Throw :abort halts default CallbackChains

This commit changes arguments and default value of CallbackChain's :terminator
option.

After this commit, Chains of callbacks defined **without** an explicit
`:terminator` option will be halted as soon as a `before_` callback throws
`:abort`.

Chains of callbacks defined **with** a `:terminator` option will maintain their
existing behavior of halting as soon as a `before_` callback matches the
terminator's expectation. For instance, ActiveModel's callbacks will still
halt the chain when a `before_` callback returns `false`.