feat(distro): expose selective deployment in process archive xml

- adds setting 'isDeployChangedOnly' that maps to
  DeploymentBuilder#enableDuplicateFiltering(false)

related to CAM-2213
chore(engine-rest): deployChangedOnly setting for deployment resource

related to CAM-2213
fix(engine): fix resources by deployment name query

related to CAM-2213
chore(engine): rename DeploymentBuilder option

- inverts the semantics of the flag
- makes it consistent with the process archive xml option

related to CAM-2213