don't export draft children of orphaned drafted (TNL-923)

@dmitchell 
@zubair-arbi 

Fixes an issue where the draft children of orphaned drafts were being exported

related bugs:
https://openedx.atlassian.net/browse/TNL-923
https://openedx.atlassian.net/browse/TNL-872
Great. Overall changes looks good to me :+1: