[WFLY-3090] Prevent mgmt op cancellation resulting in closing intra-process connections
[WFLY-3091] Fix propagation of mgmt op cancellation to server update tasks
Tests of the above and of WFLY-3058
[WFLY-3058] Add convenience ops to find/cancel non-progressing ops
[WFLY-3381] Handle race between HC's cancel of an op and the original op