The context of the following conversation is Jan ripped the paper apart after she read the note her friend had left telling her to clean the apartment.:
Jan says I really don't feel like cleaning the apartment and my friend keeps leaving me notes to tidy up!.
The friend responds Do they ever clean up..
Jan responds Yes, they do it all the time so I figured they liked cleaning..
The friend responds You are being really selfish, it's probably your turn..
Jan responds I guess, but I would prefer they ask me to my face rather than through notes..
The friend responds You should really talk to your friend about this..