Get rid of DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR

This is a first tentative of standardizing on `/` as the directory separator (in Windows too...) and render the usage of DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR unneeded.

It **seems** to work but thorough testing is needed, especially under Windows.

I'm unsure of what I did with unit tests: they should be particularly screened and tested
As this is changing the default value of an API method's param, I'd suggest this change be held off for 4.0 at the earliest.