Hello how may I help you? I have a question about wedding ettiquette yes sure ask me I don't really like little kids, they freak me out. How can I have people not bring them without sounding like an awful person? You are not obligate to invite children to your wedding How do I tell people not to bring them? ay want to consider an adults only ceremony followed by a full family reception Do I just like write that on the invitation? yes write Thanks so much you're welcome