Don't assert in wxOSX if a shaped window doesn't define a valid shape.

A window with wxFRAME_SHAPED style can still not defined any valid shape
actually, in which case wxFRAME_SHAPED should be just ignored.

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Show the shaped frame with start shape initially in the sample.

It's not clear that setting the window shape actually works if the initial
shape is not set.

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