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                          SUBSCRIPTION AGREEMENT-ss.74(2)(4)

THIS AGREEMENT MADE EFFECTIVE AS OF THE __ DAY OF MAY, 2000 (the "Effective
Date").

BETWEEN:

         ANTHEM RECORDING WEST, INC.

         (the "Company")

AND:

         THE PARTY NAMED AS PURCHASER BELOW

         (the "Purchaser")

WHEREAS:

A.       The Purchaser wishes to subscribe for 1,000,000 units (each, a
"Unit"), where each Unit consists of one common share (each, a "Share") and
one-half of one non-transferable share purchase warrant (each whole warrant
is a "Warrant"), of the Company (together, the "Securities");

B.       It is the intention of the parties to this Agreement that this
subscription will be made pursuant to appropriate exemptions (the
"Exemptions") from the registration and prospectus or equivalent requirements
of all rules, policies, notices, orders and legislation of any kind
whatsoever (collectively the "Securities Rules") of all jurisdictions
applicable to this subscription;

NOW THEREFORE THIS AGREEMENT WITNESSES that in consideration of the mutual
covenants and agreements herein contained, the receipt of which is hereby
acknowledged, the parties covenant and agree with each other (the
"Agreement") as follows:

1.       REPRESENTATIONS AND WARRANTIES OF THE PURCHASER

1.1      The Purchaser represents and warrants to the Company, and
acknowledges that the Company is relying on these representations and
warranties to, among other things, ensure that it is complying with all of
the applicable Securities Rules, that:

    (a)  the Purchaser is purchasing a sufficient number of Securities such
         that the aggregate acquisition cost to the Purchaser of such Securities
         is not less than $97,000, if the Purchaser is a resident of British
         Columbia, Alberta, Manitoba, New Brunswick, Prince Edward Island,
         Newfoundland or an International Jurisdiction, or $150,000 if the
         Purchaser is a resident of Saskatchewan, Ontario, Quebec or Nova
         Scotia, and the Purchaser is:

         (i)     purchasing such Securities as principal for its own account
                 and not for the benefit of any other person; or

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         (ii)    deemed to be acting as principal by virtue of it being:

                 A.     a trust company or insurer which is authorized to
                        carry on business in B.C. under the FINANCIAL
                        INSTITUTIONS ACT (British Columbia) and which is
                        acting as agent or trustee for accounts that are
                        fully managed by it within the meaning of ss. 74(1)(a)
                        of the SECURITIES ACT (British Columbia (the "Act")
                        and NIN #97/11 issued by the B.C. Securities
                        Commission (the "Commission"); or

                 B.     a portfolio manager within the meaning of ss. 1(1) of
                        the Act which is carrying on business in B.C. and
                        which is registered or exempt from registration
                        under the Act and which is acting as agent for
                        accounts that are fully managed by it within the
                        meaning of ss. 74(1)(b) of the Act and NIN #97/11; or

                 C.     a trust company, insurer or portfolio manager within
                        the meaning of BOR #97/4 issued by the Commission
                        which is acting, in the case of a trust company or
                        insurer, as agent or trustee or, in the case of a
                        portfolio manager, as agent, for accounts that are
                        fully managed by it within the meaning of BOR #97/4
                        and NIN #97/11;

                 and the Purchaser is also deemed to be acting as principal
                 under the analogous provisions of any other Securities Rules
                 having application;

    (b)  the Purchaser has not been formed, created, established or
         incorporated for the purpose of permitting the purchase of the
         Securities without a prospectus by groups of individuals whose
         individual share of the aggregate acquisition cost for such
         Securities is less than $97,000, if the beneficial purchaser is a
         resident of British Columbia, Alberta, Manitoba, New Brunswick,
         Prince Edward Island, Newfoundland or an International Jurisdiction,
         or $150,000 if the beneficial purchaser is a resident of
         Saskatchewan, Ontario, Quebec or Nova Scotia;

    (c)  if the Purchaser is resident of an "International Jurisdiction"
         (which means a country other than Canada or the United States) then:

         (i)     the Purchaser is knowledgeable of, or has been independently
                 advised as to, the applicable Securities Rules of the
                 International Jurisdiction which would apply to this
                 subscription, if there are any;

        (ii)     the Purchaser is purchasing the Securities pursuant to
                 Exemptions under the Securities Rules of that International
                 Jurisdiction or, if such is not applicable, the Purchaser is
                 permitted to purchase the Securities under the applicable
                 Securities Rules of the International Jurisdiction without
                 the need to rely on Exemptions; and

       (iii)     the applicable Securities Rules do not require the Company
                 to make any filings or seek any approvals of any kind
                 whatsoever from any regulatory authority of any kind
                 whatsoever in the International Jurisdiction; and

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                 the Purchaser will, if requested by the Company, deliver to
                 the Company a certificate or opinion of local counsel from
                 the International Jurisdiction which will confirm the
                 matters referred to in subparagraphs (ii) and (iii) above to
                 the satisfaction of the Company, acting reasonably;

    (d)  the Purchaser acknowledges that the Company is relying on the
         Exemptions in order to complete the trade and distribution of the
         Securities and the Purchaser is aware of the criteria of the
         Exemptions to be met by the Purchaser, including those referred to
         in the Form 20A attached hereto and, if applicable, the Purchaser
         meets those criteria;

    (e)  the Purchaser acknowledges that because this subscription is being
         made pursuant to the Exemptions:

         (i)     the Purchaser is restricted from using certain of the civil
                 remedies available under the applicable Securities Rules;

        (ii)     the Purchaser may not receive information that might
                 otherwise be required to be provided to the Purchaser under
                 the applicable Securities Rules if the Exemptions were not
                 being used; and

       (iii)     the Company is relieved from certain obligations that would
                 otherwise apply under the applicable Securities Rules if the
                 Exemptions were not being used;

    (f)  the Securities are not being subscribed for by the Purchaser as a
         result of any material information about the Company's affairs that
         has not been publicly disclosed;

    (g)  the offer and sale of these Securities was not accompanied by an
         advertisement and the Purchaser was not induced to purchase these
         Securities as a result of any advertisement made by the Company;

    (h)  if the Purchaser is a corporation, the Purchaser is a valid and
         subsisting corporation, has the necessary corporate capacity and
         authority to execute and deliver this Agreement and to observe and
         perform its covenants and obligations hereunder and has taken all
         necessary corporate action in respect thereof, or, if the Purchaser
         is a partnership, syndicate, trust or other form of unincorporated
         organization, the Purchaser has the necessary legal capacity and
         authority to execute and deliver this Agreement and to observe and
         perform its covenants and obligations hereunder and has obtained all
         necessary approvals in respect thereof, and, in either case, upon the
         Company executing and delivering this Agreement, this Agreement will
         constitute a legal, valid and binding contract of the Purchaser
         enforceable against the Purchaser in accordance with its terms and
         neither the agreement resulting from such acceptance nor the
         completion of the transactions contemplated hereby conflicts with,
         or will conflict with, or results, or will result, in a breach or
         violation of any law applicable to the Purchaser, any constating
         documents of the Purchaser or any agreement to which the Purchaser
         is a party or by which the Purchaser is bound;

    (i)  the Purchaser is not, and was not at any time that it purchased the
         Securities or received an offer to purchase the Securities pursuant
         to this subscription, a "U.S. Person" as defined in Regulation S
         under the United States Securities Act of 1933, as amended (the
         "U.S. Securities Act"), which definition includes, but is not
         limited to, an individual

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        resident in the United States, an estate or trust of which any
        executor or administrator or trustee, respectively, is a U.S. person,
        and any partnership or corporation organized or incorporated under
        the laws of the United States;

    (j) the Purchaser did not receive any term sheet, subscription form or
        other offering materials in connection with this subscription in the
        United States, and did not execute or deliver any such subscription
        form or other materials in the United States;

    (k) no offers of Securities were made by any person to the Purchaser
        while the Purchaser was in the United States; and

    (l) the Purchaser is not acquiring Securities, directly or indirectly,
        for the account or benefit of a U.S. Person or a person in the
        United States.

1.2     The Company represents and warrants to the Purchaser, and
acknowledges that the Purchaser is relying on these representations and
warranties in entering into this Agreement, that:

    (a) the Company is a valid and subsisting corporation duly incorporated
        and in good standing under the laws of California;

    (b) the Company is not a reporting issuer in British Columbia and any
        Securities issued to the Purchaser will be subject to an indefinite
        hold period in British Columbia unless an exemption from the
        registration and prospectus requirements of the Securities Act is
        available. Such an exemption may not be available;

    (c) the Company's subsidiaries (the "Subsidiaries"), if any, are valid
        and subsisting corporations and in good standing under the laws of
        the jurisdictions in which they were incorporated;

    (d) the common shares of the Company are eligible for quotation on the
        N.A.S.D. OTC Bulletin Board ("OTC");

    (e) upon their issuance, the Shares will be validly issued and
        outstanding fully paid and non-assessable common shares of the Company
        registered as directed by the Purchaser, free and clear of all trade
        restrictions (except as may be imposed by operation of the applicable
        Securities Rules) and, except as may be created by the Purchaser,
        liens, charges or encumbrances of any kind whatsoever;

    (f) upon their issuance, the Warrants will be validly created, issued and
        outstanding, registered as directed by the Purchaser, and, upon their
        issuance, the shares issued on the exercise of the Warrants will be
        validly issued and outstanding fully paid and non-assessable common
        shares of the Company registered as directed by the Purchaser, and
        both will be free and clear of all trade restrictions (except as may
        be imposed by operation of the applicable Securities Rules) and,
        except as may be created by the Purchaser, liens, charges or
        encumbrances of any kind whatsoever;

    (g) the Company and its Subsidiaries, if any, hold all licences and
        permits that are required for carrying on their business in the
        manner in which such business has been carried on and the Company and
        its Subsidiaries, if any, have the corporate power and capacity to
        own the assets owned by them and to carry on the business carried on
        by them and they

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        are duly qualified to carry on business in all jurisdictions in which
        they carry on business;

    (h) all prospectuses, exchange offering prospectuses, offering memoranda,
        filing statements, information circulars, material change reports,
        shareholder communications, press releases and other disclosure
        documents of the Company including, but not limited to, financial
        statements, contain no untrue statement of a material fact as of the
        date thereof nor do they omit to state a material fact which, at the
        date thereof, was required to have been stated or was necessary to
        prevent a statement that was made from being false or misleading in
        the circumstances in which it was made;

    (i) to the best of its knowledge, and except as publicly disclosed,
        there are no material actions, suits, judgments, investigations or
        proceedings of any kind whatsoever outstanding, pending or threatened
        against or affecting the Company or its Subsidiaries, if any, at law
        or in equity or before or by any Federal, Provincial, State,
        Municipal or other governmental department, commission, board, bureau
        or agency of any kind whatsoever and, to the best of the Company's
        knowledge, there is no basis therefor;

    (j) the Company has good and sufficient right and authority to enter into
        this Agreement and complete its transactions contemplated
        under this Agreement on the terms and conditions set forth herein; and

    (k) to the best of its knowledge, the execution and delivery of
        this Agreement, the performance of its obligations under this
        Agreement and the completion of its transactions contemplated under
        this Agreement will not conflict with, or result in the breach of or
        the acceleration of any indebtedness under, or constitute default
        under, the constating documents of the Company or any indenture,
        mortgage, agreement, lease, licence or other instrument of any kind
        whatsoever to which the Company is a party or by which it is bound,
        or any judgment or order of any kind whatsoever of any Court or
        administrative body of any kind whatsoever by which it is bound.

2.      SUBSCRIPTION

2.1     The Purchaser hereby subscribes the subscription funds (the
"Subscription Funds") referred to below for and agrees to take up the units
(a "Unit" or the "Units") referred to below, where each Unit consists of one
common share (a "Share" or the "Shares") with a par value of U.S. $0.01 in
the capital stock of the Company and one-half of one non-transferable share
purchase warrant (a "Warrant" or the "Warrants"), at a price of U.S. $7.50
per Unit. Each whole Warrant will entitle the Purchaser to subscribe for one
additional common share of the Company at a price of U.S. $7.50 per share at
any time up to 5:00 p.m. local time in Vancouver, B.C. on the first
anniversary of the Closing Date, and thereafter at a price of U.S. $10.00 per
share at any time up to 5:00 p.m. local time on the second anniversary of the
Closing Date.

2.2     On or before the 16th day of May, 2000, the Purchaser shall deliver
the Subscription Funds for the Securities subscribed for in the form of
solicitor's trust cheque, certified cheque, bank draft, money order or wire
transfer payable to "Campney & Murphy In Trust" as the solicitors for and on
behalf of the Company. The Company will be entitled to use the Subscription
Funds immediately upon the issuance of the certificates representing
Securities to the Purchaser. The Purchaser hereby confirms that Campney &
Murphy represents the Company and not the Purchaser, has recommended that the
Purchaser obtain independent legal advice in respect of this Agreement, and
upon the Company advising

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Campney & Murphy that it has delivered such certificates, or instructed the
Company's stock transfer agent to deliver such certificates, to the
Purchaser, Campney & Murphy is hereby authorized and directed to release and
deliver the Subscription Funds to the Company without prior notice to,
consent of or action by the Purchaser.

3.       COVENANTS, AGREEMENTS AND ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

3.1      The Purchaser covenants and agrees with the Company to:

    (a)  concurrent with the execution of this Agreement, if the Purchaser is
         an individual (which means a natural person, but does not include a
         partnership, unincorporated association, unincorporated syndicate,
         unincorporated organization or trust, or a natural person in his
         capacity as a trustee, executor, administrator or personal or other
         legal representative), fully complete and execute the Form 20A
         scheduled to this Agreement; and

    (b)  hold and not sell, transfer or in any manner dispose of the Shares
         comprising the Units unless the sale, transfer or disposition is
         made in accordance with all applicable Securities Rules.

3.2      The Purchaser acknowledges and agrees that the Shares comprising the
Units and any shares acquired on the exercise of the Warrants comprising the
Units will be subject to such trade restrictions as may be imposed by
operation of the applicable Securities Rules, and the shares certificate or
certificate representing the Shares comprising the Units and any shares
acquired on the exercise of the Warrants comprising the Units will bear such
legends as may be required by the applicable Securities Rules.  The Purchaser
further acknowledges and agrees that it is the Purchaser's obligation to
comply with the trade restrictions in all of the applicable jurisdictions and
the Company offers no advice as to those trade restrictions.

3.3      The Purchaser acknowledges that:

    (a)  the Securities have not been registered under the U.S> Securities
         Act and are "restricted securities" within the meaning of Rule 144
         under the U.S. Securities and may only be resold in accordande with
         the provisions of Regulation S under the U.S. Securities Act,
         pursuant to registration under the U.S. Securities Act, or pursuant
         to an available exemption from such registration.  The Purchaser
         understands that the company has no obligation or present intention of
        filing a registration statement under the U.S. Securities Act in
        respect of the Securities.

    (b)  hedging transaction involving the Securities may not be conducted
         unless in compliance wiht the U.S. Securities Act.

    (c)  there may be material tax consequence to the Purchaser of an
         acquistion or disposition of Securities.  The Company gives no
         opinion and makes no representation with respect to the tax
         consequences to the Purchaser under United States, state, local or
         foreign tax law of the Purchaser's acquistion or disposition of such
         securities.

    (d)  the certificates evidencing the Securities issued in this
         subscription will bear a legend in substantially the following form:

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         "THE SECURITIES RESPRESENTED BY THIS CERTIFICATE HAVE NOT BEEN
         REGISTERED UNDER THE SECURITIES ACT OF 1933 (THE 1933 ACT"), AS
         AMENDED.  THE SHARES HAVE BEEN ACQUIRED FOR INVESTMENT AND MAY NOT BE
         OFFERED, SOLD OR OTHERWISE TRANSFERRED IN THE ABSENCE OF AN EFFECTIVE
         REGISTRATION STATEMENT WITH RESPECT TO THE SHARES OR EXEMPTION FROM
         THE REGISTRATION REQUIREMENTS OF SAID ACT THAT IS THEN APPLICABLE TO
         THE SHARES, AS TO WHICH A PRIOR OPINION OF COUNSEL MAY BE REQUIRED BY
         THE ISSUER OR THE TRANSFER AGENT. HEDGING TRANSACTIONS MAY NOT BE
         CONDUCTED UNLESS IN COMPLIANCE WITH REGULATIONS OF THE 1933 ACT"

    (e)  the Company is required to refuse to register any transfer of the
         Securities not made in accordance with the provisions of Regulation
         S under the U.S. Securities Act, pursuant to registration under the
         U.S. Securities Act, or pursuant to an available exemption from such
         registration; and

    (f)  any person who exercise a Warrant will be required to provide to the
         Company either:

         (i)  written certification that it is not a U.S. Person and that
              such Warrant is not being exercised within the United States or
              on behalf of, or for the account or benefit of, a U.S. Person;
              or

         (ii) a written opinion of counsel or other evidence satisfactory to
              the Company to the effect that the Warrants and the common
              shares issuable on the exercise of the Warrants have been
              registered under the 1933 Act and applicable state securities
              laws or are exempt from registration thereunder.

3.4      The Company covenants and agrees with the Purchaser to file the
documents mecessary to be filed under the applicable Securities Rules,
including Forms 20 (or the forms equivalent thereto), within the required
time.

4.       CLOSING

4.1      The completion of the subscription contemplated under this Agreement
shall occur on or before May 23, 2000 (the "Closing Date").  No later than
the Closing Date, the Company shall deliver, or instruct the Company's stock
transfer agent to deliver, to the Purchaser, a share certificate or
certificates representing the Shares and a warrant certificate or
certificates representing the Warrants comprising the Units to the Purchaser
as provided for below by the Puchaser.  Upon the Company advising campney &
Murphy that it has delivered, or instructed the Compnay's stock transfer
agent to deliver, these documents to the Purchaser.  Campney & Murphy is
authorized and directed by the parties hereto to release and deliver the
Subscription Funds to the Company without prior notice to, consent of or
action by the Purchaser.

5.       GENERAL

5.1      For the purposes of this Agrement, time is of the essence.

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5.2       The parties hereto shall execute and deliver all such further
documents and instruments and do all such acts and things as may, either before
or after the excution of this Agreement, be resonably required to carry out the
full intent and meaning of this Agreemen.

5.3       This Agreement shall be subject to, governed by and construed in
accordance with the laws of British Columbia.

5.4       This Agreement may not be assinged by either party hereto.

5.5       This Agreement may be signed by the parties in as many counterparts as
may be deemed necessary, each o fwhich so signed shall be deemed to be an
original, and all such counterparts togetther shall constitute one and the same
instrument.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF the parties have executed this written Agreement effective as
of the Effective Date.

ANTHEM RECORDING WEST, INC.

Per:     [ILLEGIBLE]
     ----------------------------------------                  [SEAL]
     Authorized Signatory

TO BE COMPLETED BY THE PURCHASER:

A.        Name and Address (Note: Cannot be a U.S. address) The name and address
( to establish the Purchaser's jurisdiction of residence for the purpose of
determining the applicable Securities Rule(s) of the purchaser (the "Purchaser")
is as follows:

                      Name             Innovative Finance Limited

                      Street Address   TrustNet Chambers
                                       Box 3444
                                       Road Town, Tortola
                      Country          British Virgin Island

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B.        Registration Instruction (Note: Cannot be a U.S. Address) The name and
address of the person in whose name the Purchaser's Securities are to be
registered is as follows (if the name and address is the same as was inserted in
paragraph A above, then insert "N/A"):

                                          N/A
                             -------------------------------
                             Name

                             -------------------------------
                             Street Address

                             -------------------------------

                             -------------------------------
                             City and Province

                             -------------------------------
                             Country

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                                    Postal Code

C.       Delivery Instructions (Note: Cannot be a U.S. Address) The name and
address of the person to whom the certificates representing the Purchaser's
Securities referred to in Paragraph A above are to be delivered is as follows
(If the name and address is the same as was inserted in paragraph A above, then
insert "N/A"):

                                                              N/A
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                             Name

                             -------------------------------
                             Street Address

                             -------------------------------

                             -------------------------------
                             City and Province

                             -------------------------------
                             Country

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                                    Postal Code

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D.        Subscription Amount The minimum is Cdn. $97,00 if the Purchaser is a
resident (as per the address in paragraph A above) of British Columbia, Alberta,
Manitoba, New Brundswick, Prince Edward Island, Newfoundland or an International
Jurisdiction, or Cdn. $150,000 if the Purchaser is a resident of Saskatchewan,
Ontario, Quebec or Nova Scotia.:

                  Subscription Funds:                U.S. $7,500,000.00

                  Number of Securities:              1,000,000 Units.

                  Note: The number of Securities must equal the Subscription
                  Funds divided by price of U.S. $7.50 per Security.

TO BE COMPLETED AND SIGNED BY THE PURCHASER:

Innovative Finance Limited
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Name of the "Purchaser" - use the name inserted in
paragraph A above.

Per:

                  [ILLEGIBLE]
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                  Signature of Purchaser

                  Director
                  ---------------------------
                  Title (if applicable)

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                                    EXHIBIT 10.2

                                  UDATE.COM, INC.

                             2000 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

       1.     PURPOSES OF THE PLAN.  The purposes of this Stock Incentive Plan
are to attract and retain the best available personnel, to provide additional
incentive to Employees, Directors and Consultants and to promote the success of
the Company's business.

       2.     DEFINITIONS.  As used herein, the following definitions shall
apply:

              (a)    "ADMINISTRATOR" means the Board or any of the Committees
appointed to administer the Plan.

              (b)    "AFFILIATE" and "ASSOCIATE" shall have the respective
meanings ascribed to such terms in Rule 12b-2 promulgated under the Exchange
Act.

              (c)    "APPLICABLE LAWS" means the legal requirements relating to
the administration of stock incentive plans, if any, under applicable provisions
of federal and state securities laws, the corporate laws of California and, to
the extent other than California, the corporate law of the state of the
Company's incorporation, the Code, the rules of any applicable stock exchange or
national market system, and the rules of any foreign jurisdiction applicable to
Awards granted to residents therein.

              (d)    "AWARD" means the grant of an Option, Restricted Stock,
SAR, Dividend Equivalent Right, Performance Unit, Performance Share, or other
right or benefit under the Plan.

              (e)    "AWARD AGREEMENT" means the written agreement evidencing
the grant of an Award executed by the Company and the Grantee, including any
amendments thereto.

              (f)    "BOARD" means the Board of Directors of the Company.

              (g)    "CAUSE" means, with respect to the termination by the
Company or a Related Entity of the Grantee's Continuous Service, that such
termination is for "Cause" as such term is expressly defined in a then-effective
written agreement between the Grantee and the Company or such Related Entity, or
in the absence of such then-effective written agreement and definition, is based
on, in the determination of the Administrator, the Grantee's:  (i) refusal or
failure to act in accordance with any specific, lawful direction or order of the
Company or a Related Entity; (ii) unfitness or unavailability for service or
unsatisfactory performance (other than as a result of Disability); (iii)
performance of any

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act or failure to perform any act in bad faith and to the detriment of the
Company or a Related Entity; (iv) dishonesty, intentional misconduct or material
breach of any agreement with the Company or a Related Entity; or (v) commission
of any felony or commission of any crime involving dishonesty or breach of
trust.  At least 30 days prior to the termination of the Grantee's Continuous
Service pursuant to (i) or (ii) above, the Administrator shall provide the
Grantee with notice of the Company's or such Related Entity's intent to
terminate, the reason therefor, and an opportunity for the Grantee to cure such
defects in his or her service to the Company's or such Related Entity's
satisfaction.  During this 30 day (or longer) period, no Award issued to the
Grantee under the Plan may be exercised or purchased.

              (h)    "CHANGE IN CONTROL" means a change in ownership or control
of the Company effected through either of the following transactions:

                     (i)    the direct or indirect acquisition by any person or
related group of persons (other than an acquisition from or by the Company or by
a Company-sponsored employee benefit plan or by a person that directly or
indirectly controls, is controlled by, or is under common control with, the
Company) of beneficial ownership (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3 of the
Exchange Act) of securities possessing more than fifty percent (50%) of the
total combined voting power of the Company's outstanding securities pursuant to
a tender or exchange offer made directly to the Company's stockholders which a
majority of the Continuing Directors who are not Affiliates or Associates of the
offeror do not recommend such stockholders accept, or

                     (ii)   a change in the composition of the Board over a
period of thirty-six (36) months or less such that a majority of the Board
members (rounded up to the next whole number) ceases, by reason of one or more
contested elections for Board membership, to be comprised of individuals who are
Continuing Directors.

              (i)    "CODE" means the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended
or superseded.

              (j)    "COMMITTEE" means any committee appointed by the Board to
administer the Plan.

              (k)    "COMMON STOCK" means the common stock of the Company.

              (l)    "COMPANY" means uDate.com, Inc., a California corporation.

              (m)    "CONSULTANT" means any person (other than an Employee or a
Director, solely with respect to rendering services in such person's capacity as
a Director) who is engaged by the Company or any Related Entity to render
consulting or advisory services to the Company or such Related Entity.

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              (n)    "CONTINUING DIRECTORS" means members of the Board who
either (i) have been Board members continuously for a period of at least
thirty-six (36) months or (ii) have been Board members for less than thirty-six
(36) months and were elected or nominated for election as Board members by at
least a majority of the Board members described in clause (i) who were still in
office at the time such election or nomination was approved by the Board.

              (o)    "CONTINUOUS SERVICE" means that the provision of services
to the Company or a Related Entity in any capacity of Employee, Director or
Consultant, is not interrupted or terminated.  Continuous Service shall not be
considered interrupted in the case of (i) any approved leave of absence, (ii)
transfers among the Company, any Related Entity, or any successor, in any
capacity of Employee, Director or Consultant, or (iii) any change in status as
long as the individual remains in the service of the Company or a Related Entity
in any capacity of Employee, Director or Consultant (except as otherwise
provided in the Award Agreement).  An approved leave of absence shall include
sick leave, military leave, or any other authorized personal leave.  For
purposes of each Incentive Stock Option granted under the Plan, if such leave
exceeds ninety (90) days, and reemployment upon expiration of such leave is not
guaranteed by statute or contract, then the Incentive Stock Option shall be
treated as a Non-Qualified Stock Option on the day three (3) months and one (1)
day following the expiration of such ninety (90) day period.

              (p)    "CORPORATE TRANSACTION" means any of the following
transactions:

                     (i)    a merger or consolidation in which the Company is
not the surviving entity, except for a transaction the principal purpose of
which is to change the state in which the Company is incorporated;

                     (ii)   the sale, transfer or other disposition of all or
substantially all of the assets of the Company (including the capital stock of
the Company's subsidiary corporations);

                     (iii)  approval by the shareholders of the Company of any
plan or proposal for the complete liquidation or dissolution of the Company;

                     (iv)   any reverse merger in which the Company is the
surviving entity but in which securities possessing more than fifty percent
(50%) of the total combined voting power of the Company's outstanding securities
are transferred to a person or persons different from those who held such
securities immediately prior to such merger; or

                     (v)    acquisition by any person or related group of
persons (other than the Company or by a Company-sponsored employee benefit plan)
of beneficial ownership (within the meaning of Rule 13d-3 of the Exchange Act)
of securities possessing

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more than fifty percent (50%) of the total combined voting power of the
Company's outstanding securities (whether or not in a transaction also
constituting a Change in Control), but excluding any such transaction that the
Administrator determines shall not be a Corporate Transaction.

              (q)    "COVERED EMPLOYEE" means an Employee who is a "covered
employee" under Section 162(m)(3) of the Code.

              (r)    "DIRECTOR" means a member of the Board or the board of
directors of any Related Entity.

              (s)    "DISABILITY" means that a Grantee would qualify for benefit
payments under the long-term disability policy of the Company or the Related
Entity to which the Grantee provides services regardless of whether the Grantee
is covered by such policy or, if no such policy is maintained by the Company or
the Related Entity to which the Grantee provides service, that a Grantee is
permanently unable to carry out the responsibilities and functions of the
position held by the Grantee by reason of any medically determinable physical or
mental impairment.  A Grantee will not be considered to have incurred a
Disability unless he or she furnishes proof of such impairment sufficient to
satisfy the Administrator in its discretion.

              (t)    "DIVIDEND EQUIVALENT RIGHT" means a right entitling a
Grantee to compensation measured by dividends paid with respect to Common Stock.

              (u)    "EMPLOYEE" means any person, including an Officer or
Director, who is an employee of the Company or any Related Entity.  The payment
of a director's fee by the Company or a Related Entity shall not be sufficient
to constitute "employment" by the Company.

              (v)    "EXCHANGE ACT" means the Securities Exchange Act of 1934,
as amended.

              (w)    "FAIR MARKET VALUE" means, as of any date, the value of
Common Stock determined as follows:

                     (i)    Where there exists a public market for the Common
Stock, the Fair Market Value shall be (A) the closing price for a Share for the
last market trading day prior to the time of the determination (or, if no
closing price was reported on that date, on the last trading date on which a
closing price was reported) on the stock exchange determined by the
Administrator to be the primary market for the Common Stock or the Nasdaq
National Market, whichever is applicable or (B) if the Common Stock is not
traded on any such exchange or national market system, the average of the
closing bid and asked prices of a Share on the Nasdaq Small Cap Market for the
day prior to the time of the

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determination (or, if no such prices were reported on that date, on the last
date on which such prices were reported), in each case, as reported in THE WALL
STREET JOURNAL or such other source as the Administrator deems reliable; or

                     (ii)   In the absence of an established market for the
Common Stock of the type described in (i), above, the Fair Market Value thereof
shall be determined by the Administrator in good faith and in a manner
consistent with Section 260.140.50 of Title 10 of the California Code of
Regulations (as amended or superseded).

              (x)    "GRANTEE" means an Employee, Director or Consultant who
receives an Award under the Plan.

              (y)    "INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION" means an Option intended to
qualify as an incentive stock option within the meaning of Section 422 of the
Code.

              (z)    "NON-QUALIFIED STOCK OPTION" means an Option not intended
to qualify as an Incentive Stock Option.

              (aa)   "OFFICER" means a person who is an officer of the Company
or a Related Entity within the meaning of Section 16 of the Exchange Act and the
rules and regulations promulgated thereunder.

              (bb)   "OPTION" means an option to purchase Shares pursuant to an
Award Agreement granted under the Plan.

              (cc)   "PARENT" means a "parent corporation," whether now or
hereafter existing, as defined in Section 424(e) of the Code.

              (dd)   "PERFORMANCE - BASED COMPENSATION" means compensation
qualifying as "performance-based compensation" under Section 162(m) of the Code.

              (ee)   "PERFORMANCE SHARES" means Shares or an Award denominated
in Shares which may be earned in whole or in part upon attainment of performance
criteria established by the Administrator.

              (ff)   "PERFORMANCE UNITS" means an Award which may be earned in
whole or in part upon attainment of performance criteria established by the
Administrator and which may be settled for cash, Shares or other securities or a
combination of cash, Shares or other securities as established by the
Administrator.

              (gg)   "PLAN" means this 2000 Stock Incentive Plan.

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              (hh)   "POST-TERMINATION EXERCISE PERIOD" means the period
specified in the Award Agreement of not less than three (3) months commencing on
the date of termination (other than termination by the Company or any Related
Entity for Cause) of the Grantee's Continuous Service, or such longer period as
may be applicable upon death or Disability.

              (ii)   "REGISTRATION DATE" means the first to occur of (i) the
closing of the first sale to the general public of (A) the Common Stock or (B)
the same class of securities of a successor corporation (or its Parent) issued
pursuant to a Corporate Transaction in exchange for or in substitution of the
Common Stock, pursuant to a registration statement filed with and declared
effective by the Securities and Exchange Commission under the Securities Act of
1933, as amended; and (ii) in the event of a Corporate Transaction, the date of
the consummation of the Corporate Transaction if the same class of securities of
the successor corporation (or its Parent) issuable in such Corporate Transaction
shall have been sold to the general public pursuant to a registration statement
filed with and declared effective by the Securities and Exchange Commission
under the Securities Act of 1933, as amended, on or prior to the date of
consummation of such Corporate Transaction.

              (jj)   "RELATED ENTITY" means any Parent, Subsidiary and any
business, corporation, partnership, limited liability company or other entity in
which the Company, a Parent or a Subsidiary holds a substantial ownership
interest, directly or indirectly.

              (kk)   "RELATED ENTITY DISPOSITION" means the sale, distribution
or other disposition by the Company, a Parent or a Subsidiary of all or
substantially all of the interests of the Company, a Parent or a Subsidiary in
any Related Entity effected by a sale, merger or consolidation or other
transaction involving that Related Entity or the sale of all or substantially
all of the assets of that Related Entity, other than any Related Entity
Disposition to the Company, a Parent or a Subsidiary.

              (ll)   "RESTRICTED STOCK" means Shares issued under the Plan to
the Grantee for such consideration, if any, and subject to such restrictions on
transfer, rights of first refusal, repurchase provisions, forfeiture provisions,
and other terms and conditions as established by the Administrator.

              (mm)   "RULE 16b-3" means Rule 16b-3 promulgated under the
Exchange Act or any successor thereto.

              (nn)   "SAR" means a stock appreciation right entitling the
Grantee to Shares or cash compensation, as established by the Administrator,
measured by appreciation in the value of Common Stock.

              (oo)   "SHARE" means a share of the Common Stock.

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              (pp)   "SUBSIDIARY" means a "subsidiary corporation," whether now
or hereafter existing, as defined in Section 424(f) of the Code.

       3.     STOCK SUBJECT TO THE PLAN.

              (a)    Subject to the provisions of Section 10 below, the maximum
aggregate number of Shares which may be issued pursuant to all Awards (including
Incentive Stock Options) is Three Million (3,000,000) Shares of Common Stock.
The Shares may be authorized, but unissued, or reacquired Common Stock.

              (b)    Any Shares covered by an Award (or portion of an Award)
which is forfeited or canceled, expires or is settled in cash, shall be deemed
not to have been issued for purposes of determining the maximum aggregate number
of Shares which may be issued under the Plan.  Shares that actually have been
issued under the Plan pursuant to an Award shall not be returned to the Plan and
shall not become available for future issuance under the Plan, except that if
unvested Shares are forfeited, or repurchased by the Company at their original
purchase price, such Shares shall become available for future grant under the
Plan.

       4.     ADMINISTRATION OF THE PLAN.

              (a)    PLAN ADMINISTRATOR.

                     (i)    ADMINISTRATION WITH RESPECT TO DIRECTORS AND
OFFICERS.  With respect to grants of Awards to Directors or Employees who are
also Officers or Directors of the Company, the Plan shall be administered by
(A) the Board or (B) a Committee designated by the Board, which Committee shall
be constituted in such a manner as to satisfy the Applicable Laws and to permit
such grants and related transactions under the Plan to be exempt from Section
16(b) of the Exchange Act in accordance with Rule 16b-3.  Once appointed, such
Committee shall continue to serve in its designated capacity until otherwise
directed by the Board.

                     (ii)   ADMINISTRATION WITH RESPECT TO CONSULTANTS AND OTHER
EMPLOYEES. With respect to grants of Awards to Employees or Consultants who are
neither Directors nor Officers of the Company, the Plan shall be administered by
(A) the Board or (B) a Committee designated by the Board, which Committee shall
be constituted in such a manner as to satisfy the Applicable Laws.  Once
appointed, such Committee shall continue to serve in its designated capacity
until otherwise directed by the Board.  The Board may authorize one or more
Officers to grant such Awards and may limit such authority as the Board
determines from time to time.

                     (iii)  ADMINISTRATION WITH RESPECT TO COVERED EMPLOYEES.
Notwithstanding the foregoing, grants of Awards to any Covered Employee intended
to

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qualify as Performance-Based Compensation shall be made only by a Committee (or
subcommittee of a Committee) which is comprised solely of two or more Directors
eligible to serve on a committee making Awards qualifying as Performance-Based
Compensation.  In the case of such Awards granted to Covered Employees,
references to the "Administrator" or to a "Committee" shall be deemed to be
references to such Committee or subcommittee.

                     (iv)   ADMINISTRATION ERRORS.  In the event an Award is
granted in a manner inconsistent with the provisions of this subsection (a),
such Award shall be presumptively valid as of its grant date to the extent
permitted by the Applicable Laws.

              (b)    POWERS OF THE ADMINISTRATOR.  Subject to Applicable Laws
and the provisions of the Plan (including any other powers given to the
Administrator hereunder), and except as otherwise provided by the Board, the
Administrator shall have the authority, in its discretion:

                     (i)    to select the Employees, Directors and Consultants
to whom Awards may be granted from time to time hereunder;

                     (ii)   to determine whether and to what extent Awards are
granted hereunder;

                     (iii)  to determine the number of Shares or the amount of
other consideration to be covered by each Award granted hereunder;

                     (iv)   to approve forms of Award Agreements for use under
the Plan;

                     (v)    to determine the terms and conditions of any Award
granted hereunder;

                     (vi)   to establish additional terms, conditions, rules or
procedures to accommodate the rules or laws of applicable foreign jurisdictions
and to afford Grantees favorable treatment under such rules or laws; provided,
however, that no Award shall be granted under any such additional terms,
conditions, rules or procedures with terms or conditions which are inconsistent
with the provisions of the Plan;

                     (vii)  to amend the terms of any outstanding Award granted
under the Plan, provided that any amendment that would adversely affect the
Grantee's rights under an outstanding Award shall not be made without the
Grantee's written consent;

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                     (viii) to construe and interpret the terms of the Plan and
Awards granted pursuant to the Plan, including without limitation, any notice of
award or Award Agreement, granted pursuant to the Plan; and

                     (ix)   to take such other action, not inconsistent with the
terms of the Plan, as the Administrator deems appropriate.

       5.     ELIGIBILITY.  Awards other than Incentive Stock Options may be
granted to Employees, Directors and Consultants.  Incentive Stock Options may be
granted only to Employees of the Company, a Parent or a Subsidiary.  An
Employee, Director or Consultant who has been granted an Award may, if otherwise
eligible, be granted additional Awards.  Awards may be granted to such
Employees, Directors or Consultants who are residing in foreign jurisdictions as
the Administrator may determine from time to time.

       6.     TERMS AND CONDITIONS OF AWARDS.

              (a)    TYPE OF AWARDS.  The Administrator is authorized under the
Plan to award any type of arrangement to an Employee, Director or Consultant
that is not inconsistent with the provisions of the Plan and that by its terms
involves or might involve the issuance of (i) Shares, (ii) an Option, a SAR or
similar right with a fixed or variable price related to the Fair Market Value of
the Shares and with an exercise or conversion privilege related to the passage
of time, the occurrence of one or more events, or the satisfaction of
performance criteria or other conditions, or (iii) any other security with the
value derived from the value of the Shares.  Such awards may include, without
limitation, Options, sales or bonuses of Restricted Stock, SARs, Dividend
Equivalent Rights, Performance Units or Performance Shares, and an Award may
consist of one such security or benefit, or two (2) or more of them in any
combination or alternative.

              (b)    DESIGNATION OF AWARD.  Each Award shall be designated in
the Award Agreement.  In the case of an Option, the Option shall be designated
as either an Incentive Stock Option or a Non-Qualified Stock Option.  However,
notwithstanding such designation, to the extent that the aggregate Fair Market
Value of Shares subject to Options designated as Incentive Stock Options which
become exercisable for the first time by a Grantee during any calendar year
(under all plans of the Company or any Parent or Subsidiary) exceeds $100,000,
such excess Options, to the extent of the Shares covered thereby in excess of
the foregoing limitation, shall be treated as Non-Qualified Stock Options.  For
this purpose, Incentive Stock Options shall be taken into account in the order
in which they were granted, and the Fair Market Value of the Shares shall be
determined as of the date the Option with respect to such Shares is granted.

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              (c)    CONDITIONS OF AWARD.  Subject to the terms of the Plan, the
Administrator shall determine the provisions, terms, and conditions of each
Award including, but not limited to, the Award vesting schedule, repurchase
provisions, rights of first refusal, forfeiture provisions, form of payment
(cash, Shares, or other consideration) upon settlement of the Award, payment
contingencies, and satisfaction of any performance criteria.  The performance
criteria established by the Administrator may be based on any one of, or
combination of, increase in share price, earnings per share, total shareholder
return, return on equity, return on assets, return on investment, net operating
income, cash flow, revenue, economic value added, personal management
objectives, or other measure of performance selected by the Administrator.
Partial achievement of the specified criteria may result in a payment or vesting
corresponding to the degree of achievement as specified in the Award Agreement.

              (d)    ACQUISITIONS AND OTHER TRANSACTIONS.  The Administrator may
issue Awards under the Plan in settlement, assumption or substitution for,
outstanding awards or obligations to grant future awards in connection with the
Company or a Related Entity acquiring another entity, an interest in another
entity or an additional interest in a Related Entity whether by merger, stock
purchase, asset purchase or other form of transaction.

              (e)    DEFERRAL OF AWARD PAYMENT.  The Administrator may establish
one or more programs under the Plan to permit selected Grantees the opportunity
to elect to defer receipt of consideration upon exercise of an Award,
satisfaction of performance criteria, or other event that absent the election
would entitle the Grantee to payment or receipt of Shares or other consideration
under an Award.  The Administrator may establish the election procedures, the
timing of such elections, the mechanisms for payments of, and accrual of
interest or other earnings, if any, on amounts, Shares or other consideration so
deferred, and such other terms, conditions, rules and procedures that the
Administrator deems advisable for the administration of any such deferral
program.

              (f)    AWARD EXCHANGE PROGRAMS.  The Administrator may establish
one or more programs under the Plan to permit selected Grantees to exchange an
Award under the Plan for one or more other types of Awards under the Plan on
such terms and conditions as determined by the Administrator from time to time.

              (g)    SEPARATE PROGRAMS.  The Administrator may establish one or
more separate programs under the Plan for the purpose of issuing particular
forms of Awards to one or more classes of Grantees on such terms and conditions
as determined by the Administrator from time to time.

              (h)    INDIVIDUAL OPTION AND SAR LIMIT.  The maximum number of
Shares with respect to which Options and SARs may be granted to any Grantee in
any fiscal year of the Company shall be One Million (1,000,000) Shares.  The
foregoing limitation shall be

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adjusted proportionately in connection with any change in the Company's
capitalization pursuant to Section 10, below.  To the extent required by
Section 162(m) of the Code or the regulations thereunder, in applying the
foregoing limitation with respect to a Grantee, if any Option or SAR is
canceled, the canceled Option or SAR shall continue to count against the maximum
number of Shares with respect to which Options and SARs may be granted to the
Grantee.  For this purpose, the repricing of an Option (or in the case of a SAR,
the base amount on which the stock appreciation is calculated is reduced to
reflect a reduction in the Fair Market Value of the Common Stock) shall be
treated as the cancellation of the existing Option or SAR and the grant of a new
Option or SAR.

              (i)    EARLY EXERCISE.  The Award Agreement may, but need not,
include a provision whereby the Grantee may elect at any time while an Employee,
Director or Consultant to exercise any part or all of the Award prior to full
vesting of the Award.  Any unvested Shares received pursuant to such exercise
may be subject to a repurchase right in favor of the Company or a Related Entity
or to any other restriction the Administrator determines to be appropriate.

              (j)    TERM OF AWARD.  The term of each Award shall be the term
stated in the Award Agreement, provided, however, that the term shall be no more
than ten (10) years from the date of grant thereof.  However, in the case of an
Incentive Stock Option granted to a Grantee who, at the time the Option is
granted, owns stock representing more than ten percent (10%) of the voting power
of all classes of stock of the Company or any Parent or Subsidiary, the term of
the Incentive Stock Option shall be five (5) years from the date of grant
thereof or such shorter term as may be provided in the Award Agreement.

              (k)    TRANSFERABILITY OF AWARDS.   Non-Qualified Stock Options
shall be transferable (i) to the extent provided in the Award Agreement and in a
manner consistent with Section 260.140.41 of Title 10 of the California Code of
Regulations and (ii) by Will or by the laws of descent and distribution.
Incentive Stock Options and other Awards may not be sold, pledged, assigned,
hypothecated, transferred, or disposed of in any manner other than by Will or by
the laws of descent or distribution and may be exercised, during the lifetime of
the Grantee, only by the Grantee; provided however that the Grantee may
designate a beneficiary of his or her Incentive Stock Option in the event of the
Grantee's death on a beneficiary designation form provided by the Administrator.

              (l)    TIME OF GRANTING AWARDS.  The date of grant of an Award
shall for all purposes be the date on which the Administrator makes the
determination to grant such Award, or such other date as is determined by the
Administrator.  Notice of the grant determination shall be given to each
Employee, Director or Consultant to whom an Award is so granted within a
reasonable time after the date of such grant.

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       7.     AWARD EXERCISE OR PURCHASE PRICE, CONSIDERATION AND TAXES.

              (a)    EXERCISE OR PURCHASE PRICE.  The exercise or purchase
price, if any, for an Award shall be as follows:

                     (i)    In the case of an Incentive Stock Option:

                            (A)    granted to an Employee who, at the time of
the grant of such Incentive Stock Option owns stock representing more than ten
percent (10%) of the voting power of all classes of stock of the Company or any
Parent or Subsidiary, the per Share exercise price shall be not less than one
hundred ten percent (110%) of the Fair Market Value per Share on the date of
grant; or

                            (B)    granted to any Employee other than an
Employee described in the preceding paragraph, the per Share exercise price
shall be not less than one hundred percent (100%) of the Fair Market Value per
Share on the date of grant.

                     (ii)   In the case of a Non-Qualified Stock Option:

                            (A)    granted to a person who, at the time of the
grant of such Option, owns stock representing more than ten percent (10%) of the
voting power of all classes of stock of the Company or any Parent or Subsidiary,
the per Share exercise price shall be not less than one hundred ten percent
(110%) of the Fair Market Value per Share on the date of grant; or

                            (B)    granted to any person other than a person
described in the preceding paragraph, the per Share exercise price shall be not
less than eighty-five percent (85%) of the Fair Market Value per Share on the
date of grant.

                     (iii)  In the case of Awards intended to qualify as
Performance-Based Compensation, the exercise or purchase price, if any, shall be
not less than one hundred percent (100%) of the Fair Market Value per Share on
the date of grant.

                     (iv)   In the case of the sale of Shares:

                            (A)    granted to a person who, at the time of the
grant of such Award, or at the time the purchase is consummated, owns stock
representing more than ten percent (10%) of the voting power of all classes of
stock of the Company or any Parent or Subsidiary, the per Share purchase price
shall be not less than one hundred percent (100%) of the Fair Market Value per
Share on the date of grant; or

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                            (B)    granted to any person other than a person
described in the preceding paragraph, the per Share purchase price shall be not
less than eighty-five percent (85%) of the Fair Market Value per Share on the
date of grant.

                     (v)    In the case of other Awards, such price as is
determined by the Administrator.

                     (vi)   Notwithstanding the foregoing provisions of this
Section 7(a), in the case of an Award issued pursuant to Section 6(d), above,
the exercise or purchase price for the Award shall be determined in accordance
with the principles of Section 424(a) of the Code.

              (b)    CONSIDERATION.  Subject to Applicable Laws, the
consideration to be paid for the Shares to be issued upon exercise or purchase
of an Award including the method of payment, shall be determined by the
Administrator (and, in the case of an Incentive Stock Option, shall be
determined at the time of grant).  In addition to any other types of
consideration the Administrator may determine, the Administrator is authorized
to accept as consideration for Shares issued under the Plan the following:

                     (i)    cash;

                     (ii)   check;

                     (iii)  delivery of Grantee's promissory note with such
recourse, interest, security, and redemption provisions as the Administrator
determines as appropriate;

                     (iv)   if the exercise or purchase occurs on or after the
Registration Date, surrender of Shares or delivery of a properly executed form
of attestation of ownership of Shares as the Administrator may require
(including withholding of Shares otherwise deliverable upon exercise of the
Award) which have a Fair Market Value on the date of surrender or attestation
equal to the aggregate exercise price of the Shares as to which said Award shall
be exercised (but only to the extent that such exercise of the Award would not
result in an accounting compensation charge with respect to the Shares used to
pay the exercise price unless otherwise determined by the Administrator);

                     (v)    with respect to Options, if the exercise occurs on
or after the Registration Date, payment through a broker-dealer sale and
remittance procedure pursuant to which the Grantee (A) shall provide written
instructions to a Company designated brokerage firm to effect the immediate sale
of some or all of the purchased Shares and remit to the Company, out of the sale
proceeds available on the settlement date, sufficient funds to cover the
aggregate exercise price payable for the purchased Shares and (B) shall

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provide written directives to the Company to deliver the certificates for the
purchased Shares directly to such brokerage firm in order to complete the sale
transaction; or

                     (vi)   any combination of the foregoing methods of payment.

              (c)    TAXES.  No Shares shall be delivered under the Plan to any
Grantee or other person until such Grantee or other person has made arrangements
acceptable to the Administrator for the satisfaction of any foreign, federal,
state, or local income and employment tax withholding obligations, including,
without limitation, obligations incident to the receipt of Shares or the
disqualifying disposition of Shares received on exercise of an Incentive Stock
Option.  Upon exercise of an Award the Company shall withhold or collect from
Grantee an amount sufficient to satisfy such tax obligations.

       8.     EXERCISE OF AWARD.

              (a)    PROCEDURE FOR EXERCISE; RIGHTS AS A SHAREHOLDER.

                     (i)    Any Award granted hereunder shall be exercisable at
such times and under such conditions as determined by the Administrator under
the terms of the Plan and specified in the Award Agreement but in the case of an
Option, in no case at a rate of less than twenty percent (20%) per year over
five (5) years from the date the Option is granted, subject to reasonable
conditions such as continued employment.  Notwithstanding the foregoing, in the
case of an Option granted to an Officer, Director or Consultant, the Award
Agreement may provide that the Option may become exercisable, subject to
reasonable conditions such as such Officer's, Director's or Consultant's
Continuous Service, at any time or during any period established in the Award
Agreement.

                     (ii)   An Award shall be deemed to be exercised when
written notice of such exercise has been given to the Company in accordance with
the terms of the Award by the person entitled to exercise the Award and full
payment for the Shares with respect to which the Award is exercised, including,
to the extent selected, use of the broker-dealer sale and remittance procedure
to pay the purchase price as provided in Section 7(b)(v).  Until the issuance
(as evidenced by the appropriate entry on the books of the Company or of a duly
authorized transfer agent of the Company) of the stock certificate evidencing
such Shares, no right to vote or receive dividends or any other rights as a
shareholder shall exist with respect to Shares subject to an Award,
notwithstanding the exercise of an Option or other Award.  No adjustment will be
made for a dividend or other right for which the record date is prior to the
date the stock certificate is issued, except as provided in the Award Agreement
or Section 10 below.

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              (b)    EXERCISE OF AWARD FOLLOWING TERMINATION OF CONTINUOUS
SERVICE.

                     (i)    An Award may not be exercised after the termination
date of such Award set forth in the Award Agreement and may be exercised
following the termination of a Grantee's Continuous Service only to the extent
provided in the Award Agreement.

                     (ii)   Where the Award Agreement permits a Grantee to
exercise an Award following the termination of the Grantee's Continuous Service
for a specified period, the Award shall terminate to the extent not exercised on
the last day of the specified period or the last day of the original term of the
Award, whichever occurs first.

                     (iii)  Any Award designated as an Incentive Stock Option to
the extent not exercised within the time permitted by law for the exercise of
Incentive Stock Options following the termination of a Grantee's Continuous
Service shall convert automatically to a Non-Qualified Stock Option and
thereafter shall be exercisable as such to the extent exercisable by its terms
for the period specified in the Award Agreement.

       9.     CONDITIONS UPON ISSUANCE OF SHARES.

              (a)    Shares shall not be issued pursuant to the exercise of an
Award unless the exercise of such Award and the issuance and delivery of such
Shares pursuant thereto shall comply with all Applicable Laws, and shall be
further subject to the approval of counsel for the Company with respect to such
compliance.

              (b)    As a condition to the exercise of an Award, the Company may
require the person exercising such Award to represent and warrant at the time of
any such exercise that the Shares are being purchased only for investment and
without any present intention to sell or distribute such Shares, and to make
such other representations and warranties as counsel for the Company may
reasonably require, if in the opinion of counsel for the Company such
representations or warranties are required by any Applicable Laws.

       10.    ADJUSTMENTS UPON CHANGES IN CAPITALIZATION OR CORPORATE
TRANSACTION.  Subject to any required action by the shareholders of the Company,
the number of Shares covered by each outstanding Award, and the number of Shares
which have been authorized for issuance under the Plan but as to which no Awards
have yet been granted or which have been returned to the Plan, the exercise or
purchase price of each such outstanding Award, the maximum number of Shares with
respect to which Options and SARs may be granted to any Grantee in any fiscal
year of the Company, as well as any other terms that the Administrator
determines require adjustment shall be proportionately adjusted for (i) any
increase or decrease in the number of issued Shares resulting from a stock
split, reverse stock split, stock dividend, combination or reclassification of
the Shares, or similar event affecting the Shares, (ii) any other increase or
decrease in the number of issued Shares

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effected without receipt of consideration by the Company, or (iii) as the
Administrator may determine in its discretion, any other transaction with
respect to Common Stock to which Section 424(a) of the Code applies or any
similar transaction; provided, however that conversion of any convertible
securities of the Company shall not be deemed to have been "effected without
receipt of consideration."  Such adjustment shall be made by the Administrator
and its determination shall be final, binding and conclusive.  Except as the
Administrator determines, no issuance by the Company of shares of stock of any
class, or securities convertible into shares of stock of any class, shall
affect, and no adjustment by reason hereof shall be made with respect to, the
number or price of Shares subject to an Award.

       11.    CORPORATE TRANSACTION - CHANGES IN CONTROL - RELATED PARTY
DISPOSITIONS.  Except as may be provided in an Award Agreement:

              (a)    Effective upon the consummation of a Corporate Transaction,
each outstanding Award under the Plan will terminate, unless such Award is
assumed by the successor corporation or Parent thereof in connection with the
Corporate Transaction.

              (b)    Effective upon the consummation of a Related Entity
Disposition, for purposes of the Plan and all Awards, the Continuous Service of
each Grantee who is at the time engaged primarily in service to the Related
Entity involved in such Related Entity Disposition shall be deemed to terminate
and each Award of such Grantee which is at the time outstanding under the Plan
shall be exercisable in accordance with the terms of the Award Agreement
evidencing such Award.  However, such Continuous Service shall be not to deemed
to terminate if such Award is, in connection with the Related Entity
Disposition, assumed by the successor entity or its parent.

       12.    EFFECTIVE DATE AND TERM OF PLAN.  The Plan shall become effective
upon the earlier to occur of its adoption by the Board or its approval by the
shareholders of the Company.  It shall continue in effect for a term of ten (10)
years unless sooner terminated.  Subject to Section 17, below, and Applicable
Laws, Awards may be granted under the Plan upon its becoming effective.

       13.    AMENDMENT, SUSPENSION OR TERMINATION OF THE PLAN.

              (a)    The Board may at any time amend, suspend or terminate the
Plan. To the extent necessary to comply with Applicable Laws or to continue any
qualification of any option as an Incentive Stock Option, the Company shall
obtain shareholder approval of any Plan amendment in such a manner and to such a
degree as required.

              (b)    No Award may be granted during any suspension of the Plan
or after termination of the Plan.

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              (c)    Any amendment, suspension or termination of the Plan
(including termination of the Plan under Section 12, above) shall not affect
Awards already granted, and such Awards shall remain in full force and effect as
if the Plan had not been amended, suspended or terminated, unless mutually
agreed otherwise between the Grantee and the Administrator, which agreement must
be in writing and signed by the Grantee and the Company.

       14.    RESERVATION OF SHARES.

              (a)    The Company, during the term of the Plan, will at all times
reserve and keep available such number of Shares as shall be sufficient to
satisfy the requirements of the Plan.

              (b)    The inability of the Company to obtain authority from any
regulatory body having jurisdiction, which authority is deemed by the Company's
counsel to be necessary to the lawful issuance and sale of any Shares hereunder,
shall relieve the Company of any liability in respect of the failure to issue or
sell such Shares as to which such requisite authority shall not have been
obtained.

       15.    NO EFFECT ON TERMS OF EMPLOYMENT/CONSULTING RELATIONSHIP.  The
Plan shall not confer upon any Grantee any right with respect to the Grantee's
Continuous Service, nor shall it interfere in any way with his or her right or
the Company's right to terminate the Grantee's Continuous Service at any time,
with or without Cause, and with or without notice.  The Company's ability to
terminate the employment of a Grantee who is employed at will is in no way
affected by its determination that the Grantee's Continuous Service has been
terminated for Cause for the purposes of this Plan.

       16.    NO EFFECT ON RETIREMENT AND OTHER BENEFIT PLANS.  Except as
specifically provided in a retirement or other benefit plan of the Company or a
Related Entity, Awards shall not be deemed compensation for purposes of
computing benefits or contributions under any retirement plan of the Company or
a Related Entity, and shall not affect any benefits under any other benefit plan
of any kind or any benefit plan subsequently instituted under which the
availability or amount of benefits is related to level of compensation.  The
Plan is not a "Retirement Plan" or "Welfare Plan" under the Employee Retirement
Income Security Act of 1974, as amended.

       17.    SHAREHOLDER APPROVAL.  Continuance of the Plan shall be subject to
approval by the shareholders of the Company within twelve (12) months before or
after the date the Plan is adopted.  Such shareholder approval shall be obtained
in the degree and manner required under Applicable Laws. Any Award exercised
before shareholder approval is obtained shall be rescinded if shareholder
approval is not obtained within the time

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prescribed, and Shares issued on the exercise of any such Award shall not be
counted in determining whether shareholder approval is obtained.

       18.    INFORMATION TO GRANTEES.  The Company shall provide to each
Grantee, during the period for which such Grantee has one or more Awards
outstanding, copies of financial statements at least annually.

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                     UDATE.COM, INC. 2000 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

                            NOTICE OF STOCK OPTION AWARD

       Grantee's Name and Address:
                                          --------------------------------

                                          --------------------------------

                                          --------------------------------

       You have been granted an option to purchase shares of Common Stock of
uDate.com, Inc., subject to the terms and conditions of this Notice of Stock
Option Award (the "Notice"), the uDate.com, Inc. 2000 Stock Incentive Plan, as
amended from time to time (the "Plan") and the Stock Option Award Agreement (the
"Option Agreement") attached hereto, as follows.  Unless otherwise defined
herein, the terms defined in the Plan shall have the same defined meanings in
this Notice.

       Award Number
                                          --------------------------------

       Date of Award
                                          --------------------------------

       Vesting Commencement Date
                                          --------------------------------

       Exercise Price per Share           $
                                          --------------------------------

       Total Number of Shares Subject
       to the Option (the "Shares")
                                          --------------------------------

       Total Exercise Price               $
                                          --------------------------------

       Type of Option:                           Incentive Stock Option
                                          -----
                                                 Non-Qualified Stock Option
                                          -----
       Expiration Date:
                                          --------------------------------

       Post-Termination Exercise Period:  Three (3) Months

VESTING SCHEDULE:

       Subject to Grantee's Continuous Service and other limitations set forth
in this Notice, the Plan and the Option Agreement, the Option may be exercised,
in whole or in part, in accordance with the following schedule:

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       Fifty Percent (50%) of the Shares subject to the Option shall vest
       twelve months after the Vesting Commencement Date, and 1/24th of
       the Shares subject to the Option shall vest on each monthly
       anniversary of the Vesting Commencement Date thereafter.

       During any authorized leave of absence, the vesting of the Option as
provided in this schedule shall cease.  Vesting of the Option shall resume upon
the Grantee's termination of the leave of absence and return to service to the
Company or a Related Entity.

       In the event of termination of the Grantee's Continuous Service for
Cause, the Grantee's right to exercise the Option shall terminate concurrently
with the termination of the Grantee's Continuous Service, except as otherwise
determined by the Administrator.

       In the event of the Grantee's change in status from Employee to
Consultant or from an Employee whose customary employment is 20 hours or more
per week to an Employee whose customary employment is fewer than 20 hours per
week, vesting of the Option shall continue only to the extent determined by the
Administrator as of such change in status consistent with any minimum vesting
requirements set forth in the Plan.

       IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the Company and the Grantee have executed this Notice
and agree that the Option is to be governed by the terms and conditions of this
Notice, the Plan, and the Option Agreement.

                                          UDate.com, Inc.,
                                          a California corporation

                                          By:
                                              ------------------------------
                                          Title:
                                                ----------------------------

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THE GRANTEE ACKNOWLEDGES AND AGREES THAT THE SHARES SUBJECT TO THE OPTION SHALL
VEST, IF AT ALL, ONLY DURING THE PERIOD OF THE GRANTEE'S CONTINUOUS SERVICE (NOT
THROUGH THE ACT OF BEING HIRED, BEING GRANTED THE OPTION OR ACQUIRING SHARES
HEREUNDER).  THE GRANTEE FURTHER ACKNOWLEDGES AND AGREES THAT NOTHING IN THIS
NOTICE, THE OPTION AGREEMENT, OR THE PLAN SHALL CONFER UPON THE GRANTEE ANY
RIGHT WITH RESPECT TO FUTURE AWARDS OR CONTINUATION OF GRANTEE'S CONTINUOUS
SERVICE, NOR SHALL IT INTERFERE IN ANY WAY WITH THE GRANTEE'S RIGHT OR THE RIGHT
OF THE GRANTEE'S EMPLOYER TO TERMINATE GRANTEE'S CONTINUOUS SERVICE, WITH OR
WITHOUT CAUSE, AND WITH OR WITHOUT NOTICE, SUBJECT TO ANY WRITTEN EMPLOYMENT
AGREEMENT WITH THE GRANTEE.

       The Grantee acknowledges receipt of a copy of the Plan and the Option
Agreement, and represents that he is familiar with the terms and provisions
thereof, and hereby accepts the Option subject to all of the terms and
provisions hereof and thereof.  The Grantee has reviewed this Notice, the Plan,
and the Option Agreement in their entirety, has had an opportunity to obtain the
advice of counsel prior to executing this Notice, and fully understands all
provisions of this Notice, the Plan and the Option Agreement.  The Grantee
hereby agrees that all disputes arising out of or relating to this Notice, the
Plan and the Option Agreement shall be resolved in accordance with Section 19 of
the Option Agreement.  The Grantee further agrees to notify the Company upon any
change in the residence address indicated in this Notice.

Dated:                                    Signed:
       ----------------------                    -----------------------------
                                                           Grantee

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                                                      AWARD NUMBER:  ___________

                     UDATE.COM, INC. 2000 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

                            STOCK OPTION AWARD AGREEMENT

       1.     GRANT OF OPTION.  UDate.com, Inc., a California corporation (the
"Company"), hereby grants to the Grantee (the "Grantee") named in the Notice of
Stock Option Award (the "Notice"), an option (the "Option") to purchase the
Total Number of Shares of Common Stock subject to the Option (the "Shares") set
forth in the Notice, at the Exercise Price per Share set forth in the Notice
(the "Exercise Price") subject to the terms and provisions of the Notice, this
Stock Option Award Agreement (the "Option Agreement") and the Company's 2000
Stock Incentive Plan, as amended from time to time (the "Plan"), which are
incorporated herein by reference.  Unless otherwise defined herein, the terms
defined in the Plan shall have the same defined meanings in this Option
Agreement.

       If designated in the Notice as an Incentive Stock Option, the Option is
intended to qualify as an Incentive Stock Option as defined in Section 422 of
the Code.  However, notwithstanding such designation, to the extent that the
aggregate Fair Market Value of Shares subject to Options designated as Incentive
Stock Options which become exercisable for the first time by the Grantee during
any calendar year (under all plans of the Company or any Parent or Subsidiary)
exceeds $100,000, such excess Options, to the extent of the Shares covered
thereby in excess of the foregoing limitation, shall be treated as Non-Qualified
Stock Options.  For this purpose, Incentive Stock Options shall be taken into
account in the order in which they were granted, and the Fair Market Value of
the Shares shall be determined as of the date the Option with respect to such
Shares is awarded.

       2.     EXERCISE OF OPTION.

              (a)    RIGHT TO EXERCISE.  The Option shall be exercisable during
its term in accordance with the Vesting Schedule set out in the Notice and with
the applicable provisions of the Plan and this Option Agreement.  No partial
exercise of the Option may be for less than the lesser of five percent (5%) of
the total number of Shares subject to the Option or the remaining number of
Shares subject to the Option.  In no event shall the Company issue fractional
Shares.

              (b)    ACCELERATION IN THE EVENT OF CORPORATE TRANSACTION.
Notwithstanding any other provision hereof, in the event of a Corporate
Transaction, this Option shall automatically shall become fully vested and
exercisable and be released from

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any forfeiture rights, immediately prior to the specified effective date of such
Corporate Transaction, for all of the Shares at the time represented by this
Option.  Effective upon the consummation of the Corporate Transaction, this
Option under the Plan shall terminate; provided however that this Option shall
not terminate if it is assumed by the successor corporation or Parent thereof in
connection with the Corporate Transaction.

              (c)    ACCELERATION IN THE EVENT OF CHANGE IN CONTROL.
Notwithstanding any other provision hereof, in the event of a Change in Control
(other than a Change in Control which also is a Corporate Transaction), this
Option automatically shall become fully vested and exercisable and be released
from any forfeiture rights, immediately prior to the specified effective date of
such Change in Control, for all of the Shares at the time represented by this
Option.

              (d)    METHOD OF EXERCISE.  The Option shall be exercisable only
by delivery of an Exercise Notice (attached as Exhibit A) which shall state the
election to exercise the Option, the whole number of Shares in respect of which
the Option is being exercised, and such other provisions as may be required by
the Administrator.  The Exercise Notice shall be signed by the Grantee and shall
be delivered in person, by certified mail, or by such other method as determined
from time to time by the Administrator to the Company accompanied by payment of
the Exercise Price.  The Option shall be deemed to be exercised upon receipt by
the Company of such written notice accompanied by the Exercise Price, which, to
the extent selected, shall be deemed to be satisfied by use of the broker-dealer
sale and remittance procedure to pay the Exercise Price provided in
Section 4(d), below.

              (e)    TAXES.  No Shares will be delivered to the Grantee or other
person pursuant to the exercise of the Option until the Grantee or other person
has made arrangements acceptable to the Administrator for the satisfaction of
applicable income tax, employment tax, and social security tax withholding
obligations, including, without limitation, obligations incident to the receipt
of Shares or the disqualifying disposition of Shares received on exercise of an
Incentive Stock Option.  Upon exercise of the Option, the Company or the
Grantee's employer may offset or withhold (from any amount owed by the Company
or the Grantee's employer to the Grantee) or collect from the Grantee or other
person an amount sufficient to satisfy such tax obligations and/or the
employer's withholding obligations.

       3.     GRANTEE'S REPRESENTATIONS.  The Grantee understands that neither
the Option nor the Shares exercisable pursuant to the Option have been
registered under the Securities Act of 1933, as amended or any United States
securities laws.  In the event the Shares purchasable pursuant to the exercise
of the Option have not been registered under the Securities Act of 1933, as
amended, at the time the Option is exercised, the Grantee shall, if requested by
the Company, concurrently with the exercise of all or any portion of

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the Option, deliver to the Company his Investment Representation Statement in
the form attached hereto as Exhibit B and such other representations, warranties
and covenants reasonably requested by counsel for the Company .

       4.     METHOD OF PAYMENT.  Payment of the Exercise Price shall be made by
any of the following, or a combination thereof, at the election of the Grantee;
provided, however, that such exercise method does not then violate any
Applicable Law:

              (a)    cash;

              (b)    check;

              (c)    if the exercise occurs on or after the Registration Date
(as defined by the Plan), surrender of Shares or delivery of a properly executed
form of attestation of ownership of Shares as the Administrator may require
(including withholding of Shares otherwise deliverable upon exercise of the
Option) which have a Fair Market Value on the date of surrender or attestation
equal to the aggregate Exercise Price of the Shares as to which the Option is
being exercised (but only to the extent that such exercise of the Option would
not result in an accounting compensation charge with respect to the Shares used
to pay the exercise price);

              (d)    if the exercise occurs on or after the Registration Date,
payment through a broker-dealer sale and remittance procedure pursuant to which
the Grantee (i) shall provide written instructions to a Company designated
brokerage firm to effect the immediate sale of some or all of the purchased
Shares and remit to the Company, out of the sale proceeds available on the
settlement date, sufficient funds to cover the aggregate exercise price payable
for the purchased Shares and (ii) shall provide written directives to the
Company to deliver the certificates for the purchased Shares directly to such
brokerage firm in order to complete the sale transaction; or

              (e)    provided that the aggregate Exercise Price for the number
of Shares being purchased exceeds ___________________________ Dollars
($____,000), payment pursuant to a promissory note as described below.

                     (i)    The promissory note shall have a term of _____ (__)
              years with principal and interest payable in _______ (__) equal
              annual installments;

                     (ii)   The promissory note shall bear interest at the
              minimum rate required by the federal tax laws to avoid the
              imputation of interest income to the Company and compensation
              income to the Grantee;

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                     (iii)  The Grantee shall be personally liable for payment
              of the promissory note and the promissory note shall be secured by
              the Shares purchased upon delivery of the promissory note, or such
              other collateral of equal or greater value, in a manner
              satisfactory to the Administrator with such documentation as the
              Administrator may request; and

The promissory note shall become due and payable upon the occurrence of any or
all of the following events:  (A) the sale or transfer of the Shares purchased
with the promissory note; (B) termination of the Grantee's Continuous Service
for any reason other than death or Disability; or (C) the first anniversary of
the termination of the Grantee's Continuous Service due to death or Disability.

       5.     RESTRICTIONS ON EXERCISE.  The Option may not be exercised if the
issuance of the Shares subject to the Option upon such exercise would constitute
a violation of any Applicable Laws.  In addition, the Option may be exercised
prior to the time that the Plan has been approved by the shareholders of the
Company; provided however that all Shares issued upon any such exercise shall be
rescinded if shareholder approval is not obtained within the time prescribed,
and Shares issued on any such  exercise shall not be counted in determining
whether shareholder approval is obtained.

       6.     TERMINATION OR CHANGE OF CONTINUOUS SERVICE.  In the event the
Grantee's Continuous Service terminates, other than for Cause, the Grantee may,
to the extent otherwise so entitled at the date of such termination (the
"Termination Date"), exercise the Option during the Post-Termination Exercise
Period.  In the event of termination of the Grantee's Continuous Service for
Cause, the Grantee's right to exercise the Option shall, except as otherwise
determined by the Administrator, terminate concurrently with the termination of
the Grantee's Continuous Service.  In no event shall the Option be exercised
later than the Expiration Date set forth in the Notice.  In the event of the
Grantee's change in status from Employee, Director or Consultant to any other
status of Employee, Director or Consultant, the Option shall remain in effect
and, except to the extent otherwise determined by the Administrator, continue to
vest; provided, however, with respect to any Incentive Stock Option that shall
remain in effect after a change in status from Employee to Director or
Consultant, such Incentive Stock Option shall cease to be treated as an
Incentive Stock Option and shall be treated as a Non-Qualified Stock Option on
the day three (3) months and one (1) day following such change in status.
Except as provided in Sections 8 and 9 below, to the extent that the Grantee is
not entitled to exercise the Option on the Termination Date, or if the Grantee
does not exercise the Option to the extent so entitled within the
Post-Termination Exercise Period, the Option shall terminate.

       7.     DEFINITION OF "CAUSE".   For purposes of this Agreement, "CAUSE"
means the Grantee's (i) performance of any material act or failure to perform
any material act in bad faith and to the material detriment of the Company or a
Related Entity; (ii) performance of

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dishonest acts or intentional misconduct to the material detriment of the
Company or a Related Entity; (iii) material breach of any agreement with the
Company or a Related Entity; or (iv) commission of any felony (excluding DWI and
similar traffic offenses).  At least 30 days prior to the termination of the
Grantee's Continuous Service pursuant to any of the foregoing, the Administrator
shall provide the Grantee with notice of the Company's or such Related Entity's
intent to terminate, the reason therefor, and an opportunity for the Grantee to
cure such defects in his service to the Company's or such Related Entity's
reasonable satisfaction.  During this 30 day (or longer) period, no Award issued
to the Grantee under the Plan may be exercised or purchased.

       8.     DISABILITY OF GRANTEE.  In the event the Grantee's Continuous
Service terminates as a result of his Disability, the Grantee may, but only
within twelve (12) months from the Termination Date (and in no event later than
the Expiration Date), exercise the Option to the extent he was otherwise
entitled to exercise it on the Termination Date; provided, however, that if such
Disability is not a "disability" as such term is defined in Section 22(e)(3) of
the Code and the Option is an Incentive Stock Option, such Incentive Stock
Option shall cease to be treated as an Incentive Stock Option and shall be
treated as a Non-Qualified Stock Option on the day three (3) months and one (1)
day following the Termination Date.  To the extent that the Grantee is not
entitled to exercise the Option on the Termination Date, or if the Grantee does
not exercise the Option to the extent so entitled within the time specified
herein, the Option shall terminate.

       9.     DEATH OF GRANTEE.  In the event of the termination of the
Grantee's Continuous Service as a result of his death, or in the event of the
Grantee's death during the Post-Termination Exercise Period or during the twelve
(12) month period following the Grantee's termination of Continuous Service as a
result of his Disability, the Grantee's estate, or a person who acquired the
right to exercise the Option by bequest or inheritance, may exercise the Option,
but only to the extent the Grantee could exercise the Option at the date of
termination, within twelve (12) months from the date of death (but in no event
later than the Expiration Date).  To the extent that the Grantee is not entitled
to exercise the Option on the date of death, or if the Option is not exercised
to the extent so entitled within the time specified herein, the Option shall
terminate.

       10.    TRANSFERABILITY OF OPTION.  The Option, if an Incentive Stock
Option, may not be transferred in any manner other than by Will or by the laws
of descent and distribution and may be exercised during the lifetime of the
Grantee only by the Grantee.  The Option, if a Non-Qualified Stock Option may be
transferred by Will, by the laws of descent and distribution, and to the extent
and in the manner authorized by the Administrator, to members of the Grantee's
immediate family (as determined by the Administrator) or pursuant to a domestic
relations order. The terms of the Option shall be binding upon the executors,
administrators, heirs and successors of the Grantee.

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       11.    TERM OF OPTION.  The Option may be exercised no later than the
Expiration Date set forth in the Notice or such earlier date as otherwise
provided herein.

       12.    STOP-TRANSFER NOTICES.  In order to ensure compliance with the
restrictions on transfer set forth in this Option Agreement, the Notice or the
Plan, the Company may issue appropriate "stop transfer" instructions to its
transfer agent, if any, and, if the Company transfers its own securities, it may
make appropriate notations to the same effect in its own records.

       13.    REFUSAL TO TRANSFER.  The Company shall not be required (i) to
transfer on its books any Shares that have been sold or otherwise transferred in
violation of any of the provisions of this Option Agreement or (ii) to treat as
owner of such Shares or to accord the right to vote or pay dividends or other
shareholders rights to any purchaser or other transferee to whom such Shares
shall have been so transferred.

       14.    TAX CONSEQUENCES.  Set forth below is a brief summary as of the
date of this Option Agreement of some of the federal tax consequences of
exercise of the Option and disposition of the Shares.  THIS SUMMARY IS
NECESSARILY INCOMPLETE, AND THE TAX LAWS AND REGULATIONS ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE.
THE COMPANY SHALL HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO NOTIFY GRANTEE OF ANY SUCH CHANGES.  THE
GRANTEE SHOULD CONSULT A TAX ADVISER BEFORE EXERCISING THE OPTION OR DISPOSING
OF THE SHARES.  WITHOUT LIMITING THE FOREGOING, THIS SUMMARY DOES NOT DISCUSS
THE  TAX CONSEQUENCES OF THE EXERCISE OF THE OPTION AND THE DISPOSITION OF THE
SHARES UNDER THE LAWS OF THE UNITED KINGDOM.

              (a)    EXERCISE OF INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION.  If the Option
qualifies as an Incentive Stock Option, there will be no regular federal income
tax liability upon the exercise of the Option, although the excess, if any, of
the Fair Market Value of the Shares on the date of exercise over the Exercise
Price will be treated as income for purposes of the alternative minimum tax for
federal tax purposes and may subject the Grantee to the alternative minimum tax
in the year of exercise.

              (b)    EXERCISE OF INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION FOLLOWING DISABILITY.
If the Grantee's Continuous Service terminates as a result of Disability that is
not total and permanent disability as defined in Section 22(e)(3) of the Code,
to the extent permitted on the date of termination, the Grantee must exercise an
Incentive Stock Option within three (3) months of such termination for the
Incentive Stock Option to be qualified as an Incentive Stock Option.

              (c)    EXERCISE OF NON-QUALIFIED STOCK OPTION.  On exercise of a
Non-Qualified Stock Option, the Grantee will be treated as having received
compensation income (taxable at ordinary income tax rates) equal to the excess,
if any, of the Fair Market

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Value of the Shares on the date of exercise over the Exercise Price.  If the
Grantee is an Employee or a former Employee, the Company will be required to
withhold from the Grantee's compensation or collect from the Grantee and pay to
the applicable taxing authorities an amount in cash equal to a percentage of
this compensation income at the time of exercise, and may refuse to honor the
exercise and refuse to deliver Shares if such withholding amounts are not
delivered at the time of exercise.

               (d)   DISPOSITION OF SHARES.  In the case of a Non-Qualified
Stock Option, if Shares are held for more than one year, any gain realized on
disposition of the Shares will be treated as long-term capital gain for federal
income tax purposes and subject to tax at a maximum rate of 20%.  In the case of
an Incentive Stock Option, if Shares transferred pursuant to the Option are held
for more than one year after receipt of the Shares and are disposed more than
two years after the Date of Award, any gain realized on disposition of the
Shares also will be treated as capital gain for federal income tax purposes and
subject to the same tax rates and holding periods that apply to Shares acquired
upon exercise of a Non-Qualified Stock Option.  If Shares purchased under an
Incentive Stock Option are disposed of prior to the expiration of such one-year
or two-year periods, any gain realized on such disposition will be treated as
compensation income (taxable at ordinary income rates) to the extent of the
difference between the Exercise Price and the lesser of (i) the Fair Market
Value of the Shares on the date of exercise, or (ii) the sale price of the
Shares.

       15.    LOCK-UP AGREEMENT.

              (a)    AGREEMENT.  The Grantee, if requested by the Company and
the lead underwriter of any public offering of the Common Stock or other
securities of the Company (the "Lead Underwriter"), hereby irrevocably agrees
not to sell, contract to sell, grant any option to purchase, transfer the
economic risk of ownership in, make any short sale of, pledge or otherwise
transfer or dispose of any interest in any Common Stock or any securities
convertible into or exchangeable or exercisable for or any other rights to
purchase or acquire Common Stock (except Common Stock included in such public
offering or acquired on the public market after such offering) during the
180-day period following the Registration Date or such shorter period of time as
the Lead Underwriter shall specify.  The Grantee further agrees to sign such
documents as may be requested by the Lead Underwriter to effect the foregoing
and agrees that the Company may impose stop-transfer instructions with respect
to such Common Stock subject until the end of such period.  The Company and the
Grantee acknowledge that each Lead Underwriter of a public offering of the
Company's stock, during the period of such offering and for the 180-day period
thereafter, is an intended beneficiary of this Section 16.

              (b)    NO AMENDMENT WITHOUT CONSENT OF UNDERWRITER.  During the
period from identification as a Lead Underwriter in connection with any public
offering of the Company's Common Stock until the earlier of (i) the expiration
of the lock-up period

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specified in Section 16(a) in connection with such offering or (ii) the
abandonment of such offering by the Company and the Lead Underwriter, the
provisions of this Section 16 may not be amended or waived except with the
consent of the Lead Underwriter.

       16.    ENTIRE AGREEMENT: GOVERNING LAW.  The Notice, the Plan and this
Option Agreement constitute the entire agreement of the parties with respect to
the subject matter hereof and supersede in their entirety all prior undertakings
and agreements of the Company and the Grantee with respect to the subject matter
hereof, and may not be modified adversely to the Grantee's interest except by
means of a writing signed by the Company and the Grantee.  Nothing in the
Notice, the Plan and this Option Agreement (except as expressly provided
therein) is intended to confer any rights or remedies on any persons other than
the parties.  The Notice, the Plan and this Option Agreement are to be construed
in accordance with and governed by the internal laws of the State of California
(as permitted by Section 1646.5 of the California Civil Code, or any similar
successor provision) without giving effect to any choice of law rule that would
cause the application of the laws of any jurisdiction other than the internal
laws of the State of California to the rights and duties of the parties.  Should
any provision of the Notice, the Plan or this Option Agreement be determined by
a court of law to be illegal or unenforceable, such provision shall be enforced
to the fullest extent allowed by law and the other provisions shall nevertheless
remain effective and shall remain enforceable.

       17.    HEADINGS.  The captions used in the Notice and this Option
Agreement are inserted for convenience and shall not be deemed a part of the
Option for construction or interpretation.

       18.    NOTICES.  Any notice required or permitted hereunder shall be
given in writing and by personal delivery or by an internationally recognized
commercial courier service or by deposit in the United States mail by certified
mail (if the parties are within the United States) or upon deposit for delivery
by an internationally recognized express mail courier service (for international
delivery of notice), with postage and fees prepaid, addressed to the other party
at its address as shown beneath its signature in the Notice, or to such other
address as such party may designate in writing from time to time to the other
party; and shall be deemed effective on the date of delivery in person or by
courier or five (5) days after the date mailed.

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                                     EXHIBIT A

                     UDATE.COM, INC. 2000 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

                                  EXERCISE NOTICE

UDate.com, Inc.

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Attention: Secretary

       II.    Effective as of today, ______________, ___ the undersigned (the
"Grantee") hereby elects to exercise the Grantee's option to purchase
___________ shares of the Common Stock (the "Shares") of UDate.com, Inc. (the
"Company") under and pursuant to the Company's 2000 Stock Incentive Plan, as
amended from time to time (the "Plan") and the [  ] Incentive [  ] Non-Qualified
Stock Option Award Agreement (the "Option Agreement") and Notice of Stock Option
Award (the "Notice") dated ______________, ________.  Unless otherwise defined
herein, the terms defined in the Plan shall have the same defined meanings in
this Exercise Notice.

       III.   REPRESENTATIONS OF THE GRANTEE.  The Grantee acknowledges that the
Grantee has received, read and understood the Notice, the Plan and the Option
Agreement and agrees to abide by and be bound by their terms and conditions.

       IV.    RIGHTS AS SHAREHOLDER.  Until the stock certificate evidencing
such Shares is issued (as evidenced by the appropriate entry on the books of the
Company or of a duly authorized transfer agent of the Company), no right to vote
or receive dividends or any other rights as a shareholder shall exist with
respect to the Shares, notwithstanding the exercise of the Option.  The Company
shall issue (or cause to be issued) such stock certificate promptly after the
Option is exercised, subject to the Plan and Applicable Law.  No adjustment will
be made for a dividend or other right for which the record date is prior to the
date the stock certificate is issued, except as provided in Section 11 of the
Plan.

       V.     DELIVERY OF PAYMENT.  The Grantee herewith delivers to the Company
the full Exercise Price for the Shares, which, to the extent selected, shall be
deemed to be satisfied by use of the broker-dealer sale and remittance procedure
to pay the Exercise Price provided in Section 4(d) of the Option Agreement.

       VI.    TAX CONSULTATION.  The Grantee understands that the Grantee may
suffer adverse tax consequences as a result of the Grantee's purchase or
disposition of the Shares.

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The Grantee represents that the Grantee has consulted with any tax consultants
the Grantee deems advisable in connection with the purchase or disposition of
the Shares and that the Grantee is not relying on the Company or its
representatives for any tax advice.

       VII.   TAXES.  The Grantee agrees to satisfy all applicable federal,
state and local income and employment tax withholding obligations and herewith
delivers to the Company the full amount of such obligations or has made
arrangements acceptable to the Company to satisfy such obligations.  In the case
of an Incentive Stock Option, the Grantee also agrees, as partial consideration
for the designation of the Option as an Incentive Stock Option, to notify the
Company in writing within thirty (30) days of any disposition of any shares
acquired by exercise of the Option if such disposition occurs within two (2)
years from the Award Date or within one (1) year from the date the Shares were
transferred to the Grantee.  If the Company is required to satisfy any federal,
state or local income or employment tax withholding obligations as a result of
such an early disposition, the Grantee agrees to satisfy the amount of such
withholding in a manner that the Administrator prescribes.

       VIII.  RESTRICTIVE LEGENDS.  The Grantee understands and agrees that the
Company shall cause the legends set forth below or legends substantially
equivalent thereto, to be placed upon any certificate(s) evidencing ownership of
the Shares together with any other legends that may be required by the Company
or by state or federal securities laws:

              THE SECURITIES REPRESENTED HEREBY HAVE NOT BEEN
              REGISTERED UNDER THE SECURITIES ACT OF 1933 (THE
              "ACT") OR ANY STATE SECURITIES LAWS AND MAY NOT BE
              OFFERED, SOLD OR OTHERWISE TRANSFERRED, PLEDGED OR
              HYPOTHECATED UNLESS AND UNTIL REGISTERED UNDER THE
              ACT OR, IN THE OPINION OF COUNSEL SATISFACTORY TO
              THE ISSUER OF THESE SECURITIES, SUCH OFFER, SALE OR
              TRANSFER, PLEDGE OR HYPOTHECATION IS IN COMPLIANCE
              THEREWITH.

              THE SHARES REPRESENTED BY THIS CERTIFICATE ARE
              SUBJECT TO CERTAIN RESTRICTIONS ON TRANSFER HELD BY
              THE ISSUER OR ITS ASSIGNEE(S) AS SET FORTH IN THE
              OPTION AGREEMENT BETWEEN THE ISSUER AND THE ORIGINAL
              HOLDER OF THESE SHARES, A COPY OF WHICH MAY BE
              OBTAINED AT THE PRINCIPAL

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              OFFICE OF THE ISSUER.  SUCH TRANSFER RESTRICTIONS
              ARE BINDING ON TRANSFEREES OF THESE SHARES.

       IX.    SUCCESSORS AND ASSIGNS.  The Company may assign any of its rights
under this Exercise Notice to single or multiple assignees, and this agreement
shall inure to the benefit of the successors and assigns of the Company.
Subject to the restrictions on transfer herein set forth, this Exercise Notice
shall be binding upon the Grantee and his heirs, executors, administrators,
successors and assigns.

       X.     HEADINGS.  The captions used in this Exercise Notice are inserted
for convenience and shall not be deemed a part of this agreement for
construction or interpretation.  .

       XI.    GOVERNING LAW; SEVERABILITY.  This Exercise Notice is to be
construed in accordance with and governed by the internal laws of the State of
California (as permitted by Section 1646.5 of the California Civil Code, or any
similar successor provision) without giving effect to any choice of law rule
that would cause the application of the laws of any jurisdiction other than the
internal laws of the State of California to the rights and duties of the
parties.  Should any provision of this Exercise Notice be determined by a court
of law to be illegal or unenforceable, such provision shall be enforced to the
fullest extent allowed by law and the other provisions shall nevertheless remain
effective and shall remain enforceable.

       XII.   NOTICES.  Any notice required or permitted hereunder shall be
given in writing and by personal delivery or by an internationally recognized
commercial courier service or by deposit in the United States mail by certified
mail (if the parties are within the United States) or upon deposit for delivery
by an internationally recognized express mail courier service (for international
delivery of notice), with postage and fees prepaid, addressed to the other party
at its address as shown beneath its signature in the Notice, or to such other
address as such party may designate in writing from time to time to the other
party; and shall be deemed effective on the date of delivery in person or by
courier or five (5) days after the date mailed.

       XIII.  FURTHER INSTRUMENTS.  The parties agree to execute such further
instruments and to take such further action as may be reasonably necessary to
carry out the purposes and intent of this agreement.

       XIV.   ENTIRE AGREEMENT.  The Notice, the Plan and the Option Agreement
are incorporated herein by reference and together with this Exercise Notice
constitute the entire agreement of the parties with respect to the subject
matter hereof and supersede in their entirety all prior undertakings and
agreements of the Company and the Grantee with respect to the subject matter
hereof, and may not be modified adversely to the Grantee's

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interest except by means of a writing signed by the Company and the Grantee.
Nothing in the Notice, the Plan, the Option Agreement and this Exercise Notice
(except as expressly provided therein) is intended to confer any rights or
remedies on any persons other than the parties.

 Submitted by:                     Accepted by:

 GRANTEE:                          UDATE.COM, INC.

                                   By:
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                                   Title:
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       (Signature)

 Address:                          Address:

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                                     EXHIBIT B

                     UDATE.COM, INC. 2000 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

                        INVESTMENT REPRESENTATION STATEMENT

GRANTEE:
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COMPANY:
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SECURITY:                          COMMON STOCK

AMOUNT:
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DATE:
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In connection with the purchase of the above-listed Securities, the undersigned
Grantee represents to the Company the following:

       (a)    Grantee is aware of the Company's business affairs and financial
condition and has acquired sufficient information about the Company to reach an
informed and knowledgeable decision to acquire the Securities.  Grantee is
acquiring these Securities for investment for Grantee's own account only and not
with a view to, or for resale in connection with, any "distribution" thereof
within the meaning of the Securities Act of 1933, as amended (the "Securities
Act").

       (b)    Grantee acknowledges and understands that the Securities
constitute "restricted securities" under the Securities Act and have not been
registered under the Securities Act in reliance upon a specific exemption
therefrom, which exemption depends upon among other things, the bona fide nature
of Grantee's investment intent as expressed herein.  Grantee further understands
that the Securities must be held indefinitely unless they are subsequently
registered under the Securities Act or an exemption from such registration is
available.  Grantee further acknowledges and understands that the Company is
under no obligation to register the Securities. Grantee understands that the
certificate evidencing the Securities will be imprinted with a legend which
prohibits the transfer of the Securities unless they are registered or such
registration is not required in the opinion of counsel satisfactory to the
Company.

       (c)    Grantee is familiar with the provisions of Rule 701 and Rule 144,
each promulgated under the Securities Act, which, in substance, permit limited
public resale of "restricted securities" acquired, directly or indirectly from
the issuer thereof, in a non-public offering subject to the satisfaction of
certain conditions.  Rule 701 provides that if the issuer qualifies under Rule
701 at the time of the grant of the Option to the Grantee, the exercise will be
exempt from registration under the Securities Act.  In the event the

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Company becomes subject to the reporting requirements of Section 13 or 15(d) of
the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, ninety (90) days thereafter (or such longer
period as any market stand-off agreement may require) the Securities exempt
under Rule 701 may be resold, subject to the satisfaction of certain of the
conditions specified by Rule 144, including: (1) the resale being made through a
broker in an unsolicited "broker's transaction" or in transactions directly with
a market maker (as said term is defined under the Securities Exchange Act of
1934); and, in the case of an affiliate, (2) the availability of certain public
information about the Company, (3) the amount of Securities being sold during
any three month period not exceeding the limitations specified in Rule 144(e),
and (4) the timely filing of a Form 144, if applicable.

       In the event that the Company does not qualify under Rule 701 at the time
of grant of the Option, then the Securities may be resold in certain limited
circumstances subject to the provisions of Rule 144, which requires the resale
to occur not less than one year after the later of the date the Securities were
sold by the Company or the date the Securities were sold by an affiliate of the
Company, within the meaning of Rule 144; and, in the case of acquisition of the
Securities by an affiliate, or by a non-affiliate who subsequently holds the
Securities less than two years, the satisfaction of the conditions set forth in
sections (1), (2), (3) and (4) of the paragraph immediately above.

       (d)    Grantee further understands that in the event all of the
applicable requirements of Rule 701 or 144 are not satisfied, registration under
the Securities Act, compliance with Regulation A, or some other registration
exemption will be required; and that, notwithstanding the fact that Rules 144
and 701 are not exclusive, the Staff of the Securities and Exchange Commission
has expressed its opinion that persons proposing to sell private placement
securities other than in a registered offering and otherwise than pursuant to
Rules 144 or 701 will have a substantial burden of proof in establishing that an
exemption from registration is available for such offers or sales, and that such
persons and their respective brokers who participate in such transactions do so
at their own risk.  Grantee understands that no assurances can be given that any
such other registration exemption will be available in such event.

       (e)    Grantee represents that he is a resident of

_______________________________ ______________________________.

                                   Signature of Grantee:

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                                   Date:                 ,
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