The context of the following conversation is Jan controlled Aubrey's life. Jan was a terrible person.:
Jan says You need to have more control over your life so I don't have to make these decisions for you.
The friend responds Please stop being so controlling and making all these bad decisions.
Jan responds I will if you can do it yourself.
The friend responds I will be able to do it if you stop interfering with everything.
Jan responds I think I will do my best to leave your life.
The friend responds Thank you.