Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

Their children are in their twenties and capable of protecting themselves physically and verbally.


telling my son about my ex wife's infidelity

Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

The parent is 99 years old and the child is a Navy seal.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

they are trying to teach them how to be independent.


dating my ex's friend among other things

Avoiding a relationship with the friend of an ex is expected.


You were friends with that person first.


Your ex has moved away and been largely forgotten.


That friend is extremely angry at you for cheating on your ex.


asking a coworker about her dad's reaction to finding a rip in his pants

It's good to talk with your coworkers about your family life.


Your family life is affecting your work performance.


Your family life includes illegal activities.


You work in a very professional conservative office and co-workers might be offended by your family life.


You are all supportive of each other and it's a family environment.


Your coworkers are known to gossip a lot and it can reach your boss.


Your coworkers keep things private and share their lives with you.


Your family owns the business you work for.


You work as a social worker and your coworkers have experience listening well.


Hypothesis: It is good to support people.


Hypothesis: It is good to support people.

they're a member of your own political party.


Hypothesis: It is good to support people.

You are supporting a lazy spouse who refuses to work.


Hypothesis: It is good to support people.

You are supporting your dependent children or elderly parents.


having dinners with my ex and son without including my current girlfriend

It is rude to exclude people from plans.


The person is your best friend who is always supportive.


Those plans would not be pleasant for that person


They have previously included you in their plans


You are working on a top secret project.


trying to apologize to someone who might not want to hear it

Hypothesis: People need their space and time.


Hypothesis: People need their space and time.

They are working through something difficult.


Hypothesis: People need their space and time.

They have serious problems that they can't deal with.


Hypothesis: People need their space and time.


Hypothesis: People need their space and time.

You are trying to fit into a crowded bus.


Hypothesis: People need their space and time.

They are mourning the death of a loved one.


Hypothesis: People need their space and time.

They have co-dependent personality disorder and are terrified of being alone.


not giving right of way to car at crosswalk

It's important always use crosswalks to cross the road.


The road isn't marked at all and there are no lights either.


There's lots of traffic and speeding cars.


putting my daughter's children at risk of being taken away

It's expected that families protect each other.


Someone in the family has hurt someone else.


one of the family members kills another.


That family is being torn apart from within.


They have suffered a catastrophe together.


not letting a client falsely wear a full military uniform

You shouldn't wear a military uniform if you aren't actually in the military.


You are reenacting something for a show.


You are doing something that would be seen as disrespectful to the uniform.


You are at a parade and want to show admiration and support.


You dislike the military and are trying to mock it.


Hypothesis: You should treat your friends well.


Hypothesis: You should treat your friends well.

They are good friends who care about you.


Hypothesis: You should treat your friends well.

Your friends are starting to do hurtful things to you.


Hypothesis: You should treat your friends well.

They have treated you and others very badly.


Hypothesis: You should treat your friends well.

Your friends talk about you behind your back


walking out of a restaurant without my order

It's wrong not to pay for something you told someone you were going to buy.


You have more than enough money on hand to buy it.


You find another version being sold much cheaper online.


You've already received the goods you're supposed to pay for.


You are delivering food to the hungry family.


You told someone you were going to buy them illegal drugs.


You told a homeless person you were going to buy them a meal.


You should be more respectful of strangers.

They have personally attacked you or a loved one.


You are trying to get people to sign a petition.


The stranger is invading your privacy and being rude.


The person is down on their luck and need all they help they can get.


disagreeing with my mom about mold on cheese

It's wrong to disrespect a parent over small things.

All the small things add up to a big thing.


They have always supported you financially and emotionally.


they don't realize how important something is to you.


Hypothesis: People should obey the law.


Hypothesis: People should obey the law.

The law is something that keeps them safe.


Hypothesis: People should obey the law.

they are police officers chasing a criminal.


Hypothesis: People should obey the law.

The law is obviously wrong and in need of changing.


Hypothesis: People should obey the law.

The law is correct and moral and doing so helps others.


not wanting my friends to team against me in board games

It's not right for friends to gang up on each other.

They are trying to help someone get help in an intervention.


They are playing a friendly game and it's all in good fun.


The person they are ganging up on is sensitive.


One of the friends is being insulting and unpleasant to all the others.


The person being ganged up on is going through a really difficult personal time.


It's expected that you'll be accepting of your family's choices.


You have a moral objection to their behavior.


You shouldn't have to change your religious practices to suit others.

Your religious practices are verifiably wrong.


You have proved your religious practices.


you can't marry the person of your dreams unless you do.


You are getting married to someone of a different religion and are willing to convert.


Your religious practices impose your beliefs on someone else.


Your practices are private and harm no one.


Your religious practices take away the rights or freedoms of others.


You live in a country with freedom of religion.


not caring my dad had a stroke followed by 9 hour heart surgery

People should always care about family members.


They are always there to support you in tough times


Your family members disrespect your significant other.


Their family members excommunicated them because they're gay.


Their family members are financially struggling.


Those family members have abused them in the past.


Your family works on love and understanding.


You shouldn't stop having a relationship with people for trivial reasons.


You can set healthy boundaries in any way that you'd like.


It make you get to the point of having a nervous breakdown.


The issues can be easily discussed and solved.


Your relationship was very brief and superficial.


"breaking up" with my mom bc she didn't come to my daughter's 1st birthday party bc I wouldn't let her new boyfriend come with

It's understandable to be upset if your parent doesn't come to your child's birthday party.

You have a poor relationship with your parent.


The parent had promised to come, but changed their mind.


Your parent has been deceased for a while.


Your child likes your parent and is asking for them.


They have always been there for their events


It is expected that you take responsibility if you get somebody pregnant.


You pressured her to have unpredicted sex


They have asked you not to be a part of it.


cussing out my in laws and getting us kicked out of their house

It is expected that you are respectful of your in-laws when living in their home.

They're constantly berating you or your spouse.


You want them to respect you as a person.


They are abusive to yourself and others.


Your in-laws are abusive to you or hurtful.


They are helping you out and are kind and loving.


Your in-laws are kind and loving to you.


Your in laws are toxic and don’t like you


getting angry and yelling at my wife for secretly giving me laxatives

Shouting at your partner could encourage neighbors to call the police.

You are cheering them on at a softball game.


You are shouting insults and obscenities.


Your partner has a visible hearing aid and is hard of hearing.


You live in a very quiet neighborhood and your neighbors are easily startled.


The neighbors hear someone crying for help.


There's nobody around for miles to hear.


It's so loud it's keeping them up at night.


You live in a remote rural area and the nearest neighbor is two miles away.


trying to motivate my s.o to lose weight/get healthy

You should take care of your body through diet and exercise.

You cannot physically exercise due to disability.


You are an athlete and want to succeed in the sport.


cutting off the guy I was talking to and one of my best friends

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut people off.

You're an emergency vehicle going to the scene.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut people off.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut people off.

There's an emergency and you have important information for them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut people off.

They're explaining how to do something that you asked them about.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut people off.

They always ask for money and never pay it back


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut people off.

There is an emergency and you have to exit the freeway.


It's okay to want someone out of your life.


They do nothing but undermine you and gossip about you.


They have apologized and changed who they are


Hypothesis: It's good to be on time.

There's inclement weather and you might be risking your life to get there.


Hypothesis: It's good to be on time.


Hypothesis: It's good to be on time.

You are stuck in traffic and have no way in getting there.


Hypothesis: It's good to be on time.

You are look to get a raise from your boss.


It's OK to stick up for yourself if you're getting bullied.

You're trying to teach others to turn the other cheek.


You need to defend yourself from being hurt.


The bully is a psychopath and has weapons and it may make things worse.


You want the bully to stop picking on you long term.


Standing up to bullies will make them stop.


You see others also getting bullied and you can help them by sticking up for yourself.


refusing to do my workaholic boyfriend a favor due to the way he asked me

You shouldn't be snarky with people when asking favors.

This is the fifth favor they've asked for this week.


They already owe you an outstanding debt.


It's for something really extravagant they don't really need.


It's for someone that's done a lot of favors for you.


wanting my mom in the delivery room but telling my dad he can't be

You shouldn't treat one parent differently than the other.

One parent was absent for most of your life


The parents are both involved equally in the care of the child.


Both parents try equally hard to be kind and caring.


not gathering at my deceased uncle's home

It's understandable to be upset about a family members death.


The person was a sister or brother and you were close


stopping talking to my friend because her boyfriend was a dick to me

It's wrong to stop talking to your friend for something their partner did to you.

Their partner tried to cheat with you and your friend didn't believe you.


Your friend is unaware of the situation.


The partner did something very bad to you.


The friend told their partner that they did something wrong.


Your friend supported you during or after.


Your friend thinks their partner didn’t do anything wrong


Your friend refuses to admit their partner did anything wrong.


Your friend tried to broker a peace between you and their partner.


Children should be grateful to parents for everything they have done for them in their lifetime.


Their parents gave up their careers to be full-time caregivers.


The parents left the chidren with their grandparents to raise them.


The children got a lot of love and emotional support from their parents.


They abused them physically or verbally.


They have supported every dream the children had.


That child has suffered abuse from the same parents.


They have children of their own and wish to share those values.


getting my mom evicted/kicked out on purpose

Hypothesis: It is bad to take away someone's needs

You're replacing it with something better.


Hypothesis: It is bad to take away someone's needs


Hypothesis: It is bad to take away someone's needs

They are a prisoner who just got into prison.


Hypothesis: It is bad to take away someone's needs

You're going to replace the item you take with something better.


Hypothesis: It is bad to take away someone's needs

You take steps to make sure they can never replace it.


Hypothesis: It is bad to take away someone's needs

You are trying to develop a trusting relationship.


trying to talk my boyfriend out of getting a dog

Dogs can be a big part of the fun in your life.


You can't afford to properly take care of it.


You have trouble relating to other people.


being annoyed at my girlfriend following her reaction to me not having a full erection during a long period of foreplay

Hypothesis: It is bad to not satisfy your partner


Hypothesis: It is bad to not satisfy your partner


Hypothesis: It is bad to not satisfy your partner

you want to build a strong relationship.


Hypothesis: It is bad to not satisfy your partner

Your partner refuses to try to satisfy you.


Hypothesis: It is bad to not satisfy your partner

You care about your partner and their happiness.


Hypothesis: It is bad to not satisfy your partner

Your partner sets unreasonable standards.


It is okay to be concerned about a family member.


The family member is doing well and is happy.


That family member has abused you for years and you've cut ties with them.


The two of you are very close and they are ill.


Your family member took care of you a lot


watching movies my Wife wants to see without her

It is controlling to determine what someone can do without you.


It is a stranger who you know nothing about.


You're controlling your partner's actions.


refusing to help a friend get her kid to a good school

Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to help a friend.

Your friend is asking you to help them commit robbery at gunpoint.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to help a friend.

Your friend is asking for medical assistance while they're having a severe allergic reaction.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to help a friend.

You are enabling their problem if you help.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to help a friend.

You are capable of providing the help they need.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to help a friend.

Your friend is asking to help get drugs.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to help a friend.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to refuse to help a friend.

The friend asks you to cheat on a test for her.


being pissed at my friend who has been bragging about being high for the past week

It's okay to be angry at someone who is abusing drugs.


The person abusing drugs is being forced to abuse them by someone who has power over them.


The person is victimizing you in order to obtain drugs.


You're abusing drugs and would be a hypocrite.


They are sad and want help for their issues


They have children who don’t understand what is going on


getting really pissed at a friend over money

It is good to not borrow money from friends.

You are desperate and can pay them back later.


You would have difficulty paying them back.


you lost your wallet and you can pay them back via Venmo.


if you do not have the money to pay them back.


not wanting to be in a relationship anymore

It's okay to want out of a relationship.


Your partner is loving and wants to get married


Your partner has already been unfaithful.


You only want out because the person is trying to force you to get help for an addiction.


The person is toxic and the relationship isn't healthy.


You do not have to be close to someone just because they are family.

This family member is your child and there is no one else to take care of him.


You are their custodial parent and they are a child.


They have abused yourself or others in the past.


Your parents raised the family to be close-knit.


Family members have different values and outlooks.


being Glad my stepmother will die before my dad

It's understandable to want your loved ones to live as long as possible.

They're in intense pain and beg you to allowed them to commit assisted suicide.


They're still active and have a good quality of life.


Your loved one has a terminal illness and they request to go through a "death with dignity" procedure.


They are hoping to die soon because of their religious beliefs.


refusing to open my door to a stranger who wouldn't Id herself

You don't have to allow anyone in your home that scares you.


They are trying to break into your house.


The police have a warrant to search your home.


The people at the door do not have identification.


calling in a noise complaint on my landlord for playing music

Calling in a noise complaint on someone is rude


You've asked them politely to be more quiet.


They let you know ahead of time about a weekend party.


You have already asked them once to be quiet.


It is 3:00 A.M. and adults are making the noise.


It is 3:00 P.M. and children are making the noise.


being upset my husband accidentally broke a lamp of mine he thought was ugly

You should not be angry at someone for an accident.


This isn't the first time and you suspect they will do it again.


you specifically advised them not to do something.


You know they were inebriated at the time.


not immediately leaving the room when my roommate came in his his gf

Roommates are expected to respect each other's privacy.


They hear the other roommate fall to the floor, and want to check if that person is okay.


One of the roommates has been stealing and a camera needs to be installed to get proof.


They are in the bathroom taking a shower.


There is a fear the person is in danger or having a medical emergency.


They have asked for privacy specifically.


They suspect their roommate is overdosing in the next room.


They are living in unisex housing and people could be getting undressed.


having my food spilled all over the floor

You should be careful to not spill your food.


You have white carpeting and upholstery.


You want to put some on the ground for a starving animal.


not wanting to buy dog food for my dog after my mother in law promised she'd take care of it herself

It's irresponsible not to take care of you pets.


You are also a veterinarian and people entrust their animals with you.


you hire someone to take care of them for you.


throwing away his ratty socks and underwear

You should always consult with someone before discarding their things.

They're a hoarder and some of their things are biohazards.


They don't have enough money to easily replace anything you throw out by mistake.


They have passed on and did not leave a will.


They said that they were going to come back to pick up their item.


The person has a lot of cherished mementos.


They have said they do not want those things


They have asked you to hold them for you


you are their mother and you bought them new underwear and are throwing the old away.


you don't know what the items are used for.


telling my friend not to date a married man

You shouldn't pry into people's love lives.

you suspect the relationship is abusive.


The person asked you to respect their privacy.


You are trying to help their relationship


They have asked you to respec their privacy


It's understandable to want to protect your child from an ex.


Your ex was consistently the kinder parent and primary caregiver.


Your ex has done no harm and is a loving parent.


mentioning what college my friend got into to my dad

Hypothesis: It is good to be proud of your friends.


Hypothesis: It is good to be proud of your friends.


Hypothesis: It is good to be proud of your friends.

They work hard to make a difference in the world.


Hypothesis: It is good to be proud of your friends.

They have worked hard to achieve something.


cutting off ties with my ex after she ignored me again

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore others.


It's assumed that if you mess with someone, you mess with their whole family.

Their whole family lives in a different country.


They were taken by CPS and are currently in foster care.


Their family is close-knit and all lives in the same area.


going to a food drive for people affected by the shutdown when I don't need to

It's good to give back to the community with food drives.

The community has too much in their food pantry already.


There are many homeless people who need support


Giving away food would cause your own family to go hungry.


At some point you yourself have used a food drive to feed your family.


complaining to Chipotle customer service

It's not okay to complain about a restaurant to try to get something free out of it.

The restaurant really messed up your service.


you are very happy with your food and service.


loudly announcing that a customer's credit card was declined after he ran me ragged while serving he and his date and "posse"

It's expected that someone you give grief to will return it in kind at the first opportunity.


They are just really kind people who are also doormats.


The person you give grief to has a reputation for retaliation.


They're afraid of making a bad impression in front of your mutual boss.


The person lives near to where you live.


It is nice to help your SO with paperwork if they need help doing it.

You hold it over their head later to make them do something for you.


You want them to know that you care about them.


You're extremely busy working eighty hours a week to support the family.


They have trouble reading the language in which the paperwork is written.


not telling my Boyfriend's Mom Information about her Son

You should ask your significant other if it is okay to tell their parents something before doing so.


it's about a surprise party you want to throw for your significant other.


Your significant other has asked you not to talk to their parents without permission.


You know they have a very open and trusting relationship with their parents.


You know their parents punish them very harshly for minor infractions.


yelling at a guy for parking too close? what is too close

Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

You are yelling to prevent an accident from occurring.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

People can hear you when you are speaking in a normal tone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

The man is across the street and he dropped his wallet.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

The person is standing right next to you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

Those people are about to drink poison and you have to make them stop.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

Those people are crying because you just ran over their cat.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

It's the only way they can hear you over a loud noise.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

You're right next to them in a quiet place.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.

They are about to walk into freshly poured concrete.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at people.


no longer wanting to work on my relationship with parents

It is wrong to give up on your loved ones


The child is struggling and is looking for your guidance.


Your loved ones are abusive towards you.


not wanting to hang out with a recently divorced old semi-friend

It's a good idea to try to rekindle old friendships.

The friendship ended beacsue it was toxic.


The friendship ended only because someone moved away.


the old friend was a dangerous person to be around.


the person seems like they've made a good life for themself.


You will be moving to another country for work soon.


wanting friends & family to ask me 1st what I want to eat instead of serving me something I don't like

Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.

Your food preferecnces are based on racial bias.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.

Your preferences are based on dietary restrictions.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.

You are in a 3rd world country and food choices are extremely limited.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.

There is a multitude of foods to choose from.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.

You lie about having celiac disease and make life extremely difficult for anyone who cooks for you.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.

You have potentially life-threatening allergies.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have food preferences.

You are rude to others about what they choose to eat.


sleeping with a friend's ex without telling him

It is scandalous to sleep with a friend's ex.


your friend is very upset about the breakup.


The friend encourages you to form a relationship with their ex.


You know that the ex had a sexually transmitted disease.


The friend broke up with the ex many years ago and doesn't care if you sleep with that person.


Your friend and the ex are in the midst of a messy divorce.


The friend asked you not to sleep with their ex.


not being more considerate of my mums financial situation

You should try to understand your family's situation when it comes to finances.

You are a baby and don't understand the concept of money.


If are a teenager and want your parents to buy you expensive sneakers.


You know they are blowing your inheritance.


you know your mom is a single parent and struggling to pay the bills.


You've already had to sever all ties with your family because they were abusive.


This is a ploy to uncover hidden assets.


trying to stretch out my legs on an airplane

It is ok to get up and stretch on an airplane if it is safe to do so and does not annoy others.


The fasten seat belt sign has been turned off.


You have been sitting down for a long period of time


being extremely pissed at my husband for saving his game file over my game file and now I dont even want to play anymore

It is rude to save over someone else's saved game file.

That person hasn't played the game for three years.


That person spent dozens of hours progressing their game to that point.


The person has been working on the game for a long time.


The person told you you could because he wanted to start over.


The person played a long time to get to a high level and you know they want to continue.


not telling my housemate to wash himself, but also bitching about it

It is reasonable to be upset with someone you live with if they are bitching at you for something they never asked you to change.

You feel you should've known about it anyway because of common sense.


They bitch at everyone for unreasonable things and simply have anger issues.


Common sense dictates you should've done the task without being asked.


It is an unreasonable task to begin with.


There's a chance they have asked you to change and you just missed it.


You don't care about or respect that person so it doesn't matter how they feel.


They are your child and need to show you respect.


They are mad that there is a fleck of dirt in the ice tray.


It's okay for a roommate to move out if that's what they desire.

They sneaked out from not paying this month's rent.


You keep barging into their personal space


It makes others wonder what is wrong with you.


You desire the roommate to move out, too.


They are being overcharged for their room.


They don't give notice or remove their items.


kicking my roommates friend out of my car because she called me an Uber

It is wrong to kick someone out of your car and leave them stranded.


They risk the safety of you and any other passengers.


requesting my gf to change her makeup style

It's wrong to be controlling in a relationship.


Your partner enjoys control and domination.


You are a child and the person is controlling because they are your parent.


A counselor told you to respect each other's space.


potentially screwing a classmate out of a major assignment after he didn't do his work

It is rude to let a classmate fail when you could have helped them.

The teacher explicitly said each student had to work alone or be considered a cheater.


The teacher asked you to help them understand the current lesson.


Your classmate has bullied you and abused you.


You knew about your classmate's problems and they had asked you for help too.


The classmate is irresponsible and didn't help themselves.


The student didn't understand the material.


Smoking weed is legal in many places, it is close minded to be angry at someone for doing it.

they are blowing their smoke in your face intentionally.


they are smoking responsibly and not harming those around them.


They are smoking indoors in public places.


They are blowing it directly in your face.


They are blowing it in your face and you don't like the smell.


You're outside and keeping it to yourself.


They are smoking weed to help with chronic pain.


Hypothesis: It's good to forgive.


Hypothesis: It's good to forgive.

The person committed a small crime, such as eating the candy bar you had left on the desk.


Hypothesis: It's good to forgive.

The person committed a serious crime against you.


Hypothesis: It's good to forgive.

The person who wronged you acknowledged and corrected their mistake.


Hypothesis: It's good to forgive.

The other person has not expressed any remorse.


Hypothesis: It's good to forgive.

The other person has cheated you out of your life savings and you are homeless.


Hypothesis: It's good to forgive.

The other person is a loving family member.


It's good to act as if your supervisor can see you while you are working.

Your supervisor doesn't care how you get things done as long as you do them.


Your supervisor is overly critical and cruel.


Your eyes need to be on your own trainee.


People are expected to want to be social.


They accepted an invitation to a social gathering.


they have recently been through a trauma.


they are attending events hosted by a club they are a member of.


stealing a cab from a couple with a baby at the airport

Hypothesis: It's rude to steal a cab.


Hypothesis: It's rude to steal a cab.


Hypothesis: It's rude to steal a cab.

You're desperate to get someone who's bleeding out to the hospital.


Hypothesis: It's rude to steal a cab.

You are in an emergency and need to get to the hospital.


Hypothesis: It's rude to steal a cab.

You hurt the driver when you stole the cab.


Hypothesis: It's rude to steal a cab.

You're a secret agent trying to catch a terrorist.


It is wrong to control what a partner does with their body.

The action affects both people's bodies.


The topic of control pertains to personal medical decisions.


They are telling them what they can and cannot wear.


The partner is exercising his individuality.


Your partner is mentally unable to make decisions.


not wanting my partners friend to stay over as much

You have a right not to want other people in your home too much.


you have children and they need quiet time


You are sick and have a compromised immune system.


They live there and have nowhere else to go.


You are sick and don't want them to catch it.


They have previously let you stay at their home


You are an introvert and people give you anxiety.


rejecting a friend and then ghosting our friendship

Sometimes it's okay for a relationship to end that really needs to.

Ending the relationship will put you in physical danger.


The person in the relationship with you is abusing you.


You live in the Phillappines where divorce is illegal.


Abuse or infidelity is present in the relationship.


It's okay to end a relationship that is no longer working for you

You are the caretaker and they have a terminally ill disease.


The person was just diagnosed with cancer after you spent ten years together.


You're in high school and too young for anything really serious.


You are in an arranged marriage in a 3rd world country.


There is abuse or infidelity in the relationship.


you want to stay married until your kids are grown.


It's fine to accept something that is offered for free.


There are strings attached, like sitting through a high-pressure sales pitch for a time share.


You're in desperate need of assistance because you're too sick to work.


You know they other person can't afford it.


Somebody else has a bigger need for it than you.


"stealing my buddy's girl" and refusing to speak to him anymore

You should not stop talking to your friend because you are now seeing the girl that was your friend's girlfriend.


Your friend is trying to take your girl.


Your friend has your best interests in mind.


You have known your friend longer than his ex girlfriend.


your friend is extremely upset with you because you started seeing her before they broke up.


Your friend is supportive of you seeing the girl.


It is okay to not speak to people who have wronged you.

You have to work with them as part of your job.


One of you has a restraining order against the other.


You are trying to remove toxic people from your life.


You work with them or they are your romantic partner.


You like to maintain healthy boundaries.


asking my girlfriend to give me more attention in social situations than other people

It's not okay to want to monopolize all of someone's time that we care about.

It is for a short time and one of you is moving away.


They want to spend time with other friends, too.


You're trying to keep that person from hurting themself.


It's okay to be upset if someone at work has an unfair advantage because they slept with a boss.


They got promoted when you have better qualifications.


suggesting that is would be acceptable for my wife to agree for a photographer to use some faceless erotic photos she has done of her in her portfolio

Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to have nude photos.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to have nude photos.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to have nude photos.

You live in a sexually liberated community.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to have nude photos.

You are in a consenting relationship with another adult.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to have nude photos.

You're sending them as a valentines gift.


wanting to split a hotel bill fairly, even if one of the occupants is a kid

Hypothesis: It's okay to want to split a bill.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to split a bill.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to split a bill.

The person you're with makes about as much money as you do.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to split a bill.

The meal was complimentary to start with.


keeping my MIL very distanced from our family

You should protect your family, even from other family members who are toxic.


You know they could be harmed by those family members.


You need to be away from your family to be okay.


You have guardianship of the family needing protection.


You are in an emergency and have no other options.


Those family members have hurt you or your family before.


Most doctors and therapists disagree with you about who's toxic.


Those family members are too timid to stand up for themselves.


not telling my mom that my grandfather passed away because I knew she wanted some of the estate

It is not okay to withhold important information.


Telling the person would cause them great pain.


That information is about an important upcoming deadline.


being annoyed/making fun of someones proposal

You shouldn't make fun of other's ideas.


The ideas you're making fun of have been stole nfrom you.


They are already making fun of the ideas and you're just having fun together.


You know they are serious about their ideas.


They have tried the same idea and failed


You are joking around with your friends.


The ideas are expressed in a business meeting.


telling my S/o that PETA kills animals when she was upset after watching a lot of their videos

It's rude to do things that upset your partner.

Your partner is upset over trivial things.


Your partner has asked you to avoid doing some things that are distressing.


your partner is unrealistic about things.


your partner tries to always be nice to you.


You are divorcing your partner after they cheated on you.


Your partner gets upset by unreasonable things, like you having a business lunch with someone of the opposite gender.


You go out of your way to irritate them.


You are physically or mentally defending yourself or your values.


not buying anything for my 19 year old brothers birthday

It is expected to buy gifts for a family member's birthday.

You are experiencing a financial hardship.


They have given you gifts for your own birthday.


The person has asked for small cheap gifts.


You always exchange birthday gifts with family members.


It's bad for you addiction to bother the people you live with.


Your addiction involves drug dealers coming over


The addiction is used to show that having an addiction is bad to others to see.


Your addiction is a bothersome and costly for others.


They are responsible for starting you on it in the first place.


Your addiction is to something minor like coffee.


Your addiction is to something major like cocaine.


wanting to pull my daughter out of preschool

Parents should send their children to school to get a proper education.

One of them can provide a better education through homeschooling.


The parent is capable of homeschooling them better than public school.


The child wants to become a doctor when they get older.


The parents are home schooling their children.


The children have been absent for a while.


Parents know the local schools are violent and harsh and feel educating their kids at home would be healthier.


They wish to raise good, law-abiding citizens who contribute to society.


You shouldn't hurt your significant other.


You hurt them by getting away from them if they are dangerous.


It isn't necessary and you care about them.


You want to maintain a healthy relationship.


Your significant other has hurt you or your child.


Your significant other is bedbound and ill.


telling my boyfriend he can't adopt a cat that looks identical to mine *that died 3 weeks ago

It is acceptable to be hurt after losing a pet.


you were the cause of the pet going away.


The pet was taken from you by animal control.


not wanting to talk to my mom, her husband anf my half brothers

It's perfectly fine to cut relatives out of your life that you don't like

It is a relative that has been good and supportive to you.


The relative have taken advantage of you.


Those relatives are responsible for taking care of you.


they are rich and you are in their will.


It is your young child that you are responsible to care for.


It is a distant relative that you don't see often.


You shouldn't butt your nose into your parent's relationships.


They have asked you to mind your business.


You are trying to prevent them from being scammed


You don't know all of the details of the relationship


Your parents relationship is affecting you personally.


Your parents don't live anywhere near you.


It will have an affect on your home life.


watching a movie with gay characters with 11-year-old I babysit without asking her parents

You should be careful what you show to kids.


You're at a children's museum where all the exhibits are pre-vetted.


You're in the adult section of the public library.


The parents are free reign and don't shelter their kids.


They are young and the content is inappropriate.


Hypothesis: It's rude to judge other's diets.

They are forcing you to eat what they eat.


Hypothesis: It's rude to judge other's diets.


Hypothesis: It's rude to judge other's diets.

You are the one who told others to go on diets.


not wanting my fiancé to create a YouTube channel or Vlog with our kids in it

It's okay to be concerned about your children being exposed online.

your children are adults and they can handle their own affairs.


your children are very young and not very responsible.


They have frequent access to the internet.


using AITA to make my partner aware that they are in fact an a

It is good to help your loved ones increase their self awareness

You yourself are also not very self aware.


They have asked you to help them become more self aware.


You offer a lot of support and encouragement at the same time.


getting depression due to how little I got to be in my Son's life

You should spend more time with your children.

Your children want to have more independence.


You know they're growing up and this time is precious.


You are doing the best you can and don't have time due to working several jobs.


You find out you are dying and don't have much time left.


they want you to play games as a family.


ending a friendship whilst on holiday with them

It's bad to end a relationship with someone while on vacation with them.

They were completely disrespectful to you.


They are the ones who paid for the trip.


You are stuck with the same return travel plans.


Continuing the vacation with them would be dangerous to you or a loved one.


They are a nice, sensitive person and the two of you are just incompatible.


You catch them cheating on you during the vacation.


telling my Girlfriends daughter, that her dad kinda sucks because he and his new family went to Disneyland without her

It's reasonable to disparage a child's parent when they excluded the child from a trip to Disneyland.


The child him/herself is a nerd and didn't want to go.


The child really wanted to see Mickey Mouse and his siblings got to go.


The child is really sick and could infect other people.


They had been promising to take them for a very long time.


The child went to Universal theme park instead.


keeping some of my roommates money when she moves

If someone has damaged your property, you can require them to pay the cost.

The property is illegal, so you can't appeal to the police to make them pay.


They were trespassing and didn't have permission to use the property.


They were avoiding another accident and ran into your property because of it


A flaw in your property caused the person to damage it.


The person's carelessness caused the damage.


The damage was done by a natural disaster.


telling my future MIL that she can't see her future grandchildren

It is expected that a mother protects her children from bad influences.


She gives the children up for adoption when they are born.


She is a good mother who is involved with her children.


I can't think of a situation where it wouldn't be appropriate.


Her children's friends do illicit substances.


attempting to confront my wife's lover and trespassing in his home

It's bad to go into someone else's home without their permission.


They've told you not to come to their house.


You're a firefighter and see smoke coming out of the house.


You are a police officer with a warrant.


You have no legitimate reason to be there.


being tired of sleeping on the couch with my son

Sleeping on a couch for several days isn't good.

You've been sleeping on the streets prior.


The couch is very large and lushly padded.


You're older and your back gets sore easily.


You've been kicked out of your own house.


It is expected that not all roommates will like the same things inside of the living area.

The roommates have the same interest and likes.


The roommates grew up in different cultures from each other.


They come from different cultural backgrounds.


Everyone is totally chill with each other


Your roommates come from different cultures


opening the women's restroom door to tell my female co-workers the building is on FIRE

It is rude to open the restroom door when someone is in there.


You can hear them screaming for help from inside.


You can see they're inside by their jacket hanging up.


You're a paramedic and they're having a heart attack.


It is expected that people will laugh when jokes are made


You're at a sitcom taping and there is a "laugh" sign lit up.


thinking nobody should wear earbuds in public

It is strange if someone is offended by someone wearing earbuds.

The person wearing headphones is in class when a teacher is speaking


That person is a teacher giving a lecture.


The person is on the bus minding their own business as they listen to the quiet music.


They are wearing them at an important work meeting.


They are in the break room on their lunch break.


It is class time, and they are your student.


dating/trying to get with 3 women casually? I haven't lied to anyone but I'm not super experienced on when something is exclusive or not

You should establish expectations in a relationship.


Your partner is crossing your boundaries.


you have a partner that gives you more than you need.


You have no expectations because this is your first relationship.


criticizing a very cheap written product I bought

You shouldn't buy products that are really cheaply made.


You are using them to prove how cheap they are.


You intend to use them in an art project.


moving in with my cousin instead of my mother and step-father

It is expected to prioritize your parents over other family.

Your parents neglected you so badly your safety was at risk.


causing a scene at my girlfriend's place of work because a creepy, old "professional photographer" wanted us to come over to his place so he could take pictures of her face

It's creepy to try to get close to someone who is in a relationship.


You are only interested in a professional relationship with them.


They have a restraining order against you.


The relationship is open to other people.


You know the person is in a relationship.


It's wrong to be mean to your struggling friend.


You are at a comedy roast of them and it is your turn to make jokes.


Your friend has asked you to play a role with them.


not reacting well to my friend being pregnant for the the 3rd time and still lives on state aid

It's expected that you support your children financially.


they are financially able to support themselves.


they are young and are unable to make money.


They are adults and have been cared for and educated so they can be responsible for themselves.


They have special health needs that require them to have care even when they're grown.


You don't want to have them taken away from you.


They have already moved out on their own.


giving my friend edibles on top of her first LSD trip

Hypothesis: You should protect your friends.


Hypothesis: You should protect your friends.

They are being bullied by someone bigger than them.


Hypothesis: You should protect your friends.


Hypothesis: You should protect your friends.

Your friends are victimizing or bullying someone else.


Hypothesis: You should protect your friends.

They are being attacked or hurt by someone.


Hypothesis: You should protect your friends.

Your friends commit a horrible violent crime.


Hypothesis: You should protect your friends.

Your friends commit a trivial infraction like shop-lifting or vandalism.


telling a nice old lady to leave my classroom

You should always be kind to the elderly.


They are cranky old snowbirds who are rude and entitled.


An old person yells at you because of your skin color


An old person always treats you with respect


You have the opportunity to help them, like reading small print.


consentually "copying" homework and getting graded for it

Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy others.

You are all Rockettes and you are supposed to look alike and do the same dance steps.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy others.

You are a songwriter and you could get sued for copying someone else's music.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy others.

You don't know how to act in a social situation.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy others.

Others are setting good examples to follow.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't copy others.

They show poor manners and bad ettiquette.


confronting my brother after he and his girlfriend trashed my room

It's okay to want to stick up for yourself and your belongings from family.

Your family members bought you your belongings.


They have physically or verbally abused you.


Your family pays for everything and you're an adult


You have shown you are unable to take care of yourself.


You are the one who is wrong and you are gas-lighting those around you.


You are being victimized by someone who is supposed to protect you.


warning a guy about his terrible girlfriend

Letting someone know about their partner being awful can help them find out about more issues before the relationship progresses.


You recognize signs of abuse having had been in a relationship like that


The person doesn't care what you have to say.


The person already knows about their partner.


The person has no idea what their partner is like.


They've specifically asked for you not to interfere.


You know they'd be devastated if you kept a secret from them.


This will help them see who the person really is


It's wrong to leave someone for someone else.


Hypothesis: Snooping on someone is wrong.

They have stolen items from you while in your house.


Hypothesis: Snooping on someone is wrong.


Hypothesis: Snooping on someone is wrong.

Someone is relaxing at home and minding their own business.


being annoyed that my friend always expects me to sit her dog for free

It is bad to expect favors free of charge.


They are do the favors out of the goodness of their hearts


Someone offers to do a favor for nothing.


YOu know the value of the favor is high and kept someone from having time to earn money.


telling my pastor that I don't want to be drowned in oil during prayer because of acne issues

Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to get dirty.

you're cleaning something up and it requires getting down in the dirty.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to get dirty.


sending an inappropriate masochistic 9/11 joke to a sensitive friend

Hypothesis: Jokes should be funny.


Hypothesis: Jokes should be funny.


Hypothesis: Jokes should be funny.

the entire point of a joke is to be funny or it's not a joke


reducing contact with friends who excluded some of our group from a trip

It's good to want to protect your friends.


Your friends are violent career criminals.


Your friends are young and rather naive.


pointing out things that were wrong with a Madoka and Homura cosplay

It is rude to point out errors in someone's work.

They frequently make mistakes on the job


The errors don’t affect anything in the big picture


You helped create the errors in the first place.


It was pointed out before a big presentation.


It was pointed out during the presentation.


They asked you for constructive criticism.


They're presenting to a large group of external clients.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have casual sex.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have casual sex.

You are willfully infecting others with STI's.


being mad at my husband because he doesn't want to have sex in front of our infant daughter

It's wrong to be mad with someone when they are just doing the moral thing to do.


They risked their career to do the right thing.


'Doing the moral thing' seriously hurts you or the people you care about.


They're saving people who are seriously suffering.


they voted to remove the president from office.


Someone hurts another person doing the moral thing.


The person is helping other by doing a moral thing.


It's wrong to break the rules that you know are in place.

Breaking the rule save a person from harm.


The rules are in place to keep people safe.


Those rules will lead you to harming yourself or someone else.


Those rules are unjust, like the Jim Crow laws.


Those rules are important to protect people, like storing meat at 40 degree Fahrenheit or below.


getting mad at my mom for not cooking dinner

It's okay to be upset with someone if they didn't do something that is expected.


You know they couldn't do it because they became ill.


The situation changed without your knowledge.


they had a family emergency that prevented them from doing it for you.


they promised and signed an agreement to have it done.


not wanting to be friends with people I'd date

When you break up with someone, it's okay if you do not want to maintain a friendship with them.


They are a good person and want to be friends


They cheated on you with your best friend


You were good friends for years before you started dating.


You had an especially acrimonious breakup.


You work together and have to interact on a daily basis.


asking my friend to not play certain songs

Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

There is a fire and they need to be pulled out of bed abruptly.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

It is something you strongly believe in.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

It is causing a strain on your relationship with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

They annoy you and you have a history of playing pranks on each other.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

They're already really stressed after a bad day at work.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't annoy your friends.

That is how you get along with your friends and make them laugh


bringing my own food when my gf cooks for me

You should eat food that is given to you.


You have already eaten and are not hungry.


The person has spent all day cooking for you.


You know the food has gone bad or been poisoned.


You are  a guest in someone's home at mealtime.


It is wrong to show someone's personal correspondence without permission.


You're showing it as evidence in a trial.


They've asked for the conversation to remain private.


You know them so well that you know they don't care about the person you're showing it to.


You know they are a very private person and would be hurt.


They are discussing doing something illegal or dangerous and you need to get help for them.


You have a trusting relationship with this person.


asking my boyfriend to return my Valentine's day gift

You shouldn't gift someone something that you might want back


It is a gift they are really excited about receiving.


They have offered to share the gift with you.


You know the gift will be important to them and not something they will want to let go of.


They are your brother or sister and you can use the item whenever you like.


The item is a rare family ring that you want to use to propose to your future spouse.


You know they will give you something you really love


avoiding conversation and ignoring a person

Hypothesis: It's bad to ignore someone.


Hypothesis: It's bad to ignore someone.

They are showing signs of mental illness.


Hypothesis: It's bad to ignore someone.


Hypothesis: It's bad to ignore someone.

They are deliberately trying to annoy you.


Hypothesis: It's bad to ignore someone.

They're a classmate you've never spoken to.


asking a stranger to not publicly berate his girlfriend

Hypothesis: It's rude to berate anyone in public.


Hypothesis: It's rude to berate anyone in public.


Hypothesis: It's rude to berate anyone in public.

The person you are berating is wearing a KKK robe.


Hypothesis: It's rude to berate anyone in public.

The person you are berating is a small child.


Hypothesis: It's rude to berate anyone in public.

It is a public protest about a public official.


Hypothesis: It's rude to berate anyone in public.

The matter is personal and embarrassing.


getting mad at my ex for allowing guy friends to "jokingly" slap her butt

It's wrong to let male friends slap your butt.


You are married and they are not your husband.


it is something done playfully and not against someones will.


they are doing it to sexually harass you.


It's something you enjoy, because we don't kink shame.


Your partner feels uncomfortable with them doing it.


racking the weights the guy next to me was using repeatedly

Hypothesis: It is rude to hog equipment at the gym.

You are taking a class and need the equipment for the duration of the class.


Hypothesis: It is rude to hog equipment at the gym.

There is a line of people waiting for the equipment.


Hypothesis: It is rude to hog equipment at the gym.

They gym is empty and you are by yourself.


Hypothesis: It is rude to hog equipment at the gym.


Hypothesis: It is rude to hog equipment at the gym.

There is ample equipment there and the gym is quite empty.


Hypothesis: It is rude to hog equipment at the gym.

The gym is crowded with people waiting to use it too.


Hypothesis: It is rude to hog equipment at the gym.

There is a line waiting to use the machine.


not letting my boyfriend use my car anymore

People are expected to be generous with others.

They have nothing else to give but themselves.


They have invited them into their homes.


they have very little to give to begin with.


the others have a history of open generosity.


blocking my ex-girlfriend from social media, even though we have nothing against each other atm

You shouldn't block people from social media for no reason.


They are repeat offenders of trolling with harmful or abusive comments.


They are related to you and will spoil a birthday surprise that you posted online.


They work for a charitable organization that helps many people.


The person you blocked cares a lot for you.


asking my wife to hold the Baby while I Pee

Hypothesis: It is okay to need help in parenting.

You are a two-parent household with both people unemployed.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need help in parenting.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need help in parenting.

Your shortcomings as a parent harm the child.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need help in parenting.

There just isn't a time when it isn't ok to need help with parenting.


It is not good to take things from your parents

Your parents are starving you and you need to steal food from the kitchen in order to survive.


They have left the house early and you need it to pay for lunch.


Your parents have little in the way of resources.


they want you to remove all of your old clothes from their house after you moved out.


snapping at a friend for posting a naked dead man on Snapchat

It is reasonable to be mad at your friend if they post pictures of dead people on Snapchat.


The dead people are unknown and needed to be identified.


They make fun off the dead people with sick jokes.


They know the pictures will cause you distress


The dead people are family members they are remembering.


They are posting it without permission and the images don't belong to them.


getting upset at my mom for doing as she pleased with my donation

It's okay to get upset at people who abuse your money.


You voluntarily gave them authorization to use your credit cards and don't revoke it.


They are being trusted to care and provide for you and you entrust them with your money.


They're your young children and you have a responsibility to provide for them.


They're your thirty-year-old adult children who're making no effort to find a job.


You asked the people to spend your money how they saw fit.


You also abuse their money the same way.


You have asked them to stop abusing your money.


making my girlfriend choose me or her Housemate

You shouldn't force your partner to choose between you and someone else.

They cheated on you with that other person


You know they love you and not the other person


Your partner no longer wants to be in an open relationship.


The person your partner is involved with cares for them a lot


The other person is your partner's sibling


The other person is harmful and you cannot co exist with them.


calling out people arguing on reddit as both being assholes, then subsequently Karma Whoring it here

It's okay to want to farm Internet points on forums.


Doing so will affect other’s experience on the site


You make a living selling forum profiles.


You are trolling others to get those points.


If you helping others with comments and humor.


posting about how uncomfortable a photographer made me

It is rude to talk badly about someone else online.

You are leaving a negative review for a business that ripped you off.


You are an adult saying something bad about a teenager.


They are talking badly all over the internet.


They are not there to defend themselves.


you're both just being silly cutting each other down for laughs


You know they're doing the best they can and will be hurt by your words.


You're a paid celebrity gossip reporter.


You're friends with the person you're talking about.


getting mad at my boyfriend for not really getting me a Christmas present

It's understandable to be upset if your significant other doesn't buy you a Christmas gift.


You agreed to not exchange gifts this year.


Your significant other is an anticapitalist


You got your significant other a very expensive gift they wanted for a year


You're both unemployed and your budget is extremely tight.


You had both talked about it beforehand.


asking somebody to stop saying stuff like "God bless you" to me

You shouldn't be offended by a harmless phrase.

The person who said it wanted it to be harmful to you.


The phrase is demeaning to a group of people.


avoiding a friend because they are really negative

Hypothesis: It's wrong to avoid your friends.

Your friends are trying to break your sobriety


Hypothesis: It's wrong to avoid your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to avoid your friends.

you are working on an important project.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to avoid your friends.

You are dealing with anxiety and depression.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to avoid your friends.

You have done something wrong and need to apologize.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to avoid your friends.

They are trying to do a wellness check to make sure you are okay.


You should work with your friend to repair a friendship that has suffered.


Your friend committed a crime against you.


You have both said mean things to each other.


Your friend doesn't want to meet you half way.


There's a chance the source of the dispute might have been a misunderstanding.


You shouldn't refuse to do things with your parents.

They are being unreasonable and demanding.


Your parents are going to move to another country soon


Your parents want you to drink when you are underage.


You are getting together with other family members.


Your parents make efforts to be kind and loving.


They are willing to pay for those things.


not telling my friend I hate doing something that she loves to do together with me

It's understandable to not want to do tell your friends something that could hurt them.

They need to turn themselves into the authorities.


Your friend has been through a lot lately.


It is something that could make their life better.


You broke a glass plate that their grandmother passed down to them.


The reward from telling them would do them more good overall despite hurting them.


Telling them would only cause pain and nothing good at all.


being mad my bf lied about being a virgin

Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about being a virgin.

You need to make people think you're a virgin for your safety.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about being a virgin.

You're in a committed relationship with someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about being a virgin.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about being a virgin.

If you are caught cheating by your spouse.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie about being a virgin.

Someone won't stop asking you about your sex life.


calling my friends gf a coke addict after being told she did cocaine

It's bad to be unsupportive when someone needs help overcoming a struggle.

they refuse to acknowledge their problem.


They want to feel that they can do it on their own.


The person that is struggling is rude to you.


The person that is struggling previously helped you with an issue that you had.


not wanting to/being ready to date a friend in a group and expecting the group to stay friends

Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to date a friend.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to date a friend.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to date a friend.

You don't want it to ruin your friendship with them.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to date a friend.

The friend has expressed interest in dating people.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want to date a friend.

The friend is in a monogamous relationship.


It's understandable to not want to be around someone who is always sad.

You are a therapist and they are your patient.


You're trying to be a supportive friend.


They are your grandmother who is suffering from dementia.


You are suffering from depression and get triggered easily.


wanting to lay down and rest after getting home from the hospital

Hypothesis: Rest is important for your health.

The doctor tells you that you need to be more active.


Hypothesis: Rest is important for your health.


Hypothesis: Rest is important for your health.

The person has been working two shifts at work all week.


Hypothesis: Rest is important for your health.

You already spend most of the day sitting.


Hypothesis: Rest is important for your health.

You have several very intense workout sessions each week.


pulling away from a struggling, ex-military friend/roommate that's really hard to live with

Hypothesis: You should help out ex-military.


Hypothesis: You should help out ex-military.


Hypothesis: You should help out ex-military.

You know that they did something terrible in secret.


Hypothesis: You should help out ex-military.

They are wounded or injured and have a tough time on their own.


Hypothesis: You should help out ex-military.

They are faking their disability to get money from the government.


Hypothesis: You should help out ex-military.

They have become disabled due to combat injuries.


always thinking I could possibly do better

It's good to set your expectations higher.

You get high anxiety by making the expectations unattainable.


Your expectations are unreasonably high.


you are just setting yourself up for imminent failure.


if have had too low of expectations in the past and it hasn't turned out well.


You're dealing with a very bad situation.


trying to avoid people associating me with a certain 'friend' of mine

Hypothesis: You shouldn't avoid people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't avoid people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't avoid people.

A deadly disease is spreading in the community.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't avoid people.

There is an accident and people need you to perform CPR.


refusing to help a friend get her kid to a good school

It's okay to not want to help your friend's children.


You're extremely uncomfortable around kids.


Your friend uses you for unpaid daycare.


Your friends always helped you with your kids


They are using you because they aren’t responsible enough to have kids of their own


The children's parents are supportive and loving.


You are not experienced in raising children.


It's expected that men should protect women.


The women are better equipped with clothing and weapons to protect people.


The men are better equipped with clothing and weapons to protect people.


Those women have special needs and can't care for themselves.


You should care more about your friends.


You want to build better relationships with them


It's bad to slander your ex out of spite.


It is just a joke and they think it's funny.


You slander them to strangers far away who don't know them or remotely care about their reputation.


You slander them to the child you had together.


canceling my trip with my family to go home

Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

you have family members with debilitating conditions.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

The family is going through a rough time.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

Your family has always turned their back on you.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

Your family has always shown you support and love.


You should always spend time with your family.

You live miles apart and are not able to visit often.


The time goes by fast and the kids are growing up.


Your family refuses to respect your religion


It's natural act unlike yourself in a precarious life or death situation.


You have never faced anything like that before.


It is what you were trained to deal with.


It is your first time dealing with the situation.


letting a student get away with some justified bullying

You don't have to intervene in any situation that you don't want to be part of.


You don't know the people in the situation.


Your friend is dealing with an addiction.


The situation involves a close family member being hurt


You gain nothing from interfering either good or bad


saying "I didn't have time to miss you" when I was double studying med school

It's inconsiderate to tell people you value your degree over their friendship.


Your degree is not a real degree but something you bought off of Ebay.


People supported you through your school years.


You don't want to lose the person as a friend.


They are toxic and you are trying to cut them out of your life.


They have been supportive of you during your education.


telling my sister to waive her parental rights

Hypothesis: Families should stay together.


Hypothesis: Families should stay together.

they can't afford to split up and live alone.


Hypothesis: Families should stay together.


Hypothesis: Families should stay together.

The parents always fight in front of the children.


Hypothesis: Families should stay together.

The family members make each other stronger.


kicking out a drug addict from our house

Hypothesis: It's wrong to do drugs.

You are an adult making an informed decision on what to do with your own mind and body.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to do drugs.

You are using them to escape your problems.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to do drugs.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to do drugs.

They are legally prescribed drugs and your doctor told you to take them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to do drugs.

You are following doctor's orders carefully.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to do drugs.

You took the drugs from someone else's medicine cabinet.


demanding higher pay than a disabled colleague of mine

It is okay to demand the pay that you are worth.


You're working at a wall street company.


You are applying for a volunteer position.


You have skills that are in high demand.


You're just starting out and haven't made a name for yourself yet.


You know they will not pay you what you're worth unless you ask for more.


You just started a job and rocking the boat could get you fired.


You have many medical bills to pay and need the money.


asking my roommate to get a handle on his lose hair in the apartment

It's gross when people leave detritus from their body for other people to find.

It's from a crime scene and can help to catch the criminal.


The person is in your house and you don't know them well.


They are physically capable of picking it up.


They are someplace where it is easy to clean up.


They're leaving at the doctor's office for labs.


they leave their fingernail clippings around for their roommates to clean up.


They're leaving a sample for medical testing.


They leave it on the toilet in a public bathroom.


not risking my job so you have a shot at a sale

People are expected to want to have a job.


Technology develops to the point that robots outperform humans at most tasks.


only serving vegetarian meals at my wedding

it is considerate to cater to different diets and food preferences at a wedding


Everyone spent a lot of money to come to your wedding


You just want to not spend a lot of money


You know everyone coming has different diets


You don't have enough money to pull it off.


The bride and groom are spending  a lot of money on the wedding.


Friends shouldn't ask friends to break rules.


your friend could get in trouble for doing so.


The rules are making life dangerous for people.


you want to keep honesty in the friendship


It is the only way to solve a important problem


telling my mom off for mistreating her pets

Hypothesis: You shouldn't treat your pets poorly.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't treat your pets poorly.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't treat your pets poorly.

They are injured and cannot defend themselves.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't treat your pets poorly.

You consider yourself to be part of the human race.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't treat your pets poorly.

You dog attacked and caused a child to be hospitalized.


wanting my roommate to give up peanut butter

It's okay to put your health and safety first.


You don't know the people who want you to sacrifice for them


You are a military person ordered to defend your country.


You are recovering from or fighting an illness or disease.


You're a firefighter and need to rescue those in peril.


Someone else is attacking you and threatening your life.


Your safety depends on restricting other people's civil liberties.


Your health is starting to suffer because of the stress of caring for others.


confronting my gf with a condom found in her trash

If you suspect your girlfriend is cheating on you it is smart to ask her about it.

You think your girlfriend will delete all evidence about their cheating.


You want your relationship with your girlfriend to work out.


You know that she will get mad and lie to you.


You think it is best to end the relationship.


She's in the middle of a meeting at work.


You've seen her in person kissing another guy.


posting a joke on Facebook, that is obviously a joke to those that know me personally

It's wrong to post possibly offensive jokes on Facebook.


You are trying to make someone with a crude sense of humor laugh.


Your audience is sensitive to certain subjects.


You have young children on your facebook.


You post them in private to people who won't get offended or share them further.


You post them on the pages of groups who are very likely to be annoyed.


not wanting to invite my parents to my wedding because I know they don't approve of our relationship because we're legally sisters

It is wrong to exclude family from important events.

Those family members will cause trouble at those events


They live too far away and would not be able to make it.


Your family members helped pay for the event.


kicking a white male author out of a writing club because his story came off as sexist

It's okay to kick someone out of a place if they are being rude or offensive.


They are a threat to others in the space


They are bigger than you and might beat you up for it.


They are causing harm to others and don't care at all.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

You already signed a contract locking you into one option.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

You undercover new information that undermines your previous decision.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

Someone is counting on you to be there for them.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

You are choosing a different color paint.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

It would result in someone being harmed.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

It's about something of little consequence.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

You are giving a witness testimony in court.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

Someone presented you with research disproving one of your beliefs.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

Someone else is depending on you to stay committed.


Hypothesis: It's okay to change your mind.

Your original decision was not the right one for you.


teaching sex education to my younger cousin sister

There are usually places in any country where it's allowed to engage in sexual activities with non-immediate family members.


The non-immediate family member is underage.


asking my parents to help me pay rent whilst I housesit for them

You should be able to pay for your own rent.


You want to be independent and not a burden to anyone.


ghosting someone until he broke up with me

You shouldn't coerce someone into breaking up with you.


You know it's the only way you'll ever get away from them.


You really want to stay together you just want more time alone.


You started the relationship that very day.


telling my friend who hooked up with a guy who is a senior and leaving soon to not get too attached

You should show empathy to a friend's situation.


You feel your friend will take advantage of your caring and hurt you.


Your friend is kind and mature and you want to help and grow your bond.


They have treated you poorly in the past.


They put other people's lives in danger.


You are dealing with your own emotional problems.


wishing that all people who get behind the wheel or under the influence of any kind of drugs or narcotics would actually die while driving so that they don't ever risk hurting another innocent person

You should never wish harm on someone else.


You're just jealous of what they've accomplished.


Your life is in danger from that person.


You follow a religion with The Golden Rule at heart.


telling my Ex's roommates they are bad friends

You should be selective about who you live with.

there are only a couple apartments available.


You don't have any choice and it's cold outside.


You know the person you would be living with is a thief or does drugs.


snapping at my boyfriend for talking over me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't interrupt people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't interrupt people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't interrupt people.

It's your boss talking to you about something important.


taking my son to a homeless shelter because he wouldn't get a job

Parent should sanction their children's laziness.


The children are able to keep their grades up with minimal effort.


Their children are starting to fail in school.


being upset and sad that my boyfriend went on a vacation with his female roommate

It is expected to vacation with your partner.


Your partner has the same time off that you do.


You do not have the funds to take a vacation.


getting pissed at someone whilst checking out at the store

Hypothesis: People are expected to get along.


Hypothesis: People are expected to get along.


Hypothesis: People are expected to get along.

They are in a race and are competing against each other.


Hypothesis: People are expected to get along.

They are on the same baseball team and need to work together to win.


Hypothesis: People are expected to get along.

They are from different political parties


One should be generous with their possessions.


You have many possessions and loads of money.


You lost almost everything you own to a natural disaster or a fire.


You want other people to be generous in return.


You are poor and need your possessions to survive.


requesting my doctor's office set up guest WiFi

You should let customers offer suggestions for your office.

The office is highly internalized and private.


The office deals with the public sector.


The customers have no knowledge and experience.


The costumers make better suggestions than others.


Their suggestions end up costing the office too much money.


Their ideas help bring other clients to the office.


The only suggestions are obscene jokes from teenagers.


You've previously implemented some of their suggestions and seen jumps in sales.


talking to my fiancee's friend about my fiancee's new self-harming habit

It's rude to talk with a one person about another person's problem

That person is a trusted person, like your therapist.


They asked you to get somebody else's opinion for them.


The person confided in you their problem.


You're a therapist conferring with the person's psychiatrist.


You're gossiping with people the person doesn't know.


going to my ex boyfriends house to get money he owed me

It's understandable to want to be paid back the money you lent someone.


You let the person know you needed the money for rent.


They are homeless and have no job prospects.


They make ten times your salary and will get paid in a week.


The person has just lost everything they own.


They signed an agreement to pay you back.


The person lost their job and cannot pay you back right now.


The person said they would pay you back quickly.


not wanting to share my things with housemate

You should share things with your housemates.


They do not show care for your belongings.


They always lose things and get them dirty


Your housemates are irresponsible and damage things carelessly.


They share their things with you and are responsible.


ghosting someone and not telling them I miscarried their baby

It's ok to end a relationship if it's not working for you.


you are running away from responsibility.


not reminding my boss to pay the severance package for a woman she fired

You should behave professionally in work matters.

Your job involves playing and being silly and having fun.


You serve the public with emergency services.


You work for prideful company that is successful


You are a new hire and are on a probationary period.


Supporting a depressed friend through a hard time is expected.


The person has lost someone very close to them.


The friend lives thousands of miles away.


You're also depressed and can't find the emotional energy to do so.


You are knowledgeable about good strategies for combating depression.


You are in the middle of a hard time too and have to take care of yourself.


This is someone who would take care of you during a hard time.


"making my mom wait 45 minutes" for me after school

Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people wait.

you're a doctor and have an emergency come in.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people wait.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people wait.

They are waiting in line to buy tickets.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people wait.

You work at a restaurant and it's very busy.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people wait.

You are late for an important business meeting


It's expected to keep your account passwords updated.


Your passwords are for very minor things.


Your passwords protect your banking information.


You want to protect your accounts from being hacked.


Your passwords were leaked in a data breach


asking my boyfriend to skip Mother's Day to attend my graduation

Your mother might be disappointed if you put yourself over her on Mother's Day.


Your mother traveled hundreds of miles to come see you


You told your mother you would go out on Mother's day.


You also didn't call her on her birthday.


She always puts you before herself for holidays.


wearing a thong on the beach even though I'm a "bigger" girl...it caused a fight that's lasted over a month among my family

Body image can be considered a controversial topic among people.


Women in the media continue to be portrayed as stick thin.


everyone talking about it has the same opinion.


Some of the people discussing it are body dysmorphic.


it is a positive message across the board.


telling DH that I will not let his mom pick her grandmother name

It's understandable to want to name your children.


your spouse chose the name and you agreed to it.


they have been unnamed for a month after birth.


You are going to give them up to adoption.


You love your children and will care for them.


You weren't there for their birth or early childhood.


You want to pass on a family name to honor a departed relative.


Hypothesis: It's expected that you tell the truth.


Hypothesis: It's expected that you tell the truth.

A Russian spy is trying to get information from you.


You should always make time for your parents.


They are paying for your college education.


Your parents are horrible toxic people who cause you pain.


Your parents are good people who have always been there for you


They are in their 80's and need assistance.


You have kids of your own and are too busy.


lashing out at my duet partner because she didn't learn her part and got us pulled

It is rude to not contribute your fair share for team projects.


You promised to do your portion of the work.


Your other team members always slack off and make you do it instead


You have a large part of the project assigned to you


This project is worth 50% of your final grade.


You are sick and cannot attend meetings.


You want to get along with the other people in your group.


It's expected to tip for delivery services.

The delivery fees are so outrageous already.


The delivery fees are reasonable and the service is good.


The delivery person is extremely rude to you.


telling my friend my opinion on her engagement

It's expected to comment with your opinion on a friend's news.

You have nothing favorable to say about the situation.


The news was a secret you were not supposed to know about.


They ask you what you think about the news.


The news is about your friend's bad health.


They asked you not to judge them about the news.


They're telling you the news before anybody else.


Your are under a non disclosure agreement.


saying we worked harder than a third person in an article interview

It's okay to report the truth when it's your honest opinion.


The truth will hurt one of your best friends


You work for a news agency and people need to hear the truth


It will help someone stay out of trouble.


The truth serves no purpose other than to hurt someone's feelings.


Someone will be helped by you telling the truth.


taking on a new job, leaving my boss after they've helped me

It's good to reciprocate when someone helps you.


That person makes it clear they find your offer of help insulting.


That person is later in desperate need of help.


You have more than you need and are capable of helping out.


telling my aunt (essentially the side chick of twenty years) that her baby daddy doesn't love her

It's good to want to tell someone that their relationship with someone is not what they think it is.

Telling that person would destroy innocent lives by breaking up a family.


Their partner is planning to scam and desert them.


They are blindly in love and would hate you for telling the truth.


The other person has a history of robbery.


one consistently degrades the other publicly.


You are jealous and trying to have them for yourself


You recognize signs of abuse as a clinical social worker


shagging someone I know boyfriend doesn't approve of

It's petty behavior to have a meaningless affair with someone just because your partner does not like them.


It is your only way out of a bad marriage in a state which requires a cause for divorcing.


You are married and have a loving partner.


Your partner is in a relationship with you.


You are married to your partner and made vows of fidelity.


You should do whatever it takes to provide for your family.

Your family is grown and they can provide for themselves now.


Your family is young, being educated and being raised.


You are in the hospital and need to heal.


They are relying on you to put food on the table.


You are the only one who can hold down a job.


You are permanently and totally disabled.


You are the only source of income for a family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call out people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call out people.

Doing so would prevent harm to someone else.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call out people.

They're not hurting anyone and you want them to respect you too.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call out people.

You're not sure you have the correct information.


asking my S/o not to visit a male Gynecologist who happens to be her friend

It is wrong to control how a partner takes care of their health.


The person is no longer capable of caring for themselves.


The partner is perfectly able to make their own decisions.


they are not in their correct frame of mind.


They don't pay their partner's medical bills.


The partner is obviously mentally ill or depressed and needs help.


The partner is self sufficient and not self-destructive.


taking back a present that I'd gifted to a friend

Hypothesis: It is wrong to take back a gift.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to take back a gift.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to take back a gift.

You are going to exchange it for a different size.


Hypothesis: Accidents happen and that is okay.

The accident is due to illegal behavior.


Hypothesis: Accidents happen and that is okay.


Hypothesis: Accidents happen and that is okay.

The accidents could have been prevented.


It is expected that you would be mad at your friend if they lied to you.

They were only lying to try to spare your feelings.


They were lying about spreading nasty rumors about you.


They lied to you to protect you from harm.


You depended on the truth to make a correct decision.


being upset about my fiance for saving someones life

You should explain your concerns to other people.

Your concerns are very petty and pointless.


You've been wrong about your concerns in the past.


Someone could get hurt if you don't speak up.


You are worried they will harm themselves.


You aren't going to be around long enough for your concerns to matter.


The people nearby aren't safe people to talk to.


taking a job I knew I wouldn't finish, to receive some late payment

It is wrong to take payment under false pretenses.


You are taking it from someone not well off.


You are an undercover cop doing a drug bust.


You are taking money from your family for unfinished work.


It's petty to reject someone for selfish reasons.


It is over someone's physical appearance.


you want to be with someone more compatible.


you pursued them until they gave you a shot.


You know you can't make each other happy in a relationship.


You think they'd be perfect if they were just more attractive.


You are always mean to that person and they deserve better


It's disrespectful not to follow prescribed procedures when in church.


giving a homeless man food instead of money? tl;dr at bottom

Hypothesis: It is good to help those in need.

It makes you unable to take care of yourself.


Hypothesis: It is good to help those in need.


Hypothesis: It is good to help those in need.

You don't have any means to help people.


Hypothesis: It is good to help those in need.

You barely have enough money to provide for your own needs.


keeping a video of somebody up on youtube

When out in public, it is good to be aware of anyone filming you or taking pictures of you without your permission.

You're utterly desperate for attention, positive or negative.


You're a very private person and would be horrified at ending up on YouTube.


You become anxious upon knowing about paparazzi.


You are a woman wearing a bikini on a crowded beach


You are in the witness protection program


leaving work before my coworker came to cover me

It's good to cover for a coworker if they have to leave work.

The coworker is competing for a promotion with you.


They have been drinking alcohol and are going to drive to their destination.


Their child is sick and needs to be picked up from school.


It's not okay to put someone into an uncomfortable situation.


They told you they want to avoid the situation.


They are harming others with their actions.


They asked for the extra push to overcome a slight fear.


you are a police officer doing an interrogation.


being reluctant to compromise on my appearance

It's ok to want to keep up your physical appearance.

You're going into debt for plastic surgery.


It means you exercise and eat healthily.


Your job requires you to be in good shape.


Your older and just want to relax and let it go.


You become so vain that your looks are all you think about.


You suffer from depression and feel badly about yourself already.


asking a friend if she misread this situation

It is ok to make sure everyone is on the same page.


You are working on a very important project


It's good to keep work and home life separate.


trying to put my wife in a fighting class

It is okay to want a loved one to be able to defend themselves.


Their religious beliefs preclude violence.


That means encouraging them to provoke fights.


That means teaching them self-defense techniques to use in emergencies.


not wanting to spend time with my family

It's allowed to spend time with your friends instead of your family.

You haven't spoken to your family for a month.


You just got back from a long weekend trip with your family.


your friend is dealing with a loss in their family.


You spend more time with your friends than family.


Your family has other plans that don't include you.


asking my fiancé to exclude his brother our wedding party

Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude family at events.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude family at events.

It's a birthday party of a family member.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude family at events.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude family at events.

Your family member is a harmful and abusive person.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude family at events.

Your family member organizes the events.


not wanting to be on a profit-share team with my coworkers

You have a right not be involved with anything you don't find appealing.

It is something related to your work duties.


you have to change your childs dirty diapers.


you can remove yourself from the situation.


not telling my in laws that we are selling our condo and full time rving

It is wrong to expect family to disclose all personal decisions.


Those decisions don't affect you in anyway.


The family members are minors and need permission.


The family members no longer live at home.


You are listed on their Power of Attorney.


collecting rent to in laws living in my house

You shouldn't expect free accommodation.

You are at a sample party that gives you free items.


You are on a trip that someone else paid for.


You won a contest and the accommodation is part of the prize.


not telling a suspicion about a girl cheating

It is important to be honest with people.


You want them to trust you and believe you when you say something.


asking to go home early instead of taking a second break

It's not okay to not take care of your responsibilities in life.

You're physically or mentally too ill to do so.


You have no ties to others and want to live freely.


not wanting my best friend to apply to the same job

It's wrong to limit a persons goals or ambitions for selfish reasons.

Their goals are destructive, like opening a new coal mine.


Their goals are noble and promising, like developing a new form of renewable energy.


You have more knowledge than they do and are trying to protect them from getting hurt.


They are capable of achieving their dreams and it means a lot to them.


you are their mother trying to protect them.


you are just afraid they will leave you.


insulting my sister after she called me stupid

You should never call your family stupid.


They have done nothing to warrant criticism.


you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.


not being able to stand my autistic coworker

You should learn to just ignore others if they bother you.

They are bothering you so much as to cause distress


This will get them to stop bothering you


You could get in trouble for confronting them.


Their behavior appears to be a cry for help.


They are your children asking for a meal.


They are your children demanding more and more toys.


The people bothering you are using violence.


refusing to carry a strangers child on my lap for an hour's bus ride

It is OK to say no to strangers who want you to hold their child.


they appear to be up to some kind of scam.


They are a doctor about to do CPR on someone who is having a heart attack.


They're trying to save their other family members from a burning building.


The child has a full diaper or they're sick.


The situation is an emergency and they need help.


The child is obviously sick and probably contagious.


breaking up with my girlfriend days before valentine's day and our second aniversary

It's wrong to break up with someone close to Valentine's Day.


They have been nothing but loving and supporting.


They have planned and paid for a romantic vacation over the holiday.


You can’t wait anymore because they are abusive


The person already booked a dinner reservation


asking a Mcdonalds employee to remake my drink after they accidentally handed it to the car in front of me in the drive-through

You should be tolerant of other's mistakes.

they keep making the same mistake over and over.


The person consistently ignores feedback on how they could improve and make fewer mistakes.


taking bets at a wedding as to what year the couple would divorce

You shouldn't hope that someone's relationship fails.

You know that their partner abuses them.


You are simply jealous of the relationship.


YOu know that one of the people in the relationship is being abused.


They have small children who would be adversely affected by the relationship breaking up.


They are clearly in love with each other.


not apologizing to someone who never showed up to practise with the band

Sometimes we have to be the bigger person.

That other person punched you in the face


You're tired of being the bigger person.


You are committed to resolving an issue and not just being right.


We were almost driven to suicide by the betrayal


The other person owns up to what they did.


The other person won't own up to having done anything wrong.


The problem can only get worse if it isn't resolved.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell off your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell off your parents.

Your parents are trying to be helpful and understanding.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell off your parents.

Your parents are very abusive and hurtful to you and you are defending yourself.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell off your parents.

Your parents love you dearly and have your best interests at heart.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell off your parents.

Your parents are getting in to your personal business.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell off your parents.

Your parents ask you to do something appallingly unethical.