The context of the following conversation is Addison put Quinn's arms down by their side, because Quinn was getting out of control and swinging wildly.:
Addison says Quinn had one of his episodes at the mall today..
The friend responds Oh no. Was it a huge meltdown..
Addison responds Yes. I had to hold his arms down at his side. At one point, he was swinging them wildly..
The friend responds Oh wow. It sounds like you had a very stressful day..
Addison responds I fee so bad for him when he gets out of control like that. It's like he can't help it..
The friend responds He doesn't do it very often. Usually a drink a tea relaxes him a bit..