ISPN-4867 Single event marshaller support more clearly defined in API

* Based on Dan's feedback, Hot Rod server API made it look as if you
could pass a per-factory marshaller but that's not really the case.
A single event marshaller is currently supported.
ISPN-4675 Missing server configuration for remote executor thread pool

Add server configuration for the remote command executor and the total order executor.
ISPN-4512 CacheManagerTest.testCacheManagerRestartReusingConfigurations random failures

Move the up handler deregistration to CommandAwareRpcDispatcher.stop
TODO
Logging improvements
Fix TestingUtil.clearContent for secure cache managers
find_unstable_tests_teamcity wasn't using the command-line arguments
Log non-CacheRpcCommand responses
Stop forked threads after each method, not just after the class
Log filtering script fix
Fix TestingUtil.extractComponentRegistry for secure caches
Replace Exception.printStackTrace with proper logging
Replace System.out.println with logging
Merge the performance test group into the profiling group
find_unstable_tests_teamcity.py fixes
Increase UUID lifespan to 20 minutes
ISPN-4760 Cluster registry doesn't work when rebalancing is disabled

* Rebalancing should always be enabled for the cluster registry cache
* Fix StateTransferSuppressIT