The context of the following conversation is Jan gave Bailey another chance after he broke her heart two years ago on that raining night.:
Jan says I'm getting back together with Bailey....
The friend responds Jan, no!  Don't you remember when he broke your heart the first time?  It took me two years to make you smile again!.
Jan responds But he's changed.  He swears that he won't sleep with either one of my sisters ever again, and he broke it off with my mom just so he could be with me again!.
The friend responds Any boy can say he's changed, but that doesn't make it true!  Bailey is bad for you and you need to think about this some more..
Jan responds But I'm in love with him.  He's my soulmate and I want to spend the rest of my life with him!.
The friend responds How can you feel this way after he slept with both of your sisters and your mom?  And your brother????.