Hello, how may I help you? I am heading to a party and need an interesting conversation starter alright what kind of party is it? A birthday party. okay searching.. You can actually start by asking hows he going? Anything that will make them like me> that's what I meantioned earlier, jujst be gentle What do I say after that? well obviously they will answer you Then what can I ask? ask if what they like for dessert Ok. Thank you.