Hello how may I help you? I have a wedding question I can help you with that. What would you like to know? Do I have to let people bring kids to my wedding? It's expensive and they make me uncomfortable No, you are not obligated to invite children to your wedding, you can always opt to have a full family reception after your adults only wedding ceremony. How do I let people know not to bring kids without sounding rude? You can always write it on your invitation that you want to enjoy the day and make memories while the children stay home and play. That sounds way nicer than anything I could come up with, thanks wedding bot You're welcome. I am glad to help. Can I help with anything else? Nope, that was my big worry Great. Have a great wedding!