You aren't covering your mouth when you cough.


not apologizing my girlfriend for possibly infecting her with mononucleosis

It is rude to give someone else an illness.


You know you are contagious and go out anyways.


having a girl send me nudes because I know she has a crush on me

You should be honest about your intentions.


You are talking to your romantic partner.


Your honesty will only hurt the person you are honest with.


Someone asks you bluntly to be honest with them.


if your intentions could be harmful to someone


Doing so would stop you from achieving your goals.


The person you're speaking to can easily verify whether what you're saying is true.


not telling my friend about removing him from a group project

You shouldn't remove someone from an important project.

They are making things worse and you will not meet your deadline if they continue to work on the project with you.


They're harming the progress of the project.


They're necessary for the project's completion.


that person has specialized knowledge needed for the project


The person is incompetent and hurting the team.


The other person is working hard on the project.


they have no clue what they are doing and are ruining it.


not wanting to throw a huge and expensive party for my daughter's first birthday

You should celebrate your child's birthday.


They are no longer living. and it brings you sorrow.


They are all grown up and would rather celebrate without you.


They are young and want to make memories.


You and your child are Jehovah Witnesses.


They are bad in school and need to be punished


asking my roommate to have there friends leave

It's understandable to not want your roommate to have their friends over.


Their friends are usually really noisy and it's late at night.


They want to party and you have work tomorrow


Hypothesis: It is rude to not help people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not help people.

They have ignored and not helped you in the past.


being angry at my partner for buying a Porsche

It's not okay to do things that your significant other doesn't agree with.

you're doing things to save her life like giving her medication


you significant other has expressed it to you


They are harmless hobbies that you are interested in.


The things have a direct negative impact on your significant other.


you have agreed to gain approval of actions ahead of time.


Your significant other wants to control what you wear and say.


Your significant other doesn't agree with you snorting cocaine.


They're trying to dictate what you can and cannot do.


not cutting my hair the way my girlfriend wants

You shouldn't have to do everything your partner says.

They are telling you how to change a flat tire over the phone.


You live in the United States of America.


Your partner is the senior police detective in the situation.


They are telling you the steps to replicate their recipe.


They were recently released from prison.


Your partner is making unreasonable demands


they are reading directions for assembling an item.


they are trying to change everything about you.


using the handicapped door opener when pushing a stroller

It is ok to use a handicap button to open a door.

Someone in a wheelchair is waiting to use it.


There is a handicapped person behind you who needs it first


settling for a girl, only to leave her if I find somebody that is more like my preference

You shouldn't settle for someone you don't like.

Unless you're the last two people left on earth.


You are looking for the best person for the job and they fit the bill.


only wanting to date people of a certain race

Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.


Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.

you are a human being and care about people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.

You're evaluating their risk for health conditions that are more prevalent in certain racial groups.


Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.

You use those judgments to deny them access to housing, education or employment.


Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.


Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.

You work as a judge in the judicial system.


Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.

you don't want to be judged by your race!


Hypothesis: It's bad to judge people by their race.

You work in the Human Resources department of a company.


being upset when people bring their babies to work

You shouldn't bring your children to work.


you work in an adult entertainment facility.


They are a student in the class you teach.


Your job is having a bring your kid to work day.


You didn’t ask your boss if it was okay.


You feel very secure in your job or it's family day at work.


You're at a new job and you want to be taken seriously and keep it.


not going to my boyfriends grandmothers wake so I can go see a concert

You should support your significant other during hard times.

They are in jail for crimes committed behind your back.


Your significant other committed a severe crime.


Your significant other has supported you through your problems.


they are competing in a challenge and must do it alone.


they are struggling with emotional issues.


they've made clear that they don't want support


Your significant other is cheating on you.


Your significant other has a terminal illness.


dropping a friendship that was tainted by the other person's actions

You shouldn't try to destroy your friendships with your actions.

you are intentionally seeking to break up with a friend


You don't want to talk to that person again.


The actions are harming them physically.


yelling at roommate because he wouldn't do his dishes

Housemates are expected to share cleaning duties.

A housemate falls ill and is temporarily unable to clean.


Housemates are all using the common facilities.


They are all paying the same amount of rent.


Everyone lives there equal amounts of time.


thinking about leaving my wife because she is adopting her nieces and nephew

A married couple should come to an agreement together about having children.


Both partners are unable to have children.


one partner wants children and the other doesn't.


The husband or wife aren't capable of producing children.


taking steal someone else's umbrella after someone stole mine

Hypothesis: Two wrongs do not make a right.


Hypothesis: Two wrongs do not make a right.


Hypothesis: Two wrongs do not make a right.

You get in trouble with law enforcement later


Hypothesis: Two wrongs do not make a right.

You are getting back at someone for ruining your life


It's expected that people should do their chores.


They've done those chores every day for years.


they have been putting them off for a while


It is foolish to burn down your own house.

you're attempting to build a new one on the lot


you want to try and cheat for insurance purposes


There is a toxic substance that can only be destroyed by fire.


ending a relationship because it was getting toxic

You should be ready to let things go if they're clearly no good for you.


You will die if you don’t break the addiction


You depend on those things to dull your emotional pain.


Those things are seriously damaging your physical or mental health.


You shouldn't be two-faced to your friends.


You don't care about maintaining your friendships.


You mostly all hang out with each other for the social benefits.


They're sincere about how much they like you.


You work in the FBI and have secrets to keep.


It's good to have control of what is put on your body.

you're too young to make informed decisions


you're older and can make decisions for yourself


You are prescribed something by a doctor.


You need to have surgery or you will die


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your partner.

your partner is struggling to ask for help


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your partner.

They are trying to learn how to do something on their own.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your partner.

You are completing their homework assignments for them.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your partner.

Your partner feels independent and empowered when they do things for themselves.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your partner.

You're good at certain skills your partner lacks.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your partner.

Your partner and you always act like a team


wanting to give my sister and her husband a lease

People are expected to take care of their family.


They live in the same home as t heir family.


finding my girlfriend to be rough in bed

It's okay to not want to try something your partner asks for sexually.


What they're asking for makes you uncomfortable in any way.


not wanting my fiancé to go to dinner with her boss

It's bad to be overly controlling in a relationship.


You take advantage of your partner with  your control.


you are a parent controlling your young child.


you want to keep your relationship healthy and happy.


Your partner has expressed their need for independence.


Your partner genuinely prefers for you to make all the decisions.


Your partner keeps asking for more control in the relationship.


You want to make your partner quit a bad habit


your partner wants to make their own decisions


believing this girl working as a dancer was really into me? I'm crushed and my friends are being so harsh I'd like a neutral opinion

It is understood that dancers are being polite to make money.


They're supporting their college tuition.


they were raised in very polite households where they were taught manners


are generally rude outside of a dancing context


They are professional dancers who love to dance.


They roll their eyes as they look away from you


telling my mother that she is too controlling

It's wrong to try and control other peoples lives.


they are a grown adult and aren't doing anything illegal.


not wanting to talk to my husband when he gets home from work

It's good to talk to your partner after they get home from work.

Your partner prefers a quiet transition between work and family.


Your partner has to relieve a lot of office stress.


Your partner gets home from work when you're asleep.


They get home from work at 3am and you are asleep.


You get home from work at the same time.


worrying about not finding my Wife Attractive Post-gastric Bypass Surgery

It is selfish to worry about how your wifes surgery will effect you.

it requires you to take a lot of time off of work.


there is nothing she can do about it and has to have the surgery.


She selflessly took care of you when you had a surgery.


You are thinking about how your children will be taken care of.


You are more worried about your own fear than hers.


You caused your wife to need to get the surgery.


asking my wife not to use my drinking glass and bath towel

It's okay to not want your significant other to use very personal things.

You offered to share those things with them.


Your partner doesn't care for your personal things the way you do.


the things have special significance to you.


They dropped their wedding ring down a drain and need to use your crowbar to get it out.


You are working on a new novel and signed confidentiality agreements.


It is okay to not want to answer the phone.


you have been receiving obscene phone calls.


you're waiting on a call for a job interview.


your spouse is trying to reach you in an emergency


its an emergency and the person calls constantly


its during your work hours and not work related


snapping on a coworker for spilling my drink

It is nice to offer to replace it if you spill someone’s drink.


You were being careless when you spilled it.


they tell you they didn't like it anyway.


They were being rude and you spilled it on purpose.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mean to your friend.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mean to your friend.

you are pretending as part of a surprise.


Hypothesis: It's bad to mean to your friend.

your friend has done something deserving it


Hypothesis: It's bad to mean to your friend.

your friend did not intend to be harmful to you


suddenly moving out and leaving my mom with an unexpected $850 more rent

People are expected to take care of family.


Their family left them a lot of money with which to do it


They want to maintain a good relationship.


Their family has taken care of them first.


not wanting to celebrate my birthday with my family

As you get older it is expected that you will start to spend important days without your immediate family.

you never move out of your parents house.


You still live in the same house as your family.


You live in the same home as your immediate family.


You no longer live in the same home as your immediate family.


It's OK to have different religious beliefs than your siblings.


you live in a country where you could be executed for those beliefs.


you live in America and can worship as you please.


not wanting my significant other to take his antidepressants

It's good to be concerned about what effects medications are having on the people you love.

The people you love are having no ill effects from medicine


you have complete trust in their doctor.


The only effect is that it makes them happier.


They take multiple medications and the interactions could be deadly.


You give advice based on unproven popular opinion.


Your advice reinforces the doctor's instructions.


you are being overbearing and have no medical knowledge.


they are elderly and not able to make the best decisions for themselves.


It's wrong not to clean up after yourself.

You have to hurry to get to work on time.


You are going to be home all day with nothing else to do.


Somebody else has stated they will do the clean up.


considering on closing out an electric bill that my parents put in my name and reporting them for identity fraud

It's wrong to open an account under someone else's name.

You are their caretaker and are a moderator.


You are trying to steal someone's identity.


it is a joint account with your name on it as well.


They have asked you to help them manage the account.


Hypothesis: Pets should be kept outside.


Hypothesis: Pets should be kept outside.

It is too cold or hot for them to safely be outside.


Hypothesis: Pets should be kept outside.

They're birds who could easily fly away and get lost.


Hypothesis: Pets should be kept outside.

They're cows and are too big to fit in a normal house.


not playing a $60 game my friend bought me without asking if I wanted it

It's understandable that we don't always like things people give us.

The things were selected from our wishlist.


The things are made with ingredients we can't use.


It's something you specifically asked for.


we make a big fuss in front of a lot of people about it.


they got you something really for themselves.


it is something specific that we asked them for.


the people giving the gift have really bad taste.


telling a coworker that someone he considered a friend has been making fun of him behind his back

It's okay to let someone know if others are being mean to them.

They are mentally unstable and it would send them into a rage.


They are oblivious to how they are being treated.


You don't want to hurt the person's feelings.


They have been violent towards the other people.


They think that the other people are being nice to them.


There are rumors spreading that aren't true.


not wanting my partner to host a friends stag party at our house

It's wrong to host a party for your friend at your partner's house.


Your partner hates having parties at their house.


Your partner does not know you are using their house.


Your partner has given you permission to throw the party.


Your partner doesn't know about the party.


Your partner said you could use their house.


Your partner explicitly said they didn't want any parties messing up their house.


People are expected to try to get along.


Especially if they are on the same team.


one person is very rude and you are trying to stay away from them.


making my new manager feel attacked over a label I made

It's expected for coworkers to be a team.


you have been directed to work seperately.


you are working together on a big project.


the project requires more individual work


You need to complete a difficult project


you are all working on independent projects


you are in a high-collaboration environment, like an emergency room


being upset that my ex-wife is eloping with my therapist

It is unprofessional to mix person and professional life.


You consider work a vacation from your family and your family a vacation from work.


You share very personal, stigmatized medical information.


asking neighbours to turn down music at 3 am

It is rude to disrupt someone else's sleep.


there is a fire and you need to get them out of the house.


they have been sick and need a lot of rest.


They have an important exam the next day


The person has slept through their alarm.


that person hasn't gotten a lot of sleep lately


calling my hair "jew hair" when I am ethnically jewish

You shouldn't stereotype people based on their religion.

you're doing so for demonstrative effect


You're a comedian in a comedy show and that's your act.


You don't want to anger or upset others or make the mistake of generalizations.


you are counting the ways their religion produces good in people.


you are doing so to prove a point to someone about how wrong it is.


they all come different places and walks of life.


You have solid evidence that you are right


You dont know anything about their lives


being slightly annoyed at my friends for calling out my irresponsibility

Adults are expected to not be irresponsible.


They're responsible for raising children.


They have been coddled there whole lives


They have not been raised to be responsible.


The adult is on vacation and trying to have fun.


being upset my girlfriend chose hunting over visting me

It is okay if you choose to spend your time doing something you enjoy  that does not include your significant other.

You haven't spent time alone with your significant other for weeks.


You've spent the last three evenings with them.


You have been neglecting your significant other.


You want to pursue a hobby that your significant other isn't interested in.


You don't make any time for your significant other.


Your partner has something of their own.


You have a day off while they are at work.


getting mad at my best friend because she canceled a sleepover

It is understandable that sometimes plans change.

You just cancel on someone because you are too lazy to go.


facilities are only available on a certain day at a certain time.


The plans are left in the will for specific funeral arrangements.


Someone is just making excuses because they don't want to spend time with you.


If you don't say what you want, you may not get what you want.

You are under oath and do not want to commit perjury


dealing with your spouse who would know what you wanted intuitively


dealing with people who don't know you well


You've asked for the same thing for years, so everyone already knows what you want.


You've never mentioned what you want before.


there is only one option available to everyone.


your silence is a condition for receiving a gift.


there are many other people loudly proclaiming they want the last item available.


refusing to move to a nicer property with my gf

It is important to discuss moving options with your partner.


you and your partner are planning a life together.


That partner told you to leave them out of the decision making.


You are separated from your partner pending divorce.


you want your partner to be happy about the move.


not attending a friend's wedding a couple years ago

It's good to show up for the important events in a friend's life.


That friend was caught having an affair with your partner


They never bother to show up for your important events.


They have asked you to be their maid of honor.


It's okay to wonder about what someone you use to care about is doing.

That someone has been married decades and has ten grandchildren.


It has been exactly a year since you broke up with someone.


you think you might want to contact them.


The relationship ended badly and you have moved on.


You have remained friends and on good terms.


you are nosy and wonder about them all the time


you haven't heard from them in a long time


telling my father to shut up about my education

It's good to take advice from older people about life's important things.


The older people in your life are very intelligent.


The older person is suffering from dementia.


They have experienced something that you have yet to experience.


they worked in a career field similar to your own.


the older person is in jail for a violent crime against innocent people


declining to hang out with a guy I tried to be friends with in the past

It's okay to decline to hang out with certain people.


you have promised that you would hang out with them.


They're your coworkers trying to work on a project.


having sex with my late wife's younger sister

Hypothesis: It's not ok to cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: It's not ok to cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: It's not ok to cheat on your partner.

Especially if you want a future with them.


complaining about noisy neighbors with kids

It is okay to expect others to be respectful

they're children who haven't learned the rules


You consistently treat them with respect.


you are in a position of power over them.


using my roommate's rice and Tupperware to help my friend who got her phone wet

Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

you will get in trouble for helping them.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

Your friends constantly take advantage of your help.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

Your friends want you to help them sell drugs in front of a school.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your friends.

Your friends have helped you in the past.


Leaving from a planned outing never hurts anyone.


everyone else is ready to leave, as well.


You are the one who drove everyone to the event.


You left your date there alone for the rest of the night.


You made a nice appearance and have stayed long enough.


Everyone has to stop and wait while the guide looks for you.


arguing with my mother about the needs of my younger brother

Kids should respect the wishes of their parent.


The kid is passionate about a career that their parent doesn't approve.


The kid is very young and not yet able to make decisions alone.


Their parent is demanding them to raise their younger siblings.


Their parent is single and needs help with household chores.


Their parent wants them to steal from the store.


They ask them to clean their bedroom before going out to play.


It is okay to think things through before acting on them

You are playing charades and need to come up with something quick.


it is a time sensitive matter or emergency


You are in an emergency that demands immediate action.


you have no time to think and must make a decision immediately.


It is okay to avoid situations that make you uncomfortable.

Your therapist told you that you need to break out of your shell


You learn a very valuable lesson from it.


It's rude to give a girlfriend grief over minor problems.

Those problems cause your bank account to decrease


She is giving you grief about something she does.


The girlfriend is taking her frustrations out on you.


The girlfriend is having a hard time coping with her problems.


She keeps doing something you told her really irritates you.


You criticize her about many other things.


These problems are occurring over and over and she hasn't listened to your complaints at all ever.


These issues are fairly new and you can find other, more pleasant ways of handling them and she cares about you.


telling a nice old lady to leave my classroom

If they aren't being disruptive it is okay to let people loiter.

loitering is prohibited by law for safety reasons.


It's a construction site where they might get injured.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect elders.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect elders.

You are a caretaker at an elderly facility.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect elders.

they are part of a military regime that oppresses your people.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect elders.

The elders never show you any consideration.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect elders.

The elders are highly respected and civil people.


not always letting my boyfriend touch me when/how he wants? AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for touching me after I've said stop or no

You should respect someone's boundaries.


you need to do something drastic to help them out of a dangerous situation.


You have to get close to someone to make room on a crowded subway car.


They have asked you to back off in the past.


dumping my bf without giving him a chance to explain

Getting rid of a partner before they can explain the issue is a way to speed up the breakup.

you want to work out the issue and stay partners.


you have no desire to resolve anything and just want out.


You have only dated them for a few weeks


They cheated on you and any explanation will just be an excuse


not wanting to surround myself with people who show signs of depression

It's compassionate to be around for people who are depressed.

Those people only use you for money and pretend to want support


being around harms your mental health as well.


The people have social anxiety and like to be left alone.


The people are grateful for the help and social support.


It is nasty to give your partner the cold shoulder.


You are an adult who knows that is abusive behavior.


your partner is ignoring you in any rate


they have cheated on you with someone else.


they are doing everything they can to be supportive.


not wanting my family to press charges against the emts who accidentally killed my uncle with neglect

It's wrong to press charges against someone who did something accidentally.

You've been telling them not to do something and they did it anyway.


They're a child that didn't know any better.


The eyewitness saw someone completely different.


It's the only way to get your car fixed.


not walking my dogs when I am too fatigued, thus making my mom walk them when she gets home from work

It is not okay to make other people take on your responsibilities.


You are sick and unable to complete a project before the deadline.


You procrastinated until the last minute.


wanting to ask my current roommate to move out by the end of the month

It's okay to want to live a better life away from someone that is causing you pain or frustration.


You developed depression during this period


The person is your sick, elderly grandmother.


They are being physically abusive to you.


that person really does need you in their life


that person knows they're causing you pain


You do not have to give someone something just because they are family.

they have helped you out before and need your help now.


they are an addict and they will just steal from you.


You have owed them money for a long time.


You're purchasing something from the store and you go through their checkout lane.


not wanting to be asked about my love life

It is acceptable to want to keep your private life private.


You are in a committed relationship and your partner asks.


You think sharing the information could be used against you.


you are talking to your psychiatrist who is trying to help you.


other people are always talking about you behind your back.


Your doctor is asking personal questions to help diagnose what's medically wrong with you.


The person asking is a stranger with no reason to need to know.


calling an annoying guy a brainless monkey

You shouldn't compare someone to an animal.

It's done in a respectful and spiritual manner.


The person is imitating an animal for you to guess.


The person is trying to give a serious speech.


you are playing a game which requires that sort of thing.


that person an upstanding good spirited person


It's good to try to enjoy the same things as your partner does.


You are trying to connect with your partner.


Your partner enjoys things that are unhealthy.


Your partner engages in healthy activities.


You just want to break up with them eventually


asking a short guy for the legroom he wasn't using

people of different stature don't owe anyone anything.

They stepped on people to get to the top.


Their actions affect the life and death of others.


Hypothesis: It's good to inform people.

The information you are sharing is confidential.


Hypothesis: It's good to inform people.

They will be impacted by the information you are sharing.


Hypothesis: It's good to inform people.

Informing them might spoil the surprise.


Hypothesis: It's good to inform people.

You are in charge of discussing the issue.


Hypothesis: It's good to inform people.


Hypothesis: It's good to inform people.

You are giving your personal opinion instead of facts.


hitting on my best friend's gf shortly before their soon-to-be breakup

It's not okay to flirt with someone who is involved with someone else.


Unless they are involved with someone who's in prison.


Especially if they are involved with your best friend.


That person has just gone on a few dates with the other person.


You thought their relationship had ended.


constantly antagonizing one of my classmates

Hypothesis: It's rude to pick on people at school.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pick on people at school.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pick on people at school.

It's part of a play or presentation on bullying.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pick on people at school.

They're younger or more vulnerable than you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pick on people at school.

They are bullies that need to be identified.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pick on people at school.

They are shy students who hesitate to defend themselves.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pick on people at school.

They have been picking on your kid sister.


wanting to avoid the girl I went to Homecoming with

It is expected that you explain why a relationship is not working.

You are trying to catch your partner cheating


You are a therapist and need the patients to see it themselves.


You are the person ending the relationship.


You want to be an adult who communicates.


your partner is well aware of what the issues are


You want to continue working towards a future together


Partners should try to agree with each other.

one of them has proof the other is wrong.


they have agreed to disagree on an issue.


the decision involves the care of a child or pet.


They are debating each other on different debate teams.


They want to have a worry free relationship.


One partner cheats money out of the other partner.


They have to work on a court case together.


wanting to send my GF flowers on valentine's day under her ex-boyfriend's name

It's rude to trick someone into believing that a gift is from someone they no longer like.

the truth will make them feel even worse.


you are just playing a harmless prank on them.


doing so will cause them to have a fight.


You don’t really like that person anyway


You should not sleep too much if you have things to accomplish.


You have been up all night and desperately need the sleep.


You have an important project due today.


You are feeling sick and need your rest.


You have an important test to study for.


being pissed at my friend for being on his phone during my class speech

It is rude to not pay attention to your friends.


You have to really concentrate on studying for a major test.


not wanting to be around my boyfriend's roommate

You should learn to get along with your partner's roommates.

you have a place of your own where your partner can stay


you plan to hang out at their place with the roommates often


The roommates are openly disrespectful of your relationship.


The roommates are an important part of your partner's social circle.


You and your partner are in the process of house shopping together.


Your partner plans on staying in that living situation for the foreseeable future


they don't treat your partner with respect


wanting to break up with my gf before the holidays

It is understandable to be angry with youtr significant other for breaking up with you before the holidays.


you were expecting an engagement ring for Christmas.


You wanted the relationship to become permanent.


You were abusive and you know they were better off without you.


You had expensive travel plans that can't be refunded.


you gave them a good reason, like cheating.


getting angry at my roommate for throwing parties and not notifying me in advance

It's expected that roommates should openly communicate.


They will be living together for a long time.


The roommates don't speak the same language.


The roommates are living in a small space.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

it is to save someone from physical harm.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

You are testifying in court and can be charged with perjury.


expecting my best friend&fwb to hang out with me at a dance

It is ok to expect friend to hang out with yourself.


You've already made plants to get together.


You know they have to go to work instead.


Your friend is overseas serving in the military.


IS it not good to get your friends into trouble


You're reporting a minor, victimless crime.


they are bullying someone smaller than them.


they are doing something wrong in order to save a life.


Your friends aren't doing anything wrong.


making a fuzz in order to speak to ceo after my manager gave a misleading performance review

You should not make a scene at your work.


Your boss has tried to touch you inappropriately.


You're quitting your job and you'll never be back again.


You don't want to be fired or ridiculed for it.


It's bad to leave your partner for their friend.


your partner understand your love for their friend


your partner has no idea you like their friend


you want a clean separation from your partner.


Your partner has never been good to you.


not wanting to share my food with my bestfriend and his new girlfriend

Not everyone wants to share their food, and should not be pressured to.

You are all stranded on an island and there are limited resources.


They are eating in an Ethiopian restaurant.


They're on a meal plan for a bodybuilding competition


there are other people on the deserted island with them.


not being attracted to my wife now that she's gained weight

It's okay to not think someone is attractive even if you formerly did.


You are basing it on something other than appearance


You're looking at younger pictures of them.


being annoyed that my wife won't bring one of our children home from Europe for me

It's expected that you should be willing to work together in a relationship.


backing out of my best friend's birthday trip in Vegas

Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

You have no good reason for the cancelation.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

You have an emergency and have no other choice.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

You are letting people down who were counting on you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

The hostess is counting on you to deliver a speech.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

The other person is counting on you to be there for them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

You have an unexpected medical emergency.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cancel plans.

You just want to spend the day in bed watching Netflix.


telling my suicidal friend I didn't want to know her anymore

It is acceptable to remove a suicidal person from your life if they are becoming too difficult to deal with.

You're responsible for caring for that person.


They are preventing you from taking care of yourself


The have purposely moved away to a place with the right to die.


They are threatening to take your life as well.


Hypothesis: Eating out all the time is expensive.

You get a discount as a regular customer.


Hypothesis: Eating out all the time is expensive.


Hypothesis: Eating out all the time is expensive.

You get a dessert and appetizer every time


Hypothesis: Eating out all the time is expensive.

You're poor and struggling to make ends meet.


telling my husband leave work to drive me to the auto repair shop

It is wrong to interrupt someone when they are at work.

They have asked you to let them know when their meeting is about to start.


They are in the middle of a meeting with a client.


They are performing a procedure wrong and could cause a disaster.


They are speaking at a business meeting.


it is to tell them that the building is on fire


they are engaged in a demanding and important task


They are in the library during finals week.


Reporting sexual harassment can stop it from happening to someone else.

the report is not acted upon by the authorities.


it leads to the arrest of predatory harasser.


There is no system in place for disciplining offenders.


The offender will be fired for the harassment.


your job has a policy against sexual harassment.


The reporting agency keeps it under wraps and fosters a climate of harassment itself.


The agency takes action on your behalf and other abusees come forward as a result.


The people that the incident is reported to don't believe them.


There is increased security at certain places ordered.


It's rude not to give notice when quitting a job.

There was an extreme circumstance that caused you to walk out.


Your replacement will need adequate training.


The boss and employees have always been mean to you and treated you badly.


Your boss and employees have always been nice to you and treated you well.


An emergency happens and you can't notify your boss.


It's a job where your boss is counting on you.


the employer was unfair and cutting hours


not committing to caring for an older relative with Down's syndrome

Hypothesis: It is expected to take care of family.


Hypothesis: It is expected to take care of family.


Hypothesis: It is expected to take care of family.

You aren't able to take care of yourself because of it.


Hypothesis: It is expected to take care of family.

the family have the means to do so themselves


repeating that I have asd after a guy makes me uncomfortable

It is inconsiderate to make someone tell you something more than once.


you truly did not hear them the first time


you've asked them to repeat themselves several times already


You weren't paying attention the first time.


You are hard-of-hearing and didn't understand what they said the first time.


You do this every time they say something.


not socialising with the classmates that ostracised me

You shouldn't ostracize your classmates.


deciding to end my year long relationship with my girlfriend

You shouldn't end a relationship if it's been going on for a long time.

you both agree that the relationship is not working


you both say that you still love one another


Unless they have betrayed you in some way.


there is no place left for it to go because it has run out of steam.


It's okay not to want to wait for a girl.


She is taking way too long and you’re already late


She has held you up too many times in the past.


throwing away all of my roommate's dishes

Hypothesis: You shouldn't throw out dishes.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't throw out dishes.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't throw out dishes.

They have cracks or sharp chips on the edges.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't throw out dishes.

They were handed down from generation to generation.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't throw out dishes.

The corner cracked and a sharp edge is exposed.


getting upset that my boyfriend insists on going spring breaking

One should talk out problems with a partner rather than get angry.


You want to know why they are mad because you love them


You have repeatedly brought up the same concern and nothing has changed.


You don't want your partner to get defensive.


you want to keep the lines of communication open.


you want to work out relationship problems.


You want your relationship to be successful.


not letting my girlfriends dad in our house

Getting into a confrontation with someone could start a physical fight.

You know the person well enough to know they won't raise fists.


You're dealing with someone who appears violent.


The other person is afraid of being arrested for assault.


The other person has poor impulse control.


both parties are able to step back from the situation.


getting back late from bowling or my wife for kicking me onto the couch

It is okay to not want to sleep next to your partner when you are angry.


your partner gets scared when they sleep alone


You want to make up with your partner and get back to normal.


You want to hold a grudge to prove a point.


being upset with my friends with how they treated my suicide attempt

You should be compassionate towards someone who attempted suicide.

the person was trying to kill themselves to spite you


They are reaching out to you as a friend.


They are going to commit murder suicide.


Being around them triggers your own thoughts of suicide.


rejecting him because of his culture/religion

It is your right to not date someone you do not want to.


You live in a culture with arranged marriages.


You think you can learn to love the person.


You are just using the person for money.


Your society practices arranged marriages.


You live in a country where you have freedom.


being annoyed at my boyfriend for not getting me something to eat fast enough when I'm sick

It is wrong to be demanding when someone is helping you.

that person requests you tell them what to do


You are a supervisor and the employee is slacking off.


Your friends are helping you on their own time without getting paid.


someone is just trying to be friendly and helpful.


You hired them and paid a hefty fee for their services.


Hypothesis: You should explain issues to friends.

your issues are personal between you and your spouse


Hypothesis: You should explain issues to friends.

your friends are used to helping you through things


Hypothesis: You should explain issues to friends.


Hypothesis: You should explain issues to friends.

They asked you to mind your own business.


stealing my college roommate's girlfriend

You should respect other people's relationships.


They are cheating on someone in order to have that relationship.


they're in a happy and monogamous relationship


One of the people is also in a relationship with you.


not wanting to be friends anymore with my ex fwb/best guy friend

It is expected to lose other people when you break up with someone.

you are good friends with their friends and family


you're not very close with their friends and family


you're committed to being friends with them


telling my Girlfriends daughter, that her dad kinda sucks because he and his new family went to Disneyland without her

It's expected that you won't disparage a child's parents.

They are neglectful and abusive to their children.


Your children are friends with their children.


The child is your sibling and the parents are your abusive parents


They are young and inexperienced but trying their best


The parents are endangering their child.


the child's parents are abusive to the child


the child holds their parents in really high esteem


Hypothesis: You shouldn't dislike your siblings.


asking condo neighbor to ask to keep their dog quiet

It is acceptable to ask a neighbor to keep their dog quiet


You're in the country side and your neighbor lives far up the road.


The barking lasts extended periods of time.


telling an awkward coworker he's coming on too strong

It's hurtful to tell a coworker that he's coming on too strong.


The coworker is sexually harassing you, which is against company policy.


The coworker is instructing you after you completed a procedure wrong.


You want your co-worker's offensive behavoir to stop immediately.


The co-worker is new and unfamiliar with what is acceptable office language.


You feel uncomfortable around the coworker because of his behavior.


The coworker was treating you like any other employee.


moving out from my girlfriend's house because of her anxiety and medical problems

You should discuss your concerns with your partner.

You know they are unfounded accusations that could damage the relationship.


They involve your partners health and well being.


Especially if it's a mutually supportive relationship.


not "supporting" my bf when he plays basketball

It's hurtful when you don't support your partner when they play a sport.

you have to work on that day and explain so to them


They are trying their best to play better


The sport s very dangerous for them to play.


It is expected that you don't need permission from a friend to smoke if it is legal for you to do so.


you know that they are allergic to cigarette smoke.


you have smoked in front of that friend before.


You are wanting to smoke in their house.


You aren't even around your friend when you light up.


telling my friend that I don't care for pictures/updates/videos of her kid

It's rude to not look at your friends pictures and videos.


They have shown you them many times before.


Your friend asked you to respect their privacy.


They have already showed you one hundred of them that day.


It is good to be able to make people laugh in any situation


You are at a funeral or religious service.


not being supportive of my friend whose dog is ill, right after my cat died

You should always try to be supportive and there for your friends.


Your friend experienced a big loss recently.


they are being mean and mistreating others.


they have always been there for you when you needed them.


they are doing something dangerous and illegal.


they are depressed and might be a danger to themselves.


Your friends are hanging with the wrong crowd


You have been friends with them for years


They have treated you badly in the past.


sticking up for my siblings if my parents are being unreasonable with them

It is okay to expect reasonable treatment from others.


turning down a tinder hookup's advances that night

It's wrong to hook up with people on Tinder if you just plan to turn them down.


you've made clear to those people you want to hook up


you've told them that you want to give them a try in a relationship


You lied about what you said you wanted.


the other person understands that you're joking


It's OK to want to get away from a domestic situation that is causing you problems.

The problems are only minor and temporary.


You are leaving your kids behind in an unsafe environment.


you would have to leave your children behind.


it is a violent situation where you are physically hurt.


going on a boys trip and not telling my gf about it

You are expected to tell your girlfriend about your plans for vacations.


You are going on vacation with female friends


you are surprising your girlfriend with a vacation.


you live together and need to share details.


You are planning a surprise vacation for her birthday.


She is going to have to care for the kids while you are gone.


They are business trips required for work.


They are leisure trips that she will be accompanying you on.


Your vacation is a surprise gift for her.


Your vacation is going to happen during her birthday.


It's okay to wonder why a good friend is distancing themselves from you.

You don't want to be friends with them anymore.


You have been best friends since you were children.


you did something awful and there is no question in your mind why they are doing it.


you know they are dealing with stress and just need time to themselves.


you think they are being forced to do so by someone else.


You know they suffer from depression and are isolating themselves from everyone.


You haven't had any kind of argument that would explain why they want some distance.


wanting to celebrate mine and my sister's birthdays a day after her birthday so I can visit with friends on her birthday

It's okay to want to celebrate a birthday late if you have other plans.

You walk into a surprise party on your birthday.


Your birthday is on a weekday and you have to work.


Your relatives are only going to be in town on the actual date of your birthday.


You have a major work event on the date of your birthday.


the birthday person really wants to celebrate on their actual birthday.


You have already made plans with friends.


yelling at roommate because he wouldn't do his dishes

Adults are expected to clean up after themselves.


not wanting to know about my brother's sex life? NSFW

It is okay to excuse yourself from conversations that make you uncomfortable.

the conversation is about you and something you have done wrong.


there is no need for you to be a part of the conversation.


The others in the conversation are strangers.


the conversation is an important one to have


wanting to transfer money that I owe to my ex

You should accept money that your ex owes you.

you do not want to have any contact with that person at all.


it is the last tie that holds the two of you together.


You do not want any contact with them at all.


They are overpaying the support agreement.


being mad at my girlfriend for giving me a free pass

Relationships are expected to have strong communication.

The relationship is between acquaintances.


you both agree that the communication is not important


you want to be in a continued committed relationship


YOu have been with the person for a long, long time.


asking my fiancee to give up his dog for my cat's sake

It is ok to break up with someone if they want you to give up your dog.


Your dog became violent and seriously harmed someone.


blocking a longtime friend over a single creepy message

You should talk to friends you've had for a long time about your concerns before you block them on social media.

You know there is nothing to be gained from a conversation


You have a reasonable suspicion that it was all just a misunderstanding


You want to continue having a relationship with them in real life.


You might have misinterpreted their comment.


It's polite to give up your parking spot.

It is cold outside and you have a newborn baby.


It is an elderly person waiting for a close parking spot.


The parking spot is in front of your house.


Your neighbor has a visiting parent in a wheelchair.


It means you have to walk several blocks to the next available parking lot.


It is okay to be upset with someone that wronged you.

It was in response to something terrible you did.


That person used to be a friend of yours.


It was a trivial issue that you don't care about.


It was a major issue that caused you much distress.


The person who wronged you is your toddler child who didn't know better.


They haven't apologized for their actions.


You hurt them first and they wanted revenge


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for service.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for service.

The service is slow and the waiter is rude


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for service.

The waiter is pleasant and has very good table service


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for service.

Unless the service provided is bad and undeserving of a tip.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for service.

The service provided is good and deserving of a tip.


not going to my niece's first birthday party

You shouldn't ditch your family members.


You have the keys to the car they came in.


They are trying to get you to do something unethical or illegal.


They really need your support because they're ill.


They've always tried to help you as much as they can.


lying to my mom about my cats having fleas

It's good to be honest with family members.

Your honesty will hurt them a lot or they don't really need to know certain things.


You want relations with them to grow deeper and expect them to be honest with you.


you are keeping a secret to surprise them later.


You are trying to help them get out of a bad situation.


They have a history of using your secrets to blackmail you.


They always try to help as much as they can.


You have to keep a secret to protect someone.


thinking that it was wrong of my sister to tell me she bought a vibrator

People are expected to keep their sexual lives private.


a doctor is asking about their sexual activities


they are in public and children are near


they consensual about being exhibitionists


they wish to have privacy in their bedroom


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your mother

You are just being honest with her for her own good.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your mother


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your mother

Your mother is a con artist and abusive.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect your mother

She is trying to help you with something.


breaking things off the day after we had sex

You should always be honest with people you have intercourse with.


You're only having a one-night stand and don't lie about something that could affect their health.


You want to build a long-term relationship with that person.


The truth is insignificant and would crush them.


You both know it's just a one night stand.


having cars in my Apartment's Garage Towed

It's not okay to do something to someone that causes them unneeded burden

They are providing you a service, and you're paying them to do it.


It you're just doing it to mean, and there was no other reason for that something to be done.


You are their boss and it's part of their job.


You're in a competition with the person.


not letting my girlfriend being friend with my classmate

Trying to understand why your significant other doesn't want you to be friends with someone they know is expected.


The person is known to try to steal people’s partners


They might be cheating on you with an ex of theirs, in which case you need to know.


They think you will likely be attracted to that person and they don't want any issues.


You've been friends with them for years.


Everyone you talk to says that friend is an asshole.


it feels like your significant other is hiding something.


getting my aspergers diagnosed ex-roomate evicted before finals week

You shouldn't evict your roommate before an important event.


They have done something criminal towards the property or you.


You haven't given them any warning signs.


Your roommate is responsible for the termite invasion and hasn't paid rent


Your roommate will move out as soon as graduation is over


your roommate has been a continuous nuisance to you


not wanting to work with a colleague who was drink driving after a leaving party

You shouldn't let things outside of work affect a working relationship with a colleague.


Your colleague is someone you date outside of work.


Your colleague doesn't know about your personal life.


Your colleague is also rooming with you.


Your colleague has nothing to do with why you're stressed.


telling a kid with a Tourette Syndrome to study somewhere else

Hypothesis: People should be kind to one another.

one party did something bad to the other


Hypothesis: People should be kind to one another.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to one another.

the other person is putting you in physical danger.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to one another.

You want your honest opinions of each other to be known.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to one another.

they are soldiers on opposite sides of a violent war.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to one another.

they all work together and must see each other every day.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.

you are making a fuss over something trivial


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.

you are standing up for a basic human right


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.

You want someone to feel like they're right.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stand up for yourself.


leaving my girlfriend because of her drinking and smoking

It's good to have and maintain healthy boundaries in what you allow in your life.

You need specialized care from someone to help you function.


You don't care if you're stepped on and people take advantage of you.


You want to have non-abusive healthy relations with other in your life.


you need to grab someone to save them from falling off a cliff.


someone who invades your privacy is a dangerous stalker.


Your boundaries prevent you from ever forming close relationships with others.


The people around you can be very demanding.


getting angry and yelling at my wife for secretly giving me laxatives

It's okay to be angry at someone for poisoning you.


they are deliberately trying to harm you.


They cooked using plants they did not realize were poisonous.


going to the hoa about my neighbor's dog

You should control your pets so your neighbors aren't put in a position of needing to report you.


You live around like-minded animal lovers who understand the needs that animal have and would never hurt them.


Your neighbors are anal and don't like animals to begin with and you love your animals.


Your neighbors like your pets in their yards.


The neighbors are antagonist your animals to get them to go out of their yard.


Your pets keep getting out and tearing up or leaving messes in the neighbor's yard.


refusing to give charity money to a relative that needs funds to fight a criminal case in which they very likely committed the crimes

You should always help family with their finances if they need it.

they need help because they spend all their money on drugs.


family has always helped you with finances.


They are seeking to do something illegal like fraud.


They don't know how to do their finances.


denying emotional labour to an ex in the throes of drug abuse

It is okay to be overwhelmed with another person's drug abuse.

that person is someone you're treating for addiction


that person is trying to change and needs your help


You need to realize that people are not perfect and to be forgiving of their mistakes.


You want to have many friends in your life.


Their mistakes caused extreme harm to someone.


you expect them to forgive your mistakes


They are not learning from their mistakes and repeat them.


It is reasonable to be upset when an employee gets angry at you.

the employee is unfounded in their anger


You were throwing stuff around the store


That employee is your superior and you purposely made a mistake.


You have done nothing wrong and don't deserve to be upset with.


They're angry they can't get six weeks paid vacation.


telling waiter why I was sending back food

It's okay to speak up when you didn't get what was promised to you.


Everyone else got what they were promised


You are in the middle of a business meeting.


You and your boss are in a private meeting.


Speaking up would ostracize you from the group.


You can see that the situation is hopeless because of conditions that can't be helped.


letting go of the door when there's someone right behind me

It's rude to shut a door in someone's face.


They are trying to explain to you something you need to know.


It's understandable to be angry at your roommate and not listen to them.


You shouldn't be friends with people who hang out with you then just ignore you.

you prefer relationships to be less demanding


They apologize sincerely for their behavior.


they're only ignoring you because you asked them to


they are only bringing you along with them for clout


You are trying to get something out of those people for your own gain.


not agreeing with my (divorced)) parents oving between houses more often

Complaining to your parents can cause them to push back harder.

Both your complaints and your parents are reasonable.


you state your cause cogently and calmly


They're mature enough to listen to your complaints calmly.


You throw a temper tantrum instead of calmly explaining your position.


They are stubborn and don’t want you to be weak


being mad at a girl for pretending to be my friend for 3 months while slowly stealing my boyfriend

Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.

You have to be pleasant to them because you work together.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.

You're doing it so you can get close to them and scam them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.

They want to date you and you can't stand being around them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.

You are required to work with the person on a daily basis.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.

The person has a horrible attitude and you rarely see them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.

it is your brothers wife, and you are trying to keep the peace.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to pretend to like someone.

it is just because you are trying to get them to do something for you.


talking to my mom in the same rude tone she talks to me

You don't have to be nice to someone just because they are related to you.

they are always willing to help you out.


Unless you are financially dependent on them.


Especially if you aren't financially dependent on them.


they are wealthy and put you in their will.


you might inherit a lot of money from them.


you are their mother and they are a child


refusing to bring some items back for my uncle

You should always help your family out when they need something.


Your family has always made excuses when you asked for help in the past.


Your family has always helped you out in the past.


talking to my friends parent without him knowing

It's a bit sneaky to do things behind someone's back.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


You are seeing someone behind your partner's back.


you're doing so because they tend to overreact


you've told them you're not hiding anything


not being comfortable with an unleashed dog and yelling at the owner

Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at other people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at other people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at other people.

You're telling them to get out of the way of an oncoming car


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at other people.

you are trying to get them away from danger.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at other people.

you need to get their attention in a noisy room.


misunderstanding my partner and I's breakup

You should try better to understand your partner.

You don’t want to be with them for very much longer


You are about to break up with your partner.


You want to marry your partner in the future.


You are separated from your partner pending a divorce.


You want to maintain a good relationship.


you are over being with them and plan on a divorce.


you want this relationship to last forever.


asking my partner to not express his phobias in front our children

You should not project your fears on your children.

unless it will help keep them safe from immediate danger.


The fear is based on actual danger, such as fear of getting into a stranger's car.


You are fearful of something harmless, like clowns.


the fears are of being bitten by a dangerous local animal


your fears come from an irrational reaction to trauma


selling my dead grandfather's house and evicting his widow

It's understandable you have to do things sometimes that aren't in the best interest of everybody.


you have been put in charge of a large group.


The things you do interest you personally and do not harm anyone.


Any alternative would hurt many more people.


You are trying to help the majority of people.


You are a teacher with the best interest of the class.


You are a student with you and your friends' best interest.


Is it unhealthy to try and tell your partner what they can do.

They are asking you if you are okay with a certain proposition.


You are trying to deny them something important to them.


you are just telling them what they can do to support you in something.


you are being controlling due to jealousy.


It would improve their health or well being.


You are trying to micromanage their every move.


Your partner is trying to do something reckless.


You want to control what they wear or who they see.


It's good to respect the name you were given at birth.


it's been in your family for generations.


You are transgender and your birth name does not fit the gender you identify with.


You were named after a beloved relative.


You change your last name when you get married.


It is a family name passed down for generations.


You really feel it's a mismatch for who you are as you develop and grow.


You don't want the hassle that comes with changing it, all the paperwork and confusion, etc.


You feel that your birth name doesn't fit you.


not immediately telling online contacts I'm a woman

You shouldn't reveal that you are a woman online.


You are gaming online and the people online are toxic


You are on 4 chan with a bunch of weirdos.


You are looking for a potential partner.


lying to my mate about what time I'm going to the cinema

It is okay to want to go out and do things by yourself


You like to be adventurous but are introverted.


You have young children who you would be leaving unattended


You have to stay home and watch the baby.


You have small children at home and no other guardian.


Nobody in your family likes to get out but you.


someone really needs you to be with them


you've been going out with people a lot lately and need a break


getting annoyed and yelling at my roomate

It is important to discuss issues calmly.

It's an issue you feel passionately about.


they other person is screaming and out of control.


you want people to understand your side of the issue.


Hypothesis: You should be nicer to your partner.

you just discovered that they are cheating you.


Hypothesis: You should be nicer to your partner.


Hypothesis: You should be nicer to your partner.

your partner and you are growing apart together


Hypothesis: You should be nicer to your partner.

you and your partner are trying to build a strong relationship


Hypothesis: You should be nicer to your partner.

your partner has cheated on you with someone else


Hypothesis: You should be nicer to your partner.

you partner went out of their way to do nice things for you


Hypothesis: You should be nicer to your partner.

You want the relationship to grow stronger.


cutting off all of my friends unintentionally

Others should be somewhat understanding when they are wronged on accident.


The same person keeps doing the same things over and over again and still says it's an accident.


The other person apologizes and tries to make things right.


Someone else keeps making the same mistake


It's rude to make things hard for a friend.

You're a personal trainer for your friend.


You're affecting their academic performance.


You are training your friend to get stronger by making them lift heavier weights.


Your friend is stressed out over many different things.


They are already going through a tough time.


thinking it is weird my other half talks to his ex multiple times a week

It is not acceptable that your partner talks to their ex.

they have common property that they need to discuss.


they are still friends and you are comfortable with it.


their ex is still trying to convince them to get back together.


You're comfortable with your partner talking to them.


Your partner is still romantically interested in their ex.


They are trying to get back a personal item of theirs.


getting mad at my girlfriend for popping my pimples

It's good to get mad at someone if they are annoying you.


They are your young child and are too young to understand what they are doing.


calling out an angry driver with my gf in the passenger seat

It is normal to get upset with bad drivers.


The bad driver is having a medical emergency on the road


the drivers are inconsiderate and dangerous


You should be careful when you make jokes to others.


They are close friends who understand your same type of sarcastic humor.


They are strangers who might misunderstand your sarcastic sense of humor.


you don't know what their sense of humor is like


you are certain you know their sense of humor.


following a volleyball player on Instagram next to my girlfriend

It's good to follow different people on social media.


You want to get different opinions and news.


Social media is triggering for feelings of low self worth.


Social media inspires you to be the best version of yourself.


You are a married woman and you are following single men.


You are trying to be open minded and learn things.


They people you follow make toxic posts.


chasing up on my girlfriend when she ignores my texts

It's rude to ignore someone's text messages.


They're asking you where your part of the group project is


they are looking for you after you agreed to meet them somewhere.


They have something important and urgent to tell you.


wanting to meet my dad, who abused my mom

Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse your wife.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse your wife.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse your wife.

She is hitting you and you need to defend yourself.


getting mad at my bf for unlocking a character on my copy of Smash Bros Ultimate

It is important to discuss issues with your partner.

They are working on an important project for work.


You are planning on buying a house with them.


You don't want the relationship to last.


Your partner does not want to discuss the issues.


You need to clarify what your partner wants.


Your partner has time to spend with you.


You think the issue will be solved on it's own.


It will have major implications for the relationship.


wanting my girlfriend and to change our lifestyle

Hypothesis: It's good to make changes to your life.

You are satisfied with your life as it is now.


Hypothesis: It's good to make changes to your life.


not inviting in-laws to daughter's birthday

It's wrong not to include your in-laws in child's life.

they're unhealthy for the child's upbringing


your in-laws are nothing but mean to the children


your in-laws are nothing but nice to the children


they try to parent him against your wishes.


your child is the only grandchild in the family.


Your in-laws never accepted your marriage.


Your in-laws have love and wisdom to share.


not contributing as much as our 'landlady' wants me to

Hypothesis: You should help out your landlady.


Hypothesis: You should help out your landlady.

you have some time off work and can help out


Hypothesis: You should help out your landlady.


Hypothesis: You should help out your landlady.

She has been generous with her offerings


sticking up for my so and making his mom cry

It's expected that you will defend your significant other.

your significant other sexually assaulted someone


They say something completely out of line and you don't support it.


They are threatened physically by others.


Your significant other has a temper and started a fight with someone


They do something dangerous and illegal.


Someone has wrongly maligned their character.


Someone is falsely accusing them of something.


telling a girl to ''get the fuck off me'' when she touched my hair

It's normal to be surprised if someone swears at you.


You didn't do anything to make the other person mad.


you have done nothing to deserve being sworn at.


you are ordering food in a drive through.


You're having a heated verbal altercation


This person has never used those words before


It's understandable to not want to believe a diagnosis about your significant other.


You are hearing only rumors from people you don't know too well.


A doctor communicated the results to you


Your significant other is a pathological liar


You have already gotten a second opinion and they agree on the diagnosis.


Their parents are doctors and agree with the diagnosis.


Their doctor was recently charged with fraud.


not wanting to share a studio apartment with 3 other people for a vacation

It is okay to want your own personal space.


You have already had personal space for days


You have your own space and can shut the door.


complaining to Chipotle customer service

It's okay to complain to a restaurant's customer service, if you were unhappy with their food or service.

There was no good reason to complain, you just want free food.


You are making up issues with your experience to get a free meal.


It was your fault that the food or service was bad.


They are slow at the time you are eating there.


you found something in your food, like bugs or glass.


not wanting to cater to my cat's every need

You should take full responsibility for your pet.


you've handed that responsibility over to your spouse


You live with a significant other and it was their idea to get one.


You forgot to tighten their leash and they bite a child.


choosing not to participate in an well-anticipated band trip because I'm prioritizing grades and my mental health

It is bad for people to go on trips only when there is something more important they should be doing.

the important thing they should be doing is eating at their soul


the important thing involves their children


they have to take the trip to do the important thing.


people are counting on them to do something.


they have no one to watch their children


they have someone else to take care of those tasks.


it is last minute and they did not tell anyone they were going.


getting mad at my mom when she touched people's art in a museum

It is reasonable to expect your parents to follow the rules.

they break the rules when it comes down to safety


they are driving beside a police officer


You are a toddler and don't know any better.


They are adults and living in your home.


They are breaking the rules to protect their child.


The rule is their to keep their children safe.


Your parents are upstanding citizens and professionals.


being angry my partner didn't disclose that his family disliked my breed of dog

Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.

you have had a bad experience with that dog


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.

you are a dog trainer and it is your job to get along with all dogs.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.

you have been attacked by a certain breed, in the past.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.

You have never had a bad experience with any dogs


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.

You are abusive towards the ones you don't like.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like certain dogs.

You have been bitten by that kind of dog.


getting upset at my parents for always making fun of me

It's cruel for parents to make fun of their children.


Their children can't help what is wrong with them.


The child cannot help themselves for whatever the parent is mocking.


The parents are pretending to be clowns.


It is good-natured ribbing as a sign of affection.


It is emotionally painful and leads to tears.


not wanting my Dads side of the family coming to my graduation

It's expected that family will attend an important personal event.


It's OK if some people are mentally challenged.


they use it as a crutch for special favors


They are challenged by a birth defect or a brain injury.


It is always okay to be mentally challenged


It's wrong to not be open to communicate in a relationship.

You have gone no-contact after being abused


You feel supported and loved in the relationship.


Problems could be solved by communicating better.


putting a dog poop bag sidewalk and picking it up on my way home

Hypothesis: It's good to pick up trash.


Hypothesis: It's good to pick up trash.


Hypothesis: It's good to pick up trash.

you have to go into dangerous busy traffic to pick it up.


not allowing my daughter to go to her friends house because it's in a rough area

You shouldn't judge people based on their socio-economic situation.


You want friendships with a wide range of people.


They do not take care of their property and you are about to sell your house.


telling an acquaintance why I'm not talking to her as much

It's polite to let people know why you've cut off contact with them.


You don't want to speak with them anymore to protect your own mental health


They would be more hurt to know the reason.


that person intentionally caused you serious hurt


ditching a project partner and doing the whole thing individually

It's not okay to ditch or leave people on a project just because you get frustrated with them.

The project is something that is optional and not for profit.


they treat you very poorly throughout the process.


people are depending on your contributions.


you were doing most of the work on the project


being angry about my partner's plan to do drugs while I watch our kids

It's wrong to leave your children with someone while you do drugs.


the people watching your children are also using drugs.


that person is a guardian of yours and the drugs are pain killers for pain you have


the drugs are illicit and the other person is not capable


You do it once every few weeks as a treat, and you leave them with a reliable babysitter.


You leave them with someone who's also too wasted to care for them properly.


thinking it's ok to say the word nigger when you're talking about the word

It's okay to be offended by someone's use of a word.


The other person makes it clear that he is using the word for academic purposes.


You are a member of a minority group and someone uses a racial slur.


The word has a different meaning in the country you are visiting.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't beat people up.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't beat people up.

You are trying to defend yourself against a violent person.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't beat people up.

You have to do so to defend your own life.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't beat people up.

You want to beat them up because of what race they are.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't beat people up.

The person attacked you and you are acting in self defense.


being mad at my friend for not telling me that she has been avoiding me

Ones friend should always tell someone when they have a problem with them.

This will make them very violent and upset


The problem is minor and will resolve on its own.


The problem could be solved by communication.


That will make things uncomfortable for the friend.


The friend asks them to tell the other person.


It is a minor problem that you will get over soon.


The problem will continue to bother you until you discuss it.


It's good to look out for the safety of a friend.

That friend is always stabbing you in the back


The friend has asked you to stop worrying about them.


You can see the friend is going down a dark path.


The friend is meeting a stranger and wants to call you if something goes wrong.


they aren't looking while crossing the street.


being always the girl who comes between two best friends

It is rude to ruin other people's friendships.

Their friends have been a bad influence on them.


They are kind to you and have done nothing wrong.


You are spreading lies to ruin the relationship.


you are doing so to protect them from someone else.


you are just trying to be rude and get even.


One of the people in the friendship is being abused


You do not know the people in the friendship


siding with my grandma on how she treated my grandfather's bastard kid

It's wrong to get in between your parents or grandparents relationship.

One of them is being abusive towards the other.


Your grandfather cheated on your grandmother.


refusing to let someone's child in front of me at a parade

It's expected to let children have a good view of an event.


the event is inappropriate for minors to see


the event is intended primarily for children


it is an event children shouldn't be viewing.


wanting to ask my mom not to bring her bf to my place

It is okay to censor who is a guest in your home.


a particular guest engages in sketchy activities.


especially if their behavior is objectionable.


They are a family member who needs your help.


It's expected that friends should do things together.

they are getting in the way of your marriage.


the things involve intimate things with their spouses


they are in different countries currently.


being mad at my best mate for seeing a girl he knew I liked

It is rude to date someone a friend is interested in.


Your friend has been single for a long time


the person is never going to be interested in your friend.


you talk it over with your friend first.


the person has no interest in your friend


they have already been on dates together


looking through me Ex's phone to confirm she slept with my best friend

Hypothesis: One shouldn't cheat on a partner.

You've both agreed to have an open relationship.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't cheat on a partner.

It would devastate your partner emotionally if they found out.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't cheat on a partner.

the partner is abusive and you want out of the relationship.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't cheat on a partner.

you want to maintain and honest and healthy relationship.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't cheat on a partner.


Hypothesis: One shouldn't cheat on a partner.

This is your partner's first relationship


It's wrong not to get your children haircuts.

Their hair does not grow long due to an illness.


They are starting classes at a new school.


The child's hair is getting knotted and ragged.


you don't have enough money to get them haircuts


they feel socially awkward with long hair


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

You are staring at the sky on a starry night.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

You are intently staring at a passenger of the opposite sex on the bus.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

You work for the police and are gathering evidence.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

The person you are looking t is very shy.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

you are trying to read a sign from far away.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

Unless you're staring at a beautiful picture.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

Especially if your staring makes someone uncomfortable.


Hypothesis: It is rude to stare.

You're at the scene of a brutal car accident


potentially causing 2 of my close friends to break up

It's wise to choose your friends carefully, make sure you can trust them.

Won't divulge any sensitive information to them.


You are giving them private information.


You never expect to need to rely on them.


You want to share personal information with them.


they are people who have saved your life without thought for their own safety.


you have been treated badly after trusting a friend in the past.


You have had friends that have wronged you in the past.


they have given you no reason not to trust them.


making my husband take down his wall mounted guns

You don't have a right to tell your husband what to do.


You tell him how to spend his spare time.


Your husband is in a dilemma and asks for advice.


Your husband and his siblings are making decisions regarding their mother's care.


Your husband isn't helping with anything and sitting on his lazy butt.


You two both tell each other what to do.


being upset that my close friend/ex uninvited me from his birthday party because he is seeing someone else

It's wrong to expect and ex to not get along in their life or damage a new relationship because of you.


the ex is talking to you behind their new significant other's back.


Your ex is very sick or has a character flaw and is just not dateable.


They're a great person who just wasn't compatible with you.


your ex keeps coming back to you for another chance.


your ex is very happy and expecting a child with a new partner.


not wanting to help my friend overcome depression

It is expected to be sympathetic to someone who is depressed.


They are trying a new medication that has yet to start fully working.


You don't understand what depression is.


You have personal experience with depression.


The person needs help and doesnt know how to ask for help


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.

The people don't consider fat to be a demeaning term.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.

The people are sensitive about their weight.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.

The naming calling is cruel to the other person.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.

you do so out of jest and they're not truly fat


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.

They are morbidly obese and it will help motivate them to get healthy.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.

there is no other way to convince them to get help losing weight.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call people fat.

you don't know the circumstances of what caused the person to gain so much weight.


wanting to abandon my study abroad despite the money/time invested in it

Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.

you have earned some free time for yourself


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.

you have a lot of responsibilities to fulfill


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.

you have something important you need to get done


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.

Why shouldn't someone waste their time if they want to?


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.

You are studying for a test at the last minute.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't waste your time.

You have an important deadline for a college essay.


discovering my best friend wished for me to die

It is unacceptable to wish death on anyone.


someone has mortally and gravely harmed you


you wish to treat others with respect and dignity


The person is a murderer who killed your family member.


You believe life is sacred and in God's hands.


It's not okay to be rude or dislike family members.

they have been rude and angry toward you already.


you are trying to teach your children how to treat other people.


calling my dad disgusting after he found a new girlfriend a month after my mom's death

It is wrong to replace a dead partner quickly.


they've told you to do so before they died


That partner had been sick for a long time.


You knew your partner was going to die for many years.


You had fallen out of love long before they passed on.


You had a deep bond and connection and were soul mates.


not running an errand for the shift manager after my scheduled time off from work because I had to watch my niece and nephew

You shouldn't expect someone to work when they're not scheduled.


They have asked for all the extra hours they can get.


They have said they have to work at another job too.


they need to make extra money through overtime


they've made clear they're looking forward to the off day


not wanting to make a big deal out of my grandma's surgery

It's okay to react differently to sensitive situations


You have a reaction that causes harm to others.


The situation affects multiple people differently.


those situations require you to be composed and calm


those situations involve other sensitive people


You need to be strong for the people around you.


stopping a hate speech motion at a company board

Hypothesis: It's good to stand up to hate speech.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up to hate speech.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up to hate speech.

You are in the middle of a hate speech riot and unarmed.


Hypothesis: it's rude to ignore your friends


Hypothesis: it's rude to ignore your friends

You friends depend on your medical assistance.


considering giving away a friends furniture

When giving away a friends belongings, it is best to ask them for permission first.

They are in a box already labeled for Goodwill.


You don't know whether they want to give away things.


Your friend left their items at your house accidentally.


They already said they're holding a garage sale.


Those possessions might be associated with very emotional memories.


You should try to get along with others.


They have betrayed people you care about.


You want to maintain a good relationship with them.


you have to work in a group with the other people


breaking up with my girlfriend because I'm only now starting to realise it's not going anywhere

It's best to tell someone as soon as you know that the relationship won't work.


You think that they may hurt themselves.


They feel that things will last forever.


She wants kids and her biological clock is running out


you are both forced into an arranged marriage.


not wanting to pay for my girlfriends dogs surgery

It's understandable to ask your significant other for money if you don't have it.

You are already in debt with your significant other and haven't yet paid them back anything.


It is a relatively small amount of money they are asking for.


You want to buy something frivolous with it.


You know that your partner is out of money.


bringing a date to Social Function that included a Guy I used to date

It would be a nice thing to do to give someone you used to date a heads up if you are going to bring a date to a social function you know they will be at.


The person you used to date is also bringing their own date.


The person you used to date still has feelings for you


You have cut off all contact with them because they are toxic.


You have mutual friends that you want to maintain relationships with.


It's expected that people will want privacy in their home.

The people are living in a communal space.


They keep their curtains open day and night.


They lock their doors, pull down the shades and turn off their phones.


They have a lot of people in their house.


It's rude  to not respond to important messages when people are waiting for a response.

your phone battery is dead and you don't have a charger.


you saw the message and just ignored it.


you're procrastinating responding to them


You can see what they are writing as you look at your phone


A political party is calling to ask how you plan to vote.


It is your favorite blood drive and they want to know if you will be donating.


stopping people from re-sharing the same story with me for the x'th time

It's fine to tell someone they are repeating themselves.

They have Alzheimer's because you should live in their world.


They're your boss and would consider it rude.


They've been saying the same thing for twenty minutes.


They are a little kid and it might hurt their feelings.


They are grown-ups and can handle the criticism.


You're a public speaking coach giving them feedback on an upcoming presentation


It is expected that not all roommates will be a good match in dorm rooms.

They are allowed to choose their own roomates.


People are just put into room completely randomly.


You pick your roommate before signing up for dorm rooms.


Roommates are randomly assigned to rooms.


They are from different economic backgrounds.


They come from entirely different backgrounds and do not know each other.


the roommates were able to select each other.


purposefully getting my neighbor evicted because of their barking dog

It is okay to expect neighbors to be respectful

You've defaced your neighbor's property.


You've helped your neighbor improve their yard recently.


you are not respectful to your neighbors.


You pick fights with your neighbors every day.


You are all part of the same homeowners' association.


it is the one night a year they have a big family party and make a fair bit of noise.


you always treat them and their property with respect.


not telling my mom that my grandfather passed away because I knew she wanted some of the estate

Hypothesis: You should not be greedy.


Hypothesis: You should not be greedy.

you would be depriving another person of something they need.


Hypothesis: You should not be greedy.


Hypothesis: You should not be greedy.

Your family is on the edge of starvation and you need every penny to survive.


not reading PUA books and getting kicked out of a house for not doing so

Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.

What you're told will hurt someone or others and is immoral.


Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.

The person telling you is wise and you know has your best interests at heart.


Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.

you are told to do something immoral or illegal


Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.


Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.

What you are told will benefit everyone involved.


Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.

you would be putting yourself in harms way.


Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.

you are in basic training for the military.


Hypothesis: You should always do what you are told.

Your are being told to do something illegal.


getting a pixie cut when my boyfriend says he thinks it's unattractive

It's OK to think your girlfriend's haircut is unattractive.

you met her with that same haircut and still liked her.


not giving my older sister's boyfriend my 'blessing'

You shouldn't expect blessings from others.


You don't know the person giving out blessings.


refusing to leave an overwatch competitive match

Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.

All competitors push each other to become better


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.

you are training and trying to get better at something.


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.

You are in a situation where no one can win.


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.

It just results in jealousy and hurt feelings.


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.

Encourages those involved to work harder.


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.

the competitive environment leads to cutthroat practices


Hypothesis: Healthy competition is good.

you are trying to push each other to be better.


wanting to cut my grandma out of my life

Grandparents that likely send cards with money in them should be cherished and not shunned

The grandparents are racist and attempt to influence the children.


They're trying to buy your silence about how they abused you.


They're kind to you in many other contexts as well.


They send the gifts in order to manipulate people.


They are good people you want in your life.


they only send them to one grandchild and ignore the others.


not looking for the original owners of a lost cat

Hypothesis: It's kind to take in a homeless animal


Hypothesis: It's kind to take in a homeless animal


Hypothesis: It's kind to take in a homeless animal

It is a wild animal that should not be domesticated.


not challenging racist comments from an otherwise friendly shared ride driver

It's bad to hear a racist comment from someone and not speak out against it.

Your boss made the comment and could fire you for insubordination


You hear one of your subordinates say it and know they are damaging company culture


You don't realize the comment is racist.


speaking out would put you in danger at the time.


the comment is directed at your family and your children are present.


not sending money or visiting my brother in prison

If your family needs money, it's good to lend some to them.


breaking into my mom's house to retrieve my own stuff

You should respect your children's possession.

they have too many toys and you need to give some away.


you want your children to respect your things


Your children own adult-themed literature.


Your children own age-appropriate books.


The possessions have the potential to cause harm.


Your children are highly interested in their possessions.


It is good to talk to family members less if they are not good to you.

They are in need and you are the only one who can help.


They have serious medical issues that cause them to act this way.


They are always prying into your business and spreading gossip.


they are reaching out to apologize for their behavior.


saying no to hanging out after I tried to make amends with my ex-friend and college roommate that I blocked from my life? I said no because I just wanted to put this all behind me. he was upset and said I was being fake

It's good to put bad relationships behind you.


It's a family member you know needs guidance.


The relationship was causing you emotional harm.


You have a child from the previous relationship.


You want to have healthy relationships moving forward.


you see that you could fix the relationship


the relationship is clearly over and in the past


You shouldn't remove someone from your Netflix account when they've gotten accustomed to using it.

they have failed to pay their share of the subscription


you've made it clear that they can't use it anymore


they're also paying toward the subscription


You don't even use it that much, so you never hit your screen limit.


not wanting my gf to care about her colleague

It is acceptable for you to not want your girlfrind to care about a colleague.


You all work at the same job and that colleague is beloved by management.


The colleague is known to flirt with everyone.


that colleague has been a close friend for many years.


that colleague is an ex-girlfriend/boyfriend.


You think her colleague has feelings for her.


refusing to perform at my mother's wedding

Parents should hire professional entertainers for special occasions instead of their children.


Their children show a keen interest in being part of the entertainment.


Their children have a fear of performing and don't want to be entertaining.


their children have a special talent they enjoying showing off


Their children are professional entertainers.


You are looking to hire a professional fire eater.


their children are talented entertainers.


the children are being exploited as free labor and do not want to participate.


telling my friend I'm "free" to hang much later than I'm actually free to hang

Hypothesis: It is okay to need time for yourself.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time for yourself.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time for yourself.

You have committed yourself to plans with someone else.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time for yourself.

You have not had a break in a long time.