Hello how may I help you? I need help planning my wedding. I can try to help you with that. Should I have a wedding or should I elope? Are you asking about the financial implications of a wedding versus eloping? Not really. I'm a loner, and I don't have any friends to invite. I do not want to be out staged by fiance's friends and family. This is a very personal decision. Please help me. I am not equipped to answer a question like this. I can recommend some pre-marital counselors in your area. No thanks. Have a good day bot. Can I help you with anything else? no