The context of the following conversation is Lee was trying to grab Casey's hands to hold them, but pulled her hands away.:
Lee says I was trying to grab Casey's hands to hold them, but she pulled them away..
The friend responds She's probably want to..
Lee responds That's what I thought so I stopped trying..
The friend responds It's no big deal.  People don't always want to hold hands..
Lee responds She's usually into it.  She grabs for my hands sometimes..
The friend responds You wait for her to initiate then..