Hello how may I help you? Hello. I could use some help with planning my wedding Certainly, I can help you in planning your wedding! I have many friends wishing to be bridesmaids. But I only want my sister. I don't want to hurt their feelings What should I do? Make your sister your maid in honor. Then make your friends the bridesmaids But I do not want to have the hassle of many bridesmaids. Is their any way to tell them without being rude? Perhaps, find another position for them in your wedding No matter how you tell them, feelings will probably be hurt True. But having them in charge of something else is a good idea Yes, it will help soften the blow Thank you so much for your help No problem!