The context of the following conversation is Jan slapped them in the face. They were ashamed of their behavior.:
Jan says I had a very tense evening last night with my sons..
The friend responds Oh no what happened how are you feeling?.
Jan responds I'm still upset about the situation but I'm much more calm now..
The friend responds So tell me what happened with the kids?.
Jan responds The boys came in last night and were drunk and disrespectful to their father. I was so angry I slapped both of them for being disrespectful. I told them if they can't respect their father and the house they need to move out..
The friend responds I know that had to be very hard for you. I think you need to give them two weeks to move out they aren't children anymore and you can't deal with the disrespect..