ISPN-3530 ISPN-1855 Keep per-cache CH to route requests correctly

* fixed HotRodManagerIT tests: cannot pass null as cache name
ISPN-4472 Upgrade TestNG from 6.8 to 6.8.8
Replace sfl4j-jdk14 dependency with sfl4j-log4j12 so that jboss logging
writes to log4j in the cdi module (and dependents).

Add more debugging around cache listeners. It seems Class.getMethods()
sometimes returns synthetic methods created by overriding a generic method.