Hypothesis: It is okay to need time for yourself.

You are the head of the department at a prestigious college.


telling my friend I'm "free" to hang much later than I'm actually free to hang

Hypothesis: It is okay to need time for yourself.

You just worked back to back twelve hour shifts.


Hypothesis: It is okay to need time for yourself.


wanting to go to the same gay night club as my brother when he is asking me not to

It is rude to try and exclude your brother from your personal life.

your brother is nosy and rude to your family


he is a criminal and you don't want to go down that path.


you love each other and want the best for each other.


Your brother has been abusive towards you.


Your brother is a kind and caring person.


Unless your brother is a horrible, toxic person.


He has told you that he wants nothing to do with you.


whipping out my phone to film angry man following us

Its right to be concerned if someone is angrily following you.

You just hit their car and don't want to stop


You are walking down a deserted street at night.


They are angry about something unrelated to you.


You have done something to harm the person or their property.


It is late at night and you are walking home alone.


taking control of my direct deposit paycheck back

It's good to take control of your paycheck.

It is being garnished for child support and taxes owed.


You are responsible for your household's bills.


You spend it all on booze on Friday night.


You make more money than you need to survive.


the person before hasn't been responsible.


It is understandable to be upset with a friend if they fire you.

You know that you did the job poorly and deserved it and they did what they had to.


You feel your firing was unwarranted or based on something personal.


You had been losing them large amounts of money.


not wanting to be around my boyfriend's roommate

It's not right to not want to be around your partner's friends or roommates.


They disapprove of you and your relationship.


They are moral, kind, and friendly individuals.


getting upset because my parents bought me a house in wrong geographical location

It is unacceptable to act entitled to something else when receiving a gift.


it is coming from someone who isn't obligated to give you a gift.


The gift is inappropriate or provocative.


you've made it clear that you wanted something else and they agreed


they don't have the means to buy many things for you


being scared by comments people in my class make about my skin

Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of others.

You are comedian and it's part of the act.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of others.

You are a teacher in an elementary school.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of others.

They are always bragging about how they are the best at everything


Hypothesis: You shouldn't make fun of others.

it is all in good fun and everyone is okay with it.


wanting to shoot my friend's annoying flatmate with a nerf gun whilst high

Hypothesis: It's OK to play with Nerf guns.


Hypothesis: It's OK to play with Nerf guns.


Hypothesis: It's OK to play with Nerf guns.

they have been painted to look like real guns.


Hypothesis: It's OK to play with Nerf guns.

you are shooting them at someone who doesn't want to participate


Hypothesis: It's OK to play with Nerf guns.

you get a new Nerf gun for your birthday.


not telling my (ex) significant other I slept with a woman she hated when I wasn't with her

It's okay to sleep with someone if you aren't already in a relationship.


The other person does not consent to sleeping with you.


You both find each other attractive and consent to the relationship.


you want to be a virgin on your wedding night.


calling the police on my neighbors that use my dumpster

It's wrong to use your neighbor's stuff without their permission.


You don't want them to use your stuff without asking.


They are protective of their belongings.


getting upset over a stranger being involved with my medical information

It is unethical to divulge private information to unauthorized parties.

divulging the information is for a greater good


the private information contains personal details


The information can be used against the person


You are giving allergy information to a paramedic.


They asked you not to give out the information.


The information puts the person's health or life at risk.


The information is medical information that is protected by HIPAA.


feeling annoyed at someone for not meeting me on a trip because their dad is sick

Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ditch your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ditch your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ditch your friends.

They want to go to a dangerous underground club.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ditch your friends.

They are drunk and about to get in their car and drive home.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to just ditch your friends.

they are doing something illegal or dangerous.


arguing with a pregnant woman who was serving me at a restaurant

It's rude to mistreat people in the service industry.


You always mistreat your server no matter what they do.


The person uses rude or abusive language towards you first.


They're depending on you for tips, instead of a salary


You should share with family if you have the means.

your family takes advantage of you when you share.


they are freeloading off you and refuse to work.


they are really struggling and you are very successful.


accidentally cheating on my ex and lying about it

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to others

telling the truth would hurt their feelings.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to others


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to others

you're doing so to protect their feelings and self impression


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to others

its your spouse and they appreciate honesty


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to others

You're planning a surprise birthday party.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to others

You are playing a bluffing game with them.


not speaking to my friend when he Prank called me

Being upset with some who was rude to you is perfectly fine.

You are ruder to someone else because you are upset.


The person being rude is someone you care about.


You were creating a scene to begin with.


being uncomfortable/uncertain about being friends with a 13yo

Hypothesis: Adults shouldn't befriend children.

Unless they are good role models or mentors.


Hypothesis: Adults shouldn't befriend children.


Hypothesis: Adults shouldn't befriend children.

They recently were released from prison.


Hypothesis: Adults shouldn't befriend children.

The adult doesn't know the parents of the child.


ending a 24 year friendship with my best friend

You should try to work out problems with good friends.


Your problem is over a minimal amount of money.


You shouldn't steal someone else's property.


you're the FBI and you need to commandeer a vehicle.


The person you're stealing from has less than you do.


The property is an animal that they are abusing.


You are simply jealous of their possessions.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a customer badly.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a customer badly.

The customer is the reason you're getting a huge commission


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a customer badly.

The customer has been rude to another customer.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a customer badly.

the customer is polite and you are just having a bad day.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a customer badly.

The customer has been treating you badly first.


Hypothesis: It's rude to treat a customer badly.

You are in a grumpy mood and taking it out on your customers.


not wanting to draw things for my husband

Married people should want to do things for each other.

One of the participants in the marriage is confined to a bed due to an accident.


It is the night of their honeymoon and they are on a tropical island.


One of them is consistently abusive and demeaning.


They're good at things the other person doesn't like doing.


They have a lot to do and seem stressed out.


Both partners want the relationship to last.


accidentally giving my coworker an awful gift

One should make sure a gift is appropriate for the person they're giving it to.


they know what that person finds inappropriate.


You're giving gifts in a blind Christmas party.


You want the person to really enjoy the gift and be thankful for it.


It's okay to not contact your mom on her birthday if you don't have a good relationship.

you are trying to rekindle your relationship with her


she has given you an expressed instruction not to contact her


She is 90 years old and doesn't have much time left.


She was the one who cut contact with you.


telling my friend to stop calling herself trans

It is not acceptable to argue about someone's sexuality.


You are making that person feel bad for being the way they are.


You work for an equal opportunity employer.


You live in the Middle East where it is illegal.


not taking my friends shift because I was high

It's wrong to not help a friend when they are in need.


It wouldn't be much trouble for you to help.


Helping the friend would mean hurting yourself


they have always refused to help you when you are in need


Hypothesis: It's good to want your privacy.


Hypothesis: It's good to want your privacy.

you are so private you lose your social skills.


Hypothesis: It's good to want your privacy.

You have written personal thoughts and published them on the internet.


Hypothesis: It's good to want your privacy.

You also advocate for other people's right to privacy.


Hypothesis: It's good to want your privacy.

You have some that is important and secret


getting angry over the stuff my mum buys me even tho I tell her I dont need it but she buys it anyway

It's irresponsible to buy unneeded items.


you can use them later on or donate them.


The item makes you happy and improves your quality of life.


Your budget is tight and you have children to support.


Hypothesis: You should vote, it's your civic duty.

you are not educated on the candidates and issues.


Hypothesis: You should vote, it's your civic duty.

you aren't happy with the current state of affairs.


Hypothesis: You should vote, it's your civic duty.


expecting my boyfriend to pay for everything

It's sometimes expected that the man pays for the woman in relationships.

The woman makes a lot more money than he does.


The couple has agreed to split the bill equally.


they are a traditional old fashioned couple.


getting pissed off at roommate's girlfriend

It's understandable to get mad at someone.


They only reacted to you because you were mad first


They did something that broke your trust


They are lashing out because they are ill.


not wanting to skype my gf every single night

It is expected to speak to your partner daily.

your partner is out of town and not reachable.


you are away from your partner and they are concerned for your safety daily.


you are suffering from severe laryngitis


Their job requires them to live in  hotel every other month.


You want to keep the relationship healthy.


Hypothesis: It is okay to charge for services.

You are running a non-profit organization.


Hypothesis: It is okay to charge for services.

You need to be able to maintain operating costs.


Hypothesis: It is okay to charge for services.


Hypothesis: It is okay to charge for services.

You are giving professional legal advice to your clients about a lawsuit.


Hypothesis: It is okay to charge for services.

You say you are going to do it for free.


Hypothesis: It is okay to charge for services.

they are performed for your minor child.


Hypothesis: It is okay to charge for services.

you make your living by providing services


It is wrong not to be there for your family

you have prior commitments you can't avoid


your family is there for you when you need them


They always support you in a time of need.


telling all the truth about my past to my so after a 7 months relationship

Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

Your partner has said they'd prefer brutal honesty.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

It is a minor complaint that would cause great friction.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

one person has a secret that has nothing to do with the relationship.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a relationship.

keeping secrets and lying is destroying the relationship.


You don't have to have a relationship with a parent if you don't want to do so.


The parent lives on the other side of the country.


you are a minor and are court-ordered to.


the relationship harms your mental health.


You are their minor child still living at home and are not legally emancipated.


You are an adult and they are abusive toward you.


It's okay to expect a family member to act a certain way.

They're being deceitful or harming someone else.


They have mental problems and they can't help themselves.


that family member truly can't act as you want them to


its to make a good impression on a potential partner


They re taking part in an improvisational play.


You are all attending a religious event.


not wanting to drive 45 minutes away to pick my girlfriend up unexpectedly

You should always pick up your girlfriend when she needs you to.


you do not have access to a car and she is very far away.


something happened to her and she really needs your support.


you are a police officer in the middle of arresting a suspect


your girlfriend would pick you up when you needed her to


not being excited about the surprise christma tree

You should appreciate the effort people make for you.

You have told them to stop doing things for you repeatedly.


They're doing things you explicitly asked them not to do.


They carefully think about what you would most enjoy.


They are only making effort to manipulate you.


They have a lot going on in their own life to deal with.


they really put themselves out there for you.


they're doing it to try and secretly undermine you


shutting my pregnant friend out during my miscarriage

It is okay to limit social interaction after trauma.

You have been sent to a group therapy setting.


You are struggling to talk and it just frustrates you.


Your therapist recommended social support from people.


Social interaction causes extreme anxiety.


smacking an airplane seat to intimidate a child

Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.

You are trying to frighten a younger sibling.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.

you work in a haunted house at a fair grounds.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.

you do it for fun in their best interest


Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.

they are prone to having anxiety attacks


turning down a date with a girl solely because she's deaf

You shouldn't expect others to be respectful of your medical disability.


You are at work and it is against company policy.


Your medical disability isn't relevant to their life.


You ask for help too many times and it's really imposing on them.


Hypothesis: It's okay to ask someone to say sorry.

you don't actually remember if you agreed to lend them your golf clubs


Hypothesis: It's okay to ask someone to say sorry.

Your friend knew you weren't home and they used your hide-a-key to enter the house.


Hypothesis: It's okay to ask someone to say sorry.


Hypothesis: It's okay to ask someone to say sorry.

asking them to say sorry for petty things


Hypothesis: It's okay to ask someone to say sorry.

they've done something rather egregious to you


t  is polite to do as your parents ask you too

Your parents want you to become injured.


Your parents are asking you to keep your space tidy.


your parents are deliberately asking you to do bad things


you want to show respect to your parents


Your parents ask you to do something morally wrong.


jokingly making a witty comeback against a coworker

Hypothesis: You should be professional at work.

You're sick of the job and are trying to get fired.


Hypothesis: You should be professional at work.

You're trying to get a promotion and a raise.


Hypothesis: You should be professional at work.

you are on a retreat and trying to relax.


Hypothesis: You should be professional at work.

you are around possible new clients for the company.


Hypothesis: You should be professional at work.


Hypothesis: You should be professional at work.

You are at a Halloween work party in a Halloween costume.


Hypothesis: You should be professional at work.

You want to please your customers and clients.


People should keep their passwords private.


They want to keep people out of their accounts.


They need to share them with a family member.


They have important documents that need to be kept safe.


they want to prevent others seeing their sensitive information


They share accounts with with significant other.


They are passwords to financial accounts.


they need someone to have them in case something happened to them


they are the passwords to their bank information


not wanting kids because I want to retire early and enjoy my life without having to worry about extra expenses

Working hard and retiring early is a good thing.

You end up getting sick at retirement age and can't enjoy your rest.


You can live cheaply and want to enjoy your golden years.


You break laws in order to earn money faster.


You earn money by working at a job that benefits the community.


your work is required for people in dire need


you find that you're bored and miss work


You are the kind of person who spends too much money too fast.


You want to spend more time with your family.


not wanting to give my father last of my savings so he can spend it on my grandfather's care

It's understandable to not want to lend money to family.


You are rich and your elderly parents are about to be evicted from their home.


Your family members routinely take advantage of you.


They never pay you back when you do lend them money.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be sad when your pet dies.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be sad when your pet dies.

There is a litter who needs your immediate and full attention.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be sad when your pet dies.

You have been together since you were a child.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be sad when your pet dies.

You have had your pet for several years.


You shouldn't have other people pay for your gasoline.


you run out without money on the side of the road


you have the funds to afford your own gasoline


They are asking you to drive them somewhere.


They hardly have enough money to pay for it.


you've begged for them to do so and inadvertently forced them


not wanting to work at my parents supermarket

You should participate in a family business.


You will be inheriting it so you should learn the ropes now


You have a full ride scholarship to an Ivy league college


You're family is struggling to pay bills


You have a great idea and your family is very smart


you have your own dreams and aspirations


asking my husband to stop looking at Instagram while I'm around

Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your partner.

they are trying to rile you up on purpose.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your partner.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your partner.

They are calling you in a work meeting and you can't talk.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your partner.

They are trying to tell you how they feel.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your partner.

you're trying to focus on something critical


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your partner.

Your partner is being a pain and interrupting you from your work.


Hypothesis: It's rude to ignore your partner.

They are trying to tell you something important.


calling my gf gay in front of my gay roommate

Hypothesis: You shouldn't call your partner names.

It is a pet name that you use in a joking manner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call your partner names.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call your partner names.

your partner is sensitive to being called mean names


telling my so that I don't want him to work at "his dream job"

It's good to try to find a career you're passionate about.

Nothing you're passionate about pays a living wage.


You're passionate about a well-paid career pathway.


What you are passionate about does not pay well enough to support your family.


You want to do something prestigious or lucrative.


You haven’t found something that you enjoy doing.


The odds of getting into the specific career are low.


You want to do something that will make you happy.


you need to make money quickly and support people


you are in a position to take on selfish interests


It's not okay to start yelling or shouting in the middle of the night.


you are alerting others to an emergency.


There is a fire and people are in danger.


You have night terror out of your control


Your partner has heart problems and can’t be scared like that


calling my friend out for continuing to talk trash about me in front of my other friend

You shouldn't talk badly about your friends in front of their other friends.


You're just messing around and the friend is okay with it.


You know it would upset your friend if they knew.


You are trying to warn them about something.


giving unemployed roommate ultimatum to get a job before lease renewal

Roommates should try to work their problems out without stress.


You do not have enough money to move out.


They want to maintain a civil environment.


not taking responsibility for my drunk action

It's bad to blame anything negative you do on being drunk.


You only do bad things when you are drunk.


giving my girlfriend a nose ring ultimatum

It's rude to give your girlfriend an ultimatum.

you have found out that she is cheating on you.


You want her to accept your proposal of marriage.


she doesn't put the same expectations on you


She is trying to do better for the relationship.


It is the only way your relationship will survive


You know you won't be satisified even if she meets it


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

You are working with impressionable children.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

you really want to win the Monopoly game.


Hypothesis: Cheating is wrong.

You are cheating on the person that you love.


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.

you are rejecting them based on their race


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.

You know they mean well and treat you kindly.


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.

They are being completely horrible to you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.

They have been there for you all of your life.


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.

They are a stranger asking you out and you're not interested.


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.

They are your own child asking for help.


not wanting friendship after she left me

It's good to part ways with a romantic partner on friendly terms.


Your partner is someone you have been friends with for a long time.


You mostly broke up because you just drifted apart over time.


The partner abused you and you are in danger.


You have children together and will have to co-parent.


not wanting to participate in my coworkers personal training session

You should always help out your coworkers.


You're competing with them for a promotion.


You don't have to be part of your sibling's events if you want to be there.


You want to maintain a close relationship with your sibling.


Your sibling is a source of toxicity in your life.


your sibling has told you how important it is to them for you to be there.


you live a long distance away from where your siblings event is occurring.


not wanting a relationship with her because of her dog

You are expected to set your own desires for a relationship.

it is a work relationship with set boundaries.


you want to be happy in the relationship.


You are a new employee for a company dealing with your boss.


You are in a loving, mutual relationship with someone.


you want to be happy in your relationship.


It's a complete betrayal of trust to use a spouse's account without their permission.


Your spouse doesn't mind when you use their money.


you are using the account to pay a bill you share with them


they have never shared their password with you


unless they have let you do it in the past.


They asked you to stay out since you've been overspending


refusing to lie for a groupmate who didn't contribute to the project

People are expected to do their fair share of shared work.


They all have the same job title and are getting paid the same wage.


They're sick and not able to come in to work or school.


They have the most experience out of anyone in the group.


the divided up workload was previously agreed upon.


One should pay the debts that they own to people who have performed a service for them.


the workmanship of the service was good.


They just don't have the money and can't do anything about it.


They have extra money and want to keep good credit.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.

They are trying to pick a fight and are larger than you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.

You are a train conductor and people are warning you that there is a person on the tracks.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.

You are finishing a task and will be done soon.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.

you have told them that you do not want to be disturbed.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore other people.

they are trying to tell you that your house is on fire.


getting mad at somebody depressed and suicidal for going offline without notice

It's good to show concern for suicidal people.

The people are getting effective help from professionals, family and friends already.


The people are isolated from family and friends and are dangerous to themselves.


Especially if they don't think anyone cares.


the concern will prompt them to do it again


They killed their family before trying to kill themselves.


It's understandable to want things to go faster when in a hurry.


You are stuck in traffic and need to be at work


You are running late and are pressed for time.


You have an important meeting to get to.


It's important that the results are high quality.


spanking ex-gf or for telling her that I thought she dealt with problems badly

Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse your ex.

You're verbally abusing them in private to a trusted friend to vent and process your feelings about the relationship.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse your ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse your ex.

you are just jealous they moved on first.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse your ex.

Your ex is actively harming someone in front of you.


wanting to return a kitten I adopted from family

It's okay if an animal doesn't end up fitting in with your household.

You don't have a plan for it afterwards.


You know somebody else who will take the animal in.


The animal is aggressive towards children


You know if you let it go it will be killed.


It was a newborn puppy and you only gave it one day


they will be put down if you turn them into the shelter.


It's good to be punctual when people are expecting you.

it is for a party with no fixed time for people to come and go.


The other people are commonly an hour late


You informed them you might be late due to unsure work hours.


You are meeting your partners parents for the first time and want to make a good impression.


turning in a group of acquaintances to the IRS

It's wrong to turn people in to the IRS.

It is a spouse who lied on their tax returns.


you are just trying to make someone's life hard.


They have been stealing from the government for years.


they are getting rich by it, and essentially robbing from their own community.


they have made only some small exaggerations on their taxes.


Hypothesis: It is immoral to harm another human

that human poses a threat to your life or others


Hypothesis: It is immoral to harm another human

the other human is your mother who did nothing wrong


Hypothesis: It is immoral to harm another human


cutting my daughter off financially but not my Son

It is good to not have a relationship with your parent if they make life very difficult for you.

They are still trying their best to help you out.


They do not seem to care that they are making life difficult.


They are suffering from mental health problems and need your support.


one of you only has a little time left to live.


They are physically disabled and cannot help their condition.


They intentionally try to make your life miserable.


You're being paid to be their caretaker.


not inviting my best friend's boyfriend to see her graduate Basic Training

It's rude to leave someone's significant other out of that person's special day.

the significant other has made clear they don't want to be there


the significant other has expressed excitement about the day


it is for a bachelor or bachelorette party.


you are doing it just because you personally do not like their partner.


Their significant other is on a business trip out of town.


not wanting to be in my friend's wedding party

You should help out when your friend is having a wedding.


you don't believe in the institution of marriage.


They've hired a wedding planner to take care of everything.


not immediately greeting my mom when she walked in and not hearing her

You should watch out for people who you are expecting to come over.

You do not get along with the people coming over.


You are hiding and trying to surprise them.


They are picking you up to go somewhere.


You have to cancel because of an unforeseen illness.


They might drop by your house to chat before you go to visit them.


You are busy rocking your baby to sleep.


not being able to change plans to meet a friend who was willing to drive 100's of miles to see me

If you have a prior obligation it is OK to be unable to meet up with someone from far away.

You know they took time out to drive to see you.


It's work related and you might lose your job if you don't show up.


there will never be another chance to see them before they die.


they didn't give you an advance notice that they were coming.


You knew the person was coming many days ahead of time.


You only found out the person was coming that day.


The person is your own mother who will only be staying for 1 day.


you will never get to see them ever again.


you are being counted on in your prior obligation.


telling my boyfriend he doesn't need to always correct me or tell me I did something wrong

You should always accuse your partner of things.


You are trying to get them to break up with you.


Your partner has done nothing to warrant your mistrust.


You know they have a history of doing these things.


going to tell one of my best friends he's making a mistake marrying his gf

Your friend's relationship is none of your business.

They are falling in love with a serial killer.


They are risking their well being because of it.


You find out their partner is cheating on them.


They are being held hostage by their partner.


They have asked you to leave them alone.


refusing to contribute girlfriends mom half of rent

Hypothesis: Refusing to help people is mean.


Hypothesis: Refusing to help people is mean.


Hypothesis: Refusing to help people is mean.

You can see they are desperate and you're the only one who can help.


Hypothesis: Refusing to help people is mean.

They're asking for a small amount of help.


Hypothesis: Refusing to help people is mean.

Those people have always treated you badly.


Hypothesis: Refusing to help people is mean.

Those people have always supported you in your times of need.


It is okay to want your partner to stand up for themselves.

Giving them your help would be the easier route to take.


their boss is petty and will fire them if they do.


You're trying to convince them to use violence.


They often let other people take advantage of them.


They want to do it in an illegal manner.


Standing up for themselves would put them in danger.


Your partner might get a promotion if they stand up for themselves.


ghosting my friend out of the blue and lying about why

Hypothesis: It's hurtful to ghost people.

that's the only way to break off a relationship


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to ghost people.


reporting a St. Bernard being kept in a Van for 16 hours (the officers were literally swarmed with roaches from a cracked window)...tonight the van owner brought in a new battery and immediately loaded up his wife and three toddlers. did I just make these babies sleep in a van

Hypothesis: It's good to keep animals safe.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep animals safe.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep animals safe.

You are on an African Safari in the wild.


asking my roomate to kick out their sick uncle

Hypothesis: It is rude to not care for sick people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not care for sick people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not care for sick people.

the sick people do horrible things to you


Hypothesis: It is rude to not care for sick people.

they wish to avoid assistance to be independent


Hypothesis: It is rude to not care for sick people.

They have a highly infectious and deadly disease.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not care for sick people.

You are a doctor at a children's hospital.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kiss your friends.

You are greeting them and it's a part of your culture.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kiss your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't kiss your friends.

You are actors in a play with a kiss scene.


It's understandable if you don't want to pay all of a bill that you only owe part of.

there is no other way that the bill will get paid.


each person said they would pay their portion.


You know the other person has the money to pay their share.


You're very wealthy and paying it isn't a problem.


You're very poor and it would affect your budget.


You offered to pay the whole bill earlier in the month.


You never agreed to paying more than your share.


not wanting to drive my girlfriend to/from work sometimes

It is important to follow through on agreements.

You just can't meet the demand of the agreement.


The other person hasn't fulfilled their end of the agreement.


The other person has already fulfilled their part of the bargain.


the agreement will cause someone physical harm.


you will be financially penalized by breaking an agreement.


You don't have any obligation to a former partner.


You no longer are exclusive to each other


Legal writing declares that you have to do their bidding.


wanting my mum to cut off contact from my aunt and cousins

You shouldn't let your kids tell you what to do.

the kids are offering insight about your performance


they have no idea what they're talking about


They are adults and they are giving you practical advice.


They are small and just don't want you to feed them what they don't like.


You want to be firm and get them to listen to you


Hypothesis: It is good to help others in need.


Hypothesis: It is good to help others in need.

Homeless people are harassing you and using profanity.


Hypothesis: It is good to help others in need.

You work at a soup kitchen or food bank.


being upset at my ex when he he asked me why did I stay with him

It's wrong to be upset at an ex when they ask you an honest question.

they are prying into your personal business.


the ex is inquiring about the lives of their children.


they ask the same question repeatedly to get a rise out of you


they find it hard to ask the question but do so cos its important


YOu have children and they are asking about a question regarding their care.


Your ex is asking an inappropriate personal question.


They are asking about a child you have together.


The same question has been asked a thousand times before to annoy you.


The question helps to divide assets owned jointly.


refusing to date someone of the same ethnic background as my ex

It's wrong to refuse to date someone of another race.


that is the only reason you don't want to date them.


You don't like that particular person for their personality.


You reject all people from that race regardless of who they are.


not wanting to get in an ill-begotten car with my college girlfriend

You should never get in a car that has been stolen.

You're trying to escape a dangerous situation.


You don't know the person driving the car.


The car is being chased by a gang carrying guns


not trusting my boyfriend over this little lie

Partners should have trust in each other.


One partner or both have proven to be unreliable.


They want to have a strong life together.


wanting to replace a colleague in a working group

It's wrong to want to do something that could hurt someone's chances in life.

The thing you're wanting to do is essential for your survival in life.


The thing you want to do is motivated by boredom.


That person is a predator who's hurt many people.


You lie about what that person has done in order to hurt them.


you are taking a promotion they also needed.


They're already a criminal you're telling the police about their crimes.


You don't want them to retaliate against you by trying to undermine your chances.


you are saving the life of a child by doing it


It's expected that you won't ditch a friend.


Your friend is screaming rude things at you


Your friend is drunk and could be assaulted


telling my bffs ex the real reason she broke up with him

It is expected not to betray your friends trust.

Your friends committed a murder that you witnessed.


Your friends have kept all your secrets in the past.


Your friend has always been kind to you.


They have indicated they are going to do something very illegal.


It took them a lot of strength to open up to you.


The friend has a secret that will hurt themselves or others.


The friend told you their personal feelings in confidence.


You shouldn't expect commitment in a noncommittal agreement.


The person is not the type of person that commits.


It was assumed like in a financial borrowing.


The other person promised to do what they said they would do.


The partner has implied that they want the relationship to advance.


Unless you both agree to changing the agreement.


Especially if you don't change the agreement.


The person begins sending mixed messages.


The person has been clear from the start about their noncommittal agreement.


not wanting to move back home with my boyfriend of two years

It's good to branch out and live in a new place with someone you love.

the rent is very cheap at your current place


you're too young to be responsible living outside of your parents house


a change of pace with help refresh your mind


You are offered a well paying job in a new city.


You don't have a job in your new location.


You do not want to move and are only doing so because you think it might make them happy.


You have a lot of support and things to do in your new place.


telling my best friend's boyfriend what she does behind his back

It's wrong to pry into your friend's private business.

they've asked you for your opinion on something private


they've asked you to mind their business


Your friend doesn’t go into your private business


You're doing so because you're concerned about them and want to help them.


It's for your own curiousity and not because you need to help them in some way.


You feel your friend is getting involved with dangerous people.


Your friend has told you to mind your own business and respect their privacy.


wanting my sister to design me a tattoo without charging me

It's not okay to not help out family members when they need you.

They want you to help them hide a dead body.


They recently broke their leg and are on crutches.


You need to care for yourself first before helping them.


They have helped you out when you needed it.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to stay in contact.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to stay in contact.

You have a no contact order from the courts.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to stay in contact.

one of the family members is in a South American prison.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to stay in contact.

they've become estranged and don't know one another really anymore


Hypothesis: Family is expected to stay in contact.

The family members live close to each other.


It is expected that you report anything improper.

the definition of improper is ambiguous.


reporting will do more harm than good to people


the improper thing victimizes someone innocent


The regulations are unreasonable and rarely followed.


There's a risk people could die if the problem isn't corrected.


It's polite to show some interest in the personal lives of people close to you.

You are in a hurry to get to work on time.


You are having an intimate conversation.


The people have asked for privacy and to be left alone.


The people seem to be going through difficult times.


The people want to live a very private life


You want to get them a personal gift for their birthday


They always take the time to listen to you and your problems


They people close to you are criminals or in the mob.


You will be interacting with them regularly.


getting mad at my mom for having a fuck buddy

Casual sex between adults is perfectly fine.


One of the adults is HIV+ and doesn't tell their partner or use a condom.


They don't use protection and have STDs.


getting pissed at my family for smoking pot in the house

It is okay to expect others to follow the law.

The law is unjust, like requiring people to return slaves to their owners.


The law is designed to protect everyone equally.


hanging out with my male friends even though they make my boyfriend uncomfortable

It's okay to want to be friends with people you want to be friends with.


you are a nice person and make a great friend.


you have known them since elementary school


being annoyed that my girlfriend cries during sex

You should look into the source of your emotional distress.

Looking into the source brings up emotions that cause harm to yourself or others.


Finding the source helps you overcome mental disorders.


You spend so much time ruminating you can't focus on the present.


You know you have a history with a lot of issues to overcome.


telling an old friend that I think their new friends are arseholes the way I did

Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

You're telling them about your feelings.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

They did not ask for your negative opinion on something frivolous.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

They are asking you for your opinion on something.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

They're asking about another friend's painful secret.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.

They're trying to help support you emotionally.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with friends.


refusing to go to my dad's house because he has bed bugs

Hypothesis: It's expected that you visit your dad.


Hypothesis: It's expected that you visit your dad.


It's rude to not reach out to your mom on her birthday.


She lives alone and really looks forward to your visits.


being uncomfortable with the way my friends joke around

It's good to set boundaries with your friends.

You never want to help them with their problems.


You feel like you're getting overwhelmed.


You are in the middle of a counseling session together.


Your boundaries cross your friend's personal boundaries.


Your friend has been invading your privacy.


Your friends have more free time than you do


not wanting to spend Christmas with my sister's boyfriends kids

You are within your right to spend the holidays with whoever you choose.

You have kids who are looking forward to spending time with you.


Your family does not want to spend the holidays with you.


you are a minor child that lives with both parents.


you are an adult and don't get along with family.


unless you've already made a promise to spend them with someone


cussing out my mother for 'buying' an Xbox from my cousin

You shouldn't butt your nose into your family's business.

You have a great idea that will help the business.


You do not have the experience and skill to speak up.


You're concerned they'll go bankrupt without your help.


They've repeatedly told you to mind your own business.


You are a child and don't understand business.


not talking to my brother except for on holidays

It's bad to use a holiday as an excuse to talk to someone when you could talk to them any other time of the year.

You are asking their advice on what holiday gift to get someone else.


you live far away and work long hours and have holidays off


you have internet and a phone to contact them with a lot of free time


You can see them easily all times of the year.


you only ever meet with that person on the holiday


that person had someone very close to them die on a holiday


It is expected that you support your loved one

They are unable to bring something to the table and reciprocate in kind.


Your loved one has committed a serious crime.


Your loved one has supported you through difficult times.


threatening to sue former-friends to get back money they owed me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't sue your former-friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't sue your former-friends.

You were harmed by something that was out of their control.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't sue your former-friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't sue your former-friends.

Their isn't a chance for reconcilliation.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't sue your former-friends.

they made unauthorized charges on your credit card.


It's bad to hold onto an ex's nude photos.


the ex has demanded that you destroy the photos


You are a professional photographer who took them when your ex worked as your professional nude model.


You are having a difficult time getting over them.


not meeting my new girlfriends parents on her birthday

A significant other will think negatively towards someone who won't meet their parents.

the significant other does not like their parents


the significant other is very close to their parents


their parents want to meet the significant other.


Their parents are on the International Space Station.


They have gone no contact with their parents.


their parents share the same feelings toward them


their parents really want to meet that person


It's rude to be ignorant to people our friends care about.

those our friends care about are hateful and ignorant as well.


The other people have been respectful to you


You are already stretched too thin and don't have any interest in having more friends.


Those people are trying to bring your friends down


The sentence doesn't really make sense to me


wanting people to stop thanking me for my service in the military

It's polite to thank people for their military service.

They were court-martialed for committing treason.


They've served several tours of duty protecting our country.


You are presenting them with a military award.


not wanting to hang out with my autistic cousin

It's fine to not want to hang out with someone.

You need to give medical assistant to them.


that someone talks you into doing illegal things.


it is going to be your last and only chance to see that person before they move out of the country.


you're very tired after a long and busy day at work.


You should be welcoming of people close to you.


Those people are stuck up and rude all the time


They care and support you during college.


being angry with my girlfriend for agreeing to be another man's wedding date

It would be expected to be upset if your girlfriend went on a date with someone else.

It was a date for charity with a dying person.


They don't tell you about it in advance.


you and your girlfriend were in a polyamorous relationship


you and your girlfriend are in a monogamous relationship


You are in a non-monogamous relationship.


You both agree that your relationship is monogamous.


It is wrong to put animals through painful surgery that isn't necessary.


There is another method that can be used.


the condition will become painful and necessary in the future if not taken care of now.


you don't have the money to pay for the unnecessary surgery.


it is just something to make your life easier,


the surgery is for silly cosmetic reasons


putting a note on a guy's windshield? while's he's in the car. tailgaiting

Putting a note on someones car is wrong because it can make them angrier.

you hit their car and want to leave your insurance information for them.


the note is criticizing their parking skills.


you are leaving insurance information after hitting them.


you are leaving your insurance information have hitting their car


You accidently hit their car are are leaving your contact information.


Hypothesis: It's good to share your new hairstyle.


Hypothesis: It's good to share your new hairstyle.

you hate it and want to hide it under a hat.


Hypothesis: It's good to share your new hairstyle.

Someone asks how you got your hair to look so nice.


Hypothesis: It's good to share your new hairstyle.

you find that you're boastful while doing it


Hypothesis: It's good to share your new hairstyle.

you took opinions from others before getting it done


resenting the wife of my dad's friend for showing up and being super bubbly at his funeral

It's reasonable to resent someone for behaving poorly at your parent's funeral.


Especially if they are reasonable adults.


They are saying disrespectful things about the parent.


not going to friends houses who's parents don't agree with my lifestyle choices

It's acceptable for a parent to not approve of their child's friend.


the friend is doing things to hurt the child.


They are the only one that became their friend.


The parent is racist and that is why they do not accept the friend.


The friend keeps getting their child in trouble.


being upset that the girl I'm seeing cancelled a coffee date because of her ex

It's okay to cancel a date with someone.

they've put a lot of work into planning the date.


It's only a few minutes before and you're only canceling because you found something you wanted to do more.


You know they paid a lot of money for tickets for an event.


This is the fourth date in a row you've canceled.


People are encouraged to stand by their partners, rather than leave them hanging.

Your partner is in rehab and you aren't sure if he is serious about getting sober.


Your partner is trying really hard to recover from an addiction and needs your support.


The partner did something unforgivable like killing a person.


They believe in their partner and trust them.


You think your partner is cheating on you


They are in a race and are competing against each other.


They are in a stressful situation and need support.


reporting my neighbor's beeping smoke detector

It is important to report a safety issue.

There's a tiny chance that particular issue would ever significantly impact safety.


There's a major risk someone will get seriously hurt.


It's already been reported and has been repaired.


That safety issue can easily be fixed by you.


The safety issue could cause severe injury.


being offended by the question "where are you from?"

Is it normal to be offended by people trying to put a label on your ethnicity.

The people work with the Census Bureau and are doing their jobs.


People are asking in casual conversation.


They were using labels based on name of ethnicity.


They were using labels based on stereotypes.


they do so as part of a demographics survey.


they are doing so to discriminate against you.


talking to my low income friend about being stressed about buying a house

It's wrong to compare your problems to someone who is of a different income level than you.

the problem has nothing to do with income.


Richer people act like they have no problems


You were assigned to do so in a paper topic.


You are in a position of power over that person.


The problem blankets multiple levels of society.


Your problems could be solved by more money.


not understanding my girlfriends reaction during a conversation about our valentines plans

You should go out with your partner for Valentine's Day

You already told your job you would work


They are deployed overseas with the military.


You have always celebrated the holiday in the past.


Your partner might resent you if you're cruel to their parent.


The parent is nice and hasn't done anything mean.


They parent has been abusive towards you.


Their parent has treated you with respect.


They resent their parent for being abusive.


telling this kid to get away from my brother

Interfering in a dispute could get you hurt.


the people having the dispute have weapons


all you do is call the police and don't get physically involved.


continuing to correct my dad when he gets my cat's gender wrong

You should learn to call a pet by the correct gender.


You are not sure how to tell the difference.


Your pet has a definitely make or female name


It's normal to be upset when someone gives spoilers.


the movie or tv show just came out today.


it is for something you have no interest in seeing.


It's been five years since the movie came out


not helping a stranger pick up all their change

It is kind to help someone, even if you don't know them.

that person has made it clear they don't want your help


They are an old lady trying to cross the street.


That person looks like they do not need help.


they are refugees from a natural disaster.


wanting some reciprocal verbal sympathy for being sick from my pregnant wife, who is also sick

It's wrong to expect pregnant people to sympathize with you.


They're your friend and you're going through a hard time.


They're experiencing severe health complications.


asking my friend to stop calling my mom a dipshit

It's good to not cave to pier pressure and make your self look good at the expense of others.

They are trying to get you to accept an award.


You don't want to hurt someone else's feelings.


Behavior is involved that makes you uncomfortable.


People are counting on you to have their back


It's hurtful to not go to big events of your family member.

They shouted at you at the last family dinner.


Your parents are elderly and don't like conflict.


you live in a state to far away to make it.


it would be inappropriate for you to be there.


It's good to be honest with your friends.

Unless you know something that would really hurt them.


Especially if you want to keep their friendship.


telling them something would not be beneficial for them.


Being honest might really hurt their feelings.


They have confided that they need an honest opinion.


It is unpleasant to be around negative people.

they have had a lot of bad things happen lately and need your support.


they never change their situation and just always complain.


You're a psychiatrist helping treat their depression.


You accept who they are, and they have other qualities that you find enjoyable.


You're trying to stay positive and the attitude of others can easily influence you.


being around negative people affects your mental health.


They affect your attitude and get you down.


not paying a guy back after we didn't work out

It is understandable to be upset if someone does not pay you back.

They legitimately cannot find work to earn money to pay you back.


The person legitimately has no financial resources to do so.


The person is spending frivolously on vacations instead of paying you back.


they have fallen on hard times and are struggling just to get by.


they promised you repayment by a date that has already passed.


that person has said they'd pay you back soon


The money you gave them was part of a loan.


wanting to remove a suicidal person from my life

Suicidal people need help, removing them from your life is unacceptable.

you are unable to support them due to your own issues


They put your life in danger with their actions.


They are affecting you mentally and causing you to have suicidal thoughts.


You have a good chance at getting through to them.


It is your right to not report something that happens to you.

The event would affect people other than yourself.


You are not comfortable pursuing legal action.


it is a crime and the perpetrator may victimize someone else


You are a competent adult who makes their own decisions.


not driving my mother to her appointment

It's OK that you're not always immediately available to everyone.


You've gone to your room for time alone.


not wanting to reconcile with my previously alcoholic and abusive father

It is okay to not trust someone that has hurt you in the past.

They have shown you that they have changed.


They have shown total remorse and worked actively to make amends.


That person cheated on you not too long ago


being mad at my mother for not breastfeeding me

It is weird to be upset with your mother for not breast feeding you.

She abandoned your family for years after you were born.


she was unable to breast-feed due to physical causes.


not telling my boyfriend I knew his sister was planning on losing her virginity

You shouldn't hide things from your partner.

You are planning a surprise party for them.


You want to maintain a high level of trust in the relationship.


you're planning a surprise party for them.


they are overly sensitive to little things.


You suspect they might hit you if they find out.


They're usually supportive when you explain your problems.


being upset with my girlfriend for flirting with another guy

It's wrong to flirt with others if you have a partner.


your partner specifically asks you not to.


Your partner finds it sexy to watch you flirt.


Your partner feels abandoned when you flirt.


The partner is open minded and is okay with it


You want to keep trust in the relationship


Hypothesis: It's good to protect your property.


Hypothesis: It's good to protect your property.

you don't care what happens to your property.


Hypothesis: It's good to protect your property.

you have valuable things on your property.


Hypothesis: It's good to protect your property.

your property is essential to the financial support of your family


Hypothesis: It's good to protect your property.

you live in a country where there is no crime


Hypothesis: It's good to protect your property.

the neighborhood is dangerous and crime heavy


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your neighbors.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your neighbors.

A burglar broke into your house and you need them to call them cops.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your neighbors.

Your death metal band is practicing at top volume at 2 AM.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to disturb your neighbors.

They have to wake up early for daily medical appointments.


feeling offended that a close friend would not eat in my home

It is okay to be uncomfortable eating in a strange place.


The place feels strange because you are racist.


You are surrounded by friends and family


Your job involves eating and travelling.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your parents.

they are toxic and underserving of respect


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your parents.

they are good parents who take good care of you


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your parents.

They are being deliberately rude to you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your parents.

They consistently demean and undermine you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't insult your parents.

Your parents started amateur art projects


telling my boyfriend that I'll break up with him if he doesn't get rid of the dildo he got from one of his Instagram followers

Getting a sexual toy from someone other than your significant other can lead to issues in a relationship


The person is trying to cause relationship problems.


that person is a salesperson for the product.


That person is a professional sex toy vendor.


trying to be nice to people loud the library but then yelling at them

Libraries are right to impose restrictions on what behaviors are acceptable inside them.

They restrict behavior based on racist ideas.


They restrict behavior that is dangerous to the public.


there is a special event occurring where louder behavior is acceptable.


there are many people trying to read and study present inside the library.


The restrictions they impose are discriminatory.


The restricted behaviors are distracting to patrons.


They enforce standards differently based on the race, gender, or religion of the patron.


Those rules are necessary to keep everyone safe.


It's bad to have an odor of human waste.


you have been lost in the woods for a week.


wearing headphones around talkative coworkers

It's okay to wear headphones when people are being noisy.


You are a teacher and they are your students.


it is during a group meeting where people are sharing ideas.


it is the neighbors fighting and you are trying to relax.


telling my roommate/friend he and his girlfriend can't approach my business partner sexually

It is not your right to tell people what the can do with their bodies.


You are a doctor and trying to save their life.


You are trying to talk someone out of an abortion.


You are a doctor and they are in danger of losing their life.


They are pregnant with the baby of a criminal.


you are just being a supportive friend and are worried they are making a permanent mistake.


they have told you they don't want to hear your opinion.


telling my "RA" that my roommate is putting holes in walls

It's okay to tell on others when they are breaking rules.


Others stop parking in your driveway once they understand it is not a curb.


Others continue to park in your driveway even though they know it is not a curb.


You want to keep a good relationship with the one breaking the rules.


You are concerned the rules being broken will put others in danger.


They are undermining your goals in the process


It's okay to be angry when someone won't apologize.


They are a stubborn child who doesn't know any better.


It is reasonable to distance yourself from someone who you do not share values with.


they are just an acquaintance that you have only known a short time.


Their values are mean and detrimental to others.


You are in the process of getting divorced.


not letting my roommate's boyfriend sleep with her in the bunk above me

You should respect your roommates wishes.

Your roommates are overstepping your boundaries.


Your roommates have very basic requests of privacy and cleanliness.


They want you to do graffiti with them on a monastery.


It will save the life of a small animal.


They are nice and always keep the place clean


smacking the shit out of my 8-year-old nephew for stealing hundreds of dollars of my Pokemon cards and taking some of them to school and trading with them

Hypothesis: It's bad to steal things.

your child is starving to death and there is no other way to get food.


Hypothesis: It's bad to steal things.


Hypothesis: It's bad to steal things.

you are running from the zombie apocalypse.


wanting nothing to do with my aunt after she was disgracefully rude at my grandmothers funeral

You must choose your words and actions carefully during sensitive times.


The situation calls for immediate action.


You're trying to produce a good outcome.


The other person has a great ense of humor and you are making a joke.


telling my sister's bf that she is cheating on him

Hypothesis: You should not tell on your sister.


Hypothesis: You should not tell on your sister.


Hypothesis: You should not tell on your sister.

She has kept you out of trouble in the past.


Hypothesis: You should not tell on your sister.

She is going to do something that may harm her.


Hypothesis: You should not tell on your sister.

she would get into more trouble than she deserved to


wanting to sell me XBone because I don't use ot and have no games for it, even though my mom bought it for me

It's understandable to want to sell something you don't use.


It gets in the way and takes up too much space.


you know someone else who really needs it.


not dating shorter guys but also not telling them their height is the reason

Judging someone on their physical appearance is wrong.


They purposefully come to work in ragged clothes without showering.


You are judging them based on how attractive they are.


thinking I was to busy to help out a coworker who "I perceived" to be rude and to some degree lazy/indifferent

Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.

You are trying to make a good first impression.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.

they are sticking their nose in your business when you asked them not to.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to betray your friends.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to betray your friends.

You have been friends with them for many years


Hypothesis: It is wrong to betray your friends.

You are a soldier at war and they defect to the enemy side.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to betray your friends.

You are trying to win a championship in a sport and they are your skilled teammates.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to betray your friends.

You believe your friend is forgetting to take her medication.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to betray your friends.

You are not sure if a medication your friend is taking is prescribed or not.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to betray your friends.

they abandoned you in your time of need.


eating raw onion when my boyfriend really dislikes the taste

You have a right to eat anything you find delicious.

Your doctor has put you on a special diet.


that delicious food is an endangered species.


You are eating food that doesn't belong to you.


"changing my logic" with my wife about paying for dog-related damage

It's expected that you take responsibility for your pet's damages.


They have scratched the doors in a leased apartment.


your pet was attacked by someone and just defended itself.


you were careless and let them off their leash and they broke something.


You have been told it was covered in the pet deposit.


You can see your pet did a lot of damage.


The pet went to the bathroom in the wilderness.


The pet damaged your neighbor's property.


not wanting my friend to bring his girlfriend along every time we hang out

It's wrong to bring your partner with you every time you hang out with your friends.

you consider your partner your best friend.


your friends don't bring their own partners.


They are also friends with your friends.


They do not get along with your friends.


Your partner is close to all your friends.


Your friend's partners are always there as well.


Your partner are also friends with your friends.


You were both in the same friend group first.


not wanting to put my young kid on psychotropic drugs

It's wrong to put your kid on psychotropic drugs.


The drugs are sourced from online vendors.


not wanting to be friends with people who constantly cancels plans

It is important to keep trying to make plans for a while.

It is interfering with work productivity.


The plans must be made well in advance to get time off work.


You know you are expecting a major change soon.


You want to be comfortable in your retirement.


It is just stressing you out as you keep trying.


It is an important event that needs to be perfect.


It's okay to want your fiance to lie down with you.


Your fiance is in the middle of a meeting with their job.


Your fiance has a migraine and any movement on the bed causes them agony.


not telling my bf about an abortion I had now that we are breaking up

It is wrong to not discuss abortion with your boyfriend first if the child would be his.


Especially if you are both unwilling to support a child.


The boyfriend has left you alone for another person.


there is a medical emergency and must abort immediately.


he has stated before that he wouldn't want you to have one.


Your abusive boyfriend would try to control you via pregnancy.


You want to continue the relationship openly and honestly


(possibly) affecting my boyfriend's uni choices

It's wrong to do something to sway someone's decisions about things when it's not what's best for them.


you know that they're making the right decision already


it's the best for a large number of people


you're doing it only to look out for your on benefit


trying to see my niece behind my brother's back

You shouldn't see someone's child if their parent won't allow it.

you are protecting the child from an abusive situation.


The child has a complaint about the parent's form of punishment.


The child will be punished by the parent.


You're afraid the parent is abusing their child.


The parent doesn't have custody of the the child.


The parent has an order of protection against you.


calling bs on my friend who got "molested" at a sleep-over

Hypothesis: It's good to point out someone's lies.


Hypothesis: It's good to point out someone's lies.


Hypothesis: It's good to point out someone's lies.

they are little white lies and aren't hurting anybody.


Hypothesis: It's good to point out someone's lies.

They are using the lies to take advantage of others


Hypothesis: It's good to point out someone's lies.

that person is sadly validating themselves to others by lying


Hypothesis: It's good to point out someone's lies.

the lies are about the personal life of someone else


leaving my bf after he let this girl beat me up

It's expected that you defend your significant other in a fight.

you're not there to assist them at the time


You yourself are subdued and unable to help at all.


You're able to do something and they desperately need your help.


someone larger and stronger is assaulting them.


You want to protect your spouse from harm


telling my boyfriend he needs to go see a doctor because he asked me to get blackout drunk so he could have sex with me while I'm passed out

It's very bad to want your significant other to be totally intoxicated while you have sex with them


sharing breakup thoughts with my girlfriend right when she gave me a Valentine's gift

It is expected to give gifts on valentine's day.


you and your partner don't celebrate that day


you and your partner always exchange gifts for it


you and your partner decide not to do so.


You and your significant other prefer going out to dinner.


You and your significant other look forward to boxes of chocolates.


You are single and have no one to give a gift to.


You know your significant other is planning to get you something.


cancelling my daughter's visit with her Dad

It's expected that you'll uphold a child's visit with their parent.


the parent might possibly be a bad influence on the child


the parent is preparing to have that visit


That parent went to jail for abusing the child.


The child is really looking forward to seeing their parent.


the court has ordered visitation rights for them.


asking a woman if Im better at sex than her dead husband

It's understandable to compare yourself with your significant other's former lovers.

your significant other has not had former lovers.


They only dated people the opposite sex as you.


You significant other doesn't have any former lovers.


Their former lovers were really attractive.


you want to make sure you are just as good or better than them.


You should never skip out on helping a friend with mental issues.

The friend is violent and needs a real therapist.


Their mental issues are negatively affecting your own mental health.


They are self-harming or considering suicide.


that friend tends to be a difficult person


Your friend is getting good care and the issues are beyond your ability.


Your friend needs a phone number to their doctor or a mental-health helpline.


You should try to stay calm around people when you're angry.


You are at a protest with both sides yelling at each other.


You are at work in a professional setting.


getting angry is the only way to get results


wanting my so to take a shower after handling animals? I have terrible eczema

It's understandable to want your partner to be considerate of your medical conditions.

They don't know about your medical conditions.


They've accompanied you to medical treatments.


Your partner is suffering from a more serious medical condition.


you have a virus and intentionally infected your partner.


your medical condition really isn't that serious


your medical condition causes an immense amount of suffering


continuing to go after an achievement/mount after being almost begged not to

It's rude to do something when someone asks you not to.


it is smoking in front of them when they are pregnant.


you are doing something to save someone else.


what you are doing is unnecessary and annoying.


You want to blast loud music and they have a phone interview


wanting to go on holiday with my boyfriend

It's okay to want to spend special time with someone you care about.


Your partner misses you after being away for a week


Especially if you want a future with them.


You should treat the money of others carefully.

They gifted you the money and it is now yours.


it was given to you with the purpose of being frivolous.


Your family has so much money that you can't possibly spend it all.


An elderly relative has given you money to pay their bills.


they tell you to spend as much as you want.


not taking a "friend" to a concert anymore

You shouldn't expect your friends to take you places all the time.


You never take a turn being the designated driver.


you wouldn't want to do that for your friends.


they are already going there and you meet them at their house.


being mad at my boyfriend for caring about his reputation more than mine

It's wrong to care more about your reputation than your partner's.


Your partner is successful and you are not


You are business partners on the same project.


Having a bad reputation can negatively impact your career.


Caring more will hurt your relationship with your partner.


That's the attitude your partner takes toward you.


Your partner is very careful of your reputation.


Your partner is trying to harm your reputation in some way and you need to protect it.


You want your partner to feel like an equal in the relationship.


not giving my bus seat to an elderly lady

It is honorable to offer your seat on a bus to an older woman.


you are able-bodied and can stand for long periods.


The woman spits on you and you have a broken leg.


You have a disability that makes it hard to stand for long periods of time.


that woman prefers to stand in any event


It's okay to cut off a friend for a good reason.


They have apologized and feel really bad for what they did.


They have no remorse and would do it again.


that friend really needs you in their life


Your friend totalled your car and refuses to compensate you


not posting or commenting on social media posts about my so

It's okay not to comment all the time on social media.

you are talking to a friend that needs help.


You're job is a social media coordinatior.


You find social media triggering for anxiety.


You work as a social media manager for a company.


You want to keep your life private on the internet.


You always get into fights in comment sections


One is expected to obey the rules of the road.


one must swerve out into the wrong lanes to avoid a collision.


the road conditions are particularly bad that day.


You do not want the burden of receiving a traffic ticket.


You need to get to the hospital with a pregnant person.


It is inconsiderate to those you work with to not do your job.


you are just being lazy not wanting to do it.


your boss has asked you to not complete the work.


stealing one of my friends onion rings because he yells offensive slurs at us on a daily basis

When someone steals your food, it's okay to get angry.

it is a starving child who has stolen from your table in a restaurant.


it is your roommate who is constantly eating the food you buy.


It is a small child who doesn’t know better


the thief is another guest at a fine restaurant


You've been doing heavy manual labor all day


The person who stole it was homeless and starving


getting a tattoo that's similar to one that my sister wants

It's wrong to get something that your family wants and they don't have.


you are going to share it with your family.


you know that it will cause great upset.


You're giving it to your family as a gift.


You have the financial means to purchase it and they don't.


You purposefully purchase the last item in stock.


getting into a heated discussion over someone elses dnd character

It is good to control your anger instead of letting it consume you if you are playing a game.


You want everyone to allow you to keep playing with them.


You are willing to walk away from the game.


You want to play the game with the same people again.


You are about to win a tournament for money.


telling an aquantence that the photo she posted was unflattering to her friend

Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest.

Your friend asked you to read their writing.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest.

Your remarks will hurt another person unnecessarily.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest.

Someone is requesting your feedback on their work.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest.

You are a police detective trying to get info out of a suspect


You should use good ingredients for your recipes.

You are just cooking the food for a photoshoot but won't be eating it


You are wanting to sell your food for profit.


you have the means to buy good ingredients


not helping my friend with this phd opportunity he really wants

Hypothesis: You should be supportive of friends.


Hypothesis: You should be supportive of friends.

they are trying to make a better life for themselves.


Hypothesis: You should be supportive of friends.


Hypothesis: You should be supportive of friends.

Your friend is doing something to risk their life.


Hypothesis: You should be supportive of friends.

Your friend is going through a terminal illness.


telling my roommate to clean her room or I will move out

It is expected to keep personal places clean.


Its your own house and you dont have time to clean


it is a woodworking shop and is covered in sawdust.


You're so sick you can't get out of bed.


You're the only able-bodied adult in the house.


It's not okay to let people down when important things like their grades or work is involved.

You have serious problems that need to be taken care of.


You're trying to be the best you can be.


You have tried to help and they don’t appreciate it.


They are stressed and have asked you to help them.


you have a personal emergency like a death in the family.


you truly cannot meet the commitment due to any emergency


It's understandable to not want to take care of someone else's pet.


that person is seriously ill or injured.


they have taken care of things for you when you needed help.


you have already accepted payment to do so.


They have taken care of your pet before.


You don't have any experience taking care of pets.


not hugging my ex - (who started and is dating my then-close friend 2 wks after we broke up) - when she came up to me at a small party

Friends are expected to show loyalty to each other.

You have to choose loyalty to a friend over a family member.


One of the friends is doing something bad and the other must tell the police.


They want to remain close friends for life.


They want to feel like they have someone to count on.


You believe in voting for a different candidate in an election.


A friend is the best candidate in an election.


It's good to be cautious in situations that make you uncomfortable.

You are trying to overcome a fear you have.


Your instincts are telling you something isn't right.


Especially if you are concerned about your safety.


throwing caution to the wind is what makes you comfortable.


You know the situation is safe and your fears are irrational.


It's an objectively dangerous situation.


You always feel ill at ease and suspicious.


Your feelings are reliable indicators of probable danger.


talking to someone who my friends forbid me from being friends with

Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey others.

Others are trying to make you hurt yourself.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey others.

Your conscience tells you that the action is wrong for you to carry out.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey others.

Your conscience tells you the action is right for you and others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey others.

They instruct you to jump off a bridge with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey others.

They are telling you what to do during an emergency.


It's hurtful to confront a partner about their weight.


it is done in a respectful way because you are concerned for their health.


you are rude and make demeaning comments.


they've asked you to be open at all times


breaking up with my gf of 2 years over Snapchat

You shouldn't use snapchat to break up with someone.

the whole of your relationship has taken place there.


They are abusive and you fear for your safety.


You know that they are not going to take it well in person.


You are in a long distance relationship.


it is an online relationship and you have never met in person.


you have been together for years and are just afraid to do it in person.


being upset with my girlfriend for flirting with another guy

It's okay to be upset with your partner if they flirt with other people.


You also enjoy flirting with other people.


You've asked them not to do that many times.


leaving my group early during a presentation project to do a solo project

You shouldn't leave a group that needs you to complete a presentation project.

you have to go to work on something else important


you have no other responsibilities to handle


you have been given orders to leave the group.


You are in a major accident and are unable to complete the project.


None of you could come to an agreement on the topic and the tension is unbearable.


The other group members have issues with speaking in public.


It's normal to tip restaurant workers in most cases.


They were attentive and never left a drink empty


saying no to going to formal with someone

It's rude to decline an offer that was given to you.


it is something you have been working for.


The offer was a gift of stolen property.


The offer was to return a favor from a close friend.


reporting a man who was making lewd comments at a nude beach, but actually turned out to be an outburst of Tourette's

Hypothesis: It's rude to make lewd comments.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make lewd comments.


Hypothesis: It's rude to make lewd comments.

unless you are by yourself watching a show.


Hypothesis: You should do favors for your family.


Hypothesis: You should do favors for your family.

You were abused by your family as a child


Hypothesis: You should do favors for your family.

your family always has your back in situations


Hypothesis: You should do favors for your family.

they are things your family member now needs assistance with.


People who speak too fast often have to repeat themselves.


They dont forget to include important words


They are speaking in their second language


being frustrated at family member exposing my 3 month child to the flu

Adults should know better than to expose themselves to the vulnerable when they're sick.

There are precautions such as hazmat suits involved.


They are around small children, elderly people, or those with weak immune systems.


The adults believe they have seasonal allergies.


They are a care worker and have no choice but to be in contact with them.


They could easily avoid them and stay home.


The vulnerable are sick with the same ailment.


They expose themselves to children or seniors.


leaving a 1 star public review for a local restaurant

It is rude to leave bad reviews for local businesses before talking to the owners.


The owner was the cause of the bad review.


The owners are rude and won't talk to you.


showing disrespect and hostility toward my autistic roommate

Hypothesis: It is wrong to be hostile.

You are being surrounded by more than one person trying to do you harm.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be hostile.

You want the situation to not become violent.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be hostile.


moving my part of the furniture (~90% of it all) out of the apartment a month before my roomie moves out

It's okay to have your own property and do with it as you wish.


Doing so endangers your neighbors or visitors to your property.


You want to do some landscaping to improve your homes appeal.


You are building fires in your backyard that could burn down your neighbor's house.


You live in a remote area and don't have neighbors who will be bothered by your extragavent holiday decorations and elaborate lawn art.


What you wish is to manufacture weapons of mass destruction.


not being able to come to a family holiday because I've made my own plans and now I've been cut off and disowned

It is expected to spend holidays with family.

You live in a different country from your family.


You live in the same town as your family.


telling my roommate to be more at her boyfriends place

You have a right to request a roommate do you a favor.

You constantly ask for favors without giving back.


Your roommate has asked you not to talk to them.


Your roommate often asks you to do them favors.


you have asked for too many favors recently


You aren't getting along well with them and are not on talking terms.


You have done them a favor and they owe you one.


wanting my significant other to care as much about her fitness and appearance as I do

No one has a right to tell their partner how to behave.

They are at a library and are being extremely loud.


They are going down on one knee and about to propose.


Their partner is performing an illegal activity.


Their partner is not harming anyone or breaking any laws.


their behavior is extremely unacceptable


they do not want their partner to tell them how to behave


Their partner just received an award for their kindness.


reporting my coworker for making crude jokes

Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

your friends have done something very wrong and others are put at risk.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

you want to remain a part of your group of friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

The person is planning to become involved in a dangerous situation.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

There will be no lasting harm done by the person's actions.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

What you're telling about is very serious and can help prevent harm to someone else.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

The crime is not serious and you don't want to see more people in trouble than need be.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

The person is trying to help another stay safe.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be a tattletale.

By telling on someone, it doesn't help a problem.


It's understandable not to like someone who has influence over your life.


The person is a teacher who discriminates against you.


Their influence has impacted you positively and been beneficial.


They have have a negative and controlling influence over your life.


The person has a very positive effect on your life.


The person won't let you do things you enjoy


you gave that person the influence they have


If someone is suspicious of you, you should talk to them about their concerns.


It is the result of a simple misunderstanding.


you are a criminal trying to evade police.


It's understandable to get frustrated with your siblings.


They keep barging into your room without knocking.


Your siblings are annoying and well aware of their behavior.


Four siblings are packed into one bedroom


Hypothesis: It's rude to miss a family funeral.

You are in a different state and your flight was canceled due to the weather.


Hypothesis: It's rude to miss a family funeral.

The family member viewed you as their favorite.


Hypothesis: It's rude to miss a family funeral.


Hypothesis: It's rude to miss a family funeral.

You were very close to the person who died.


Hypothesis: It's rude to miss a family funeral.

You're very ill and in a hospital bed unable to attend and you gave notice.


Hypothesis: It's rude to miss a family funeral.

You were very close to the person and family expects you to be there.


being unsure if I should even do anything for my gf on their birthday and valentines day

Birthday and valentines day gifts are nice and dont always have to break the bank.


its a very special birthday and they're expecting something large


your partner shares your taste in experiences over items


You need to save money for other important things


You have no one in your life to give a gift to for special occasions.


You believe that it's the thought that counts.


expecting reciprocation of gifts for holidays/birthdays from my so

It's hurtful not to receive a gift from a loved one on a special occasion.


you requested no gifts for the occasion.


the special occasion is a milestone event.


The loved one is struggling financially.


You know that they don't have much money.


They have bought presents for others in the past.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to resent a child.

the child has done something irreparable to you or your loved ones


Hypothesis: It is wrong to resent a child.

the child doesn't realize their actions harmed you in some way


Hypothesis: It is wrong to resent a child.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to resent a child.

If it's your child who you chose to have.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to resent a child.

Unless you are a child and they are mean to you.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to resent a child.

you are also a child and don't know better.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to resent a child.

you are bitter because you never wanted to have a child.


getting really annoyed when the parents of the kids did not acknowledge that I gave up my seat for their kid

It's good to give up your seat for someone.

You are physically handicapped and require the seat.


You have a broken leg and are in a cast.


You are young and give it to an elderly person.


You have a condition and need to stay off your feet,


You can see they have a health issue and would appreciate a break.


sleeping with a co-worker who has a boyfriend

it is wrong to sleep with someone who has a boyfriend


Their boyfriend is one of your best friends.


Their boyfriend is also sleeping with the both of you.


Their boyfriend really cares about them.


slut shaming a girl who virgin shamed me

It is understandable to want to retaliate when someone insults you.


They embarrassed you in front of a crowd of people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to curse at people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to curse at people.

You are an actor saying a line from a script.


Hypothesis: It is rude to curse at people.

There are young children around to hear it.


not wanting to stay an extra hour at work because they are short staffed

Hypothesis: It's good to help out at work.

it keeps you from doing your own assignments.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at work.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at work.

You don't get paid for working overtime.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at work.

you aren't able to finish your own work.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at work.

you have some down time and can help out.


walking fast like everyone in NYC and bumping into someone

It is rude to bump into someone by walking fast.

you are trying to get away from someone.


there isn't any room to walk without touching someone


it is expected that one will be bumped into.


You are in an emergency and need to be somewhere as fast as possible.


You are in no hurry and could have easily avoided it.


bringing up the obvious imbalance in who does the housework in my family home

It is okay to highlight unfair family situations.

You're at a funeral when the focus is on someone else


doing so harms the family more than helps


doing so will help the family resolve issues


You are upset your sister drives, but you are only 10.


A family member cannot do their fair share of chores because they are sick.


Other family members are not helping you out around the house.


Children benefit from the unfair situations being highlighted.


asking a family if I can play through in miniature golf

You should let someone play through in miniature golf if they ask you.

you're playing at a quicker tempo than them


You are a parent with a child interested in golf.


the other person is alone and you are in a large group of players.


You should be more respectful of advertising since websites need ads to generate profit.


the website doesn't pay for its servers and hosting otherwise


The website provides substantial useful information for free.


The site gives you important information.


sending a video of a bus driver running a stop sign

Reporting reckless driving associated with public transportation is expected.

They were only going a few miles over the speed limit


The reckless driving was because of a high speed chase.


The person driving has a history of doing so.


you are not in a position to make the report at the time


you have time to send an email or make a phone call at the time


The jurisdiction has not established a way to report such problems.


not telling my girlfriend that I used to date her best friend

It's understandable that you think your significant other might not understand your past relationships.

They have had toxic relationships in the past themselves.


You are the first person they have been in a relationship with.


you have talked extensively about your relationship in couple's therapy


you have a hard time opening up to your significant other


Your significant other has never been in a relationship before


They have never been in a relationship before.


they had similar past experiences with relationships


you were severely abused in a previous relationship


wanting to kick out my brother again knowing he has no one left

You should expect your family to take you in when you have nobody to lean on.


You've always contributed to the family as much as you could.


Unless you have taken advantage of them before.


Especially if you are willing to help them.


they have a restraining order against you.


It is wrong to concern yourself with someone else's personal life.


doing so will help save another person's life.


there is no good reason to involve yourself.


You love them and they are doing bad drugs


You know they are supporting themselves just fine


assuming the 1-1.5 hour gap in my work day could be used to my discretion

It's okay to think you deserve a break when you spend the rest of your time working at work.

Your responsible for children in your personal life.


You got all your projects done and they were highly reviewed.


telling my friend his essays is bad and he should rewrite it

It's okay to offer advice to a friend about his schoolwork.


You are very good at a subject that your friend is having trouble understanding.


You don't know how to do the schoolwork either.


Unless they haven't asked for your advice.


Especially if they asked for your advice.


They are stubborn and get angry when you do


wanting my girlfriend to not disclose her seizure disorder to her boss unless she has one at work

It's wrong not to disclose medical issues with your boss.


they don't affect, or are related to your job.


it has no bearing on the job you are doing for them.


they ask if you can specifically do a task that your medical issue will not allow.


Disclosing the issues would embarrass you.


The medical issues will result in you missing a lot of work.


getting into a heated discussion over someone elses dnd character

It is expected that people won't be too emotionally invested over a game character.


The game character is written to go through traumatic events.


The game character only interacts with the player for a few minutes.


That character looks like them or someone they love.


That character doesn't look like them or their loved ones.


They have put hundreds of hours into the game.


not inviting my mums new partner to a family event my dad will be at

It's okay to try and prevent a event from turning into a disaster.

You're not educated in how to prevent this type of event.


You went to school to learn about this kind of event.


You violate many people's civil liberties to do so.


You are a scientist performing specific experiments.


You are wanting everything to be perfect for it.


You have to kill an innocent child in the process.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to travel alone.

You are already on a trip with someone else.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to travel alone.

You are an introvert and need alone time.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to travel alone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to travel alone.

You're traveling somewhere very dangerous.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to travel alone.

Your travel companions never plan or pack properly


paying to get my part of the chores done

It's expected that you do chores assigned to you.


Everyone else has completed their chores already.


you were dealing with an emergency and were not able to attend to the chores.


you are at work, and they are part of your job requirements.


you are being paid a weekly allowance for the chores.


You are very sick and can not get out of bed


It's okay to not want to be friends with someone.


They like to tell everyone about your secrets


ghosting a guy because of his taste in films

It's fine to choose not to pursue a relationship with someone, for any reason.

You are the parent of that person, and they are underage.


You're trying to form a work relationship for your job.


You're trying to form a romantic relationship.


You live in a culture with arranged marriages.


Someone is giving you erroneous information to make you break up.