Hello how may I help you? Hello, i have a problem with my wedding I can help you with that do i really have to let children go to my wedding? it would be a mess Youre not obligate to invite children to your wedding Okay, that's good to know. But my family would want the kids to come You may want to consider an adults only ceremony and a full family reception though so you don't leave out nephews or neices who adore you that's an excellent suggestion! i think the family would appreciate that Thank you! Enjoy your wedding!