The context of the following conversation is Jesse had really hurt Cameron this time, so Carson gave Jesse a lesson.:
Jesse says I really do not understand what really happened. I didn't mean to cause so much harm..
The friend responds Well, you did and you really should apologize..
Jesse responds I know, but I didn't deserve to be treated badly in return..
The friend responds Sometimes you have to be taught a lesson so that you really understand what you did and can learn from it..
Jesse responds Well, I certainly learned this time..
The friend responds Apologize and explain how you feel and things will be okay..