Categorical fixups

Some fixups for Categoricals.

Fixes: #3678 

* [x] Maybe change Series.cat after the discussion in https://github.com/pydata/pandas/issues/7207 ?
* [ ] remove Series.cat from tab completition if Series is not of dtype category
* [x] fix for the "FIXME" in unittests
* [x] Look at problems in docs (-> hdf support)
* [x] Fixup Comparison thingies...
Because currently we ignored any dtype which was passed in to the array interface: `__array__(dtype=None)`, now this is taken into account and convert if the caller requests that from `__array__()`