The context of the following conversation is Carson changed to the other side for good since that is where they were meant to be.:
Carson says I haven't seen you in a while, did you decide to stay with the Northern team?.
The friend responds Yes. I value loyalty..
Carson responds This is not about loyalty, but advancing your soccer career..
The friend responds I see you went for glory rather than honor..
Carson responds I chose to move to the other side permanently because it was meant to be..
The friend responds I understand that. I hope you respect my decision too..