The context of the following conversation is Tracy fought Aubrey's way and Aubrey and Tracy managed to win the war on their own.:
Tracy says We fought so hard and I'm glad that it was over.
The friend responds At least we can tell our children stories about being brave and fighting our battles.
Tracy responds It is sad that we have to fight some wars over misunderstandings that people cant solve.
The friend responds I wish people could figure things out before it comes to such desperate measures.
Tracy responds I guess some things are inevitable.