Hello how may I help you? What type of party are you going to? I'm terrible at talking to peole and I have to go to a party tonight don't start with the weather tha's a conversation killer. That was going to be my go-to! What are some better starters? Depends on what type of party are you going to? A friend's birthday party out at a bar You wan't to start with something most people have in common. So ask about them Ok great. Can i get an example? If it was a poker party, you would ask about vegas high stakes games, then they won't shut up still there? Thanks! You got it