the doctor has said the baby will not survive outside of the womb.


asking my girlfriend to have an abortion

It's wrong to ask your partner to have an abortion.

your partner doesn't believe in abortion.


The fetus is viable and perfectly healthy.


Having the baby is likely to kill your partner.


Abortion is against your partner's religion.


It's rude to tell people what they should and shouldn't do.

they are children that you are responsible for.


You're talking to people you've never met.


you are a football coach talking to your players.


You are a parent telling your young child what to do.


It's okay to exercise control over how many people are around you and who they are.


You are a child that just had a nightmare about big crowds.


you just starting teaching a college class


You are in the hospital and having too many visitors makes you stressed


having my sister let my wife know my mom was out of surgery

It is rude to pass on important news to someone else to deliver.

you have no other way to convey the news.


You are a professional journalist and you are passing it to a news outlet.


You are a health care provider who is giving a patient a serious diagnosis.


It's okay to be emotional when you're having a disagreement with someone.


They are trying to take your children away from you.


you are in a professional business meeting


they just gave you some bad news that will ruin your career


being emotional will escalate the situation.


you have been harmed by this disagreement.


You are speaking with a potential client.


refusing to eat food my mother in law cooked and froze because I found a HAIR in it? my husband sure thinks so, and is having a pouty pout about it right now

Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.

You are allergic to one of the ingredients.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.

You are meeting your partner's parents for the first time.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.

You are full already or sick and cannot eat.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.

you have been invited over to your partner's parents house to meet them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.

You have dietary restrictions and cannot eat it.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse food.

Your grandmother made your favorite dish.


going off on my gf because she's not careful when she cooks

Cooking is dangerous and requires extra care.


You use all burners, the oven, microwave and other appliances at the same time.


you are broiling steaks over an open flame.


You're an expert chef who's been doing it for years.


You're a novice and have never worked with some of the electrical equipment before.


playing Devils advocate with my grandfather

It's good to make people think about their positions.


It is understandable if you do not like using the same cookbook that your mother uses.


Especially if you don't really like her cooking.


you want to make a secret family recipe just like hers.


The cookbook is necessary to prepare food for a family reunion.


You are a vegetarian and your mother prefers meat.


You have a cookbook of your own that you prefer.


not putting a Group Member's name on the Lab Report

You should be honest when submitting work.


You think that you may have not completed it the way it was intended to be.


You are trying to get ahead and won't get caught.


You're under-reporting the number of hours it took to secure future business with the client.


You're trying to charge the client for work that never took place.


It is good to do whatever you want to do in your residence so long as it does not disturb anyone else.

What you want to do in your residence is dangerous to your own health.


You are walking around naked with all the curtains closed.


You just want to relax and be yourself by being naked.


You're doing something harmful to yourself.


impersonating my friend online to get him a girlfriend

It is OK to help a friend talk to a girl that he likes.


He is trying to boost his own confidence.


he needs to gain more confidence and should do it himself.


It is good to talk things out when you are angry.


You have a safe space to talk about things.


Your partner is threatening you with violence.


refusing to wear a dress/skirt to my great grandmother's funeral

It's okay to have your own personal style.


you don't want to look like everyone else.


It is so revealing is inappropriate for all age groups and you flaunt it in public.


it is not socially acceptable to wear that style in public.


You are gong to a school with a uniform.


getting mad at my friend for drivingph in aph zone on a snowy road

Hypothesis: You shouldn't speed.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't speed.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't speed.

your wife is in labor and you need to get to the hospital.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't speed.

you are speeding to the hospital for an emergency.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't speed.

You're trying to get away from drug dealers.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't speed.

You are a paramedic getting a patient to the hospital.


applying for food stamps when I'm not dying of starvation

You shouldn't apply for food stamps if you're not starving or poor.


You are doing it on behalf of a person you are the caregiver for.


You are helping someone else in need fill out their application.


You're making untaxed income that you don't report.


telling my aunt (essentially the side chick of twenty years) that her baby daddy doesn't love her

It's bad to have someone as a side relationship if they don't agree to it.


You don't make any long term promises to them or lead them on.


You are leading them on while you know you are not really interested.


They have told you that they have trouble trusting people in relationships.


You can't have a relationship without agreement


finding out my so was cheating by looking on their computer

It is expected that a partner remains faithful to someone


not wanting to help my husbands abusive family

Helping your husbands abusive family would be a poor choice.

unless they are seeking help and therapy.


Your husband has pleaded for your help saying you're the only one who can.


They very much dislike you and will hate you more for it and your husband doesn't want you to.


You leave them the hotline phone number for domestic-abuse help.


you are helping them to learn new ways to behave with each other.


helping them just enables them to continue their bad behavior.


asking somebody to stop saying stuff like "God bless you" to me

It's rude to force your religion onto others.


Someone has had a negative experience in a house of worship.


they said they are another religion already


the other person already asked you not to bring up religion again


choosing to pay vet bills over our wedding

A pet's health is more important than a wedding ceremony.

The health issue is something that can wait until the next  day.


The health issue is an immediate concern.


You're exacting every minor detail of the pet's health.


pushing my girlfriend to apply to pharmacy school

It's rude to try to push your significant other into doing something they don't want to do.

it is a medical test that they need to have.


you don't want your significant other to push you into things.


it is something that needs to be done for the benefit of both you and your significant other


they never push you to do things that you don't want to do


you are convinced the thing is good for them.


you don't want to be seen as a domineering bully.


it's something that's vital to their health.


it's something that doesn't really matter.


not saying hi each time I goto my Aunts House

It is rude not to greet someone when you go to their home.


You are meeting your girlfriend's parents.


they are a monk who observes a vow of silence


It's unhealthy to hold on to anger for too long.


the anger is keeping you awake at night.


The person that made you angry is acting like they have done nothing wrong.


You have been broken up with your partner for over ten years.


not wanting a relationship with my half-sister who has always been rude to my mother

It's okay not to want to associate with someone that has wronged your family.


They have made amends with the rest of your family.


They have stolen from your younger sibling.


That person is your boss and you need your job.


That person doesn't want to associate with you either.


They are begging for forgiveness and are truly remorseful.


They don't seem to care and are still a threat.


wanting my gf to spend time with me and my friends on my birthday

It's good to invite your partner to your birthday.


You don't want them to break up with you.


you are definitely having a birthday party


Your mutual friends will be at the birthday party.


It's okay to get offended at something your partner says.

Your partner wasn't saying anything that could be offensive.


Your partner was making fun of minorities.


You asked their honest opinion on something.


cancelling a meetup with my boyfriend and then refusing to return his things the next day

You should not keep things that do not belong to you.

You borrow something from your neighbor and they move away.


You promise someone you will give it back.


you absolutely cannot find the owner even though you tried


you are going to give them to the rightful owner.


you are close to the person who owns it.


You found the item and can't find the rightful owner.


You found a lost wallet and know who the owner is.


swearing at my server when he was playing "keep away" with my food

You should never swear at a server for any reason.

The server spit in your food right in front of you.


they are working hard to fix the situation.


They have been kind for your entire meal.


calling someone out when they tried to advertise in a post that I wrote to advertise my business

Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at others.

They are just doing what they feel is right


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at others.

They let your dog out of the yard by not paying attention.


trying to express that it's extremely infuriating when grown adult men urinate on public toilet seats with a picture of someone urinating in the next stall

It's fine to be angry about something that is disgusting.

you purposely made something that is disgusting


you asked people not to show you things that are disgusting


It's just a prank that was done in good fun.


It is hurtful to you and makes you  sick.


although its disgusting it doesn't effect you.


taking issue with my boyfriend's family being racist toward me

It's okay to be mad at your partner's family if they are being racist toward you.


They call you racial slurs in front of your partner.


You'd already asked them not to act that way before.


You started the friction by being racist towards them first.


Your partner condones their behavior and doesn't see anything wrong with it.


They're in a different minority race too.


It's understandable to want to end a friendship.


The friendship is failing or you no longer like the other person.


You're only ending the friendship because someone else wants you to.


The friendship experience has been very good.


being jealous of multiple personality "adopted brother" monopolizing my boyfriend's time and attention

It is wrong to be jealous of someone else.


they stole your idea and received great awards for it.


you have many great things to be proud of.


Your recent ex has jumped into a new relationship.


You are only jealous of their material belongings.


You simply are striving to achieve what they have without being mean about it.


You are hoping for their downfall or something bad for them.


not continuing to talk to a girl I've been interested in after being rejected

It's okay to turn someone down if they express attraction to you.


Especially if you already have a partner.


You already agreed to go out with this person.


you know how hard it was for them to tell you how they feel.


you are already in a committed relationship.


not letting my ex spend time with our autistic kid in my apartment

You shouldn't shelter your mentally disabled child.


You want them to live on their own one day.


They're prone to outbursts of rage towards others.


You want them to develop into a well adjusted adult.


Other children bully your child because of their disability.


You want your child to have a rich life despite their disability.


you are not able to effectively take care of them.


being bothering by my girlfriend wearing other guy's clothes

You should discuss concerns with other people.

Others will sabotage you if they know your weaknesses


The concerns are of a very private nature that you  don't want shared.


The other people might be able to help you on those issues.


You're under a non disclosure agreement.


You are working towards a safer work environment.


telling a kid with ADHD to shut up since he was making noise

It's inconsiderate to dismiss a person's neurological illness.

You haven't been made aware of the illness.


You've seen the person struggling with their illness.


You've misdiagnosed them with another illness.


You can tell the charts they're using to prove they have the illness don't belong to them.


They need your help because they're having a seizure.


you are a doctor giving a second opinion and the first one was wrong.


not being happy my girlfriend is pregnant

It's okay to be upset that your girlfriend is pregnant.


You have made it clear that you don't want children right now.


You were both planning to get pregnant in the first place


You cannot afford the burden of having a child.


ruining my BF's dreams because he cheated

Hypothesis: It is wrong to take revenge.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to take revenge.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to take revenge.

If you don't take revenge, people will think you're weak and target you for further abuse.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to take revenge.

You're taking revenge for an accident you were ultimately responsible for.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to take revenge.

You were hired by the military to do it.


Hypothesis: Its rude to snap at someone.


Hypothesis: Its rude to snap at someone.

They keep doing something to deliberately annoy you.


Hypothesis: Its rude to snap at someone.

It's your child and they only want your affection.


Hypothesis: Its rude to snap at someone.

the person didn't do anything to deserve it.


It's normal to visit your family when you move out.


not paying my sisters car note while she's in school

Family is expected to look out for one another.


Your family is highly abusive and hurtful to you.


You come from a close knit loving family that cares about you.


The family members no longer live near each other.


Some family members are also caretakers of family members.


It is immature to date someone a lot younger than you.


You're doing it for a superficial reason.


they share similar interests and views as you.


They're only willing to date someone your age.


You're old enough to be their great grandfather.


It's okay to make a clean break of a failed relationship.

Your partner wants to salvage the relationship.


You don't even live together or have kids together.


you want to go to counseling and try to make it work


You need to clear your head and focus on yourself.


You've only been dating for a short amount of time.


It's okay to cease contact with friends if it's not working out.


They don’t seem to be sorry for being toxic


the friendship can be fixed with some effort.


You're rooming with them while you study overseas.


You're all busy with schoolwork and jobs anyways.


telling one of my classmates to stop interrupting the class

Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.

You interrupt a doctor performing a routine exam because someone else is having a heart attack.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.

The CEO is giving a presentation at an important business meeting.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.

You need to tell them to get out because there's a fire.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.

They are telling you something important.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.

You are a child and still do not under stand the concept of manners


Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.

you are a grown-up and know that is very inconsiderate to interrupt people


Hypothesis: It's wrong to interrupt others.

They've been talking without pause for fifteen minutes.


not wanting my wife to get another job and take a 50% pay cut

It is controlling to determine a spouses income.

You're the boss of your spouse at their job.


You don't have anything to do with your spouse's job.


they can benefit from your interference.


you don't respect your spouse's autonomy.


You're budgeting for a family vacation together.


They work for you at a large company and that's part of your job.


You deliberately restrict their working hours to keep them dependent on you.


moving on quickly from a girl I was extremely hung up on

It's understandable to have difficulty moving on from someone you were very attracted to.


You were in a relationship with them for a long time.


they have done something that makes you no longer interested in them.


It's okay to like only want to date a person you really like.


You know what you want in a relationship.


you morally oppose dating a lot of people.


You've had bad luck with dating in the past.


Hypothesis: You should not beat your sibling.


Hypothesis: You should not beat your sibling.

You have to beat them to get them to leave you alone long enough to run for the door.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.

The people you're mooching off of don't have very much.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.

Unless you are destitute and have no choice.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mooch off of other people.

Especially if you already have everything you need.


being angry that my ex didn't like that he was the most important person to me, and that he didn't like saying "I love you?"

It's wrong not to like telling someone you love them.


You think the other person just has to know


carrying on an argument, when they never appologized

It's rude to not apologize to someone if they deserve it.


You think it will hurt your overall relationship with them if you don't apologize.


The person has asked you to stay away from them.


asking my brother's gf to only be at our apartment when he's there

You should try to be accommodating to the family of your significant other

they are rude and undermining of your relationship.


you are new to dating your significant other and they don't know you well yet.


Your significant other's family finds fault with everything you do.


They try to learn more about you and bond with you.


You are getting married to your partner soon


Your significant other has an abusive family.


Your significant other's family paid for your home.


not wanting to wake back up to help my brother with homework he knew he had all night

It's okay to expect someone who needs your help to do things on a reasonable schedule.


They are physically incapable of helping much.


they have very little free time away from work.


they expect you to follow through with helping.


You told them you had a limited window of time.


being upset that my girlfriend left me in a hotel all day when I came to visit her

It is expected to spend time with your partner when you go visit them.


dictating where my brothers children go to school

People should respect a parent's right to make decisions about their children.

The parent has made poor choices in the past.


The parent has made wise judgments in the past.


The parent is denying their child medical treatment they need to survive.


the parent appears to have the best interest of the child at heart


The parents never let their children out of the house.


The parents choose to only serve vegetarian food.


the parent is making decisions that are harming the child.


the parent is doing what is best for their child.


asking my gf to move across country for me

It's okay to want to be closer to a significant other even if it's a lot of extra work.


Your significant other doesn't make any effort to be closer to you too.


Your significant other really appreciates your work and wants it too.


Your significant other has filed for divorce.


it makes the significant other feel smothered.


The significant other is cheating on you


not telling a friend that I was dating a mutual friend

Not informing a friend about your relationships shows a lack of trust.


you and your partner agreed to keep the relationship quiet for a bit.


your friend tells you about their relationships.


Your partner requested to keep your relationship private.


Your friend and your current partner were previously together.


You just got into the relationship the same day.


buying a beer for a girl who was dancing with my friends

If your friend is dancing with a woman, it is sneaky to buy that woman a drink.


She is your sister and it is her birthday.


You say that the drink is from your friend.


You are trying to get the woman to go home with you.


Either of them are recovering alcoholics.


not joining my family on a long-planned holiday? and instead choosing to stay at home with my friends

It's expected that family will do things together.

Everyone is never home at the same time.


they live in different parts of the country.


It's good to discuss things over with your partner about what is upsetting you.

talking about it will only make it worse.


You don't reciprocate and let them talk about their problems.


You're being upset over every little thing.


You're upset about not having a child with your partner.


tattooing my boyfriend while he was sleeping

It's not good to do things to people when they are sleeping

Unless you're trying to make them more comfortable.


asking her not to bring her kids on our dates

When you're dating someone with kids, it's kind to plan dates that include them.

The person you're dating really wants some time away from their kids.


You're still getting to know your lover's kids.


you are trying to get to know the children.


Your partner is not ready to introduce you to the children yet.


You want to create a special bond with them.


being upset at my so after they sought support from someone after I told them something confidential

You should learn to talk things over with your partner.


it is a secret you need to keep to yourself.


it involves something important to both of you.


Especially if your partner is your best friend.


You have no interest in healthy communication.


You're planning on breaking up with your partner.


You want to have a long future with your partner.


grieving harder over the death of my family dog than for my grandmother

It's okay to grieve over the death of a pet.


It causes you to spiral into a deep neverending depression.


You and the pet were best friends for a long time.


the pet was euthanized to relieve horrible suffering


not sharing money with my immediate family

You should share money with your family.


You don't have much money to share with them.


They are in a really bad place and need help.


You know they'll just spend any money you give them gambling.


They don't have any other source of income.


getting mad at my girlfriend for not going to prom with me

It is reasonable to be angry at your girlfriend for not going to prom with you.


They agreed to go with you but changed their mind.


Your girlfriend is 21 and too old to get into prom.


Your girlfriend hangs out with her friends instead.


She has already graduated from high school.


She is going to prom with a friend instead.


being mad at my wife for neglecting/ willfully trashing my cars

Hypothesis: Some people are messy.


Hypothesis: Some people are messy.

They have a dirty appearance all the time


Hypothesis: Some people are messy.

Unless someone shows them how to clean up.


Hypothesis: Some people are messy.


Hypothesis: Some people are messy.

Their mother taught them to pick up after themselves.


not telling a potential girlfriend about being transgendered

It is ok to be upset if you are dating someone who is not honest about their sexual identity.


You thought you were going to marry them


they are not being honest to protect themselves from being harassed and has no effect on the current relationship


their sexual identity involves being with more than one partner at a time


Hypothesis: It's bad to take money from family.


Hypothesis: It's bad to take money from family.

They offered it to help in the first place.


Hypothesis: It's bad to take money from family.

They are not aware that you are taking it.


lying to my parents about living with my fiancé before we are married

It is okay to keep your personal life to yourself.


You are involved in an intimate relationship with someone.


You want to separate your work and home life.


You're talking to someone who can help you.


telling a stranger we don't need input for our wedding

It's okay to tell a stranger to mind their own business.


They are giving opinions on your parenting skills.


They are warning your child that their shoelaces are untied.


The stranger is warning you about a dangerous situation.


A stranger comments negatively on your appearance.


it has nothing to do with you and you should also stay out of it.


they are eavesdropping on your conversation.


the stranger is a cop who pulled you over


posting a screen shot of my schools director getting caught by pedo catchers

Hypothesis: It's wrong to view child pornography.

You're looking for evidence to arrest someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to view child pornography.

You've been arrested for this kind of thing before.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to view child pornography.


It is kind to ask someone if they need help and you should accept no for an answer.

you can tell they want nothing to do with you.


You can tell that they really do need help but are just ashamed to ask.


You can see they can find a way to manage on their own too.


They are in physical danger and tell you they don't need help.


Someone else is already helping them out.


being hurt about my ex hanging out with her ex in my house

It's okay to be hurt about someone you like hanging out with their ex.


Their ex is also their primary physician and they are sick.


they still talk about them all the time.


They are hanging out with their ex at a mutual friend's party and it was unintentional.


They chose to hang out with their ex instead of you.


It is expected that not everyone has good intentions.

People have wrapped sandwiches to give out to the homeless.


It's okay to get angry if someone's joke has gone too far.


Their joke resulted in people getting hurt


You believe free speech overrides jokes.


You believe free speech has reasonable limitations.


They are a child and don't understand the implications of the joke.


They said something racist, sexist, or mean about your religion.


Hypothesis: You should get your own transportation.


Hypothesis: You should get your own transportation.

you want to be environmentally friendly and walk or ride a bike.


Hypothesis: You should get your own transportation.

nobody you know is going to the same destination.


Hypothesis: You should get your own transportation.

You don't have a valid driver's license.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get in people's way.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get in people's way.

You want to foster an atmosphere of creativity at work.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get in people's way.

They are trying to drive their car drunk.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get in people's way.

They are trying to study for an important test.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get in people's way.

you are guarding them in a game of basketball.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get in people's way.

they are driving fast and could hit you.


Showing respect to your work superiors is good.

They are highly disrespectful toward you and your coworkers.


you want to be put on the list for a promotion


You sacrifice your personal life for your career.


Your superiors have the ability to promote you.


Your office culture emphasizes 360-degree equality among employees.


You work in a traditional-office environment.


They have treated you inappropriately due to your religion.


You are trying to get a promotion and a raise.


telling my liberal roommate that a YouTuber he just discovered is a self-proclaimed white supremacist

It's not okay to talk about touchy subjects with people.


They approach you with the touchy subject to be discussed.


They tell you that they don't want to talk about that subject.


They get upset thinking about these subjects.


advising a friend to stick up to a lecturer

Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.

You really don't know what you're talking about yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.

You have more knowledge than they do and can really help them out.


Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.


Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.

You've never done the thing you're trying to advise them about.


Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.

You're a licensed professional who's done the thing they're trying to do thousands of times.


Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.

You're a successful at business and are giving business advice.


Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.

you don't have any knowledge about the subject matter.


Hypothesis: It's good to advise others.

You are trained in what they need advice about.


People are expected to do their fair share.


there is an agreement that someone will do less.


unless others have agreed to do their share


not wanting to stay friends with a guy who rejected because I was "too fat"

You are allowed walk away from friendships that make you uncomfortable.


You suspect that your friend is doing something illegal.


Your mother asked you to be friends with her friend's kid.


Your 'friend' keeps trying to persuade you to do illegal things.


You never need to see the person at any events.


the friend is dependent on you for survival.


you can become a better person by ending the friendship.


sending a snarky email for a position I applied for 5 months ago

It's bad to send a rude email to someone.


you've gotten terrible service from a company.


You are sending it on a company wide email list.


they have responded with a rude email to you


You are responding back to a rude email.


sending a frustrated message to my friend

It's understandable to get frustrated with people at times.

they are elderly people who can not help themselves


you are a customer service representative


You're getting frustrated from a minor annoyance.


they are students learning new materials for the first time.


they have ignored your requests many times in a row.


telling my two best friends to quit being so intimate, and for not telling my best friend's girlfriend she's being cheated on

It is expected people don't cheat on eachother.

it really isn't cheating because they are in a open relationship.


wanting my stay at home girlfriend to accept a job she was offered

You should always work and contribute to society.


You are physically and mentally able to hold a job.


you are disabled and physically unable to.


you are capable of working and living on your own.


You have a disability that prevents you from doing so.


You are physically and mentally capable of holding down a good job.


siding with my nephew during dinner with my family

It is okay to voice your opinions to family.


your opinion is backed up by solid evidence


Hypothesis: It is rude to be annoying.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be annoying.

You're trying to annoy protesters into walking away from your building.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be annoying.

You're annoying a police officer who's trying to secure a crime scene.


Hypothesis: It is rude to be annoying.

it is just one person's opinion that you are annoying.


cold-shouldering the kid who takes out the trash at my office

You should respect people that clean up after others.


they are just cleaning their property and dumping the trash onto someone elses.


they are doing so for free, just to help the community.


they are hiding the evidence of a crime.


they work long hours without complaining.


They steal a tip meant for someone else while doing it.


they are a crutch for the person and they constantly clean up their personal messes.


that person just littered all over the freeway.


making sex jokes with my friends while on a relashionship

It is wrong to disrespect a relationship.

One person's a minor and the other is much older.


You try to break up your friend's abusive boyfriend.


You constantly pry into your friend's marriage.


this one is difficult i just can not get a good one to write


the relationship includes physical abuse.


yelling at my mom for throwing my computer

You should respect your children's personal possessions.


They have several knives or other dangerous weapons.


The children take good care of their items.


they are inappropriate for them to have.


you take their phone away as punishment.


wanting natural disasters to happen to my town

You should be fearful of natural disasters.

They are like earthquakes that can not be forecast and you would end up living in constant fear.


You live on a coast that gets hurricanes often.


You have proper ways to protect yourself.


You live in an area that sees lots of natural disasters.


not going to my sister's house for Thanksgiving & possibly Christmas too

It's good to open your home to family members on holidays.


Your house is spacious enough for the extended family.


If someone is sick, it may be best to put visitors at a B&B or hotel.


A birthday or anniversary are always the best time for family members to get together for a celebration.


Your family member has stolen from you in the past.


Your home is centrally located for all family members.


outing my brother-in-law's felony during the wedding

Hypothesis: It's bad to spread gossip at a wedding.


Hypothesis: It's bad to spread gossip at a wedding.


Hypothesis: It's bad to spread gossip at a wedding.

Something very important and scandalous has happened.


Hypothesis: It's bad to spread gossip at a wedding.

You're gossiping about the groom and bride.


Hypothesis: It's bad to spread gossip at a wedding.

you catch the groom sleeping with a bridesmaid before the wedding.


Hypothesis: It's bad to spread gossip at a wedding.

the bride and groom are perfect for each other.


going off on my gf because she's not careful when she cooks

Hypothesis: It's wise to be careful when cooking.


Hypothesis: It's wise to be careful when cooking.


Hypothesis: It's wise to be careful when cooking.

You are cooking on a stove top that doesn't get hot to the touch.


Hypothesis: It's wise to be careful when cooking.

You are working with meat that will be harmful if under cooked.


Hypothesis: It's wise to be careful when cooking.

You think it could possibly start a fire.


thinking the nurse was upset at my panic attack

It is expected that nurses will make their patients lives easier and not harder.


the hospital the nurse works at is high quality


they have a terminal illness and they will be in more pain no matter what.


the patient just had a baby and needs help on how to care for it.


improperly trained nurses make mistakes that cost the patients their lives


they follow proper procedures in the care of their patients


The patients are trying to be self destructive.


Friends are expected to pay attention to each other.

One of them is really busy doing something at the moment that they can't leave.


They're doing something together and want to support each other.


They attend different colleges across the country.


They have a very important test or deadline at work to complete first.


They have been friends for a very long time.


You have a sick child and do not have time to see your friends.


One friend is going through a difficult time.


They're watching a movie in a crowded theater.


telling a friend's girlfriend that she's spoiled

It's fine to tell your friend that their significant other has a bad quality.


the quality isn't something material to the relationship


You are not close friends with the person.


The significant other might abuse your friend.


You do not want them to think poorly of them.


You are hoping to find a way to help them with that quality.


they're very sensitive about that quality


your partner is okay with you critiquing them


You're lying to your friend out of jealousy.


You have evidence to back up your claim.


telling my sister to get over a breakup that happened over a year ago

You should always support your family members when they are going through a rough time.


you need to take care of yourself first.


you can give them the support they need.


They have been abusive to you in the past.


They are always there to take care of you.


they already have all the help they need


It is okay to celebrate a friend's birthday.

the friend told you they don't like celebrating their birthday


The friend has expressed they do not want anyone to celebrate their birthday


Your friend didn't invite you to their birthday party.


Both of you have been friends for years.


You are out of town or have an important exam or deadline.


It is not okay to photograph a pet without the owner's permission


They are lost and trying to send to the police


You're in the pet's house without the owner knowing.


You were taking a picture of something else and the pet walked in front of the camera


you are proving that the pet is pooping on your yard.


making plans on the weekend I said my friend and I would finish a song

It's wrong to stand up a friend for a planned event.

Your family member suffers a grave injury.


The planned event is a party celebrating that friend.


You don't care about keeping the friendship.


You lied and told your friend you had a flat tire.


You received a call about a sick relative.


They had been talking about how much they were looking forward to seeing you.


Unless you are involved in an accident on the way.


being upset and sad that my boyfriend went on a vacation with his female roommate

It is okay to be uncomfortable with your partner spending time with a member of the opposite sex.

You and your partner are homosexual, then there is probably nothing to worry about.


You have an intuitive feeling something is  going on.


You and your partner are both 100 percent gay.


Your partner is alone at night with this other person on so-called business trips.


they have had an intimate relationship in the past.


It's acceptable to complain about getting poor service.


You were physically harmed by the service you got.


The waitress is having a medical emergency.


The waitress is texting people with her cell phone.


you received an apology for the poor service.


refusing to meet up with someone I've been talking to for weeks

It's expected that you'll meet up with someone you've been talking to for a while.


you are both very shy and agreed to keep the relationship online only.


you've been gaming with each other for years and the friendship has turned into more.


You are interested in dating the person.


feeling like my family isnt as supportive of me as they are of my brother

You should try to be happy for your siblings instead of resorting to jealousy

You are going through a tough time in your life.


They're pushing their successes in your face.


Your parents gave your siblings the entire inheritance


They offered to help you catch up to them


Spending time with a grandparent when you have time is expected.


It's understandable to be in a mood sometimes and act out.


You are the CEO of a company and act out at an important meeting.


You are a child with a behavioral disorder.


You are a parent and must show adultness


You have been hurt very badly for no reason


Acting out causes grief for those near you.


You need the people around you to understand what you are going through.


Someone is deliberately pushing your buttons.


getting mad at my sister for breaking a gift she got me

It's acceptable to get angry one someone breaks a gift.


They broke it because they don't like it.


It was their gift and they can do what they want with it.


wanting to go to my cousin's wedding which is on my fiancee's birthday

It is okay to be conflicted when two different special occasions fall on the same date.

one is clearly more important than the other.


You are able to attend both without issue.


You are close to people at both occasions.


you organize one event in the morning and the other event in the evening.


You want to attend events for both occasions.


One is in the morning and the other is in the evening.


leaving my family vaca early because of my BIL

It's okay to be upset with family because they ruined an event for you.


They broke out in a fight at your wedding.


You got drunk and started embarrassing yourself in front of everyone.


You brought your wife to the family reunion and they started a fight with you in front of everyone.


The even was ruined by an unexpected heart attack


You have been planning it for a long time


not leaving tips for bartenders that serve me a beer or simple drink

Tips are expected for hospitality services.


someone provides you with excellent services.


Your hospitality services were exceptional.


They folded your clothes and served you a nice meal.


It's okay to not want to play games sometimes.


You are not injured and are scheduled to appear


you never want to play when others ask, but always expect others to play when you ask


You're a grand master in a chess tournament.


You've spent too many hours playing and you need to get some exercise.


your team is depending on you to win a championship.


you have work responsibilities to take care of.


It is acceptable to want everyone to be able to get married.


they are not interested in romantic partnerships.


You want adults to be able to marry children.


You love everyone equally no matter the sexual orientation


Hypothesis: You should always obey your family.


Hypothesis: You should always obey your family.

Your brother is trying to boss you around.


Hypothesis: You should always obey your family.

You're a young child and your parents are telling you to go to bed.


Hypothesis: You should always obey your family.

They are trying to help you achieve your goals.


telling my girlfriend Im not interested in our relationship because of lack of sex

It's okay to leave a relationship if you don't have sex often.

You have not communicated the problem beforehand.


Your partner is very sick and undergoing treatments that prevent sexual intercourse.


You really don't feel any romantic attraction at all and both of you are unhappy.


You have a much higher sex drive than your partner.


logging into ex's snapchat to find out she (might have) cheated

You shouldn't be concerned about your ex's business.


You have children involved in the situation.


cutting of my ties with my now ex-best friend

It's not to speak with someone that cared about you.


You're in the middle of a college course.


You're working together on a group project.


that person makes you feel uncomfortable.


sleeping in my car instead of at my MIL's house

It's expected that people want their own personal space.

They grew up with a lot of brothers and sisters and have no sense of space.


They are introverts and need to recharge.


They are child and always wants to be on top of them


They are in a crowded bus where there is no room to move


They are an inmate in prison where no one has a choice.


They are in their own home with the doors closed.


They have heir boyfriend over frequently while their family is there.


not wanting to give my mom a $400 MacBook after she "borrowed" $100 from me

You are expected to share your belongings with your parents.


Those belongings are the condiments in your kitchen.


Your parents need to use a tool of yours.


not wanting to see my old friends anymore

It's understandable that sometimes we outgrow our friends and move on.


We aren't outgrowing them, but rather they are maturing and we are not


We have made a lifelong commitment with one that we share much in common with.


As adults we change a lot and pursue different interests as we age.


We are still in the town where we were born.


They are now doing copious amounts of drugs.


You should not push your religion on your child.

You rely on your church to afford food and rent.


You don't educate them about any of the other religions that exist.


You religion is to let them arrive to their own conclusions


You want your child to grow up open minded.


potentially breaking up a "strong couple"

It's rude to do things that could hurt others when they haven't done anything to you.


Especially if you want to remain friends.


they've done something to hurt someone you care about


they haven't even done anything to anyone you care about


You drive recklessly with other cars on the road.


it is necessary to protect people that you love


warning my girlfriends brother after he stereotyped me

Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.

Someone is hurling racist remarks at you.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for yourself.

You have done something indefensible like murder


not paying my ex directly for our daughter's braces

You should expect your ex to support your kids.


they are not even their biological children


you stayed home for ten years to raise them so you haven't been making money.


You have always been the sole breadwinner.


You are paying for the other half of their support.


They are financially unable to at the moment.


You should treat the parents of your friends with respect.

Your friend's parents are abusive towards you.


You are staying over as a guest at your friend's home.


They treat you like you are one of their own


They have been historically rude to you.


they are making racist remarks aimed at you.


they offered to invite you for dinner at their house.


not wanting my mom in my room during the only free time of my day

It's okay to not want your family to be in your room sometimes.


you want to spend as much time with your children as you can


You are exhausted and want to get some rest.


You're very ill and they need to check up on you and feed you.


You don't get along with your family and they are abusive.


It's fun to spread good cheer among your family.


They are depressed after a family death.


You're getting wasted and will have a hangover the next day.


They're all busy trying to do their taxes.


being mad at my husband for telling our son not to listen to women

Children are expected to be respectful of their parents.


Their parents are supporting them financially.


Their parents have never shown them respect.


Their parents are trying to keep them from being with someone.


telling my friend that her new work friends are garbage

Friends should respect people that are important to their friends.


The people important to their friends are causing those friends harm.


Their friends have good taste in people.


Those people have tried hard to get you to like them.


Their friends are dating an inmate who's in jail for domestic abuse.


Their friends' friends always treat them with respect.


telling my ex-girlfriend/former possible baby momma off and then putting her on "blast" online

It is rude to spread rumors about people in social media.

People recognize it as amusing gossip and get a laugh out of it.


People take the gossip as truth and don't express any doubts.


They have done this to you and you want revenge


It is expected that you speak at least one language.

you were born deaf and have never been able to hear, and therefore learn, spoken words.


you want to able to communicate effectively with other people.


Your parents never taught you a language


you want to be able to communicate with others


You want to be understood and not be taken advantage of.


not wanting my dad to human squat me instead of using weights

Hypothesis: It's wrong to use your family.

Your family is happy to use their connections to help you get a start in the professional world.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use your family.

You take out credit cards in their names.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use your family.

you are taking financial advantage of them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use your family.

They are abusive and you're biding your time until you can escape.


breaking up with my girlfriend over something she did when we were broken up

It's unreasonable to break up with your partner for their behavior when you were not together.

Your friend was gossiping about your behind your back.


you have no way of proving they did anything wrong


They have been honest about it the whole time


Your partner was hiding their criminal past.


You knew about your partner's past before you started dating.


You found out they murdered someone in their past.


If you make plans, make sure everyone is invited.


You have a capacity and are unable to invite everyone you want to.


You think it will cause drama and tension if you don't invite them.


Your budget only allows for a certain number of guests.


getting mad and hurt at my husband for trying to be a good son/grandson/great grandson

It's acceptable to want the best for your family


Your family is full of criminals who belong in jail.


Your family is pleasant and hard working.


They have tried to murder you in the past.


They have always tried to be there for you.


IT comes at the expense of other people.


You're willing to hurt many other people to help your family.


You want the best healthcare so your family doesn't get sick and die.


cutting off someone who is suicidal but is causing me panic attacks and manipulating me

You are expected to report dangerous behavior to the authorities.

they are legally paragliding with a trainer


you can prevent something bad from happening to another person.


you know the authorities may respond with even more dangerous behavior


The dangerous behavior is all in fun and no one will really get hurt.


There is a high chance of someone hurting another.


being upset (and possibly vengeful) because my boyfriend is being inconsiderate

You shouldn't be inconsiderate to your partner.

You don't love them anymore and are thinking of breaking up with them.


You love them dearly and want them to love you back.


You are separated and in the middle of a divorce.


you have a very good reason for doing so.


being upset that my in-law's moved without saying bye to us

It's expected that in-law's will say goodbye anytime they are moving away.


Especially if you get along well with them.


There are grand children to say good bye to.


They have a very toxic relationship and haven't spoken in years.


They are moving abroad and will not be seen for a long time.


not lending money to a friend for an abortion

If you do not want to lend a friend money for something you don't believe in then it is ok to refuse.


The person is asking for money for a medical procedure.


expecting my wife to put her married name on her doctoral certificate, as opposed to her maiden name

It is expected that a wife use their married name for all distinguishing documents as a sign of respect to the marriage


The wife wants to hyphenate her last name.


She is in a culture where the law requires her to change her name.


She has her own established career and her husband is okay with that.


The couple has agreed to this and are very much in love.


not letting my dad kiss my son/his only grandchild

It is good to protect children from germs of other people when they have a supressed immune system.


The people are showing signs of illness.


they need to be exposed to some germs to slowly build their immune system back up.


the doctor says they need to be exposed to develop immunity.


They need the germs to fight off disease


disagreeing with my wife about how to discuss suicide with our 5 year old

It's ok to disagree with your spouse's parenting choices.

It is something that will affect the child's life tremendously.


They compromise with you on other choices.


your spouse is a better parent than you are


You think they're not beating your child enough.


You're concerned that your child isn't getting enough to eat.


wanting my hypothetical kids with my girl friend to take my last name

It is reasonable to want your kids to have your last name.


Your kids were adopted from your partner's deceased spouse.


your last name is an inappropriate swear word.


your child is the last male child capable of carrying on the family name.


You should take responsibility for paying your share.


You are the one that invited the people to dinner.


You are the stay at home person in a relationship.


you had an agreement that you do not need to pay


you were given a service and now it is time to pay


be creeping out by how a waiter treated my daughter and for making her say thank you

Hypothesis: It's wrong to treat kids badly.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to treat kids badly.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to treat kids badly.

The kids are juvenile delinquents who need to be taught a lesson.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to treat kids badly.

You want them to develop into happy, contributing members of society.


telling my mother that her extension of an invitation to a friend of a distant family member for our wedding was inappropriate

It's not okay to be rude to our parents.


Your parents only care about your well being


our parents are racist toward our friends.


Your parent was absent and refused to pay child support.


You parent worked hard to provide a home for you.


being upset about the amount of cleaning and work I do in my flat

It is expected that you do chores in your own house.

You have a maid that you pay well to do them for you.


You want to keep your house clean and liveable.


your family is well off enough to afford a maid


your parents are offering you an allowance


not pumping my lady friend's gas for her

Hypothesis: It's good to pump gas for other people.


Hypothesis: It's good to pump gas for other people.

It is an elderly couple and they seem to be struggling


Hypothesis: It's good to pump gas for other people.


Hypothesis: It's good to pump gas for other people.

You are in a place where only attendants are allowed to pump gas.


not involving my fiancee's family in the proposal

It's expected that family will want to do things together.


The family has not seen each other for a long time


The children are home on break from college.


They are doing something that the other person isn’t interested in.


They want to make memories with their children.


muting my grieving hs teacher on Facebook

It's understandable to want an outlet to let out grief.


You are depressed and have nobody to talk to.


People are relying on you to be the strong one.


You have told others that you do not want to display grief.


Something terrible has happened in your life.


You are grieving for a celebrity you never even knew


reporting my parents to the IRS for evading theri taxes for 8yrs

It is honest to report tax evasion to the IRS, especially if it is your own family.

they are planning to tell the truth at a later date.


they are claiming a lot of money that doesn't belong to them.


Your family has plans to make things right and is doing so in other ways.


Your family is a crime family that hurts others and doesn't care at all.


The person is getting a lot of money back from the IRS.


quiting my job when they wouldn't give me my raise

You are right to leave if someone does not value you as highly as you value yourself.


You are constantly put down and belittled


Unless you are really overstating your salary demands.


You are getting professional counseling together to address the problem.


essentially trying to make a person do their job without me doing it for them

You shouldn't try to do other people's jobs.


You are showing them how to do it safely.


Your boss asked you to cover for that person while they're sick.


That person resents your attempts to help.


You don't have the proper education or training.


limiting my son's YouTube time and causing huge tantrums and family drama

It's wrong to cause your child to have a tantrum.


They throw tantrums for every little thing.


Your child has tantrums over almost anything.


going after a girl my friend said he was done talking to but really wasn't

It is bad to chase after a person your friend is interested in.

The person your friend is interested in is more interested in you.


Your friend has been trying to be with that person for a long time.


They have informed you of how into much they like the person.


that person has said they're not interested in your friend


you both have talked about how they're interested in the person and you said you wouldnt go after them


You were interested in that person first.


That person declined your friend's advances.


Your friend is planning to ask them out.


wanting to beat up a kid for not showing up to a project meeting

Hypothesis: You shouldn't want to beat someone up.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't want to beat someone up.


choosing to cut ties with a friend for not liking dogs

Friends are expected to work out their issues together.


They want to remain friends for a long time.


not particularly liking one of my girlfriends dogs

It is wrong to dislike your partner's pet.


your partner's pet has tried to attack you and hisses at you.


you knew about the pet before you moved in.


Your partner's pet ruined your favorite dress.


Your partner's pet is very well trained.


The pet is vey important to your partner


It's okay to not want to say goodbye to a beloved pet.


The pet is in extreme pain it can't understand.


The pet is healthy and the only problem is that your apartment doesn't allow pets.


You are saying goodbye before you go on vacation.


The pet is very sick and you have had it for 15 years.


You know that if you don't you will regret it for life.


You don't want to get upset again by seeing the pet.


Especially if you've had your pet a long time.


telling my girlfriend I have no desire to meet her friend

It is hurtful to not want to know a partner's friend circle.

You have mutually decided to keep your friend groups separate.


Your partner has invited you to their birthday party.


Your partner's friend circle includes their ex.


They have gotten to know your friend circle.


those friends are your partner's old prison buddies.


they are going to be attending your wedding.


not sending a Reminder Text to a friend to meet me for dinner

It is ok to assume that a friend would remember an important event


That important event was their's and yours double wedding.


They had a family emergency that made them forget


You reminded them about it several times


My friend has just undergone a major surgery.


My friend and I have known each other well for over fifty years.


getting upset when my gf flirts with a lot of guys in front of me

It's expected that you won't flirt with people when in an exclusive relationship.

You're a cocktail waitress just trying to get bigger TIPS at work.


you and your partner have decided that flirting is okay.


Your partner is also interested in the person you're flirting with.


You and your partner decided to not pursue other people.


You are flirting with nursing home residents to make them feel good


getting upset that my bf wiped boogers on something in my car

You should use a tissue for your boogers.


you are in the woods and can blow them on the ground.


You are giving a presentation in front of your company's Board of Directors.


reaching out to my ex-best friend and confronting her

When you have a falling out with your best friend, it's okay to seek closure.

You consider closure to be the death of one of  you.


You want closure to be the end of the falling out and the beginning of a better friendship.


You want to resolve the issue and still be friends.


It is an issue that has ruined your friendship.


You were the one that caused the falling out in the first place.


There is a chance to redeem the friendship.


They have blocked you from ever communicating with them again.


They feel the same way as you and want to make amends.


They are in the middle of grieving for a relative.


It's OK to expect an event if there's been prior discussion about it.


The people planning the event have been called out of town on a company emergency.


Invitations to the event have been sent out.


the discussion was about cancelling the event.


a date for the event has already been announced.


The prior discussion implied the event wasn't happening.


sarcastically telling a straight a that they don't need to attend a review session

People don't like it when you make fun of them.


You are making fun of a small child that doesn't understand.


they are being made fun about something sensitive to them.


It's expected that families should stick together.

The families live on different continents and have a very hard time contacting each other.


None of the family members makes a living wage on their own.


You believe modern families thrive when there are individual differences.


You believe modern families still need be be united and loyal.


You have toxic family members that hurt your mental health.


One of them is being verbally attacked by a stranger.


It's good to apologize when you've done something wrong.

You don't agree with the opinion that you've done something wrong.


The relationship will suffer if you don't apologize.


You want to repair a relationship with that person.


you don't care what the other person thinks.


you want to act like a grownup and do the right thing.


The person you hurt doesn't want to hear from you.


You did something wrong to a family member.


you have hurt the environment, not a person.


you think you can make it up to the person some way.


automatically assuming I was being watched at a store and giving someone the stink eye for potentially no reason

It's wrong to assume the motives of another person.

it is perfectly clear they are only in it for themselves.


you have never talked to them and have no idea what they are thinking.


The person has told you what their motives are and it's not what you assume.


You could ask the person what their motives are.


blowing my horn at cars in the intersection

It's OK to honk your horn if using your horn informs others of your presence.

you are just doing it to scare people on the side of the road.


visibility is limited due to stormy weather.


Unless it's going to startle or scare someone.


Especially if they are in the street where you are driving.


Someone is facing away from you while walking into traffic


You're trying to tell people to make way.


it is late at night and people are sleeping.


It's ok to have personal preferences about foods.


saying I don't want my brother to see an r rated movie

Underage children should not watch R rated movies.


IT is okay to have a preference in who you are attracted to


You are supposed to have a matched wedding


You know exactly what you want in another person.


Unless you are an adult who's attracted to children.


it is your own sibling to whom you are attracted.


you are not in a relationship with anyone.


telling off my parents over my law school acceptances

You shouldn't get upset at your parents.

they have been snooping through your personal items.


they are just trying to give you advice.


they keep sticking their noses in your business when you have asked them not to.


they are trying to teach you life lessons when you are in high school.


they try to force you to do something illegal


they are trying to help you with what you asked for help with


They wouldn't buy you the toy you grabbed at the store.


You still call them "Mommy" and "Daddy."


They did something horrible to hurt your relationship with them.


breaking up with my girlfriend before a series of important job interviews

You are within your right to end a relationship with  someone for any reason.

Your reasons are based on assumptions about the person without cold hard fact.


The person you're dumping has been abusive to you.


You find out that you do not want to be with them anymore.


You think that the relationship is going nowhere


It's understandable to want to have something all to yourself.


there are others who have a stronger need for it.


taking someone's laundry out of the washer

It's okay if you need to be able to use things other people aren't using.


Especially if they sometimes use your things too.


You make a habit of asking for special favors or making special requests all the time


Your work involves things other people aren't doing.


not telling my sister about a pretty serious procedure

Being hurt that your sibling didn't tell you they were having an important procedure done is acceptable.

They were unable to tell you themselves.


You haven't seen your sibling in years because you hate each other.


You and your sibling are very very close and share everything with each other.


Your sibling was unconscious due to a medical issue.


Your sibling had been planning the procedure for many months.


You wanted to be there to support your sibling.


It is wrong to intentionally ignore a friend or family member


The friend or family member is highly abusive to you.


They need you at a critical time and are good to you.


You are trying to concentrate on driving.


not wanting to be an on demand therapist

It's healthy to have boundaries in your professional life.


Your boss tries to contact you during non-work hours constantly.


You have been taken advantage of in the past.


not consoling the girl who had a crush on me

It's wrong not to console people that you care about.


They are going through a very hard time.


They won't even tell you why they're upset.


Unless they don't want anyone near them.


They are upset because you won't give them money for drugs.


They have just received news that a family member has passed.


getting upset with the members in my group for a massive project

You should learn to work together with others.


Your employment involves working solo from home.


Your employment involves working in an office on a team daily.


The people around you have harmful ideologies.


You are writing a survival manual for loners.


You want to lessen the time and effort you need to expend.


shrugging when my ex/roommate complained to me about her druggie boyfriend's issues

It's understandable to be indifferent to peoples situations that they put themselves in.

They are someone close to you and they need your help.


You have told them in the past that you do not care to know about their lives.


They are driving your child home while drunk.


they are constantly bringing trouble onto themselves.


stopping inviting certain coworkers out while only inviting others

You shouldn't favor certain people over others.

You are responsible for hiring people for a job and have to pick the best one.


All the people are in your close family.


You are favoring your own family over non-family.


You are favoring one of your children over another.


You have to promote only one person in your department.


leaving a family members dog tied up outside their house alone

Hypothesis: You should treat animals with respect.


Hypothesis: You should treat animals with respect.


Hypothesis: You should treat animals with respect.

You're trying to stamp out an invasive species.


Hypothesis: You should treat animals with respect.

The animal is trying to maul your child.


Grandchildren are expected to love and respect their grandparents.

Unless their grandparents are criminals.


Especially if their grandparents help take care of them.


they are taught to respect their elders.


they both have a pretty strong relationship


The children live with their grandparents.


"half" accepting my mom's apology after she belittled me

Apologies should be heartfelt and sincere.


The apology is for something very serious.


The apology is a legal requirement imposed by a judge.


You really value the relationship with the person you hurt.


You are apologizing to your romantic partner.


It's expected that spouses support each other in their life journey.


Their spouse drastically changes and is heading down a path you can't support.


matching with someone on a dating site just to talk to them

It is not expected to make multiple friends through dating apps at the same time.

You just lost your job and have plenty of free time.


You were voted least friendly in school.


You are on a party app that allows numerous people.


You want to just find a love connection.


You are not looking for anything serious


you're realistic with your expectations.


You state you're looking for a serious relationship.


expecting my boyfriend to stop being friends with a girl I can't stand

You should not try to control other people's actions.


The actions you  are trying to control are your partner's.


You're a police officer enforcing the law.


breaking up with my girlfriend for opening up to me about her past abuse

It is rude to break up with your girlfriend for trivial reasons

You have mentioned the reasons to her and she doesn't care.


The relationship is a good one otherwise.


she's just constantly getting on your nerves.


they have never done anything bad before


Your soul mate is someone else and they like you back.


You've been dating for ten years and have two kids.


Hypothesis: You should always do your job duties.


It's okay not to want to go out with others.


you've said that you'd like to go out with them


telling my sister's bf about her sexting

It's disloyal to sext someone while you're in a relationship with someone else.


You accidentally pressed the wrong buttons.


Your partner knows and finds it exciting.


Your partner has told you many times that they consider sexting cheating.


wanting to ask my roommate to not lock the cupboard

You can ask other roommates to do simple requests.

You never do what they ask when they make simple requests of you.


You are asking them to clean up after themselves


You don't help out around the apartment.


wanting to bring my laptop to do work for a big presentation the next day during my GFs family overnight get together

Work should always be more important then family.


You have young children with no other caregiver.


Without work, you cannot afford to care for your family


you don't need the income from your job but your family needs you


you need your job to support your family


someone in your family has an emergency.


sleeping with a girl who's in a shaky relationship

You can have sex with anyone who is willing.


The person is being paid for their time.


They make advances to have sex with you.


They don't legally have the right to consent.


threatening divorce if my wife insists on being a surrogate

Being a surrogate is an important life event that you should talk over with your partner.


You are being paid tens of thousands of dollars for it.


Your life partner had no idea that you wanted to be a surrogate for another couple.


You should cut off contact with your ex after a breakup.

The two of you are amazing friends at the heart of it.


The two of you want to be able to move on effectively.


You both decide that you want to remain friends.


enjoying when my dad doesn't get his way

It's wrong to enjoy it when your family isn't happy about something.


You're backing out of a promise you made.


You have done something good that makes you proud.


The family is getting a comeuppance for abusive behavior


The unhappiness becomes a blot on the family's history.


telling my dad I don't want him to bring "my sister" to my house ever again

It is acceptable to not want to see some family members


The family members really need you for support and love you a lot.


Some family members have abused you a lot in life.


Hypothesis: It is mean to give up on a friend


Hypothesis: It is mean to give up on a friend

Your friend continues to break the law and go to prison.


Hypothesis: It is mean to give up on a friend

They find out they have cancer and need treatment.


Hypothesis: It is mean to give up on a friend

You have already given them a bunch of chances.


Hypothesis: It is mean to give up on a friend

They have been loyal to you for a long time.


Hypothesis: It is mean to give up on a friend

They won't seek rehabilitation for their addiction.


We need to get up sometimes even when we want to sleep in because we have things to do.

The things can be done at any time of the day.


You are very tired and need to catch up on sleep


unfriending people who are making fake sexual harassment claims against my best friend

IT is okay to come to the defense of your friend


not eating the croissants my sister brought for me

It is rude to refuse to eat something that was given to you.


you are allergic to an ingredient in it.


The ice cream was so sadly melted I couldn't bring myself to spoon it up like soup.


The mayonnaise based dish has been sitting out in the hot sun for three hours.


It's best not to get involved in arguments with former lovers.


you both went to move far away to different countries


You're trying to get visitation with your children.


It has started to turn physically violent.


They are having a civil argument that has to do with their child's care.


telling my gay housemate my friend who he said was cute was also gay

It's good to tell others things that might interest them about others.


They are a policeman that is interviewing you.


you're gossiping and saying negative things


They might make good friends to each other.


Unless you are telling them personal info.


Especially if it's pertinent to the situation.


not sympathising with my mother suffering from dementia when going out to watch 'a Christmas Carol'

You should have more sympathy for people with dementia.


They were once competent and responsible for your upbringing


walking out of Thanksgiving dinner after my family went out of the way for me. it was a disaster

You shouldn't expect your family to appreciate everything you do for them.

You have not received appreciation in a long time.


you appreciate every single thing they do for you.


they don't even realize all of the things you do for them.


You wait for a "thank you" before the next kind gesture.


Your family isn't aware of all the work you do for them.


not texting my brother and his girlfriend whilst they are on holiday

It is nice to leave people alone while they are on vacation and not text them.


They have asked you to only contact them if necessary.


They text you first because they miss you.


They have asked you not to contact them while they're away.


They told you they wanted to be left alone.


There's a medical emergency and their child is in the hospital.


They're trying to get away from their cell phone while they're gone.


telling my mom to ask for help at the airport

It's bad to decline help if it means you are going to miss a flight.


The person who wanted to help is someone who was violent towards you before.


The person who wanted to help was a friend of yours.


your luggage is handcuffed to your wrist.


You are warning them of a terrorist attack.


The person offering the help is not somebody you want to owe a favor later.


You have an urgent need to catch the flight.


getting upset about my husbands scheduled gaming time

You should respect your partner's interests.

they're harming themselves or you with those interests.


don't want to be seen as domineering and insecure.


their interests are contrary to your own interests


Their interests involve harming themselves


Their main interest is getting high and cheating on you.


Your partner always respects your hobbies.


Hypothesis: It's bad to retaliate with insults.


Hypothesis: It's bad to retaliate with insults.

You are arguing with someone who insults you first.


Hypothesis: It's bad to retaliate with insults.

The person is trying to have a legitimate argument.


Hypothesis: It's bad to retaliate with insults.

You're having a playful argument with your friend.


Hypothesis: It's bad to retaliate with insults.

You're speaking to the person who signs your paychecks.


selling someone a truck that died 20 minutes after the sale

If someone takes advantage of your trusting nature for the sell of something, they're an evil person who deserves punishment.


you know that they are desperate circumstances


That person needed the money for a medical treatment.


That person needed the money to use to harm someone.


Unless they are a child and haven't been taught better.


Especially if they are an adult who has done it to others.


It's understandable to want someone to do what they said they would.


Unless they get sick and are hospitalized.


Especially if they are perfectly capable to doing it.


There are extraneous circumstances preventing them


The thing they said they would do is simple and easy.


Your friend said they were going to win the lottery.


You are waiting on someone to repay you money.


being bitter about being tested, and snapping at my Girlfriend's friend

It's wrong to get mad at your partner's friends.


Unless they are taking advantage of your partner.


You're mad that they're a bad influence.


You're jealous of your partner's friends.


They are acting mean or hateful towards you.


They want to include you in the activity.


you don't want your partner to choose between you and them.


not wanting to quit my job over a family vacation

It is okay to prioritize your job over fun things.


You want to celebrate your child's birthday.


You have to do a project that has a deadline.


wanting to pay when my friend's family did not want us to pay

You shouldn't expect to pay for something when others say it's okay not to pay.

Unless you are getting the premium version.


There is a sign saying to take one for free.


you know they are just being polite and that you really should pay for your share.


they asked you out on a date and it is expected.


The others are scammers themselves and are trying to get you to scam too.


The others are trustworthy people who obey the law.


You know that they are struggling with money


possibly wasting $200 because I want to drive instead of fly

It's okay to not like to fly on airplanes.


your fear gets in the way of performing your job when you need to travel for business


you were in a plane crash at some point in your life


not changing the schedule for someone who requested time off too late

You should try to coordinate with your coworkers.

you are solely responsible for the project.


you don't collaborate with your coworkers.


You are all working on individual projects.


You are all working on the same project.


Your coworkers like to sabotage your plans.


Your job functions completely independently.


Your coworkers rely on you to complete their jobs.


It's OK to decide that you don't want to be with someone.

You then kill that person so no one else can have them.


That person is already more interested in someone else.


you realize that you have nothing in common with them


It's wrong to shun your parents just because the aggravate you a little bit.

Those aggravations are precursors to worse behavior.


Your parents are aging and need your support.


They continue to repeat the things that aggravate you.


telling her I'm not interested in the offer

It's fine to offer something to someone.


You're offering them a Schedule I controlled substance.


You're offering them a free sample in the supermarket.


You were going to throw it away otherwise.


that is the only way to get them to do what you want.


Bathroom attendants get plenty of tips from other people so you do not have to tip the attendant.


If there is a company no tipping policy.


They do an amazing job for you and inspire you to tip.


They donl't really do anything for you while you are in there.


They go out of their way to provide you service.


you want to show your appreciation anyway


not inviting my older brother to my graduation

Inviting family members to your graduation is expected.


You are the first one in your family to attend college


They live too far away and can't afford to travel.


YOu know they will appreciate the sentiment.


they supported you throughout your schooling


telling my friend that if she didn't vaccinate her (Hypothetical) kids, then they couldn't be around my (also hypothetical) kids

It is okay to have a different opinion from your friends.


you understand that people are different.


Your opinion is racist or otherwise hateful in nature.


You and your friends enjoy debating politics with one another.


the opinion revolves around thinking something illegal is okay


you can talk about it in a calm manner or just agree to disagree


not wanting to donate to charity through my employer

It's bad to call people out in public for failing to donate money.


Unless they are in public bragging about having donated it.


They put a penny in your donation container.


You are soliciting donations from passersby.


Unless you know they have plenty of money.


Especially if you know they can't afford to.


the people said they donated when they really didn't.


wanting my fiancée to move to the same city as me

It is rude to try to control your significant others life


They get angry and upset when you try to do it.


Your partner is ill and asked you to make their decisions for them.


Your partner is a very independent person.


yelling at two people in my class group to stfu

You shouldn't yell at the people around you.


You are trying to tell them there is a fire.


You are yelling for them to get to safety.


You are in a library and should remain quiet.


you are yelling to prevent them from hurting themselves.


Especially if they aren't hard of hearing.


not wanting my MIL in my home while I'm in labor

It's okay to not want people around you while you're in labor.


they strangers who are not nurses either


You're experiencing labor complications.


you're having medical complications and need a doctor.


They are doctors and nurses helping you deliver your baby.


Your mother-in-law is being overbearing.


throwing serious topics on a guy I don't know well

It's expected that you keep conversation polite with strangers.

the strangers are being extremely rude to you


you are a policeman and they are in trouble.


The strangers are being belligerent to you or harming someone else.


You don't want to start a fight with them or insult them.


expecting a diabetic with low blood sugar to actively fix their situation

It is wrong for a diabetic person to let their low blood sugar level persist.


their doctor asked them to stay within a certain range


It's wrong to not give two weeks notice when leaving a job.


it would cause a hardship for your coworkers.


Your boss needs your help to fill your position.


Your boss never paid you on time in six years.


making my gf carry her stuff and letting her clean her mess and making her pay for her own food

You shouldn't make your partner carry things that are too heavy for them.

You are helping them increase their muscle strength on a regime.


You are able to help them carry the item.


They go and find a dolly to carry the item.


getting mad at my friend for accusing me of destroying the class board

Hypothesis: You should be honest.


Hypothesis: You should be honest.

You want to have long term relationships


Hypothesis: You should be honest.

You will get in trouble for your honesty.


Hypothesis: You should be honest.

You will be supported in your confession.


Hypothesis: You should be honest.

You are planning a surprise party for someone.


Hypothesis: You should be honest.

You want to cultivate deep relationships.


Hypothesis: You should be honest.


not wanting my girlfriend to remain friends the the man she cheated on her ex with

Your partner might resent you if you tell them who or whom not to be friends with.

They cheated on you and want to rebuild trust.


They haven't given any reason not to trust them.


They are constantly choosing bad friends.


they know you're looking out for their best interest


They are friends are a bad influence on them


Their friends are actually very supportive of them


being upset because my wife won't let me come to our newborn gender reveal ultrasound

It's expected that both parents will attend an ultrasound.


they are going to find out the sex of the baby.


One parent has an important work meeting that they cannot miss.


There could be problems with the pregnancy.


The father has an important business meeting at the same time.


The appointment is scheduled after work hours.


One parent ends up stuck in traffic and misses the appointment.


not letting my cousin's 2 small children come around and play with my dogs

If your dogs can hurt kids, don't let kids play with them.

you want them to learn a valuable lesson.


They are older kids who know how to handle dogs.


yelling at my roommate to be quiet at 3am

It is inconsiderate to keep a roommate awake by making noise in the wee hours.


They have to go to work or school early in the morning.


You are waking them up to get out of a burning house.


They have to go to work early in the morning.


You are making noise because you need medical attention.


Your roommate has an exam in the morning.


your roommate has to work in the morning.


not wanting to visit my potentially-dying uncle in the hospital

You are expected to show empathy for other people.

you have trouble connecting with people.


You want to help and show support for others


asking my pregnant wife if she ate all the icecream

It is rude to assume that a pregnant woman ate all the food.

she was the only other person who had access to it


there were many other people involved not just her


There are other people in the room near the food.


It's not the first time she's eaten all of the food.


The woman hasn't been in the kitchen much.


not pushing this wonderful woman away from me

You shouldn't push your partner away from you.

They lied to you about having multiple lovers with STIs.


You're both mourning the death of your child.


Your partner is becoming violent towards you.


Your partner is trying to commit to you.


not reporting corruption in the high school I attended

You are supposed to report corruption whenever you see it.


someone has asked you to hold off to gather more evidence.


You are an undercover cop trying to gather information


that corruption is being done by those you report it to


it's stopping someone innocent from achieving something good


You're the only person who could possibly change the corruption.


Giving alcohol to a person that shouldn't have it is a bad decision.

You are a bartender and the person is a stranger.


The person is a family member who has a history of driving drunk.


they are about to die and it's a last request.


your actions could harm the other person.


Otherwise the person would start drinking rubbing alcohol.


You know they're going to try to drive their car.


trying to make a good decision for my family but leaving my mom in Colorado "by herself"

It's normal for people to want to make their own lives, separate from their parents.

They have a serious disability that prevents them from living on their own.


people want to get married and have a family of their own.


They ate inheriting the family business.


They are mentally disabled and will be with their parents for life.


They have graduated college and landed a job.


You should be supportive of your friends.


they are supportive of you when you need them


Your friends are trying to harm someone.


Your friends are trying to reach their dreams.


They tried to cut off one of your fingers.


Your friends are into things that are harmful to them and you don't want to enable that.


Your friends have your back and help you out in your times of need.


not posting about my boyfriend's birthday on Facebook

It's good to acknowledge your significant other's birthday on social media.

he hates to celebrate his birthday and doesn't want anybody to know.


they love it when their birthday is a big deal.


Your significant other loves social media


You're planning a surprise birthday party.


You're planning a public birthday party.


they acknowledged yours on your birthday


Your significant other is a very private person who hates public announcements.


Your significant other spends a lot of time on social media and enjoys the publicity.


deleting his ex' contact number in his phone

It's frowned upon snoop in someone's phone.

They have told you their passcode to get in.


They do not know you have possession of their phone.


You're a parent snooping in your adult child's phone.


you're worried they're doing something illegal.


It's not okay to let an employer down when they are counting on you.


You become seriously ill and are in the hospital.


You are running behind because you procrastinated.


telling my wife that ending every sentence with "yeah" is annoying

It is healthy to tell someone that something they are doing bothers you.

You think that it may start a confrontation.


You have told them before but they ignored your request.


You are sharing a cell in prison with them.


You are being hypercritical and know it.


You have to spend a lot of time with the person.


You think they have no idea you're bothered


Avoiding a funeral can leave you with unresolved emotional issues.

You have no feelings left for the person who's funeral it is


The funeral is for a close friend you had a falling out with.


You were able to say goodbye to the deceased before they passed away.


You were never really close to the deceased person to begin with.


You were really close to the person who died.


Funerals are not in your death traditions.


It is okay to save and conserve your money


You owe people money or have bills to pay first.


You have big plans or goals in the future and don't want to rely on anyone else.


You owe child support you're not paying.


You make triple the federal poverty level.


Unless you are going without paying bills to do so.


Especially if you have enough income to cover your bills and save some.


It's expected that you should compromise when in a relationship.


you are always the one compromising and your partner never does


your partner compromises with you and you want to stay in a happy relationship


your significant other doesn't ever compromise and it's just you compromising


that have made many compromises with you in other occasions


the compromise is harmful to one of the people.


getting pissed at my family for smoking pot in the house

It is not okay to disrespect someone's home.


It is your boss or someone who is of significance.


Unless they have Nazi memorabilia on the walls.


Especially if they have all they can afford.


they have asked for your honest opinion.


They are a hoarder and it is causing them to be sick and you want to help them clean up.


They were kind enough to invite you over and are being a good host.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

You are trying to surprise someone with something


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

You are planning a surprise party for them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

the truth is important to the relationship..


You should never violate someone's right to privacy online


You're trying to find personal information about them.


you are a criminal and trying to steal money.


you are a legitimate online business trying to grow.


That person trusts you to respect their privacy.


not wanting to hang out with this autistic dude on my birthday

It's rude to discriminate against someone based on their disability.

they aren't able to physically do something that the job requires.


They actually cannot work at your business


telling my depressed boyfriend he needs to do more with his dogs

It's good to be honest with your significant other.

you are being dishonest to keep a surprise a secret.


You are spilling someone else's secret that they asked you not to share with anyone.


Your significant other has asked you directly to be honest with them on the matter.


You want to have a healthy relationship.


They ask you if they look like they gained weight.


They need your advice on how to dress for an important meeting.


They're asking about classified national secrets.


cranking my Sub Woofers with my girlfriend's son in the car

Long trips can be tough on children, it's best to make them as comfortable as possible.


They will be riding in a car for 12 hours.


refusing to watch a Vegan documentary just because my friend asked

It's wrong to not like the vegan lifestyle.


You're making judgments based on stereotypes.


You know how much water goes into growing nuts.


not wanting to spend my 'whole' break up in New York with family

Families are expected to want to spend time together when they have a chance.


they don't get a chance to see each other often


Family members are abusive to one another and hateful.


Family is loving and kind to one another and really cares about each other.


the members of the family do not get along.


None of the family members get along with each other.


They hardly ever have a chance to get together.


They are just acting like a family for success reasons but can't really stand each other.


They really love and care about each other.


You shouldn't lie about a medical procedure.

You're in a situation where telling the truth would be dangerous.


You will be subject to jokes and teasing.


The person asking does not need to know your medical history.


A doctor needs to know your medical history.


you are trying to prevent someone from worrying.


You are very embarrassed about what you had done and a stranger asks you about it.


You are seeing a doctor and they are asking your medical history.


missing plans with my roommate because I was at work

Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

The involve nonrefundable deposits that others have made.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

The other person is already on their way to meet you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

It's an emergency and you have a lethal sickness.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

Especially if you don't have a good reason.


finding my autistic brother's meltdowns funny

Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your brother

he keeps entering your room without knocking on the door first.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your brother

he is only a small child who has done nothing to deserve it.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your brother


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your brother

He has given you a place to live for free.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your brother

Your brother said something bad about you in front of company.


letting my ex gf on foot and get a ride with friends

It's great for friends to be available if a friend needs sudden transportation.


The same friend always needs transportation.


The friend is stranded somewhere dark and remote.


Unless the friend is taking advantage of them.


Especially if the friend is normally available for them.


There is an emergency and they need help getting somewhere.


choosing to cut ties with my immediate family

You shouldn't cut ties with your family.

Your family is toxic to your life and causes you to feel bad about yourself.


Your family is all very close and they all love you deeply.


it would be unhealthy to stay in contact with them.


not liking my girlfriend's fake pregnancy April Fools joke

You have a right to be upset when someone plays a joke on you.


it was all in good fun and nobody was hurt.


The joke was harmless and played by a small child.


fighting with my landlord against my roommate's wishes

You shouldn't pick fights for little things.

You're looking for a reason to sue someone and settle out of court.


You're picking physical fights and sending people to the hospital.


Unless the little things are your children.


Especially if they are just petty things.


You're a politician and the little things matter.


You have important things to be focusing on


not wanting to call my girlfriend all the time

Creating some space between you and your partner is healthy.


You've been getting on each others nerves lately.


You are in a long distance relationship.


You both work and live with your partner.


Your partner has voiced a need for more support.


You want to get back in touch with your own friend groups.


you want to stay close and get to know them better


You have found yourself getting annoyed at the smallest things


you already have too much space between you.


you and your partner are together all the time.


not wanting to care for a disrespecting ungrateful family member

Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.

They abandoned you when you were a child.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.

They cleaned your room while you were on vacation.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.

They have been nothing but abusive towards you.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.

They've included you in all the family plans.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.

The have tried to keep you from succeeding.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.

They have always given you encouragement and support.


Hypothesis: You should be grateful to your family.

They are generous with their time and money.


It's good to spend time getting to know your older relatives.


Do you want to get to know your family history.


Hypothesis: It's not okay to hurt animals.


Hypothesis: It's not okay to hurt animals.

You are acting in self defense as one is attacking you for no reason.