Hello how may I help you? I need help with planning a wedding. I can help. What is your question? am i obligated to invite children to my wedding? You are under no obligations to invite children to your wedding. It is up to your discretion. I want to invite adults only? What you can do is have an adults only ceremony followed by a family reception. Excellent idea. Can I help you with anything else? Is it frowned upon to invite only people with money?> It is up to you.