The context of the following conversation is Robin struggled in her daily life but tried hard to succeed, although it often turned out she was not good enough.:
Robin says I'm just not good enough..
The friend responds You work too hard to please everyone, just relax and be yourself..
Robin responds I agree, but I just can't help it in a way..
The friend responds Keep at it. It may take times to get better. Just be who you are.
Robin responds I will, but this is hard..
The friend responds your true friend will love you for who you are..