Incorrect REMSH args when sname is used

When a node is configured with -sname in app.config or sys.config the
REMSH_NAME_ARG and REMSH_REMSH_ARG arguments are incorrect due the
assumption that the node name always contains '@'.

To fix the bug, the script tries to find '@' and then compose the
arguments acording to node name type. If in long name mode the
script can't compose a correct node name exits with warning.
Make REMSH node run in hidden mode

To avoid problems with REMSH node being visible from another nodes
starts it in hidden mode (erl -hidden).
Merge pull request #115 from mdaguete/simplenode.runner-remsh-fixes

Incorrect REMSH args when sname is used.