The context of the following conversation is After pointing her middle finger at them, Bailey felt like a terrible person and a mean mother.:
Bailey says I really crossed the line today.  I am a horrible mother..
The friend responds Why? What did you do?.
Bailey responds I got so angry that I wasn't thinking straight. I flipped off my kids with my middle finger!.
The friend responds You aren't a terrible person. My anger has gotten the better of me before..
Bailey responds What should I do now?.
The friend responds Sit them down and talk to them about why you felt that way and why your actions were inappropriate..