Hello how may I help you? i have a question about a game Sure, what would you like to know? how do you pick the first person to be "it" in tag Typically the first person who asks who is it has to be it is that the official rule? There is no real "official" rule set for tag, you can use any method you want as long as everyone you are playing with agrees on it. great, thank you No problem! Do you have any more questions? no that was it, thank you Have a great day