Besides his wife , Mary , whom he married in 1986 , he is survived by his father , of Charleston , N.C. ; two sisters , Margery Phillips of Norwich , Vt . , and Catherine Barber of Weekapaug , R.I. ; two sons and a daughter from his first marriage , James , of Arlington , Mass . , Bruce , of Manhattan , and Paige Lewin of Wellesley , Mass . ; two sons from his second marriage , Laurence Moses Holland of Cambridge , Mass . , and William Moses Holland of Manhattan ; and four grandchildren .