Misunderstanding

One of my friend told me that she was gone in many working places and even in the church, but when they are together people see her like she doesn't mean anything to them, so she was wondering why because it's every where
I advice her that the moment they meet and someone say something like that  should asked openly how do they see her, and also maybe there could be a misunderstandable  between them.

Location: SOWETO-KAYOLE, NAIROBI, KENYA