=rem #15109: Separate field in Pass for refuseUid

  - Fixes #15109
  - also fix GotUid race with InvalidAddress supervision event
(cherry picked from commit 3fe83fa)
Merge pull request #15208 from drewhk/wip-15109-refuseuid-clash-fwdport-drewhk

=rem #15109: Separate field in Pass for refuseUid (forward)