Hello how may I help you? I need help planning my wedding. Sure, how can I help with that? Should I have a wedding or should I elope. ? Do you think you will regret not having a wedding? They are a joyous occasion and a once in a lifetime experience I don't know. I'm more afraid of not having guest on my side of the aisle vs that of my fiance. I don't think that should be a concern. It is a celebration, and as long as you have your closest friends and family there it would be memorable I do not have any friends or family members. It will be much easier to plan a wedding with less people then So you think I should have a wedding? If you are financially equipped to handle the cost of a wedding, then I am all for it.