okay so like (um) I wanna talk about like you know first dates so right I tell you about like what I think my ideal first date is (err) I remember like that was the first date that I went on then like I a bit shy cause cony she very ya she very like she's a very like introverted yet extroverted girl then she don't like those kind like very big surprises so like I bit like shy [lah] when I went out so like (um) that was like the first time I think like I dressed up like kind of like nicely for her ya I wear like long pants and stuff like that then (um) I remember like that was the most painful day cause like I have to write like shoes