Hypothesis: Always look for better jobs.

You have made a commitment to stay in your current job.


moving to a different city to secure a better job that had a rare opening while leaving my at home with my three year old to orchestrate the move

Hypothesis: Always look for better jobs.

Your employer is not loyal or fair to workers.


being uncomfortable/uncertain about being friends with a 13yo

Some kids just need a good friend and it is okay to be a good influence for them.


The child has committed a serious crime.


The child hasn't had a lot of socialization.


The kid is antisocial and just wants a dog.


You aren't legally allowed within 500 feet of playgrounds or schools.


They don't have a close relationship with their parents.


They have been hanging out with bad influences.


getting a septum piercing even though my family hates them

It is wrong to tell another person what to do with their body.


it is something that is a personal choice.


They are mentally incapacitated and might harm themselves.


They have made a sound rational choice to do something to their body.


The other person is anorexic and is starving herself because she thinks she is fat.


The person is not knowledgeable about the dangers of smoking.


The person take good care of themselves and is healthy.


trying to reach out to my younger brother

Hypothesis: It's good to reach out to your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to reach out to your family.

They have been very helpful to you growing up.


Hypothesis: It's good to reach out to your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to reach out to your family.

You are alienated and treated unfairly by your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to reach out to your family.

You need to help and support your elderly parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to reach out to your family.

Your family regularly avoids you at all costs.


Hypothesis: It's good to reach out to your family.

Your family has a restraining order against you.


not letting my sister stay with me after she made a racist comment about my bf and used pepper spray on him

Hypothesis: People should be kind to each other.

Some of those people perceive kindness as weakness and exploit it accordingly.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to each other.

They have to work together to achieve a shared goal.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to each other.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to each other.

One of the people is hurting others and needs to be stopped.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to each other.

All people wish to get along with one another and want kindness back.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to each other.

They are trying to come to a compromise.


Hypothesis: People should be kind to each other.

They are fighting in a war on different sides.


freaking out because I didn't have a seatbelt on in a cab

It is expected that a cab driver will check to make sure seatbelts are buckled on passengers before they drive to the destination.

all the passengers are adults and seated in the back.


The cab driver was ticketed for unbuckled passengers before.


The person is in the back seat and it's not against the law.


The person is riding in the front seat with the cab driver.


Seatbelts are not required in the state.


They are not obligated to check that everyone's wearing a seatbelt.


being stressed over a dog I did not want

It is expected that dogs will bring you happiness.


The dog is untrainable and viscous to everyone including you.


You are lonely and need a loyal companion.


You raised the dog since when they were a puppy.


wanting my boyfriend to give me the money I owe the dentist for missing my appointment due to his own fault

It is wrong to make the person you are dating miss their dentist appointment.


You bought good seats to a baseball game.


You shouldn't expect your coworkers to cover for you.

You have covered for your coworkers before.


They've agreed to cover any time you need it.


All of you frequently cover for each other.


You are going home early for no good reason.


You are rarely sick and you have covered for them before.


You're constantly making them cover for you.


You refused to cover for them in the past.


You should do what you can to help out a friend.


Your friend is trying their best and needs help.


You're out of town and can't make it in time.


selling gpus without disclosing upfront they were used for crypto mining

It's understandable to want to sell things you don't need.

The items are priceless family heirlooms


The items that you are selling doesn't belong to you.


The holidays are near and you want to save money.


Someone else in your household needs those things very much.


breaking up my two Friends, who were both clearly unhappy

It's good to communicate your unhappiness with friends.

Your friends are untrustworthy and will gossip about you.


You're unhappy because of their behavior.


You do that all the time and your friends are not at fault.


Your friends are hurting you and may not be aware of their behaviors.


Your friends are toxic and unwilling to change.


being upset about the house my mom let me buy for 1/4 of the value

Children should talk out problems with their parent instead of getting angry.

the parent is being unreasonable and trying to talk would only result in more trouble.


getting angry in itself will only get the child in more trouble.


Every conversation with their parents turns into an argument.


The child gets violent when they get angry.


They are toddlers and don't have language skills yet.


Their parents are abusive and beat them for no reason.


Their parents are social workers and give good advice.


laughing at my friend who got in a car accident

You should drive carefully so you don't get in an accident.


You are in a dangerous part of town and someone is trying to rob you.


You are driving through a neighborhood where kids like to play in the streets.


You are in an emergency and need to get to a hospital.


not wanting to go skiing with my father because I want to use my weekends to give my body rest

Families should want to spend time with each other.


They just got done with a family vacation.


A parent is returning from serving overseas.


They get in physical altercations regularly.


"pesturing" this guy who owes me $675 around the holidays

Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay back a debt.

You are still trying to get back on your feet.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay back a debt.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay back a debt.

paying it back would mean going without food.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay back a debt.

the person who loaned you money really needs it back.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to pay back a debt.

You are broke and really can't get hired anywhere.


wanting space after so mocked me for being sick

It's wrong to mock others for something they can't help.


you see they are trying to overcome their issues.


mocking them helps them to overcome a weakness.


not letting my girlfriend have a tv in the kitchen

It's wrong to control a significant other to the point where you tell them what they can and cannot own.

They want to own a gun despite being prohibited by law due to prior felonies.


You don't want them to own a car so they can't escape from you.


You are trying to control what they wear.


They are mentally disabled and can’t think for themselves


They are a person who is capable of their own independence


The significant other is an alcoholic and drug addict.


telling my friend's mom that the autographed picture she gave me is a fake

You should always show appreciation when others give you something.

The person is a cop giving you a ticket.


They chose a thoughtful gift you really like.


They give you a brown paper bag with a dead dove in it.


They give you something you have said you don't want


not wanting to meet my transexual grandmother for the first time

It is okay to stay away from situations that are uncomfortable

The situation is necessary for survival.


The situation is dangerous and uncertain.


The situation could put you in danger or killed.


It is your children who are making you uncomfortable.


You are trying to become a mental health professional.


reporting my ex for admiting to abusing our kids

Reporting someone to the police can ensure that they change their behavior.

They're put in an American prison that brutalizes them, utterly fails to provide any opportunities for rehabilitation, and lets they learn from more experienced criminals.


They're diverted into a psychological treatment program.


The person is a member of the police force.


The police have been watching that person already.


They were not doing anything at all wrong.


They are very frightened by the encounter.


physically fighting with my sister as her brother

You should never resort to physical violence with anyone


the person is weak and cannot defend themselves


You are protecting yourself from someone who is trying to hurt you or your family.


You are surrounded by kids and don't want to set a bad example.


It will prevent you from someone causing harm to you


You are in the military and defending your country from terrorists.


Not wanting to do anal related actions can alleviate potential health issues.


just starting walking away from my friends

It's not okay to ignore or disrespect our friends for trivial matters.


You only met them once, and barely qualify as friends.


Your friend is going through an especially tough time and really needs emotional support.


They have done the same to you in the past.


They have always been respectful to you in the past.


wanting to meet on campus to return someone's Id

It's good to return things that aren't yours.


The wallet is full of cash and you don't know how else you could feed your young children.


The things have clear sentimental value, like someone's wedding ring.


Returning it would cause you to be imprisoned.


The things are useful but would be destroyed if you did.


It's good for the environment to reuse towels.


Your towels are produced with unclean energy.


not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with my friends

It is selfish to not let your girlfriend to hang out with your friends.


Your friends and your girlfriend do not get along


Your girlfriend wants to be friends with your friends


They were friends before you were friends with them.


Your friends are loud, obnoxious, and disrespectful to women.


Your friends want to be friends with your girlfriend.


telling my friend that Michael Scott from the Office gets assassinated at the end

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

It could put an innocent person in jail.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

The SS knocks on your door and asks if you're sheltering any Jews.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

You lie in order to protect a child molester.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

The truth would irreparably hurt someone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

An innocent man is in prison due to the lie.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

Telling the truth can get someone in grave danger.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.


not wanting my BFs brother to be part of his life

It's okay to not want your BF's family member to be part of their life, if you have a good reason.

Your BF asks you to include them once in a while.


The family member is toxic or harming you.


No one else thinks that person raises any red flags.


That person keeps trying to sexually harass you.


The family member is their own young child.


The family member is toxic and causes trouble.


The family member is important to your friend's life.


screaming at my dad and vowing to never open up to him again

Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at someone.

You're telling them to duck from gunshots being fired in the room.


Hypothesis: It's rude to yell at someone.

They are standing right in front of you.


not wanting my wifes aunt to live with us for a month

It's okay to ask relatives if you can stay with them.


Your relatives have a lot of extra space.


You have worn out your welcome by asking too many times.


you know they'd like for you to stay with them.


Your relatives live in a small apartment


Your relatives do not have any spare rooms.


Your relatives have spare rooms available.


It expected to like your partner's friends.

You and your partner's friends have different interests and beliefs.


The friends are putting effort in to try to get to know you.


Their friends are loud obnoxious drunks.


Your partner's friends are much older or younger than you.


Your partner's friends know a lot of your friends.


You want to have a healthy relationship.


your partner's friends have tried to make a pass at you.


your partner's friends have been nice and welcoming to you.


ghosting my friend who shunned me during a mental breakdown

You should not reject someone based on their health.


The person is very contagious and needs to be isolated.


The person can still perform their duties to help others.


They have a disease that is contagious to others.


Their health condition causes you direct harm.


thinking I got my neighbor deported/put in jail

It is wrong to get your neighbor in trouble.

Your neighbor is inviting over sketchy types who keep burgling your car.


Your neighbor is entertaining the whole block with their fireworks.


Unless they are putting others in danger.


Especially if they aren't doing anything wrong.


They have been throwing trash into your yard.


They are a supportive and helpful neighbor.


They are doing something highly illegal or hurtful to someone else.


You've had great relations with them in the past and value their friendship.


It's wrong to get angry at your roommates.


They stay up every night being loud and partying.


They are very quiet and always pay their share of the bills.


they are doing their share of the chores.


They trashed your room while you were away.


They cleaned your room for you while you were away.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be greedy.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be greedy.

You're playing a board game of some kind.


not sticking up for myself when a really scary guy called me names on public transit

You should stand your ground when someone picks on you.

They have a weapon and want to do you harm.


You are being bullied and they won't stop.


you're at school and can tell a teacher.


Hypothesis: It is not good to scare your friends


Hypothesis: It is not good to scare your friends

They don't deal well with being frightened.


Hypothesis: It is not good to scare your friends

You are playing a game to see who can be scared easily.


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to ignore someone's loss.


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to ignore someone's loss.

They are the person who caused the death.


Hypothesis: It's uncaring to ignore someone's loss.

They are celebrities you don't even know.


feeling disrespected by a Coworkers Meme

It's okay to make jokes as long as they are not mean spirited.


You are in the presence of a marginalized group.


The timing is inappropriate such as a funeral.


People around you are trying to cheer up.


It is unprofessional to call your partners job for personal matters.


There is a family emergency or something similar.


You are calling to say you're mad at them for not doing the chores.


Your partner runs their own business and can take personal calls at their leisure.


Their boss has threatened to fire them if they keep wasting time on personal phone calls.


not agreeing with my (divorced)) parents oving between houses more often

It's good to be honest with your parents.

Being honest with them will hurt their feelings.


What you are keeping from them may affect your safety.


You're not ready to tell them something personal which could be used against you.


They are just trying to help you help yourself if you are in trouble.


you are trying to repair the relationship.


It's understandable to not want to work with certain people.

The other people are hard workers and your friends.


They slack off a lot and leave all of the work to you.


They are the only people capable of doing the work you need done.


You hold racist views and that's why you feel that way.


Some of the people in question are dangerous or hurtful.


being mad at my parents for deleting some of my steam games

It's understandable to be angry when someone uses your things without permission.

They used your shirt as a tourniquet to save someone's life.


You have confidential work papers on your desk that no one is allowed to see .


That person used emergency supplies like a first aid kit during a genuine emergency.


The person carelessly damaged your things.


They told you that you could borrow it and you kept it.


The child was borrowing it and didn't understand they had to ask permission.


You use their things without permission all the time.


You have already spoken to them about asking permission before using your things.


telling trainers at the gym to stop touching me

You shouldn't touch anyone who doesn't want to be touched.

You are a police officer arresting someone.


You have to arrest a criminal who has hurt someone.


You have to restrain them to save their life


You're a medical professional trying to tend to their ailment.


They're sick and they have a contagious disease.


You are a physical therapist treating someone with limited movement.


You don't know the person well and were specifically told not to touch.


It is very endearing to help your spouse when they are ill to get up in time to make it to a doctor's appointment.

Your spouse considers your attempts to help patronizing and undermining their independence.


Your spouse will be late to the doctor without your help.


Going to the appointment would be harmful to their health.


They need help because of their illness.


They always yell at you for waking them up


Your spouse has a separation agreement and restraining order against you.


Your spouse doesn't have a lot of support in their life.


They are being combative and refuse to get up.


They are injured and can't get around by themselves.


telling my friend off after she insulted my girlfriend

Hypothesis: It is not okay to insult people.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to insult people.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to insult people.

It is construction criticism about their rude behavior.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to insult people.

You are sticking up for someone who is being bullied.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to insult people.

They are your romantic partner or family.


not wanting to pay for my tuxedo rental at my friend's wedding

You should always rent a tuxedo for a wedding.

The marrying couple has specified not to.


It is a very elaborate wedding in a fancy church.


refusing my family money so I may save up for college

You should always help out your family with money.


They have been there for you throughout your life.


You have a job and live at home with your parents.


refusing to drive my brother and his girlfriend to and from a party

You shouldn't expect other people to always do things for you.

You've hired people as full time care aids.


You often don't do things to help those people.


You're the most experience person on the team.


reporting my neighbor's beeping smoke detector

Neighbors should be courteous to each other.

Your neighbors were bullying your kids around.


Your neighbors are friendly and welcoming.


You will be living next to them for some time


They live directly next door and see each other a great deal.


If you wrong someone it is polite to try and make it up to them.


You know they fully deserved the wrong because they are pure evil.


You never meant to harm them and they are good people.


informing people why someone disappeared

It's not okay to leave people you care or care about you with out giving them a reason.


You are being sent on a top secret mission.


They kicked you out and do not want to see you again.


You are quickly running to the store and will be right back.


They rely on you for emotional and financial support.


trying to force a gay guy to not like me

It's good to spell things out for people so they get the point sometimes.


The person has made it clear they understand insinuation and find detailed explanations condescending.


That person is known to be slow on the uptake.


They are hurting themselves by not understanding.


yelling at my dad for telling me something that I think was insensitive

You should try to be tactful when addressing a sensitive topic.


you are a surgeon speaking to a nurse in an emergency.


You are delivering a speech at a business conference.


The matter is of grave importance to be blurted out.


You don't want to offend the person or people.


Hypothesis: It's rude to shout at your mother.

You are at a loud concert that is drowning out your voices.


Hypothesis: It's rude to shout at your mother.


Hypothesis: It's rude to shout at your mother.

Your mother simply misunderstood something.


Hypothesis: It's rude to shout at your mother.

She has the TV up too loud and can't hear you.


not returning a store key until I receive my paycheck

When someone's employment is terminated, you should still pay them for the time they spent working.


They falsified their hours and have already been overpaid.


You own them money, and don't want to be fined by state regulators for wage theft.


they were caught stealing from the company.


You don't want to get sued for breaking labor laws.


not wanting to leave the house on weekends

It's sociable to get out and about on your free time.

You only go out and about to run errands.


not wanting to play online gaming with my friends child

It's okay to want someone to play a game with you.

Someone has been playing with you for three hours.


it is a rainy, boring day and you need to be entertained.


You think they may get injured if they play.


The person has a restraining order against you.


the person has asked to play with you before.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be angry at your family.

They are being mean to you for no reason.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be angry at your family.

They are trying to look out for what is best for you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be angry at your family.

Your family kicked you out for being gay


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be angry at your family.

Your family supports you no matter what you do


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be angry at your family.


You are expected to let parents handle disciplining their children.

Unless their children are punching them repeatedly.


The parents don't have custody of the child.


You don't know the parents of the child.


They are doing so in a healthy and constructive way.


The parent saw the child's misbehavior and is already approaching to deal with it.


You're expected to pay your share of a bill.


A medical emergency happens and you can't.


Others are depending on you to pay your share.


It's rude to tell someone to leave your presence.


They are bothering you while you are working


stopping being friends with someone who jokes about my (lack of) relationships

It's okay to stop being friends with someone who treats you badly.

Your friend is treating you badly because he is suffering from a psychotic break.


The behavior change is due to a tumor in the brain.


They are physically abusive towards you.


They are dealing with substance abuse and need help.


they treated you badly in response to negative treatment by yourself.


they specifically betrayed you when they said they would not.


they are just going through a rough patch and ignoring you.


not going to my grandmas birthday dinner because of my social anxiety and depression

It's expected that family will celebrate birthdays together.


The family members all live near each other.


The family lives on opposite sides of the world.


They are on the other side of the world.


Some of the family members are too far away to celebrate together.


The family is very close to one another and spend all their time together.


being upset my bf saved fb pics of a mutual friend

Hypothesis: Fidelity is expected in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Fidelity is expected in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Fidelity is expected in a relationship.

You want your significant other to be monogamous.


Hypothesis: Fidelity is expected in a relationship.

It is mutually agreed upon it is acceptable to be monogamous


breaking up with my girlfriend as soon as we got back from vacation

It's rude to break up with a significant other right after a vacation.

you caught them cheating during the vacation.


They were abusing you during the vacation


They are sick and they are going to die soon


being annoyed that I texted my boyfriend "happy birthday eve" with a smiley face and he totally ignored me and has been online ever since then

You shouldn't be annoyed with your partner.


They cleaned the house while you were at work.


Your partner is very supportive and loving.


They are trying something for the first time.


refusing to go to my grandfathers memorial service

It is hurtful to not go to your family member's memorial service.


Your family member is not someone you personally knew.


They were an important part of your life.


The family member was horribly abusive to you.


If it was someone who supported and loved you.


Your family member disowned you for being gay


not wanting to speak to or even look at my dad

Hypothesis: You should respect your parents.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents.

They took care of you and helped you get ahead in life.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parents.

They have helped you through hard times.


asking my coworker to stop using this smelly oil in our cube

You should not offend someone by telling them that their oil is smelly.


The smell of the oil is bad because it's gone rancid and you fear for their health.


You know it's supposed to smell that way and it's just a personal preference.


You work within close proximity to them daily.


The smelly oil could be a sign of danger.


wanting to kick a guy out of the friend group

It is mean to kick someone out of a friend group.


they have done nothing wrong to deserve it.


They person causes problems between friend on purpose by stealing or lying.


You are doing it because you are jealous.


The person being kicked out is a toxic friend and the group is better without them.


It would cause a lot of emotional duress to the person being shunned.


that person has done something awful to someone else in the group.


You know that person really needs the support.


not wanting to get in an ill-begotten car with my college girlfriend

Getting in any car is as safe as the next.


One of the car's break lines has nearly worn through.


All the cars are fresh from the factory.


not driving my acquaintance senior back to her home

It's rude not to go out of your way for the elderly.

An elderly person hits you with their cane


Your grandparents need help doing things around the house


That elderly person is consistently abusive to you.


Those elderly people are your grandparents.


not posting pictures of my so on my Instagram

It is expected to want to show off your partner to others.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hurt people

You are defending yourself from an attacker.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hurt people


Hypothesis: It is bad to hurt people

You're hurting them to discourage them from committing another violent crime.


possibly quitting my nannying job without warning on Friday

It is ok to be mad if your nanny quits without any notice.


You've already paid them for future work.


You know the nanny's mother died and they have to go back to their country.


They walked out and left the children alone.


she had an extreme family emergency and needed to leave the country.


she told you she would be there tonight.


setting my friend up on a prom date in front of his ex

It is wrong to be vengeful after a breakup.


The breakup was caused by something especially terrible or illegal.


You wish to remain amicable with your ex.


Your ex went out of their way to try to ruin your life on the way out.


Your ex handled the breakup with grace and kindness.


breaking up after only 4 months, one week before her Bday

It's good to end a relationship that you know is over, rather than extending it for an event.


The event is someone in your families’ wedding


You can’t stand to look at them cause they cheated on you


It would seriously hurt your career to be seen at the event alone.


You're having screaming fights every night.


You would lose a lot of money for ending the relationship too soon.


going to a costume party dressed as a confederate soldier

Dressing up in a Confederate costume will make you look racist.


You live in a predominantly black neighborhood.


You're playing a villain in a movie or play.


You're marching in support of a white ethnostate.


It's a kindness to put an animal that is suffering out of its misery.


The owner of the animal has not given permission.


The animal is in a lot of pain and is having trouble breathing.


It is not your animal and the owner can be reached.


There is nothing that can be done to ease its suffering.


suggesting a cheaper date for my now ex-girlfriend's birthday

You should allow your ex to celebrate their birthday any way they choose.

They want to celebrate in an illegal way


It involves making you very uncomfortable or too close with them than you desire.


You're miles away from them and both of you have moved on.


They plan on doing something dangerous such as driving drunk.


me not wanting to be with my girlfriend now she's being promoted to a new position

Partners are expected to discuss their problems with each other instead of heading out.

Things are really heated and they need to cool down first.


One partner is upset and needs the support of the other.


One or both of them express that they need space and time to think.


They will be going a while without speaking and need closure.


They just received a call that their boss was sick and they needed to fill his shift.


They are in a new relationship and are still trying to understand each other.


They have already spent a long time trying to work things out


They need some time to disengage and come back cool headed.


They want to stay together in the relationship.


asking my boyfriend to not drink or smoke in front of me

It is rude to tell another adult what to do.


You don’t know the person you are talking to


You are a manager delegating tasks to employees.


You're supposed to be training that adult to do the same job as you.


telling someone I'm not interested after they criticized my kissing style on the second date

Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.

it is mean spirited and doesn't help correct the action.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.

The criticism is of someone's personal appearance.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.

The person specifically asks for criticism because she wants to do a perfect job.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.

The person you are criticizing is a small child.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.

The criticism is kind and was requested.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.

The criticism is constructive and is beneficial.


Hypothesis: Criticism can be hurtful.

The criticism is mean and destroys a person's confidence.


Hypothesis: You should be proud of your family.


Hypothesis: You should be proud of your family.

They have all graduated and have great jobs.


Hypothesis: You should be proud of your family.

They work hard to support their community.


Hypothesis: You should be proud of your family.

Your family consists of charitable people.


Hypothesis: You should be proud of your family.

Your family is made up of horrible people who do bad things.


Hypothesis: You should be proud of your family.

They worked hard to be good to you and support you.


moving a person's belongings without permission

If a persons things have to be moved for a good reason, move them.


The things are used to warn others from danger.


The things are in the way of being tripped over.


You know that the person has an anger issue and may become violent and is illogical.


Not moving them right away will hurt you or others in some way.


You know they could be damaged if they remain where they are.


You do not have permission to touch them.


You are saving the person's things from a fire.


playing my music fairly loudly in my car

You shouldn't disrupt the peace of other people.


They are sleeping and must work early the next day


not inviting my girlfriend on a family vacation

You shouldn't go on a vacation without the people you love.

The people you love can't take the time off of work.


They have brought you on vacation before.


You need a vacation from those you love.


You have small children and are taking a helicopter that could crash.


They are babies and you are their only parent.


They aren't fit enough to do the activities you want to do


They are minors and you're their only guardian


"canceling" my party so my friend wouldn't show

You should always show up for your friend's events.


You coordinated and planned the event yourself.


They have just sent you a text uninviting you.


They come to support you at your events.


Your friend serves food you are allergic to


possibly being in love with someone else while in a relationship

You are expected to be loyal in a relationship.


you want to keep the relationship together.


not letting my grandma into the bathroom while I was using it

It is normal to not let someone else into the bathroom until you are finished using it.

It is your young child and they need to pee.


You are at a mall bathroom surrounded by strangers.


The bathroom has a separate private area.


It is your significant other that needs to use the bathroom


The person outside the door is a stranger.


That someone is your small child and you want to keep an eye on them.


You are stinking it up and don't want anyone smelling it.


asking my new neighbors to keep their kids out of my fields even though it hasn't been an issue yet

It is good to teach your kids not to go onto other peoples property.

The property is a family member who lives next to you


They have a dangerous dog on the other side of the fence


Your kids are very curious and adventurous.


They don't know who the property belongs to.


requesting my gf to change her makeup style

It's good to openly communicate when in a relationship.


Your partner wants to plan a wedding with you


You are trying to leave the relationship.


You are listening to the therapist speak.


You are trying to save a failing marriage.


thinking celebrating birthdays is for kids

It's fine to not want to celebrate your birthday.

Your kids have already planned a surprise for you.


You're friends are throwing a party for you


It is on the same day as a horrible event.


Your young children made you a cake and party.


You do not like the idea of getting older.


You know people are arriving to your big birthday party.


it depresses you to think about being another year older.


Hypothesis: It's good to ask someone out on a date.

The person has expressed that they're not interested in you.


Hypothesis: It's good to ask someone out on a date.

The person has matched with you in a dating app.


Hypothesis: It's good to ask someone out on a date.


Hypothesis: One should respect their family.


Hypothesis: One should respect their family.

Their family are upstanding kind people.


Hypothesis: One should respect their family.

The family stole money from your savings.


Hypothesis: One should respect their family.

The parents are very loving and supportive.


Hypothesis: One should respect their family.

Their family are criminals that don't care for you.


Hypothesis: One should respect their family.

Their family is manipulative and abusive.


not wanting to bet around the bush with my Mother's weight issue

IT is okay to speak up when someone has an unhealthy lifestyle

They do not want any imput on how they are living


They are in danger due to their health being bad


They have asked you to stop bringing it up.


You don't know the person and it's none of your business.


That person is someone you are about and asked your opinion.


Their lifestyle is the result of a physical disability.


telling my friend something my other friend wouldn't

It's good to be honest with your friends.

It is about something frivolous and is better left omitted that commented on.


You are lifelong friends that rely on one another.


Your friends always tell your secrets to other people


You have been friends with them for many years


Honesty will hurt your friend's feelings.


Honestly will help you get closer to your friends.


You're being honest about something hurtful.


You're being honest about your feelings.


wanting to stick to our original plans of staying in for a sex night tonight

It's good to be flexible in plans, even when you're vested in the original.

The original plans are the only way to accomplish the goal.


The original plans can be improved upon.


The plans pertain to an important surgery.


The plans are about something inconsequential.


Your original plans were to pick up a friend at the airport.


The child has gotten hurt and needs to be taken to the hospital.


You are very sure that the original must only be done that precise way and any alterations would be bad.


You're a bit unsure about the original plans to begin with.


It's wrong to disturb someone that is sleeping.


They worked all night and just fell asleep.


The house is on fire and everyone needs to get out.


telling a shop owner her flowers are fake and she has bad practices

It's rude to tell other people how you think they should run their business.


They are running their business into the ground.


You have no experience in running a business.


moving my part of the furniture (~90% of it all) out of the apartment a month before my roomie moves out

Leaving your housemates high and dry can make you look selfish.


They have always been there for you and helped you out.


You were takena dvantage of by your housemates.


being annoyed at my girlfriend pulling faces

It's okay to be annoyed when someone does something obnoxious.

The person has a disability they can't control.


It's your friend that you have to deal with.


They are autistic and may not have meant it in that way.


You are at a birthday party for your two year old child.


supposedly using a well-known podcast as inspiration for a pet project of mine

It is wrong to use someone else's ideas without credit.


They gave you permission to use it as your own.


The other person doesn't know that you are using their idea.


You ever want them to share their ideas with you.


Their idea has been used so many times it's not just something attributed to them.


It's selfish to only think about yourself.

You're in a desperate survival situation.


You don't have any living family and are happier alone.


It leads to you neglecting your children.


You live alone and have no family or pets.


Your parents are sick and live with you.


You can't help it due to a personality disorder.


You're deciding to do so for personal gain.


not wanting people to come to my band's practice

It is okay to want to practice in private.

You need to practice for a group event with others in your group.


The other team is watching your team play out of the playbook.


You never seek feedback from someone more experienced.


You're just starting on a new and difficult piece.


banning someone from one of my subreddit and he started telling me that I was abusing my mod powers. who's in the wrong here

You can't always please everyone and that is okay.

You're dealing with a small group of close friends.


You're dealing with a large group of strangers.


You are selling a product that you claim guarantees everyone's satisfaction.


You plan to stand up for what you believe and you know it's right but some disagree.


the person is a stranger who your have no ties to


telling my 92 year old Grandma her life investment is essentially worthless

Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.

Your grandparents have unreasonable expectations.


Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.

They have always supported your efforts.


Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.


Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.

The grandparents have unreasonable expectations.


Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.

The disappointment could have been avoided.


Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.

They are racist and don't approve of your relationship.


Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.

What they expect of you is inappropriate and wrong.


Hypothesis: It is sad to disappoint grandparents.

They have been generous and kind to you.


making fun of someone else's dead family member

Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.

They've been dead for more than a century.


Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.

They recently died tragically and suddenly.


Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.


Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.

The person who is dead loved crass jokes


Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.

Everyone else is very sad at the funeral


Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.

The dead person's mother is in the same room.


Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.

You're someone who was very close with the decedent.


Hypothesis: It is rude to joke about the dead.

You didn't know the person who passed away.


It is ok to be annoyed with some of your classes.

The classes are required for graduation.


Your classes are on life saving measures.


Your classes are general education requirements.


they are optional and you don't need them.


You know what you are learning may be difficult but it's valuable.


it's pointless work you'll never use after you graduate.


dropping a friendship I have with a recent close friend of mine

It's normal for people to grow apart and lose track of friends.

Everyone stays in their local community.


People move to different parts of the country and world.


Your friends live in the same building as you.


your friends go to different universities than you do.


cancelling job interview the morning of it

Hypothesis: It's okay to cancel an job interview.


Hypothesis: It's okay to cancel an job interview.


Hypothesis: It's okay to cancel an job interview.

The interview is with your best friend, who might lost their company if they can't find good help soon.


Hypothesis: It's okay to cancel an job interview.

You were only marginally interested in the job to begin with.


Hypothesis: It's okay to cancel an job interview.

You have no good reason to cancel and it's only in a few minutes and you're right outside the building.


Hypothesis: It's okay to cancel an job interview.

You have a communicable disease and could infect the interviewer.


making noise to get back at loud neighbors in university dorm

It is expected that you keep a reasonable noise level for your neighbors


It's the fourth of July and many people are celebrating by setting off fireworks.


You live on a farm five miles from the nearest land you don't own.


You live in an apartment building with thin walls.


Your neighbors have a baby that needs to take a nap every day.


wanting to spend a day out with family before my nanas funeral

When dealing with a death it is understandable to want to be around your family.


You thing grieving together will help make it easier.


You lost someone close and your family loves you


Your family doesn't like the person who died.


The person who died is a member of your family.


Everybody in your family is already dead.


There are few living family members left.


wanting to rehome my little sisters aggressive dog

Hypothesis: It's good to get rid of a vicious pet.

You know it will be put down if you let it go to the pound.


Hypothesis: It's good to get rid of a vicious pet.


Hypothesis: It's good to get rid of a vicious pet.

It is endangering the health of somebody


kissing and having strong feelings for my best friend's ex

You shouldn't get involved with your friend's ex.

Your friend said if was okay for you to date their ex.


your friend still has feelings for them.


Your friend is still in love with their ex.


putting my daughter's children at risk of being taken away

It's wrong to take children from their parents.


being annoyed at my coworker's constant Facebook posts about her major weight loss

It is okay to put someone on ignore if their posts bother you.


Their posts are affecting your mood or well being.


It is your job to respond to their posts.


Ignoring them may help to preserve a friendship.


they are reposting spam and potentially malware content.


They are an administrator of the group or site.


telling my boyfriend's mom that we're pregnant before my own mother

You should tell your closest family members first about important events in your life.


it's about what college you are going to.


It contains private information that you must share with someone else first


Your family members are close to you emotionally.


telling a women she is the one who should have been more careful when driving

It's good to take responsibility for your actions when you're driving.

You're being ticketed for going one mile per hour over the speed limit so the officer can reach his quota.


you don't mind higher insurance premiums.


There is something unexpected and avoidable, like a pile-up collision.


You are trying to get a safe driver discount on your insurance.


You can cut people out of your life if they are causing you grief.


You are legally responsible for their well being.


You have given them many chances, but they don't change.


They are your children and they still need your guidance.


You live in their house and have nowhere else to go.


They are starting a new job and will be too busy anyway.


It's okay for women to take the lead in a relationship.

They're dating a very controlling, domineering man.


The guy they're with is shy or timid with them.


they agree to be submissive in the relationship.


They are better at handling the affairs of the relationship.


The relationship is between lesbian women.


being angry about an old friend coming to Xmas

The holidays are a good time for people to put aside their differences and it's right that they should.


The differences are over criminal behavior.


The people have been good friends for a long time.


One group of people clearly has the law and common sense on their side.


No one can even remember what the argument was initially about.


wanting to inform sitter of bed bug exposure

Hypothesis: Cleanliness is important in a house.

You are auditioning for the show Hoarders


Hypothesis: Cleanliness is important in a house.


You should go to your sibling's wedding.


Your sibling is marrying the ex-husband you divorced just two weeks ago.


Your parents are dead and your sibling doesn't have any other family except you.


Your sibling is marrying your ex spouse.


getting mad at an autistic guy for telling me what I can do with my body

It is ok to get angry with someone for trying to control your body.

you are underage and your parents are trying to teach you the basics.


you are an adult and can make responsible decisions.


The person is trying to change your medications.


This person is a doctor and is fixing a wound


You shouldn't question your significant other.


They smell like another woman when they come home.


They haven't done anything to betray your trust


They came home several hours later than normal.


being pissed that my boyfriend won't make the effort to make our lives easier

You should do whatever you can to make the lives of people in a relationship better.


The relationship is physically abusive and they should not be together.


The relationship involves your family members or close friends.


You want to stay in the relationship long term.


The relationship is obviously abusive and it would be better to end it.


You want them to have a good relationship and they are struggling a bit.


The people in the relationship consistently treat you badly.


One of the people in the relationship is related to you.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to trust someone.

They provide evidence that what they're saying is true.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to trust someone.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to trust someone.

They have treated you fairly in the past.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to trust someone.

they are trying to take advantage of you.


It's okay to get together with someone you're attracted to regardless of who their friends with.


They are friends with someone who has abused you or continues to abuse you.


Those friendships are healthy and have no affect on you.


They're friends with people who advocate for race based violence.


Their friends regularly threaten you when you hang out with them.


You can avoid their friends and meet the person alone.


getting mad when my partner stays up until 3am playing computer games on the nights we spend together

Hypothesis: It is okay to have hobbies you enjoy.

You are not taking care of your responsibilities


Hypothesis: It is okay to have hobbies you enjoy.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have hobbies you enjoy.

Those hobbies are illegal or hurt other people.


Hypothesis: It is okay to have hobbies you enjoy.

Working on these hobbies makes you healthier emotionally or physically.


Children are expected to respect their parents and avoid fighting with them.

Their parents are endangering their lives.


Their parents are unkind and mean people.


Their parents are loving and supportive.


Their parents are very abusive and they feel there is no way out.


They live in a good home and the parents care deeply about them.


They are open to doing that to solve their problems


getting my cousin what she wanted instead of what her mom told me to buy her

Hypothesis: Being generous is good.

You're donating to white nationalist groups.


Hypothesis: Being generous is good.

You're donating to Doctors Without Borders.


Hypothesis: Being generous is good.

You are spoiling someone who becomes lazy.


Hypothesis: Being generous is good.


Hypothesis: Being generous is good.

You are so generous that you leave yourself with nothing.


Hypothesis: Being generous is good.

You're able to help lots of people in need who otherwise wouldn't prosper.


backhand thumping my wife in the Vagina when we were play fighting

It's understandable to get angry if your significant other hits you in a bad spot when you're playing.


correcting the record about sex with my gf

It is important to be honest about sex issues with your partner.

Doing so would irrevocably harm the relationship.


Not doing so would keep you unhappy and eventually end the relationship.


One of you is having trouble reaching orgasm.


valuing my sister's happiness over my mom's life

You shouldn't put someone's happiness over someone's life.

The person whose life is at stake is a drug lord


They have specifically asked you to do so


The person's life and happiness rely on each other.


being incredibly angry with my mother for going to see my sick aunt without me

It's nice to let family join you for important occasions.


You and your family don't get along at all and they're abusive.


You have a warm relationship with family.


All they do is bicker when they get together.


You rarely get to see them because they live far away.


Your white family doesn't view you as legitimate because you're an African American slave.


getting angry at my so for coming home steaming drunk on a Monday

It's understandable to want someone you care about to live their life responsibly.


They have a trust fund and don't have to work about supporting themselves.


Their current lifestyle is causing their physical and mental health to suffer.


That person is already in prison for life.


making fun of my girlfriend's unhealthy food cravings

You should curb your cravings for unhealthy food.


You haven't had any unhealthy food in a long time.


You are overweight and need to go on a diet.


raising legitimate concerns towards management and getting shifts cut as punishment

It's bad to cut someone's shifts at work as a form of punishment.

They're so unproductive the business loses money when they're scheduled.


They depend on the income to support their children.


you know they aren't supporting a family.


The work contract states that this is a normal punishment.


They have been performing poorly at work.


They are being punished because they don't want to hook up with the boss.


not agreeing with my gf to get a vasectomy in 10 years

You must respect a persons right to control what happens to their own body.


The person has the mental capacity of a very young child.


They are making decisions on their reproductive healthcare.


They are doing something that endangers their life.


denying my biological father contact with his grandchildren

It's okay to want to protect your children from someone that could hurt them.


You know that you are just paranoid and no one is actually trying to hurt them.


You heard that someone wanted to kidnap them.


Your suspicions are due to the person being on a registry of offenders.


telling my GF that I longer want to travel with her

It's okay to find it irritating if your partner decides they won't keep you company on trips anymore.

Your partner is taking different trips at the same time.


The company stopped allowing partners to come for free.


The company encourages partners to come on trips.


They admit they were miserable on the trips.


You thought they always had a great time on the trips.


Your partner is joking and really sharing a wonderful vacation.


Your partner if referring to your trips to the doctor for chronic pain.


not wanting to eat at the table with my family on my aunt's birthday

It is rude to ignore people at an event.


Those people are making you uncomfortable


not running an errand for the shift manager after my scheduled time off from work because I had to watch my niece and nephew

It's good to take care of the children in your family.

The children are adult aged and able to work.


The children have other person who does a great job in taking care of them.


You are the only person to take care of the children.


They are getting old enough to take responsibility of their life.


They have special needs and can't take care of themselves.


You don't know how to care for children.


They have intense, specialized medical needs that can only be met in a hospital.


You want them to return the favor when you're old and feeble.


confronting my roommate about who does the dishes

It is expected that you clean up after yourself.


You're living at home with your parents.


getting mad that my friend charged me for drinks he bought for me when I told him I didn't want any drinks

It's not okay to drink drinks a friend ordered for you and not pay for it.


They made it clear they are paying for the evening.


You agreed to split the bill beforehand.


It is your birthday and they are spending money on you


The friend told you that he's treating you today and he can afford it.


Your friend is not wealthy and you didn't arrange his treat ahead of time.


It's rude to ask someone to watch your child for free even if they're family.


They love kids and always ask to watch them.


You are broke and have to go to the emergency room.


confronting a guy who was using FaceTime in the locker room

It is expected that you will be confronted if you try to violate peoples privacy.


You are the police looking for a murder suspect.


It's good not to disturb others while they are trying to sleep.


it is a small child who hasnt had much rest


You've been asked to wake the person up.


Their alarm has been going off all morning.


telling my step-father that my mother has been cheating on him right around Christmas

It's expected that you save bad news for appropriate times.


The bad news is that something is on fire and someone needs to put it out.


Everyone is currently busy dealing with a higher-priority emergency.


The recipient of the news is in a meeting.


You don't like the person you're giving the bad news to.


refusing to buy back my friend's share in our business

You shouldn't refuse to help out your friends.

They're asking you to do something dangerous and illegal.


They've always been loyal to you in the past.


They are doing something against your morals.


You are capable of providing the help they need.


You have other obligations that prevent you from doing so.


They have helped you out several times in the past.


Your friends are only friends with you out of pity.


not giving some of my deceased husbands things to his son

It's wrong not to give someone something that is owed to them.


You have the means to return what is owed.


It's a gun and they don't know how to handle it safely.


You promised that you would give it to them.


The person has been asking for the item back.


they owe another debt that isn't fulfilled.


telling my girlfriend, that I want her full trust or none

It's understandable if you have reservations about trusting someone completely.


You have dealt with the person without any problems.


You hear about the other person cheating others.


The person has known you since you were both children.


They're your parent and they've always been loving and reliable.


not making amends with a friend that stopped talking to me first but most likely still cares

It's okay to not want something to do with someone that has hurt you.


They are someone you currently work with, like your boss.


You're trying to get out of a toxic relationship.


You and the person are professional wrestlers.


You've got a restraining order against the person.


telling a classmate that they don't work hard enough

You shouldn't tell your classmate what to do.


The teacher is in the room and has already stated the plan for the day.


they are blindfolded and you are leading them.


they are risking getting expelled for their actions.


they have many more years of specialized experience than you do.


They were in the bathroom during instructions.


not wanting to take care of my Sister's kids

You should help care for your sibling's children.


Your sibling's have helped care for your children.


You are sick and don't want to infect the children.


They try to micromanage everything you do


They are a single parent going to school full time


wanting to break up with my bf over a difference in sleep schedules

It's okay if things don't work out between you and a partner even if it might seem like something little to the other person.


You are undecided and you keep taking them back and letting them go, causing them grief.


You both understand that it may be something small to them but it's a dealbreaker for you.


You are very religious and don't believe in divorce.


You told that person that thing didn't bother you in the first place.


yelling at my Sister and Father, who came to pick me up

You should be grateful when someone helps you.

You asked the person to let you do it yourself.


The person was busy but took time to help.


You are trying to learn things yourself and said you don't want help


There is no way you could have done it yourself.


You wouldn't have been able to complete your task without help.


wanting to turn captions on when everyone else hates them

It is important to compromise with your group.

You have a deeply held principle or value that you absolutely must adhere to.


You want the group to be harmonious and fair to all.


Your group is doing something that directly contradicts your beliefs.


The group will make some compromises for you.


There is no way to compromise because of rigid views.


you are certain that your arguement is right.


You're working on a school project together.


not wanting my wife to go through my phone

You shouldn't intrude on other people's privacy.

The other person needs an emergency intervention.


The other person requested time alone to heal.


You are worried they might be in danger.


They have a secret that is important to national security.


It's okay to want a change from where you are living.


You are living in a nice place for free.


You are overpaying for a small apartment.


There are better job opportunities elsewhere.


calling in a noise complaint on my upstairs neighbor

Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.

they're doing something to help you out.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.

They're doing something that puts you in danger.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.

Their life would be ruined by a criminal record for a nonviolent crime.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell on others.

They asked you to tell others what they did.


being annoyed that my Dad always sides with my brothers

It's encouraged to value all of one's children equally and consistently.

One child is physically endangering the other children.


You want the children to have good relationships with each other.


Hypothesis: You should trust your friends.


Hypothesis: You should trust your friends.

They've been known to deceive others in the past.


now wanting to go to the movies with my girlfriend and her entire family

It's OK to not want to go to the movies with a group of people.


You promised them in a commitment and they expect to see you.


You don't know anyone there and don't have much in common with them and didn't commit.


You are the one who organized the outing.


wanting my roommate to clean during his turn even though I got some help during my turn

It's expected everyone pitches in to keep their rooms clean.


There are certain days where cleanup crews are expected to clean everything.


People are living in close quarters with one another and things get dirty fast.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

You are planning a surprise party for them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

Your partner is asking medical information.


refusing to date co workers even though he pulled some major strings to get me the job

It's expected that you will repay someone when they help you.


They could really use help with something.


They have given you money when they weren't financially stable.


They just sat around and didn't do anything


Hypothesis: You should pay your own debts.

A medical emergency forces you into bankruptcy.


Hypothesis: You should pay your own debts.

You could easily pay for all your debts with your savings.


Hypothesis: You should pay your own debts.


Hypothesis: You should pay your own debts.

you can get someone else to pay them for you.


confronting my employee for raising her voice at me

It is reasonable to tell an employee not to yell at you.


You have said something positive about Nazis.


You have given them several chances before termination.


they were across the room and you couldn't hear them.


telling my bf I knew he talked shit about me with his best friend

You shouldn't talk about someone behind their back.


You're reporting their crimes to the authorities.


That person is a friend who told you secrets in confidence.


You know they would hate you forever and lose your trust


You're planning a surprise party for them.


getting mad at my ex for acting as though he was the only who cared for me

It's okay to get mad at someone when they act in a manipulative way towards you

You don't really mind doing what they're asking as long as it makes them happy.


You have a history of manipulating them as well.


They're trying to manipulate you into turning on your loved ones.


They are manipulating you for your own good and safety.


They are cheating you out of your life savings.


They were setting up your surprise birthday party.


telling my so that I value her advice and my friend's advice differently because they work in different fields

It's reasonable to measure people's input differently based on their experience.


They are from a marginalized group, like LGBTQ+ people.


They are taking a test with rigid answers.


having an abortion against my bf's wishes

Partners should come to an agreement on large life decisions.

The decision involves one partner leaving the other.


The decision will impact their finances.


The decision being made only affects one of them.


You signed a contract about that very thing.


It is a decision that requires mutual agreement


The things they want are fundamentally incompatible.


They want to spend the rest of their lives together.


calling a close friend a "bitch" for not inviting me to the group chat

Hypothesis: You shouldn't swear at friends.

They swear back at you in a friendly way, because neither of you are offended by cursing.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't swear at friends.

They're religious and very uncomfortable with harsh language.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't swear at friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't swear at friends.

Your friends always swear and aren’t offended


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell someone to shut up.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell someone to shut up.

You are in a library during finals week and people are studying.


Hypothesis: It is rude to tell someone to shut up.

The person is giving a speech about safety measures in case of an emergency which may save lives.


not wanting to drive and back a trailer for the first time

It is okay to be nervous the first time you try something.

You're doing something easy, like watching a new TV show.


You're doing something dangerous, like rock climbing.


It is very similar to something you have already tried.


You have been well-trained and should feel confident.


You know everyone is watching and judging your effort.


You allow your nerves to stop you from being open-minded about it.


The thing you're attempting could be dangerous and bad for you.


You are instructing others to do the same.


It is good to talk to someone if you are mad at them.

You are willing to never talk to them again.


Parents are expected to guide their children.


The children are adults living on their own.


The children are underage and living with them.


They're put in jail for a crime they didn't commit.


Their children come to them asking for advice.


they want to raise well rounded children.


buying my ex's concert ticket so our group of three can take a different third person to the concert

If you don't want someone to go, buy their ticket from them.

They're unwilling to sell the ticket except for ten times what they paid for it.


You have plenty of extra cash lying around.


They really love the person that they are seeing in concert


They don’t deserve to go because they never help around the house


looking for a new nanny because my current (but new) nanny has updated her profile and logged in most days to the nanny website where I found her

It's okay to look after yourself and your future in regards to careers.

Your SO has a way better opportunity in a city far from your own job.


It is coming at the expense of your health.


You have a family to care for and consider.


It's petty to use people just because they've wronged you.

You want to get even and then never see them again.


they are a coworker and you have to work together.


They won't stop doing wrong deeds to everyone else.


telling my close friend that I'm getting an abortion

It is acceptable to seek comfort from others.


You've hurt the people you're trying to get comfort from.


You've gone through something traumatic.


You are a patient in a therapist's office.


getting upset with my uncle for taking back a car he gave me 3 years later without discussing it with me

You shouldn't be upset with someone for taking their possessions back.


They said they would be back for the items.


They took them back without telling you.


They lent it to you and you weren't finished using it.


You took without asking them for permission.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

You couldn't get the waiter's attention all eveniing.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

The waiter had your attention all evening.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

You are in a country where tipping isn't the norm.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

The person relies on tips in order to make a living wage.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

You are in a country where tipping isn't normal.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

The person went to extreme measures to help.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

there is a sign telling you tips aren't allowed.


Hypothesis: It is expected to tip for good service.

the people rely on tips for their income.


You shouldn't refuse something you bought.

Once you got it home, you realized the food you bought was rotten.


You don't have any other food in the house.


The product is useful and at a great value.


The person you bought it for doesn’t like it


Hypothesis: It's rude to make fun of people.

They're your friends and teasing each other is how you bond.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make fun of people.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make fun of people.

You're at a comedy roast and it's expected.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make fun of people.

The person you're mocking is sensitive and kind.


being uncomfortable/annoyed when people have sex in the same room as me

You shouldn't put up with people doing inappropriate things around you.


They are showing you sexually triggering acts


They are your friends and that’s how they are


You are with your kids and they are being very lewd


they are exposing themselves in a vulgar way


you are behind a glass door and they are good distance away from you.


They are close to you and invading your space.


It is reasonable to expect your boyfriend home at a certain time.


He's going out with friends for a bachelor party.


Hypothesis: It is good to open the door for people.


Hypothesis: It is good to open the door for people.

Your hands are full and you might drop everything.


Hypothesis: It is good to open the door for people.

You see someone who cannot open the door for themselves.


Hypothesis: It is good to open the door for people.

They have their hands full with many items.


asking my friends to stop saying the n word

It's good to stick up for your beliefs even with it's your friends.

doing so will bring harm to them in some way.


you are supporting a cause which affects them as well.


they can prove to you that you're wrong.


It would cause you to lose their friendship.


Your beliefs don't allow for other people's rights.


You are standing up for someone else's rights.


paying a homeless guy 5 dollars a day to write my Instagram handle on his panhandling sign

It is wrong to take advantage of people that need money.


They stole the money from you in the first place.


You need the money even more desperately.


You're already rich enough to buy a senator.


rejecting a guy by telling him that I'm gay

It's OK to reject someone you're not interested in.


Your country is depending on you to make a political marriage that will save millions of lives by averting a war.


You're not interested in them because they have a history of abusing their lovers.


You don't like them as a person, either.


wanting my girlfriend to stop being friends with her best friend

You should respect other people's relationships.


you want them to respect your relationships.


The people are in a healthy and happy relationship.


Their relationship is obviously very abusive in nature and someone is in danger.


They have a compatible relationship and you want them to respect yours.


You can see one of them is abusive to the other.


One of those people is cheating with someone with whom you thought you were in a romantic relationship.


not moving out of the plane aisle for someone to get past

It's rude to stand in the middle of an aisle.

There's enough room for people to pass on either side.


You are blocking people from getting past you.


You're working on something in the aisle.


You've been reading labels for a long time.


There are other people trying to get past you.


telling my mother that my future son will never be allowed at her house

It is callous to prevent a grandparent from seeing their grandchildren.

The grandparent was abusive to the grandchild.


The grandparents are trying to kidnap the child.


The grandparents buy all their grandchildren's food and clothing.


The grandparent has been declared clinically insane.


The grandparent is kind and loving towards their grandchildren.


The grandparents are abusive to the grandchildren.


They have always been kind and treat the grandchildren well.


cutting my best friend out of my life twice

You shouldn't cut others that are important to you out of your life over and over again.

The people in your life that are important are also harmful to you.


The people in your life love and care for you.


You are the very reason the toxicity continues to spread.


They have always been there for you in the first place.


You rely on them for support in hard times.


You are a drug addict and refuse help all the time


You can’t afford to live on your own yet


asking my mom to take her feet off my car dashboard

It's wrong to put your feet on the car dashboard.


The car is being driven and you don't want to get hurt.


Your legs are cramping during a long car ride.


It's the only way you can reach your shoes to tie them.


The car is in motion and you could be harmed if the airbag deploys


getting upset that my husband did not celebrate my birthday

Spouses should always know each other's birthdays.

Neither person enjoys the annual reminder they're getting older.


They both enjoy the annual reminder that people care about them.


they got married on the same day they met.


they have known each other for a long time before getting married.


One of them doesn't like to celebrate birthdays and the other always respected that choice.


They got married within a month of meeting each other.


Hypothesis: It's good to rely on your friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to rely on your friends.

They have shown themselves to be unreliable.


Hypothesis: It's good to rely on your friends.

You want to learn how to be independent.


Hypothesis: It's good to rely on your friends.

You all lean on each other in times of trouble.


Hypothesis: It's good to rely on your friends.

Your friends are untrustworthy to begin with.


Hypothesis: It's good to rely on your friends.

your friends have disappointed you in the past.


bumping a Parked Car & not leaving a note

You should accept accountability for your mistakes.

Other people are never held accountable either


You would be punished disproportionately harshly.


Your victims would suffer less if you paid them restitution.


Your job depends on you not making mistakes.


You are being blamed by the person who actually made the mistake.


not making my boyfriend come over to my house

You shouldn't force your significant other to do something they don't want to.

they need to take out the garbage because it stinks.


You're forcing them to stop demeaning you.


You're trying to isolate them from their friends and family.


They promised they would do something with you


They need to do the thing for their survival.


They've expressed that they do not consent.


you are telling them to wear a helmet on their motorcycle.


telling a clingy, "humble" narcissist that I want to be left alone, even when he has health issues

You shouldn't cling to people, you should have healthy boundaries and give them appropriate space

You are a special needs person who needs boundaries.


You want to be part of a healthy relationship.


You are in a new relationship and don’t want to seem crazy


You want to be a good friend or partner.


not waiting a week to watch a series with a group of friends because one member (my boyfriend) wants us all to wait for him even though he's seen it

It's polite to follow an agreement you made with others.


You made the agreement a long time in advance.


The other party has broken and cheated on the agreement.


Both you and the party will benefit together.


The agreement was to harm someone else's reputation.


You were tricked by others who changed the terms of the agreement.


You fully understand the terms of the agreement and signed it.


leaving the nightclub and going to a hotel

Hypothesis: It's wrong to go to nightclubs.

You want to have a girls night and have fun.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to go to nightclubs.

You are a teenager and are using a fake ID.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to go to nightclubs.

You are a missionary trying to save the people who are getting drunk.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to go to nightclubs.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to go to nightclubs.

It is a responsible place without alcohol.


stepping down from my friend's wedding 2 days prior

You shouldn't cancel obligations at the last minute.


The plans have been in place for a long time.


You have a family emergency to attend to.


You get severely injured and have to go to the hospital.


You have had the plans for weeks or months.


The plans involve celebrating your partner’s birthday


Hypothesis: It's good to take care of yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to take care of yourself.

You want to live a long and healthy life.


ghosting' my ex after she cheated with me

You should communicate with your ex if there's a problem.


Your ex was not a great person and was very mean to you.


The two of you have shared custody of a child.


Your ex has assaulted or abused you and you are not safe with them.


cutting off a friend who I wronged first

Hypothesis: It's not right to wrong a friend.


Hypothesis: It's not right to wrong a friend.

Your friend has been nothing but kind to you


Hypothesis: It's not right to wrong a friend.

You have to wrong them to save a family member.


Hypothesis: It's not right to wrong a friend.

You just told them how much your friendship means to you.


Hypothesis: It's not right to wrong a friend.

it is for a prank and they will enjoy it.


Hypothesis: It's not right to wrong a friend.


breaking up a couple because of an Affair

It is ok to have an affair with someone if you want to.


Both parties are in an open relationship and there are no secrets.


Either of you is in a committed monogamous relationship with someone else.


You are in a consensually open relationship.


telling my girlfriend she has a deadline to start telling her friends we're dating

It is understandable to want to keep your personal life to yourself.


You are getting married and want to invite all your friends and family.


You'd prefer people not judge you based on your private life.


Your doctor needs information for your healthcare.


Some of your personal life is traumatic.


You should interact with people in the real world.

You're playing a video game for a short time.


The people in the real world are trying to hurt you.


You spend so much time alone you start feeling isolated.


you are surrounded by unreasonable people.


You feel lonely and need to talk to someone.


telling my would-be girlfriend's ex that she left him for me

You shouldn't flaunt yourself in front of your partner's ex.

Your partner's ex has been doing the same to your partner.


Your partner's ex has been friendly to the both of you.


Your partner's ex is flirting with your partner.


You're partner thinks jealousy is unattractive


Their ex is trying to put them down and break their confidence.


The ex is still friendly with your partner.


not letting a trans guy join me and my friends' all-girls dance group

It's good to enjoy the company of your same-sex friends.


You don't have a lot of opposite gender friends


You do not spend time with company of the opposite-sex


you neglect to spend time with your spouse.


It's okay to have your own opinions about things.


Those opinions are bigoted and hurt others.


These opinions are harmless and don't hurt anyone.


Your opinion can be disproven by scientific fact.


It is about a complicated situation with many sides.


cutting off siblings of a recently deceased close friend due to their behavior

You shouldn't cut off your friend's siblings.

The friend's sibling is involved in a dangerous gang.


You want your friend's family to like you.


They act snobby towards you on all occasions.


They are friendly and include you in gatherings.


One of those siblings is pressuring you to be a drug mule for them.


They're close in age and you often hang out together.


getting upset about my ex-boyfriend staying over with a female friend

You should try to make a clean emotional break with ex lovers.


Unless you have a child together who needs the attention of both parents.


suing an ex friend for $20k because of them disrespecting me

Suing a friend for being rude is greedy.

The friend has destroyed most of your items.


The friend only messed up once and is normally very supportive.


The friend parked their car on your lawn.


The friend was unaware what they did wrong.


They only used words and you really have no legal case against them


Your friend's rudeness was outright slander and you're going to donate the money to charity.


You make a lot more money than your friend.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make people leave.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make people leave.

They are attending your wedding and they are family


Hypothesis: It's rude to make people leave.

it is extremely late and the party is long over.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make people leave.

they just arrived and the party is just getting started.


not wanting to stay an extra hour at work because they are short staffed

You shouldn't expect your coworkers to work more hours if you're short-staffed.


Your coworkers have to leave at the same time daily to get their kids.


There was an earthquake and they need to check on their families.


Their work is critical to public safety.


not wanting my friend bringing a tag along friend everytime I invite them to hang out

It is okay to want personal time with friends.

It is at the cost of your responsibilities.


they are in=town for only a couple days.


You want to spend every waking moment with them.


You haven' been able to spend much time together over the last few months.


You havent seen your friends in a long time


It's expected that you remember people's names.

You're an adjunct professor with 500 students.


You just met a huge group of people at once.


They are from a foreign country and their name is difficult to pronounce.


not apologising to my best friend about disrespecting is dead mom

It's expected that you'll be respectful of the dead.


The person who died did a lot for the public good.


The dead committed horrendous atrocities.


It is rude to ask someone to leave for no reason.


There are too many people in the room and they are breaking fire code.


That person just brought cocaine into your house


That person just needed to use the bathroom really quick


telling my friend he's being cheated on with his other friend

Don't tell friend things they shouldn't hear.

Your friend's safety depends on the information being given.


Your friend could get hurt without the information.


Someone has asked you to keep information a secret.


It would only make them more sad and depressed


It directly involves their family members.


They are a drug addict and drugs are readily available.


not giving the slot machine winnings to my special needs uncle

It is good to share your wealth with your family members.


They are only coming to you now because you have money.


They ask for so much you can't meet your own needs.


You can help your younger relatives go to college and start careers.


they have a tendency of taking advantage of you.


You should not demand things of other people.

This is a spouse and you expect them to watch kids.


You are not doing what you are demanding


they are an employee and you are the boss.


You are owed a significant amount of money.


You wish to be treated equally among your fellow citizens.


getting an emotional support animal letter through an online service

When someone needs an emotional support animal, they should also see a therapist.

They have already successfully gone through a therapy program.


There aren't any therapists accepting clients in the area.


The therapist failed to give emotional support that resulted in the support animal.


Someone needs more emotional support than the animal can give.


It is incredibly inappropriate to laugh at anyone's death.


The deceased person wanted everyone at the funeral to watch a funny video of them


Died in a silly way while trying to harm others.


That person was notoriously evil, like Jeffrey Epstein.


You're standing in front of that person's grieving family.


stopping inviting certain coworkers out while only inviting others

Hypothesis: You should always include everyone.


Hypothesis: You should always include everyone.


Hypothesis: You should always include everyone.

One person has no interest in your shared activities.


Hypothesis: You should always include everyone.

There are no other activities available.


Hypothesis: You should always include everyone.

there are certain qualifications that you need to have to participate.


Hypothesis: You should always include everyone.

it is a casual party that is just to relax and unwind.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let exclusion upset you.

Your friends always invite you and didn’t this time


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let exclusion upset you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let exclusion upset you.

You were excluded by a group of friends that you are close to.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let exclusion upset you.

You are excluded from an event that you don't have a lot of interest in to begin with.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't let exclusion upset you.

The exclusion was based on a random lottery system.


You should try to find a different seat to sit.


There is someone elderly standing next to your seat.


You can't see from where you're sitting.


You are sitting next to your toddler and moving your seat means leaving him unattended.


A frail elderly person needs to sit down.


You would be sitting next to someone smelly.


suggesting my GF not pay for her sister's vacation

Hypothesis: It is rude not to help family.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help family.

They just helped you move in to your new apartment.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help family.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help family.

Your family paid for everything in your life.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help family.

The family has always taken advantage of you.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help family.

You know that your family really needs your help.


not wanting my BFs brother to be part of his life

It's rude to try to come between your BF and their family.


You dislike their family for racist reasons.


Their family is toxic and/or narcissistic.


You are unable to set healthy boundaries.


being annoyed with my friend for wanting to go to happy hour the same day we agreed to hang out

It's expected that people follow through on their commitments.

You are promising things to a kid with a short memory


They get very sick and are physically unable to.


You promise to take someone to their chemotherapy appointment.


they have a good reason for not doing so.


they have team members counting on them.


charging my roommate money regarding utilities

If you don't have money to pay for the bills, it's okay to ask the people you live with for help.


You are spending your money on other things.


You are romantically involved with them.


They have ten children to take care of and are on welfare.


One of them just won a big lottery prize.


The people you live with are gainfully employed.


You have lent them money for bills before.


telling my sister Im not going to put my phone on vibrate at work

Workplaces have the right to restrict phone usage in the office.

The employees take their breaks in the office


The phone is used for family emergencies.


Talking on the phone gets in the way of working.


There is an emergency on the work phones are down.


People are constantly calling friends and not doing work.


getting mad my grandparents didnt lend me money

It is dramatic to get angry over family not being able to give you money.


they dont have money to give because they are poor


They promised to pay for your college education.


You just want to use the money to buy designer clothes.


You have lent them a large amount of money.


They just received a large settlement from a lawsuit.


The family car broke down and needs expensive repairs.


They didn't pay back money you loaned them


It's okay to refuse to allow someone to stay with you.

They are running away from an abusive situation


They always make a mess and never clean up


It is your mother and she needs a place to stay.


they are homeless and you have known them for a long time and are willing to help them out.


you are not comfortable being around them.


taking a Tinder date's $400 after he accused me of being a whore, even though I knew it was a sarcastic offer

You shouldn't be sarcastic and mean to your date.


You want to go on a second date with this person.


You know they enjoy that type of banter.


You should do your best to help the planet.


You are going to have kids and grandkids


You should take advantage of free food if it's available.


You’re at a food kitchen for poor people giving out food


You are hungry and don’t want to spend any money


It's spoiled or otherwise unfit for consumption.


You're hungry and it would hurt the feelings of those that prepared it.


making my flatmate pay rent while she is overseas

It's reasonable to make your roommate pay rent while she is overseas.

You are renting the room out to someone else while she is gone.


She leaves all of her things in the room.


you can have someone else rent while she is away


she is going to be gone longer than a year


asking a friend to stop giving me sweets

It's wrong not to accept gifts from your friends.

They are re gifting something you already gave them.


They buy you food that you're allergic to.


You think they spent too much money on the gift.


The gift is personalized with your name on it.


It's ok to not be close to a family member.

The family member needs help and support.


The family member is a tyrant and bosses everyone.


That family member has always been kind and supportive.


That family member acts weird and looks at you funny.


They were a loving primary caregiver when you were younger.


They were a much older sibling who moved out when you were five.


They give you all the support you have in your life.


not getting my sister a burger at the canteen

It is acceptable to only buy food for yourself at the canteen and not other people.


Your friends gave you money to buy them food.


You promised to go get food for everyone.


You shouldn't expect someone else to take responsibility for your pet.

The person is a professional pet sitter.


they live you and have agreed to share all chores.


you are in a public place and your pet is not leashed.


It's hurtful to ignore your significant other.


They are studying and asked you to be quiet.


Your partner likes when you play hard to get.


You are giving them the silent treatment, which is a form of abuse.


It's okay to not always get along with family members.


You want to build a better relationship with them


telling my roommate with 2 months notice that I'm going to move out, then after he bought a house to live in, change my mind and getting a new roommate

It's wrong to mislead someone you live with about your plans to move.


they have to find a new roomate to share expenses with


Letting the person know would put you in danger.


the person relies on you living there as a source of income.


You are afraid they will hurt you if you tell them you are moving.


They can't afford to pay the rent without you.


They cannot afford to live on their own.


It's expecting your significant other might be uncomfortable around your family.

They laugh and joke with your family regularly.


They are quiet and don't speak to your family.


Your significant other is close to your family.


Your significant other is meeting them for the first time.


Your family introduced you to your significant other.


Your family might have a reason to disapprove of your relationship.


efforts are made to build a relationship.


your family dislikes your significant other.


not wanting to date people with mental health issues

It is wrong to judge people because they have mental health issues.


Those people use their health issues as an excuse to harm you.


Those people haven't done anything wrong.


their behavior has nothing to do with their mental health issues.


it is a behavior that they can't control.


It is OK to not want to share your food with friends.


Your friends couldn’t afford to buy food


You should be honest with your online date.


You aren't looking for anything serious.


You're concerned they're a creepy stalker.


You've hit it off and want to get to know them better.


You should at least call someone before breaking up with them.

You're afraid they're going to hit you again.


You want to try to explain why you need to break up.


You were in a long relationship with them


not going to my boyfriends grandmothers wake so I can go see a concert

Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

You are unemployed and need to find a job


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

You have been home with your kid for a week and need a break


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

Your child is suffering a medical emergency and needs you to take them to the hospital.


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

You feel yourself struggling mentally and need a break.


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

You've been working double shifts for a month


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

You are going through a life-changing event.


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

you have a lot of unfinished items that still need to be done.


Hypothesis: It's OK to take some time for yourself.

you feel like you are going to have a breakdown.


asking a woman when the baby was due when she wasn't actually pregnant

You should not comment on someone's weight.


You are complimenting them on how good they look.


You notice that they've gained weight recently.


They are a woman who you think might be pregnant.


not going to my girlfriends work christmas party because I wanted to play Smash Bros

Playing video games and avoiding social obligations is poor behavior.

You are too sick to go outside or be around other people.


You are doing both of these things on a daily basis.


Others depend on you to meet your obligations.


You suffer from social anxiety and video games are your coping mechanism.


People have gone out of their way to interact with you.


You genuinely prefer solitude to meaningless social interactions.


Your social obligations are to lonely, elderly relatives who have no one else to visit them.


telling my friend I didn't want to be friends with him anymore

It's understandable to be upset if one of your friends ends the friendship between the two of you.


You have slept with their significant other, stolen money, or otherwise extremely violated the person's trust in you.


you both know it's for the best to stop hanging around each other.


you really care about the friend and you know they're on a bad path


You were blindsided by the end of the friendship.


Hypothesis: It's good to spend time with others.


Hypothesis: It's good to spend time with others.

Those others are warm, supportive friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to spend time with others.

Those others are bad for your reputation.


Hypothesis: It's good to spend time with others.

they are good people who make your life better.


Hypothesis: It's good to spend time with others.

That would cause you to miss something important


Hypothesis: It's good to spend time with others.

You have not spent time with them in a while


It's acceptable to ask someone to drive safely.


They're a young or old driver or are driving at night.


They are rushing someone to the hospital in an emergency.


Your children are riding in the car with them.


They are your bus driver and they don't appreciate being told how to do their job.


It's your child and they're driving kind of fast.


You are in the passenger seat of a race car on a test track


It is expected that you are respectful toward customers.

You have a very irate customer who is getting violent with you for no reason.


You want the customer to have a good time and come back to your business.


The customer has a gun and has asked for all the money in the cash register.


The customer is making a large purchase.


They have been caught stealing from you.


telling my brother he's the reason I want to kill myself

Hypothesis: It's wrong to take your life.

It is truly the only option for you and you are in too much pain otherwise.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take your life.

Your condition is temporary and can be improved.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take your life.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take your life.

You have a lot of people that care about you.


getting pissed off at my bf for not wanting to be physically intimate even though we're both in a bad emotional place

It's okay to get mad at your partner if they are being pushy about sex during a rough time.

Sex should ALWAYS be consensual, relationship or not.


You don't show intimacy to them in other ways.


You frequently have sex with them already.


They need support and care during the sex.


They coerce and bully you into having sex.


You never want to have sex with them even on a good day


telling my son about my ex wife's infidelity

Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.