clapping back on a woman who turned out to be deranged after she made a huge scene on me buying meat products in a grocery store

It is rude to make comments on other people's shopping habits.

They spend too much money and you're trying to help them.


They have the means to buy whatever they want.


they are spending money they don't have.


Unless they are your children and spending your money.


Especially if they're spending their own money.


They are adults and can make up their own minds


not wanting a second date with a woman who lied about being trans

It's wrong to lie about your sexual identity.

You don't want to come out because it's no one's business, or you don't want to risk being killed by a cisgender person, or be misgendered all of a sudden when you weren't before.


Someone else's consent depends on the truth


Your family makes it unsafe for you to be open about your sexual identity.


You're lying to your spouse about your sexual identity.


You shouldn't yell at your family members.


You're trying to calm things down during an argument.


they are about to step in front of a speeding train


they are children and you want to set a good example


The teenager has done something that they know is wrong.


The baby is just crying because it it hungry.


they're a young child and can't understand why you're mad


It's not okay to make assumptions about what people mean when we are just trying to take advantage of the situation.

They're dead and there'll never be a way to know exactly what they meant.


What the person said was so simple it could only be interpreted one way.


It would be easy to ask the person for clarification.


You are a political leader making decisions for your voters.


You want to walk over others to get ahead


It's important to give proper notice when you are leaving your job.

Your employer stole your retirement funds.


You want to maintain healthy references.


You found out that your employer was acting unethically.


Your replacement needs time to train for the position.


the job is making you do illegal things.


You want a good recommendation for future job applications.


trying to lose contact with a good friend

It's okay to be hurt if your friend doesn't want to be in contact with you.

You have done something unforgivable to your friend.


Your friend has become immersed in a new romantic relationship.


You have done something horrible to make your friend not want to contact you.


Your friend doesn't tell you why they don't want to be in contact.


You treated them morally wrong to begin with.


You've relied on each other before in the past.


Your friend is setting healthy boundaries with you.


Your friend did not tell you why they went No Contact.


always bringing my own snacks into the movie theater

It's illicit to bring your own snacks to the movie theater.

you are diabetic and need special snacks.


there are plenty of snacks to buy inside.


You're very poor and can't afford the outrageous prices and want a different snack too.


You don't want to get kicked out during the movie.


You are allergic to everything they sell and asked the manager for permission to bring it with you.


The already sell the snacks you brought with you.


You have dietary restrictions that preclude you eating from the snack bar.


They movie theater has signs about it posted everywhere.


You bring snacks that contain allergens.


getting mad at somebody depressed and suicidal for going offline without notice

It's understandable that you would be concerned about a depressed person disappearing unexpectedly

They mentioned they were thinking about getting into treatment.


They were know for going on impromptu hunting trips by themselves.


They had been giving away their treasured possessions recently.


they disappeared under mysterious circumstances


They're known to commit themselves to a mental hospital seeking help.


blocking and dumping my gf after she messaged me on snap about her bullying a mentally challebged person and laughing about it

You shouldn't associate with people that are bullies.

You are a therapist trained to help people be less aggressive.


You start a national anti-bully campaign.


You're trying to help them change their bullying ways.


They are bullying you or someone you care about.


The people that are bullying you are afraid of them.


Your school has a no tolerance policy for bullying.


asking my ex girlfriend for her cousins phone number

You shouldn't get involved with your ex's family.


You have a child or children together who spend time with their family.


You built a nice relationship with them independent of your ex.


You shouldn't expect someone you broke up with to care about making sure you get your stuff.

The relationship ended on good terms and you are still friends.


They were deeply in love with you and you hurt their feelings.


You promptly return their belongings when you ask for yours.


You just throw their stuff in the trash.


They have promised you that you will get it back.


You were very mean to the person you broke up with.


telling my classmate off for taking photos and videos of me

It's rude to take photos and videos of someone without their permission.


They are taken in public where it's not illegal.


You are using a security camera and they are on your property.


They are in public, where there is no expectation of privacy.


They are in the privacy of their own home.


getting a tattoo knowing my bf doesn't like tattoos

You shouldn't get something that your partner doesn't approve of.


It's cheap and harmless and they don't have to find out.


Buying it would make you run low on money for essentials.


You really want it and pay for it with your own money.


The two of you have agreed on not spending money.


outing my best friend's cheating (now ex-) girlfriend in public

It's petty behavior to call someone out about their indiscretions in public.

The person's indiscretions are something that the public needs to be aware of.


The topic is one that will only embarrass the person.


Others didn't know about the indiscretions.


They can stop the behavior when you tell them.


They are clearly making an inappropriate scene.


They are a stranger being rude to people on a bus.


You can just wait until you get home to do it.


You should support your boyfriend when he is having family problems.


Those problems are related to him dating you.


He is finally growing a backbone to stand up to his parents.


your boyfriend is the one who is causing the family problems by his inappropriate behavior.


his family is being unreasonable in what they are expecting of him.


He and his family are involved in illegal activities.


telling my now ex gf that I had sex with another girl

It's good to be honest with your partner.

You are sharing a secret that you were told in confidence.


It will help your partner to hear the truth.


Being honest would put you in physical danger.


It is important to you that they trust you.


you know something that would just hurt your partner


you have an open and honest relationship.


You know they've been lying or cheating on you.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


trying to teach my 7 yo nephew the meaning of the word compromise

Hypothesis: It is good to teach children.


Hypothesis: It is good to teach children.


refusing to chip in on household supplies and cleaning for an apartment that I rent at but do not live in

You should expect to take care of a place you rent even if you don't live in it.

You've subleased the place to other tenants.


You are planning to lease or sublease to other tenants.


The person you're renting from has agreed to take care of it.


The place you rent needs repair or cleaning even if your'e not there.


You have sublet the apartment to someone else.


You agreed to keep the place clean in your lease.


Your landlord has let it go without maintenance for years.


leaving my friend for another without noticing

You shouldn't hide away from your friends.


You are playing a game with your friends that invovles hiding.


They hurt your feelings and won't apologize.


You've done something you're ashamed of and hurt one of them and need time away.


Your friends want to hang out with you and enjoy your company.


yelling at someone loudly doing weighted squats in the gym

It's polite to bring any problems you have with someone up reasonably instead of yelling and screaming.

You're in a very loud construction zone.


They are currently yelling and screaming at you.


You want to resolve your problems like adults.


they are chatting with you calmly already.


They recently beat up your little brother.


You are talking to them inside of a museum.


You've tried to be polite before and the person just doesn't listen to a word you're saying.


This is the first time you're bringing it to their attention and they are kind.


declining close friend's wedding invitation, in fear of facing her partner

It's rude to miss your friend's wedding.


Something came up that was out of your control and caused you to miss it.


You are hungover and can't get out of bed.


repeatedly turning off the central heater

You should turn off something if someone keeps turning it back on.


They are turning on a light to perform a delicate procedure.


it's the news with an important message.


Especially if they're really not using it.


not being happy that my sister is pregnant because she owes me over 5 grand

It's okay to be angry with people that don't pay you back what they owe.

They had informed you that they don't have the money yet.


They've been in a coma and they can't do anything about it.


You've always been prompt in repaying them in the past.


They are always spending money at the bar.


not knowing if I should have to trust in boyfriend or not

It is important to trust the people you get into relationships with.


They have never given you a reason not to trust them.


The relationship is a work only relationship.


they have never lied about anything before


They've proven repeatedly that they'll take advantage of your trust.


they have done untrustworthy things in the past


they behave well and act trusting toward you


wanting my friend to stop being friends with another person

It is rude to try to micromanage who your friend can be friends with.


You know the other person is toxic towards them.


You don't want to be told who you can be friends with.


Your friend always hangs out with drug addicts


Your friend is intelligent and knows what they want in life


You know the people will use and hurt your friend who is too nice to anyone.


You don't want your friend to spend time with anyone but you.


You know for a fact that their friends are drug users or criminals.


You are just jealous and thinking of yourself.


wanting to know if my friend still has feelings for her first love

It is expected that sometimes friends will talk to each other about their relationships.

They are all single and not dating by choice.


The friend tells all of your friends everything you've talked about.


You want their support whenever you've got a problem.


They are close to each other and care about each other.


cutting my friend off "cold turkey" for continuously saying they want to date me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut your friends off.

They're about to say something that would make them look really bad.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut your friends off.

They're trying to share their innermost feelings.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut your friends off.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut your friends off.

You are a passenger in a vehicle that is about to crash.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut your friends off.

They are driving in the car next to you.


wanting to break up with my gf before the holidays

There is no good time to break up with someone

You just found out you've been cheated on


Your significant other is on their deathbed


The relationship is toxic and you know you need to leave


They become abusive and you are in danger.


You're about to move to a different country and you leave tomorrow.


They've been there for you through thick and thin.


making my mum wait an extra 15 minutes after school

Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.

They arrived 20 minutes early for an appointment.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.

You made them promise to be on time for the movie and then you ended up running late.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.

You are late to your hair appointment, causing a delay in service.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.

They were told there would be a wait time.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.

You don't want to be paid back right away.


not giving my gf a free pass on her vacation

Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

The relationship is between acquaintances.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

You are only using someone for physical pleasure


Hypothesis: Trust is important in a relationship.

The relationship is so casual it doesn't matter.


telling my friends that they're being rude even though I'm annoying a lot

It's okay to expect friends to treat you with respect.


you always treat them with uttermost respect.


You have shown great disrespect to them.


You have treated your friends with the utmost respect.


not letting my brother smoke weed with me

It's expected that you do things with your siblings.

Your siblings will have nothing to do with you.


Your siblings are young and need your guidance.


They are games that will help them learn.


Your siblings are always asking you to play with them.


It's normal to ask out someone you are interested in.

The person only dates people who are not the same gender as you.


They are single and seem interested in you.


paying a 2 dollar tip on a drink at a bar, partially in change

It is less than ideal to receive change as part of a monetary tip.


The change is in very small denominations and doesn't amount to much.


You provided amazing service to your customers.


There is a lot of change that equals a lot of dollars.


A lot of the change is small like pennies and is cumbersome to hold.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

you need to grab their attention quickly


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

You see a large tree branch that is close to falling onto a group of people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

Your grandma telling you you will live longer if you lose weight wasn't meant to be rude, but loving.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

You're yelling, "Stop, thief!" at a real thief.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

you are trying to save them from being run over by a car.


being mad at my boyfriend when he brings up his ex

You should discuss issues with your partner.

You are planning a surprise party for them.


Your partner has asked you why you seem distant.


You are around other people that don't need to hear it.


There has been a lack of communication over the issues prior.


leaving dinner with my gf and her parents

It's polite to have dinner with your partner and her family.


your partner's family's dinner foods all contain meat and you are a vegan.


your partner's family has offered to make your favorite meal.


They don't approve of you because you are not religious


telling my friend to break up with her boyfriend

You shouldn't interfere in other people's relationships.


You know one is lying to the other over a major thing like money, drugs or an affair.


They have asked you to mind your own business in the past.


They are your friends and their relationship is toxic


One of the people in the relationship is in danger.


not wanting to share my food with my girlfriend

It is rude to expect someone to share their food.


you have a long history of regularly sharing food with them.


you have not asked them if they would like to share their food.


consciously ignoring my mother starting random conversations in the middle of other conversations

Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your parent.

You're taking a test for your online high school.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your parent.

They're trying to talk to you about how much they love you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your parent.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your parent.

You are driving and cannot pick up their call or return their text.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your parent.

You haven't checked in yet and you're under 18.


keeping the Xmas gift I got for my friend

You shouldn't keep gifts you bought for other people.

You decide to give them something else as a gift.


You have nothing else to give them as a gift.


You know they would really like the gift.


You found out they already have that gift.


You found something else they would like better.


wanting my best friend to talk to me before dating my ex

It is good to tell friends your expectations.


Your friends copy you and become competitive.


Your friends will guide you along the way.


you are telling them information they need to know


not supporting a small business that donates to a cause

As a member of a community you should buy as much locally as possible.

Unless you need something that isn't available locally.


Especially if supporting your community is important to you.


You need things which are not available locally.


Your community is small and depends on local business.


The local businesses are all dishonest and treat customers horribly.


The local business owners are generous and give back to the community as much as they can.


You can't find what you want in your community stores.


Your community has a lot of local businesses that you go to.


leaving my so while she's grieving a friend

It's expected that people be there for their loved ones when they're mourning.


They're mourning the loss of a celebrity they didn't know.


They supported you when you were morning.


They didn't know there was a death in the family.


The people helped their loved ones while the person was passing away.


There is a rift in the family and you don't feel safe being around family


your aunt and uncle were married for 45 years and your aunt has never stayed home alone before.


You are very close to your family as a whole


telling my wife to shush when she was laughing loudly

Hypothesis: It's rude to laugh too loudly.


Hypothesis: It's rude to laugh too loudly.


Hypothesis: It's rude to laugh too loudly.

You saw someone fall down in public on accident


charging to take pictures for some people

You shouldn't charge some people for things and not others.

You are compassionate and often donate things to the needy.


You advertise a specific price for all customers.


You're only giving employees free products.


You're determining who to charge based on race.


You work on a sliding scale at your business.


You are making those choices based on internal biases.


It's okay to be upset if someone doesn't want to be friends with you.

The person has already told you several times that they don't want to be friends.


They have acted like they did want to be friends with you and taken advantage of your generosity.


That person is the popular kid in school.


The person only doesn't want to be your friend because of a misunderstanding.


They are on social media and a celebrity.


They went to school with you but denied your friend request.


You shouldn't give ultimatums to people.


You're giving the ultimatums to your romantic partners.


they are not able to fulfill their part of the deal.


not wanting to meet my transexual grandmother for the first time

It is not okay to not accept people for being themselves


Who they are is hurtful to other people emotionally


Who they are doesn’t affect anyone’s life like who they love


You are trying to torture someone for the government.


That person is acting violent to others.


That person is nice and helpful to others.


Those people "being themselves" hurts you


It is OK to have a preference of how tall men should be.

You ignore all men shorter than that height no matter what.


You fall for someone because of who they are instead of what they look like


You are over 7 foot tall and need someone who understands what it's like to be so tall.


You require a height of a specific number of inches.


It's okay to complain about things your neighbor does.


They are breaking the HOA rules of the neighborhood.


You're complaining about normal things like cooking and cleaning.


Your neighbor plays music late into the night.


You don't pay the home owner's association.


There are set guidelines for the neighborhood.


What they're doing really doesn't affect you.


What they are doing is causing problems for you.


not wanting to pick up alcohol for my sister

Hypothesis: It's fine to abstain from alcohol.

Your friend wants you to sample the wine their company is making.


Hypothesis: It's fine to abstain from alcohol.


Hypothesis: It's fine to abstain from alcohol.

Your religion requires you to drink a sip of wine as part of communion.


Hypothesis: It's fine to abstain from alcohol.

You've previously had trouble controlling how much you drink.


Hypothesis: It's fine to abstain from alcohol.

You rub your sobriety in other people's faces.


suggesting no kids allowed to a surprise 30 year old birthday

It's expected that children will be invited to a birthday party.


They are part of a friend group at school.


The birthday party is for an adult and is at a bar.


refusing to give the seller more money to retrieve my stuff

You should never have to give more money to receive your items.


You are purchasing items from a retail store.


You signed a contract allowing someone to collect interest.


Your items were being held by a relative.


There was an error with customs or delivery.


There is a justifiable cost added on to them.


There are no costs that could be reasonably added to them.


getting mad at my boyfriend for eating my food

You should always ask before taking someone's food.


You don't want them to retaliate against you for taking their food.


It is a child having a tantrum and throwing their food everywhere.


They do not have very much for themselves.


They've gotten up to go dancing and are clearly done.


You have an unspoken agreement with your significant other.


not giving back someone's games that *might* be theirs

Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

You are planning a surprise for someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

You need to lie to get out of a situation safely.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

You're lying about someone's food being vegan.


not carpooling with a coworker on a ~4 hour work trip

Hypothesis: It is okay to want your own space.

You're on the space shuttle where there's very little room.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want your own space.

You don't want to have a conflict from constantly being around someone.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want your own space.

You're deployed on a submarine in the Navy.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want your own space.

You live alone in a house in the countryside.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want your own space.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want your own space.

You are traveling on the subway at rush hour.


deleting my fathers facebook page, after he passed less than 2 months ago

You should check with your family members before you delete your late-parent's social media page.

Your family members didn't care much for your parent.


Your relatives were very close with your parent.


You were an only child and have no relatives.


Your siblings want to save those memories.


The other family members know what the parents wanted


saying there's nothing I want from my parents in their will

You should always respect the wishes of your parents.


Your parents supported you from the beginning


Your parents are trying to hold something over your head.


They have always been right in the past.


Your parents wish harmful things uypon you.


Your parents wishes involve basic decency and kindness.


Your parents are very religious and aren't accepting of you dating another woman.


You have a very traditional family with very traditional values.


Your parents are suffering from dementia and wish for harmful things.


You live under their roof and they support you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.

You have tried different types of treatment and they haven't worked.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.

You have damaged your life and damaged others because of it.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.

Your addiction is caused by misinformation.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.

Your addiction causes your friends and family harm.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.

You are actively endangering others with your drinking.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.

it's only one glass of wine a night to help you relax.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be addicted to alcohol.

your drinking causes harm to others because you get out of control when you drink.


not dancing with a girl at her quinceanera

It's ok to not dance with someone you aren't into.

You are a professional dancer and they are just your dance partner


You're part of a competitive dance team together.


They want to dance very close during a slow song.


There is someone else who wants to dance with you.


It's wrong to expect something to be done early just for you.


You would be inconveniencing a lot of people


There are a lot of customers ahead of you.


You paid extra for the jeweler to finish repairing a ring before opening hours.


You came in last minute for a birthday cake and there were many orders ahead of you


getting mad at my friend for putting my sleeping meds in my tea without me knowing

It's okay to get mad at someone who majorly violates your rights

Getting mad will provoke retaliation from that person.


They have a mental condition where they do not know any better.


You lost your rights by becoming a prisoner.


There is no legal recourse for what happened.


not wanting to tell my so goodnight stories anymore because she always falls asleep

It is understandable that you don't want to perform an action if your loved one does not seem to appreciate it.

They asked you to do it for yourself and not them.


You have not talked to your loved one about how you feel.


They ignored you in the past when you performed the action.


They have been taking advantage of you your whole life.


not wanting to split a sandwich with my then-gf even though we had agreed to go halfsies

Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.

Each person eats a separate half of the sandwich.


Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.

One person bites where the other person bit.


Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.

You've hygienically cut the sandwich with gloves on and a clean knife


Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.

you tore the sandwich apart with dirty hands and have already taken bites out of it


Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.

You cut off the parts the other person touched first.


Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.

One person recently contracted a cold and is sneezing.


Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.


Hypothesis: Sharing a sandwich can exchange germs.

You both take bites from the same piece.


submitting a short story for a competiton based on a real life story

It is expected that authors draw inspiration for their writing from their lives

They only write about issues regarding non fiction things


They want the writing to feel authentic.


The author writes hard science fiction set in the far future.


The author is writing a realistic, character-driven novel.


not wanting to accept a refund/return on an item that the buyer admitted to damaging

You shouldn't try to return an item that you damaged.


you have a special warranty that covers damages.


The item broke down before you damaged it.


being upset after donating to someone who come to find out didn't need it

It is understandable to be upset when you are lied to.

The person who lied had good intentions, like a surprise party.


You were completely betrayed by a spouse.


the liar is trying to spare your feelings


The lie was about a surprise party for you.


You have given the person lying multiple chances to tell you the truth.


You've lied to the other person much more than they've lied to you.


The person lied about the fact your child didn't actually die a decade ago.


You're expected to behave in a way that's acceptable to people you're living with.

All of your roommates are gone for the weekend and you have the place to yourself.


You eat all of the food from the fridge even if you didn't buy it.


They are your parents and its their house


They are supporting you and you live there free.


The people you're living with are adults and not paying rent.


refusing to pay my ex-roommate for furniture I don't get to keep

It is foolish to pay money for something that you do not get to own.


you could resell the item later, if you owned it.


You're trying to have more of an experiential purchase.


Owning the same item costs a similar price.


You live in an area where owning a home is not possible due to prices.


You are crafting something for someone else.


The money spent doesn't help with life expenses.


it is your right to check social media as much or as little as you want to.

You are infringing on your paid work hours.


You only log in to social media from home, in off hours.


You think you may have an addiction and are spending more time on Facebook then on work


You are waiting for updates to see if your uncle is out of surgery.


A part of your job is checking social media.


You are trying to set a healthy boundary.


Your job is promoted through your social media posts.


You don't have a lot of followers online.


cutting Mother-in-law out of my life or at least have nothing to do with her

Hypothesis: It's ok to end bad relationships.

You don't want to set healthy boundaries in your life.


Hypothesis: It's ok to end bad relationships.

You want to set healthy boundaries in your life.


Hypothesis: It's ok to end bad relationships.


Hypothesis: It's ok to end bad relationships.

You are no longer romantically interested in your partner.


Hypothesis: It's ok to end bad relationships.

The other person wants to make things better


Hypothesis: It's ok to end bad relationships.

The other person will never change their ways


being upset that my boyfriend is blowing me off for his parents

It's okay to want our partners to spend time with us rather than doing other things.

This behavior becomes obsessive and compulsory.


We have both been working a lot and not getting to see each other much.


they spend all their time exclusively with us.


the other things are illegal and/or dangerous.


We don't let our partners do anything independently of us.


They are really busy with work or school.


they are hanging out with other friends.


not wishing my roommate good luck on the first day of her new job

You should always wish your roommates good luck.

Your roommates are messy and annoying and never clean up anything so you hate them


They are playing against you in Fantasy Football.


You want them to fail at a certain sports game you are betting on.


It's good for friends to work thru their issues with each other.


One friend has asked to be left alone to deal with their own issues.


One friend is really struggling and asks for help.


One friend has physically wounded the other's sister.


One of the friends violently attacked the other.


asking my recently laid off roommate to help keep our apartment clean

It is rude to not do your part to keep a shared living space clean.

Someone else hosted a party while you were gone and made a huge mess.


your roommates do their part to keep the place tidy


It's wrong to exclude others for reasons over which they have no control.

They are putting other people in danger.


They are disabled and are just making people uncomfortable.


They are disabled and can’t drive themselves to where you are


The person will not get to experience friendship


making the chaplain move his car because he was parked in the wrong spot

It's OK to make someone move their car no matter who they are.

The person is disabled and needs a handicapped spot.


You're handicapped and someone who is not is in your space.


They were just in an accident and are hurt.


Their car is parked in the space that is designated for them.


They are blocking the route of an emergency vehicle.


being upset with my gf for constantly bringing up ex and their sex life

Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about your sex life.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about your sex life.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about your sex life.

You are sitting in the middle of church.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about your sex life.

You are at your sex therapists' office and he asks.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about your sex life.

Your partner values discreetness and secrecy in your relationship.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about your sex life.

You are talking about it with your sexual partner.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about your sex life.

You are having the conversation in the workplace.


showing disrespect and hostility toward my autistic roommate

Hypothesis: It is wrong to be disrespectful.

Authority is acting in an unfair or corrupt manner.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be disrespectful.

You're not absolutely sure you are in the right.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be disrespectful.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be disrespectful.

You are being disrespectful to anti-abortion activists at a rally


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be disrespectful.

It is the only way to get your point across.


creating a positive attitude to the point of dis-ingenuity

It's wrong to create a false positive attitude.


You are putting on a brave face for your kids.


Your therapist can't help you while you lie to yourself.


You're at a job you don't like and must be courteous to difficult customers anyway.


You value honest and integrity in your relationship.


It makes you feel better about yourself.


being upset that my wife and dog only seem to care about each other

It's okay to be upset if someone is ignoring you.

Someone is ignoring you as a part of a game.


They are busy at work and you're interrupting.


The person is concentrating on an important task.


You are trying to tell them something they need to know to not get hurt.


They're ignoring because of something petty.


blocking my housemates devices from our broadband because he hasn't paid for months

Roommates should try to work out disagreements.

Their disagreement can only be solved by someone moving out.


They have signed a long term lease together.


Unless one of them tried to murder the other.


They're going to continue being roomates.


It is over something trivial like using the TV.


One roommate is causing harm to another.


They can't survive without each other's help.


It's understandable that sometimes people question religious belief and practice.


Unless they have made a career of their religion.


Especially if they are scientifically minded.


They are highly devout members of their church.


They have a partner or friend who is already questioning things.


not paying WiFi at a house I moved out of

It's bad to expect others to pay your way.


Others have far more money than you and are glad to be of help.


Others are struggling financially as well and don't really want to.


not wanting to visit my crazy aunt on thanksgiving

You should try tone down your eccentricities around people they grate on.

You dislike the people and want to annoy them.


the person is trying to suppress your personality.


You don't particularly care what those people think.


you are trying to make a good impression.


cutting contact with my ex-girlfriend a month after having cheated

It's fine to stop talking to a former romantic partner.

You have children together and have to interact for that reason.


You have children together which requires it.


talking about my friends behind their backs

If your friends hear what you say behind their backs, you should not expect them to be nice to you.

You praise them behind their backs as well as to their faces.


You've been sharing their secrets with people they hate.


You refuse to talk to them in person about the issue.


You were overheard planning your friend's surprise party.


You say mean and hurtful things about your friend.


It's wrong to make friends just to achieve something.


You're trying to manipulate them into giving you money.


They're using you for your professional contacts as well.


They believe you sincerely like them for who they are.


You need friends for a political position


taking my friends names off our "group" project

It's wrong to betray a friend in an important matter.


You are a mandated reporter and the friend told you about being a victim of abuse


The important matter is the fact they're molesting their children.


The important matter is that they're sheltering political refugees.


you have promised to keep their confidences.


A second matter develops which is even more important.


A friend is needed to make the matter important.


It's understandable that sometimes, what's kind to one person could actually endanger someone else, so people make a choice to care about safety more.

You're on a sinking boat with only 1 life preserver.


Everyone gets out of the situation unscathed.


i just cant come up with something for this one


The parent wants to make sure that their child doesn't get hurt.


flaking on seeing my bfs family for Christmas get together

You shouldn't flake out on plans you made.


Your friend is stranded and has to get home to watch their children.


you accepted other plans even thought you were aware of these.


telling my sister not to call her kid an asshole

You are not supposed to tell other people how to treat their children.


Especially if you don't have any yourself.


the people are complete strangers to you.


telling a lady I wasn't in charge of an event

It's good to keep people informed of the situation during an event.

They are busy and do not need the information.


You are trying to prevent widespread panic.


There is an instant replay being reviewed.


you plan to surprise people with a special guest.


There is private information like victim names involved.


You are in a crowded movie theater watching a movie.


You are leading them during an emergency.


giving my friend advice on how to raise his dog

It is okay to be helpful on a subject you are knowledgeable in.

The people you are helping are more knowledgeable than you.


The people you are helping have very little knowledge of the subject.


You're helping people commit violent crime.


You're helping people who can't afford to pay a professional.


stating to an ex-friend that I'm not disposable or a means to pass time by

Hypothesis: It is good to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand up for yourself.

You're about to be assaulted by a large angry mob of people.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand up for yourself.

You want to be respected by others for not being a pushover.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand up for yourself.

You are being verbally bullied by your classmates.


Always let a friend know when you have you limits regarding helping them out.

They need you to drive them to the emergency room.


You want to try to be there for them in any way possible.


Your limit is essentially never wanting to help.


Your friend is asking you to do something that makes you feel unsafe.


You don't care about having healthy boundaries with friends.


You want to set a boundary with a friend.


not wanting to reconnect with my last living family member

It's selfish to not consider the needs of members of your family.


They haven't spoken to your for ten years.


They took care of you when you were very ill.


You live independently from your family.


You haven't seen any of them for a decade after they abandoned you.


Your family doesn't want anything to do with you.


Your family often tries to do things to help you.


watching movies my Wife wants to see without her

It is wrong to go behind your spouse's back.


You find out that they charged over $2500 to the credit card in 3 months on fast food and you want to remove their access to the card.


Your spouse promises to stop spending so much money as long as you give them 3 months to prove themself.


You're trying to plan a surprise party for them.


You're seeing someone romantically other than your spouse.


It's fine to accept things if they are offered to you.


Those things are Schedule I controlled substances.


Those things are free samples at a grocery store.


You're being offered food you are allergic to.


It is your birthday and it is a present.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie.

You're lying to keep from being arrested by the enforcers of a corrupt regime.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie.

You're lying in order to make someone fear they'll be fired.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie.

you're lying to cover up something that hurt someone


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie.

You're lying to help someone get to a surprise event.


Hypothesis: It's bad to lie.

The lie helps a person to feel better about themselves.


not factoring my family's opinion about bully breeds into my decision to get a dog

It is wrong to judge a dog by it's breed.

The dog is a danger to you and your family.


You expect a dog to be violent, even though its behavior has always been friendly.


You have personally seen attacks by a certain breed on humans or animals


The breed has never hurt someone in history


You have been bitten by more than one of the same breed.


There are other breeds that are just as violent.


assuming a customer had a girlfriend/wife/sister

You shouldn't assume others have partners.


They are showing romantic affection toward someone else.


They mentioned something about it before.


You see them with a ring on their finger


telling trainers at the gym to stop touching me

It's OK to let someone know when you're not comfortable.

The teacher you are telling is married to the person you are uncomfortable with and may not believe you.


You are telling a trusted teacher how you feel about a classmate.


It is your elderly grandmother and she is harmlessly pinching your cheeks.


You have previously said you are comfortable.


It is hard to get personal space since you are if a crowded elevator.


You should tell people if you don't like to be touched.

You are wearing a mascot costume as part of your job.


You're at the doctor's office and have to be touched during at operation.


You're meeting someone for the first time.


restraining a 13 year old from hitting me with his football any longer

It's wrong to put your hands on another person.

You are rescuing that person from drowning.


They have said they do not like to be touched.


they have put their hands on your first.


They have given you permission to touch them.


They are a child and have done nothing wrong.


not wanting to be my sister's surrogate after she was my caregiver

You should respect your family member who was your caregiver.

They took you upstairs and beat you when you were bad


They raised you like you were their own son or daughter


Your caregiver sacrificed a lot for you.


They changed your diapers while you were an adult


It's understandable to be curious about your ex.


Unless he's a horrible person you couldn't wait to get away from.


Your current partner forbids you from looking them up


Your ex is someone you still see regularly.


You haven't seen or heard from your ex in years.


It's understandable that family will want to stay connected.


You were raised in an abusive home and you need to keep a distance from family to stay sane and healthy.


Family members are close with one another and have healthy, loving relations.


The family members don't know each other well.


The family members all grew up together.


Some members have done very hateful things to other.


Family members have always had close and supportive relationships.


not wanting my girlfriend to move in with me

Hypothesis: It's okay to want to live alone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to live alone.

You've just moved out of your parent's home.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to live alone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to live alone.

You have never lived by yourself before.


flirting with and sexting a bunch of girls

It's bad to send a romantic text to multiple people while in an exclusive relationship.


You did it with the intention of hurting your significant other.


The partner is okay with an open relationship


You've been given permission to find a third.


You don't have permission from your partner.


Your partner is doing the same thing first


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to sing.

You've always been told that you're a bad singer.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to sing.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to sing.

You are in a crowded group of people in a library.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to sing.

Your partner hates when you sing out loud


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to sing.

you are completely tone deaf and can't carry a tune.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to sing.

singing brightens your mood and you want to feel better.


treating my stepfamily like extended family at my wedding

Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.

They made fun of you in front of your crush.


Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.

They share their car with you so you can get to work.


Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.


Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.

You are living beyond your means and driving yourself into debt.


Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.

Your family constantly puts you down and belittles you.


Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.

Your family is your main source of financial support.


Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.

Your family always asks for money when you see them, no matter how low your income is.


Hypothesis: It's good to treat your family well.

Your big brother stuck up for you when you were being bullied


It is expected that most people won't tip cashiers


All they did was took your money and gave you the change.


There is a tip jar in front of the cashier.


being upset that my boyfriend isn't coming to an event I planned

It's fine to be annoyed that a partner is being rude to you.

You regularly address them in an even less respectful way.


You've tried to talk to them about being more polite many times with no effect.


You started being rude to your partner first.


You've asked your partner not to talk to you that way before.


You did something terrible to make them mad


You know that your partner is going through some personal stuff that might be affecting their performance.


The rudeness is part of a larger pattern of abuse with this partner.


walking between people in a hallway who are talking to each other

It's wrong to get in people's way when they are trying to talk to each other.

You are their boss and they are not on an official break.


You really need to push past them to get to the front of a crowd


they are trying to get in a restricted area.


The people hate each other and you can tell a fight is about to break out.


The people like each other and want to be with each other undisturbed.


You are trying to prevent a physical fight.


Hypothesis: It's good to be there for others.


Hypothesis: It's good to be there for others.

You give others so much of your energy that it hurts you.


Hypothesis: It's good to be there for others.

You're good at balancing self care and helping others.


Hypothesis: It's good to be there for others.

They are always there for you in a time of need.


It's bad to date someone who isn't single.

Their divorce is close to being finalized and their spouse lives in another country.


The person is in a monogamous relationship.


The other person doesn't realize their spouse is seeing you.


The person is married to your best friend.


You are really close friends with their partner.


trying to date while I still live with my ex

It's not okay to do something that could hurt or make someone else jealous.


The person has never done anything like that to you.


You have no choice for the greater good.


trying to hookup/start a thing with a friend, then stopping once she sent nudes because her body wasn't what I had expected

It's wrong to not like someone because of how they look.

Unless the look they portray is of a racist or violent group of people.


They have altered their look to be purposefully offensive.


You don't like the fact they have a swastika tattooed on their forehead.


You don't like anyone who belongs to their race.


They are trying to ruffle feathers with offensive tattoos.


They have no control over how they look.


not wanting to cover/swap shifts with coworkers who are 'sick' with period pain

It is rude to judge the severity of someone else's pain.

You're a doctor and you have to decide what kind of pain medication to prescribe them.


They didn't solicit your feedback at all.


you are a doctor assessing them for medication.


You are a doctor prescribing pain medication


you aren't in any pain and aren't being helpful.


wanting to give my son a hispanic name even though we're not hispanic

Hypothesis: It's okay to appreciate other cultures.

They directly conflict with your religious beliefs.


Hypothesis: It's okay to appreciate other cultures.

You want to be a well rounded individual.


Hypothesis: It's okay to appreciate other cultures.


Hypothesis: It's okay to appreciate other cultures.

You're giving a culture presentation of one type.


Hypothesis: It's okay to appreciate other cultures.

You wish to truly understand the larger world around you.


Hypothesis: It's okay to appreciate other cultures.

What you appreciate is their history of female genital mutilation.


Hypothesis: It's okay to appreciate other cultures.

What you appreciate is their close family ties.


not inviting my friend over Friday night and ignoring him because he doesn't play Fortnite

You don't have to hang out with someone who doesn't have the same interests as you.


hating my aunt after she made my mother cry

Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for your parents.

Your parents abandoned you when you were young.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for your parents.

They are elderly and someone is trying to take money from them.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for your parents.

Your parents are refusing to vaccinate you.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for your parents.

Your parents are working hard so you can have a better life.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for your parents.

They have been falsely accused of robbery.


Hypothesis: It's good to stand up for your parents.

You're talking to the police about how they've been abusing you.


not talking to my father-in-law for years and not telling him why

Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.

You can not provide for them and it puts them in a place they will be provided for.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.

You want them to learn to trust and love in relationships.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.

Your house is collapsing and you only have seconds to escape yourself.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.

You are in a competition that require all of your family members to cross the finish line together.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to abandon family.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about hitting women.

You are a rapper and it is part of your image.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about hitting women.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about hitting women.

You are attempting to set an example to children.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about hitting women.

You are talking about women's professional boxing.


Hypothesis: It is rude to talk about hitting women.

You are not talking about women's professional boxing.


telling my mother to go mind her own business

If your children do not want to talk to you about something, you should not press the issue.


is it about something that's very personal


The children are under age and in trouble.


You suspect strongly that the issue is very serious and potentially harmful to them like drugs.


The issue at hand can wait and is not imminently dangerous to anyone.


selling a necklace that my friend left behind at my house and never came to get back after 4 years

It is expected that you will pick up items you leave at a friends house in a timely manner.

The items you left were food and drinks for their party.


You left clothing or personal items there.


You were going to gift the items to your friend.


You said you would be leaving early in the morning.


Your friend has little room and needs the space.


Hypothesis: Friends should be there for each other.


Hypothesis: Friends should be there for each other.

they live in different parts of the country.


Hypothesis: Friends should be there for each other.

they have been close friends for a long time.


You should talk with your girlfriend instead of being angry.

you find out that she is cheating on you.


she has had a hard day at work and needs to vent.


You are being uncommunicative out of misplaced pride


Your girlfriend has asked you to leave her alone.


Your girlfriend doesn't know what's going on.


You need to calm down first because you might say something you'll regret.


You and your girlfriend have always been open in communicating with each other.


not attending the tuition lectures my parents pay for

It is wrong to waste the money of others.


The other people were just trying to help you out


They are a billionaire that spends extravagantly.


They have a modest income and have children to take care of.


The other is your racist, sexist father who would otherwise use the money hunting endangered species.


The other is your hard-working mother you struggles to support you.


Your relative wanted to take you on a shopping spree.


You stole someone's card to use the money.


asking my wife if nearly 2 years how to get her to like living here more than she has

It's expected that not everyone enjoys living in all places.


You make your living as a traveling guide.


You have a constant supply of marijuana.


Everyone comes from different backgrounds and different skill sets.


saying I don't want anything for our anniversary

It's expected that your significant other will give you gifts for your anniversary.

You have cheated on your significant other.


They get you a nice gift every anniversary you've been together.


You are financially strapped and agree to forego gift giving.


It is an important one like the 25th or 50th.


You both have everything you want, including each other.


It is a tradition you started on your first anniversary.


getting a pixie cut when my boyfriend says he thinks it's unattractive

It's good to be respectful of your boyfriend's opinions.


You want your relationship to stay strong.


Your boyfriend is making comments that you feel are sexist.


He knows more about the subject than you do.


You want him to be respectful of your own opinions.


not hanging out with my friend on her actual birthday

It is expected to want attention on your birthday.

You asked that everyone leave you alone.


You're still a child and these are milestone events.


You have decided to celebrate your birthday on a different day.


You are around the people that you love.


You are afraid of the clowns at your party and are hiding under the table.


You are wearing a large tiara on your head.


Your birthday is also the anniversary of a loved one's death.


You're turning a milestone age, like 21.


You should try to treat your step-dad and his family as part of your own family.


Your mother really wants the whole situation to work.


You are underage and still live in your mother's home.


Your step-dad has acted in a deplorable manner toward you.


Your step-dad is trying his best to be friendly to you.


ending a friendship after my friend got a teacher suspended for a month

It's okay to break it off with a friend if they do something you don't agree with.

It's something trivial like picking their nose.


They did something that physically harmed someone else.


Their actions conflict with your morals.


They voted for a political candidate you didn't like.


not wanting to shop at the local store that employs the mentally challenged

You shouldn't ostracize the mentally challenged.


they're trying to operate a machine that they are not capable of.


you are trying to promote fairness and goodwill.


People can get angry if they don't know what's going on.


their friends are hanging out without them.


The people who are confused are also sedated.


The people who are confused have also been drinking.


They are in the middle of an emergency situation.


You are not required to hang out with your family.

It is Christmas Eve and you are in charge of bringing the Pierogi.


You know that your parents invited your ex husband.


It is a holiday and your mother as invited you over.


You argue with your family every time you are around them.


not wanting anything to do with my sister

it's wrong to be rude to family members when they would expect better from you.

Your family is abusing you and that's the only way you can let them know you're not taking it anymore.


Your family truly loves you a lot and wants to be close to you.


Your more narrow minded family members fail to realize it is they themselves who are being rude.


Your family members have been unfailingly kind for all of your life.


They embarrassed you in front of your significant other.


They just prepaid your way to a prestigious college.


They have been rude to you on many different occasions.


You want to be seen as loving and respectful.


wearing my friend's and sister's underwear

You shouldn't wear other people's underwear.

They have given you permission because you don't have your own.


You don't know who the underwear belong to.


The underwear is dirty from being worn by others.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

They are making costly mistakes without help.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

They can handle the tasks independently.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

They are trying to bulldoze a house with an elderly woman inside.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

They are paramedics at the scene of an accident.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

You're supposed to be the person's replacement.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

You've been doing most of your coworker's work lately.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

They are skillful and good at their job.


Hypothesis: It's good to let others do their job.

Others work better alone than on a team.


not wanting to eat at the table with my family on my aunt's birthday

You are expected to be a part of family events.

They're your in-laws and you divorced their relatives.


You have the biggest house best suited to hosting family reunions.


You live in a different state or country.


You have moved too far away to be involved.


Family members have been part of your events.


being upset about someone comparing our car wrecks

When someone has to compare car wrecks, there is little use to get upset.

Repressing your feelings would ultimately make you feel worse.


You're trying to file a clear, objective insurance report.


The death of our fellow human beings were involved.


extorting my friends for making a sex bet about one of my other friends

You shouldn't make sex bets against your friends.


You want to remain friends with them in the future.


It makes some of your friends very uncomfortable.


You are just using other people to win a bet.


not wanting to hang out with my friend with her kids around

Hypothesis: Its alright to find kids annoying.


Hypothesis: Its alright to find kids annoying.


Hypothesis: Its alright to find kids annoying.

You tell kids to their face that they are annoying.


Hypothesis: Its alright to find kids annoying.

you're letting your feelings affect how you treat them.


refusing to let my landlord's yard workers into my rental house yard at 9:30 a.m. on a Sunday

It is expected that yard workers will not need to work inside of homes in order to do their job.

They work at mansions with indoor atriums.


The house owner has told them not to come in the home.


A tree fell through a window and is stuck half inside the house.


A gate separates the main house from the lawn they are tending to.


An indoor arboretum has requested their services.


Part of their job is to manage the fruits and vegetables from the garden.


not telling my friend I've started seeing a mutual friend

You shouldn't have to tell your friends about your relationships.

your friends know something important about who you are in a relationship with


they don't like the people you are in relationships with


You are going on a blind date with someone.


You don't normally talk about your relationships with your friends.


Your relationships are with people they know well.


Your friends will try to be too nosy about your relationships.


You should voice your concerns to other people.


You are the head of a company and need people to perform better


Someone could get hurt if you don't voice your concerns


The things you're concerned about affect the entire group.


Those other people are corrupt individuals.


You should make an effort to help out others when they need it.

They are strangers in a dangerous looking situation.


You know you have the skills to help out.


They have a habit of taking unfair advantage of you.


You know they would help you if you needed it.


wanting to practice piano while people are home

It's okay to be expect to do things when you want to do them.


you have too many other things on your plate.


jumping 3 people in line at the petrol station

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut in line.

You have a pass that lets you skip the line.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut in line.

People have been waiting in line for hours.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut in line.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut in line.

You have more than 10 items in the express lane.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut in line.

The person in front of you allowed to skip them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut in line.

It is a long line and there is a long wait.


raising my Voice and making everyone uncomfortable at a Party

It's understandable that sometimes we get upset or irritated.


Things happen that are outside our control.


being about to kick my brother out of the house

Sometimes it is ok to kick your brother out of your house if you have a good reason to.


He refuses to help himself or others improve.


Your brother has done things that are not his fault.


Your brother has done things that are hurtful to you.


Your brother put your child's safety at risk


You kick him out in the middle of a blizzard.


not wanting my friends to put my bf in their game of MASH

It is wrong to show romantic interest in someone else's partner.


You are in a monogamous relationship with someone else.


That person's partner is in an open relationship.


The person's partner is in a monogamous relationship.


that partner wants out of their relationship


You know the both of them and they have shown interest in you.


You know that they are going to get married and only want to be with each other.


It is reasonable to be sad if your child hates you.


Your child never gave a reason as to why they hate you.


You know your child's attitude is temporary and caused by hormones.


Your child hates you because you abused them.


You have done something very cruel to your child.


calling out an indie game developer for going on vacation while releasing and charging money for unfinished/unpolished content

It's wrong to charge money for an unfinished product.

You are putting out a beta for a video game test


The price is on a sliding scale based on condition.


The product is not delivered as agreed upon in the contract.


the client only wanted a finished product.


You require a deposit for expensive pieces.


You don't intend on finishing the project.


buying two bus tickets so I could sit by myself and told others they could not sit with me

Hypothesis: It's fine to want to be alone.


Hypothesis: It's fine to want to be alone.


Hypothesis: It's fine to want to be alone.

You're the only one available to babysit your young child.


Hypothesis: It's fine to want to be alone.

You are an introvert and need alone time to recharge.


asking roommate if my bf can stay overnight once a week

You shouldn't have a partner stay over if you aren't married.


You have explained that nothing will be happening together that night.


You have taken a pledge of abstinence and they are pushing you.


You and your partner believe there is nothing wrong with such behavior.


You are devout and your religion forbids such behavior.


telling my boyfriend that I'll break up with him if he doesn't get rid of the dildo he got from one of his Instagram followers

Relationships are about trust, and if you violate trust, it's normal for the relationship to be on the rocks.

You talk about that violation right away like adults.


There never was any trust in the relationship.


The violation of trust encompasses a betrayal.


One of the partners is extremely laid back and forgiving.


sending my ex back to live with her family

If you are no longer dating someone, it is expected that they go live somewhere else.

They have to stay until the lease is up.


Neither one of you can afford to move out.


YOu've agreed to remain roommates to save money.


One person has started dating and it hurts to see them with someone else.


You have a lease together and it's not smart to go somewhere else.


They have another place they can go to immediately.


being relieved my art teacher went to the hospital

It's rude to be happy that your teacher ended up in the hospital.

The teacher brought a gun to class and started shooting at everyone.


They risked their life to get all of the students out of a burning school building.


Your teacher is in the hospital to have a baby.


Your teacher is in the hospital with an illness.


You pulled a prank that put her in there.


It is normal to look at other drivers in the road while you are driving.


You are trying to make sure you do not crash


The weather is creating poor conditions.


You're driving in front of all of the other cars.


You shouldn't text people late at night.

You know that your friends work overnight.


You know the person goes to sleep early.


Their house is in the center of a high powered storm.


They work the early morning shift at the hospital.


They have informed you that they are going to sleep.


They told you to send them a text when you arrived home safely.


You don't want them to be angry with you for waking them up.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't always expect a tip.

Your employer is legally allowed to pay you less than minimum wage.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't always expect a tip.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't always expect a tip.

You far exceed expectations in serving people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't always expect a tip.

You gave exceptional service to someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't always expect a tip.

You don't act like you care about your customers.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't always expect a tip.

You are a server outside of the United States.


being emotionally distant from my mum after some shady behaviour

It is okay to avoid people with shady behavior.


they're being shady because they're in danger.


calling my asian friend a chink and immitating his accent

It's sometimes okay to make a joke about someones race if you're friends with them and they give you their consent

There are other people in the room that would get offended.


You understand that racist jokes are never OK.


wanting to break it off with my girlfriend for allowing her anxiety to drive a wedge between us

You should be understanding of people's mental health struggles.

They are just bad people with mental health issues.


You haven't heard of mental illness before.


they refuse to do anything to help themselves.


you have gone through your own mental health issues.


hanging up on my bf for sending a very tasteless meme

You should try not to offend important people in your life.


They are asking you to do something you feel goes against your values or better judgement.


They support you and pay your way or are your employer.


They are always offering their opinion and asking not to offends them


You are trying to tell them that the dress they picked out doesn't fit them.


You are all joking around and having fun.


It's okay to break up with someone that no longer meets your needs.

They threatened to harm themselves if you break up with them on their birthday.


They started a rumor about you at work that almost got you fired.


You have children that want you to stay together.


You've been using them for what you need instead of what you can offer.


not wanting my daughter's boyfriend at my other daughters wedding

It's wrong to be judgmental of whom your children date.

They have a history of being a criminal or abusive.


You're jealous of your child's happiness


Your child is a minor and still lives with you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't break the law.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't break the law.

You need to do so to save a child’s life


Hypothesis: You shouldn't break the law.

You need to break the law so someone doesn't get hurt.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't break the law.

Breaking the law is necessary for you to survive something.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't break the law.

Breaking the law would put other people in great danger.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't break the law.

You can save a person's life by doing so.


not telling a friend that her boyfriend was dating someone else

It is wrong to cover for someone who is cheating.


They are cheating on an exam that gives them a license to help save lives.


it involves one of your closest friends.


They are in the process of getting divorced by an abusive partner.


You are covering for your best friend's partner.


wanting to split the Bill on a first date

It's understandable to want someone to help pay for their dinner.


You took someone out to dinner for their birthday.


They ordered the most expensive item on the menu.


they are a young child and can't afford to pay for themselves.


expecting someone to show up to practice

it's rude not to show up to something after committing to being there

You were involved in a car accident on the way there


You were in an accident and were rushed to the hospital.


You're the keynote speaker for an important meeting.


People are expected to treat their pets well.


Their pet is mean and attacks them all the time


They have the money and resources to do so


Their pet attacks them and causes an injury.


They want to keep receiving their unconditional love.


The pet has turned vicious and attacked a child.


They want a happy and well adjusted animal.


cutting off relationship with mom over her comments about my weight

It is OK to stop talking to a parent who talks badly about your appearance.


they continue to bully about your appearance.


Your parent only spoke that way due to a neurological condition.


Your parent has never apologized for their behavior.


They know you have an eating disorder and keep insulting your weight


They don't realize that they are being hurtful.


They are saying it in a rude manner in front of other people.


not co-operating with my mom when she refuses to help

It's rude to refuse to help your child when they need it.

They already know how to do it and just don't want to.


They are trying to get you to do their homework for them.


It is something they can't do for themselves.


Your child is asking for help to reach the cookies you took from them.


Your child is struggling with their homework.


You should budget yourself so you don't end up needing to borrow from others.

You do not have enough to meet your needs.


You want to live independently and avoid debt.


Your income is too small to budget yourself.


You don't have enough money for bills no matter how tightly you budget.


You make plenty of money to cover all of your own expenses.


You should respect your boyfriend's privacy.


He keeps lying and keeping secrets from you.


He has never given you a reason not to trust him.


It's okay to block people on social media.

You block your boss from your business social media page.


They always comment negative things on your pictures.


You're mad at them over something petty.


you still need to communicate with them.


They have stalked or harassed you in the past.


They are the administrator of a group you are in.


cutting off a friendship, and she still thinks we are friends

It's okay to stop talking to someone who isn't good for you.

The person is your child's other parent.


They always say negative and toxic things about you


That person is your only available caretaker.


You have a strong support system to help you.


They're threatening to harm themselves and the police want you to keep them on the phone while they intervene.


You don't want to take a chance on being drawn-in by them again.


contemplating breaking up with my bf because he's changing as a person

Hypothesis: It is okay to outgrow a relationship.


Hypothesis: It is okay to outgrow a relationship.

you built bad habits in the relationship.


Hypothesis: It is okay to outgrow a relationship.


Hypothesis: It is okay to outgrow a relationship.

you have been in the relationship awhile.


Hypothesis: It is okay to outgrow a relationship.

One of you has matured and the other has stayed irresponsible.


Hypothesis: It is okay to outgrow a relationship.

The two of you have nothing in common anymore.


Hypothesis: It is okay to outgrow a relationship.

The relationship started in middle school.


It's OK to choose not to give up your seat.


You are able to stand and aren't disabled.


The person is very old or very pregnant.


The person wanting your seat is younger and healthier than you.


The person who needs your seat is badly injured.


The person who wants your seat is young and healthy.


refusing to get my little brother e-Juice

It is rude to expect family to do something dangerous for you.

It's something that will save your life.


They promised to help you do that thing beforehand.


Your family members offered to help you with the dangerous task.


It is a prank you want to play on someone.


You should try to mature mentally and emotionally.


You are trying to prolong your youth as much as possible


You need to take on adult responsibilities


You want to someday have kids and a wife or husband


You're over 25 years old and living on your own.


not wanting to babysit my brother's kid and critiquing his parenting

Telling people how to parent their children is rude.

Unless you are teaching a parenting class that they are attending.


You don't have children and aren't a professional in the field.


You can see someone is really ignorant about child care.


You don't understand their child's condition and think it's just bad behavior.


People are being abusive to their children.


You are not an expert or have kids yourself.


not wanting to visit my mentally abusing step mother

It is good to talk out your issues with family.

Your family always blames you for problems


You look to them for advice in tough times


Your family is supportive and good communicators.


Your family doesn't try to listen to you.


You should be upfront about your disinterest in a relationship.

The other person breaks off the relationship before you do.


You know both of you will be better off not being in the relationship.


You are afraid the other person will hurt you


You can't bear to hurt the person's feelings.


Expressing disinterest would put you in physical danger.


Your partner wants to invest in a business with you.


You are a gold digger trying to get money.


not reminding my boyfriend to get me something for Christmas

People should ask their significant others what they want as gifts.


Their significant others love surprises.


They are very picky with what they receive as gifts.


They already have a list of possible gifts.


They don't want to disappoint their SO with a bad gift.


It's always for something outrageously expensive and you could never afford it.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your property.

The protection goes against the HOA of your community.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your property.

There has been a rash of packages being stolen.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your property.

Unless doing so puts your life in danger.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your property.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your property.

The threat to your property is greater than that which you can defend against.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect your property.

Your property is being overrun with ants.


Hypothesis: It is dangerous to drive fast.

You are an experienced professional race car driver with all the best safety equipment.


Hypothesis: It is dangerous to drive fast.

You are on a winding road and have bad brakes.


Hypothesis: It is dangerous to drive fast.


not telling my Boyfriend's Mom Information about her Son

It is right to not share your significant others secrets.


they gave you permission to tell others.


They are planning to rob a convenience store.


They have a special recipe as part of their business.


Your significant other is planning a violent terrorist attack.


Your significant other has always protected your secrets.


bringing home a puppy one day without warning my husband

You really should make sure everybody involved is ready for the responsibility before getting a pet.

You plan on taking care of the pet yourself, mostly.


You are giving the pet as a gift to the family.


You are teaching children about responsibility.


You plan on returning the pet to prove your point as soon as it's being neglected.


They want to prove to you that they're actually responsible individuals.


jerking off to my classmates insta accounts

You shouldn't masturbate to pictures of people you know.


They haven't given you consent to do so.


Hypothesis: You should keep in touch with family.

They create a toxic environment to you and yours.


Hypothesis: You should keep in touch with family.


Hypothesis: You should keep in touch with family.

They disowned you for marrying a black person


Hypothesis: You should keep in touch with family.

They've supported you through everything


Hypothesis: You should keep in touch with family.

Your family has hurt you and caused considerable damage to you.


Hypothesis: You should keep in touch with family.

Your family has been good to you and contacts you a lot.


Being treated with respect from people is expected.

you already disrespected them before this


You are not treating them with respect in return.


It's rude to expect someone else to pay your way.

You're still a child and it's your parents thad will pay.


You're with a group of co-workers going to have lunch.


They just won the lottery and owe you for past deeds.


You disparaged their spouse at a family party.


You know that they are struggling financially.


That person owes you an outstanding debt.


jokingly making a witty comeback against a coworker

You should not joke around with colleagues.

You have known your coworkers for a long time.


Your colleagues like to joke around as well.


You do not know them or their sense of humor.


You have been together for a long time and know that they won't take something the wrong way.


You're in a serious, straight-laced profession like the medical or legal fields.


not wanting to be friends with a person who's depressed and need emotional support

You should always help out people that are depressed.

You don't have enough empathy and understanding.


You have experience in helping depressed people.


the people are unwilling to accept help and become violent when you try to help.


you are a caring and compassionate person who wants to help.


The person who is depressed is taking their feelings out on you.


Their mental health practitioner told you not to do so.


They've been threatening to harm themselves or others.


asking my ex to send me back my belongings

It's expected that people return belongings when a relationship ends.

The other person has told you to keep them.


The other person has requested that you return them.


You live in California and it's an engagement ring.


The belongings are something trivial, like a toothbrush.


The belongings are expensive and heavily used, like a laptop.


One of the people was physically abusive.


The items have significant sentimental value.


You want to start over with everything new.


You want the home uncluttered for your next significant other.


being annoyed for my friend wanting to use my house while I'm away

Friends are expected to look out for each other.

One of the friends starts doing dangerous and illegal things.


They're alone together in a strange city.


Something serious is happening, like someone is broke.


One friend acted in an unkind way to the other.


Both friends have been dedicated to the relationship for years.


They are not good friends and one of them is thinking of dropping the friendship altogether.


They want to grow their friendship and become closer.


not wanting to have contact with my parents any further

It's wrong to cut off contact with your parents.


They are criminals trying to take advantage of your relationship with them.


refusing to apologize to my co-worker when he lost his own property

It's ok to not take responsibility for someone else's mistakes.

The mistakes were made by your own young child.


The mistakes were made by an adult friend.


You're their boss and you told them how to do something incorrectly.


They knew how to do something correctly but, they didn't care.


You gave them the advice that led to the mistake.


You are someone's supervisor or direct manager.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.

You are just donating to get a good public image.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.

You are donating out of the kindness of your heart.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.

it is going to help kids get the treatment they need.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.

You're a billionaire and could solve climate change.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.

You don't have much to spare in the first place.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.

You donate to a charity that is known to be wasteful.


Hypothesis: It is kind to donate to charity.

The charity you donate to helps a lot of people.


not being hospitable to my brother's ex-girlfriend

Hypothesis: You should be nice to everyone.


Hypothesis: You should be nice to everyone.


Hypothesis: You should be nice to everyone.

You live in a country with many spies that could take advantage of you.


being to snitch on the girl whose house I clean

It's OK to tattle on someone when they are in danger or have committed a crime.


The authorities will only make the problem worse.


You're afraid that person is about to seriously hurt someone.


wanting to move out because me and my mom fight too much

It is okay to want to be more independent.


Your independence comes at the expense of your loved ones (you steal from them).


You've always been dependent on others to survive.


You're getting your driver's license for the first time.


Your idea of independence involves hurting other people.


You have had to rely on someone for a long time.


Hypothesis: Getting drunk is frowned upon.

You can regulate your behavior while drunk.


Hypothesis: Getting drunk is frowned upon.

You can't control yourself when you get drunk.


Hypothesis: Getting drunk is frowned upon.

You're at Oktoberfest and having a great time with friends.


Hypothesis: Getting drunk is frowned upon.

You act out violently when drunk and hurt others.


Hypothesis: Getting drunk is frowned upon.


Hypothesis: Getting drunk is frowned upon.

You're at an open bar wedding reception.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin someone's birthday.

You have to deliver time-sensitive bad news.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin someone's birthday.

You could easily wait to give them bad news.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin someone's birthday.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin someone's birthday.

The person who had a birthday was a child.


feeling cheated that my parents won't help me pay for college

Being angry at family members for not helping you financially with college is OK.


Your family promised to help you pay for school.


They paid for your car and threw you a lavish birthday.


They work at the same college and receive reduced rates.


Your siblings had their college paid for


telling my mother that both men or women can "take care of each other" in a relationship

Hypothesis: Gender norms are a thing of the past.

We elect someone who has Orwellian impact on society.


Hypothesis: Gender norms are a thing of the past.

We elect someone who truly believes in equality.


Hypothesis: Gender norms are a thing of the past.

You are playing a role in a historical drama.


Hypothesis: Gender norms are a thing of the past.


Hypothesis: It's rude to let a roommate oversleep.


Hypothesis: It's rude to let a roommate oversleep.

They need to be up at a certain time for their job.


Hypothesis: It's rude to let a roommate oversleep.

You both have an important appointment soon.


Hypothesis: It's rude to let a roommate oversleep.

Your roommate was studying until the wee hours.


Hypothesis: It's rude to let a roommate oversleep.

Your roommate has to take a test she was studying for.


Hypothesis: It's rude to let a roommate oversleep.

They told you not to bother them at all.


Hypothesis: It's rude to let a roommate oversleep.

You know they need to be up at a certain time.


telling an Ex-Friend's wife he's a Serial Cheater

It's wrong to talk to your ex-friend about private things.

Unless they involve your friend in some way.


You signed a confidentiality agreement at your job.


You need someone to confide in and have noone else.


They have spread rumors about you in the past.


You want to give your friend another chance.


You are talking about someone else's private information.


Confidentiality can no longer be guaranteed.


wanting to cut my friend out of my life for not coming to my wedding

It's fine to stop being friends with people who have disrespected you.


They have disrespected you over and over again and aren’t sorry


You disrespected them first, and they are only trying to teach you a lesson.


They disrespect you often only to put you down to make themselves feel better.


They made fun of you in front of the girl you had a crush on.


blowing up at my son after he failed to meet my expectations by not getting into UC Berkeley or UCLA

It is hurtful to yell at your child for not meeting your extremely high standards.


They are hard of hearing and can't understand what you are saying.


only they think the standards are extremely high


wanting to have female friends when I have a girlfriend

It is good to have a healthy social life


Especially if you enjoy being around people.


Your social life takes priority over your work life.


You've had trouble making friends in the past.


Being around other people mentally and emotionally exhausts you.


You relieve a lot of stress through interacting with others.


You have an outgoing personality and a lot of friends


getting annoyed with my boyfriend for leaving without saying goodbye

It is good to say goodbye to your girlfriend every morning.

She works night shift and is usually asleep when you leave.


you're across the world in different time zones on business


She makes you breakfast and walks you to the door.


Your girlfriend leaves for work before you wake up.


You leave the house at the same time in the morning.


thinking was cool to visit a low diversity place where I blended right into the crowd

Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

You are a teenager and it's normal behavior.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

You are new to a town and want to make friends


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

The people that you are associating with are a bad influence.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

A child is new in school and wants to make friends.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

You're trying to fit in with a group of violent criminals.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

You're trying to fit in with a group of honors students.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

You do things that are wrong in order to fit in.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to fit in.

You are trying to fit in with some good people.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.

They only spend 5% of the donations on actual charitable activities.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.

The vast majority of the money goes to the needy.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.

The charity pockets most of the money for themselves.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.

You have spare money to donate or time to volunteer.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.

The charity has a high overhead and does not really help anyone.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.

You have extra money to spend on others.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.

The charity has been caught stealing from itself.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out charities.


moving back to my hometown to escape what I consider an abusive relationship

It's ok to leave an abusive relationship.


The other person is physically harming you.


asking my friend to take a video down from social media

You shouldn't take down a video from social media just because your friend tells you to.

That video shows you in a private manner.


The video isn't offensive and has gotten many likes.


They are in the video and did not give you permission to share it.


The video has nothing to do with them and they aren't in it.


You are using it as proof of them mistreating you


Your friend could lose their job if their boss saw it


being fwb with a mutual friend of an ex if the ex is fine with it

It's wrong to intentionally make someone close to you jealous


They would never play such destructive games with you.


You are doing it just to make them angry.


They were flirting with someone else in front of you.


They are helping you take care of your sick brother.


That person previously tried to make you feel envious of their wealth.


You care about that person's wellbeing and happiness.


You are preying upon their deepest insecurities


telling my roommate his friend can't stay in his room when no one else is in the house

It's inconsiderate not to ask your roommates before you invite guests to stay.

You and your roommates have a whitelist of guest who can stay over any time.


The guests are loud and your roommates have to get up early.


They before told you it's okay to have guests any time.


Your significant other got sick and needed a place to stay.


Your roommates live in a one room apartment.


You own the home where you live with your roommates.


You share the rent equally in a small apartment.


You shouldn't do things that would make people not want to see you.

Those people made fun of you last time they were in your company.


They are sick and you are the person they requested to see.


walking in on my roommate with his girlfriend

It's wrong to barge in on your roommate and their partner.

You hear scary screaming like someone is being hurt.


The building is on fire and you need to tell them to evacuate.


your roommate has asked for private time during the evening.


One of them asked you to do so ahead of time.


You should always be patient so annoyances don't get to you.

You are the boss and you need to make a point to your employees.


You are working on being more calm and happy.


The person should be told how annoying they are so they don't continue the behavior and never understand why no one likes them.


You're in an emergency where acting quickly will save lives.


You have a short temper due to anger issues.


breaking my boyfriend's new vinyl record

It's wrong to break something that belongs to someone else.


That thing is a weapon the person is threatening to use to kill people.


You can't pay to replace the broken item.


You accidentally knock something over and were sorry


It is a priceless artifact that can’t be replaced


They are endangering themselves or others with the item.


The object is expensive or has sentimental value to the person,


leaving a meeting when the conversation derails into banter

It is rude to leave when people are speaking


You have to go take care of an emergency.


Especially if you're in a private conversation.


not letting a freshman go to competition, even though I'm higher rank

You shouldn't be so pompous just because you're a higher rank.


People admire you more when you act pompous.


People dislike it when you come off as pompous.


Being a higher rank demands a level of confidence


Being pompous is just a natural personality trait for you.


You are trying to command respect from others.


throwing a drink in my racist aunt's face

You shouldn't throw something at a family member.


You are throwing a football in the backyard.


You are playing a game that involves throwing things like Frisbee.


You are angry and the object you want to throw is heavy.


not wanting to pay half of my son's daycare bill

When you have children, you should do everything you can to provide for them.

You've given the children up for adoption.


You've fought for custody of the children.


Your credentials make it easy for you to get a good job.


Your children are grown adults and can take care of themselves.


You want them to grow up happy and healthy.


It's okay to not want to listen to someone who is trying to recruit you to their group.

They are the army of your home country and need your skills against terror groups.


Their main business involves racketeering.


They are trying to get you to join an MLM.


You are being rude about it and ignoring them.


ghosting a girl who has "feelings" for me because she is seeing other people

It is okay to set boundaries in relationships with others


It's a relationship with your doctor where they need to know everything that is going on to properly diagnose you.


You want a relationship with complete freedom.


The boundaries are too big to let the relationships last.


breaking up and kicking my depressed gf out

You shouldn't break up with someone that is depressed.

The relationship is absolutely sure not to work out.


The person seems like they're at risk of harming themselves or others.


No one should be forced to stay in a relationship.


Your own mental health is suffering from being their caregiver.


You think their mental health would take a serious downturn if you left.


not wanting to warn prospective tenants about a bad landlord

It is unfair to let other people enter a bad situation.

There is no way you can prevent them from doing so.


You don't have any ability to stop someone from entering the situation.


You've entered the same situation and know to avoid it.


The other people can repair the bad situation.


They will be in danger if they get into the situation.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ruin someone's birthday.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ruin someone's birthday.

Especially if you're doing it for a selfish reason.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ruin someone's birthday.

It's your birthday and you already feel unhappy.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ruin someone's birthday.

You take the opportunity to announce that you've been sleeping with their spouse.


refusing to help my boyfriend with his VR world building project

It is hurtful to refuse to do something that is important to your significant other

You have an important obligation that prevents you from doing it.


The thing your significant other wants you to do is very easy.


You'd have to sacrifice something extremely important to you to do so.


You refuse to show them any form of physical intimacy.


It is something they really need to do for themselves.


what's important to them is risky or dangerous


there's no good reason for you to refuse to do it


not going to my friends 21st because of medical expenses

Missing a friend's event is acceptable if you are unable to afford it.


You find a way to attend the event for free.


You need the money to take care of your kids.


It is wrong to make offensive comments to others


They are part of a marginalized community.


You're joking around in private with your friends.


You shouldn't hide things from your family.


You are going to throw them a surprise party.


Your family is understanding and wants to help you.


covering the cameras at home while my mother is in Thailand

Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on people.

You believe they're doing something that's illegal or causing harm to someone else.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on people.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on people.

You are in the CIA investigating terrorism.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on people.

You are looking in your neighbor's windows.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on people.

You're trying to steal someone's identity.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spy on people.

There's strong evidence that the people you're spying on are violent terrorists.