Hello how may I help you? I am planning a wedding and have a question I can help you with wedding planning questions. I want an adults only wedding but some relatives insist on bringing their young kids, is it an obligation to invite children to a wedding? No it is not an obligation. Good, how to I make this adultsonly in a way that doesn't upset people? One suggestion is have an adults only ceremony but then have a reception following where all are invited. That is a great idea You could have a special day care room for the children during the ceremony. I will do that Good luck with your wedding!