The context of the following conversation is Jan approached a four way stop and was the first one that came to a complete stop.:
Jan says Did you see how all the other cars looked like they were going through the stop sign?.
The friend responds I did. You all approached it evenly but you were the first to stop..
Jan responds It seems like that happens every time I get to this stop. It scares me..
The friend responds You have to watch other drivers as much as yourself out here..
Jan responds Yeah. There are lots of accidents at this stop so I am always extra cautious..
The friend responds Smart girl..