They have a disability that affects their life significantly.


People are expected to be self sufficient.


not wanting to drive 1.5 hours in a snow storm to see my best friend, especially because this would be my 3rd time canceling plans in a row

It's OK to cancel plans when the plans involve something that is unsafe.


You are worried about your personal safety.


you're not concerned about your safety in the situation


You have been wanting to try bungee jumping.


yelling at my father to flush the goddamn toilet

One should always clean up behind themselves.

You have a paid cleaning crew and it's their job to do it.


They're cooking dinner in a tiny kitchen and they wouldn't have enough room to finish it otherwise.


You are admitted to a hospital due to illness.


You shouldn't listen to friends that call you irresponsible.


They are trying to keep you safe by stopping you from drinking and driving.


They act childish and irresponsible most of the time.


Especially if you have many responsibilities that you handle well.


You graduated from a prestigious university.


telling a little girl to wash her hands after going to the bathroom

You shouldn't tell other people's kids how to approach hygiene.


You are given permission by their parents to address the topic.


The parent hasn’t shown them cleanliness.


The parent has asked you not to talk to their child.


not spending time with my gf from out of town once a week

You should spend more time with your partner.


you want to maintain a strong relationship with them


You want to start a regular activity together.


They are deployed overseas with the military.


refusing to makeout with my boyfriend because he has pink eye

Partners should respect sexual requests.


cutting my friend off "cold turkey" for continuously saying they want to date me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

You are trying to get them to stop staring at their phone all the time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

They have asked you several times to stop.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

You are just being yourself and don't realize you are annoying them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

They are trying to quit something and you want to help them quit.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

THey have asked you to stop annoying them.


You should go to your step-children's important events.


You are trying to build a relationship with them.


You have been asked by the parent not to attend.


You are very close to them and they want you there.


Society looks fondly on people that help others.

those people do so for their own selfish reasons


they do so out of the good of their heart


They're helping violent criminals get away with their crimes.


They're helping people who can't help themselves, like children or the severely disabled.


They help only to gain something for themselves.


They are doing it for their own political gain.


It is malnourished children that benefit.


still texting a girl who cheated on her bf with me

You shouldn't continue texting people that are cheating their partners.


You know they are cheating and you don't want to be a homewrecker.


You need to gather evidence to report them.


They start to flirt with you and you are married.


You work with the person and need information.


asking my partner to not call me a "bastard?"

A partner should never call you derogatory names.


It is in the heat of a personal moment and you approve.


sleeping on the couch when I have to get up at 4am

It's good to get enough sleep so you can wake up on time.

The more you sleep, the more tired you feel.


You want to look rested for an interview in the morning.


you need to be at work at a certain time.


Sleep brings you anxiety dreams that make you feel worse.


You have an important appointment the next day.


Grandchildren are expected to love and respect their grandparents.


breaking up with a gf of 4 years who recently moved in

It's ok to end a relationship that isn't working for you.

You still love the person and want to make it work


The relationship is for the benefit of your children.


telling the hosts of our D&D game that their baby is an issue

Sometimes it's unavoidable to tell a parent their baby is being a distraction.


You are trying to do a medical exam on the adult who is holding the baby.


The baby is upset being in a doctors office and can't help but cry.


You were asked not to bring any children to the wedding when you RSVP'd


They brought their baby to a work meeting.


You can come up with a reason for them to leave.


You are trying to concentrate on an important work paper.


telling my brother he can't come to Thanksgiving if he's high

It's okay to not want to be around someone who is under the influence of drugs.

They are in the hospital about to have surgery


You are trying to maintain your sobriety


You are a counselor at an alcoholics anonymous.


You are six months sober and also have children.


You are an addiction counselor trying to help


denying my GF sex because we were behind on cleaning

Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.

You can't have sex due to a medical issue.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.

The doctor told them not to have sex after a surgery until they get checked.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.

You are having it with someone else instead.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.

They are sick with a skin disease that is catchy.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.

They just purchased new lingerie to share with you.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to deny your partner sex.

It has been a long time since you have agreed.


It's understandable to get mad at someone you work with.

Your colleagues are your closest allies.


You have different styles of handling work pressure.


they are brand new and still are being trained.


leaving my gf because she become a friend with marauder


The relationship is with a new romantic partner.


It is with your parents that pay for your food.


You have made a binding contract with them.


It has had zero benefit for either party.


You should be careful of the joke you say to your female friends.


They have the same sense of humor as you do.


They have asked you to stop making a certain type of jokes around them.


they're comfortable with any form of humor


you tell jokes which may be considered improper


telling my sister that she cannot go on a school trip

It's wrong to not allow your family on trips.


it is supposed to be a family holiday trip.


You are trying to leave your stepchildren out while bringing your biological children


They spend all of your money on frivolous things.


shouting at some kid across the field at our local beach to stop harassing the wildlife

You should never shout at a child that is not yours if they are not in danger.

You are dramatizing a book during storytime.


They are far away and you need to get their attention.


They are screaming at other children and scaring them.


not letting my brother sleep on my couch

It is okay to have limits to how much you will help family.

You have taken on the job of being their caretaker.


the limits are really not reasonably low


your family takes care of all your needs for you


they ask for your help an overwhelming amount


Hypothesis: It's bad to betray the trust of others.


Hypothesis: It's bad to betray the trust of others.

They always considered you a trustworthy person


Hypothesis: It's bad to betray the trust of others.

You are lying to the person because you a trying to surprise them with a gift.


Hypothesis: It's bad to betray the trust of others.

You want to have a strong relationship with them.


leaving my current d&d group for another one if they can't agree to be more consistent with scheduling

You should be more consistent with scheduling.


You have a lot to do and want to be organized.


You're just not sure about how long some jobs will take.


You want to maintain good relationships with your clients.


The people you're scheduling keep changing what they want.


Everyone wants their schedule to stay the same.


You must be punctual to support emergency situations.


Other people have made plans based on the schedule.


you like to fly by the seat of your pants.


Hypothesis: Hurting people is wrong.


Hypothesis: Hurting people is wrong.

You insult someone to hurt their feelilngs.


breaking up with BF after he wouldn't clean up his own vomit

Hypothesis: You should clean up your messes.


Hypothesis: You should clean up your messes.

You know nobody else will do it for you.


Hypothesis: You should clean up your messes.


not accepting my girlfriend's reasons for being emotional

It's okay to not always understand your partner.

Your partner throws that fact in your face.


Your partner is unsure of their own feelings.


You work on your communication together.


They are expressing their feelings to you.


Your partner has explained in detail they they like a certain movie and you still don't care.


You believe that variety is the spice of life


possibly being sexist and hijacking a support thread

It is wrong to disrupt and upset people that are seeking support.


You are a care worker and itsi your job to help.


They're asking for money and you know they can never repay it.


they are doing so in an aggressive and mean manner.


They want you to support their drinking habit.


not proposing to my fiancé in the same place both sets of her grandparents and parents got engaged

It's understandable if you want to be proposed to in a place that's special to you.

That place is in another country and you don't have passports.


You are planning on saying no if they ask anyways.


You want to cherish the memory for life.


The special place is in another country on the other side of the world.


The special place was the place you first met.


You made it clear what places are important to you


Boundaries are important in a relationship.


The boundaries have been discussed by both partners.


You have a long distance relationship where you don't see one another enough as it is


The relationship is between acquaintances.


Unless it's a long distance relationship.


getting upset over my roommate's careless remark

You should communicate your frustrations when someone you live with is being careless.


Their actions could get you both evicted


Their carelessness has no impact on you and will only cause them potential harm.


They get really mad when you call them out


They don't know you are getting frustrated.


being wary of my girlfriend's lack of romance

It's wrong to judge someone because they don't give you everything you want.

You are a baby and don’t understand why you are not getting what you want.


You are capable of buying your own things.


They promised to make it up to you after an argument.


They tried to please you but didn't succeed.


They have promised to give you everything you ask for.


You can see they're doing everything they can to give you what you want.


They are your employee and promised to deliver on a project


A parent buys beer or cigarettes instead of food for thier kid.


A parent cannot afford to buy their child the latest iphone.


You should let people know in advance if you can't make it to an event.

You are taken to the hospital and are to ill to notify anyone.


You are in an accident and hospitalized.


The event is their wedding and they could invite someone else in your place.


You get into an accident on the way there.


You know a week ahead that you have to cancel.


They have a weak heart and the news will shock them.


The event can be rescheduled for a better time.


being emotionally distant from my mum after some shady behaviour

It is okay to put distance between family.


freaking out because my family ate all the doughnuts

It's considered healthy to not overreact to trivial upsets.


The problem is being caused by others with malicious intent.


You have high blood pressure or heart disease.


it is a small child and they are very tired and cranky.


it is a very unimportant detail that does not affect anything.


feeling uncomfortable and not hugging an autistic person at a convention

You should not treat someone differently for have a disability.


They are mistreated by those around them.


The person doesn't need any accommodation.


They are looking to join the police force.


the situation requires you to treat them differently because of it


it's to do with giving them dignity and respect


not telling my co-worker that he's going to be fired

It's not your responsibility to tell a coworker about what management is planning to do.


You are in a supervisor and it's part of your job.


You're not entirely sure what the plan is about either.


your coworker expects you to look out for them


what management is planning to do has nothing to do with your coworker


Management instructed you to inform your colleagues of their plans.


Management told you to notify your coworker.


Management is planning to fire the coworker.


suggesting to my mom to spend less money on cigs

You shouldn't spend so much money on cigarettes.


you earn a good income and can afford it


you wish to quit and care for your health


You have made the habit a part of your monthly budget.


You are buying them for a science experiment.


giving my girlfriend a nose ring ultimatum

Giving your significant other freedom to make their own decisions is expected.

They want freedom to date other people outside of the relationship.


They want the freedom to make purchases with their own spare money.


Your significant other works and you don't


Your significant other suffers a brain injury


They are unable to make sound decisions on their own.


saying an Elderly Woman's Wig looks stupid

Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.

you're trying to cheer them up by teasing them


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.

you don't want to be perceived as a bully


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.

You and your best friend have a prank war going on to see who can be the most embarrassing


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.

you are judging how a stranger looks without knowing anything about her life


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make fun of other people.

They are giving a presentation in front of class.


You have a right to speak up about bad service.

You are in prison in a third world country.


You received bad food at a restaurant in the United States.


The waiter is already being berated by their boss.


You were given the service as a free compliment.


You have paid good money for the service to be performed.


You have unreasonable demands for service.


being harsh about ending a friendship with a coworker

It is important to keep a good relationship with your coworkers.


The coworker is committing unethical acts and you want to steer clear of them completely.


You want to have a good work reputation in order to advance your career.


You might want them for job references in the future.


wanting to write a bad review for the tattoo I got

Writing reviews is a very useful thing to do.


You are an expert reviewer and people read them


You're lying to get revenge on an enemy.


You were so impressed with a company you want everyone to know how great they are.


Your reviews are always negative and one sided.


You write reviews for a newspaper column.


You are being unprofessional and rude in the review.


The product did not work and you want to give your opinion on it.


You are writing reviews that are paid, and therefore biased in nature.


You are writing unbiased and objective reviews that are helping everyone.


telling my girlfriend about my ex-girlfriends depression

It's expected that you'll keep people's mental health details in confidence.

They are a danger to the community at large.


You want to keep your job and you must follow HIPPA


You're a physician conferring with a mental health professional about your patient's problem.


You're a psychiatrist and they're your patient.


you're a police officer conferring with other police officers about a suspect


It's best not to try to control every little thing your romantic partner does.


Your partner is hands off when it comes to your stuf


Your partner is on medication for a mental issue and needs constant supervision.


Your partner has asked for personal space.


They have been incapacitated by a disease.


They are a brilliant corporate strategist.


They need you to because they are sick and can't take care of themselves.


You are doing becoming toxic with your controlling nature.


You're trying to keep them away from home while you setup a surprise birthday party for them.


You don't want them to resent you for it.


wanting to sell pre-purchased tickets to a music festival to my now ex-girlfriend

Selling tickets you bought for a former partner can help you get over the breakup.

The tickets were very special and sentimental to you.


You can use the money for your new date.


smoking in an area which allows smoking next to someone who dislikes it

It's acceptable to do things that you are allowed to do.


The allowed things are not moral although they are legal


unless you know these actions can harm you or others


doing these things makes you more productive at work


It means you will miss the birth of your child.


telling my brothers ex he's fucking her best friend

You shouldn't have sex with your ex's friends.


Your ex may be using them to get back at you


You broke up with your ex in high school and you are all now in your thirties.


You and your ex just broke up a few days ago.


You are in a relationship with one of your ex's friends.


You ended your relationship on good terms.


splitting' up the family even though it goes against a deceased person's last wish

It is wrong to go against someone's dying wish.


Their dying wish causes other people harm.


They have pre-planned their final arrangements and their wish is part of that.


Their dying wish involved illegal activity.


you have the right of attorney over them


wanting to visit my hometown over the holidays

It's expected that people will travel during the holiday season to go out of the way places.

They prefer to remain at home for a staycation.


They have made plans and purchased tickets to visit family on another continent.


They don;t have enough money to vacation.


They have a fear of being in enclosed spaces.


Their family lives in several different states.


All their relatives live in the same city.


Their relatives live in different states.


telling my roommate, whose rent I'm currently paying for, that her BF can't come over anymore

It's expected that you pay your own rent.

Your parents want to wait until you finish college and start work full-time.


You are working fill-time and have a good-paying job.


You are still being supported by your parents.


You live in your parent's basement while going to college.


ditching my best friend's farewell party because of my girlfriend

When your significant other is saying goodbye to a friend, it's rude to make him leave.

You think your partner is cheating on you with them


It is already 2am and you need to go to bed.


they are no longer welcome in your home.


it is your spouses best friend visiting from out of town.


they won't see each other for a long time.


not telling my wife I had a second child through sperm donation after she gave me a hard time about the first donorkid

It's wrong to keep secrets from your significant other.


There are some things that they wouldn't approve of and they don't need to know.


They are relevant to the relationship and you have lied to them.


Unless you are trying to plan a surprise party for them.


Especially if it's something they need to know.


The secret is for a surprise birthday party.


They need the correct information for medical reasons.


the secret is about the surprise party that your planning.


It is expected to get along with your neighbors.


You want to build a strong bond with the neighborhood


Your neighbors come from a similar area as you.


Your neighbors make it impossible through their thoughtlessness.


your neighbors often report you to your HOA


your neighborhood holds community events


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie about being raped.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie about being raped.

You have named someone who was the rapist.


supposedly mocking trans people, liberal arts majors, and minorities in a discussion about college

If you are not a marginalized person, you should be willing to listen to people who are.

You do not have time for pettiness in your life.


They are bringing up information without facts behind it.


You are not fully informed on the topic.


they are being irrational and unreasonable.


your support can help them improve their situation.


They are speaking over another group of marginalized people.


You want to understand racism and how it really matters.


They want to sit down and have a rational discussion.


When your friend is caught in a lie, it's okay to point out their contradictions.

You don't want to bother with the confrontation.


They are attempting to deceive you in particular.


You're not alone with them and it will get them in trouble.


Covering up the lie is more helpful than harmful.


there is no way to do this one i can't figure a good one out!


You knew the friend was going to lie beforehand and they told you not to say anything.


The lie will not affect anyone negatively and you want to get your voice heard about the matter.


It's hurtful to be ignored by someone you thought was your friend.

They're helping their family through a crisis.


They just stopped responding to your calls or texts.


You are demanding undue attention consistently.


You were trying to open up to them about something personal.


They are on a first date with their new girlfriend.


they have only been ignoring you for a couple minutes


getting fucking pissed at my date for running a red light

You should come to a complete stop at a red light.


There is a police officer watching the intersection.


You are driving an ambulance to an emergency.


You are an EMT and there is a medical emergency.


You want to avoid getting any traffic tickets.


you're driving an emergency vehicle with their lights engaged


there's traffic crossing the street at high speeds


going to a costume party dressed as a confederate soldier

People might start a fight with you if you dress up in a aggressively provocative costume.


refusing to go over the coupon limit for someone's disabled mom

You shouldn't do something that is wrong just because the person you're doing it for is disabled.

it is not illegal and the reasons are good.


YOu know that what they need for pain is illegal in your state.


They are encouraging you to lie about something so they can get more benefits.


It involves taking money from someone else.


wanting my dad to pay a portion of our netflix subscription

It is okay to expect others to share the cost of streaming media if they also use it.

The service offers multiple viewers per account.


They are children who don't have jobs or money.


They are adults from different households.


You have specifically told them they do not need to pay to use it.


You have made it clear that they need to help pay for it.


asking co-workers to stop farting in my office-pod

Hypothesis: It's wrong to fart at work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fart at work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to fart at work.

you are unable to stop it from coming out.


stepping back my relationship and explaining that I'm not ready to say 'I love you'

It's expected that you'll say 'I love you' when you're ready.

The other person has broken off the relationship.


You are not sure you really love the other person.


You simply want a one night stand and have to say anything to get it.


You want to lead a life of integrity and have trust in your relations.


not wanting to invite my fiancees friend

You should be polite to a partners' friends.

The friends seem to encourage rowdy behavior when in a group.


Some of a partners' friends may have bonds since their childhood.


They are being very hurtful and rude, and have no concern about your needs..


They are being very polite and understanding of your needs.


being annoyed for my friend wanting to use my house while I'm away

It's okay to not want someone in your house while you're gone.

You have pets that need to be cared for.


you have a lot of valuable things lying around the house


YOu know they have a habit of taking things.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to hook up.

It is with a stranger that you just met.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to hook up.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to hook up.

Your partner doesn't feel comfortable being in an open relationship.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to hook up.

Your partner is into being in a polyamorous relationship.


ignoring my ex for 3 days after she dumps me during which she ran away from home

It is okay to be hurt after a relationship ends badly.


you are the one that ended the relationship badly by cheating.


Your ex was abusive and hurtful and it's better you're not with them anymore.


You really loved the person a lot and you were partly to blame.


It was a long term, loving relationship.


keeping my wife from bringing our dog to the vet until morning to save

It's wrong to postpone taking a pet to the vet simply just to save money.

It's just a regular check-up and you're not worried about anything immediate.


You can see they are having a health issue.


They seem healthy and it is only for a check up.


You're postponing a well check for a week to make the money to take them to the vet.


They aren't eating or drinking anything.


The animal has been with you for all your life


you have no other means and the visit is not important


threatening to sue my parents for taking out student loans in my name

You shouldn't try to dishonestly take advantage of your children.


You want to have a healthy relationship with them.


They have done the same to you and you just want what is yours back.


Your children are too young to understand.


You shouldn't expect your friends to always want to hang out with you.


you used to always hang out but then all of the sudden they stopped wanting too.


You're going through a rough patch in your life and need their support.


They are all involved in romantic relationships which have greater call on their time.


not taking care of my roommate's dog when dog could have been in danger

It's expected to save a pet that is in danger.

Unless saving it would put your life in danger.


You would get killed trying to save the pet.


The pet is too far away to reach in time.


It is in a burning building and the firefighters deem in too dangerous.


You might be killed while trying to save them.


You love them and you're very attached to them.


telling my father to shut up about my education

It's rude to talk harshly to your parents.


Your parents have disrespected you and you are a grown adult.


Your parents have never been rude to you.


refusing to tell the guy Im dating or anyother potential partner my body count

You should always tell your partner the truth.

you're trying to spare them from getting hurt by it


telling the truth can help build trust between you


You know that telling them that their teeth gross you out will embarrass them irrevocably


One of you lied early on in the relationship and your made a pact to not let that happen again


She asked if her clothes made her look fat.


It could cause them more grief if they're suicidal.


not wanting to write an animal watching review for my ex

It is okay to not do favors for people you dislike.


It is an acquaintance asking for the favor.


Especially if they are trying to take advantage of you.


freaking out after my same-sex friend kissed me in public

It's ok to not be attracted to members of the same sex.

You've publicly come out as gay and already reaped the praise of the woke types.


If you are in a monogamous, heterosexual relationship.


You usually are and have suddenly stopped.


YOu are naturally only attracted to people of a different sex.


not wanting to know about my brother's sex life? NSFW

Someone's sex life is expected to be kept private.


They do an interview with Playboy magazine.


It's okay to want  a rest after you have been working hard.


You are a firefighter and the fire is still burning.


You have more than one job and need to go to it.


You get home and realize your partner made a huge mess while you were at work.


You need to finish something first before the deadline.


You had to work overtime to finish the job.


telling a girl that she's not "just being honest", she's just being a bitch

It is OK to call someone out who is being rude.


they don't realize it and they are in front of their date.


they know it is rude and they are doing it in front of your spouse.


you're in a meeting trying to land a new deal


They're mentally challenged and they don't understand what they did wrong.


They keep doing it to everyone around them.


refusing to make my coworker stop calling me a nickname, just because my boyfriend said to

Romantic partners should look out for each other.


They don't  want seem co-dependent on each other.


telling my roommate she's getting defensive

You should be honest with your roommates.


You don't care if your roommates trust you.


You want to be known as a good roommate.


Telling the truth might hurt their feelings.


What you're holding back could be important to their safety.


ending a good relationship although my GF did nothing wrong

It's very mean to abandon a relationship with someone for no reason.


you didnt even tell them you just ghosted them


The two of you just unexpectedly grew apart.


The two of you were engaged to be married.


thinking my gf is being unreasonable for asking me to talk to her every 20 minutes

It is important to respect your partner's boundaries instead of making demands.

Your partner is unaware of what you like.


They are immature and need help being an adult


Your partner was caught cheating and you are setting boundaries for your own protection.


You want a solid foundation to build a relationship on.


They don't know what you expect of them.


not wanting to split my credit card points with my partner

You should always share with your partner.

You have a cold and are drinking from a glass


You want to save money by sharing resources


You know your partner hasn't had enough to eat and they are really hungry.


It's okay to want to talk with people that you use to know or be friends with.


They are still in with a bad crowd you need to avoid.


You can see they are living a healthy life and would positively influence you.


They have asked you to leave them alone.


You don't know why the two of you ever stopped talking.


giving direct answers when customers come to me for it inquries

It's good to give direct answers to customers.

You aren't exactly sure how to answer the question.


You want to help them quickly and move to the next customer.


The customer is making an important purchase


They were spotted crying a few minutes before.


You have to understand that what seems normal to you isn't so for everyone.


You live in an underground bunker after a nuclear apocalypse and there's only one subsistence lifestyle that's still viable.


You never interact with anyone outside of your group.


You want to go to a large state college.


not eating cake at my mom's birthday party? ft. r/entitledparents

It is okay to make healthy dietary choices

your doctor tells you that you need unhealthy foods, too.


You're restricted by your religion from eating something.


Your doctor told you to change your diet.


telling my TA a kid was cheating during a physics quiz

Hypothesis: It's bad form to snitch on people.

Their behavior could cause someone great harm.


Hypothesis: It's bad form to snitch on people.


Hypothesis: It's bad form to snitch on people.

you have evidence they did something wrong


Hypothesis: It's bad form to snitch on people.

they are your friends that your snitching


Hypothesis: It's bad form to snitch on people.

You will make things difficult for everyone


being annoyed that my gf said I should stay away from her during a big celebration because I had a cold

You should be with your significant other if they're celebrating something.

You are far away and cannot afford the plane tickets.


They are celebrating your parents death.


It's marks an important event in their life.


being jealous that my siblings get what I ask for and I don't

It is normal to be upset as a kid when your siblings get things that you wanted.

You already have the same thing, you just want a newer one.


Your parents showed favortism towards them.


they are just asking for things so you don't get them


They got cars and you're not old enough to drive.


It's okay to fill your obligations and not want to do more than expected of you.


You are looking to get a promotion at work.


You don't receive anything extra for doing more.


There are others to do the rest of the work


You want to move up the corporate ladder.


You are juggling responsibilities to your kids and senior parents.


there is still much to be done and nobody else is available to do it.


you are not being paid extra to do extra work.


disagreeing with my gf's view on differences between men and women in athletics

It's okay to disagree with someone who doesn't believe the same things you do.

You are an employee and talking with your boss on an important project.


You are having an open conversation about a polarizing topic.


the disagreements lead to conflict when compromise can be achieved instead


you like them and want to keep being their friend despite your differences of opinion


You are starting a small business with each other as partners.


You are business competitors forecasting the next trends.


You live in a country where you can't express your opinions.


You live in a country with freedom of speech and religion.


not wanting to help train my roommates territorial dog

You should help your roommates out with things.


They never pay rent on time and are messy


They are lazy and never help out around the house.


They are feeling sick and can't do things for themselves.


They have asked for help too many times.


You know they are good people and will help you in the future.


Your roommates never help you and are nasty to you.


You want to have positive relations with them and grow closer.


spilling the beans about my cousin's marriage

Sometimes it can't be helped that you blurt out big secrets.

You work in a sensitive role and have had training


You are specially trained by the military no to talk.


You live in a religious community and took a vow of silence.


You gossip each week with your neighbors.


not wanting to hang out with my girlfriend

Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your partner.

You have important businesses that must be attended to.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your partner.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your partner.

you're trying to focus on something time sensitive


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your partner.

They have been talking about the pros and cons of a coffee maker for the last hour.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your partner.

They need your help to make a decision on a contractor


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your partner.

They are being deliberately childish and playfully annoying.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your partner.

They are trying to communicate something important to you.


It's expected that families have close relationships with each other.


The family is isolated and relies on each other for survival.


Someone in the family has done something morally wrong.


They live far apart and only see each other once a year.


getting frustrated at a friend for not helping me in a game

You shouldn't expect your friends to help you all the time.


you are on a sports team that depends on teamwork.


they end up doing everything for you and you don't learn anything.


It is your right to move at your own pace at the gym.


there is a long line of people waiting to use the same apparatus you are on.


you are recovering from an injury and must be very careful.


You spend time taking up the machines while on your phone


Hypothesis: It's OK to be mad at someone.

they are apologizing and are really sorry


Hypothesis: It's OK to be mad at someone.


Hypothesis: It's OK to be mad at someone.

You're only reacting to a bad dream you had about them.


Hypothesis: It's OK to be mad at someone.

They didn't apologize for what they did.


trying to be honest with my gf about her weight

You shouldn't say mean things about your partner's weight.


Your partner is recovering from an eating disorder


They are becoming morbidly obese and could die.


They are trying to fit into their wedding dress.


It works as a form of encouragement for them to lose weight.


attempting to dissuade a good friend from getting married to a girl he has dated for 4 months

It is considered foolish to let a friend marry someone they barely know.

The person needs to marry for citizenship.


The person is marrying to have a big party.


They are their own person and you don't control them.


They are in an arranged marriage in a foreign country.


They are drunk and in a Las Vegas wedding chapel.


they are convinced that the person is the love of their life.


Hypothesis: It'd be careless to get a friend fired.


Hypothesis: It'd be careless to get a friend fired.

They told you they don't like their job.


Hypothesis: It'd be careless to get a friend fired.

They asked you to be respectful when visiting them at work.


Hypothesis: It'd be careless to get a friend fired.

They stole computers from the company while you were there.


Hypothesis: It'd be careless to get a friend fired.

They help you with all of your assignments.


making asian jokes to my asian friend. just because she kept sayin the n-word

Hypothesis: You shouldn't say the n-word.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say the n-word.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say the n-word.

You're speaking with a black person and you aren't black.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't say the n-word.

you are surrounded by African Americans.


considering calling child protective services on my parents

If a child is at risk, always call child protective services.

Your family was threatened if they report.


The child has visible bruises on their leg.


The risk is more imminent than CPS can attend to.


You suspect that sexual abuse is happening.


yelling at this guy ringing my doorbell multiple times and then walking down my driveway to take pictures of my neighbor's house

Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

you're far enough away and they can't hear you otherwise


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

you are trying to be heard by your friend at a loud concert.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

you do so very sparsely and apologize afterward


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

they're close to you as friends or family


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

Unless they are far away and you need them to hear you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't yell at other people.

They are young you could damage their ears.


thinking my best friend needs to grow up

It's ok to expect maturity from a friend.


You are both adults with responsibilities.


They are still a kid and haven’t matured yet.


They are an adult and joke around too much.


making another noise complaint about my upstairs neighbour

You should be considerate of the people you live around.


They continuously play loud music at night.


It is a late night party in a frat house


threatening to move to my grandparents if my mom doesn't find a new home for our cats

You shouldn't move away from family members that need you.


Those family members take advantage of you.


You have to go and get a good job or you can't help them at all.


They are sick and need you to help care for them.


It's fine to let someone know that they are being taken advantage of.

That person is an enemy in a time of war.


They they already know it and it's their own children that's doing it.


You need the scam to work to pay for your child's operation.


They are audience members in a magic show.


They are being swindled out of their money.


being angry at my sister for drinking in front of our alcoholic mom, despite me drinking as well

It's hypocritical to hold people to a higher standard of behavior than yours.

you believe that one's position in life dictates behavioral standards.


it's to do with how they behave vs how kids do


They are your children and you are trying to teach them to be better people.


You refuse to work on changes to make yourself better.


you express it in an effort to put them down


telling my friend I didn't want to be friends anymore

It's okay for a relationship to end when it needs to end.


You have children and their care needs to come first.


One partner is causing physical harm to the other.


You work together and need to work as a team to be productive.


Both parties would be better off with it ending.


you both haven't spoken to eachother for a long time.


thinking that it's normal for couples to have arguments

Hypothesis: It is normal to have arguments.


Hypothesis: It is normal to have arguments.


Hypothesis: It is normal to have arguments.

The arguments happen with your boss regularly.


Hypothesis: It is normal to have arguments.

You are sharing a room with your sibling.


Hypothesis: It is normal to have arguments.

The only type of conversation you ever have with that person is an argument.


Hypothesis: It is normal to have arguments.

Most of your interactions with that person are positive.


throwing a group member under the bus, and being angry that the consequences they experienced were not as severe as I thought they deserved

Hypothesis: It's wrong to try to sabotage others.

You are working as an undercover police officer.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to try to sabotage others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to try to sabotage others.

You're a law enforcement officer fighting terrorism


Hypothesis: It's wrong to try to sabotage others.

You are trying to look good at the expense of others


Hypothesis: It's wrong to try to sabotage others.

They have done something wrong and you are trying to make sure they are caught.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to try to sabotage others.

You are competing with them and want to win fairly.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to try to sabotage others.

You're in a competition that allows sabotage.


getting upset with my close friends for not listening to my request of them not saying suicide jokes

Hypothesis: You shouldn't make jokes about suicide.

You are held at gunpoint and told to do so


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make jokes about suicide.

They are people who have lost family members from it


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make jokes about suicide.

You want to make a suicidal person laugh.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make jokes about suicide.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make jokes about suicide.

You are around someone who has recently made an attempt


People who are pedantic often annoy the people around them.

You're a contestant on the game show Jeopardy.


They're just repeating what's already common knowledge.


They are talking about a particularly fascinating topic.


Everyone is trying to do their work before an upcoming deadline.


They are teachers and they are trying to teach valuable lessons.


They spent more time correcting people than having a good conversion.


not wanting to see a movie with my friend's dad

It's okay to be uncomfortable about doing something  with someone.


You are donating blood for the first time.


Doing something involves putting yourself in a risky position.


You are uncomfortable because of someone else's mistake.


not giving up my seat to a parent on the train

You are expected to be polite to people in public.


Especially if you want them to be polite to you.


You are a comedian and it is part of your act.


asking my grandmother to speak to her son when he drips his shit over the house

It's rude to make a mess in other people's homes.

you are a plumber and need to unclog drains.


you are a real estate agent showing properties to sell.


They are hosting an important dinner with clients.


Especially if you are a guest in their home.


You work for a construction company and you are remodeling a room.


You are a guest at a formal dinner party.


You're all having fun together with their permission.


You were asked by them to please take care of their place.


saying I'll pay my friend for something but don't

It's wrong to lie to people, especially a friend.


They tell their family that you never lie.


You are lying to them about a gift you have for them.


You want to continue having a trusting friendship.


You're lying to get out of a speeding ticket.


You're lying about breaking an expensive belonging.