It is expected to be intimate with a partner.


They are sick and don’t want to make you sick.


It's okay to be upset with people even if your close with them.


They apologized by buying you a new computer.


They don't know what you're upset with them about and are unaware they even hurt you.


They hurt you badly and don't seem to care.


lashing out against my mom because of a cat

One shouldn't say angry things to others over trivial matters.

One has told them these things over and over in the past to no avail because they don't care.


One hasn't told them anything before and they can be sorted out amicably.


They keep messing up and not fixing anything


They keep doing the same thing to irk you when you've asked them to stop repeatedly.


You're looking for a reason to not have to see that person again.


The other person is intentionally trying to annoy you.


not telling my girlfriend the name of an old friend

You shouldn't hide things from your partner.

you are planning a surprise birthday party


you are hiding their Christmas presents.


You are hiding their future Christmas present.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

Your parents are very abusive  and hurtful towards you.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

They are kind and truly love you a lot and want what's bet for you.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your parents.

your parents were abusive toward you as a child


getting upset when my girlfriend talked to the man who raped her

It's okay to get upset with a partner if they are talking to someone you don't approve of.


They were assaulted by that person in the past.


wanting to end a friendship because of a shroom trip

Hypothesis: You shouldn't do drugs with friends.

you are both diabetics and shooting insulin.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't do drugs with friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't do drugs with friends.

You are smoking marijuana in a legal state.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't do drugs with friends.

You are doing marijuana in a place where it is legal.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't do drugs with friends.

Your friends are doing hard drugs like cocaine or heroin.


You should do favors for others when they need it.

They are asking you to smuggle drugs on a plane.


They have helped you when your car broke down.


you have other commitments that you have promised


The favor involves heavy lifting beyond your strength.


The favor is easily added to your weekly errands.


You are at work and not able to get off work.


considering my nonbinary friend as "not woman enough" to represent my gender onstage

It's wrong to judge people based on their gender identity.

You kindly ask a boy not to use the girls restroom.


You are excluding someone from a baseball game for being a girl.


You are researching gender identities under controlled scientific standards.


They identify as trans or other gender fluid roles.


They are changing their identity every day for attention


THey are already having a hard time being accepted


pretending to be asleep when a girl invites me over

It's wrong to lie to a person that's being nice to you.


they are always open and honest with you.


Telling the truth  would only hurt them badly unnecessarily.


You wish to gain that person's trust and admiration.


The lie would save them from an ugly truth.


You are trying to save them embarrassment


confronting my gf about telling her 2 friends and 2 sisters about every major and minor event in her life

It's wrong to try to isolate someone from their friends and family.


their friends and family are toxic to them.


they haven't seen their family or friends in a while.


Unless they have a very contagious disease.


Especially if they haven't done anything wrong.


They are undergoing detoxification treatment.


doing nothing while my sister gets hit by my dad

It is good to defend those who are in a vulnerable situation.


They've gotten themselves into that situation by wronging others.


Defending those people could cost you your life.


Defending those people would be easy for you.


they are innocent and defenseless people


It's disruptive to call someone out in a movie theater.

They are talking loudly and you ask them to be quiet.


You are getting in a loud fight over personal issues.


The person is loudly talking so that no one else can hear the movie.


flying home to see my family while my wife and kids stay home

You shouldn't expect to come with your partner to visit their family if you need to stay home and take care of the kids.


you really don't want to visit their family.


telling my RA about my roommates pissing problem

It is good to report problem behavior to your RA.


The problem will implicate you in trouble.


another resident is causing you problems.


You are able to directly handle the problem yourself


choosing to continue to not have a relationship with my father

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

you want them to be pleasant toward you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

they haven't done anything to deserve it.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

you simply can't reconcile issues with them


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your family.

you want them to be part of your life later on


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.

You are clinically depressed and working with a doctor to cure it.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.

It is affecting your children's quality of life.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.

It is not appropriate in certain situations


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.

One who has just received some terrible or disconcerning news, one  may be excused a measure of apathy toward all else..


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.

The apathy may be hiding a serious depression or illness.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.

You are afraid of people getting close to you


Hypothesis: It's bad to be apathetic all the time.

It is causing issues with your relationships.


going to the Camp fire in Paradise, CA to do some amateur photography

Hanging out around a campfire for too long can do harm to your lungs the next day.

It's an artificial electrically powered campfire just for looks.


You're burning either poison sumac or poison oak.


you are breathing in smoke all night long.


You were not close enough to the fire to inhale smoke.


You did not build the fire correctly or were too close to it for a prolonged period.


It's fine to wish there was more agreement in discussions.


someone is bullying others because they don't agree.


You are in a religious cult and everyone has to agree with the leader.


Your family is trying to decide where to go on vacation.


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to old friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to old friends.

They have always been supportive toward you.


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to old friends.

They have been disloyal to you in the past.


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to old friends.

They turned your family in to the police.


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to old friends.

They protected you from the school bully.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a snitch.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a snitch.

doing so would save someones life or well-being.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a snitch.

Your friend is planning to kidnap a child and you need to tell the police.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a snitch.

Your friend is just keeping some forbidden candy in his school locker.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a snitch.

you are helping protect an innocent bystander from danger.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a snitch.

you were also involved in the wrongdoing.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be a snitch.

You are snitching on your family members.


dozing off while watching tv with my boyfriend

It's good to let your partner sleep when they are tired.


They have to be at work in an hour or they'll get fired.


They have an important work meeting in five minutes.


They cooked and cleaned all day the night before.


Hypothesis: It's polite to share food with others.


me not wanting to be with my girlfriend now she's being promoted to a new position

You don't have to be with parter who doesn't have time for you.

You're dependent on your partner to provide you with a luxurious lifestyle.


They don't spend any of the time they're not with you working.


That person provides a home and food for you.


Your partner is working extra hours for your down payment.


Your partner values money over companionship.


They always make time for their friends.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to hate your sibling.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to hate your sibling.

Your sibling looks up to you as a role model.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to hate your sibling.

you want your relationship to grow and get better


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to hate your sibling.

Your sibling doesn't think you're a good person.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to hate your sibling.

Your sibling is always trying to be nice to you.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to hate your sibling.

it is out of jealousy for their successes.


making a potentially offensive joke to a gay coworker

Making an offensive joke in purpose is always wrong.

you are performing a comedy skit and everyone knows it is a joke.


you are making it about an ethnic group and people of that group are nearby and can hear you.


You are saying it in front of easily triggered people


It's done in good humor with close friends.


You're making a racist joke in front of people of that race.


demanding that my mom delete a post about me

It's fine to make posts about your children.


They are in the witness protection program.


You are posting things that make fun of them.


You are posting positive things about their achievements.


you are providing sensitive information.


you are sharing really personal information about them that could make them a target from a predator


you are sharing good things that they have accomplished with friends and family


Hypothesis: People are expected to work hard.


Hypothesis: People are expected to work hard.

They have a physical disability that doesn't allow them to work.


Hypothesis: People are expected to work hard.

They are able-bodied and in good health.


telling people to stop trying to preach to me to be a Christian again

Hypothesis: You shouldn't preach to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't preach to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't preach to others.

The person or people you are preaching to need that guidance.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't preach to others.

They tell you that they do not want your opinion.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't preach to others.

Unless you are preachers practicing together.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't preach to others.

you've just been caught cheating on your spouse.


ending a friendship with a female friend because she was worried her fiancé wouldn't like her going on an overnight trip with a (gay) man

It's okay for people to take trips with whomever they choose to.

they take another persons spouse on vacation with them.


both are responsible adults that can make their own decisions.


they are hitchhiking and could disappear.


the other person did not want to go and was kidnapped and forced into taking the trip


both people are adults and consent to going


You can't afford the transportation fare and hotel prices.


They are at the age of consent to do so.


wanting privacy and not wanting to talk to my boyfriend 24/7

It is good and neccesary for everyone to have some alone time.


You are a Siamese twin who is still attached.


It is a retired couple who are always home together.


you are unable to be alone at that time.


not helping to take care of my younger cousin

The responsible thing to do is help look after younger family members.


Especially if your parents have full time jobs.


you are being paid to look after the younger ones.


You have to go to school and work to provide for them.


You have so much going on that you just don't have the time.


There is no one else in the house equipped to look after them.


It's okay if you don't like the food someone gives you and don't want to eat it.

It would create an unpleasant situation.


You know they worked very hard to prepare it just for you and it doesn't violate your diet rules.


It violates your diet or religious rules.


They went through a lot of trouble to make the food.


not paying for my gfs books after she said that she could do better than me

It is wrong to fail to support your loved ones


your loved ones support you when you need it.


Your loved ones never take your advice anyway


Your loved ones are doing harmful things that you need to stop.


Your loved ones ask for your support and they are doing good things.


They are asking you to support a harmful habit.


blaming my mother for my eating disorder

It is okay to hold people accountable for harm they have caused


They were drinking and driving and caused an accident.


They harm that they caused is severe and life changing.


lying to my girlfriend about my previous history

Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.

They ask if they look fat and you do not want to upset them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.

You are telling them you are going to a friends house and instead go see your other girlfriend.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.

You are lying about something that occurred before you were together.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.

Your partner honestly passes on your deceitful information to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.

you want to surprise them with something.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to a partner.

you are concealing something important from them.


It's understandable that people can be frustrated when you constantly barrage them with your opinions.

They specifically asked for your opinion


They have told you in the past that you express your opinion to often.


They are trying to relax after a long day of work.


you are in class and are their professor.


You don’t let anyone else give their opinions after


It's wrong to let animals into areas where they shouldn't be.


You are a zookeeper who let the bears in with the giraffes.


It is an establishment that serves food.


The animals are starving and you let them into a garbage dump to eat.


The animal is a large predator who could hurt people.


they have been captured illegally and you are freeing them.


They're injured and you're trying to tend to their wounds before taking them to the veterinary hospital.


not sharing my tip with my fellow waiters at my "non-tipping" restaurant

Hypothesis: You should always tip others.

The service was so bad and the food sucked too.


Hypothesis: You should always tip others.

They gave you good service and cared about your needs.


Hypothesis: You should always tip others.


Hypothesis: You should always tip others.

They work in an industry where tipping isn't expected.


Hypothesis: You should always tip others.

They were attentive and helpful throughout your meal.


Hypothesis: You should reply when people text you.


Hypothesis: You should reply when people text you.

You’re playing on your phone and can easily text back.


Hypothesis: You should reply when people text you.

They won't stop texting you after you told them to stop.


Hypothesis: You should reply when people text you.

The text is about a family member in the hospital.


It's wrong not to pleasure your partner.


You're currently on the subway with twenty other people.


Your partner is working through trauma that prevents them from enjoying physical pleasure.


You should listen to music at whatever volume you wish in your own apartment.


The walls are so thin your neighbors can hear every word.


Your apartment actually has decent sound-proofing.


It is loud enough to disturb the neighbors


You are on the 2nd floor with tenants underneath you.


You are the only tenant in the building.


blowing up at my son after he failed to meet my expectations by not getting into UC Berkeley or UCLA

Getting angry that the expectations you created for your child were not met is toxic.

Unless you were just expecting them to clean their room.


Especially if you are over-scheduling and stressing your child.


you are only expecting them to respect you.


all you wanted was for them to not get held behind a grade


wanting a friend with mental illnesses to actually talk about it

It's good to help a friend who is having mental health issues.


Your version of help is actually harmful.


You don't know the right thing to say to them.


You've had similar experiences and can share what worked for you.


They have threatened or attempted to physically harm you.


asking my sister to pay for half of a hotel room

It is expected that you help pay for a trip you go on.


The other person offers to pay for everything.


You are a child going with your parents.


wanting to spend 10+ hours a day on improving myself

Hypothesis: It's wrong to waste your time.

You don't have any more obligations for the day.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to waste your time.

There are many chores that need to be done.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to waste your time.


It's okay if you can't make it to an event if you have good reason.


it is the most important event in the person's life.


You are supposed to be hosting the event.


It's okay to make mistakes in class or on projects if you tried your best.


You caused an explosion in the chemistry lab.


The grade is only a portion of your final grade.


You made the mistake because you came to class high


It was a mistake that was not covered in the study material


You deliberately make the mistakes to spite your partners on a group project.


It's a class that's a challenge for you.


wanting to be friends with someone my girlfriend hates

It's okay to have a life outside your relationship.

You're in a bunker after a nuclear apocalypse and there's nowhere else safe to go.


You've always been very ambitious about your career.


You are going to the bar to meet other people.


You miss your partner when you;re apart.


It is wrong to expect that everyone knows your name.


They're your students and have been in your class all semester.


breaking things off the day after we had sex

It's good not to string people along in a relationship.


The person is thinking of proposing to you.


You're trying to distract them from stalking their ex.


This is their first serious relationship.


Her window of time for having children is running down


you are doing so to protect your life until you can escape


you care about the other person and don't want to hurt them


you are not sure how you feel about them.


you have decided you don't want to be with them anymore.


telling my sister I think she's lying about being raped

Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

The lie will protect them from something.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

They need to know the truth so they can take action.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

You're lying about a surprise birthday party to the birthday person.


wanting to help my mom by washing one dish and I ended up in tears

It's wrong to get emotional around your family.


you come from a family that doesn't share emotions with each other


Unless a family member suddenly passes away


You're family tends to keep a stiff upper lip


You are crying over the death of a friend.


The emotion you are experiencing is rage.


you need to be the strong one to keep everybody together.


You are celebrating becoming cancer-free.


It is understandable to get mad when someone treats you poorly.

You treated them badly first and deserved it.


You have never hurt them at all and it's for no reason.


you have tried to be super nice to them.


They have a history of doing this to you.


explicitly stating I am not going to contact my autistic brother

It is reasonable to decide whom you do and don't want to be in contact with.

You're a drug dealer deciding not to be in contact with the law.


The are your children and you need to raise them.


Certain people try to bring drama into your life.


You are famous and are avoiding fans and paparazzi.


charging my sister more when I babysit her kids than when I babysit my friend

If your sibling is asking for money in exchange for a service, you should pay them.

They had promised you wouldn't have to pay.


They performed the service through their business.


asking my mom to use male pronouns for me

It is good to voice your expectations to other people.


You are trying to do a blind pain test on a patient.


Voicing your expectations would hurt the chances of them coming to fruition.


You don't want to make them feel unworthy.


scolding scooter riders on the wwii memorial

Scooters should only be ridden in places that allow it.


They can be of danger to small children.


you use a scooter because of a disability.


There have been many more scooter accidents recently.


Hypothesis: It's rude to "ghost" someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to "ghost" someone.

The person was with you for a one night stand.


Hypothesis: It's rude to "ghost" someone.

You were trying to form a romantic relationship together.


Hypothesis: It's rude to "ghost" someone.

they wouldn't respect your direct request to back off.


It is reasonable to fire someone who does not do their job.


You already warned them before and they haven't improved.


The person was in an accident and is unable to work.


The person is spending shifts talking on their phone.


They are costing the company money and bad press


not wanting surrogate father around baby/mother

It is expected that a surrogate father would be unwanted if they might be harmful to a mother and child.


The father was dangerous in his actions.


The odds of that person being harmful are lower than the odds of them being helpful.


That father figure has a history of domestic violence.


The mother feels having the child know its father is worth the risk.


The mother wants to raise her child with her same sex lover as the other parent.


calling animal control to come get a stray dog

You shouldn't just let stray dogs wander the streets.


Unless there's no place else for them to go.


Especially if there is a shelter nearby.


not wanting to see a scary movie with my gf

You have to realize that people will have different tastes in entertainment than you.

They are young and you’re trying the broaden their minds.


They are set on what the like or dislike.


You are both part of the same cinephile club


You're at a convention for one type of entertainment.


You're working in the entertainment industry.


making a girl cry even though she was picking on me

Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.

you think doing so will harm someone else.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.

you're in the Witness Protection program.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.

Another kid at your school is bullying you.


not answering the door when my parents visit

It's understandable to want privacy in your own home.


You have not had much time to yourself recently


you operate a bed and breakfast out of your home.


You are expecting privacy from your own spouse.


It's understandable not to want to see an ex-boyfriend again.

You have children you are coparenting together.


They still have something that belongs to you.


You are in a new happy and healthy relationship.


The ex-boyfriend never treated you with respect.


Unless he's bringing you something you left at his place.


not wanting to do my daughters hair every day

A parent is expected to take care of their child.


Their child passes away from a genetic disorder.


The parent gives the child up for adoption.


The parent fights for custody of the child.


they have hired a nanny to take care of the child.


there is nobody else to help take care of the child.


wanting my maths teacher to speak English

It is normal to want to be able to comprehend your teacher.


Your native language is their second language.


if they speak English as a second language.


You don't like the way she teaches your class.


not caring about the cats I shared with my ex

You shouldn't get a pet with anyone else unless you're married.

you're in a long term relationship with them.


you are willing to give up the pet if you break up with your partner


you are unwilling to care for the pet by yourself


You aren’t sure if you will stay with your partner


you are related and stay at the same house.


you are thinking of having kids together.


One of you is planning to move to another state for college soon.


being upset at my gf for always putting me second

You should always put your partner first.


Your partner is a whiney immature person


Your partner is someone who is not kind to you.


It is your birthday and you're having cake.


You are thinking of purchasing some gifts.


You've been neglecting your own needs for months.


suggesting my gf seek counseling for her family drama so I don't have to hear about it anymore

It's understandable to want your significant other to seek professional guidance.

You are the one who really needs it and refuses to go.


You are afraid they may be developing a mental illness.


they really have no need for professional guidance


they are showing signs of mental illness


Your partner is doing well in their life.


Your partner is experiencing depression.


Unless you are just trying to make them feel bad.


Especially if it will save your relationship.


body-shaming my boyfriend when he broke up with me? it's lengthy so tldr at the bottom

Hypothesis: You shouldn't body-shame someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't body-shame someone.

You are judging a body positive competition.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't body-shame someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't body-shame someone.

You're doing it to someone who cares about you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't body-shame someone.

They are fat or have a weak self-esteem about themselves.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't body-shame someone.

you don't want to be seen as a hateful human being.


not sitting back down at a public event when asked

When there are others around, it's important that you conduct yourself politely.


You are young and they are all much older.


You're surrounded by people you are comfortable with.


You're at an event that has no formal politeness.


getting upset that because the parent of our youngest child decided to come into our house without being invited

It's annoying when someone enters your home without permission.


Your home is on fire and a firefighter enters.


subjecting 3 unwitting "friends" to the world's hottest chocolate bar

Hypothesis: It's wrong to cause others pain.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cause others pain.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cause others pain.

you need to defend yourself from an attacker


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cause others pain.

you don't want others to have a negative opinion of you


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cause others pain.

The pain is used along the path to healing.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cause others pain.

The pain you cause will lead to permanent injury.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cause others pain.

you are a chiropractor doing an alignment.


not wanting to share a post that says "share if cancer sucks"

It's okay not to want to share something online.

It is a picture of the dog you found so the owner can id it.


you are trying to find your lost dog and need to let a lot of people know to look for her.


it involves your spouse and he wouldn't like that.


It's a necessary piece of information when you sign up at an online company to get services.


You don't know if you can trust the online entity that wants your info.


Someone else is a part of it and would like to share online


It is a personal matter that no one needs to know about


wanting to follow a dream and sacrifice a relationship in the process

It's understandable that sometimes people let go of relationships to pursue their dreams.


they don't feel supported in the relationships.


You divorce your husband to become a circus clown.


You are leaving your hometown and boyfriend to go away to college.


They are in a marriage with children and need to keep their head out of the clouds.


Their relationships are holding them back.


being mad at my boyfriend for getting a lap dance

You should consider if your actions will hurt your loved ones.

You know that’s taking time to read a book it’s not going to hurt them


You were spending too much time at work and not with them


Especially if they will find out about them.


not answering calls from a friend going through a divorce

It's wrong to ignore your friend's calls.

You know they're just prank calling you.


They told you they might need a ride away from a party that might go bad.


They send a message that has the word urgent in it.


You are in the shower and your phone is in the other room


You know that your friend is having issues with their partner and needs some advice


looking for someone else immediately after breaking up with my ex

It's expected that you take time to heal from a past relationship.


The relationship ended in a painful way.


Someone new has stepped in and swept you off your feet.


You were already mentally checked out of the relationship.


You were in a relationship for many years.


You've become interested in someone else.


It's wrong to be rude to someone that you care about or cares about you.


They know you have a condition that makes you lash out when you don't mean it.


they said or did something that really hurts you


not wanting to stay in touch with a group of old friends anymore

There should be no excuse in keeping up with old friends due to how easy it is to send a message.

the friend is in a remote area with no cell or internet coverage.


You are not interested in keeping contact with a particular friend.


You are hoping to reconnect with friends from school.


both parties are still good friends and want to keep each other informed


You shouldn't share photos without permission.


You would be violating someone's trust by sharing them.


You are wishing someone a happy birthday with a picture and it’s a surprise


treating customers with foreign sounding names different than others

Hypothesis: Prejudice is wrong.


Hypothesis: Prejudice is wrong.


Hypothesis: Prejudice is wrong.

Unless you are prejudiced against prejudiced people.


Hypothesis: Prejudice is wrong.

Unless you are prejudice against bad people.


Hypothesis: Prejudice is wrong.

Especially if you are an adult and know better.


matching with someone on a dating site just to talk to them

It is okay to try to make friends through apps.


The app is made for private therapy sessions.


The app is set up for making friendships.


The people you're making friends with are sexual predators.


You don't have a lot of friends in real life.


Hypothesis: You should spend time with your family.

you have an important job interview planned


Hypothesis: You should spend time with your family.


Hypothesis: You should spend time with your family.

They went on vacation without inviting you.


Hypothesis: You should spend time with your family.

You only get to see each other once a year.


cutting off contact with my adopted sister because she "loves" my rapist like a "brother"

Raping someone is a criminal act and very wrong.


there is never a situation that is correct here.


You are acting out your close partner's fantasy that they want you to do.


The person is crying out for you to stop and is weaker than you.


calling someone who wears a suit for fun a "pretentious idiot"

Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people names.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people names.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people names.

They tried to get you kicked off the soccer team.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people names.

They just fell off a swing and cut their hand.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people names.

Especially if you are the leader of a country.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people names.

Your college friends have inappropriate nicknames for each other that you use in private


You shouldn't try to control your significant other


You are trying to help them quit drinking.


You are trying to control who they are allowed to hangout with.


They scored higher on an IQ test than you.


you don't want them to try to control you.


getting mad when my best friend trys to buy me stuff, even though I tell him not to

It's okay to get mad at a friend who won't stop doing something you don't like.

Unless they don't even know you don't like it.


Especially if they know you don't like it.


They are working for a charity that feeds the homeless.


not letting my girlfriend read my journal

You should not keep secrets from your significant other.

You are planning a surprise vacation for the two of you.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


You have become addicted to gambling and are losing a lot of money.


your partner does not keep secrets from you.


The secret is a surprise party that you are planning.


You are hiding flirtatious messages with a co-worker.


Your significant other can be unreasonably jealous.


What you need to tell them will help them in the long run.


being upset about the house my mom let me buy for 1/4 of the value

It's wrong to be upset with a someone who has done you a favor.

They only did you a favor so they could use it against you later.


They were trying to be nice and help out


While the person was doing you the favor, they wrecked your car because they drove drunk.


The other person did your taxes for free.


They did something else to make you upset with them.


What they did went above and beyond the normal scope of a friendship


Unless they have also betrayed you in some way.


Especially if they haven't done anything wrong.


not quitting smoking weed just because my husband has to

Hypothesis: It's good to quit smoking weed.


Hypothesis: It's good to quit smoking weed.

you are looking for a new job that will drug test.


Hypothesis: It's good to quit smoking weed.

a doctor told you to use it for medical purposes


Hypothesis: It's good to quit smoking weed.


Hypothesis: It's good to quit smoking weed.

You have been smoking instead of completing your homework.


Hypothesis: It's good to quit smoking weed.

You use weed to treat a medical illness.


denying my terminally ill wife the chance to be a mother

You shouldn't deny your partner their wishes.


Your partner's wishes are harmful to you.


Your partner's wishes are for personal space.


They want to quit their job and join the rodeo.


Your partner is always good about giving you what you want.


their wishes are for very simple things.


insisting that my boyfriend's house is redone in certain ways

You shouldn't stick your nose in your partner's private business.


you have evidence they're doing something like cheating


They have shown no evidence of wrongdoing.


You have a feeling that they are doing something that would be considered disrespectful to you


starting a relationship knowing that it is doomed to end early

If you do not want to be with someone, you should end your relationship with them.


You believe you will change your mind in the near future.


You are trying to work it out in couple's counseling.


You are waiting for the right moment to end it.


The person is already talking about marriage.


wanting my mom in the delivery room but telling my dad he can't be

It is unfair to rob a grandfather of the birth of their grandchild.


The grandfather wants to be in their life


He is locked up for killing the grandma.


It will be his first and he has wanted one all his life.


posting facts to anti-vaxxers friends fb page

It is important for others to know the dangers of not vaccinating.

You believe that vaccinating is harmful.


they have a medical reason not to be vaccinated.


Their child gets a reaction from vaccinating


There child has had a bad reaction and the doctor has recommended not vaccinating.


They are planning to take their child on vacation to a developing country where many diseases we vaccinate against are still prevalent.


You don’t want your kid to get a preventable disease


It's rude to abandon a companion while drinking.

You have to leave to get home and get ready for work for the next day.


They have been depressed and upset about things happening in their life.


The companion passed out in their own home.


they do not have a ride and cannot take care of themselves.


refusing to play piano in front of my mother and her friends

Never let your mother down from her expectations.

you absolutely cannot fulfill them at all


you definitely can fulfill them pretty easily


She has unrealistic expectations of you becoming President.


She only expects for you to clean up after yourself.


You have your own expectations for yourself.


Your mom is always there supporting you.


Your mother expects you to sacrifice everything for her.


You're responsible for getting your mom to her appointments.


giving little sympathy for someone who throws pity parties all the time

It is okay to be tired of someone else's drama.


not wanting to see a play that my GF and ex-wife are both in

It's OK to not be interested in the same thing as family members.


Those family members are off at college.


It is the well being of another family member


you and your family only hang out doing things that everyone agrees on


You have told them before that it does not interest you.


wanting my best friend of nine years to move out December 1st to DC or California

It is wrong to tell a friend what to do.

They asked you for instructions on how to reimage their PC.


They've told you many times before that you can be too bossy.


you don't want them telling you what to do.


You tell them how they can spend their money.


reusing to say "christmas" in front of my christian family even though I left the "faith" (roflmao) years ago

You sometimes have to do things you do not want to please your family.

your family expects you to do things for them that will hurt you emotionally


your family usually supports you when you need help


They are asking you to go to high school.


You have absolutely no contact with your family because they are abusive.


You  love your family a lot and want to have smooth relations with them.


calling my mom selfish a week before Thanksgiving

Hypothesis: It is rude to call people names.

they are trying to hurt you and you are trying to get away from them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to call people names.


Hypothesis: It is rude to call people names.

It makes them sad and hurts their feelings


Hypothesis: It is rude to call people names.

you are joking around with your friends.


not wanting to give my parents my iTunes password

It is reasonable to want to keep your password private.

multiple other people use the device too


Unless you need someone to do something for you on your computer.


Especially if it's for your bank account.


It is for a shared account at work that other coworkers use.


It is for a personal account of yours that contains sensitive information.


You have had your identity stolen before.


your parent has demanded that you share it.


returning a Christmas present I bought for a coworker

It is acceptable to return an item that was originally purchased as a gift.


there's nothing wrong with the item and you like it


the item is clothing and doesn't fit you


You're not fond of it and no one else is as well.


it has been already been used and damaged.


It's wrong not to talk to someone because they have someone special to them.

They express the fact that they want to leave the person that is special to them.


The person that is special to them is one of your good friends.


You talking to them would cause problems because of the someone special's insecurities.


getting upset at my gf for saying the n-word

It's reasonable to call a loved one out on racist behavior.


You belong to the race they are being racist against.


You're in public and doing so would embarrass them much more than is necessary.


You're more or less alone with them and can help them to see the light.


They have dementia and won't remember your comments long enough to change their behavior.


Unless you put yourself in danger by doing so.


Especially if you want to continue to have a relationship with them.


calling my brother-in-law and alcoholic if he is an alcoholic

It is okay to voice concerns with family.


Your concerns aren't based on the truth.


Especially if you are concerned for them.


not wanting to be in a band with a mentally disabled guy

It's rude to refuse to associate with someone who has a disability.


Unless the disability has nothing to do with it and they are just an unpleasant person you are not compatible with.


You had no problem with them before they became disabled.


They are mean and act hostile towards you.


They look up to you and see you as a friend.


getting upset with my friend's boyfriend

Hypothesis: It is good to support your friends.

they're doing things you don't agree with.


Hypothesis: It is good to support your friends.


Hypothesis: It is good to support your friends.

your friends only use you for what they want and they never support you


Hypothesis: It is good to support your friends.

they support you when you need their help


Hypothesis: It is good to support your friends.

they've done something you disagree with


Hypothesis: It is good to support your friends.

they are good people just trying to help the needy


Hypothesis: It is good to support your friends.

They want to borrow a large sum of money from you.


not wanting my younger brother to have his friends over

You shouldn't tell your family what to do.


You are young or not in charge in your family hierarchy.


you are an expert in what they are doing.


you don't know what you're talking about.


You are more knowledgeable than they are and can see they won't know on their own what the right thing is.


You want to avoid your relations with them devolving into controlling ones.


seeing my boyfriends messages saying he doesn't love me, whe he won't tell me himself

It is unacceptable to snoop in someone's phone or computer.

You're a computer forensics expert executing a police search warrant.


you're doing it without their permission


they are missing and you are trying to find them


they asked you not to touch their stuff in the past


wanting some reciprocal verbal sympathy for being sick from my pregnant wife, who is also sick

It's good to want to sympathy when you are sick.


you are faking sick just for the sympathy.


you have been sick for a long time and are feeling lonely.


you are making your sickness seem worse.


It's okay if family doesn't always get along.


The family has to live in close quarters.


They only see each other a few times a year.


A roommate shouldn't put you in a position to have to call the cops.


They are being attacked through no fault of their own and need help from the police.


They are asking you to call the cops to report something.


You find them stuck in a drain and you have their cell phone.


You sued the police department years ago.


giving my terminally ill sister an ultimatum on adopting her children

Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.


Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.

it's your first time giving someone an opportunity


Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.

An employee of yours is being rude to customers.


Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.


Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.

it's the only way to make everyone happy


Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.

Your partner hasn’t proposed for ten years


Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.

You are telling a student they will fail the class if they don't do extra credit.


Hypothesis: It is rude to give ultimatums.

You are telling your child they must get an A or be spanked.


not answering a call to give my "close" friend a reference

It's nice to help people in their professional lives if possible.


There are limited spots and you re both competing for the same promotion.


They volunteered to watch your dog when you were away on vacation.


You're competing with that person for a promotion.


You're the manager of the people you're helping.


not wanting to go to family gatherings with my so

It is rude to ignore your partner's family.

they are toxic people who don't respect your boundaries


they are always nice to you and have helped you out in the past


Your partner's family hates your guts and your partner is okay with it.


You want your partner to be happy and her family is kind.


Your partner has asked you to speak to them.


studying illustration while living with my BF of 3 years

It's good to study things that interest you.

You're studying things that harm humanity.


You are worried about how marketable your skills will be.


You can find a job in the same field afterwards.


it takes time away from important tasks you have to do.


By doing so you aren't making enough time to study subjects you need to learn for a job.


You want to grow your overall knowledge.


getting upset at my boyfriend for talking about other women in his sleep

It is okay to get upset over a breech of trust.

the breech is part of a movie plot line.


You had serious doubts about the person to begin with and never really knew them well.


The breech has dire ramifications for you and you were certain about the person beforehand.


The person that betrayed you was your spouse.


You are setting unreasonable rules for others.


The cover up was to keep you from getting involved


breaking a lease to move back home to finish my studies

It's okay to want to change your living situation to improve your life .


You want to improve it for your children especially.


You are in a very dangerous neighborhood.


You're getting rid of the people who care about you in the process.


You're improving the lives of those around you.


Especially if you just got a great new job.


not paying for my roommates laptop that I may have broken

You should pay for things you've broken.


you broke it on purpose in a fit of anger.


You've broken an expensive vase in a store.


you have broken one of your own possessions.


you broke something that belongs to someone else.


They were your things you wanted to throw away.


sharing breakup thoughts with my girlfriend right when she gave me a Valentine's gift

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get gifts.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get gifts.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get gifts.

There are people who deserve the gifts more than you


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to get gifts.

You use another person's identifying information.


It's okay to be frustrated with your friends.

You're frustrated with them for doing something you also do.


Unless you are trying to get them to do something wrong.


Especially if they are doing something wrong.


You have just spent a lot of time together.


wanting to get my head checked to make sure I don't have a major concussion

It's important to make sure that you're in good health if you have a concussion scare.


You've already been cleared by the doctor.


You play sports that require physical impacts.


The paramedics say you don't need to be checked by a doctor.


I can't think of anything to undermine this.


Being annoyed is a normal emotion. It is okay to be annoyed sometimes.


Your roommate isn't letting you get any sleep.


someone is trying to help make you laugh


It's wrong to have ulterior motives when talking to someone.

You are trying to distract them from their surprise.


The person you're speaking with is a friend or family member.


telling my friend I didn't want to be friends with him anymore

It's good to be honest with your friends, even if the truth hurts.

If they find out the truth, they'll just obsess about something they can't control.


They need to take action soon or something bad will happen.


nobody else is telling your friends what they need to hear.


calling a girl 'not girlfriend material'

It is bad to categorize someone because you do not like things about them


The things you are categorizing them by are racist or bigoted.


they committed heinous crime that forces society to label them criminals


the only reason you dislike them is that they disagreed with you


the things you don't like are abhorrent in any person.


tipping extra instead of cleaning after myself at a restaurant

It's wrong to not clean up after yourself.


You are at a hotel and paid for room service.


You are a year old and are just learning how to feed yourself.


You made a mess at someone else's house.


Some people will be offended no matter what, and it's OK to disregard them when telling jokes to friends.

They are children and the jokes are inappropriate.


You are just clowning around with close friends.


your jokes are clean and not offensive to most.


You are telling very racist jokes more than your friends can hear.


feeling upset? my gfs family just got a puppy and returned it the next day

People should not get pets if they're not going to take care of them.

they are planning to put them up to be adopted


they are fully aware of this when getting the pet


Their parents are taking care of the pets.


No one else is there to take care of them.


They know beforehand that they will not be able to take care of them.


getting upset that my so is "flirting" with other people

It is okay to get upset at your significant other if they are overly flirtatious with others


You are misinterpreting their friendliness


They have done so in the past and ignored your wishes.


it's just their nature and they don't mean anything by it.


they always flirt with very young people.


keeping my kids away from a dog I don't trust

Hypothesis: It is good to protect your kids.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your kids.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your kids.

You're so overprotective you don't even let them have friends.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your kids.

they're in a situation where they need to learn a lesson


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your kids.

you want them to learn to be independent


being pissed at my dad for telling me how to fix my mistakes

You shouldn't be angry at someone for giving you advice.

they are doing so after the fact and saying they told you so.


They are doing it simply to patronize you


being mad at BF for ignoring his friend was in love with him

Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your friends.

You heard them talking bad about you behind your back.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your friends.

They are talking to you during the finale of your favorite television show about dragons and knights.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your friends.

They got unjustly fired that day from work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your friends.

Your friends didn't invite you to go bar hopping with them last weekend.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ignore your friends.

Your friends have planned a nice surprise for you.


It's expected that you'll be friendly to neighbors.

You live next to a known terrorist organization.


You have very friendly neighbors who show kindness to you.


Unless your neighbors are serial killers.


Especially if your neighbors are friendly to you.


they cut down your trees because they don't like the leaves falling on their lawn.


you plan on living there for a long time.


They always smile and wave when they see you.


telling my friends to stop taking about their periods

One should never talk about private hygiene matters in public.

They are having a discussion about an issue they have.


They do not want to be judged by other people.


A specialist is giving a lecture to a room full of students.


The people listening will feel uncomfortable.


You should invite your friends to events.


They live in the same neighborhood as you.


They have expressed interest in attending.


The event explicitly states that you can not invite others to come with you.


It is something that they would enjoy attending like a concert.


Your friends would be uncomfortable at the event


Your friends have been wanting to go to the events.


dating a friends ex almost a year after their break up

It is good to date someone who is not an ex of someone else close to you.

You are soulmates of the ex of the person close to you.


Their relationship ended on particularly bad terms.


The person close to you gives you permission to date them.


They still have a lot of feelings for their ex.


you want to keep your friendships from becoming awkward.


You and the ex have permission of the one close to you.


You want to maintain a relationship with the people close to you.


You want to get revenge on someone who wronged you.


That person close to you is your best friend.


knowing that I love my husband more even though he thinks he loves me more

It's not okay to think someone is lying to you when it's important.

You have proof that they are not telling the whole truth.


they are completely untrustworthy person.


they have always been truthful to you in the past.


They have changed their story several times.


leaving the drunk, under 21, girl on the curb of the ER

It is irresponsible to leave a young drunk girl outside alone.


being pissed at my friend who has been bragging about being high for the past week

Hypothesis: It's bad to use drugs.


Hypothesis: It's bad to use drugs.


Hypothesis: It's bad to use drugs.

They were prescribed to you by a doctor.


Hypothesis: It's bad to use drugs.

They will cause adverse health effects or could kill you.


Hypothesis: It's bad to use drugs.

they are prescribed for a medical condition.


not caring about other people's lives and not wanting to know about their "problems"

You are expected to care about your friends lives and problems.


You are too overwhelmed with your own problems.


Your friend opens up to you about their feelings.


Unless you are too busy with all your own problems.


Especially if your own life is pretty stress free.


ratting out on a cheater in my Calculus class

Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on school work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on school work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on school work.

You are stealing the teacher's test keys.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on school work.

You're helping someone who won't graduate high school without assistance.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on school work.

You take tests for wealthy students in exchange for cash.


keeping £500 of my college fund, which is meant for paying off my debt

If you're in a financial hardship, it's better to borrow from a fund than it is to pay interest on a loan.

You'd be charged a large penalty for borrowing from the fund.


You can't get a loan with a decent rate.


You can get a bigger loan when you pay interest.


Your friends are all broke and struggling too.


You have a wealthy friend who won't mind at all helping you.


not greeting the security guard at my office

It is rude to ignore the security personnel at your place of business.


They have been making inappropriate comments to you.


You are trying to steal from the business.


they have discovered someone with a gun is there.


they are sitting around drinking coffee.


unless speaking to them interferes with them doing their job.


It makes people sad when they see a grandchild avoiding a grandparent.


They're not the type of person who gets emotionally invested in strangers' lives.


That grandparent is emotionally neglectful to the grandchild.


the grandparent wants to spend time with their grandchild.


The child doesn't know who their grandparents are.


The child was once close with their grandparent.


Making insulting jokes can make people dislike you.


They have the same sense of humor as you.


You are telling offensive jokes at work.


You're a professional comedian performing your routine.


They're not very fond of you to begin with.


Loved ones are expected to stay together.


Some of your loved ones are abusive to you and hurt you.


You have a loving family who is kind to you and you want to help them.


The relationship is failing and will not work out


being annoyed of my roommate and his new girlfriend

It is understandable to be upset if your roommate is annoyed with a new relationship of yours.


you have been supportive of all of your roommates relationships.


Your roommate encouraged your relationship.


you suspect your roommate has a crush on you.


It's wrong to tell secrets to your friend's partner.

You think that they should know something important.


You think it will create unnecessary drama between them.


Your friend has asked you to not tell them.


it's involving something that isn't relevant to their relationship.


Unless it's something they need to know.


Especially if you are betraying your friend.


you want your friend to keep trusting you.


telling a friend/dj why I really didnt want to go to his shows

Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends

they are relying on you too much for financial help.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends

they are going through a tough divorce and need someone to vent to.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends

They want you to support them doing something illegal.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends

They have always been supportive of you in the past.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends

Your friends are involved with the wrong crowd


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends

They tell you that they don't want your help.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to support your friends

They are going through a very hard time in their lives.


You shouldn't expect your coworkers to always be happy with you.

You always give your coworkers coffee in the morning.


You are always giving your best effort to your job.


You are constantly mocking your coworkers.


You are the one who makes the coffee and brings the donuts everyday.


You are the one who has to write people up when they make mistakes.


cheating on someone who doesn't like "affection"

One should be open about your preference in contact.

You're dealing with a traitorous murderer.


Your boss is asking for contact information.


They have never been touched before and are shy.


They are your spouse and it is your wedding night.


You won't get hired for the job you're interviewing for unless you say you're available 24/7.


You're trying to figure out how to make a long-distance relationship work.


One can't afford any other options of contact.


One has a lot of contact options available.


You should not be forced to attend a funeral if you do not want to attend.


Your family asks you to be there for moral support.


You did not know the deceased very well.


Especially if it's not someone you're close to.


Your sister begs you to attend to give her emotional support.


You do not get along with the family attending


People are expected to engage in conversation during a meal with others.

They want to wait until after the meal so they do not choke.


They are having a family dinner and want to catch up on their day


They are shy and everyone at the table is a stranger.


They are unable to speak to to a disability.


If someone has started an interesting conversation.


You are monks who have taken a vow of silence.


Especially if they are asking you questions.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines.

Especially if everyone is waiting for the same thing.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines.

People aren't actually standing in line.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't skip lines.

You have a chance to be invited in higher.


saying that my parents should have gotten divorced

You shouldn't get divorced just because your kids want you to.


Your kids are being mistreated by your spouse.


They are just upset due to not being spoiled.


they are trying to save you from an abusive relationship.


they don't understand how much you love your spouse.


Hypothesis: It's good to know how to drive a car.


Hypothesis: It's good to know how to drive a car.

there's no other means of transportation


Hypothesis: It's good to know how to drive a car.

You live in a city or town where public transportation is adequate.


Hypothesis: It's good to know how to drive a car.

You have to have a way to commute and there's no public transportation.


Hypothesis: It's good to know how to drive a car.

your area doesn't have public transportation.


Hypothesis: It's good to know how to drive a car.

you live in a place where cars aren't allowed


It is considerate to break up with someone in a respectful way and in person.

you are living on the other side of the world


you have an opportunity to meet with them in person


You are in a long distance relationship.


They would find a face-to-face confrontation awkward and would prefer to deal with it in writing.


You know they'd be hurt if you deal with it by text or online.


ditching my girlfriend on Valentine's to go to dinner with another girl

Its best to end a relationship if you plan on cheating on them

Unless it's an open relationship anyway.


you don't think you can get your partner to agree to end it.


you don't want to go through a bunch of drama toward the end.


you want a commitment in the new relationship.


thinking my boyfriend should contact the police about his missing sister

You should allow someone else to have their privacy.

You think that person might be in danger.


You think that person might be on a date.


you worry their hiding illegal activity.


they have hinted towards hurting themselves.


screaming at my little brother in the middle of a restaurant because I didn't appreciate he and his friends chanting "this is MAGA country!"

It is rude to chant something loud at a restaurant.


You've booked the entire facility for a private event


it is a themed restaurant that allows/encourages chanting


You should be understanding when your date gets canceled.


You see them out with another person the same night.


your date was injured and forced to the hospital.


getting angry at the gym instructor for trying to scam me

You should try to work out problems with others with getting angry.

You are in a safe space where you can express that emotion.


they are fighting so loud they can not hear you if you dont get loud and angry


They just punched your child in the stomach.


the others are not reasonable and are bullies


you want to keep a good relationship with them


It is unacceptable to destory someone's possessions.

You're destroying their pot right before a police raid.


You destroy their ID and birth certificate to try to get them deported.


they were already in the garbage anyways


They have been very abusive to you and it helps you to move on.


They have done nothing to you and mean a lot to the other person.


Those possessions are in a trash compactor.


being too aggressive with my 'furry' roommate

Hypothesis: You shouldn't be too rough with a pet.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be too rough with a pet.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be too rough with a pet.

they are biting you and you cant get them to let go


kicking my friend of 17 years out of the group

Friends are expected to include one another in their social activities.


the friends enjoy doing things together.


The friend has stated that they have a prior engagement.


the activity is a mixer for new college students.


It's OK to change your plans if you realize you can't afford them.


Someone else agrees to help you pay for it


somebody has already started doing the project without any pay


nobody was hired and you didn't set it up yet


you have put down a nonrefundable deposit.


it would cause a big problem for others.


you're trying to be financially responsible.


not answering the phone in a 20 minute window while in the middle of a conversation with a previous professor

It's rude to interrupt one call for another call.

You have been waiting for important news.


Someone is opening up to you about their personal life.


You have to take a call about your sick child.


You were originally on an important business call.


telling my girlfriend I need some time to fix my Head

You should respect someone that needs time to think.

Time is of the essence and you need a decision now.


The decision they need to make is very important.


They need to make a decision in an emergency situation.


The decision will have long term implications on their as well as others lives.


They are making a life changing decision.


There is not much time and they need to choose.


not being proud of my wife for only being 7 minutes late to work rather than 15

It's rude to not acknowledged when someone made an improvement on a situation.

You just met the person and are unaware of how they were before.


Your family member has been working hard to eat healthy and exercise.


You want to encourage more improvements.


You know they've worked very hard to improve things.


they were just a stranger who came over to help


they have taken credit for someone else's work.


not leaving the dog park when my puppy jumped on a toddler

It's bad to not train your pets properly.


Your pets aren't around others much and you have maids cleaning your house.


Your pets will be around company a lot and you want to keep your house clean.


Your pets are constantly destroying your possessions and doing embarrassing behavior.


Your pet is large and intimidating to others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people

they don't have the security clearance to be included on the project.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people

the rest of the group doesn't want them there.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people

They have no other people in their life.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people

They aren't of legal age to get into the club.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people

All of your friends were invited except them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people

You're in a football huddle for privacy against the other team.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people

You're picking people for teams at school.


making the decision of getting married and buying my engagement ring without telling or involving my father in any way

It's understandable to want your child to involve you in their decision about who to marry.


Your child has cut you out of your life.


You and your child have a close relationship.


They are marrying someone you work with.


you are a close family and the child values your input


covering the cameras at home while my mother is in Thailand

It is reasonable to expect privacy in your own home.


You told people that you need alone time.


You can’t be trusted not to steal anything


your home is part of a historical buildings tour.


breaking my brother-in-law's expensive VR system after he and my wife played a very cruel joke on me

It's wrong to damage someone's property.


you are a police officer destroying seized illegal drugs


they have entrusted you with the care of the property


Unless there is a person trapped inside and it is on fire.


It is something they need to survive like their house.


You operate the car crusher at an auto junkyard.


They asked you not to touch their things.


not ruining my now ex-BF's and my vacation to Paris together

It is understandable to want to keep travel plans.


There's nothing stopping you from going.


you paid a lot of money to book the hotel and flight.


a natural disaster pops up where you are going.


telling my parents that my brother shouldn't have been able to receive communion tonight

You should always include your family in religious activities.

You and your family have different religions.


Your family has different religious beliefs than you.


Your family members asked if you could give them a ride there.


it involves something with a child like a christening


Your family doesn't follow your religion.


asking my friends to pay for their part of my birthday

It's wrong to expect your friends to pay you if they don't owe anything.


Your friend has offered to treat you for your birthday.


You are the only one who ordered food at a restaurant.


They only eat once a week due to finances.


not wanting my best friend to remain friends with my ex

It is not okay to ruin other people's friendships.

They are friends with a dangerous person.


You know for a fact that one of their friends is abusive and you are trying to help.


You are doing it out of jealousy because they are good friends.


you want to stay friends with all of them.


those friendships are unhealthy and will lead to self harm.


breaking up with my girlfriend for talking on the phone in the library

Talking on the phone in the library is rude.

You are the librarian, answering the library phone.


You are in an area that is designated to be quiet.


You are a librarian answering questions about library services.


You are right next to others who are reading.


you have received an emergency call that your wife is in labor.


you are speaking very loudly and disturbing many others.


Your child is calling to ask your help in an emergency.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't force sex on people.


telling a joke with my coach's mom as the punchline

You should be careful when making jokes about your superiors.


You're saying these jokes in front of coworkers


talking about suicide to the girl who rejected me

You should not talk freely about sensitive subjects.


You are talking to a therapist or partner that you need to be open with.


You are at work and trying to remain professional.


You are giving an educational talk to adults.


You don’t know what you’re talking about


not wanting to text for hours with an autistic person

It's okay to not enjoy speaking to people that you don't like or bore you.


You are an introvert who doesn't like talking to people at all anyway.


You have made no effort to get to know them.


They continually try to force you into conversations.


You are a psychiatrist talking to a patient


You work with them and have to see them everyday


they are just a stranger you met while waiting in line


breaking up with a girl after finding out she had slept with a friend of mine

It's bad to have sex with someone when you are in a relationship with someone else.


You shouldn't try to control with your bf does in private.

Your boyfriend cheated and wants to rebuild trust.


you don't want them to try to control your actions.


You're trying to stop him from looking at child porn.


You try to stop him from ever masturbating.


playing video games with my friend online at 10 am

It's unproductive to play video games first thing in the morning.


You're scheduled to go for a run in the morning.


You are in the video game sector as your job.


They make you run late because you can't stop playing.


not wanting a life saturated with tv and video games

It's good to not be too attached to technology.


you are in a place where you need technology.


you want to maintain relationships with those you care about.


it is your job to develop new technology.


It is your job to keep track of everything that is going on around you.


It's good to get to know a friend's other friends.

Your friend's other friends are bad influences.


Your friend's other friends are in your line of work.


They don’t want to introduce them to you.


they want to include them into things that you guys do together


Your friend doesn't want you to know them.


Their other friends get into trouble with the police often.


You are looking to make some new friends.


They hand with a bad crowd that might be dangerous to you.


asking for compensation to babysit my own brother

Hypothesis: It's good to do favors for your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to do favors for your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to do favors for your family.

You want to help out the people you love


Hypothesis: It's good to do favors for your family.

you might need a favor from them some day.


not attending the prize distribution after participating for an event

Not being part of an event you are invited to is disrespectful to other participants.

You have given advance notice to the others that you won't be there.


It's a lecture and you're just expected to quietly listen.


They repeatedly ask you about your thoughts.


You are playing a planned game of Dungeons and Dragons.


telling my ex and her best friend I don't want them in our prom group

It is rude to tell your ex they need to make new prom plans at the last minute.


You knew in advance there would be an issue.


You just broke up a few minutes before Prom.


You've known for a while you were not going to go with them.


You have suddenly fallen very ill and have no choice.


You are healthy and well and your date will be very hurt.


your ex has done something awful to you.


you two had agreed to go to prom together.


You know that their new partner just got injured.


not wanting to "pay my turn" when Ive already paid for god knows how much

Hypothesis: It is important to watch your finances.


Hypothesis: It is important to watch your finances.


Hypothesis: It is important to watch your finances.

You pay someone to care for them for you.


Hypothesis: It is important to watch your finances.

You make seven figures as a hedge fund manager.


Hypothesis: It is important to watch your finances.

Your only income comes from a pension plan.


Hypothesis: It is important to watch your finances.

You have trouble paying your bills every month.


calling movers for my furniture and boxes only and not consulting with my roommate when we are moving in together

People are expected to be independent and self sufficient.


They are able-bodied and able to hold a job.


They demand that they be treated as such.


It is expected to stand up against bullies.


they are bullying you at school everyday


thinking my MIL is insensitive about possible miscarriage

It's okay to not like it when your in-laws are insensitive about something personal and private.

Unless it's personal and private about them.


Especially if it should just be between you and your partner.


they are totally wrong with their opinion


you respect their personal and private views.


they are telling someone who needs to know because you won't, like a partner about an STI.


they share the personal information with other people without your consent


standing up at a concert while the people behind us keep asking us to sit down

Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.

they don't want to see what is happening.


Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.

it makes it so others can't see anything.


Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.

you are shielding them from seeing a gruesome accident.


Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.

you are standing in a theater and everyone else is sitting.


Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.

You're blocking your children from seeing a naked man in the street.


Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.

You are standing at a concert when you could be sitting.


Hypothesis: It is rude to block the view of others.

you are just passing them in a theater quickly to get to your seat.


You shouldn't use emotion to manipulate others.


you need them to see how deeply you feel.


you don't want to be seen as passive aggressive.


you are trying to get your child to do what they need to do


you don't want to ruin your relationship with them


blowing up at this kid who has been annoying me for years

Hypothesis: It's wrong to yell at kids.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to yell at kids.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to yell at kids.

They tried to jump into boiling hot water.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to yell at kids.

They are on a play date with their toddler friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to yell at kids.

Your kids are trying to run into traffic.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to yell at kids.

Your kids are too young to understand what you are yelling about.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to yell at kids.

You are a parent yelling at someone else's kid who did nothing wrong.


going on a holiday without telling my friends

It is okay to take time away from friends.

They are in the middle of a crisis and need your support.


You have spent every day with them for a long time


Your friend is in the hospital asking for you.


Family is expected to step up when a family member is in need.


That family member is asking for money and is homeless.


the family member committed a violent crime against an innocent person


the family member used to provide for other family members


The family member in need was always abusive.


They are asking family to get involved in a crime.


The family member can't take care of their child because of an accident.


It's acceptable to decide not to stay with a tinder match.


You got them pregnant and they need your support at least financially.


You realized that you are not compatible with them.


being still mad at my landlords for a fee I incurred after they withdrew it

Hypothesis: You shouldn't take advantage of others.

You are trying to get the upper hand in business


Hypothesis: You shouldn't take advantage of others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't take advantage of others.

they are offering their services freely.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't take advantage of others.

they don't understand what you are asking.


being honest to my EX (when I was with her) and my GF (now) about her/our pet ownership

It's understandable to be confused in difficult situations

The situation has been explained to you many times.


You are an emergency medical technician.


You never had to deal with complicated or dangerous events before.


You've never been in a similar situation.


You have all the facts present and can take the time to analyze it.


You feel overwhelmed and the situations are new to you.


you have been through the situation before.


taking my dad's "side" in the divorce even though he's the one that cheated on my mom

You should be there for both your parents in a divorce.

one parent was very abusive to the other


they are still civil with each other and you care about them both


you know they are both struggling with the divorce.


One of your parents is much more supportive than the other.


They both reassure you that they'll always love you.


One of the parents has abused the other.


telling my brother I cant assist him with calling into work 'sick' anymore

Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.

They only ever contact you when they need something.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.

They helped you pay rent when you lost your job.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.

You live in another country from your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.

You live in the same house as your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.

you are trying to teach them to be self sufficient.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to help out your family.

you are not doing anything and just being lazy.


insisting my suitemate to clean up excess garbage

People are expected to maintain clean living conditions.


They are renting or leasing a place to live.


they are taking care of somebody with an immune deficiency disease.


They live with someone who is immuniosuppressed.


Especially if they live in a small house.


moving out and taking my money back from my indecisive uncle

It's okay to be angry when someone you trusted takes advantage of you.

they don't know they did anything wrong.


It has happened before and you keep allowing it.


You have already defined your boundaries to them.


You have done the same thing to them in the past.


You have done everything for them that you can.


It's understandable to expect an apology when you've been wronged.


You want to maintain your relationship with the other person.


You wronged the other person worse than they wronged you.


You haven't done anything wrong yourself.


The other person doesn't realize they have wronged you.


The person who wronged you is a close friend.


you did something initially to them that wronged them


you were completely innocent in the situation


The person who wronged you doesn't know they wronged you


The person who wronged you lives with you.


leaving the state without telling anyone

It's OK to choose not to tell people when you're traveling out of state.

They are your roommate and rent is due soon.


You are keeping a secret for a good reason


They had dates or events with you during that time.


You do not want to have contact with them anymore.


pressuring my gf to tell her family we are dating

It is expected that somebody tells their family about their life's developments.


They are estranged from their relatives.


Their family is toxic and they no longer speak to them anymore.


Their family wants to know if they are doing well and need any help.


They got where they are using family connections


If someone doesn't want to talk to you, you should not keep bugging them.

There is an emergency that they need to know about.


You try to respect other people's privacy.


They are in the middle of an important phone call.


You are the parent asking if your chid has done their homework.


They seem uncomfortable with you addressing them.


throwing palm tree leaves from my neighbor's trees back over their fence

Is it not good to trash someone's property.


they are elderly and have trouble getting around.


The property is being torn down anyway to build a new one.


They were kind enough to invite you over and trusted you fully.


You are hired to tear down and rebuild the property.


You were invited to a party at a home on that property.


You are part of a professionally hired crew.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your spouse.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your spouse.

Unless he wouldn't be able to hear you otherwise.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your spouse.

Especially if he's right in the same room with you.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your spouse.

They are crossing a street and a car is coming that they don't see.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your spouse.

You have children and they are watching the two of you yell.


It's okay to not want to speak with someone all the time.


They are your boss and you cannot decline them speaking to you.


You need alone time to recharge and feel better.


They have been taking advantage of your good nature consistently.


not wanting to listen to tv on my 10 minutes lunch break

It's okay to not want to watch TV on your work break.

You need to catch the weather and traffic before you leave


there's a natural disaster headed towards your area.


You need to run a personal errand instead.


making money from an app talking to guys (non sexual) & having no emotional connection towards them. bf calls me a whore constantly since I've confessed. holds this against me and it's been a year since I've quit it

When someone you are in a relationship with is shaming you for what you do to make money, you should end the relationship.


You are a drug dealer and their parents are in law enforcement.


you are a medical doctor and they're just jealous.


they're making you feel bad about yourself.


You sit down and let them know your feelings


They did not stop when you express yourself to them


What you do for money involves harming others.


You are proud of what you do to make money.


being mad that my girlfriend wont stay the night and take me to the airport

You shouldn't get mad that someone doesn't want to do what you want them to do.


It's important to talk about disagreements with your loved ones so that they don't cause bigger problems in the future.

You don’t want to be in a relationship any more


they stole a large amount of money from you to buy drugs.


they will to force you into a program because they don't agree with your lifestyle.


you are living in the same house together.


you don't plan on continuing your relationship with them.


if you don't want the incident to happen again.


Your loved ones are so sick and illogical that they can't even talk calmly with you.


You can find easy ways to compromise on those disagreements and put them in the past.


It is realistic to believe a roommate will want to move out at some point.


They refuse to leave after telling them to.


unless they are elderly and probably won't live much longer.


they have started dating somebody seriously and is going to propose to her soon.


not wanting my roommates girlfriend to be at my house all the time

It's wrong to tell your roommate what to do.


They pay their rent on time and are quiet.


They are always clean and they pay the rent on time


getting annoyed when my girlfriend tells me her problems

It's good to be honest with your partner.

You are planning a surprise party for them and don't want them to know about it.


They have asked you directly to be honest.


you have an open and honest relationship.


You're planning on breaking up with them.


It is understandable to be concerned about family.


someone is struggling to get through their last year in college.


Your family is going through a financial hardship.


your concern is interfering with them personally.


calling out my friends because they always have a degrading insult about my lack of sports knowledge

It's rude to purposefully humiliate someone in a social setting


You have the backing of others at the social event.


You are never invited to another social event as a result.


hating that my first kiss wasnt romantic

It's okay to have a first kiss that isn't romantic.


It was random and at the spur of the moment.


the other person thinks you're interested in them.


You are trying to be passionate about it.


You do not care about seeing that person again.


you understand that most first kisses are awkward.


deciding to cut off a mentally ill uncle for making me feel uncomfortable

It's OK to cut off someone who is making you uncomfortable.


The are starting to make sexual overtures.


wanting to ditch someone I have considered a good friend for 15 years

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch a long-term friend.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch a long-term friend.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch a long-term friend.

you had a fight and they wanted to be alone


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch a long-term friend.

they needed a ride home but you just left them there


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch a long-term friend.

The friend has hurt you terribly and doesn't want to change at all.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch a long-term friend.

You both care a lot about each other and are honest and sincere.


Hypothesis: Ending a relationship is hurtful.


Hypothesis: Ending a relationship is hurtful.

The other person has also gotten bored with the relationship.


Hypothesis: Ending a relationship is hurtful.

The other person is still very much in love with you.


Hypothesis: Ending a relationship is hurtful.

unless you no longer have strong feeling for them.


Hypothesis: Ending a relationship is hurtful.

you don't understand why the relationship is ending.


Hypothesis: Ending a relationship is hurtful.

You are mutually going back to being friends instead.


Hypothesis: Ending a relationship is hurtful.

You end it over a text message with no reason.


It's okay to ignore your partner if you need some space.

You don't communicate to your partner that you need time alone.


you haven't told them you need some space.


you have talked this over with them and they understand.


turning my 12 year old nephew into CPS for his behavior and him being taken to juvenile detention

One is expected to help their family, not pass their problems on to others.

Their family wants to help them with their problems.


Their family is poor or experiencing crisis.


Your family has never helped you with your problems in the past


You are passing on the problems just because you are lazy


Their family shunned them for religious reasons.


They live many miles away from their nearest neighbor.


not wanting my friend to bring his girlfriend along every time we hang out

It's okay to not want to hang out with your friend's partner when you want to hang out with just them.


You haven't seen your friend in a long time.


You have been invited to go with them on a trip.


They never spend time apart from their partner.


they want to do something that is platonic and doesn't endanger their relationship.


you suspect that your friend's partner wants to cheat on your friend with you.


You showed up to your partner's friend's house.


Your partner's friend showed up unannounced.


Everyone agrees you are expressing your free will.


humiliating my coworker and getting him fired

You should support your coworkers and help them succeed.


you work on a team that is rewarded equally


You're in direct competition with them for a big job promotion.


They've always been helpful with your career.


they will take you along with them up the success ladder.


you are both trying for the same promotion.


not covering rent when my housemate's so refused to pay their share

Hypothesis: It is important to pay rent on time.

Your landlord is relaxed about payment dates.


Hypothesis: It is important to pay rent on time.

Your landlord is very stern about payment dates/


Hypothesis: It is important to pay rent on time.


Hypothesis: It is important to pay rent on time.

you want to stay in the place you rented.


Hypothesis: It is important to pay rent on time.

Paying rent on time means your children won't have food to eat.


Hypothesis: It is important to pay rent on time.

You have a cool landlord that doesn’t care


Hypothesis: It is important to pay rent on time.

Your landlord has given you a two week extension.


telling my girlfriend that she's not losing weight because she eats a lot of snacks

It is understandable for your partner to be upset if you tell the to change their diet.


You are telling them that because you are worried about their health


They are following diet recommended by the doctor


They are a vegan and you want them to eat meat.


treating my Godmother like my real mother and wanting to cut off ties with my real mom

You should always give family a chance to change.


They are seeking counseling for their behavior.


You have already given them many chances in the past.


An addicted family member is attending rehab.


leaving my friend when she was dealing with depression

You aren't expected to stick around someone with severe mental issues.


You have mental illness issues of your own.


That person was just a coworker of yours.


People are expected to take punishment seriously.


they were not guilty of the crime to begin with.


The punishment was intentionally lenient because of extenuating circumstances.


The punishment was meant to be harsh because of aggravating circumstances.


not wanting to pay for my girlfriends half of my free holiday

You should share in expenses with others.

You are out of work and are paying your share in labor.


YOu promised to cover half the bills this month.


you are not responsible for any of the bills.


you are responsible for a portion of the bills.


you are wealthy and caused some of the expenses.


It's okay to get your own place if you have the means to support yourself

You are trying to save money for something else


You are tired of living with your parents


Your parents are physically disabled and need you to help with some tasks.


You're supposed to be caring for a sick loved one at their home.


You are 35 and still live with your parents.


walking away/ignoring two young black men who were trying to talk to me outside a liquor store

Hypothesis: It is okay to not speak to strangers.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not speak to strangers.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not speak to strangers.

Someone is asking you for directions or help and is in need and seems harmless.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not speak to strangers.

They look like they could hurt you or are acting belligerent.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not speak to strangers.

You're supposed to be handing out fl iers.


telling my ex that I don't care about her

You shouldn't expect your ex to care about you.


You have children together and need to maintain a co-parent relationship.


You broke up many years ago and are seeing someone new.


playing a fun game with the kids I babysit

Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

you are at church and are supposed to be reverant.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

you are in elementary school and need to get the wiggles out.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

You are an air traffic controller and you are supposed to be on the job.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

You are a child who has been studying too much.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

You are playing computer games at work when the boss isn't looking.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

You play board games at home with your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

you are in a rigorous study program with no free time.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

games are relaxing and you are stressed.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

you are at work and there is a lot to do.


Hypothesis: It's good to play games sometimes.

you are on vacation and trying to have fun.


It's good to move on from bad relationships by having nothing further to do with the person.

You have a child in common with your ex and have to see them.


You have a restraining order against the person.


you share joint custody of the children.


you want to focus on a new relationship.


eating some of my roommates food when I payed the bill

It is wrong to eat food that is not yours.


The other person only has one slice of pizza.


you were explicitly told it was okay for you to eat it.


you've been explicitly warned not to eat food that wasn't yours.


It is all the food that they have and they cannot afford to get more.


getting upset with my friends for having personal conversations in our group chats

It's rude to exclude people in a group chat.

They have informed you that they hate being invited to group chats.


You exclude them for the sole purpose of hurting their feelings.


You are not friends with them or they do not like you.


They are just trying to get to know you better.


Unless you are planning a surprise party.


Especially if they are part of your work group.


they're an expert on the topic that you're chatting about.


You should always return your ex's things to them.


the things have sentimental value to them.


They told you to keep them because they didn't want them.


You want to live a life of integrity and want them to respect you.


You have both agreed to not contact each other.


They lent you something expensive during the relationship.


considering my alcoholic husband's (sober) lies a separate "choice" from the disease itself

Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

It's a lie to conceal something that's good for someone.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

It's a lie about someone's manner of death.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

you're lying about a dress looking good on someone.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

You are lying to a friend about why you are taking them to a place where a surprise party is waiting for them.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

Unless you are protecting someones life.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

You're trying to protect someone from a dangerous situation.


me not wanting to be with my girlfriend now she's being promoted to a new position

One should be happy for a partner who succeeds and is rewarded.

they achieved their success at your expense


their work keeps them away from home twenty-four seven.


You are secretly envious and jealous because you aren't successful.


not cuddling with my wife at night because I want to read

Hypothesis: Not wanting physical contact is okay.


Hypothesis: Not wanting physical contact is okay.

You are in a professional work environment.


Hypothesis: Not wanting physical contact is okay.

If you don't want physical contact there shouldn't be any reason to be undermined


Hypothesis: Not wanting physical contact is okay.

You explicitly state that to the person trying to touch you.


Hypothesis: Not wanting physical contact is okay.

You are in a romantic relationship where the other person does.


Hypothesis: Not wanting physical contact is okay.

You  are single and live alone and are happy.


Hypothesis: Not wanting physical contact is okay.


leaving for another country to chase my dreams and cut contact with my family

It's wrong to leave your family out of your life for selfish reasons.


They feel hurt from you leaving them out.


unless they prevent you from making decisions for yourself.


you don't want to cut them out of your life.


Your spouse does not get along with them.


They made you your favorite dish every day for a year.


They have given you everything you want up to that point.


you value their support and owe them everything


It's wrong to not help out a friend in need.

Your friend is asking for money that they will just spend on drugs.


Your friend has an emergency and needs a babysitter.


The friend is in need of drugs because they are detoxing


You don't know how to get to your friend.


You're the only one who knows your friend needs help.


Your friend keeps having a new crisis every week.


Your friend is letting you sleep at their place for free.


asking my girlfriend to have an abortion

It's wrong to ask your partner to have an abortion.

The baby is very deformed and it's still early.


Your partner doesn't believe in abortions.