The context of the following conversation is Jesse kept their cards close to their chest. Jesse could not be trusted.:
Jesse says I don't really like to be open with others. It never seems to benefit me to be open..
The friend responds I understand. It can be a bit hard to trust others..
Jesse responds Definitely. Seems others are always up to something..
The friend responds Why do you think that though? Lots of people are good and nice..
Jesse responds I guess just from my experiences. I know to put myself first..
The friend responds I suppose, but it does sometimes set you up to be viewed as untrustworthy..