The context of the following conversation is Riley was double checking to be sure everything was in place. Riley made sure of oneself.:
Riley says It took me 20 minutes to double-check I had everything for the party today. I had to have everything I wanted to be sure of myself..
The friend responds Did you have everything in the end?.
Riley responds No I still had to pick up one more thing so it's good I checked..
The friend responds You seem really on top of the plans for this party..
Riley responds I owe it to my husband to throw him a great 40th birthday party..
The friend responds You're a really great wife to go to so much trouble..