Hello how may I help you? My wife's 53rd birthday is coming up and I need some ideas. Can you help? One great option is paying for weight loss surgery I don't think that would go over well...I'm trying to live until my next birthday as well. Any other suggestions? Or some hair coloring to cover the gray hairs Better, but not by much. How about something less likely to get me severely injured? I see. You can always go the jewelry route, with a nice necklace or set of earrings, a day at the spa, horseback riding lessons. Is that better/ Those are much better options. What sort of necklace would you recommend? If you want to go less expensive, some birthstone stone pendant, or if more expensive, you can get her one with diamonds. Where can I get something cheap? in the $4 to 5 range? Something cheap like that wouldn't be real gold or real silver. You can always try for some costume jewelry at your local stores Sounds like a good idea...Halloween IS coming up! Thanks!