"Well, don’t preen yourself, because I labelled you." @kins frowned at her and continued on the TP level: "You’re delighted with yourself because you’re a woman, aren’t you? It’s your substitute for living. It’s your phantasy. ‘I’m a woman ,’ you tell yourself. ‘Therefore, men desire me. It’s enough to know that thousands of men could have me if I’d let them. That makes me real.’ Nonsense! You can’t escape that way. Sex isn’t make-believe. Life isn’t make-believe. Virginity isn’t an apotheosis."