The context of the following conversation is Tracy was caught stealing money from the accounting department, so Tracy resigned their position.:
Tracy says I needed the money to pay off a debt.
The friend responds Unless it was a mob debt it could have waited.
Tracy responds there was no way I could have paid it off in my life time and I don't want to put pressure on my kids.
The friend responds well then that's your fault for getting in that situation in the first place.
Tracy responds You have no idea what I was going through.
The friend responds maybe not but I know right and wrong.