Hypothesis: It's not okay to hurt animals.

You don't absolutely need to and can find alternatives.


Hypothesis: It's not okay to hurt animals.


Hypothesis: It's not okay to hurt animals.

you are a vet  performing a medical procedure.


telling my ex-bestfriends parents about his debt to me

It's good to pay off your debts, even to people you're no longer friends with.

The friend you owed money to has passed away.


You signed a legal contract to pay them back.


they have said you don't need to pay them back.


The people say that you don't have to pay them back.


You borrowed or were lent a lot of money.


applying to a far away university against my dad's wishes

It is okay to be independent and make your own decisions

You are a child I need to follow your parents rules


You are an adult that should have responsibilities


Those decisions would hurt the people closest to you.


No one else can make those decisions for you.


You graduated from a prestigious school.


On a date, it is polite for the person who made the invitation to pay.


The person who made the invitation also makes a lot more money.


The date consists of going to a free event.


refusing to give/make certain family members Christmas gifts

It is ok to not want to do something for someone you have a problem with.


It could mend your relationship with them.


They have proven to be someone you do not want to associate with.


this person has helped you in the past and deserves help in return


you're learning to be a charitable human being.


Hypothesis: You should respect each others choices.


Hypothesis: You should respect each others choices.

You are trying to start a family together.


Hypothesis: You should respect each others choices.

You are a boss and their choices violate company policy.


Hypothesis: You should respect each others choices.

You are in a loving relationship with another person.


Hypothesis: You should respect each others choices.

The person is doing something that’s hurting their health


Hypothesis: You should respect each others choices.

Their choices are not hurting or disrespecting you


telling my ex I don't want his girlfriend around our children

It's understandable to be angry if your ex doesn't want your significant other around your children.

you have agreed to that in the custody papers.


your significant other is good to your kids.


Your significant other has done something to your ex in the past.


Your significant other really likes your children.


you are married to your significant other.


if your significant other has a criminal history.


Your ex is jealous of your significant other.


Your significant other has a bad drug habit.


Your significant other is the only one that can administer your child's insulin.


not going to a gig with my friend after he bought us the tickets

You should always make time for your friends.


you want your friends to make time for you.


An absolutely critical professional exam is less than a month away and you really need to prepare.


Your friends are going through a difficult illness.


your friends hardly ever make time for you


you have some free time in your schedule


it prevents you from taking care of your family


being angry at my friend bcs he cancelled plans and now Im stuck with a bill he won't pay

You should not cancel on plans with friends without a good reason.

you feel very uncomfortable with the plans they have made.


they need you there to complete what they are going to do.


They are sitting down waiting for you to get there


You had an accident on the way to see your friend.


You promised your friend to spend time together.


You came up with the plans in the first place.


accidentally finding my boyfriends throwaway account but not telling him

You should keep your throwaway accounts hidden from others.

The others around you are very close and trustworthy.


You want to avoid identity theft or any issues with your information being shared.


there is something valuable for them to gain by seeing it.


You decide to come clean with a significant other.


You are trying to remain anonymous on the internet


you don't have anything in them that you need to hide.


you have written distasteful things on those accounts.


being rude to a boy because he wouldn't understand I didn't wanted a relationship with him

Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.

You're going out with them on your anniversary.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.

You made a pact when you were children to date.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.

It is because you are afraid of what others would think.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.

You don't feel you are compatible in any way.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.

You have already made a commitment to go on a date with that person.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to date someone.

You found out that your date has a criminal record.


believing that religions don't deserve any kind of respect

You should respect other people's religion.

You are the parent of a child who is underage.


Unless they are trying to force it on you.


they conduct live animal sacrifices as part of their religion.


not wanting to help my husbands abusive family

You are not expected to help people that are abusive.


Hypothesis: People should respect each other.

They are engaging in a street rap battle.


Hypothesis: People should respect each other.

They work together and need teamwork to succeed.


Hypothesis: People should respect each other.

They are in prison among child molesters and rapists.


Hypothesis: People should respect each other.


Hypothesis: People should respect each other.

Someone has proven themselves to be shady.


Hypothesis: People should respect each other.

The person being disrespected is a criminal or has violated social norms to an extreme degree.


It's wrong to disrespect an item that other people have to use.

You had no control over it like suddenly vomiting without warning.


Especially if it is a religious item like a kneeling bench.


It is very expensive or sacred to that person.


The item they need is due to a medical condition.


The item is a pinata that you are trying to break open.


needing to take painkillers for period pain

Try doing some light exercise to reduce period pain before resorting to painkillers.

You are physically not able to exercise.


the pain is so bad you can not exercise.


you have a history of becoming addicted to different things.


You have been addicted to painkillers before.


replacing the computer I recieved as a gift a year ago

It's financially unwise to buy a computer when you already have one.


Your current computer does not have enough power.


Your current computer is brand new and state of the art.


you don't have the money to be making big purchases.


wanting my mum to give me her tax statement for my benefits claim

You shouldn't be greedy with your family.

They have never shown gratitude for your kindness in the past


You need to spoil yourself after a stressful week.


Especially if they've always been good to you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be late.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be late.

You were late because you were busy getting high.


making fun of my girlfriend's unhealthy food cravings

It's mean to make fun of someone for what they want to eat.


The are an adult who refuses to eat vegetables


What they want to eat is so off the wall and crazy that you're worried about them.


It's part of their religion or special diet plan for sincere reasons.


playing a "boiling rabbit" prank on my boyfriend

Hypothesis: It's rude to prank someone.


Hypothesis: It's rude to prank someone.

you know that the person is easily upset.


Hypothesis: It's rude to prank someone.

You've both been pranking each other back and forth.


Hypothesis: It's rude to prank someone.


You are responsible for anything bad that happens if you do not want someone that someone else is dangerous.

You never had the chance to warn them before something happened.


You had the opportunity to do so but did not out of laziness.


You have accidentally walked into a bad situation.


You purposely put yourself in an area that is known for crime


Generalization doesn't really make sense.


it is well known that they are dangerous.


calling out gf's friend for going in our room whilst away

Arguing with your partner's friends can cause your partner to get angry with you.

Their friends are making fun of your partner


Your partner also finds that particular friend annoying.


You pick fights with every friend your partner has.


Your partner shares the same political views as you but not their friends.


You start the argument to force your partner to choose between you or their friends.


Your partner is on your side of the argument.


You're arguing about something embarrassing to your partner.


asking my so if she intentionally left the three dishes I used in the sink for me to clean

It's not okay to expect other people to do your chores for you.

You have hired a maid service and you pay them for it.


You are just being lazy and other people have their own things to do.


you have plenty of time to do the chores yourself


You have more free time than everyone else.


You never do their chores due to working late.


It's frowned upon to date someone a friend is interested in.


You don't know your friend is interested in them.


Your friend has told you they want to ask them out.


Your friend agrees that you should date.


The person is interested in dating your friend.


You met them and started dating them before your friend did.


They expressed their interest long before you even met the person.


Complaining seldom is a good way to interact with organizations.


You're trying to get hired by the organization.


The organization you're in is hurting you and no one is listening to any complaints at all.


You want the organization to keep your job and be fond of you.


You love what the organization stands for


They created a product that injured your baby.


The organization never answers their messages.


you are insulting the organization blatantly


being upset with my best friend for getting married without telling me

It's okay to be upset with a friend that keeps secrets from you.


you keep secrets from your friends as well.


The secrets are about theft of your items.


they were trying to protect you from that secret.


calling out a trans person on being overly sensitive

Singling people of a certain persuasion out can make you look bigoted.


You single them out based on religious, ethnic, or sexual persuasion.


You are doing it on purpose to hurt someone’s feelings.


you're doing it because of their preferences.


Especially if you are singling out a specific race or religion.


It's expected to agree to the boundaries of your relationship with your significant other.

They do not want you to ever be in the same room as them.


You want to have a great relationship with them


you feel those boundaries are not realistic


you agree that the boundaries make sense


Your partner has grown or changed something about their sexuality that came after you met and originally set boundaries.


You have discussed and not expressed any problem with things before.


the boundaries are unreasonable and controlling.


making money from an app talking to guys (non sexual) & having no emotional connection towards them. bf calls me a whore constantly since I've confessed. holds this against me and it's been a year since I've quit it

Hypothesis: Calling women whores is bad behavior.


Hypothesis: Calling women whores is bad behavior.


Hypothesis: Calling women whores is bad behavior.

Unless you're involved in a consensual roll play with them.


Hypothesis: Calling women whores is bad behavior.

Especially if you want to get along with them.


Hypothesis: Calling women whores is bad behavior.

You are acting in a film and it's part of the script.


Hypothesis: Calling women whores is bad behavior.

They cause problems in your relationship


Hypothesis: Calling women whores is bad behavior.

The women has had many partners and feels guilty about it.


telling the cleaning service that we have cameras

It is rude to assume that somebody has bad intentions.


They own the candy store you went to since a child.


They've been caught trying to scam you several times before.


You assume that everyone who's not a blood relative has bad intentions.


There is not evidence that they ever have


wanting to ignore/barely speak to someone who has lied to me for over a year

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore people.

You are in a hurry to get to work on time.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore people.

They are trying to talk to you about something serious.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore people.

They never have anything positive to say to you.


telling my friend's parents that she has an eating disorder

You are expected to report dangerous behavior to the authorities.

You do not have your cell phone with you


The authorities are corrupt and can't be trusted.


The dangerous behavior is putting others in danger.


The authorities are corrupt and need to be overthrown.


There are teenagers playing with fire in front of your house.


Unless you're the one engaging in the dangerous behaviour.


Especially if you think someone will get hurt.


being angry at my mother in law in front of my children

It's okay to be upset with people and say something to them in front of children if it's in the moment.

You say something with a curse word in it.


You would embarrass the adults in the eyes of the children.


The adults are setting a bad example for the children.


breaking up with a guy by (accidentally) lying to him

You shouldn't break up with someone over petty reasons.


There are bigger problems in the relationship.


You've worked through worse things together.


You experienced this same behavior in a past relationship.


you're having a hard time seeing eye to eye with your partner.


saying "what gives" to my now ex as to why she felt the way she did

Hypothesis: You shouldn't criticize your ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't criticize your ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't criticize your ex.

They criticize you publicly and attempt to humiliate you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't criticize your ex.

They wanted things to end peacefully between the two of you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't criticize your ex.

you want to get back together with them some day.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't criticize your ex.

they are a horrible person deserving of criticism


Hypothesis: You shouldn't criticize your ex.

They are talking bad about you to your shared child.


It's good to communicate with your romantic partner.


your romantic partner is someone you can relay your problems off of


They don't clean up after themselves and it frustrates you.


they are away from any form of communication for a while for a reasonable reason


you want to continue to have a healthy relationship


you wish for them to remain your romantic partner.


Your romantic partner is currently a researcher posted to Antartica.


asking my husband to go to couples therapy

It's good to request your partner do something that will be helpful to the relationship.

Unless you don't really want to be in the relationship anymore.


Especially if you want the relationship to last.


your relationship is struggling and you requested to go see a counselor


They are already busy with work and helping out around the house.


they want you to stick around and put up with their mess.


they just don't have enough time to do it.


not wanting a close family friend to have my baby bird

It is okay to look out for the best interests of a pet.

You put aside your own needs for your pet.


it is trying to bite you and getting aggressive.


you are watching it for your friend while she is on vacation.


It's okay to expect people at work to behave appropriately for the environment.

There is a natural disaster or fire and people panic.


they are running simulations on environmental disasters.


they are carelessly doing things that harm the environment.


it is the day before the holidays and they are celebrating at a workplace party.


not letting my brother borrow one of my prescription painkiller

Taking prescription painkillers when you haven't been prescribed them is dangerous.


You are taking more than the recommended dose.


you have been addicted to the pain killers in the past


not beingcomfortable letting my girlfriend go to a concert alone with a guy friend she met 4 months ago

It is expected that you trust your significant other.

they have done something to lose your trust.


They have been draining your joint savings account to buy alcohol.


they have lied and cheated on you in the past.


you have a long and trusting history with your significant other.


You shouldn't make fun of someone's child.


they just got a pie thrown in to their face


the parent/child asked you to make a joke about them


feeling uncomfortable being the third wheel

Hypothesis: It is okay to not have a date.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not have a date.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not have a date.

you RSVP'd to an evvent with a plus one.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not have a date.

You have been trying to get one for years and feel like a total reject.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not have a date.

You are enjoying being single a lot and are happy.


cutting ties with my friend who is cheating on her fiancé

It is hurtful to stop being friends with someone.


They have done something disrespectful to you.


That friend has not done anything wrong.


the friendship was bad for  your mental health.


being sad/sulking that my girlfriend hasn't visited me at college

It is normal to miss your girlfriend when you haven't seen her in a long time.


you both chatted pretty much every night


You should demand what is yours from your family.

You have enough resources to share with everyone.


Your family is spending too much money on everyone else.


you want to avoid all interactions with your family


You have already stolen your family's heirlooms and sold them for drugs.


Your siblings are trying to cheat you out of your share of the family business.


It wasn't given to you in your late parents' meal.


If it is your furniture that you purchased.


It is rude to mess with things that are not yours.

Those things are put somewhere you explicitly said not to put them.


Those things are delicate and important to someone else.


You have found them and are securing them until the owner can be located.


You have already been told by the owner to leave the things alone.


You fell out of a boat and a shark is coming.


You were hired to run a museum with expensive exhibits.


You have been told not to mess with them.


there is a possibility you have broken it.


getting mad at my mum over her not getting me a gift I wanted

It is expected that your mother would know what kind of gifts you wants.


You are still a kid and your mother is your caretaker.


Your mother thinks back to what she wanted at your age.


Your mother works in the technology field.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ignore people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ignore people.

The people you're ignoring are highly abusive and hurtful.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ignore people.

Those people are your friends and really like you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ignore people.

You are very busy and have a lot of work to complete.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ignore people.

They are spamming you with text messages.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ignore people.

It is your young child asking you a question.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't leave your family behind.

you're going into a dangerous situation.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't leave your family behind.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't leave your family behind.

You are going on a vacation with your wife.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't leave your family behind.

Your job paid for a first class flight for only you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't leave your family behind.

There is a wildfire burning near your house.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't leave your family behind.

You're dropping them off at the airport.


not helping a rude classmate pass a hard exam

If you are a rude person, you should not expect people to help you.


You have saying mean things about someone.


You shoved one of them during an argument.


you have never helped or been nice to the other person


writing an essay proving my teacher wrong

You should be happy knowing that you are right without having to prove someone else wrong.


You are never right about anything usually


The other person being wrong will allow an unjust law to come into being.


proving them wrong will save someone from getting hurt.


You are competing in a debate competition.


wanting revenge on my ex fiancé after elopes w someone else

Once they are your ex, forget about controlling them.


They have all their needs met by someone else.


telling a kid to shut the hell up for cheating in dodgeball

It is good to call people out for cheating.

You're not sure if the person is in a monogamous relationship.


They are going to steal a prize that would go to you.


getting "caught" having sex by my mom several times

Having sex with family members is wrong.


they are a very distant relative many times removed.


getting annoyed that my dad is trying buying me a phone

Hypothesis: You should show gratitude for gifts.


Hypothesis: You should show gratitude for gifts.

You can see someone took a lot of time to find just what you'd love.


Hypothesis: You should show gratitude for gifts.


Hypothesis: You should show gratitude for gifts.

The peraon who gave it to you spent alot of time choosing it for you


Hypothesis: You should show gratitude for gifts.

The gift was thoughtful and something you needed.


Hypothesis: You should show gratitude for gifts.

The gift is from someone you do not care for.


Hypothesis: You should show gratitude for gifts.

The person really put a lot of thought into the gift they gave you.


It's okay to walk away from something that has become damaging.

You prefer to go to therapy to repair the damage.


You are in a relationship that has become abusive.


You are responsible for the well being of children in the situation.


Someone is trying to manipulate you into something you don't want to do.


you don't make clear there are issues before hand


you've tried to fix the relationship before


It is rude to not meet someone if you agreed to it.


You're in the parking lot of the meeting place.


You got into a car accident and are at a hospital.


The person has threatened you and you fear for your safety.


You have already canceled on your friend once before.


It is your right to date whoever you want.

They are happily married to someone else.


You just got out of a bad relationship that your parents chose for you.


It is someone your sister dated already.


You want to be independent and make a good choice in life.


You are an adult trying to date a person who is underage.


you are not currently in a relationship.


It's fine to tell your significant other that a friend of theirs has a bad quality.


That quality is going to risk the safety of your significant other.


The significant other has the same quality.


The friend has been telling lies about the sigificant other.


the person is otherwise very nice, and you keep focusing on the one bad thing.


you do not want that person to be around your children.


Their friend just successfully completed a rehab program.


It involves their friend not taking regular baths.


wanting my brother & his girlfriend to pay their share of a holiday that they originally agreed to go on but now can't because they are expecting a baby

It is wrong for family to back out of an agreement due to their poor planning.


They got their dates mixed up on accident.


They had agreed to give you a ride to work and you had to call off.


Especially if they had plenty of time to plan.


The agreement can be easily rescheduled.


The agreement  could only happen at the specified time.


It leaves someone else on the hook to deal with the fallout.


not wanting to go to my family members baby shower

It's expected that you show up to big family events.


The elderly family members don't have many years left


complaining noone said happy birthday to me

It's understandable to be sad if no one remembers it's your birthday.

You took your birthday off of all acalendars.


You reminded your friends of your birthday coming up


you never told anyone when your birthday is


you had talked about wanting to celebrate and reminded people of your birthday


Unless you don't have any family or friends.


Your birthday is written on the calendar at work.


Your own spouse and children don't remember.


You are older and birthdays lose relevance


You take time to remember everyone else's birthdays.


breaking up with my girlfriend because of her dog

You should work things out with your partner over their pet.


Your partner has had their pet for a long time, before they starting seeing you.


Their pet is eating the flowers in the yard.


Their pet is more affectionate than you'd like.


Especially if you want the relationship to last.


You should try to accommodate family members.


they are asking for reasonable accommodations.


They want to stay with you and you only have a studio apartment.


They need help in an area you have training in.


playing music loudly during the daytime as a music student

It's rude to play music so loudly that it disturbs others.


You're trying to cover up the sound of them having sex.


It is okay to keep finances separate from family.


you aren't contributing your fair share to the family.


they can't be trusted to have access to it.


You don't provide any cash towards the household expenses.


The money is going into your retirement account.


kicking someone out of our D&D group because he refuses to learn the rules

People need to learn how to follow the established procedures of a game to be included.

They are toddlers and it is a game for youths.


the game is being played professionally for competition.


They are joining a group already playing the game.


You want to have people pick you to play.


You should always look after the health of your child.

You don't have your child in your house.


They are an adult and can take care of themselves.


They are a young child I need you to take them to the doctor.


Your child is sick or has a chronic disease.


Your child is a grown adult now and does that on his own.


Your child is a little kid under your supervision and depends on you.


You have the right to say whatever you want to say.


You want to let others know how you feel


it is racist, sexist, or stereotypes a group of people.


being annoyed at employer for donating our Christmas party budget to charity

It's good for a business to donate to charity rather than waste money on a party.

Morale is low at the company and a party will help retain employees.


A local charity is running out of funds.


The party proceeds go to charity as well.


Everyone has been working lots of overtime and really needs a break for a morale boost.


All of the employees are on board with the idea.


Their employees are horribly underpaid with no profit sharing.


not telling someone that his fiance cheated on him with me

It's wrong to keep something a secret if you know it can change someone's life

It will change their life for the worse.


It could substantially improve their life.


It might change their life for the worse.


It can change their life for the better.


it will change someone's life for the better.


The secret would change their life for the worst.


not telling my wife I had a second child through sperm donation after she gave me a hard time about the first donorkid

When your partner keeps secrets from you, it's okay if you don't trust them.


they get angry when you ask about the secrets.


The secrets were minor about very personal things.


They lied about how much debt your family was in.


The secret is about your Christmas present.


You should give your food to someone that wants it if you don't want to eat it.


There's half a sandwich you didn't even touch.


There's a local food bank or homeless shelter in the area.


You want to save the food for leftovers.


Your child has finished their portion and is still hungry.


The food contains something they are allergic to.


They are really hungry and don't have anything to eat.


telling a friend his fling was pregnant with his baby

You should tell someone that you are pregnant with their baby.


You both have been trying to get pregnant.


The child was conceived non-consensually.


You want them to part of the child's life.


They are abusive and you want to leave them


You've been trying with that person to get pregnant for a long time.


It is wrong to cut off all contact with a close friend without offering an explanation.


you got a new phone and you lost their number


they are trying to call you to get an answer


Your friend doesn't know what they did wrong.


The person has been good and kind to you


You shouldn't avoid being enlisted in the army.


you believe your country is fighting a war that is unethical.


your country needs every possible person to help defend itself from an attack.


You believe that the war is for a bad cause.


you have a medical issue that prevents you from enlisting.


your country needs you in a time of war.


asking my brother for money after not paying rent

It's wrong to ask to borrow money from other people.


You are going to make them uncomfortable


you offer to pay them back right away and know that you will be able to pay them back


you have no intention of paying them back


You intend on paying the money back quickly.


You know you can't afford to pay them back.


Hypothesis: It's good to stay friends with others.


Hypothesis: It's good to stay friends with others.

you don't have a lot of family to keep you company


Hypothesis: It's good to stay friends with others.

They travel in the same social circles that you do.


Hypothesis: It's good to stay friends with others.

You are an introvert who prefers to be left alone.


Hypothesis: It's good to stay friends with others.

You enjoy being invited to social events.


Hypothesis: It's good to help family members.

Your family member has committed a serious crime.


Hypothesis: It's good to help family members.

Your elderly parent needs your assistance.


Hypothesis: It's good to help family members.


Hypothesis: It's good to help family members.

You teach them how to become more self-sufficient.


Hypothesis: It's good to help family members.

They keep getting you fired every time you try to help them get a job.


Hypothesis: It's good to help family members.

They've often helped you when you were in trouble.


not wanting to be involved in family drama that my parents tried to push on me

You shouldn't get involved in family drama.

Someone is getting nasty with your child.


Your mom is getting abused by your step dad


getting upset a very close friend didn't tell me they were in an accident

You should ask a close friend why they hide something from you ad try to understand it from their perspective.


it's too personal to broach with your friend


you're struggling to understand why they did something


They are secretly hooking up with your partner.


breaking with my girlfriend after she denies me at work

It's ok to have limits about public physical affection.


Your spouse told you they like public affection before you married them.


It makes your partner feel like you don't love them.


The other person agrees to those limits put in place.


not giving some extra cash because of my other expenses

It's good to budget money for certain expenses


you have a lot of extra money in your bank accounts.


It's okay to not want to share your online accounts.

You and your significant other have agreed to share accounts.


You suspect the person will steal from you.


It is inconvenient to buy postage stamps and use a corded landline phone.


Your information has been hacked more than once.


You pay for the account with someone else.


Someone you love and trust dearly needs to use them desperately.


You don't know the people who want to use them well at all.


feeling wronged by my "Ex" dating another person

You shouldn't be concerned with who your ex dates.

they are now dating your sibling or best friend


you broke up with them and they are dating people who you don't know


you want to live a healthy life apart from your ex.


They're trying to seduce your current partner.


You've moved on to a new, happier relationship.


you want to get back together with them.


You share custody of a child with your ex and your child will be around them.


You do not live with or have children with your ex.


wanting my ex to get transfered or fired at work

It's wrong to want your partner to lose their job.


you secretly want them to be a stay at home parent.


their job is causing them undue stress and anxiety.


they rely on their job for money to live on.


thinking my friend should refund fundraising money people contributed to

It's okay to think your friend should do something if he owes it to people.


People have done something great or charitable for your friend.


they are physically unable due to an injury.


the people really went out on a limb to help your friend when they needed it.


He already promised them that he'd do it.


Especially if he's perfectly capable of doing it.


Your friend asks others for favors all the time


telling my parents they need to help clean the house

It's okay to want your parents to help around the house.

They are paying all of the bills and it is their house.


They moved in with you but are leaving a mess in every room of the house


Your parents told you that you needed to give them some time alone.


There are a lot of chores and tasks to be completed.


They are very old and weak and it is hard for them to do so.


They are able and on their feet and have made a mess themselves.


arguing with my mother over the state of my mental well being

Parents will ask you about your well being because they care, it is rude to argue with them about it.


You are tired of them asking and not listening to the answer when you say you are not fine.


You have a disease and they don't understand it.


They are asking because they want to help you out with your current situation.


Your parents are obsessive and controlling.


Your parents are well intentioned and kind.


Your parents are calling you several times a day.


Your parents check in with you once a week.


not stopping my game so our family could eat dinner outside

It is rude to make your family wait on you for dinner.


Working overtime is the only way you can pay the mortgage.


You make them wait so long dinner gets cold.


You agreed to be there at a specific time.


your family enjoys just sitting around talking with each other


It's good to talk with your co-workers about problems.


You are the boss and they can’t help you


You have partners that count on you to make decisions for the business


They are very busy and do not have time to discuss it.


The problems you come to them with could affect them


You are gossiping about other co-workers personal problems.


telling my dad his girlfriend is destroying his house while he's on vacation

It's fine to allow someone to stay in your house while you're gone.


you have a dog that needs to be taken care of.


You think that they may steal or damage your possessions.


You need someone to take care of your house while you're away.


Your landlord prohibits guests in the apartment.


being upset at my friend who pretended to throw a rock at me motorcycle as I drove by

It is not acceptable to joke about hurting someone.

You are bluffing to prevent them from hurting you or someone else.


They are a vulnerable member of society.


you did not hurt them intentionally while playing.


they are hospitalized due to you hurting them.


The person has been physically hurt about someone in the past.


telling my whole soap opera of a friend group to f**k off

Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at people.


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at people.


Hypothesis: It's rude to swear at people.

They haven't' done anything to provoke you.


wanting to spend time with only my friends on vacation

It's understandable to want to be with your friends.

your family is having an important celebration.


You put aside other responsibilities to do so.


you are supposed to be at your job working.


your friends live along ways away and you don't see them often.


telling this kid to get away from my brother

It's good for someone to stick up for their family.


Someone is doing harm or bullying their family.


The family has committed a serious crime against an innocent person.


they want their family to stick up for them.


their family is doing something illegal.


Hypothesis: It's fine to refuse sex with someone.

You never show interest in your partner anymore


Hypothesis: It's fine to refuse sex with someone.


Hypothesis: It's fine to refuse sex with someone.

They are your spouse and it has been a long time.


dating my best friend who dated my friend

You have right to date whomever you please.


They gave you a heart for Valentine's Day.


you are a teenager and your parents forbid dating.


You are under age and your parents do not like your date


arguing with the employee and getting the manager involved

Hypothesis: It is bad to make a scene.

You are trying to distract a shooter from harming children.


Hypothesis: It is bad to make a scene.


Hypothesis: It is bad to make a scene.

an employee obviously is ignoring your needs


wanting my elderly mother to live with me and my family even though my husband is against it

You should respect the wishes of your significant other.


his wish is to have an open relationship.


his wishes were discussed and agreed upon before you got married.


they are asking you to do something illegal.


you want them to respect your wishes as well.


Their wishes make you  deeply uncomfortable or go against your morals.


Their wishes are reasonable and don't violate your morals.


It's good to be grateful for diversions from life's drudgery, no matter what the breaks are called.


You are trying to meet a deadline at work.


the diversion is from the death of a loved one.


you have been stuck in a rut because of winter.


ending a friendship with a female friend because she was worried her fiancé wouldn't like her going on an overnight trip with a (gay) man

It's harsh to stop being friends with someone because they have childish concerns.


you've not told them about your frustrations with them


The person's actions about their concerns are harming you.


not wanting my dad to walk me down the aisle

If you don't think your parents are healthy for you, it's okay not to include them in your life


they were abusive to you in your childhood


They are helping pay for your schooling or housing.


They physically or verbally try to cause harm to you.


They are trying to control who you talk to.


being annoyed that my niece is telling me everything about Tik Tok

It's understandable to get frustrated with someone when they are doing something annoying.


You have asked them to stop and they keep doing it.


they are not able to control their behavior.


telling off coworkers at work after they equated menstrual cramps to my illness

Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.

they might hurt someone with their words.


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.

it is an emergency and they yell out "fire".


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.

they tend to have no filter when they talk to you.


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.

They are on a game show and have to answer questions on the spot.


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.

They get charged for contempt when speaking out in court.


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.

they're speaking about a touchy subject.


Hypothesis: People need to think before they speak.

they don't want to be thought of as stupid.


not wanting to take care of my soon to be Mother/Brother in law

It's OK not to want to be responsible for the care of family members if you're not comfortable helping them.

they don't have anyone else to care for them.


you can afford to hire extra help for them.


Your family member only trusts you and is uncomfortable with others.


You are not comfortable because you have experience helping family already.


You have the medical training to help them.


You are a child and don't know what to do.


getting mad at my dad for locking me outside

You shouldn't do things that cause your parents to become so angry that they behave irrationally

Your parents have unreasonable expectations.


Your parents have reasonable expectations.


You are trying to get them out of a funk.


They do what they can to provide for you.


your parent has put you in an unsafe situation.


you know you are doing something wrong and don't stop.


They are normal things everyone does and your parents are just hyper strict.


One of your parents has a heart condition.


A BF can seem lazy when they actually are not.


You can confirm that except for bathroom and kitchen breaks he has not moved off the couch in three days and he is sober and in good health.


He is not doing much because he is tired and sore from his physically demanding job.


telling my mother I can't handle her when she's off her meds

You are right to encourage someone to do what is best for them.


you are the friend and you're just giving your honest opinion


What is best for them is very hurtful to someone else.


They are not hurting anyone in the process and it makes them happy.


you don't want to see them hurt themselves.


THey have been selflessly giving their whole life


not wanting my sister to get married a week before me

It's understandable to be upset at a sibling for planning their wedding too close to yours.


they intentionally wanted it closer so they could piggy back off your wedding


You are getting a discount at the same venue for doing so


You planned the wedding before they were even engaged


There is only one time when the entire family can attend.


They plan their wedding with the same theme as yours.


You planned your wedding first and they promised not to ruin it.


not wanting to continue my distance relationship for another 2 years

You're supposed to be dedicated to your relationships.


Especially if they are good relationships.


you have an open relationship and are not monogomous


your partner is super jealous and you want to get married to them


not wanting to move in with my girlfriend unless she gets rid of her dog

People are expected to give their pets a lifetime home.


They get old and can’t take care of them anymore


The pet is something like a parrot that might outlive them.


The pet is something like a hamster with a short lifespan.


they aren't able to give themselves a place to live.


They are fostering animals until they find their forever home.


breaking up with a girl because she in the last had severe depression

You should not abandon someone in their time of need.

You're just going to go find someone that can help them.


you have other responsibilities that supersede their need in importance


The person has been abusive towards you.


You're recovering from a traumatic event.


They explicitly reached out to you for help.


questioning the validity of the individual leader of a "Movement Challenge" for being a liar

Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

You swore an oath to tell the whole truth.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

You have been sworn to secrecy and it's not your secret to share.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

You are just trying to cover up your wrongdoing.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

they were trying to rob your safe but you told them it was somewhere where its not so they leave


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

By telling the truth you will hurt them immensely and unnecessarily.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

You want them to respect you and believe you in the future.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to others.

It will make them happy after a bout of depression.


thinking of seizing contact with best friend months after she did the same to me. * ed trigger warning

It's encouraged to spell words properly so people can understand what you're trying to convey.

you are writing a secret message to a friend


You are learning a new language and don't know how to spell.


you are having a casual text conversation.


Your writing includes a lot of acronyms and initialism.


You are taking a spelling test and want a grade of 100 in elementary school.


wanting my Gf to not have side conversations while on the phone with me

It's rude to talk to others during a phone conversation.

It's very important that they know the detail you're trying to get across.


Their boss or important work contact is on the phone with them.


The person on the other end of the call wants you to ask the other person a question.


You are interrupting them because of an emergency


You are interrupting them for something trivial


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to a partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to a partner.

your partner is okay with an open relationship


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to a partner.

they set ground rules about what they expect in terms of monogamy


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to a partner.

They've been nothing but faithful to you.


Hypothesis: It's good to be loyal to a partner.

you are in love with them and want to marry them.


It isn't right to leave your friends behind.

Your friends were trying to get you to do drugs.


you are going on vacation with your family.


you are going on a field trip with them.


You have an emergency and need to leave abruptly.


They are depending on you for a ride home.


They have told you that they didn't want to come.


You are leaving them out of your birthday trip.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call a woman a liar.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call a woman a liar.

You know for absolutely certain that she has not been truthful.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call a woman a liar.

You have your doubts whether or not she is one.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call a woman a liar.

She is saying she was sexually assaulted


cussing out my mother for 'buying' an Xbox from my cousin

It's okay to buy things for your family.


do you have a greed to save money instead of spending it


You are using their own money to get it.


hooking up with another girl (sort of) the night of my future wife and I's first kiss

It is a good sign that the marriage won't last.


You're single and want to be with one of the married people who are divorcing.


not replacing my roommates items with upgraded versions

IT is right to replace anything you break or take from omeone.


That person is dead and it's an inheritance sale.


You are rich and have the money to spend.


You drop a carton of eggs at the grocery store and they tell you not to worry about it.


You broke the item due to your own negligence.


You're removing forbidden drugs from family members.


You've broken something on accident that was important to them.


moving my part of the furniture (~90% of it all) out of the apartment a month before my roomie moves out

Your housemates shouldn't expect you to make unnecessary sacrifices.


You own the home and are responsible for major repairs.


You are all paying the same amount of rent.


You agreed to make those sacrifices before.


You never agreed to make those sacrifices.


not wanting my girlfriend to spend too long on the phone when I'm with her

It is rude to not pay attention to someone that you are spending time with.


They really want to tell you about their day.


you are visiting them in the hospital and they are asleep.


You are trying to have a romantic encounter.


You are on a blind date that is going horribly and you are trying to end it.


They have been nothing but nice to you and like you.


not using my sister as my realtor when she only got her license 6-8 mos. ago and husband and I have been working with our realtor for many years

It is expected that you continue a working relationship if both partners are satisfied.


There are no problems for anyone involved.


you have a written agreement to work together.


you don't like your partners personality anymore and it makes you unhappy.


you are in a long committed relationship with each other.


not saying anything to a girl after sex and then leaving her place

You shouldn't just leave someone you just had sex with.

That person has made it clear it's a one night stand


smacking my friend when he interrupted me

Hypothesis: It is bad to hit your friends.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hit your friends.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hit your friends.

You are fighting on the street over a girl.


Hypothesis: It is bad to hit your friends.

they are choking and you are hitting them on the back.


sending a BPT mod an "apology for being white"

It's wrong to judge someone based on their race.


It was a race they ran  and you are judging their ability to run.


You are going to do it in a negative way.


You are of the same race and want to share and compare experiences.


You are breaking the law and can be fined or punished.


reporting my neighbor's new building to the county

It's mandatory to give the county information about the building you are in the process of building so you can apply for a permit.


The building is located on public property.


you live outside the area that requires a permit.


you want to be able to continue building.


you want to stay up to code and not have issues


Don't report a manager if you want to move up.

your manager is harassing you all of the time


You can probably get that manager fired and save the company a lot of money.


Reporting that manager would implicate much of the upper management for wrong-doing.


They have a say in your promotion chances.


They have done something that is so serious that they could and should get fired.


You think that they could put your employment in jeopardy.


refusing to pay and work on a house we are renting

You shouldn't refuse to work on something you are renting.

The owner is responsible for all maintenance.


You agreed to return it in the condition you borrowed it.


the owner has threatened to sue you if you break it.


You don't think it would be wise to spend the money.


You are getting a discount on your rent.


selfishly wanting more out of a relationship

It's okay to want more out of a relationship.

The relationship would be damaging to your children.


You have strong feelings for the person.


You are expecting to much of the other person.


The other person barely tends to your relationship with them.


Unless you both agreed from the beginning that there wouldn't be.


Especially if you've been together a long time.


the other person doesn't want commitment.


both of you are ready to go to the next level.


getting mad at my husband for bringing a friend over

It's expected that your spouse will bring friends over.


The two of you have planned an intimate evening together.


You're having a Christmas celebration party at your house.


They have been planning a birthday party.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind to others.

The people you're kind to take advantage of you.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind to others.

The people you're kind to treat you well.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind to others.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind to others.

Especially if they are friends of yours.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind to others.

They're a family member or a close friend.


going on a holiday without telling my friends

It is okay to keep some aspects of your life personal.

you are talking to your doctor and it could adversely affect your medical treatment


these aspects could damage your reputation


Your keeping personal things from your employer.


you are keeping secrets from your spouse.


Your doctor asks about your mental health.


sneezing at my preferred volume even though it annoys my wife

It's inconsiderate to do things that you know are annoying to others.

Other people are annoyed by the way your voice sounds.


You want to enjoy your time with the other person.


They are tending to important responsibilities like studying or chores.


You  are simply teasing them or playing a fun prank on them.


They have told you to stop a thousand times and you don't listen.


You are a small child and dont know better


being mad that nobody help me when I needed it

It's okay to be upset when you think the world has it out for you.


People have been trying to hurt you in the past.


Many people attacked you over several years.


You're always rude to people and that's why no one likes you.


you're having a bad day where nothing goes right for you


being upset that I constantly get pulled for 'random' drug tests

It's rude to constantly make one person do random drug tests if others aren't being treated the same way.


that person doesn't have a history of drug abuse.


The person has a long history of addiction.


The person has never tested positive for drugs.


that one person has previously failed multiple drug tests.


there is no reason to suspect they've ever done drugs.


That person is on probation and was required by a judge to take tests.


You are unfairly singling out one worker based on their appearance.


the person keeps coming to work on drugs


the person has never tested positive for drugs before


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rush your co-workers.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rush your co-workers.

There is a long line at the register and your co-worker is being slow about checking people out.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rush your co-workers.

you don't want your coworkers to rush you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rush your co-workers.

they need time to do their work correctly.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rush your co-workers.

You're running out of time to finish working.


getting upset at some friends for making a mistake and feeling that they didn't do a good job to make up for it

If you make a mistake, it's okay to move on from it.

someone paid for the car repair and it needs to be repaired


You hurt a lot of people and did not apologize


you haven't fixed all the negative consequences from the mistake.


you need to take certain actions to make it right.


asking my roommate to play music when her boyfriend is over

It is considerate for your roommate to play music when hanging out with their boyfriend.


Everyone in the house enjoys the same music.


They're playing loud music and you're trying to study.


It's a band the boyfriend had heard about and wanted to hear.


You think noise is annoying when trying to talk


They are just trying to lighten the mood


You shouldn't remain in a relationship that you do not want to be in.

They are paying for treatment for your sick baby.


They said cruel things to you every day.


It is expected that you will tell someone to stop if they are pestering you.


You are being harassed by someone on a dating app.


They have been known to beat up other people.


not getting in the car with my drunk dad

Driving under the influence is unacceptable.

You are under the influence of caffeine.


you have to get an injured person to the hospital.


You are three times over the legal limit.


Wanting to learn about different cultures is good.


You are planning to visit that specific country.


You want to learn about them to mock them.


you have bad intentions of what you are going to do with that knowledge.


you are dating somebody with a different cultural background.


You want to use the knowledge to make fun of other people.


You are part of a culturally diverse work team.


It's expected that neighbors be kind to one another.

Your neighbor always takes the parking space in front of your house.


One neighbor is loud and lets their dog bark all the time.


One neighbor is being rude and hurtful to the other day after day.


They want to lead peaceful harmonious lives together and want their children to get along.


not wanting to buy all my own toilet paper

An adult should expect to pay for their own toilet paper.


They are mentally unwell and don’t have a job


They live in a dorm with shared bathrooms.


agreeing that my gf asking for a selfie is being unreasonable when she refuses to take a photo herself

It's okay to want someone you care about to go out of their way and do something nice for you.

Unless they don't even know you care about them.


The person has a deadline at work today and does not have free time.


It would cause them too much trouble to the point it could affect their lives.


You did the same for them and want it in return.


you go out of your way to do nice things for them.


expecting my spouse to take care of their chores and getting frustrated when they don't

It's okay to expect your partner to help with chores.


Your partner is very ill and physically is not able to.


Your partner is perfectly healthy and really loves you.


not wanting to pay for other people's drinks

If others are expecting you to pay for their drinks, it's okay to say no.


They have purchased your drinks in the past.


You told them upfront that you would not pay for their drinks in the first place.


They just paid for your drink the last round.


They ordered something ridiculously expensive.


You always end up paying for their drinks because they left their wallet at home on purpose.


blowing up at a girl because she cracked my phone

You shouldn't get blown up on for accidents.

The accident caused significant property damage.


Your accident was a minor fender bender.


You seriously injured someone in a car accident.


You accidentally bumped someone in a crowded concert.


You caused the accident by being careless.


It was an innocent mistake that could happen to anyone in the same situation.


It's wrong to destroy your partner's life.


If there's an emergency, it's okay to skip a month of rent.

your landlord will evict you because of it.


The emergency did not cause you any money.


Your landlord approves the rent skipping.


you have already skipped a month of rent and you will be evicted if you skip again.


you need that money for medication to keep you alive.


You signed a contract agreeing to pay rent every month.


not inviting a friend when I hung out with another friend group

It is okay to have friends that do not get along with each other.

You're all going to be in the same room together.


you want them to all hang out together for your birthday celebration.


Those friends turn to agree to disagree.


One friend is harrassing another friend.


not wanting my Best Friend date a guy I hate

You shouldn't date people that your friends don't like.


you have an amazing connection with them.


your friends don't like them because they dated them before.


They have valid and logical reasoning behind their distaste.


Your friends have no dating experience of their own.


You don't have any dating experience of your own.


Your friends dislike the person because he yells at you.


telling my friend I'm "free" to hang much later than I'm actually free to hang

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

Telling the truth would only hurt the person very badly or unnecessarily.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

You want to build trust in the other person and have them respect you.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

You tell someone they look pretty to make them feel better.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

it's a little white lie to spare someone's feelings.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

You are trying to keep a secret for a friend


wanting to tell this girl she's not allowed to come to my house especially with her boyfriend

You should respect the partners of others.


You want to all have healthy friendships.


The partner is physically attacking you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your siblings.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your siblings.

Your siblings have ruined your life and abused you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your siblings.

You share a lot in common and are both kind people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your siblings.

They have been bossing you around since you were little.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your siblings.

they have done something truly terrible to hurt you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hate your siblings.

they are good and kind, and you are just jealous.


being annoyed with my friend for sleeping with a girl in a relationship

Getting involved with a friends relationship is foolish.

You're trying to start a polyamorous relationship.


they are both very happy and it would ruin it if you said something


The friend gave you permission before death.


You're having an affair with the other person.


saying I'd find what my Cousin did would be unacceptable in my relationship

It's important to remember that you don't always know the whole story   when judging others.

someone is doing something truly heinous.


you don't want others passing judgement on you without facts.


the other person is a young kid and you had been watching them the entire time of the event that you are judging


it is an instance that doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things


the outcome of your judgment will affect others' lives.


both sides of the story are very different.


bringing my (ex?) girlfriends friend a gift

It can be creepy to receive a present from someone you don't know well.


The person just walked up to and handed you the gift.


It's a Secret Santa from a club you belong to.


It was left on your doorstep without a note or card.


It is a Christmas card and candy cane from your neighbors.


The gift is lingerie from someone you met one time.


telling my parents not to smoke in the house

It's rude to do something in someone's home that they don't like.


They asked you to take your shoes off and you refused.


You are there for an intervention for that person.


You are a guest that is well liked by the homeowners.


You are just pulling a prank for fun to make them laugh.


They keep telling you to stop and you don't listen.


It is accepted if you always want to eat out


you are rich and have the money to eat out everyday


refusing to pay my ex-roommate for furniture I don't get to keep

If you no longer live with someone then you are under no obligation to pay them for something in your old apartment.

It is a part of the lease agreement that you will pay.


they are your landlord and you left some damage in the apartment


You caused damage while leaving there that needs to be repaired.


They want you to pay for utilities from after the period you lived there.


being honest about why I won't go to my friend's show

It's always good to be honest with your friends.


You want the friendships to last a long time.


you are planning a secret surprise for them.


you want your friends to be honest with you.


You know some information that could cause them to harm themselves.


You know that their significant other is cheating on them.


One should not be jealous of those close to them.

They are rubbing your face in their achievements.


They deserve the good things that have come their way.


Unless they are small children who don't know any better.


Especially if they are adults who know better.


those people are always supportive of them.


Their parents show your sibling extreme favortism.


Those close to you do not brag or show off.


Your significant other flirts with them.


telling my friend his girlfriend was cheating on him

Telling someone's secret might cause them to retaliate.

they are relieved that everyone finally knows the secret.


the secret will cause them to lose their friends.


They're a family member who knows a lot of embarrassing stories about you.


not giving vegetables to customer who doesn't eat it

It's wrong to not eat food you've bought.


you don't have much money to spend on food


You accidentally bought something you're allergic to


You don't have a lot of money and need to make it last.


You find you bought the wrong items that aren't part of your diet.


It's exactly what you wanted and you throw it out instead of donating it.


People are expected to be generous with their loved ones.


They don't have anything to be generous with.


trying to stretch out my legs on an airplane

It is good to wait to get off of the plane before you start stretching.


you don't have any room to stretch on the plane.


You don't want to hold up the line of people exiting.


No one is exiting the plane due to a long delay.


The plane is crowded and people are in a rush to exit.


You've got a really bad leg cramp and you can't stand up otherwise.


You're at the front of the plane and everyone just started moving towards the sky ramp.


kind of lying to girls by saying I'm an artist

Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people.

It will protect them from an ugly truth.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people.

You are on a game show and it is part of the strategy.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people.

It could help someone get medical attention.


No one respects someone who runs to the police at the first sign of trouble.


They bother the police for matters the police don't get involved with


they do so because someone is in immediate danger.


Someone is in a lot of trouble and has no one else to turn to.


The situation can be resolved by talking and no one has tried to do so yet.


refusing to go to my best friends wedding

Being there to support your best friend on an important day is expected.


Especially if you said you would be there.


they are having a wedding and you are the best man


You study abroad and are busy with final exams.


It is their wedding day and you live close by.


you are deployed a week before and have no choice but to leave.


your best friend doesn't have any family that is going to show up.


telling my gf to stop talking to her ex and asking her to stop going over to his house alone

It's understandable that you would be jealous of your significant other's ex.


They're deceased and pose no threat to your relationship.


They still have to see each other every day at work.


They have children with their ex and need to talk to them frequently.


Your significant other spends an inordinate amount of time with their ex.


you think your partner still has feelings for them.


making my brother in law pay to replace our carpet

If you wreck something valuable that belongs to someone else, the right thing to do is replace it.


The item was already falling apart and would've been wrecked soon anyway by anyone.


It was in  good condition when you got it and was due to your negligence.


It was given to them by their dead aunt.


being mad at a girl for pretending to be my friend for 3 months while slowly stealing my boyfriend

Hypothesis: It is wrong to be a fake friend.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be a fake friend.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be a fake friend.

You're an undercover police officer trying to convict a violent cartel leader.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be a fake friend.

You're just doing it to improve your own social status.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be a fake friend.

you are doing it just to impress someone else.


It's wrong to try to control the body of another.


It's your child and they need to settle down.


You try to force that person to have sex.


They do not like to be touched due to past history.


It's normal to express your love towards your significant other.


You do it too much and they feel suffocated.


Your significant other has shown they love that sort of attention.


You are in the middle of proposing to them.


It is expected that you tip the bathroom attendant after using the facilities.


The attendant didn't help you out at all and you didn't interact with him.


You didn't bring your purse to the bathroom.


You took a towel, used hand lotion, perfume and mouthwash.


telling my friend her boyfriend needs to shape up

You shouldn't tell other people to shape up.f


You're an Admiral in the Navy talking to the newly enlisted sailors.


You are three hundred pounds heavier than them.


blocking my roommate's family on my phone

It's invasive to contact your family member's roommate.

Your family member's roommate is your friend.


You're asking about your family member behind their back.


You think your family member might be hurt.


You're prying about your family member's personal life.


It's an emergency and you need their help in some matter.


It is for something that would only cause drama and tension.


asking my group of friends(?) why they don't include me in outings

It is ok to be upset if your friends stop including you in their outings.

You never pay for your fair share of things.


You have a health condition that is not compatible with their activities.


They are  including a new  person who doesn't like you.


You're all going to the same college together.


calling out my dirty suite mate in front of his girlfriend

It's rude to humiliate someone in front of others.

Humiliating them is the only way to get them to stop bullying others.


You're in front of a class of your peers.


They are crying already from a bed wetting incident.


getting mad when my friend blocked me cuz she didn't want me in her life

You should tell your friends that you don't want to talk to them anymore instead of just ignoring them.


you think you might benefit from explaining yourself.


You just need a short time to cool off and get over your issue with them.


You really want to just cut off and end things with them entirely.


you know that talking to them will lead to a confrontation


talking to them could lead to a reconciliation


You're so busy you keep forgetting about it.


You're uncomfortable with them contacting you again.


cutting off my good friend of 3 years, who has admitted his romantic feelings for me, because I've started seeing someone

People are expected to want to have friends.


they like to go out and be around people.


trying to express that it's extremely infuriating when grown adult men urinate on public toilet seats with a picture of someone urinating in the next stall

You should try to understand why others do things you may not like.


Those people are not going to be in your life for long.


you just want them to stop and leave you alone


They have not stopped when you have asked them to


It's expected that you should be supportive of your partner.


They want you to move with them to North Korea.


They're trying to pursue a lifetime dream.


leaving my anxious girlfriend on "Read" constantly

It's rude to read a message and not respond or acknowledge it.

You're really busy and have other things to get to.


The other person is waiting on a response.


you need to answer an important question.


not paying part of my friends ticket that he received while high

You should always pay back your friends.

Your friends told you to forget about it since you did them a huge favor


They skipped town and you cannot find them.


They pay the rent for the apartment you live in.


not texting a Girl that told me to leave her alone

You don't have put up with actions from others that you don't like.


You're a service worker who has to deal with rude clients.


Their actions legally constitute harassment.


You shouldn't expect family members to buy things for you.


You're a grown adult living away from home.


You are grown and they are things you should buy for yourself like food and clothes.


accepting nudes from people that are not my significant other

Nude images are intimate and should only be exchanged between people in relationships.

You meet someone who wants to hook up on a dating app


They're of images of you and your spouse.


Exchanging them could bring political ruin.


THe person is a consenting entrepeneur doing it for money


THey are shared between a husband and wife


completely losing it with a lady who tried to cut in front of me TWICE at a large grocery store

You should be patient when in a public setting with a lot of other people.

You have an emergency and need to rush to get somewhere


The people that you are with think less of you for being impatient.


Unless they aren't supposed to be there.


Especially if you're at a family picnic.


You shouldn't break up long-term relationships.


Both people are absolutely miserable in that relationship.


Both people have been happy together for years.


You plan on staying together the rest of your lives.


The relationship lost a spark a long time ago.


not telling a potential employer I got another job

It's wrong to let someone down who could be counting on you.


Someone is counting on you to be the perfect child.


Unless it's an emergency and you can't make it.


honking and flashing my lights at people doing 45 in a 65 in the far left lane of the highway

It's okay to alert others of driving hazards.


it could prevent them from having a wreck.


ignoring a friend when they asked to crash at my place for the night

It's wrong to expect to stay over at your friend's place for the night.

You and your friend have hooked up several times before and you're both feeling horny.


They're already hosting several family from out of town.


Your parent told you they had to pick you up in the evening for an activity.


You have discussed the arrangements previously or you're really good friends.


Your friend is very busy in the morning and needs his sleep/space.


A rain shower has turned into a snowstorm.


possibly getting someone kicked out of university

Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on friends.

they are putting themselves or others in danger.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on friends.

They asked you not to out them to their family


You are expected to be considerate of your neighbors when listening to music.

Your neighbor still uses boom boxes from the 1970's.


Your neighbor enforces nuisance laws for the town.


Your nearest neighbor lives three miles away.


Your neighbors are having a party and are also blasting music.


your neighbors are not considerate of you.


not wanting to play my guitar in front of my mum, but she wants me to cos she's paying

It is wrong to expect someone to perform when they are uncomfortable.

They are a comedian and you paid to watch them.


It is part of their training to become more comfortable and expand their comfort zone.


They have an anxiety disorder or illness.


They are an athlete being paid millions to do so


telling my brother take control of his life and leave his girlfriend

It is rude to get involved in other people's relationships.


you don't want people involved in your relationships.


You suspect one person in the relationship is cheating on the other.


It's about your friend's partner having an affair.


Being angry doesn't help your stress or health.


You were diagnosed with high blood pressure.


This is pretty true and I don't know how to undermine it.


You have bottled up emotions that need to come out.


not telling a guy I'm seeing that I slept with his close friend

You shouldn't get involved with your partner's friends.


taking pictures of dogs outside without a leash and sending them to my leasing office

It is responsible to report people breaking the pet rules to the leasing office.


Especially if they aren't taking good care of the pet.


the pet really needed a home or it would not have survived


the pet is trashing the house or the apartment


it's also against the rules to report things like that


It's wrong to tell on people when they aren't doing anything to hurt you.

Those people are seriously hurting someone else.


What they're doing is a totally victimless crime.


they are doing something to hurt someone else.


They are stepping on someone that is smaller than them.


The situation doesn't involve you at all.


telling my mother that I think she's being selfish for wanting to abandon her kids ASAP to persue other life interests

It is bad to take your children for granted


it could affect who they are later on down the road.


That means you totally trust and rely on them.


That means you never thank your kids when they do something nice for you.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like going to school.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like going to school.

You plan on going to college and medical school, and will be in school a long, long, time.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like going to school.

You are gifted and the work is too easy for you.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like going to school.

You are planning on a career that requires extensive schooling.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like going to school.

There are no classes in your preferred areas of interest.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not like going to school.

it's something voluntary you signed up for.


asking what happened when a fight breaks out in my public discord server

It is expected that you will ask for details when a fight breaks out online.

You don’t know anyone involved in the fight


Especially if you know the people fighting.


You don't like boxing and you close the window.


You enjoy getting involved in that genre of chat.


you do not pay attention to things like that.


It's okay to want to stick up for yourself for just being who you are.


you are a rude and unkind person who likes to hurt people


you are kind and other people take advantage of you


Other people are making fun of you for who you are.


not giving my carpoolers a cheaper price

It's not okay to take advantage of other peoples good nature.


You are doing so to acquire things for others in need.


You are doing just for your own selfish wants.


They would do anything for you without asking


not telling someone they have a potentially fatal illness

You shouldn't keep a serious illness a secret from someone who has it.

You fear they will react by harming themselves.


They have an anxiety condition that could worsen.


The person is comatose and cannot understand.


The person will not have the opportunity to make a decision about treatment.


you aren't supposed to know that they have it.


they need to seek medical attention immediately.


they are an elderly person who might become agressive


they need to know so that they can get the proper treatment


not bringing my coworker's girlfriend her thyroid medicine

It's important to make sure that people get their medication.


They are trying to get a medication that they don't have the prescription for.


The patient is dealing with a lot of pain.


writing an open letter telling my fellow club members how I've been badly treated

It's expected that people in a club treat each other politely.


Someone in the club breaks the rules and hurts the others and has to go.


You want there to be harmony and cohesiveness in  the club.


Someone has been spreading rumors of you behind your back.


You want to stay a part of the club for a long time to come.


asking someone at the gym to stop talking to me

It is expected that you are kind when others are extroverted and try to speak to you.


They are shouting in a language you do not understand.


You want to be left alone and have expressed as much.


They are being kind when they talk to you.


They are being aggressive and in your face.


looking through a girl's social media to figure out who she is

It's understandable to want to know more about someone.

You are afraid of having to reveal more about yourself in return.


You don't know them and want to stalk them.


You are starting a relationship with them.


The person is your server at a restaurant.


refusing to pay more than half of a misbooked airbnb

Hypothesis: It is wrong to back out on your debts.

the debts are from someone stealing your identity


Hypothesis: It is wrong to back out on your debts.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to back out on your debts.

You owe your parents hundreds of dollars


Hypothesis: It is wrong to back out on your debts.

you have made a commitment to make them right.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to back out on your debts.

a bankruptcy court has forgiven those debts.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to back out on your debts.

you want to maintain a good credit score.


telling my date to give up on his dream of a major career in the music industry

It is sensible to tell people that they should set realistic goals.


You feel you are holding back someone's determination and success.


You feel a realistic goal requires ample determination and work.


You are telling a young child it's unrealistic to pursue their dreams.


It would hurt their feelings or make them feel small.


telling my dad to stop talking about politics

It is okay to avoid controversial topics

You are in counseling with your partner and the topic needs to be addressed.


You're working in the field of counseling.


you feel morally obligated to correct someones incorrect statements.


you are trying to keep the peace in a tense situation.


You are in a televised political debate.


You are eating Thanksgiving dinner with family.


getting too drunk and waking up my roommate who then took care of me

Being inebriated to the point that you cannot function is rude.


You are at a big party where everyone is drunk too.


You are at work surrounded by sober colleagues.


engaging in conversation about alternative medicine and general 'woo-ism' when all of my housemates disagree

It's bad to push other people's buttons.

You want to deal with someone highly emotional.


You are trying to bring out repressed memories in therapy.


The person is already in a bad mood due to other reasons.


you are helping someone figure out an automatic check out machine.


Using your time on any type of spree is a waste.


You can use your time for something much more productive


You have the right to miss work if you need to.


You did back to back overtime shifts that same week.


You are lying about the reason why you don't show up for work.


You are required to perform a life saving operation that day.


making my mom depressed after giving her an ultimatum of choosing me my step dad

It's OK to give someone an ultimatum if the situation calls for it.

You're not willing to accept their decision either way.


You have no other choice and have exhausted all other alternatives.


They are abusing alcohol and treating you poorly.


You're trying to negotiate with a crazed man holding a bus of schoolchildren hostage, and you have no training as a psychologist or hostage negotiator.


You've tried every other tactic with no success.


You are threatening them in the ultimatum.


You should be honest about your intentions with someone.

You are secretly asking their parents to marry them.


You intended to deceive them the whole time.


you wish to have a relationship with them.


you are an undercover police officer and honesty would jeopardize your case


sitting next to a couple in the movie theater

It's good to enjoy movies with other couples.


you need more alone time with your boyfriend.


Your partner is jealous of the other couples.


having a fake Instagram to check up on my ex-girlfriend

It kind of creepy to be someone else online.

You are trying to hide your identity from hackers.


You're trying to avoid sexist or racist harassment.


You pretend to be a kid when you're an adult.


You are a cop posing as a child to catch pedophiles.


You are pretending to be a friend of your ex.


you are the police participating in an online sting.


you are pretending to be a child to speak with other children.


verbalizing exactly what I expect (plus boundaries, rules, etc) from a potential boyfriend/husband on the first date

You should always respect other people's boundaries.


they specifically requested that you do that


someone has broken into your home and you are defending it.


you are flirting and the other person has made it clear they do not like you.


overstepping them will help you save the person from a bad situation.


mentioning my girlfriends lying habit to her and that I'm worried she lies to me

It's understandable if a person finds it difficult to trust someone who is known to lie.


the person has caused problems with their lies in the past.


That person's story is backed up by another, more reliable witness.


That person has lied to them, specifically, several times.


The person doesn't lie about important things.


The person has shown their trustworthiness


not being able to help my sister and not apologizing

It's wrong to not apologize to your family.


you didn't show up to your brother's wedding.


You did nothing wrong and your family is manipulative


They committed an act against you that is extreme or severe.


They only want the best for you and are always supportive.


It's good to use less of things to accomplish a task.

you are trying to break a world record for having the biggest rubber band ball.


you are using a lot of chemicals that are harmful to the environment.


using more means something positive for people.


the task involves getting rid of as much clutter/trash as possible


you don't need to use more of things to result in the same outcome


You are told you need to use every tool at your disposal.


getting an abortion without telling my boyfriend

Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.

You don't believe that abortion is acceptable.


Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.

Your health is at risk from the pregnancy.


Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.

You are in the third trimester and it's not an emergency.


Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.

The fetus is not viable to survive outside of the womb.


Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.


Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.

the fetus is not developing properly to survive outside the womb.


Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.

It is forbidden by your religion and you do not feel it is right.


Hypothesis: It is okay to get an abortion.

You are not currently capable of supporting a child.


not dating shorter guys but also not telling them their height is the reason

Not wanting something to do with someone based on how they look is wrong.


They have no control over the physical features you don't like.


They have an offensive sign tattooed on their forehead.


You are just being mean and realize you shouldn't judge appearances.


They have scars from a bad car accident.


coming out to my extended family even though my parents don't want me to

It's good to honor your parents' wishes.


The wishes are to remove your shoes inside the house.


Unless they want you to kill your spouse.


they want you to marry somebody in an arranged marriage.


they are reasonable and for your own good.


not telling my buddy that I used to bang his new girlfriend

It is wrong to keep secrets from your friends.

your secrets have to do with your significant other


the secrets have to do with your friends significant others


You're trying to harm your friend with the secret.


It's something devastating that will hurt your friends.


It's for a party you're throwing for them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to your friends.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to your friends.

If it were a matter of life or death, I would consider stretching the truth with my best friend.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to your friends.

This friend has been there for me, and I for them, and a lie would taint that bond forever.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to your friends.

You are planning to surprise them with a car.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to your friends.

You are going to play a mean prank on them.


It is understandable to be upset wa friend no longer wants to be friends with you.


the person was a bad friend to begin with.


The reason they no longer want to be friends with you is that you screamed abuse at them in front of all your other friends.


there was no reason for them to end your relationship.


you started dating her boyfriend when she was still with him.


reporting my ex for admiting to abusing our kids

You shouldn't report someone in an attempt to get them in trouble.

their behavior could cause someone harm.


they are breaking the law and putting others at risk.


you are setting them up and they have really not done anything wrong.


they are trying to hurt or kill someone.


you were with them when you were doing something wrong.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

Telling the truth would cause a lot of unnecessary hurt.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

You  wish to build trust and develop intimacy in your relations.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

Especially if you are lying to loved ones.


Hypothesis: Lying is wrong.

you didnt want to give the thief the true code to your safe


telling my parents to not be so controlling over wedding plans

You should let your children plan their own wedding.


You are paying for the whole thing and would like some input.


Your children are covering the financial costs.


making sarcastic or passive aggressive comments to my boyfriend regarding the way he treats me

You should be direct in your communications with other people.

the situation calls for a subtle approach.


if you're dealing with an autistic person.


You are in a country where being direct is considered rude.


being irritated with my roommate's childishness

It's good to step away when someone you room with gets on your nerves.

Unless they have discovered this and are doing it on purpose as a way to control you.


You think that you may want to hurt them physically.


You question why you have to be the one who is inconvenienced.


The student lounge has interesting and fun people.


You know if you leave they'll take your stuff.


not telling my fiancé that his dad kissed me

It is wrong to withhold information from a partner.

You have inside information about a corporate merger.


The information affects your partner's job.


The information is of no interest to a partner.


The information may be so lacking in verification it isn't worth repeating.


The information concerns a surprise for them.


Your partner would want to break up if they knew the truth.


kicking an Old Lady off a machine at the Gym

Hypothesis: It is wrong not to respect your elders.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to respect your elders.

Especially if your elders are good people.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to respect your elders.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to respect your elders.

they are verbally abusive and disrespectful to you.


Hypothesis: It is wrong not to respect your elders.

They are defenseless and have an illness


It's ok to let your friend know your concern about their partner.


You are telling them their partner is cheating but have no real proof.


You recognize the symptoms of a serious condition from personal experience.


Your friend has told you to stay out of their business.


You saw their partner doing drugs with shady people.


You think it may hurt them or make them angry.


You think it's something important that they need to know.


You should never make fun of someone for their appearance.

You are one of the judges in the 'Ugliest Dog' Contest.


You yourself could look a lot better too.


They are a clown trying to make people laugh.


They have a physical or mental handicap.


You are a professional comedian and it is part of your routine.


The person's feelings will be hurt by your comments.


not wanting to dive an hour to hangout without booze

It's expected that you wouldn't want to participate in an activity if you thought you wouldn't enjoy it.

unless you're participating to make friends and family happy


The activity could potentially harm you.


You think that you will get hurt trying that activity.


you're doing it for someone you care about


The activity is something you're allergic to doing.


abusing induction loops at left turn lanes in traffic just to go first

Hypothesis: It is rude to cut in traffic.

you are an emergency vehicle who just got an emergency call


Hypothesis: It is rude to cut in traffic.

you are just in a rush and might cause an accident


Hypothesis: It is rude to cut in traffic.

You are in a rush to get to the hospital


Hypothesis: It is rude to cut in traffic.

The person who was cut off had the right of way


Hypothesis: It is rude to cut in traffic.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cut in traffic.

You are a police officer trying to catch a criminal.


Hypothesis: It is rude to cut in traffic.

It could cause danger to other drivers and passengers.


People are expected to want to go to social events.


There family has been invited to an event


They are an introverts and do go to parties.


They are a blogger and want to have something to talk about on their blog


It is ok to cancel on a client for good reasons like emergencies or illnesses.


You have already canceled before on the client.


You have a good relationship with the client.


You will lose the client if you don’t go meet them


You are under contract to still go no matter the circumstance.


Especially if it involves a family member.


asking him to sell an old, unused car to pay for our wedding

It is bad to keep items that are no longer useful.

They will become useful again when there is  a family member that is the right age.


you are trying to clear the clutter in your home.


being pissed off with my boss for going back on a promise

It's not a good idea to show your anger to a boss.


you want them to know that you're level headed.


You don't need to work at this job and don't care if you get fired.


You need to keep this job to support your family.


A potential client chose another firm after your great pitch.


Hypothesis: It's good to make a written contract.


Hypothesis: It's good to make a written contract.

You're talking about relationship boundaries.


Hypothesis: It's good to make a written contract.

You're determining your role in a new company.


Hypothesis: It's good to make a written contract.

You are making a large purchase, like a house.


Hypothesis: It's good to make a written contract.

you already have a verbal contract in place.


It is rude to miss an event you were invited to.


You caught the flu and don't want to infect others.


You shouldn't keep pets away from loved ones.


not doing school work during Spring Break

It's fine to take a break from working hard.


Especially if you haven't had a vacation in a while.


You have only worked 20 hours this week.


You have already worked 60 hours this week.


The quality of your work is starting to suffer because you are tired.


You need to finish the report in 5 minutes.


You've been working 6 hours without a break.


not contributing money to my uncle's memorial after I said I would while at his funeral

You should always donate money to someone's memorial.


You cared about the person and where the money will go.


You don't agree with the life they led being moral.


exposing the Mormon church for the fraud it is to my entirely-mormon family

It is okay to have different views to your family.


You and your family are very religious and your view strays from that conservative opinion.


You are from different generations and have a more realistic view of the current state of the world


Everyone is trying new things and you want to appreciate everyone.


turning left into a parking lot in Front of a Stopped School Bus

It's good to drive cautiously near school buses.


The school bus is letting kids out on roads where there are no sidewalks.


not wanting cousin to come to new years celebration

It's expected that some members of your family are unwanted because they're annoying.


They steal your money to spend on clothes.


Your uncle preaches and criticizes everyone in the family


they're being that way because they don't like you.


Everyone in your family was raised right


using the shared dryers while someone else has stuff in the washers they clearly meant to dry afterwards

Hypothesis: You shouldn't hog things.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hog things.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hog things.

you are the only one needing to use something.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't hog things.

You have a lot more than the people you're with.


not wanting to date my transgender best friend

It's not okay to judge someone by their race, gender, or religion.


It is to make concessions for skills they may lack through no fault of there own and decide they should still be eligible for something despite lacking a particular requirement.


You would not want to be judged by those things.


asking loud and all around dickish roommate to shut up

It's understandable to get upset at someone for being too loud.


You're concentrating on studying for a test


It's your children and you've told them to keep it down.


not taking one of my player's complaints about being uncomfortable seriously

Don't brush off complaints as something that isn't serious.

Someone's child injured their arm as a result.


The person filled your inbox with three thousand messages in an hour.


The complaints are coming from a "Karen"


Many people are complaining about the same thing


the person complaining is very distraught.


You hear them all the time and know they are invalid.


The complaints are the same and coming from people who never complained before.


You are talking to a rude customer in a store


breaking up with my depressed girlfriend

It's good to remove yourself from a toxic relationship.


your partner has agreed to go to counseling with you.


You are negatively affected by the other person.


not wanting to pay more of the bills when my gf and I move in together

It's not okay to not do your fair share when you are doing something with someone.

you did more than your fair share last time.


You have agreed to take a backseat on the project.


Your partner is sick and cannot help as much.