The context of the following conversation is After pointing her middle finger at them, Bailey felt like a terrible person and a mean mother.:
Bailey says I feel horrible. I gave the kids the middle finger I was so angry..
The friend responds That is pretty bad, but not the worst mother ever. Every parent has their limits..
Bailey responds The kids just were shocked. They never saw that side of me before..
The friend responds You really should have a talk with them about it. It will help everyone to deal with the situation..
Bailey responds You are right. I don't want them scarred for life..