Hello how may I help you? Hello I need help with my wedding I can help. What is your question? Do i HAVE to have children at my wedding or can I make it an adult only wedding? You are not obligated to invite children to your wedding. That is a personal choice and your wedding can be whatever you want it to be Ok and how do I tell them I dont want kids there? You can simply say it is an adults only celebration. If I may make a suggestion however, you might consider having an adults only ceremony followed by a full family reception. That's a popular choice. Great, I will do that. I appreciate your help wedding bot! Is there anything else I can help you with? No that's it, thanks! You're welcome. Good luck with the wedding!