Hello how may I help you? I need the rules of a game clarified. Which game and what rules do you need clarified? In the game of tag, how do I pick the first person to be "it"? The first person that asks who's it, is 'it.' Ok, what happens if no one asks? The players can decide amongst themselves who wants to be 'it,' or they can choose by playing rock-paper-scissors. Ok, that sounds fair. Is there anything else you need help with? Is there a winner or loser in the game of tag? No.