You're missing an important point they're trying to make by not listening closely enough.


asking my mom to tone down the incessant chatter

You have to accept that some people just like talking for the sake of talking.

They're going on and on about the same old topic despite you telling them this multiple times.


not wanting to go back to a local coffeehouse

It's OK that not everyone likes to go back to a business, even if nothing was wrong.

They are not going back because of discrimination.


You have made plans to go back to meet a group.


It might be a bit too crowded for comfort.


they don't go back for prejudiced reasons.


There are other, better businesses nearby.


They're only refusing to go back because of the gender of the owner.


complaining about paying a friend full price for photography

Hypothesis: It's good to value a friend's time.


Hypothesis: It's good to value a friend's time.


Hypothesis: It's good to value a friend's time.

your friend is constantly interjecting themselves into your life


Hypothesis: It's good to value a friend's time.

your friend makes sure they make time for you


Hypothesis: It's good to value a friend's time.

They only want to hang out because you pay for everything


Hypothesis: It's good to value a friend's time.

You value their time a lot more than their own.


Hypothesis: It's good to value a friend's time.

It means you're always on time for your meetings with them.


going against my parents wishes to go to study medicine

You should follow your own path in life.

You don't really know what you want to do with your life.


You know what you're most passionate about.


You have a concrete plan for how to achieve your goals


you have always known what you want to do.


You have your independence and are very smart


You have committed your life to following God's path.


It's okay to ask someone not to do something that annoys you.


the annoyance could harm your mental health.


The person who is annoying you has Tourette's syndrome and can't manage his tics.


That person is your child, you are on an airplane, and his behavior is annoying everyone.


not wanting my roommates friends to come over

It's okay to not want people in your home you don't want their.


Your roommate wants to have their friends over.


It's important to try to understand why your friend is acting strangely before judging them too harshly.

you already know and object to what they're upset about


Your friend's strange behavior causes you physical harm.


Your friend's strange behavior is relatively harmless.


they have a history of erratic behavior.


their strange behavior is harmful to others.


you know they are generally a good person.


telling my girlfriend that she's not special because she's going through some shit

It is wrong to not be there for your partner.

Unless your partner is doing something illegal.


Especially if they are going through a health scare.


You're too far away from your partner to be there for them.


You promised to pick up your partner from the hospital.


taking home a girl some guy was on a date with

It's fine to refuse to go home with your date.


you've decided you don't want to take things further


Especially if it makes you uncomfortable.


not wanting to further my relationship with my mother

It's okay to not always get along with family members.


Venting helps everyone understand each other better.


It causes you heart problems when you don’t get along


At the end of the day you love each other


you are able to take a break from being around them.


Hypothesis: You should never exclude others.

They cause already established members discomfort.


Hypothesis: You should never exclude others.

You pride yourself on making people feel welcome.


Hypothesis: You should never exclude others.


Hypothesis: You should never exclude others.

It is a childrens birthday party and you didnt invite the adults.


Hypothesis: You should never exclude others.

It is an office party and occuring in the workplace.


Hypothesis: You should never exclude others.

Everyone else in the class is invited to the party.


wanting to decide between two tattooists

Hypothesis: It's good to shop around.


Hypothesis: It's good to shop around.


Hypothesis: It's good to shop around.

You want to make sure you get the best deal


rejecting my friend and hurting her feelings

It's wrong to not be supportive of friends.

You don't believe what they're doing is right.


They are asking for you to support them and be there for them.


You are playing a competitive game against them.


YOu can see they are doing something really good for the community.


They are working hard to make their dreams come true.


It is disrespectful to shame someone about an aspect of their body.


they are proud of that aspect of their body.


You are roasting them with other comedians.


They are a serial flasher in the midst of criminal activity.


They are a patient at the hospital you work at.


they've asked you to be critical against them


they're in a bad place in terms of their self image


It's ok to end relationships you are no longer interested in.


The other person wants children and you don't.


The other person has become very violent.


You are married or own a business together and need to go through legal steps first.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

Unless they are toxic and have hurt you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

They were talking to you about something.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

they are causing you physical or emotional harm.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

they have done nothing to deserve being cut off.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

you want to have people to go clubbing with.


attending my sisters wedding but not being able to afford a gift

It's nice to do what you can to support family.

they won't attempt to support themselves.


You have the time or financial means to do so.


You have children that are in kindergarten.


You should talk to your friend about what is annoying you about them.


Unless you are afraid it would hurt their feelings.


Especially if they have some really bad habits.


you feel that your annoyance is actually unfounded


they ask you to be open and upfront with them


They have Tourette's syndrome and they have no control over their tics.


They aren't even aware of their actions and how it affects you.


not wanting to be my little brothers 'parent'

It's expected for older children to pitch in and help parents with child care.

The older children are basically raising their younger siblings.


They do it voluntarily and are getting paid for their assistance.


The child is trying to save up their allowance for a bike.


the older children are not mature enough to help with younger children.


the parents have paid the older children to babysit.


the older children have school and homework.


not wanting to date or be intimate with my "bigger" friend? if she were thinner she'd be my perfect match

It is okay to be attracted to certain things.


You are attracted to inhaling dangerous chemicals.


You are attracted to pretty things that make other people happy, too.


They lead you down the path you were meant to be on.


Those things pose a danger to yourself or others like explosives.


Those things bring you peace and pleasure.


ending a friendship after my friend got a teacher suspended for a month

It's wrong to do bad things to your teacher.

you're trying to prank your teacher to humble them


You are role playing with your spouse and they are dressed as the teacher.


You wish to maintain your grade point average.


they've been deliberately rude toward you


they're only trying to do their job for you


wanting my son's dad's family to collect him for contact

It's understandable that sometimes, relatives make unreasonable demands.

They want you to stop leaving the toilet seat up.


You are contributing your fair share for rent and chores.


they have a right to because you made them a promise.


being mad that my long distance girlfriend didn't text me goodnight after a night getting drunk

Trust should be a major factor in a long distance relationship.

Neither of you particularly cares about monogamy.


You're both prone to worrying when you're separated.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


Especially if you would like a future with your partner.


You're trying to break up the relationship.


asking my friend to replace an item she broke a year ago

It's rude to hold people accountable for accidents beyond their control.


People are aware of faulty brakes and overlook it.


There was a medical emergency and the driver could not control the car.


They had substantial prior warning of potential impending danger.


The person's title makes them responsible for whatever happened.


The person didn't even know about the accident when it occurred.


You should always get a job to take care of yourself.


You are an adult and have no one to support you.


arguing with my mom over shaving my arms

It's acceptable to shave your arms for aesthetic reasons


You feel completely comfortable with some hair on your arms.


You think the hair is thick and unsightly.


you're trying to hide the fact that you have super hairy arms


throwing out my future brother in law if he acts up at my wedding

You don't have to tolerate bad behavior from family members at your wedding.


You know one of them is planning to propose


they are the people paying for the wedding.


Its a relative and they have had too much to drink


sleeping with someone my friend has feelings for if those feelings aren't reciprocated

It's rude to sleep with someone a friend is attracted to.

That person's sexual orientation means they'll never be interested in your friend.


You fault the fact that person chose you over your friend.


Your friend doesn’t get lucky as much as you do


You already have a relationship with them.


you yourself have strong feelings for the person


your friend has been trying to spark a relationship with them


Your friend is straight and the other person is gay.


You know your friend would be upset with you.


declining being Maid of Honour for my best friend of 25 years

You should be there for your friend at their wedding.

You live on the other side of the country and can't afford a plane ticket.


You think your friend has an affair with your partner


Your friend is getting married out of the country.


Your friend is getting married close to where you live.


not being into my gfs sexual fantasies even though I used to be

You should be honest with your sexual partners about your fantasies.

You know they would find the fantasies frightening.


You think they might enjoy the fantasies too.


you want to be compatible with your sexual partners.


You ever want to live out those fantasies.


telling my brother his girlfriend is the worst

You shouldn't say hurtful things towards a family members girlfriend.

The girlfriend was found hurting your family member.


She has brought flowers and wine for the host.


wanting my my flatmate to have his girlfriend round less

You shouldn't tell your roommate what to do.


It is an emergency situation and they are panicking.


You are telling them to do their half of the chores.


You don't know them that well or understand their situation.


They keep leaving their stuff all over the counters.


Hypothesis: It's good to cut ties with exes.

you're both single and want to reconcile.


Hypothesis: It's good to cut ties with exes.


Hypothesis: It's good to cut ties with exes.

Your current partner doesn’t want you to be friends with them


Hypothesis: It's good to cut ties with exes.

you have shared custody of your children with them


snooping through my son's computer and destroying it

It's okay to want to know what your children do on their computer.


They are do young to understand how someone can deceive them.


You are invading their privacy by reading their messages to friends.


You want to protect the computer from viruses.


the computer does not have parental controls.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to work for Uber.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to work for Uber.

It's the only job in town and you need money to pay your bills.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to work for Uber.

You don't like driving much and are not very social.


getting mad at my boyfriend for being too gentle during sex

It's acceptable to communicate your sexual desires to your significant other.

You know that some of your desires your partner has major issues with and would make them very uncomfortable.


You want your partner to know who you really are and you want to be happy in the relationship and let it grow in a healthy way.


You know that they would take them the wrong way.


You want to build your relationship on trust.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone else a slut.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone else a slut.

It is during sex and that is their kink.


silently getting up and walking away when my grandma sat next to me

It's not okay to shun family members when they want to spend time with you.


They refuse to meet your boyfriend of 10 years.


You are shunning them over something you did and are embarrassed about.


those family members are always standing you up or asking you for money.


they have always invited and included you in their activities.


They keep talking about your personal life.


"breaking up" the family over a lottery ticket

You shouldn't let money ruin your relationships.

Your partner is making you financially unstable.


You and your partner aren't struggling when it comes to money.


the disagreements about money are really due to a bigger underlying problem such as excessive control or lack of trust.


you have open communication and can establish some ground rules for spending and saving.


Unless your partner is wasting your money.


Especially if your partner is responsible with money.


The amount of money is very small and you can afford it.


You shouldn't keep in contact with your ex's.

They're very good friends or you might want to get back together with them at some point.


You've moved on to a new relationship and want your new partner to feel secure.


You were always better as friends than boyfriends.


Your husband has made it a point to ask you not to talk to your ex anymore


You both enjoy spending time together doing platonic exercises.


You get into a screaming argument every time you see each other.


It's wrong to not include those you care about in your life.

those people have proved to be untrustworthy.


You know they are busy working on themselves.


It's expected that people will want to celebrate on their birthday.


They are turning a milestone birthday, like 21.


their religion does not recognize birthdays.


they're not the type of person that likes to celebrate.


The person has lots of friends and family.


not speaking with my ex best friend anymore

Giving your friend the cold shoulder without explanation is mean.


They spread vicious lies about you on purpose.


they have betrayed you in a way that can't be forgiven.


unless they have deeply hurt your feelings.


telling my wife no about having another baby

Partners are expected discuss important life decisions like having a child.

The partners only recently got together.


The partners are considering becoming engaged.


they don't want their relationship to last very long.


One partner is severely disabled and is incapable of making decisions.


One of you wants to make a major life decision right now.


telling my brother to stop talking through his headset at 4 am

You should be courteous to other people.


The other people are cruel and violent towards you.e


They look like they're having a rough day.


not wanting my housemate to come to my birthday celebrations

It is rude to exclude your housemate from a celebration.

They are known to get overly intoxicated.


They keep talking about the celebration.


It is a private activity for family only.


It is okay to remain friends with a former romantic partner.


Your former romantic partner has a restraining order against you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.

the people are being crass and unpleasant.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

you are playing Monopoly Cheater's Edition.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

it is agreed upon ahead of time that it is okay.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

No one else needs to cheat to get a good grade


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

You could get expelled from the University for cheating on an exam.


not telling my boyfriend I knew his sister was planning on losing her virginity

You shouldn't stick your nose into your partner's family's life.

They want to vent to you about their family problems.


They try to minimize contact with their family.


your partner is very close to their family.


You see obvious abuse going on  and your partner can use some help distancing themselves from it.


Their family life is warm and loving and they haven't asked you to.


wanting to make a noise complaint about my neighbor

You should be considerate of your neighbors.


They're friendly and welcomed you to the neighborhood with cookies.


you might ask them to watch your house while you are on vacation.


not going to a good friends bday party because I really don't get along with half the other guests and don't want to spoil the evening, neither for me nor for her

It is considerate to inform your friend in advance if you do not plan to attend their party.

Your babysitter cancels at the last minute.


You know ahead of time you'll have a scheduling conflict.


you haven't had a change due to an emergency situation


you were not planning on attending at all


You are the one helping them get the party ready.


you have no way of getting the message to them


you want to be invited to the next party


You shouldn't try to pass the blame of your farts onto someone else.


not including a classmates name as part of an assignment for credit

It's wrong to not include credit for someone who did something important.


They did most of the work on a school project.


Unless they have already left the company.


Especially if you want to be perceived as fair.


they could get a promotions from the work.


They told you they wanted to stay anonymous.


the person asked that their name be left off.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't provoke others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't provoke others.

You want other people to be calm and happy.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't provoke others.

You are trying to motivate them as part of a team.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't provoke others.

It is part of a strategy during a boxing match.


convincing my coworker to sign up for a pyramid scheme

Hypothesis: Coworkers should trust each other.


Hypothesis: Coworkers should trust each other.


Hypothesis: Coworkers should trust each other.

They are sales people competing for sales.


Hypothesis: Coworkers should trust each other.

Your coworkers are known to be gossipers.


Hypothesis: Coworkers should trust each other.

Your work is based on trust and mutual respect.


Hypothesis: Coworkers should trust each other.

Someone keeps eating lunches out of the fridge.


going the extra mile to get a work project in on time

It is unreliable to refuse to do what it takes to finish a project at work on time.

It isn't possible to get the work in on time regardless of start time.


You can’t get everyone on board to finish it


You are the only one who needs to finish their portion of the project


you think you can make the project better while being a little late


trying to dictate my housemates appliance usage

It is ok to be upset if your housemates are excessively leaving appliances on.

They are hosting a dinner and need to cook all day.


The electric bill was excessive last month.


Their appliances aren't energy efficient.


The housemates are paying the utility bill.


punching a car mirror and breaking a back widow for a guy nearly running me over

If you almost run someone over in your car, you should stop and make sure they're okay.


You never saw or realized what happened.


You don't want to go to jail for a hit and run.


Unless they are running from the police.


They fall down trying to get away from car.


wanting to kick my son's mom out of my house

There's no obligation to tolerate people in your home who you don't want there.

They're refugees and have nowhere else to do.


they are the police and they have a warrant.


they are toxic people and damaging to your well-being.


Unless those people are there trying to help you.


Especially if they are taking advantage of you.


not being able to have stability with friends

You should try to have stable relationships with others.


You want to create community around yourself.


they are your very own roommates who you have to see all the time.


believing a customer's ID was fake mostly because she was awkward

It's expected that you make sure someone's ID is real if they want to buy something with an age requirement.

They're obviously above the age requirement.


You can get in trouble for allowing them to purchase


You already know the person is of age from a past purchase.


There are limits to how often you can help family out.


you have an agreement with your family that says otherwise.


helping stresses you out and causes negative events.


not co-operating with my mom when she refuses to help

It's good to make your expectations clear if you want your relative to help you with something.

Your relative doesn't want to help in the first place.


You are very specific in how you want things done.


You don't have much time to ask for help.


You have time to plan for when they will help you.


You are in a hurry and it's obvious what you need.


You know they're not capable of doing something but, you wanted to make them feel like they're helpful anyway.


You want hurt feelings and misunderstandings.


You allow your relative to include her clear expectations also.


wanting to end contact with a girl after she tells me she's a virgin

You should respect people's personal choices.

Their personal choices involve you in ways you don't want to be involved.


You are close friends with them and want to build a stronger bond.


Those personal choices victimize innocent others.


It has to do with their own body and not yours.


telling a kid to stop playing in my front yard

Private property is expected to not be trespassed on.


No trespassing signs are posted in view.


there's an event being held on the property


breaking up with GF because my friends and family are racist

When your family happens to be racist, don't let your girlfriend know unless you want to break up.

you know that she knows that you're not like them.


she's a different race than your family.


telling her would bring you closer together.


you want her to think you came from a respectable family.


Your girlfriend will have to meet them soon.


Your girlfriend is a different ethnicity.


You have already cut them out of your life.


being upset at my ex when he he asked me why did I stay with him

It's okay to want to know why someone stayed with you in a relationship.


You were never really interested in them in the first place.


They left when you thought everything was going fine.


They constantly try to break up with you.


wanting to label a relationship with a guy who doesn't like labels

If you don't want to be in a relationship, you should tell the person you are dating.


You are afraid they will hurt you for the rejection.


The person wants to have children in the future.


It is already clear between you that you're just having fun.


not taking a "friend" to a concert anymore

Hypothesis: You should go places with your friends.

they are going to something that they're not appropriately aged for such as a bar.


Hypothesis: You should go places with your friends.


Hypothesis: You should go places with your friends.

Your friends are toxic and get into trouble.


Hypothesis: You should go places with your friends.

Your friends provide the social support you need.


sacking off 40th husbands birthday becausse he is an ass

It is not okay to ignore your spouse's birthday.

Your spouse doesn't like to celebrate birthdays.


Your spouse has been looking forward to their birthday for a while.


They have hinted at gifts they would like to receive.


thinking that black characters wouldn't fit in the new witchers series

It's okay to have an opinion about other races.

You are treating other races badly because of your opinons.


Your opinion is based on scientific evidence.


That opinion is that some races are inherently superior.


That opinion is that all races are equal.


You are a professor of race and human culture


Especially if you are teaching a course on racism.


cutting my sister off because of her decisions as an attorney

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

You have a restraining order against them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

They pay for your tuition, and room and board.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

They have repeatedly mistreated you in the past.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

They are paying for your college education.


kicking a kid out of my group of friends because he is annoying even though he doesnt have any other friends

It is wrong to intentionally exclude friends


You make it obvious that you've excluded someone.


you always bully that friend because of his appearance


You're excluding them in planning a surprise party.


You're excluding them in a memorial service for a mutual friend who passed.


not wanting to eat christmas dinner at 2

It's understandable to not want to eat dinner too early.

The alternative is to miss eating entirely.


You are going to have to go many hours before bedtime.


You have to eat before you start your night shift job.


you're busy with work later that evening


You do not eat anything for the rest of the night.


not wanting my grandpa to die on/around my birthday

Hypothesis: It is rude to be selfish


Hypothesis: It is rude to be selfish


Hypothesis: It is rude to be selfish

you have cookies and a child wants them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be selfish

You're around people who have a lot less than you do.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be selfish

your selfishness does not harm anyone else


ghosting the couple I had a threesome with

You shouldn't ignore people you had intimate relations with.

You haven't talked to them in over a decade.


You're in a serious relationship with them.


You found out you had a sexually transmitted disease.


It is good to pry open a door if it is an emergency and you are trying to prevent harm.


there is a fire and it's the only way out


There is a better way to get to the situation.


it is the only exit and people need to get out.


you are trying to escape a building that you have just burglarized


leaving my friend for another without noticing

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch your friends.

If they have always been kind and loyal to you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch your friends.

They are doing illegal and /or immoral things.


leaving my family to go live with my aunt and not forgiving my father

Families are expected to work out any issues together.


They don't have anyone else but each other.


One family member is abusive and violent.


the members feel that they should be private with their issues


the issues are causing a rift among them


they did something behind one another's backs


refusing to waste my break on a preparing for work moral events

It's unreasonable to prepare for a work event during your break.

You're really excited to be working on your project.


you are so busy that is the only time you have.


it is for a very important meeting that you have known about for several months.


The work event is happening that evening.


The event is coming up quickly and you don't have much time.


Your job strictly prohibits off the clock work.


Anyone can do things that qualify them to be hated.


They exhibit deviant behaviors like torturing animals.


arguing with my mother over the state of my mental well being

It is foolish to allow someone to upset you over your mental state.

That person is threatening to make false accusations of child abuse against you.


That person didn't mean to be offensive.


It helps you to realize that you should seek help from someone.


You get so upset that you say or do something hurtful to them.


You have been struggling to better yourself.


You are working on improving your mental state.


avoiding a (Difficult) Lifelong Friend moving to my city

It's expected that you want your friends to live in your city.

you are trying to get away from your old friends and make new friends.


you like doing things with your friends.


They have better lives for themselves some place else.


You understand that they are adults and they can do what they want


You will miss them all the time if they don’t live there


You study all day and have no free time.


you're trying to start over from scratch


you need your friends to help support you


not wanting to spend time or talk to my best friend because of his dating habits

You should tell a friend if you have concerns about their choices.


There's only one clear choice they should have made.


You know they have different values than you do.


You're worried there's a risk they might die.


Their choice has nothing to do with you.


Their choices have no harmful consequences.


Your friend has made it clear they do not want to know your opinion.


You feel they do not have all the information they should have to make the choices.


telling the girl Im not sexually attracted to her

It is okay to be attracted to certain types of people.


You treat everyone with courtesy whether you're attracted to them or not.


you've developed your preference over the course of your lifetime


being upset that my friend lied about her whereabouts

It's okay to be upset with your friend if they lied to you.

they lied to you for a very good and noble reason.


Your friend lied to get you a surprise gift.


Your friend lied about kissing your partner.


You have never lied to them about anything


They lied about sleeping with your boyfriend.


The lie could of changed a big decision you made.


It is understandable to be upset with a friend that is happy with your failure.


They purposefully tried to sabotage you.


You failed at achieving your greatest dream.


The failure was intentional to avoid a promotion.


Your friend isn't in a healthy state of mind.


your faliure leads to better opportunities.


breaking with my girlfriend after she denies me at work

It's bad to deny your partner when they want affection.


You are home together on Valentine's Day.


You're trying to sleep early to get to work on time.


You're exhausted and really need to sleep.


You've spent the last two hours cuddling.


they don't deserve your affection at that moment.


not wanting to order a bridesmaids dress online

It is acceptable to want to see an item before purchasing it.


Your assistant is taking care of the major details.


Only certain colors suit your skin tone.


You are purchasing everyday items on Amazon.


not wanting to meet my dad's new girlfriend

It's rude to refuse to meet a new partner of a close family member.

your family member's new partner is your ex


your family member is looking for validation on their mate selection


That person is racist and you are not white.


You are refusing to meet them because they are not white.


You have heard the new partner has treated your family wrong.


You have no ill will towards the new partner.


your family has always met your new partners.


It is not worth getting upset at a stranger for driving poorly.

they put your life in danger with their driving


wanting my bf to participate in family events

You should communicate your expectations of others.

No one will take your thoughts into consideration.


I just can not come up with something for this undermining one!


You are speaking to the CEO of your company.


Your partner and you are having arguments often.


You are a doctor secretly testing your patient for certain symptoms.


It's okay to live your live as you see fit.


By doing so you're breaking laws or harming others.


You plan to stay true to yourself and not have regrets.


You are single and not tied down to a family.


Gay people are just as good of roommates as straight people.


They always invite strangers over without asking


They clean up after themselves and pay the rent on time


Especially if they do their share of the chores.


telling my friend about an art haow he wasn't available for

Hypothesis: It is rude to rub things in to someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to rub things in to someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to rub things in to someone.

you are a masseuse applying oil to a client


saying our teacher should cut ties with us

It's important to consider the effects on everyone when you make a decision for your group.

Unless you are the boss and the only one who understands the implications.


Especially if everyone deserves an equal voice.


some people's needs are more important than others.


They're counting on you to make good choices.


Members of your group trust your good judgment and leadership qualities.


starting playing a song I co-wrote with my old band in my new band

You should respect the works created with your old band and not perform them in your new band.


The other band members are not getting paid for it.


the old band owns the rights to the old material


you have a signed release from your old band.


not wearing a charity shirt given to me for a race

It's wrong not to wear something someone bought for you for an important event.


That someone is going to be at the event as well.


The purchase does not meet the dress code of the event.


demanding to know if my friend was still coming to visit or not

You shouldn't hide things from your friends.

You're trying to protect them from being hurt.


they are secrets you keep with your spouse


you are trying to build loyalty with them


You're planning a surprise party for them.


You're hiding the fact you're spreading rumors about them behind their back.


it is something minor they don't need to know.


completing a project so fast that the others in my group didn't get a piece of it

It's good to pull your weight when you are part of a team.


You are competing against another team and are trying to win.


Your team gives less than their total effort.


You're pulling a fair share of the weight.


You have already done more than your share.


thinking my roommate owes my friend an apology

It is pushy to involve yourself in somebody else's disagreement.


you are a lawyer who has been hired to represent someone in a disagreement


They are taking part in a public debate.


throwing away toys left in my yard by neighbor kids

It is expected that parents control their children

The parents want the child to make decisions on their own.


The child is at a park running around and having fun.


They are at library and are being too loud.


Their children are old enough to control themselves.


Their children are too young to understand the consequences of their behavior.


It's fine to upset with a student who is misbehaving.


they are being disruptive to those in class.


They have been sent to the principal's office several times in one week.


They tried to stab a fellow student with a pair of scissors.


telling my friend not to move in with another friend

You shouldn't be jealous of other people's friendships.


Your partner has known the person for their whole lives.


You have lots of rewarding friendships of your own.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your siblings gifts.

you can barely afford to pay your own rent.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your siblings gifts.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your siblings gifts.

They criticize everything you give them.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your siblings gifts.

They have been saving for a laptop for months and you surprise them with it.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your siblings gifts.

You are re gifting them something they gave you.


Hypothesis: It's good to give your siblings gifts.

You don't get on well with your brother or sister.


arguing with a classmate about his learning disability

It's wrong to argue with classmates instead of discussing an issue.


You need to be working together as a team.


You're arguing about their choice of clothing.


not volunteering to be the designated driver

Taking a turn as designated driver is expected.


Your friends have driven you home before when you were drunk.


One of them doesn't have a valid driver's license.


not telling my parents about my long distance partner visiting

It's rude to have to have guests over without telling the people you live with.

You have planned for the people you live with.


The guests are going to be staying overnight.


they are not going to be there at the time.


the people you live with are used to having random company over


the people you live with are your children


The people you live with already had plans.


being rude and ignoring my autistic possibly trans stalker

Hypothesis: It is wrong to stalk someone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to stalk someone.

They have a restraining order against you.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to stalk someone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to have kids.

You're one of a few colonists trying to establish a human settlement on a new planet.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to have kids.

You think you'd be miserable as a parent.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to have kids.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to have kids.

You agreed with your partner that you wanted children previously.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to have kids.

You don't think you would make a good parent.


It is okay to not be around people who make you uncomfortable.


you are an undercover agent and it is part of the job.


Unless those people are your minor children


you need to avoid stress and increase your happiness for health reasons.


ghosting a friend due to her alleged mental health issues

Hypothesis: It is rude to ghost one of your friends

Your friend had an affair with your partner


Hypothesis: It is rude to ghost one of your friends


Hypothesis: It is rude to ghost one of your friends

Unless you are afraid you would put them in danger.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ghost one of your friends

Especially if they depend on your friendship.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ghost one of your friends

They start making violent threats against you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ghost one of your friends

You just dropped them because you got bored with them.


wanting my future kids to not believe in mythical stories

It is understandable to want your children to be realistic.

Your idea of 'realistic' is living a life that looks exactly like yours.


Their only professional ambitions are rock star or sports star.


They are using their imaginations during playtime.


You want to encourage them to dream big.


asking a direct report to turn down their music

Not everyone enjoys the same music, so individuals should listen at a volume for their enjoyment, and not the crowd around them.


the music is being played at a large party


the music is being played at a public area like a pool


not wanting to be a designated driver for my friends

It is rude to expect one of your friends will always be your designated driver.


One of your friends doesn't drink for health reasons.


they have told you they will always be your designated driver.


your friend would like to drink as well.


They are almost always the designated driver on a night out.


cuddling with someone else while on break with my boyfriend

It's ok to flirt with others when you've broken up with your significant other.

The others are in a committed relationship.


You need to start moving on from the abusive relationship


You haven't actually told your significant other yet.


You are flirting with your ex's sibling just to get back at them


not wanting to be friends with her anymore after she kissed me

It's best not to get involved in intimate relationships with friends.


You aren't serious about the relationship.


The basis of a lasting relationship starts with friendship.


You've already involved with someone else.


you both know it could mess up your friendship.


you know deep down that it won't work out.


You both feel a mutual sexual attraction.


not taking my roommate (who has no car) grocery shopping

It is rude to refuse to help others in need

you do not have the ways or means to help them.


you have the ways and means to help them.


It's wrong not to support your friends by not having a job.


You expect them to pay for everything for you.


Your friends are all about prestigious jobs


It's fine to get mad at your friend if they do something that disrespects you.


You have told them not to smoke in your house and they do it anyway.


Your friend was telling you that you have a drinking problem and are in denial.


Your friend has even more issues than you do and you don't tell them that.


calling out my buddy for cheating, in front of his wife

It is wrong to get into someone else's relationship.

You are trying to help them stay together.


you have a concern for the physical well being of one of them.


Unless the are in an abusive relationship.


Especially if you are doing it out of jealousy.


You have a personal interest in the relationship not working out.


meeting a girl in relationship many times a week

It is expected that you can spend time with whoever you choose.


You are a minor child in the custody of your parents.


your boss says you have to attend a meeting.


IT is okay to not to not want to be fooled again


You have been hurt in the past by a loved one.


the last time you were fooled you got really hurt


People treat you like you're gullible all the time.


You like to be made a fool in front of others.


You are made a fool at work and in front of your boss.


being upset at my ex when he he asked me why did I stay with him

You should be honest with your ex-partners.


You have something important to tell them.


Your ex doesn't understand why you broke up.


You parted on good terms and remained friends.


the information is better not shared to set better expectations of yourself


you want to be open and upfront with them


You're afraid they'll attack you if they know your new address.


You have to let them know you've been diagnosed with an STI.


locking my ex-boyfriend out of our house

It's okay to want to move on from a past relationship.

the relationship was long and it ended very recently.


the other person has moved on from the relationship.


your therapist tells you that you aren't ready.


You were emotionally hurt and still need to resolve issues you had during it.


The relationship was filled with hate and anger.


That relationship was toxic to your mental health.


silently fighting over the thermostat with my coworker

It's okay to stick up for yourself once in a while.

you actually did something that is wrong.


you put up with others' bad behavior toward you


Especially if you're not hurting anyone.


you are fighting for what is right and just.


You never listen to what other people want.


telling my ex-girlfriend she shouldn't be drinking while pregnant with our child even though we both agreed to terminate

Hypothesis: It s good to help an unborn child.


Hypothesis: It s good to help an unborn child.


Hypothesis: It s good to help an unborn child.

your intention is not to have the child or continue the pregnancy


Hypothesis: It s good to help an unborn child.

You force someone to carry a fetus to term against their will.


Hypothesis: It s good to help an unborn child.

The mother wants to continue the pregnancy.


It's okay to refuse a rent increase if you can't afford it.


You rent the place alone and will be evicted otherwise.


Your roommates agree to cover the increase.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.


You should not intervine  in other peoples relathionships.


you are asked to help with relationship issues.


You think someone is abusing your friend


You know the other people are in a loving relationship


getting angry at my boyfriend's friend who acts like my house is his

It is okay to want personal boundaries in your personal space.

You are in a contest that requires close quarters.


You have a weak immune system and a virus is going around.


those type of boundaries aren't possible.


constantly leaving my so at night for alone time

It's mean to frequently leave your spouse alone at night.


You have a third shift job you have to go to and she does not.


You don't tell her where you're going and are actually cheating on her with other women.


Children are expected to be honest with their parents.

they are adults and it is none of their business.


They are not afraid of getting in trouble.


The children are raised to tell their parents anything and everything.


Unless they are very young and don't know any better.


Especially if their parents have always been honest with them.


The parents have cultivated an open line of communication and appropriate boundaries with their children.


escalating the situation first by calling my landlord on my neighbours

Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on your neighbors.

They are throwing an underage party with alcohol.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on your neighbors.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on your neighbors.

Your neighbors had an embarrassing fight.


It is not a good thing to walk away from friendships.

The friend is abusive and demeaning to you.


Your friend needs your support during hard times.


You get anxious when you become too good of friends.


your friends toxic behavior rubs off on you


you have been friends with them for a really long time


paying for my son to go to college, but not my daughter

It is wrong to give preferential treatment to one child


You want love and respect from each child.


That child has a condition or handicap that requires special attention.


It would affect the self esteem of the other children around them.


You shouldn't go to parties if you are just going to be quiet.


You feel bored and uncomfortable the whole time.


The party is between friends who are understanding.


not wanting my brother to wear make-up in public

It's wrong to tell your sibling what to do.

Your sibling is a small child and you are older.


You sibling is the more responsible, up-stand one in the family.


you are trying to get them out of danger.


They are a minor child and temporarily in your care.


They are an adult and do not live with you.


Your sibling is in danger of getting hurt.


Your sibling is playing their own video game.


You are older and recognize their error.


asking my roommate/best friend who is (currently) an unemployed single mom of 3 to find another place to live

You don't have to support other people if you don't want to support them.


Your company requires you to wear certain branding that  is associated with the person.


You don't work for the person that you don't want to support.


they are always there for you when you need them


they've done nothing for you when you needed help


Supporting them means a good business deal for your company


not wishing luck to a girl who used to be mean

You should forgive people who have changed their erroneous ways

Their past behavior completely ruined your life.


You are a Christian and believe in forgiveness.


You want to restart a relationship with them.


Those people have caused you a lot of suffering.


Those people haven't directly harmed you through their actions.


They are using religion as a guise for change.


They are a productive member of society.


the previous damage done is just too much to undo.


the relationship meant a lot to you in the beginning.


It is rude to call the police on family.


your family is not doing anything illegal


You're just trying to get even for something.


They are doing something illegal that is endangering someone.


The problem is something you can work it between yourselves.


Especially if they haven't done anything wrong.


It's intrusive when your children makes comments about the people you're seeing.


they are reporting that the people are unkind to them.


the people are always supportive and kind to the children.


Your children do not get along with them.


Your children have not met them in person.


telling a complete stranger that someone is posting explicit stories about him and his students online

It's wrong to post explicit stories of someone online.

You have asked for their permission to post it.


They gave you explicit permission to do so.


You're doing it to ruin their reputation.


It's using false names and not revealing anyone.


Someone's political status may be harmed.


Playing video games is a good way to relax.


You can enter a state of flow when you're playing.


You play puzzle style games with calm music.


You're improving hand eye coordination at the same time.


asking people on the bus taking up an extra seat with a bag to move so I can sit down

Hypothesis: It is rude to take up too much room.

There's ample space and no one seems to care.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take up too much room.

You're in a crowded bus or train and it's standing room only.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take up too much room.

You are saving a place for someone else.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take up too much room.

A pregnant women is made uncomfortable being crowded.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take up too much room.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take up too much room.

You are an obese person and can't help it.


Taking a person cart is not a problem if they are not using it.

they are nearby and their items are in the cart.


you save them the trip of putting it away.


The cart has been abandoned for 10 minutes.


There is a shortage of carts in the store.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to work.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to work.

you actually decide not to work because you don't want to.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be controlling of others


Hypothesis: It is rude to be controlling of others

You put parental controls on your children's phones.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be controlling of others

You try to control your spouse's every move.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be controlling of others

Unless they are your misbehaving children in a public place.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be controlling of others

They are minors and you are their parent.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be controlling of others

They are independent adults with no relation to you.


breaking up with my gf that is too emotionally dependent

It is not good to be too dependent on someone else.


You don't have anyone you can really depend on.


You are paralyzed and they are your care giver.


That person does not like you as much as you like them.


You are neglecting getting a job because you expect the other person to pay your bills for you.


It's expected that your team will have a name.


It's just a temporary team for a warm-up exercise.


asking my family to turn their phone notifications off when I'm around

You shouldn't expect your family to drop everything and give you their undivided attention.

You are blowing out your birthday candles.


You're experiencing a medical emergency.


You're a toddler with something fragile in their hands.


You're an adult and it's the middle of the night.


not wanting to interact with this disabled boy at my college

It is okay to not know how to act around disabled people.


you haven't been around disabled people very much.


You have never been exposed to disabled people before


It's the first time you've met a disabled person.


it is your first time around a disabled person.


It is okay to not forgive someone who wronged you.


The lack of forgiveness is causing you pain in your daily life.


It was decades ago and a fairly minor offense.


Their actions completely ruined your life.


It's normal to want to argue with someone who angers you.


They are someone you will never see again.


They prove a good point although it upsets you.


You feel their point of view is morally wrong.


It is heartless to cut someone off just because of a lie they told.


they are someone you have known for a long time.


You're just trying to embarrass them in front of others.


the lie was something they had kept for many years


They covered for you and took the blame for something you did.


yelling at my mom for lying about getting my Bearded Dragon a bigger tank

Young people are expected to treat their elders with respect.


Their elders have very racist, sexist views.


Their elders genuinely care about the greater good of the community.


their elders are rude and force disrespect from them


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to avoid your friends.

You had a big argument and need some time to calm down.


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to avoid your friends.

They're very lonely and want to spend time with you.


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to avoid your friends.


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to avoid your friends.

You are going through a difficult time and prefer to be left alone.


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to avoid your friends.

The friends have repeatedly tried to contact you.


Hypothesis: It is important to visit family.


Hypothesis: It is important to visit family.

You have a strong relationship with them.


Hypothesis: It is important to visit family.

They live in an area that has been quarantined.


being upset that my boyfriend would want dna testing done if I had a baby

It's hurtful not to trust those you love.

They have have continuously broke your trust.


They have been nothing but loyal to you.


Your loved ones have abused your trust a lot of times.


Your loved ones are always honest with you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut anyone off.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut anyone off.

you're trying to get to the hospital for an emergency.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut anyone off.

You're interrupting someone who is in physical danger.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut anyone off.

the person is droning on and on and has lost everyone's attention,


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut anyone off.

they have important information that they need to pass on to you.


telling my roommate his friend can't stay in his room when no one else is in the house

When someone needs a place to stay, you should offer them a space if you can.


wanting to not invite everyone invited to my wedding reception to my wedding ceremony

It's okay to save money on your wedding by only inviting some people to one part of it.

You purposefully exclude certain people from one part of it to be hurtful.


Someone else is paying for everything and can afford it.


The other people will be hurt by not being invited.


You don't have the money for a full wedding.


It is wrong to take something that is not yours.


It was lost, and you're just taking it to get it to its owner.


the item was in your possession in the first place


the items is dearly loved by the other person


You're hungry and you're stealing food from McDonalds.


You are better off financially than the person you're stealing from.


taking my dad's "side" in the divorce even though he's the one that cheated on my mom

You shouldn't support family members that are in the wrong.

It is not a serious issue and they need a friend.


They are adults who have committed crimes.


You believe they are entitled to a defense.


you think that you can steer them in the right direction.


You shouldn't force your spouse to do something they aren't comfortable with


Your spouse wants to expand their comfort zone.


Your spouse repeatedly asks you to stop.


interfering in professor's lecture when he starts telling offensive jokes

It is impolite to interrupt your professor during a lecture.


They ask you to hold your questions until the end.


your professor encourages people to add commentary


the lecture is on something the professor cares a lot about


You are trying to show off your knowledge.


You have a relevant question about the material they are teaching.


It's good to keep a jovial attitude during mundane events.


You're in a space where you can express real emotion.


refusing to do a request for a friend because I had no time and no details for his request

It's expected that you provide someone with information they need in order to carry out a favor for you.

Obtaining that information is the favor you're asking for.


It's a task you're familiar with and they aren't.


You aren't sure how to accomplish the task.


that information is too sensitive to share.


You shouldn't expect people to prefer you over others.


You're on a dating game and you're trying to win over the date.


You value and respect all people equally and want them to see you  as humble and kind.


saying bad things about my parents, in a speech where I have to be truthful

You shouldn't let your kids say bad things about you.


they have legitimate complaints about your parenting style


they are just trying to hurt your feelings


taking advantage of the fact that my girlfriend only likes sex when drunk

People should look out for their partners, not take advantage of them.

Their partner is actually not a good person


They want to someday marry their partner and have kids with them


They're in an explicitly transactional relationship.


They're their partner's only source of emotional support.


Their partner has cognitive deficiencies.


telling my brother and his friend to be quiet

It's okay to ask your sibling and their friend to be quiet.


It's Saturday afternoon and they are outside playing.


They're giving a presentation for class.


They're talking while you're trying to talk.


you are in their apartment visiting and they are watching a big sporting event.


you are trying to sleep because you have work early in the morning.


They're too loud and everyone else is trying to sleep.


telling my friend I had a sex dream about her

You shouldn't reveal sexual dreams to friends.

they promise not to reveal them to others


they involve someone other than your spouse


Your dreams involve your friends partners.


being pissed at my boyfriend for being clumsy

You should accept your partner's faults.

Your partner's faults include being violent.


Your partner's faults are things they're working on.


the faults are minor and they accept yours.


Your partner's faults are toxic to your own well being.


You are trying to love them unconditionally


Your partner is generous, kind and supportive of you.


telling a friend to take responsibility for her actions

It's wrong to tell your friend what to do.

you are trying to teach your friend something


your friend is trying to teach you something


you are doing so to help them out of danger.


you don't want them to do that to you as well.


They asked you for advice on a decision.


It may lead to them being harmed in anyway.


expecting a diabetic with low blood sugar to actively fix their situation

It is expected that a diabetic person should fix their low blood sugar level promptly.


They have been instructed to do so by a doctor.


The device they use to test their blood sugar is broken.


They've been coping with their condition for years.


telling my younger son that his older brother will take over my business one day, not him

It is wrong to make a child jealous of their sibling.


you care about your children's mental well-being.


the other is showing much better discipline


its to make the child want to achieve more from their life


Parents are trying to get one of their kids to emulate a good behavior in the other for good reasons.


The parents want the siblings to develop close, warm bonds as they age.


The child is jealous unless they get three times as much attention as their sibling.


You're deliberately trying to create conflict between them to control them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.

They're disabled and need you to care for them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.

They are a danger to themselves and others.


requesting a seat change in one of my classes

It's fine to ask for something that will help you out in your education goals.

unless you are asking for something that will help you cheat.


it will increase your chances to succeed.


You're asking for something that doesn't belong to you.


You're asking for something available to a lot of people.


You don't really need the help and are trying to game the system.


You have real need and will not be able to attain them otherwise.


You've maxed out your student loans for the year.


You have good reason to borrow extra money.


not extending an invite to someone I don't like

It is okay to not include people you do not get along with.


You will have a better time without them.


you are trying to get along better with them .


it gives you anxiety thinking about spending time with them.


not including them will make them resentful.


That person is your ex and it's your kid's birthday.


They are related to your significant other.


They lied to your boss and got you fired.


asking my girlfriend to have an abortion

It's wrong to tell your partner what to do.

You are having them help you with something and directions are necessary to the assistance.


You never give them choices only orders.


You are teaching them how to do something.


You have less experience than them in a certain area.


complaining about paying a friend full price for photography

It's rude to expect a friend to provide their services for free.


They are just getting started in their business.


They are doing a job they should be paid for.


hating his fiance's favorite cologne and asking him not wear it

It is okay to not like certain fragrances.

You need a fragrance for a special event.


you already spent a lot of money to get it.


you are just sampling some at retailers.


telling the hosts of our D&D game that their baby is an issue

When having guests over, it's expected to do your best to provide a comfortable and enjoyable environment.

They are coming to see you at home on hospice.


your guests are coming over to settle a dispute


the guests you're having over are your child's friends


You want your guests to have a good time.


You've been planning their visit for some time.


announcing I'm moving (29 yo) out without my family's prior knowledge or input

You should get your family's input before doing something.


You do not fully understand the choice you are making.


It is ok to jump rope in your apartment if you want to.

The floors are thin and the people below you can hear you


the neighbors below you complain it disturbs them.


You know the downstairs neighbor is trying to sleep.


being bribed after witnessing a domestic assault a couple of years back

It is not okay to go along with someone breaking the law


You will end up hurting someone else physically


They are causing harm to another person.


telling my mom about my sister's drinking

Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

your parents will disown you for your sexuality


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

your parents raised you in a trusting environment


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

you are planning a surprise party for them.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

You are planning their surprise anniversary party.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

You are planning for their care in old age.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

Your parents hit you for very minor offenses.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

Your parents talk about you behind your back


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with parents.

They just want to support you and help you no matter what


attempting to dissuade a good friend from getting married to a girl he has dated for 4 months

It is considered rude to interfere with the wedding plans of a friend.

This is a romantic comedy and you are the lead.


You know their partner is planning to stand them up at the alter.


That friend doesn't know their fiance is cheating on them.


You're interfering because you're in love with that friend.


A position has to be filled because of your cancellation.


You're not part of the decision making process.


they are obviously in over their heads and they won't ask for help.


you are not a part of the wedding party.


going to an informational meeting instead of spending time with my girlfriend

It's not okay to neglect your significant other for selfish pursuits

Your pursuit is what's best for your children.


You've been talked to repeatedly about neglecting them.


You both have your own pursuits you agreed to do on your own.


They are in the process of breaking up with you.


they have asked to spend more time with you.


not paying my alcoholic ex-girlfriend's bills

You shouldn't have to pay your ex's bills.


You were never married in the first place.


Your kids will be homeless if you don't.


You agreed to pay for them in a divorce settlement.


You haven't lived with them in a long time.


They are incapacitated and you still live in their house.


It's fine to want your child to live with you.


They are adults and want to be on their own


engineering my social interactions for effect

It is rude to be fake for personal gain.

You are trying to win a reality competition.


the personal gain actually helps the weak and vulnerable.


The people you deceive have a romantic interest in you.


You manipulate people into emotionally depending on you.


wearing short sleeves if I had self-harm injuries on my arm

It is understandable to want to hide the cuts from your self harming behavior.

You are part of a group that is addressing self-harm with other people.


You don't want other people to shame you.


You are trying to seek medical help for them.


it is not something you are ready to talk about.


getting annoyed at my girlfriend for constantly falling asleep on me

It's rude to fall asleep on your significant other all the time.


your significant other is planning to have sex with you


you are listening to them talk about their day.


They really like it when you touch them and cuddle you back when you do.


They have asked you for more space especially in the bedroom.


quitting a band with my longtime friend who struggles with depression and anxiety

It's okay to quit an activity if someone else isn't doing what's expected of them.

Others will be harmed if the activity isn't completed.


The activity is important to someones's health.


The activity is no longer needed or important.


you are the supervisor in charge of the project.


You will lose your job if you don't finish your part.


taking my brother's Phone away Dor showing everybody I didn't want to show my grades

It's okay to not want others to see your grades.


Your tutor needs  to know what subjects to help you in.


Your friend is a poor student and you excelled.


your grades can help motivate others to do better


you are embarrassed by them and fear criticism


not wanting to associate with my brother in law

It is wrong to shun or ignore family members

they have been ostracized from the family


They were convicted for abusing one of your nieces.


Your family members were toxic towaards you.


Your family members have always been supportive of you.


making my brother clean up my mess alone

It's important to treat your family members with respect and not take advantage of them


they are susceptible to being taken advantage of.


They have been mean to you and you try to avoid them.


not letting my friend know our class was coming up

It's okay to expect your friend to share information they know about a class you have together.

You are taking a test and want the answers from your friend.


You have a study group together to cover each other's weaknesses.


Each thesis must be on a different topic.


You are taking advantage and missing a lot of class.


communication is valued in your freindship


threatening to knock out a classmate over a flashlight

Hypothesis: It's wrong to harm someone.

you do so through their consent in role play


Hypothesis: It's wrong to harm someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to harm someone.

Unless by harming them you are saving their life.


calling my little brother a Nazi in a holocaust museum

You should be mindful of whether something you say is in good taste or not


You are among those  you want to impress.


You're talking to your closest friends in private.


You're representing your organization in public.


You are a male in a bar joking around with your male buddies.


Unless your job is to be an insult comedian.


Especially if you don't want to alienate people.


feeling uncomfortable about having my picture taken and posted on social media without my knowledge

It's not OK to upload pictures of someone without their permission.


the content is sensitive or children are present.


It's an emergency and you're using an online doctor.


They don't know you took the pictures, either.


being irritated with my roommate's childishness

It's expected to be irritated when people you live with behave in a juvenile manner.


the people you live with are grown adults.


You have enjoyed their behavior in the past but changed your mind.


The people you live with are young children.


The people you live with are grown adults.


It's understandable to not want to apologize for something.


You've been ordered by a judge to apologize as part of your punishment for a felony.


You didn't actually do the thing of which you've been accused.


You stepped on someone's foot and broke it.


you didn't do anything to warrant an apology.


The person you are apologizing to is a very forgiving soul.


You are apologizing for doing something embarrassing, like having a bladder leakage issue on your friend's new couch.


hiding my brother's Xbox because of his crazy fortnite addiction

It is wrong to take someone else's belongings.

They are yours and your taking them back


They are items the others will need soon.


the person still wants their belongings.


The person's belongings are very sentimental.


saying I dont want to go on a vacation with my family

Children are expected to go on vacation with their parents and siblings.

They want to stay home with their grandparents.


not telling my mother I knew that my father would be soon leaving her

It is wrong to keep secrets from loved ones.


You are trying to surprise them on their birthday.


you are keeping the secret to avoid causing your loved ones hurt or distress.


there is a chance that the secret will come out anyway undermining your loved ones trust in you.


Finding out the secret would just scar they emotionally.


Finding out the secret would give them closure on a past trauma.


wanting my girlfriend to stop talking with her dead husband's family

It's wrong to tell your partner what to do.


unless you are trying to teach them to play golf.


Your partner is about to get hit by a car.


asking my insanely kind, yet terribly toning deaf, roommating to stop singing

You shouldn't sing if you are terrible at it.


You're asking people to pay you to sing at events.


You are thinking of trying out for a singing competition.


You're alone in the shower and nobody can hear you.


It is good to pay the whole bill if you suggested and invited the other person on a date.


You know the person doesn't have a lot of money.


You want to make a good impression on them.


asking my girlfriend her long-term plan, if her current plan fails

It's expected that you have a backup plan in case your current plan doesn't work.


There is only way of achieving your goal and it must succeed.


There is a high chance of failure on the primary plan.


you are absolutely sure your plan will work


the risks involved with your plan not working are tremendous


You only have one chance to get it right.


cutting my dad out of my life after he threw my Christmas gifts back at me

It's wrong to do something to a person you know they won't like on purpose.

They don't like getting wet but are in a dunk tank for charity.


handing out insanely sour candy to little children on Halloween

It is rude to purposefully hand out distasteful candy to children.


It is to try to get them to eat healthier.


You're trying to convince them eating sugar is unhealthy.


reporting some girls for sexual harassment

It's good to take action against inappropriate behavior.


You politely ask the other person to change what they're doing.


It is part of an adult  comedic performance .


You are in the company of many children.


You are a child witnessing adults doing something inappropriate.


Doing so would cause you to be retaliated against.


(mostly) cutting contact with my grandparents

It is mean to not keep in contact with family.


They are always supporting you financially.


you're used to talking to them every day.


not wanting a relationship with my sister let alone not wanting to go to her wedding

It is okay to choose who you want a relationship with.

you are trying to strictly follow a culture with arranged marriages


You are Indian and your parents are traditional


You have agreed to an arranged marriage.


The person you choose is abusive to your children


You know what you're looking for in a partner.


You are expected to tip for good service.


You are in a country that expects you to tip.


not wanting to take a bunch of junk out of a friends car after she totaled her car

It is OK to not want to help clean up someone elses messy car.


they are having it done by professionals


The car was messy when they picked you up.


You are the one who messed up their car.


being an Asshole to my Ex-GF who still lives with me

It is bad to be rude to people including an ex.


You and your partner ended on good terms.


You and your ex ended things on good terms.


Unless your ex has been horrible to you.


Especially if your ex is trying to be fair.


There are sometimes other issues causing health concerns.

You are having liver issues due to drinking.


you have been given a specific diagnosis by a doctor


You are totally healthy and work out and eat healthy


You have gotten a second opinion which confirms the first opinion.


You are sensitive to environmental and weather-related changes.


actively trying to get my professor fired

Hypothesis: It is normal to address the dean first.


Hypothesis: It is normal to address the dean first.


Hypothesis: It is normal to address the dean first.

You and he are only surrounded by other students.


Hypothesis: It is normal to address the dean first.

they are the only other one in the room.


Hypothesis: It is normal to address the dean first.

You are unhappy with a grade from your professor.


Hypothesis: It is normal to address the dean first.

Your professor has been verbally abusive.


not wanting my grandma to treat me like I'm a kid

It's okay for a grandparent to see older grand kids still as youths.


They want to continue viewing them as their babies.


They are losing their minds and really think they are youths.


They have been around them regularly since they were born.


not letting my friend and her bf live with us

It's okay to not allow someone to move in with you.

They are in need a home for a short time.


You don't have room for them to move in.


Your own child has lost their job and needs a place to temporarily stay.


They own the building you want to live in


they have been known to take advantage of others in the past.


giving away my ps4 which had a save me and my friend worked hard on

It is not okay to give away something that also belongs to someone else.

that person has agreed to give it away also.


the object means something to the person.


You and your partner are having a yard sale


You don't know the person it belongs to.


They wanted you to give it away so you can pay it forward.


You have the other person's permission to do so.


You do not have the other person's permission.


breaking up with a girl after finding out she had slept with a friend of mine

It's understandable to be sexually attracted to someone.


You have been without sexual release for a long time.


The person has never shown any interest in you ever whatsoever.


being upset with my spouse for quitting his job

One should be patient with the shortcomings of a partner.

They have repeatedly ignored your requests.


You have only just told them about a shortcoming.


you love them and want to be with them for the rest of your life.


they are not willing to better themselves.


their partner is always letting them down


their partner doesn't usually do anything that would be consider a shortcoming


these shortcomings are seriously harmful.


You should always be respectful of pregnant people.


They start criticizing how you're raising your child.


they are being exceptionally rude to children


they are experiencing an influx of strong hormones


adding stipulations to how I'd pay for my children's colleges

Hypothesis: You should keep promises you make.


Hypothesis: You should keep promises you make.

you had plenty of time to do the promise.


Hypothesis: You should keep promises you make.


Hypothesis: You should keep promises you make.

You want them to keep their word with you.


using tinder with the intent of only chatting while still in a relationship

Using dating apps while already in a relationship is frowned upon.


You're presenting yourself as being single.


You and your partner are on the app together.


you are looking for someone to hookup with you and your partner


your significant other doesn't know about it


preventing my roommate from getting a new dog to replace her dead one

You shouldn't tell your roommate what to do.


They are being respectful of your space.


you own the house and the roommate is not holding up their duties.


your roommate is paying more of the bills than you are.


being alarmed that ex-wife got engaged to an unknown guy that hasn't met our three kids we have joint custody of

You should keep your nose out of your ex's business.


you want your ex to stay out of your business.


They are doing something illegal or hurtful to someone.


you are working to get back together with them


you want them to reciprocate the same to you


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to other people.

Overlooking their rudeness has worn you down.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to other people.

You are being rude to people who are always polite to you.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to other people.

you're doing so to protect a friend or partner


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to other people.

you're doing so to get revenge for something


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to other people.

You were repeatedly provoked by the same person.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to other people.


It's good to speak out against behavior that harms others.


speaking out against the behavior could get your loved ones killed


You consider yourself an ally to a group.


asking my parents to stop using Essential Oils around my pets

It's polite for a child to ask their parents to do something.

They are trying to get their parent to not drink and drive.


The child is asking over and over after the parents said no.


It's something they haven't done before.


The child needs official parental permission to do something.


making a girl cry even though she was picking on me

It is understandable to be angry if you are being harassed.


that harassment is intended as jest and they don't know it upsets you


You were doing the harassing first and this is retaliation.


It is rude to not help around the house.


You help a lot in the front and back yards.


Some of the dirty laundry and dishes are yours.


telling my pregnant friend she needs to focus more on the baby she has already got

It's acceptable to have your own opinion on pregnancy.

you are telling other people what to do.


You try to impose that opinion on others.


You don't know anything about pregnancy.


You try to tell other people what to do with their bodies even though you'll never be in the same situation and can't understand what it's like.


Rating the performance of service workers accurately is helpful to everyone.

The service worker is dealing with something you know nothing about


The criticism  you offer is constructive


you are too harsh and get them in trouble.


the service workers have inflated their own credentials


the ratings are used to hand out bonuses


People intentionally lie to make certain workers look bad.


It helps the company determine where improvements are needed.


trying to evade this dangerous situation by physically splitting up

It's okay to want to protect yourself when others could get you hurt.

You are being rude to others to keep them at arms length.


protecting yourself could cause more harm.


You're on an important combat mission and you know the risks and you  have to stay focused on the mission first.


You want to survive the situation and you're not there on your own accord.


You have no reason to suspect you might be hurt by them.


They have hurt other people in the past.


Unless the only way to do something is to get hurt a little.


Your life is in danger as a result of their action.


saying I don't care or need his acceptance of my sexual orientation

It is good for everyone to accept others for who they are.

Who the other person is is extremely deviant like a rapist or pedophile.


You are setting examples for impressionable children.


Unless who they are is a horrible person.


Especially if you want to remain friends.


They want you to accept their newfound white supremacist views.


You find our your friend is transgender.


they are minorities and cannot change who they are.


being concerned my boyfriend told his ex he likes our relationship because he has control of it and he controls the pace of our relationship

It is wrong to be controlling of another person.


You're keeping them from hurting themselves.


You're trying to keep them from their family.


The person is your boyfriend or girlfriend.


being upset with my girlfriend for cuddling with her Gay friend

It is rude to cuddle with others if you have a partner.

You are a maternity nurse cuddling new babies in the nursery.


You and your partner are not exclusive and are in an open relationship.


You and your partner are engaged or in an exclusive relationship.


You are cuddling with your platonic bff.


You have cheated on your partner before and are rebuilding trust.


Feelings, including anger, are valid, and it's wrong to deny or suppress them

You are in a court ordered anger management program.


You are in a session with your therapist.


You hold things in and explode with anger at the wrong people.


expressing them causes a danger to those around you


your feelings cause you to have trouble thinking straight


getting annoyed with an overly-affectionate couple at a restaurant

Restaurants are right to try to squash behavior that can make for an uncomfortable experience for other guests.

That person cannot control their behavior because of a disability.


The person is being obnoxious on purpose.


the go about it in a discriminatory way.


the behavior is unintentional by a special needs person.


someone is drunk and making lewd comments to customers.


The person cannot help themselves, like they are disabled.


You shouldn't change a friendship based on sexuality.

You change from being friends to being lovers once you realize your sexualities are compatible.


Your friend has already been rejected by their family.


your religion forbids you to have friends of a certain sexuality


you do not believe in discrimination based on sexual orientation


Friendship is the foundation for lasting, romantic relationships.


Someone sexualizes you and makes you uncomfortable.


It's normal to want to establish your independence from your siblings.

Your sibling depend on you to provide for them.


They are preventing you from succeeding.


You take pride in following the footsteps of your brother.


You want to pursue a different career path than them.


not wanting to pay for a room my band can practice in

It's wrong not doing your fair share in a group.


You're all graded the same on everyone's combined effort.


Your group has finished all of their part of the work already.


you're the leader and you need to delegate


you're all of equal title and strength in the group


It is reasonable to be sad if someone does not care for you.


being annoyed at my dad for inviting his girlfriend's horrible kids over

You should always include your partner's children.


The children are acting out because you're not their parent.


Your partner hasn't introduced you to their children yet.


Your partner and their children live with you.


They're grown up and live on the other side of the country.


trying and convincing my friends to use contraception

It's good to convince your friends to do something that will help them avoid potential problems.

You're constantly meddling in other people's affairs.


You've experienced the problems before and want to help.


you're telling them to do something illegal.


It will come at a big cost to you personally or will hurt you.


You have more knowledge than they do about it and it won't hurt you at all.


You have no experience with said issues.


You have experience dealing with the same issues.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to kids.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to kids.

You don't want to get into a fight with their parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to kids.

It is only rarely a part of the normal parent-child relationship.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to kids.

You are giving a bully a taste of his own medicine because other methods have not produced results.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to kids.

They are recovering from a traumatic experience.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be mean to kids.

they're sensitive to how they're treated


backing out of a party I was voluntold to plan

Making someone else host a party that you want to have is rude.

The party is supposed to be a birthday party for you.


The person volunteers to host the party.


You use blackmail and threats to make them do it.


You pay them to host and pay for everything at the party.


that person isn't really a people person.


not bringing my homemade pies to Christmas dinner because someone else brings the same things without being asked

It's expected that you contribute to holiday dinners.


You should be more supportive of your family.

your family tries to sabotage your life.


Your family has cared for and supported you.


your family is going through a tough time.


You should always keep in contact with people from your past.


they are friends that you previously had


they are detrimental to your mental health.


Those people are former lovers and you are in a relationship.


They have a restraining order against you.


You are expected to accept gifts from your inlaws.


The gift is for both you and your spouse.


you've made clear that you don't want any


You feel uncomfortable accepting something so expensive when you can't reciprocate.


Especially if you want a good relationship with them.


You want to maintain good relations with your in-laws.


yelling at my dad for forcing me to go to church

Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your parents.

You think they bought you the wrong color of car for your birthday.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your parents.

They're very hard of hearing and you're trying to tell them the house is on fire.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your parents.

They can hear very well even if you whisper.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at your parents.

you are warning them of an imminent danger


getting annoyed at a friend for texting last minute he couldn't make it to a social at house

If you're going to cancel your plans with someone, you should give them advance notice


You had no way of knowing you had to cancel until last minute.


You knew you would have to cancel a few weeks ahead.


You had an emergency and need to go to the hospital


it will give them time to find someone else to go.


asking my girlfriend to help me think about our future

It's expected that partners will want to communicate with each another.


you're trying to protect them from finding something out


you want to maintain a healthy relationship.


They both need to take some time to themselves.


They have agreed to disagree on a subject.


trying to haggle with a seller on Craigslist

It's typical to try to bargain with a seller over the price of their item.

you're buying something online off a store


You are in a retail store in the United States.


The item is being sold in a retail store in a country where you don't do that.


They have a sign that says all prices are final.


You are at a market where haggling is common, like Canal Street in NYC.


You shouldn't have to always do what your significant other asks.

You are the sub in a sub/dom relationship.


Their demands are constant and unreasonable.


The requests are reasonable and they are working more hours than you.


The requests are unreasonable and they do not work.


you're making up for something bad you've done.


Your partner is trying to keep you from getting hurt.


Your partner is trying to tell you who to talk to


You had an agreement about the responsibilities you had.


You are not comfortable with their demands.


It's fine not want to remain with family if you don't want to.


You need someone to take care of you because you're physically unable.


You're leaving them on the side of the road.


They are sick and don't have long to live.


It's wonderful to enjoy someone's company to the point it can't be concealed or stopped, even while out in public.

you are stalking them without their knowledge.


Unless you are behaving in a way that will make others feel uncomfortable.


Especially when you're just friends and laughing a lot.


You are bothering the people around you.


You don't get to spend much time wit them.


yelling "Taxi!" when I see a skier stack it

Yelling mean things to people can get them angry.

you're in one of those restaurants where the waitstaff is intentionally rude.


They don't understand the language you're yelling in.


Unless you are yelling at a boxing match.


saying a girl I slept with has a sour cream dip smelling vagina

Hypothesis: You should maintain your hygiene.

You are physically unable to move and have no caretaker.


Hypothesis: You should maintain your hygiene.


Hypothesis: You should maintain your hygiene.

You're mentally or physically unable to care for yourself.


Hypothesis: You should maintain your hygiene.

You go to an office every weekday for work.


being annoyed with white elephant parties

It's okay to be annoyed with certain events.


Unless you are the cause of those events.


Especially if they are beyond your control.


It's caused by an act of God, then there's nothing that could have prevented it.


Parents should always be spoken to respectfully.


They have shown how much they care for you.


You don't have to give away your things to others.

You have become a nun and taken a vow of poverty.


You are broke and need to sell your items in order to get money.


You bought the items with your own money.


you need to have a yard sale to make money.


you do not have room to store it any more.


You're about to die and can't take it with you.


convincing friend to Travel but having to cancel cuz flight cancelled

It is healthy to accept things you cannot control.


if it is hurting your mental health to keep fighting them.


Those things are addictions or criminal behaviors.


The stress is causing you to have health problems and affecting your relationships.


sending an email to someone saying that I forgive him

It's acceptable to email someone an important message.


There are people looking to steal the information in the message.


You don't have another way to reach them.


there is no other way to reach the person.


You have no authority because you are a bottom level employee


You only have their email address and no other contact method.


"being triggered" by my boyfriend setting rules for my pregnancy weight gain

It's ok to gain weight when you are pregnant.


the weight gain might harm you or the child


not wanting to take a shift for a coworker because of how my boss asked me

You shouldn't let things your boss might say prevent you from doing things.

They told you they would fire you if you do certain things.


It goes against doing your job correctly.


They tell you that you will never find a better job.


You know the things are against the law or company policy.


Another person's safety or health depend on you doing what you know is right.


not opening the door in an emergency situation

Emergencies are confusing times, and not everyone remembers what to do.


They've never been through that type of emergency before.


They are trained emergency professionals.


It is an emergency that involves a child.


There are clear instructions being repeated.


There were never instructions given for evacuation.


not telling my parents I'm eloping in about 6 months

It's wrong to not tell your family about eloping.

Your families did not approve of your relationship.


You are an adult and can make your own choices.


Your family has already spent thousands on a planned wedding.


your family will chase you for telling them.


they have been supportive of your relationship.


looking for a new nanny because my current (but new) nanny has updated her profile and logged in most days to the nanny website where I found her

People who fail to create a desirable work environment are expected to lose employees.


They are working to correct the situation.


They pay a lot in return for a bad environment.


They pay the employees enough that they don;t care about the conditions.


being frustrated with my husband constantly changing opinions

It's okay to be annoyed by flip-floppers.


the flip-flopper is struggling with a busy schedule


you're not important to the flip-flopper


The decisions of the flip-floppers don't affect you at all.


The flip floppers are your congressional representatives.


The situations in question are hard to pin down and set in stone.


They have made promises to you and by breaking these expectations you are hurt.


cutting my family out of all family celebrations

Inviting troublesome family can ruin your event.

You invite those family members to a separate portion of the event.


You invite those family members to an event with alcohol.


The family promises to behave themselves.


They agree to be on their best behavior.


They get very drunk before coming to your event.


They are the only ones bringing the alcohol.


you warn them ahead of time to act proper.


being upset about how my parents feed my dog

It's good to follow the vet's directions about your dog's diet.

The diet clearly is causing the dog problems.


You know it's something your dog is allergic to.


Your dog is having gastric problems and you want them to get better.


not giving an elderly woman a ride home in the pouring rain

It's understandable to want a ride from a stranger if it's raining.


There's been a serial killer in the area picking up their victims in their car.


There's thunder and lightning and you could be struck and killed.


you're afraid that the stranger is a serial killer.


shouting and nagging to my girlfriend's step-sister (she's 5 years old) because she was trying so hard to kiss me in the mouth

Adults kissing children on the mouth is very, very wrong

The adult was going for a kiss on the cheek and the child turned their head.


The adult has an outbreak of herpes type 1 on their mouth.


That person doesn't belong to the family.


The adult doesn't know the child's parents.


not really wanting specific plans on my birthday

It's OK that not everyone is excited about making plans on their birthday.

They are a child who is used to having birthday parties.


They do not like the fact that they are getting older.


They have been talking about a party for a long time.


They used to be and now they are depressed all the time


They've never had a birthday party and don't know what they've missing.


They've just gotten bored with them after a lot of birthdays.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.

you are absolutely positive you are correct.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.

you are arguing with someone who knows more than you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.

you always refuse to compromise with other people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.

you're stubborn about not taking shortcuts on quality.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.

You're being stubborn about not allowing abuses of power.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.

You're stubborn about minor things like what brand of toothpaste you buy.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be stubborn about things.

You always have a negative view on everything


breaking up with a woman because she told me she has a misdemeanor on her record from 9+ years ago

Once a person has paid for the crime, you should forgive them.


They had changed their ways and is extremely sorry.


This is the twelfth time they've committed that crime.


They're trying hard to get their life back together.


refusing to make Sexual Jokes about my Ex

It is okay to be respectful of ex partners.


If you had a bad experience at a hotel it is reasonable to ask for a refund.

it was extraordinary circumstances that cause it


the bad experience was because of false advertising


You knew the hotel was being renovated and already received a 50% discount.


The room was dirty and the staff were rude.


the bad experience was not the fault of the hotel.