being upset with my boyfriend for trying to bail on our plans to trip sit his friend

It's fine to be angry if your significant other abandons plans you've made together.

there is an emergency and it cannot be helped.


Their Army unit was called up unexpectedly.


They selfishly decided just to do something with someone else.


You should only have kids if you really want them.

You adopt a younger sibling that has no where else to go.


Your family is depending on you to continue the legacy.


You agree to have a baby as a surrogate for someone.


It is okay to take self defense against a pet if it is trying to attack you.

You could easily solve the problem by just walking away.


the pet is very tiny and can be stopped easily.


You were the one who provoked the animal in the first place.


They attacked you for no reason and can hurt you badly if you don't.


being mad at my boyfriend for how he handled my abortion

It is okay to expect emotional support from your partner at a difficult time.

your partner is suffering from serious depression.


you are suffering from serious depression.


they have just broken up with you and moved out.


They are deployed and not able to contact you.


They see that you are crying and need a shoulder to cry on.


Unless your partner is the cause of the difficult time.


Especially if you care about each other.


They themselves have just experienced the loss of a loved one


It's not expected that you will donate to charity.

You are the owner of a successful business.


you are a billionaire and have the means to make a big difference.


you have to receive charity yourself to make ends meet.


It is important to set boundaries with other people.


Your friends just show up whenever they want to your house


you're in a hospital where lots of people are contagious


There is a terminally ill person who wants to spend time with you


They are your significant other and you don't want boundaries.


You have a hard time saying no and people tend to take advantage of you.


they have taken advantage of you before.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to seduce an ex.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to seduce an ex.

Your ex has a restraining order against you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to seduce an ex.

you are both single and want to get back together.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to seduce an ex.

You both hope to get back together again.


rehoming the elderly cat my wife and I adopted

It is nice to try and find the cat a nice and caring home.


The cat has been at the shelter for a long time.


you are unable to keep the cat for yourself.


telling my husband that his siblings only call for money

It is rude to mess with your partner's family.

it's good-natured and you are all having fun.


your actions cause your partner's family to not like you.


Your partner's family is known for pranking people.


Your partner's family is going through a difficult time.


Especially if they have no sense of humor.


getting mad at my boyfriend for getting drunk

Partners should not try to parent each other.


both partners enjoy that type of relationship.


the relationship is to remain healthy and last.


either one of them had parents who didn't raise them well


they want to avoid running into problems


It is expected that you are kind to pregnant women.


they need help carrying something heavy.


the pregnant woman is being exceptionally mean


The woman slaps you in the face for no reason


You see them drinking alcohol and using drugs.


The baby they are carrying is related to you.


It's hurtful to distance yourself from your best friend.

Your best friend has become toxic and undermines your goals.


They started hanging out with gang members.


they have been falling in with the wrong crowd and you do not want to.


you do not explain to them how you are feeling and why.


your best friend did something awful to you.


you've been friends for a very long time.


not wanting to pay my Son's grandmother to watch him

It's rude to expect people to do things for you for free.


you're being helped by a charitable organization


they're doing things for you that people are usually paid to do


THey have already committed to helping you out.


You are asking for a large favor like donating a car


procuring recreational drugs for my blind friend

Hypothesis: IT is bad to break the law.


Hypothesis: IT is bad to break the law.


yelling "fuck you!" at a tow truck driver

You should talk in a calm, reasonable voice if you want to resolve a situation.

Something is urgent and you're trying to get attention.


You want others involved to remain calm as well.


You are telling people to run from a fire.


you are at a concert and can't be heard over the noise.


you want to be taken seriously as an adult.


the crowd noise is so loud you have to shout


tempers are flaring and you want people to cool down


taking a shower at 11.30pm even though my housemates were awake

You should be considerate of your roommates when doing things that are loud.


Especially if you have a mutually respectful relationship.


Your roommates have to wake up early for work.


you've made an agreement with them beforehand.


moving out and stopping talking to my family

It's okay to move out of your family's home.


you are a caretaker for a family member.


not involving my fiancé's mom in wedding planning

It's good to ask family to plan a wedding.


Your family is great at organizing parties.


You would like some advice on how to make it work.


They hate the person that you are engaged to.


wanting to tell the boss my co-worker is doing meth on the job

It's fine to notify your boss if a co-worker is breaking rules.


The coworker is damaging your prospects for advancement


they are doing so only due to unusual circumstances beyond their control.


You have no proof of what they are doing.


You have found them stealing things from the boss.


You are involved in the same transgression


Your job is at stake due to his malfeasance


completely cutting my problematic sister out of my life

It is wrong not to support one's family members


they do not support you when you need it.


supporting them causes you mental anguish.


Especially if they are dependent children.


putting locks on my refrigerator and shower stuff

It's wrong to be so protective of your possessions.


Especially if you have far more than you need.


When someone gives you something it is yours forever and it is hurtful to give those things back.


The person said it was to remember them by.


you had a bad breakup and want to be rid of things that remind you of them.


it was something that commemorated a very special event.


It something you have cherished for a long time


the person really wants it back and asks for it.


getting mad at my girlfriend for buying me candy

It's rude to get mad at someone for doing something nice for you.

the nice thing was misguided and caused you problems


They did it out of the kindness of their heart


You're an alcoholic who's been gifted a bottle of booze.


You asked the person to leave you alone.


blowing off my friend on an assignment I said I would do a day before exams

Hypothesis: It's rude to blow off a friend.

you have already told the friend you will see them at a later time.


Hypothesis: It's rude to blow off a friend.


Hypothesis: It's rude to blow off a friend.

You both have a big test and your friend wants to study together.


wanting to meet on campus to return someone's Id

It's good to meet people in person when you're returning something.


you need to speak with someone about the return.


reporting a taxi that picked up more passengers

It's good to report someone that is doing something wrong.

They are stealing bread to feed to a hungry child.


An old woman got injured by their actions.


You report a child that jay walked to the police.


You want them to learn from their mistakes


Joking around for too long can be annoying to people.


They have are serious and have asked you to stop.


refusing to contribute to a bridal shower

You are expected to contribute to events you are invited to.

The event is a surprise retirement party in your honor.


it is a baby shower for your closest sister.


everyone else is helping to pay for things.


watching a television show my gf and I started without her

You should be polite to let your friend catch up on a television series.

The series has something that happens in it that will trigger them.


they want to discuss it in depth with you


It is your tv and you have something to watch.


your friend has been neglecting their responsibilities by binge watching the show


you got to see the series while they haven't yet


your friend just asks you for the summary of what they have missed.


You should not enter into a relationship with children involved unless you accept the children too.


You have no choice because the mom is not in the picture


the significant other wants to keep their children away from the relationship.


you intend to date the person in the long term.


The children are grown and live in another state.


The children are young and have special needs.


you make it clear upfront that you do not want to be involved with the children.


the children live with the person you are in the relationship with.


wanting to tell my wife she can't attend her sisters bachelorette party

Feeling threatened by a partner's social life is natural.

Your partner never goes out of the house.


Your partner's social life is part of their job.


You don't make any effort to integrate into your partner's social life.


Your partner doesn't invite you out anywhere.


They only go out once a week to play chess.


You are not sure about their feelings for you


breaking up with my long term partner over fb messenger

It's expected that partners end a relationship in person.

They are in a long-distance relationship.


They're having a long distance relationship


The partners are in a long distance relationship.


They are in a long distance relationship.


They have been together for a very long time.


Hypothesis: You should not cause yourself injury.

The injury was received doing something selfless or noble.


Hypothesis: You should not cause yourself injury.


Hypothesis: You should not cause yourself injury.

you injure yourself while saving someone else's life.


Hypothesis: You should not cause yourself injury.

your teammates are counting on you to play in the upcoming game.


Hypothesis: You should not cause yourself injury.

You are trying to rescue someone and get injured in the process.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to host a party.

you told people you were going to host a party


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to host a party.

your house isn't clean enough to have people over to party at


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to host a party.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to host a party.

Someone volunteered you without asking you first.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to host a party.

You are especially busy with other things, such as work.


reporting a guy who dropped an I.O.U into the collection bin for money that pays for frozen food out of the freezer at work

It's wrong to not understand sometimes peoples situation isn't the best.

They refused to go to rehab and are doing drugs again.


you warned them that it would happen but they didn't listen


You always compare yourself to those who have more.


You are interested in politics and economics.


You don't interact with other people often.


people put up a front and fool you into thinking it is.


calling out an angry driver with my gf in the passenger seat

Hypothesis: It is bad taste to road rage.


Hypothesis: It is bad taste to road rage.


Hypothesis: It is bad taste to road rage.

You're a police officer performing a pit maneuver.


It's okay to want to kick someone out of your home for bad behavior.

The bad behavior is caused by your child.


The person is violent to family members.


It's expected that you take care of your pets.


You're simply not able to provide them with the kind of life they deserve.


You want your pets to lead happy, healthy lives and love you.


You are allergic to them and they have to go


you have paid a pet sitter or kennel to watch them


being salty about who my S/o interacts with

It's okay to leave a relationship that is controlling.

You just recently got married to this person.


You just started a relationship with this person and not sure if you really like them.


There is something that can be done to fix it.


it's only controlling because you broke the trust in the relationship


Hypothesis: It's rude to lash out at your guests.


Hypothesis: It's rude to lash out at your guests.

you have small children who need your attention.


Hypothesis: It's rude to lash out at your guests.

Your guest has been kind and patient towards you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to lash out at your guests.

They were only stating an opinion on politics.


Hypothesis: It's rude to lash out at your guests.

Your guests got drunk and started trouble with other guests.


Hypothesis: It's rude to lash out at your guests.

Your guests are children at your child's birthday party.


telling my friend it sucks that we all always smoke together and she's the only one who can't roll

It's impolite not to help roll when smoking with friends.

You've never rolled before and are learning by watching.


You are going to smoke more than your friends.


not being ok with my wife's family excluding me

It is acceptable to want to be included in plans.

Unless you aren't planning to go anyway.


Especially if the plans will include you.


it is a ladies night out, and you are a man.


all your group of close friends are going to be there.


Its a girl or guys night out and you are of the wrong gender.


You will be supplying everyone's transportation.


The plans are being made by your spouse.


telling my (now ex) girlfriend that I can't keep listening to her problems about her parents

It's fine to refuse to listen to an ex-significant other's problems.

They are the parent of your child and the problem involves the child.


You have no interest in staying in contact with them.


you committed to working on your friendship after the romantic relationship ended.


It's regarding their current relationship.


You have no interest and no relationship with your ex


not giving my girlfriend attention when she wants it

You shouldn't try to be the center of someone else's attention.


You're trying to have a healthy relationship.


You have both professed feelings for each other.


busting my ex-friend for doing illegal drugs and selling them at our school

It is bad to turn in a friend for illegal things.


They are a danger to themselves or others.


You have been borrowing money from their illegal schemes.


needing to take painkillers for period pain

If you have period pain you should consider taking a painkiller.


Painkillers would mix badly with other medications that you're on.


Painkillers have helped with the pain before.


The pain is making it so you can't work.


liking Instagram posts about cars and somewhat sexual women

It's inappropriate to be viewing a stranger's suggestive pictures on social media.


The stranger posts the pictures to be viewed by other strangers.


The stranger is someone you're stalking.


It's alright to get frustrated at people even if they are your elders.

The elders have dementia and can't help being forgetful.


The elders are not keeping their house clean and won't let you help them.


the people are causing you a lot of problems.


They have dementia and can't help forgetting things.


breaking in to a neighbors apartment to turn off his stereo that he left on repeat, ostensibly for an entire weekend he was gone

It's expected that you keep your music down when you live close to others.


They have already complained in the past about the volume


Those close to you request to hear the music


not wanting my boyfriend to be touchy with another girl

Partners should keep their hands to themselves.

it is agreed upon that they do not have to.


they both want to engage is sexual contact.


They want to show love towards one another.


One partner is much stronger than the other.


not using a condom for the first 10 seconds with my friend with benefits

It's wrong not to use protection during sex.


You and your wife are trying to have a baby.


You don't know the person well and who they have been with.


You have seven children you are struggling to provide for.


You do not want the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy.


It's fine to play harmless jokes on other people.


They have played similar jokes in the past


You are doing it just to embarrass them.


Your victim has a different understanding of what harmless means


You are a professional prankster with your own hidden camera television show.


They are kind and don't make anyone feel bad.


telling my wife to go see a doctor on her birthday

It's good to be concerned with your spouse's health.


It makes you violently ill to think about it.


They have shown a drastic change in diet.


A doctor tells you nothing is wrong with your spouse.


Your spouse does not listen to the doctor's warnings.


They are on life support with no hope to live.


not cutting my hair the way my girlfriend wants

It's your body and you can do what you want with it.


you're doing something that is not healthy


putting someone in their place and defending myself

Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.


Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.

You are ungrateful and critical of everything you tell them to do.


Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.

You are trying to organize rescue efforts after a disaster.


Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.

You have no recognized authority within the group of people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.


Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.

You are the same rank as your coworkers.


Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.

You're leading a platoon in the military.


Hypothesis: It's bad to boss people around.

they are co-workers in the same position as you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

Cheating on an exam could get you expelled from college.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

You're playing a game that allows cheating.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

You are married and cheating on your spouse.


getting pissed off at roommate's girlfriend

It is bad to get mad at someone close to someone you live with.


you want things in your house to remain peaceful.


you don't want to create conflict with the person that you live with.


The person has stolen something from you.


not wanting to share my potential lottery winnings with my boyfriend

It's ok to not share your money with others.


You are a single adult with no children.


spending a bill I had reason to suspect was counterfeit

You should not spend money you know is not real.


Others will get in trouble with the law because of what you're doing.


not letting my girlfriend join my discord chat

It's okay to not allow someone in a private chat.


They are a member that should not be excluded.


You are trying to make plans that involve that person.


You are talking about personal information you don't want others to know.


Unless you aren't discussing anything personal.


Especially if you are discussing personal things.


You don't have to bring your kids to church of you don't want them there.

You want to raise them as devout Christians in their own lives.


You are unconcerned what religion they will follow as they get older.


They are the ones getting baptized that day.


They are babies and will disrupt the service.


They are going to cry through the whole service.


not wanting my future Father-in-law at my wedding

You are not obligated to get along with your in laws.


you work for your partner's parent's company


They are helping you raise your children.


getting really mad my parents keep buying food I cant control myself around

It's fine to buy whatever food you want to buy.


You have enough money for anything you want.


You can't afford to buy enough food for your family.


You are having health issues that require a special diet.


wanting my son to go to university instead of my daughter

It is ok to be upset if your parents want your sibling to go to college and not you because of your gender.


You're roughly the same age and ability.


You are a boy wanting to go to an all girl college.


Your parents can afford to send both of you to college.


You are getting better grades than your brother is


being nervous to dance with my girlfriend

You should open up and do things out of your comfort zone.


telling a girl that unfortunate incidents in her life were "karma"

You shouldn't let other people judge you and your circumstances.


they have no business meddling in your business.


they have your best interest in their heart.


you have a big plan beyond others' imagination.


They are judges and you are in a courtroom.


not talking to ex-best friend / roommate and kicking him out of the next lease

You should distance yourself from toxic relationships.


The relationship is hurting your self-esteem.


You are the lawyer hired to represent one party.


getting into a fight with my gf about sticky fingers

It's ok to tell someone their hygiene isn't up to par.

You're just standing next to them at the grocery store for five minutes.


They have a medical condition that creates a malador


You are trying to help them be more attractive to the opposite sex


You tell them they small like poop and need to shower.


You politely tell them the odor is unpleasant.


You know there is nothing they can do about it.


Hypothesis: It's OK to tell people no.

you are capable and willing to help them.


Hypothesis: It's OK to tell people no.

you are in the hospital and not able to help.


Hypothesis: It's OK to tell people no.


Hypothesis: It's OK to tell people no.

You are not comfortable with the situation


Hypothesis: It's OK to tell people no.

Your young child is asking for help getting buckled into their seatbelt.


Hypothesis: It's OK to tell people no.

they are a paying customer wanting service


It's wrong to expect really extravagant gifts from others.

Your birthday and Christmas are the same day.


People have a lot of gifts to buy on a limited budget.


Hypothesis: It's rude to kick someone out.


Hypothesis: It's rude to kick someone out.

You explained to them that they needed to leave previously.


Hypothesis: It's rude to kick someone out.

They have destroyed items in your house.


Hypothesis: It's rude to kick someone out.

They are your child and have nowhere to go.


Hypothesis: It's rude to kick someone out.

they are too big of a financial burden for you to handle


calling bs on my friend who got "molested" at a sleep-over

You should save accusations against someone for a more private time.


You don’t want people to know your business


They squeezed your body against your will.


They publicly accused you of doing something wrong in front of your boss.


You don't want the situation to get worse by having a neighbor call the police


The accusations could harm their standing.


The crime you're accusing them of just occurred.


The accusations are of lying about a personal matter.


not taking care of my roommate's dog when dog could have been in danger

It's good to take care of your roommate's property.

Your roommate has damaged your property in the past.


You are on good terms with your roommate and want to stay that way.


They offer it to you as they are moving out


You are forbidden to touch your roommate's property.


You share a lot of appliances and electronics.


Your roommate often helps you with things.


telling my wife's new boyfriend's girlfriend she is being cheated on

It is good to speak up when someone is being betrayed.


That person has already spoken for themselves


the one being betrayed is an enemy who betrayed you previously.


the person being betrayed is your family member.


hanging up on someone with an accent I couldn't understand

Hypothesis: You shouldn't hang up on people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hang up on people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hang up on people.

They pretend to be from the social security administration with an arrest warrant.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hang up on people.

You are free and want to do something or go somewhere.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hang up on people.

They are being rude and you don't want to talk to them anymore.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hang up on people.

they have something important to tell you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hang up on people.

you're doing it to get the last word in an argument.


talking to a guy my boyfriend doesn't want me to

It's OK to decide for yourself who you can talk to.


your job requires you to speak to certain people.


"isolating" my significant other from her "friends"

You should not control who others keep in contact with.


You are trying to isolate someone to abuse them


Your child is hanging with a bad group of kids


You know they are responsible and well taken care of


you're the phone company shutting down service since the customer didn't pay their bill


Your child is in contact with an online predator.


Its your children and they can be harmed.


They are adults and have right to be with anyone they like


You shouldn't say racist things to people.

you're explaining what can be considered racist


you are trying to teach them about how words can be hurtful.


You are being tortured and that is the only way they will release you.


You work at a multicultural organization.


You are teaching a class on what racism is.


leaving my friend when she wouldn't do anything to help herself out of a mental health rut for several months

It's good to help out your friends when they have a mental issue.


You are able to recommend them to a good therapist.


They are a danger to themselves or others and require professional assistance.


They use it as an excuse for their poor behavior


You have been friends with them for years


they do not want to talk about it to you


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.

you are very sick and could die if you don't go to the doctor.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

You're hiding something for a surprise party.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

They are going through a tough time and the truth will break them.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

You are working extra jobs to buy them an expensive surprise gift.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

They have had others lie to them and betray their trust.


being really annoyed with my "friend" for thinking everyone has a crush on her

You shouldn't think that everyone will like you.


you understand the way human beings think.


You are a pompous person that expects everyone will like you.


you have always been liked by the people you meet.


getting really mad at my friends during our vacation

It's rude to ruin someone else's  good time for selfish reasons.


The person is drinking too much and isn't stopping on their own account.


the other person is providing you with the good time


You are angry about not being the center of attention.


getting upset that my girlfriend decided to ditch me for Thanksgiving

Holidays are expected to be shared with those you care about.


You have many debts and can get overtime


It's a holiday that is normally spent with family.


You live in the same small town they do.


asking my boyfriend to skip Mother's Day to attend my graduation

It's okay to put a personal life event over that of a normal, national holiday.

you know a lot of family is going to be out of town on vacation.


you give family enough advance notice to plan for it.


You are being selfish in demanding attention.


You are a prominent leader scheduled months ago to attend a large-scale event in honor of the holiday.


The personal event involves the death of someone close.


It is Christmas and you have little kids and don't do Santa because of it.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to save money.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to save money.

You have other bills to pay first or you owe someone money.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to save money.

You  don't owe anyone and you want to have a financial future.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to save money.

You already have billions of dollars in investments.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to save money.

Especially if you have a limited budget.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to others.

it's because you are embarassed of something


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to others.

your lying that you paid for items but you actually didnt


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to others.

You are protecting your minor child from unnecessary stress.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to others.

You are running for political office in an election.


telling my roommate she needs to do a better job potty training her dog

It's expected that you potty train your pets.


You don’t want them pooping on your carpet


locking my ex-boyfriend out of our house

It's wrong to not respect your housemate.


They are always messy and don’t clean up


They are always kind, considerate and helpful to everyone.


They poured paint on all of your clothes.


It's wrong to use your emotions to manipulate others.

you're manipulating them into a good situation.


you're making sure they don't hurt themselves


you're using it to steal things from them


People should not cheat or attempt to cheat on each other.


The people are in a monogamous relationship.


You are in an open relationship and both partners don't care.


Your husband is a horrible person and refuses to agree to a divorce.


You would be heartbroken if someone cheated on you


telling my boyfriend I am bored and unhappy at my job

Partners should listen to each other's issues.


They're trying to build a lasting relationship.


One of the partners has issues that are not acceptable to the other or require professional help.


They want to cherish each other and help each other and grow the relationship closer.


It is rude to wake someone up to stop them from snoring.


Especially if they need to get up early and you don't.


The snoring is so loud and you cant sleep


It's wrong to let down someone who thinks you care about them.


You call the police on an obsessed ex who violated a restraining order.


You promised your grandmother a visit and purposefully skipped it.


your actions hurt the feelings of another person.


not letting my grandma into the bathroom while I was using it

It is customary to want privacy while using the restroom.

You bring your children to the restroom with you


you want your child in with you so you can keep an eye on them.


You have to sit while doing your business.


not wanting to give money to my inlaws for their wedding

It's wrong to be rude to family members at their wedding.

They are drunk and accusing you of lies.


They paid your way to travel to the wedding.


You know for sure that they shouldn't get married due to cheating or something and are trying to stop a bad thing from happening.


They love each other dearly and make a great couple and you're just jealous.


You are expected to treat someone with respect even if they have different opinions than you.


The person's opinions include race based violence.


The person's viewpoints differ in regards to favorite pets.


they are hostile and aggressive with their opinions


their opinions are racist and oppressive.


they are politely expressing their opinions.


expressing extremeannoyance with my husbands bathroom habits

You should learn to live with your significant other's bad habits.


your significant other has learned to live with yours.


Unless their habits are exceptionally gross.


Especially if you have a few bad habits yourself.


It is a habit that is decreasing the hygiene of the house, like not flushing the toilet


It doesn't actually harm them, like chewing gum with their mouth open


putting a dog poop bag sidewalk and picking it up on my way home

Hypothesis: It's good to clean up the town.


Hypothesis: It's good to clean up the town.


Hypothesis: It's good to clean up the town.

the pollution is getting into the city water supply.


Hypothesis: It's good to clean up the town.

the people in the town find its messiness to be aesthetic


Hypothesis: It's good to clean up the town.

You want to attract new people to live there.


not picking up the phone when my cousin calls

You should answer the phone when people call you.


You are avoiding scammers and telemarketers


it is a spam caller who you have no idea who they are.


not sharing/eating from my gfs food or utensils

It is acceptable to want your own things.


It is ok for someone to smoke if it is legal.


They are smoking around someone with breathing issues.


The person is smoking near someone with asthma.


The person is smoking in their own home.


they are sitting in a no-smoking section.


snapping at my boyfriend because he is depressed

It's bad to be short-tempered towards people.


They just won't take no for an answer and you are not changing your mind.


The people around you are understanding.


The people around you are small children.


They have aggravated you in a very tense situation.


blasting a loud alarm noise to get the cashier's attention

Using loud noises in public places can scare people.


You are at a concert with loud music playing.


You should always gauge the mood of the audience before saying or doing something you think might cross a line.


your act is all about you crossing lines.


telling my old art teacher to shut the f**k up

You shouldn't yell at authority figures.


you are at a protest and they are being violent with the protesters.


they are just trying to help in a bad situation.


It's bad to get mad about someone's simple request to sing quieter.

You are performing at a concert in front of thousands


You're working as a musician in a restaurant.


A child is singing softly at a school performance.


They are singing loudly on stage at a concert.


You shouldn't put up with your kids backtalking you.


They are doing so in a respectful manner about something important to them.


You've done something to hurt your child.


You've given your child everything they want.


They make a good point you hadn't thought off.


They're just swearing and screaming instead of discussing the problem calmly.


not wanting my brother's friends to be in our apartment when he is not

It is reasonable to not want people you do not know in your home.


They are hired to work on the outside of the house.


They are a plumber visiting to fix a pipe


They are repair people hired to fix a problem.


It is rude to expect a service for free.

You're a homeless person at a soup kitchen.


Unless it was offered as a free service.


Especially if you signed a contract to pay for the service.


the company messed up something and are doing it to pay you back.


wanting to wait to get married until my grandma passes away

It is wrong to treat a family member like a burden.

They are a constant mooch on your resources.


Unless they aren't even trying to help themselves.


They have shown no gratitude for the help they have recieved


they are chronically ill and cannot help it.


taking too long to change clothes and making my sisters late for school

It's okay to be upset if your sibling makes you late for school.

Your sibling got in an accident on the way to school.


Your sibling kept pressing snooze on the alarm.


He was just keeping you back to be annoying


you often make them late for school as well.


you had an important test first thing in the morning.


It turns out you had a snow day after all.


You have to catch the bus in the morning.


not wanting to see my only aunt after 11 years

You should try to be supportive to your family when they need you

your family disowned you when you were still a minor


your family always has your back when you need help


they are involved in illegal activities.


you want your family to be supportive of you.


You should always be there to support your grandparents.

Your grandparents ask for illegal medication.


If your grandparents are asking for something reasonable.


Your grandparents hate you for being gay


They are unable to take care of themselves


You have a work function you cannot miss.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get drunk on a date.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get drunk on a date.

You're with someone you don't know well.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get drunk on a date.

your spouse is driving and says it's okay


not wanting to match with trans peeps on my dating app

It is okay to set boundaries in a relationship.

You don't care about having a healthy relationship.


You are part of a work group and are the new rookie.


Especially if it's a brand new relationship.


You have been overwhelmed with emotional labor


considering reporting restricted breeds to my apartment

If you break a rule, you should expect to have consequences.


You had to break a rule to save someone's life.


not wanting my boyfriends family to buy us furniture

It is okay to want to be fully independent.


you are too young to be legally independent.


you have been dependent for a long time, and you need to do it to feel self worth.


It's mean to tell someone that their voice doesn't sound good.


You are at a concert at an elementary school.


refusing to walk with my friend to a house party

It is ok to not walk with your friend to a house party if they have made you upset.


you were the only person who knew where the house party was and you promised to bring them.


It's dark and you need to see them there safely.


They just cheated on you with your partner.


Your friend doesn't know how to get to the party.


They are very upset too and could use your company.


You need some time to cool down and would only make matters worse if you accompanied them.


causing a "scene" at my house when people came over that blatantly don't like me

It's acceptable to be unwelcoming of unwanted guests in your home.


they are emergency personnel trying to save a family member's life.


ending my friendship with a close friend

Do not end a friendship for the wrong reason.


it was a one time thing that can be forgotten


There is no right reason for keeping the friendship going.


You would regret letting go after sharing so many years.


You're not interested in the friendship anymore.


If others are bringing food to an event, you should do the same.


The invite says to bring a dish to pass.


telling my boyfriend to stop talking and ignore his female friend

It is rude to interrupt someone's conversation.


You need to inform them of an emergency.


Especially if they're saying something important.


they are talking about something really important.


You have something extremely important to tell them and they need to hear it right away.


The people are focused on their conversation and you  have nothing very important to say.


It is hurtful when you exclude those that you care about.

Unless you are doing it for their safety.


You're excluding them from a dangerous mission.


You're excluding them from a family gathering.


You are excluding them because you don't want to expose them to your illness.


not letting friends of my friends stay at my moms' place

You should respect your parents' household.


they want you to conform to their racist views.


blocking someone who helped me a great deal while I was in a bad situation, but then going out of her way to introduce me to people who potentially put me in danger

You shouldn't block people who helped you out.


You just want to talk behind their backs.


THey are about to walk into oncoming traffic


THey are in a hurry to go somewhere else


They have an unhealthy obsession with you.


You might need their help in the future.


Especially if you may need their help again.


leaving the gym early, leaving my partner alone

It's okay to do things separately from your partner.


Especially if you have different interests.


It's wrong to kick people out of the house.


They were being violent and put your life in danger.


fidgeting with something while talking to my boyfriend

It is rude not to pay full attention when someone else is speaking.


It is a stranger harassing you on the subway


they are saying hateful, bigoted things.


the person is talking about something important.


The person speaking is going on and on and being repetitive without concern for others.


You're at a paid lecture with many people in the audience with you listening intently.


wanting my boyfriend to cut ties with his best friend

You should respect other people's relationships.

They're getting involved with drug dealers.


One person is being abusive towards another person in the relationship.


One person is taking advatage of the other.


The people are outside your circle of friends.


listening to my iPod while I go shopping

It's wrong to listen to music while you shop.

you are paying attention to your surroundings.


you are bumping into people and loudly singing.


it distracts you and causes you to act rudely


You're quietly listening to your headphones.


You crank up a portable speaker so loud everyone else has to listen to your music.


you have one ear available to listen to those around you


you are not paying attention to people around you


getting a kid kicked out of high school in freshman year

It is okay to speak up when someone is doing something wrong.


You are in a public place and no one else noticed.


The other person wants to figure it out themselves.


The person is a child already being reprimanded by their parent


making my friends and family upset for not seeing/talking with them much

You should try to spend time with your friends and family.


you don't have time because you are working three jobs to make ends meet.


You shouldn't ask for refunds on works of art.


Especially if you bought it from a charity.


The work of art in your possession is found to be an obvious fraud.


The work of art was exactly as promised and there's nothing wrong with it.


The piece is not what you had asked for.


THe artist worked very hard on the piece.


The art was totally not what you expected


The art was 99% what you wanted it to be


getting a phd student in trouble for not paying cover at a bar

Hypothesis: It's wrong to not pay cover at a bar.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not pay cover at a bar.

You plan on staying and drinking all night.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not pay cover at a bar.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not pay cover at a bar.

The cover charge is needed to pay workers


Hypothesis: It's wrong to not pay cover at a bar.

the cover charge is being donated to charity.


ratting on someone who caused property damage

It's good to turn in someone who has committed a crime.

The person's crime had no harmful effects.


The person's crime was violent and cruel.


The crime was victim-less and the consequences would be harmful to the person or deprive their family of income..


not allowing my grandfathers enablers at his funeral

It's okay to not want to be around or celebrate someones life with people who were hurting someone you cared about.


Unless it's for your child's birthday party.


You are the one who catered their party.


the situation has affected your mental state.


You are trying to be supportive of someone else they know.


You witnessed them hurt the people you care about.


criticizing my girlfriend for being disrespectful to a guy advertising a church group

One should explain proper behaviour to a partner instead of criticizing them.


criticism hurts your partner's feelings.


They keep making the same mistakes over and over.


They are younger than you and have less life experience.


They weren't aware they were doing anything wrong.


Your partner is from a different culture


charging a rapper for a beat after giving one for free

Hypothesis: It's wrong to always give out freebies.

you are hosting a table at an awareness campaign.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always give out freebies.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always give out freebies.

the person is homeless and really needs it to survive


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always give out freebies.

You are trying to cultivate a loyal customer


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always give out freebies.

Freebies damage the company's bottom line


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always give out freebies.

you are an employee and do not have your employer's permission


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always give out freebies.

it is part of your companies marketing plan.


yelling at my mother for hissing and distracting me as I was driving

It's wrong to yell at someone that's just trying to help you.


They are doing things better than you could


you have told them repeatedly that you don't want help.


they are trying to save you from drowning.


It's a fire and you're yelling them to get out.


You did not ask for help and they are being nosy


they can't hear you talk normally from far away


getting annoyed that some of my family won't call me by my chosen name

You should call someone what they want to be called.


they want to be called something offensive


They are in a different time zone and it is late.


They want to be called a name containing profanity.


They are small children playing make believe.


asking my bf to stay up with me to help me calm down

It's valiant to be there for your partner when they seek your aid.

they are trying to do something illegal.


You're the one who put your partner in danger in the first place.


You went above and beyond expectations to help your partner.


Your partner is asking for emotional support.


It's understandable to want others' food if your child is hungry.

it's because you don't care for your child


Your child is just refusing the food you have.


Your child just ate 30 minutes ago and is tired


you can grow your own food for when you don't have money.


you have no way of getting food for your child.


asking my group of friends(?) why they don't include me in outings

It is wrong when people exclude a friend in their social outings.


The friend is loud and obnoxious and would cause a scene.


That friend has kids and can't leave them alone


That friend has shunned them in favor of going out with a romantic interest


They are going somewhere that the person in questions loves visiting


not wanting to go to my dads girlfriend who I've never seen

It is okay to not want to go to a stranger's house.


You are on a date with someone you just met


You agreed to deliver an item they paid for.


They have a beware of dog sign outside their house.


wanting to pay when my friend's family did not want us to pay

Hypothesis: It's good to pay for your family.

You are an adult and expected to always pay for your adult siblings.


Hypothesis: It's good to pay for your family.

You are an adult paying for your children.


Hypothesis: It's good to pay for your family.

Your family is always using you for things.


Hypothesis: It's good to pay for your family.

It's a special occasion you invited them out for.


Hypothesis: It's good to pay for your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to pay for your family.

You are the only source of income in the family.


Hypothesis: It's good to pay for your family.

You have a tradition of buying eachothers' meals at restaurants


wanting another babysitter besides my mother in law

It is hurtful to tell your mother in law that you don't want them to babysit your child.

She dropped your baby and they got a bruise.


she was counting on spending time with the children.


Your mother in law is a former children's teacher.


asking people on the bus taking up an extra seat with a bag to move so I can sit down

Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for what you want.


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for what you want.


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for what you want.

You want someone else's personal property.


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for what you want.

you are ordering something in a restaurant.


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for what you want.

you're not used to speaking up when you want things


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for what you want.

You are accepting a gift from someone unexpectedly.


really hating my birthday gift and regretting getting her a good present

It is normal for people to give gifts without expecting anything in return.


It is part of a school gift exchange program.


You are celebrating someone else's birthday.


They are at a gift exchange party and are curious to see what others got them.


You want the receiver to feel truly special and loved.


They're traditional gifts for a wedding.


sticking up for my dad and telling our family friend to "knock it off" in a stern manner

It can be considered rude to tell someone else to stop doing something.


They are performing a medical procedure.


They are on a winning streak at gambling.


It is wrong to assume you will get a deal just because you are family.


Your family always gives a friends and family discount.


the family needs to make money on the sale.


You heard that your cousin got a discount.


Your family is trying to run a business.


not sharing with my coworkers that I was going through a divorce

It's wrong to keep secrets from your coworkers.


You're excluding other coworkers from a group project.


It is confidential information about your boss


It involves the work they are involved in


the information is classified and they don't have clearance.


It could save them from getting into trouble.


It involves them missing an important deadline.


Those secrets protect the dynamic of the workplace.


not wanting to give my parents my iTunes password

It is rude for your parents to ask for your password.

they found out you were sending nudes to someone


it is a rule in the house to share them.


They are asking for the password for your shared Netflix account.


They want to use it to pry in to your business.


You are a teenager who has been communicating online with a 40-year-old who wants to date you.


You have never given your parents any reason not to trust you.


not moving on easily after my Bf sends his dog back to the shelter

Hypothesis: You should not abandon pets.

They are rabid and trying to bite your child.


Hypothesis: You should not abandon pets.


Hypothesis: You should not abandon pets.

You adopted a wild animal that instinctively knows how to hunt.


Hypothesis: You should not abandon pets.

It's a domestic animal that can't take care of itself.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't date your friend's ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't date your friend's ex.

They still like them and want to be with them again.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't date your friend's ex.

You want to remain friends with your friend


Hypothesis: You shouldn't date your friend's ex.

Your friend doesn't mind you dating their ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't date your friend's ex.

Your friend gave you explicit permission.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't date your friend's ex.

Your friend didn't give you explicit permission.


taking another job with a way higher pay, 3-4 months after getting hired at my current workplace

You shouldn't leave an employer in a bad situation.

They yelled at you every day you worked there.


Your employer is doing something illegal.


you are the only one the employer can depend on.


It is your responsibility to fix the issue


not wanting my family to stay with me? I feel like my mom is doing this to torture me

Sometimes families need space from each other to get along.


it is culturally inappropriate to do so.


They are all sick and depend on each other for support.


There are spouses involved that not everyone likes.


being super annoyed with people that give Christmas cards

Sending Christmas cards is a tradition, it is irrational to be angry at people for participating.

They are being sent to Jehovah Witnesses.


people have freely chosen to participate.


They write slanderous messages in the cards.


It is expected to get to know a parent's partner.

They're much younger than you and you can't stand to be around them.


especially if they're about  to get married.


You want to ask for your partner's hand in marriage.


They don’t want to introduce you to them.


You want to ask the parent for your partners hand in marriage.


threatening to breakup with my girlfriend of 4 years because she will not tell her parents about me

People in a relationship should respect each other.


They want the relationship to last a long time.


They want to stay together for a long time.


They want their relationship to be long-term.


neither person has earned the other's respect.


they want to have a successful relationship.


being disappointed in not recieving a gift from my boyfriend

It's impolite to expect to receive gifts.


You have not given gifts to anyone over the past few years


Hypothesis: It's dirty to have animals in your bed.


Hypothesis: It's dirty to have animals in your bed.

They were just rolling around in the mud.


being mad at my classmate for making empty promises and screwing me over because of it

It's wrong to be upset at your classmate.

Your classmate copied your homework without permission.


Your classmate was called on instead of you.


Unless your classmate got caught cheating and said it was your idea.


They didn't do anything intentional to you.


What you're telling them is for their own good.


they've been consistently rude and unfair to you


they just made a joke which offended you


You should always stand up for yourself.

you know it will make you a target for violence.


someone is trying to take advantage of you.


You are told to give them your lunch money.


A kid is constantly being bullied at school.


You're surrounded by a motorcycle gang of outlaws.


It's rude insert yourself in other peoples business if you are not asked to.


You don't understand the situation adequately


You can see the person is a threat to themselves or others.


They are responsible adults who don't need your input.


Partners should be willing to do favors for each other.

One partner seems to be doing all the favors.


those favors involve doing things that would make the other uncomfortable


they specialize in skills the favors require


one is always doing the favors and the other never reciprocates.


it is a special occasion for one of them.


asking my friends not to smoke in the car

People are expected to be respectful of others.


They made bad remarks about your children.


not going to a good friends bday party because I really don't get along with half the other guests and don't want to spoil the evening, neither for me nor for her

It is reasonable to not want to attend an event that you don't know people at.


accidentally opening the door on my bf's roommate in the shower

You should knock before entering a room.


It's your child's room and you're trying to teach them about boundaries.


Someone is choking on the other side of the door.


shouting at my neighbours after one of them entered my flat without permission

It's not okay to enter someone else's home without permission first.


you are a police officer with a warrant.


the person is very private about their home.


Their front door is open and there is screaming coming from inside.


They have a sign that says private property.


You are the police searching for a suspect.


You break the window to get into the house.


being angry that my mom woke me up early

You shouldn't hold a grudge at a family member for trying to help you.

They destroyed your property in process.


they are providing you financial support.


You asked them to let you prove that you could do the job yourself.


They took the day off work to help you at your request.


The family member told everyone your business


They think you can’t do things on your own


asking my roommate to get a handle on his lose hair in the apartment

It's mature to clean up messes that you didn't make.

it's by a roommate who never cleans up after themselves


you're enabling others to continue to be messy


the mess was made by a child too young to clean up after themselves


You're an inmate doing community service.


denying my co-worker's request to take every Monday off all summer long

Your co-worker should have a good reason for the request.


They are the only one requesting that day off work.


Many other people are requesting the same day off work.


Your job sometimes requires you do do things that don't make sense to you.


accepting casino cashier paying me extra $25 after warning her she gave me too much

You should tell someone that they paid you too much money.

They owe you money they have no intention of paying back


They gave it to you as a tip for being a great bartender.


They accidentally gave you too much money.


They are prepaying for next month's rent.


You are not honest and want to keep the money.


You are honest and want to be trustworthy.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't have sex with ex's.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't have sex with ex's.

You are both single and it is consensual.


calling out my best friends for fighting over our guy friend

You should avoid conflict with friends over romantic interests.


You have been friends with them for years


You know that someone is cheating on them and have to tell them to protect them.


You want to keep those friends and have them respect your social life too.


Your friends are attempting to steal your significant other.


They are married to someone they deeply love.


They are doing something behind your back.


not wanting to go to Kenya with my girlfriend and her family

Avoiding your significant other's family is not supportive.


Your partner is estranged from their family and never interacts with them.


Your partner is close to their family and invites them over all the time.


Your significant other needs your help with them.


Your significant other is avoiding them also.


Your significant other asked you to speak to them.


It is rude to block others from using public items.

the items are damaged and pose a risk to users.


you are being greedy and just using them for yourself.


You overheard them saying they will break it.


You are blocking them because of their looks.


It's OK to take control of your own diet.

You have medically necessary dietary needs.


You have a good idea how to eat healthy.


you need to be on a very controlled diet due to an illness.


your family eats things you are not comfortable with.


You don’t know how to make good fresh food


You are a child and must eat what you are served.


You want to eat healthy and lose weight.


You are only required to handle your own work, not everyone else's.


There are part-timers and temporary employees who can fill in.


You aren't being compensated for the extra work.


You have a co-worker that's sick in bed with the flu.


You're already overwhelmed with your own work.


You are paid for a different responsibility.


not helping my siblings clean the kitchen after work

It is rude to not pick up after yourself.

You live alone and it won't burden anyone.


You share a house with several roommates.


You are in your workplace cafeteria and have just finished eating.


You have a roommate and you left a mess in the kitchen.


not wanting my moms bf over all the time and "getting in the way" of their relationship

It is mean to interfere somebody else's relationship.


You know nothing about their relationship


You're an acquaintance of the people in the relationship.


You are projecting your own beliefs onto them.


You are exposing someone who is cheating


It is not your fault is someone else cannot keep track of their animal.


Especially if they don't keep their fences fixed.


They are your neighbor and keep letting it get in your yard.


you gave it to them fully aware that they might not be able too


You are a pet sitter working for a family.


refusing an Ambulance after Doctor insisted on it

Doctors should always try to do everything to help their patients.

The patient has expressed that they are not interested in more treatment.


They know they can save them from a life of pain.


the illness is terminal and the patient has requested to stop treatments.


the patients are in a great deal of pain.


They care more about patients than profits.


calling out my ex-roommates' abuse of their puppy and paying partial rent in fives and ones as I moved out

Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

Your debt has not been paid for a long time


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

The obligations would be harmful to you.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

You promised they would be done by a certain date.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

You are a stay at home mom while your spouse works.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

You don't want to get evicted for not paying rent.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

You are being shaken down by the mob and they need their money before your other obligations.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

You are a popular celebrity in the media.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.

You would be supporting a bad organization.


Hypothesis: You should pay your obligations.


calling out the person taking/touching all of the free pizza samples

It's wrong to mess with food that isn't yours.


You shouldn't cut someone off without explanation.


They are well aware of what they have done.


They are a close friend or family member.


you're going to forget you're going to say if you don't say it


They have physically harmed you and you are afraid of them.


They have done nothing wrong and you are just afraid of commitment.


not piggybacking through the gate of a gated community when I'm making a food delivery and that customer didn't give me a gate code

You shouldn't give your gate code to strangers.

They are emergency personnel and it is an emergency.


They are wearing ski masks over their face and its not cold outside.


They are an emergency responder and need to get onto the property.


You'd be letting them into the whole neighborhood.


You should make time to listen and discuss issues with your friends.


Those issues have nothing to do with them.


You know they want to be a part of your recovery.


You need to administer an important test.


they are being ignorant and not listening to your opinions.


your behavior has caused a rift in the friendship.


getting mad that my long distance bf didn't call me on NYE

It's unreasonable to expect your significant other to call you when you could have called them yourself.

Your partner promised to call every night before bed.


Your partner forgets to make phone calls often.


You just talked with them an hour later.


breaking up with my girlfriend and starting to date her best friend

It's rude to date your ex's best friend.


They are wealthy and you need a costly operation.


They live in the same neighborhood as your ex.


arguing with my wife over a mattress, and in conjunction obligations to family

You should compromise with your significant other when it comes to family obligations.

You want to make each obligation a time of conflict.


You want to set a good example of cooperation for your children.


You have children together and both work outside the home.


you have personal obligations that are of a serious nature.


it is only a small thing, like going to a family dinner with them.


It interferes with your ability to provide for the family.


You haven't been spending enough time with them.


not even bothering to entertain the idea of having kids

You will be lonely if you don't have children.

You don't think you'll make a good parent.


You have many friends and family members for social support.


You do not have any friends or a spouse.


You simply can't stand being around children.


You get old and there's nobody to share your life with.


It is polite to let someone know they smell bad.


that person is close to you and you tell them in private


You let them know loudly in front of a large group of people.


The smell is a distraction in the workplace.


They have a health condition and can't do anything about it.


It's something easily changed like there's something on their shoe.


It is your overweight grandmother that cannot reach certain places.


They are headed out the door for a job interview.


It's okay to help someone who you care about when they really need you.


They were cheating on you with your neighbor.


They were recently diagnosed with a serious disease.


they are always there when you need them.


They are asking you to support their alcohol problem.


They gave you a place to stay when you were homeless.


not understanding the duties of a groomsman

It's wrong to not go out of your way and learn something small for a person that cares about you.


You know that they would not do the same.


They have asked you to learn something for them.


The subject material is something you have great difficulty understanding.


reporting you to your supervisor after you climbed through a window, stole a lamp and then broke the door on the way out

It is unacceptable to climb into someone's window uninvited.

There is a fire in the house and you hear barking.


People are expected to go home for the holidays.


They are in the military and did not get leave.


Their loved ones have gotten the guest room ready and purchased presents.


They have a large family waiting for them


wanting to put a hiatus on my veganism because my mental health isn't doing so hot

It is okay to make life changes for yourself.


it means you are neglecting responsibilities to your children.


you are trying to follow your lifelong dream.


Your job is causing you severe distress.


What you've been doing thus far isn't working very well.


Sometimes it is ok to block someone on instagram.


That person is dependent on you liking their stuff for their self worth.


it is a parent who is monitoring their child's activity.


you're just angry and will change your mind again


You want the greatest number of followers you can get.


They have stalked or left toxic comments on your profile.


telling my friend she wasn't sexually assaulted

Hypothesis: You shouldn't sexually assault people.

Unless you are acting in a film about the subject.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't sexually assault people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't sexually assault people.

You don't want to be put on the sex offender registry.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't sexually assault people.

You are doing it while acting for a movie


You shouldn't expect your kids to like your new partner.

your new partner is very kind and treats them very well.


you have just started dating them after divorcing the parent of your children.


They already knew and liked them before you got together.


It's only been a short time since you left their parent.


You introduce them to your kids slowly and let the relationship naturally progress.


They are still upset about your divorce.


you act like you are trying to replace the other parent.


dropping my sisters old laptop and not thinking it as much of a big deal

You have to recognize that what is important to other people might not always be the same things that are important to you.

your a doctor and the patient is refusing the necessary treatment


you proposed to your girlfriend but she is not ready to get married.


you are all in the same class and require the same information.


you come from very different walks of life than the other people.


looking for a new nanny because my current (but new) nanny has updated her profile and logged in most days to the nanny website where I found her

People are under no obligation to be loyal to their employer.


They have signed a contract to work for them for a certain number of years.


They receive a more attractive job offer from a different company.


they have other opportunities lined up also


not getting a birthday gift for my two year old nephew? general gift giving etiquette

You should always give gifts to your family for their birthday.


You are low on cash and can't get them anything.


They always give you a gift on your birthday.


You are saving up for a major car repair.


They have always given you a gift or card for your birthday.


Your family has no gift-giving tradition


telling a girl I don't want to talk until closer to our date

It's good to establish boundaries in your personal relationships.


You've already been married for decades.


taking a job as a ring card girl for a local MMA show

People might think you're trashy if you work as a card girl for a fight.


You tell them that it helps pay the bill.


You dress in a similar attire when you are not at work.


You have a great reputation as a trustworthy employee.


You dress like a tart and flirt with all the men.


thinking I'm being scammed, pressuring them for info

Hypothesis: It's good to look out for scams.


Hypothesis: It's good to look out for scams.

you are going to be buying stuff over the internet


Hypothesis: It's good to look out for scams.


Hypothesis: It's good to look out for scams.

You know elderly individuals who are not that tech-savvy


There's nothing wrong with having more friends.

You spend so much time with your friends you don't work on your homework.


You don't have time for the ones you have now.


You don’t know how to split time between all your friends you already have


you neglect your old friends in favor of the new ones.


you are trying to build your social network.


wanting to file a complaint about my former boss

It's ok to report your boss's misconduct.


You know he'll fire you for a fabricated cause if you do.


Your company is scrupulous about protecting whistle-blowers.


It is harming no one and benefiting someone deserving.


He is stealing money from the company's retirement fund.


rejecting someone who wanted more from a "hookup"

Hypothesis: It's okay to want more from a hookup.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want more from a hookup.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want more from a hookup.

you're wanting someone to do something they don't want to do


Hypothesis: It's okay to want more from a hookup.

you've been picking up vibes that there's a deeper connection


Hypothesis: It's okay to want more from a hookup.

Unless you were only looking for a hookup.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want more from a hookup.

They said they wanted to go on a date with you after


requesting that my roommates to wash their hands after using the bathroom

It is okay to expect cleanliness from others.


Their mother folds all of their clothes for them.


getting frustrated with my sick boyfriend's constant bad mood

Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to your partner.

They take care of your children every day.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to your partner.

Your partner wants to help you eliminate the cause of your unhappiness.


giving my Ex an Honest Tenant Recommendation

Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with others

you have been sworn to secrecy about something.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with others


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with others

They are threatening to physically harm you.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with others

You are speaking to the police about a robbery.


It is rude to refuse a meal made for you.

You are trying to make a good first impression on your new partners parents.


You explained that you were a vegetarian and they made lamb


The meal contains something that will give you an allergic reaction.


Your significant other sent a long time cooking it for you.


The meal obviously violates your religious dietary restrictions.


It fits into your diet and people worked hard to make it and would be upset.


telling my gf that she should be paying for half of our living expenses

It's okay to expect your partner to share in paying for living expenses when you live together.


they are lazy and do not want to help out


watching a movie with gay characters with 11-year-old I babysit without asking her parents

You shouldn't expect your babysitter to follow all the rules when they babysit your kids.


You are overprotective of your children.


You wrote all the rules down and they are reasonable


You let them know you have a "nanny" camera in every room.


They are very basic rules for the safety of your kids.


Your rules are excessively detailed and long.


telling my dad hes too old to find a job he really wants to do

It's good to be honest with your family.


You are allowing he children to believe in fairy tales.


telling them the truth will cause a large fight.


You know your life could be in danger if they know the truth.


YOu know you'll need help only they can provide


Your family will judge you and be hurtful.


You shouldn't just throw out a good relationship.

You are mentally ill and don't want the person to have to deal with your dark side.


The person is devoted to you and willing to do anything you want to stay with you.


You are moving abroad and have no other choice.


The relationship has been very meaningful in the past, and will be in the future.


not believing my Mom Suffers Memory Loss

People shouldn't doubt the word of others.


The person is their own child who has never told a lie.


The person they doubt has told too many lies in the past.


The other person has a history of lying.


The other person always tells the truth.


It is rude to ask for inappropriate photos, even in a relationship.

The other person is okay with sending them to you.


The person doesn't like taking pictures.


The other person is thinking of becoming a nun.


You're asking for them from your employee.


The person has already offered, you declined and they wanted you to say something if you changed your mind


You are both religious and waiting for marriage to have sex.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

You are having a formal party and the friends are loud and obnoxious.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

You exclude your best friends but invite only acquaintances.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

you didnt invite them even thought they wanted to be there


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

The friends have always invited you to outings.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

Your friends don't always get along with each other


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude friends.

You are planning on inviting all but one


You should be willing to help your friends.

They start to become dependent on your assistance.


You have the power to transform their lives


The never want to help you when you need it.


It's wrong to tell people what they must do.

You are their parent and they are children.


It's not any of your business what they decide.


You are disciplining your own young children.


You are a gymnastics coach and preparing for a tournament.


They are trying to make their own success.


still being upset about an incident 5 years ago

You should let go of resentment and anger.


This is preventing you from moving on with your life


You do that want it to bother you anymore.


you want to move on from a bad relationship


coming out to my extended family even though my parents don't want me to

It's wrong for your parents to make you conceal things.

You are a minor and your identity needs to be protected.


You found out about your sibling's christmas presents.


Your guests are known thieves who will steal any valuables left in the open.


The court-appointed psychologist requires your honesty to make a sound custody recommendation.


You are hiding a refugee from an authoritarian regime


becoming jealous when my best friend tells me about the girls that he's talking to

It's okay to tell your friend about members of the opposite sex that you are talking to.


Your friend is interested in one of them.


It's someone your friend has a crush on.


You think they'd be a good match for your friend.


you are sleeping with one of those members who is also going out with your friend


It's good to address strangers politely.


The strangers are much older than you are.


they are drunk and  trespassing on your property.


you are asking them for advice or directions.


they intentionally popped one of your tires


It's fine to choose any seat that you prefer.

It is a plane ticket with an assigned seat.


There is a pregnant woman that wants to sit down.


You're in your own home and have many chairs to choose from.


The host tells you to choose whichever seat you would like.


not wanting my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him

It is expected that you trust your significant other

Your significant other is cheating on you


They have proven unreliable in the past.


They have shown they trust you completely.


They have been texting other people behind your back.


They have never given you a reason not to trust them.


calling my coworker out for coming in sick so often

Some people have different circumstances and that is okay.

their circumstances are the result of immoral behavior


their circumstances cause no harm to anyone else


The circumstances are threatening to other people.


they were forced there through segregation


They use it as an excuse to steal your car.


They don't fit in and this leads to unpleasant interactions all around.


They fit in well and get along with everyone around them.


creating a positive attitude to the point of dis-ingenuity

Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.

you're not really sure if you want to get the real tattoo yet


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.

you're underage but you want your using a forged id to buy beer.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.

You don’t want people to know you are sad


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fake things.

You're faking that you still love your partner even when you want to break up with them.


not wanting my wife to get another job and take a 50% pay cut

It is okay to want to spend more time with a spouse.

They screamed at you in front of your parents.


Your spouse is cheating on you and you know about it


They have asked  you for more space and "me" time.


You have been separated because of military service.


You should apologize when you've done something bad.

It was revenge for someone shooting your son.


It put an innocent person in the hospital.


Unless you did it to save someone from harm.


Your mistake cost the company a lot of clients


You aren't sorry that you tripped the person who just mugged a woman.


You feel horrible about being caught talking about someone behind their back.


calling out a moderator for deleting every single persons reply because his got negative reviews

It is wrong to delete things people wrote just because you are upset with them.


You're upset that they violated the clearly stated terms of service of your website.


The writing is filled with profanity and offensive remarks.


The writing is engraved on a public landmark.


If a phrase is unsourced or untrue, it is best to delete it regardless of personal feelings.


The paper was a result of multiple people's contribution.


cutting off my friend over a girl and Xbox

It's bad to stop being friends with someone for petty reasons.


The friendship has been falling apart anyway.


You were already planning on breaking apart from them.


You never valued the friendship to begin with.


You have been friends with them since childhood.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to debate your teachers.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to debate your teachers.

Your teacher made a mistake in the course.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to debate your teachers.

Your teacher is trying to teach another group of students.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to debate your teachers.

You are in debate class and they are testing you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to debate your teachers.

Your teacher is known to be mean to students who disagree with them.


breaking up a corrupt relationship in the way that I did

You should try to end relationships in a good way.


The other person broke up with you first.


You want to stay close friends with your ex.


the other person refuses to remain friends with exes


you value their friendship despite not being a good match


you're trying to scare the person away from contacting you again


you'll still be going to school with the other person


not wanting to take my nephew on a trip with me and my kids to visit my in-laws

You shouldn't be obligated to take other distant family members on personal family trips.

Your niece has been bullied and you want her to experience something nice.


The rest of your family really wants to invite them.


Everyone else going on the trip loathes them.


You have already told them they can come along.


You cannot afford to take extra people with you.


telling my friend I don't think her boyfriend has good intentions

It's okay to be honest with your friends.

you are protecting them in some way from keeping something from them.


Your honesty will cause them a lot of pain.


Your honesty might help them improve their health.


They always share their secrets with you.


You shouldn't threaten divorce just to get your way.


You have no intention of following through


You do not want to upset the other person.


You only want to pick where you go to eat.


You want to maintain a healthy relationship.


It's OK for your to choose a role that suits you better.

you do not have the qualifications to change positions at your job.


it helps you to advance your career to a new level.


You barely made the cut for the school play.


Your current role causes you many sleepless nights.


you need a job so bad that you'll take anything


you want to have more success in your career


you are contractually committed to keeping your current role


cutting off relationship with mom over her comments about my weight

It is mean to stop talking to your mother


you have just finished a long conversation


the conversation was not over or complete


She's deaf and she couldn't actually hear you.


She didn't do anything to deserve the silent treatment.


taking control of my direct deposit paycheck back

Hypothesis: It's good to take control.


Hypothesis: It's good to take control.


Hypothesis: It's good to take control.

You are riding in the back of a police car.


Hypothesis: It's good to take control.

You have to learn how to take respinsibility.


breaking up with someone because of their best friend

You shouldn't break up with someone just because you don't like their friends.

The friends are overly intrusive in the relationship.


You're able to not interact their friends if you don't want to.


they said they will not never tell their friends to be nicer


you really want to continue the relationship with them


You are able to get along with their friends when you're around them.


They don't side with you when one of their friends punches you.


They're very nice to your friends despite not liking them.


having a good time with my "ex's" friend

You should not start a relationship to spite someone.


You do not want to hurt your partners feelings.


the other person knows what you're doing


the person you're starting the relationship with is aware of your plan


the person your in the relationship with is not aware


you do truly have feelings for your partner


the only reason for the relationship is to harm someone else


You want the relationship to work out in the end.


telling my boyfriend that he has an unhealthy relationship with his son

It's not okay to try and get between two family members relationship.


one is your spouse, and the other is a very controlling parent.


you are doing it out of jealousy because they are so close.


it is obvious the relationship isnt good


Those two family members are your children.


You are trying to stop abuse from happening.


You are trying to break up a husband and wife.


not wanting my bf to invite his friend to our wedding

You should let your boyfriend have a say in your wedding.

you want the wedding dress to be a surprise.


He doesn't want to be involved in the planning.


You want him to feel included in the wedding.


He has strong opinions about the wedding.


not trying to get my friends life together

We should try to encourage friends to make good decisions.

They have asked us to mind our own business.


We can see they might be headed in a bad direction.


The friends are considering bad decisions.


they specifically said not to get involved


Our friends are struggling to find their way.


calling out "friend" in group chat about his study ethic

It is acceptable to tell someone they are wrong in a group chat.


you are not a part of it but you are just spying


they are obviously going to get in to trouble


They asked for people to tell them when they were wrong.


You are all trying to work on a school project.


You are a teacher and they are students.


asking my friend to reimburse me 150$ for my phone screen she broke

Hypothesis: It is rude to ask a friend for money.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ask a friend for money.

You are asking for a large sum of money.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ask a friend for money.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ask a friend for money.

you need the money to keep from being evicted.


taking a new job and underestimating the amount of taxes that would be taken out of my signing bonus to my wife

Hypothesis: There should be trust in a marriage.

The bride was kidnapped from her family.


Hypothesis: There should be trust in a marriage.


Hypothesis: There should be trust in a marriage.

the marriage has broken down and you're together for the children


Hypothesis: There should be trust in a marriage.

you wish to grow a strong committed relationship


Hypothesis: There should be trust in a marriage.

One has already broken it and needs to prove themself before they can be trusted again.


Hypothesis: There should be trust in a marriage.

YOu want to have a healthy relationship.


Hypothesis: There should be trust in a marriage.

They are in a long distance relationship


telling my gay aquaintence that a person is not a homophobe if they use the word "fag" once

It's expected that most people have said the word "fag" once.


The person's language doesn't have the word fag.


telling my mom that I wont be talking to her about my personal life anymore

After you become an adult, it's expected that your parents will respect your decisions.


they know that your decisions are not appropriate for a situation


you've asked them for space and comfort to do so


You are still living under their roof and not paying any money towards rent or bills.


You are a 41 year old married woman and know that you don't want children.


You have a good job and take care of yourself


calling out my dirty suite mate in front of his girlfriend

People are allowed to criticize household members for not keeping the home clean.


They are not doing their assigned chores.


They work 60 hours a week and do not have time to clean.


They do not work and are in the home all day.


the home is messy because people are lazy.


arguing with a woman who took my spot in line

It's fine to argue with someone who has done something wrong to you.

You know it's pointless and just makes things worse with them.


YOu want them to learn not to take advantage of you.


They are your boss and arguing with them could negatively impact your job.


They are not your boss and doing so will not cause any negative consequences.


They don't believe they did anything wrong.


you are persistent and unfair in argument


It's your child that did something wrong.


blocking and unfriending a friend we've had one way communication for 8 years

It is expected that you would unfriend someone if the communication is one way.

They're going through a rough patch in their life.


It's been that way the whole friendship.


they have just not had time to respond because they are travelling.


they always ignore you even when it is important.


They have been really busy with work and school.


They are communicating regularly with others.


you keep hoping for the situation to change.


cutting contact with my ex-girlfriend a month after having cheated

One shouldn't cheat on a romantic partner.


You want to maintain a monogamous relationship.


You are in an open relationship and they are okay with it.


telling my co worker that she is a hypocrite for not letting me have a day off

You shouldn't get mad at your coworkers.

they stole things from your office before


They are rude and inconsiderate to you and hurtful.


They are kind and helpful to you and cover for you when you are gone.


They purposefully sabotaged your project.


You have to work with them on a daily basis.


You should tell people why you are unhappy with a relationship.

The other person has broken off the relationship first.


Both of you can find a solution to the problems.


You want to maintain a healthy relationship.


mentioning to my boyfriend that I like the idea of a threesome

It's healthy for couples to talk openly about their emotional and physical needs.


They want the relationship to last a long time.


They are thinking about getting married and spending the rest of their lives together.


they're doing it in a public place like a church


they're trying to build trust with each other


it causes problems in their relationship


being upset that boyfriend is gifting $20 state tax credit to his brother

You shouldn't be jealous of a boyfriend giving someone to their brother.

Your boyfriend gave him something he promised you


You thought you had a better match for the brother.


being upset with my gf for constantly bringing up ex and their sex life

It is rude to talk about exes in a new relationship.


There is something both can learn from a failed relationship.


There is comparison going on between new and old partners.


Your date specifically asks you about that subject.


You go into details about your previous relationships.


Your partner doesn't like when you talk about your ex.


You know it will only end badly to discuss it.


locking my cousin out after he did to me multiple times

sometimes it is ok to give people a taste of their own medicine


putting extra hours on my time sheet at my job because I've been told every week for the past eight months that my raise would "be on my next check"

Employees shouldn't falsify time cards at work

It will help a coworker pay their debt to the mob before things become violent.


their boss said that they have permission


Their manager is instructing them to do so.


not wanting my kid to be a year older than everyone else in their grade

It's understandable to want your child to be in the proper grade.

They are really struggling and should be held back.


They can't pass tests and need to be held back.


You can see they are doing fine in their classes.


your child is seriously struggling with some grade-level subjects


you want them to socialize among peers their age


your child is not preforming up to grade standards.


not telling my judgy best friend about me hooking up with a mutual friend

It's normal to keep things from someone who passes judgement

You are hiding stolen items from the police.


You are hiding your hobby from someone who criticizes it.


It's an urgent matter you need to tell them about.


You know that the truth will come out anyway.


It's your boss and you know you have to report to them as part of your job.


They are a parent who doesn't understand your lifestyle.


going on a weekend while my dad is spending all his time renovating my house

Going away without helping a relative work on your house can cause a bit of drama to occur between them.


You promised to help them prior to leaving.


You had your trip planned months in advance


they were aware that you had a commitment.


asking my parents to stay off their phones when we spend time together

It's good to spend time with your family.


You have the flu and don’t want to get them sick.


telling my husband I'd sleep with him more if he kept his haircut

It is good to be honest about your opinions.


They would hurt the feelings of someone who is there.


You want others to get to know you better.


you are running for the presidential office


You are telling a friend they look unattractive in an outfit.


A classmate asks for your critique on an essay.


You need to tell a white lie to keep from hurting someone's feelings.


You are trying to instruct a student and you think they should pursue a different degree.


shorting a tip because the service staff assumed I was someone's mother

You should not be offended if someone mistakes you for being a parent.

You are having dinner with two children.


You are overweight and they ask when the baby is due.


You are at a park being nice to your cousin


You are walking with your little brother.


It was insulting towards your appearance.


wanting to break up with my boyfriend unless he stops giving his mother a portion of his income

It's rude to ask your partner to choose between the relationship and their family.

Their family is making you totally uncomfortable


You cannot live with your partner if they are with their parents


The family has not done anything to offend you


Their family is causing harm to your child.


Their family would be supportive of the relationship.


not wanting my bf to see someone else when we hadn't discussed the relationship be exclusive

It's wrong not to have an exclusive relationship.


Your partner doesn't want an open relationship.


you are only interested in casual dating.


you are married and have children together.


you made it very clear in the beginning that you were going to see other people.


that is the agreement that you made with your partner.


being upset that my close friend/ex uninvited me from his birthday party because he is seeing someone else

It's okay to want to attend the events of people we care about.

It's a marriage of which you don't agree


those people don't want us there because of things we've done to them


You don't drive and would have to take a 10 hour train to get to the event.


They would drop everything to attend your event.


The events are once-in-a-lifetime events


arguing with a classmate about his learning disability

People should show respect to those who are differently abled.


They spit in your face after you offered them help.


They need the care and support of the community.


They are walking behind someone physically impaired.


You shouldn't expect your grandchildren to always want to talk to you.

You are terminally ill and only have a short time left to live.


Your grandchildren are very busy at work.


you are very old and dying, and want to share your final moments with them.


they are very busy with their own lives.


They live in another country and have a different culture.


getting mad at my depressed boyfriend for forcing me to role play his stories to make him happy

You shouldn't expect a partner to do things she's not comfortable with.

She's afraid to even leave her apartment.


The thing she's not comfortable with is physically painful for her.


She is in the process of giving birth and it will help the process.


You are having a heart attack and you need chest compression.


She has asked you to help push her out of her comfort zone.


putting my shirt in my mouth, and expressing that I felt my wife was rude for slapping my hand and shirt away from my mouth

Hypothesis: Slapping someone is always wrong.

Someone is attacking you and you act in self defense.


Hypothesis: Slapping someone is always wrong.


Hypothesis: Slapping someone is always wrong.

You slap your partner on the butt in a playful way.


Hypothesis: Slapping someone is always wrong.

You slap a coworker in the face at work.


considering not inviting my mom to my wedding

It is hurtful to not invite your close family to your wedding


Your parents have been saving money for your wedding since you were a child.


Your family would cause a scene in front of the guests.


Your family contributed financially to the wedding.


It's wrong not to consider other people and how they live.


You are open to new viewpoints, traditions and habits to follow.


someone does not have the mental ability to do so.


Your roommate is a recovered alcoholic and you want to throw a party with beer.


asking my cat-loving friend to stop sending me snapchats of them

When your friends are spamming your phone, it's okay to ask them to stop.


Every text they send you costs you money.


They have gotten in a car crash and need your help.


not wanting to attend/participate in a coworkers baby-shower

It's understandable to not want to attend a coworker's event.

A lot of other coworkers will be at the event.


You feel it woud be awkward during your free time.


your coworker, who is one of your best friends, is being honored with an award and has asked you to attend.


your coworker undermines you and puts you down in front of your boss.


You prefer to not attend co-workers social events.


being mad that my artwork doesnt recieve more attention than my sisters anime fanart

Siblings should celebrate each others victories.

You are super competitive and take their win as a challenge.


You want your sibling to be proud of their achivements.


They are playing against each other in video games.


One of the siblings cheated on the way to victory.


They are trying to maintain a good relationship.


giving my two friends who are girls souvenirs from my trip, even though my girlfriend disapproves of it

It's inappropriate to tell your boyfriend who he can be friends with.

Your boyfriend is trying to be friends with young teenage girls.


Your boyfriend makes all of his friends at work.


He has amnesia and cannot remember who his friends are.


One of his friends is a dangerous person.


He's an adult and can handle his business.


his friends are harassing you almost constantly


adding stipulations to how I'd pay for my children's colleges

It is not right to change a deal part way through.

You find out the other party has misrepresented things.


You have an obligation to do it a certain way through a contract.


there was a contract outlining the deal signed