ISPN-4377 Make receiving state option for Hot Rod remote events

* Add attribute to @ClientListener annotation to decide whether
to send back state to clients when adding listener or upon
failover.
* Refactored Hot Rod server event log listener to add assertions
to the listener itself.
* Added missing javadoc to @ClientListener.
* Modified addListener protocol operation to support optional
inclusion of state.
* Updated Hot Rod protocol 2.0 specification to add new flag
for addListener operation.
* Updated Hot Rod client documentation to specify how include
current state functionality works both when adding a new listener
for the first time, and upon failover.
ISPN-4689 NumOwnersNodeCrashInSequenceTest random failures
ISPN-1261 Implemented missing CDI events
ISPN-4717 Add Hot Rod error codes for suspicions and lifecycle errors

* Added two new error codes for situations where nodes are suspected
and when cache or cache managers are stopping or stopped.
* This makes it easier for clients to decide whether to failover
or not.
ISPN-4717 Filter both members and segments when sending new topology

* Segments were filtered based on the content of the topology cache
which provides the endpoint information. This is not enough since
otherwise views themselves are not updated correctly, even if
segment information is.
* Instead, filter both view and segment to be sent to client.