You know the person being taken advantage of.


If you see someone taking advantage of someone else, it's good to put a stop to it.


The person being taken advantage of is vulnerable.


You are a child and can't defend yourself.


The other person is a defenseless animal.


not getting a friend stay with me even though I already said they could

When someone needs a place to stay, it's rude not to let them when you have the space.


They have a history of disruptive behavior and stealing.


They are a relative with nowhere else to go.


The person has mistreated you in the past.


They have taken advantage of you before, and stolen things from your place.


They let you stay with them when you were in need of a place to stay.


It's none of your business what your girlfriend's schedule is like.


You are preparing a surprise birthday party for her.


She volunteers at the local animal shelter.


You are expected to give your girlfriend a ride and need to know the timeframe.


She has asked you to stop being overbearing.


calling local non emergency pd on a sketchy situation

It is the right thing to do to alert the authorities about a potentially problematic situation.

You are the one who caused the situation.


It is all based on speculation and you can actually handle the issue yourself.


Someone is being hurt or is in immediate danger.


Something trivial happens like you get gum on your shoe.


You only think the situation is problematic because you're being racist.


The authorities in your area are unsafe to seek assistance from.


The situation is escalating in violence.


It's rude to ask your classmates for their food.

they already offered what they weren't going to eat to you.


they are underprivileged and do not frequently eat in your presence.


You are really hungry and they have extra.


You have shared your food with them in the past.


Hypothesis: It is destructive to burn a house down.

It is part of a fire department's training exercise.


Hypothesis: It is destructive to burn a house down.


Hypothesis: It is destructive to burn a house down.

You are doing it as a training exercise for firefighters


Hypothesis: It is destructive to burn a house down.

The whole block is being cleared for a new development.


Hypothesis: It is destructive to burn a house down.

The house is furnished and in a nice neighborhood.


not wanting to pay for other people's drinks

It's understandable to be annoyed when people expect you to pay for their good time.


You don't have a lot of money to spare and they are rich.


it is at a birthday party and you invited them.


They falsely claim to have forgotten their wallets.


You are very wealthy and are paying for family members to be able to join in.


The other is more than capable of paying their own way and aren't particularly close to you.


You are throwing a birthday party for your parents and are an only child.


They make more money than you and you are on a tight budget.


being upset that my best friend is getting close with my ex

Hypothesis: You shouldn't get with a friend's ex.

Your friend says that they aren't uncomfortable with you dating their ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get with a friend's ex.

Your friend was abused by the person that you're dating.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get with a friend's ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get with a friend's ex.

You do not have permission from your friend.


wanting to cut contact with my female best friend over a new romantic relationship she can't come to terms with

You should be accepting of your friends' romantic choices.


They have been supportive of your romantic choices.


Your friend is in love with your spouse.


wanting break up with GF because she insists on having kids if we ever got married

It's ok to break up with someone if you don't share the same life goals.

They are very willing to compromise on important issues.


They are not willing to compromise on important issues.


They are not holding you back from your goals.


They are trying to stop you from achieving your goals.


you have a child together. Then you need to try to work it out.


they are holding you back from accomplishing your dreams.


The person is close to dying from a terminal disease.


It is wrong to be controlling of your significant other

Your significant other is an invalid and needs help.


You demean and abuse your significant other.


They need to do something they won't do on their own.


It's about something that has nothing to do with you.


they have an illness and you have to help them with day to day activities.


They've asked for your help making decisions.


They are not able to take care of themselves.


bringing up something that I know embarrasses my gf because she isn't following through

It is rude to embarrass people on purpose.

They were being rude to you and you're trying to get back at them.


That person has a habit of treating other people the same way.


You know that person is particularly shy.


You are in a contest where embarrassing people is part of the rules.


They recently found out they have a rare disease.


they are very sensitive and easily embarrassed


telling my mother that she is too controlling

It's okay to want to be treated with respect from your elders.


You've done something to make them not respect you.


You've always treated them with respect.


You have done nothing to earn any level of respect.


You have shown yourself to be worthy of respect but are still not getting it.


You are being disrespectful and don't deserve it.


You are almost an adult and want to be treated like one.


you act in a manner not worthy of respect


you always behave well and treat them with respect


not paying a friend who bought me a drink

It is wrong to not pay someone back for a drink.


It's not the only time you've gone our with them.


You agreed to pay them back the next time you went out.


The person bought the drink without your consent.


The person bought the drink under the assumption that you'd pay them back.


You told them you would give them some cash later.


telling my friend he's an asshole when he's stoned

Hypothesis: It is not good to get stoned.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get stoned.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get stoned.

You do so when using a drug for medicinal purposes.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get stoned.

You're alone, without responsibility and can't hurt anyone but yourself.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get stoned.

It interferes with your ability to provide for your family.


Hypothesis: It is not good to get stoned.

It's Friday and you don't have anything to do.


not wanting to be friends with a person who's depressed and need emotional support

Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

Your friends attack your family and hurt them.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

Your friends need support and care during hardship.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

They are in the act of committing a heinous crime.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

They are sickly and have trouble walking.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

Your friends are doing something harmful.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

Your friends have done something illegal.


Hypothesis: You should always support your friends.

Your friends are going through a breakup and need a shoulder to cry on.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be jealous of others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be jealous of others.

It's about something the other person rightfully has.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be jealous of others.

Your partner is neglecting you while giving attention to someone else.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be jealous of others.

You have the exact same choices they have.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be jealous of others.

They are well learned and you wish to equal their knowledge.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be jealous of others.

You don't deserve to have their success.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be jealous of others.

You want to maintain a strong relationship with them.


It's OK to refuse to give up your parking spot.

You're illegally parked in a handicapped spot.


You've been trying to find a spot for a long time.


You're parked in a handicapped spot and you're not handicapped.


You need to walk a little more every day toward cardiac fitness goals.


You are still on crutches after the accident.


You are wrongly parked in a disabled parking spot.


throwing serious topics on a guy I don't know well

It's good to be open about important issues.

You are in a country where that could get you jailed or killed.


You need to get something off your chest.


your opinion could get you fired from your job


you need to make an good impression on someone new.


you want others to know what you really think.


Others will use your positions on issues to gain an advantage over you.


You want to get to the heart of an issue and find the truth of things.


The information you are privy to is classified and not suppose to be shared.


not leaving my boyfriends mother at the grocery store because they got into a fight

You shouldn't ditch people when you're out shopping with them.

You agreed to meet back at the food court in an hour.


You and your friend agree to meet back up at a certain time.


Your friend doesn't know their way around the store.


you have to go to the bathroom really bad.


They let you know that they have to leave early.


They are a child have don't know how to get back home.


They are trying to get you to buy something you don't wish to purchase.


lying on my resume to get a job I know I'm qualified for

Lying on a resume to get ahead is considered fine because everyone else is doing it.

you are applying for the FBI and could go to jail for your lies.


it is to get a job at a fast food restaurant.


It is a job you know you can do well at.


The deception rises to the level of fraud.


The job doesn't require specific training or skills.


You lie to get a job in the medical field.


You're working in a service industry job.


not letting my ex see my dog after we broke up

It's wrong not to let your ex see your pet after you break up.

Your ex was abusing the pet when you were together.


They were with you and you chose the pet together and you can see they're good with them.


The pet was theirs when your relationship started.


being mad at my gf for posting on her Snapchat story that some other guy made her day by complimenting her looks

You should compliment your girlfriend more if she is so impressed by someone else giving her a compliment.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


Your girlfriend feels uncomfortable getting compliments.


You're feeling jealous of someone having complimented your partner.


She is cheating on you with the other person.


You love her and your compliments are honest.


Your girlfriend has unhealthy coping mechanisms


she seems to get too vain from compliments


you do not generally compliment her at all


leaving my friend to walk on his own because he is late

It is sometimes okay to teach people a lesson through tough love.

The person has a mental disability that makes it so they can't understand what you're doing.


They only respond to negative reinforcement


they can actually learn something from the lesson.


No other form of therapy has been getting through to them.


Sometimes people are annoying, and it is okay to let them know.


They are a distraction when you are driving a car.


You tell them they're annoying in a deliberately cruel manner.


they are your children who need to learn respectful behavior


keeping nagging my S/o to do chores while I'm at work

Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.

They always forget to do something important.


Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.

They have a lot of stress in their lives right now.


Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.

they have promised to do something and keep forgetting.


Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.

it is for something that you can just do yourself.


Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.

You've asked your partner to do something more than once and they haven't done it.


Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.

They are snoring loudly and disturbing your sleep.


Hypothesis: It is rude to nag people.

They are giving a speech at the funeral of their grandparent.


breaking up with my boyfriend because he is losing his hair

It is expected that people lose hair as they get older.


they were born with a condition in which they don't grow hair.


they are beginning to bald in middle life.


complaining about my best friends distantness

It's good to complain to your friend if they are doing something that bothers you.


It is something that they can't control.


The thing that bothers you is something that you are also doing.


They didn't realize that what they were doing is bothering you.


What they are doing is one of their passions.


The thing they are doing needs to be done.


They are making a lot of noise and you have a health condition that makes it cause you pain.


wanting to distance myself from my high school friends

It is good not to be upset if your friendships from high school don't last.


Your friend stopped talking to you without an explanation.


You all still live in the same small town.


You still live in the same neighborhood as your friends from high school.


You have moved far away from your high school friends and have made new friends.


refusing to be friends or in a relationship with anyone who has BPD even if it is currently controlled

It's hurtful to reject someone due to a mental illness.

You are not mentally well enough to handle someone else's issues.


they are trying hard to control it and are taking medication for it.


That person is violent and unpredictable.


The mentally ill person is violent and shouldn't be around your kids.


This person is depressed and asks you to help them find a treatment program.


being irritated by my neighbor's loud music

It's rude to play music so loud that your neighbor can hear.


your neighbors are elderly and have previously asked you nicely to refrain.


You were hired to play in a marching band for a parade.


It is late at night and your neighbor is asleep.


your neighbor is also playing loud music.


You are having a block party where the whole neighborhood is there.


It is 2 a.m. and the neighbors are trying to sleep.


being angry at my friend for always being broke

It's not okay to judge a person for how much money they have.

You are compiling a list of riches people


They did not have many opportunities in life


They are a billionaire that likes to burn hundred dollar bills in a public display of their wealth.


They are a teacher working with underprivileged children.


Billionaires like Jeff Bezos should not exist.


calling my gf of a 4yrs psycho but breaking up with her for always putting her hands on me

It's wrong to always put your hands on your partner if they don't like it.


You are trying to keep them from falling off a cliff.


They have told you before not to touch them.


They have asked you to stop touching them.


You're pushing them out of the path of a train.


asking a tennis player to learn with the Coach before playing with us

When you are learning a new skill, it is good to find a teacher who can help you.


There is a fully explainable video on YouTube.


You are just learning it casually for fun.


A worthwhile substitute for a mentor in some cases is a well reviewed textbook.


If the skill is so complex that only years of practice leads to success.


If you want to play a game with others, you should ask them before you join in.

They are your close family members and you are at a family reunion.


You don't know the people playing the game.


It is understood that anyone may join in.


The other people are strangers at a park.


defending my son who cheated on his girlfriend against my daughter

It's wrong to take sides in your family.

A child in the family has accused an adult of abusing her.


It's a husband and wife arguing about which restaurant they should have dinner at.


One side of your family is made up of dangerous criminals.


You only have to remaining relatives left and risk isolating one of them.


wanting to end a relationship over lack of ambition

You should understand it if a partner wants to get out of a relationship because you're complacent and they're not.


You fight all the time about your differences.


You are acting complacent to get rid of them.


It causes you to lose out on a conditional inheritance.


You have been married many years and need to work on your relationship for your kids.


They have never talked to you about this issue before.


You're a mature adult who respects other people's wishes.


consciously ignoring my mother starting random conversations in the middle of other conversations

It's rude to start a conversation when there are other conversations going on.

You need to tell the others that the house is on fire.


You are sitting in a busy cafeteria where every table is having its own conversation.


You are trying to get the attention of a store employee who is already helping another customer.


You need to warn people of a tornado coming.


You just want to ask them what they want for dinner.


asking my roommate to have there friends leave

You should check with your roommate before inviting over friends.


Your roommate is going out for the night.


Your roommate is studying for a big test.


You are having a party with your roommate.


Your roommate is studying for exams and needs peace and quiet.


breaking up with girlfriend over dishonesty of Marijuana use/addiction

Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse drugs.

You need to take more to not be physically ill from withdrawal pains.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse drugs.

The drugs are ruinous to your health and family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse drugs.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse drugs.

It's a drug that might be laced with something extremely dangerous.


telling a teacher that I was worried about my friend's mental health

It's good to confide in your teacher about your friends.


The friends are planning a surprise party for the teacher.


Your teacher is nothing but a busy body, and hasn't really helped you in the past.


You think there is a chance that one or more of your friends is being abused.


You know your teacher will inappropriately punish your friends


Your friends are pressuring you to do drugs


you are revealing secrets that you swore you would not tell anybody about.


not banning a symphatizing member of the alt right

Hypothesis: It's good to have freedom of belief.

You live in a country that is very strict.


Hypothesis: It's good to have freedom of belief.


Hypothesis: It's good to have freedom of belief.

your beliefs involve the opposition of moral and legal codes, such as the right to kill a person.


Hypothesis: It's good to have freedom of belief.

you are a political champion of democratic values.


Hypothesis: It's good to have freedom of belief.

Your beliefs involve hurting other people.


Hypothesis: It's good to have freedom of belief.

Your beliefs are peaceful and are helpful to others.


asking my husband to go to couples therapy

It's okay to get therapy if you need help.


It will improve the lives of your family.


Your insurance will not cover the expense and you do not have means to pay.


Anyone is able to give you the help you need.


You are struggling with something that makes your life difficult.


not tipping when they didn't deliver half my order

It is okay to be angry when you do not get the expected delivery.


You were counting on the delivery for an event.


Weather conditions prevented the delivery from happening.


You paid extra to have it delivered quickly.


The delivery was for an important medication.


You weren't home to take the delivery and it could not be left without you there.


You waited at home all day and the delivery was promised that day.


Expressing your opinion that a beloved pet needs to be euthanized is usually inappropriate.


The pet is suffering badly, without hope of recovery.


You're advocating euthanasia because the animal isn't housebroken.


The pet isn't exhibiting any symptoms of illness.


The pet is whimpering in pain all day and you live in a quiet monastery.


The pet only needs a minor medical procedure and you are a veterinarian.


choosing not to respect a trans person's pronouns

It's wrong not to respect people with different sexual identities than you.


You know, work with and are related to people with different sexual identities.


leaving a note on my neighbor's doorstep, asking him to maintain his tree

It's rude to tell others what do with their property.

the have weeds in their yard that are a foot high and causing you allergies.


Their property is blocking your driveway.


You are trying to be friendly neighbors.


Their property is on your property and needs to be moved.


You have no qualifications to advise them.


You don't have experience with that property


It's OK to cut toxic people out of your life.


Their behavior is affecting your daily life.


Someone very close to you cares about those toxic people.


You have wasted too much time and energy in dealing with them.


trying to force a gay guy to not like me

It's okay to be annoyed by unwanted attention.

Acting annoyed will make you unsafe in your situation.


The unwanted attention is from someone you don't know.


Someone is warning you that your shoelaces are untied.


The person has a history of stalking people.


You are getting attention from strangers.


you annoy others with your unwanted attention.


kicking my mom off my baby's photo stream for oversharing on Facebook

It is hurtful to leave a family member out of a family event

They have done something that hurt the whole family.


They have been longing to attend for many years.


They are abusive to your other family members.


They are bringing gifts to the event for everyone.


They don't want to be with their family members.


they are in prison or rehab and cannot leave.


they are close to the person who is being celebrated.


The last time they were invited, they got arrested for hitting your grandmother.


The family only gets together once every twenty years.


you should be patient of your friend's ignorance.


They are going through a hard time and need support.


they have repeated their ignorant behavior many times.


you have not given them a chance to learn.


Your friend's ignorance is causing harm to others.


They are making the effort to overcome their ignorance.


Your friend is making an effort to learn


They refuse to learn or denigrate your educational efforts.


They haven't had the educational advantages that you've had.


quitting my temp job filling in for a woman on maternity leaving when the the place is already understaffed

It's good to fill in for coworkers that need help.


You don't know how to do their job and would only make it worse


You don't know how to safely do their job.


refusing to let my parents get a bank loan under my name

It's okay to ask family members to get a loan for them under their name.

This is not the first time you've asked.


You do not have a job or means to repay them.


You choose a high-interest loan that will bankrupt them.


You understand financial paperwork a lot better than they do.


going "shopping" at the lost and found table

It's okay to take things from lost and found if they haven't been reclaimed for a long time.


It's clothes that nobody else probably wants.


You know that the owner is coming to claim the object.


You are giving permission by the owner of the object to take it.


You have permission to take things after a certain amount of time.


making my mother cry over some texts she sent my father

It is unacceptable to make someone else cry.


You are picking on their deepest insecurities


Unless the reason they are crying is that you made them so happy.


You made a child cry because you are trying to explain to them why doing something is wrong.


You are purposefully trying to trigger their PTSD symptoms.


giving my red-green color blind blind friend an all greed rubix cube

Hypothesis: It is rude to play pranks.

They are harmless and the person being pranked finds it funny.


Hypothesis: It is rude to play pranks.


Hypothesis: It is rude to play pranks.

The pranks are good-natured and harmless.


Hypothesis: It is rude to play pranks.

The pranks involve damaging someone's property.


Hypothesis: It is rude to play pranks.

The person is old and doesn't understand.


Hypothesis: It is rude to play pranks.

The recipient of the prank is your boss.


asking my friend not bring his gf to social gatherings

You should not make your friend choose between people.

They have only one extra concert ticket to your favorite band.


You know the have severe anxiety issues.


the friend is old enough to make their own decisions


One of them is thoroughly reprehensible.


Your friend really doesn't like the person.


the other person harasses you and cannot be around them.


You are both choosing who to hire for a position at the company.


You want your friend to think of you as a good person.


refusing to clean up after my disgusting housemates

Don't clean up after people that can do it themselves.


The people rarely clean up after themselves.


You are teaching your kids how to be more responsible.


You are a parent trying to teach your child responsibility.


You want your child to learn how to clean their room.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to pay rent.

You have lost your job and can't find another.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to pay rent.

Your roommate is forced to cover the entire bill.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to pay rent.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to pay rent.

You are withholding money until your landlord makes repairs.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to pay rent.

The building and your apartment are kept in excellent condition.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to pay rent.

Your landlord isn't honoring the contract.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to pay rent.

You're a minor living with their parents.


blackmailing guys who send me unsolicited dick pics

Hypothesis: It's wrong to blackmail people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to blackmail people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to blackmail people.

Your are getting back the money they cheated you out of.


You should communicate when you are angry with a loved one

You are looking to get out of the relationship.


You are so angry that you need to calm down before you say anything.


You feel that your loved one doesn't understand why you are angry.


You are blaming them for something that is your own fault.


leaving my friend at the club despite being his DD

It is rude to make an agreement with your friend and then leave them hanging.


you had an emergency that needed attention.


you went out with another friend instead.


You agreed to go drinking but have since completed a rehab program.


They have no family or other friends living close to them and will be stranded.


You told your friend you promised to take them to their hospital appointment.


You find out your friend is planning on doing the same.


not including my sisters in my bridal party

You should invite your family to bridal parties.

Your family does not approve of the marriage


Your family has made it clear they hate attend bridal parties.


Your family has told you how exited they are about the bridal party.


the bridal party is just for women, and you have male family members.


Your family members are degenerate alcoholics who get embarrassingly plastered at the slightest excuse.


They are sociable people who know how to comport themselves in public.


You are not the one that is getting married.


You have a close family and they want to be their for your wedding.


wanting to live with my mom instead of my dad

It is wrong to pick one parent over another.

One parent is extorting you for child support.


One of your parents is abusive toward the other.


Both parents contributed to your college education fund.


One of the parents is a vile human being.


It's good to be concerned about your own health.

You have hypochondria and keep wasting doctors' time with trivial symptoms.


You have a long-term health condition that requires careful management.


You're a perfectly healthy hypochondriac.


Diabetes and heart disease runs in your family.


you go overboard and become a hypochondriac.


Your concerns become obsessive and intrusive.


You have been having concerning symptoms.


wanting to break up with my fiance because of his violent and destructive son

It's wrong to not raise your child in a civilized way.

After the drone strikes, the extended family took shelter in a hillside cave.


The meaning of good manners need not evaporate in the playground slide ladder queue.


I can't think of something that wouldn't be a stereotype


you want your child to be a productive member of society when they grow up.


You want them to be a productive member of society.


You live in a suburb in the United States.


You shouldn't run to the cops after personal issues.

The personal issues resulted in harm to you or someone else.


The personal issues are a simple couple's argument.


The issues are about not having enough dishes for dinner.


telling my sister Im not going to put my phone on vibrate at work

It can be hurtful to inform a sibling you aren't willing to do something which would mean a lot to them.

They know what they're asking can cause you great pain.


You have promised them you would do this with them.


They are willing to do things that mean a lot to you.


The sibling gave you the okay not to help them.


The sibling needed you to drive them to the hospital.


You made a promise that you would do it.


Your sibling is asking you to do something illegal for them.


Your sibling was counting on you to save their life.


teaching sex education to my younger cousin sister

It's good to take the time to help educate family members.

They are not interested in being educated.


They need to learn something very important that could help them in a life or death situation.


They are just copying you instead of trying to learn.


They don't value the lessons you wish to give.


They will make good use of what you have to teach.


they don't require any further instruction.


You are trying to teach them how to commit crimes.


Helping them will provide a better life.


not attending a child's event with my ex-wife

It is childish to refuse to see an ex if it is a civil situation.


wanting to repay someone and girlfriend gets mad and threatens me

Partners should not threaten each other.

The partner is going to harm one of the children.


The threat involves something inconsequential.


The threat involves personal safety and wellbeing.


being upset that my brake line broke a month after I had my brakes fixed

It is reasonable to expect something you spend money on to last.


You spent your money on an expensive jacket.


it is an amusement park ride that ends very quickly.


it is a durable good product with a lifetime warranty.


it's buying an experience rather than a tangible item


you don't know when your next paycheck will come.


not opening up to my host Mother Anymore

Hypothesis: You should open up to others.

The others are unkind, manipulative people.


Hypothesis: You should open up to others.


Hypothesis: You should open up to others.

You know those people aren't trustworthy and will share your secrets.


Hypothesis: You should open up to others.

You feel opening up will reveal things that are too personal to you.


Hypothesis: You should open up to others.

Getting someone's perspective will be very helpful to you.


limiting my roommate's access to my router

You should learn to share things with your roommates.

unless your roommates are habitual thieves


you constantly borrow things from your roommates


You want to have a cohesive living arrangement


You all contribute equally to pay for living expenses.


The appliances were bought with roommates chipping in an equal amount.


not joining my family on a long-planned holiday? and instead choosing to stay at home with my friends

It's wrong to not follow through with plans.

Changing plans does not let anyone down.


The plans are important to your family members.


No one other than yourself would be affected.


You got into a car accident that wasn't your fault.


Someone is paying for you to be a part of the plan.


You realize the plans are doomed to failure.


laughing at my dying abusive father whilst a part of my family condemn me for it

It's understandable to be upset at someone when they're mocking a person who is dying.

The person who is dying is a serial killer.


The person who is dying is a notorious dictator.


it is in a movie and is supposed to be a satire.


it is somebody very close to that person.


The dying person thinks it's funny and enjoys the laughs.


getting correcting people for shortening my name

It's okay to not want people to shorten your name.

They are a child that is still learning to talk.


You do not like the sounds of the nickname.


You take pride in the name you were given


your name can't be shortened becaues it is already so short.


Your full name is deeply meaningful to you.


You've always been know by the diminutive of your full name.


asking my husband to tone down a work friendship that could appear questionable

Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

It could end up affecting your own well being.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

something going on nearby is starting to effect you.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

People you don't know nearby are yelling.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

Someone badly needs help and you would have to get involved to give them that help.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

There is no reason for you to get involved.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

You see a strange man offering candy to a group of children.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

Your married friends are bickering with each other the way they often do.


It is appropriate to block anyone you want to for your privacy on social media.

You are a child who wants to bock your parents.


You have been stalked or harassed by those people.


You're in a group that prohibits blocking moderating members and you block a moderator.


You have people you don't know trying to talk to you online.


it's your boss and you've been told that blocking them is against company policy.


You are an elected official and use the channel for official business.


If they are trolls and are abusive to you.


It is good to hold people who act unethically responsible for their actions

They are not capable of being responsible for their own actions.


The unethical act saves many people's lives.


You need to punish them to show that the act is harmful.


It is going to cause you more harm than good to do so.


They are clinically insane and do not know what they are doing.


The person didn't know what they were doing because they are disabled.


The unethical action caused harm to someone.


being slow to be affectionate to wife after getting back together

It is expected that trust takes time to build.


The person you are trusting did something wrong before.


you are a newborn and have no choice but to trust your caretaker.


The person you're building trust with is already trusted by everyone you know.


You and the other woman know nothing about each other.


It's okay to stick up for what you believe in to your parents.

You would get disowned or kicked out of the house before you are ready to move out.


You feel the issue is very important and your parents will understand.


Your beliefs will cause great distress to your parents with little necessity.


Your parents are plainly wrong in their stance.


You are a child and think you should be allowed to only eat candy.


Your parents are racist and you are not.


what you believe in is dangerous to your heath or safety.


You know their beliefs are wrong and unhealthy.


They don't support gay marriage and you are gay.


recording a woman not picking up her dog poop behind my apartment building and sending it to the leasing office, which is going to get her a lease violation on her record

It's expected that you should pick up after your pet.


You live out on a field and encourage them to go on the grass.


You walk your pet around the neighborhood.


There are local laws and fines for failing to do so.


It's ok to not want to do everything with your significant other.

you are on a date together for an evening.


You have trying to build a strong relationship.


You are trying to enjoy some alone time.


insulting my aunt to defend my other aunt

Hypothesis: It is rude to insult family.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult family.

they are your children when you should set an example


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult family.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult family.

they need to be corrected of a very bad habit


It is acceptable to be upset when a friend does something to belittle you


Your friend did it in front of your crush


They did it to humble you into being a better person.


It was a response to you belittling them first.


You have betrayed them and are worthy of belittling.


You have been loyal to them and have acted decently.


You have talked to them about this behavior before.


It is normal to not communicate with people who aren't your friends.

You need to talk to those people for work projects.


you are in a job that requires communication with the public


you and your friends are all deaf and use sign language


They are your boss and you have to talk to them.


It is okay to raise your child according to your own standards.


It will help them become successful in life.


you are generally a good person with the best intentions.


Your standards of living put your child in danger of harm or injury.


Your standards of living are safe and accepted.


refusing to go to my best friends wedding

It's okay to expect your best friend to attend your wedding.


They have been your friend since childhood


Your best friend told you that they would be out of the state that day.


expecting my boyfriend to pause the movie when I fall asleep

It would be thoughtful for your boyfriend to stop watching a movie until you are available.


You already planned to watch the movie together.


The movie is a horror movie and you do not like that genre.


The movie has your favorite actor in it.


It's the type of movie that you don't care for.


You have told him how excited you were to see it.


You told him it was okay to watch it without you.


He knows that you really wanted to watch the movie.


you told him you wanted to see the movie.


not going to a surprise party for a friend if its held on my birthday

It is rude to plan an event on someone else's special day.


you are trying to throw a party on someone's wedding day.


that person didn't plan anything on that day.


you were gonna be with that person on their special day.


Your lover is about to be sent off to war and you have to get married right now.


The other person is your sister and she is getting married that day.


Getting angry when someone blocks you is foolish.


You are driving an Ambulance with lights and sirens.


It is a school crossing guard at a cross walk.


They are trying to escape a debt they owe to you


They said something awful then blocked you so you can't respond.


It's a stranger and you were arguing over something silly.


You should not cancel plans you have made with others.


They have bought non-refundable tickets.


You were the one who made the plans originally.


annoying my friend with old songs, relentlessly

Hypothesis: It's wrong to annoy your friends.

They are doing annoying things to you first.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to annoy your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to annoy your friends.

you're trying to break up the friendship.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to annoy your friends.

you want to maintain a healthy relationship with them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to annoy your friends.

Your friends have been lying to you and breaking their promises.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to annoy your friends.

Your friends are busy studying for final exams.


It's okay to stand up for yourself if you believe that someone is behaving inappropriately, even if they have more power than you

You do not know the whole story and only got the partial story.


They are sexually harassing female coworkers.


it is a mugger with a gun who could shoot you


You know that the person has anger issues and can't control their temper.


You are at school and that person is a mean teacher.


not wanting to be friends with a person who's depressed and need emotional support

You shouldn't not want to be friends with someone just because they are depressed.


The person doesn't have any other friends.


Their depression is dragging you down and also making you depressed.


They have supported you in the past for your own depression.


Their depression causes them to do dangerous things.


YOu know they are at risk of hurting themselves and need a good person's support.


Their depression causes them to lash out


They are dangerous and are trying to hurt you


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your family.

they will return the favor by harming you


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your family.

Your family is ungrateful and takes advantage of you.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your family.

Your family cannot support themselves without your help.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your family.

Your family is involved in organized crime


not traveling to my sibling's state/home for the holidays at my parents' demands and effecitively "ruining Christmas" by not all being together for the first year

Hypothesis: You should respect your parents more.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents more.

You have been rude or inconsiderate to them.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents more.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents more.

They have supported you through college.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents more.

Your parents don't do anything to earn your respect.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents more.

You know your parents have your best interests at heart.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents more.

You realize they are here to help mold you.


expecting my girlfriend to move on short notice

People are expected to want to be with those they love.

They know that the only way to love them is to let them go.


Their love is in prison or somewhere else horrible.


The one they love is in need of emotional support.


not letting my ex step brother stay over at my house for a week

You are not required to house people you do not like.


They don't pull their weight around the house.


You are a parent and the people you don't like are your children.


You own the house you are sharing with others.


pointing out that a ladies night out is sexist

You have a right to state your opinion on any subject.


Your opinion is that your listeners should form a lynch mob and kill soneone.


You state your opinion politely and listen to other, conflicting opinions.


Your opinion contains classified information.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to ghost your loved ones


Hypothesis: It is wrong to ghost your loved ones

Your love ones  need your support and care.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to ghost your loved ones

they are causing you harm or threatening you


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave abruptly.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave abruptly.

You receive an emergency phone call from the hospital.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave abruptly.

You are the surgeon in the operating room.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave abruptly.

You are the guest of honor at the gathering.


You don't have to go to any function that you don't want to attend.


The crowd is expecting you to speak there.


stopping people from re-sharing the same story with me for the x'th time

It's rude to interrupt another person's speech.


it's gossip you're trying to stop in its tracks


You need to tell them their child is having a deadly allergic reaction


You are interrupting by playing a loud phone game


not caring about my brother's toxic relationship

It's expected that siblings care about each other.

they were adopted and don't know each other.


A sibling has been very hurtful to another sibling.


The siblings have done lots of good things for each other.


The siblings have been fighting with each other for a long time.


One of them has fallen ill or there is some other family crisis.


confronting my employee for raising her voice at me

It is expected that employees will speak respectfully to each other.

One employee sexually harassed the other.


They are giving a presentation to an important client.


An employee was harassed because of their beliefs.


Customers are around and can observe the employees behavior.


there is a lack of respect from somebody else too.


They're trespassing normally accepted workplace propriety.


They're forced to be close proximity to each other for protracted periods of time.


they are role-playing a specific situation in a training.


they are going to work with each other every day.


If your friend asks you for their portion of the weed, you should split it evenly.

You live in a state where weed is illegal.


You suspect that they have an addiction.


They are known for being selfish their cache of weed as a matter of course.


cutting off my close friend/crush for dealing with someone else

You shouldn't go behind your friend's back.

You are doing so because you're planning a surprise for their birthday.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


You are gong to cheat with your friend's spouse.


They will feel betrayed if they find out.


ditching my boyfriend after his friend hugged him

Hypothesis: It's fine to hug a friend.


Hypothesis: It's fine to hug a friend.


cutting ties with a ex gf who keeps telling me about and sending me pics of and with new bf

It's good to cut off ties with someone if they keep repeating bad behavior.

you are part of the problem with the bad behavior.


They are repentant and are starting to grow.


The behavior is starting to rub off on you.


not inviting my best friend to my party because I know he will get drunk and make himself an extra responsibility for me during the whole night

Hypothesis: It's bad to drink too much at a party.


Hypothesis: It's bad to drink too much at a party.


Hypothesis: It's bad to drink too much at a party.

You need to let off steam and you have others with you who will keep you safe.


Hypothesis: It's bad to drink too much at a party.

You behave unpredictably if you drink too much.


Hypothesis: It's bad to drink too much at a party.

You have a very high tolerance for alcohol.


Hypothesis: It's bad to drink too much at a party.

The drinking has caused you to throw up in front of guests.


lying about my Thanksgiving & Christmas plans to friends

It's acceptable to keep your plans private.

People are waiting on your plans to establish theirs.


Your plans don't effect anyone in your life.


You are a child who is going out on the weekend.


You are planning to run for President of the United States.


You are planning a surprise for someone special.


Your plans involve someone else and they need to know, too.


being not sure I can be friends with a girl I like anymore

It is health to distance yourself from someone you want and cannot be with.


You're married and do not want to divorce.


Your spouse is overseas in the military and needs your support.


Your spouse has died and you want happy memories to replace the grief.


you think things might change in the future


there is a chance they want to be with you.


they will never reciprocate your feelings.


They are in a bad relationship and want out.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick to plans.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick to plans.

You invited people to a big party at your house.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick to plans.

Other people are counting you to keep the plans


Hypothesis: It's good to stick to plans.

You find a more efficient way of doing things


Hypothesis: It's good to stick to plans.

Someone's appendix has ruptured and needs to go to the hospital now.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick to plans.

You promised your kids that you would take them to the beach and it's nice and sunny out.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let your kids upset you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let your kids upset you.

they have made a very bad decision that will affect their entire life.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let your kids upset you.

they are trying to push your buttons to get you upset.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let your kids upset you.

They are calling you out on something egregious you have done.


Your partner's pets are not your concern.


Your partner lives in a separate residence.


They've asked you to stay away from the pets.


telling my historically unfaithful girlfriend to sleep in our bed every night or I'd prefer to break up

You should be faithful towards your significant others.


You would like your marriage to last a long time.


You have an agreement to date others without discussion.


You want to establish trust and have a long term relationship.


ending a friendship after he made a joke I didn't find funny

It is wrong to end a friendship over something trivial.


It's the same thing over and over again.


it shows your friend's true colors and what they are capable of doing to you.


the situation has occurred many times before.


downloading a dating app when my boyfriend told me he would decide if he still has feelings for me

It is wrong to look at a dating app when you are still technically in a relationship.

You are showing a friend how to use the app.


You have committed to monogamy with your partner.


You are looking at how to delete the app.


You are planning to cheat on your partner.


You and your partner are looking for a new friend to show you around town.


The other person is in a coma and will never know.


You suspect your partner of cheating and are looking to see if they are on the app.


not wanting my mom to cover my daughter's chest in pictures

You should cover up your daughter's chest in photos if they are wearing something inappropriate.

Your daughter is an adult and capable of choosing their own clothing.


Your daughter is a teen and needs to be taught to dress respectfully.


You are being too controlling about what your daughter can wear


wanting my gf to sever ties with a male friend

You shouldn't be jealous of a significant others friendships with someone of the other sex.


The friend is someone who is in love with your significant other.


Your significant other has previously cheated


Your significant other has known their friend longer than they've known you


They have had previous romantic relationships with them.


You have friendships with members of the opposite sex.


They have a dating history with that person.


Their friendship predates your relationship.


saying that somebody deserved to get in a car accident if they drove too fast

It is harmful to drive over the speed limit


You're driving to the hospital in an emergency.


You are a police officer chasing a bad guy.


you are a race car driver participating in a race.


It's okay to take other things more seriously besides work.


You are falling behind on your financial obligations.


You have more money than you need already.


You are a policemen, and people are getting hurt.


You don't have a job and you have no money.


not wanting to hang out with a friend of a friend who makes me feel terrible

It's okay to want a friend to hang out with your friends.

your other friends despise this other friend


Your friends have been unkind towards you.


Your friends are bigoted and will not accept your other friend.


buying another pet rat when my sister hates them

You shouldn't expect your family to get a pet that you like.

They have told you they will get the pet.


Someone else in the family is allergic to the pet.


You specifically told your family what pet to get.


Someone else is going to take care of it.


The pet is a support animal recommended by your therapist.


Your family promised to get a pet you want.


insisting to open the car door for my partner

It's polite to hold open a door for another.


The other person is a known feminist who takes offense at small acts of chivalry.


They have asked you not to do it for them.


You are at a secure building that requires badges to enter.


The other person's arms are full of packages.


throwing my drink at a car that honked at me

Hypothesis: It is bad to lose your temper.


Hypothesis: It is bad to lose your temper.


Hypothesis: It is bad to lose your temper.

You are about to fight in a boxing match


Hypothesis: It is bad to lose your temper.

The person you are angry with is a small child.


Hypothesis: It is bad to lose your temper.

You are trying to teach someone a lesson.


Hypothesis: It is bad to lose your temper.

You are around small children that are easily offended.


telling my coworker about how his partner cheated on me, though it was months in the past

Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.

You are expected to keep customer information confidential.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.

You are working together on a group project.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.

You often work together on important projects


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.

Your coworkers sabotage you with any information


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.

you don't want to answer a very personal question.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.

You have access to confidential info that isn't supposed to be shared.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with coworkers.

Being honest will help them do their job properly.


pulling my son out of daycare on a weeks notice

It is wrong to give short notice to those relying on you.


It makes things much more difficult for them.


You won a prize for a vacation that begins immediately.


The people relying on you are your elderly grandparents that need rides to the doctor.


You could have given notice sooner but were lazy.


They are waiting on you for hours already


being sad/sulking that my girlfriend hasn't visited me at college

When people are in long distance relationships it is normal for them to miss each other.


It has been a long time since seeing each other.


one or both of them no longer cares for the other.


they have not seen each other in a long time.


Local friends go to colleges in different states.


The relationship is rocky and is almost over.


The couple only recently started being long distance.


They haven't seen each other in a really long time.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to help a friend.

You are very sick and need to stay in bed.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to help a friend.

You live nearby and can quickly come to your friends side.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to help a friend.

The friend needs to learn some independence.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to help a friend.

You can see the friend is really struggling and can't help themself.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to help a friend.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to help a friend.

they are moving and need help with the heavy boxes.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to help a friend.

Your friend asked you for help doing something immoral


ASKING (not expecting) my so to relieve me of my debt (3,000€) after she won 100,000

If you have a lot of debt, it's okay to ask your significant other for help.


Both of you need to pay the bills to survive.


your significant other doesn't have any money


Your significant other often wants to help with bills.


telling my boyfriend he can't talk to his friend anymore

It is rude to tell your partner who they can talk to.

You don't want them spoiling the surprise about a mutual friend's birthday party.


You try to stop them from ever talking to the opposite sex.


You are giving out the best contacts from a list of class parents.


You are trying to cover up something by limiting access to others.


You are just being jealous toward your partner.


being super annoyed with people that give Christmas cards

Being annoyed about someone doing something nice for you is selfish.


They are harming someone else when helping you.


They are giving what they have to you for support.


They wanted to pay you back for something


You know they are doing the nice thing simply to make put you in their debt.


They are doing it because they have a genuine, giving personality.


You've expressed discomfort with that kind of behavior before.


The person didn't know to anticipate your reaction.


calling out my gf for being negative about a potential mental health illness of mine

It is important to defend your mental health.

you are incapacitated and need an advocate to defend you.


Others are saying you have no issues when you know you do.


There is nothing wrong with you emotionally.


defending your mental health is too draining.


taking a break from some of my friends for cutting me out of their plans

It is rude to single out a friend and not invite them when you make plans.

You know the friend will not enjoy what you plan.


They have informed you that they were going on vacation and would not be available.


They are always inviting you to come along with them when they go out.


The last few times you made plans with them they flaked out on you, and never called or apologized.


They always include you in their plans, and you have a great time with them.


You should not talk back to your bosses.


Your boss is demanding you do something illegal.


You know you'll get fired if you complain about regular work duties.


You are about to quit your job and don't need another one because you won the lottery.


You have the type of relationship with them where you can speak your mind.


You have a tenuous relationship with them.


It's expected that employees do what's best for the business.


The business could suffer from their inaction.


they are asked to do something that is illegal.


refusing to watch a Vegan documentary just because my friend asked

It's okay to not want to watch something that doesn't interest you.


You have agreed to go to a Superbowl party, even though you don't like football.


Your kid is whining about wanting to watch yet another old episode of Barney the dinosaur.


The professor asked the class to take notes on the documentary.


You've seen this movie several times already.


You have to spend money to watch what is being shown.


You are watching your child perform in a school play.


putting a housemate's plate in front of his door after only a few hours

It is wrong for a roommate to put gross dishes in front of your door rather than communicating the issue.

you have failed to respond to more mature communication over dirty dishes in the past


you are not responsible for the dirty dishes


you have agreed to do the dishes repeatedly and failed.


the roommate's responsibility is to do them.


There is a lot of time left on your lease.


The roommate has lost all patience after discussing this smelly dirty dishes problem multiple times.


I've ignored my commitment to them to take responsibilities for my mess.


breaking up with my boyfriend a week after we moved in together

It's rude to break up with your significant other very soon after you move in together.


You both agreed to try and make it work.


They also just gave you an expensive gift.


They have a sudden change in personality for the worse.


You leave without a good reason or explanation.


Moving in together was a huge mistake, it would be better to end it quickly.


They signed a lease on a place they couldn't afford without your help.


It's good to use different characters in video games.

You aren't any good playing with other characters.


Someone else wants a chance to use the character you've been using.


there is only one option to choose from.


they each have different strengths and weaknesses.


There is only one good character in the game.


you're comfortable using the same one each time.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell someone to hurry up.

The person is being purposely slow just to annoy you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell someone to hurry up.

The person is already going as fast as they can.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell someone to hurry up.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell someone to hurry up.

The train conductor shouted, 'all aboard,' for the final time.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell someone to hurry up.

My friend is in a self propelled wheelchair since the accident.


getting upset and leaving my gf's apartment for celebrating finishing most of my work

It's okay that we don't always see things the same way as a significant other.

Your partner is explaining their expectations in a relationship with you.


Your significant other wants you to let them hurt you.


it has to do with how to raise our children.


it has to do with something that doesn't effect you.


They are trying to drive while intoxicated and you are trying to convince them otherwise.


They are from a foreign country and are not used to our customs.


We accept each other's different points of view.


wanting to fly home early on family vacation my parents paid for

You shouldn't waste your family's money without good reason.


It would cause your family to be homeless.


Your family struggles to make ends meet.


they're going to waste it themselves, anyway


you need to get rid of the money to hide a crime.


It's acceptable to expect someone to respond to your message.


It is a business and they are closed when you message them.


You are a boss sending a message to an employee


Hypothesis: It is ok to change plans if necessary

You have not told others about the changed plans.


Hypothesis: It is ok to change plans if necessary

The plan has been canceled and you need to change it.


Hypothesis: It is ok to change plans if necessary

Others are depending on you to follow through.


Hypothesis: It is ok to change plans if necessary


Hypothesis: It is ok to change plans if necessary

unforeseeable circumstances demand it, like a natural disaster


Hypothesis: It is ok to change plans if necessary

You made a promise to do something with someone.


Hypothesis: It is ok to change plans if necessary

You have agreed to the plans a long time ago


Hypothesis: It's good to be nice to your partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to be nice to your partner.

You want the relationship to last for a long time.


Hypothesis: It's good to be nice to your partner.

Your partner takes care of you and your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to be nice to your partner.

you want to have a happy long term relationship.


not giving my gf a free pass on her vacation

It is okay to expect fidelity in a relationship.

You started the relationship while your new pardner was still married to someone else.


Your relationship isn't really that serious.


you have made a vow to each other to be loyal.


Especially if there are children born of the relationship.


The relationship is one that is non-monogamous.


The relationship is a closed monogamous one.


Hypothesis: You should make time for your partner.

You are out of town helping with a sick relative.


Hypothesis: You should make time for your partner.


Hypothesis: You should make time for your partner.

You are in the middle of very important work.


thinking a mentally disabled student is ruining my college games club

It is wrong to exclude a mentally disabled person from a game.

There is a high likelihood that they will get hurt, or hurt others.


They are really their disability wouldn't impact their ability to play the game.


They are not capable of playing the game.


There is a way to include them at their own ability level.


They are the only person you are excluding.


The person does not meet the qualifications to participate.


The game is open to anyone who wants to participate.


The game is expected to be so frustrating as to truly discourage the disabled person.


The game is quite fun so that the disabled person would really enjoy it.


asking my mom why she lets her in-laws stay with her given recent family drama

People are expected to get along with their families.


The family is attending a funeral together.


There family member have been very cruel to them


Their families have done things to them that are very hurtful.


Their families have always been very good to them.


Hypothesis: It's nice to buy food for others.


Hypothesis: It's nice to buy food for others.

They have bought food for you in the past.


Hypothesis: It's nice to buy food for others.

They have repeatedly asked you to stop doing it because they're on a diet.


Hypothesis: It's nice to buy food for others.

you know they are struggling financially and would appreciate it.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to exclude people.

The person did not want to be part of the group


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to exclude people.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to exclude people.

People needed to earn their way in but didn't.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to exclude people.

There is no good reason to exclude them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be spiteful.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be spiteful.

you are spiteful toward someone who has intentionally harmed you with no remorse.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be spiteful.

you have been afforded great privilege in your life.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be spiteful.

You are spiteful to an underhanded politician.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be spiteful.

Being spiteful is hurting someone's feelings.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be spiteful.

you are just doing so because you are jealous.


being constantly angry at most of my classsmates for being loud and lazy

People are expected to get along with their communities.

The people in the community are not nice.


They just moved in and are trying to be apart of the community.


Their community is a haven for criminals.


Those  communities are filled with racists.


not changing dinner to accommodate an allergy

It is ok to be upset if someone gives you food that causes an allergic reaction.


They knew about your allergy and were careless.


They knew you are dangerously allergic to the food.


They could have asked you first if you have any allergies


They knew you were allergic and did it anyway.


not wanting to be friends with someone because of one thing they did

It is wrong not to forgive for minor transgressions.

The person has been doing the same thing for years even though you've repeatedly asked them not to.


The other person has forgiven you for doing similarly annoying things.


Those minor transgressions happen all of the time.


The person says that they are going to do it again.


The child is young and is still learning right from wrong.


wearing a thong on the beach even though I'm a "bigger" girl...it caused a fight that's lasted over a month among my family

It is typical for families to argue about the same disagreements repeatedly.


Families argue about today's local news items.


Families have widely different political viewpoints.


A comet is headed toward earth and there are new priorities.


Half of the family are Democrats and the other half are Republicans.


They put a lot of effort into finding a way to resolve their differences.


No one in the family is willing to listen to the other side's claims.


It's not your responsibility to pay another person's debts.


The other person refuses to pay you back.


You didn't agree to the debt in the first place.


You're married and have a joint bank account.


baking cookies for an event and another batch for my classmates and grandmother(birthday) and not giving them to my family

It is expected when you make something you make enough for everyone.

Guests show up at your house at dinnertime unannounced.


You dont have the money to make for others


You are the only who likes what you're making.


It would require little additional effort to make enough for everyone.


you were surprised by the number of people


Some people are allergic to the ingredients.


It's rude to tell someone to shut up if they have a condition that influences their behavior.

You also have a condition that influences your behavior.


The person is supposed to be on medication for his behavior, but can't afford the pills.


they are causing a disturbance in a public place.


they lack the ability to control the behavior.


They need to shut up to avoid harm coming to them.


You have politely asked for quiet many times.


assigning my partner to drive me to Mechanic on his day off from work

It's impolite to ask people to drive you somewhere on their day off.


You have your own car and can do it yourself.


The person has told you that they were going to rest all day.


You've done similar favors for them in the past.


You have money for an Uber or other modes of transport.


not wanting to date anyone with mental health issues

it is wrong to discriminate against someone based on health issues.

it is only to segregate the sick for quarantine to protect the masses.


they are sick through no fault of their own.


They are a member of more than one marginalized group.


You are trying to find the right care for them.


the health issues make them incapable of doing the job


the health issue is not relevant to the situation


It's good to learn how to cook new recipes.

You have no idea how to cook and could cause harm.


You want to experience other cultures' culinary treats.


You prefer the cuisine you currently know.


The recipe contains an ingredient you are allergic to.


you get bored easily with eating the same things


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

You have too much pride and would refuse it.


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

You are overwhelmed and on the verge of a nervous breakdown.


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

the other person can't really afford to help


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

You need to start doing things on your own.


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

You are struggling and others have offered assistance.


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

You are lazy and want someone else to do it for you.


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

The necessary help would result in bankruptcy


Hypothesis: It is good to get help when needed.

The necessary help is nearby and affordable.


It is wrong to make someone leave their own party.

they have hurt themself and need to go to the hospital.


They are sick and need to go to the hospital.


They are turning two years old and having a great time opening presents.


They were trying to fight one of the guests.


The host was kind and friendly to everyone.


They are so drunk they are posing a safety issue to themselves and others


You're jealous they are getting tons of attention


breaking up with my girlfriend for opening up to me about her past abuse

It is cruel to hurt someone after they make themselves vulnerable to you

Their vulnerability revealed a crime that took place.


They have opened up about their childhood trauma.


You want a long and healthy relationship.


You can't avoid telling them something they don't want to hear that could save their life.


They have done something to hurt you first.


leaving my gf because of her past and shitty behavior

Hypothesis: It's wrong to abandon your partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to abandon your partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to abandon your partner.

Your partner relies on you for food and shelter.


telling my mom I have cut myself in the leg over a stupid argument about food

You shouldn't get into fights over food.


The food was purchased from an expensive restaurant for your graduation.


You are stopping a bully from stealing someone's lunch.


there is a shortage of food to go around.


The fight is about who wants the leftovers.


It's okay not to want to take your parent's things.

They have been passed down from generation to generation.


It is a family heirloom they are passing down.


Their things are old and useless in today's society.


It is smart to stay out of altercations.


you're directly involved in the alternation.


The altercation doesn't involve you in any way.


Parents should spend time with their children.


The parents are affected with the coronavirus and need to be quarantined.


The children are very young and need parents to take care of all their needs.


The children are young and dependent upon them.


There children are grown up and live far away.


The parents want to build a loving relationship with their children.


The parents have to work lots of hours to support their family.


The children are going through a rough time and need the support.


being upset that my boyfriend didn't believe I was stranded after I lied to him

It's understandable to get upset when someone thinks you are lying.


You have evidence and they are in denial


You have never given them a reason to not trust you.


You pride yourself as being scrupulously truthful in general.


It's understandable that sometimes there are reasons we can't do as much as we'd like.


The reasons are completely outside your control.


We were given plenty of time to complete our tasks.


not wanting to hang out with my friend's much older boyfriend

It's okay to avoid situations that make you uncomfortable.

Friends or family are depending on you to be there.


You want to overcome your fear of public speaking.


You need to make a presentation for your job.


The situations involve life saving surgery.


The situation is a social event with friends.


not wanting to put someone else's money into my account and deposit and give it to them

You should not rely on someone else to deposit your money.


You don't have time to get to the bank yourself.


You are physically unable to go to the bank.


The person is untrustworthy and a prior thief.


the person has been unreliable in the past


wanting my boyfriend to stop/cut down on smoking weed

It is okay to care about the health of those you love.


You are being intrusive and they ask you to stay out of their personal affairs.


The other person has a terminal disease.


People are expected to love their family.


They are toxic or abusive sorts of people.


They've been treated well by them and been shown love and concern in the past.


Their family has done hurtful things to them.


Their family has always been good to them.


It's wrong to ruin your partner's friendships.


Their friends are a bad influence on them.


It's just an expression of possessiveness.


Those friends are trying to break up your relationship.


Those friends have known your partner longer than you have.


You know the friendship is with a toxic person.


you trust your partner to decide who to be friends with.


Your partner's friends are toxic drug dealers.


Your partner's friends are married to your friends.


wanting to go move in with my dad despite living with my mom almost all my life

It's wrong to do something that would upset a parent.


The parent has asked you to leave them alone.


They are an overly dramatic parent who gets upset with everything.


The parent is interfering in your adult career choices.


You know your parent is right about the issue.


Your parent has unreasonable expectations for your life, like winning an Olympic medal.


You make your loving parent think you don't love them back.


wanting to not want work as hard as I do

Working hard is a sign of good character.


You're building a business from the ground up.


You work so hard, and long, that you neglect your family and loved ones.


You're working toward a goal, and you attain that goal through all of your hard work.


It's okay to move someone's inoperable vehicle if it's on your property.

Local, or state, laws forbid moving another's property without notifying them.


If it is blocking your access to your property.


you told them it was OK to leave it on your property.


They have a court order telling you not to.


It is against your HOA to have it there.


getting mad at a girl for pulling my hat off on a date

You should not touch other people without permission.


You are a surgeon with a patient who was brought in unconscious.


They are unconscious and you are treating them in a hospital


It is generally rude not to help somebody with a disability if they appear to need help.


you are also disabled and not able to assist.


you can easily help them at no cost to yourself.


they tell you they do not want your help.


you can see they're struggling and looking around for help.


They don't want to feel like they need help.


They tell you they don't want your help.


not wanting to see my sister on the anniversary of her son's death

It is insensitive to ignore the anniversary of a death.

It was the death of a distant family member you don't really care about.


You don't really care about that person.


asking my girlfriend to wear clothes that I find more attractive

It is good to be honest with your girlfriend if you don't like the way she looks.


She can't control the aspect of her appearance that you don't like.


She asks for your opinion on her appearance.


You are trying to become closer and build a better relationship.


she is trying to make a good impression with a new group of people.


being mad at my girlfriend for telling her friend something I said about her

It's okay to be mad at your partner if they reveal secrets about you to their friends.

Their friends are all very supportive about what you're going through.


Their friends use the personal information to make fun of you.


They didn't realize you wanted the information kept secret.


You specifically asked them not to share the information.


The secret involves a lifelong illness which manifests suddenly.


You specifically asked your partner to be discreet and not discuss it with anyone.


It is good to make time for your grandparents.


You love too far away from your grandparents.


Your grandparents helped raise you and are very supportive.


Your grandparents are racist and unkind.


It is okay if not all the family can meet.

It is your parent's 85th birthday party.


The family lives in different parts of the country.


They live nearby and it's for a funeral.


someone not following every other car in traffic cut me off I flipped on high beams

Hypothesis: One should never engage in road rage.


Hypothesis: One should never engage in road rage.


Hypothesis: One should never engage in road rage.

The other is a drunk driver and you are trying to stop them.


Hypothesis: One should never engage in road rage.

You are going to crash into another car with anger.


Hypothesis: One should never engage in road rage.

The other person made an honest mistake.


being upset about my best friend's new relationship

When your friend is jealous of your relationship, it's okay to be angry.

They are keeping their jealousy to themself.


They are trying to break up your relationship.


Your friend is spreading rumors about you


Your friend has recently broken up with someone.


You've been blowing off your friend for your partner a lot.


Your friend acts out on their jealousy by yelling at you.


you have purposely done something to make them jealous.


wanting my maths teacher to speak English

Hypothesis: Studying math can be confusing.


Hypothesis: Studying math can be confusing.

You don't have a good teacher to help you learn it.


Hypothesis: Studying math can be confusing.


Hypothesis: Studying math can be confusing.

Your parents are both college math professors.


Hypothesis: Studying math can be confusing.

You struggle to see shapes and numbers due to an injury.


Hypothesis: Adults are expected to be independent.


Hypothesis: Adults are expected to be independent.

They are not able to take care of themselves.


not wanting my gf to post certain things

It's not okay to do things that could hurt a significant other.


They have told you before that those things hurt them.


It involves hard medical decisions made on their behalf.


I pulled so hard on my significant other's arm, as the cliff edge crumbled away, that it dislocated at the shoulder.


My significant other's parents are especially prone to drop by unannounced.


it is that you are leaving them because they hurt you too.


throwing away my wrapped sanitary pad in the trash can out in the café because the bathroom trash can was overflowing already

It's lazy to use another trash can when you can push down the trash in one near you.

Both trash cans will be emptied at the end of the day per policy


How is that lazy? It would be easiest to use the close trash can.


The trash can close to you is filled with live rodents.


Someone else is stuck with the job of carrying two trash cans out to the surb.


One of them is designated for a specific type of trash.


There is broken glass in the nearer trash can.


The other trash can belongs to someone else.


revoking my offer to pay for professional dog training and gave my mom and (mostly) my grandma an ultimatum

Hypothesis: It's good to help out family.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out family.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out family.

Your family harms you when you see them.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out family.

Your family members are getting older and need lots of assistance.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out family.

The family members have totally ignored your children's birthdays for over ten years.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out family.

You have such fond memories of so many years of family support.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out family.

They are trying to take advantage of you.


being angry with my girlfriend for wearing her wedding ring

It's reasonable to be upset if a romantic partner can't move past a former lover.


They just broke up with that former lover a few weeks ago.


They broke up with the other lover decades ago.


The person was abused and is suffering from PTSD.


They haven't been with the former lover in years.


Hypothesis: It's unhealthy to vape.

A doctor has told you to vape marijuana for pain management.


Hypothesis: It's unhealthy to vape.


Hypothesis: It's unhealthy to vape.

Your doctor has told you not to because you have a health issue.


telling my girlfriend if he ever get married I would would a prenuptial agreement

You should trust your significant other enough to not need a prenuptial agreement.


You are just starting out in life and wealth built up during the marriage will be held jointly.


They have shown that they keep things from you.


The prenup could save everyone a lot of grief, in the event that you divorce.


You inherited a trust fund that has complicated legal requirements regarding marriage.


not giving a business owner his phone number back

If you let something out of your possesson you should not expect it back.


The other person promised to give it back


This person has failed to return things in the past


you're paying someone for a task or service


It was an accident that you let it out of your possession.


You let it out of your possession on purpose.


You had someone sign a contract indicating that they will return.


You don't know who you let use the item.


It's expected that children honor and respect their parents.

The children have parents who are absent or abusive.


The child has parents who are kind and loving.


Their parents are mean to them and do not respect them.


They are from a culture that places emphasis on such things.


Their parents have been mean and are not in their life.


They have been raised in household with parents who have served.


Some parents are abusive, and should be reported to the child welfare bureau.


Some parents are dedicated to assuring the best for their families regardless of financial circumstances.


accidentally bumping a table while my friend was doing a sketch and refusing to apologise

Hypothesis: You shouldn't disturb others.

You need to warn them of a problematic situation.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disturb others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disturb others.

They are being overly sensitive about your behavior.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disturb others.

The other person just underwent surgery and needs to rest.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disturb others.

they have to sleep to work early the next day.


It's selfish to only look out for yourself.


You have children and family that depend on you.


nobody else is looking out for you and you need to practice self-care.


you have small children who also need to be cared for.


You are a competitor in an individual sport.


turning down a tinder hookup's advances that night

It's okay to turn down someone's advances.


They are making you uncomfortable and you're not interested.


You have people nearby to ensure your safety.


You are being stubborn because you don’t want to seem easy


You don’t have genuine feelings for them


calling my brother-in-law and alcoholic if he is an alcoholic

You should approach sensitive topics gently.

You have permission to speak freely on something.


it is an emergency and someone is about to die


you know that the person you are speaking to will be upset by the subject


You really need to get the other person's attention.


asking my friend to reimburse me 150$ for my phone screen she broke

It is rude to expect money for an accident.


You're a shopkeeper whose products were broken.


Hypothesis: A tip is expected for good service.

gratuity has already been enforced automatically by the service provider.


Hypothesis: A tip is expected for good service.

you are visiting a country where service providers only make money from commission and tips.


Hypothesis: A tip is expected for good service.


Hypothesis: A tip is expected for good service.

You are visiting a country where tipping isn't customary.


Hypothesis: A tip is expected for good service.

The service is waiting tables at a restaurant.


wanting to tell this girl she's not allowed to come to my house especially with her boyfriend

It's okay to not allow someone over if you don't like their partner.


the partner in question makes you feel afraid or uncomfortable.


You're having a small party for friends only.


You have no good reason to dislike their partner.


Their partner has done hurtful things to you.


getting upset with my friend for pretending to cut

It's good to seek help if your mental health is not well.


You think you might hurt yourself or others.


You do not recognize your mental health is not well.


You are aware your mental health can be greatly improved.


it is causing you to miss things that you enjoy.


You don't have the money and have to steal to pay for it.


Your condition is making life harder for your loved ones.


Friendship promotes civility among people, which is good for everyone.


The people becoming civil to one another used to be combatant towards one another.


People are friends to gang up on others.


the friendship is part of a healthy relationship.


there is a lot of drama in the friendship.


it helps the overall mental state of mind.


borrowing my brothers coat from time to time

It is expected that you share items of clothing with your siblings sometimes.


The sibling stretches out your sweaters.


You're the same size and money is tight.


They are much bigger and will stretch and ruin your clothes.


they have nothing to wear to a special event and you have the perfect outfit and are not using it.


being an Asshole to my Ex-GF who still lives with me

It is bad to be disrespectful to anyone.


They've treated you badly and earned your disrespect.


They have done nothing but treat you nice.


they need to be taught an important life lesson via your disrepect


They are a bully and have been mean to you.


crossing the street when the light changed

It's good to be patient and not rush things in life


you want to do things right the first time.


You are elderly and trying to fulfill a bucket list.


There is a rapidly approaching deadline.


asking my new landlord/roommate to turn the goddamn heat up

Hypothesis: You should make requests politely.


Hypothesis: You should make requests politely.


Hypothesis: You should make requests politely.

You have already requested it several times.


Hypothesis: You should make requests politely.

You want that person to consider the request.


Hypothesis: You should make requests politely.

You are telling people to move out of the way or a wall will collapse on their heads.


Hypothesis: You should make requests politely.

you want people to cooperate with your request.


telling my mom that she sounds childish for using people

Hypothesis: It is rude to call your mother names

You are calling your mother a nice name.


Hypothesis: It is rude to call your mother names


Hypothesis: It is rude to call your mother names

You need to get your mother's attention quickly to save her from a runaway car.


Hypothesis: It is rude to call your mother names

Your mother is already calling you names.


Hypothesis: It is rude to call your mother names

Your mother is a kind and caring person.


asking my bf to stay up with me to help me calm down

It's appropriate to stay up with someone who may be a danger to themselves or others.

You do not have experience in that area of harm reduction.


You have no training and don't know how to help them.


you being there helps keep them stable until professionals arrive.


You called the police and admitted them to the hospital.


They are your best friend and you want nothing to happen to them.


not being ok with my gf's new demands to be able to go out for dinner/drinks with whoever she chooses

It's healthy to avoid jealousy in romantic relationships.

Your pardner has been unfaithful in the past.


You've never been given reason to be suspicious.


Your partner hasn't done anything to make you jealous.


Your partner has broken trust in the past.


Your partner is giving you reasons not to trust them.


The relationship seems to be going well.


calling my dad disgusting after he found a new girlfriend a month after my mom's death

It is expected to take time to grieve after the death of a spouse.


It has been a lot of years since the death.


It's been years since your spouse passed away.


Your spouse passed away just a few days ago.


You hated your spouse for being abusive.


not introducing my boyfriend in the middle of a really intense conversation

Making proper introductions to ensure your significant other is included in a group setting is expected.

Everyone is already acquainted with each other.


Your significant other doesn't know anyone in the group.


Your significant other has told you to exclude them.


You know the others in the group well and your significant other doesn't know them at all.


Your significant other tells you not to introduce them.


Your significant other is the main focus of the group setting.


The majority of the group are friends of your significant other.


Your significant other suffers from social anxiety.


feeling annoyed when people open up to me

It's understandable to want to seek out people to listen to you.

What you're trying to say is harmful to those people.


You are simply refusing to take responsibility for yourself.


You are a member of a marginalized group.


The people will mock you for your ideas.


You want to teach others the right way to do something.


not telling a suspicion about a girl cheating

You should have proof before making serious accusations.

You are a victim of a certain type of crime.


You know the accusation could hurt someone's reputation.


Your life is being threatened by someone else and they tell you to make up serious allegations against someone else.


You are accusing your boss of a serious crime.


You’re trying to do whatever it takes to beat somebody


Making the accusations would get someone in trouble with the law.


meeting a girl in relationship many times a week

Is bad meeting somebody in a relationship.


They are in a relationship with your friend.


They are going to break up with their partner soon.


They're in an open or polyamorous relationship.


not quitting smoking weed just because my husband has to

Just because someone can't do something, that doesn't mean you shouldn't be allowed.


It wouldn't affect anyone else's well being.


it is prohibited to all due to safety issues.


you don't want to make them feal jealous.


asking my husband not to play video games one night

It's expected that partners should make time for each other.

They are busy doing very important work.


One of them is working overtime to support the family.


If they expect to maintain the relationship.


They have decided they need some time apart.


They have been missing each other and not able to spend time together.


It is your right to end a relationship if you think it is best for you.

the relationship is a parent and their child


You would have to move out and that would make you homeless.


You're bi-polar and suffer from mood swings.


You're miserable and there is little hope the relationship will improve.


The only reason you are doing it is if the other person forgot to set the morning alarm.


The relationship is ruining your mental health.


Hypothesis: It's bad to curse are your friends.


Hypothesis: It's bad to curse are your friends.

Your friends also curse at you and you're both comfortable with that style of communication.


Hypothesis: It's bad to curse are your friends.

Your friends aren't used to that kind of language.


Hypothesis: It's bad to curse are your friends.

You are really upset at them and trying to get your point across.


Hypothesis: It's bad to curse are your friends.

they're close enough to you to understand


Hypothesis: It's bad to curse are your friends.

you want to maintain a healthy relationship with them


It is not ok to be mean to someone who just needs some help

The person is being too choosy in their help that they want.


They put themselves in the predicament with their careless behavior.


You know they've done all they can and could use your help.


making excuses to spend time with a very busy someone

It's okay to want to spend time with others.

Going out with friends is simply a ploy to avoid facing up to problems at home.


You've been overburdened with work and need to have some fun.


You're neglecting someone else in your life.


You've been cooped up alone for a while.


you have to be focused on a work project.


You are a murderer in solitary confinement.


wanting my cousins as my bridesmaids but not wanting their mother at my wedding

It's common for family slightly removed to want only the immediate family at some functions.

They are very close to slightly removed family members.


They don't get along with slightly removed family members.


The great grandfather of the family just passed away and he was close to many people.


Many members of the family slightly removed were recently released from jail.


The functions are very large and they can invite lots of people.


they don't know the extended family that well.


being upset that my BIL had a no kid rule at his wedding except for

It's rude to not invite people children to events that you invited the person too.

It's not at an appropriate venue for children.


The planned activities are not appropriate for children.


You are inviting other people's children.


being upset with my boyfriend because someone he used to hook up with texted him today

It's wrong to be mad at a boyfriend for something he has zero control over.

His snoring woke you up early right before you had a big exam.


He was recently diagnosed with a medical condition.


You warned him to avoid the situation that removed his control.


He wasn't up front about the issue to begin with.


He's just saying he doesn't have any control over it.


He's told you many times before that he cannot control that thing.


He get's himself put in the same position over and over, with no regard for your feelings.


He had no idea that the situation was going to happen.


It is understandable to be upset with someone that prevents you from doing your workout.

They are trying to show you the proper way of doing an exercise.


You have limited time to get your workout in.


They are stopping you from hurting yourself.


You're being told not to work out because you should be helping with your child's medical emergency


That person is jealous of your successful weight loss


it is your sick child and you need to take care of them.


you have had it planned and scheduled a week in advance.


telling an Ex-Friend's wife he's a Serial Cheater

It's good to tell others if their partner is cheating.


There are children and revealing the truth could breakup the family


The adultery is making the innocent party look a fool.


Hypothesis: It's good to be friendly.

the people where you are are mistreating you.


Hypothesis: It's good to be friendly.

you are in a social setting like a party.


Hypothesis: It's good to be friendly.

You have a clinical mood disorder and cannot control it.


Hypothesis: It's good to be friendly.


Hypothesis: It's good to be friendly.

The person you are being friendly to is a serial killer.


Hypothesis: It's good to be friendly.

You are in a professional context where you need to be unbiased


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad at your partner.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad at your partner.

they made a mistake and are genuinely sorry.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad at your partner.

they stood you up and left you in public alone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad at your partner.

Should one's partner be seriously ill, one may need additional supportive caretakers.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad at your partner.

If one's partner quite purposefully teases the family pet.


Hypothesis: It's okay to get mad at your partner.

They didn't do something they promised to do.


Hypothesis: It's good to have fun once in a while.

Having fun tends to land you in legal trouble.