"So with Valerie it was commitment. Like, what do you care about more—me or your work, me or your friends, me or your family, me or your brain? I can’t figure out why a woman would ever want to ask Jerry that. The guy’s obviously a fanatic! He’s never gonna rest till he finds what he’s looking for! A guy like that, either you pitch in and help him, or you get the hell out of his way! Otherwise, you’re just gonna get stepped on. It’s like a law of nature."