Anne shook her head. "No.  Some men try to.  I've been kissed by men who did a very good job of it indeed.  But they don't really give kissing a woman their whole attention.  They can't No matter how hard they try, some parts of their minds are on something else.  Missing the last bus, maybe- Or how their chances are for making the gal- Or their own techniques in kissing- Or maybe worry about their jobs, or money, or will husband or papa or the neighbors catch on.  Or something.  Now Mike doesn't have any technique... but when Mike kisses you he isn't doing anything else.  Not anything.  You're his whole universe for that moment and the moment is eternal because he doesn't have any plans and he isn't going anywhere.  Just kissing you." She shivered. "A woman notices.  It's overwhelming."