Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell off your parents.

They just asked you to do something reasonable like clean your room.


not paying my parents back for a crashed car

You are expected to replace items that you broke.

You are told it isn't necessary to replace the item.


It was an accident and not truly your fault.


You broke the item when someone pushed you into them


You broke an affordable amount of items.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to watch porn.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to watch porn.

The person watching or the actors are under the age of 18.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to watch porn.

The person watching it and the actors in it are all over the age of 18.


being on my phone and listening to music for the entirety of a mandatory to attend special needs basketball game

People in the audience are expected to pay attention at an event.

The event has been having technical difficulties.


It is a play where the audience must be quiet.


They are students listening to a lecturer


getting frustrated with my sick boyfriend's constant bad mood

It's wrong to be in a constant bad mood around others.

You have pain that you can never get rid of


You're suffering from clinical depression.


You make them feel fearful and miserable.


your bottling your anger will make you unhealthy.


you're a teacher and your class is struggling because you're so cranky.


You are depressed and chemically cannot help the bad mood.


You suffer from depression and haven't gotten better with medical help.


If making a scene is what it takes to be treated right then its okay to make one.


You're being triaged in the emergency room and jumping the queue could endanger someone's life.


The person you're dealing with is being condescending and unprofessional.


People want to like you but you are always abrasive and rude


You always try to be nice and no one cares


You're in an emergency situation where others are at risk


Making a scene is going to embarrass the people you are with.


You already tried to be polite and it didn't work.


defriending my best friend because of his girlfriend

Any reason is possible to properly stop being friends with someone.


They have used and abused your trust on many occasions.


Especially if the friend is unkind and new.


This person slept with your significant other


You are stopping because they came out as LGBTQ+


not wanting my boyfriend to take his anti anxiety/ depression medicine

Espousing unscientific views about medicine is bad.

You are giving those answers in r/askshittyscience.


You have tried the science and it's still not saving your life.


There are scientifically proven medical treatments that could help you.


You are explaining how gullible people are to misinformation.


You are the professor in medical school.


you are a doctor at a medical conference.


banging on the ceiling this morning and for playing music to drown out the upstairs tenants

It's wrong to bang on the ceiling to annoy your neighbors.


Your neighbors have a sleeping infant at home.


Your neighbors are being very loud and need a hint.


Your neighbors are always quiet and keep to themselves.


getting upset that new roommate brought her bf and bf's brother over at 4:30 am

It is rude to have guests late at night.


your roommate works early in the morning.


The guests are loud and wake up your neighbors.


Students should be respectful to one another.


They want to be in a healthy learning environment.


You are living and working in cramped quarters.


One student has bullied another one too many times.


They are on the same team and need to work together to win.


One of the students is being a bully and has to be confronted.


They are working together in a group on a project.


treating my stepfamily like extended family at my wedding

It's good to treat your step family like your own family.


Your step family rejects and loathes you.


your step parent is divorcing your parent.


They were always welcoming since the first day you met them


They don't treat you like part of the family.


not spending more money on my girlfriend

Hypothesis: It is important to budget.


Hypothesis: It is important to budget.


not wanting my mate to come over this week

Friends should respect that you need space.


You're dealing with issues that they don't understand.


They are worried you might harm yourself.


They know you are studying for a big test and need alone time.


you need too much space and it makes you sad.


you are a very busy person and need to unwind at the end of the day.


They are worried about you and want to check up on you.


You've had a stressful week and want to relax.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.

Your career revolves around selling or promoting luxury items.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.

You also do a lot of humanitarian and charity work.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.

The people you love are struggling financially.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.

Your family is rich and your friends are poor


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.

You feel genuinely satisfied looking at material evidence of your success.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.

It leads you to neglect or betray your family.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be overly materialistic.

you care more for your stuff than people.


blocking my best friend because she got jealous that I'm friends with her bf

It is important to respect other people's relationships.


Unless you are trying to help them save the relationship


They have told you to respect their relationship


getting mad at my ex for allowing guy friends to "jokingly" slap her butt

What your ex does with other other people is not your concern.

Your ex is cheating others out of money.


You have your own family to look after and take care of.


You are involved in some sort of relationship with these other people.


You no longer see or talk to each other.


They are stalking you by using other people to get information about you.


The ex has a restraining order against you.


not telling my mom details about therapy and my mental health

It's wrong to not want your parents to care about you.

Your parents decided not to care for you first.


Your parents want to be responsible for your well-being.


They are trying to change your life path.


They paid for your college education out of pocket.


They have supported you with love and attention your whole life


If you are having an issue with your roommate, you should bring it to your RA's attention.


The issue has to do with entertainment gossip.


Your roommate is creating false gossip about you.


Your roommate is being unfair and disrespectful.


You can work it out with your roommate instead


Your roommate is not willing to listen to your concerns


Letting people know what you are short of might get your more.

You use the money they give you for drugs all the time


You put the money they give you towards useful things


not wanting to pay for my girlfriends dogs surgery

It's okay if you don't want to pay for something for your significant other.

They are a great partner and bought you something that you love.


It's for your significant other's birthday.


Their birthday is coming up and you haven’t bought anything yet


Your significant other is unemployed and can't afford food otherwise.


They're asking for frivolous gifts that are way outside your shared budget.


Hypothesis: It is okay to skip the midterm votes.


Hypothesis: It is okay to skip the midterm votes.

Your district has a candidate running unopposed.


Hypothesis: It is okay to skip the midterm votes.

You promised to work at a polling place.


Hypothesis: It is okay to skip the midterm votes.

you plan on complaining about who goes forward to the primaries.


Hypothesis: It is okay to skip the midterm votes.

you're invested in the future of the country.


not letting a kid in my class use my charger

If a classmate needs help, you should help them out.


They are ranked ahead of you and will impact your chances of getting into college.


They missed a week of school due to a funeral.


You barely have enough time to finish your own projects.


telling my neighbour/friend she has the most annoying screechy baby voice

You shouldn't use baby voices around others since it's annoying.


Your significant other finds the baby voice endearing.


They've repeatedly said they're going to throttle you if you don't speak in a normal voice.


coming out to my extended family even though my parents don't want me to

It's acceptable to want to share your identity with your extended family.

Your identity is as a white supremacist.


They have proven themselves to be malicious.


The family has large gatherings together.


You work for the FBI and have to conceal certain things about yourself.


They celebrate birthdays and your religion prohibits you from doing the same.


not sharing someone else's personal stories with my so

It's good to share things with your partner.


You are sick and don't want to infect them.


You want to build a relationship filled with trust.


Your partner has been having a secret affair.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't despise other people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't despise other people.

Those people are kind and caring towards you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't despise other people.

Those people are standing up for you at your wedding


You should be happy for your family members when they are doing well


Your family members are supportive of you.


They have supported you when you were addicted to drugs.


You were always supportive of them in life


They stole their riches from your own fortune.


They are sharing in the love and success.


not wanting to hang out with my friend's bf

Hypothesis: People are expected to be social.


Hypothesis: People are expected to be social.


being sick of people constantly being late and doing favours for people when I get no favours back

It's understandable to be angry if people treat you unfairly.


They are your boss favoriting other employees.


You've treated them unfairly in the past.


You've always treated them with respect.


They have treated you unfairly in the past.


The unfairness is very small, like getting a cookie with fewer chocolate chips.


The unfairness has major negative repercussions, like your boss stealing a multi-million dollar patent idea.


they are being unfair due to an action you caused.


other people are not treated unfairly for the same circumstances.


not answering a customer and making her wait

You should be more attentive to customer's needs.


You want to keep them your customer for a long time


you want the customer to leave you a nice review.


It's rude to try to get your neighbor moved out if you don't have good enough reason.

Your neighbor asked you to do it them self.


Your neighbor has been nothing but polite to you.


You dislike them because of their skin color.


The neighbor is trying to get you moved out.


Your neighbor has friends over who are a bad influence.


Your reason is to buy your neighbor's house.


bailing on my brother/his car after we got stuck in a snow storm

Brothers are expected to help each other in times of crisis.

They are estranged from each other for good reasons.


They have always had a close relationship.


They are on the front lines in the military.


The siblings are alienated to each other.


They were separated at birth and have no relationship


asking my fiancée to stop degrading herself because it's impacting the way I see her

It is okay to not enjoy hearing negativity.


It comes from your parents who are always negative


You are ignoring problems you actually need to fix.


The other person is trying to put you down.


You refuse to listen to your loved ones telling you how you're hurting them.


The person complaining is a random stranger on the Internet.


dropping a friend after she treated me more like a therapist than a friend

It is OK to decide who you want to have as a friend.

People have asked to stop being friends with you.


You've had a series of difficult friendships.


Some of the people who could be potential friends treat you much better than others.


You and your friend have developed separate interests over time.


I can't think of a response where it wouldn't be okay to choose your friend


you have always had a good group of friends surrounding you.


That person actively harms other people.


trying to cut someone out of mine and my girlfriend's lives

It is okay to remove people from your life if you don't like them.


They are doing things like taking advantage of you.


thinking my friend is being dramatic about her mental health

Friends should be supportive of each other during hard times.

Certain friends are into hard drugs and don’t want help


You have known each other for over a decade


They can't afford to support the friend.


They want to maintain a good relationship with each other.


The hard times are the problem in the friendship.


One of you has leaned on the other before.


You are the one who caused the hard times.


being angry at my friend for always being broke

It's okay to want something better for our friends.


you are trying to find them a better spouse than the one they have.


Your friend doesn't like what you want for them.


Your friend is struggling in a bad situation.


Your friend is really happy with her ugly husband and he is nice to her.


Your friend is married to someone who abuses her.


Your friends' idea of success is running a successful criminal enterprise


not wanting to be included in wedding accommodations

It's expected that people want to celebrate their wedding with others.


You are gay and living in a homophobic area.


The couple is very shy and only wants the required witnesses.


Hypothesis: It's good to do favors for your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to do favors for your family.

Your family really needs your help with something.


Hypothesis: It's good to do favors for your family.

They are not able to complete tasks by themselves.


telling someone I'm not interested after they criticized my kissing style on the second date

It's okay to decide someone isn't a good fit for your life.


You're dependent on that person for money.


You're not talking about that person as much.


They hurt you or the ones you love every chance they get.


blocking my friend on snapchat for putting conditions on our friendship

Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.


Hypothesis: It's good to have healthy boundaries.

you want to maintain a good relationship.


not caring to hang out after she cancelled

It is understandable to be upset when someone backs out on plans.


You were depending on the deal for a living.


You spent time and money on planning the event


They informed you ahead of time about an emergency that happened.


They waited until the last minute to back out.


The person backed out because of an emergency.


staying friends with someone who hurt a good friend

It's wrong to stay friends with someone who did something hurtful to a friend.


Those two friends have been escalating their pranks on each other until someone accidentally went too far.


That hurtful thing was completely unprovoked.


The other friend did something hurtful first.


Their boss threatened to fire them if they did not do something hurtful.


They show no remorse when confronted by you.


staying single and rejecting everyone who asks me out

It's okay to ask someone out if you're attracted to them.


Either of you is in a monogamous relationship.


dating my best friend's long term girlfriend a week after they broke up

It's bad to do something behind your best friend's back.


You're actually planning them a surprise party.


They are always completely honest with you.


You're dating someone they wouldn't approve of because they're bigoted.


What you're doing is stealing from your friend.


It is something that would hurt them if they knew about it.


getting annoyed with my boyfriend for leaving without saying goodbye

It is good when couples acknowledge one another and say goodbye before leaving in the mornings.


They won't see each other for many more days.


They work different shifts so someone is always home with the kids.


They take the time to coordinate their plans for the day.


One half of the couple works nights and is sound asleep.


One of them works nights and would be disturbed by being awakened.


You have very little time later to talk.


breaking up with my girlfriend because of her having an older friend

Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

You want to have a lasting relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

Your partner has never done anything wrong


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

The relationship is a don't ask don't tell relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

The relationship may move forward into something serious.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

The relationship is strictly one between acquaintances


leading on a guy who I lost interest in after he attempted suicide

It is understandable to be angry at someone who leads you on.

You knew what they were doing from the beginning


They seemed genuine about their intentions


You should always try to work things out with your family if there is a disagreement.


They are always toxic and say mean things


Doing so would cause irreparable harm to someone else.


You're still living in the same house with them.


wanting my girlfriend to keep / maintain a job despite me getting a significant raise

It's not polite to push your wishes on your partner.

You usually accommodate what they want, but this issue is especially important to you.


They let you have your own way 95% of the time.


It is something that will bring you closer together.


It is something they don't feel comfortable with.


You're strongly hinting for something like a birthday gift.


Your partner has already expressed opposition to you and set that boundary.


Your partner doesn't have interest in your wishes.


not letting my assistant patrol leader arrange a camp and not let me join

Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be included.

You want to be included by the Ku Klux Klan.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be included.

You've always had trouble making friends.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be included.

You want to be included in an illegal or harmful activity.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be included.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be included.

You've been practicing to join the group.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be included.

It is to take advantage of someone in the group.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be included.

You want to be included in a drug house.


cutting loose my best friend for being manipulative to people I know

It is good to talk to your friend about their behavior if they are being manipulative.

You started the manipulation in the first place and this is the desired result.


The manipulation is hurting yourself or others.


you think it will elicit worse behavior.


You have decided to part ways with them.


They have continued the behavior or years and have not stopped.


The friend is prone to becoming violent.


starting playing a song I co-wrote with my old band in my new band

It is immoral to perform the works created with your old band in your new band.

You are playing a tribute to the old band.


Your music is under copyright protection.


You were asked not to perform the old band's music.


there aren't any members of your old band in your new band.


cheating on a girl who's cheating on me at the same time

Having a relationship with someone you know is in a relationship with someone else is wrong.


They are still together and living with each other.


You know that it would hurt someone else if they found out.


Their other relationship is an open relationship.


The other person they're seeing expects monogamy.


The other person is in an open relationship.


The person you're interested in is married to your sibling.


It is expected that you should attend big events of your family member.


They recently attended an event for you.


That family member screamed they never wanted to see you again at their last event.


calling out my friend on kissing his friend's girlfriend

You shouldn't kiss your friend's significant other.

It's considered a common greeting from their country.


You are both actors in a play that has a kiss scene.


The friend and their significant other's relationship is a monogamous one.


not assuming secrecy about my sister's job offer

You should not tell other people's secrets.


Telling those secrets could hurt the person.


You want to be seen as trustworthy and a good friend.


They're going to harm either themselves or other people.


You promised to keep the secret and it doesn't hurt anyone.


It is helpful to leave reminders around.

The handwriting on the reminders is poor.


they are hurtful to the person who finds and reads them.


you are constantly forgetting important deadlines.


The reminders always get thrown in the trash


Your coworkers always forget specific work details


not wanting to stay friends with a guy who rejected because I was "too fat"

If you are overweight you should work on a healthier lifestyle.


You have diabetes or another medical condition that can be improved by exercise and diet.


You feel healthy enough and love yourself the way you are.


You have related health conditions and are depressed looking in the mirror.


You should never ask for a present but be happy with what you have.

You're a child writing a letter to Santa Claus.


The people you would want a present from are financially struggling.


Someone asks you directly what you want.


You own a lot of possessions and can afford things on your own.


sleeping on the couch when I have to get up at 4am

Hypothesis: It's okay to not sleep in your bed.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not sleep in your bed.

You are invited to go on a camping trip.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not sleep in your bed.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not sleep in your bed.

You are spending money you don't have on a hotel


Hypothesis: It's okay to not sleep in your bed.

You feel more comfortable sleeping on a couch


reaching out to my ex bf's ex gf to help her get her closure

Is it not good to get involved in other's romantic relationships


they are strangers and you dont know the whole story


You're involved in a polyamorous relationship


You secretly want to date one of the people in the relationship.


You don't know what's going on behind closed doors.


not wanting my husband to blow his nose in the kitchen

You should not do gross things in front of others.


It is in the privacy of your own home and you are comfortable enough with each other to burp or fart or whatever.


You are on Fear Factor hosted by Joe Rogan


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines in the store.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines in the store.

You were already in line and the person in front of you says you can go ahead of them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines in the store.

It's busy and there's only one register open.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines in the store.

You are the only person with the proper amount of items for your lane.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines in the store.

You want to keep the respect of those around you.


recommending my friend a 'right-wing' YouTube channel

It is expected that you respect others political orientation, even if you do not agree with them.


Someone's political orientation involves racism or xenophobia.


they are being disrespectful to others in your presence.


they are respectful of your political orientation.


Their political orientation supports racism.


You should always help out your family with expenses.


Your family always asks for your help with all expenses.


Your family are seniors on a fixed income.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell people what to do.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell people what to do.

They have a lot more experience than you do.


wanting my boyfriend to not be on his phone when we go to bed at night

It is rude to use your phone in bed at night.


Your lover says you don't pay enough attention to them.


Your partner wants to spend time with you


saying my partner didnt do anything in a subtle way during the project presentation

It's expected people will try to discretely let you know when you're not pulling your weight.

You have already been told nicely that you are not pulling your weight, and you still aren't doing your work.


This is a new job for you and you aren't sure what is expected of you.


They are competing against you for a job promotion.


They are too shy to confront you at all.


Your performance is bringing down the whole group.


They are trying to not let you know you are not qualified


declining being Maid of Honour for my best friend of 25 years

You should always support your long-time friends.


They come to all of your sporting events.


They have acted criminally towards an innocent victim.


They have been there for you in the past.


They do something which crosses the healthy boundaries you have set for yourself.


They betray you and have you arrested under false pretenses.


They recently made a significant sacrifice to support you.


You should help people out even if they are homeless.


The homeless people always use money for drugs


You know friends who used to be homeless


They physically attack you when you try to approach them.


They've taken advantage of you one too many times already.


They would use the help in a wasteful way


reporting an awful smelling person to the front desk at the gym

It's wrong to tell on someone for something petty.

Someone else is being troubled by not knowing what happened.


By doing so it'll create more problems than otherwise.


Their behavior is causing problems and needs to be stopped.


The behavior is something you yourself also do.


They do the same thing and need to be taught a lesson.


You know they might get in to bad trouble for no good reason.


It is expected that a relationship be supportive.

Someone in the relationship is using the other person or is abusive to them.


The people in the relationship expect it to last a long time.


the relationship hopes to last for a long time


Your partner takes all your money, eats all your food, and contributes nothing to the household.


ending a relationship the day after it's begun

Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

It is for something innocent and fun, like a surprise party.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

Your lies will hurt their feelings and strain your relationship.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

You are protecting the interests of weak people


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

You are playing against them in a board game.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

You are being held captive and it's for your own safety.


Hypothesis: You should not mislead people.

You are leading someone on, only to break their heart.


It's good to stand up for yourself and confront someone if they do something that upsets you, even if its in public.

what upset you isn't a huge deal and you can spare them the embarassment by doing it in private just as effectively.


Others need to be aware of the situation to protect themselves as well.


It would make you look bad to other people


The person is a bully and always picks on you.


It is expected to be polite to your partner's friends.

Your partner's friends are bullying you.


The friends ignore you when you are together.


You want your relationship with your partner to last.


Your partner's friends are demeaning and rude.


they have been sleeping on your couch a year.


They are making you part of their wedding ceremony too


It's understandable to want to play games by the rules.


The rules are too complicated for all the players to understand.


No one can agree on how the rules should be modified.


The game you are playing is one that has no rules.


One of the players has a tendency to cheat.


talking with friends about a common friend groping me

You should always tell your friends your concerns.


They make fun of you for being sentimental


Your concerns are about your friends appearance.


Your concerns would sound like humble-bragging because your friend is in a much worse situation.


Your friend has been in a similar situation and might have useful advice.


It's good to let people know racism is wrong.


You think of yourself as an ally to any group.


They are young or haven't been taught their opinion is racist.


You find yourself at a KKK rally surrounded by machete wielding loons.


It can help some minority who is being demeaned in front of you.


You walked down the wrong street and are at a racist rally and they outnumber you.


You live in a poor area and people may not have the education to understand their actions.


resenting my sister and some friends encouraging and enabling each other's drug use

Hypothesis: It is wrong to enable an addict.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to enable an addict.

They don't want to get help for themselves.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to enable an addict.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to enable an addict.

You are trying to prove a point that will help them


watching Guardians of the Galaxy with my kids (8,5,5) and neighbor kid

You shouldn't let young children watch inappropriate movies.


The movie has violent scenes that would scare and upset them.


The movie was only rated R for silly reasons like gay kissing.


The movies have extreme graphic violence.


The movie will educated and help the young children from harm.


The young children are very sensitive and will be traumatized from the movie.


getting upset about other family members completing a jigsaw puzzle

It's ok to expect others to leave your personal property alone.


You have asked them not to touch your things.


you have several locks on your belongings.


You have asked them to locate something for you.


making a boxing trainee angry by correcting her moves but she thought I was grilling her

Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people angry.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people angry.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people angry.

They have done something wrong and need to hear how you feel.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people angry.

They have not down anything to you and are nice people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people angry.

They had a bad day at work and are crying about it.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people angry.

Their anger will be used for a good cause or to help them in some psychological way.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make people angry.

They didn't do anything to deserve that and they are nice people.


shutting down a question about my relationship status

Talking about your relationships can help you analyze them.

There are things going on in your relationship you don't know about.


You are having trouble seeing a relationship objectively.


You're talking about cheating with someone else.


You are talking too much and not acting on the talks.


There are issues that need to be worked out for the relationship to succeed.


You talk about it with your partner's parents.


You can’t understand why someone would hurt you a certain way


potentially harming a student/teachers career

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ruin your teacher's job.

You caught your teacher having an affair with a student.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ruin your teacher's job.

The teacher won the "Teacher of the Year" award.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ruin your teacher's job.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ruin your teacher's job.

The teacher has always had your best interest in mind.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ruin your teacher's job.

The teacher has done something disrespectful to another student.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ruin your teacher's job.

They are a great teacher and help the kids out.


Hypothesis: It is scary to discuss gender.


Hypothesis: It is scary to discuss gender.

One is involved in a court case and striving for equal rights.


Hypothesis: It is scary to discuss gender.

You are surrounded by members of the opposite gender who are mysogynist.


Hypothesis: It is scary to discuss gender.

All of the people are comfortable with their gender.


Hypothesis: It is scary to discuss gender.

A child is telling their parent about a gender concern.


feeling like this was rude even if my boyfriend was technically "right"

It's okay to disagree with your partner.

It involves a mutual decision with children.


You can debate without having it impact your relationship.


The disagreement is about their personal consent to something.


The disagreement is about personal preference.


You know what they're saying is clearly wrong.


You disagree about everything and are constantly fighting.


You can discuss your differences calmly and maturely.


you don't agree on how to raise the children.


Being friends with some one does not mean they are romantically interested in you.


They flirt with you and kiss you on the lips


they have told you they have a crush on you.


Hypothesis: It's bad to insult people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to insult people.

The people being insulted cannot defend themselves.


Hypothesis: It's bad to insult people.

The person is victimizing others and needs to be put in their place.


Hypothesis: It's bad to insult people.

Your wife organizes a national anti-bullying campaign.


abandoning my oldest and closest friend who has depression because he's a vile racist

It's understandable to not want to associate with racists.

you are trying to change them for the better.


You happen to work with one and they haven't been fired yet.


They keep their personal views to themselves.


You belong to one of the races they hate.


They are your parents that you still live with.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

The person is trying to bait you into a fight.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

You are at work and they are trying to get your help.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

They are interrupting without a good reason.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore someone.

They haven't done anything bad to you and are nice.


cat fishing a friend to make her breakup with her emotionally abusive boyfriend

It's wrong to be abusive to the person you are in a relationship with.

The other person needs a wake up call to better themselves.


You are physically harming the other person.


You don't want to go to jail for being abusive.


You are fighting back after they hit you first.


It's understandable to want to avoid someone.

You have made a commitment with them they are trying to fulfill.


The person makes you feel bad about yourself.


They are your boss and you have to give them some of your work.


They asked you out, you refused, and now you both feel awkward.


The person is annoying or very talkative.


They have been particularly cruel towards you.


allowing a mentally handicapped diabetic to have sugar

You should be more careful around people who have medical issues.

You're a trained professional in charge of their care.


The medical issues are small and the person is strong and doesn't want that.


The people's medical issues aren't easily aggravated.


They are faking their issues to a certain extent for sympathy


It's expected to leave a friendship that is no longer mutual.

The other person has dementia and needs you.


One of the friends has been cruel to the other.


You have many mutual friends in common and a break would cause a huge mess.


Your friend moves far away and you won't have to be in the same social circles.


The other person needs you help and support.


The other person has found a new friend and wants to end your friendship.


The friendship still benefits you in some way.


The friendship is toxic and you fight a lot.


Your parents are friends with their parents.


It is rude to leave your girlfriend behind.


You brought your girlfriend some place new.


You arrived at your destination together.


She is carrying a lot of bags and is struggling.


asking a store to carry through with a policy when a cashier made a mistake

It's not for people or a company to take advantage of a customer.


They're trying to spend a million dollars as quickly as possible.


You want them to recommend your business to other people.


The customer is an elderly person and very nice


calling a song one of my friends likes lame

It's hurtful to disparage your friend's music choices.

They are trying to chose bad music for your wedding.


You do it in a joking way and laugh when they respond in kind.


You've never even bothered to listen to the music they like.


You are all ribbing each other over your differences in a friendly way.


You are embarrassing them in front of a crowd.


Your friend considers their taste in music to be poor.


That music has gotten them directly involved with bad people


asking him to sell an old, unused car to pay for our wedding

It is wrong to expect someone to give up a belonging.

It's something they borrowed from you and forgot about it.


You don't want to be compelled to have something taken away against your wishes.


They are trying to be helpful and donate the item.


The child is young and doesn't understand why they need to give it away.


Unless the belonging was stolen from someone else.


not wanting my moms bf over all the time and "getting in the way" of their relationship

It is expected that you are a parent's significant other.


You have a diaper bag in the backseat of your car.


You attend an open house night at a school.


You are under contract to do that very thing.


You're in the school principal's office having a meeting about your child.


using my husband's ethnicity to avoid Thanksgiving

Hypothesis: It's not good to lie to people.


Hypothesis: It's not good to lie to people.


Hypothesis: It's not good to lie to people.

You are hiding something from them that they need to know.


Hypothesis: It's not good to lie to people.

Lying is the only way to ensure your safety.


cussing out my mother for 'buying' an Xbox from my cousin

Your family's money is their's to do what they want with, not yours.


You want to spend it on frivolous things.


They have become senile and are unable to take care of themselves.


They aren’t that rich and need the money as well


You are a child and depend on them for basic necessities.


being uncomfortable around my friends older gf

It's understandable that some situations make people uncomfortable.


They have been in bad situations in the past.


They're uncomfortable with other people merely existing because they're a different race or sexual orientation.


The situation presents a chance to embarrass themselves in public.


teasing my gf in an online chat that she's rich

It is mean to make fun of someone for coming from a rich family.

They're consistently arrogant, greedy and snobbish.


They donate to charity and don't believe wealth makes them superior to everyone else.


They have joked you for coming from a poor family.


They have bought you an expensive necklace.


They have turned a democracy into a dictatorship.


It's okay to confront a coworker about something you don't like.


The situation is affecting your ability to do your job.


It is something related to your job duties.


It's something in their personal life that has nothing to do with you or the business.


You take too much of your coworker's space


It is reasonable to be annoyed when you smell a bad smell.


The odor was created by others' incompetence.


The smell is caused by something youv'e done.


The smell is from something brought into your space.


The toilet keeps getting clogged from the same person


accepting casino cashier paying me extra $25 after warning her she gave me too much

You shouldn't accept more money than you are owed.

The person paying is offering you a tip.


You forged the paperwork to make it look like you're owed more.


The person giving you the money insists that you take it because of what you mean to them.


It's an older person giving it to you and they might not know how much they're handing you.


You want to be known as a fair and honest person.


telling my friend that he needs to stop going after girls that are out of his leauge

It's rude to interference in your friend's romantic life.


They don't know that you are interfering.


Your friend is dating someone who is manipulative and abusive.


You have a crush on your friend's partner.


Your friend is being abused and needs help.


Your friend has told you before to mind your own business.


They ask you for advice or to intervene.


They do not interfere in your romantic life.


Your friend is old enough to make their own decisions


getting angry at my ex for telling everyone about a lot of personal stuff I told her

It's rude to share other people's personal stuff.

You are their publicist and they agreed you could share.


They said you could hand it out because they don’t want it


You've been asked by someone to share their personal stuff.


It could potentially ruin their relationship.


They gave you permission to share the information.


not wanting to date people with mental health issues

It is ok to be upset if someone won't date you because you have a mental health issue.


They told other people about your mental health issues.


They aren't compatible with you anyway in which case you're better off without them.


They also have a mental health issue and you feel the two of you are very compatible otherwise.


If someone cuts you off in traffic, it's okay to be angry.


not buying drinks for girls that bumped into me and spilled at a crowded bar

Hypothesis: It's okay not to buy drinks for people.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to buy drinks for people.

That person is recovering from serious alcohol misuse.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to buy drinks for people.

It is your turn to buy drinks in your social group.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to buy drinks for people.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to buy drinks for people.

Teenagers are asking you to buy alcohol.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to buy drinks for people.

The people are very thirsty and need water.


not wanting cousin to come to new years celebration

It's right to bring in the New Year with a celebration among people you want to be around.


You haven't seen those people in a while.


You are very sick with something contagious.


the people you thought you loved have abandoned you.


you also just got a job promotion thanks to those people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on others.

They bought a present and want it to be a surprise.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on others.

Being a whistle blower is more important than lying.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on others.

You are involved in a non disclosure agreement.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on others.

It is important that someone know what they are doing.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell on others.

There is no real danger or trouble with what they are doing.


It is rude to stop contacting someone with no explanation.


It hurts people's feelings if you "ghost" them.


The person is worried about you and afraid something bad has happened.


You lost your phone and all contact information.


not giving my roommate his share of the profit from our "business"

It's expected you would want to be paid your share of the profits from an endeavor.

You shirked your duties the entire time you were supposedly working there.


You were instrumental to the endeavor succeeding.


you were the sole reason a profit was made.


You invested a lot of your own money into the endeavor.


You have offered to donate your share for the cause you are working on.


Your efforts were taking you away from paid work.


It's nice to be there to help out those close to you.


You are enabling their problem and they aren't learning from their errors.


Those people are in a less fortunate situation.


You should maintain close ties to family members.

The family members have toxic personalities.


The family members are loving and supportive.


You have family members that are toxic to you.


It is good to tell people why you are cancelling plans.


You are sick and shouldn't be around them.


You don't have a good reason and you know the person will be hurt by what you say.


You want them to understand and not be too upset.


you are trying to work on an elaborate surprise for them.


You can't tell them because it's a surprise.


You would be revealing someone else's secret.


Lending money to family members is a bad idea.


That family member is known for being very reliable and hard-working.


That family member is known for being a deadbeat.


The family member is struggling and needs help.


They are using the money to feed their gambling problem.


You don't mind if you never get it back.


Your family members are rich and are just waiting for their structured settlement check.


not wanting to go out until his over the top acne clears up

Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to go out.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to go out.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to go out.

There is a tornado warning for your area.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to go out.

You need to evacuate your house because of a hurricane.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to go out.

You are sick don't want to spread germs.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to go out.

You promised someone that you would go out with them.


Hypothesis: Children should respect their parents.


Hypothesis: Children should respect their parents.

They love them and do whatever they can to protect them


Hypothesis: Children should respect their parents.

Their parents are neglectful and terrible role models.


Hypothesis: Children should respect their parents.

Their parents are gentle and supportive.


Hypothesis: Children should respect their parents.

Their parents have always treated them well.


being mad that my friend is also friends with a girl that mistreats me

Hypothesis: You don't have to like everyone.


Hypothesis: You don't have to like everyone.


Hypothesis: You don't have to like everyone.

It is impossible to think of any undermining context, this is true.


Hypothesis: You don't have to like everyone.

You will never have to interact with them more than once.


Hypothesis: You don't have to like everyone.

You are on the same team and need to work together.


Hypothesis: You don't have to like everyone.

your personality doesn't match some others.


talking too much about my parents' divorce

It is good to respect other people's privacy.

You're the parent of a minor and you're afraid their safety is seriously in danger.


You're trusted with large amounts of sensitive information as part of your job.


You hired a babysitter and they are watching your child at your house.


They have specifically asked you to respect their privacy


Many relationships just end in a natural way.


One member of the relationship has a tendency to be violent.


The relationship started in high school.


One person in the relationship died from a tragic accident.


Both people start to develop different interests.


They have not had any unnatural misfortunes


being angry at a friend for spreading my possible job opportunity

Friends are supposed to protect and support each other.

they are in a competition against each other.


One of the friends commits an extremely serious crime, like murder.


They've known each other for a very long time.


Your friends only use each other for money


They have known each other for many years


One friend cheated with the other friend's spouse.


The friend has lost a love one and needs support.


not appeasing my passive aggressive housemate

You should be direct when dealing with other people.


telling my mom I'm not coming for thanksgiving

It's okay to be honest with your family.

You're being honest about something unkind.


You're being honest about your sexuality.


You are putting yourself in danger by doing so.


You need them to help you in a situation.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


You have done something that affects them.


refusing to downgrade my Netflix subscription

Its not okay to keep a service and pay extra if it's a luxury in life and the money is needed for other things.


The service helps you retain your mental health.


You wouldn't even really miss the service if you had to live without it.


You have no dependents and your decisions only affect you.


You are responsible for other people's well being too.


You have just received a promotion with a raise.


stealing one of my friends onion rings because he yells offensive slurs at us on a daily basis

It is impolite to take someone's food without asking first.


You are at a restaurant and reach over to a stranger's table.


you know they are allergic to one of the ingredients.


They are in recovery for an eating disorder


You will give it back immediately because it was a prank


They have helped themselves to their own portion.


paying to get my part of the chores done

It's understandable to want to get out of doing undesirable tasks.


You're being paid a lot of money for the takss.


Those tasks are explicitly part of your job duties.


You're being asked to cover for the person who normally does those tasks.


You have able bodied children that want to earn some money.


believing student's should pay back their loans

Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.


Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.

The person in debt recently came into a lot of money.


Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.


Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.

It has been long enough since you helped them out


Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.

You have told them that there was no rush in paying you back.


Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.

You are in need of money and ask them to pay it.


Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.

You told the person that they would not have to repay it.


Hypothesis: It is okay to expect a debt to be paid.

You havd told them not to worry about it


not letting a trans guy join me and my friends' all-girls dance group

It's right to speak up if one of your friends behaves in a bigoted manner.


they have a bad temper and might hurt you.


they are being disrespectful to others in your group.


Your friend is speaking in front of the targeted minority.


avoiding a (Difficult) Lifelong Friend moving to my city

It's understandable to have difficulties in a friendship.


You get along great and agree on everything.


You just met and should be in the honeymoon period.


The people have been friends for a long time.


wanting a native american blessing read at my wedding

It is thoughtful to want to include Native American rituals into your wedding.


You are a Native who is enrolled in a tribe.


You have a very superficial understanding of their culture gleaned mainly from movies.


You have a significant amount of Native American heritage.


You will offend Native Americans at the wedding.


It's expected that a sibling will be nice to their younger sister.


The sibling has always wanted a little sister.


The younger sister breaks the other sibling's toys.


The younger sister always throws temper tantrums.


They don't live with their sister due to being split up in a divorce


Their younger sister started dating their boyfriend.


yelling "Taxi!" when I see a skier stack it

You can say anything you want because of freedom.

you are directly threatening harm to others.


you are trying to defend a certain groups rights.


You are shouting fire in a crowded theatre


You're inciting violence against other people.


You want to talk about your favorite show.


Your words do not cause direct harm to others.


being kinda salty about my wife getting braces

It's OK to be miffed if your partner spends money on an expensive medical procedure.


It's plastic surgery and they don't need it.


They need the procedure to improve their health.


It's a cosmetic procedure you morally disagree with.


Your partner spent your money without your consent.


Your partner needs heart surgery in order to survive.


Your partner is getting cosmetic surgery even though the landlord is about to evict the two of you for nonpayment of rent.


not going on a make-a-wish trip for my sister

It it rude to decline things that you are offered


the person is offering you something important to them


You are being offered food but you just ate.


You are being given a present at a Christmas party.


You are in line for communion at church.


It is important to be honest with your partner.

You're planning a surprise party for them


You should always be there for your pets.


Your pet is completely dependent on you.


There are multiple caregivers in the household.


cutting a coworker out of my life over what she claims is a trivial matter

It's rude to assume the reason someone cut you out of their life is trivial.


They have a history of being overly dramatic.


That person has been a demonstrated drama queen in the past.


They told you the exact reason and it was trivial


they have done the same sort of thing before.


telling my ex's parents about her drug use

Drug use shouldn't be viewed as a negative thing.


not wanting my friend to bring someone that no one knows with him while we go out

It's considered desirable to pursue inclusiveness among groups of people.

one group is sick and can spread the disease to others.


you want everybody to understand each others' thoughts.


You are a political organizer trying to sabotage another party via spoiling primaries


We want to dismantle old power structures.


You are in a room filled with children and they just want to talk about toys.


You are networking and trying to meet new people.


not understanding a joke I saw as serious

One should try to keep up with a conversation so as not to have a misunderstanding.

The person is using profanity and vulgar language


You want to make sure you heard everything right


The conversation is in a language you don't speak.


Others in the conversation are trying to understand your viewpoint.


One is eavesdropping on a conversation they shouldn't be hearing.


You are a witness in your own defense at trial.


It is during an important business meeting.


You have to watch a baby that is crying with pain.


You need directions from the other person.


leaving my bully locked out of her home barefoot and without her keys and phone

It is expected that you would be upset if someone locked you out of your own house.

You were going to surprise them and they didn't know you were coming.


you had failed to pay your part of the rent for many months.


they just did it to be alone with someone they were hooking up with.


They have no reason for locking you out.


You had done something to justify it, such as beating your spouse.


getting annoyed with an overly-affectionate couple at a restaurant

Intimate contact should be done in the privacy of one's home, away from the eyes of strangers and children alike.


You are in a country where you could be killed for the intimate contact.


You don't want others to be involved in your private life.


not sending reciprocate gifts for BIL & SIL's children

It's wrong to be rude to siblings spouses.


Your sibling has asked you to try to get along.


They are bothering you while you are reading.


You promised your sibling you'd try to get along with them.


It's not okay to let people you know prey on your significant other.


You thought the person you knew had your significant other's best interests at heart.


You knew ahead of time that person was trying to scam your significant other.


It's part of a roleplay between you and your partner.


The people preying on your partner have malicious intent.


not wanting to babysit anymore & getting mad when family members don't respect me when I say no

It's understandable to want someone you trust to babysit for you.

Your child doesn't like being apart from you.


It is last second and you need anyone to babysit right now


It's your first baby and the first time you're leaving them with someone else.


breaking our lease because my sister in law moved her cousins in without notifying me

Hypothesis: It's wrong to break a contract.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break a contract.

Your company will grow and profit as a result.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break a contract.

The counterparty did not hold up their side of their agreement


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break a contract.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break a contract.

you are prepared to face the consequences


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break a contract.

when the other party does something improper.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break a contract.

you're liable to fulfill your end of the deal.


getting Upset that my GF got me nothing for valentines

You should get a gift for your significant others on valentine's day.

Your significant other has agreed no gifts this year.


you know how much they will love a gift.


They do not celebrate holidays for religious reasons.


Your significant other told you not to buy them anything


You are considering ending the relationship.


wanting to instill a fear of flying into my 5 and 2 year old daughters

Hypothesis: It is wrong to make someone afraid.

You want to motivate an employee by making them fear that they might lose their job if they don't do it well.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to make someone afraid.

You are being cruel in making someone afraid.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to make someone afraid.

they are threatening you or someone else


Hypothesis: It is wrong to make someone afraid.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to make someone afraid.

That person has a heart condition where they can't get excited.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to make someone afraid.

The person doesn't know something is dangerous and it can hurt them and you want them to be cautious.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to make someone afraid.

Being fearful will stop them from achieving something they want.


You shouldn't tolerate mean behavior from your friends.

Your friend is going through withdrawals.


Your friend never apologizes for their behavior.


They've been treating you this way for years.


You did something bad to them and you deserve it.


You are in the wrong and need to be corrected.


Your friend is temporarily having problems coping.


Your friend's behavoir is getting worse.


making my best friend upset after telling him what another friend said about him to me

When you are telling someone bad news, you should do it as gently as possible.

it's urgent and needs immediate attention.


you want to help ease the person into the bad news.


you've had to tell them the same advice three times already.


they aren't listening to you and you need to get their attention.


it is regarding the death of a loved one.


They misinterpret anything that isn't explicit


denying my terminally ill wife the chance to be a mother

You shouldn't be a parent if you're terminally ill.

You became a parent before your diagnosis.


You became pregnant after your terminal diagnosis.


You already had the child before you became ill.


You are trying to become pregnant on purpose.


You have a plan in place for the care of your kids.


You got pregnant knowing about your condition.


You are still physically and mentally fit to be a parent.


You cannot give support and care to your kids.


You had your child before your diagnosis was made.


You can't even afford your medical costs.


not wanting to be an on demand therapist

You shouldn't make unreasonable demands of your care giver.

that is the job that they are getting paid to do.


your caregiver thinks that all demands are unreasonable


they are never doing their job as described.


they always do a great job caring for you.


It's fine if you don't want someone watching you practice.

You are paying a coach to give you lessons.


You specifically asked for their feedback on your performance.


It is wrong to concern yourself with an ex partner.

You share children with them and are required to interact.


They have a restraining order against you.


not wanting my bf to invite his friend to our wedding

It is okay not to want obnoxious people at your wedding, even if they are friends.

They have been particularly generous to you in the past.


You think they will cause discord at the ceremony.


They are your best friends and you would feel bad uninviting them.


They disrupt your wedding by yelling and screaming during the ceremony.


They have a history of embarrassing you in public.


not wanting my boyfriend to be around someone he cheated on me with

Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on your partner.

You are trying to honor your marriage vows


You should always clean up something if you are supposed to do it.

You ran out of time at work and had to punch out.


You are ill and unable to get out of bed.


You have agreed to be responsible for cleaning up.


There is an emergency and you can't get to it right away.


The mess could hurt someone, such as a broken glass.


you can pay somebody else to do it for you.


wanting nothing to do with my sibling's lives

Family is expected to be involved in each other's lives.


Telling your boyfriend what time they need to be home by is controlling.

Your boyfriend is supposed to drive you to work at a particular time.


You have only been dating this guy for a week.


They need to be home to take care of their kids.


They are at work and can't get off at the time you want them to be.


They want to make sure they don't miss the party.


They are hanging out with their friends.


You know your boyfriend goes out and gets drunk.


You make them call you when they get home.


He has asked what time he should be home for a certain event.


He is a grown man who doesn't like to be told what to do.


If someone does not accept your apology, it's better not to force the issue with them.


They are a boss who is penalizing you unfairly.


You would be violating a restraining order.


You did not apologize adequately the first time.


You were not friends in the first place.


You want to have a chance on keeping the relationship with them.


They have a restraining order against you.


breaking up with boyfriend post major operation

You shouldn't add to a person's troubles when they're going through hardship.


You could just keep your troubles to yourself or talk to someone else.


You really despise the person and want them to suffer.


The troubles are remedies and solutions to their hardship.


The person cannot commit more time and effort them.


If you don't tell them about the new problem, it will get much bigger over time.


The new problem is something that can easily be dealt with later.


The person owes you money that you absolutely need immediately.


You can wait on all of the things you need to talk to that person about.


continuing a relationship I know won't last

It's ok to end a relationship that isn't working for you.


The other person depends on you for medical assistance.


The relationship is a hostile relationship.


You are working for a company and the relationship is your boss.


Both you and the other person are unhappy with the relationship.


You shouldn't cut your parents out of your life.


They were physically abusive towards you.


You want your children to have a relationship with their grandparents.


Your parents are overbearing and highly critical.


Your parents return your love and support.


You have a loving relationship with them.


It's good to adopt a cat so they can have a loving home.


They have been at the shelter for a long time.


You have space and love in your hearts for cats.


thinking a classmate was a special education student because of an accent

It's wrong to make fun of people with mental disabilities.

the person asks you to make fun of them.


The person is also in the joke and is having fun.


The jokes are demeaning and cruel to the person.


accepting a job then changing my availability

It's okay to change your schedule if you give advanced notice.


You know someone can easily cover your shift.


it is very important that you are there.


You are going to schedule a bank robbery.


Your job is shorthanded and needs to another person.


Your job is really busy and needs all of their workers to come in.


Your boss has asked when is your upcoming vacation.


It's wrong to sabotage the efforts of others in a group.

You are trying to expose them of cheating.


They are working hard to ensure that the team wins.


They are doing there best to help others


You are doing a class project and might get into trouble if you do.


The group is working on a project worth many points in their grade


It's rude to not take a friend to the ER.

You do not have a vehicle or a driver's license.


You have the transportation means to do so.


They have asked you to call an ambulance instead.


They dont' have a true medical emergency and just want drugs.


checking up on my ex boyfriend at the request of his sister against my current boyfriend's wishes in the middle of the night

Asking the ex-partner of a sibling to check up on them is wrong.

You are requesting a welfare checkup on their safety.


The sibling and their ex-partner remain close.


They are the only person you know who lives close by.


not wanting to invite fiancee's friend to our wedding

Leaving people out of important events is not okay.

They have stated that they will not be able to attend.


The person has asked to attend the event.


The important event is a surprise party planning meeting for them.


The person is the one supporting the important event with money.


The people being left out are dangerous people.


The people being left out are the guests of honor.


They are the spouse of another participant


They are insufferable people that no one wants to be around.


They have included you in their events in the past.


launching a smear campaign over a powerpoint presentation

Sometimes it's justified to respond in a petty way when over avenues of resolution fail.

Your petty responses can harm others, or may be illegal.


You are willing to just walk away all together.


They haven't responded to anything else.


The other party wants to appease and make up.


The other person has cheated you out of your money.


Hypothesis: It's rude not to talk to someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude not to talk to someone.

They are asking you an important question.


Hypothesis: It's rude not to talk to someone.

The person is your partner on a project.


Hypothesis: It's rude not to talk to someone.

You are in church and everyone is being silent.


Hypothesis: It's rude not to talk to someone.

They are a good friend who has said something to you.


not wanting to date single moms even though I have a child

People are less desirable mates when they already have children.

The other person has children of their own


The children lack any kind of discipline.


They are a great parent that loves their children.


They are still in love with their kid's parent.


suspending an employee I've known since I was seven

It is hard to be let go from a company you have worked at for a long time.

They give you a severance package that sets you up for life.


You have given a lot to the company and are getting nothing in return.


You are excited to start at a new company.


You never could stand working there and the company is under indictment for fraud.


You gave them your best years and you're a year away from retirement.


refusing to go out in the rain and get carts at my job because they only send me to spare the females having to get wet and cold

You're supposed to listen to your bosses.


Your boss is harassing you or being abusive.


You are looking to get a raise or promotion.


They are teaching you how to do something.


having my dad pay for my college, but then ghosting him for the rest of my life

Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.

There has been abuse from a family member.


Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.


Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.

there is a member that likes to steal from you.


Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.

you grew up together and still live close to each other.


Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.

The parents were sent to prison and never had the chance to raise their children.


Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.

They had a lot of fights and are estranged


Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.

They have abusive members who are impossible to be around.


Hypothesis: Families are expected to be close.

They are enduring hard economics times and need to help each other.


getting mad that my girlfriend wants to spend entire weekends at her family's house

Hypothesis: It's OK get upset over being homesick


Hypothesis: It's OK get upset over being homesick


Hypothesis: It's OK get upset over being homesick

You have only been away from home for an hour.


choosing not to respect a trans person's pronouns

You should be more respectful of other people.


Those people are just trying to give you advice


You are the least experienced person at work


You live in a bad neighborhood where everyone is committing crimes.


They are the head of the department you hope to get hired in.


They are your parents and treat you with respect.


laughing at those Howard Stern videos of Beetlejuice, the disabled man in those youtube videos

It is good to recognize those videos are of poor taste.


They are a comedy act and are not to be taken literally.


The videos are being shown in the presence of children.


The videos have some value despite their lack of taste.


The videos have no value along with being in poor taste.


You find them under your teenaged son's mattress.


having enough and storming off? and not inviting them back

It's okay not to invite someone back when you are mad at them.

You're willing to make up and talk with the person.


You feel like you might become violent towards the person.


They did something deliberate to offend you.


Doing so would violate equal protection laws.


You are alright with ending the relationship over it.


getting upset at some friends for making a mistake and feeling that they didn't do a good job to make up for it

When your friends do not meet expectations, it's okay to get angry.

It is something they are not good at doing.


You talked about your expectations beforehand.


They asked you to help but aren't even trying.


carrying on an argument, when they never appologized

Apologizing to someone you've made upset is expected.


They are a criminal that is trying to take advantage of you.


The reason why the other person is upset is because you chastized him for using a racial slur.


You should try to trust your significant other.


You are both in counseling to work on the relationship.


They repeatedly give you reasons not to.


They have never given you a reason not to.


you don't want to be with him anymore and plan to divorce him.


you plan to spend your entire life with him.


they are always honest with you especially.


wanting to go to the nearby elementary school and ask them to turn down the speaker system that is echoing throughout the neighborhood or to at least stop shouting into the mic

It's OK to expect the schools in your neighborhood to be quiet when open.

The school it having an spring outdoor festival.


The students are studying in the library.


The schoolchildren are on the playground at recess.


it is recess time and all the kids are outside playing.


all the students are in their classrooms learning.


It's okay to want space from your parents when you have grown up.

Your parents are sick and you need to take care of them.


They interfere in your private life a lot.


You have developmental disabilities that prevent you from leaving independently.


They have very different ideals and values from your own.


You recently moved back into their small home to save money on rent.


You are now dating a person that likes to have privacy.


they were very controlling when you were young.


You shouldn't ask out someone that is under-age.


You are of age and a lot older than them.


You are a teen and go to school with them.


not wanting to buy a gown for a birthday party

It is good to be financially responsible


You are a child and do not understand money.


You become obsessive over your finances.


You have money to burn and want to treat yourself.


giving my niece a pet fish and then taking it back

It is OK to give your niece a fish and take it back if she can't care for it.


One of her family members can take care of it.


You can see that the fish is not going to survive.


You want to teach her the hard lesson of responsibility by letting it die.


She really didn't want it in the first place.


You don't tell her why you are taking it back.


wanting to date a trans guy against my dads wishes

It is okay to have your own romantic tastes.


You want to be a strong independent person.


You live in a family that believes in arranged marriages.


It is Valentine's Day and you are single.


You and your partner have agreed to try to like what the other one likes.


You are trying to keep your own identity in the relationship.


It's understandable if you don't want to go to a holiday dinner.


The dinner is being hosted by family that you don't like.


You are the one who planned the holiday dinner.


There is a blizzard that makes it dangerous.


You are in charge of preparing the dinner.


You are the one hosting the holiday dinner.


calling a girl a bitch for her drunk actions

Hypothesis: It's not a good idea to insult someone.


Hypothesis: It's not a good idea to insult someone.


Hypothesis: It's not a good idea to insult someone.

They have insulted a woman and should be called a 'cad'.


being upset about my best friend's new relationship

It's wrong to ignore your best friends when you are in a new relationship.


Your best friend is going through a hard time.


Your best friends are being racist toward your new partner.


You do this every time you are in a new relationship.


Your friends are trying to manipulate you in to breaking up so you can still party.


You have made plans with those friends already.


It's good to stick together with a family member.

You're trying to buy a secret gift for that family member.


You're young and don't know where you are.


It keeps you from making friends with others.


Some family members prefer solitude under certain circumstances.


Your family member asks for you to help them repair the roof.


They are a small child who needs your help.


having my GF skip out on her favorite restaurant on her birthday

It is expected that on someone's birthday, you do what they want to do


They are only asking for you to eat cake with them


You accepted their offer of covering any expenses you would have incurred from the birthday celebration.


cheating on someone who doesn't like "affection"

Hypothesis: It is bad to cheat on anyone.


Hypothesis: It is bad to cheat on anyone.

You're married to the person you'd be cheating on.


Hypothesis: It is bad to cheat on anyone.


Hypothesis: It is bad to cheat on anyone.

They are reprehensible cheaters themselves.


It is understandable to resent someone you see as holding you back.


That person doesn't actually interact with you much at all.


you have no control over having this person in your life.


You asked them to hold you back from eating too much sweets since you are on a diet.


The impeding obligations touch on family responsibilities.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to guests.

they have overstayed their welcome and it's time for them to go home.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to guests.

you invited them over in the first place.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to guests.

They have spilled red wine on your white carpet.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to guests.


Hypothesis: You should not be rude to guests.

The guests are evincing boorish behavior.


If you're in a relationship with someone, you should be honest with them about your expectations

The two of you have agreed to take it slow.


You want to build the relationship up to something more, like marriage.


You aren't sure what your expectations are.


They have been honest with you about theirs.


You want a long lasting, trustworthy relationship.


liking Instagram posts about cars and somewhat sexual women

It's fine to like Instagram posts about people's cars.

Their cars are used in illegal street racing.


You're really into cars and car culture.


you become obsessed and can't focus on anything else.


you want to learn about different types of cars.


The post is about their car being stolen.


using my own car and not putting gas in it

Hypothesis: It is smart to keep gas in your car.


Hypothesis: It is smart to keep gas in your car.

You are going on a long drive through a rural area.


Hypothesis: It is smart to keep gas in your car.


Hypothesis: It is smart to keep gas in your car.

You are going to be transporting flammable material the same day.


Hypothesis: It is smart to keep gas in your car.

You are traveling out of state to a place you are not familiar with.


refusing to re-join the what'sapp group my father create for his side of the family

You shouldn't expect your kids to do what you asked.

You want them to do homework so they can pass their class.


you're responsible for their well-being.


they're old enough to make decisions for themselves.


You have raised them to be extremely obedient.


What you are asking goes against their nature.


telling my dad that I don't approve of his new girlfriend

It's acceptable to tell a family member when you don't approve of their relationship.

It is obvious they care a lot about the other person.


The person they are getting involved with someone who is treating them horribly.


They asked you to stay out of their business.


Their significant other is your employer who just won a humanitarian award.


They are dating someone that is half their age.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell people instructions.

You have already told them the instructions several times already.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell people instructions.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell people instructions.

the instructions instruct someone to break the law.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell people instructions.

you are a elementary school teacher giving an assignment to students.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell people instructions.

They inform you that they know what they need to do.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell people instructions.

The person doesn't know what they are doing.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell people instructions.

They may already know how to do their job.


being very privatley disdainful towards my mother for our current situation

You should work to forgive your parents.

Your parents have never apologized for hurting you.


Your parents have apologized for their wrongs.


They apologize several times for their bad behavior.


They have been actively working to make amends with you.


being upset at my GF venting to her ex-bf about suicidal thoughts

Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.

The thoughts are used to write a paper about it.


Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.


Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.

The person already has plans and is close to acting on them.


Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.

They are just thoughts, and there was never any indications that they would follow through with it.


Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.

They have taken steps to make an attempt at suicide.


Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.

You are writing a book about suicide prevention.


Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.

They are coming from someone who has learned how to deal with the intrusive thoughts in a healthy way.


Hypothesis: Suicidal thoughts are an emergency.

The person is making plans to harm themself.


It's important to not lose yourself or your friendships in pursuit of a relationship.


All of your friends warned you about that person


Your friends have been unsupportive of your relationship.


Your friends have been supportive of your relationship.


Your friends are actively trying to prevent you from being happy.


You are blind to how bad the person is who you are pursuing a relationship with.


blocking and reporting transgenders on Tinder

It's wrong to do things that you know make people uncomfortable.

The reason they are uncomfortable is because they are a bigot.


that person is highly sensitive and being overly dramatic.


you are doing it on purpose to annoy them.


The uncomfortable thing is a medical procedure to help the person.


You are demeaning and treating the person with disrespect.


These people are discriminating against a member of a minority group and don't feel comfortable talking about why this is wrong.


calling myself a marathoner or saying that I completed a marathon

Lying about achievements is detestable behavior.

you are playing an elaborate joke on a friend.


your achievements claim medical credentials  that you do not hold.


You are trying to get hired at a job you know you are qualified for.


You are a doctor and could harm someone by not being honest about what you have achieved.


telling the truth would get you in more trouble.


it is to elevate your own status or someone else.


You are a politician trying to win an election.


You are interviewing for a new position.


being pissed after I found out my girlfriend stayed over at her ex-boyfriends house the night before Thanksgiving

It is expected that couples dating will not hang out with people they dated in the past.

They ended the relationship on a good note


The person one of them dated in the past is the sibling of their current significant other.


The person they dated in the past is married.


thinking my parents ruined my birthday party

You shouldn't accuse your parents of doing things.


You know deep down they didn't really do those things.


never staying the night at my partners place

It's expected that you spend a lot of time with your partner.


You are in a long distance relationship.


They are deployed overseas with the military.


My partner and I both commute to work in opposite directions.


My partner and I share rides to our mutual employer's location.


refusing to pay for the cremation of an animal I accidentally killed

Hypothesis: You should pay for your own mistakes.

You made them while trying to save a family from a burning building.


Hypothesis: You should pay for your own mistakes.

Those mistakes led to a child being injured.


Hypothesis: You should pay for your own mistakes.


Hypothesis: You should pay for your own mistakes.

You are a child and don't understand what you did wrong.


Hypothesis: You should pay for your own mistakes.

You are a teen and are trying to show your parents that you are responsible.


going to a new friend's Oscars party instead of a good friend who usually hosts

It's rude to skip a good friend's party.


You have nothing more important going on.


Your friend came to your party and you want to repay the favor.


you have come down with the flu and don't want to get everybody sick.


they do not have a lot of people coming in the first place.


not wearing a pink apron with sprinkles on it my so got for me

You should consider a person's tastes when you get them something.

Your husband needs a suit to wear to a royal wedding and the one he likes has a tropical print with big red macaws all over it.


You are buying a wedding gift for that person.


They need a car and have no knowledge on the subject.


You are getting them a dress for their wedding.


you are trying to get them to try new things.


they have expressly stated a dislike for certain items.


You want to get them something they'd enjoy.


showing a woman at my gym too much attention

You are right to be upset if someone if paying you unwanted attention.


They are your parent and they are just trying to help you out.


You have broken the law and that person is a cop.


You have already told the person to leave you alone.


getting mad at my friend for using me for my pc

It's understandable to believe that someone's friendship is genuine.


That person has a history of lying to others.


They frequently invite you out to social events.


They give you many reasons not to believe.


They have always been a good friend to you.


That person has risked their life for you


losing my cool with my so who has severe health anxiety

You are expected to be understanding of other people's problems.

The problems are too minor to be any trouble to them.


They have a drinking problem and need help.


They are in jail for committing a crime against you.


Their problems are due to their mistreatment of you


They are people who continually bring problems upon themselves.


They have been very helpful to you when you've had problems.


complying with my friend's request and defending myself against a stranger

It's good to comply with your friend's requests.


their requests ask you to break the law for them.


you offered your help to them just prior.


Your friends ask you to do illegal things often.


Hypothesis: It's bad to kill people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to kill people.

You are a teacher and are trying to be a good role model.


You don't have work alongside someone you dislike.

You dislike them for superficial reasons.


That person is making your work life hostile.


Your assigned cubicles are located next to each other.


It interferes with your job performance.


telling my neighbors who keep feeding my cat and causing my cat to not spend time at home and gain lots of weight to stop feeding him

It is nice to feed a cat if it appears to be hungry


You are feeding it food that will make it sick.


The cat is allergic to the food you have.


You are giving it food that was meant for your family.


You can afford to take it in and take good care of it.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your parents.

Your parents supported you throughout life.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your parents.

You lived in a religious commune and they shunned you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your parents.

They pay for all of your expenses and cook for you.


not caring about my friend who got sexually harassed after she made everyone think I was a liar

You should always be there for your friends.


They have murdered someone without remorse.


Your friends have always been there for you.


Your friends are in need of help because of illegal activities.


Your friends are always there for you when you have needed help.


your friends just experienced a big loss.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to betray a friend.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to betray a friend.

They asked you not to tell their secret.


telling my mother that I am not going to sneak around the house to accommodate our muslim house guest as the lady doesn't want to be seen without a head cover thing

You shouldn't discriminate against people of different religions.


your own religion is a bit different in their beliefs.


Their religion is destructive and racist.


You are at work and work with a lot of people from different cultures and religions.


The religion is harmful and they are trying to draw you in for your money.


They are doing good things for the community.


Hypothesis: You should trust your partner.


Hypothesis: You should trust your partner.

They have done nothing to lose your trust.


Hypothesis: You should trust your partner.

They have given you reasons not to trust them like cheating or lying.


Hypothesis: You should trust your partner.

They have always shown themselves to be trustworthy.


Hypothesis: You should trust your partner.

they have hurt you many times in the past


not playing the games my friend wants to play

Friends should be interested in similar things.

You enjoy it when opposites attract each other.


They are members of the same church and clubs.


They are from different countries and respect each other's differences.


They get along really well despite their interest in different things.


It's understandable that sometimes family gets on your nerves.

You rarely see or hear from your famil y.


Your family is made up of small children that do not know any better.


They keep asking you why you have not gotten married yet.


they get on your nerves when they are being reasonable.


you don't have the same opinions as everyone in your family.


telling my gf I don't want her to hang out with our old boss anymore

It's okay if you don't want to hang out with a specific person.

That person is your family member who needs your help dearly.


That person has wronged you in the past and you don't want to start trouble.


You're only avoiding the person because some of your friends don't like them.


that person holds racist beliefs about your ethnic group.


That person has no friends and just moved to the area.


That person has known gang affiliations.


not jumping in to support my so in her own "aita" thread

It is wrong to post on someone's "aita" thread if you can't be impartial.


You were not asked to comment and join in on the discussion.


You have been through a situation as the asshole


You know the truth and want others to know the truth.


telling my parents I don't need them and not wanting to help with money anymore

It's good to stop taking money from your parents and support yourself when you grow up.


You have moved out of your parent's house.


your parents are helping you get through graduate school.


your parents struggle to make ends meet.


You are interning for a job that will be lucrative later.


You've led a profligate lifestyle and can easily support yourself if you showed a bit a thrift.


doing a sort of silent treatment to my gf

It's ok to let someone know that you aren't okay with verbal abuse.

The person is unknowingly abusing you because they have Tourette's Syndrome.


You are in the military and talking back to the commander.


You feel like the abusive person might become violent.


You're in a safe environment with friends to help.


getting mad at girlfriend at massage with Male Masseur

It's wrong to get upset with your partner over a massage.

They continually do something uncomfortable.


They are just trying to make you feel better.


They are getting a massage from their previous partner.


He went to get a massage alone by a female.


they painfully pinched you by accident .


Their doctor prescribed massage to help deal with a medical condition.


taking my son to a homeless shelter because he wouldn't get a job

Parents should encourage their children to become self-sufficient.

They are babies and can't take care of themselves yet.


They are high schoolers and are old enough to get a job.


The children are babies and cannot take car of themselves.


They want to teach the children how to be independent adults.


they know their child is never going to have the capacity to help themselves.


They can see what their child is capable of.


taking bonus points instead of other students

It's rude to take something meant for someone else.


You have the person's permission to do so.


You are only keeping it safe for them until you can give them the item.


They have been anxiously waiting for the item to be delivered.


You are trying to return an item that they forgot about.


It is good and expected to keep a relationship between two people.

One person is hateful toward the other person.


Both people are very good to each other and they get along well.


You both prefer that the relationship is open to other people.


You have agreed to an open relationship.


feeling like a wailing wall and demanding superfluous whining to stop

You shouldn't have to listen to everyone's problems.


You have your own problems that are worse.


you have your own problems to deal with.


You have your own mental health issues to worry about.


calling an annoying guy a brainless monkey

Hypothesis: It's bad to sling insults at someone.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sling insults at someone.

The person you're insulting is a family member.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sling insults at someone.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sling insults at someone.

The other person is sensitive and will cry.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sling insults at someone.

You are participating in a roast and it's all in good fun.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sling insults at someone.

You would hurt their feelings very badly.


not wanting my stepdad involved in my wedding

It's expected that one will include one's relatives in one's big celebrations.


They have invited you before to functions


The relative live out of town and cannot make it.


They are giving you gifts for the occasion.


Those relatives only want money from you


letting my roommates eat peanut butter from the same jar I let my dog lick out of

If your roommates know where the peanut butter has been, let them eat it if they want.


The peanut butter could potentially make them sick.


You always buy it and they never ask to use it


It's okay not to want to participate in a party.


The party is for your grandmother who is turning one hundred.


You were invited by people that bully you.


The party doesn't involve you or your family.


not wanting my girlfriend to go to dinner with another guy

It is normal to be upset if someone you are dating wants to go to dinner with someone else alone.


They did not tell you who that person is


That person is a potential client they're pitching over dinner.


The person they want to go out with is their mother.


They want to go to dinner with their ex-romantic pardners.


The both of you have agreed to have an open relationship.


You want it to become a serious relationship.


lying to my friend about not being in an abusive relationship with her brother and then ending the friendship because she was related to him

You should always be truthful to a friend.

Lying to them will keep them from being hurt.


Your friend has an ugly baby and she asks you if you think the baby is cute.


Your friend has a drinking problem and asks you if you think she should get help for it.


They depend on you to be honest with them.


quitting my job while on paternity leave

It is expected that you take care of the newborn baby and your wife on paternity leave.

You and your husband adopted a baby and are equally healthy and able to care for it.


Your wife had serious complications during the birth.


You're in a high-power position at your company where you might lose a chance at a promotion if you're absent.


You work at a place where other employees can easily cover for you while you're on leave.


you are sleeping and it is your wife`s turn to feed.


your wife suffered a difficult childbirth and is bedridden.


You're estranged from your wife and child.


Your wife's recovery from birth is slow.


breaking up due to lack of texting and communication

It's expected that you respond to your partner's text messages.

The company manager's meeting lasted all morning.


My partner is pregnant with our first child.


you are in an important business meeting and can't be interrupted.


there is an emergency with one of your children.


Cell phones are not allowed in the workplace.


You carry your phone on you at all times.


"coming off negative" or "attacking" when I am straight forward with someone

Hypothesis: It's wrong to attack others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to attack others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to attack others.

You are defending yourself from an attack.


telling my GF that I longer want to travel with her

It's okay to decide that you don't want to go places.

You have promised your children you will take them someplace.


You are sick and want to stay in bed to heal.


It is your job to deliver packages to them.


You're agoraphobic, and your doctor is trying to get you to face your fears.


You have spent many years traveling, and now you just want to stay home and relax.


missing multiple days of work from being sick

It's understandable that your employer want you at work even if you are sick.

You're contagious and can infect co-workers and customers.


You're a key employee and are the only person who can do critical tasks.


You have to give the presentation at the annual meeting.


You are have already called out of work and was approved


They are short handed and need all the help they can get.


Your sickness is highly contagious to your co-workers.


You are absolutely necessary for work to get done and you can work away from others.


If a family member is bothering you too much, you should tell them to back off.


They are interfering with your good relationship.


Your family members are prone to violence.


Your family is usually very understanding.


not telling my girlfriend that I'm bisexual

You should tell someone your sexual orientation before you get involved with them romantically.

The person doesn't care about your sexual orientation and loves you for who you are.


You know they really don't care and it's not a big deal.


you aren't interested in them physically and you know they are interested in you physically.


You are not sure what their preference is


They tell you they would want to be with you no matter your orientation.


You think they would have a negative opinion of your sexuality.


You want to see if they love you for who you are


It is a different orientation than they are expecting


ignoring people when I have my headphones on

It's expected that you won't ignore people.

The people are hostile and will harm you.


you are a sentry with The Queen's Guard and must ignore everyone


You are in a hurry and they are strangers.


They are people who you personally know.


being an asshole ... but in a game where being an asshole is a valid strategy

It's understandable that people do things for fun in the right context that they wouldn't normally do.


The fun activities are expensive and need to be saved up for.