it is your husband who works two jobs and needs some extra support.


no longer wanting to drive my boyfriend to the airport

It's understandable to not want to do too many favors for someone.

you feel like you are being taken advantage of.


getting annoyed at my girlfriend for constantly falling asleep on me

It's okay to be annoyed at your significant other if they repeatedly do something you don't like.

They are telling you jokes in order to make you laugh.


they're doing it because of a medical condition


they're doing it on purpose to get under your skin


They are doing what is best for your child.


You told your partner that you liked that thing.


You asked your partner to stop doing the thing.


They are trying to teach kids the right way


You have told them it makes you uncomfortable


not telling a friend they got the answer wrong on a study guide

It's expected that students taking tests don't share the answers with each other.

They are allowed to take the test as a group.


the teacher has forbidden answer sharing.


not moving allowing someone personal space when they chose to sit up against me, instead of at one of the other spots available

Hypothesis: It is rude to crowd people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to crowd people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to crowd people.

You are getting out of a burning building.


Hypothesis: It is rude to crowd people.

you are on public transport and have no choice.


laughing at a kid when he made an inappropriate phone call in the middle of school

Students shouldn't be using phones while in school.


There's an emergency and they need to call home.


They are expecting a family doctor's call.


They are using the phones to look up data for a class project.


playing a harmless joke on someone who forgot to log out of a school computer

Hypothesis: It is rude to invade someone's privacy.

you have to in order to find them after being kidnapped.


Hypothesis: It is rude to invade someone's privacy.


Hypothesis: It is rude to invade someone's privacy.

Especially if they're a very private person.


Hypothesis: It is rude to invade someone's privacy.

You have good reason to believe they're trying to commit suicide.


Hypothesis: It is rude to invade someone's privacy.

you are an emergency medical worker trying to help them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to invade someone's privacy.

You are bursting into someone's house to save them from a house fire.


Hypothesis: It is rude to invade someone's privacy.

You are accessing their online accounts without permission.


It's fine to want to avoid a dangerous situation


There are professionals who can handle the situation better.


There's no good reason to put yourself in danger.


Your job requires responding to dangerous situations, such as a firefighter or police officer.


not giving a kid on my bus my discord username

It is important to tell people if you are uncomfortable sharing information.


You are talking to a customer service rep.


You are applying for a job and need to input personal information.


You are in a public place and don't want other people to hear your information.


This is personal info and nobodies business


getting into an argument with a guy and I feel like I got too aggressive

Hypothesis: It is good to discuss different topics.

You were assigned to give a speech on a particular topic.


Hypothesis: It is good to discuss different topics.


Hypothesis: It is good to discuss different topics.

you can learn something new during the discussion


Hypothesis: It is good to discuss different topics.

You want the conversation to stay interesting.


Hypothesis: It is good to discuss different topics.

You are open to having your opinion changed.


lying to my parents about living with my fiancé before we are married

It is okay to live with a partner before marriage.

your beliefs prohibit you from doing so.


Your partner doesn't want to share their apartment.


You're trying to save money for the wedding.


it's against their religious beliefs to do so


you're trying to get to know each other better


Your religion forbids premarital cohabitation.


You were just evicted from your own home.


knocking out my friend with a frag grenade in pubs mobile

You shouldn't knock out your friends even if it's in a game.


The friend understands and agree with the rules.


You and your friend are sparring in a boxing match and he's okay with it.


You want your friend to feel comfortable playing the game with you again.


you are on different sides and are competing against each other.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

A large financial decision is being made.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

you are keeping a personal secret that has nothing to do with your partner.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

Being honest will be painful for your partner.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

You have promised to be completely open with each other.


You should be more supportive of your friends.


The friends are having a difficult time.


They are members of a marginalized community


they are doing things you don't agree with.


your friends have been supportive of you.


Your friends are trying to become drug addicts.


Your friends are trying to get into college.


not thinking my best friend's relationship is good for her

It is okay to be concerned for someone's wellbeing.


that concern takes a toll on your well-being.


That person is never going to get better


They just finished shooting a public official.


They fell off of their bike into a ditch.


It's good to forgive someone if you no longer have a romantic relationship.

they caused you great physical pain and will forever be changed.


You had kids with this person and the children are also very hurt.


They were abusing you while you were together.


The other person has done irreparable harm.


Not forgiving them is causing anguish and anger.


telling my friend he needs to tone it down with his goals in school

It's rude to constantly brag about your goals to a friend if you're not also taking an interest in their goals.


this behavior hurts your friends feelings


You listen to them talk as much about other things


wanting more fairness in casual games with friends

Being a stickler for rules when playing games with friends can alienate friends.

They accept you as you are and do not mind.


You are a sore loser and smug winner too.


The friends are also sticklers for rules.


It's the first time you've played with them.


You were designated to be the rules enforcer.


The rules are confusing and it seems as if you are making them up.


your friends are sticklers for the rules, too.


your friends like to play with house rules.


Your friends are completely lawless and need discipline and structure.


Your friends just want to have fun and don't care about the details.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.

The family members didn't  grow up together.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.

The family members all live in the same home.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.

They are distant relatives who have never met one another.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.

They are a nuclear family consisting of a couple and their offspring.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.

You spend a lot of time with your family.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.

One or both parents are violent and/or addicts.


Hypothesis: Family are expected to be close.

They truly love and care for one another.


You should not expect your employees to work overtime if they do not have to.


The employees have to take care of their children.


Rejecting a step-parent's overture of friendship and offer of adoption is hurtful.

The reason why is the step-parent is lazy.


The reason why is the step-parent is unwell.


The step parent is very abusive and hurtful to you.


The step parent is kind and truly loves you and wants to embrace you.


Another child of that parent is warning you against their behavior.


Your parent is in love with the step parent.


The bio parent does not want to give up custody.


The bio parent wants nothing to do with the child.


reporting my parents to the IRS for evading theri taxes for 8yrs

Family members are expected to hide illegal activities of other family.

Their family members are putting their lives at risk.


The family members are helping you hide your illegal activities too.


Those illegal activities are threatening to seriously hurt another family member.


The illegal activities pay the family's bills.


Hiding these activities puts lives in danger.


The family members have promised to keep these activities a secret.


You are an honest person and want to do the right thing.


The family member has threatened them and they are in danger.


walking out during service at a busy time

It is expected that people will be polite and stay seated while a service is going on.


People next to you are trying to hear the service.


It is a Pentecostal church and the spirit moves people.


The pastor is in the middle of his sermon.


Spending time with your dad is expected.

your dad victimizes people for drug money


Your dad abandoned you while you were young.


Your dad was loving and supportive to you.


You are away at college in a different country.


telling my female employees to stop using the male toilet

People are expected to use the facilities set aside for their gender.

it is an emergency and their gender bathroom is closed


The facilities are marked with identifiers.


they are not sure what the signs say because they are from another country.


there are a lot of young children around.


thay have an emergency and need to go right away


not speaking to my friend when he Prank called me

Hypothesis: It's not cool to play pranks on people.


Hypothesis: It's not cool to play pranks on people.

The pranks could get you in trouble with the law.


Hypothesis: It's not cool to play pranks on people.


Hypothesis: It's not cool to play pranks on people.

The people you're pranking are children.


not giving my dad's wife the stupidly expensive necklace he wanted me to give her after he passed away

It's not okay to keep things someone what you to give to someone else.

You cannot find the person to give it to


The other person refuses to accept the things


The things are meant to be given as a gift


The person you are supposed to give them to doesn't want them and says you can keep them.


convincing my husband to move an hour away from his parents

You have a right to ask your partner to anything you want.

You ask them for an alibi when you commit a crime.


You ask them to film you having sex with their best friend.


You want the to support you at a family function.


you both have deemed some topics off limits.


You just started dating and aren't at that comfortable level yet.


no longer communicating with my grandparents after the refused to temporarily house me

You should respect people's choices even if they don't go your way.


you feel they are not being fair to you.


they tell you they are not interested in you after you told them you liked them.


They are about to do try a dangerous drug


They are involved in a benign activity like puzzles or reading


thinking it's ok to say the word nigger when you're talking about the word

It's understandable to not know which words are deemed unacceptable.


Your leader gave you a list of unacceptable words.


you are aware of societal and cultural expectations.


making sex jokes with my friends while on a relashionship

Hypothesis: It is okay to have a sense of humour.

You are discussing mass genocide in an impoverished, war-torn land.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have a sense of humour.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have a sense of humour.

Especially if it helps you face bad things.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have a sense of humour.

Your humors hurts other people's feelings.


refusing to let my neighbors park in my free spot

It's okay to not want to share what's yours with your neighbors.

there has been a disaster and they have no food or water and you do.


Unless you have farm more than you need and they have nothing.


Especially if they are perfection capable of getting whatever they need.


It is the water from the community well that happens to be on your property.


There has been a natural disaster and there is only enough for your family.


they have taken advantage of your generosity in the past


not wanting my wife to stay at a Un paid work event

It's okay to not want your partner to stay at an event you don't agree with.


You were disinvited because the host is dramatic


The event is involved in white supremacy.


Your partner is the local campaign manager.


using Amazon prices as price match at Brick and Mortar stores

It's understandable to want to get the best price on an item any way you can.

You are stealing items to get them for free.


You are rude and unreasonable to the cashier while asking.


The store you are in encourages discounts and couponing.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to defecate in bed.

You are very sick or disabled and have no choice.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to defecate in bed.

You're an able-bodied person and it isn't even your bed.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to defecate in bed.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to defecate in bed.

You are an adult and too lazy to walk to the bathroom.


You shouldn't pay attention to people you don't need to.


You want to keep track of what is going on.


you're at a crowded concert, you should remain aware.


not giving up alcohol completely when living with a recovering addict

If someone is a recovering addict, you shouldn't drink or do drugs around them.

It is at their funeral and you are grieving.


They just quit drinking alcohol and doing drugs yesterday.


It is a hospital and the drugs are prescibed.


They have asked to help them stay sober.


They are unaware that you are drinking or doing drugs.


They are still getting cravings for alcohol or drugs.


throwing a group member under the bus, and being angry that the consequences they experienced were not as severe as I thought they deserved

You should not be disloyal to your group.

your group is engaging in immoral behavior


your loyalty is important to their success


your group does something immoral or unethical


You no longer believe in what the group stands for.


your group does something you don't agree with morally


your group always has your back on things


not visiting my grandfather or bringing my two-year-old to see him

It's expected that you make time for your grandparents.


Your grandparents are old and still living.


Your grandparents live too far from you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't use people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't use people.

You can tell that they are dealing with their own issues.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't use people.

They are temps with free time who want to be busier.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't use people.

They feel manipulated and will not trust you again.


leaving my boyfriend after he got belligerently drunk and pissed in the floor

It's okay to be embarrassed when someone makes a fool of themselves.


The person in question is a close family member who needs your support greatly.


You don't them well and you feel sorry for them as well.


The person making a fool of themselves is a complete stranger.


The person making a fool of themselves is your spouse or family member.


kicking out an autistic kid from my movie theater

You shouldn't expect others to always treat you with respect if you have a disability.

there's a way other people can identify that you're disabled


your disability is hidden from plain sight


You're around people who aren't understanding.


You are always kind to them and treat them with respect.


The place you're at isn't handicapped accessible.


yelling at someone to move for blocking a doorway

People are expected to be considerate of others.

There is a dire situation that requires interruption and loudness


You need to fire someone as part of your job.


They're at a comedy roast and are supposed to be insulting them.


They live in a society together and want to get along.


It's good to leave at the same time every day.


you have to be home to care for a child.


You have an earlier business meeting to attend to.


Traffic is at an all time low during that interval.


Your job has different start times daily.


Your store opens at the same time every day.


wanting to move out of my girlfriends apartment

It's wrong to let your partner move out.


You are looking to stay married to them.


You are forcing them to leave with nowhere to go.


breaking up with my gf because she kept pressuring me to tell my parents about us

It is rude to be ashamed to tell people about your girlfriend or boyfriend.


The boyfriend or girlfriend is an upstanding person.


Your girlfriend or boyfriend is in prison


Your girlfriend or boyfriend is a different race


Your girlfriend or boyfriend is polite and outgoing.


If you are not taking care of the property you rent, you should not expect to be allowed to stay.

You are renting from a slumlord who doesn't care about keeping up the property anyway.


You have a landlord who is fastidious about keeping the place looking nice.


The landlord schedules inspections often.


The owner doesn't care about the property.


You know the landlord and he is your friend


The property is schedule for demolition soon.


You have done damage to the property in excess of the security deposit.


Refusing to pay for a first date is cheap.

the people on the date believe in equality


the date was taken out under the impression they wouldn't have to pay


The other person offered to pay when they asked you on the date.


You made all the plans and instigated the date.


It was agreed upon before the date to split the bill.


The person who asked for the date does not pay.


not defending my ex in an argument he had with our son

It's not okay for a parent to start arguments with their children.


their children are just seeking clarification on something


their children are not listening or behaving


wanting my bf to side with me against his friend

Hypothesis: Partners should support one another.


Hypothesis: Partners should support one another.


Hypothesis: Partners should support one another.

You are trying to raise children together.


Hypothesis: Partners should support one another.

the decision the partner is making is a bad one.


anonymously reporting my dad to the DMV for his dangerous driving

The government encourages anonymous reporting because it's good for society.

the government is being run by a corrupt president and attorney general.


People don’t want the government to know their names


The encourage children to betray their parents like Nazi Germany and United States Dare programs.


Violent criminals, human traffickers and pedophiles are removed form the population.


Someone might seek revenge if they weren't anonymous.


dropping this woman's clothes and leaving the store

It's expected that people be civil to each other.


people have to continue to work together.


Someone is trying to steal your belongings.


You are trying to raise a child together.


One of the people has hurt theo ther already.


You shouldn't throw things away that aren't yours.


You are a custodian who empties the trash cans.


you were specifically told to not throw it away


Someone values what you are throwing away.


wanting my bf not to be hungover on our one day off together

It is okay to be concerned about someone's alcohol intake.

They are just having a glass of wine with dinner.


They want to drive home later in the night.


seeing my boyfriends messages saying he doesn't love me, whe he won't tell me himself

It's inconsiderate to lead someone on by letting them think you love them when you don't.


You are on a televised dating show and are following the script.


You know they are sensitive and will be hurt big time later.


You are unsure about your feelings at first and don't mean to lead them on.


You are leading them on because you like the attention.


you are trying to protect them from hurting themselves.


you are just using them for their money.


throwing my drink at a car that honked at me

Hypothesis: It is rude to honk at someone.

They are about to hit a dog running in the street.


Hypothesis: It is rude to honk at someone.

Traffic is stopped and the light is still red.


Hypothesis: It is rude to honk at someone.

They are not paying attention and playing on phone


Hypothesis: It is rude to honk at someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to honk at someone.

You're trying to get them to go over the speed limit.


Hypothesis: It is rude to honk at someone.

They seem to have fallen asleep at the wheel.


Hypothesis: It is rude to honk at someone.

The light just turned green a split second ago.


stopping a hate speech motion at a company board

It's bad to engage in hate speech at a company meeting.


You are repeating what a superior rudely said to you.


THe company has a diverse workforce of many ethnicities and persuasions


finding my coworkers bathroom habits disgusting

It's OK to be disgusted by disgusting things.


It is common for people to enjoy the company of animals.


they live alone and like the companionship.


the animal is an affectionate family pet.


being upset my roommate changed his plans and messed up mine

It's not desirable to get angry when people have a change of plans just because it affects you.


The change causes you to lose face because it cancels prior commitments.


The plans are changed by the person whose celebratory day is close.


They make a habit of not keeping commitments.


Their child came down sick at the last minute.


It's a one-time thing that won't happen again.


threatening to breakup with my girlfriend of 4 years because she will not tell her parents about me

Hypothesis: One shouldn't threaten their partner.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't threaten their partner.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't threaten their partner.

They are defending themselves against them.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't threaten their partner.

They want to have a healthy relationship going forward.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't threaten their partner.

The partner is physically smaller than you are.


It is ok to be upset if your child does not talk to you.


Especially if you asked them a direct question.


You got them a new car for their birthday.


it is ok to be fed up with consistently bad behavior


Unless you are the cause of the behavior.


Especially if it's adults behaving badly.


the bad behavior is due to a condition that cannot be controlled.


all manners of discipline are not working to correct it.


having relations with a woman who was taken

Hypothesis: You shouldn't have an affair.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't have an affair.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't have an affair.

Your partner is in a monogamous relationship with you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't have an affair.

Your partner is having an affair themselves.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't have an affair.

Your partner is faithful and you want to keep your marriage.


requesting my doctor's office set up guest WiFi

It's wrong to expect WiFi at the doctor's office.


There is a sign saying WIFI is available


standing my ground in an argument about who I choose to be friends with

It's your choice about who to be friends with.

The person you want to be friends with doesn't like you.


Your parents forbid you from associating with certain people as long as you are underage.


Its family members and you have to spend time with them


There is someone who doesnt treat you well


your parents are very controlling and pick your friends for you.


disagreeing with my mom about mold on cheese

Hypothesis: Mold on cheese isn't a big deal.


Hypothesis: Mold on cheese isn't a big deal.

It's a small area on semi soft cheeses and can be cut out.


Hypothesis: Mold on cheese isn't a big deal.

It completely engulfs and permeates the piece of cheese


Hypothesis: Mold on cheese isn't a big deal.

It is just a small spot  that can be easily cut away.


Hypothesis: Mold on cheese isn't a big deal.


Hypothesis: Mold on cheese isn't a big deal.

It is cheap and thin cheese that was left out on the counter for a week.


Hypothesis: Mold on cheese isn't a big deal.

It is a very thick roll of cheese and the mold is small on the surface.


being mad that my girlfriend tells others I am bisexual

You shouldn't share other people's secrets.


you don't want people sharing your secrets.


They told you it was okay to share with certain individuals.


They asked you to keep it only between you and them.


People are expected to be patient and kind with their family members.


They are out of control rebellious teenage boys.


They are senior citizens or young children.


their family members are doing dangerous things.


their family members are patient and kind with them.


bagging dog food together with human food

Hypothesis: It's bad to eat food meant for animals.


Hypothesis: It's bad to eat food meant for animals.


Hypothesis: It's bad to eat food meant for animals.

You are starving and there's nothing else around to eat.


You should be loyal to your friends and not abandon them when they might need you

You have fallen ill and can't leave the house.


Your friends have never been there for you.


You should apologize for breaking someone's things.


the person was trying to get those things demolished


stopping putting that I was transgender on my dating bios

Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie on your dating bio.

You are an under cover police officer catching predators online.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie on your dating bio.

You are hoping to find a real relationship.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie on your dating bio.

You are an officer trying to lure a predator.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie on your dating bio.

You are trying to find a longterm partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie on your dating bio.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie on your dating bio.

You are a private eye and setting a trap for a suspect.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie on your dating bio.

You don't want to deceive potential dates.


Hypothesis: Creepy behavior is unacceptable.


Hypothesis: Creepy behavior is unacceptable.

It is Halloween and to entertain the children that come to your door for candy.


Hypothesis: Creepy behavior is unacceptable.

It is Halloween and you are just playing a part.


Hypothesis: Creepy behavior is unacceptable.

You are in a professional environment and need to be serious.


not wanting to hang out with my girlfriend everyday

It's okay not to want to be with your partner every single day.


bringing my dog home resulting in him getting attacked

It is expected that pet owners will keep their animals with them at home.

They need to take them to the veterinarian.


They are on vacation and the animal needs to be boarded


They take their animals to work with them every day.


not wanting to date a girl cause of her looking radically different in person than she did in pics

You should be honest when you post pictures of yourself online.


You will have to see some of these people soon


you are doing the doppelganger challenge.


you are trying to set up a date with someone online.


You're posting professional content for your work.


not letting my fiancées 11 year old brother use our psvr

Making sure younger siblings of a friend doesn't get to use the psvr mean it will last longer.


You want them to have fun with the psvr.


You were told to not let them use the psvr.


They are particularly hard on technology.


The younger siblings break the PSVR out of frustration.


The younger siblings are too young to use the PSVR properly.


emailing a complaint to Burger King after I bought a homeless man some food

It's good to give homeless people meals.


The homeless people are prone to being violent.


The homeless people don't have a lot of resources.


They sell those meals for drug money and trick you.


They are starving and can't afford to eat on their own.


You are volunteering at the cafeteria at a homeless shelter.


telling my parents I don't need them and not wanting to help with money anymore

It is wrong to speak disrespectfully to your parents even if you disagree with them.


You are asking them to do you a big favor


speaking respectfully has gotten you nowhere.


your parents always treat you with respect.


they are being ignorant and demanding towards you.


they support you and treat you fairly all the time.


going to a bar near spouses bar after agreeing to give them space

It's understandable to be suspicious of someone if they have wronged you in the past


it was 25 years ago and has never happened again.


they stole a large amount of money from you.


It has been years since they made the mistake


That person's reason for wronging you made sense.


Their reason for wronging you was because they wanted to cause you pain.


Hypothesis: Wanting a new phone is exciting.


Hypothesis: Wanting a new phone is exciting.

Your family is going to buy you a new phone.


Hypothesis: Wanting a new phone is exciting.

You will never have the financial means to afford one.


Hypothesis: Wanting a new phone is exciting.

It is the third one you had to buy because you dropped two in the toilet this week.


Hypothesis: Wanting a new phone is exciting.

You are on your way to the store to get one.


going to the hospital at 3 in the Morning for kidney pains

It is important to take care of your health.

You're doing it at the expense of others.


You're trying to live a long and full life.


You want to maintain quality in your life


Care about being around for a long time.


not wanting to sit at the kids side of the table at Christmas dinner

It's wrong to expect adults to sit at the kid's side of the table during a dinner.


They are trying to have adult conversations.


The adult wants to because kids are more fun


There is an open seat at the adults table


One of their own children isn't behaving.


The adult side is big enough to seat all of the adults.


It's okay to want alone time now and then.

You are considered a loner by everyone already


You are an extrovert who likes being around people all the time.


You deal with the public all day long at work.


being upset at my girlfriend for leaving me alone at her house

It's bad to abandon your significant other.


Your significant other is asking for your help.


They are physically or emotionally abusive.


Especially if they are sick and need you.


They are fooling around with someone else.


they just lost their job and are feeling depressed.


Being startled away and yelling is understandable.


You are just looking at you sick spouse in the morning


You are at a formal party in the daylight


The person startling you is holding a weapon.


You got startled away from peeking in your neighbor's window as they get undressed.


The person who startled you snuck up on you in your own house.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be inquisitive


Hypothesis: It is okay to be inquisitive

You are being overly nosey about someone else's private business.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be inquisitive

You have a genuine interest in the topic and are not overstepping on someone else's private affairs.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be inquisitive

Unless you are actually just being nosy.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be inquisitive

Especially if you are paid to do research.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be inquisitive

You're prying into someone's personal life.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be inquisitive

You're trying to learn about a new subject.


It is wrong to take advantage of situations or others.


You're taking advantage of the disabled.


You're doing it for the benefit of others.


You're doing it for the downfall of others.


The situations involve the very young or very old.


refusing to organize my buddies bachelor party

Friends are expected to help each other.


The friends aren't able to get in touch with each other.


You are struggling to take care of yourself.


apologizing to someone face to face for cheating on them a long time ago

Apologizing for something you did a long time ago is a waste of time.


The person still is holding onto resentment for you.


The person has long forgotten about the problem.


The person is dead or doesn't remember it.


The other person is still hurt and wants an apology.


The person you need to apologize to is dead.


You should communicate more with your partner.

Your partner doesn't want to talk to you.


you both are having lots of disagreements


The partner doesn't want a minute-by-minute replay of your day.


you already have satisfactory communication.


You're planning on breaking up with them.


It is wrong to pour hot water on someone.


They are suffering fro hypothermia and it may help.


Hypothesis: It's okay to take care of yourself.

You have to prioritize your child's well being.


Hypothesis: It's okay to take care of yourself.


Hypothesis: It's okay to take care of yourself.

You are using it as an excuse to hurt someone else.


not picking up the phone when my cousin calls

You should communicate more with your family.

You have good reason to be estranged, such as one of them being abusive.


You have a loving relationship with them.


You are always thinking about them and then forget to call.


You have went no contact with them for their abusive behavior.


You end up crying uncontrollably every time you get off the phone with them.


your family disowned you when you were a child


losing my shit at my mom after she lies to me

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

it is a little white lie and you are telling it to protect somebody.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

People always know you as telling the truth


hating my brothers girlfriend for contacting our lost family

It's okay to be upset with people for doing something that causes you pain.

They are working with you at your rehab.


they are doctors who are trying to cure you.


They are popping your arm back into its socket


asking my ex of 6+ years if she gave me chlymidia

You should always be tested for STDs when you start a new sexual relationship.


You have had many sexual partners before.


Your new partner previously tested positive.


Both have had different sexual partners in the past


You and your partner already have many STDs and are both aware of it.


Either you or your partner has been with someone who has HIV.


Hypothesis: It's good to appreciate gifts.


Hypothesis: It's good to appreciate gifts.

The gifts are meant to manipulate you into owing them.


Hypothesis: It's good to appreciate gifts.

The gift was given as a warning like a horse head or grave marker.


getting mad at someone for kicking my bat

Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick someone's bat.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick someone's bat.

you don't want someone kicking your things.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick someone's bat.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick someone's bat.

you're moving it out of the way from being run over


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick someone's bat.

it is in the way and they did not say not too


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kick someone's bat.

it is brand new and they requested that it be treated with respect


Hypothesis: It's normal to need to vent, sometimes.


Hypothesis: It's normal to need to vent, sometimes.

Especially when dealing with crazy people all day.


Hypothesis: It's normal to need to vent, sometimes.

you are venting about something irrelevant


Hypothesis: It's normal to need to vent, sometimes.

You are failing to come to terms on your own.


(jokingly) calling an 18 year old out for dating a 14 year old? everyone got mad at me

It's wrong to joke about something that might get someone into legal trouble.

You are a big name lawyer and will help that person for free.


That person is already being sued by a major corporation.


It's at a comedy club and you're performing for a mature audience


You are in a workplace and the joke is between coworkers


That person has already has run ins with the law.


You're hoping to get the person in trouble.


Parents shouldn't put up with children that are ignoring them.


The child is a baby and doesn't understand.


The child is being petulant and this behavior should not be rewarded


The parents are calling their children to come inside when it's turning dark.


not wanting to go to my grandmothers funeral to support my mom

It's hurtful to not want to go to a family member's funeral to support a parent.

An illness is preventing you from going.


You've been excommunicated by your family.


Other siblings will be at the funeral to support the parent.


The other family member is your other parent.


You should always help someone who is sick.


doing so would expose you to a deadly disease.


they are someone close to you like a spouse or child.


they would help you if the roles were reversed.


not liking my partners suggested names for future children and naming things she doesn't like with those names, thus getting them removed from her awful shortlist

Hypothesis: It is wrong to manipulate your partner.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to manipulate your partner.

You want to maintain a good relationship with them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to manipulate your partner.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to manipulate your partner.

You are secretly planning a party for them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to manipulate your partner.

You're trying to get them to go to a surprise party.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't string someone along.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't string someone along.

dropping the ball on them would push them to suicide


Hypothesis: You shouldn't string someone along.

the other person is oblivious to what you're doing


It's good to share information about your religion with others.

they have made it clear to you that they don't want to hear it.


People's eyes roll upwards while you speak.


People have been thinking of going back to church.


They look really uncomfortable hearing about it and don't want to know.


They seem interested and are looking for a religion themselves.


You share their religion and they have asked for more information.


It's nice to welcome people from your past back into your life.


They are the drug dealers you ripped off and they want their money.


They are your long lost childhood friends.


They are the head of an organized crime ring.


telling my partner she can't buy a new car

It's ok to be angry at your partner when your budgeting is in danger.

you are the one who spent too much money that month.


your partner spent too much money that month.


You were the one who spent all of your joint savings on an unnecessary luxury item.


They lost all of your joint savings at the casino.


You have both come to an agreement to only spend a certain amount.


you are spending more recklessly than they are.


they've made an expensive purchase without discussing it with you first.


If your classmate is hungry, it's mean not to share your food.

you are sick and don't want to spread germs.


your classmate always shares food with you.


Your classmate has enough money to get on the cafeteria line.


The lunch period is late in the school day.


insisting that the dinner table of ten guest speak the common language of the region so I dont feel left out of the conversation

It's rude to leave people out of a conversation.

unless it is a child and you are talking about adult situations.


The conversation contains confidential information.


There is a shy individual who doesn't feel welcome


They are strangers who are eavesdropping.


You are all part of a small social group.


Not everyone wants a pet in their house and that choice should be respected.


They own the house and you are just visiting.


Someone in the home needs a service animal.


It is good to promote healthy eating habits in children


you want your child to live a long life.


your idea of healthy eating includes potato chips and sugary snacks.


Unless they are starving and have limited options.


Especially if you are teaching them to make good choices.


wanting to steal my coworkers shoes and feed them to a wood chipper

Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to steal.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to steal.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to steal.

You're stealing medications from the elderly.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to steal.

your family is starving and it is the only way to feed them.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to steal.

if you are just doing if for fun and can pay for the items.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to steal.

You are dirt poor and starving or someone's life is on the line for what you need.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to steal.

You can  find alternative, legit means to obtain what you  need or get a job.


Family members should talk out their issues with one another.


Someone in your family is highly abusive and/or violent and cannot talk logically.


The family members are logical and calm and want to resolve things and grow closer.


history has proven talking doesn't work.


Especially if they will understand each other's viewpoint.


A family member is manipulative and will hold your feelings against you.


disappointing my friends by "not being into" their dinner party

You should fake interest in something if it pleases the other person.

You say yes to a proposal when you don't want to marry them.


Your own child made you a horrific piece of art that they think is beautiful.


The other person is excited to be with you.


The other person is a date that you're not interested in and can't wait to leave.


You are in a close relationship with that person and want them to be happy and feel loved.


It is the last item to check off on their bucket list before they die.


You give the other person a inflated ego.


A child is trying to learn something new.


It's good to be polite to other drivers.


You are a professional racing driver in a situation that requires aggression.


The other driver has a car full of kids with no seat belts or car seats.


You accidentally cut them off while driving.


you are having a medical emergency and trying to get to the hospital quickly.


you are teaching your child how to drive.


refusing my friends to watch boxing at their own homes

It's okay not to appreciate the same things our friends do.


they aren't doing it with good intentions


you want to appear to be more like them.


what they appreciate goes against your religious beliefs.


You are at an event that means a lot to them.


The friendship is based on shared interests.


making my friend leave our hotel room for the night

It's understandable to want space from someone.


you haven't seen them in years and they are coming to visit.


you just spent 2 weeks together on a cruise vacation.


You should not quit something that you committed to.

the job was misleading and requires more work than anticipated.


You have to move out of town unexpectedly.


There is no one else ready to take over.


The thing you're quitting is hurting you.


You're able to support yourself with the commitment


You need to finish a more important work project.


It was picking up your child from school.


It's good to help out your friends when they need you.

They haven't been there for you when you needed them.


Your friends are there when you need them.


You are busy with work and your own family at that moment.


Your friends are always there when you need them.


The help your friends need is easy to obtain.


calling my sister a selfish piece of shit person

We're expected to treat our family members in kind, unselfish ways.


They always support you in everything you do.


Our family members are abusive and hurtful towards us.


Our family members really love us and care for us deeply.


They are abusive and harmful to one's well being


There is a sense of mutual respect between everyone


saying that I don't care about what my sister has to say about my job

You should be supportive of your sibling's career choices.

their career choice involves illegal criminal activities.


they have chosen the career path of a criminal.


your sibling has been supportive of you.


telling my friend her boyfriend needs to shape up

It's wrong to tell your friend what to do.


They know more about something than you do.


They are involved in something dangerous.


you don't want them to tell you what to do.


needing my twin/roommate to give me chores to do

You should ask the people you live with how you can help around the house.

They expect you to do everything without helping.


you are already doing a lot of housework.


you want to maintain harmony in the house.


They have hired help helping already and you would just get in their way.


forgetting things my girlfriend has told me and asking about them again

It's okay to expect people to be concerned with you enough to care about you.


They are caring about you for what you can do for them.


They are a parent and they're trying to steer you to a good life.


You ditched their wedding to go to a club.


They obviously are just looking for gossip points


playing the word "bitch" in words with friends

Groups of friends often find it acceptable to use rude words for humorous effect among each other.


They understand that such words are not okay to use.


calling my girlfriends friend when she was about to have 30th bday sex

You should respect other people's schedules.


You have been sitting in a doctor's waiting room for over an hour.


You want quality time with the doctor during your appointment.


you are the one that requested a meeting.


leaving the house and telling my husband I am sleeping out after he dragged toilet water all over the house

It's inconsiderate to others when you create a mess in the house.

you intend on cleaning it up right away.


you leave the mess there for others to clean.


You're making a mess in the room they're trying to use.


The others have to end up cleaning up the mess.


You're making food for the whole household.


not telling my boyfriend about a month-long trip overseas

It is wrong to without information from your partner.

Unless it is something personal that does not affect them.


It is something that could affect their health.


Unless it's something that would harm them.


Especially if you have an open and honest relationship.


you have too busy of a schedule to keep up with them


it's information your partner really wants to share


not knowing what is happening is dangerous to them.


getting fed up with my dad painting my apartment for "free" but it's taken almost 4 weeks and h constantly disregarding me

You shouldn't be critical over work that you're getting for free.

The person asks you to criticize the work.


They broke something in the process of fixing something else.


The shoddy work is putting your safety at risk.


being a bitch to a girl who friend zoned my best friend and stole the boyfriend of another friend? tldr in the end

It is wrong to be a bitch toward people.


It is wrong not to report illegal activity.

The illegal activity actually save lives.


You would be reporting your good friend and his activity is not serious or hurtful really.


People are being hurt by it or have the potential to be hurt.


You are the only one who saw the crime happen


demanding people leave apartment hallway trash free

It is wrong to expect other people to clean up after you.


It's the job of other people to clean the area where you are.


It's okay to want someone who lives with you to move out.


Putting them out on the street would endanger their safety.


wanting to breakup withy g of almost 2 years because she's gone cold

Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your partner.

Your partner is trying to distract you from work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your partner.

they are trying to communicate better with you.


It's okay to be concerned about your friends.


You're constantly stalking your friends.


Your friends are talking with bad people.


Your friends are dealing with big, emotional changes in their lives.


They have not acted out of the ordinary.


Your friend has asked you to stay out of their business.


Your friend is showing symptoms of depression.


It is important to discuss issues with friends.


They involve where you will go on vacation


you want to work out a problem you have with them.


You are discussing private details about your significant other.


You are discussing sports or work issues.


backing out of an agreement to go to church

Hypothesis: You shouldn't back out of an agreement.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't back out of an agreement.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't back out of an agreement.

The parties understood and agreed to all the terms.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't back out of an agreement.

the other person did not abide by the agreement


You shouldn't joke around during Thanksgiving.

You play a long game of touch football before dinner.


You're sitting in the living room with family.


You are around a lot of other people who like to joke around.


You are having a serious and somber gathering.


You come from a family of circus performers.


It's accepted that passwords should be secret.

you keep track of your child's passwords.


Your spouse needs to access your account to pay your bill.


Those passwords safeguard sensitive information.


You have confidential information on the device


You shouldn't refuse your bosses' orders.


They're necessary for doing your job correctly.


he is having you run his personal errands.


They want you to illegally spy on a competitor.


Your boss is ordering you to break the law.


Your boss is telling you how to do your job.


not doing a favor that was not asked for rather expected of me

You should ask for favors in a polite way.


Especially if you are asking for many favors.


You are the boss and a worker was insubordinate.


you want someone to do something for you.


being "weirded out" that my roommate copies everything about me

It is understandable to be upset if someone is copying you.

Your own child is mimicking your actions.


Another student is trying to copy your exam answers.


It is only cover artists doing your songs


It is an older sibling at the dinner table.


They are trying to learn by watching you.


They get praised for the work instead of you.


making fun of how someone I know faked cutting herself for attention

Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.

The other people are a classroom of disabled children.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.

You are well-spoken and persuasive without being mean.


saying health issues aren't an excuse to be fat

Other people's weight is none of another person's business.

Your relative is at risk for a heart attack due to the weight.


Especially if you are overweight yourself.


They're an athlete and get paid for their performance.


expecting my roommate to pay a share of the internet bill even if she wasn't around to use it

It's wrong to expect someone else to pay your bills.

You are a child and the people paying the bills are your parents.


you're a grown man who is able to support themselves


It's expected that parents will want to have a relationship with their children.

They have put the child up for adoption.


The children have been sent away to another country


They gave their children up for adoption.


They had been trying to have a child for a long time.


Their children tried to harm them in the past.


Their children are minors living in their home.


The parents gave the children up for adoption.


breaking up due to my girlfriends past promiscuity

It's nice to forgive people past behavior.


forgiving them gives them permission to continue hurting you


The behavior was never apologized for or changed.


It is better to be the bigger person and forgive others.

they have really done something terrible to you.


their transgression was relatively minor.


You are teaching a child how by having them forgive first


You want to set a good example for those around you.


not wanting to spend 2 nights at a hotel with my parents because I would have to share a room with them

It's OK to decide who you share a hotel room with.

you are being randomly assigned to rooms.


you aren't comfortable sharing a room with strangers.


Your spouse says you can't be alone with another man


You are uncomfortable with some friends but comfortable with others


It's OK to be upset with your partner for doing cocaine.


They just started a sober living program.


not agreeing with my sister's crazy baby drama

It's okay to not agree with your family.


They are trying to keep you physically safe.


A doctor has given the right diagnoses to a family member.


It is about the fact that you all love eachother


You respectfully have differing political opinions


missing my roommate from college's wedding

It's expected that you will go to the wedding of someone you are close to.


You live too far from the person who is getting married.


You live with the person who is getting married.


letting my closest female friend sleep over even though I have a girlfriend

You have a right to let anyone stay in your home that want to be there.


they abuse your generosity and make a mess in your home


you own the house and are not renting from a landlord


the guests are making your roommates uncomfortable.


being annoyed that I was called out on my mess

It is important to be able to admit you've made mistakes.

Unless you are talking to small children.


Especially if your mistakes hurt people.


You are in a job interview that demands perfection from its candidates


You are reflecting on the mistakes to draw lessons from them


You want to maintain healthy relationships with people.


You're being lazy because of your mistakes.


You're taking responsibility for learning from your mistakes.


One should be able to control their emotions.


THey are at a funeral for a dearly loved one


They are confronting an individual in a professional workspace


They don't want their kids to know that they're upset.


kicking my roommate out and putting all his shit to the street while he is in the hospital

It is rude to mistreat someone else's belongings.

they have given you permission to do so.


they don't really care about the condition of their belongings


you're using them without their permission


You are borrowing them without permission


wanting a parking pass back from my carpool

It's understandable to not want people to abuse privileges that are yours.


Especially if they are taking advantage of you.


You're losing the privileges soon anyway.


You have given them permission to take advantage of the privileges.


not wanting to date my Special Ed classmate, then telling him off for asking me out

It's kind to let someone who asks you out down gently.

They are persistent bordering on harassment


They just ask once and you still hold them in high regard


Unless they are constantly asking you out.


Especially if you like them as a person.


It is expected that you are honest with your family.

You are afraid of how they would react to your sexual orientation.


Your family are rude and unsupportive of you.


Unless honesty would harm them in some way.


Your family is manipulative towards you.


It's wrong to not take others thoughts and emotions into consideration

They are small children who need guidance


The other person might have a better perspective


It is enough handling your own thoughts and emotions.


You want to know what makes people tick.


Others' thoughts are so insane and wrong that they could hurt others.


You want others to respect you in return and be fond of you.


leaving an abusive friendship and ended up dating her ex

Friends are expected to look out for each other.

They are on opposing teams in a video game.


They are starting a new school together.


You have been friends since middle school


One of the friends is trying to get support for a drug deal.


Friends share introductions and relevant news.


wanting take our 4wd vehicle home to my parents for the holidays instead of a shitty rental vehicle

Renting a vehicle for a long trip can save your own car from extra wear and tear.

someone uses your car while you are on your long trip.


You let someone else use your car while you're on a trip.


You keep your car in a garage while you're on the trip.


you have to get your car there no matter what


you have to drive both cars to fit everybody.


shouting and nagging to my girlfriend's step-sister (she's 5 years old) because she was trying so hard to kiss me in the mouth

It fine not to want to be romantic with another person if you don't want to.


If a relationship isn't working out for you, it's okay to cut things off


There are trivial issues that can be fixed.


There are major issues that can't be compromised.


there are small children that would be hurt


you are no longer happy and wish to move on.


applying for a position that my partner has also expressed interest in

Healthy competition between people is good.

One of them recently suffered a heart attack.


It is costing the American tax payers money to hold the competition.


They are having fun and enjoying themselves.


it destroys personality of the children.


you want to have innovative products in your company.


being angry that a go fund me was created by a family member in my wife's name

It's wrong to take money you gained from lying.


You conned a good friend out of their rent money.


you lied to save someones feelings from being hurt.


You were lying to take it back as it was stolen


You promised a service that you didn't fulfill


the board game your playing allows it to be that way


It is understandable to want to lighten the mood through humor

A tragedy just occurred and everybody wishes to be somber.


Especially if the mood was caused by something minor.


The crowd is observing a moment of science.


You perform at children's parties as a mime.


You are at a funeral and everyone is in mourning.


The conversation has become too serious.


yelling at my sons teacher and tell him to leave my son tf alone in front of his classmates

Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

You are working at a loud work site where you need to communicate with others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

You are yelling to warn them about something dangerous, such as a falling object.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

Your coworker asked you to teach them how to work a machine in the office.


not wanting to sit with my dad in the car

Parents should understand that children sometimes need their own space.


they want too much of their own space and you worry about depression.


The parents suspect the children are doing drugs or harming themselves alone.


They are good kids otherwise and lead happy and healthy lives.


THat child is commiting self-harm in solitude


It is acceptable to sleep in occasionally when you have no obligations.


you have small children that need looking after.


Unless you don't want to miss the sunrise.


The phone rings and the caller ID is says it is the police department.


not wanting to stay friends with a guy who rejected because I was "too fat"

You shouldn't judge people for their looks.


It's wrong to dispose of other people's belongings.


A priest is visiting and the person has an inappropriate collection of adult magazines.


It's good to keep your possessions in your room.


You've rightfully obtained those possessions.


they are decorations that brighten up the other rooms.


not socialising with the classmates that ostracised me

You should talk more to your classmates.

your teacher has a strict policy of not talking in class


you're looking for buddies to study with


They understand the material better than you do


you just transferred to a new school so you need to make friends


Your classmates distract you from your learning.


You want to form strong bonds and potential friendships.


You could use more help understanding the class material.


holding a grudge against someone from my school for something he said a few years back on an excursion

Hypothesis: It is rude to insult people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult people.

The person has done nothing to harm you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult people.

You're doing it in a fun and playful manner.


not being more aware of my movements at the gym

If you don't want to get hurt during strenuous activity, you should be careful of the way you are moving.


You are a rescue worker working with limited time in an emergency.


You are just starting to exercise at the gym.


You are bending down and lifting heavy packages.


being rude and ignoring my autistic possibly trans stalker

Hypothesis: It is wrong to be rude.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be rude.


not doing something I wasn't asked to do

If you want someone to help with something, it's good to ask them directly.


You've been directed to bring it up with management first at work.


You are asking an acquaintance to borrow a large sum of money.


They can clearly see that you are struggling.


slowly cutting off a girl who has dated my two best friends

It's rude to string someone along in a relationship rather than just breaking up with them completely.

breaking up with them would push them toward suicide


the other person doesn't know you're stringing them along


you are unsure of your feelings and are honest with the other person.


you know that your relationship has no long-term future.


both parties are aware of what is going on and are okay with it.


You should always be there for family events.

You are serving in overseas in the military.


You have no other plans on the day of the event.


Hypothesis: You should always get sexual consent.


being upset that my lgbt friends talk badly about straight people while I'm around

It's okay to get upset if your friends are disrespecting others.


It's a joke between them and the others.


They are disrespecting your boyfriend or girlfriend.


The friends are accusing them of something they are not


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

Your idea of healthy boundaries is completely isolating yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

You've had problems with becoming too entwined with other people in the past.


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

You're not ready for sex yet in your new relationship.


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

the person you're establishing boundaries with doesn't agree to them


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

you've been hurt in the past by putting yourself out there too much


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

You wish to have a chaotic life filled with turmoil and pain.


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

There are people in your life who are unhealthy and overbearing.


buying two seats on Southwest and not giving up one despite the open seating

It's okay to want a little elbow room when you are traveling by plane.

you are a flight attendant and are working.


The person next to you keeps bumping into you.


It's good to be aware of one's surroundings and pitch in with help where needed.


you have just had an operation and are bed ridden.


everyone else is pitching in and working hard.


You are on bed rest after getting surgery.


You see your partner struggling while trying to reach something from the top shelf.


You are hurt and have been asked by the doctor to rest


THere is a lot of work to do, and you have experience in the task at hand


not letting my bro use my laptop for "personal" use

You shouldn't use someone else's computer for your own personal use without their permission.

You're in an emergency where you need the computer.


yours crashed and you need to use your roommates to communicate with someone.


you are looking at their personal content.


You need to quickly look up emergency first aid procedures.


the computer contains sensitive information.


breaking a lease to move back home to finish my studies

It's not okay to not pay for something you promised to pay for.


You are friends with the store owner and he knows you're good for it


It's a cake that is already made special for your party.


getting mad at people that tell me to donate my hair

Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.


Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.

You can’t think straight when you are mad


Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.


Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.

You need to vent about something to a confidant


Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.

You need to make a rational decision about how to discipline someone


Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.

Your children finally realize you are serious about cleaning their rooms and actually do it.


Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.

It causes the situation to escalate into violence.


Hypothesis: Getting mad never solves the problem.

it just makes everybody not want to help you even more.


not posting pictures of my so on my Instagram

It can be hurtful to seem like you are keeping your partner a secret from others on social media.


Your partner wants to keep their privacy on social media.


You never upload photos of you and your partner together.


your partner is married and nobody can know about him.


you also act embarrassed to be in public with him.


You are a very private person that doesn't post about your personal life.


You are trying to protect them from a sociopath ex.


They have asked you to make the relationship public.


thinking my boyfriend might be kind of racist

Hypothesis: Racism is not acceptable.


Hypothesis: Racism is not acceptable.


Hypothesis: Racism is not acceptable.

It is publicly displayed in the workplace.


Hypothesis: Racism is not acceptable.

you refuse admittance to a place of business because of someone's race.


It's expected that you pay for services you use.

you were given the services as a gift and someone else paid for them.


you signed a contract stating that you would pay for the services.


You enlist the services of a professional and signed a contract


The services you use are free to the public.


The services you use are premium subscriptions.


Unless they are advertised as free services.


Especially if you signed a service contract.


the services are expressly advertised as free


trying to dictate my housemates appliance usage

It is good to talk to your housemates about their appliance usage when it puts peoples safety at risk.


your housemates have been getting annoyed with your suggestions lately


thinking we shouldn't spend $1k on dinner to treat our relatives' family

Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.

you can't find a job so you don't have any money.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.

You don't have any money to be responsible with.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.

You have a lot of money to be responsible with.


considering breaking up with my boyfriend for something he said

It's understandable to consider breaking up with your significant other if they hurt you.


Someone pushed them and they bumped into you.


they hurt you by accident when they dropped something on your foot.


they were unfaithful to you and lied about it.


calling out a kid for excessively aggressive gameplay on someone who doesn't consent to it when I play against him again in the future

You are right to call out someone for being a bully.


Unless you are putting someone in danger.


Especially if they are bullying a child.


They are holding a gun and need to be calmed down.


You are sticking up for a bullied kid on a school playground.


you are fearful that they will bully you also if you do.


It's wrong not to do your share for an event.

you did most of the work for the last event.


You have contracted a rare disease that makes you unable to move.


You are the person that came up with the idea.


It's okay for an autistic child to attend school.


they have violent behavior problems that are dangerous to other children.


they are calm and peaceful and not hurting anyone.


Their parents feel better home-schooling them.


They prove to disrupt classwork or hurt other students


They are bright and able to complete course work


smacking my friend when he interrupted me

Hypothesis: It is rude to interrupt somebody else.


Hypothesis: It is rude to interrupt somebody else.


Hypothesis: It is rude to interrupt somebody else.

You're telling them that you're choking.


Hypothesis: It is rude to interrupt somebody else.

Especially if they're trying to tell you something important.


Hypothesis: It is rude to interrupt somebody else.

They're about to say something appallingly offensive.


Hypothesis: It is rude to interrupt somebody else.

There is an emergency situation occurring.


Hypothesis: It is rude to interrupt somebody else.

They are telling you a very personal story.


You should always take a look at the things in your life and be grateful for the good things.


You're living in an upper class household.


you don't have any good things in your life.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't snitch on others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't snitch on others.

Especially if they aren't hurting anyone.


It is wrong to abandon a friend when they are in need.

You're too far away from your friend to help.


You have what your friend needs to feel better.


you are being physically pulled away and cannot reach them.


helping them would cost you little time and effort.


You are able to help them out in this tough time


wanting to play video games a couple hours every day after work

People appreciate being able to do what they want after work.

thay don't like to make decisions for themselves


they have been bossed around all day at work


They enjoy being at work more than anywhere else


They have to go to a second job after work.


They have a lot of free time after work.


ratting on someone who caused property damage

People should respect other people's property and not destroy it.

they have been hired to demolish a building by the owner.


they are renting a house for the holidays.


You consider our environment as other people's property, too.


You don't have permission to use something.


having a supposed autistic person banned from a discord

It is wrong to discriminate against disabled people.

They applied to work at a fire department.


They discovered an important scientific theory.


You are drafting a professional football team.


You are interviewing candidates for a secretarial position.


You live in a country with laws against that.


telling my girlfriend I have no desire to meet her friend

It is expected to meet a partner's friends and family.

they live 2000 miles away and you can't afford to visit them.


Your partner doesn't want a serious relationship.


They are not ready for you to meet them yet.


They are deeply into you and ask you to meet them.


asking my neighbor not to park out front of our house

It's rude to impose on other people's property.

You are trying to escape from a predator.


you notice smoke coming from their house and think it might be on fire.


it is an emergency situation like a flood, and their property is high ground.


you are having a party and your guests are entering the neighbors yard.


ruining my BF's dreams because he cheated

It is understandable to be angry after a betrayal from a partner.


they betrayed you in a way you betrayed them


telling my mom she needs to hire a dog-sitter when she has family parties

It's rude to expect other people to accommodate your pets.


They didn't know the pets were coming with you.


they work at a temporary animal housing shelter


accommodating pets is agreed upon ahead of time.


kicking my adult "stepdaughter" out of my house

You should accept your step-children as family.


they are adults and don't want anything to do with you.


they are going to live in the same house as you.


breaking up with my cheating ex to pursue someone I had caught feelings for whilst with her

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on others.

You want to have a long relationship with someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on others.

You caught them in bed with your sister.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on others.

Their previous relationship was very abusive.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on others.

Your partner loves you and is married to you


It's ok to not want to travel with family members.


You're flying to another country and your family members don't have a passport.


They take forever to get ready for anything


Your family members need you to look after them for health reasons on the trip.


Your family members have abused you and you are not fond of them.


not tipping delivery drivers if my food was made wrong/ruined in some way

It's good to provide quality service to customers.


the customers are drunk and are being unruly.


You want the customers to keep coming back


Especially if you want to stay in business.


asking my so to eat like a normal human being

It's wrong to tell your partner what to do.


what you're telling them to do makes them uncomfortable


They are about to do something that will truly harm them


not wanting to meet my sisters boyfriend for the first time at my house

It's not okay to be rude to a family members significant other.

their significant other is really mean to your family member


they did nothing to deserve someone being rude to them


They are new to the family and you are just in a bad mood.


Unless you know they are taking advantage of them.


Especially if they seem to make each other happy.


Your family member is being abused by their significant other.


You respect your family member's right to date whomever they please.


swearing at a girl which has been swearing at me

It's understandable to want to get back at someone.


They punched you in the face and you lost a tooth.


having a crush on a girl and telling my girlfriend

Your girlfriend is expected to get mad at you, if you tell her you have a crush on someone else.

She understands nothing will happen with the other girl


You want to maintain trust in the relationship


That crush is for an unobtainable celebrity.


Your girlfriend was planning on breaking up with you


Your crush is on your girlfriend's best friend


putting the brakes on someone's initiative at work

It is wrong to interfere with a co workers work performance.

The performance is a detriment to the company.


The performance is helping other's illness.


The coworker is working at the expense of others.


It jeopardizes the company and its employees.


You are trying to make yourself look better in a stacked ranking


deciding to cut off a mentally ill uncle for making me feel uncomfortable

It's reasonable to cut off someone who is mentally ill.


you are being paid to be their caretaker.


they're causing an overbearing financial strain on you


It's rude to do something that makes someone else want to go away from you.

You don't know them and don't know how to talk to them.


You work together and you are a new employee.


you are in danger and trying to get someone away from you.


that person is doing stuff to intentionally annoy you


that person is trying to help you with something


changing the locks on a joint storage unit

You shouldn't change the locks on something that you share with someone else.


you want to hide something from them temporarily


you both have a right to access the item


the other person doesn't have a key to the new lock.


They are still living with you and don't have an extra key.


they have been stealing from your joint holdings.


they have the same rights to access it as you do.


emailing the Professor that no one is here for the test

Communication with your academic leaders is important.


Especially if they give you good advice.


it is in the middle of a scheduled exam time.


you are having a hard time understanding the material.


You really understand the course, the classes are huge and other students need their help much more than you.


You are floundering and need explanations about the class.


People are expected to want to live with their loved ones.

Their loved ones live in an assisted living facility.


Their loved ones live in a beautiful home.


Their loved one is mentally ill and needs professional care.


They are adults trying to live with their parents.


They are kids who live with their parents.


Their loved ones smell from improper washing.


Hypothesis: It's good to share with others.


It is bad to ask someone to return a gift back to you

You are replacing it with a newer one that they would rather have


You accidentally gave the gift to the wrong person.


You accidentally gave them the wrong item


they expressed their dissatisfaction with it


you switched up the gifts and gave theirs to the wrong person.


confronting my mum for trying to manipulate both me and my Gf

a person should never manipulate another person.

it is to get a criminal to confess to a crime.


they don't want to be manipulated by another person.


they are a criminal and you are a cop interviewing them.


They're trying to get someone to confess to a crime that occurred.


They're trying to marry the person they're manipulating.


asking my so if she intentionally left the three dishes I used in the sink for me to clean

It's wrong to let the little things come between you and someone you care about.


The little things are so annoying to you that they have become much bigger over time.


You are truly in love with the person in most other ways and can adjust to the little things.


the little things all add up to something big.


You have told them for many decades not to do those things.


They are your young school age children.


The issues are very trivial and can easily be forgotten.


It's lazy to not clean up after yourself.


You have a household with a lot people and things moving through it


You are bedridden with a serious illness.


You do not work and have nothing else better to do.


Someone else will have to pick up your slack.


It's understandable to want to refuse helping a friend.


Your friend needs help moving apartments.


They are stuck in a deep well and you have a rope handy.


Your friend is always taking advantage of you.


asking my wedding guest to leave for wearing his military uniform at my wedding

When you are at a formal wedding, you should wear a suit and tie.


The dress code requires slacks and suspenders.


The invitation specifies something else.


Everyone else plans on wearing the same.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

They are involved in illegal activities.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

They have always depended on you to do so.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

You have the means to provide that support.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

They ignored and blew you off when you needed their help in the past.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

Your partner has divorced you and taken everything you own.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

they are drug addicts that refuse to help themselves.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

they have always been there to support you.


not wanting to DD for our friend's birthday

It is expected that you try to do nice things for somebody on their birthday.

you weren't invited to their birthday party


you were invited to their birthday party


they are your enemy and you don't like them.


You recently got into a fight with that person.


They do nice things for you on your birthday.


not letting my older sister copy the homework

It's good to do your homework for yourself.

You don't understand it and need a tutor.


You want to learn the material and do well on the exams.


You need to learn the material better before an exam.


You don't understand the subject matter.


not sleeping on the couch with the baby everyday so husband sleeps all night

People are expected to care about the well-being of their loved ones.


caring about their loved ones is a toxic situation.


their loved ones care about their well-being.


getting upset at my mom for her blunt reaction on dementia

It's polite to be understanding of older people even if they have old-fashioned ideas.

Some of these ideas are downright racist or hurtful to others.


You can learn a thing or two from their ideas and they are helpful.


They are forcing you into an arranged marriage.


They ultimately let you make your own choices.


Unless their old fashioned ideas are bigoted and biased.


You do not want to fight with your grandmother.


finding my autistic brother's meltdowns funny

It is wrong to laugh at others' misfortunes


they're being told to you by a comedian at a stand up show


They are struggling with depression about their circumstances.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lead someone on.

you are doing so unintentionally and don't realize it.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lead someone on.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lead someone on.

You know her biological clock is running down


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lead someone on.

Your partner says they're falling in love with you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lead someone on.

You're truly hoping to develop a real relationship with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lead someone on.

You know in your heart that they aren't the right one for you.


People who have a disability are offended by things that able bodied people are not


They are members of the Deaf community, capital D


Certain places have no handicapped access.


It is something very racist where those people and those without a disability are both offended.


The able bodied people don't even notice it.


A person without a disability doesnt appreciate things


It's good to take action to protect the vulnerable.


you don't have the ways and means to do so.


you can help people who are unable to help themselves.


You are struggling and need to prioritize yourself.


You're doing it for your own financial gain.


spending my money on something I want rather than what my bf suggests

It is okay to spend your own money how you want to.


You've been on a budget for a long time.


You have children whose needs come before your wants.


travelling with my boyfriend even though my parents said no

It's fine to want to travel with your significant other.


Your significant other is also married to someone else.


Your significant other has racked up a lot of frequent flyer miles.


They are traveling to an active war zone for their job as a journalist.


Your work schedule prevents you from doing so.


telling my friend that if she didn't vaccinate her (Hypothetical) kids, then they couldn't be around my (also hypothetical) kids

It is okay to look after the safety of your own children.

That causes you to punch someone else's child for insulting yours.


That means you take them to all their recommended doctor's checkups.


You are in a different country and have to leave them in the care of someone else


Child protective services took them away from you.


You gave them up for adoption as infants.


being hurt that my boyfriend wouldn't dress down to a wedding with me

It's wrong not to attend a wedding with your partner.


yelling at my classmates at a restaurant after a class hike

You should try to talk things over with others before getting mad.

It was the talking that made everyone mad.


People have good senses of humor and people end up laughing.


what happened has nothing to do with any other people


using a Sking that looks like my Ex in a Video game

You shouldn't use a character in a game that looks like your ex.


The avator is very recognizable as that ex.


You don't care that it looks like your ex.


You don't want to remind yourself about them.


the character is a really good character to play


you recently broke up with them on bad terms


breaking up with my gf after her friend died

It's wrong to break up with someone after someone close to them dies.


They hadn't seen the person that died in forty years.


The two of you were ready to part ways before the death.


You care about their mental condition after the break up.


The person you're breaking up with killed their close friend.


thinking nobody should wear earbuds in public

It is acceptable for people to wear ear buds in public.

They are walking into an intersection and can't hear and oncoming ambulance.


You are trying to have a conversation with them.


They are walking in the middle of traffic


They are listening to music, as nobody want to year other people's music


It is good to be honest with your family members


You want a drama free relationship with them.


you are trying to surprise them with a vacation.


Your family members will have a nervous breakdown.


Hypothesis: It's OK to give people your opinion.


Hypothesis: It's OK to give people your opinion.

You know everyone will disagree with you because it is racist


Hypothesis: It's OK to give people your opinion.

you are a politician running for president


frequently telling my parents to shut up

Children are expected to act politely towards their parents.


Their parent might be walking into quicksand.


Their parents embarrass them in front of their friends.


Their parents drive them to school every day.


The parents didn't teach their children manners.


The parents taught their children about respecting others.


Their parents aren't involved in their lives.


leaving my girlfriend to go to a group meeting while she was crying

It's considered compassionate to take care of a girlfriend that is crying.

the girlfriend is crying because she cheated on you


She is laughing so hard it has led to tears.


she is crying tears of joy at a wedding.


she has just suffered the loss of a parent.


She is sobbing over the person she just murdered in cold blood.


She just lost her best friend in an accident.


She is crying because she got caught cheating.


You accidentally slammed her finger in the car door.


Hypothesis: It's good to expand your horizons.

You are a young child and can only have a limited area to play in.


Hypothesis: It's good to expand your horizons.


Hypothesis: It's good to expand your horizons.

You are very socially anxious and awkward


accidentally taking a machine at the gym

Hypothesis: You should be more careful at the gym.


Hypothesis: You should be more careful at the gym.


Hypothesis: You should be more careful at the gym.

You are a gold medalist training for a big competition.


Hypothesis: You should be more careful at the gym.

You have little training in lifting heavy weights.


Hypothesis: You should be more careful at the gym.

You want to make sure you dont hurt someone


Hypothesis: You should be more careful at the gym.

You're the janitor cleaning up after everyone has left.


You shouldn't expect your family to help you out with favors.


you are always willing to help them out when they ask.


you always help them out when they need it.


They already owe you an outstanding debt.


You should never be critical of a gift someone gave you.

The gift was very inappropriate or profane.


It was a handmade gift from a young child.


You've been re gifted something you've already given.


They spent a lot of time picking it out.


you are sure the giver is out of earshot.


You are allowed to stand up for yourself.

it is forbidden by law in the country you live in.


You agreed to let your husband take the wheels on this decision.


You know you made the right decision by turning your friend in to the police.


you are directed to sit quietly in a courtroom.


someone is accusing you of doing something wrong.


asking a friend if she misread this situation

is it bad to assume that someone cannot understand something simple

The person is severely developmentally delayed.


You're basing your assumptions on their gender.


The person is a smart adult that should know how to boil water.


It is a young child that is still learning how the world works.


they have indicated that they do not understand


being annoyed of my roommate and his new girlfriend

You should talk with a friend if a behavior of theirs is annoying you.

it is a nervous tic that they know about and can't control it.


they can easily change it and you haven't pointed it out before.


They are coping with a distressing personal situation.


The behavior could endanger their health.


You realize it is just you being overly touchy that day.


You have to spend a great deal of time with them.


You think they're not aware of how you think of it


It is rude to call out of work for no reason.

You have never missed work and everyone else has taken many sick days.


Your colleagues are counting on you to help with a presentation.


You are being bullied and need a day away from the toxic culture.


Your place of work would be severely shorthanded without you.


You do not have to give a reason for calling off per company policy.


It is required to give a reason, such as being sick.


getting with someone soon after being broken up with

Hypothesis: It's ok to have a rebound relationship.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have a rebound relationship.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have a rebound relationship.

you are already in another relationship.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have a rebound relationship.

You're only using the person in it and know you're not really interested in them.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have a rebound relationship.

The rebound relationship could be real and you really like the person.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have a rebound relationship.

It's with someone you'd normally never agree to date.


not liking that girlfriend and my bestfriend are becoming really good friends

Hypothesis: Trust issues can hurt a relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust issues can hurt a relationship.

the people in the relationship are married


Hypothesis: Trust issues can hurt a relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust issues can hurt a relationship.

the relationship has just started its journey


Hypothesis: Trust issues can hurt a relationship.

Unless both partners agree the relationship is casual and open.


One should always accept responsibility for their actions.


They were under the command of a senior officer.


Someone blamed you for something that wasn't your fault.


Not wanting to tip when you get bad service is natural.

You know the service issues weren't the server's fault.


The employee apologizes sincerely and makes things right immediately.


Hypothesis: You should be patient with children.


Hypothesis: You should be patient with children.

There is a fire in the building and you are trying to get everyone out.


Hypothesis: You should be patient with children.

You start to lose your temper, in which case you should call a babysitter and take a break.


Hypothesis: You should be patient with children.

the child is young enough to not know any better


Spending too much time on the PC is unhealthy.


You're a gamer at risk of developing carpal tunnel syndrome


you need to use it to work to earn money.


It's kind be accepting of family members' self expression.


their self expression has a positive impact


A family member's self expression is grotesque or harmful to others.


You want the family member to feel accepted and loved and fit in to the family.


They are adolescents coming into their own.


leaving notes out for people going over my parking space, despite not owning a car myself

You shouldn't leave notes for other drivers on their cars over something that isn't their fault.


Unless you are warning them about something.


You hit their car and are leaving your contact information.


Drivers will assume they got a parking ticket.


You want to tell them that you hit there car


You are going to be littering an innocent car


It is to remind them to use public transportation.


You shouldn't expect your partner to cook for you.


You stayed home and they just got back from working all day.


They just got accepted to a culinary academy and need practice.


they work the same hours as you do, and cook most of the time.


calling my then-boyfriend a "f*cking as*hole"

Hypothesis: It's rude to call people names.

They prefer to be called by their nickname


Hypothesis: It's rude to call people names.


Hypothesis: It's rude to call people names.

You are calling them by their first names.


starting to fall out of love with someone but not telling them right away

You should tell someone if you don't love them anymore.


they already know and it doesn't need to be said.


The other person is considering marriage.


It's not okay to accuse a significant other of doing something before they have done it.

You have found undeniable evidence that they are about to do it.


You only have suspicions about what they are about to do.


you know for a fact they were planning on doing it.


You believe they did it because of a rumor.


You know them really well and are trying to help them and accuse them in a loving tone.


The accusation is serious and can offend them and hurt them a lot.


They have a past history of doing that thing.


They have no history of doing that thing.


letting my gf's mom think her dog ran away after I found her inside

If your partner plays with your parents' emotions, you should break up with them.


Your parents have been manipulating you.


Your parents are emotionally harmed by your partner.


you dislike your parents and encouraged them


your parents are meddling in your relationship and trying to get your partner to leave you.


your parents are an important part of your life.


not giving my carpoolers a cheaper price

It's okay to want to be paid for work you did.


You explicitly said you would do it pro bono


You sacrificed time you would have spent in a paying job


walking in on my roommate with his girlfriend

It's good to give your roommate his private time with his partner.


You both agreed this was your time to be alone in the space.


asking for a prenup to protect my assets

Expectations should be discussed in a relationship.


You want to have a long-term relationship


Hypothesis: You should be nice to children.


Hypothesis: You should be nice to children.

The child is shoplifting from the store.


bugging my roommate to clean a little more

It's okay to be frustrated with your roommate when they don't do their fair share.


They are on crutches due to an accident.


They have had a debilitating illness lately and haven't been able to.


potentially causing 2 of my close friends to break up

It's wrong to meddle destructively in people's relationships.

You know that your partner is involved with drug dealers


Their relationships are none of your business


You a psychologist trying to get to the root of their problems.


You are a mere acquaintance of the couple.


You are trying to help someone get out of an abusive relationship.


Those two in the relationship care about each other.


They drink and drive with your baby niece in the car.


It's okay to want your friends to show you respect by not talking on their phones in front of you.


They just got a call for a medical emergency


They always have their phones in their faces


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

You know something that would hurt their feelings.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

you have knowledge of something that can really affect their lives.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

You need to spare their feelings with a white lie.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

You're emphasizing something your friend is ashamed of.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

You're trying to be close to your friends.


being annoyed that my Dad always sides with my brothers

It's unfortunate that the youngest child in a family often goes unheard in conversations.

That child is mute and can't speak to begin with


That child wants to feel included and like they are a part of the family


The child is the most talented in the family.


The youngest and the next youngest have a significant age difference


They are introverted and do not speak up.


not wanting to further my relationship with my mother

It's expected that family will want to be close.


The family members often express fondness for each other.


Some members of the family have been abusive.


The whole extended family all live on the same street.


It is expected that some people would not want to talk to their ex.


They have unfinished financial business they have to take care of.


creating a group chat that bullies a toxic person

Sometimes people will act badly towards you if you're not a nice person, so you should strive to be kind.

You are dealing with a bad person who doesn't deserve kindness.


You are a professional wrestling bad guy.


That person has threatened you withoutprompt


You value genuineness and prefer to remain true to yourself.


pranking my sister in front of our entire family

It is ok to play pranks on your sister if your family is watching.


Unless they are really mean spirited pranks.


Especially if your whole family has a great sense of humor.


it is done with cruelty just to make her cry.


it is just a playful game and nobody gets hurt.


Think badly of others because of their race is unacceptable in polite society.


Especially if you claim to be a non-racist person.


You have been raised to treat everyone equally


asking for gas money for driving people home who live on my way

It's fine to want to be reimbursed for gas you used in driving people home.


You have to go out of your way to pick them up.


You offered to drive your daughters friend home.


They are having you drive them to more than one place.


you don't reimburse others when they drive you home.