Hello how may I help you? Can you help me clarify the rules of a game? Yes. What game? Tag! One person is 'it' and chases after everyone else, trying to catch them. How do you know who is "it" first? You just choose somebody to be 'it'. Do they have a choice if they do not want to be "it"? Sure, you can't really make them. Ok thanks You are welcome. Have a great day.