"Don’t matter. Important thing is, you’re feeling the hurt right now, so you can understand me. Now, these pains you’re always going to carry around. You don’t have any choice. But imagine this presence says to you, you know you can’t change these things. You might try to forget, but if you do, you’re just impoverishing yourself. And lying to yourself. And it don’t work anyway. But then she says to you—and you know it because it pours into you like a flood—that you don’t have to hurt so bad. You know you can trust yourself a bit more than you do. And you don’t have to hate yourself so much anymore.