Track kind of closure in upvar categorization

Keep track of the kind of closure responsible for an upvar
Categorize upvars in `Fn` unboxed closures as freely aliasable

This causes borrowck to correctly reject mutation or mutable borrows
of upvars in `Fn` unboxed closures since the closure environment is
aliasable.

This also tracks the responsible closure in the aliasability
information returned and uses it to give a helpful diagnostic.

Closes issue #17780
Fix unit test that was illegally mutating an upvar
Add regression test for issue #17780
saner parameter order for reallocation functions

Using reallocate(old_ptr, old_size, new_size, align) makes a lot more
sense than reallocate(old_ptr, new_size, align, old_size) and matches up
with the order used by existing platform APIs like mremap.

Closes #17837

[breaking-change]
debuginfo: Gate all LLDB debuginfo tests on a minimum LLDB version being available
debuginfo: Make path to LLDB batchmode script absolute to help the build bots.