The context of the following conversation is Kai was playing a shooting videogame, and Kai blew the enemy away to kingdom come.:
Kai says Carol is always telling me to leave these video games to the kids..
The friend responds They are a good way to relax, I like them too..
Kai responds I just played one and blew the enemies away..
The friend responds You go hard don't you?.
Kai responds Yes I do. Good way to relax and blow off the steam. I get competitive playing them..
The friend responds I've never really been able to get into video games..