The context of the following conversation is Jan controlled Aubrey's life. Jan was a terrible person.:
Jan says I feel really guilty about how I've treated Aubrey..
The friend responds I thought the two of you had a solid relationship..
Jan responds No, I feel like a terrible person. I keep bossing Aubrey around and telling her what to do..
The friend responds Maybe you could see a therapist to work out some of those behaviors..
Jan responds I know. I feel like I've controlled Aubrey's life and I need to stop doing that..
The friend responds I can recommend some therapists to you if you'd like..