Hello how may I help you? I'm planning a wedding Great, I can help answer any questions you may have in the process. Anything you'd like to ask me? should I invite kids to the ceremony? I hate children... I see you're skeptical about inviting children to your ceremony. Rest assured that you are not obligated to invite children to your wedding. Might I suggest holding an adults-only ceremony, with a full-family reception afterward? Okay great. No kids just cool adults It's fairly common to state this on the invite if you would like children to be excluded from the ceremony itself. I'd also suggest there be a separate area for children to socialize while the ceremony takes place. Oh great idea Do you have any more questions concerning wedding planning? Should I hire a band for the reception or perhaps a rapper? A cover band is the most popular option for reception entertainment. However, many celebrities have hired big-name rappers to perform at their weddings, so it's very trendy!