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                                                                   EXHIBIT 10.50

                               AMENDMENT NO. 5 TO
                      STOCK PURCHASE AND EXCHANGE AGREEMENT

      THIS AMENDMENT NO. 5 (this "Amendment"), dated as of the 1st day of April,
2000, by and among GE Financial Assurance Holdings, Inc., a Delaware
corporation, Phoenix Group Holdings, Inc., a Connecticut corporation, PM
Holdings, Inc., a Connecticut corporation, and GE Life and Annuity Assurance
Company, a Virginia corporation.

                                   WITNESSETH:

         WHEREAS, the parties hereto entered into a Stock Purchase and Exchange
Agreement, dated as of December 9, 1999 (together with all amendments thereto
prior to the date hereof, the "SPEA"); and

         WHEREAS, the parties wish to further amend the SPEA in the manner set
forth herein;

         NOW THEREFORE, in exchange for the undertakings contained in the
Agreement, and for other good and valuable consideration, the receipt and
sufficiency of which are hereby acknowledged, the parties agree as follows:

1.  DEFINITIONS - All capitalized terms not otherwise defined herein shall have
    the meaning ascribed to them in the SPEA.

2.  AMENDMENTS

    2.1  The first sentence of Section 2.1 of the SPEA is hereby amended and
         restated to read as follows:

         Subject to the terms and conditions of this Agreement: (a) PGH will
         sell and GEFA will purchase the PAL Stock for $274,803,246.00, the CDM
         Stock for $928,865.00, and the Group Services Stock for $5,742,073.00
         and (b) PGH or its Affiliates will sell and GEFA will purchase the PGH
         Business Assets for an aggregate purchase price of $2,000,000, all of
         the sums referenced in clauses (a) and (b) being referred to
         collectively as the "Purchase Price".

    2.2  Section 5.13 of the SPEA is hereby deleted and the parties shall have
         no further obligations to one another with respect to the subject
         matter thereof.

    2.3  Schedule A to the SPEA is hereby amended to add the items listed on
         Schedule I to this Amendment.

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3.  MISCELLANEOUS

    3.1  No Other Amendments.

         Other than as expressly set forth herein, the SPEA remains unaltered
         and in full force and effect.

    3.2  Counterparts.

         This Amendment may be executed in two or more counterparts, each of
         which shall be deemed to be an original, but all of which together
         shall constitute one and the same amendment.

    3.3  Governing Law.

         This Amendment shall be construed, performed and enforced in accordance
         with the laws of the State of Connecticut without regard to the
         conflicts of law principles of such state.

        IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the undersigned have caused this Amendment to be
executed by their undersigned duly authorized officers.

PM HOLDINGS, INC.                          GE FINANCIAL ASSURANCE
                                           HOLDINGS, INC.

  /s/ Carl T. Chadburn                         /s/ Leon E. Roday
  ----------------------------------           ---------------------------------
   Name: Carl T. Chadburn                       Name: Leon E. Roday
   Title: Vice President                        Title: Senior Vice President,
                                                       Secretary, and
                                                       General Counsel

PHOENIX GROUP HOLDINGS, INC.               GE LIFE AND ANNUITY ASSURANCE
                                           COMPANY

   /s/ Walter K. Juncker                       /s/ Leon E. Roday
  ----------------------------------           ---------------------------------
   Name: Walter K. Juncker                      Name: Leon E. Roday
   Title: Vice President                        Title: Senior Vice President

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                                                                   EXHIBIT 10.51

                               AMENDMENT NO. 6 TO
                      STOCK PURCHASE AND EXCHANGE AGREEMENT

      THIS AMENDMENT NO. 6 (this "Amendment"), dated as of the 1st day of
April, 2000, by and among GE Financial Assurance Holdings, Inc., a Delaware
corporation, Phoenix Group Holdings, Inc., a Connecticut corporation, PM
Holdings, Inc., a Connecticut corporation, and GE Life and Annuity Assurance
Company, a Virginia corporation.

                                   WITNESSETH:

         WHEREAS, the parties hereto entered into a Stock Purchase and Exchange
Agreement, dated as of December 9, 1999 (together with all amendments thereto
prior to the date hereof, the "SPEA"), and

         WHEREAS, the parties wish to further amend the SPEA in the manner set
forth herein;

         NOW THEREFORE, in exchange for the undertakings contained in the
Agreement, and for other good and valuable consideration, the receipt and
sufficiency of which are hereby acknowledged, the parties agree as follows:

1.  DEFINITIONS - All capitalized terms not otherwise defined herein shall have
    the meaning ascribed to them in the SPEA.

2.  AMENDMENTS

    2.1  Section 2.3 of the SPEA is hereby amended and restated as follows:

         The closing of the sale and purchase of the Purchased PGH Subsidiary
         Shares and the PGH Business Assets (the "SECOND CLOSING") will take
         place at the offices of PGH on the last calendar day of March 2000,
         effective as of 12:01 a.m. on April 1, 2000. The date upon which the
         Second Closing occurs is herein referred to as the "SECOND CLOSING
         DATE." At the Second Closing, the parties will execute all documents
         required to be executed by them in order to complete such closing, but
         the following actions shall occur on April 3, 2000.

         (a) PGH will deliver to GEFA stock certificates representing the
             Purchased PGH Subsidiary Shares, endorsed or accompanied by stock
             powers in favor of GEFA;

         (b) GEFA will, by 1 p.m., pay to PGH by wire transfer of immediately
             available funds to such accounts as are designated by PGH an amount
             equal to the Purchase Price less the GELAAC Share Price; and
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         (c) PMH will deliver to GEFA such bills of sale, assignments,
             certificates of title, documents or other instruments of transfer
             and conveyance as may be reasonably requested by GEFA, each in form
             and substance satisfactory to GEFA, to transfer title to GEFA to
             the PGH Business Assets, free and clear of all Liens except
             Permitted Liens.

    2.2  Section 2.6(f) of the SPEA is hereby amended by substituting for the
         references in clauses B (II) and B (III) to "Second Closing" the date
         of April 3, 2000.

    2.3  Section 2.6(g), clause (i) of the SPEA is hereby amended and restated
         as follows:

         97% times the sum of the "capital and surplus" and "asset valuation
         reserve" in the PAL Statutory Year-End Balance Sheet, less the Realized
         Loss Adjustment for net realized losses related to any assets listed in
         Schedule 9.7(i) that are disposed of after December 31, 1999, and less
         97% of $540,598, all calculated in accordance with Connecticut SAP.

    2.4  The first sentence of Section 2.6(g) of the SPEA is hereby further
         amended by changing the period at the end to a semi-colon and adding
         the following:

         and (v) $800,000 (which is the total amount of capital contributions
         made in March, 2000 to PDS and Group Services related to the
         reinvestment of funds dividended to PGH from Group Services in December
         1999).

3.  MISCELLANEOUS

    3.1  No Other Amendments.

         Other than as expressly set forth herein, the SPEA remains unaltered
         and in full force and effect.

    3.2  Counterparts.

         This Amendment may be executed in two or more counterparts, each of
         which shall be deemed to be an original, but all of which together
         shall constitute one and the same amendment.

    3.3  Governing Law.

         This Amendment shall be construed, performed and enforced in accordance
         with the laws of the State of Connecticut without regard to the
         conflicts of law principles of such state.

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      IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the undersigned have caused this Amendment to be
executed by their undersigned duly authorized officers.

PM HOLDINGS, INC.                          GE FINANCIAL ASSURANCE
                                           HOLDINGS, INC.

  /s/ David W. Searfoss                        /s/ Leon E. Roday
  ----------------------------------           ---------------------------------
   Name: David W. Searfoss                      Name: Leon E. Roday
   Title: Vice President                        Title: Senior Vice President,
                                                       Secretary, and
                                                       General Counsel

PHOENIX GROUP HOLDINGS, INC.               GE LIFE AND ANNUITY ASSURANCE
                                           COMPANY

   /s/ Walter K. Juncker                       /s/ Leon E. Roday
  ----------------------------------           ---------------------------------
   Name: Walter K. Juncker                      Name: Leon E. Roday
   Title: Vice President                        Title: Senior Vice President

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                                                                  Execution Copy

                                                                   EXHIBIT 10.52

                               AMENDMENT NO. 7 TO
                      STOCK PURCHASE AND EXCHANGE AGREEMENT

      THIS AMENDMENT NO. 7 (this "Amendment"), dated as of the 31st day of
October, 2000, by and among GE Financial Assurance Holdings, Inc., a Delaware
corporation, Phoenix Group Holdings, Inc., a Connecticut corporation, PM
Holdings, Inc., a Connecticut corporation, and GE Life and Annuity Assurance
Company, a Virginia corporation, to the Stock Purchase and Exchange Agreement,
dated as of December 9, 1999, entered into by and among the parties hereto
(together with all amendments thereto prior to the date hereof, the "SPEA"),
recites and provides as follows. All capitalized terms not otherwise defined
herein shall have the meaning ascribed to them in the SPEA.

                                   WITNESSETH:

      WHEREAS, the parties hereto entered into the SPEA; and

      WHEREAS, pursuant to Section 2.4 of the SPEA the parties agreed that if
the Approvals required for the sale of PDS by PGH to GEFA set forth on Schedule
3.4(b) to the SPEA had not been obtained by the Second Closing Date, the parties
would negotiate an amendment to the SPEA to provide for the sale of PDS once
those Approvals had been obtained; and

      WHEREAS, the Approvals required for the sale of PDS by PGH to GEFA have
been obtained; and

      WHEREAS, the parties wish to further amend the SPEA in the manner set
forth herein, to provide for the sale of PDS by PGH to GEFA,

      NOW THEREFORE, in exchange for the undertakings contained in the SPEA, and
for other good and valuable consideration, the receipt and sufficiency of which
are hereby acknowledged, the parties agree as follows:

1.    AMENDMENTS

      1.1.   Section 1.1 of the SPEA is hereby amended to add the following
defined terms:

                    "THIRD CLOSING" shall mean the closing of the sale and
             purchase of PDS.

                    "THIRD CLOSING DATE" shall mean the date upon which the
             Third Closing occurs, which date shall be October 31, 2000.

      1.2.   Section 2.4 of the SPEA is hereby amended to add the following
Subsection (c):

             (c)    The Third Closing will occur on the Third Closing Date if
      the conditions set forth in Sections 9.8, 9.9 and 9.10 are fulfilled or
      waived.  At the Third Closing:
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                  (i)    PGH will deliver to GEFA stock certificates
                         representing the Purchased PDS Shares, endorsed or
                         accompanied by stock powers in favor of GEFA;

                  (ii)   GEFA will pay to PGH by wire transfer of immediately
                         available funds to such accounts as are designated by
                         PGH an amount equal to the PDS Purchase Price; and

                  (iii)  PMH will deliver to GEFA any amendments to the
                         Schedules; provided, however, that until the Third
                         Closing, any amendments to the Schedules with respect
                         to any matter that, if existing or occurring at or
                         prior to the Third Closing Date, would have been
                         required to be set forth or described in such a
                         Schedule or that is necessary to complete or correct
                         any information in any representation or warranty
                         contained in Article III will not be taken into account
                         for purposes of determining the fulfillment of the
                         condition precedent set forth in Section 9.9(a). For
                         all other purposes, including, without limitation,
                         Section 10.2(b), each such additional amendment and
                         supplement shall be given effect.

      1.3.   Article VII of the SPEA -Tax Matters shall remain in full force and
effect with respect to the transactions completed at the Second Closing. With
respect solely to the transactions to be completed at the Third Closing,
however, the provisions of Article VII of the SPEA are hereby incorporated into
this Amendment with the following revisions:

                      All references to "SECOND CLOSING" shall mean the "THIRD
             CLOSING".

                      All references to "SECOND CLOSING DATE" shall mean the
             "THIRD CLOSING DATE".

      1.4.   Section 7.12 of the SPEA is hereby amended and restated in its
entirety as set forth below:

                      For purposes of this Article VII, the term "PGH
             SUBSIDIARIES" shall mean: (i) with respect to the transactions
             completed at the Second Closing, only those PGH Subsidiaries that
             are actually acquired under this Agreement as of the Second
             Closing Date, and (ii) with respect to the transactions completed
             at the Third Closing, PDS and CA Benefits.

      1.5.   Article VIII of the SPEA shall remain in full force and effect with
respect to the PGH Business Employees and the PGH Subsidiary Employees who are
employees of PDS or CA Benefits as of the Third Closing Date.

      1.6.   Section 9.1 of the SPEA is hereby amended by inserting the
following sentence before the last sentence of such section:

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                      The respective obligations set forth herein to be
             performed by PMH, PGH or GEFA at the Third Closing shall be subject
             to the fulfillment, on or before the Third Closing Date, in the
             case of PMH and PGH, of the conditions set forth in Sections 9.8
             and 9.9, and in the case of GEFA, of the conditions set forth in
             Sections 9.8 and 9.10.

      1.7.   Article IX of the SPEA is hereby amended to add the following
Sections 9.8, 9.9 and 9.10:

             9.8    Conditions to Obligations of All Parties at the Third
             Closing.

                    (a)    Consents. All third party consents listed on
             Schedules 3.4(b) and 4.6(b) shall have been obtained and this
             Agreement and the consummation of the transactions contemplated
             hereby shall have been approved by the regulatory authorities or
             Government Authorities of the Required Jurisdictions (or shall not
             have been disapproved by such authorities and the time period
             during which such authorities may, under applicable Law, disapprove
             this Agreement and the consummation of such transactions shall have
             lapsed), the parties shall have received reasonably satisfactory
             evidence of such Approvals (or non-disapprovals) and such Approvals
             (or non-disapprovals) shall not be subject to conditions that are
             unreasonably burdensome.

                    (b)    No Injunction. There shall not be in effect any
             injunction or other order issued by a court of competent
             jurisdiction restraining or prohibiting the consummation of the
             transactions contemplated by this Agreement.

             9.9    Conditions to Obligations of PMH and PGH at the Third
             Closing.

                    (a)    Representations, Warranties and Actions of GEFA. The
             representations and warranties set forth in Sections 4.1, 4.6
             (solely with respect to GEFA), 4.21 (solely with respect to the
             Purchased PDS Shares), and 4.22 (solely with respect to GEFA) shall
             be true and correct in all material respects at and as of the Third
             Closing Date. GEFA and its Affiliates shall have duly performed and
             complied in all material respects with all obligations herein
             required to be performed or complied with by them at or before the
             Third Closing, including without limitation the actions required in
             Article V (solely with respect to GEFA) and Article VI (solely with
             respect to GEFA). All actions to be taken by GEFA in connection
             with the consummation of the transactions contemplated hereby and
             all certificates, instruments and other documents required to
             effect the transactions contemplated hereby shall be reasonably
             satisfactory in form and substance to PMH and PGH.

                    (b)    Officer's Certificate. GEFA shall have delivered to
             PMH and PGH a certificate, dated the Third Closing Date and signed
             by its President or a Vice President, as to the fulfillment of the
             conditions set forth in Section 9.9(a).

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             9.10   Conditions to Obligations of GEFA at the Third Closing.

                    (a)    Representations, Warranties and Actions of PMH and
             PGH. The representations and warranties set forth in Article III
             (solely with respect to PMH, PGH, PDS, and CA Benefits) and Article
             VII (solely with respect to PMH, PGH, PDS, and CA Benefits), to the
             extent they are qualified by a PGH Material Adverse Effect or
             otherwise qualified as to materiality, shall be true and correct in
             all respects at and as of the Third Closing Date and all other
             representations and warranties set forth in Article III (solely
             with respect to PMH, PGH, PDS, and CA Benefits) and Article VII
             (solely with respect to PMH, PGH, PDS, and CA Benefits) shall be
             true and correct in all material respects at and as of the Third
             Closing Date. PMH and PGH shall have duly performed and complied in
             all material respects with all agreements contained herein required
             to be performed or complied with by either of them at or before the
             Third Closing, including without limitation the actions required in
             Article V (solely with respect to PMH, PGH, PDS, and CA Benefits)
             and Article VI (solely with respect to PMH, PGH, PDS, and CA
             Benefits). All actions to be taken by PMH or PGH in connection with
             the consummation of the transactions contemplated hereby and all
             certificates, instruments and other documents required to effect
             the transactions contemplated hereby shall be reasonably
             satisfactory in form and substance to GEFA.

                    (b)    Officer's Certificate. Each of PMH and PGH shall have
             delivered to GEFA a certificate, dated the Third Closing Date and
             signed by its President or a Vice President, as to the fulfillment
             of the conditions set forth in Section 9.10(a).

                    (c)    Resignations. Those directors and officers of each of
             PDS and CA Benefits specified in a written notice delivered by GEFA
             to PGH as of the Third Closing shall have submitted their
             resignations from the Boards of Directors of each of PDS and CA
             Benefits, as the case may be, effective as of the Third Closing
             Date.

                    (d)    No Material Adverse Effect. Since June 30, 1999,
             there shall have been no material adverse effect on PDS or CA
             Benefits, individually or taken as a whole, except for any effect
             resulting from (i) general conditions (including Laws) applicable
             to the industries in which PDS or CA Benefits operates, or (ii)
             general economic, financial or market conditions.

                    (e)    Termination of Temporary Services Agreement. The
             Temporary Services Agreement, effective as of April 1, 2000, by and
             among PAL, PDS and CA Benefits shall have been terminated.

                    (f)    Termination of Benefit Plans. Pursuant to Section 2.3
             of Amendment No. 3 to the SPEA, PMH and PGH shall have caused the
             termination of the benefit plans of CA Benefits.

      1.8.   Article X of the SPEA is hereby amended to add the following
Section 10.3:

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             10.3   Third Closing.

                    For purposes of this Article X and with respect to all
             matters directly or indirectly related to PDS or CA Benefits, all
             references to the Second Closing and the Second Closing Date shall
             mean the Third Closing and the Third Closing Date, respectively,
             and all references to "both Closings" shall include the First
             Closing, the Second Closing and the Third Closing.

      1.9.   Section 10.2(b)(ii) of the SPEA is hereby amended to add the
following new subsection (F) to the end of the first sentence:

             ; and (F) arising directly or indirectly out of the failure by CA
             Benefits to address under applicable abandoned property statutes
             uncashed checks of various types from the years 1994 through 1998.

2.    MISCELLANEOUS

      2.1.   PGH Business Assets.

             The PGH Business Assets as defined in the Recitals to the SPEA do
             not include any items of personal or real property used in the
             conduct of the business of PDS or CA Benefits.

      2.2.   Computer Services Agreement.

             To the extent that PGH is currently providing computer services to
             any of the former PGH Subsidiaries pursuant to the Computer
             Services Agreement, dated as of December 9, 1999, by and between
             GEFA and PGH, PGH shall also provide such services to PDS and CA
             Benefits; provided, however, that PGH shall not be required to
             provide any services to PDS or CA Benefits that it is not providing
             as of the date hereof.

      2.3.   No Other Amendments.

             Other than as expressly set forth herein, the SPEA remains
             unaltered and in full force and effect.

      2.4.   Counterparts.

             This Amendment may be executed in two or more counterparts, each of
             which shall be deemed to be an original, but all of which together
             shall constitute one and the same amendment.

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      2.5.   Governing Law.

             This Amendment shall be construed, performed and enforced in
             accordance with the laws of the State of Connecticut without regard
             to the conflicts of law principles of such state.

                     [SIGNATURE APPROVAL ON FOLLOWING PAGE]

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               IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the undersigned have caused this Amendment to
be executed by their undersigned duly authorized officers.

PM HOLDINGS, INC.                          GE FINANCIAL ASSURANCE
                                           HOLDINGS, INC.

  /s/ Carl T. Chadburn                         /s/ Leon E. Roday
  ----------------------------------           ---------------------------------
   Name: Carl T. Chadburn                       Name: Leon E. Roday
   Title: Vice President                        Title: Senior Vice President,
                                                       Secretary, and
                                                       General Counsel

PHOENIX GROUP HOLDINGS, INC.               GE LIFE AND ANNUITY ASSURANCE
                                           COMPANY

   /s/ Christopher Wilkos                      /s/ Leon E. Roday
  ----------------------------------           ---------------------------------
   Name: Christopher Wilkos                     Name: Leon E. Roday
   Title: Vice President                        Title: Senior Vice President

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