small children that live on your block.


not wanting to have girls as friends unless it's something more

It's unfair to want a girl to be your girlfriend if you can't be a friend to her first.


You want to prove to her how much you respect her.


She doesn't care about you being her friend and only wants to be your girlfriend.


The girl needs to build up trust with you because she's been hurt a lot on her past.


you aren't looking for a serious relationship.


you want the relationship to last a long time.


She is known to put people in the friend zone.


ghosting someone and not telling them I miscarried their baby

It's expected that you tell someone you are pregnant with their child.

That person will kill you if they find out


You want them to be in the child's life.


They are abusive to their other children.


cutting out self-involved friends who might have disorders that make them this way

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

Your friends have always been kind and supportive.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

You tend to isolate yourself from others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

Your friends are members of a street gang and they want you to sell drugs for them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

You have a substance abuse problem and your friends are trying to get you the help you need.


being upset that my maid keeps taking my clothes

You shouldn't get mad over material possessions.


the material possessions are extremely sentimental to you.


you already have enough things to meet your needs.


It causes strife between you and your family.


The material items were sentimental and irreplaceable.


The possessions were inexpensive and easy to find.


It's expected that you won't use paid time at work to do personal responsibilities.

Your employer agrees that you may do this.


being annoyed at my boyfriend for not getting me something to eat fast enough when I'm sick

It is expected to take care of your partner when they are sick.


You are immunocompromised and need to avoid being around people when they're sick.


hiding protein bars at my local coffee shop

It is wrong to leave things where they don't belong.


You forgot the proper places for them and take your best guess.


asking my partner to not call me a "bastard?"

It is definitely okay to stand up for yourself.


You want people to see you as a strong person


you are in the wrong and want to admit guilt


if a bully is trying to take advantage of you


You're in the military and you just were given a direct order.


in doing so someone else will be hurt worse


No one should dictate to other people how they should live.


A parent is telling a child what they need to do.


The person is an adult and can decide how to live their own life.


The other people are the person's small children.


It's none of the business of the person doing the dictating.


You are a priest being asked for counsel


It is disrespectful not to obey one's parents

they are telling you to do something illegal or immoral


they are telling you something for your own good


The parent is advocating immoral or illegal activity.


Their demands are reasonable and for your own good.


You are going to get hurt if you don't listen.


Your parents are criminals who are telling you to break the law.


You are an adult and can legally make your own decisions.


You are a minor child living under their roof.


arguing with my mother about the needs of my younger brother

It's good to look out for a younger sibling.

You want them to learn how to fend for themselves.


You want them to learn from your mistakes.


Your parents expect you'll babysit constantly.


getting pissed at friends who chose some of their college application essay prompts at random

It's understandable to be angry at friends if they do something you don't agree with.

it is something to do with their religious beliefs.


their actions are causing harm to others.


They called the cops when you were trying to kill yourself


Their actions affect you in no way at all.


They do something petty or trivial that doesn't directly affect you.


They continuously break the law and go to jail.


wanting to kick my son's mom out of my house

It's OK not to care about someone any more, even if they're the mother of your child.

You have been married a long time and your kids want you to stay together.


They are abusive toward you and your kids.


They need your support for the good of the child.


By not caring, you directly cause harm to your child.


The person is someone who was very abusive.


You think this gives you the license to not care about your child.


You are the one who has custody of the child because the mother is a neglectful parent.


Hypothesis: It's noble to defend one's family.

it is defending against something prideful and petty


Hypothesis: It's noble to defend one's family.

you are protecting your family from physical harm


Hypothesis: It's noble to defend one's family.

One's family has committed terrible crimes.


Hypothesis: It's noble to defend one's family.

One's family is being threatened by violence.


Hypothesis: It's noble to defend one's family.

Your family has done something very bad.


Hypothesis: It's noble to defend one's family.


wanting to set a time limit on how long my roommate's girlfriend stays over

People should be understanding of their roommates.

Your roommates are trying to kick you out.


You are sharing a dorm room for four years.


Their roommates have treated them in a hurtful way.


The roommates have done everything they can to be good roommates.


Their roommates are loud and party every night.


Hypothesis: You should not copy other people.


Hypothesis: You should not copy other people.

You are playing a famous person in a biopic and you are supposed to look and act like that individual.


Hypothesis: You should not copy other people.

You are copying a friend who will get creeped out because you always dress like her and talk like her.


Hypothesis: You should not copy other people.

You are copying a good example of behavior.


Hypothesis: You should not copy other people.

You are taking part in a celebrity impressions contest.


Hypothesis: You should not copy other people.

They are driving over one hundred miles per hour in a school zone.


wanting to destroy my brother's computer

It's wrong to want to cause damage to another persons property for no good reason.


You are trying to break into someone's car to rescue them in an accident.


that person has done nothing wrong to you


They person asked you to destroy their property


getting angry at my ex-girlfriend for talking about other guys

It's rude to talk to your ex about people you're romantically interested in.


Your relationship ended badly with your ex.


Your ex has a new partner and doesn't mind.


You keep comparing the ex favorably to them


telling my friend that she shouldn't be naked in front of the kids she's babysitting

Hypothesis: Nudity in front of children is wrong.

you are showering together when your child is very young.


Hypothesis: Nudity in front of children is wrong.


Hypothesis: Nudity in front of children is wrong.

A mother needs to change while keeping an eye on the baby.


Hypothesis: Nudity in front of children is wrong.

they're young enough to be generally oblivious to nudity


Hypothesis: It's wrong to bully others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to bully others.

One is much older or more powerful than the others.


buying two bus tickets so I could sit by myself and told others they could not sit with me

It's wrong to not let others take seats next to you on a bus.

You are disabled and need the extra seat.


you are handicapped and need the extra space.


They are people who are being mean to others and shouldn't even be on the bus at all.


They are elderly or otherwise physically incapacitated.


You or the other person is very sick and wish to avoid contamination.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

they are your children and they still need you to provide for them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

They have been extremely hateful to you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

They have done lots of really good things for you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

They have always been supportive of you.


launching a smear campaign over a powerpoint presentation

It's clever to find non-violent methods of retaliation for perceived slights.


The ones who slighted you are violent by nature.


You must discipline your mind to avoid temptations to do the wrong thing.

Doing the wrong thing doesn't bother you.


Doing the right thing come naturally without discipline.


You are trying to lose weight and don't want to eat sweets.


You want to treat yourself to something.


You are diabetic and can't eat sweet things.


the temptation could eventually kill you.


It's good to forgive people when they make a mistake.

They refuse to learn from those mistakes.


They've made the same mistake a dozen times without showing remorse.


This is the first time they've made that mistake.


being upset that my girlfriend lead me on to believe she's broke when she's really making six figures

It's understandable to want to keep things hidden from your significant other.

Your silence will lead to a breaking point.


The things are your significant other's minor quirks.


The things you're hiding are infidelities.


The things you're hiding are christmas gifts.


you have an open relationship with a forgiving partner.


forcing my brother to do something else than Soccer

You shouldn't force your sibling to do things.

the thing you force them to do helps them.


they have asked you to leave them alone.


You are babysitting your little brother.


You are placing your sibling in inpatient treatment for eating disorders


Your parents put you in charge of making sure your siblings do their chores.


refusing to sell fish when a man is breaking store policy

It is OK for stores to refuse service to customers if they cannot follow store polices.

Store policies are unreasonable and not clearly stated.


The store policies are very easy to follow.


The customer was not made aware of the store policy.


The customer is trying to return an item that they don't have the receipt for.


The policies themselves are wrong or immoral to begin with.


The store policies are moral and help protect people.


thinking my friend might be badly self-entitled

It is okay to think your friend might be self-entitled.


Your friend donated all their money to charity


Your friend never does anything for others


not going to my grandmas birthday dinner because of my social anxiety and depression

You should attend family gatherings when you can.

You have a bad relationship with your family.


You have older relatives who might die soon.


Your family disapproves of your sexuality


You were asked to not attend due to a problem with a particular family member.


You live in a different state or country.


The gatherings are for important events like weddings, graduations, or funerals.


getting upset someone parked in my assigned spot

It's normal to park in the spot that you are assigned to.

Your parking spot has someone else's car in it.


Your parking spot has a sign with your name near it.


Someone else has taken your assigned spot.


The other spots are reserved for someone else.


The parking spot is too small for your car.


You are giving the go ahead by your company.


An emergency vehicle had to park in your spot.


You don't want the landlord to be upset with you.


getting an emotional support animal letter through an online service

It is bad behavior to fake the need for a support animal.

you should never fake the need for a support animal.


it hinders the people that really need the animal from having it.


you need to do this to save the animal's life


the presence of the animal is an annoyance to others


You would potentially be taking away a support animal from someone that really needs it.


Someone who actually needs an animal doesn’t get one


you use it to gain entry ahead of many others who are waiting.


There is nothing wrong with giving yourself a head start.


You need the extra time to finish up your day.


You think it will take you longer than others.


asking out a girl I know my friend likes

You can't expect your friends not to go after someone you like.


Your friends don't know you like the person.


They are of a different sexual orientation than you.


not wanting to pitch in for an unnecessarily expensive gift for a friend

You should be there to support your friends.

I will be out of the country over the entire summer.


If a friend's family member died, I would drop everything to be there for them.


You're preoccupied with work at the time.


They have been supportive to you in the past.


Your friends are doing something stupid.


Your friends especially need your support.


you have tried to help them several times and they don't appreciate it.


It's fine to favor your family over strangers.

Your family is completely wrong vis a vis the stranger.


You care about your family and are close to them.


Your family hasn't spoken to you in years.


The stranger is rich and wants to give you a million bucks.


You have a strong relationship with your family.


being upset that my stepmom went behind my back to feed our cat low quality food

It's bad to not take proper care of your pet.


It's wrong to resign from a job when they need you.


They give you a promotion and up your pay.


You just quit and do not give them any notice.


You are an emergency room doctor in the middle of a huge trauma.


You got offered a better job that also needs you.


dropping my old best friend from my life

Friends should be supportive of each other.


You have been supported in the past, first.


Someone wants you to enable their drug habit.


Are trying to make their dreams come true.


A friend wants support for something unethical.


One of the friends is engaging in dangerous or reckless behavior.


One of them has especially good news such as an engagement.


your friend is involved in something illegal.


you are going through a tough time at work.


not spending enough time with my girlfriend

It's poor behavior to not spend enough time with a partner.


Your partner has asked you to spend more time with them.


The partner is going through a rough time.


Both partners have multiple jobs to make ends meet.


Both partners take lots of time off from work.


not accepting the wrong food my waiter gave me

Hypothesis: It is okay to want good service.

You are in a restaurant that is currently experiencing a grease fire in the kitchen.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want good service.

You paid a lot of money to reserve a room at an upscale hotel.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want good service.

You are trying to undermine the business by posting bad reviews.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want good service.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want good service.

You deliberately show up a minute before closing time.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make fun of people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make fun of people.

They are your friends and know you are clowning around.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make fun of people.

You are just playing around making fun of each other for laughs.


Breaking off communication with friends without giving a reason is inappropriate.


they've done something harmful or illegal


they've asked why you won't speak to them


They have done something horribly hurtful to you.


You stopped communicating with them for a very insignificant reason.


telling my sister that she cannot go on a school trip

It's wrong to tell your family what they can and cannot do.

Your family is still in elementary school.


Your children are adults and independent.


They are responsible adults who don't need you to control them.


They have just moved from another country and don't understand social norms.


You are talking to your underage children.


not wanting to play online gaming with my friends child

It's fine if you turn down someone's offer to play a game with them.

You promised to do some kind of activity with that person.


You are the one who invited them to play in the first place.


The other person is your child and you refuse to play with them in any way.


You promised them that you would play and have been blowing them off.


making a joke with my ex-bff that went a tiny bit too far

Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

You're supposed to be the person's friend.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

The person being made fun of asked you to roast them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

You are pointing out flaws that they are sensitive about.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

You are making fun of something that they can't help.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of others.

They are comedians giving a performance.


getting at my mom after repeatedly telling her to stop

You should try to be more respectful of your kids.


they are already going through a hard time.


Your kids are unruly and disrespectful to you.


You are teaching your kids about treating others with respect.


they have done nothing to earn your respect.


you can see they are growing and behaving properly and make you proud.


It's okay to want to enjoy your free time the way you want to spend it.


you don't have a lot of free time to begin with.


You will spend your free time with family.


You have kids and need to give them attention.


being irritated with my boy crazy friend

It's understandable to be irritated by a friend that is acting erratic.

They are acting like that because someone hurt them.


They are using drugs and dont care about stopping


The friend is having serious mental problems and needs help.


The friend is disturbing you while you are studying.


thinking of a new relationship before the old one has ended

You should always be faithful in a relationship.

You and your partner are in an open relationship.


You have agreed to an open relationship.


You see the friendship is dissolving and you need to talk to someone else about it.


The friend has always been there for you.


requiring my next door neighbor to purchase my mobile home with certified funds

You should be more trusting of your neighbors.

They have given you reason to distrust them.


They have let you borrow things when you've asked.


not wanting to help my girlfriend clean up her room in her apartment

It's understandable to not want to help your significant other with a grueling task.

It's your task and you just want your significant other to clean up your messes.


You had nothing to do with their task, and even let them know that it was a mistake.


You were the cause of the task in the first place.


The other person has no other way to finish the task.


They are going to be fired if they don't get help


It's not something you are not comfortable doing.


no longer communicating with my grandparents after the refused to temporarily house me

It is rude to cut off your grandparents.


they are toxic people who treat you badly.


They are always there for you when you need them.


Your grandparents rely on you for financial stability.


You need to warn them of something dangerous about to happen.


They are telling you something very important to them.


You just spent the entire weekend with them.


Your grandparents feel cut off from the rest of society.


If you see someone taking advantage of someone else, it's good to put a stop to it.

The person doesnt mind and likes the feeling


Stopping the situation would put you in danger.