Indicate optional fields in help text, rather than indicating required fields in the label (bug 1049011)

r? @ngokevin @spasovski

![screen shot 2014-08-19 at 10 03 01 am](https://cloud.githubusercontent.com/assets/23885/3968877/9b93499c-27ba-11e4-9d8a-cb2ff3a52038.png)

no whitespace here. These two selectors are related, like two sentences in  a paragraph.