Some of those faults involve being cruel to you.


not wanting to be around my boyfriend's roommate

You should learn to accept others and ignore their faults.

If those faults don't directly effect you.


literally not caring about my sister having a baby

Family members are expected to be happy for each other.


One of them has ended up in jail for dealing drugs.


One of them is pregnant after a miscarriage.


One family member is marrying the person they stole from the other.


The happiness comes at another's expense.


It's understandable that sometimes, people change, and outgrow each other.


They have always had different goals in life.


They work hard to maintain their relationship.


They don't put any effort into maintaining a relationship.


It's only been a few days since they met.


feeling like grandparents are supposed to die

It is okay to be realistic about age and mortality.


An adult wants to know how long they have left to live.


You're trying to explain it to a 2 year old child.


You're talking about someone that's over 90 years old.


telling a trans girl she will always biologically be male

It's rude to force your own beliefs on other people's gender identities.


You try to shame them about their gender identity.


you will hurt a family member's feelings.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to exclude family.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to exclude family.

Families are invited to join company events.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to exclude family.

Your family loves you and wants to be in your life.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to exclude family.

The family member you are excluding has done the family wrong.


escalating the situation first by calling my landlord on my neighbours

It's good to call your landlord if your neighbors are being a nuisance.


You are doing something illegal on your property.


Your neighbors won't respond to you asking them to stop.


They are also his tenants and destroying his property.


You asked them to stop and they wouldn't.


Your landlord is friends with them, they can help to intervene.


calling out a girl for being rude on her birthday

You should be nice to people in their birthday.


they really enjoy celebrating their birthday.


telling my father to delete half of his birthday well wishes on my fb-wall

It's wrong to not expect parents to care about their children.


The parents gave their child up for adoption


The parents take care of their children.


the children are still very young children.


expressing extremeannoyance with my husbands bathroom habits

It's okay to be annoyed about your significant other's bad habits.


They quit the habits once but picked up again.


You've told them it annoys you and they keep doing it.


getting up with my boyfriend for posting on his Instagram story multiple times before he responded to my texts

You have the right to get upset at a partner that is ignoring you.

They are trying to finish a project for a deadline at work.


You're making a fool out of yourself while they're trying to read a book.


You don't even know their reasoning behind it.


You are at a marriage counseling session.


It's okay to fire a photographer if you don't like the photos they took.

They are a family friend and you don't want to cause trouble.


They charge you a lot for terrible photos.


They look like the ones in their portfolio.


They showed you something different before you hired them.


that's what you told them to do but you are just being ignorant.


calling neighbors son crazy after he called me racist

It's wise to maintain good relations with people who live near you.


Especially if they are your drug dealer.


The people near you are helpful and kind.


You have to pretend to be someone else to maintain that relationship


You don't want stress every time you walk out your front door and see a neighbor you have issues with.


not reading PUA books and getting kicked out of a house for not doing so

It's wrong to kick people out of the house.


You know they'll be homeless in the cold.


The cops were called for a noise complaint


telling my friend to stop using the word(s) "nigger-faggot?"

If your friend uses racist or homophobic words, it would be wrong not to tell them to stop.

they are using them to quote someone in a court of law.


They are giving a lecture on racist and homophobic words.


The target of the words is within hearing distance.


They hurt another friend of yours feelings


It's acceptable to keep some details about your life private.

You have an open book rule with your partner.


your partner understands that there are some things that you are not ready to share.


you want to be in a serious relationship.


not having adopted cats from a shelter or rescue

You should always adopt cats from the shelter.


you want to make sure they have all their shots and are healthy


You have a choice between a shelter cat and pet store cat.


kicking my brother out with nowhere else to turn to

It's bad to behave in a way that makes someone want you to leave their home.


That person is rude so whatever you do they would get mad.


They kidnapped you and were keeping you against your will.


It's your parents or in-laws that request you to leave.


asking my girlfriend to wear clothes that I find more attractive

Telling your girlfriend that her wardrobe is not attractive is hurtful.


Your girlfriend is wearing her mother's clothing.


Your girlfriend is wearing the current styles.


She asks for your opinion as a fashion designer.


You know she cannot replace her wardrobe right now.


You are taking her somewhere special and can't buy her anything new to wear.


saying I dont want to go on a vacation with my family

As you get older it is normal to want to go on vacation without your family.


You have multiple kids and rarely get breaks from them.


you are going to a family reunion that your entire family is planning to attend.


you are starting a new relationship and want to spend some private time with that person to get to know them better.


you want to go places that your family doesn't.


you're visiting your family's favorite place to go together


your family was overbearing to you as a child


You still have young children living at home.


You have an empty nest during retirement.


You can set your own rules regarding what you are willing to work hour wise.


You need to make as much money as possible to repay a debt


not returning my adopted dog when the family asked for it back

Hypothesis: It's good to care for homeless animals.


Hypothesis: It's good to care for homeless animals.


not wanting to bake my mom the cake she wanted

You should always want to help out your family.


your family always has your back in times of need


They have always been loving and supportive.


they have always helped you when you needed it.


going to tell one of my best friends he's making a mistake marrying his gf

You should warn your friends if they are about to do something disastorous.

you are trying to surprise them with a cool trick


They never listen to you and they need to learn the hard way.


Unless warning them would make it worse.


Especially if their lives are in danger.


They are about to make fools of themselves.


You have done the thing in question and are trying to help.


telling my roommate that I can't afford for our heat to be turned on to 75 degrees

It's wrong to turn the heat up too high in your place.


You're underweight and are cold because of it.


Especially if you have a limited budget.


abandoning my friend hundreds of miles away from home? could use some advice

It's wrong to leave someone stranded far from home.

You are dropping someone off for a camping trip in the wild.


You don't have any way to bring them with you.


They pulled a weapon on you while you were driving somewhere.


destroying my kid's new handheld Tetris high score

Hypothesis: It's expected to do your best.

You are competing against your own child.


Hypothesis: It's expected to do your best.


Hypothesis: It's expected to do your best.

you're at a world championship competition


Hypothesis: It's expected to do your best.

You are feeling sick and unable to perform well.


Hypothesis: It's expected to do your best.

Your jobs is critical and people are counting on you.


wanting my gf to clean her room so my allergies don't kick up

Partners should do what they can to help one another with medical issues.


They have experience with the medical issues.


By doing so would make them at risk for contracting the issue themselves.


The medical issue involves help with personal care.


complaining noone said happy birthday to me

People expect their loved ones to make a big deal of their birthday.

Their loved ones don't have the money to throw a party for them.


They want to spend their birthday alone with their partner.


They don't celebrate birthdays because of their religion.


They are a Jehovah's Witness and don't celebrate birthdays.


not making my sister feel welcome staying at my place

If your sister deserves it, you don't have to be kind to her.

Your mother has asked the two of you to get along.


She ruined your favorite shirt on purpose.


Hypothesis: It is bad to only think of yourself.


Hypothesis: It is bad to only think of yourself.

your not covering your mouth when coughing.


Hypothesis: It is bad to only think of yourself.

You live alone and aren't responsible for anyone else.


Hypothesis: It is bad to only think of yourself.

You have children with you in a crisis situation.


Hypothesis: It is bad to only think of yourself.

You're stranded alone on a secluded island.


Hypothesis: It is bad to only think of yourself.

You're the only breadwinner in the family.


It's understandable to want to get back at someone who cheated on you.


They cheated on you with your best friend.


You have no room for more hate in your heart


It's okay to not want to keep your baby.


You leave your baby with an adoption agency.


You plan on putting it on someone else's doorstep.


You are a teenager still in high school.


hitting a girl who hit me first, then not apologizing

You should expect consequences if you hit someone.


You cold cock a stranger for no real reason n front of a police officer.


It's wrong to break off a friendship over a relationship.

The friendship has been fading for a long time.


Your friend never accepts who you go out with.


You've known that friend for a long time.


Your friend wanted to date you and is being weird about it now.


You have known the friend your whole life.


The friend is trying to date your partner.


You've been friends for a very long time.


You catch your friend repeatedly flirting with your partner.


Your partner is cheating on you with somebody else.


having a girl send me nudes because I know she has a crush on me

It is wrong to ask for inappropriate photos.


You are asking someone you just met on the internet.


You are a stranger asking another stranger.


wanting my gf to spend time with me and my friends on my birthday

It's great to spend time with loved ones.


Your loved ones often cause you to feel bad about yourself.


All anyone wants to do is argue about politics.


If it's been a long time since the last reunion.


It's good to spend time with those we love.


Teenagers are emotionally charged a lot of the time.


They're exhausted from working at their Summer job.


being less than kind to an older woman who constantly shows up too early

It's bad to act rudely towards someone over a minor annoyance they caused.


You want to discourage them from coming to your house again.


That person is normally very friendly to you.


standing up in my class and going to the bathroom

Hypothesis: It is disgusting to wet your pants.


Hypothesis: It is disgusting to wet your pants.


Hypothesis: It is disgusting to wet your pants.

You are a baby and haven’t been potty trained.


Hypothesis: It is disgusting to wet your pants.

You are held hostage and refused access to a bathroom.


telling my personal trainer I didn't want to work out with older women

It's okay to set limits on your exercise routine.

Your doctor orders you to do certain exercises for your heart.


Your doctor told you that you need much more exercise than you're currently getting.


You push yourself to the limits you could injure yourself instead.


It's important to make sure that you are getting a full day's nutrition.


Unless you are sick from food poisoning.


Especially if you are trying to be healthier.


not wanting my sister's fiancée constantly sleeping over our house

It's fine to want to sleep in your fiancee's house.


There was a recent string of burglaries in the neighborhood.


They live in a tiny house with their parents.


Your fiancee sleeps at your house sometimes.


Your religion says you should wait until marriage


It's wrong to lay off someone just because they have a bad reputation.


Their reputation involves abusing children.


Their reputation involves being a homosexual.


Your clients threaten to go elsewhere unless you fire them.


The people bad-mouthing them aren't known for being reliable witnesses.


being confused why my gf wants one of my hoodies

It is understandable to want a reminder of your partner when you are apart.

They're just in another room in the same house.


One of you has to go out of town for an extended stay.


The two of you are on a small break from each other.


You are deeply in love and can't stand being apart from each other.


The couple will be away from each other for a long time.


not wanting my boyfriend to be around someone he cheated on me with

It's wrong to expect your partner not to be around certain people.

The last time they were around that person, they decided to get drunk and rob a store


You have promised your partner that you will trust them.


It's their ex-spouse that they always fought with.


Making a tie is better then a scarf if the item needs to be for indoor use.


The item is for a person living in the desert.


You are doing a fashion show for winter clothes


telling my brothers girlfriend to mind her own business

People are expected to be kind to one another.


They are fighting in a war against each other.


leaving a meeting when the conversation derails into banter

It is okay to prioritize your own valuable time

You are so overwhelmed that you don't have any spare time to prioritize.


You have different types of responsibilities to family, work and community.


Your child wants to spend time with you.


You have had a long, stressful day and need to reset.


You work 60 hours a week and have little free time.


you do not have anything else scheduled.


you are slacking at work or family stuf.


turning a really nice guy down for a second date because of my own insecurities

It's bad to lead someone on when you aren't interested in pursuing a relationship.


They have different expectations from you.


It's expected that you attend a holiday dinner.


You're the one who made the dinner and invited guests.


You are traveling by plane and all the airports are snowed in.


It's bad to cause strife in a relationship over something minor.

Your partner is always making the same mistake over and over again


the minor thing has become a pattern of minor things


the minor thing can be easily written off


The issue is part of a larger pattern of behavior.


You have not ever said anything about the issue before.


your partner has done something major in the past.


sending my nurse flowers with my phone number attached

It is disrespectful to send people gifts with a note asking them to call you.


you're surprising them for their birthday


getting angry at my mom for spoiling my dog and not following the training routines

Someone watching your dog is expected to feed the dog exactly as you outlined.


There is an emergency and the food goes bad.


Your dog ran away and was kept at their house.


You're on vacation and are paying them to watch your dog.


The person watching the dog is a vet who is putting the dog on a special diet.


Your dog has a special diet due to allergies.


The dog starts throwing up everything he eats


You write down the exact schedule for them


Parents shouldn't be a financial burden on their children.


They are elderly and in need of hospice care


They set up funds to have someone take care of them


Their children are independently wealthy and they want to assume the cost.


The parents have money to use toward their care.


not wanting to go with my family on their Christmas trip

You should spend the holidays with your family.


You promised to spend the holidays with them.


not liking and not willing to talk to my mom

It is to be expected for your dad to no like this

They are trying to be supportive of your decisions.


You shouldn't destroy someone else's property.


you are removing their old house because they want you to build a new one.


It's wrong to cut someone out of your life without reason


The person is supportive toward your goals.


You feel like they could somehow be harmful towards you in the future.


It's a very close friend you share everything with.


You are being forced into witness protection.


getting upset with my girlfriend for using a sex toy I bought her

People are expected to appreciate gifts.


They are given by someone close to them.


They are homemade and given to them by children.


The person put a lot of thought into the gift.


eating my friend's girlfriend's chips from moes

It is rude to eat people's food if you know they are hungry.

They cooked the food especially for you.


They offer you some food and you are also starving.


Hypothesis: It is bad to break someones toy.


Hypothesis: It is bad to break someones toy.

You laugh in their face after you break it.


Hypothesis: It is bad to break someones toy.

Unless you plan to replace it with a new one.


Hypothesis: It is bad to break someones toy.

You're helping them to break open their toy piggy bank so they can buy something they've been saving for.


Hypothesis: It is bad to break someones toy.

They just got it and hadn't even played with it yet.


yelling at two people in my class group to stfu

It can be irritating when others in a class are making noise when you're trying to listen.


You don't hear the announcement about the test.


The presentation is going to be on the final exam.


You shouldn't expect your friends to always play games with you.

You are part of an online gaming tournament with them.


you and your friends want to be professional gamers.


Your friends are on a sports team with you.


Your friends live in a different state than you.


The only friends you have are on Xbox Live.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't expose your ex to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't expose your ex to others.

You have no reason to be ashamed of your ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't expose your ex to others.

Your ex is a manipulative person who might hurt others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't expose your ex to others.

Your ex was abusive and manipulative and you feel it moral to warn others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't expose your ex to others.

The information is private and personal and was revealed to you when the relationship was still trusting and loving.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to deny other's happiness.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to deny other's happiness.

Their happiness depends upon drug addiction


Hypothesis: It is wrong to deny other's happiness.

They're dead set on making your life miserable.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to deny other's happiness.

Someone gains happiness from your sadness.


leaving my gf because of her past and shitty behavior

It's okay to break up with someone if they treat you terribly.


You created the situation with bad behavoir first.


You want to nip this situation in the bud.


telling my crush stop talking about his girlfriend

It's okay not to want to hear someone you're interested in talk about their partner.


Especially if you didn't know they had a partner.


calling to report a gas station employee

Its wrong to report someone for something they didn't do.

They were supposed to take out the trash and they didn't do it.


You don't want them to falsely accuse you of doing something.


You are doing it in order to get them in trouble.


it's a red herring to flush the guilty party out


you are aware that they are about to do the wrong thing.


calling someone a depressed bitch when the person I said it to started it

You shouldn't retaliate just because someone else started a fight.

They threatened to beat up your sister next.


They tripped during the fight and are badly injured.


You think you may get hurt by retaliating


you are unable to escape from the person.


breaking a diet for myself but not for a friend

You shouldn't expect someone to break their diet for you.


they are following their diet for religious reasons


They are underweight and starving themselves on purpose.


hooking up with my best friend while she was in a committed relationship

You should make a decision in a moment that will have long term consequences.


The opportunity will only last for a moment.


You want to be sure you have the best chance at good consequences.


You are under pressure while people are watching you.


You don’t fully understand the consequences


It is a matter of life and death and must be made immediately.


making a fat joke about a friend who frequently has laughed at such jokes I've made directed towards him

It's wrong to make jokes at the expense of others.


not wanting my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him

It is rude to lead someone on if you do not intend to make anything out of it

You are dating them for a charity event.


You are working as a spy for national security reasons and need to get close to the person for intelligence gathering reasons.


The person really has deep feelings for you and thinks you are sincere.


You are trying to negotiate a better salary.


The person wants to have children some day.


Especially if you don't really like them.


They also frequently do it to other people.


You can tell they are madly in love with you.


telling my late brother's ex wife to fuck off

You shouldn't tell other people to "fuck off."


It's expected that you have a license to make it legal for you to drive.


You are leaning to drive and only have a learner's permit.


You're driving at 70 miles per hour on the highway.


You are in an emergency and have to drive.


telling my daughter that her mother went to jail

It is wrong to tell children things that will upset them


It is something they have to know such as the death of a parent.


It is something they would never know otherwise like about abortions or torture.


Their parents died and you don't have a choice, they still need to know.


You don't want them to have nightmares about it.


Unless it's something they need to know.


Especially if it's not something they need to know.


You have to tell them they are moving to a new school.


You are telling them something just to be mean.


It's not okay to butt into people's private lives.


They are currently grieving a loved one passing


You are a social worker investigating a child neglect case.


not attending the tuition lectures my parents pay for

Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to waste a gift.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to waste a gift.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to waste a gift.

The gift is something you are allergic to.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to waste a gift.

The gift could be given to someone else.


Hypothesis: It is ungrateful to waste a gift.

It was bought by your grandmother for you


If someone deserves it, give them a bit of sass.

YOu don't want to look bad in front of others.


You're all having a good time joking around


being mad at my mom because she worroes about me

IT is bad to be upset at someone for caring

That person is a stranger who makes you feel uncomfortable.


They are only acting like they care in an attempt to curry favor.


They just want you to be safe while you work.


they are trying to do something in your best interest


dropping my sisters old laptop and not thinking it as much of a big deal

You should always try to be careful when using other people's things.

It's a disposable item that gets used once and then thrown away.


not appreciating my girlfriend sending 30+ people half naked photos daily

It is not good to share personal nude photos


You are sending them to someone you like


You're trying to maintain a family friendly reputation.


You're sharing them with a spouse whom you trust.


Hypothesis: It's good to show gratitude for gifts.


Hypothesis: It's good to show gratitude for gifts.

The gift giver couldn't really afford it.


Hypothesis: It's good to show gratitude for gifts.

They put a lot of thought and effort into buying something special for you.


Hypothesis: It's good to show gratitude for gifts.

The gifts are from someone you have a restraining order against.


asking someone to the ball then saying I wouldn't want to go with them

You shouldn't ask someone to the ball if you have no desire to actually go with them.

You know they won't have anyone else to go with and that makes you sad.


They could have more fun with another date.


They have someone else who does really like them.


asking my parents to stop using Essential Oils around my pets

A child should respect what their parents want to do in their home.

Their parents are abusing another child.


Their parents are threatening to abuse them.


The parents need to fix something that is broken.


The child is an adult tenant who pays rent.


The parents provide the child with love and support.


You should drive safely because people are waiting for you.


You are forced to do some daring defensive driving because of a potential head on collision.


It's 3 AM and you're the only car on the road.


It's rush hour and the road is packed with cars.


being upset my friend is ditching me for her boyfriend

Friends should try to make time for each other.


Both friends have lots of time off of work.


They live across the country from one another.


They live across the street from each other.


They know they will be separating soon for college.


aggressively yelling at my wife, and more importantly, is our child being abused

Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your partner.

Your partner is about to be hit by a car.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your partner.

there is loud music and you need to get their attention.


It's bad to spy on your significant other online.

They cheated and you are trying to rebuild trust.


You suspect they may be downloading illegal images.


You suspect they are cheating on you or doing something illegal.


You violate their privacy by hacking their accounts.


They aren’t actually doing anything wrong


You shouldn't expect someone else to give you their possessions.

You won a game of poker and they bet their Rolex.


You paid the asking price for the possessions they're selling.


You just demanded they give them to you.


They are donating things to charity anyway.


They are poor and don't have many things.


not letting my mother move in with me and my bf

It is unacceptable to refuse to help your parents.

They stole your identity when you were younger.


Your parents have never been there for you.


The want you to help them commit suicide.


not feeling bad that my girlfriend's brother recently took his life

It's okay not to care about someone that doesn't have a close bond to you.


The person is someone beside you on a bus.


you are building towards that type of bond.


You should talk to your neighbors before calling the police on them.


They are having a party to celebrate the return of a war hero.


You have known them for a very long time.


you have evidence they did something wrong


not wanting my roommate's ((nice)) girlfriend around all the time

Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

The person you are avoiding doesn't understand that you just need a little space and are not leaving permanently.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

You are trying to figure out a tough decision.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.


Hypothesis: You should stick up for yourself.

Sticking up for yourself would lead to you getting hurt.


Hypothesis: You should stick up for yourself.


Hypothesis: You should stick up for yourself.

it's not worth your time to deal with haters


Hypothesis: You should stick up for yourself.

You have to rely on your job and know you'll be fired if you say anything.


It is OK to ask someone to stop signing if they are being annoying.

Deaf people who require sign language to communicate are present.


They are just gesturing inaccurately because they don't actually know sign language.


They are trying to tell you something important.


you can't understand what they are signing.


A deaf person needs them to keep signing


They are waving their hands in your face


calling the cops on my old mate for selling hard drugs to my younger brother

It's expected that you won't sell drugs to a friend's younger sibling.


You are a pharmacist and it's a prescription drug.


You are selling illegal drugs on the streets.


You met your friend through selling them drugs.


You met your friend through an alcoholics anonymous meeting.


not wanting to hang out with my neighbors because I think they want to fuck me

Avoiding awkward situations can be beneficial to relationships.

The situation presents itself so often that it can't be avoided.


That is the only problem the couple has.


the awkward situation brings you closer together.


getting through them strengthens the relationship.


You are avoiding talking about sexual preferences.


You go to the place where your ex hangs out.


You need to make a difficult decision together.


not understanding my roommates specific boundaries

It's good to respect someone's boundaries.


you are training them for a tough competition.


they have made their boundaries very clear.


They are your young children and need constant supervision.


You want to hurt or undermine the person.


That person has never made it clear what their boundaries are.


They person makes it very clear what their boundaries are.


It's acceptable to leave a family situation that is causing stress for you.


you are responsible for a minor child causing the stress.


your family is physically abusive to you.


Your family will never change and always be toxic


telling my friend her recent ex slept with someone else

It's okay not okay to get into someones personal life.


You are a therapist doing couple's counseling.


deciding not to reconnect with my estranged father

When you make a hard decision, it's good to talk about it with someone who will listen.

They couldn't begin to understand what the decision was about.


Someone whose judgement you really respect.


The decision is about something that must remain a secret.


You need a good friend to tell everything to


It's private and you don't want to share.


asking my wedding guest to leave for wearing his military uniform at my wedding

When you are on leave from the military, you should not wear your uniform for random occasions.


No one else wears their uniform out either


You don't want to be cited for wearing the uniform wrong.


It's the only thing clean you have to wear.


You were punished for doing so recently.


It's good to be equal in your relationships.

You've agreed that one person will be the breadwinner at that time.


One of you is a child and one of you is a parent.


You are a king and expected to rule your country.


You are trying to get along with your coworkers.


being mad at my best mate for seeing a girl he knew I liked

It is kind to be happy for your friends when they succeed.

their success involves hurting other people


It was something they worked very hard for.


letting my closest female friend sleep over even though I have a girlfriend

It's not considerate to your girlfriend to have other women staying at your home.


hitting a girl who hit me first, then not apologizing

It's petty but common to retaliate against someone who harms you.

The person who harmed you was a small child doing something on accident.


The person also harmed others you care about.


You are an adult retaliating against a child.


The person just made a small joke about you.


reporting my muslim coworker's racist comment to my boss

It's okay to take action against a person if they say something racist.


They speak in the privacy of their own home.


They use derogatory terms in the workplace.


They are the President of the United States.


You are a cop and they are verbally abusing you.


logging into ex's snapchat to find out she (might have) cheated

It's wrong to log into someone else's account.

They borrowed you their password for a service.


They don't know about it and you are snooping.


you had to steal their password to do it


not wanting my MIL to move in with us to get weight loss surgery she got denied for in Puerto Rico

Is it okay to set limits on who stays in your home.


You're renting rooms through Airbnb and you have an agent that handles everything.


You don't trust some of your children's friends.


You have kids who all want to have sleepovers


removing my assigned partners name from our project causing her to fail the class and most likely get kicked out of school

It's wrong to do something on purpose to hurt or ruin a persons life.


They are your significant other who has never wronged you.


They had you wrongfully accused of a crime that you did 15 years in prison for.


not wanting my bf to invite his friend to our wedding

It is important to respect the relationships your lover has with others.


They have been your partners friends for a long time


Your lover is having sex with someone else.


your lover is disrespectful to you by flirting with these others in front of you.


your lover has long-term friendships where they do things that you are not that interested in.


Those relationships are causing them significant harm.


Those relationships are with their family.


It is superficial start a relationship based on money.


The other person thinks you really love them.


You are clear up front about your needs.


You don't actually like the other person.


wanting to abandon my study abroad despite the money/time invested in it

Hypothesis: You shouldn't abandon your dreams.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abandon your dreams.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abandon your dreams.

They are unrealistic and involve harming people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abandon your dreams.

Chasing your dreams is putting you in danger.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abandon your dreams.

You have the resources to attain those dreams


asking cousin to return Christmas present

It's wrong to ask others to return things they might like.

You've gotten them something better in return.


They bought the thing with their own money.


Your spouse has bought something that the two of you can't afford.


Liking the stuff doesn’t hurt anyone else


making sarcastic or passive aggressive comments to my boyfriend regarding the way he treats me

Communication is expected in a relationship.


You don't care about the health of your relationship.


You want to have a healthy relationship.


The people in the relationship are considering becoming engaged.


Either partner doesn't care about the other person.


It is good to ask people you love why they are acting jealous.


You know why they are acting jealous and are just trying to make them doubt themselves.


You aren't sure what you have done wrong to make them feel that way.


You have tried to before and it causes problems.


returning a cat to her previous owner without discussing it with her

It's good to discuss things with others before you commit to doing something.


The thing you're doing is a solo endeavor.


The thing you're doing involves all of your friends.


You are looking to buy a house with your spouse.


it is something personal that you are doing alone.


you are organizing an event for a group of people.


telling my boyfriends parents he used an egg donor

You shouldn't tell your partner's secrets to their parents.


They are threatening to hurt themselves.


Telling the secret puts your friend in danger.


your partner has made you promise to keep their secrets.


It would be beneficial and promote love and understanding


It involves taboo things like abortions or sexual orientation.


it is an important medical issue that needs to be addressed


not wanting to talk to my depressed friend

You should support your depressed friends.

Your attempts at support are pushing them further away.


They don't have any family to to  turn to.


You don't have the emotional energy to help.


They're threatening to kill you r to hurt you.


They if they might have suicidal tendencies.


requesting there be a public bathroom in our office building

It's rude to demand things from your boss.

There is an emergency and you need a first aid kit.


You are in the middle of a lawsuit against them.


Your boss hasn’t given you your paycheck yet


You find out you have been being underpaid for years.


You are in their office being reprimanded for poor quality work.


You need those work materials to finish job.


telling my wife to stop talking while watching stuff

Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.

You are assisting your children with something.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.

You are watching a program with another adult.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.

You're watching alone and talking to yourself.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.

Other people are trying to watch the show.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.

You are playing along with a game show with your partner.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk while watching TV.

Others are trying to watch a live performance.


It is wrong to make fun of disabled people.

You are a comedian roasting someone at a charity event.


They tried to run you over with their wheelchair.


You are at a charity event in their honor.


You're making fun of yourself as a disabled person.


not being ok with my wife's family excluding me

Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.

You're excluding people on the basis of sexuality.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.

You are planning a surprise party for them.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.

Everyone else in the class is invited to the party.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.

You are excluding friends who are a bad influence.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.

They are your children or significant other.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to exclude people.

You're excluding an ex from your wedding.


It's wrong to spend time with people you do not like spending time with


You're going to your court appointed mandatory anger management therapist.


not inviting my mums new partner to a family event my dad will be at

It's wrong to be rude to your family members just because you think they aren't responsible.

You think it may correct their irresponsible behavior.


They have forgotten to pick your kids up from school.


Their irresponsible behavior has harmed someone.


Their irresponsible behavior has not had many consequences.


You have been hurt by their irresponsibility.


You want to keep a respectful relationship with them.


letting a decade long friendship end over a disagreement about racism

Hypothesis: It is bad to argue with friends.


Hypothesis: It is bad to argue with friends.


Hypothesis: It is bad to argue with friends.

Your friends are about to do something dangerous


Hypothesis: It is bad to argue with friends.

You treat them like family and sometimes it can happen


Hypothesis: It is bad to argue with friends.

You're both on the debate team and you're just practicing before the big debate on Friday.


not wanting to give my ex-roommate half of the portion of the deposit we got back because she caused the majority of the damage in our apartment

It's bad to trash a shared living space.

You are demo'ing the house for a remodel.


The structure is scheduled to be demolished the next day.


The house is being rented from a landlord.


You didn't tell your roommates beforehand.


The owners have asked you to keep the place clean.


You should do what you can to help your siblings.


They show no appreciation or respect for the help.


they are doing illegal drugs and refuse to stop.


not saying thank you for being allowed to cross the street

You should allow others to cross the street when it's safe.

It is your job to stop people from crossing the street.


Their parent is asking you to not let them go.


You are driving your wife to the hospital.


You are a police officer directing traffic


expecting the rules to apply in a community building tournament

You shouldn't expect the rules to apply to everything.

It's a very basic rule, like don't shoot anyone who's not a physical threat.


The rules are meant to ensure everyone's safety.


You are talking about playing a board game.


They aren't rules which are applied equally.


not responding to my ex-wife's text message

It is okay to send a message to someone you used to be married to

they have a restraining order against you.


the person has remarried and specifically asked you not to contact them.


you need to communicate with the individual regarding your children.


There is a no contact order in force from the divorce.


having my secodary school bullies beaten up by a tavern tug

It's wrong to react to violence with more violence.

escalating is required to stop an aggressor


It's okay when our dreams don't align with what other people think they should be.

You didn’t want to disappoint your parents


You don’t like taking anyone’s advice anyway


The people who really matter for your dreams are confident in your ability to reach them.


not throwing my daughter a birthday party

Hypothesis: It's good not to spoil your children.

They are sick and expected to have a limited life span.


Hypothesis: It's good not to spoil your children.

You are trying to teach them to play well with others.


Hypothesis: It's good not to spoil your children.


Hypothesis: It's good not to spoil your children.

You can support them for there whole lives.


Hypothesis: It's good not to spoil your children.

You want to raise well adjusted self sufficient adults..


It is acceptable to do other types of weddings.


You specialize in one specific type of wedding.


YOu advertise that you cater to the needs of all clients.


Your partner and the families are all for the idea.


wanting to kick my 94 year old grandmother out of my home

It is wrong to kick an elderly person out of a home.

The home is full of black mold spores that could kill them.


They're disabled and can't take care of themselves.


not wanting my parents growing weed in our home

People should not violate the laws concerning illegal deeds.

The laws are unfair or keeping someone from getting medical care.


The deeds are violent acts towards innocent people.


It is an antiquated law that is no longer followed by your local municipality.


Hypothesis: You should pay back money you owe.

Your need to save for a life saving medical procedure.


Hypothesis: You should pay back money you owe.

The person you owe money to is homeless.


Hypothesis: You should pay back money you owe.

You don't have any money to pay it back with.


Hypothesis: You should pay back money you owe.


Hypothesis: You should pay back money you owe.

The person that lent you the money gave you a timeframe to pay it back.


taking steal someone else's umbrella after someone stole mine

Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

You're robbing the rich and corrupt to give to the poor and needy.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to steal.

You're stealing from working class people with little to spare.


going abroad with my wife 2x a years and leave my 7yo daughter with my parents

It's wrong to leave kids in a situation that makes them uncomfortable.


They are not required to be in the situation.


They have expressed fear of being molested in the situation.


It will allow them to increase their self confidence.


The situation is necessary for their health.


saying that I really did not like his new tattoo that he did himself

It's okay to express your opinion about someone's tattoo.

You are going to make fun of their tattoo.


You really hate it and they'd be offended by it.


You want to express a negative opinion to a new acquaintance.


asking my wife who was putting our son down for a nap to check and see if I had something in my eye after pulling a larger piece of wood out of it

It is okay to ask for help if you need it.


criticizing a very cheap written product I bought

It's okay to criticize badly made products.

the criticism is directed at the product designer rather than the defects in product itself.


the criticism can help the product owner to design a better product.


you work for the company that made the product.


confronting boyfriend for texting other girl while we're out together

Hypothesis: It is important to be present.


Hypothesis: It is important to be present.


Hypothesis: It is important to be present.

You are a single parent who has to work overtime to support the household.


Hypothesis: It is important to be present.

You're cooking dinner for your children.


Hypothesis: It is important to be present.

you have priorities elsewhere at the moment.


wanting to end a friendship because of a shroom trip

You should grow closer to your friends through shared experiences.


Those experiences involve breaking the law


It's understandable to not agree with everything our parents do.


They have interests that you just don't like.


They are providing a stable home for us.


They're having a mid-life crisis they're blowing all of their money.


It's acceptable to not want to be around people with poor impulse control.


You also have poor impulse control and usually have a great time with them.


The police are already questioning you about some of their previous escapades.


declining an invitation to my younger brother's graduation

It's OK to not always do what you don't want to do.

You don't feel like feeding your small child.


You aren't comfortable doing something because it's illegal.


It'll lead to you being more successful in life.


You haven't had any time to yourself lately.


You're trying to do things you wouldn't normally.


not wanting my daughter to get a nose job

It's okay to not want your child to have surgery.


The surgery is necessary to save the child's life.


The surgery is elective and has ambiguous benefits.


It's polite to share things with people close to you.


you're sharing something they don't want.


They don't take proper care of what you share with them.


What you share is laughter and companionship.


blocking someone because they wanted a "legitimate reason" for not wanting to rp

Hypothesis: It's good to avoid unreasonable people.


Hypothesis: It's good to avoid unreasonable people.


Hypothesis: It's good to avoid unreasonable people.

You have an explosive temper and no patience.


Hypothesis: It's good to avoid unreasonable people.

they can say things that might damage your reputation.


Hypothesis: It's good to avoid unreasonable people.

You're a psychologist who's supposed to help people with mental illness.


Hypothesis: It's good to avoid unreasonable people.

You already have a lot of stress in your life.


not wanting a kid that could potential go blind at age 20

Some people do not want children because of genetic disorders, and that is okay.

They are leading on their romantic partner.


Their genetic disorders are misdiagnosed.


Their children have a high chance of genetic disorders.


they don't want their children to suffer like they have.


It is important to be honest with your friends.

Telling your friend the truth would hurt their feelings.


you are spying on them for the government.


Your parents asked you to keep a secret from them.


Your friends always take advantage of your kindness


It's okay to want what is best for the company you work for.

That company does not treat its employees well.


being my mad my friend is annoyed at me messaging him twice in 2 hours

You should give friends space when they need it.


They are introverted and need to recharge.


They are trying to recover from being sick.


Your have to find a space for your friends.


You haven't heard from them in weeks and you're worried if they're okay.


getting mad at my mom when she touched people's art in a museum

You should explain to your parent what about their behavior is upsetting you if they are behaving poorly.


Your parent is abusive towards you and that would cause them to strike you.


They don't realize it and would appreciate you telling them.


others have noticed their behavior as well


they may actually change their behavior.


you're too little to understand whats happening


not talking much to a friend I was interested in

It's reasonable to not talk much to a friend you were interested in.


That friend is in a relationship and you still have feelings for them.


They are happily married and you have moved on.


YOu are afraid they'll find out too much and leave.


snapping at a parent over their comments about my illness

Hypothesis: It's rude to snap at your parents.

Your parents are being abusive towards you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to snap at your parents.

Your parents are only being concerned about you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to snap at your parents.


Hypothesis: It's rude to snap at your parents.

they have dementia and have no idea what they are saying.


being annoyed my mother purchased a brand new car for my daughter without consulting me

You should consult your child before buying their kids something that costs a lot of money.

you plan to tell them to say the thing is from them.


they are embarrassed that they can't get the thing themselves.


They don't normally get expensive gifts.


It would take up a lot of space in their house.


you've bought them expensive things in the past before without complaint


your child is currently punishing their kids with a grounding


sharing jokingly my co-worker's mistakes with my team

It is unprofessional when co-workers joke about the mistakes someone made.


They're doing it to humiliate the person who made the mistake.


It is in good fun while having a drink at a bar.


the person who made the mistakes is joking as well.


it hurts the person who made the mistakes.


purposely deleting the rest of my groups work just to make them fail as revenge

You should always respect the work of others.


They did their best with a loving heart.


getting mad at my boyfriend for not wanting to hang out with my family

It's okay for someone to not care about everyone a significant other cares about.

Their significant other cares only for their children.


Their significant other has a large friend group.


They have the same family and friend circle


The significant other only cares about their SO and children.


The SO has many friends with difficult personalities.


refusing to trust anyone, even girlfriends and family

Hypothesis: You should always trust your family.


Hypothesis: You should always trust your family.


Hypothesis: You should always trust your family.

They've always proved to be trustworthy.


Hypothesis: You should always trust your family.

You were taken away by CPS because your family was abusing you.


Hypothesis: You should always trust your family.

Your family has always taken good care of you.


Hypothesis: You should always trust your family.

they have been dishonest with you before


pulling out of a group project at the last minute

It's bad to quit last minute and leave people hanging.


you get a call about a family emergency.


You have a new job that requires you to start immediately .


People depend on you to finish your job.


not showing my mom a group text that did not involve her

It's not polite to exclude people from a shared message.


They have nothing to do with the conversation.


You have news that impacts them directly.


the shared message is about a surprise party for the excluded people


it contains information that the excluded people require


It is wrong to laugh at someone that is crying.


They are actually laughing and crying because of it


They are crying because they are laughing so hard.


consentually "copying" homework and getting graded for it

Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy homework.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy homework.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy homework.

You're copying it from a classmate's work


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy homework.

You need to learn the material yourself to do good on the exam.


It's good to protect yourself by staying away from unkind and abusive people.


You are too emotionally weak to do anything about it


You have a child custody agreement with them.


inviting literally everyone except one cousin (who's a twin) to my wedding

Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.

you got job offerings unfortunately far away.


Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.


Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.

You find your family draining your energy.


Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.

You are energized by your family's shared interests.


Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.

Your family has been cruel and hateful toward you.


Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.

You have had a great relationship with them throughout your life.


Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.

Your family decides to move far away from you.


Hypothesis: You should stay close with your family.

Your family always tries to keep in touch.


feeling hurt that my biologocal mother wasn't on the family tree

It is ok to be upset about your mother being left out of something.


The person leaving her out is her partner.


She didn't want to be a part of it to begin with.


wanting some money back from my boyfriend after he broke up with me

It's okay to expect a partner to return something you own after you break up.


not feeling bad about how I made my mother feel

Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

They have a very toxic and abusive relationship.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

They made a lot of sacrifices to raise you.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

they are abusive and disrespectful of you.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

they are always helpful and kind to you.


wanting my girlfriend to be allowed to hang out in my dorm

It's normal to want to be around your partner.


Especially if your partner is your best friend.


shouting at some kid across the field at our local beach to stop harassing the wildlife

It is understandable to be upset if someone yells at your child.

Your child was harming something of theirs.


They were telling your kid to get out of the street.


Your child hit their sibling and is being scolded by the other parent.


A stranger you've never met yells at your child.


They are playing a game with your child on the field at recess.


getting mad at my friends for not supporting me in a disagreement with the school staff

You should support your friends during trying times.


you know there is some way you can help.


You are out of the country and are not able to be there for them.


You want to be a loving and supportive friend.


it harms your mental well-being to support them.


your friends have supported you during trying times.


telling my girlfriend about my ex-girlfriends depression

It's wrong to tell other people about someone's mental health.

You are trying to seak help for that person


The person has asked you to keep their health a secret


That person may harm themselves or others.


The person has asked you not to reveal their issues.


You're telling parents about their child.


dumping my gf after her unannounced backpacking trip

It's understandable to be mad when a partner doesn't involve you in decisions.


The decisions are about something at your partner's work.


The decisions have to do with a child you share.


Unless they are planning a surprise party for you.


wanting my own bedroom on annual vacation if it bumps up the cost for everyone

It is reasonable to want to have your own bedroom on vacation.

you want to have a slumber party atmosphere.


You have already agreed to share a room to save money.


You want to have alone time with your partner


there are elders there who need the bedroom more.


calling out friend ... and being put out by her comments

Hypothesis: You shouldn't let comments get you mad.

They are making fun of your sick sibling.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let comments get you mad.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let comments get you mad.

The comments are from anonymous people online.


Hypothesis: Needing space from a friend is healthy.


Hypothesis: Needing space from a friend is healthy.

You need the space to cheat with the friend's significant other.


Hypothesis: Needing space from a friend is healthy.

you are avoiding an important conversation.


Hypothesis: Needing space from a friend is healthy.

they are constantly invading your privacy.


It is okay to purchase items from vendors you like.


Especially if they are friends of yours.


The vendor disciminates against other gorups.


They are a local vendor vs a global one.


they have jacked up the prices without good reason.


breaking up my best friends relationship

It's bad to pry into others relationships.


you don't want others prying into your relationships.


It involves your own child's toxic relationship.


You're worried they might be getting abused.


You keep pressing them for details about their sex life, even though that clearly makes them uncomfortable.


They are your parents and have been happily married for three decades.


When your job is being trusted with others' money, it is not good to break that trust.


You just found out they're laundering money and you might go to prison otherwise.


You don't want them to sue you for being negligent with their money.


You think your clients are committing multiple felonies and you need to report them to the FBI.


You're thinking about embezzling their money.


If you do not want to go on vacation with your partner, you should talk to them about it.


there's only enough money so that one of you can go.


They were planning it with you for months already


The trip is required for business purposes.


It is to a location that has things that’ll make your allergies flare up badly.


They can get part of their deposit back.


It's okay to be upset with your partner.

You are constantly upset and don't tell them.


Your partner did not intentionally do something that upset you.


Your partner didn't care about your feelings.


not talking to my bestfriend for kind of ditching me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch your friends.

they are doing something that you are uncomfortable with.


getting upset at my parents and snapping at my mom when they refused me the flight lessons I earned

It is understandable to get angry with your parents when they refuse you something you have earned.

You cheated your way into earning something.


it is something that was promised to you.


They refuse you the item because you broke a house rule.


They refuse you the item to laugh at you getting angry.


It's fine to be hesitant about moving in with your significant other.


You have been with them for a very long period of time.


You have only been with them a short period.


you want to be one hundred percent certain.


you have been engaged for many years and know them very well.


your significant other has a history of cheating.


You are expected to work at your scheduled times.

there is a large project that requires you to work past your scheduled time to finish.


People's safety will be at risk if you're not there.


You have to help others with their work.


Other coworkers are depending on your work.


It is expected to like your partner's friends.

Unless they are a group of uncouth criminals.


Even your partner has to admit that a lot of their friends are assholes.


Your partner's friends go out of their way to make you feel welcome.


You and her friends are polar opposites.


You all share a common interest in sports.


You want them to think you're a good person.


You don't have to be part of any celebrations that you don't want to be part of.


it's a surprise you didn't know was coming


Someone has thrown a party in your honor.


The celebration is your own best friends wedding


getting upset at my boyfriend for not being willing to help me unless my brother also helped me

Hypothesis: Your family members should help you.


Hypothesis: Your family members should help you.


Hypothesis: Your family members should help you.

You live far away and they have no means to get there.


It's good to spend time with your parents.


Your parents are contagious with the flu.


not letting a client falsely wear a full military uniform

It's disrespectful to actual military members to try to pretend that you're one of them.


You are trying to get free or discounted stuff.


You're in a play about the bravery of the military.


You take advantage of business' discounts for veterans.


You are pretending just to get sympathy.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.

Your ex's family has helped you in the past


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.

They threatened you the last time you saw them.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.

You are well to do and they helped you before.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.

they were nasty to you when you were together.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.

there is a chance you may reconcile with your ex.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.

You are helping in order to maintain control over your ex.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your ex's family.

You split on good terms and have the resources to help.


It's rude to not spend time with your grandma.


She flew 3000 miles to visit your family.


sounding self righteous about phones at lunch

It's good to be informed about technology.


People won't stop asking you to help them with their computers.


You can keep yourself safe from hacking or viruses.


taking another job with a way higher pay, 3-4 months after getting hired at my current workplace

It's good to look for work that advances one's career.

The only company hiring in your field is notorious for unethical business practices.


You feel like you're not learning anything at your current job.


The person hiring expects sexual favors in return.


You're just seeking an additional part-time seasonal job for extra money around the holidays.


It's a career path that you're already good at.


It's okay not to love someone in your family.


The person is a distant relative who you never see.


That person has never done anything to hurt you and has raised you.


wanting to go to a concert with another girl

It's acceptable to give in to what your heart want.


You are a deviant and your heart wants things that would hurt others.


Especially when it will bring love and happiness to others.


You'd be happier and more effective in a career you enjoyed more.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't avoid your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't avoid your friends.

You have the flu and don't want to share it.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't avoid your friends.

They have something important to talk to you about.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to get all worked up.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to get all worked up.

Especially if it's over something insignificant.


asking my dad's girlfriend to either put a bell on her cat or not let her out at all

It's best to let those closest to a person be the one to bring up a sensitive issue.


it has to do with the death of a relative


they are not around and it needs to be done.


You are someone that person doesn’t like


using a legal loophole to get stuff for cheap

It is okay to look for deals on things you want to buy

It is an emergency and there is no time.


You are trying to be responsible with your money.


giving my terminally ill sister an ultimatum on adopting her children

It is understandable to be concerned about the welfare of children.

You are on a deserted island with no children.


They are child soldiers in an enemy army and are shooting at you.


asking my neighbors to keep their dog on a lead

Neighbors might find it rude if you ask them leash their dog.


They consider the dog an obedient member of their family.


Their dog is constantly escaping the yard.


The dog is in a dog park and is keeping to themself.


Their dog keeps coming into your yard and digging holes.


you point out the danger of cars driving by really fast


being honest about my experiences with a racist teacher

It is important to stand up for yourself against racism.


People are clearly acting racist towards you.


You are a minority living in America today


not replacing toilet paper when my roommate didn't before me

Roommates should make an effort to do chores.


You shouldn't expect your friends to still want to contact you after you have kids.


They were never good friends to begin with


Your friendship with them is a very close one.


Your friendship was mostly based on working together.


refusing to pay my house sitter for not cleaning the cat's litter box

You should pay the sitter and then not use them again is you are unsatisfied with their performance.


The kids were just being too much to handle


The sitter never really paid attention to the kids all night


Their performance had lasting harmful effects on your child.


They had a personality conflict with you.


The kids have had accidents under their care.


Your child does not want to be babysat by them anymore.


refusing a trip to Jamacia because of the company

You shouldn't refuse things that are offered to you by your job.

You will have to pay for those things out of your paycheck.


You're offered a food you're allergic to.


They are insulting to the amount of work you do for them


being angry at my friends for inviting someone I dislike to a trip

It's wrong to be angry with your friends.


you're projecting anger for something you're actually at fault for.


You're friends stole a large amount of money from you.


Hypothesis: It's good to take family vacations.


Hypothesis: It's good to take family vacations.

You like spending time with your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to take family vacations.

You have kids who want to experience things


Hypothesis: It's good to take family vacations.

You go into too much debt for the vacation.


commenting on facebook to see if my dad was pretending I don't exist

It's awkward to watch interaction between parents and children on social media.


there are real warning signs of addiction.


The parents don't know how to use the app.


The parents are potty training their child.


They are long distance and trying to keep in touch.


The parent doesn't know how to use the social media appropriately.


The parents and children are both adults.


The parents are scolding their children online.


hanging out with a friend I had sex with once

It's good to keep in touch with friends.

You don't have anything in common with them anymore.


You are going through a difficult time and need support.


You've been friends since you were little kids.


freezing out a friend who ditched my wedding after rsvping yes

It's rude to not show up at an event you rsvped yes


The bride and groom paid for the wedding based on the number of guests.


distancing myself from my fwb because of his "fake" relationship and telling our friends

It's okay to distance yourself from others.


Those people are your supervisors and employers.


You are an introvert who needs to recharge.


wanting to Hangout with my best friend's Ex Boyfriend

You shouldn't hang out with your friend's ex.


You were friends with their ex before the breakup.


Your friend agreed that it was okay if you did.


telling my boyfriend he doesn't need to always correct me or tell me I did something wrong

Hypothesis: You shouldn't correct others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't correct others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't correct others.

They are in front of class giving a speech.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't correct others.

They're in a spelling bee and you're the judge.


not speaking Spanish to hispanic customers

When you are working, it is accepted that you will do whatever you can for the customers.


You have to neglect your work responsibilities in order to help.


You are quilified in what they need help in.


You are in Human Resources and deal with the employees and not customers.


The customer wants you to break the law.


You want to remain employed at your current job.


They make a completely unreasonable demand that's beyond the scope of what you can do.


You want them to become a repeat customer.


covering my boyfriends mouth while he yelled during an argument

It is okay to expect people not to yell at you


You are polite and even toned when addressing them.


You are taking care of them while they are extremely ill.


wanting to stop my autistic cousin from seeing my dog

It's wrong to keep your family members from seeing your pets.


They have taken care of the pets in the past.


You're a child and you're hiding a cat in your room.


telling a friend, that I don't really like talking with them anymore

You aren't expected to remain friends with someone you don't like anymore.

Unless you think your feelings will change.


Especially if they are taking advantage of you.


They are your sister and your mom said you have to.


Your political opinions are so different that every conversation turns into an argument


They will kick you out if you tell the truth.


You are stuck in a roommate situation with them.


You have gone your separate ways and dont speak.


you've known the person since you were toddlers


the person slept with your spouse behind your back


Communication is important in relationships.


Financial decisions are being made together.


you don't see the relationship working out.


you do not want the relationship to last.


You're so in sync with your partner that talking is unnecessary.


Problems arise and need to be dealt with or understood.


not wanting to pick my sister up from the airport

You should always give a ride to your family.

You do not trust them to be in your car.


You need the vehicle to get to your own job.


Your children need rides to school or activities.


Your family takes advantage of your driving ability.


Your family member is drunk and needs a ride home.


never inviting my friend to my family's holiday location

It's wrong to have a friend that you always take advantage of


They've tried to reason with you to not do it.


the friend doesn't mind being taken advantage of by you


the friend has no idea you're taking advantage of them


That friend happens to be a billionaire.


They are getting payback for doing similar things


telling my friend that if she didn't vaccinate her (Hypothetical) kids, then they couldn't be around my (also hypothetical) kids

It is okay to stand up for what you believe in.


You are passionate about what you are protesting.


You believe in equality for all genders.


You believe in racist or homophobic ideas.


You should spend time with your partner.


Your partner keeps planning date nights for the two of you.


They don't shower after working construction all day.


You only get a couple of hours a day to see each other


reporting my neighbor's dogs to authorities

Hypothesis: It's good to report vicious animals.


Hypothesis: It's good to report vicious animals.


Hypothesis: It's good to report vicious animals.

They are roaming around a residential neighborhood.


Hypothesis: It's good to report vicious animals.

they happen to be pets in someone's yard


Hypothesis: It's good to report vicious animals.

you don't know for sure the animal is vicious.


being hurt that my parents gave my sister significantly more help towards her wedding than what they're offering to me for a house

It is wrong to favor one child over the other.

One of them is a constant bully to everyone else.


You want to maintain a harmonious relationship with all of your children.


The child has special needs that require more attention.


You tell your other children you favor them less.


You don't let the child know what you privately think.


You treat the less favorite children badly.


One child is in jail for a violent crime.


It's rude to be noisy at night when others are trying to sleep.


You have roommates in a small apartment.


This is the only time you have off work.


they have something important going on the next day.


It's normal for parents to be interested in their children's lives.


their children are succeeding at what they do.


The parents love their kids more than anything


They are self centered and sent them all away to grow up in boarding school.


Their parents were interested in their lives as children.


The children cut off all contact with their parents.


The parents and children were always close.


covering my nose whenever I'm near my father

You shouldn't do rude things while around your parents.


You are trying to get yourself grounded.


They don't think things you think are rude are rude.


You are acting out a rude act in charades.


You are following your parents' examples.


telling a kid with a Tourette Syndrome to study somewhere else

It's good to be tolerant of those disabilities.


You hire people for jobs they can't do even with accommodations.


You help them access good employment opportunities.


They are mean to you and treat you poorly.


They are struggling with their day-to-day life.


telling my Bestfriend's new girlfriend to go fuck herself

It is alright to not get along with your friend's significant others

your friend want to include you for their activities.


Your friend's partner accompanies them everywhere.


not walking my dogs when I am too fatigued, thus making my mom walk them when she gets home from work

It is rude to assume you are more tired than other people.


You just worked a 12 hour shift over night.


You are talking to someone with fibromyalgia.


You placed a distant first in the marathon you all just ran.


being upset that I wasn't part of my brother's wedding

It is expected that family make s you part of important events.

You're a child and it's an adults-only event.


wanting to beat up a kid for not showing up to a project meeting

You should always show up to meetings for projects you're involved in.


You are working remotely from across the country.


You are expected to give a explanation and summary of the project.


not telling my in laws that we are selling our condo and full time rving

It is okay to maintain some privacy from others.


you don't ask anyone their personal business


You carry it to an extreme and alienate loved ones


You should discuss issues with your friends.


They spread what you say to other people.


Your issues have to do with your friends.


pestering someone to deliver on a promise that they repeatedly insist they're going to do, but haven't done for nearly 3 years

It's rude to string someone along when you have no intention of keeping a promise.


the promise would cause harm to someone else.


You are negotiating a better salary or a new job.


Someone else is willing to do what you've promised.


you are trying to get out of a dangerous situation and need to placate them.


you have found someone else that you like better.


You should be more concerned about your health.


Your doctor warns you to change things or you could become unhealthy.


You have a clean bill of health from your doctor.


You have high blood pressure or diabetes.


you have just been to the doctor and have a clean bill of health.


not wanting my cousin to use my deceased mom's phone

It's wrong to use the phone of someone who died.

There's no other phone available and you're calling 911.


The recipient might believe the decedent is still alive and they're calling them.


You are trying to contact their next of kin.


The phone was supposed to be buried with them


You took the phone after killing the person.


If you don't care about something, you should be honest about it.

It is a story your child is telling you.


Someone is asking you to donate your time to it.


The something happens to be your marriage.


Your spouse tried to do something nice for you and failed miserably.


It would make you uncomfortable or cause you pain.


It will hurt someone’s feelings you care about


refusing to go to my dad's house because he has bed bugs

It's okay to refuse to visit family if they are unsanitary.

They need help getting their lives together


They are willing to change if you help them.


They want you to come over to their home.


Your grandma is ill and you are going over to help clean her house.


You won't be able to keep the judgement from your tone while visiting


Letting people know that you never liked them is mean.


You are trying not to continue on in a relationship.


The other person ha always been nice to you.


You follow that statement with a detailed list of all the reasons why.


you want to get revenge for a previous relationship.


The same person told you that they started a rumor about you in grade school that continued through graduation.


You are at a 15 year class reunion and you don't know them as an adult


staying on a subreddit and discord that promote sobriety when I honestly don't want to be sober forever

It is wrong to lie to other forum users about your sobriety.


You are preaching to people about sobrietry.


You could suffer legal repercussions for admitting drug use.


Everyone understands that relapses are part of recovery.


kissing someone I know I don't want to be in a relationship in

You shouldn't kiss someone unless you expect to become a couple.

You're both looking for a one night stand.


You're both already married to someone else.


You aren't religious and don't mind casually dating.


not wanting to share stuff with my friends

It is good to share things with friends.


You want them to have as much as you do.


being angry about an old friend coming to Xmas

It's expected that someone you haven't seen in awhile may be hostile towards you because of your extended absence.

you have been in the hospital for a long time.


you just didn't bother to tell them you were leaving.


You ditched them without telling them where you were going


You never told them you were going to be away.


you abandoned them without notice when you did go.


throwing palm tree leaves from my neighbor's trees back over their fence

Hypothesis: Littering is a bad thing

Your litter is compostable and biodegradable.


Hypothesis: Littering is a bad thing

The litter you're tossing out is made of plastic.


Hypothesis: Littering is a bad thing

You are being pursued by a murderer and you drop a paper on the floor as a clue.


Hypothesis: Littering is a bad thing

There are animals that could choke on the trash.


Hypothesis: Littering is a bad thing


Hypothesis: Littering is a bad thing

Especially if the litter is not biodegradable.


wanting to have my wedding at a plantation

It is insensitive to ignore the racial history of a plantation.


You are going on a tour through the plantation.


That plantation has been turned into a museum of history.


The historical site has been lost to the ages.


You didn't know about the history of the ground you were walking on.


feeling a seller should have at least apologized

It's good to apologize when you have done something wrong.

The person you did something wrong to wants to stay away from you


You did something wrong to your parents.


Apologizing would imply your company is legally liable for the mistake.


You feel sincerely sorry about what happened.


deciding to cut off a mentally ill uncle for making me feel uncomfortable

It's expected that you'll be close with family members.

your family members are not close with you.


it is the cultural norm to be close with family.


Your family members are very supportive of you.


not attending my grandparents' lunch event

It's expected that you spend time with your grandparents.


They live in the same small town as you do.


You have plenty of free time and they live close by.


not wanting my MIL in my home while I'm in labor

You should keep your family around when you're having a hard time.

You don't like having your family around.


Your family is the reason you are having a hard time.


You are having anger issues and it would be dangerous for them to be around you.


It's okay to use a character in a video game that is a different race than you.

You're making a parody character to mock online.


You are doing so with the intent of intimidating or making fun of a person of that race.


You want to have a good time and play with different realities.


you're trying to conceal your real identity


you want to experience a different reality


The character avatar is supposed to represent you in real life.


There are no characters that represent your race.


being resentful towards my best friend for not making it to my wedding in Vegas but driving 2 hours to meet a friend for her gender reveal

You should try to go to your friend's wedding.


They serve alcohol and you are an addict.


They have asked you to be in the wedding party.


constantly ignoring my potentially psychologically ill friend

You are expected to help friend who is having medical issues and illness.


You have the time and money to help them.


You do not have any way of helping them out.


You are not trained in the area they need help with.


It's for simple favors such as helping them up.


It's okay to communicate your concerns with a coworker.

You have been asked by Human Resources to allow them to handle the situation.


It is making your work place a difficult one.


Your coworker has made it known that they don't like conversation.


your concerns are about something that's out of their control.


It's understandable to be confused about what you want.

You've been wanting the same thing for days.


You only recently discovered your options.


There are many comparable choices available to you


You are a grown adult who needs to have their life together


Always believing a partner will lead to disappointment.


You have an honest and reliable partner.


your partner is not lying about anything.


being mad at my mother because she chose to stay in an abusive and toxic marraige which gave my brother and I mental health issues for life

You shouldn't stay in abusive relationships.


Unless your partner is trying hard to get help.


You already gave your partner a chance to change and they didn't.


making out with someone while I was at a party

You should be careful about casual adult interactions.

You know the person you're interacting with well.


You met the person you're interacting with at a bar.


you are really looking for a serious relationship.


You are young and want to have a good time


not wanting to meet my bestfriends boyfriend

You should be open to meeting new people.


You have a phobia of meeting new people.


You are looking to network for your job.


leaving edibles on the counter and getting dog super high by mistake

Hypothesis: It's wrong to get your animals high.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get your animals high.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get your animals high.

You are recording it and posting it to social media.


It's rude to ignore someone wanting to talk to you.


Its is an emergency and they are standing in front of you.


they have some important information for you.


They have been verbally harassing you at the club all night.


You are a server and they are your customer.


You had headphones on and couldn’t hear them


wanting to cut off one of my best friends

It is wrong to cut off your best friend for no reason.

you find out your best friend was stealing from you.


your best friend has always been supportive of you in all your endeavors.


You have decided it's time to find a new best friend.


They have always been your strongest supporter.


You didn't know your best friend for more than a few days.


You've been friends for many years with each other.


notifying friend about presence of her adult content in the internet

It's good not to hide things from your friends.


You are sick and don't want to upset them.


You know their lives or safety are in danger.


You're hiding presents before their birthday.


You don't want them to know what they're getting for Christmas.


You can't open up about your emotional problems to anyone.


People who honk at you as you're out and about are badly behaved.

You are standing in front of their car and not moving.


The light is red and you have the right of way.


They are trying to get your attention about an oncoming car


Their honk scares you into dropping your hot coffee onto your lap


They are honking to warn you about oncoming traffic.


They are men who are also catcalling you.


The person honking is trying to avoid an accident


not wanting my moms bf over all the time and "getting in the way" of their relationship

It is bad to try to control somebody else's relationship.


you are intruding where you don't belong


That person is your ex and they have a restraining order against you.


starting an argument with my father with hearing problems over tv volume

It's polite to turn TV volume to a level that does not make others in the room uncomfortable.


Some people don’t want to shout to hear each other


You are turning up the volume to drown out someone who is being loudly unreasonable.


The people are sleeping and have to go to school or work.


the other people are wearing ear protection


One of the people has a hearing impairment and you want them to enjoy a show.


You can see the volume is making everyone unhappy.


It is OK to choose not to respond to a chat message.


A response is needed for a group project


It is an emergency message from your child.


you're receiving the message from a spam bot


It's fine not to want to do something you don't want to do.

You don't want to pay taxes like everyone else.


You don't want to do something that has a good chance of killing you.


You're trying to push yourself out of your comfort zone.


You have already done all you feel comfortable doing.


You should participate in events that you're invited to.


The events are given by an acquaintance you don't particularly care for.


The events are given by immediate family members.


You have a cold and don't want to infect others.


you are unable to physically participate.


It's good to stick by your family no matter what.


Your family never sticks by you when you need them.


Your family always supports you when you're in trouble.


They have a fortune that will be passed down to you.


they insist on doing criminal activities.


not wanting to stay after school with my group to finish a project

It is bad to not pull your weight in a work group


You joined the group towards the end of the project.


You have limited time due to other work projects.


All the work is divided equally between team members.


Your groups success depends on your effort


leaving my friend when she wouldn't do anything to help herself out of a mental health rut for several months

It's not right to not help yourself if you're having a mental problem.

You do not realize you are mentally unwell.


Your medical insurance provides full coverage for mental health treatment.


You are having suicidal thoughts and no one else is there to talk you down.


You have money and insurance to get help.


Your insurance does not cover mental health needs and you have no money.


You shouldn't be nosy in your relationship.

You suspect your partner may be cheating on you.


You don't want your partner to start snooping around and checking up on you.


You have evidence of your partner cheating.


You have no reason to not trust your partner.


Unless your partner is keeping secrets from you.


Your partner is acting out of character and won't tell you what is going on.


You have no reason to suspect your partner of anything.


You think your partner is cheating on you


You should protect others from being harassed.

They ask you to let them handle it alone.


Protecting those others would put you in danger.


You have a position of privilege in the situation.


being annoyed at my friend for not wanting to go to the gym together

It's okay to be upfront with people even if it makes them uncomfortable


It's something they really needed to be aware of.


not paying my sisters car note while she's in school

People are expected to be kind and generous to each other.


One has done something unforgivable to the other.


one person keeps taking advantage of the other.


for thinking my boyfriend and me shouldn't pay more rent because we share a room

People should pay their share of living expenses.


They are living with roommates they barely know.


Everyone agrees they can pay by doing the cooking and cleaning.


They make the most of any of the roommates.


asking to use something at the gym someone else is using

It is understandable to be upset with someone who ask to use something you are using.

There is only one and they really need it as much as you do.


The thing you're using can be used by multiple people at once.


You'd been waiting to use the item all day.


There's a huge storm, you're currently using the only working telephone, and they need to check if their family is okay.


They're trying to steal the burger that you're eating.


It's not okay to act creepy in a public place.


you know you are making people uncomfortable


You're outside a haunted house attraction.


It is rude to refuse to help someone with chores.

they are being assigned the chores as punishment


the chores are too overwhelming for them to handle


They have helped you when you needed the help.


You are supposed to split the chores with your sibling.


not wanting my future in-laws to gps track my fiancée and I

You should respect other people's privacy.


You are a police officer investigating a murder.


You suspect something is wrong with your child.


They are your children and you worry they may be in danger.


They have asked you repeatedly to stop invading their privacy.


thinking $5 tip for a 20.03 breakfast tab was too much

It's petty to overanalyze a payment down to a nickel and dime level.


You are arguing over a recent energy bill.


You're part of a non-profit and are required by law to disclose all expenses and donations.


The payment is via a verbal agreement between friends.


You need every cent to pay for a medical procedure.


going through with my plans of going overseas after I've started seeing a girl

It's fine to do something you were planning to do even if you have just started a relationship.

It interrupts other plans you made with your partner.


It involves moving in together after only a week


The other person does not want to do it.


It was something that was arranged and paid for.


The thing you planned to do was kiss someone else.


You were planning to marry someone else.


You aren't expecting the relationship to last.


hitting someones car in the drive thru on purpose

It is wrong to damage someone else's property on purpose.


They are attacking you and you defended yourself.


being pissed off at my brother for playing video games in our room while I try to sleep

Is it ok to be upset at a family member for playing video games while you're trying to sleep.

You stayed up all night playing video games.


They are yelling and being obnoxiously loud


They were in another room and they're wearing headphones to keep from disturbing you.


They're playing them with the volume turned-up in the same room as you.


They yell in celebration or frustration every time something happens in the video game.


opening the door for my roomies friend at 12:30am

You shouldn't let others in your house so early in the morning.


You have sleeping children you don't want waken.


going off on my now ex-girlfriend after she lied about the reason we broke up

It's ok to stand up for yourself when you've been mistreated.


You are being bullied at school and an adult will not help.


You think you will be in danger for doing so.


getting my Ex to dump his gf so I can get him back

You shouldn't let your ex tell you what to do.


you have no connections to them anymore.


You are co-parenting and your child has a special medicine to take.


They are telling you that you aren't allowed to date.


You asked their advice on a topic they are an expert on.


Your ex is giving you love advice despite cheating on you repeatedly


You have a restraining order against them.


It's good to allow others to text you if they need you.


you are helping them through a tough time.


They take advantage and text you night and day over trivial things.


They just had surgery and need a lot of help.


You're a doctor giving your number to patients.


Your friends are often in situations where phone calls aren't practical.


unless they are texting every 5 minutes.


wanting to get married where is best for us

It's polite to consider what's best for everyone when holding an event.


The list of potential allergies is so vast that you will end up paying triple the normal price for catering.


there are way too many people coming to do that.


denying my friend rides home from work an hour before I get off

It is rude to expect a ride from someone just because they are your friend.

They are an Uber driver and you want to pay.


You know they don't have insurance and take a risk giving you a ride.


You always give each other rides depending on whose car you're in.


They have a car but you do not because they recently wrecked yours.


They do not have a car because it was recently repossessed.


You ask them for a ride at the last minute.


It is expected that you will want to play games with your friends.


You are all members of the school chess club.


The point of the games is to have fun and catch up with each other.


You don't know how to play the game they're playing.


All of your friends are there except for you.


It's wrong to want your family to move out.


Your family consists of your small children.


Your house is too small for everyone to live in.


they are not paying their part of the bills.


they are supportive and always pay their way.


cuddling with my friends crush in front of him

You shouldn't cuddle with a friend's crush while they are in the room.


Your friend enjoys watching that sort of thing.


You know it will hurt your friend's feelings.


You don't care what your friend thinks and want to start a relationship with the crush.


You don't want your friend to get mad at you.


You know your friend is trying to pursue a relationship with them.


asking a non-native english speaker to speak more slowly

It is okay to ask people to speak slower.


they are talking so quickly because they're just excited


They have a disability and are not able to.


You are trying to complete a large business transaction.


You are having trouble hearing what someone is saying.


It's rude to stop talking to people you are close to.


They don't know why you're angry with them.


They have said something that has ruined the way you see them.


They are currently having a conversation with you.


believing that religions don't deserve any kind of respect

You should learn to respect the ideas of others even if they are different from your own.


Someone is trying to be more inclusive to marginalized groups.


They are about causing violence to innocent people.


You are trying to understand their culture.


People are trying to force their ideas on you.


You just moved to a new area with a different culture


yelling at my barber for not cutting my hair how I want it cut

You should explain how you would like something done differently in a calm, level voice if someone does something a different way than you would like.

They're almost deaf so you'll need to speak really loudly for them to understand.


You don't want to upset them by yelling.


you are trying to train someone on the job.


Someone is in immediate danger and needs to hear you.


The person's way of doing the task damaged something terribly.


The person accomplished the task fine, just differently.


They are about to kill themselves by accident and you must yell.


not letting my bro use my laptop for "personal" use

Hypothesis: You should share things with others.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

you want to build stronger relationships.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

you have enough to go around and others need it


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

You have no money left in your bank account.


Hypothesis: You should share things with others.

You live in a small town and people talk.


Hypothesis: It is good to move to a better place

Your devout lifestyle requires living modestly.


Hypothesis: It is good to move to a better place

Your income increases and you can afford to now.


Hypothesis: It is good to move to a better place


Hypothesis: It is good to move to a better place

You need to stay with someone who needs your help.


Hypothesis: It is good to move to a better place

You have to leave all your loved ones behind.


Hypothesis: It is good to move to a better place

You can make your family's life better as well.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be too noisy.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be too noisy.

you are performing in a musical concert.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be too noisy.

You're in a band and you sound really great.