The context of the following conversation is Jesse forgave the men for their unkind words, setting an example for the others.:
Jesse says I am going to take the high road this time and forgive Peter and John for making fun of my sister..
The friend responds Really? That is quite big of you, Jesse. Especially since Peter and John are twice your size..
Jesse responds It is not that. I'm sure I could hold my own if I challenged them to fight. I just think it is a better example for the young boys here to see a man not resort to violence..
The friend responds Right. And it has nothing to do with Peter being a judo master and John carrying a switch blade in his boot..
Jesse responds Nothing at all, friend. I just choose to be the bigger man..
The friend responds You can lie to yourself, Jesse, but you can't lie to me..