Hello how may I help you? Help me with my wedding plans please! Sure! What would you like help with? So im getting married and I dont want to have kids at my wedding, because..ICK you know? So am I obligated to have them at my wedding or can I have an adults only ceremony? No no not obligated You can certainly have an adult only wedding OK cool. So whats a good way to say I don't want these kids are my wedding? You could consider having and adult only ceremony followed by a full family reception Ok, I guess I'll do that. But is it rude? Not it is quite common Ok, thanks so much for your help! You could provide an area for kids during the ceremony