"Mostly.  Ben. the ethics of sex is a thorny problem because each of us has to find a solution pragmatically compatible with a preposterous, utterly unworkable, and evil public code of so-called 'morals.' Most of us know, or suspect, that the public code is wrong, and we break it.  Nevertheless we pay Danegeld by giving it lip service in public and feeling guilty about breaking it in private.  Willy-nilly, that code rides us, dead and stinking, an albatross around the neck.  You think of yourself as a free soul, I know, and you break that evil code yourself - but faced with a problem in sexual ethics new to you, you unconsciously tested it against that same Judeo-Christian code which you consciously refuse to obey.  All so automatically that you retched... and believed thereby - and continue to believe - that your reflex proved that you were 'right' and they were 'wrong.' Faugh!  I'd as like use trial by ordeal as use your stomach to test guilt.  All your stomach can reflect are prejudices trained into you before you acquired reason."