telling a friend they shouldnt get a dog

It is a good idea to share your concerns with a friend about getting a pet.


Your friend is considering an endangered species.


you are just trying to be difficult about it.


they have their mind made up about getting a dog.


You know your friend won't listen to you anyway and might be offended.


You're concerned about their health, like they may have an allergy for example.


you will be the only one around the pet and can take sole responsibility for it.


it's a large pet that requires lots of care.


When dealing with your fiances family you are supposed to be kind and patient.


They are making an effort to make you welcome.


they have been kind and patient with you.


the family has been mean and hurtful to you.


telling her on April Fools that her best friend was pregnant with my baby

It is understandable that someone would be upset when you lie to them.

you lie to spare their feelings about wearing an ugly dress.


you are keeping a surprise party secret from them.


Unless they always lie, so you're trying to show them how it feels.


Especially if you promised to always be honest.


you were trying to spare their feelings.


you lied about their partner cheating on them.


not wanting to celebrate my birthday with my family

It's good to celebrate birthdays with family.


You are not on speaking terms with members of your family.


the family members cannot get along with each other.


You should have your kids call you more.

Your children have died in a car accident.


You are trying to get closer to your children.


they are out of the country and are on a budget.


your kids live in a different country where calling is expensive


when they call you never pick up the phone.


not wanting my best friend to remain friends with my ex

It is okay to want loyalty from your friends.


Your loyalty would make them commit a crime.


Your friends require you to do illegal things to obtain their loyalty.


You have no one else in your life that is loyal to you.


if you've been loyal to them in the past.


Knowing they are loyal brings you comfort.


being upset that my friends didn't try to reach out to me when they knew I was trying to kill myself

When your friend attempts suicide, you should reach out to them.


Someone else is already helping the friend.


You are the only one that can save the friend.


they have said they want nothing to do with you.


they have brought up the thought of suicide before.


They're in a mental health care facility that doesn't allow visitors.


You know how to help them through their problems.


being annoyed that the girl I'm dating gives money to panhandlers

Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.

you don't know the others and don't interact with them


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.

they are your family members and friends


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.

It means you are giving too much of yourself.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.


not being honest with my (now ex) girlfriend about my military service

It's understandable that we don't always want to tell everyone everything.


We have just told the story to several other people.


telling them could come back to bite you later on.


You are at the doctor and it's vital they have a complete health history.


You are hiding embarrassing things you've done.


not giving an old lady my spot in line at the checkout

You should always help you elders if able.


you are injured or in a rush and unable to help


They have made it clear they do not want your help


They are having a hard time without your help


feeling wronged by my "Ex" dating another person

It's okay to date other people if you broke up with someone.


you would like to eventually get married


you find someone you would like to date.


You are just taking time off the relationship.


You haven't been in a relationship for al ong time.


You are rebounding straight away to feel better about yourself.


you need more time for your heart to heal.


You shouldn't want to get away from the people you live with.


you are living with them for free or without paying rent


Unless the people you live with are insensitive bullies who always try to make you feel inferior.


Especially if the people you live with are good friends and only want the best for you.


they refuse to clean up after themselves.


they tend to play loud music all hours of the night.


not eating cake at my mom's birthday party? ft. r/entitledparents

It is rude to refuse food offered to you


You are meeting your significant other's parents for the first time.


you have requested the food from the person.


Your host will be offended if you don't try the food they specially prepared for you.


telling my husband leave work to drive me to the auto repair shop

It is expected to be there for your spouse when they need help.

They are doing something against the law.


you need to tend to the needs of your baby


your spouse routinely helps you when asked


They are there for you when you need help.


not wanting to give my ex's little sister rides to places anymore

You are not expected to continue favors after a relationship ends.


You had children together and have to share custody of the children.


The relationship was an abusive relationship.


you maintain a really good friendship with the person.


the other person has been very mean or hurtful toward you.


you have decided to continue being close friends


you are no longer in a good amount of contact or staying friends


It's good to apologize to someone if you hurt them in some way.

That person also hurt you and you want nothing to do with them


You want to continue to have a relationship with that person


Apologizing to that person puts your life in danger.


Apologizing to that person would improve their quality of life.


you don't realize that you've hurt them.


you want to make things right with them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get revenge on others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get revenge on others.

unless there is no other way to get justice.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get revenge on others.

The other person did something illegal and your revenge is reporting them to the police.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get revenge on others.

You know it is going to get you in trouble with the law.


You shouldn't turn someone down based on their looks.


Their looks make it impossible to do what you are turning them down for


It is acceptable to have emotional responses to things.

your emotional response might be very upsetting to other people.


Your at work and have to act professional.


You have had a relevant bad experience in the past.


not wanting to play Smash with my friends

Hypothesis: It is rude not to share games.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share games.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share games.

You know the other person won't take proper care of it.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share games.

You want them to share with you in the future.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share games.

you are told to keep your games to yourself.


Hypothesis: You should love your parents.

Your parents were very abusive to you throughout your life.


Hypothesis: You should love your parents.

They provided you with a good place to live, love, and food to eat.


Hypothesis: You should love your parents.


Hypothesis: You should love your parents.

they have done everything they can for you.


telling my Ex's roommates they are bad friends

It's okay to confront people with their character flaws.

They can't control their character flaws due to disabilities.


They have been really nasty towards you.


This might provide them a path to a more fulfilling life.


taking a new job and underestimating the amount of taxes that would be taken out of my signing bonus to my wife

It is wrong to keep financial information from a spouse.

you are hiding it to buy them an anniversary gift.


it can negatively affect their financial standing as well.


You're saving extra money to buy them a present.


They could make bad decisions as a result of not having the information.


You are planning to escape an abusive partner.


The income is from your partner's labors.


It is okay to concerned about your partner's habits.

You're taking it too far and it's become a stalking issue.


You suspect your partner may have an addiction problem.


Your partner's habits are healthy, such as always doing the dishes after dinner.


Your partner is doing something that is illegal.


their habits are healthy and personal habits they're working on


their habits are harming them and you want to help them


asking my roommate/best friend who is (currently) an unemployed single mom of 3 to find another place to live

You should help a friend who is going thru a bad time in their life.

they have not told you that they're having a tough time.


they need to talk and you're a good listener.


You have directly caused the bad time yourself.


You are the reason that they are having a bad time.


They are dragging you into dangerous drug activity.


They supported you when you were at rock bottom.


They have expressed a desire to currently be alone


Your friend will benefit from your help significantly


hooking up with a girl my friend had hooked up up with and told me about it

It's fine to hook up with someone you're attracted to.


That person is already in a relationship


they very much want to hook up with you.


purposefully avoiding a kid who I find very annoying

You shouldn't be so annoying that people don't want to be around you.

The people you are annoying are not good people to be around.


You need others to help you with a project.


telling my boyfriend I don't think I could keep doing long distance

It's good to be honest with a partner even if you need to tell them something that will make them sad.

you can downplay it and spare their feelings.


it's a medical issue that needs to be addressed.


You spent a lot of money from a joint account.


you know deep down it will only cause extreme hurt.


You are trying to make fun of your partner.


You are trying to build a transparent relationship.


wanting my neighbor to move his bricks and trash cans off my property

You should be considerate of your neighbors.


Your neighbors are doing dangerous things.


You want to have a peaceful relationship.


your neighbors are deliberately being obnoxious toward you


your neighbors are kind and pleasant in return


they are extremely rude and mean to you.


being sick of my Girlfriends Weird 'friend'

It's understandable that sometimes people annoy us.

those people are not trying to be annoying or have social issues


accepting nudes from people that are not my significant other

Accepting sexually explicit images that aren't of your partner is wrong.


your partner is aware and encourages it.


You and your partner have an arrangement.


Your partner is very much against all kinds of pornography.


not helping my friend socialize and get a boyfriend

Hypothesis: You should get out more and socialize.


Hypothesis: You should get out more and socialize.


Hypothesis: You should get out more and socialize.

You have the flu and don't want to get others sick.


Hypothesis: You should get out more and socialize.

You want to expand your networking skills.


Hypothesis: You should get out more and socialize.

You've been staying inside a lot lately.


refusing to attend my late father's family reunion

It's good to take some time to oneself in order to heal

You require time in the intensive care unit.


You've gone through an emotional trauma.


You are needed to get back out in the field and protect others.


You can't do things on your own while you're healing.


You have a newborn with nobody to help you.


Being on your feet will cause further injury.


Hypothesis: It is okay to prioritize your own needs


Hypothesis: It is okay to prioritize your own needs

You haven't done anything for yourself in a long time.


Hypothesis: It is okay to prioritize your own needs

Unless you are responsible for the care of a small child.


Hypothesis: It is okay to prioritize your own needs

You spend all day taking care of others.


Hypothesis: It is okay to prioritize your own needs

others who are close to you really need your help


Hypothesis: It is okay to prioritize your own needs

someone else has needs that are far more important than yours.


Hypothesis: It is okay to prioritize your own needs

others are trying to take advantage of you for no reason.


not wanting to go to my grandmothers funeral to support my mom

Hypothesis: It's good to support your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your parents.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your parents.

they are in a bad spot and need your help


Hypothesis: It's good to support your parents.

Your parents are bad people who take advantage.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your parents.

Your parents have always taken care of you.


Hypothesis: It's good to support your parents.

they really need help with what they are doing.


It is expected that friends will be honest with each other.


The friends are trying to build deeper bonds.


The friend is trying to not hurt their friends feelings


The other person would be embarrassed it the truth were withheld.


the secret being kept would hurt a friend


one has been friends with someone for a long time


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

you are already financially independent.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

you have been unemployed for quite some time.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

you aren't old enough to get a work permit.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

you are wanting to find a better paying job.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

You're moving away before you'd have a chance to start working.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

you have a family to support and bills are piling up.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

they are more physically demanding than you can handle.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

you have no intention of taking any of those jobs.


Hypothesis: It's good to apply for jobs.

you have no way of supporting yourself otherwise.


It is not good to break up a relationship


The relationship is progressing toward marriage.


One of the people in the relationship is being abusive.


the people in the relationship are happy together and you're doing it for selfish reasons.


The relationship members are causing each other physical harm.


thinking someone can go back on a favor they've offered

Hypothesis: You should keep the promises you make.


Hypothesis: You should keep the promises you make.


Hypothesis: You should keep the promises you make.

you actually genuinely cannot hold the promise


Hypothesis: You should keep the promises you make.

you've made it clear that you certainly can pull through on the promise


Hypothesis: You should keep the promises you make.

What your promising hurts somebody else.


Hypothesis: You should keep the promises you make.

If you want to maintain a good relationship.


Hypothesis: You should keep the promises you make.

You promised something that would put someone in danger.


not treating sensitive people differently

It's good to be aware of the needs of others.


It is a life or death situation for yourself.


thinking it's unnecessary for my wife to add salad to my vegetarian cooking

Hypothesis: It's OK to switch things up.


Hypothesis: It's OK to switch things up.


Hypothesis: It's OK to switch things up.

what you are doing isn't working very well.


accepting a car from my dad in exchange of not telling my mum he cheated

It is wrong to hide your father's affair from your mother.

Your mother already wants to kill your father.


Your father has been remarried to someone else.


Your mother is sick with cancer and needs all her strength to recover instead of agonizing about an affair.


Your mother should not waste any more years of her life with a man who is deceiving her.


you are hoping that he will stop and she'll never find out.


your father is having an affair with another man.


you feel it isn't your business to talk about it.


telling my friends the story of my cousin's death

It is okay to ask for help from friends when dealing with familial death.

your friends are dealing with their own loss.


They are dealing with a death in their own family at the same time.


They lost a family member in the past and would understand what you're going through.


They're currently currently dealing with a death in their own family.


Your friend was close to your loved one that died.


People will think you're a bad parent if you don't love your children.


your children are aware you don't love them


your children have done grave things making it hard to love them


you wish to come across as a good parent


they can't see the problems in your home.


Your children are trying to abuse you or take advantage of you.


Your children outwardly show love and affection towards you.


ghosting a guy who bought something from me after he probably broke it and wanted his money back

It's wrong to not take responsibility for your actions.

you will be excessively punished for taking responsibility


Taking responsibility will directly lead to harming more people.


You have many others looking up to you as a leader.


taking responsibility for what you jeopardizes a loved ones safety.


You want to become a better person down the line.


Taking responsibility could cause others harm.


Taking responsibility could help others.


not telling my friends it was my birthday and then feeling salty

Friends shouldn't have to be told about important dates.

You know your friend has a lot on their plate right now.


The date is especially significant to both of you.


they have a history of not remembering them.


The important dates are about new project events.


You are trying to find out who your true friends are


They have a short term memory loss problem.


getting upset with my so about communicating repeatedly with her ex

It is not okay to talk to exes once you have moved on.


you argued constantly with them before the breakup.


they were physically abusive in the relationship.


you see them a lot and it would be rude not to.


you have gotten into another relationship.


seeing a blind homeless man and pretending to almost kick him to see if he's actually blind

It is rude to taunt or physically harm people with disabilities.


They have asked you to help train them how to handle the abuse.


They are being really obnoxious to other people.


You are very close to the person and you both do this with each, have talked about it, and it is okay with both people.


trying to knock my friend down a peg for becoming an EMT

Hypothesis: It is rude to not support a friend.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not support a friend.

the friend has been good to you and needs support.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not support a friend.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not support a friend.

They are in the middle of winning a contest


wanting to invite a friend to my birthday that another friend doesn't get along with

You should try to get along with your friends' friends.


they live close by so you will see them a lot


They go out of their way to undermine you with your friend.


Your friendship depends on everyone's cooperation.


you want to spend more time with your friend.


taking my neighbor's free gift from a cable company

It makes sense that your neighbor will be angry.


you borrowed something and lost or broke it.


you took an item from them without asking.


You broke something that you borrowed from them.


being pissed that my gf just bought her ex a new car

It's okay to be upset if your partner buys something expensive for an ex.


they have a good and ongoing relationship with your ex


they don't communicate with you and your current partner


the ex is a big part of your friend group.


Your partner is going into business with the ex.


They are contractually obligated by law.


It's expected that students should be respectful to teachers.


chewing out my friend/coworker for calling my work ethic into question

Hypothesis: It's wrong to chew out your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to chew out your friends.

You're trying not to get your friends angry.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to chew out your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to chew out your friends.

They are doing something dangerous to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to chew out your friends.

your friends aren't doing anything illegal or unethical.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to chew out your friends.

They are trying to take your keys so you don't drive drunk.


not tipping at an solo owner-operated cafe

It is expected to tip when you go out to eat.

You are eating at a fast food restaurant like Wendy's.


The waiter at your table does an outstanding job.


The meal is all-inclusive and it's part of a package deal.


Your server was attentive and gave you great service.


not being able to communicate in a long distance relationship during competitive exams

When you are studying for exams it is OK to tell your partner you can't talk as much.


Your partner is relying on you to help with the same exams.


You require absolute silence to study properly.


you need to do well on the exam to pass your class


you've been watching TV and slacking off.


telling my friend to fuck off in class and getting her in trouble over a creepy eye movie

You shouldn't tell your friend to f*ck off.


You are trying to be nice to your friends.


rescinding a date offer since she decided to bring a friend on a relatively expensive first date

If you are the one paying, you can say when the dinners plans are cancelled.


it is really close to the starting time of the dinner event


you give people a good amount of notice before the event starts


The dinner plans are for someone else's birthday.


You are taking someone out for their birthday


You always pay and no one ever chips in on the bill


trying to get a group of smokers to use an ash tray

Telling other people what to do is rude.


you have not been asked for advice or directions


you are just their peer and not any type of authority over them.


They work for you and you're their boss.


You have never met them before and just talk to them online.


It's fine to not care about a past partner.


they are absolutely alone and have no other support.


they have hurt you very badly in the past.


You depend on your past partner for emotional support.


feeling defended and not wanting to continue my manager duties

You should always do what is required of you at your job.

your boss is asking you to do something illegal.


your job is very beneficial to other people.


it's a normal part of your job description.


You are being asked to do something that is illegal.


You agreed to do the work when you were hired.


the boss has asked you to do something illegal or immoral.


you want to keep your job and not get fired.


being upset about the amount of cleaning and work I do in my flat

It is rude to not help out with somebody cleaning.


You spilled something and made the mess.


You don't have any previous commitments for that time.


You are living in their house rent free.


You were the one who threw a party the evening before.


not visiting my girlfriend of 1 year in hospital

It's good to take care of your sick significant other.

They're already in the hospital receiving treatment.


They need to remain under strict quarantine.


You want them to help you when you get sick.


pouring hot coffee into the trash at Starbucks when I need more room for cream

Hypothesis: It's bad to waste food.


Hypothesis: It's bad to waste food.


Hypothesis: It's bad to waste food.

The food smells like it may be unsafe to eat.


telling people that my friend has been cheating on his girlfriend for the last 3 months

It is not good to involve yourself in others' relationships

they've explicitly asked you for your advice


you don't know them and their relationship well


It is to help this relationship in a positive way


Doing so will cause harm to the relationship


one of the people in the relationship is being seriously harmed.


the relationship is very healthy for the people involved.


You have information that could help resolve the others' conflicts.


You only know one member of the relationship.


You should do everything you can to provide for your family.


You have several children to take care of.


Okay not to order something for another person.


you don't know what that person might want


The person is incapable of ordering for themselves


The person has requested that you do not order for them


they are not able to order for themselves.


accidentally cheating on my ex and lying about it

It is okay to choose your own romantic partners

your family's traditions is for arranged marriage.


you want to find partners with interests similar to yours.


You are in a culture where marriages are arranged.


You have a good idea of what kind of person you like.


you are certain of your feelings about someone


getting mad at my roommates because of their cat

You should learn to accept your roommate's pets.


The roommate's pets are being poorly cared for and need help.


You want them to be accepting of you and your pets.


refusing to help my boyfriend with his VR world building project

It is expected that you are supportive of your significant other


they are always there for you when you need them.


your significant other is causing you harm.


your significant other is going through a difficult time.


They cheated on you and stole your belongings.


They recently lost a family member to a tragic accident


You are the breadwinner of the relationship


Friend's are expected to help each other out if they can.

the friend has their own issues and cannot afford the time


those people have been friends for a long time


One of the friends is acting in an abusive manner.


One friend has recently had a great loss.


A friend has insisted they'd prefer to do something on their own.


you can see that your friend is struggling unnecessarily.


they have family obligations to attend to


calling my roommate out in front of people

If you're angry with someone, it's considerate to speak to them privately about it.


you fear for your personal safety if you're alone with this person.


you have had a very good relationship with them.


The situation involves other people too.


you want to keep the relationship peaceful.


cutting my "sick" grandma out of my life

Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.

You're using it as an excuse to leave an uncomfortable, potentially dangerous, blind date.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.

You aren't sick, you just don't want to go to work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.

You are avoiding a boss that treats you badly


Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.

People at work or school are counting on you to be there


Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.

you just need a mental health day off from work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to pretend to be sick.

people are depending on you to get a project done.


Hypothesis: A reasonable tip is acceptable.


Hypothesis: A reasonable tip is acceptable.

The waitstaff went over and above good service.


cutting out an old friend I had issues with

It is okay to stand up for yourself and set boundaries

You still live with your parents and are underage.


You are a manager speaking to employees.


standing up for yourself could result in a dangerous situation, like being mugged


people are putting you down and telling you you're worthless


You are dealing with someone who tends to take advantage of you.


not being part of my boyfriend's Sunday game nights

It's not OK to leave your partner out of your plans too often.

Your partner has to work late frequently.


Your free time together is very limited.


you want to surprise your partner on their birthday


their involvement is required to make sure your plans go smoothly


you don't have  a lot of free time to spend together.


deciding to keep my mattress and box spring instead of trading it as I agreed

Hypothesis: Backing out of a deal is frowned upon.


Hypothesis: Backing out of a deal is frowned upon.


Hypothesis: Backing out of a deal is frowned upon.

You have signed a legally binding contract.


Hypothesis: Backing out of a deal is frowned upon.

The other person is taking advantage of you.


Hypothesis: Backing out of a deal is frowned upon.

you have already expressly agreed to the deal.


Hypothesis: Backing out of a deal is frowned upon.

the terms are changed at the last minute.


Hypothesis: Backing out of a deal is frowned upon.

both parties have already reached an agreement.


wanting to report my father for using my social to take out cable accounts in my name

It's wrong to steal another person's identity.

you are in the witness protection program.


You are an FBI agent trying to infiltrate a terrorist organization


The person you are stealing from is an old lady


calling a club owner a "short little leprechaun" and telling him that he would never find a girlfriend after not taking down a Facebook photo of me

It's rude to refuse to take down a photo of someone on Facebook.


By removing it you would erase evidence of a heinous crime


You took the photo without their consent


It wasn't the person in the photo asking.


someone is being bullied or harassed over it.


there is someone in the photo that asks you to remove it.


they weren't the main focus of the photo.


they are humiliating themselves in the photo.


You should discuss issues with your siblings.

Your siblings are hateful and want nothing to do with you


You love your siblings and want the best for them


you wish to get good guidance from someone close to you


You are figuring out your parent's will.


wanting my elderly mother to live with me and my family even though my husband is against it

Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

They are asking you to cover up a murder.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

You are underage and still living at home.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

they want you to do something illegal or evil.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

they are asking you to do something perfectly reasonable.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

it is because they are doing something illegal.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

the rules are in place for a good reason.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

Your family members are asking you to do something illegal or harmful.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.

Your family consists of reasonable and moral people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disobey your family.


not staying in contact with my drug addicted friend

Hypothesis: It is good to avoid drug problems.

You actually need the drugs to cure some illness and have to endure the side effects


Hypothesis: It is good to avoid drug problems.

The drugs are ruining your life and others lives


Hypothesis: It is good to avoid drug problems.

the drugs are taken in moderation and in controlled environments only occasionally


Hypothesis: It is good to avoid drug problems.

one gets into a habit of taking drugs regularly


Hypothesis: It is good to avoid drug problems.

the drugs are prescribed by a doctor for a serious illness.


Hypothesis: It is good to avoid drug problems.


Hypothesis: It is good to avoid drug problems.

You are trying to get into the military.


not acknowledging people I used to hang out with for most of my early and late teens

You shouldn't expect your old friends to acknowledge you after a long time has passed.

Your old friends still know you very well.


The last time you talked to them ended in a huge fight.


Your appearance has changed drastically.


you never made any effort to contact them.


You were recently rescued after being stranded on a desert island.


You have lived near your old friends for years and did not reach out to them.


telling my mom I won't be telling her my university grades

It is reasonable to be upset if your child is hiding things from you.

The child is hiding a present the child made for my birthday


The child is injured and needs medical help.


they have stolen something from the store.


They are hiding a surprise party for your birthday.


You've overreacted when they've shared things with you in the past.


You're still expected to pay your debt even when jobless.


You want to have a high credit rating so it can be checked for the next job.


You are bankrupt and completely unable to pay.


you can make arrangements with your creditors.


You literally might not have the money to pay those debts.


Failure to pay your debts means you will have to pay more money later in the form of increased interest on your debts.


feeling jealous over my wife's past experiences

It's expected that your significant other will have had past relationships.

Unless you have been together and exclusive since you were children.


You didn't meet until you were in your 30's.


you meet your significant other when you are 50 years old.


You are expected to have sympathy for other people.


they brought the misery upon themselves.


Sisters can be very forgiving when you tease them.


they are in the middle of an emotional breakup.


You go too far and seriously injure them.


They get tired of you teasing them constantly.


It's okay to be direct with a family member about a bad quality.

They did their best and aren't capable of doing it any better.


They intentionally tried to produce bad quality.


you are afraid of hurting their feelings.


you think talking about it will help them.


it isn't something that is harmful to them or anyone else.


not wanting to spend 2 nights at a hotel with my parents because I would have to share a room with them

It's hurtful to refuse to share a hotel room with your parents.


you have reserved a large room for them.


You are staying with your significant other


One or both parents is in need of special assistance


You will be staying out late and would disturb them.


kicking my new roommate's bf out of the apartment at 2am

It's rude to be asked to leave someone's house in the middle of the night.

you have shown up and come in uninvited.


they invited you, and you are really far from home with no transportation available.


you've overstayed your welcome at that person's house


you've been drinking and have no means of getting home


continuing a relationship I know won't last

It's ok to have casual dating relationships.


you are not in a committed relationship.


You are open and honest about your other relationships.


you are not ready to settle down with one person


being upset that my friends purposefully excluded me from outings

It's good to talk with your friends about what is bothering you about the relationship.

You know that it will cause one of your friends to become suicidal.


You want things to change in the relationship.


you know it will cause more harm than good.


they have a history of bad relationships.


they have a history of positive relationships.


You are trying to build a deeper connection with the friend.


breaking my brother-in-law's expensive VR system after he and my wife played a very cruel joke on me

Hypothesis: It's bad to play mean jokes on someone.

the other person knows you are going to do it.


Hypothesis: It's bad to play mean jokes on someone.


Hypothesis: It's bad to play mean jokes on someone.

You are getting someone back for always playing mean pranks on people


Hypothesis: It's bad to play mean jokes on someone.

They are very young and get scared easily


It's expected that friends should help each other out.

They live on other ends of the globe and can't even see each other.


One friend is showing signs of being suicidal.


recommending a friend to invest in Bitcoin, only for it to decrease ~50% in value the following month resulting in him losing thousands of dollars

It is difficult to recommend cryptocurrency.


You do not understand how to correctly explain its use


It's someone who has lots of time and could benefit from mining it.


The cryptocurrency market is especially volitile.


You've made a lot of money of it yourself.


wanting to have an abortion even though a family is offering to adopt

It is not good to leave a family waiting for a child that is never coming.


I cannot think of anything logical for this one at all.


there's still hope that the child may come.


they know the child won't be coming ever.


leaving my family to go live with my aunt and not forgiving my father

It's fine to remove yourself from a bad relationship.


you need to get away to stay sane yourself.


You are gathering evidence against the person.


You are the problem in the relationship.


It is rude to insult another persons children.


they are being unreasonable and out of control.


they are family and you're trying to help.


Their children intentionally hurt your child.


The child is just learning how to speak.


You are friends with the children's parents.


drawing attention to the disparity in income with my snooty coworkers

You should never be snooty in regards to how much money you have.

you are attending an event at the Country Club.


you know others around you are less fortunate.


You are talking to someone who is underprivileged.


Unless someone is treating you like you're not a worthy person.


You're talking to someone who's not as well off as you are.


You are trying to appear like others in the group in order to get along.


You know the person you are talking to has fallen on hard times.


You should be careful of who you choose to live with.

you absolutely have no other person to live with.


you have lots of freedom in where you can live.


You plan on living there for a long time.


You are homeless and it is freezing outside.


You are a military recruit and have no choice.


you're just living together for a very short time.


asking the gifted phone back from my girlfriend, after we broke up

It's wrong to keep expensive things another person gave you after splitting up.


the items are sentimental to the person you split up with


you have agreed to split all your holdings 50-50.


it's personal or embarrassing to the person


They have agreed to split all your belongings.


They didn't give permission for you to take the items.


trying to help someone go into the correct restroom

Hypothesis: It is good to help others.


Hypothesis: It is good to help others.


You should not interfere in other people's relationships.

You think one of them is being abused by the other.


It could directly affect your family negatively.


It is to the benefit of the other people


you don't want them interfering in yours.


telling my brother he, more than anyone, needs to help the family

It's wrong to tell others what they should do.


you are in a position of authority over them.


Unless they are sincerely asking your advise because you are en expert in the subject.


You are trying to get them to think of solutions for themselves.


being upset that I wasn't part of my brother's wedding

It is rude to exclude close family from family events


They're going to cause problems at the event.


excluding the family member will upset others in your family


They were the ones that sent out the invitations.


It is okay to show support for a cause in different ways


It helps promote the cause in a good way


The cause welcomes all levels of support.


Your way of showing support is illegal, such as a protest using violence.


You can contribute time or not money, or vice-versa.


One way is more efficient than the other ways.


Different ways appeal to different people.


you are breaking the law in your protests.


the cause has affected you in a very personal way.


being mad because my BF couldn't mind his own business

Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.

those affairs directly impact you and your wellbeing


Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.

those people seek privacy where possible


Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.

you think they are doing something illegal.


Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.


Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.

they tend to tell you their whole life story.


Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.

The person is under criminal investigation.


Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.

The other person is in a witness protection program.


Hypothesis: It's bad to pry into other's affairs.

you don't want anyone prying into yours.


shouting at my mother because of her mess

It is expected that you clean up your own mess.

You are at a hotel or restaurant where staff are hired to perform these tasks.


You are sharing space with other people who expect everyone to do their share of housework.


There are employees hired specifically to do that for you.


Both your parents work full time and need help around the house.


You have paid someone else to clean up for you.


You are learning how to care for your belongings on your own.


not committing to caring for an older relative with Down's syndrome

It is okay to be uncomfortable caring for another person.

You can't control your feelings, only your actions.


You have a marriage contract that says you would do that very thing.


The other person is your mother who took care of you.


The other person has become incontinent.


It's good to listen to other's opinions.


They are professionals in the field they give advice in.


you find that others are deliberately misleading


They are trying to convince you of things that aren't backed by science.


Hypothesis: You should care about your own people.


Hypothesis: You should care about your own people.

Your people have done something to not deserve your care


It is good to try to have a positive attitude when going on a family trip.

the trip is for a funeral of a loved one.


not calling my grandfather on his birthday

It is good to show family member that you remember special occasions


the family member is elderly and may not be around for long.


You have cut off your family members due to toxic behavior.


you would like to stay close with your family


your family member has said they want nothing to do with you.


your family member is going through a rough time and needs the support.


you don't appreciate or like that family member and they feel the same way


you wish to have a good relationship with that family member


Employees will be angry if they don't get pay well.

there are other perks like free lunch and company cars.


They have stock options and other incentives.


Their productivity rises while wages remain stagnant.


they are given an awesome benefits package.


They worked really hard for their money.


It is goo to treat autistic people gently because f their condition.


They are fully competent and know they shouldn't misbehave.


They are also developmentally delayed and don't comprehend their actions.


you are trying to teach them how to handle difficult situations.


they are in a situation that they don't understand.


They are very focused on what they are doing.


they are intentionally doing things to get away with it.


they have a hard time recognizing what is good behavior.


cutting a friend out of my life for eating my steak

It's understandable that sometimes a relationship reaches a point where it isn't healthy or good for you anymore, and you need to end it.

you are a married Catholic and don't believe in divorce.


your partner refuses to stop taking drugs.


you have made no effort at all to work on the problems in it.


It's understandable to be upset when others infringe on your personal space

You choose to go in to a busy public area.


You work in an office and you can’t really avoid people


People keep barging into your room without knocking


the person doesn't understand personal boundaries.


there is a lot of space around you available.


covering my nose whenever I'm near my father

You should show more respect to your father.


Your father spends all his money to provide housing and food for you.


putting parental control on the family router's for my sister's phone because she talks on the phone loudly at night

Being petty with your family can cause unnecessary conflict.

that is just how your family communicates.


They have always been petty with you in the past.


Typically have a close relationship with them.


Everyone knows it's not meant to be harmful.


they were always toxic and nasty to you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on anyone.

Unless they treat you like garbage and all you want is some comfort.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on anyone.

Especially if you really love them, and have committed yourself to them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on anyone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on anyone.

You have an agreed upon open relationship.


asking a customer if they had any of our bread in their plastic bag

Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.

the only way to get a lifesaving item is by stealing it


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.

you're a baseball player stealing a base during the game.


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.

you steal from someone who is very disadvantaged.


Hypothesis: Stealing is wrong.

You are stealing back something that was stolen from you.


flirting with and sexting a bunch of girls

It's good to discuss your expectations about your relationship with your partner.

You are planning on ending the relationship.


This is a requirement for happiness in the relationship


Unless you have completely unreasonable expectation, or want them to change in some significant way.


Especially if you want to have an understanding relationship.


not locking up my edibles, resulting in my niece getting high af

It's expected that you keep your drugs in a safe place where your family members can't find them.

you live alone and don't mind people seeing your drugs


you live with others and wish to keep your drugs from being discovered


You know you have a family member who also needs access to your drugs.


You do not live with your family members


You have young children as family members


Your family members need the drugs for medical reasons.


Your family members have young children.


smacking an airplane seat to intimidate a child

Hypothesis: You shouldn't be rude to kids.

kids are themselves rude and disobedient


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be rude to kids.

the children are doing things which children usually do


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be rude to kids.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be rude to kids.

They are very young and don't understand.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be rude to kids.

They aren't taking your friendly no for an answer.


accidentally breaking my friends speaker and offering to buy a new one instead of paying him for it

It is helpful to offer to replace items that you break that belong to a friend.

your friend had asked you to break the items.


the item is expensive and you were warned that it would break easily.


they are the reason you broke it in the first place.


they reassure you that the item is of no value.


you think the item is worth something to them.


The friend has specifically told you not to replace it


The friend asked you to throw the items away.


inviting someone who my friend doesn't like to the boxing

Not everyone enjoys the same sports and activities.

There are few sports and activities available.


There are many sports and activities available.


Summer camp offers a variety of activities.


they all voluntarily joined the same camp


asking a guy to stop throwing fireworks under the cars

It's rude to prevent people from having a little bit of fun.


You are preventing them from having fun just because you are jealous.


The sort of fun they want to have is illegal or dangerous, such as driving under the influence.


It is something that could benefit them, like learning a new sport or hobby,


That fun comes at another person's expense.


The fun is uplifting and enjoyed by all.


It's good to care about the well being of loved ones.


they tend to over exaggerate their situation


they have sacrificed in the past for you.


you've become estranged from them and don't have a relationship anymore


you care so much that you neglect your own health.


trying to evade this dangerous situation by physically splitting up

It's wrong to let friends down when they really need you.


Helping them would mean hurting yourself worse.


they are asking you to do something illegal.


they had a family member die and need a shoulder to lean on.


you are too mentally fragile to deal with things.


they are really counting on you for support.


You are deathly ill and simply cannot do so.


It's okay to change your career path if it's not where you want to be.


You are under contract with your current job.


you have responsibilities and bills to pay.


That would put your family at unnecessary risks


You need to maintain your income to care for your family.


being upset when people bring their babies to work

You should mind your own business when it comes to your coworkers.


you want them to stay out of their business.


Your coworker is seriously injured and needs help.


Your coworker is talking about their sex life.


their behavior directly affects your workplace position


the workplace is a close and intimate environment


A coworker is stealing from the company.


You don't know your coworkers that well.


clogging a pool lane by walking to rehab my knee

Hypothesis: It's wrong to block a lane.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to block a lane.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to block a lane.

An emergency vehicle is trying to get through.


leaving a friend that tells other friends to leave me

It is good to keep your distance from some people.


You are running the 100 meter dash in the Olympics.


those people are an immediate threat to your wellbeing


You need to keep a close eye on them to prevent them from doing harm to others.


They're trying to take advantage of you.


not wanting to help my ex-roommate pay my real estate agency money for cleaning out his dirt

It's wrong to not take responsibility for your home and blame others for how the house was kept.


You invited everyone over in the first place.


you were away and paid someone to watch it and take good care of it.


you're home enough of the time to take good care of it.


You rented the house out while away on vacation and the renters trashed it.


muting my friend in an afk channel on a discord server then calling him autistic

It's expected that you won't mute your friends.

The persons friends are annoying them while doing homework.


You have friends that are depressed and need you.


They are going through a rough time and need your support.


It's admirable to meet people in control of their finances.


The people you are meeting are your mentors.


You want to learn how to control your own finances.


The people brag about their money all the time.


They were able to work hard and save over time.


reporting an ex-friend for neglecting her child

It's good to put the safety of a child before anything else.

in a situation where the safety of the child is naturally at risk, like at a carnival ride


the child is young and needs to be cared for


There are other children also in need and you can help them, and your child.


You are on a plane, always put your oxygen mask on first.


the safety of the child puts many other children at risk


deciding not to reconnect with my estranged father

It's okay not to talk to toxic family members.

By doing so you will help out a not toxic family member


They are abusive in the way they talk to you


One of the family members wants to apologize and improve the relationship.


Talking to the family members causes anxiety.


One of the family members is addicted to drugs.


You are recovering from other toxic relationships.


they are not aware that they're toxic and no one has told them that they are


they are aware of their toxicity and refuse to change


breaking up with my girlfriend after she told me she has been HIV positive

Hypothesis: One should be honest about STDs.


Hypothesis: One should be honest about STDs.


Hypothesis: One should be honest about STDs.

You are in a dictatorship country and are trying to get a job.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult someone.

you know their feelings are easily hurt.


Hypothesis: It is rude to insult someone.

If they didn’t say anything to you first at all


not having the house clean when my wife got home

Hypothesis: It's good to keep a clean home.

You are too busy working to barely afford the bills.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep a clean home.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep a clean home.

You take it too far and become obsessed with germs.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep a clean home.

You have small children that like to put small objects in their mouths.


not letting my ex-gf put me in drag makeup

You don't have to left a person put you in a situation that you don't like.

that person is an employer and needs you to do something at work


that person is not someone you're close to or know well


The generalization does not make sense and may be a mistake.


It is your job duty to take care of the situation.


They have a history of using you in the past.


telling my mother off for not properly cleaning the dishes

Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.

your parents have stepped over the line.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.

they thought they were doing the right thing for you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.

your parents have done something egregiously terrible to you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.

your parents have done all they can for you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.

The parents have said something very rude and uncalled for


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.

They have not said anything to deserve it


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.


Hypothesis: It's rude to tell one's parents off.

They are in the hospital on their death bed.


asking a customer to order online because we can't understand her over the phone

It's always best to use the ordering medium that would be the easiest for both parties.


One medium was exceptionally less expensive than the other.


You want to maintain a good report with the other party.


the ordering medium results in extra charges


both parties are tying to be cooperative with each other


you want to keep things fair for everyone.


you have a coupon code to use for that medium.


not sending flowers to my fathers funeral

Sending flowers to a family member's funeral is expected.

The family members are allergic to flowers.


There is an online option to send flowers.


telling a friend that our mutual friend doesn't like him

It only causes conflict to tell one friend that another doesn't like them.

the one friend is trying to improve as a person and wants complete honesty.


the two friends have a history of conflicts.


The friend has consistently been rude despite mutliple attempts to correct this behavior.


you're lying and just trying to cause drama.


not being there for my friend after the guy she loves jumped out of a car on the freeway

It's okay to need lots of support after someone you love dies.


you need to put on a brave face for their orphaned children.


turning my lamp on to get dressed while my roommates are still sleeping

It is rude to disturb others while they sleep.


It's time for them to get up to go to work.


You are waking them up because the house is on fire.


They worked late hours and need to catch up on sleep.


It's good to spend time with your friends.


You want to cultivate lifelong relationships.


Your marriage is falling apart and needs attention


not inviting a girl I've been seeing over for Christmas with my family

You should invite someone you are seeing over for Christmas.


you are wanting to ask them to marry you.


your family is prejudiced and would not get along with them.


The person has asked if they can meet your family.


ghosting most of my 'friends' because they didn't offer support when my Dad died

friends should provide emotional support when one's parent dies

they are out of the country on vacation.


They are out of the country dealing with a family emergency.


they are dealing with their own tragedy.


That person supported them emotionally when their parent died.


Their own parent just died and they are not emotionally stable themselves.


The person was close with their parent who died.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your best friend.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your best friend.

They have let you live in their home, rent free.


not wanting to visit my potentially-dying uncle in the hospital

Family members should support each other.

The family members can't support each other.


They have always supported you in your darkest times.


some of the members are committing crimes.


you want to maintain a positive relationship with your family


not fully understanding the demands of medical school and being upset I did not get more attention during my cancer treatment from my ex which lead to a break up

it's wrong to blame your faults on other people.


It could lead to legal consequences or jail time.


You are homeless because your parents kicked you out of the house.


You are the reason the fault happened in the first place.


Those people are the reason for your faults.


You are a child who doesn't understand consquences of your actions.


Someone else goes to jail instead of you because of passing blame on them.


It's wrong to ask for more than you deserve.


there is a surplus and nobody will be shorted.


You know only through asking for more will you get what you deserve.


Asking for more might mean you get nothing at all.


there is barely enough for everyone to get what they deserve.


You should accept your friends for who they are.


Your friends are kind and accepting to you.


You want to build trusting relationships.


they are good people and work on improving their flaws.


causing me and my gf to break up by arguing with her mom

It is rude to involve your girlfriend's mom in your breakup.

you think that she can help you get her to come back to you.


your girlfriend is likely to destroy your belongings.


Your girlfriend tries to keep her relationship private.


Unless she is the reason you're breaking up.


Especially if you're breaking up because your girlfriend cheated on you.


you're just doing it to hurt your girlfriend.


It's good to have an intervention when someone is behaving badly.


The person turns violent when confronted.


it can be handled in a more delicate manner.


all other ways of communication have failed.


unless the bad behavior isn't really illegal.


they are hurting others with their actions.


banning my roommate from bringing overnight guests

It's presumptuous to tell someone else who they're allowed to host overnight.


you are in a relationship with that person.


the person they host is a family member.


taking my medicine the way I want to take it

It is a bad idea to take medication differently than how it is prescribed.


You don't know anything about medication.


you are a medical professional and know what you are doing.


the medication can have dangerous effects.


the medication has negative side effects.


You were told by someone from the doctor's office to change your dosage.


It can cause cause severe adverse reactions.


not commenting on my mom's Facebook post

It's understandable to think that your child will comment on a social media post.


that person does not have much support from others in life


your child is too young to be on social media.


Spending a lot of money on a gift for someone doesn't mean they'll like it.

The item is something on their wish list.


You put in a lot of thought to the gift.


it's something they've specifically asked for.


They have asked for a specific gift and the cost is already expected.


The receiver of the gift has asked you to make them a gift instead of spending money.


tracking my wife's location via her phone

Using location services on a phone is helpful in emergencies.

one is already in walking distance of a hospital or first responder


one is in a remote area and needs assistance


You're in the basement level of a building.


You're on the side of the road without a cross street nearby.


they forgot to take their phone with them.


thinking it's rude and disrespectful to call bartenders Chef's

It's okay to think something is rude and disrespectful.

you were the one who was rude and disrespectful.


It could put your employment in jeopardy.


Someone is giving you critical feedback.


not thanking my husband for taking care of our son

One parent should not expect the other to do a majority of the caretaking.


They have a mutual agreement where this is the case


One of the spouses that is not helping as much has alot of free time


thinking about studying something that won't make me earn a lot of money

It's OK to value your interests more than money.


Hypothesis: It's good to visit your family.

They all have a very contagious stomach virus and you don't want to get sick.


Hypothesis: It's good to visit your family.

Your family member has cancer and is slowly dying.


Hypothesis: It's good to visit your family.


Hypothesis: It's good to visit your family.

your family members are nearing the end of their life


telling my sisters boyfriend she's had another guy round

It's wrong to see other people without your significant other knowing.


You are seeing them for professional reasons.


it's someone who's helping you plan a big surprise for them.


you or the other person have romantic feelings.


you've made plans to see friends last minute


you're seeing someone as more then friends


wanting to end things with a girl who doesn't want to have sex

It's OK to want intimacy in a relationship.

You are just using people for sex and nothing emotional


You are a loving person who wants the best for someone else


not wanting my wife to snoop on home cameras

It's rude to be snooping on other people's personal lives.

The other people are your children and you suspect they're in danger.


You have been told repeatedly to mind your own business.


They have told you to respect their privacy


you have good reason to believe something is wrong.


you don't want people snooping in yours.


you suspect your partner is cheating on you


they never gave you a reason not to trust them.


ghosting a guy on a dating app that I had an intense rape dream about

You shouldn't have rape dreams about people.


you would never do anything like that in real life.


you tend to not make the best decisions.


You are in REM sleep and have no control over your dreams.


You have a personality disorder that will make you more likely to act on your dreams.


You're trying to process a bad memory about being raped.


It's good to avoid people who don't respect or love you for who you are.

The people work at a grocery store and are stranger to you.


You have to work side by side with them every day for a living.


they are little children who don't understand that.


It's OK to change your mind about having someone at your birthday.


that person is known for things like stealing


The reason is because you are being selfish


The reason is because that person has done something terrible to you


That someone invited you to their birthday.


not wanting to change my last name after my stepdad adopted me

it is custom to change your name after being adopted.

you want to keep your game because it reflects your heritage.


your new parents would be very hurt if you didn't.


The child wishes to keep their original name.


The child wants to forget about their old life and move on with a new one.


You feel especially proud of your heritage.


you want to show your parents you're part of the family.


you wish to honor your adoptive parents.


You've become close with your adopted family..


being angry about my girlfriend making status on Facebook about the fact we do anal

It's okay to experiment sexually with your significant other.


one of you has a sexually transmitted disease.


Your significant other isn't legally old enough to consent.


your partner has suggested it's a good idea to see if you're compatible.


cancelling a trip to see my dad for the first time in 10 years because he wanted to get married

Hurting people because they did something you don't like is wrong.


Your actions cause them to end up in the hospital.


People are being protected through hurting a person.


they were threatening you or your loved ones.


reminding my traumatized gf that I want to have sex with her

You shouldn't expect sex out of a partner that is upset.


You are both trying to get pregnant, and you are ovulating, and they agree to have sex.


They think it is part of their healing process.


not wanting to date people with mental health issues

It is expected that some people will have preconceived notions of people they date.

They are asexual and disinterested in dating.


They are really attracted to people with a particular body type.


they've screened them through a dating service.


They happen to be going on a blind date.


They tend to date the same type of person over and over.


they want a fair assessment of the person.


yelling at mom beating kid in parking lot

Hypothesis: It is bad to beat a kid.


Hypothesis: It is bad to beat a kid.


Hypothesis: It is bad to beat a kid.

I can't think of any circumstance when it would be ok to beat a kid.


Hypothesis: It is bad to beat a kid.

You are only playing around and the child is laughing.


It's inappropriate to tell one's parents who they're allowed to date.

you are directly impacted by whom they date


they are in love with that person and sure of their feelings


the partnet is on the sex offender list.


the person they are dating is abusing them.


They are dating someone who is a danger to them.


You just want them to remain single forever and not date anyone.


Unless they are dating someone who is a criminal or heavily into illegal drugs.


Especially if you are still living in their house!


It's wrong not to love your step-parents.


Your step-parents are abusive and controlling.


Your step-parents have raised you with all the love they have.


They abuse you physcially and emotionally.


They love you as a biological child and have always treated you with respect.


not wanting to date someone due to our income disparity

People will see you as arrogant or elitist for judging someone based on their wealth.


Are making a valid point about their wealth


You are being a hypocrite in making the judgment


the people you're judging are evil people who don't help anyone with their wealth.


the people you're judging have done very good things for other people with their wealth.


You are an accountant doing their taxes.


Make sterotypical comments about the person on social media.


telling an ex-friend her boyfriend is cheating on her

It's okay to tell someone something bad someone is doing behind their back.


What they are doing could cause the other person great harm.


Unless you are having an affair with that other person.


You don't like people gossiping about you.


You promised the person you wouldn't say anything


The person is endangering other people's lives.


It's fine to not permit someone to borrow something of yours.

they need it desperately and will give it right back.


They need it immediately to save someone's life.


They're known to not return things they've borrowed.


they have broken borrowed items in the past.


they have loaned something to you in the past.


they have a history of breaking your things.


It's acceptable to help those that need help the most

Helping them would put you in the same situation.


they are lying about their time of need.


Giving someone else money would leave you unable to pay your bills.


picking up my girlfriend from behind and putting her in the car after she wouldn't leave the party

It's wrong to force a person to do something against their will.

They're going to harm someone else if they don't do something.


they are being arrested for committing a crime.


they are children being forced to do chores.


They need to take medicine to keep them alive.


not feeling sorry for everyone with loads and loads of student debt

It's okay to thing people should of done things differently than they did.

they were victimized and hurt in the process.


The alternative thing can get someone hurt.


turning left into a parking lot in Front of a Stopped School Bus

It's expected that you follow traffic laws.


you are driving in conditions which are not ideal


you are driving an ambulance on the way to an emergency.


forcing my pizza delivery person to walk up 4 flights of stairs to deliver my food by threatening to tip poorly

It's rude to expect the pizza delivery person to walk up multiple flights of stairs.

they knew ahead of time they would have to.


You can easily meet the delivery person at ground level.


You have a broken leg and are on crutches.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want kids around you.


Hypothesis: It's okay to not want kids around you.

the kids are in a place intended for adults such as a brewery


If someone falls in front of you it is polite to help them up.


You and the other person are on opposing roller derby teams.


The person who fell is a child and might get trampled on if you don't help him.


wanting my best friend to be my best man instead of my brother

People are expected to support their loved ones in their special events.

the loved ones have been abusive in the past.


those loved ones have had your back in the past.


You are the parent of a child graduating from high school.


The person who would otherwise be supportive is in the hospital.


The special events involve the entire family.


not saying "bless you" to the girl in the cubicle behind me

It is ok to not say bless you every time to everyone.

You're working for a religious institution.


You are in a Southern American family and they get their feelings hurt easily.


your family thinks it's like witchcraft to say it.


you don't know what religion someone is.


You're around people who sneeze a great deal.


changing the locks without telling my ex

Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

The truth is something they won't handle well.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

Unless your personal safety would be in danger otherwise.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

You are lying just to keep yourself from facing the consequences of your own actions.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

they have a pattern of being disingenuous with you


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

they are attempting to be friends with you


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

You are just trying to not hurt their feelings.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

telling them the truth could potentially hurt them a lot.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your ex.

the truth has something to do with something very important to them.


Hypothesis: It's good to do things for others.


Hypothesis: It's good to do things for others.

They have taken advantage of you in the past.


Hypothesis: It's good to do things for others.

you don't have the ability or means to do so


Hypothesis: It's good to do things for others.

you have a good deal of means and time on your hands to do so


pissing off r/lgbt. I'm legitimately just trying to be a better ally

It's understandable to want to express your own views.


You are having a conversation with your spouse.


the situation calls for agreement in the group


one wants to be true to their own beliefs


Expressing opinion could put you at risk.


being skeptical of medical products from Latin America

You should buy products from your own country.


the prices are cheaper and it's higher quality.


your country doesn't manufacture the item.


The product you want is of better quality in another country.


you know the product is not being made in an ethically sourced manner.


products from other countries are much more expensive.


you can get some of the same quality made in other countries.


you work for a company that makes things in your own country.


not doing something my girlfriend asked me to do quickly enough

You should be more efficient and quick when doing something for someone.

It's spreading their ashes as their final wish.


Your boss is waiting for an important report.


They like it when you take your time and practice care.


You want to give them a good impression of your skill.


not wanting to see a friend that is threatening to never speak to me again if I don't hangout with him

You shouldn't expect someone to spend time with you whenever you want them to.


You don't know the other person that well.


That person is your parent and you are a young child.


That person works long hours and has a family of their own to tend to.


they want to spend all their time with you too.


they indicate that they don't want to spend so much time with you.


That person promised to spend all their time together.


You know they enjoy activities you don't like.


You should do the things you are asked to do.


turning down my girlfriend and masturbating afterwards

Your partner might find someone else if you deny them physically too often.

Your partner depends on you financially.


they are shallow and without good character.


you have a diaglog with them to explain why.


you already have other relationship issues.


they spend a lot of time with people they could be attracted to.


wanting my gf to tell her sister not to come over for weekends

It's okay that we don't always want to be around the same people as are significant other.


You are not spending any quality time with your significant other


You are mutually agreeable on not spending as much time together


these people are very close to your significant other and around them a lot.


these people have been hurtful and evil toward you.


it hurts the significant other's feelings.


we don't like the significant other's friends.


Your significant other is cheating on you.


You don't like your significant other's friends.


not interfering when my brother "oopsed" my sister in law pregnant on purpose

It's understandable to not want to interfere in a married couple's relationship.

The married couple are trying to kill each other.


There is domestic violence involved and one spouse is in danger.


Married people have the right to privacy and can solve their own problems.


you want to remain friends with both of them.


you don't want them to interfere in yours.


sitting at a red light right turn after the car behind me honked

It's wrong to honk at people if they aren't doing any harm to you.

they have fallen asleep when the light turns green.


It's someone you know and want to wave hello.


There's heavy traffic and nobody can move their car until it starts moving again.


expressing my concerns with my friends relationship

You should not meddle in your friends' relationships.

your friend is being abused in a relationship


your friend has specifically asked for privacy


you wish to keep a good relationship with friends


you want to stay friends with all of them.


if you want people to stay out of yours.


Your friend is being cheated on by their significant other.


You don't want to lose them as a friend.


not wanting to give money to someone who doesn't

You shouldn't lend money to people who don't deserve it.

you are confident the person will be able to pay you back with interest


lending them money would create a financial hardship for your family


your sister is using the money to pay for their prescription.


You know your friend will spend it on alcohol.


The other person doesn't pay money back.


They will spend it on things they do not need to survive.


getting carpool with two female colleagues

It's good to pursue friendships with work colleagues.

You are under a non disclosure agreement.


The worker's bond is strengthened at the workplace.


You have a lot of team projects that you work on together.


The colleague is doing sometihng unethical in the workplace.


It can help you get a foothold in the corporate network.


they are co-workers that sit beside you in the office.


You have strict boundaries about your personal life.


telling my wife not to ask for my help if she won't listen

It is bad for someone not to listen when you are talking to them.

They are trying to listen to other more important information being conveyed.


you are trying to give them specific instructions.


You are talking in a rude and disrespectful way


wanting privacy for weird stuff even though I don't hurt people

Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want privacy.

you are hiding important things from someone.


buying a 1983 item that was originally $1000, that is sold for $60-200 today, for $10 from an italian seller who does not know WTF it does

It's not nice to take advantage of people's ignorance in a negotiation.

acheiving your desired outcome is critical to your job


you want to be viewed as a fair and just


You know withholding information could cause them danger.


they are getting the better benefit from the deal


they will be shorted in the transaction.


You may want to do business with them again.


not telling my wife a secret I promosed to keep

Things that are told in confidence are expected to stay private.

they involve the endangerment of someone else.


they are extremely personal to the person who told you.


the information is crusial to helping someone.


you wish your words to be kept private as well.


It affects someone else’s livelihood or life


You are that person’s friend and they trust you


not wanting to give over all of my time to my toxic family

It's okay to create distance between you and those that only hurt you.


The relationship is verbally, mentally or physically abusive.


You want to confront the person and demand change.


they do not deliberately hurt you and instead wish to help you


they have a pattern of that sort of behavior


getting into a heated discussion over someone elses dnd character

It is good to try to deescalate an argument if it is over a fictional game.


the game is meaningless and will be forgotten soon.


They'd find something else to argue about instead.


The argument might turn into a fist fight.


having a crush on a girl and telling my girlfriend

It's rude to tell your girlfriend you have a crush one someone else.


you have an open relationship and want to take it further


you are in an ordinary monogamous relationship with them


you are just trying to make her jealous.


You are talking about a celebrity crush.


You are talking about your girlfriend's best friend.


not using the concert tickets my parents got me for my birthday even if I'm willing to give them back the money they spent

It's understandable that sometimes gifts aren't something we want.

the person bought the gift hoping they could use it instead.


You had specifically asked for something else.


They meant well when they gave the gift.


The gift giver doesn't know you very well.


You already own the gift that has been given to you.


going against my parents wishes by not giving my kids traditional names

Parents should be the ones to decide what's best for their children.


The parents make bad choices for the kids.


not wanting to be lied to because it makes me paranoid and causes me to lash out in anger a lot more

Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

Your lie will save the life of you or your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

Your lie causes an innocent person to go to jail.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

The lie could result in harm to someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

Telling the truth would really hurt their feelings.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie.

Someone's life depends on telling the truth.


not wanting husband and toddler son to go away for BILS wedding the week I'm due with our baby

You should be there for your partner when they are due to have a baby soon.

You are giving the baby up for adoption.


you have to work out of the country in order to pay for their care.


you know your partner will need the support and wants it to come from you.


They are having pregnancy complications.


getting impatient during a hypothetical conversation

Hypothesis: It's wrong to be impatient.

You are suffering an allergic reaction and need immediate medical help.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be impatient.

You are trying to teach a young child good values.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be impatient.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be impatient.

you have been waiting much longer than expected.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be impatient.

There's an emergency situation that needs immediate attention.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be impatient.

People are always having to wait for you.


It is mean to tell your children they can't do something.


It is something they see you do all the time.


the thing your children want to do is dangerous


the thing your children want to do builds their skills and self esteem


unless what they want to do is dangerous.


going into work sick, then leaving against my supervisors request

It's good to expect employees to leave work when they're sick.


The employees have a virus that requires a quarantine.


They work around large groups of people.


they are coughing and possibly infecting others.


not letting my 17 year old daughter go to a different state with her friends

It's expected to set rules for you child.


the other parent has done so and you agree with their rules


You are in trouble with CPS and you get your child taken from you for a time


They are misbehaving in school and the teacher has problems with them


unless you are a step parent and the bio parents disagree.


You have the right to use the legal system if you have been taken advantage of.


you can resolve the problem in another way more easily


The people who have taken advantage of you have done it numerous times before.


not wanting to tell my so goodnight stories anymore because she always falls asleep

It is rude to fall asleep when taking part in an activity with other people.


You're all supposed to participate equally.


you are so exhausted you can't stay awake.


the other people need you to be alert and participate.


you are responsible for keeping the party going.


telling my friend that she shouldn't get a tattoo

It's okay to tell a person if you think the're going down the wrong path.

You've made some of the same choices and had to spend years getting back on your feet.


The person asked you to keep your opinion to yourself.


You don't have any expertise about the situation.


The other person is going down a different career path than you.


The other person is trying to become a prostitute.


They are suicidal and on the verge of hurting themselves.


They are your troubled family member and asked you to give them an honest appraisal of themselves.


calling many times a potential employer who told me I got the job but then ghosted me

You shouldn't tell someone one thing and then go back on that and ignore the person.

They've somehow done something terrible to you.


You want to be known as an honest forthright person.


They are having an affair with your wife.


getting another engineer kicked off a freelancing project

It's sad that society doesn't have protection for freelance workers.

The freelance workers often make more than any other workers.


The freelance workers carry a heavy tax burden.


they don't have to get a traditional 9 to 5.


We have the ability to say no to any job we don't want to do.


there is a monopoly that allows for an environment of abuse.


It's understandable to expect someone to take responsibility and show up for events they were expected to.

they are caught in something beyond their control, like traffic or delayed flights


they knew about the events for quite some time


they are going through a tough time and need to be alone


they have plenty of free time to be at events


they made a promise to show up and have no reason not to.


Hypothesis: It's bad behavior to snitch on people.


Hypothesis: It's bad behavior to snitch on people.

you don't want to be called a tattle tail.


Hypothesis: It's bad behavior to snitch on people.

You're counting on the other person to not snitch on you.


Hypothesis: It's bad behavior to snitch on people.

You are bringing down a heinous crime ring of pedophiles.


not wanting to pay for my wife's past education

It is expected to help out your spouse financially.


they've been having a hard time financially


you are incapacitated and have no way to help them.


Your spouse make significantly more money than you do.


Your spouse is disabled and unable to work.


quitting my temp job filling in for a woman on maternity leaving when the the place is already understaffed

It's wrong to quit a job when they are understaffed.

You have another job lined up that is far better.


you are working in a hostile environment.


your co workers and bosses have treated you well.


getting annoyed at my friends calling dibs on rooms

It is polite to respect when somebody calls dibs on something.

You are physically disabled and need to sit shotgun.


you know it's something they really like.


telling my husband to block the other woman

I'ts immoral to get in between people in a romantic relationship.

they are in an open relationship and court you


You are providing a good reason for the people not to be in a romantic relationship


You are getting involved for reason that is selfish


The two people are trying to kill each other.


not sticking up for myself when a really scary guy called me names on public transit

You should do what you can to not present yourself as someone who is scary.


you want to make other people comfortable


you need to intimidate people for good reasons.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.

Unless they are victims of domestic violence.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.

The family members live nearby each other.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.

There is a pattern of abuse in the family.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.

The family members must be apart for a long time.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.

You are all trying to take care of an elderly relative.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.

It's only for a short vacation to get away from everything and relax.


Hypothesis: Family is expected to keep in contact.

A family member is near death or in the hospital.


It's bad to demand your spouse do something.

You have a give and take relationship and things are expected of each of you


You use a loud angry voice to tell them to do something


You want to be in a healthy relationship.


they keep forgetting to do it and you are doing everything else.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind.

people are using that to take advantage of you too much.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind.

Someone is defrauding you when you give them gifts.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind.

You are living rent-free in someone's home.


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind.

That kindness lets people step all over you because you are too nice


Hypothesis: It's good to be kind.

Being kind means fueling people's bad habits.


asking my girlfriend not to share her first kiss with her friend

It's wrong to share your first kiss with a friend if you're in a relationship with someone else.


you've been in your relationship for a long time.


You really like the person you're in a relationship with.


you care about your friend and your partner.


Everyone is in agreement in the situation.


The person you're in a relationship with has asked you to only kiss them.


standing up to my dad about my life choices but making him violent towards my mom

It's acceptable to make life choices your parents might not agree with.


You are under age and still live with them.


You are over age 18 and live on your own.


You are not doing anything dangerous or morally unacceptable


you have different values than your parents.


being annoyed at my boyfriend for not getting me something to eat fast enough when I'm sick

It is rude to be annoyed by your partner when they are helping you.


They are giving something up to help you.


You have already told them to not help you


Have not made it clear that you do not want their help at all


Your partner is less knowlegdeable than you are.


Your partner is familiar with the solution.


They turned on the blender without the top.


not giving my ex gf any money after break up

People should not expect others to give them money for nothing.


They have asked too many times for help.


misunderstanding a situation and not being able to explain myself

Hypothesis: It's okay to misunderstand something.


Hypothesis: It's okay to misunderstand something.


Hypothesis: It's okay to misunderstand something.

unless the misunderstanding can get you fired for failing to carry out instructions properly


Hypothesis: It's okay to misunderstand something.

the misunderstanding helps you understand people you communicate better with people


Hypothesis: It's okay to misunderstand something.

it was a common error lots of people make.


Hypothesis: It's okay to misunderstand something.

You are very knowledgeable on the subject.


Hypothesis: It's okay to misunderstand something.

the reason you did so is because you weren't paying attention.


revoking my offer to pay for professional dog training and gave my mom and (mostly) my grandma an ultimatum

Hypothesis: It's wrong to revoke your offer.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to revoke your offer.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to revoke your offer.

the terms of the agreement have changed.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to revoke your offer.

Mistakes were made in your calculations.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to revoke your offer.

The buyer has already paid for your services.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to revoke your offer.

you've made it clear that you reserve the right to do so


Hypothesis: It's wrong to revoke your offer.

you've made it clear that you are committing to the offer


not letting my girlfriend join my discord chat

It's expected that you include a significant other in your activities.


your significant other would enjoy those activities.


they have stated that they don't want to be included.


It's okay to have to do things in your job other people might not like.

you get stuck with the tasks all of the time.


Doing those things hurts people financially or emotionally


There are no rules governing against doing certain things


those things can cause you serious harm.


you are being paid quite a bit to do it.


taking my mini-fridge from my roommate who doesn't shower

It is okay not to want to share personal possessions.

The other person shares frequently with you.


The other person never returns your items.


By doing so you will put the other persons health in jeopardy


They do not treat your possesions with respect


other people don't take care of your possessions.


the person has a history of not returning things.


Drinking too much alcohol is frowned upon.

You are not driving and are in a safe place to drink


You are supposed to be the designated driver at the party


you are celebrating an important and special occasion


you wish to make a good impression of people


You are the bachelor at your bachelor party.


expecting my boyfriend to pause the movie when I fall asleep

Significant others are expected to pause movies when their partner falls asleep.

Their partner wasn't interested in the movie they were watching.


Their partner was the one who wanted to watch the movie.


their partner has given them permission to finish the movie.


they and their partner have been planning to watch the movie.


it is a movie that both parties wanted to see.


The partner has already seen the movie several times and has said it was okay to watch without them.


This is a movie your partner has really been excited to watch with you for the first time.


you know it's a movie they've wanted to see.


defending my ex girlfriend in front of my current girlfriend

You should not choose an ex over your current partner.

The ex has changed who they are and your current partner is kind of crazy


you and your current partner agree that the relationship isn't working


you and your current partner have a good relationship


your current partner doesn't make you happy.


You are trying to get back at your current partner.


You are in love with your current partner.


calling out my work to use more inclusive terms

It's understandable to want a more inclusive work environment.


You understand the benefits of a diverse work environment.


You feel you are being excluded at work.


It's a professional sports team and the owners want to include people who are physically incapable of playing the game.


A member of a minority group has the ability and talent to help your company succeed.


If there is a good reason, it is understandable to be cold towards your father.


You don't understand what your father goes through.


your father is trying hard to reconcile with you.


your father has walked out on your family.


He has blamed you for something that you haven't done.


It's wrong to disturb other people's property.


No trespassing signs are posted all around.


There are "no tresspassing" signs clearly posted.


you are trying to save them from a fire.


You need to break a window to rescue a neighbor whose house is on fire.


You can get arrested for vandalism if you mess up another person's property.


It's rude to get upset at your sibling if you say something to hurt them.

your sibling was deliberately provoking you to say something hurtful.


it is in order to protect them from something worse.


you and your sibling are fighting and it is reciprocal


they are younger than you and need your support


not knowing if I should have to trust in boyfriend or not

If someone important to you does not trust you, you should have a discussion with them about why.

You have deliberately done something to violate that trust, again.


You are ready to cut them out of your life.


breaking up with my girlfriend for opening up to me about her past abuse

It's bad to leave people because they have trauma.


you need to get away to be healthy yourself.


they are your family, and have nobody else.


you know you being there is making it worse


You also have trauma that needs medical attention.


The people will die if you don't do anything to help them.


losing my friends distinction certificate

It's wrong to be careless with another person's property.


the property is something that is worthless.


the property is important to the other person.


they said they were going to throw it away anyway


They have trusted you with their belongings.


giving my step-mom a mildly offensive birthday card

Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect elders.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect elders.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect elders.

they have been actively cruel to someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect elders.

they have treated everyone extremely well.


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect elders.

An old man or woman is very rude to you in passing


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect elders.

They are trying to be nice you and are lonely


Hypothesis: It is rude to disrespect elders.

they are saying or doing something harmful.


It's okay to be upset with family members if they've given you reason to be.

they are right about what they are saying and you are wrong.


they've made you upset by trying to help you


family members are trying to deliberately upset you.


wanting to leave our 8 year old with my parents for 2 hrs to attend a Kickboxing class my wife and I pay for (a bit on the expensive side) that we can only attend 2 times a week and today is one of those days. more in comments

It is good to have activities with your spouse.


They are illegal activities that put other people's lives in danger.


you strongly feel you need more alone time


you want to strengthen your relationship with your spouse


Your spouse wants to spend time on his hobby.


The activities are something both of you love.


possibly rejecting one of my closest friends

If you have a good reason, it is OK to reject a friend.

Your friend is drowning and could die if you don't help.


Your friend is being emotionally abusive.


They don't have your best interests in mind.


that friend is really going through something bad.


telling the cleaning service that we have cameras

It is expected that people do not steal.


the person is starving and cannot afford food


The person is starving to death and can't afford food.


deciding to end my year long relationship with my girlfriend

It's okay to end a long term relationship with someone if you are unhappy.

you and that person haven't spoken about the issues


you and that person have discussed your feelings openly over time


You have children together and want to remain a family.


they are sick with a serious life threatening illness and in the hospital.


you are young and have your whole life ahead of you.


They're financially supporting you and you have no money to support yourself.


Your mental health is suffering because of them.


moving to a different city to secure a better job that had a rare opening while leaving my at home with my three year old to orchestrate the move

Hypothesis: Always look for better jobs.


Hypothesis: Always look for better jobs.


Hypothesis: Always look for better jobs.

You are content at your job even if it's not the best.


Hypothesis: Always look for better jobs.

You know there's a chance you could find more happiness or stability.


Hypothesis: Always look for better jobs.

You've saved several million for retirement.