The context of the following conversation is Lee made fun of Jan when Jan couldn't reach the top shelf in the kitchen and made Jan sad.:
Lee says It's kind of funny that Jan can't even reach the top shelf..
The friend responds I bet she doesn't find it funny though!.
Lee responds Sorry, I didn't mean to make her upset, it was just kind of funny that she are shorter than the rest of us..
The friend responds That might make her sad and insecure now..
Lee responds She really needs to relax, it was all in good fun..
The friend responds Well it was not funny to me either..