The context of the following conversation is Lee made fun of Jan when Jan couldn't reach the top shelf in the kitchen and made Jan sad.:
Lee says What are you trying to do in the kitchen, Jan?.
The friend responds She is trying to reach the oil, it's on the top shelf..
Lee responds She looks like a dwarf..
The friend responds That's not nice, why would you say that about Jan?.
Lee responds It was just a joke..
The friend responds Not funny..