Don't close the connection whenever Expect: 100-continue is missing.

Motivation:

The 4.1.0-Beta3 implementation of HttpObjectAggregator.handleOversizedMessage closes the
connection if the client sent oversized chunked data with no Expect:
100-continue header. This causes a broken pipe or "connection reset by
peer" error in some clients (tested on Firefox 31 OS X 10.9.5,
async-http-client 1.8.14).

This part of the HTTP 1.1 spec (below) seems to say that in this scenario the connection
should not be closed (unless the intention is to be very strict about
how data should be sent).

http://www.w3.org/Protocols/rfc2616/rfc2616-sec8.html

"If an origin server receives a request that does not include an
Expect request-header field with the "100-continue" expectation,
the request includes a request body, and the server responds
with a final status code before reading the entire request body
from the transport connection, then the server SHOULD NOT close
the transport connection until it has read the entire request,
or until the client closes the connection. Otherwise, the client
might not reliably receive the response message. However, this
requirement is not be construed as preventing a server from
defending itself against denial-of-service attacks, or from
badly broken client implementations."

Modifications:

Change HttpObjectAggregator.handleOversizedMessage to close the
connection only if keep-alive is off and Expect: 100-continue is
missing. Update test to reflect the change.

Result:

Broken pipe and connection reset errors on the client are avoided when
oversized data is sent.
Implement user-defined writability flags

Related: #2945

Motivation:

Some special handlers such as TrafficShapingHandler need to override the
writability of a Channel to throttle the outbound traffic.

Modifications:

Add a new indexed property called 'user-defined writability flag' to
ChannelOutboundBuffer so that a handler can override the writability of
a Channel easily.

Result:

A handler can override the writability of a Channel using an unsafe API.
For example:

  Channel ch = ...;
  ch.unsafe().outboundBuffer().setUserDefinedWritability(1, false);
Fix the websocket server example

Motivation:
As report in #2953 the websocket server example contained a bug and did therefore not work with chrome:
A websocket extension is added to the pipeline but extensions were disallowed in the handshaker and decoder,
which is leading the decoder to closing the connection after receiving an extension frame.

Modifications:
Allow websocket extensions in the handshaker to correctly enable the extension.

Result:
Working websocket server example
Fixes #2953
Modify HttpObjectDecoder to allow parsing the HTTP headers in multiple steps.

Motivation:
At the moment the whole HTTP header must be parsed at once which can lead to multiple parsing of the same bytes. We can do better here and allow to parse it in multiple steps.

Modifications:

 - Not parse headers multiple times
 - Simplify the code
 - Eliminate uncessary String[] creations
 - Use readSlice(...).retain() when possible.

Result:

Performance improvements as shown in the included benchmark below.

Before change:
[nmaurer@xxx]~% ./wrk-benchmark
Running 2m test @ http://xxx:8080/plaintext
  16 threads and 256 connections
  Thread Stats   Avg      Stdev     Max   +/- Stdev
    Latency    21.55ms   15.10ms 245.02ms   90.26%
    Req/Sec   196.33k    30.17k  297.29k    76.03%
  373954750 requests in 2.00m, 50.15GB read
Requests/sec: 3116466.08
Transfer/sec:    427.98MB

After change:
[nmaurer@xxx]~% ./wrk-benchmark
Running 2m test @ http://xxx:8080/plaintext
  16 threads and 256 connections
  Thread Stats   Avg      Stdev     Max   +/- Stdev
    Latency    20.91ms   36.79ms   1.26s    98.24%
    Req/Sec   206.67k    21.69k  243.62k    94.96%
  393071191 requests in 2.00m, 52.71GB read
Requests/sec: 3275971.50
Transfer/sec:    449.89MB
Overall cleanup of 2b191fe6e90c8d99ffa221a3fa523d6bc8de895a
Fix a compilation error
Improve DnsNameResolverTest.testResolveA()

Motivation:

DnsNameResolver.testResolveA() tests if the cache works as well as the usual DNS protocol test.  To ensure the result from the cache is identical to the result without cache, it compares the two Maps which contain the result of cached/uncached resolution.  The comparison of two Maps yields an expected behavior, but the output of the comparison on failure is often unreadable due to its long length.

Modifications:

Compare entry-by-entry for more comprehensible test failure output

Result:

When failure occurs, it's easier to see which domain was the cause of the problem.
Added an option to use websockets without masking

Motivation:

The requirement for the masking of frames and for checks of correct
masking in the websocket specifiation have a large impact on performance.
While it is mandatory for browsers to use masking there are other
applications (like IPC protocols) that want to user websocket framing and proxy-traversing
characteristics without the overhead of masking. The websocket standard
also mentions that the requirement for mask verification on server side
might be dropped in future.

Modifications:

Added an optional parameter allowMaskMismatch for the websocket decoder
that allows a server to also accept unmasked frames (and clients to accept
masked frames).
Allowed to set this option through the websocket handshaker
constructors as well as the websocket client and server handlers.
The public API for existing components doesn't change, it will be
forwarded to functions which implicetly set masking as required in the
specification.
For websocket clients an additional parameter is added that allows to
disable the masking of frames that are sent by the client.

Result:

This update gives netty users the ability to create and use completely
unmasked websocket connections in addition to the normal masked channels
that the standard describes.
Minor update to Http2LifecycleManager#closeLocalSide javadoc

Modifications:
Changed "remote" to "local" in javadoc for closeLocalSide.