Re-design forum thread list and add labels

There are currently two significant differences from the mockup:
1. The contents of each item are vertically aligned to the top instead of the middle.
2. The comments icon is always blue for unread comments (whereas in the mockup it is blue for an unread post or white with a blue border for a read post with unread comments).

@jimabramson @talbs @marcotuts 

FYI @aboudreault @antoviaque
The only other way I'm aware of is to artificially increase the specificity of the selector. I'm somewhat reluctant to relegate these to the shame file because only the `!important` is shameful; the actual background color is something that definitely belongs here.