You live in a country where arranged marriages happen.


not going on a date with a guy in a wheelchair even though we had really good chemistry

It's okay to only want to date someone you actually like.


you're being forced into marriage by religion.


You agree to let an enemy set you up on a blind date.


wanting to leave a couple hours earlier from a Christmas party, to meet up with a girl I haven't seen for a long time

Hypothesis: Leaving events early is not good.

You're trying to beat a heavy dose of traffic on the way home.


Hypothesis: Leaving events early is not good.


Hypothesis: Leaving events early is not good.

You are tired or sick and it's better to go home.


Hypothesis: Leaving events early is not good.

The event is important to someone close to you.


Hypothesis: Leaving events early is not good.

People are expecting you there to the end


regifting something as long as I don't tell the gifter

Hypothesis: Gifts are expected to be thoughtful.

Unless they are meant to get you to buy something.


Hypothesis: Gifts are expected to be thoughtful.

Especially if they're from someone who cares about you.


Hypothesis: Gifts are expected to be thoughtful.


not wanting to make the divorce easier for my spouse after infidelity and lies about money from them

It's understandable to be upset when a partner cheats on you.


They agreed not to in a monogamous relationship.


calling out my friend for never letting me know he made other plans

It is ok to get mad at a friend for misleading you about their plans.

They were planning a surprise party for you.


Your friend was misleading you to get you to a surprise party.


Your friend only told the truth when you caught them in the lie.


Your friend was planning a surprise birthday party for you


Your friend invited everyone to a party except for you


They did it to surprise you for your birthday


trying to get a family with their autistic son and visibly fake service dog banned from the theatre

You should be understanding of people's problems.

They've taken advantage of you when you tried to help them.


Their problems are ones they've brought on themselves that they don't try to solve.


You have experience in dealing with the types of problems they are having.


Those problems are ones you've experienced as well.


Those problems involve repeated drug abuse


You want help with your problems as well.


Letting someone know that you aren't able to stay friends is okay.


You want to give them a good explanation for leaving the friendship.


That person just found out a loved one died are really needs support.


That person has been saying appalling things about you on social media.


You "break up" with your friend in a rude way.


not wanting to pay my Son's grandmother to watch him

It's good to help a family member out by watching their child.


Their child is sick and you have a reduced immune system response.


You might need a favor from them someday.


The family member doesn't have a spouse.


It's not okay to treat people that are different than you badly.


They are just going about their business.


The reason you're different from them is that you're not a cannibalistic serial killer.


The way in which you differ is that they're a different nationality.


Those people have never done anything wrong to you.


The difference happens to be that they are white supremacists.


They are part of a marginalized group, like LGBTQ+


asking my boyfriend to post photos of me on Instagram

When your partner asks you to do something, you should do it for them.

They ask you to run over their nemesis with your car.


It involves their treatment and they are sick.


It will be something that can cause harm.


It helps both of you out in the long run.


They ask you to do something you find absolutely disgusting.


They ask you to do something quick and easy.


You are busy and cannot complete the request.


Your partner is sick and dependent upon you for help.


hating the bridesmaid dress my Dad wants me to wear

It is expected that a bridesmaid dress will be ugly.


The bridesmaids get to pick out their own dresses.


The bride wants to be the most beautiful on their wedding day.


The bride has looser rules on what people can wear.


The bride lets the maids chose their own style of dress in a common fabric.


The bride is insecure and wants them to look worse than her.


The dresses were made by a high end boutique.


The dresses were bought without consideration to body types.


not wanting to go back to a local coffeehouse

It's good to support local businesses by patronizing them when possible.

you are looking for a rare item that is only available online.


The business owner called you fat under his breathe the last time you were there.


You want to build new relationships in a new community


They are competing directly with larger chains.


Your local businesses are run by racists.


Your local businesses are progressive and support the community.


getting annoyed when my so calls to vent about work

It's good to listen when someone needs to talk.


You listen so long you forget to pick your kids up from school.


You are rushing to the hospital because your wife has gone into labor.


Vaccines are important in protection a child from diseases.

The child has an immune disorder that makes vaccination dangerous.


The child is going to travel to a country where common childhood diseases haven't been eradicated.


the child is allergic to something in that vaccine


you go to a public school or live in a highly populated area


The child is allergic to a component in the vaccine.


The child is going to be in public spaces often.


The child is healthy enough to be vaccinated.


You shouldn't expect others to do things for you.


You are healthy and can do things for yourself.


You broke both your legs and are resting in bed.


The other people you live with are sick, but you're healthy.


You are bed ridden and have medical issues


You are an independent person and can do things yourself


excluding a friend from my supper parties for mocking our food

It's mean to make fun of your friend's food.

You know that your husband is embarrassed that he is a very picky eater.


They have gone up to the buffet 5 times and still thinking about dessert.


They are putting ketchup on their ice cream.


They are from another country with different customs.


They are poor and don't have a lot of food.


Your friend is making fun of the food, too.


The friend seems to be enjoying the food.


making my own plans even though I carpool with a colleague

You should handle your own transportation.

You cannot afford your own transportation.


You live on a bus line in a city with excellent public transportation.


It is okay to set personal boundaries in relationships with others


Other people are not willing to do the work and set their own boundaries.


you and your partner have agreed to have a completely open relationship.


your therapist has advised you to set more boundaries.


You are comfortable enough not to set boundaries.


You want to have a healthy relationship with them.


Your boundaries override that person's personal rights.


Your boundaries help keep everyone in the relationship safe and happy.


You are locked in prison all by yourself.


asking my gf if her increasingly busy work schedule might affect our vacation plans

It's wrong to be so involved with work that you don't take time off for a vacation.

You need to meet a certain standard of work or you will be fired


You are the boss of a company and you can decide when you work


You're not being paid a lot for your work.


demanding they deliver the correct order

It's ok to expect your delivery to be correct.

You put in the wrong address when you ordered the delivery.


You put in the correct address when you ordered the delivery.


Unless the instructions you gave were very confusing.


You give them very confusing instructions


You suspect you might have input the wrong delivery address.


You double checked your shipping information.


It is understandable to call the police when you know someone is committing a crime.

The crime is something innocuous like jaywalking.


There are people in danger because of the crime.


The police are already aware of it and they have the situation under control.


The crime is against you or your family.


You see that the cops are already racing down the block.


There is no one else around to see what they are doing.


considering ending friendships for hiding something from me when I specifically asked otherwise

Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.

You're hiding something that's dangerous to their health.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.

You're trying to keep their Christmas present a secret until Christmas day.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.

You don't want them to keep anything from you.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.

Those things would hurt your friends feelings


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.

Your friend never keeps secrets from you


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.

you are hiding things that you know would be very hurtful to the friend if they knew about them.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hide things from a friend.

you friend is a sharing and caring friend who is always open and honest with you.


You should be supportive of your parent's partners.

They are dating someone much younger than them.


They are abusing or taking a financial advantage of them.


They make your parent happy and are good to them.


Those partners encourage your parent to send you away to military school.


Those partners treat you like your own child.


They have tried to turn your parents against you.


The partners have told you how much they appreciate all that your parents do.


asking for the profit when my brother sold my tv

Talking with family will solve issues you have.

Your issue happens to be with something they've done to you.


Your family doesn't engage in the conversation.


They don't understand the subject with which you have an issue.


Your family is insensitive and uncaring.


breaking up with him because of his politics

It is unreasonable to expect you will agree with somebody on everything

You met at a rally for people with very specific political beliefs.


You were raised in very different circumstances.


You've become enamored with a guru or religious leader.


The person you're trying to agree with has a different political ideology than you.


You have kids who are going through puberty


You come from two different backgrounds or parts of the country.


not wanting to press the "are you okay" question

It's good for people to care about others.


they are touching people without permission.


They express their care in harmful ways.


They're trying to build a support system.


You always get stabbed in the back by people you care about


Those other people care about you as well


refusing to tell the guy Im dating or anyother potential partner my body count

You should always be honest about your sexual history with your new partner.


You have absolutely no sexual history to tell


You have been with people who might have had STI’s


you've been raped and don't want to talk about it.


Something in your sexual past you know your partner would never understand and you don't want to hurt them.


You expect them to be honest and open with you and you want the relationship to grow.


It's a vast history that they need to be eased into.


They have trusted you with their honesty already.


taking a break from some of my friends for cutting me out of their plans

It is ok if you don't include a someone who is a friend in everything that you do.

You are the legal guardian of your friend who is disabled.


Your friend really doesn't want to be left alone right now.


Your exclusion of that friend causes them to feel less valued.


Your friend is understanding of boundaries.


You need to spend quality time with your spouse.


not wanting to return a possibly lost cat

You should keep your cats indoors, they could get lost.


They roam free and are not wearing a collar.


your house is filled with easy-off fume.


It's bad to leave a mess when you have roommates.

You and your roommates are comfortable with messes and agree to it


You are the only one who doesn't clean up after themselves.


They know you are cleaning the mess the next day.


The mess is left somewhere in their way.


They also leave occaisional messes and everyone agrees it is okay.


It's ok to dismiss a friend who is treating you poorly.

The friend is just very upset after both their parents died in a car accident.


Your friend has a pattern of treating you badly.


you did nothing to them that would cause them to be that way.


they are ignoring you during a family issue.


wanting my husband to brush his teeth every day

It's unhealthy not to brush your teeth every day.


You prefer to go to the dentist more often.


having friends over two days after my grandpa's surgery

It is expected that people won't want to have a fun time with friends so soon after a family member has surgery if the surgery is serious.

The family member tells them to go have fun.


The person is very close to the family member.


The family member is making a very quick recovery with no complications.


The family member is in critical condition.


They say they want to get out and do something.


They say they want to go home and be alone.


They need to get their mind off of the trauma.


They've been depressed and you're trying to cheer them up to speed up their recovery.


They're still heavily medicated after the operation.


telling my brother that no one asked him to take on the responsibility of looking after our family homes furniture, art and antiques

You should support your family when they need you.


You have to be in an important business meeting that your career depends on.


Your family always provided you support.


they have never ever supported you before


making my friend feel like shit after he told me I would be his "ideal girlfriend" but then in the same breath telling he's not attracted to girls who don't work out

People often say things to the people they're with without adequately thinking it through.

The people are very introspective and rare and extremely sensitive.


They're in a rush or generally talk a lot and quickly too.


They have social anxiety and overanalyze their thoughts.


They are trying to have a serious discussion.


They aren't really paying attention to the other person.


What they are saying is scripted in a movie.


getting a phd student in trouble for not paying cover at a bar

Hypothesis: It's wrong to get people in trouble.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get people in trouble.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get people in trouble.

They are trying to get away with a crime.


not wanting to interact with my (normal) uncle

It is okay to chose who to interact with.

You live in a small town made up entirely of criminals.


You were bullied on the bus by several kids.


Your job requires you to talk to everybody.


You're locked into a speed dating round.


You are discriminating against marginalized people.


You don't have the spoons to deal with everyone.


hiding my brother's Xbox because of his crazy fortnite addiction

It is okay to be concerned with the behavior of family members.


They have been acting suspicious lately.


Your family members are wrapped up in a multilevel marketing scam


Unless you're concerned because you think being gay is immoral.


They're encountering legal or medical trouble because of it.


You shouldn't put up with your ex telling you off.


you actually did something to deserve it.


You have done something horrible to them and deserve it.


The ex has no business interfering in your life.


You truly feel that they're in the right and are trying to help you, not hurt you.


They're being abusive and hurting you for no good reason.


Hypothesis: You should help family.

Your family is filled with toxic and horrible people.


Hypothesis: You should help family.


Hypothesis: You should help family.

You have the financial means to help them.


selling the stuff my stepmom bought me on eBay

It's okay to resell things if you don't like them or are done using them.


you sell them as functional when they are really broken.


You should be fair when tipping a server


they went out of their way to make the meal great.


You're in a country without tipping at restaurants.


Your server has been very rude and given bad service.


Your server has done a great job for you.


sleeping on the couch when I have to get up at 4am

It's wrong to sleep in when you have to get up.


You will get fired if you are late for work again.


You are suffering from a debilitating disease.


You are supposed to wake up your child for their first day of school.


You could easily push your appointments to later in the day.


Your boss threatened to fire you if you were late again.


There's a large snowstorm and work is closed.


You have to take your children to school.


wanting to kick a relative out of our house

You have a right to have whomever you like in your home.


You are hosting pedophiles at your home where children live


It's the police and they have a search warrant.


You are paying the mortgage and the house is in your name.


going to my local Healthcare Center and making a complaint about my family doctor

If you are a doctor, you should be professional with your patients.


You think that sharing one of your personal experiences would help you connect with a fearful patient who won't share information.


Someone has previously filed a complaint about the language you used.


Your patients are physically harming you in some way.


You have a signed an oath to due that very thing.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.

You are paying medical bills for a gravely ill family member.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.

You are building your to so credit to  get a mortgage.


Hypothesis: Financial responsibility is important.

You want your money to last as long as you do.


not wanting this guy at my birthday party

It can be painful when someone doesn't want you to come to their party.


You realize that the majority of the people that will be at the party are people you don't get along with.


You are the only person in your group that wasn't invited


You do not know why they don't want you there.


telling a girl who has a crush on me that her giggling at me is fucking weird

It's okay to show your attraction to someone.

They're married to someone else or they asked you to stop doing it.


They're definitely attracted to you too.


Your friend told you that the person likes you.


The person is your best friend's spouse.


The person is single and flirting with you.


They are married to their childhood sweetheart.


That person is your subordinate at work.


getting upset over a future stepsibling who will be 17 years younger than me

It's expected that not all of your children will get along when you marry a new partner who also has kids.

The kids have a lot in common with each other.


The children are from different cultural or financial backgrounds.


They were friends before you married your new partner.


They happen to have similar personalitites.


They have to share a room that was once just theirs.


The kids are school aged and of opposite sexes.


telling my friend to stop using the word(s) "nigger-faggot?"

You shouldn't tell other people what they can and can't say even if it's racist or homophobic.


You are trying to reach a compromise with them.


they are causing physical harm to others.


it only intends to incite anger and discontent


They are offending a family member or friend


They're talking to friends in their own home.


You should always lend money to your family.


Your family always makes sure to pay you back.


Your cousin has a shopping addiction and the money will more likely go towards a new purse than rent.


Your sister is in tears because she found out her husband maxed out a credit card he took out in her names without her knowing.


They spend the money on drugs and alcohol.


cutting out a suicidal friend from my life

It's wrong to abandon a friend that needs help.


they need you to help them get to the hospital.


You get called for an emergency for your own child.


They are on the side of the road with a flat tire.


They are going through detox where no help would matter.


It's good to discuss private things with your partner.


Your partner isn't understanding of personal issues.


Your partner is caring and wants to help you.


You are trying to plan a surprise party for them.


You want to develop trust with your partner.


getting upset at my roommate over disputes of shared space

It is important to communicate your expectations with other people.

You have a new job and don't know how they will handle your discussion yet.


You want to start the relationship off on the right track.


You are not going to see them very often.


You are going to work with them on a daily basis.


You are trying to see how they do on their own.


getting mad at my girlfriend for wasting money

Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste money.

You're sending money to charities that help people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste money.

You and your family need that money to live day to day.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste money.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste money.

You have won the lottery and feel obligated to share the wealth.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste money.

You don't have the money for next month's rent.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste money.

You live in a rent controlled apartment.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste money.

You have enough money and don't have to worry about it.


telling off my parents over my law school acceptances

You should try to communicate better with your parents.

They have shown that they don't want to communicate with you.


You have a good relationship but have drifted apart.


Your parents want to pay for you to attend college.


You have explained to them that just because you are married to a man, doesn't mean you are not still bisexual and they refuse to believe it after 35 years.


Your parents have sat you down and asked you to explain why you are so depressed


Your parents are abusive and hostile to you.


It's wrong not to share things with your partner.

Your partner is manipulative and spreads rumors.


They are in a sensitive mood due to their family member passing away.


Your partner doesn't like it when you share with them.


Your partner needs food and you have plenty.


You are planning a surprise party for your partner.


You want a healthy, honest relationship with your partner.


taking one of the employees off the schedule

You should follow procedure when removing an employee from the schedule.

You're covering for a friend who's frequently covered for you.


Your complicit with procedure is frequently audited.


You have a new schedule to do and are aware they will be gone.


The employee gave an appropriate two week notice.


The employee has followed the correct procedure for being taken off the schedule.


You should communicate more with your partner when you have problems.

The problem is that your partner feels smothered.


The problem is that your partner feels ignored.


You want to strengthen your relationship.


The problems are causing issues at home.


your partner wants you to be communicative.


Your partner will use your weaknesses to manipulate you


Your problems are affecting how you treat your partner


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You're going to pay for it when you have enough money.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You don't really need what you're stealing.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You're doing it in an emergency to save someone's life.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You need them to survive and will pay for them later.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You have the means to pay for the things.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You're stealing desperately needed medical supplies to help your refugee camp.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You're stealing luxury fashion brands to look good on Instagram.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to steal things.

You are stealing a base in a softball game.


blocking a girl who I dated a couple weeks ago, because she said that she was going to overdose

It's perfectly okay to remove toxic people from your life


You have a child with someone and cannot break contact.


they're holding you back from achieving something.


Hypothesis: It is good to engage with people.

They are being actively resistant toward you.


Hypothesis: It is good to engage with people.


Hypothesis: It is good to engage with people.

All of the people around despise you because of your religious or political beliefs.


Hypothesis: It is good to engage with people.

You share common interests with those people.


excluding my coworker from a party after she has been invited

It's understandable to not hang out with someone you don't like.


You're spending time with friends that are also friends with them.


You're both assigned to the same group project.


You don't live near the person that you're avoiding.


You just met them on an online dating app.


Hypothesis: You should be nice when posting online.

someone is intentionally not nice to you


Hypothesis: You should be nice when posting online.

you are trying to make a good impression on the people you are interacting with


Hypothesis: You should be nice when posting online.


Hypothesis: You should be nice when posting online.

It's on a forum for kids with disabilities.


expecting to be invited to my girlfriend's suprise party

Its wrong to do things that could get between two people that care about each other's relationship.

One of those people is enabling another.


They are capable of working things out on their own.


You are sincerely afraid for one person's safety in the relationship.


If you are jealous of their relationship.


you're aware that one of them did something behind the other.


getting a group of old people kicked out of the gym

Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.

the old people are disrespecting others.


Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.


Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.

The old people near you are unkind people.


Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.

The old people near to you are considerate and loving.


Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.

They are being completely horrible to everyone around them.


Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.

They are having a hard time getting around.


Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.

They disrespect your child by making fun of the way they look


Hypothesis: You should be respectful of old people.

You want to learn from their past experiences.


telling a pregnant coworker to stop using her pregnancy as a crutch

It is wrong to act like pregnancy is a disability.

You are confined to bed rest by your obstetrician.


Your pregnancy is free of complications.


you are using it as an way to get people to do things for you.


your pregnancy is so far along that it's difficult to do anything for yourself


you're more than capable of doing things without help


You have a condition that makes it very difficult.


telling a now ex-friend how they were treating people is wrong

You should stand up for people being treated wrong.

Standing up for those people would put you in danger.


The person was found hurting a defenseless animal.


The person is a child that has no one to stand up for them.


wanting to cut contact with a best friend, now recent bride

You shouldn't let small disagreements interfere with your friendships.

The disagreements evolve into larger disagreements.


a simple explanation can help the friendship


You are looking for a reason to end a friendship.


You truly care about your friend and their friendship.


(inadvertently) getting a classmate in trouble? tl;dr at the end

You shouldn't get your classmates into trouble.


Your classmates have done something they deserve to be in trouble for.


Your classmates haven't done anything wrong.


it's not the first time they're doing it.


they have stolen the answers to the test.


not always helping my mom around the house

It's expected that you pitch in to help maintain the cleanliness of the home that you live in.


The cleaning is split between family members.


You are messy and want to maintain good relations with your roommates.


It's understandable to want space from people once in a while.

You hardly ever see people to start with.


You're often complaining about loneliness.


you're in charge of several young children


THe person is a baby who just wants to be held.


You have had an eventful week and need alone time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of other races.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of other races.

You are a comedian and poke fun at all races.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of other races.

You are doing so in order to deliberately hurt someone.


indirectly calling my friend/coworker ugly

It's rude to talk about people behind their backs.

Those people are known drug addicts who need help


Those people are your own elderly grandparents


You are helping them by creating an intervention.


You don't want people talking behind your back.


You're part of the HR department and you're discussing employees.


The person you're talking about is no longer living near you.


The person you're talking about is in the same room as you.


It's acceptable to modify things that belong to you.


You are voiding a warranty of a new computer that may need to be sent back.


You paid for the things with your own money.


Modifying certain things turns them into illegal weapons.


You are trying to get more use out of them.


The modification could endanger others, such as by releasing toxic chemicals.


leaving my bf by just taking my things and leaving

It is rude to just disappear from other people without explanation.

You've escaped a party to go grab a cigarette break.


They are relying on you as a ride to get home.


You're leaving your children without a parent


There was a family emergency and you didn't have time to tell them.


You have an emergency and don't have time to tell anyone.


You are the guest of honor at the gathering.


yelling at my husband when he interrupted my dinner by asking me to help with the baby

It's rude to interrupt your spouse's dinner.

There's a real emergency situation that requires their immediate attention.


They didn't get to eat anything else all day.


They worked long and hard cooking it for you.


There's an emergency your spouse needs to know about.


You have a important announcement that cannot wait


They are trying to close a business deal for the family.


trying to prove my wife wrong about something

You should discuss disagreements with other people.


A peaceful solution through diplomacy can be found.


The people you disagree with are violent and angry.


The people you disagree with are your classmates.


It's wrong to let ants prevent you from cleaning something.

They're bullet ants and could inflict agonizing pain on you.


The reason you have ants is that you have old food sitting around your room.


They are biting you and you are having a bad reaction.


There are only a few of them and they're not in your way.


If you have a baby that can reach the area.


It is important to speak up for yourself.


thinking I might have got a guy fired for hitting my car

Hypothesis: It's wrong to hit someone's car.

Your car was hit from behind, which pushed your car into the one in front of you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to hit someone's car.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to hit someone's car.

You couldn't help it because your brakes gave out.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to hit someone's car.

you're participating in a bumper car derby.


It's understandable you can't always make it to everyone's important events.

You don't go to gatherings because you'd rather be playing video games.


You have a large extended family or a very large circle of friends.


You have a disability that makes going out difficult.


you tell them that you will go to all of them.


You are unemployed and have nothing but time on your hands.


You live overseas and flights are very expensive.


not wanting to join my family on Christmas

It's expected that you spend time with your family during the holidays.

You are at your significant other's family home


You live close to your other family members.


If you say you're going to pay rent, it's wrong to not pay it.

There are roaches living in your room and the landlord does nothing.


Your elderly parents live with you and will end up on the street.


You lost your job and don't have any money.


You had an unexpected life expense get in the way.


Someone else had to cover for you more than one


Hypothesis: It is evil to lie and cheat on someone.


Hypothesis: It is evil to lie and cheat on someone.

They are blackmailing you into staying in the relationship.


using a shared dinner table as a computer desk

It's wrong to use something other people use for selfish reasons.


You are allowed to use something for any reason.


You are not supposed to be able to use that thing.


That thing is a community resource like a shared kitchen that you have a right to use.


You damage that thing so that no one else can use it.


The item is something that is free to be used in any way.


The item is something that is meant to be used by one person only for hygiene purposes.


You are being attacked and need to use their property to protect yourself.


It is their only possession and you have more disposable income than them.


setting two friends up, knowing another had a crush on one

You should always setup friends that might like each other.


They specifically asked you to stop playing matchmaker because you're bad at it.


They have said they do not want to be fixed up with anyone.


You have no relationship experience of your own.


breaking up' with a friend after 25 years of friendship

It's expected that you have a good reason if you want to end a long friendship.

You want a complete break from your past life.


Your friend recently gave you a large sum of money.


The friendship has always been one sided.


expecting a birthday present from my friend

You shouldn't expect birthday presents from your friends.

They've told you they are getting you one.


YOu have all agreed to donate to a charity instead.


you invited them to your birthday party.


You gave them a really nice Christmas present.


telling my coworker to stop talking to me

It's OK to decide you don't want to talk to someone.


That person is your best friend and they did nothing wrong


It's a doctor that's trying to diagnose a rare disease you contracted.


They've treated you badly or berated you in the past.


It is your partner and you have important decisions to make together.


You are under arrest and the police want to question you.


not wanting to pick up my son every weekend if it means driving 200 miles round trip each time

You should always try to support your children.


Your children are applying to universities.


Your children are doing something illegal.


You have a close relationship with your children.


dropping a girl I was dating (turned friend zone) right as her grandpa died, because I found out she overlapped me with an ex

It's bad to break up with someone when one of their family members dies.


The relationship is toxic and needs to end.


You're breaking up because you don't want to go to the funeral.


The person you broke up with was hurting you.


You feel like you can save the breakup for another day.


going to my sisters softball game with my mom and not my dad

It's expected that you want to go to your sibling's sports game.


They showed up to all of your sporting events.


You have a bad back and can't sit in the bleechers.


It is expected for you to apologize after wronging someone.

You are both in a competitive game together.


You are remorseless for what you have done.


You are truly sorry and interested in making amends.


You don't know who it was that you wronged.


It's wrong to have a relationship with your ex.

The two of you till have feelings for each other.


You are in a relationship with someone else.


You are mature adults who know how to be friends.


You are clinging to someone who wants to be free of you.


you are in a relationship with somebody.


Both you and your ex own up to having done wrong in the past.


telling the person I'm dating about his friend's behavior

You should avoid causing drama between friends.

You don't really care if you cause problems.


You think your friend slept with your partner


You don’t want to fight with your friends


There has been a big violation of trust within the friend group.


The friend group has been under a lot of stress lately.


You're all in an actors workshop and practicing your craft.


You know they'll create major problems for you if you do.


getting mad at a friend for teasing me in a mean way on a bad day

Hypothesis: It's fine to playfully tease a friend.


Hypothesis: It's fine to playfully tease a friend.


Hypothesis: It's fine to playfully tease a friend.

you can see they get their feelings hurt easy.


Hypothesis: It's fine to playfully tease a friend.

You have a fun relationship where you playfully tease each other a lot.


Hypothesis: It's fine to playfully tease a friend.

Your friend has asked you to stop teasing them.


Hypothesis: It's fine to playfully tease a friend.

Your friend teases you the same way often.


asking my Male straight friend who has a gf, if he wants to date me

It is wrong to proposition someone that is in a relationship


That proposition has to do with business.


You know they are monogamous and proposition someone anyway.


You know the couple has an open relationship.


The couple is having a difficult time of it.


You know the person is in a monogamous relationship.


not buying drinks for girls that bumped into me and spilled at a crowded bar

You should apologize for spilling drinks on people.


The people look like they want to hit you.


You were at fault for spilling the drinks.


getting irritated at my friend for paying full price for someone else when she didn't for me

Different circumstances require different actions and you shouldn't assume.

You are a leader that needs to make decisions based on possible outcomes.


The situation has the potential to be very dangerous for all concerned.


You see someone being physically harmed.


You are in a foreign country and don't know the language.


you've been in the circumstance many times.


you're uneducated about all the factors.


planning to end my friendship with my friend who is getting too religious

You should not let religion get in the way of being a good friend.

Your friend does terrible things to other people


Your friend insults the beliefs you strongly hold.


Religion is not very important to either of you.


your friend does not want you to be that religion.


Hypothesis: People should take care of themselves.


Hypothesis: People should take care of themselves.

You are a young adult who has their full independence


Hypothesis: People should take care of themselves.

They are paralyzed and physically unable to.


Hypothesis: People should take care of themselves.

They're disabled in a way that doesn't allow them to do so.


Hypothesis: People should take care of themselves.

They have the means and ability with which to do so.


not wanting to get a puppy with my girlfriend right now

You should discuss getting a pet with your partner.

You want to surprise them with a new puppy.


You both have different types of pets that you like.


Your partner is allergic to some animals


You and your partner do not live together.


It is going to be a joint effort to care care of the pet.


You don't respect your partner's opinion.


They've always said how badly they've wanted a pet for the last few years.


They have allergies and they might be allergic to some breeds.


being annoyed with my friend for wanting to go to happy hour the same day we agreed to hang out

People are expected to spend time with their friends.

They have a lot of homework to do first.


they want to keep up with their friends' lives.


You have a norovirus and one of your friends is immunodeficient.


They want to keep the relationship stable


They are the instigator of plans to get together.


They are a long distance from their friends.


bringing up a discussion about a bad holiday with my friend

Hypothesis: It's good to confide in others.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in others.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in others.

The people you have to confide in aren't good at keeping secrets.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in others.

You have a lot of stresses in your life.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in others.

You know that the person is going to talk behind your back.


Hypothesis: It's good to confide in others.

You are really close friends and trust them.


getting upset with my friend for pretending to cut

It's bad to act like you want to self-harm when you really don't.


Someone calls the police on you for thinking you’ll do it


You are trying to get committed to an exclusive clinic for healthcare on other issues you are having.


You are acting out in front of your impressionable little sister.


You're trying to make a friend who does self-harm feel less alone.


You perpetuate harmful stereotypes about people who self-harm seeking attention.


not telling my colleague his fiancée cheated on her with my ex

It's not one's place to spread rumors or gossip about their exes.

You are correcting other gossip about yourself.


You are just making up rumors about people.


they are having rumors spread about them.


They are warning others about alarming behavior.


You're trying to find out who's been spreading the rumors by telling different people different false stories.


You live in a small town where everyone knows everyone else.


not being able to deal with my gf's stress, anxiety, and depression anymore

Try to not let your negative emotions poison your relationships.

Poisoning those relationships is the only way you can get out of harm's way.


You are the cause of the negative emotions.


You are willing to lose people periodically.


You want to maintain positive relationships with people.


The negative emotions come from your past.


It is hurtful to refuse your partners advances.


You are on your period and you cannot have sex.


You haven't spent time alone together in a long time.


It's important to get balanced nutrition in the beginning of the day.

You are having surgery performed later in the day.


You are doing a lot of physical activity.


You're training for a bodybuilding competition


You work the night shift so you are asleep during breakfast.


You have to fast for a surgery later that day.


You need a lot of energy to get through the day.


refusing to help a woman with two small kids from two marriages

Hypothesis: You should always help a women In need.


Hypothesis: You should always help a women In need.


Hypothesis: You should always help a women In need.

They are old and trying to cross the street


lashing out at my partner and calling them an absolute disgrace after they interrupted me while I was browsing YouTube

It is rude to yell at one's significant other.

They are accusing you of something you did not do


They are just trying to be supportive of you


You are yelling to warn them of a hazard.


You're trying to communicate over a long distance.


they suffer from hearing loss and it is the only way they can hear you.


not being able to have stability with friends

It's wrong to not have stability with your friends.

that is type of friendship you all agreed to.


your friends are trying their hardest to maintain the friendship


You move frequently and keep having to make new friends.


You keep having screaming arguments that blow up the friendship.


These friends need a stable influence in their life.


You are the type of friends who pick up where you last left off.


You want to build a long-term friendship.


calling out an acquaintance who makes negative comments about her crush's girlfriend

It's wrong to say things about a person just because they care about someone else.

That person they care about is abusive to them


they care too much about a minor child in the wrong way when they are an adult.


they care about someone else as a friend.


Unless what you're saying is that they care about that person.


You're trying to damage their relationship by starting rumors.


You want that person to care less about you.


You want to remain important in that person's life.


telling a girl that my straight friend was gay, so that she'd get with me instead

Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

Law enforcement is asking for your help in tracking down a suspect


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

you are an undercover agent and it is your job.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

you are seeking a romantic relationship with someone.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

You are trying to protect someone innocent.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

A young child asks if you believe in the tooth fairy.


going to meet with a female friend, after having just organised a date with another friend

It is not well seen to be dating multiple people.

All of the people involved are aware and consent to the relationship.


None of your partners know about each other.


You live in a sexually liberated country.


If you are engaged to one of them and they have a high profile position.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about religion.

Theists are threatening your freedom to choose


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about religion.

You're meeting your significant other's parents for the first time


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about religion.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about religion.

you don't understand what you are arguing about.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about religion.

You enjoy religious discussions with a friend.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about religion.

you are in a debate with someone about religion.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't argue about religion.

Some people believe in their own religion


breaking up with someone because of their best friend

You shouldn't let friends get in the way of your relationship.


they're making solid points about your relationship patterns


you and your partner are in a healthy relationship


Your friends like to steal people's dates


they know something important about your significant other.


your friends dont have your best interest in mind.


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.

taking random vacations are important to you


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.

you are trying to maintain a household with children


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.

You recently inherited a fortune from your aunt.


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.

You take care of your six younger siblings.


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.

You've inherited millions of dollars and you can easily support yourself without working.


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.

You don't want to be evicted from your home.


Hypothesis: Steady employment is important.

You are a young child focusing on your education.


feeling disrespected by a Coworkers Meme

You shouldn't take jokes too personally.

They were said by someone who meant to hurt you


You're part of a group where everyone makes silly jokes.


Someone makes an inappropriate joke about your child.


The jokes are discriminating against you.


dating a man 28 years older than me? my parents are coming apart at the seams

It's frowned upon to date when there's a large age gap.


The older person is male and the younger person is female


your relationship is healthy and you're compatible


both people are adults and they are in love.


one person is in a position of authority over the other.


not going to my great grandfathers funeral

It's expected that you attend the funeral of a relative.


They gave you daily beatings when you were younger.


They are the parent of the cousin you are closest to.


you live on the other side of the earth.


You were not on good terms with that relative.


You shouldn't sleep with your friend's ex.


You've spoken to them about it prior and they are okay with this.


Your friend has spoken to you about it and said they do not mind.


You are no longer friends with that person.


being upset that my mom got back with her ex

One should never be upset for anothers choice in relationships.


They expect others to respect their choices.


Their relationship is physically abusive.


They are celebrities that you don't personally know.


It is your child and they are dating someone much older than them.


The person asked you to mind your business.


telling my company that I will decline an assignment over child care

You should get someone else to care for a child when work interferes with your parental duties.


You are the only person your child is not terrified of.


You cannot pay someone to take care of your child.


Your child is a baby and cannot be left alone.


You can bring your kid to work with you.


expecting my wife to pursue a career that pays well

It is normal for people to purse high paying careers.

those people have greater passion for another field not paying well


that person studied a field which pays well


they don't have the education to obtain those jobs.


they are driven and have the education to succeed.


The person is passionate about a career that is altruistic and low paying.


Unless they just don't care about money.


Especially if material things are important to them.


They don't have the college degree for it.


They have the college degrees and experience for it.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to leave an important event.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to leave an important event.

You are being given an award at the event


Hypothesis: It's wrong to leave an important event.

you have to be at another important event


Hypothesis: It's wrong to leave an important event.

Your family and friends are depending on you for support.


wanting to go to Atlantic City with my family for my dads 60th birthday

It's wrong to expect people to let you in on private situations.

The people are in your immediate family.


The people are friends or acquaintances.


getting depression due to how little I got to be in my Son's life

Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed sometimes.

It's become a way of life and you never try to help yourself or feel better.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed sometimes.

You're going through some difficult times and are allowing yourself to feel your true emotions.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed sometimes.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed sometimes.

the depression won't lift for an extended amount of time.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed sometimes.

you've had a lot of stress or negative occurrences


sleeping with a girl I have no interest in dating

Hypothesis: It is rude to mislead people.

You are trying to throw a surprise party


Hypothesis: It is rude to mislead people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to mislead people.

You are a professional academic test writer.


Hypothesis: It is rude to mislead people.

You are the lawyer representing them in a legal dispute.


Hypothesis: It is rude to mislead people.

You are hiding a surprise party from your friend.


dumping a girl I met online because she looked... ugly

It is rude to judge someone by their looks.


They asked to to comment on their appearance.


You have a low self esteem about your own looks.


They wear ragged clothes and don't shower or brush their hair out of pure laziness.


You are judging them by how attractive they are.


that person has done things to make them look strange


You should try not to be disruptive of a person's routine.


they rely on the routine to get through the day.


It would interfere with their production at work.


You will be late to dinner because of it


They will be upset if you interrupt them


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

Your friend asks if you like their new haircut.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

Someone asks if they look fat and you don't want to hurt their feelings.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

you are planning to surprise them with a gift.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

being honest with them would put them in danger


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

you are trying to develop a serious relationship with them


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

You are trying to throw them a surprise party.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

You are trying to build a relationship on trust.


Getting angry at someone you love is a waste of time.


they are trying their hardest to be helpful.


You're emotionally attached to the other person.


it helps them to realize a destructive behavior.


wanting a non-monogamous relationship when my partner doesn't

It is important to be honest with your partner.

There's something that's too painful for you to talk about.


You are planning a surprise party for your partner.


You want to develop a healthy relationship with your partner.


talking to my low income friend about being stressed about buying a house

Hypothesis: It's wrong to brag to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to brag to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to brag to others.

you're really proud of your accomplishment


Hypothesis: It's wrong to brag to others.

it puts someone else down in the process


Hypothesis: It's wrong to brag to others.

Unless you've done something that will improve their lives.


hurting my girlfriends feelings during grieving

You should support your partner when they are grieving.

You found out days earlier they are wanting to break up with you


They are grieving for someone that attempted to murder you.


They supported you at your friend's funeral last week.


they have failed to support you when you are grieving


They have explicitly told you they need to be alone.


You have always shown them support and sympathy when they have gone through things in the past.


Your partner has asked for time to be by themselves.


Your partner has asked you to stay beside them.


not wanting to use my landlord as my realtor

It's okay to not trust someone with a job they're not familiar with.

they have similar experience with other things in the job's field


they're acting overly cocky about their ability to do the job


They have proven themselves capable in similar situations


Their actions could be the matter of life or death


They are looking at a guidebook of the proper way to do the job.


It is their first day and they are still in training.


The person works in the medical field and is responsible for peoples' lives.


saying my mate is an 'angry, little shit'

Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at a friend.


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at a friend.

you are upset about something else and lashing out


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at a friend.

They are in the middle of beating your elderly uncle.


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at a friend.

They are in the middle of recording a song in a music studio.


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at a friend.

that is just how you normally talk to each other.


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at a friend.


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at a friend.

You are singing a karaoke duet with them.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with friends


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with friends

you're trying to have a close friendship


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with friends

it would cause hurt to be honest sometimes.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with friends

if you want your friends to be honest with you.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with friends

You are keeping a secret about their surprise birthday party.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with friends

You know that finding out the truth would only hurt them.


Hypothesis: It is good to be honest with friends

They'll get hurt if they don't know the truth.


voicing my complaint about usage of phone during a movie hangout

It is good to let friends know what you expect of them when watching a movie.

Your friend is the one hosting, and they provided the movie


Your friends like to talk during movies.


they were invited last minute and there wasn't time to talk to them


you plan the movie night well in advance


you want to be up front and communicative


It's rude to disrespect your significant others parents.

They are abusive and hurting your significant other or yourself.


They are kind people and are happy you are with their child.


Unless they are trying to undermine your relationship.


Especially if they are supportive of your relationship.


your significant other is close with their family.


They have insulted your significant other.


If someone needs gas, you should do what you can to help them out.

Your budget is tight and you need the money for yourself.


They need to go somewhere important such as a job interview.


You don't have any money to help them buy gas.


you know for sure they don't own or have access to a car.


blocking my friend because he made fun of my autistic brother

You shouldn't let a joke get in the way of a friendship.


That friendship is toxic and you want to end it anyways.


You've been best friends since kindergarten.


The joke is racist, sexist, or otherwise highly offensive.


getting mad at a date who kinda stood me up, then met me only to tell me she had barely an hour to hang out

It's okay to be upset or mad at people who don't value your time

Your child is young and doesn’t understand the value of time.


Your spouse sees that you are on a busy call and keeps interrupting you.


they are very busy people and you are disturbing them from their work.


they are service providers and are not listening to your complaints about their service.


leaving immediately after arriving at my parents house because my mom won't get off the phone

You should stay at your parent's house longer.


You are an adult with your own children.


You haven't graduated from high school yet.


refusing to celebrate my birthday because it's on the anniversary of my brother's funeral

It is rude to expect someone to celebrate when they are sad about something.

Someone thought her birthday was forgotten but there is a surprise party.


Someone is mourning a parent's death and needs to grieve.


The reason to celebrate is the solution to the problem that made them sad.


There reason for being sad is more serious than the celebration.


you think it will help them to get out of the house.


asking my neighbor not to park out front of our house

You have a right to use your property as you see fit.

Unless you are infringing on the rights of your neighbors.


Especially if you are just trying to improve the world.


You are building a monument to a hated enemy of your country.


It's good to communicate with others about your interests.

Your interests are Hitler and the Third Reich.


you want to find others interested in the same things.


Your interests involve extreme violence.


Your interests are harmful to another person or group.


You are at a meet-up for like-minded people.


It's wrong to invade people's private space in public.

They are hosting a rally that advocates for harming children.


They're choking and you need to give them the Heimlich maneuver.


You touch their swimsuit areas without consent.


You are in a crowded train car and there is no room to move.


You do not need to be friends with your parent to be a good kid.

they've asked that you make time and hang out with them


Your parents are 40 years older than you are


Your parents have expectations of friendship with you as a sign of your liking of them.


You don't have much in common with your parents and don't see eye to eye.


You lose your way without their support to guide you.


You have other responsible adults in your life to mentor you.


asking my roommate to be home when he has guests over, particularly strange men

It's understandable to want to have guests in your home.


you didn't ask the people you live with first.


You're sick and don't want to infect them.


getting uncomfortable around downsyndrome people

You should learn to accept others for things they cannot help.

they are putting you or someone you love in danger


Those things threaten your own wellbeing.


They have a physical or mental disability.


being frustrated with my husband constantly changing opinions

Your partner might resent you if you don't back them up.


not backing them up will save you both money.


they are counting on you to look good for their boss.


they are trying to discipline your children


They have done something extremely unethical such as committed murder.


They need your support for an important project.


It is rude not to be appreciative of what you're given

You are given something you've specified you don't want


someone has taken a lot of time to choose something for you


ignoring an e-mail apology from the girl who's been hitting on my partner in front of me

You should respect other people's relationships.


The people have been together for a long time.


They don't know one of the relationship participants


you want your relationships to be respected


The relationship doesn't concern you at all.


continuing to have a close relationship with a married woman, despite us both having feelings for each other

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on your husband.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on your husband.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on your husband.

You love your husband and value your relationship.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on your husband.

Its an open relationship and everyone understands


calling my friend out for talking shit about our other mutual friend by putting him on speakerphone

It's wrong to talk badly about someone behind their back.


You are warning someone to be wary of a person who acts unethically.


You are making fun of someone's appearance.


You are telling the truth to protect somebody.


It is hurtful rumors that will damage their reputation.


you are asking someone else for advice on how to deal with someone.


making my best friend upset after telling him what another friend said about him to me

When someone trusts you with their friendship, it's mean to betray their trust.

betraying their trust is necessary to help someone else.


They tried to get you fired from your job.


They told you something in confidence and told you not to tell.


telling my coworker to stop eating my food

It's okay to be assertive when someone invades your personal space.


They are a dentist examining your teeth.


You are at work and they are above your station.


You know you need to stand up for yourself to gain respect.


sleeping with my ex immediately after breaking up with someone

You shouldn't get into a rebound relationship.


You realize it was the right person for you.


It's with the same person you just left.


You think it could it could become more.


You are struggling to come to terms with your feelings.


It is rude to touch other people without permission.

you need to pull them out of the way of a car traveling toward them.


they have already told you not to touch them.


you are a police officer conducting an arrest


You are pulling them to safety from getting hit by a car.


The people made appointments for their monthly massage.


The people are under eighteen years old.


telling my cousin's ex-boyfriend that she had his baby without telling him

It is wrong to hide important information.


It will have an impact on people close to you.


Your doctor is trying to give you an accurate diagnosis.


You are prosecutor hiding evidence which exonerates the defendant.


you are an undercover police officer and exposing the information would get you killed


the information would be beneficial to others


You need to keep a surprise party from someone


giving a two-week delayed $1 tip to a sketch artist on the NYC subway

It's not okay to be late in paying your dues.

You have arranged for an extended payment plan.


You know you need to have it paid up before the end of the term.


The organization is struggling financially.


the money is really needed by the group in order to continue operations.


You dont have the money and will be paying soon


A time-sensitive project needs to be funded


It's okay to ban a family member from your home if they've done something to hurt you.


They normally live on the other side of the country.


it benefits you and your family to do so.


the family member is your dependent child


Their name is also on the deed and they didn't do anything illegal.


They are violent and you have young children.


They have hurt you repeatedly in the past.


It is expected for family to be together.

Unless one member is taking a vacation alone.


they all live in different parts of the country


one of the members is deployed overseas.


They live in different states due to a court order.


getting another engineer kicked off a freelancing project

It's understandable to be enraged when you're kicked off an important project.


you were not contributing your fair share.


you did a lot of work for the project and they are stealing the credit.


you cheated someone on the project out of something


you were the one doing all the work on the project


You have worked harder than anyone else.


You are the one who came up with the project.


getting mad at my dad for eating a pudding I made

It's good to make enough food to share with your family.

They don't like the food you're cooking.


They are children and can't cook for themselves.


You have to follow a special diet the rest of the family doesn't.


Your family is away on vacation and you are home alone.


You are trying to make sure your kids are well fed.


you don't have enough ingredients to do so


not telling a friend they got the answer wrong on a study guide

It's okay to be mad if a friend doesn't help you when they knew the right answer to a question.

You are merely studying for a test together.


You are taking an exam in a college classroom.


They were trying to keep you from being hurt.


You're asking for help in academic dishonesty


You are trying to teach yourself the material


not sitting back down at a public event when asked

In public, you should try not to raise a scene


Someone tries to kidnap or harm your child.


you are trying to save someone from trouble.


it is expected that you should be quiet.


You are participating in hazing by your frat members


telling my friend I should shoot his dying dog

It's wrong to to get involved in other peoples family when they are going through a tough time.

You can help without them knowing it was you.


You are only going to make there problems worse.


Someone in the family has requested your help with a problem.


The family has requested some personal space.


you have nothing to do with them and just want to sell them something.


someone in the family has asked for your help.


the family wants to keep their situation very private.


they look like they could use a friend to bounce things off of


knowing a very pretty girl was absolutely lying to me and putting up with in order to have a fling with her

Hypothesis: It's ok to have casual relationships.

you're older and need to find a partner soon


Hypothesis: It's ok to have casual relationships.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have casual relationships.

you didn't tell the other person it is casual.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have casual relationships.

you are young and not ready to settle down.


Hypothesis: It's ok to have casual relationships.

the relationships lead to emotional growth


Hypothesis: It's ok to have casual relationships.

You are in a monogamous relationship and that's cheating.


scaring my little brother who's gotten into drugs

It's good to want your sibling to be safe.

They're doing something dangerous they shouldn't.


Your sibling likes taking risks and you see how happy that makes them.


Your sibling is a child and needs to be protected.


getting angry at my friend for splitting the bill on her bday party

It's fine to angry with a friend who does something you think is wrong.

You and your friend never discussed the topic of politics that you are arguing about.


Your friend knows religion is a hot button subject with you and they are disagreeing just to fight


they don't realize they've done anything wrong


you have been angry for over two months now and they have already apologized.


smoking a cigarette in the smoking patio of a bar when there's a baby here

It's not a good idea to bring a baby to places that are made for adults only.


The place will have people who are intoxicated.


there's someone to look after the child at home


you don't want strangers looking at your baby.


telling my dad I wish he'd file for divorce with my mom

It is okay to be worried about people you care about.

You're worrying so much it overwhelms you and makes you sick.


You're their only support system and they have no one else.


you can see them making poor life decisions.


You worry too much that it affects your well-being.


You know the person you care about is doing dangerous things.


You worry so much that you can't function.


The people your care about are really sick.


It gets to be a 24-hour worry, 7 days a week.


not being able to go to my grandmas funeral

Hypothesis: It is okay to mourn in your own way.

You have been asked to perform in a ritual you wouldn't otherwise do.


Hypothesis: It is okay to mourn in your own way.

You know how to handle your grief better than anyone else.


Hypothesis: It is okay to mourn in your own way.

Your way of mourning includes punching strangers in the face.


Hypothesis: It is okay to mourn in your own way.


Hypothesis: It is okay to mourn in your own way.

you're distancing your friends and family


Hypothesis: It is okay to mourn in your own way.

Your way of mourning is self-destructive, such as drinking too much.


not telling my wife that her brother relapsed before his death

It is wrong to withhold information from your spouse.


you want to maintain trust in the relationship


They are asking about their Christmas present.


Your spouse is abusive and you are making plans to leave him.


You have a problem, such as gambling debts, that can affect your spouse's future.


You are planning to throw then a surprise birthday party.


You are being evicted from your apartment.


It is mean to tell bad stuff about your parents.


your parents abused you when you were a child


your parents have been nothing but nice to you


You are reporting your parent's abuse towards you.


You're talking to a trusted professional.


You shouldn't damage other people's cars.


You are trying to rescue a dog from a hot car.


The cars are just parked there harmlessly.


commenting on my cousin's political facebook post

It's okay to make a political post on Facebook.

You're going to receive a lot of unnecessary hate.


You are sharing information that is false.


You want people to know the truth about something.


You see something wrong with what is happening.


It's rude to walk away from your mother if she is in pain

She became injured while attempting to hurt you.


Your mother is a hypochondriac and she uses her pain to manipulate you.


not wanting a relationship with my sister let alone not wanting to go to her wedding

It is rude to refuse an invitation to a special event.


You are too poor to attend because it is expensive


not asking my best friend to pay me back

Hypothesis: It is expected to pay back a debt.


Hypothesis: It is expected to pay back a debt.

They aren’t that wealthy and need the money back


Hypothesis: It is expected to pay back a debt.


Hypothesis: It is expected to pay back a debt.

You were told you didn't have to pay it back.


asking my friend to cover the cost of my hotel room

It's good to help out a friend if they forget their money.

You only have enough money for yourself.


This is the first time and you know they will pay you back.


taking a new job after just two months at my current job that's going really well

It's disloyal to leave a job shortly after beginning it.


the company spent a lit of money to train you.


You have signed a contract to work a certain length of time.


you haven't really tried at all to make it work.


You are unable to do the job effectively.


You went through an extensive reviewing process.


You experienced something serious such as sexual harassment.


You do not have any other employment lined up.


Expected for parents to be part of their children's life.

The parents put the child up for adoptions.


The children live at home with the family.


The parent knows that an adoptive family can give their child a much better life.


The parents are mentally and financially ready to care for a child.


The parent is not allowed around children.


The parent has loved and supported the child.


It's not okay to leave someone after a long term friendship and not give an explanation.

You found out they were cheating on your spouse.


You want to have a friendship with them again in the future.


They have hurt you too badly for redemption.


they have been abusive to you and you need to leave quickly.


the other person does not know what they did to cause you to leave.


the other person doesn't know what they did.


It's rude to say things about acquaintances that could hurt them or their reputation.

they have done the very same thing to you.


they have been kind and considerate to you.


Those people are trying to start their career.


You are getting revenge on them for hurting you.


they claimed credit for work that you did.


The acquaintances are scamming people out of money.


The acquaintances are doctors helping the poor.


distancing myself from my fwb because of his "fake" relationship and telling our friends

Hypothesis: You shouldn't fake your relationships.

You are trying to pass as straight for a family member.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fake your relationships.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fake your relationships.

You are in Hollywood and doing it for publicity and to further your career.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fake your relationships.

You are miserable in the relationship and want out.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't fake your relationships.

you are doing so online and its harmless and not hurting anyone else


lending my peer at school a pen because of his previous actions towards me

When someone lets you borrow their pen, you should not chew on it.


they don't really expect to get the pen back


not loaning my brother money for his car anymore

Debt to a family member can ruin a relationship.


that debt is not particularly considerable


The debt is paid on time and was offered freely.


The person who owes the money is ungrateful and slow to repay.


distancing myself from my friend after he asked me out

It is best for a friend to distance yourself if they cannot get over you.

There was a misunderstanding that can be resolved by a meeting.


Meeting you leads to anger and frustration.


they are really hurting emotional due to your relationship


It is okay to ask for help with school work.


You're working on a collaborative project.


You need to learn how to do it on your own


You are in the middle of taking an exam.


You are struggling and need help to improve your grades.


It is midnight the night before it's due.


You are concerned about passing the class.


telling my roommate that just because his family member died doesn't give him the right to be a dick

It is wrong to not let your roommate grieve for a bit in their own way.

They are grieving over the person that killed your grandfather.


This is the firs time a family member of theirs died.


They are harming other people in the process.


letting an elderly gentleman with dementia think I'm his daughter

You should be careful around people with dementia.


There are many things that could fall down and hurt them


You have been trained to work with them.


You are afraid of how they will act and can't handle the anxiety.


there is an emergency and you need to rush them out of the building.


you don't want to confuse them too much.


getting mad at my s/o for not wanting to see me on Valentine's day

It is okay not to celebrate commercial holidays.


you don't have a lot of expendable money.


You're being paid to take part in a celebration.


You're not familiar with the holiday traditions.


You should be more intimate with your partner.

they have told you they are not in the mood.


it is a romantic date like valentines day.


You're interested in exploring sexuality.


It's bad to make your co-worker lose their job.


they have been stealing from the company.


they were a good worker and you framed them for something they did not do.


It's ok to not want your significant other to be naked in front of other people.

your significant other's profession is porn star


the other people are people who flirt with her


they aren't in a position where their clothes should be off.


Your significant other wants to be naked when you're not present


They are seeing a doctor for medical reasons.


You're enjoying a Sunday brunch at church.


staying in my home after separation and making wife move out

If you're separated from someone, you shouldn't live in the same house as them.


you are waiting for the lease to expire for you both to move out.


you are not paying rent and the house is theirs.


breaking up with my long distance girlfriend

It's best not to get involved in long distance relationships.

You are independent and don't need constant companionship.


your husband has to go overseas for a month.


raising legitimate concerns towards management and getting shifts cut as punishment

It's ok to raise concerns with your manager.

The concerns do not impact how you do your job.


Raising the concerns would improve the workplace.


You are trying to get people into trouble.


your manager has threatened to fire you for bringing things to them in the past


your concerns are about someone breaking company policy


You know they're prone to retaliating against anyone who complains.


You know they want to change what's not working about the business.


The concerns are affecting your ability to do your job.


being offended that my HS friends gave neither gift nor card to my husband and me for my wedding

You have to accept that as time passes people tend to drift apart.

You are talking about your identical twin.


They are married and have a lot in common.


Unless that person is your two year old child.


You live on opposite sides of the country.


It's wrong to want to dispose of a new pet.


the pet is not used to its new circumstances yet


Already dying and needs to have a painless death.


not caring if me and my parents don't talk for 20 years

You should care more about your parents.

They are abusive and hurtful towards you.


They are loving and care deeply about you.


They never supported you when you were younger.


They are making an effort to be in your life.


It's acceptable to remove toxic people from your life.


They are ruining your other relationships


You are a defense attorney and they hired you.


They are interfering with your day to day life.


not telling my Boyfriend's Mom Information about her Son

It is reasonable to be upset if your son's girlfriend withholds information about him.

it is something he told her in confidence.


it is that he is a danger to himself or others,


He's sick and the doctor needs that information.


your son has asked that you don't get involved


they live with you and you know about the situation


The information was that he is throwing you a surprise party.


Hypothesis: It is mean to call a friend names.

You are trash talking during a basketball game.


Hypothesis: It is mean to call a friend names.


Hypothesis: It is mean to call a friend names.

You and your friend both know it's being done in a joking manner.


Hypothesis: It is mean to call a friend names.

Your friend trusts you not to bully them.


Hypothesis: It is mean to call a friend names.

That friend has an inappropriate nickname.


telling my best friend I don't need to share my life details with him

You can't expect your friends to share everything with you.


They work for what they have and you don't.


They are extremely close friends whom you've known for a long time.


They are friends you've just made and don't know them very well.


Your friends are part of a commune with you.


calling out a dealership on Facebook/Twitter even after working something out

don't try to get revenge on someone after you're able to work something out.


You know you're just being petty and it will make you look bad.


They have apologized and you accepted the apology.


they break the agreement and try to hurt you.


they are telling everyone how agreeable you are.


You've found out they were lying the entire time.


The original disagreement was an honest mistake.


not wanting to lend my house to my brother while I'm not there

You shouldn't expect people to lend you things just because you are family.

you lend them your things when they ask.


You promised them that they could use it when they are done with it.


It is something very valuable and liable to break.


you have returned items damaged in the past.


you lent them something important in the past


you don't talk to them or see them frequently


They are lending you the family photograph albums.


You have been careless handling the family photograph albums.


getting mad that I got an STI from a threesome

It's understandable to be concerned about your health.


You let it affect your life by worrying about it too much.


You have a strange looking lump on your body.


It would just add to your current stress.


you have a family history of health problems.


not accepting my Mum's support after coming out

Hypothesis: It's good to support your kids.

Your kids are involved in illegal activities


Hypothesis: It's good to support your kids.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your kids.

Your kids are adults who gamble all their money away.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your kids.

Your kids are young or college students.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your kids.

They are adults and won't take care of themselves.


not wanting to stay in touch with a group of old friends anymore

You should keep in touch with friends because you never know when you may need help.

those friends are too difficult to get a hold of.


you care about them and their well being.


You've lost their address and don't know anyone who knows how to contact them.


telling my sister no for getting a tattoo

It's ok to not want a loved one to get a tattoo.


They are of legal age and the tattoo is not visible when wearing clothing.


They are getting a tattoo of their boyfriend's name.


You use your feelings about the issue to hurt your loved one.


You still support your loved one despite your feelings.


It is something that would be very meaningful to them.


It is something they don't really want to get.


they have sensitive skin that can't take the pain.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

You're able to consent to the tattoo experience.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

You're drunk and are unable to consent to the tattoo.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

You work in an industry where tattoos are common.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

you aren't legally allowed to with out parental permission.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

You're commemorating a loved ones date of death.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

You don't want to regret them for the rest of your life.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

you are getting them to symbolize your tribe


Hypothesis: It's wrong to get tattoos.

you expect to be buried in a Jewish graveyard


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray others.

You are an actor in a play about betrayal.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray others.

People are counting on you to come through for them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray others.

You promised them that you wouldn't betray them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray others.

The person you're betraying is your own child


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray others.

They are planning on doing something very illegal.


telling a friend they shouldnt get a dog

It is rude to tell a friend not to do something they want to do.


They are an adult and are paying for it with their own money.


it is something they are really good at.


Your friend is trying to follow their dreams.


You know that it will end up hurting them.


It is something they have always wanted to do.


The friend is planning to do something dangerous.


The friend wants to do something that is harmless to themself or others.


still being close to my dad even though he cheated on my mom

It is understandable to be upset with your son for being close with his father after he cheated on you.

You want your son to have a good relationship with their father.


The father is trying to teach your son bad manners.


Your anger is changing their view on their father.


The father and son have a good relationship and he doesn't want to change that.


The father has used money to win the child's favor.


Your son doesn't know about the infidelity.


Your son knows that his father c heated on you.


getting angry with my roommate for reeking up the apartment with blunt smoke

It's rude to smoke indoors when other people are present.


you're sitting in a section of the building for smokers


none of the other people around you are smokers


You are in a smoke shop and the other people are all smoking too.


rejecting a girl because she is from Israel

You shouldn't reject someone because they're born in Israel.


you wish to be fair to all persons you encounter


You have stubborn family that refuses to let you date someone from there


They are a racist, mean person, who hates all others.


They're kind and compassionate and love all.


not following a friend's girlfriend's wishes

It's wrong not to be respectful of your partner.


Your partner has lost your trust by being unfaithful.


You have been through thick and thin together.


wishing my boyfriend stayed home and took care of me instead of going to the casino

It's understandable to want your significant other to stay home with you.


they've obligations which they cannot avoid


You don't get to spend a lot of time together.


making my fiancé pay for a hotel herself because she refuses to stay with my parents on Christmas

You shouldn't expect your partner to pay for something they don't want to do.


you don't pay for things you don't want to do.


they are paying for a life saving surgery


paying for the thing goes against their religious beliefs


You want them to come along to support you.


They have a real phobia of that particular activity.


It's something that can be done without them


It's expected that you treat a person with dignity in their final moments.

You are trying to take off their close to hook up medical monitors.


You are a closer family member to the person who is dying.


You don't know that the person is about to die.


This person made sacrifices for you in their life


You're a soldier killing an enemy combatant


You are a priest called to perform last rites


They have just committed a murder and turned the gun on themselves.


They are in a hospice bed surrounded by family.


telling my waiter/waitress I'm not going to tip

You don't have to tip if you are unhappy with the service you received.

the waiter apologized and remedied the problem.


The state allows restaurants to pay their servers less than minimum wage.


The servers are already paid a living wage.


The waiter was not the reason you are unhappy.


The tip is already included in your bill.


You are eating out at a fast food restaurant.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust strangers.

Those strangers are doctors trying to save your life after an accident.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust strangers.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not trust strangers.

they are law enforcement in uniform with badges.


calling out an acquaintance who makes negative comments about her crush's girlfriend

It's okay to stick up for people when someone puts them down.

They have asked you to let them handle their business.


Sticking up for those people would put you in danger.


Those people don't have a lot of people to defend them.


people are putting them down for doing something horrible to someone else


handing out less candy to trick-or-treaters wearing their every day clothes instead of costumes

You should try to be fair with children.

You  are teaching them that life isn't always fair.


They are having a hard time understanding a rule.


You are a teacher who should not show favortism


You want to teach them that life isn't always fair.


You have two children you need to provide for equally.


Fighting with another party goer is rude.


You are standing up for an innocent victim.


They're harassing people and the host wants them kicked out.


They were quietly minding their own business before you started the fight.


It is fine to confront someone for doing something wrong.

you engage in the same wrong behavior yourself


they are doing something harmful to you or your property


They are the CEO of your company and you would get fired.


What they are doing isn't your business.


The confrontation would put you in danger.


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

They are directed by the teacher to work alone.


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

They are put into groups to work on a project.


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

some of them are struggling with the class material


Hypothesis: Classmates should help each other.

the help comes in the form of cheating on tests


not telling my mother I knew that my father would be soon leaving her

Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.

They told you that they were going to murder their landlord.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.


getting drunk and flirting with a girl who has been friends with me for 6 years

It's wrong to betray the trust of a friend.


Your friend depends on you for medical support.


you need to tell someone the friend is planning to kill himself.


your friend has nobody else they can trust to talk to.


You believe that their safety is in question.


you have to lie to your friend to save them from danger


It's rude to cut someone off without explanation.

The other person left the scene and you did not have the chance to esxplain.


You have to make them realize something's on fire.


You're dismissing their ideas without fully listening to them.


They won't shut up and you need to say something that will save lives.


You need to tell them the house is on fire.


wanting to put money in my retirement account and not my partner's

You should have a joint account with your partner.

They have significantly more debt than you.


The bank charges lower rates for joint accounts.


you want to make buying household items easy


you and your partner's relationship is on the rocks


wanting to end a friendship over being lazy

You should maintain the friendships you have.

They are strained and aren't beneficial to your well-being.


They are positive and bring peace and comfort to your life.


Your friend has stood by you during difficult times.


They have no interest in staying friends


telling my girlfriend she has a deadline to start telling her friends we're dating

It is rude to hide a relationship from others.


you are only doing it because you are ashamed.


You are afraid of people being judgemental about your relationship.


You are dating someone while you are in a monogamous relationship with another person.


your parents have forbidden you to see someone you love.


You shouldn't expect your ex to stick around.


You scream "I never want to see you again!"


you have a restraining order against them


They have already moved on to another partner.


not get getting DH's mom's husband a gift that was only for him at Christmas

Hypothesis: Christmas gifts should be personal.

you are giving a gift to someone you just met


Hypothesis: Christmas gifts should be personal.


Hypothesis: Christmas gifts should be personal.

You are buying gifts for strangers for a charity gift drive.


Hypothesis: Christmas gifts should be personal.

They are for a secret santa exchange at work.


Hypothesis: Christmas gifts should be personal.

They are for an immediate family member.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want alone time.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want alone time.

You are in the middle of your shift working at a daycare.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want alone time.

You have work obligations at the office.


not being happy when a girl grinded on me

It is okay to set boundaries with others

They're a medical professional trying to examine you.


You already give them plenty of space and don't infringe on them.


You have people in your life that are emotionally abusive.


losing my cool with my roommate/friend and telling him to STFU

It's expected that you'll be good to your friends.


Your friends are helpful and supportive.


you want a good positive relationship with them


your friends have intentionally betrayed your confidence.


they are celebrating your birthday with you.


telling my friend that I dont want to be friends with her a day after her birthday

You should try to maintain your friendships.

Your friends were accused of bullying a child.


You live in the same neighborhood as your friends.


You have friends that are bad influences.


your friend did something to break your trust


you get depressed when you feel isolated


Your friend has done something extremely harmful to you.


Your friend has supported you throughout the years.


uninviting a friend from a holiday after unwanted advances

You shouldn't make advances to someone who is not interested in you.

you have changed dramatically since the last time you saw them.


they have made it clear that they don't want anything to do with you.


you aren't aware they aren't interested.


they've made it clear they aren't interested.


you haven't been given a chance to introduce yourself


they have expressed their disinterest in you


The person acts interested even though they really are not.


The person has clearly stated they are not interested.


being upset my late mother left everything to charity

It's expected that you leave an inheritance for your children.


you have a large inheritance to distribute


Your children are hoping you will die soon.


Your children are hoping you will live a very long life.


It is understandable for you to be upset if someone tells you to do something.


The thing you are told to do will benefit you.


The thing you are told to do is illegal.


it is something that they were supposed to do in the first place.


leaving my girlfriend for somebody she hates

It's wrong to suddenly break up with someone and then date someone else.

Unless they have betrayed you in some way.


Especially if you really care about their feelings.


if you are using the New person to get over the old one.


The person that you broke up with was abusive.


You get together with the new person in one day.


It's okay not to want to invite certain people to your graduation.


You want to have the loudest applause when your name is read


You are going to play a prank during the graduation


those people have helped you succeed along the way.


not saying anything to my friend about her dildos

It is good to stay out of other's personal business.


You are being paid to handle their business.


You've been told repeatedly to mind your own business.


You're not very good at relationships yourself.


Hypothesis: It is disrespectful to curse at others.

They're your friends and you all swear around each other as a sign of your comfort with each other.


Hypothesis: It is disrespectful to curse at others.


Hypothesis: It is disrespectful to curse at others.

You are both just being funny playing at "checking" each other.


Hypothesis: It is disrespectful to curse at others.

You are speaking to someone in authority.


Hypothesis: It is disrespectful to curse at others.

You are trying to use a pattern interrupter.


eating meat when I'm vegetarian because I don't want to disrespect someone

It's understandable to want someone to enjoy food you prepared for them.


You know they don't like shrimp, but you cooked it for them anyway.


You worked 10 hours that day, cooked them breakfast, packed their lunch and made them dinner.


you purposely made it bland because they have dietary restrictions.


you worked hard for hours to prepare it.


being pissed at BIL for refusing to help

It's rude to get upset with someone when they didn't help you with work you were suppose to do.

The work was meant to be part of a group project.


You were suppose to complete the work on your own.


Your coworker slacked off all day and didn't help you.


You slacked off all day and expected your coworker to cover for you.


they just sat there and watched you do all the work.


Friends should be supportive of each other.

illegal or harmful activities are going on.


They are only friends because they have money


One friend is trying to do something that will hurt them.


The friends are trying to achieve their goals.


not apologizing my girlfriend for possibly infecting her with mononucleosis

It is rude to give someone else an illness.


You are coming up with an antidote to cure it.