not really wanting specific plans on my birthday

Part of birthday celebrations is having everyone involved, which isn't possible when someone is lazy about making plans.

The person is sick and cannot respond right away.


People keep forgetting to respond to the group text.


That person is not feeling well enough to contribute


That lazy individual claims to be your best friend


there is always someone there to pick up the slack.


No one knows if the person is being lazy


The present involved requires the entire group to be present.


making jokes/comments about my roommate being sick

You should aid those you love in their times of need.

they've said they prefer not to be helped by you


those you love have aided you in times of need.


It's fine to be friendly with people outside of your relationship as long as you don't physically cheat.


You want to maintain  your relationship with your partner.


You are long time friends with those people.


not doing anything on my boyfriend's birthday

It's acceptable to want your significant other to spend time with you on your birthday.


your significant other has to work on your birthday.


you don't want to spend your birthday alone.


You never told them when your birthday was.


there is party for you and you want them to be there.


You shouldn't back out of things you promised to do.

You find out they are connected to something that makes you uncomfortable.


You promised to watch someone's child while they go to work.


You promised a friend dinner but had to cancel due to a medical emergency.


You promised to turn in an important project to your boss.


not wanting to spend time with my parents

It's good to have some time by yourself.


You want to use the time to hurt yourself.


You spend ALL your time by yourself and never have company.


You're very social otherwise and need some downtime to recharge.


not wanting to be more involved with my boyfriend's friends

It's okay to not like everyone your significant other is friends with.


they are people important to your significant other's possible promotion.


changing my mind about driving my gf to work but offering to get her an Uber there instead

It is expected that partners will help each other in times of need.


The partners are in an argument with each other.


They live on opposite sides of the country.


following a volleyball player on Instagram next to my girlfriend

It's not wrong to follow other people besides your partner on social media.

you have friends who also use it but they want you to follow them


you do not have any other friends who use the social media


You follow people based on mutual interests like hobbies and literature.


You're having an affair with someone you're following.


You spend so much time on social media that you get fired from your job.


You're following people you think are more attractive than your partner


asking my roommates to pay equal shares of the electric bill

Roommates are expected to share all the costs of living equally.


Both roommates have high paying careers.


One roommate has their own personal bathroom, while the others all share one.


Everyone has the same sized room and share one bathroom.


someone has access to more of the space than another.


everything in the space is split equally.


It's hurtful to ignore your significant other.


Your significant other keeps repeating herself.


Your significant other is worried about constantly repeating things.


they are trying to have a productive conversation with you


you're caught up with work, school, and the kids


you're doing it intentionally to get a response out of them


not messaging my coworker to see if she's ok

It is okay to not be close to co workers.


Especially if you have different interests.


you don't see or talk to these people outside of work.


Your co-workers are your family members and they love you.


Your co-workers are complete strangers and you have nothing in common with them.


being upset that my girlfriend made plans with another guy on Valentine's weekend

Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected in a relationship.

Especially if you are committed to each other.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected in a relationship.

the relationship is an open relationship.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected in a relationship.

You're in a relationship with a crimminal.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected in a relationship.

The other person has done something seriously wrong.


attempting to confront my wife's lover and trespassing in his home

It's bad to have another lover if you are married.

Your spouse is seeing that person as well.


giving the police information on how my friend committed crime

It's good to give the police information about a crime.


You are arrested and are awaiting your lawyer


You saw a person kill one of your family members.


getting upset with my dad for kissing my baby

You shouldn't get upset with your parents over their displays of affection.

They are taking it too far with heavy petting and kissing in the living room


It is modest and endearing and doesn't offend others


Unless you can tell they are being fake.


not tipping a delivery driver who was super late

If you don't do a good job, you shouldn't expect to be rewarded.


you weren't provided with the tools to do a good job.


it was expected you would do a good job.


Especially if the rewards are merit based.


You were expected to fail from the start, but were taking a tactical retreat


You shouldn't tell your roommate what to do.

Your roommate agreed to follow your lead


You are telling them to pay their half of the rent


You want your own freedom to do as you please


You're giving driving directions to your roommate.


The roommate is following all of the rules of the home.


You are paying more rent in exchange for them doing chores.


You are both paying the same amount of rent.


telling my mother off for not properly cleaning the dishes

It's painful when a child shouts at you and questions your abilities.

they have a medical diagnosis where they can't control their emotions.


The child is precocious and knows exactly what makes you tick


you understand that they are just angry.


You're trying to teach them something that you have no clue or knowledge about and you know it.


You are knowledgeable in the subject area you're teaching them and they're just being a brat.


telling her that I don't care for her "world famous alfredo"

Hypothesis: Honesty is considered a virtue.


Hypothesis: Honesty is considered a virtue.


Hypothesis: Honesty is considered a virtue.

dishonesty would spare someone's feelings without doing harm


Hypothesis: Honesty is considered a virtue.

Being honest causes your friend to lose their job.


Hypothesis: Honesty is considered a virtue.

Being honest helps the police catch a violent criminal.


not wanting to get introduced to my brother's friends

You should try to get acquainted with the friends of your family members.


your family members encourage you to do so


Your family members have not introduced you to them.


You are at a family reunion and they are there.


Your family members friends are criminals


feeling as if I ruined the relationship of my best friend

You should be there for your best friend.

your best friend is doing something illegal.


she has been sleeping with your husband and is now pregnant.


Your best friend is running with bad people.


resenting my friends because my bachelorette party wasn't a big/road trip

It's understandable when an event isn't what you hoped it would be.


The organizers of the event made promises that weren't kept and you paid a lot for it.


You had false dreams or expectations about it from the get-go.


you planned it for a long time but a lot of people did not show up


It is a surprise birthday party that is being thrown for you.


Someone crashed the event and ruined it.


cold ghosting a "girlfriend" even when I made it clear this wasn't an exclusive relationship and she decides to blur the line

It's never appropriate to ignore someone who wants to talk with you.

The person who wants to talk to you is a stalker.


The person who wants to talk to you is a cop.


You are at work and they don't have an emergency.


Your job is to talk to people and help them.


Unless they are trying to brainwash you.


Especially if they are asking for your advice.


going to bed when future mother-in-law irritated me

It is acceptable to stand up for yourself.


Especially if your needs aren't being met.


You don't want to hurt someone's feelings.


trying to get my roommate to give away her kitten

It is ok to be mad about your roommate getting a pet if you are allergic and they did not discuss it with you.


you split all bills and decisions for the household.


You already told them about your allergy


They rescued the pet fro freezing on the streets.


Your housing complex has a no pets policy.


Hypothesis: Racism is unacceptable.

it is only being portrayed by an actor in a play.


Hypothesis: Racism is unacceptable.

someone refuses to allow people into their business based on race.


Hypothesis: Racism is unacceptable.


Hypothesis: Racism is unacceptable.

it is being acted in the context of play.


not waiting and saving my parking spot for a stranger

It is not expected that you will save parking spots for strangers.


you are saving the handicapped spot for a disabled person.


they are making rude gestures and yelling.


Its crowded and you need to find a space


you noticed one of them has been driving around the parking lot for awhile looking for a spot close to the store


there was barely a parking spot for yourself


not wanting to spend time with my mother's husband because we have nothing in common

It is OK to choose to not hang out with your stepfather if you don't like them.

they are trying really hard to spend time with you.


your mother wants you to try to form a relationship with him


He is the coach of your basketball team.


breaking up my best friends relationship

It's understandable to be concerned about a best friend's bad relationship.

your friend has already broken up with someone.


your friend starts having unexplained bruises.


You don't know many details about your friend's relationship.


You've witnessed domestic violence between the two people.


It's not okay to let the people that care and trust you down.


You have time and the ability to help those people.


saying I don't want anything for our anniversary

It's okay if you don't want to get a gift on a special occasion.

The person is expecting a gift and will be disappointed otherwise.


There are no expectations and money is running low.


You promised someone you would get them a gift.


spilling the beans about my cousin's marriage

It's OK to be mad if someone you ask to keep a secret about something important tells everyone.


They know someone who can help with your problem


feeling conflicted about my parents paying off one of my students loans

It is good when parents try to help you.


They continuously pry into your business.


You are an adult and cannot find employment.


They aren't letting you learn how to fight for yourself


You are trying to become more independent


You are about to be evicted from your apartment


you need help with your school assignment


refusing a trip to Jamacia because of the company

It's wrong to refuse a trip if someone offers it to you.


It is a company trip that you have to go on


you expressed interest in it previously.


You've been wanting to visit the location for your whole life


wanting one of my friends to ghost the guy who's been ghosting her for 2 months now that he's stopped

It's rude to ignore someone in a relationship.


Especially if they really need your attention.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


You're having a fight over a petty mistake you made


Hypothesis: It's healthy to avoid stress.


Hypothesis: It's healthy to avoid stress.

You never leave the house to avoid stress.


wanting to have my graduation party 3 weeks before my sister's wedding

It's okay to want to celebrate when you achieve something great.


You are taking credit for something that you didn't actually do.


You have been working hard to reach the goal.


it has taken you a long time to achieve something.


the achievement comes at a big loss for someone else


you achieved something great with a group of people


wanting to quit my job because I find my boss narcissistic & arrogant

Hypothesis: It is irresponsible to quit a job.


Hypothesis: It is irresponsible to quit a job.


Hypothesis: It is irresponsible to quit a job.

Your boss threatened to harm your child.


Hypothesis: It is irresponsible to quit a job.

The holidays are coming and you have no gifts.


Hypothesis: It is irresponsible to quit a job.

You accepted a higher paying position at another company.


Hypothesis: It is irresponsible to quit a job.

The job makes you so uncomfortable and upset that you can't stand it any longer.


Hypothesis: It is irresponsible to quit a job.

You need the job to pay your bills and doing so would hurt the company.


avoiding a mentally challenged coworker and kinda disliking him

It's okay to not like someone who happens to be disabled.


You dislike them only because they're disabled.


You dislike them because they're racist.


you only dislike them because of the disability.


the reason has nothing to do with the disability.


Especially if they are not a nice person.


saying a holocaust joke that made its way to a jewish girl

It's not your problem if someone repeats something you said and it offends someone.

You said it in to purposefully offend someone


you requested to them that they do not say it


They mention that you were the one who said it.


They don't mention your name in the context.


asking the girl I'm dating to change her bra

Asking a woman to change her bra is rude.

you're helping her try out new ones at an underwear store


She is wearing a black bra that is clearly visible under a white shirt.


You are in charge of costumes for a stage production and the woman is a performer.


It's not wrong to stand up for yourself.


No one else is going to stand up for you.


not letting my girlfriend being friend with my classmate

It's okay to not want your girlfriend to be friends with someone you know if you have a good reason.


The friend is your girlfriend's best friend.


The person is your girlfriends' old boyfriend.


the person has been your girlfriend's best friend forever.


the person tries to sleep with your girlfriend.


It's okay to be scared when you are in an accident.

the accident was not your fault and nobody was injured


your insurance rates are going to skyrocket


The car is on fire and you need to get out.


Hypothesis: It's okay to masturbate.


Hypothesis: It's okay to masturbate.

It will help you decrease your stress levels.


Hypothesis: It's okay to masturbate.

You have a consenting partner to help you.


Hypothesis: It is important to follow the law.


Hypothesis: It is important to follow the law.

You are running from the law and have already broken it.


Hypothesis: It is important to follow the law.

You are a government hacker paid to detect network vulnerabilities.


Hypothesis: It is important to follow the law.

The law was written with malicious intent.


Hypothesis: It is important to follow the law.

The law was written to keep people safe.


telling my gf she couldn't hang out with her friend

It's wrong to tell your partner who they can and cannot hang out with.


Your partner trusts your instincts about people.


Your partner wants to hang out with old friends.


you are trying to keep them away from criminals.


You use trust as the basis for a healthy relationship.


doubting whether I like a girl and not talking to her

It is rude to stop talking to someone that thinks you are friends.

The person is stalking and harassing you.


This person said very insulting things about you and your family


You have shared many good years together


That person had an affair with your significant other.


The person has always been loyal to you.


They're yelling at you in a rude manner.


telling my gf not to message other men using intimate language

Telling your significant other how to behave can lead to them resenting you or breaking up.

you are also encouraging while you do it.


Unless you are advising them on important protocol for an event.


Especially if you treat them like a child.


your significant other secretly likes that.


you make your significant other feel like a child.


not replacing a beer I accidentally kicked over

You should not be responsible for every mistake you make.


You unintentionally make a few mistakes.


another person gave you bad information that led to your mistake.


you are trying to set a good example for your children.


not wanting to invite my Cheating Father to my graduation

It is okay to be upset after a betrayal.

You had also been betraying your partner.


They did it to save the life of an innocent child.


Especially if it was your partner who betrayed you.


thinking my co-worker/classmate perpetuated a sexual harassment claim

You shouldn't accuse people of things if you have no proof.

i just can't come up with something that can be good for this one!


They have stolen your things in the past


They have informed you that they did something wrong.


They are telling you that you are accusing the wrong person.


selling gpus without disclosing upfront they were used for crypto mining

It's wrong to misrepresent something when selling it.


The person you are selling to does not have a lot of money.


Unless you believe you're telling the truth.


Especially if you know you are misrepresenting it.


you are trying to get people to buy an inferior product.


You are selling it to a convicted felon and the proceeds are for charity.


You are a trustee of a prestigious university.


It's nice to kiss someone who's willing.


You have had a crush on them for a long time.


telling my principal that my teachers aide is probably having a mental breakdown

Is it helpful to report an aides possible mental breakdown to the principal.

i'm not too sure what the generalization is trying to say that much


The breakdown was part of a rehearsal of a play.


The breakdown included violent language.


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.

you were paid by somebody to review the company badly even though you didn't actually use the service


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.

you paid for the service but did not get it.


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.

You were served something you are deathly allergic to


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.

You are majorly pressed for time and just pay and go.


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.

You feel you deserve a discount or refund for it.


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.

everything is being done to remedy the situation.


Hypothesis: It's ok to complain about bad service.

you paid a lot of money for the service.


It's wrong to withhold the necessities of life from someone.

You are not responsible for the other person's well being.


They are going to die anyway but they could be used to let another live.


The are bed ridden and cannot get them themselves.


you are trying to get critical answers from them in a crime scenario.


Being a caretaker is not a job for everyone, which is fine.


you can't find anyone else to help care for your parents.


they're taking care of someone who's infectious


trying to be honest with my gf about her weight

You shouldn't let your partner make fun of your weight.

it is in good fun and you find it funny as well.


You make fun of your partner for similar things.


fedding my dad's dog [legal] CBD dog treats without him knowing

It's wrong to feed CBD dog treats to a dog without asking its owner.


You are just visiting the dog owner's house.


You  know the dog might have a bad reaction.


The owner showed you how to do it the week before.


It's wrong to appropriate others' cultures.


You have express permission from people of that culture.


You're making a profit off of marginalized people.


it is part of a learning exercise at school.


the culture that is appropriated is a minority culture.


unless you are trying to learn more about your husband's culture.


it could be seen as mocking that culture.


helping a girl with school work for a blowjob

It is okay to make a fair exchange of two things with equal value

You are trying to pay for items at a retail store with an antique clock.


You're getting rid of a present you were just given.


not tipping for food I ordered for pickup at Denny's

It's rude to leave a restaurant without leaving a tip.

The service was so awful and the food was terrible as well.


The waitress was kind and punctual and you  liked the food.


The server tried very hard to make your experience good.


the waiter went above and beyond to help you


telling my girlfriend that when we have kids they will have my surname and not be double barrelled

It's reasonable to want your children to have your surname.


Unless you have remarried after a divorce.


Especially if it's also their father's surname.


Their mother has divorced you and has custody.


Your children were adopted at an older age.


Your children are biologically related to you.


You have zero plans to be a part of their lives, for example if you were just a sperm donor.


You want them to continue your family legacy.


spreading rumors about a girl that have been spreading rumors about me

It's understandable to wish harm on someone who has hurt you.

you have told others that you forgave them.


it just happened and you aren't over it.


Harming them would harm other people as well.


they have done something to harm your family.


thinking that black characters wouldn't fit in the new witchers series

Hypothesis: You shouldn't say racist things.

You are quoting from a classic literary work, such as Huckleberry Finn.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say racist things.

Your grown child has married someone of a different race and they have biracial children.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say racist things.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say racist things.

You are giving a lecture about what constitutes racism.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say racist things.

You are speaking to a person of the target race.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say racist things.

you are citing from the literature verbatim.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say racist things.

You're quoting something for historical record.


being blunt with a girl who I barely know

It's okay to tell someone the truth when it's important.


They are a child and still believe in Santa Claus.


You know that they are going to get hurt if they aren't told.


the truth will hurt them more than help them.


The truth will lead to them committing a crime.


It involves them getting help for an addiction.


not wanting to take care of my sister's kids

It is selfish to not want to help family that needs you.


They pooled all of their limited money to send you to college.


Your family always help and support you.


quitting my job while on paternity leave

It is not acceptable to quit your job while on paternity leave.


Your baby is sick and you need to stay home to take care of him.


You can’t be away from your baby anymore


blatantly ignoring my mother because I dont want to be her "puppet"

It's understandable to be angry at your parent.

Your parent did not give you the whole inheritance when you have siblings


asking my roommate/best friend who is (currently) an unemployed single mom of 3 to find another place to live

Friends are expected to support each other when possible.


The friends know each other for many years


The other friend is too embarrassed to share their problem.


They've known each other for a long time.


You don't care about the depth of a friendship.


It is rude to sit in another persons seat.


The person left their jacket on the seat before getting up.


You just twisted your ankle and need to relieve the pressure.


The person has offered up their seat to you.


breaking up with my boyfriend because hes christian

You shouldn't be against people of certain religions.


They have strong support from their government.


it is a cult trying to pass off their beliefs as a religion.


you belong to a religion that might seem strange to others.


A Crusade was declared and you believe deeply in your own religion.


They prepare the meals at your favorite restaurant.


Unless their religion is hurtful to other people.


finding these comments about interracial relationships made towards my girlfriend and I a bit creepy

It's bad to make comments about someone else's dating life.


You've never been in a successful relationship.


Hypothesis: People are expected to want to work.

They are a baby who isn't old enough for a job.


Hypothesis: People are expected to want to work.


Hypothesis: People are expected to want to work.

They want to earn a living and buy things


Hypothesis: People are expected to want to work.

they are physically or mentally unable to.


cutting off my friend or at the very least expecting an apology before moving forward

It's wrong to ghost your friends without any explanation.

You are going through personal issues and need time to yourself.


They are texting you asking what it wrong.


you have been friends for a very long time.


Your friend was being abusive towards you.


Your friend was someone who cared a lot for you.


You should always apologize to your children and explain where you were coming from and what upset you when you lose your patients with them.


they are old enough to understand emotions.


you first need some time to calm down and cool off.


you punished them and they do not understand why.


It's hurtful to not stand up for a friend.

You do not know that the friend is being attacked.


They're a backstabber and they try to take advantage of youre friendship.


They've always stood by you when you needed them.


they are being bullied and you are just watching


getting pissed at my family when they went to Logan's Candies without me

Family should not exclude members from events.

the members are out on bail for a violent crime


There are children in the family and the event is at a nightclub.


Hypothesis: You should not ditch a date.


Hypothesis: You should not ditch a date.

The date is someone you want a future with.


Hypothesis: You should not ditch a date.

Ditching them would leave them in physical danger.


Hypothesis: You should not ditch a date.

You got a text from your friend saying that they just saw your date with someone else.


telling my friend everything that the girls were saying about her

Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with a friend.

You are terminally ill and don't want to ruin his birthday


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with a friend.

You saw his girlfriend kiss another person


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with a friend.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with a friend.

Being honest will help your friend improve their life.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with a friend.

Your honesty helps them reach their goals.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with a friend.

Unless being honest would put them in danger.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with a friend.

Especially if it's something they should now.


wanting a parking pass back from my carpool

It's not okay to do something that could hurt people that depend on you.


You want to maintain your relationship with them.


You have an obligation with the family that requires you to leave them in the lurch


the most likely outcome will really help the people that depend on you.


the people that your actions put in danger are your own children.


You are doing it for your own selfish desires.


not wanting my wife to stay at a Un paid work event

It's wrong to spend time at an un-paid work event.


You could be working on a project instead


the company you work for expects you to do work at it under the table for them


you are volunteering to help homeless people


your boss is paying other people but not you


being upset that my brake line broke a month after I had my brakes fixed

You should figure out for sure why something happened before blaming someone.


It is a dangerous situation and the suspected criminal needs to be taken into custody immediately.


You aren't completely sure that the person is to blame.


it might have happened by someone with good intentions


not wanting to spend time with my parents

You shouldn't expect your kids to want to spend time with you all the time.


They are not doing anything and you need help getting chores done.


You want to raise kids that grow into completely dependent adults.


Your kids have their own friends and interests different from yours.


You share joint custody with your ex-spouse.


changing my name legally? I hate my name

You should do things that make you happy.


They would require hurting other people.


those things are harmful to other people.


you have been unhappy for a long time doing other things.


accusing my mother of "lying"? my holiday is completely ruined and my relationship with my mother severed over this word

It's understandable to be hurt if a family member lies to you.

They didn't know any better at the time.


It was when you were trying to help them.


It turns out they were planning you a surprise party.


laughing at my friend for not knowing how to equip a misc quest in Skyrim

It is good to help someone learn something new to them.


They are learning a second language that you are fluent in.


The material is way beyond them and would discourage them if they tried to learn.


They are committed to being helpful with that knowledge.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to see others.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to see others.

You're in an alcoholic's anonymous meeting.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to see others.

you have agreed to not see other people.


It's okay to want an actively sexual relationship.


You see the person you're with as only friendship material.


You're really into the person and they love you back the same.


The person you are trying to have the sexual relationship with doesn't want one.


You are physically and mentally healthy.


limiting my housemate's overnight guests

It's good to be as hospitable towards as many people as you can.


You're started to feel exhausted and need to take some time for yourself.


offering to buy someone I only recently met a duvet set

Hypothesis: It's good to be generous.

You are taking resources from your own children


Hypothesis: It's good to be generous.


Hypothesis: It's good to be generous.

They are taking advantage of your charity.


Hypothesis: It's good to be generous.

You do not have any money in your bank account.


not being quiet while my boyfriend games

You should not expect everyone to tip toe around you.


You want your employees to care about you.


You are currently suffering from a migraine.


It's okay to want to protect yourself from things people have done to you in the past.

it makes you treat people in your present badly.


you're overprotecting to the point that it's holding you back.


you don't want to experience those things again.


leaving my girls in their cribs when I know they are awake

Hypothesis: You should pay attention to your kids.

You need to relax and they are all safely asleep.


Hypothesis: You should pay attention to your kids.


Hypothesis: You should pay attention to your kids.

Your kids are misbehaving and ignoring them is the best way to make them stop.


Hypothesis: You should pay attention to your kids.

you are paying a babysitter to watch them


Hypothesis: You should pay attention to your kids.

you don't want anything bad to happen to them.


fucking with a couple families while camping

It's expected that you will defend yourself from someone trying to harm you.


It is your wife and she is having an episode.


the person trying to harm you is a small child.


the person tells you that they are going to kill you.


It is understandable to want an apology when someone has hurt you.

You saw "Love Story" and you don't believe in apologies from loved ones.


The apology makes you feel all is well again.


That person is not sorry for what they did


You were the person who initiated the hurtful behavior


You have always counted on that person to treat you well.


The person was supposed to be someone you could trust.


buying an item absurdly cheap because the person doesn't understand it's value

Taking advantage of someone's ignorance is never ethical.

Can't think of a situation where this would be ethical.


they just moved from the country into a big city.


They have taken advantage of the fact they are ignorant.


If you believe in your morals of decency.


This person is just trying to do the right thing


telling my mom how much I hate being a girl everyday

It is expected that a mother would help their daughter work through important issues

Unless they don't have a good relationship.


Especially if they have a good relationship.


The mother gave the daughter up for adoption as an infant.


the mother promised to help the daughter.


The mother gave the daughter up for adoption.


The mother raised the daughter by herself.


cutting off my old friend from high school

It's expected that friends should stick together.


They want that friendship to deepen over time.


they need to part ways to start families


they are going through a tough time together


They're not really close friends and have been drifting apart recently.


They've known each other for years and have a really close bond.


they have known each other for a really long time


you have grown apart and decide to go your separate ways.


It's good to discuss issues with a partner.

You are talking about issues that are meant to be spoken to a doctor about.


your partner might be really judgmental of you


your partner is someone you can trust to help you


They are on their way to an important business meeting.


Your partner is away on a business trip.


Your partner has a day off to spend with you.


You want to build strong relationship of trust


wanting to break contact with my stepdaughter

It's okay to want to break contact with someone.


Hypothesis: One should not hurt their friends.


Hypothesis: One should not hurt their friends.

They don't care about keeping the friend.


Hypothesis: One should not hurt their friends.

it is done to save them from a bad situation.


People might think you're pathetic if you live with your grandma.


You take all of your grandma's social security money and spend it on marijuana.


She financially supports you and you're an adult.


complaining about a fellow student to our course leader

It's ok to bring someone's poor behavior to the attention of your leader.

they have promised to correct their behavior.


Unless you're just trying to make trouble.


Especially if their behavior compromises the integrity of the group.


The behavior isn't related to the leader and the group.


their poor behavior is in the privacy of their home.


they are a danger to the other employees.


You are just tattling to get them into trouble.


Their behavior is negatively impacting your ability to do your job.


refusing to buy fireworks for a party at my house

When you are at someone else's house for a party, it's rude to play with dangerous toys.

They have told you that it was okay to touch their things.


You are unqualified to handle these toys.


The home owner is demonstrating their model rockets.


You took illegal fireworks to their house.


The host gives the toys to guests as party favors.


The toys are located in a locked room restricted from party guests.


It is the Fourth of July and there are legal fireworks to set off.


The party is for children who will be attracted to the danger.


It's okay to correct someone for something wrong that they said.


You are a parent teaching a child how to speak nicely.


They were purposely saying things incorrect


They need to know that they made a mistake


It is trivial and would just make them embarrassed.


They are telling other people the same thing.


It's okay if you aren't interested in someone to tell them you want to go your separate ways.


The other person is your own small child.


You have only been casually dating this person.


It comes as a total shock to the other person.


You will both be relieved the relationship is ending.


You are their sole means of support and they have no where to go.


pushing against people who tip their seats back for no reason

It's not okay to do something that violates someone else's space.

you are pushing them out of the way of a speeding car.


you don't like having your personal space violated.


you're doing it to save them from danger


the person is prone to being triggered by having people close to them


They are in distress and need immediate assistance.


not wanting to pick up my son every weekend if it means driving 200 miles round trip each time

If something is too hard for you to do, it's okay to refuse to do it.


You do not have the skills and experience.


You've tried and tried and are hitting your head against a wall.


You want to prove that you can achieve the job.


it's dangerous and you might get hurt trying to do it.


not coming home immediately for winter break

It is okay to need time away from family.

No one is available to watch your children.


All family members are over the age of 16.


you are a single parent to your children.


you are struggling with personal issues and just need alone time.


The break will help you feel closer to family when you return.


not wanting to give my nephews front line seats for a music festival ill be preforming at

It's hurtful to not include family members in your big events.


there has been a breakdown of the family unit.


They insist on you paying for their uninvited guests.


Your family used to live in one small house together.


The family members are loud and obnoxious.


not returning to work after maternity leave

It is normal to stay at home with your baby.


your husband has a great job and can support you both.


You need to work and your partner can take care of the baby.


You have a supportive partner who can pay the bills while you are a stay-at-home parent.


You need to return to work to support your family.


You are recovering from a cesarean section.


You already told your boss you would return to work.


not giving the item that I used to bet because I think I won the bet

It's expected that you pay if you lose a bet.


The other players are just acquaintences.


being upset I was invited to wedding but not reception but wasn't told this until after gifting a wedding present

It is rude to only give a gift if you are invited somewhere.

it's a party for someone whom you don't know very well.


the gift is for your child's birthday party that your ex is throwing.


You don't see your friends often in person.


You promise to send gifts during the holidays you spend away from people.


Especially if you are never invited anywhere.


being getting mad at my mom after all she's done to me

Hypothesis: It's bad to mistreat your child.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mistreat your child.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mistreat your child.

They badly need to learn a lesson for their misbehavior and it's the only way they learn.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mistreat your child.

They are good kids and you are acting abusively as a parent and can scar them for life.


being angry at my partner for buying a Porsche

It's okay to want to have nice things in life.


You are not meeting your basic survival needs first.


You have been working hard to save up for an expensive item.


you've worked hard and sacrificed all of the time


You have to go into heavy debt to get those nice things.


You use the desire for nice things as a motivation at work.


not being happy my girlfriend is pregnant

Supporting your girlfriend when they're pregnant is expected.


You love her and want the baby to grow up in a loving home


She is having morning sickness and cannot do housework.


she is pregnant with another person's child.


telling my friend she should spend with her kid

You shouldn't pry into your friend's business.

you think it is necessary to help them with a problem


they have told you to mind your own business


They are planning to poison an official.


They get high marks in all of their classes.


wanting to rehome my little sisters aggressive dog

If your pet is aggressive towards people, you have a responsibility to address its behavior.

You are a minor and your parent is the legal owner.


The pet does enough harm to require medical treatment for the victim.


Your pet is protecting you from home invadors.


you've told people not to touch your pet and they still do.


You are specifically keeping that pet as a watchdog to repel people.


You take your pet out in public around others a lot.


not wanting to go to my brother's wedding

It's OK to not have the desire to go to your brother's wedding.


Your brother has never been kind to you.


You don't have a good relationship with your brother.


Doing so would ruin his occasion and devastate the family.


You have not spoken in many years and you both harbor animosity.


Hypothesis: Getting out of friendships is okay.


People are expected to be kind to their friends.


they want their friends to be kind to them.


Their friends are manipulative and cause trouble.


Their friends are loving and supportive.


You want to continue to keep the friendship


Their friends are doing something illegal.


You should make an effort to preserve relationships.

you are removing toxic people from your life.


You never know when you might need someone


buying stuff and returning them if I dont like them

You should be more careful about the things you buy.


You already plan your purchases carefully.


You're prone to spending sprees that put you in debt.


You shop at a store with a generous return policy.


You cannot return the item and get your money back.


You have researched it thoroughly before purchasing it.


not wanting to pay for my sisters's educations and expenses

Hypothesis: You should pay your own expenses.

your parents are offering to pay your way through college


Hypothesis: You should pay your own expenses.


Hypothesis: You should pay your own expenses.

You are a teenager who hasn't been employed yet.


not telling my bf about an abortion I had now that we are breaking up

It is ok to be angry if someone aborted your child without telling you first.


you had planned to raise the child together


You said you would not help raise the child.


You had been trying to conceive a child for years.


you told your partner you want to have children.


it was a doctor who did it to save your life


not wanting my girlfriend to remain friends the the man she cheated on her ex with

It's okay to expect you partner not to be friends with someone she had an improper relationship with.


They have cheated with the person in the past.


you have a friend with whom you had an improper relationship.


That person is also one of their relatives.


That person is someone that lives far away.


They want to stay in a relationship with you.


refusing to be friends or in a relationship with anyone who has BPD even if it is currently controlled

It's OK to decide not to have a relationship with someone.

That person is your child and there's no other family who can take them in.


You know you're very incompatible with that person.


that person wants you to do illegal things with them.


That person made disparaging comments toward you


calling my ex out on his manipulative/controlling behavior

Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to manipulate people.

You are trying to get your kid to go to sleep.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to manipulate people.

You are trying to form a healthy relationship with someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to manipulate people.

You are trying to win a contract negotiation


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to manipulate people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to manipulate people.

You are negotiating the release of hostages.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to manipulate people.

you want to keep your friends and family in your life.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to manipulate people.

You want to have an honest relationship.


thinking my mom doesn't deserve the majority of my dad's inheritance

It's none of child's business what a parent does in their financial matters.

You want to teach them to manage their money.


the child is filling out financial aid forms for college.


The parent has stolen the child's identity.


The child is the one that helps manage the parents finances.


The child is young and knows nothing about finances.


blocking and unfriending a friend we've had one way communication for 8 years

It is weird to consider a one way friendship that lasted years to be a real friendship.

You purchased many gifts for the other person.


They filed a restraining order against you.


That's how they were in all their relationships.


the two people have never actually met or spoken to each other.


That person has a mental illness and can't reciprocate.


The other person has passed away, but the feelings and memories are still there


THe other person openly admits to not caring for you


It is expected that adults will pay their own bills.


They are unable to take care of themselves.


They are employed and living on their own.


they are receiving aid from the government to pay them.


living a "second life" behind the back of my ex-GF

It's healthy to find happiness in what you have rather than always be trying to acquire more.


you already have an abundance of things.


Especially if you have way more than you really need.


You have children that you are not providing for adequately.


Your needs are met and there is little chance for better opportunities.


you have less than what you need to survive


Hypothesis: It's good to help others.


Hypothesis: It's good to help others.

Unless by doing so you cause harm to your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to help others.

Especially if you have far more than you need.


Hypothesis: It's good to help others.

You think you will never be on the receiving end.


Hypothesis: It's good to help others.

They are your own family members or friends in times of need.


It's expected that you like your family.


It is a large and extended family with some you like more than others.


Each member is allowed much individuality.


Want to continue to build a health relationship


You've been adopted into an abusive situation.


calling out my work to use more inclusive terms

It's nice to use language that is politically correct.

Being politically correct is stupid and against free speech.


You're around people who are easily triggered.


Even the politically correct language is degrading.


You are a misanthrope and don't care what anybody thinks.


You are around a diverse group of people.


You are a performer whose act relies on shock value.


replying back to my professor in the same tone

It's fine to speak to people they way they have spoken to you.

You want to show them a more positive example and teach them a lesson.


They have spoken to you very nicely and lovingly.


A small child cries and screams at you in public.


pretending I'm not home rather accept a neighbour's parcel

You should always call before dropping by someone's house.


You need to talk about something important


you are worried about them for not answering their phone.


asking my bf to delete old pictures off his facebook

It's OK to ask people to delete pictures of you, especially off social media.

They are you in group photos with other people


Especially if it's a very unflattering picture.


It's an embarrassing picture of yourself.


they didn't get permission to post them.


wanting to know about my SO's sexual past and judging him about it

It's understandable to be uncomfortable with the fact that your significant other has a history before you.


You dated a lot of people before dating your significant other.


you have no reason not to trust your partner


You are confident and have a healthy self esteem.


You are feeling very insecure about your body.


no longer feeling attracted to a partner I've recently seen naked

It's okay to not find someone sexually attractive anymore.

You are trying to have a healthy sexual relationship with the person.


shouting and nagging to my girlfriend's step-sister (she's 5 years old) because she was trying so hard to kiss me in the mouth

You shouldn't shout at other people's kids.

they are about to step in front of a speeding car


they are doing nothing wrong or dangerous


The kids are just sitting in their yard.


their kids are minding their own business


not going to my boyfriends grandmothers wake so I can go see a concert

It's expected to give family matters more priority than fun ones.


Your children are staying at their grandparents for the night.


Your children are at home for the night.


Your family members are making unreasonable demands


throwing my drink at a car that honked at me

Hypothesis: It is rude to be impatient.

You have been kept waiting without explanation then others are helped before you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be impatient.

You are trying to communicate with someone who speaks a different language than you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be impatient.

You have been waiting at the DMV for 2 hours


Hypothesis: It is rude to be impatient.

You are only in line for a couple minutes


Hypothesis: It is rude to be impatient.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be impatient.

Your boss gave you a tight deadline for an important project.


informing my professor about people cheating

It's okay to think their should be justice when people do something wrong.


Nobody was harmed by what the people did.


Lots of people were harmed by the actions.


You do not fully understand the laws given in the situation.


not wanting a relationship with my half-sister who has always been rude to my mother

It's wrong to be rude to your parents or step-parents.


They abused you when you lived with them and you don't love them anymore.


They're doing the best they can for you and truly love and care about you.


They are behave in a cordial manner towards you.


You shouldn't make fun of people's weight.

you're trying to make light of it to make them feel better


You are trying to make them change their thinking


They are dieting and exercising regularly.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

They are standing up for the right thing.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

They are going through a difficult time.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

They ditched you for one of your enemies.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

They are trying to pass an exam for the fourth time.


not letting a mum in after closing time to buy a loaf of bread

It's wrong to expect to be let in a store after closing time.


you work for the store and are helping close down.


You are the manager and forgot your wallet.


You are the police there to investigate a break-in.


wanting to tell this girl she's not allowed to come to my house especially with her boyfriend

You have the right to tell someone they are not allowed at your house.

You are a teenager and the house belongs to your parents.


The person has tried to cheat one of the members of your family out of their money.


They are police officers and have a search warrant.


being upset with my husband for putting me on speakerphone

Hypothesis: You shouldn't overreact in situations.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overreact in situations.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overreact in situations.

nobody is taking the situation seriously otherwise


Hypothesis: You shouldn't overreact in situations.

your overreaction will scare other people involved in the situation


kicking out an autistic kid from my movie theater

You shouldn't be prejudiced against people with mental disabilities.


You have family with mental disabilities.


You are not educated in mental health issues.


You're recruiting for a very dangerous job with extremely high mental demands.


You work around people with mental disabilities.


refusing my boyfriend to drive my car after seeing how he drives his

It is good not to let reckless drivers use your car.

you are the leader of a stunt driving team.


you cannot afford for your car to be damaged.


You're in the car with them teaching them how to drive.


you want to keep your car in good condition.


honking at drivers blocking the right lane

It's bad to impede other drivers on the road.


You are trying to prevent them from hitting an accident victim.


They are police offers racing to a destination with lights flashing and siren blaring.


You're driving to your destination as usual.


It's wrong not to honor your work commitments.


You promised you would be finished by the deadline.


The whole department is counting on you.


being frustrated/fearful of my boyfriend starting to smoke weed again

It's OK to be anxious about a significant others drug use.


The drugs are needed for a valid health reason


The drug use is causing financial problems


They are taking prescription drugs as prescribed.


not allowing my children to eat junk food, watch tv, or play video games

It's okay to prevent your kids from engaging in unhealthy habits


you are trying to protect your child's health and well-being.


You are celebrating their birthday with cake.


Your child is overweight and at risk for illness.


They need something for medical reasons.


It's understandable that sometimes we don't like a relative.


We don't really know them very well and are making assumptions about them from a distance.


That relative has treated you badly or abused you.


that relative has done nothing to deserve that.


being pissed I finally told my boyfriend how I felt about him after trying to be nice for months and he reacted like this

It is not good to assume only one is wrong.


There are varied viewpoints on all issues.


You've got a 9 out of 10 chance of winning.


You've got a 1 out of 10 chance of winning.


One has evidence that helps prove they're wrong.


One has no evidence to back up the assumption.


it's wrong to treat someone with a disability with disrespect.


You are just meeting them for the first time


You are responding to treatment you are receiving.


You have preconceptions which are wrong.


They are a rude and disrespectful person themselves.


being annoyed that my niece is telling me everything about Tik Tok

It's wrong to not think about how a child might see things different than you.

You are trying to put your toddler to bed.


The child is attempting something dangerous.


They are playing harmless imaginary games.


That child is actively trying to hurt himself or someone else


You want to develop empathy skills in the child


It's a familiar situation you know the child is comfortable with.


hating my birthday because I got barely anything

It's expected to get a lot of gifts on a birthday.


You don't have many friends or family members.


There is a big party with lots of guests.


You are an adult and don't celebrate it.


You have a birthday party with 50 guests.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

you are very close and have been friends for a long time.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

You're helping your friends get employment.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

They are struggling in a field in which you are quite experienced


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

your friends are not appreciative or your help and never thank you.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

your friends are in need of a helping hand on a project that is too large to be done alone.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

Your friends does not like to be helped.


quitting my short staffed, fixed schedule campus job

You don't have to stay in a job you don't like.

Unless you don't have another job lined up.


Especially if you have a better job already lined up.


You have a family to support and no replacement job in sight.


you need money and have no other options.


Your military service is only halfway over.


You need money and can't afford to quit.


not wanting my kid to be a year older than everyone else in their grade

It's good to look out for the welfare of your child.


someone else is tasked with looking after your child.


you want your child to have a happy life.


Your children have a restraining order against you.


You are the primary caretaker for your child.


asking my housemate's guest to bring the spare keys back home after he locked my guest outside

It is OK to ask your housemate's guest to bring the spare keys back home after he locked your guest outside.

You mentioned that everyone should hold on to their keys.


You mentioned that you keep all of the keys together.


The guest has no jacket on and it is freezing.


Hypothesis: It is okay to refuse a favor.


Hypothesis: It is okay to refuse a favor.

You feel that they do too much for you but you don't do much for them.


Hypothesis: It is okay to refuse a favor.

Especially if it comes with strings attached.


Hypothesis: It is okay to refuse a favor.

It is something that will save your life.


Hypothesis: It is okay to refuse a favor.

You have no way of returning the favor in the future.


not letting my brother in law use my credit card to buy an iphone xr

It is okay to protect your own credit rating.

You have life saving medical expenses that you need to put on a credit card.


doing so is detrimental to a family member


You're ruining someone else's credit to protect yours.


You are a criminal yourself and steal identities.


You are trying to buy your first home in the near future.


banging on the ceiling this morning and for playing music to drown out the upstairs tenants

It's wrong to play loud music in an apartment.

You received permission from all of your neighbors and the landlord.


You've invited all your neighbors and got permission to do so


you are having a party and made sure that other residents are fine with it.


putting my neighbors laundry all over the laundry room

People are expected to be respectful of the property of others.


Others are not respectful of your property.


Their properties are clearly defined with gates.


The person who owns the property is a known racist.


The person who owns the property is a generous person.


There is an emergency that requires the confiscations of someone's candy for a diabetic


Hypothesis: You shouldn't curse at your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't curse at your family.

you are all comfortable using that language.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't curse at your family.

they've truly upset you and you don't do it regularly


wanting to be repaid for a $70 "vape" oil cartridge

It's expected to be repaid for something you are owed.


You tell the person the debt is forgiven and not to worry about it.


You have told them not to worry about paying you back.


you lent someone money with an agreement


telling hr about a potential hire having a history of embezzling

If someone did something wrong, it's good to inform others.


It was no big deal and will only get them in trouble unnecessarily.


What they did can hurt someone or others badly.


Hypothesis: You should be kind to your family.


Hypothesis: You should be kind to your family.

Your family is paying for you to go to college.


It's expected one is allowed smoke in one's own home.


The person live alone and sets their own rules.


cutting off my relationship with my step sister

People should not sever relationships with family without good reason.


you are severing the relationship because your relative is a child molester.


They have a hit out on them and it would endanger their family to have them around.


There are young children it could traumatize for life.


They just have nothing in common with them.


wanting my friend to finally actually commit suicide because Im sick of talking to her for hours trying to keep her from doing it

It's wrong to want anybody to hurt themselves or others for any reason.

They are trying to defend themselves or protect someone.


not wanting to give my wife surprises anymore

You shouldn't expect your partner to always get you gifts.

You have been doing that for several years


You already know they love you very much


your partner has said they will always get you gifts.


It's wrong to expect everyone to like you when you are doing things that aggravate them.


You don't even bother to explain why you're doing it.


asking my neighbor ( who is also my ex ) to keep the sex noises down

You have right to ask neighbors not to disturb your peace and quiet.

Your neighbors have not done anything wrong.


Your neighbors are having parties on week nights.


Your neighbors are doing necessary home repairs.


Your neighbors are playing music at night.


The neighborhood laws allow for a certain level of noise during certain hours.


They are normally way too loud and you are truly really being bothered.


You often throw loud parties on the weekends.


You work the night shift and sleep during the day.


They keep ringing your doorbell for no reason.


not being equipped enough to handle a mentally unstable friend

It's good to be supportive of the mentally ill.


You support them in ways that are harmful.


You support them in ways the community needs.


they are alone and struggling with something.


telling a long term BP that her products no longer work for me

It's good to be open and communicate with a person you're having problems with.

That person is an enemy during a time of war.


You would rather keep it bottled up and hold a grudge.


The person you're having problems with is violent.


The person you're having problems with is patient and accepting.


trying to haggle with a seller on Craigslist

It's expected that you might haggle over a price when a stranger sells an item to you.

You're buying the item at a department store.


You're buying the item at a flea market.


You are in a retail store in the United States.


There is a sign that says "all prices final".


You are at a market known for haggling, like on Canal Street in NYC.


the price tag is marked "or best offer."


Their shop sign says no bargaining prices are firm.


You are in another country where haggling is customary.


It's rude to be gross when you are living with someone.


The person you live with isn't clean themselves.


You care about them to stay living with you


being upset parents took a baby to a touring production of the Sound of Music

You should be considerate to those around you.


They tried to hit you with a baseball bat.


THere is an emergency and you need to get everyone's attention


It is a place that is supposed to be quiet, like a library


Especially if they are friends of yours.


telling management on my coworker for spreading lies after I dated her best friend

You have a right to confront a coworker who is lying about you.


It is impacting your ability to do your job.


You could lose your job for confronting them.


What they are saying could ruin your reputation.


It is commonplace to want to sit alone when you don't know anyone.


You feel threatened by those around you.


you are in a crowded plane and your seat is assigned.


being irritated at my wife for scheduling plans for us while I'm normally sleeping, and not telling me until the night before

You should include your partner in your plans.

You are throwing them a surprise for your anniversary.


They'll be out of town for a portion of time.


They were invited to the same places with you.


It is a vacation that she wants to take part in planning


You need some personal time away from your partner.


You want your partner to enjoy the things you do.


You're planning an activity they really don't enjoy.


engineering my social interactions for effect

Hypothesis: It is okay to network.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

you want to work your way up the ladder.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

You are working on a solitary project that must accomplished alone.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

You can  get in touch with good, helpful people who can help you in your goals.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

Unless you are undermining your employer.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

Especially if you are looking for another job.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

You're trying to make friends with gang members.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

You're trying to network with people in your field.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.

you are supposed to be spending time alone.


Hypothesis: It is okay to network.


calling the police on a suspicious truck

It's expected to be cautious and look out for the safety of others.


Especially if you are the parent of a small child.


not letting my girlfriend go on a trip overseas with male friends/coworkers

It's OK to have friends who are of the other sex as you.


You're afraid of people who are the opposite sex.


You're comfortable with people of the opposite sex.


You are romantically attracted to them and already in a relationship.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not respond to messages.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not respond to messages.

Your girlfriend is asking you to let her in


Hypothesis: It is rude to not respond to messages.

You are having technical issues and can't respond.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not respond to messages.

The other person needs information from you quickly.


refusing to train(boxing) with one of my closest friends

It's fine to want your friend to train with you.


you train better when you have a partner.


cutting off friend after she kept talking about her eating disorder

You should express concern for your friends when they have a problem.

You don't have the mental strength to help them out.


Your friend always listens when you have a problem.


You caused the problem your friend is having.


Your friend is dealing with the problem alone.


They abandoned you on the side of the road.


It's understandable to not want others to touch your baby.

The other person is also the baby's parent.


They have a cold or other contagious illness.


It's okay to be attracted to a coworker.


there are no rules against dating coworkers.


You don't make your coworker uncomfortable.


Hypothesis: No one respects a disloyal friend.


Hypothesis: No one respects a disloyal friend.

Especially if your disloyalty hurts someone.


Hypothesis: No one respects a disloyal friend.

They don't know the friend has been disloyal.


Hypothesis: No one respects a disloyal friend.

The disloyal friend refuses to apologize.


Hypothesis: No one respects a disloyal friend.

The friend was disloyal to save the other friend's life.


Hypothesis: No one respects a disloyal friend.

The friend was disloyal to reap profits.


interrupting a woman who was giving a very sensitive speech to my class

It's impolite to interrupt someone when they're speaking.


They are giving a speech to a big crowd.


the person you are interrupting is giving a speech in front of a large crowd.


It's wrong to steal someone's thunder by telling their joke.


They were preparing to tell it themselves.


They stole the joke from a friend of yours.


The person has been planning on telling people the joke.


They were about to tell it and you interrupted


The joke comes from a professional comedian and you heard the joke on TV.


You knew your friend was going to tell this particular joke to impress a cute girl.


wanting to hang with my friend after they get an so

It is rude to ignore friends for a relationship.


You had been friends with them for years


You are growing apart from your friends.


your friends ignored you for a relationship.


They only have negative things to say to you about it.


They  have been your friends all their life.


sleeping with another girl before getting back together with my girlfriend

It is understandable to want to explore your dating options before commitment.


you aren't sure what you are looking for in another person.


you are not really sure if you want to pursue a relationship


You feel you've fallen in love at first sight.


You haven't ever been in a relationship before.


being angry at a newly wed couple (strangers) for ditching their anxiety ridden dog on me and ruining my weekend

We are expected to do everything we can to accommodate newlyweds as they start their life together.

they are making foolish life choices and throwing money away.


their marriage is taboo in their culture


leaving a café because the owner told me I smelled like alcohol

Hypothesis: It's good to tell drunkards to leave.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell drunkards to leave.

Especially if they are being disruptive.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell drunkards to leave.


being pissed at my sick friend for not helping out at our event

It's bad to expose others to your illness.

you are the only available doctor to treat their illness


You have depression and they need to see it.


You are in an experiment to find an antidote.


refusing to get my coworker water every time she asks

It's OK to refuse a request from a coworker.

The coworker has gone out of their way to cover for you when you were sick, and now they need to take a day off.


The coworker is unreliable and always wants you to pick up their slack.


They are rude and able to do the task themselves


You promised the coworker you would do their request.


not sharing my rather large (to me at least) inheritance with my aunt and 3 cousins

It's expected that inheritances will be distributed amongst family.


the deceased left their money to charity.


Some family members stole money from the person providing the inheritance.


All of the family members are close with each other.


Some of the family mistreated the others


Everyone was helpful to the person who died.


You shouldn't expect your children to meet your new significant other


Your significant other is going to live with you


Your children resent you for cheating on their other parent


You're planning to move the significant other into your home.


You expect a long-term relationship which will eventually involve your children.


You are uncertain as to much longer this current relationship will last.


cursing out and reporting my dorm mate for making a meme

Hypothesis: You shouldn't make memes about others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make memes about others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make memes about others.

The person is very sensitive to ridicule.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make memes about others.

The other people enjoy memes about themselves.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make memes about others.

Those people are sensitive to being made fun of.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not be perfect.


leaving my family's bussiness for my dream job

It's understandable that our passions don't always fall in line with what our family would want.

you have the same passions but they just don't want you to copy them.


Your family has completely different passions


You will to anything to make your parents happy


Your family is conservative and doesn't support same sex marriage


your passion is to rebel against your family


Unless your passion is to be a homeless vagrant.


Especially if your passion is to help people.


It is always safer to drive defensively.


You're trying to get away from a zombie horde.


You are driving a race car on the track.


not reading a letter written by a coworker discussing his daughter's battle with leukemia

You shouldn't reveal too much personal information to your coworkers.


your coworkers are your friends outside of work


if you don't know your coworkers outside of work


You've known them for years and are a close knit group.


You don't know them too well and want to keep your job.


If they tend to spread your personal information to other people.


trying to make a payment plan with my niece

It's good to be financially responsible.

you are about to die and want to go on one last vacation of a lifetime.


you want to buy a house in the near future.


Your family needs to borrow money for an emergency.


You are at the end of your life with no heirs


You are close to death and want to enjoy your last few days.


having my overweight 8 year old daughter get on the scale every couple of weeks to monitor her weight

It is smart to keep track of an overweight childs weight.

it is a child that is a stranger to you.


You are not the child's parent or legal guardian.


They show signs of developing a serious related health problem, such as diabetes.


You want to teach the child about exercise and healthy choices.


It's okay to decline to give money to a child that demands it.

You are buying Girl Scout cookies from the child.


The child needs to learn better manners.


You are trying to teach them responsible money habits.


it is lunch money for them while they are at school.


they have not finished their chores for the week.


It's wrong to be upset at someone who is grieving.


Especially if they have been grieving their whole life.


moving out and stopping talking to my family

It's bad to refuse to communicate with your family.


You may lose out on not saying what you need to say.


You are negotiating your new benefits package at a job


wanting my boyfriend to not be on his phone when we go to bed at night

It is okay to be disturbed by someone using a phone when you are trying to sleep.


You need to wake up early for work the next morning.


you are in a public place where you would expect to be disturbed.


it is your roommate disturbing you and knows you are trying to sleep.


You are on a public train or bus and most people are awake and you are the odd one sleeping.


Everyone else is sleeping and it is night time and not a public place.


not wanting to have a kid while in medical school

It's good to wait until you're ready before having children.


Dont have the money and energy to raise them


You're spouse is close to going through menopause.


you are getting too old and can't wait much longer.


you have a lot of growing up to do first.


cutting my "sick" grandma out of my life

It's OK to cut someone out of your life for lying.


You have a long history together and they were always honest before then.


they have a history of lying to you all of the time.


telling a friend what her nickname really means or should I have let ignorance be bliss

It is not okay to have rude nicknames for people.


You keep them to yourself and never hurt others' feelings with them.


You call them to their face and hurt them outright.


it is part of a game you are playing with people.


you don't want people to have rude nicknames for you!


Especially if you are in a position of power.


You are just joking and they find it funny.


telling a kid in our friend group to "find new friends"

It's hurtful to tell kids to find new friends.

Their current friends have been a bad influence.


You know that their current friends are bad dudes who are hurtful to them.


They really like their current friends and their friends are good people.


They currently do not have any friends and tell you they feel lonely.


They know their old friends are mean to them.


selling concert tickets that I promised a friend

Hypothesis: It's okay to sell your own property.

Someone else has a claim to the property.


Hypothesis: It's okay to sell your own property.


Hypothesis: It's okay to sell your own property.

You are only selling them to support a bad habit.


Hypothesis: It's okay to sell your own property.

you are planning to move to another town.


Hypothesis: It's okay to sell your own property.

you're selling it because there's something wrong with it but you are hiding it


It's not okay to let your friends down when they wanted to do something with you.


you decided to go with different friends


you already have previous important plans.


you already promised to do something with them.


They have been waiting for it for a long time.


They planned something very complicated for you


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hound your family.

you need an answer from them immediately regarding a vacation.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hound your family.

they have asked you to not hound them several time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hound your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hound your family.

It's something that isn't any of your concern.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hound your family.

Your family always tries to be helpful when they can.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hound your family.

you know something is being kept from you.


getting offended by and calling out my boyfriend for calling me a pussy

It is okay to joke around with your partner.


You are making mean jokes at their expense.


Your partner is well aware you are just joking.


Your partner is drinking  and hanging out.


It is acceptable to not deal with corrupt businesses.


They are the only ones who can help you.


It will make you appear like you are also corrupt.


You are the leader of the crime syndicate.


We have no alternative means to get particular products they sell.


We can obtain their services elsewhere and they are very hurtful.


You are trying to help them clean up their act


not letting my brother sleep on my couch

You should be willing to help your siblings.

they are never grateful to you for anything.


your siblings are always willing to help you.


they want help with something thats wrong


Helping is prohibited, such as with a test.


Your sibling is always helping you when you need it.


feeling happy when other women flirt with me? I have a girlfriend

It's understandable to be happy when other people find you attractive.


that is a situation you find distressing.


You have never thought of yourself as attractive before.


You're in a scary costume for Halloween.


not using my sister as my realtor when she only got her license 6-8 mos. ago and husband and I have been working with our realtor for many years

It is hurtful to not send your family members work if you can.

The company has a strict rule about nepotism.


You know from experience they are bad workers.


You can see they really need the extra money.


They are struggling to feed their children.


The syntax of this sentence is difficult to interpret


You shouldn't associate with family members that don't love you.


You are interacting with them for a business engagement.


Your spouse needs your presence for support.


Your mother does not know who you are due to dementia.


Your brother is mean and violent toward you.


feeling like this was rude even if my boyfriend was technically "right"

Hypothesis: You should listen to your partner.


Hypothesis: You should listen to your partner.


Hypothesis: You should listen to your partner.

The two of you are talking about your future.


Hypothesis: You should listen to your partner.

They have financial news that impacts you both.


Hypothesis: You should listen to your partner.

They tell you what they have to say is important.


Hypothesis: You should listen to your partner.

Your partner is trying to talk you into suicide.


Hypothesis: You should listen to your partner.

Several other people have given you the same advice your partner is giving you.


not allowing my moms 2 cats in my room because they want too much love from me

It's okay to take care of yourself by limiting contact when you need time for yourself.


The stress is starting to make you get sick.


You've been told you need someone around you at all times.


Being around others makes you feel worse.


You're not safe when you are by yourself.


You are suffering from a lot of anxiety that comes from the stress of everyday life.


It's unhealthy to hold grudges for too long.

The person is constantly around you and bullying you.


The person committed an unforgivable act.


somebody did something really bad to you


its over something that is really stupid


It's distancing you from a toxic relationship.


It's from something that happened decades ago.


taking another students test paper after they destroyed mine

Hypothesis: It's rude to get revenge on others.


Hypothesis: It's rude to get revenge on others.


Hypothesis: It's rude to get revenge on others.

You are playing the card game and trying to win.


watching less scary movies with my bf who scares easily

You should avoid horror films if you get scared easily.


Especially if you get horrible nightmares.


you get scared easy because of past trauma


It's wrong to take things from others who have paid for them.


you have no intention of giving them back.


They are a child and it is a sharp object.


not wanting to engage with my roommate who annoys me to no end

It is expected that people don't want to talk to someone who annoys them.


They're having a bad day and don't want to impact others.


it is your boss and you have to work together everyday.


uninviting my 'best friend' to a concert we bought tickets for together and taking someone else

Hypothesis: You should not back out on your plans.


Hypothesis: You should not back out on your plans.

The other party is depending on you help.


Hypothesis: You should not back out on your plans.


Hypothesis: You should not back out on your plans.

You later realize that your plans were ill conceived and need changing.


Hypothesis: You should not back out on your plans.

You know they are correct and/or others are relying on your commitment.


staying out extra late on purpose to avoid my bf

It's wrong to purposely avoid someone instead of being honest with them.


you're doing something that is really mean


you are afraid they may hurt you if you are honest


You have information that can help them.


You promised to be honest with that person.


never wanting to see roommate's boyfriend's face again

It's expected that you get along with your roommate's significant other.


This persons means a lot to your roommate


That person is consistantly mean to you.


wanting my friends to do something with me

You should be OK with spending time by yourself.


Your teammates are late to practice again.


thinking I should received some of my dad's life insurance payout

It's OK for a parent to choose not to give you a life insurance payout.

it was agreed upon previously that they would.


there are other people who need the payout.


You were expecting to receive that money to make ends meet.


You are financially stable and independent.


The life insurance is the only thing in the will.


They are leaving other assets to you, such as the house.


You are young and need the money for support.


You act ungrateful towards your parents.


making a comment about something my roommate has in the fridge

You should keep your comments about your roommate's things to yourself.


Your roommate is storing personal items.


what they are doing is beginning to harm you.


your roommate also has issues with your things.


Their things are a huge mess and overflowing into your personal area.


You have to live with and see them daily.


wanting to find another therapist because my very first therapist "forgot" to turn up today

It causes other people to waste their time by not being there when they expect you to.


You are trying to teach them a lesson about patience.


You are a medical professional and their health depends on your professionalism.


They can be productive while waiting on you


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell someone to shut up.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell someone to shut up.

You are trying to hide from someone who broke into your house.


It is expected that people to take care of their pets when they get one.

Unless they are small children who don't know how.


Their spouse begged them to get the pet and they work from home.


they got the pet as a gift for someone else.


nobody is hired to help care for the animals.


wanting to cut my brother out of my life

You shouldn't cut your sibling out of your life.

Unless they have done something to hurt you.


Especially if they are you'r only family.


Your sibling has always been there for you.


Your sibling tried to kill your parents in order to get their prescription pills.


Your sibling is struggling to overcome an addiction and is asking you for support.


You want to be able to share your past memories of former homes and schools.


not buying my best friend a wedding present

It's wrong not to buy a wedding gift for someone you're close to.


Especially if they're just starting out and you can afford to.


you were invited to the wedding celebration


It's okay to ask someone to take better care of themselves if you're dating them

you don't actually take care of yourself either


they understand that you are concerned about their health and longevity


this request will make them feel very embarrassed and hurt.


Especially if you really care about their health.


It is important to be able to hold your focus.


You're trying to walk on a balance beam.


asking a moderately mentally handicapped (and possibly gay) classmate to stop certain things

It is okay to set boundaries with others


you alienate people with boundaries too often


not wanting to room with one of my friends at college

It's OK to choose who you want to room with in college.

you are refusing to room with people based on race.


you are sharing an apartment off campus.


You don't want to room with the opposite sex.


Especially if your best friend is available.


The college allows freedom to choose your roommate.


The rooms are assigned and your only complaint would be the person's ethnicity.


You are allergic to pets and animals are allowed.


cooling down the relationship to a full stop because she was jelous of her friend

Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.


feeling like grandparents are supposed to die

Hypothesis: It is wrong to wish death on anyone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to wish death on anyone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to wish death on anyone.

The person is loving and caring to everyone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to wish death on anyone.

They are suffering from cancer and are begging for the pain to end


Hypothesis: It is wrong to wish death on anyone.

It's just a matter of minor disagreement


being not sure if I should stay friends with somebody

It is smart  to evaluate whether your friendships are good for you or not.

you are not a good judge of people's character


you are trying to avoid toxic friendships


you already know which friendships are good for you.


You're spending too much time evaluating.


some friendships are not really doing well


your friends have been doing things to you that make you feel badly about yourself


cutting off my friend because of their mental health issues

It's expected that you support your friend when they are having problems.


your friend supports you when you have problems.


They take unfair advantage of you often.


They are there for you when you need it.


They love drama and are constantly having problems.


They have helped you with your problems in the past.


You've dealt with what your friend is going through.


You do not know they are having problems.


They have confided in you about their problems.


not responding to an ex friends nice text message

Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

they have nothing to deserve being ignored.


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

you can't stand them and want to avoid them


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

they went out of their way to be nice to you


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

you have a do not disturb sign posted on your door.


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

you argue with each other whenever you interact.


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

they are asking you to help them with their homework.


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

They are trying to start a fight with you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to purposely ignore someone

You are an emergency medical technician.


It is okay to have a change in your schedule.


You need to take care of a sick relative


You are already overworked and cannot handle more hours.


You need the money and want to work more hours.


The change disrupts the workflow of others.


The change has no consequences for other people.


You're expected to take advantage of technology's help when you can.

Unless you live in an area with no electricity.


Especially when it can help you get things done faster and better.


You are trying to decrease screentime and think without distraction


You are in a workplace and need to collect data efficiently


You are in the middle of a college exam.


You are completing a homework assignment.


You're stealing someone's personal data.


trying to encourage my partner to be healthy

It's good for everyone when people are encouraged to be healthier.


It helps others around them to be healthier.


It encourages unhealthy competition that creates dangerous situations


There is a workplace initiative that pays employees for getting healthier


There are kids around that could catch illnesses.


A person doesnt have the ability to lose weight


breaking things off with a guy that freaked me out

There is no reason you should stay in a relationship with anyone that you don't want to.

you have been placed in an arranged marriage.


breaking up with them could push them to suicide


there's someone else you want to be with


creating a positive attitude to the point of dis-ingenuity

Hypothesis: It's good to be positive about things.


Hypothesis: It's good to be positive about things.


Hypothesis: It's good to be positive about things.

It's a dire situation that needs immediate action.


telling my "RA" that my roommate is putting holes in walls

It's understandable to want to live in a clean environment.

You are camping in the woods after a torrential downpour


You are in a house with white walls and features


Especially if you are a medical professional.


You are a dirty person and don't mind a mess.


You are allergic to a lot of things in the air.


saying f you to my mom and hanging up during a fight when she was upset

Hypothesis: It's rude to hang up on someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to hang up on someone.


restarting the Wi-Fi while my Nan watched her show

Hypothesis: It's wrong to rude to a family member.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to rude to a family member.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to rude to a family member.

That family member is highly abusive and deserves ill treatment.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to rude to a family member.

That family member is kind and loving towards you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to rude to a family member.

You need to interrupt them speaking because the house you are both in is on fire.


telling my long time friend and brother in law that his focus on my daughter is not ok thus ruining the relationship and my wife's with her sister

If a friend is out of line, it is okay to say something.


Your friend doesn't understand that they're out of line.


They are saying rude things to your partner


You're saying it in a respectful manner.


Your friend is uncharacteristically moody and upset.


It is turning into a trait of arrogance.


not over-thanking for a thoughtful, but relatively small gesture

A small gift is not something people get overly excited for.


if it is a generic card for the holiday.


they already got lots of other gifts because its their birthday


you spent a lot of money on a gift for them.


wanting to go for breakfast while my sister came to visit me

It is reasonable to want to go out to eat when someone is visiting.


The person has very restrictive diet needs.


You do not know what kind of food the person likes to eat.


You are filming a cooking show in your house


A new restaurant just opened across town


It's bad to hit a car and leave without contacting the owner.


You are in the middle of nowhere and don't have the means to leave a note.


getting frustrated with my sick boyfriend's constant bad mood

It's okay to be frustrated with your partner.


You are the one who did something wrong.


your partner is just not listening to you.


you have long solid relationship already with your partner.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

You want the relationship to last a long time.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

Your partner will beat you if you're honest with them.


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your partner.

Your partner asks you how you are doing.


ruining family dinner because I didn't want to talk about my ex and suggested we talk about everyone's exes

Family should respect each other's boundaries.

Somebody needs watching over to kick a drug habit.


You live in a tiny apartment with one room.


One of the family members is at risk of getting hurt.


You need to have an intervention because someone is a drug addict


A mother needs to change a baby's diaper.


Someone has asked you to give them their space.


asking a streamer for a tier list and letting a conversation spiral out of control

It's good to stop a toxic conversation before it gets out of control.

it is affecting change that will be good in the long run.


The conversation is between people you don't know.


The conversation is between your friends.


it's a subject that needs to be talked about.


You witness it happening on the street with strangers.


People are starting to raise their voices.


having an abortion against my bf's wishes

A woman has the right to do what's best for her personal health.

She is in an altered state where she is not aware of what is going on.


She is making harmful decisions for herself.


The woman is listening to her doctor's instructions.


being annoyed I didn't get a bday present from my best friend

You're expected to give presents to your friend on their birthday.

You just found out about the birthday that very day.


Their religion does not allow them to celebrate.


Your friend asks you to make a charitable donation instead.


It is a milestone birthday like 40 or 50.


They don't believe in celebrating birthdays.


telling my friend he should get himself vaccinated for measles

It's good to look out for the welfare of your friends.


your own welfare will be in danger by doing so.


They come from disadvantaged backgrounds


getting a tattoo against my mothers religious believes

It is bad to go against what your mother wants.

Your mother wants something unreasonable for you.


Your mother consistently gives terrible and self-destructive life advice.


Your mother is a controlling person who doesn't have your best interests in mind.


Your mother loves you dearly and always knows what truly is best for you.


Your mother is giving outdated, unsafe advice.


not wanting neither helping my brother getting a motorcycle

Helping your family member's reach their goals is the sign of a loving person.

Your family member's goal is to run a drug house.


Your family member is the first one to go to college and you can afford to help her.


Unless their goals are to hurt other people.


Especially if they have admirable goals.


you only want to see your family members succeed in life.


potentially breaking up a "strong couple"

It's wrong to get involved with other people private lives.


they go out of their way to keep their lives private


They have asked you to mind your own business.


wanting to sleep at night while my wife and grandma take care of the newborn

Parents are expected to share the duty of raising their children.


Both parents are home the same amount of time.


Both parents work equal hours at their jobs.


They are married and one spouse works 60 hours a week while the other doesn't work at all.


They are married and both work the same amount of hours.


yelling a very rude and pushy( as in GO GO GO!! kind pushy) man to stop and slow down in front of his friends n fam

It's good to tell someone they are being rude.

they are unaware of it and would get their feelings hurt.


You are in a relationship with the person.


They already know and don't care and are bigger than you and have a weapon.


They don't seem aware of their  rudeness and would probably care if they knew.


You're doing it in a disrespectful manner.


they have social difficulties and don't understand rudeness.


wanting to see my boyfriends text messages

Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.


Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.


Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.

It is your young child and you are worried they are up to no good.


Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.

You are accessing their accounts without permission.


Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.

they don't like to share their life with anyone.


Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.

Someone is afraid to get professional help.


Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.

They took something from you and you are in their room trying to find it.


Hypothesis: Invading someone's privacy is wrong.

They have asked you to not go into their room when they are gone.


You shouldn't get massages for your young children.


your young children have really bad sunburns


Your child is uncomfortable being touched.


their doctor recommended the massage treatments for your child.


their doctor advised you that your child should not get massages.


you haven't visited a doctor for your child's aches and pains.


breaking up with my gf for choosing to go on vacation without me

It is expected that partners will travel together.

One has to stay with their children in the hospital.


it is agreed upon that they will take separate trips.


the trip is something both people really want to do.


It is a business trip for just one of the partners.