[SPARK-3463] [PySpark] aggregate and show spilled bytes in Python

Aggregate the number of bytes spilled into disks during aggregation or sorting, show them in Web UI.

![spilled](https://cloud.githubusercontent.com/assets/40902/4209758/4b995562-386d-11e4-97c1-8e838ee1d4e3.png)

This patch is blocked by SPARK-3465. (It includes a fix for that).

This will need to be fixed if we reuse Python workers, but it should be okay for now.