[BUGFIX] ClickMenu: Visibility-options only if fields allowed

So far the entries "Hide/Unhide" and "Visibility settings" always
showed up in the ClickMenu. We need to check via excludefields if the
other has any right to change such a field or hide the icons.

Change-Id: Ib86fbd6d30f2cc0ec52e506d5fa2f12c95a2f178
Resolves: #55683
Releases: 6.2, 6.1
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/28364
Reviewed-by: Stefan Neufeind
Tested-by: Stefan Neufeind