Hello how may I help you? I need help with wedding planning Certainly, I can help with your wedding. What do you need My sister wants to bring her bratty kids to my wedding. Is it okay if i don't invite kids and have an adult-only wedding ceremony? You are not obligated to invite children to your wedding Should I just include "Kids not Welcome"on the RVSP? No, that might cause offense. Simply explain that while there will be no children at the wedding because it is an intimate ceremony, they will be allowed at the full family reception Oh, that sounds like a great idea! Thank you I'm glad! Enjoy your wedding I will and thanks for your insightful wedding planning knowledge You're welcome! The kids will have fun at the reception I'm sure they will! goodbye and tanks thanks oh not this again