6 Ways Mums Affect Their Child’s Nutrition Without Knowing It

Whether you’re a new mum or a mum of multiple children, here’s something we can all relate to: the desire to provide the best nutrition for our babies. Now we all know breast milk has the ideal mix of vitamins, protein and fat, but not all mothers have the opportunity to breastfeed. In this article we consider several alternatives, as well as the influence of parenting style on feeding and nutrition.

As you’re well aware, every mum’s definition of “best” can differ. Some mums are tiger mums, who think that the best for their children means putting them through rigid discipline that includes an equally uncompromising take on nutrition. Other mums are more relaxed, taking the laid back approach to raising their kids that allows little ones more leeway during meal times.

Either way, the mission is still the same – they want to set their kids up for success.

But as always, we as parents should reflect and adjust our style from time to time, to avoid  inadvertently affecting our kids.

Here are 6 ways mums affect their children’s nutrition without knowing it:

1. Being too controlling

No sugar! No salt! No eating out! Some mummies can be a little extreme with controlling their child’s diets. But this can result in a child not getting the proper nutrition they need. While some mummies want to make sure their child is getting Tailored Nutrition, it has to be done in a balanced manner. You can ensure they are getting the right nutrients by introducing the correct milk for their needs.

2. Letting go a little too much

When it comes to weaning, parents need to guide their children in the right direction and not let go too much. Some parents look at the start of weaning as “independence day”. And yes, while it is a day to celebrate, if your child isn’t getting the right nutrients, his or her growth can be hindered.

To ensure your child is getting the proper Winning Weaning nutrients, you should give them some guidance on what to eat, if they are self-led weaning babies. If not, be sure that the pureed food they are given has the right amount of nutrients, supplemented by the right kind of milk.

3. Not taking the time to understand a child’s needs

Many parents are guilty of this. Just because our child is eating what we eat, it doesn’t necessarily mean that is what their little bodies need. If you want your child to be an All Rounder, you have to choose the right type of nutrition for their needs as they grow up, including the best type of milk for their development.

4. Giving the child too much independence

Your child might be super smart at their age, but it doesn’t mean that they should be given full independence to choose their diet plans. Some parents allow their kids to raid the fridge and let them eat whatever they find once they are old enough. However, it is important to keep your little Brainy Genius at bay, by ensuring they are receiving the right kind of nutrients through their diet and milk.

5. Only feeding the child one food group type

If you’re a kiasu parent, you might relate to this. Fish makes a kid smarter! Calcium makes a kids bones stronger! And of course, you want your kids to have Strong Bones, but it doesn’t mean you should only focus on one food group at a time. Your child should have a good mix of nutrition to keep their bones AND other body parts strong.

6. Forgetting important nutritional factors

A common problem many kids face is digestive issues. As their little bodies acclimatise to changing diets when they grow up, it is extra important to ensure their Gutsy Guts are well taken care of. If you’re unsure how to do so, just add some fibre into their diets and make sure the milk they are drinking is appropriate for their health.

Did you know that Nestle’s wide range of formula milk brands speaks to all kinds of children’s needs no matter your parenting style?

Find the right milk brand for your child’s nutritional needs:

If you’re raising a child who needs Tailored Nutrition, your best bet is the NANKID OPTIPRO® HA 3. This brand of milk is scientifically formulated with Nestlé’s Most Advanced Protein to put worried mums at ease, as it is less allergenic compared to regular cow’s milk protein.

A second option is the S-26® PE GOLD® that’s loaded with 7 key nutrients that may be missing in picky eaters such as Zinc, Iron, Calcium, Vitamin A, C, D & E.

For Winning Weaning kids, CERELAC®, is made with the goodness of baby-grade grains and packed with important nutrients like protein, DHA, iron, calcium, vitamin C and probiotics!

All Rounders will benefit from NANKID OPTIPRO®, a formulation without added sucrose, but with all the essential nutrients for your child’s optimal growth and development.

Alternatively, S-26® PROGRESS® and S-26® PROMISE® with Nutrissentials® now has an improved blend of nutrients to better support your child’s growth and development in establishing a strong foundation for learning.

If you’re raising a Brainy Genius, then you can consider the S-26® Progress GOLD® for your growing child. It is fortified with DHA, AA, Choline and Taurine to help your child’s mental development.

Want to continue building Strong Bones for your child? Nestlé’s LACTOKID® has more calcium in comparison to other brands of a similar price range, to keep your little active one strong and healthy.

Finally, not to forget the Gutsy Guts. Aiding your child’s digestion, Nestlé’s LACTOGROW® contains probiotic cultures L. reuteri, high calcium, DHA, and Happy Nutri™ to keep their tummies happy all the time.

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"Women are coldhearted": Asian husbands find true love with sex dolls

When life gets in the way for you and your spouse, the spark can easily go out of your marriage. Sometimes the issue is sex after childbirth — for ladies, having a baby often lowers our sex drive, as our body heals and we wear ourselves out taking care of our newborn.

Given patience and effort on both sides, it’s always possible to fan the love in your marriage back to life. So what happens when your husband decides ‘communication’ and ‘understanding’ are too much bother for him — and brings home a sex doll?

This humiliation is what Japanese mum Riho Ozaki had to face when her husband, Masayuki, bought a silicone sex doll. The life-size doll, named Mayu, shares his bed, goes on dates with him, and is dressed in sexy lingerie when he fancies.

Image Credit: Behrouz Mehri/AFP

“Japanese women are cold-hearted”

According to Masayuki, their marriage fizzled out after the birth of their daughter, now teenage. “After my wife gave birth we stopped having sex and I felt a deep sense of loneliness,” he
tells
 AFP in an interview.

Rather than attempting to reach out to his wife or considering her struggles, he claims that she is the selfish one. “Japanese women are cold-hearted,” he says.

“They’re very selfish. Men want someone to listen to them without grumbling when they get home from work.”

So when the husband saw the sex doll Mayu in the showroom, she became the pliant, passive woman of his dreams. “It was love at first sight,” he says.

Image Credit: Behrouz Mehri/AFP

Understandably, his wife Riho was “furious” when he brought this silicone ‘woman’ home. But she has become resigned to Masayuki’s indifference to her feelings. “These days she puts up with it, reluctantly,” her husband shrugs.

Despite her inner anguish, this mum continues to be a dutiful housewife. “I just get on with the housework,” she sniffs. “I make the dinner, I clean, I do the washing. I choose sleep over sex.”

And what about the couple’s daughter? “When my daughter realised it wasn’t a giant Barbie doll, she freaked out and said it was gross,” Masayuki admits. But he appears undeterred, adding, “But now she’s old enough to share Mayu’s clothes.”

Removable heads

Masayuki takes his silicon lover on dates in a wheelchair. They pose for pictures, go to love hotels, and take long baths together — all the romantic things a husband and wife might do.

Image Credit: Behrouz Mehri/AFP

Another married father of two, 62-year-old Senji Nakajima, takes his sex doll out for couple activities like surfing and picnicking. And of course, he takes her to bed.

Image Credit: Behrouz Mehri/AFP

Image Credit: Behrouz Mehri/AFP

Mayu and her counterparts in the sex doll market today boast genitals, adjustable fingers, and ultra-lifelike skin. “They look incredibly real now and it feels like you’re touching human skin,” claims Hideo Tsuchiya, managing director of doll maker Orient Industry.

The US$6,000 dolls also come with removable heads — you know, in case husbands prefer to enjoy time with their silicon girlfriend without being reminded of their pesky humanness.

Around 2,000 lifelike sex dolls are sold each year in Japan. In Singapore, one distributor
says
 that he had 20 customers within half a year of starting up his business.

“They complain a lot less than women”

But no matter how lifelike these sex dolls become — no matter how human-soft their skin is or how realistic they look — there’s surely something irreplaceable about a real woman.

So why do these husbands leave their wives for these passive figurines? Nakajima, for example, became estranged from his wife after she banned his sex doll Saori from the family home.
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The answer, at least from a woman’s perspective, seems to be good old-fashioned misogynism. Here’s how some of these men explain it.

“In the future I think more and more guys will choose relationships with dolls”, says Yoshitaka Hyodo, who has an understanding girlfriend. “It’s less stress and they complain a lot less than women.”

Nakajima adds, “Human beings are so demanding… I’ll never date a real woman again — they’re heartless.”

It seems that what these men want is a perfectly tame, compliant spouse. A wife who never gripes about her tiredness, even after a long day of caring for his children. A wife who never makes demands although she’s an individual with her own emotions and desires.

Though these husbands may accuse their wives of being tiresome and heartless, their actions hardly reflect their own sensitivity to her feelings. Difficult though marriage might be, it may be more worth fighting for than a forever with an eternally docile, fantasized being.

Mums, what’s your perspective? How would you feel if your husband brought home a sex doll? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

(Source:
ChannelNews Asia
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Meet the The Amazing Women (Wives and Girlfriends) Behind Soccer Stars!

The 2018 soccer World Cup is on… but it’s not just the players who are getting all the attention! Avid football fans are also talking about these World Cup wives and girlfriends who support their partners both on and off the field!

Not only are they gorgeous, they’re also amazing and talented in their own right. Read on to learn more about the World Cup wives and girlfriends supporting your favourite footballers!

Check Out These Amazing World Cup Wives and Girlfriends!

1. Izabel Goulart

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Matchday 🇧🇷⚽💛 Sending all my support to the boys in St Petersburg! Dia de jogo 🇧🇷⚽💛 Vai Brasil!!! Na torcida pela nossa seleção hoje em campo em St Petersburg!!! #worldcup #copadomundo #aguentacoracao

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Izabel Goulart is a former Victoria’s Secret model, as well as the girlfriend of goalkeeper Kevin Trapp who plays for Paris Saint-Germain. She was also the face of Armani Exchange back in 2008.

2. Polly Parsons

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💚

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 Mrs Vermaelen
 (@pollyroseparsons) on
Dec 28, 2017 at 4:37am PST

Polly Parsons is the wife of Belgian centre-back Thomas Vermaelen who plays his club football with Barcelona. She’s a television presenter, a lingerie model, and a mother to two sons with Thomas. The couple got married back in 2017.

3. Shakira

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Thank you Amsterdam! You were on 🔥🔥🔥🔥! Shak

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 Shakira
 (@shakira) on
Jun 9, 2018 at 3:21pm PDT

World-famous singer Shakira is married to 31-year-old Gerard Pique, who plays as Spain’s (and FC Barcelona’s) centre-back. Aside from being a world-renowned singer and performer, she also won the Grammy award for the Best Latin Pop Album back in 2017.

4. Charlotte Pirroni

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Ma moitié 💕 @flotov 📸 @salimb06

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Jun 15, 2018 at 9:02am PDT

Charlotte Pirroni was the second runner-up in Miss France 2015, and was also Miss Cote-d’Azur in 2014. She is the girlfriend of France winger, Florian Thauvin.

5. Ruby Mae

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❤🦁Goodluck to my Love in Russia🦁❤

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Jun 12, 2018 at 5:51am PDT

Ruby Mae is a lingerie model, and has also represented Dolce & Gabbana as well as Chanel in her modeling career. She is the girlfriend of English midfielder Dele Alli.

6. Annie Kilner

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Everything💙

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 Annie Kilner
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Jul 17, 2017 at 3:24am PDT

Anne Kilner is the girlfriend of Manchester City defender Kyle Walker. The couple have been dating since 2011, and have three kids, Roman, six, Riaan, two, and Reign, who is nine months old.

7. Carol Cabrino

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Quando o papai tem folga é SÓ ALEGRIAAAAAAAA!! Ela tem um amor por esse papi, indescritível! 😍♥ Amo demais.. Dupla da minha VIDA!! Falta só a Chanelzinha 🐶

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Jun 23, 2018 at 11:01am PDT

Carol Cabrino is a singer and television personality. She is married to Brazil and Paris Saint-Germain centre-back Marquinhos, and they tied the knot back in 2017. The couple have one child.

8. Georgina Rodríguez

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Los quiero… Tarde de patitos. Que descanséis…🌙✨❤

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Jan 31, 2018 at 11:36am PST

Georgina Rodríguez is the girlfriend of Cristiano Ronaldo, as well as the mother to their baby girl Alana Martina. She is a model who initially studied dance before switching careers. She came from a humble background, and is now engaged to one of the top athletes in the world!

The couple met in the VIP section of a Dolce & Gabbana event, and have been dating ever since! She’s also taking care of Ronaldo’s three other children.

Source:
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Photos screencapped from: Instagram

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Help Your Child Eat Less Sugar Now

One thing all kids can agree on is that the sweetness of sugar is quite possibly the best kind of flavour in the whole world. To the taste buds of kids below the ages of 12 years old, sugar is best eaten when it is bitten, chewed, sucked, licked and even swallowed whole.While most of us have had some resemblance of a childhood consisting of wholesome homemade food and the occasional sweet treats from the ice-cream truck only on Sundays, our children have ready access to sugary, over-processed food at almost every minute of every day.

To prove this hypothesis, all one has to do is take a good long look at the kids at playgrounds, shopping malls, preschools and kindergartens. An American study has also supported the fact by stating that as many as 1 in 4 children between the ages of 2 to 5 years old are considered overweight or obese!

In other words, gone are the days where there was only one really large kid in school. Sadly, kids who are considered “fat” also tend to be at higher risk of being bullied or singled out during team events.

How Did This Happen?

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According to American research, most children are obese at the tender age of 2 simply due to the overload of sugar consumption. While parents may opt for sugar-free diets at home, your child may still be consuming high amounts of sugar contained in packet foods and drinks from external sources, such as the school canteen or at restaurants.

Sadly, while the American Heart Association recommends that children of preschooling age only consume 3 teaspoons of sugar per day, a recent survey shows that preschoolers actually consume up to a maximum of 12 teaspoons of sugar on an average daily basis; which is four times the recommended intake for preschoolers.

Out of Sight, Out of Mind

Supermodel and mother to four children, Heidi Klum, attributed her dramatic weight loss after pregnancy to a complete overhaul of her meal plan. So instead of forcing your child into hateful exercises or diet regimes, make a commitment to clear out your pantry of sugar-laden food. This may include doughnuts, biscuits with cream, cake, sugared cereal, chocolates and candy.

If your toddler can’t eat sugar at home, then as their role model, you shouldn’t be having any sweetened food as well. By removing these unhealthy products, you will also be removing the temptation for your child, who will not have the option of begging, throwing a tantrum or stealing sweet treats from the kitchen when you’re not looking.

Do note that your child will probably perform a dramatic hissy fit when he or she realizes that their favourite food is no longer available to them, but if you stay firm long enough, they will eventually move on.

Keep It Healthy and Pretty

At the same time, you would also want to encourage your child to eat healthily and regularly as well, so do stock your kitchen with wholesome alternatives such as fruit, wholegrain crackers, raisins, cheese sticks, trail mix and air-popped popcorn (for children over the age of three). Raw honey, peanut butter and natural yoghurt are also good alternatives to flavouring boring adult snacks as well!

Parents may also consider packing adorable
 bento
 boxes for their kids as well.
Bento
, is the Japanese word for lunch box, and has become a popular phenomenon in Japan as it effectively encourages school children to eat healthier food, such as vegetables and beans.

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Children like to feed themselves, so always make sure that all healthy snacks are easily available to them. For instance, always have some cut fruit available in the kitchen so they can grab-and-go the moment they feel like having a snack. Alternatively, you may also designate a snack shelf just for the kids or leave the food out on the kitchen counter where it’s easily seen by all family members.

Always Read the Fine Print

At a glance, it seems as though almost every product available in supermarket aisles are either low-fat, sugar-free or fortified with extra vitamins and minerals. The sad, cold truth though is that these are but marketing words used to confuse the customer. The tricky thing about processed sugar is that it hides in literally every food product, even those which do not taste sweet, such as salad dressing, ketchup, peanut butter and barbecue sauce.

The good news is that all food manufacturers are legally obliged to list their ingredients on the Nutrition Facts label printed unto every product sold. So all you really need to do before deciding on a purchase is to turn the product around and read the sugar content.

Generally, you would want to steer away from food that contains fructose corn syrup, dextrose, sucrose, maltose, cane syrup or anything with more than 10g of regular sugar. At the same time, you might also want to consider avoiding the 3-in-1 instant packets as well, as those packet drinks tend to contain an extra 10g of sugar per satchet.

Have You Been Drinking?

The only two drinks kids can drink large amounts of is water and low-fat milk. Other drinks, including soda water, coffee (with sugar), tea (with sugar), chocolate and sports/energy drinks will only contribute to child obesity. Statistically, a 16-ounce soda drink can actually contain a minimum of 27 teaspoons of added sugar!

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A study in Paediatrics also concluded that children who drank sugary drinks regularly had a 60% increase of risk in becoming obese later on. Sadly, a whopping 44% of children between 18 to 24 months old, as well as 70% of children between the ages of 2 to 5 years old regularly drink sugar-laden drinks on a daily basis.

While TV advertisements would have you believe that drinking freshly peeled and packaged fruit juice is convenient, delicious and healthy at the same time, these marketers have also neglected to mention the highly concentrated amount of sugar added into the commercial drink.

A better alternative would be to prepare pure fruit juice at home for your children, although you should also limit the serving to four to six ounces only as fruits also contain natural sugar.

We Live to Eat, Not Eat to Live

Just like everything else that’s good in life, all good things must come in moderation. As no childhood is really complete without the occasional birthday cake, festival candy or random sweet treat, it would be a good idea to set some ground rules when it comes to dessert indulgence.
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For example, children may not have any dessert until they finish their vegetables, or children are only allowed to buy one type of candy during the trip to the supermarket.

A big bonus to setting ground rules when it comes to dessert is that it will eventually teach your child discipline, patience and will significantly reduce the number of tantrums revolving dessert.

When In Doubt, Seek Help

The biggest challenge with controlling your child’s diet is making sure that he or she adheres to the plan even when they’re out of your sight! A good method of ensuring that your child is fed well with all the right foods is to enlist the help of fellow moms.

For example, you could take turns feeding your group of children or help your toddlers learn from one another as you go through this new period of breaking the sugar habit. Children are natural copy cats, so they tend to want to improve themselves when they see that other children are also not allowed sweet treats in the afternoon.

At the same time, you may also want to seek help from the grandparents of your children, who are the likeliest suspects when it comes to spoiling your children. Have a talk with your parents about the necessity of keeping your child’s sugar intake to a minimum for a better quality of life, so you won’t have to worry about your kids breaking all sugar-rules every time they visit grandma and grandpa.

This article has been republished with permission from
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How do you know if your child has worms?

Kids and worms: the very thought of this makes us want to writhe in horror. However, living in a tropical country, the possibility of kids having intestinal worms is very real. Worms are a type of
parasite and the most
 common worms affecting families with children in Singapore are pinworms or threadworms. The symptoms of intestinal worms in children can vary from one child to another.

How Do Children Contract Worms?

Pinworms can easily be transmitted from one person to another by accidentally putting faecal matter into the mouth.

The cycle starts with female pinworms laying their eggs around the child’s anus at night. This then causes children to scratch due to intense itching which transmits the eggs onto their hands and fingernails.

The contamination continues when their little hands come in contact with clothing, bedding, surfaces, toilet seats, toys and even food.

It is extremely easy for the infestation to spread to other children or other members of the family because pinworm eggs can survive up to three weeks, according to
WebMD
.

As a result, eggs that end up in the mouth and smaller intestines will mature into female worms that lay eggs around the anus all over again. In the end, this life cycle repeats and contaminated children continue re-infecting themselves and others.

Other parasitic worms like hookworms, roundworms and whipworms, can spread via contact with soil contaminated by faeces of pets and even humans. However, this happens more commonly in poorly sanitised places.

You can also be infected if you eat or drink something that contains tapeworm eggs or larvae, like raw or under-cooked beef or pork.

Symptoms of Intestinal Worms in Children

Symptoms of intestinal worms in children can range from nothing to severe itching around the anus at night.

But below are other symptoms children may face aside from an itchy bottom:

General irritability and behavioural changes

Trouble sleeping, or restless sleep, sometimes resulting in bed-wetting

Sudden lack of appetite

Tummy aches and a change of stools

In girls, there may be redness and itching around the
vagina
.

In more serious cases, children may even show signs of vitamin and mineral deficiencies.

If your child has other worm infestations, look out for blood in the stools, anaemia as well as wheezing and dry cough.

It is a good practice to check your child’s bottom every once in a while with a torch, two to three hours into their sleep. You might see thin, white, moving, thread-like worms that measure roughly five to 15mm long.

You will be unable to see pinworm eggs with the naked eye.

Your doctor might suggest a “tape test” which involves placing a piece of sticky clear tape on your child’s anus. The tape will be able to collect the pinworm eggs if the child is already showing symptoms of intestinal worms in children.

Treatment and Prevention

Medicine to kill the pinworms, as well as medication for inflammation (if any), will be prescribed by your doctor. The whole family and anyone else who has been in close contact with your child will also need to be treated.

Deworming medication will cause those infected to poop out all the dead worms.

Then round two is repeated two weeks later to eliminate any leftover worms, and to ensure that all symptoms of intestinal worms in children are gone. Depending on the situation, your doctor might request another tape test just to be sure.

Do not underestimate the importance of
regular hand washing
, especially after using the toilet and before meals.

Kids should be discouraged from
nail biting
. Wash food, fruits and vegetables before eating. Wash contaminated bedding and underwear in a hot wash, especially a few days following the de-worming treatment. Remember also to regularly de-worm your pets.

Source:
WebMD
,
Raising Children

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Skin Irritation Makes My Baby Cries A Lot - Here’s What I Did to Help Him

When you discover tiny red bumps on your baby’s behind while changing his diaper, you’re bound to be a little freaked. Don’t worry mommy – skin irritation is in fact a pretty common sight, that almost all babies will get one at some point.

The problem can be easily solved and avoided with proper care and prevention. We have created a guide for new moms and dads to understand their child’s skin even better! But before we begin, you need to know what causes diaper rash and the common symptoms.

What Is Skin Irritation in Babies?

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Skin irritation or more commonly known as the nappy rash is a rash of the skin in the nappy area. It is caused by a breakdown of the skin surface in contact with pee or poop for a long time. Because of this, it causes redness and irritation and often makes your baby feel uncomfortable and itchy all day.
1

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, there is an estimation as many as 25 per cent of infants and toddlers have a diaper rash at any given time.
2

There are several symptoms of nappy rash that all parents must be aware of. Those include:

Mild rashes just have areas of pink and dry skin

Severe rashes have areas of red skin, wherein some areas the skin may become raw or even bleed

Pink rashes that are not painful, but raw ones are which eventually lead to crying and poor sleep
3

Pimple, spots or blisters

Hot, sore-looking skin

A very fussy baby

Common Causes of Skin Irritation

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Before looking ways into managing nappy rash, it is important for parents to understand the cause of this problem. This is because different causes may require different treatments.

1# Dirty diapers

This is a no-brainer, but many new parents are unaware that it is normal to change a newborn baby’s diaper up to 8 times per day. The leading cause of diaper rash is dirty diapers, so when a diaper is soiled, the urine and faeces rub against the baby’s skin. This leads to irritation and eventually bacteria infections if not treated properly.

2# Allergy & sensitivities

Parents must remember that a baby’s skin can be extremely sensitive to certain ingredients found in soaps, lotions and wipes. When their bum is not properly cleaned, it can cause contact dermatitis and rashes. Rashes that are caused by allergy can also appear on different parts of the body.

3# Yeast infection

It is a bright and tender rash that usually starts in the creases between the abdomen and thighs. In some cases, a strain of yeast called candida lives on the surface of your baby’s skin and overgrown around your baby’s diaper area. This overgrowth often happens in warm, moist and soften places with higher skin pH.
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4# Change in diet

Most mothers try to take proper care of their diet by eating healthily. However, a breastfed baby’s stool can change in consistency based on what their mom eats. Acidic food, for example, can trigger skin irritation because it can change the pH level of the urine. Once the baby starts to eat solids and is exposed to more foods, you may also notice the same happening to them.

5# Chafing

Another mistake parents often make is to purchase the wrong diaper size. Diapers are meant to fit snugly into the baby’s body. It is vital to ensure that the diapers stay on to prevent unwanted leaking. When a diaper is too tight, it can chafe your baby’s skin and causes skin irritation. When parents face this problem, the best solution is to purchase diapers in a bigger size.

How Long Does It Take for Skin Irritation to Heal?

Depends – some nappy rashes get better after a couple of days, but some might take up to a longer time (as long as seven days!).

Do call your doctor for further inspection if the rash does not get better, worsen, is infected with pus or spread beyond the diaper area. Some rashes can also be associated with diarrhoea and hide other illnesses.

How to Prevent Recurrent Nappy Rash in the Future

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To keep your baby healthy and happy (for the sake of your mental health too!), it is best to take preventative measures in approaching diaper rash. For new parents, don’t fret – follow these easy steps and you can see an immediate improvement in no time!

Change diapers more often
 – the main focus here is to prevent skin contact with stool, as little as possible.

Avoid using diaper wipes alone to cleanse the skin
, instead rinse your baby with warm water especially when cleaning their stool.

Be sure to clean everything off the skin folds
. For baby boys, cleaning the scrotum might be a challenge, however, it is advisable to not pull the skin to avoid injury.

Let your baby
diaper-free for a few minutes
 before putting on a new one. Best to do this practice AFTER the baby peed, or use a protective mat.

Once you’ve cleaned your baby, be sure to keep their tush dry by
using a towel or let it air-dry
. Use ointment only when necessary.

If your baby is too prone to diaper rash,
 use a barrier cream as a form of prevention
.

Use unscented baby soaps and detergents.
 Over-scented ingredients in these products (although promoted as child friendly) are one of the causes of irritation.

Wash your hands before and after changing the diapers
 in order to prevent rashes from spreading in different parts of their body.

Make sure the diaper fits properly
. Caregivers should always check the correct size of your child’s diaper.

Experiment with different diapers
. Some diapers sometimes are so efficient at trapping moisture, they accidentally trigger more rashes. It is advisable to choose a diaper designed specifically for sensitive skin.

Diaper for One, Diaper for All

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EU26 Allergens are the 26 most-known allergenic substances in Europe and commonly defined as substances that induce an allergy including redness, skin irritation or rash!

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hypoallergenic, chlorine-free and fragrance-free
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 as well as speedy absorption to keep babies clean and dry. These factors alone would help to reduce skin irritation on your baby, and keep them comfortable all day.

New parents will love this feature the most – it has a wetness indicator that turns from yellow to green, so you will know when to change the diaper without opening it to check! That way, not only you get to keep your baby dry and clean all the time, you won’t have to worry much on when would be the perfect time to change them.

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Reference:

https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/conditions/nappy-rash

pediatriccare.solutions.aap.org/chapter.aspx?sectionid=135768798&bookid=1626

https://www.seattlechildrens.org/conditions/a-z/diaper-rash/

www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=90&ContentID=P01888

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Mother and boyfriend tortured son to death because they thought he was gay

Contrary to what people think, gender confusion in children is actually more common than you think. When parents start having suspicions that their child might be gay, even this realisation could hit home like a tonne of bricks. While some families can accept their child being gay, not all parents feel the same way about their child’s sexuality.

Recently a mother was sentenced to life in prison while her boyfriend was sentenced to the death penalty when they were convicted of
torturing the woman’s son to death because they believed he was gay.

It was the mum who called 911 to report that her son wasn’t breathing, but she told deputies it was because he had fallen and hit his head on a dresser. However, the coroner later found out that the actual cause of death was blunt-force trauma and neglect.

It was later discovered that Gabriel Fernandez of Palmdale was repeatedly beaten, starved, tied up, locked in a cabinet, shot with a BB gun and once had his teeth knocked out with a bat. The boy also had a fractured skull, broken ribs and burns across his body.

He was only eight years old.

Gender Confusion in Children: What Should I Do?

1. DON’T stereotype gender roles

Just because boys play with dolls, it doesn’t necessarily mean they are gay. So what was it that led you to believe that your child might be gay? Many parents feel strongly about gender confusion in children, which is why they tend to stereotype gender roles. Still, parents should not jump to conclusions based on the toys that children play with. Their choice in toys is, by no means, any indication of their sexuality.

2. DON’T weird out on your child

Nobody likes to be treated differently when the cause is something they can barely understand, let alone control. Even if you think your child is gay, it still doesn’t change the fact that they are your children. It is important to remain supportive. Do not make rash judgements or reject them. Instead, always be there for them to guide them, especially when they need your help the most.

3. DON’T force them to see a counsellor

Sexual orientation is not a simple matter or something that can be fixed with a visit to the doctor or counsellor. This will only make your child think that they are a mistake. If your child opens up and feels more comfortable talking to a counsellor, then by all means. But do not imply that there is something wrong with them and that they should go see a counsellor or shrink to set them right.

4. DON’T behave like it’s the end of the world

There is no need to start calling everyone in the family and pouring your heart out. This will only create more strain between you and your child. Even if it is difficult, don’t sever the relationship. Always remain calm, open and non-judgemental. Be the one they can run to when they need to pour out their feelings. Be the parents they can depend on regardless if they are gay or not.

5. DON’T ask them if they are gay

Even if your suspicion is strong, wait for them to be ready to confide in you. Do not be tactless and ask them straight out. Be sensitive about their feelings and try to understand how difficult it must be for them. Until then, continue to be patient and supportive without being too judgmental. They will surely tell you when they are done battling their own confusion and are finally ready to come out.

How to Determine Gender Confusion in Children

According to Dr Greene, there are some factors to look out for when trying to determine gender confusion in children:

Is your child still confused about their own sex by their third birthday?

Does your child consistently say that he or she prefers to be the opposite sex?

Do you always hear your child speaking ill of or denying his or her own sexual anatomy?

If your child displays these traits, there is a possibility that he or she might be facing gender confusion. Still, there is no reason to believe that gender confusion in children is a bad thing. And it certainly doesn’t give anybody the right to belittle or beat these children into obedience.

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Our hearts go out to the little boy who was tortured and beaten to death just because they thought he might be gay. We cannot begin to imagine the nightmare he had to endure. May his soul rest in peace.

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Give Health A Shot Campaign: Bridging the Awareness With Vaccine Preventable Disease Education for Families

With most people now back to their old routines and life gaining some semblance of normality, there is an increased risk of exposure to old common infectious diseases, including chickenpox and rotavirus, especially for school children.

Give Health A Shot is a community effort by Merck Sharp & Dohme Sdn Bhd (MSD). The project aims to increase the awareness of vaccine preventable diseases such as chickenpox and rotavirus in children through a comprehensive content hub, with emphasis on the importance of prevention.

Young children can be exposed to chickenpox and the rotavirus in their daily life and prevention plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthier lifestyle for families and communities.

This campaign is coming at an opportune time in re-educating parents about the preventive measures that can be taken about diseases such as chickenpox and rotavirus.

The World Health Organization (WHO) published a news release in July 2022 announcing the largest sustained decline in childhood vaccinations in 30 years, with lockdowns contributing to this drop, limiting parents’ access to immunisation services. The World Health Organization (WHO) views vaccines as a critical tool in the prevention and control of infectious diseases
1
.

In a media statement, former Malaysia’s Deputy Health Minister Datuk Dr Noor Azmi Ghazali said the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic has caused a decline in the number of immunisations at health clinics as parents were worried about the spread of COVID-19
2
. He was quoted saying, “All parents and guardians are advised to check their children’s immunisation records, if they have missed any, get a new appointment at the health clinic.”

MSD’s awareness campaign echoes the Ministry of Health’s reminder for children to be protected from vaccine-preventable diseases with the aim to educate and encourage parents in Malaysia to take preventative steps in fighting against chickenpox and rotavirus.

Rotavirus is a prevalent virus and highly contagious disease which spreads easily among infants and young children. The virus can cause severe diarrhoea and vomiting that can lead to severe dehydration among infants and young children. Additionally, it also causes fever and stomach pain. Almost every child worldwide is exposed to rotavirus by the age of five. In Malaysia, between 22% and 50% of the cases of all diarrhoea in children are caused by rotavirus
3
.

A World Health Organization 2021 position paper on rotavirus stated that the virus was the leading cause of severe, dehydrating diarrhoea in children under the age of five, which resulted in an estimated more than 500,000 childhood deaths and over 2 million hospitalisations worldwide in 2000. Those statistics demonstrated the need for effective interventions early in life to reduce the global burden of severe rotavirus gastroenteritis (RVGE)
4
.

In 2010, the WHO recommended the use of rotavirus vaccines as part of a comprehensive strategy to control diarrhoeal diseases, together with other prevention and treatment efforts
5
. According to consultant paediatrician Dato’ Dr Musa Mohd Nordin, “The Malaysian Paediatric Association has been advocating for the rotavirus vaccine to be included in the national immunisation programme (NIP) for a while now.”

Chickenpox, on the other hand, is caused by the varicella-zoster virus which also causes shingles later in life. Its symptoms include fever and a blister-like rash
6
 and chickenpox can easily spread when an infected person coughs or sneezes or when an individual comes in contact with the bodily fluids of an infected person
7
.

Even though chickenpox is usually mild, there are possible complications that can arise for example infection of the skin, bloodstream, pneumonia or inflammation of the brain
7
. Preventive action is important as it minimises risk and helps reduce mortality
8
. Vaccine-preventable diseases are still a threat and preventive measures such as good hygiene practices and appropriate vaccination play a role in maintaining public health by keeping children protected and helps provide protection for not just one child but other children as well
8
.

The Give Health A Shot Campaign is now live at
https://my.theasianparent.com/category/kesihatan-bm/vaksinasi/give-health-a-shot-bm
 where parents and the general public will have access to a wide range of resources and information around vaccine-preventable diseases, stories from other parents and educational videos too.

The campaign hopes to reach out to over a million parents in Malaysia to inform, educate and ignite a sense of urgency in them to take action to help protect their children through the different preventive measures.

“We have a responsibility to ensure parents have access to reliable and relevant information about vaccine-preventable diseases at their fingertips,” says Pang Lai Li, Managing Director, MSD Singapore & Malaysia. “We are seeing a worrying trend of parents skipping vaccinations because they are afraid to bring their children out to healthcare facilities with the ongoing COVID-19 outbreak and the presence of other diseases like hand, foot and mouth or monkeypox.”

“We hope that through the Give Health A Shot campaign and content hub that is made readily available to parents, that they will seriously take into consideration their child’s health and safety with protective measures including good hygiene practices and appropriate vaccination,” added Lai Li.

Check out the Give Health A Shot Campaign website and speak to your doctor regarding any concerns you may have, Including protection for your children in time for the new school year!

About
MSD

For over 130 years, MSD has been inventing for life, bringing forward medicines and vaccines for many of the world’s most challenging diseases in pursuit of our mission to save and improve lives. MSD is a trade name of Merck & Co., Inc., with headquarters in Kenilworth, N.J., U.S.A. We demonstrate our commitment to patients and population health by increasing access to health care through far-reaching policies, programs and partnerships.

Today, MSD continues to be at the forefront of research to prevent and treat diseases that threaten people and animals — including cancer, infectious diseases such as HIV and Ebola, and emerging animal diseases – as we aspire to be the premier research-intensive biopharmaceutical company in the world. For more information, visit
www.msd-malaysia.com
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World Health Organization. Covid-19 pandemic fuels largest continued backslide in vaccinations in three decades. Available From:
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. Last Accessed: 24 Aug 2022.

New Straits Times. MOH to Trace Babies, children who missed immunisation during MCO – Noor Azmi. Available From:
https://www.nst.com.my/news/nation/2022/06/805602/moh-trace-babies-children-who-missed-immunisation-during-mco-noor-azmi
. Last Accessed: 24 Aug 2022.

PORTAL MyHEALTH. Rotavirus vaccine. Available From:
https://www.myhealth.gov.my/en/rotavirus-vaccine/
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World Health Organization. Rotavirus vaccines: Who position paper – july 2021 – Vaccins antirotavirus : Note de Synthèse de l’OMS – juillet 2021. Weekly Epidemiological Record [Internet]. 2021;28(16).

World Health Organization. Global use of rotavirus vaccines recommended. Available From:
https://www.who.int/news/item/11-12-2010-global-use-of-rotavirus-vaccines-recommended
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Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. About chickenpox. Available From:
https://www.cdc.gov/chickenpox/about/index.html#:~:text=Chickenpox%20is%20a%20highly%20contagious,250%20and%20500%20itchy%20blisters
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Here's how to know if your partner's sperm is healthy just by LOOKING at it

Trying to conceive
 can be one of the most challenging times for a couple. Safe to say, having healthy sperm or
strong sperm
 improves the chances of getting pregnant. But sometimes, this topic might be hard to broach with your husband. It can be a sensitive issue to bring up. So how can you tell if your husband’s sperm is healthy just by looking at it? We have some tips on how to tell if sperm is healthy.

How to tell if sperm is healthy just by looking at it

How to tell if sperm is healthy by looking at its colouring. | Source: Pexels

Your husband’s semen says a lot about his sperm health, naturally. The colour of the semen is the best self-help indication of its health. The first thing you need to check is the colour of the sperm and it will tell you a lot about its health:

Cloudy white or grey

Normal semen is usually cloudy white or grey, with a jelly-like consistency. If this is the colour of your husband’s sperm, then great! Stick to a healthy lifestyle like the tips above for higher levels of sperm count and quality.

Pink, red, brown or orange

This might possibly be hematopsermia, or blood in the semen. In some cases, it could be because of vigorous sex or masturbation, which should resolve on its own in a few days. In the worse case scenario, it could be because of blood pressure, STDs like herpes, chlamydia and gonorrhoea, prostate infection. If you are having pains on or around your crotch area, do see a doctor as soon as possible.

Black

Most of the time, black semen is caused by old blood. But it could be caused by injuries to your spinal cord. Do consult your doctor if you have not done so, as it could be a more serious issue.

Yellow or green

Yellow or green semen on the other hand is usually linked to leftover urine mixed with semen, which is most commonly the cause of the odd colouring. But in other cases, it could be a sign of a medical problem like a urinary tract infection, prostate infection or an STD. If your husband is in pain after ejaculating, then it’s time to see the doctor.

How to tell if sperm is healthy: Practice healthy habits

How to tell if sperm is healthy? Start with healthy habits. | Source: Pexels

Healthy sperm is not all about the
fertility
 or virility of your husband. Sure, age plays a part in how healthy a sperm is, but did you know that men can produce sperm until they’re 80? The health of the sperm starts to decline as a man passes his 40th birthday and motility (the ability to move towards an egg) slows down between 20 to 80.

However, there are some practices that can be encouraged for men to produce healthy sperm.

1. Keep it cool down below

Sperm only produces in cool temperature – so when it’s summer on the testicles, you can expect trouble in paradise. Your man should avoid overheating the crotch area. So sauna sessions and hot baths should be kept at a minimum. Get rid of your husband’s tighty whities and opt for loose boxer shorts as the go-to undergarment so the sperm factory keeps on churning.

2. Eat well

A healthy and well-balanced diet containing all the major food groups not only gives you the energy you need to get through your day, but is also key to assembling a
healthy army of sperm
. Food with folates like green vegetables, potatoes and legumes help increase sperm count, while Vitamin D, through cereal and fatty fish ensures sperm’s optimum shape and mobility. Fatty fish also contain omega-3 fatty acids, which is known to improve sperm structure and number.

3. Lose the belly and stay active

It’s not just enough to eat well, you need to encourage your husbands to get off the couch and get to the gym.
Studies
 show that
physically active
 men have higher testosterone levels, which leads to better sperm. Exercise can also help libido, so there’s that!

4. Stop smoking

Plenty of studies show that
smoking lowers sperm count
, decreased sperm mobility and poor sperm shape. It’s also linked to increased miscarriage rates as well. If your husband quits smoking now, you will be able to see improvements in just three months – the same time it takes for sperm calls to reach maturity.

5. Relax, take it easy

It’s not just important for the body to be healthy, the mind needs to be in tip top shape as well.
Stress
 is known to decrease sexual function or worse, shut down the sperm factory altogether. It’s important to keep your husband relaxed if you’re hoping to get healthy sperm!

Sources:
NCBI

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Mum Recommends THIS Magic Home Remedy For Baby's Cough!

It always breaks parents’ hearts to hear their babies cough, especially those stubborn, phlegmy coughs that keep them up at night.

There are a dozen cough medicines available in drug stores that claim to be safe and effective, but experts are now of the opinion that, kids under 6 shouldn’t use over-the-counter cold and cough medicine because of potentially dangerous side effects.

Many mummies these days are opting for simple and safe home remedies instead. Singapore mum Dorcas recently shared the magic cure she stumbled upon, for her baby’s cough. Read on!

Mum’s home remedy for baby’s cough

Mummy Dorcas tells, “I believe a lot of mummies are struggling when our babies are suffering from common illness like cough and flu. My baby had been suffered from flu and cough with a lot of phlegm for more than a week.”

“I fed her Zyrtec and used Illadin and Sterimar everyday to cure her sickness but there was no improvement at all even after 1 week. I was really worried that she might eventually end up having bronchitis if the cough persisted for too long. I tried applying essential oils too, without success.”

And that’s when Hope walked in, in the form of a colleague.

Dorcas recalls, “One day, I was telling my colleague that my gal was coughing badly with phlegm, without any sign of recovery. That’s when he shared a home remedy that was really effective for babies’ cough – steam apple, onion, garlic (AGO)!”

“I decided to give it a try. After the first day of feeding her the essence of steamed AGO, she had recovered by 80%! 2 days later she was almost fully cured.”

Dorcas recommends that all mummies give this remedy a try.
Meanwhile, here’s her magic recipe:

1. Take one apple (she used red apple), one big red onion and 4-5 small pieces of garlic

2. Steam for 20 minutes

3. Pour out the water and feed. She tells us that she just gave the steamed juice extracted out from the AGO, and did not mash or puree the mixture.

4. She also recommends giving this AGO remedy to the baby just once a day.

Dorcas also tells us that the AGO remedy tasted rather sweet, and her baby didn’t create a fuss when she was fed it.

We also ask her if other mummies felt the same way after trying out the remedy, Dorcas informs us, “Yes, a lot mummies are trying it out. Some say it works! Some say it doesn’t maybe because their baby only drank a few sips and stopped. Many are planning to try out.”

Well mummies, do let us know if Dorcas’ magic AGO remedy for cough works for your baby!

Please do remember however, that every child is different; if you have any concerns, do consult your paediatrician before trying out home remedies.

Meanwhile, here are some things to remember when children have cough:

Offer plenty of warm liquids:
 Warm liquids can thin mucus, and ease congestion.

Honey is magic:
Studies
 have shown that, honey is effective in soothing congestion and sore throat in toddlers.

Avoid giving honey to children younger than 1 year old as it could cause infant botulism, a potentially fatal kind of food poisoning.

More Vitamin C foods:
 Feed your child foods high in vitamin C, like kiwi, grapefruit, papaya, bell peppers or sweet potatoes. If solid foods are too irritating for your little one’s throat, try juices or a fruit smoothie.

Avoid these foods:
 Experts recommend eliminating refined sugar and dairy from your child’s diet when he’s congested as they could increase mucus production and compound congestion.

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Father of four dies after receiving serious injuries from exploding mobile phone

In some sad news, an exploding mobile phone resulted in the death of Cradle group (Malaysia) CEO Nazrin Hassan. A piece of shrapnel from the phone reportedly caused his untimely demise. While the incident is heartbreaking, it serves as a reminder to all of us about mobile phone safety.

Exploding Mobile Phone Causes Dad of Four’s Tragic Death

Nazrin Hassan has been known as a staunch supporter of startups in Malaysia.

Nazrin Hassan, the CEO of Cradle, a company which provides funding for tech startups, died because of an exploding mobile phone on June 14.

“The post-mortem report concluded the cause of death as being complication of blast injuries attributable to an exploding handphone that was being charged next to him,” Cradle’s management shared.

A family friend had shared that Nazrin complained of a migraine and went to bed after taking medication.

His mobile phone was charging beside him
when the phone overheated and exploded
. The explosion allegedly caused blunt trauma to his head, which led to his death.

The explosion also set fire to the mattress he was lying on. However, he had already died by that time
according to his brother-in-law
.

He Leaves Behind His Kids and His Wife

Nazrin has been integral in the development of startups and companies in his native country of Malaysia.

He started the Cradle Investment Program (CIP) as a means of providing assistance to up-and-coming entrepreneurs. Nazrin was also known in Malaysia as the “godfather of startups.”

Nazrin is survived by his wife, Samirah Muzaffar, their young son, three stepsons, and a son from a previous marriage.

Mobile Phone Dos and Don’ts!

These days, mobile phones make our lives much more convenient. Our mobile phones allow us to quickly get in touch with one another, and the various apps allow us to basically do everything we need to, with just one touch.

However, it’s important to know that cellphones can also cause harm. That’s why parents should be aware of the dangers and risks that smartphones can pose.

Here are some important things to keep in mind:

Stop overcharging your phones.
 Not only does overcharging cause your battery to deteriorate, it can also cause your phone to overheat. Overheated phones have the potential to
explode and cause serious injury
. Leaving it plugged in can also increase the risk of fire in your house.

Avoid buying cheap phones or used mobile phones.
 That’s because cheap phones are made with substandard materials, and have the potential to heat up or explode simply from use or from charging. The same goes for used phones, since you’re not sure if those phones have been damaged before.

Teach your children to use their mobile phones responsibly
. Like everything, mobile phones have a time and place, and being glued to their phones won’t do your kids any good!

Never use your mobile phone while driving.
 Driving and using your phone can cause accidents, so you should never do it!

Be clear about your children’s phone usage.
 Make sure that they’re using their phones to call and text, and for schoolwork.

Limit their time on their phones.
 Don’t let your child have their phones beside them 24/7. Set aside a time where you keep their phones so that they can “disconnect” and not be constantly glued to their gadgets.

Source:
The Star Online

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"My Son Isn't A Threat To Others", Says Father Of Autistic Boy Who Got Kicked And Pushed At Indoor Playground

Recently, it was reported that a
dad of 2 had kicked and pushed a 5-year-old boy at an indoor playground in Yishun.

The mother of the boy had lodged a police report. A police spokesman has told Stomp that the man in the video has been identified, adding:

“He is now assisting the police with investigations.”

The video of the incident had gone viral. While, many agreed that the man had no right to hit the child, others opined that the boy kept provoking the man. And that, he shouldn’t have been left unsupervised in the play area.

The incident had happened in Sunshine Childhood Playland in NorthPoint City on April 9, 2018.

Now, the father of the boy, Mr. Luo, has clarified that his autistic son had only wanted to play with the man and his family.

 “He isn’t a threat to them.”

Mr Luo, told
Shin Min Daily News
 that he had not expected so much criticism from the public. He hopes that people can be more tolerant towards children with special needs.

Mr. Luo said that the boy was his fourth child. He was diagnosed with autism as a toddler, when the family realised he was not responding when they called out to him.

Autistic child hitting others was just due to reflexes

Mr. Luo also said that his son was a playful child and that, he had been teaching him to behave in public for the last few years.

“Although he is autistic, it does not mean that he doesn’t like to interact with others. He’s actually a good kid and loves to play with other children.

“He isn’t a threat to them.”

Regarding the incident, he said, “My son was going to hug him(the man) to gain his affirmation, so he could play with his kids. I can comprehend my child’s action but not everyone is the same. “

“For those who misunderstand, they may view it as an attack.”

“As for the parts where my son hit the man, it is just due to his reflexes kicking in after getting pushed.”

Apparently when his wife confronted the man after the incident, he had denied hitting him.

The child was unaware that he had got bullied, and did not complain either.

Mr. Luo said, “Throughout the whole incident, my son did not know that he was being bullied, and never complained to my wife at all.”

But he complained of pain and the fierce playground uncle at night. That was when the family realised that something was wrong.

“It was only that night when he was taking a bath at home, that he told my wife that his abdomen and area around his groin were hurting.

“He told her that the ‘uncle’ at the playground was very fierce, and we all realised that something was wrong.

“We got in contact with the people running the playground to try and understand the situation.”

The boy is fine now, and the matter is being looked into by the police.

(Source:
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Parents, Here’s How To Effectively Support Your Child’s Dreams

When we become parents and look into the eyes of our child, we don’t just see a child. We see hopes and dreams. We see a lifetime of potential. We see the future.

We see our children achieving greatness and making an impact in the world. Whether they have dreams of becoming a doctor, a scientist, an artist or a gardener, we want to be there for them every step of the way to show our support.

As parents, we try our best to guide our children in the right direction, no matter their dreams. Sometimes, though, these dreams can only remain dreams if we don’t turn them into plans.

For most parents, what we do is start building up a nest egg of savings for their future from an early age as part of turning those dreams into plans. We want to ensure that they have the resources they need to succeed.

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Abbott Malaysia wants to add on to that nest egg with their #DreamstoPlans campaign, which is offering four mums an education grant of RM30,000 each, amounting to a total of RM120,000.

RM30,000 can go a really long way, especially if you end up saving that money and compounding the interest to let it grow into a huge fund for your child’s college education in the future!

I
n fact, by the time they reach college-going age, even if you don’t add onto that principal, the savings amount will almost double.

Education Grant In Malaysia: From Dreams To Plans

Abbott believes every child should reach potential growth and with that, they are introducing their year-end campaign aimed at turning dreams into plans.

If you want to stand a chance to be one of the four lucky winners of this education grant, all you have to do is follow these simple steps:

Purchase any of these products (Similac Gain Plus® or Similac Gain Kid® Gold/ Similac Intelli-Pro® Step 3 or Similac Intelli-Pro® Step 4/ Pediasure®).

Scan the QR code and submit your proof of purchase.

Stand a chance to win!

Besides that, Abbott is also giving out freebies with every purchase of their products from now until the end of the year.

Want to know more about this? Visit their website at
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Secret Recipe and NITA Cosmetics Unveil Delectable Beauty Collections

Calling all beauty-lovers with a sweet tooth as Malaysia’s leading lifestyle cake and café brand, Secret Recipe, collaborated with local beauty brand, NITA Cosmetics, to launch a limited edition delicious line of lipstick and blusher that are a feast for the senses.

The collaboration brings together two homegrown favourites that are fun and innovative, making them the perfect match. Over the past years, Secret Recipe has earned a loyal following of foodies and cake lovers enticed by the brand’s uncompromised quality of food and vibrant concepts.

NITA Cosmetics on the other hand has made a splash in the beauty industry for its upbeat vibes and inclusive shade variety. Together, both brands created a collection that is sure to delight beauty and foodie enthusiasts alike.

There are two special edition collections introduced – the Classic Cake Collection and the Signature Cake Collection – which each feature three tantalising makeup offerings of two liquid lipsticks and a liquid blusher. Inspired by some of Secret Recipe’s most delectable cakes, the shades available evoke the indulgence of biting into a freshly baked cake.

From the zesty freshness of a creamy cheesecake to rich chocolate decadence, the variety of flavours will satisfy any sweet tooth. These mouthwatering collections also come in retro-inspired packaging, housed in pink triangular-shaped cake boxes featuring lively illustrations.

It is not just the names that are inspired by cake. As the formulas of the products themselves have been created to keep you looking exquisite all day long, the liquid lipsticks are based on NITA Cosmetics’ trademark lightweight, waterproof, and hydrating formula that easily glides on to leave a luscious and long-lasting pop of colour. The liquid blusher meanwhile, was created to be versatile and can be layered on for a more intense look or applied lightly for a natural-looking flush.

“As a local brand, we are all into supporting local businesses and it was exciting to work with NITA Cosmetics. We referenced our best-selling products from our Classic and Signature Cake collections and turned them into NITA’s lipstick and blusher sets. We look forward to seeing the success of this collaboration, as NITA has been a great brand to work with,” said Evelyn Lee, Head of Marketing of Secret Recipe, during the launch of the makeup line.

The launch event also saw a special makeup demonstration by the owner of the homegrown beauty brand, Aznita Azman, which offered the audience a chance to glean new skills and tips to keep their looks fresh throughout the day. “Secret Recipe has won the hearts and minds of many Malaysians. We are honoured to have the opportunity to name our latest collection after Secret Recipe’s cakes, inspired by the colours and scents of the delectables,” said Aznita Azman, Founder of NITA Cosmetics.

The Classic Cake Collection reinvents three of Secret Recipe’s most popular desserts into wearable makeup formulas. The set includes the Chocolate Indulgence mini-matte scented liquid lipstick that comes with an appealing chocolate aroma; the pink-hued Chocolate Cheese Berries mini-matte liquid lipstick; and the Crème Brulee Cheese mini gleam blusher, poised to leave you with a glazed flush on your cheeks.

Taking a cue from Secret Recipe’s hallmark cakes, the Signature Cake Collection translates the Decadent Tiramisu, Chocolate Odyssey, and Burnt Cheesecake flavours into a tiramisu-scented mini-matte lipstick; a cocoa-brown mini-matte lipstick, and a juicy peach-coloured mini gleam blusher.

The limited edition Secret Recipe X NITA Cosmetics collections are available at NITA Cosmetics’ online store, and retail at RM59.00 each. Whether you are a fan of desserts, or makeup, or just looking to add a little more whimsy to your beauty routine, don’t miss out on this opportunity to indulge in a guilt-free treat for your lips and cheeks!

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This mum with placenta previa during pregnancy shares her trauma

Mummy Siti Yunos first reached out to theAsianparent with a message, “I am a mummy going through placenta previa, and due to deliver in September. It’s not a common situation in Malaysia. I would like to share my story after my delivery…”

When she sent this message to us, she was actually admitted in hospital…

Almost a month later, on 22 August, Siti delivered a baby boy, Muhamad Adil. Here is the story of this Singapore mum with placenta previa…

Mum with placenta previa

This was actually Siti’s third pregnancy. She tells us,
“Both my other deliveries were C-section. I got to know recently that, if you have 2 C-sections in a row, there is a higher chance of having placenta previa, so I wanted to create awareness of this condition.”

The placenta is an organ that develops inside your uterus during pregnancy, providing oxygen and nutrition to, and removing wastes from your baby. The placenta connects to your baby through the umbilical cord. In most pregnancies, the placenta attaches at the top or side of the uterus.

Placenta previa happens when the placenta is lying unusually low in the uterus, and partly or completely covers the cervix, which is the opening of the uterus.

In a normal vaginal delivery, the baby passes from the uterus into the cervix and through the birth canal.

In placenta previa, as your cervix opens during labour, it can cause blood vessels that connect the placenta to the uterus to tear. This can lead to bleeding and put both you and your baby at risk. Placenta previa can cause severe bleeding during pregnancy and delivery.

Siti tells us, “I had many bleeding episodes in the first trimester, but even then my condition wasn’t detected, in spite of the scans done.”

According to the Mayoclinic, “Bright red vaginal bleeding without pain, during the second half of pregnancy is the main sign of placenta previa.” Some women also have contractions with the bleeding.

Risk factors for placenta previa

Placenta previa is seen to be more common among women who:

Had placenta previa in a previous pregnancy.

Had C-sections before. (The more c-sections you’ve had, the higher the risk.)

Have had other types of surgery done on their uterus

Are carrying more than one foetus

Are age 35 or older

Smoke

Use cocaine

Siti’s condition was confirmed only at 20 weeks, when she did the mid-pregnancy ultrasound scan, “The worst part was, upon getting the diagnosis, the doctor who helped to deliver my 2nd child refused to undertake this delivery, because this is a very serious condition, and happens only in 1 in 200 women.”

Siti was found to have complete previa, which means that, the placenta was completely covering the cervix. She reveals, “So at 20 weeks, I went in search of a gynaecologist specialising in high risk pregnancies.”

From June onwards, Siti, who works as hospitality admin, had to take hospitalisation leave, as she had difficulty in walking, “In July, when I was 30 weeks pregnant, I was hospitalised in Mount Elizabeth due to heavy bleeding.”

After 2 weeks, she felt that the bleeding had stopped and so insisted on going home. But she was wrong.

Delivery complications

She says, “At 32 weeks, I bled again. I ended up calling an ambulance at 1 am, and rushing to KK Hospital (KKH).”

She delivered her baby finally on 22 August, at 34 weeks, through C-section. She informs us, “It was considered as one of the big surgeries of the day. The C-section delivery was planned, and surgeons from Tan Tock Seng Hospital were also involved. A High Risk team from KKH was present. “

Siti also had placenta accreta. Mums who have placenta previa are also more likely to have a placenta that’s implanted too deeply into the uterus, and doesn’t separate easily at delivery. This is called
placenta accreta.

Placenta accreta is a high risk condition that can cause massive bleeding, and the need for multiple blood transfusions at delivery. It can be life threatening and may require a hysterectomy to control the bleeding.

Says Siti, “I had to do angiogram ballooning to prevent too much bleeding. I also needed a hysterectomy done, to save my life so that I wouldn’t bleed to death.”

“I was lucky i didn’t need bladder repair as well, as the placenta was also invading the bladder.”

Siti tells us that though the doctors had planned for 4-5 bags of blood for transfusion, she ended up needing around 7!

“I got admitted at 8 am, and the surgery ended at 3:30 pm. I had to be kept in ICU for one day.”

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Little Adil, who weighed around 2.07 kg, was thankfully fine, and taken to Special Care Nursery.

Hopefully, it’s the end of Siti’s ordeal and so far this mummy of 3 has been recovering well. Her muscles are still weak due to the continuous bed rest though, and currently, a physiotherapist is helping her regain the ability to walk normally.

Advice to other mums

We asked Siti, what advice she wanted to give other mums who are going through a similar condition, and this is what she says:

In case of multiple C- section deliveries, do make sure to check for placenta previa.

Read up a lot about it. It is easy to take it lightly and dismiss it as just another condition, but the reality is that it is an extremely risky condition.

She tells us, “I don’t want to scare other mums but fact is, I almost lost my life…too many things were going on…”

Check for support groups online, like the
Placenta previa support group on Facebook
. I was lucky that KKH offered me motivational support too.

Thank you so much, Siti for sharing your story with us. We hope you regain you health soon. Here’s wishing this beautiful family peace, love and happiness!

(Source:
MayoClinic
,
WebMD
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Why Does My Child Only Root For The Bad Guy When Watching TV?

Help! Why is my child rooting for villains?

Have you often wondered why your child seems to love rooting for villains or the “bad guys” in movies? You might still remember when you were watching
Transformers
 with your son, and instead of rooting for Optimus Prime, you heard him shouting “Megatron! Megatron!”

Or you might still recall your daughter smiling with glee when the Wicked Witch finally got Princess Aurora in
Sleeping Beauty
.

Are you somehow worried about why your child prefers the bad guys over the good ones? Are you afraid that your child might have the tendencies to become violent?

Is rooting for villains normal?

It is quite natural for little kids to root for the bad guys instead of the good ones especially during fight scenes. They do this not because they want to provoke you or to tell you that they would rather choose the bad over the good. It’s just that they are not fully aware that hurting people is bad.

They just know that what the villains are doing is somehow similar to the strong emotions that continue to build up inside of them. When they watch the villains fight, they are somehow glad that what they feel inside can actually be expressed just the way the villains are doing it in the movies.

Children are often clueless as to what actions really mean. They have practically no idea that actions can either be good or bad. What they are aware of, are the strong emotions inside of them that they can’t seem to control.

So when they see Orochimaru trying to beat Naruto in a fight, their emotions start to build up and they unconsciously feel happy that someone is actually doing what they only feel inside of themselves.

Why are children related to villains?

More often than not, these villains look totally different from the rest of the characters in the movie. Villains look ugly and scary, and are often loners or live isolated from the other characters of the movie.

So aside from the fact that children see their strong emotions expressed through the villains, they also see their personalities in the villains themselves.

Children who are loners or rejected by others will have a tendency to identify themselves with these villains. They often feel happy that there is actually someone who is just like themselves – alone and rejected.

Villains, even though they are rejected by many, often possess superhuman powers, intelligence and strength. Researchers say that this is very appealing to kids. Those who have very strong personalities, tend to end up rooting for villains.

They like that these characters have the courage to say no to the rules and live any way they please while utilizing their superhuman abilities.

They end up rooting for villains because they are brave to face those who reject them and tell them to their face that they don’t care about what anybody thinks.

When kids end up rooting for villains and imitating them

However, it might start off with kids just rooting for villains. But later it can be frightening when your children start to imitate the villains and begin to act on their strong emotions.

You definitely don’t want them hurting their siblings, especially those who are younger and definitely powerless to run away from their “attackers.” This can be a perfect time to educate your villain-loving kids on the realities of good and bad.

You have to make them aware that good actions are desirable while bad actions are not acceptable — under any circumstances! Tell them that a villain’s actions are definitely bad no matter what the motive may be.

It would take some time for your kids to really understand that some actions are good while some are deemed bad and unacceptable.

So be patient as there will still be many instances when they will try to hurt their siblings or friends while pretending to be one of those bad guys in the movies. Just point out to them that in all movies it’s always the good guys who win in the end.

Villains are always losers.
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Natugee Review: Why Going Natural Is So Important For Mums

Flawless and soft skin even without makeup is every woman’s dream. As a woman, I personally suffer from various skin problems such as dry and acne-prone skin. I often worry about the condition of my skin and it’s something I spent years trying to find a solution for.

Recently, I was given the opportunity to use two products from Natugee, a locally-made natural skincare line. I got to try out their Deep Cleansing Lotion and Happy Skin Mask. At first, I wasn’t sure what to expect.

How different can natural skincare possibly be? But like everything touted to be natural – I knew it wouldn’t hurt to give it a try.

I have to admit – the combination of the two products showed almost “instant” results (after one week of usage with no dietary or lifestyle changes). I was also happy to have had an in-depth explanation of the products so I knew what was going to be putting on my skin.

The first thing I noticed was just after two days of using the Deep Cleansing Lotion and Happy Skin Mask from Natugee, was a slight but notable change in my acne scars. But more importantly, my skin was absolutely glowing and radiant!

I wasn’t the only one who noticed the change – my own partner even said that my face looks healthier and brighter than before! Who says men don’t take notice of such things?

Natugee review: What goes into Natugee products?

As mentioned, Natugee products are made of natural ingredients and are not laced with harmful chemicals and preservatives. This is both a good and bad thing. The good thing about it is that you know you are giving your skin the freshest, best product to use. I liken this to eating freshly cooked food everyday, rather than frozen meals.

We all know how much healthier fresh is compared to preserved.

Natugee Review: Happy Skin Mask

The Happy Skin Mask is an interesting product because unlike other ready made paste masks, this comes in a powder form. The powder gives off a green tea-like odour and works as a 2-in-1 mask and scrub. Because the powder particles are very fine, a little goes a long way. All you have to do is scoop up a small amount of water, mix a little water in and it will be sufficient to spread it all over the face.

Here are how to use Happy Skin Mask:

Mix powder with a little water

Put it all over the face and wait for 2 to 5 minutes to dry

When rinsing your face with water, rub it gently to make it as a scrub

Rinse again with water until clean

Natugee Review: Deep Cleansing Lotion

Natugee’s Deep Cleansing Lotion has a refreshing and pleasant scent. The liquid is milky and has a smooth texture. After applying it, the skin feels cool, light, clean and not dry! We believe this product of Natugee’s is versatile and speaks to consumers with any kind of skin texture.

Here is how to use Deep Cleansing Lotion:

Rinse your face first with water

Put a little of Deep Cleansing Lotion on your hands and rub gently into your face

Then rinse with water until clean.

Overall, our experience with Natugee was that we found the products easy to use and adaptable to any skin tone.

You can find Natugee products from their
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Proses Melahirkan Bayi Yang Sudah Tiada, Bagaimana & Masihkah Perlu Berpantang?

Sebaik mendapat berita bayi tidak lagi bernyawa saat telah pun hamil 34 minggu, peritnya untuk ditelan. Hanya Tuhan saja yang tahu bagaimana perasaan ibu waktu itu.

Mengikut pengalaman kakak ipar yang pernah mengalami peristiwa pahit ini 3 tahun yang lepas, dia seakan tidak percaya, dunia seakan terhenti tiba-tiba saat dikhabarkan oleh doktor mengenai berita buruk itu.

Waktu itu dia telah pun hamil 34 minggu, hanya beberapa minggu saja lagi untuk dia berjumpa dengan ahli syurga itu. Namun impiannya tidak kesampaian.

Hari yang sama dia telah pun merancang untuk membeli segala kelengkapan bayi, sebaik selesai pemeriksaan kehamilannya. Malangya kita hanya mampu merancang, kerana Dialah penentu segala.

Melahirkan bayi yang sudah tiada

Dalam pada akur dan redha, rasa kecewa, sedih, marah dan takut hadir bersilih ganti saat menanti waktu kelahiran bayinya yang telah dijemput ilahi.

Bayi yang meninggal dalam kandungan tetap harus dilahirkan, baik secara normal, induksi mahupun pembedahan. Ia perlulah dilakukan dengan secepat mungkin, bimbang jika ditunda sehingga saat ia boleh dilahirkan secara normal, emosi ibu lebih terganggu dan menjejaskan kesihatan ibu akibat jangkitan.

Malah apabila telah hamil 34 minggu, sememangnya bayi boleh dilahirkan secara normal, sama seperti proses bersalin biasa.

Waktu ini, mahu tidak mahu, ibu perlu punyai tenaga untuk meneran setelah di induksi. Sekiranya pangkal rahim masih belum terbuka, doktor akan memberikan ubat ke dalam vagina ibu bagi merangsang pembukaan pangkal rahim. Ibu juga akan diberikan hormon oksitoksin untuk merangsang kontraksi rahim.

Bagi kaedah kelahiran menerusi induksi ini, ia perlu dilakukan dengan teliti bagi mengelak komplikasi rahim yang masih belum bersedia untuk proses kelahiran.

Selepas melakukan induksi doktor akan memeriksa pintu rahim bagi memastikan ia terbuka mengikut tempoh yang sepatutnya. Ada individu mengambil masa beberapa jam malah ada sehingga 24 jam. Sekiranya selepas induksi rahim masih berada dalam keadaan sama ia boleh mengakibatkan rahim koyak dan memudaratkan ibu.

Dalam beberapa kes, ibu mungkin akan disarankan untuk mengeluarkan bayi yang sudah tiada melalui operasi caesar. Ini mungkin berlaku sekiranya keadaan bayi di dalam perut adalah songsang, posisi uri yang merbahaya untuk bersalin normal ataupun bayi terlalu besar. Ia bertujuan bagi mengelakkan komplikasi sekiranya bersalin normal, kesan sampingan yang mungkin berlaku adalah pendarahan yang banyak.

Selain bersalin normal dan pembedahan caesar, proses pengeluaran bayi lahir mati juga dapat dilakukan dengan cara
Dilation and Curettage (
D&C). Ini dilakukan sekiranya kehamilan ibu masih dalam trimester kedua. Prosedur ini memiliki komplikasi yang lebih sedikit dibandingkan dengan prosedur induksi supaya dapat melahirkan normal.

Apakah proses melahirkan bayi lahir mati tetap sakit?

Prosedur melahirkan bayi lahir mati tidak jauh bezanya dengan prosedur melahirkan bayi yang masih hidup. Setelah ibu melahirkan bayi dengan prosedur melahirkan normal, anda masih akan mengalami kontraksi dengan tingkat sakit yang sama. Anda juga akan merasakan sakit yang sama pada tubuh. Pendarahan pada vagina, cramp rahim, dan nyeri perineum juga mungkin akan dirasakan setelah bersalin.

Untuk menghilangkan rasa sakit, seperti bersalin normal atau caesar doktor mungkin akan memberikan ubat. Anda memiliki pilihan yang lebih banyak untuk dapat menghilangkan rasa sakit setelah melahirkan, ini karena anda tidak perlu risau akan risiko terhadap bayi.

Adakah ibu mengalami lahir mati ini perlu berpantang?

Memandangkan proses melahirkan bayi hidup atau mati tiada bezanya, lantas proses penjagaan selepas bersalin pada si ibu tetap sama. Perlulah menjaga kesihatan diri dengan baik, elakkan luka perineum atau luka caesar dijangkiti agar anda tidak demam ketika berpantang.

Cumanya pantang dari segi pemakanan mungkin sedikit longgar memandangkan anda tidak perlu menyusu bayi. Dan perlu diingat anda tetap akan menghasilkan susu walaupun tiada bayi. Jadi, perlulah mengambil ubat untuk menghentikan susu. Namun jika berminat untuk menderma susu, anda bolehlah pam dan menghasilkan stok, ikut yang mana anda selesa.

Walau bagaimanapun penjagaan mental dan fizikal ibu pada waktu ini amatlah penting, jadi sekiranya anda inginkan teman untuk berbicara atau meminta pertolongan sentiasalah bercakap dengan pasangan atau keluarga terdekat serta rakan-rakan. Tiada ibu yang patut melalui proses ini keseorangan.

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