Hello how may I help you? I need help with planning my wedding can you help me? of course Ok I need to know if I am obligated to invite kids to my wedding or can I have an adults only wedding? you are not obliged to invite or include children, but it would be nice to have them attend the reception afterwards Ok cool. How do I tell people that I dont want kids are my wedding without hurting their feelings i would definitely consider having an adult only ceremony I will do that. the best way to inform everybody without hurting feelings is to tell the truth OK, I guess that is true. Thanks for your help!@ you are welcome