Issue: Calls to map are not cached.

## Describe the bug
Somehow caching does not work for me anymore. Am I doing something wrong, or is there anything that I missed?

## Steps to reproduce the bug
```python

import datasets
datasets.set_caching_enabled(True)
sst = datasets.load_dataset("sst")

def foo(samples, i):
    print("executed", i[:10])
    return samples

# first call
x = sst.map(foo, batched=True, with_indices=True,  num_proc=2)

print('\n'*3, "#" * 30, '\n'*3)

# second call
y = sst.map(foo, batched=True, with_indices=True, num_proc=2)

# print version
import sys
import platform
print(f"""
- Datasets: {datasets.__version__}
- Python: {sys.version}
- Platform: {platform.platform()}
""")
```

## Actual results
This code prints the following output for me:
```bash
No config specified, defaulting to: sst/default
Reusing dataset sst (/home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/b8a7889ef01c5d3ae8c379b84cc4080f8aad3ac2bc538701cbe0ac6416fb76ff)
#0:   0%|          | 0/5 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/5 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
executed [4272, 4273, 4274, 4275, 4276, 4277, 4278, 4279, 4280, 4281]
executed [1000, 1001, 1002, 1003, 1004, 1005, 1006, 1007, 1008, 1009]
executed [5272, 5273, 5274, 5275, 5276, 5277, 5278, 5279, 5280, 5281]
executed [2000, 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2008, 2009]
executed [6272, 6273, 6274, 6275, 6276, 6277, 6278, 6279, 6280, 6281]
executed [3000, 3001, 3002, 3003, 3004, 3005, 3006, 3007, 3008, 3009]
executed [7272, 7273, 7274, 7275, 7276, 7277, 7278, 7279, 7280, 7281]
executed [4000, 4001, 4002, 4003, 4004, 4005, 4006, 4007, 4008, 4009]
#0: 100%|██████████| 5/5 [00:00<00:00, 59.85ba/s]
executed [8272, 8273, 8274, 8275, 8276, 8277, 8278, 8279, 8280, 8281]
#1: 100%|██████████| 5/5 [00:00<00:00, 60.85ba/s]
#0:   0%|          | 0/1 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/1 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
#0: 100%|██████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 69.32ba/s]
executed [551, 552, 553, 554, 555, 556, 557, 558, 559, 560]
#1: 100%|██████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 70.93ba/s]
#0:   0%|          | 0/2 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/2 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
executed [1000, 1001, 1002, 1003, 1004, 1005, 1006, 1007, 1008, 1009]
#0: 100%|██████████| 2/2 [00:00<00:00, 63.25ba/s]
executed [1105, 1106, 1107, 1108, 1109, 1110, 1111, 1112, 1113, 1114]
executed [2105, 2106, 2107, 2108, 2109, 2110, 2111, 2112, 2113, 2114]
#1: 100%|██████████| 2/2 [00:00<00:00, 57.69ba/s]



 ############################## 



#0:   0%|          | 0/5 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/5 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
executed [4272, 4273, 4274, 4275, 4276, 4277, 4278, 4279, 4280, 4281]
executed [1000, 1001, 1002, 1003, 1004, 1005, 1006, 1007, 1008, 1009]
executed [5272, 5273, 5274, 5275, 5276, 5277, 5278, 5279, 5280, 5281]
executed [2000, 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2008, 2009]
executed [6272, 6273, 6274, 6275, 6276, 6277, 6278, 6279, 6280, 6281]
executed [3000, 3001, 3002, 3003, 3004, 3005, 3006, 3007, 3008, 3009]
executed [4000, 4001, 4002, 4003, 4004, 4005, 4006, 4007, 4008, 4009]
#0: 100%|██████████| 5/5 [00:00<00:00, 58.10ba/s]
executed [7272, 7273, 7274, 7275, 7276, 7277, 7278, 7279, 7280, 7281]
executed [8272, 8273, 8274, 8275, 8276, 8277, 8278, 8279, 8280, 8281]
#1: 100%|██████████| 5/5 [00:00<00:00, 57.19ba/s]
#0:   0%|          | 0/1 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/1 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
#0: 100%|██████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 60.10ba/s]
executed [551, 552, 553, 554, 555, 556, 557, 558, 559, 560]
#1: 100%|██████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 53.82ba/s]
#0:   0%|          | 0/2 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/2 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
executed [1000, 1001, 1002, 1003, 1004, 1005, 1006, 1007, 1008, 1009]
executed [1105, 1106, 1107, 1108, 1109, 1110, 1111, 1112, 1113, 1114]
#0: 100%|██████████| 2/2 [00:00<00:00, 72.76ba/s]
executed [2105, 2106, 2107, 2108, 2109, 2110, 2111, 2112, 2113, 2114]
#1: 100%|██████████| 2/2 [00:00<00:00, 71.55ba/s]

- Datasets: 1.6.1
- Python: 3.8.3 (default, May 19 2020, 18:47:26) 
[GCC 7.3.0]
- Platform: Linux-5.4.0-72-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.10
```

## Expected results
Caching should work.



Comments:
I tried upgrading to `datasets==1.6.2` and downgrading to `1.6.0`. Both versions produce the same output.

Downgrading to `1.5.0` works and produces the following output for me:

```bash
Downloading: 9.20kB [00:00, 3.94MB/s]                   
Downloading: 5.99kB [00:00, 3.29MB/s]                   
No config specified, defaulting to: sst/default
Downloading and preparing dataset sst/default (download: 6.83 MiB, generated: 3.73 MiB, post-processed: Unknown size, total: 10.56 MiB) to /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b...
                                    Dataset sst downloaded and prepared to /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b. Subsequent calls will reuse this data.
executed [0, 1]
#0:   0%|          | 0/5 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/5 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
executed [4272, 4273, 4274, 4275, 4276, 4277, 4278, 4279, 4280, 4281]
executed [1000, 1001, 1002, 1003, 1004, 1005, 1006, 1007, 1008, 1009]
executed [5272, 5273, 5274, 5275, 5276, 5277, 5278, 5279, 5280, 5281]
executed [2000, 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2008, 2009]
executed [6272, 6273, 6274, 6275, 6276, 6277, 6278, 6279, 6280, 6281]
executed [3000, 3001, 3002, 3003, 3004, 3005, 3006, 3007, 3008, 3009]
executed [7272, 7273, 7274, 7275, 7276, 7277, 7278, 7279, 7280, 7281]
executed [4000, 4001, 4002, 4003, 4004, 4005, 4006, 4007, 4008, 4009]
#0: 100%|██████████| 5/5 [00:00<00:00, 94.83ba/s]
executed [8272, 8273, 8274, 8275, 8276, 8277, 8278, 8279, 8280, 8281]
#1: 100%|██████████| 5/5 [00:00<00:00, 92.75ba/s]
executed [0, 1]
#0:   0%|          | 0/1 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/1 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
executed [551, 552, 553, 554, 555, 556, 557, 558, 559, 560]
#0: 100%|██████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 118.81ba/s]
#1: 100%|██████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 123.06ba/s]
executed [0, 1]
#0:   0%|          | 0/2 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
#1:   0%|          | 0/2 [00:00<?, ?ba/s]
executed [0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]
executed [1105, 1106, 1107, 1108, 1109, 1110, 1111, 1112, 1113, 1114]
executed [1000, 1001, 1002, 1003, 1004, 1005, 1006, 1007, 1008, 1009]
#0: 100%|██████████| 2/2 [00:00<00:00, 119.42ba/s]
executed [2105, 2106, 2107, 2108, 2109, 2110, 2111, 2112, 2113, 2114]
#1: 100%|██████████| 2/2 [00:00<00:00, 123.33ba/s]



 ############################## 



executed [0, 1]
Loading cached processed dataset at /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b/cache-6079777aa097c8f8.arrow
Loading cached processed dataset at /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b/cache-2dc05c46f68eda6e.arrow
executed [0, 1]
Loading cached processed dataset at /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b/cache-1ca347e7430b98f1.arrow
Loading cached processed dataset at /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b/cache-c0f1a73ce3ba40cd.arrow
executed [0, 1]
Loading cached processed dataset at /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b/cache-832a1407bf1ac5b7.arrow
Loading cached processed dataset at /home/johannes/.cache/huggingface/datasets/sst/default/1.0.0/a16a45566b63b2c3179e6c1d0f8edadde56e45570ee8cf99394fbb738491d34b/cache-036316a259b773c4.arrow
- Datasets: 1.5.0
- Python: 3.8.3 (default, May 19 2020, 18:47:26) 
[GCC 7.3.0]
- Platform: Linux-5.4.0-72-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.10
```

Hi,

set `keep_in_memory` to False when loading a dataset (`sst = load_dataset("sst", keep_in_memory=False)`) to prevent it from loading in-memory. Currently, in-memory datasets fail to find cached files due to this check (always False for them):

https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/blob/241a0b4a3a868778ee91e767ad406f9da7610df2/src/datasets/arrow_dataset.py#L1718

@albertvillanova It seems like this behavior was overlooked in #2182.



Hi @villmow, thanks for reporting. 

As @mariosasko has pointed out, we did not consider this case when introducing the feature of automatic in-memory for small datasets. This needs to be fixed.

Hi ! Currently a dataset that is in memory doesn't know doesn't know in which directory it has to read/write cache files.
On the other hand, a dataset that loaded from the disk (via memory mapping) uses the directory from which the dataset is located to read/write cache files.

Because of that, currently in-memory datasets simply don't use caching.

Maybe a Dataset object could have a `cache_dir` that is set to the directory where the arrow files are created during `load_dataset` ?

Fixed once reverted the default in-memory feature:
Closed by #2460 (to close issue #2458).

Please @villmow, feel free to update to `Datasets` latest version (1.8).