"So we worked up to the Third Circle, Sam learning the language rapidly, of course, and myself grimly hanging on and studying hard because I didn't want to let him out of my sight.  Then boom! the miracle happened.  We suddenly began to think in it, just a little... and Michael felt it and had us stay after service, a Third Circle service, one night and Michael and Gillian gave us water.  Afterwards, I knew that I was all the things I had despised in other women and I knew that I should despise my husband for letting me do it and hate him for what he had done himself.  All this in English, with the wont parts in Hebrew.  So I wept all day and moaned and made myself a stinking nuisance to Sam... and couldn't wait to get back to share more water and grow closer again that night.